Latest / Miss Understood with Rachel Uchitel / Ep. 1 - Dax Holt, Host of "Hollywood Raw" Podcast and Former TMZ Reporter Who
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- 1:29Speaker 1: we are going to talk about what it's like to
- 1:31Speaker 1: be branded by the media. No one is a better
- 1:34Speaker 1: guest than the OG entertainment reporter, Dax Holtz. He is
- 1:39Speaker 1: someone who was at TMZ for 11 years and someone
- 1:43Speaker 1: who chased me down for a very long time. Hello.
- 1:46Speaker 1: Thank you for coming.
- 1:47Speaker 2: Hello, Rachel. How are you?
- 1:50Speaker 1: I'm great. How's it going out there in California?
- 1:53Speaker 2: It's a little rainy, but all good, all things considered.
- 1:58Speaker 2: How about you?
- 2:00Speaker 1: Well, I'm in sunny Florida, so all things are good here.
- 2:04Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us. I'm so excited that you're
- 2:07Speaker 1: here for my very first podcast. Honestly, you are the
- 2:13Speaker 1: one person I wanted to have on the show because
- 2:16Speaker 1: this topic is very important to me and really encapsulates...
- 2:22Speaker 1: what I really wanted to talk about in my first episode,
- 2:27Speaker 1: which is how people become misunderstood and how that happens
- 2:32Speaker 1: with sort of the help of the media. And I
- 2:35Speaker 1: wanted you to be the person to talk about it.
- 2:39Speaker 1: But before we do that, I really wanted to get
- 2:42Speaker 1: into how you became who you are and how you
- 2:45Speaker 1: got to TMZ.
- 2:47Speaker 2: Oh, okay. Well, listen, TMZ was my first job out
- 2:51Speaker 2: of college. I had one of those random right place,
- 2:55Speaker 2: right time kind of careers where I needed to do
- 2:58Speaker 2: an internship when I was going to Cal State Fullerton.
- 3:01Speaker 2: And Extra, the entertainment show, was the only place that
- 3:05Speaker 2: actually let me in the door to do my internship.
- 3:07Speaker 2: And that was Extra and TMZ were sister shows at
- 3:10Speaker 2: the time. They're still owned by the same parent company.
- 3:13Speaker 2: And so I ended up meeting Harvey while I was
- 3:16Speaker 2: doing the internship there. And he sent me out on
- 3:18Speaker 2: a red carpet and said, hey, go test it out.
- 3:20Speaker 2: We're you know, we've got a new website that we're
- 3:22Speaker 2: going to be launching. And we're looking for reporters, we're
- 3:25Speaker 2: looking for people to cover entertainment news. And so I
- 3:29Speaker 2: covered a red carpet, it was a random Peter red carpet,
- 3:31Speaker 2: interviewed all these cool people like Pink and Pamela Anderson
- 3:35Speaker 2: and Dennis Rodman, all kinds of fun people brought it back.
- 3:38Speaker 2: And he was like, I don't know how the hell
- 3:39Speaker 2: you got all these interviews, but I want you to
- 3:41Speaker 2: come work for me. And that literally was the catalyst
- 3:44Speaker 2: to my time at TMZ. And a few months later,
- 3:48Speaker 2: the TMZ website was actually officially launched. And then it
- 3:52Speaker 2: just all went so quickly. It was like the website
- 3:55Speaker 2: took off. And then on next, we're doing a TV show,
- 3:58Speaker 2: then we're doing a tour bus, like everything just kind
- 4:00Speaker 2: of came together, I could have literally never planned it out.
- 4:03Speaker 2: And so my job there went from like a PA
- 4:06Speaker 2: to then kind of running a department, then running like
- 4:09Speaker 2: a bigger department. And my job was really just kind
- 4:12Speaker 2: of clear doing all the clips clearance. So I was
- 4:14Speaker 2: the person that when paparazzi were out taking photo, they
- 4:18Speaker 2: would upload them to their paparazzi websites. I don't know
- 4:21Speaker 2: if people kind of know the behind the scenes of
- 4:23Speaker 2: how that works. But basically, paparazzi work, and then there's
- 4:27Speaker 2: an agency that will kind of fuel their or funnel
- 4:31Speaker 2: their content to the different outlets, whether that's an ET,
- 4:34Speaker 2: Access Hollywood, any of the other platforms out there. And
- 4:37Speaker 2: so you can go on and you can look through
- 4:39Speaker 2: all the different photos from the evening or all the
- 4:41Speaker 2: videos from the evening and choose what you want and
- 4:43Speaker 2: download it there. And that's really how people find their content.
- 4:47Speaker 2: And so my job was looking through all that stuff,
- 4:50Speaker 2: and then licensing it and putting it out to the
- 4:53Speaker 2: world on the on the website.
- 4:56Speaker 1: So can you explain back in those days how it worked?
- 5:00Speaker 1: Because there was no social media. And before TMZ, the
- 5:04Speaker 1: only kind of blogging website was Perez Hilton, right? I mean,
- 5:09Speaker 1: do you remember that?
- 5:11Speaker 2: And that was the biggest thing. When I got into
- 5:14Speaker 2: this industry, Perez's website was like the biggest thing out there.
- 5:18Speaker 2: Everyone was talking about it. And so when TMZ came in,
- 5:23Speaker 2: There was one thing, though, that, like, with Perez's website,
- 5:26Speaker 2: which he did more, like, blind items and, like, gossip.
- 5:30Speaker 2: And TMZ came in and we said, okay, well, not we.
- 5:33Speaker 2: Harvey came in and said, I want to make sure
- 5:35Speaker 2: that I'm reporting accurate news. And so that was the differentiator. Like,
- 5:40Speaker 2: he wasn't going to just put up gossip and rumors.
- 5:42Speaker 2: It was going to be factual news. But it was
- 5:43Speaker 2: going to be more of, like, the other side of Hollywood.
- 5:46Speaker 2: Not the side that publicists want you to see. Not
- 5:48Speaker 2: the side that is just all red carpets. But, like,
- 5:50Speaker 2: the actual... what's really happening out there.
- 5:54Speaker 1: Okay, so let's get into that. How did you decide
- 5:57Speaker 1: what actual news was?
- 6:01Speaker 2: You know, it was in regards to just like breaking news,
- 6:04Speaker 2: are you saying?
- 6:05Speaker 1: Yeah, sure.
- 6:06Speaker 2: Numerous people to, you know, take at least three sources
- 6:09Speaker 2: to confirm a news story, whether you're getting that then
- 6:12Speaker 2: from the police, whether you're getting stuff from the courthouses,
- 6:16Speaker 2: I mean, there had to be substantial evidence behind whether
- 6:19Speaker 2: a news story was accurate or not. You wouldn't just
- 6:22Speaker 2: put it up because your friend told you it was
- 6:24Speaker 2: a story. Right.
- 6:26Speaker 1: And were you guys at that point in the incoming
- 6:29Speaker 1: phone call business or you guys were out there chasing
- 6:32Speaker 1: stories at that point?
- 6:33Speaker 2: It was a little bit of everything. I think every
- 6:35Speaker 2: news site is like that. You've got, you know, boots
- 6:39Speaker 2: on the ground out there looking for the, you know,
- 6:42Speaker 2: researching stories. You've got people calling in and giving you tips.
- 6:45Speaker 2: You've got a little bit of everything, but I think
- 6:47Speaker 2: that's kind of how every major news source works.
- 6:51Speaker 1: And how do you guys think you got to the point?
- 6:53Speaker 1: I mean, I remember that, first of all, you guys
- 6:56Speaker 1: were like, people were refreshing your page and you guys
- 6:59Speaker 1: had a new news story or an updated story. I mean,
- 7:02Speaker 1: you guys had so much stuff and you guys became
- 7:05Speaker 1: like the people that had, you guys were like AP News.
- 7:09Speaker 1: You guys had the first, foremost, like you guys were
- 7:12Speaker 1: the fastest, the first, the foremost news all the time.
- 7:16Speaker 1: How did you guys do that?
- 7:18Speaker 2: Well, I will say that my respect level for the
- 7:22Speaker 2: TMZ crew was off the charts. It was literally the
- 7:25Speaker 2: hardest working newsroom in the industry. Like we were working
- 7:29Speaker 2: crazy hours nonstop, because, you know, it was a passion.
- 7:34Speaker 2: Like when I got it, when I was at TMZ, again,
- 7:36Speaker 2: I was young, I was driven, I was excited to
- 7:39Speaker 2: be there. So I would dedicate endless hours to working
- 7:43Speaker 2: and breaking stories and being a part of that. And
- 7:45Speaker 2: it was really a fun place to be because it
- 7:49Speaker 2: was getting so much notoriety. And, you know, I've said
- 7:53Speaker 2: it to this day, Harvey is the hardest working person
- 7:54Speaker 2: in Hollywood. I mean, he works harder than even anyone
- 7:57Speaker 2: in that staff. And it paid off because, you When
- 8:02Speaker 2: you work that hard, you're going to be the ones
- 8:03Speaker 2: that people think about when the news is breaking. You know,
- 8:06Speaker 2: if you're going to send a tip in, oh, well,
- 8:08Speaker 2: TMZ is the one that's breaking all the news. So
- 8:10Speaker 2: let me call them and give them the tip first. Right.
- 8:13Speaker 1: So it is true that let's forget about a scandal
- 8:16Speaker 1: for a second. They really became known as having the
- 8:20Speaker 1: news first in a lot of circumstances. And I would
- 8:23Speaker 1: see the news there first before even CNN sometimes. And
- 8:28Speaker 1: it would be crazy because they would really have it.
- 8:31Speaker 2: That's why I think, you know, we had done years
- 8:35Speaker 2: of reporting, but it was really the Michael Jackson story
- 8:38Speaker 2: that I think gave even more credibility to TMZ when
- 8:41Speaker 2: Michael Jackson passed away and no one else could confirm
- 8:46Speaker 2: his death. And we were hours ahead of everyone. And
- 8:48Speaker 2: I think that was like a big turning point for
- 8:51Speaker 2: TMZ when people were like, oh, damn, they know what
- 8:54Speaker 2: they're talking about. And again, I'm not saying that we
- 8:56Speaker 2: weren't that before, but I think there was certain people
- 8:59Speaker 2: where that changed their mind because- credibility and integrity was
- 9:03Speaker 2: such a huge part of the foundation of TMZ. Even
- 9:06Speaker 2: though there's going to be people out there that are like, nope,
- 9:08Speaker 2: it's just gossip and trash. That's not the case. We
- 9:11Speaker 2: worked really hard on breaking good stories. Right.
- 9:15Speaker 1: So you built up to that. So let's pull back
- 9:17Speaker 1: though to the days that, you know, we're talking back
- 9:20Speaker 1: in 2009 now for a a scandal. You know, you
- 9:29Speaker 1: guys were really known for chasing scandals. And no one
- 9:33Speaker 1: knows how to narrate a scandal better than you. So
- 9:37Speaker 1: my first question is, what makes a story worth telling?
- 9:41Speaker 1: You know, how do you get those pieces? And because
- 9:43Speaker 1: you guys are really good at building that story. What
- 9:46Speaker 1: are you looking for? I mean, there's got to be,
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- 10:11Speaker 1: Athlete, a mistress, you know, what are you guys looking
- 10:14Speaker 1: for in that?
- 10:15Speaker 2: Well, Rachel, I think it really just came down to
- 10:17Speaker 2: public interest. Like it wasn't necessarily... what I think is interesting,
- 10:21Speaker 2: but what the world finds interesting. You know what I'm saying?
- 10:24Speaker 2: Like if, if there's a story that, you know, it,
- 10:29Speaker 2: I feel like is small and it's by, you know, two,
- 10:32Speaker 2: two people on a TV show getting together and I've
- 10:35Speaker 2: never heard the TV show. If suddenly the world starts
- 10:38Speaker 2: talking about it, then I'm going to find interest in it. Let, let,
- 10:41Speaker 2: you know, right now with all the Vanderpump rules stuff,
- 10:44Speaker 2: you know, you've got Tim, Tom Sandoval and, and this
- 10:46Speaker 2: whole cheating drama. I've never watched the show. Like I'm
- 10:50Speaker 2: not a big Vanderpump rules fan, but because everyone's talking
- 10:53Speaker 2: about it now, I'm suddenly interested in it. You know
- 10:55Speaker 2: what I'm saying? So it, it fuels that fire, but
- 10:58Speaker 2: then the bigger star that's involved in it, obviously the
- 11:02Speaker 2: more people care about it. Cause now it's not to
- 11:04Speaker 2: no names. Oh, you know, a huge athlete. Now it's
- 11:07Speaker 2: even more interesting because it's international. So there's just levels
- 11:10Speaker 2: of what makes something interesting. Right.
- 11:12Speaker 1: So, but why do you think that that story is,
- 11:16Speaker 1: has become so big. I mean, doesn't it seem crazy
- 11:18Speaker 1: that that story has permeated the news for almost a
- 11:22Speaker 1: week now and it's a Bravo TV show and the
- 11:25Speaker 1: way people are talking about it has become something on
- 11:28Speaker 1: a level of Clinton, Lewinsky, Tiger, me. I mean, it's
- 11:33Speaker 1: been a story that has gotten incredibly huge for a
- 11:38Speaker 1: reality TV scandal.
- 11:40Speaker 2: People love scandals. I mean, that's what it comes down to.
- 11:44Speaker 2: People love scandals in this and they love scandals with rich,
- 11:48Speaker 2: famous celebrities, because it's making them look like normal people
- 11:54Speaker 2: or taking them off their pedestal, you know, and I'm
- 11:56Speaker 2: not saying it's just there's a curiosity within the United
- 12:00Speaker 2: States or in the world that people want to see
- 12:02Speaker 2: other people fail.
- 12:03Speaker 1: Right, exactly.
- 12:05Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 12:06Speaker 1: All right, so let's go back to 2009. I want
- 12:08Speaker 1: to talk specifically about when the, well, let's specifically talk
- 12:15Speaker 1: about Thanksgiving 2009.
- 12:17Speaker 2: Yeah, my Thanksgiving got ruined thanks to you guys.
- 12:23Speaker 1: So do you want to walk me through your Thanksgiving
- 12:27Speaker 1: in 2009?
- 12:28Speaker 2: I can walk you through Thanksgiving. I remember, so I
- 12:30Speaker 2: was at Thanksgiving dinner over at my mom's house. We
- 12:33Speaker 2: had like driven all the way out to Redlands and
- 12:36Speaker 2: we were sitting there getting ready to like sit down
- 12:38Speaker 2: at the table. And I remember getting a call and
- 12:40Speaker 2: being like, Hey, you need to license these photos. I
- 12:44Speaker 2: was like, okay, what are, what are they up? And like,
- 12:46Speaker 2: do I have to do it right now? It's Thanksgiving. Like,
- 12:49Speaker 2: come on. And they're like, no, it's, it's photos of
- 12:52Speaker 2: tiger woods is car crash inside his, like his compound
- 12:57Speaker 2: or his community. And I'm like, wait, what, what's, what
- 13:01Speaker 2: do you mean inside of his community? And they're like, yeah,
- 13:02Speaker 2: he crashed into a tree. It's pictures of the SUV.
- 13:05Speaker 2: It's got broken out windows. It's like a whole thing.
- 13:07Speaker 2: We're trying to figure out what the story is because
- 13:09Speaker 2: all this news was breaking. We're trying to figure out
- 13:11Speaker 2: if he was under the influence. Like, no one really
- 13:14Speaker 2: knew what had happened at that point. The National Enquirer
- 13:18Speaker 2: stories had come out a couple days before talking about
- 13:21Speaker 2: there being some potential infidelity in the relationship. But, like,
- 13:26Speaker 2: nothing had really materialized. We're just now car crash photos.
- 13:29Speaker 2: Just nothing made sense. So I remember... spending like hours
- 13:34Speaker 2: on the phone that day, totally not having Thanksgiving dinner
- 13:38Speaker 2: with my family, but buying these photos so that we
- 13:42Speaker 2: could put up on the website to go along with
- 13:44Speaker 2: the story of the car accident because it became instantly
- 13:47Speaker 2: the biggest story in the United States. And these car
- 13:50Speaker 2: crash photos were huge. I mean, I remember just everyone
- 13:55Speaker 2: around the world was talking about these photos.
- 13:58Speaker 1: Right, like mangled photos.
- 14:00Speaker 2: Car. Mangled car, smashed up windows. Then the stories got
- 14:04Speaker 2: to be like, oh, you know, I think it started,
- 14:07Speaker 2: if I remember correctly, it started off like, oh, Elon
- 14:09Speaker 2: was trying to rescue him out of the car, smashing
- 14:11Speaker 2: the photos to get him out because he was stuck
- 14:13Speaker 2: in the car. Then it changed, the narrative changed so
- 14:15Speaker 2: quickly to, no, no, no, there was all these stories
- 14:18Speaker 2: from the National Enquirer. Okay, she smashed because she was
- 14:21Speaker 2: going after him with golf clubs. So it was like
- 14:24Speaker 2: rumors started going around so quickly as to what really
- 14:27Speaker 2: happened inside his community that morning. Right.
- 14:31Speaker 1: And next thing I know, I'm living on 14th Street
- 14:36Speaker 1: in Manhattan. And next thing I know, I get a
- 14:40Speaker 1: phone call and lo and behold, I don't know how
- 14:44Speaker 1: my number, you know, became public, but it's Harvey Levin.
- 14:49Speaker 1: And he says, I just want you to know that
- 14:54Speaker 1: a sea of paparazzi is going to be descending on
- 14:56Speaker 1: your house shortly. And if you have anything to say,
- 15:00Speaker 1: You should say it to me.
- 15:01Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 15:01Speaker 1: So that was the first time that I was ever
- 15:03Speaker 1: followed by paparazzi and saw what that was like. And,
- 15:07Speaker 1: you know, those sort of, I mean, I don't want
- 15:10Speaker 1: to say iconic, but iconic photos that, you know, are
- 15:13Speaker 1: showed all the time of me getting into the car,
- 15:17Speaker 1: going to the airport, then getting out of the plane,
- 15:22Speaker 1: basically being in that carousel area in LA, meeting with
- 15:27Speaker 1: Gloria and those are all TMZ photos. I mean, they're,
- 15:30Speaker 1: you know, whatever run by TMZ all the time. And
- 15:34Speaker 1: then being followed into Gloria's office. I mean, all that
- 15:38Speaker 1: stuff is like all run by TMZ, but that was
- 15:41Speaker 1: really incredible and crazy.
- 15:43Speaker 2: Let's be real. Cause you teamed up with the biggest
- 15:47Speaker 2: celebrity fame monger attorney on the planet. So like, of
- 15:53Speaker 2: course there's going to be photos of everything that like that's,
- 15:57Speaker 2: That's Gloria's stick. You know, she she likes the press.
- 16:00Speaker 2: She likes the publicity. So involve her plus you. Of course,
- 16:04Speaker 2: that's going to be every step you make is going
- 16:06Speaker 2: to be documented.
- 16:08Speaker 1: Right. Well, at the time, I didn't know that. I mean,
- 16:11Speaker 1: I knew who she was. But, you know, in my defense,
- 16:14Speaker 1: I really I had picked her because I was a
- 16:17Speaker 1: Nancy Grace fan and I had watched her on Nancy Grace.
- 16:21Speaker 1: And I called I just called a bunch of lawyers
- 16:24Speaker 1: and she was the one that answered the quickest.
- 16:27Speaker 2: So, I mean, it was, I'm actually surprised that you
- 16:30Speaker 2: called her and she didn't call you.
- 16:33Speaker 1: Well, I'm, I was quick and, you know, she did,
- 16:36Speaker 1: you know, that's what happened. So, um, but I do
- 16:40Speaker 1: remember one scenario when I got to LA, she took
- 16:43Speaker 1: me to Spago for dinner, which I didn't know that restaurant.
- 16:48Speaker 1: And apparently that's like a celebrity hangout. And I remember
- 16:53Speaker 1: going to the bathroom and her ordering a plate of cookies.
- 16:57Speaker 1: And when I came back from the bathroom, she was
- 16:58Speaker 1: outside giving cookies to paparazzi for like a photo shoot.
- 17:04Speaker 1: And then wanted to make sure, I guess, that they
- 17:06Speaker 1: were ready for when we came out so that she
- 17:09Speaker 1: could get us going into the car and waiting for
- 17:13Speaker 1: the car. at valet. So I thought that was pretty crazy.
- 17:17Speaker 1: So I started to see how this was all arranged.
- 17:20Speaker 1: This was the first time like that I was coming
- 17:24Speaker 1: to be accustomed to how this worked. So I had never.
- 17:28Speaker 2: People don't realize that there is a very much a
- 17:31Speaker 2: give and take relationship between celebrities and paparazzi. And, you know,
- 17:37Speaker 2: to give someone the idea, like, Spago back then is
- 17:41Speaker 2: what Craig's is now in regards to if you want
- 17:44Speaker 2: to be seen, that's where you go, because there is
- 17:47Speaker 2: always going to be photographers sitting outside waiting for people
- 17:52Speaker 2: to come and go because, you know, for a lot
- 17:54Speaker 2: of celebs, they in between projects, they need to stay relevant.
- 17:58Speaker 2: How do you stay relevant? You get your photo taken,
- 18:00Speaker 2: you get it into the magazines on the websites, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah,
- 18:03Speaker 2: because your name staying out there in the public is
- 18:05Speaker 2: good for your image. And so you go to Craig's
- 18:08Speaker 2: because you're like, hey, you know, yes, the chicken parm
- 18:10Speaker 2: is great, but I also want to be seen that night.
- 18:12Speaker 2: And so I'm going to dress nice. That was Spago
- 18:14Speaker 2: back then. Right.
- 18:17Speaker 1: So what I wanted to get into here is, you know,
- 18:19Speaker 1: at this point, the media is creating a narrative of
- 18:23Speaker 1: who I was.
- 18:25Speaker 2: Right.
- 18:25Speaker 1: I mean, that was pretty evident. I mean, people don't
- 18:27Speaker 1: remember this was a very long time ago, but for me,
- 18:29Speaker 1: it was quite evident. I wasn't speaking. And if you remember,
- 18:33Speaker 1: the narrative was not very good of me. And that
- 18:37Speaker 1: was really hard for me to deal with. And, you know, now,
- 18:40Speaker 1: I mean, I see it created very quickly by, you know,
- 18:45Speaker 1: the media. And as you just brought up, it's based
- 18:50Speaker 1: on what the public is aching for, right? I mean,
- 18:55Speaker 1: it's the public consumption and what they want, and then
- 18:58Speaker 1: it's what the media is putting out. So that's like
- 19:02Speaker 1: what you're talking about with this Tom Sandoval scandal.
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- 19:25Speaker 1: But it's what they're asking for and then what the
- 19:27Speaker 1: what the media is is giving but i think that
- 19:30Speaker 1: the narrative that is put out is completely different a
- 19:34Speaker 1: lot from what the person is. And that makes it
- 19:38Speaker 1: really hard for the person that's involved. I mean, what
- 19:41Speaker 1: are your thoughts on that?
- 19:42Speaker 2: Well, I also got to think like, I guess I
- 19:45Speaker 2: don't know what other narrative necessarily you would have expected
- 19:51Speaker 2: because all the public is hearing is this is the
- 19:55Speaker 2: other woman. You know what I'm saying? Like that's all
- 19:57Speaker 2: they know. They don't have any other narrative other than
- 20:01Speaker 2: this is the other woman. And in their minds that
- 20:03Speaker 2: ruined a marriage. And so they create the rest of
- 20:07Speaker 2: that void with the dialogue that they want. And that's
- 20:12Speaker 2: all the facts that you really have at that point,
- 20:14Speaker 2: because you weren't like going out there speaking, saying your
- 20:17Speaker 2: side of the story. So all we have is this
- 20:19Speaker 2: is the other woman that broke up a marriage. So
- 20:20Speaker 2: people are going to come to that conclusion by themselves. Right.
- 20:24Speaker 1: But you guys definitely have an angle, right? I mean,
- 20:27Speaker 1: the media has an angle that they want to go
- 20:29Speaker 1: with it. Like, as we were saying, like, Perez Hilton
- 20:32Speaker 1: had an angle or a tone. You guys... tend to
- 20:35Speaker 1: have a tone with the way that you speak. I mean,
- 20:38Speaker 1: don't you think? I mean, TMZ had a tone with
- 20:40Speaker 1: how they talk.
- 20:41Speaker 2: I mean, I can tell you, me personally, in the
- 20:44Speaker 2: photos and videos that I would see, because there was
- 20:47Speaker 2: such a curiosity around the Tiger story, around you, around Elin,
- 20:53Speaker 2: around everything, it didn't even matter what... I like, if
- 20:58Speaker 2: I saw a picture of you, I'd pitch it out
- 21:00Speaker 2: immediately because that's what the world craved at that moment,
- 21:03Speaker 2: just to see what everyone was out doing. So you
- 21:06Speaker 2: didn't like, yeah, you, you were the extra woman. I
- 21:09Speaker 2: like that. That's really what it comes down to. So
- 21:11Speaker 2: it'd be like tiger. And then to this day, it's funny,
- 21:14Speaker 2: but it would be like, it's always been Rachel. You
- 21:17Speaker 2: could tell Tiger Woods, number one mistress. And I bet
- 21:20Speaker 2: that's weird for you to acknowledge or hear over and
- 21:23Speaker 2: over again, because your name is constantly linked to him.
- 21:27Speaker 2: But that's really what it was. Rachel, you could tell.
- 21:29Speaker 2: Tiger Woods, number one mistress. Over and over and over again.
- 21:31Speaker 2: I guess that was our narrative is that you were
- 21:34Speaker 2: just the other woman. Right.
- 21:37Speaker 1: I mean, no, I get it. I mean, but it
- 21:39Speaker 1: has permeated my life, right? And it's stuck with me.
- 21:44Speaker 1: And what's interesting is my daughter is 10. She wasn't
- 21:47Speaker 1: alive during that scandal. And that's what she's grown up hearing,
- 21:52Speaker 1: knowing as well, which is really interesting, right?
- 21:55Speaker 2: So- You know, so how do you navigate that as
- 21:59Speaker 2: a mother and being involved in one of probably the
- 22:05Speaker 2: biggest scandals of all time? Let's be realistic as least
- 22:08Speaker 2: sports scandals of all time. How do you navigate that
- 22:11Speaker 2: with her so that she feels protected or that so
- 22:14Speaker 2: she feels like she knows what's going on? She doesn't
- 22:16Speaker 2: hear from people at school.
- 22:18Speaker 1: So it's interesting. I've never had to have a real
- 22:21Speaker 1: conversation with her because there's so much out there in
- 22:24Speaker 1: social media or TV stuff, or she's never really asked
- 22:28Speaker 1: me any questions, but I feel like she has so
- 22:36Speaker 1: much access to all the stuff that's out there. And
- 22:39Speaker 1: she sees stuff on the TV and she's like, oh, mom,
- 22:43Speaker 1: there's your ex. I mean, it's almost something like she's
- 22:46Speaker 1: grown up knowing Um, she's definitely, you know, you know,
- 22:52Speaker 1: it's really difficult cause I don't want to bring it
- 22:54Speaker 1: up to her, but it's not something she doesn't know.
- 22:57Speaker 1: Just like she's grown up knowing I had a fiance
- 22:59Speaker 1: that died in September 11th and she knows all about that,
- 23:03Speaker 1: but she's never asked me specific questions about it. So
- 23:06Speaker 1: it's something that's like something that she knows, but she's
- 23:09Speaker 1: never gonna, she, she just doesn't feel comfortable asking me
- 23:12Speaker 1: direct questions about it. Um, So, you know, I don't know.
- 23:17Speaker 1: I don't know how to address it with her because
- 23:19Speaker 1: it's something she doesn't want to talk to me about.
- 23:21Speaker 1: But she's 10. She goes through social media like more
- 23:27Speaker 1: than I do. And so it's really hard for me. But,
- 23:30Speaker 1: you know, it's been really tough for me because like
- 23:32Speaker 1: we haven't gotten into certain private schools because people have
- 23:35Speaker 1: like banned me. You know, I haven't been able to
- 23:39Speaker 1: get certain jobs. I've had a really difficult time in
- 23:43Speaker 1: my life. because I've been associated with that scandal. And
- 23:47Speaker 1: people have literally shunned me. I have, I've stopped talking
- 23:50Speaker 1: to family members. I've stopped being in certain social circles
- 23:53Speaker 1: because I haven't been able to get rid of that
- 23:55Speaker 1: scarlet letter. I've been fighting in court battles with these
- 23:59Speaker 1: people still. I mean, I've had issues throughout my, you know,
- 24:03Speaker 1: life with these people still. So I've, you know, and
- 24:06Speaker 1: I've been dealing with that in silence and that's taken
- 24:08Speaker 1: a toll on me, you know, mentally, physically, emotionally. And
- 24:13Speaker 1: so that's really been a big part of what I've
- 24:16Speaker 1: struggled with in the last 10 years, so to speak.
- 24:18Speaker 1: And I feel like I've needed to get that out.
- 24:21Speaker 1: And it's not something I'm going to share with my daughter.
- 24:23Speaker 1: You know what I mean? But that scandal affected my
- 24:26Speaker 1: life in such a way because I wasn't able to talk.
- 24:29Speaker 1: So being branded by the media was something that it
- 24:33Speaker 1: was like I had post-traumatic stress disorder from that. like honestly,
- 24:37Speaker 1: because I couldn't share what happened. I couldn't share the
- 24:40Speaker 1: emotional stress, the physical stress, people wanting to talk about
- 24:44Speaker 1: that situation, but me not being able to talk about
- 24:47Speaker 1: that situation was so tough on me. Um, not being
- 24:50Speaker 1: able to correct people, not just being able to not
- 24:53Speaker 1: just say like, stop talking about that. I'm not that person.
- 24:57Speaker 1: You're so misinformed about who I am was really tough
- 25:01Speaker 1: on me. It's you know, it really has affected my
- 25:07Speaker 1: life for years, you know, for a decade, for over
- 25:12Speaker 1: a decade.
- 25:13Speaker 2: Honestly, I've thought about this in other circumstances with people
- 25:17Speaker 2: who like, like Mike Lewinsky, you know, like obviously one
- 25:20Speaker 2: of the biggest names wrapped up with a scandal or
- 25:24Speaker 2: Tonya Harding or Kato Kaelin. Like, I just always wonder, like,
- 25:27Speaker 2: what do you do for a living after something like this?
- 25:31Speaker 2: To be honest, I have no idea what you've done
- 25:33Speaker 2: for work in the last 10 years. It's not something
- 25:37Speaker 2: that's necessarily crossed my mind, but you still have to provide.
- 25:40Speaker 2: You still have to be a mom and have a
- 25:42Speaker 2: house over your kids, their heads. So what have you
- 25:46Speaker 2: done for work? How do you get a job?
- 25:48Speaker 1: You can't really. So I used to be a credible person, right?
- 25:54Speaker 1: Like I used to run, I used to work at
- 25:57Speaker 1: Bloomberg Television. I couldn't go back into journalism because I
- 26:01Speaker 1: was the story, right? So I opened up a high-end
- 26:06Speaker 1: children's boutique. I had my own children's line. But I'll
- 26:09Speaker 1: never forget people coming in and almost having a problem
- 26:13Speaker 1: with the fact of who I was. I'll never forget
- 26:17Speaker 1: getting a text message by accident from one of the
- 26:20Speaker 1: customers in the store saying, who came in to buy
- 26:22Speaker 1: Michael Buble, his son or something, his kid, a bomber jacket.
- 26:30Speaker 1: And they texted me and said, oh, I just bought
- 26:33Speaker 1: Michael Buble's kid clothes from Tiger Woods' mistress and starting
- 26:41Speaker 1: to talk about me. But they sent me the text
- 26:43Speaker 1: message instead of whoever they meant to. And I just
- 26:45Speaker 1: remember thinking, I cannot get away from this.
- 26:48Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
- 26:49Speaker 1: And people would come into my store and see my
- 26:51Speaker 1: business card name and be like, Rachel, you could tell,
- 26:53Speaker 1: I know that name. Oh, you're not the same Rachel
- 26:56Speaker 1: as blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And they would just
- 26:58Speaker 1: go on and on and on. And it was just
- 26:59Speaker 1: too difficult for me to feel like I was getting
- 27:02Speaker 1: away from it. And it just would never leave no
- 27:04Speaker 1: matter what I tried to do. And, um, I, you know,
- 27:08Speaker 1: I just felt like, like you said, it's always Rachel,
- 27:10Speaker 1: you could tell comma Tiger Woods mistress, no matter what
- 27:13Speaker 1: I tried to do. I tried to go into reality TV.
- 27:15Speaker 1: I tried to go into A children's boutique. I tried
- 27:18Speaker 1: to literally do anything else, but it still stuck with me.
- 27:22Speaker 1: And yeah.
- 27:24Speaker 2: When you were with Tiger before all the news broke,
- 27:30Speaker 2: was there anything in your mind that said, like, if
- 27:32Speaker 2: this news gets out, this will be the biggest story ever? Like,
- 27:37Speaker 2: did you know the consequences of that story leaking at
- 27:41Speaker 2: that time? Because I got to imagine you probably wouldn't
- 27:43Speaker 2: have got into it if you knew what was going
- 27:45Speaker 2: to happen, but... knowing that that would be a huge
- 27:48Speaker 2: news story that could have potentially affected your life as
- 27:51Speaker 2: it has over the last, I don't know, 15 years
- 27:55Speaker 2: or whatever it was?
- 27:57Speaker 1: Well, my job when I worked in nightclubs, I was
- 28:01Speaker 1: the director of VIP operations in Las Vegas and New
- 28:04Speaker 1: York and the Hamptons and St. Barts, was to take
- 28:08Speaker 1: care of celebrities and high net worth individuals and to
- 28:13Speaker 1: be their wingman, so to speak. So I really... never
- 28:16Speaker 1: crossed the line with them ever.
- 28:18Speaker 3: Really? I mean, I had some celebrity people that I
- 28:21Speaker 3: dated and.
- 28:43Speaker 1: But I usually would never cross the line. So very rarely.
- 28:49Speaker 1: And no, I mean, I did not think, oh, you know,
- 28:54Speaker 1: is this going to go somewhere? Is this going to
- 28:55Speaker 1: get out? Because that was never my intention. And my
- 28:58Speaker 1: intention was not to be involved in some scandal. And
- 29:01Speaker 1: my intention was never to hurt anyone. And I really,
- 29:04Speaker 1: you know, anyone I was ever with, I really cared
- 29:06Speaker 1: about them. I was monogamous with them. Like this was not,
- 29:10Speaker 1: there was no bad intent in any of this. And
- 29:13Speaker 1: my innate job was always to protect the person I
- 29:18Speaker 1: was with, you know, always. So no, like, you know,
- 29:22Speaker 1: I was always taking care of people. So that just
- 29:25Speaker 1: never crossed my mind. You know, I never thought that
- 29:29Speaker 1: that would get out. I was shocked when I saw
- 29:31Speaker 1: the footage from the National Enquirer that they followed me
- 29:35Speaker 1: all the way to Australia on that documentary, if you
- 29:38Speaker 1: saw it. I mean, I was literally shocked that they
- 29:42Speaker 1: had been trailing me for so long. But that's also
- 29:44Speaker 1: because they had been trailing him for so long, you know. So, yeah. But,
- 29:50Speaker 1: you know, when I saw how the media kind of
- 29:55Speaker 1: follows different people and can– you know, really get into
- 29:59Speaker 1: someone's life. I mean, I became a recluse after what happened.
- 30:04Speaker 1: So it became really, really hard for me. And then
- 30:07Speaker 1: to see, you know, well, not to see, but to
- 30:10Speaker 1: feel how that happened to me. I mean, I really,
- 30:12Speaker 1: I mean, I ended up going, I checked myself into
- 30:15Speaker 1: the Meadows. I mean, it was kind of recently, you know,
- 30:20Speaker 1: right before COVID, like maybe in 2020. And just to
- 30:25Speaker 1: get away and deal with like the loss of my
- 30:28Speaker 1: fiance from September 11th. Um, and, and honestly to deal
- 30:33Speaker 1: with what it's like to have been shamed for so
- 30:37Speaker 1: long by other people. And obviously to deal with like
- 30:40Speaker 1: the mistakes I've made in my life, but then to
- 30:43Speaker 1: be shamed by like the world about them, like that's
- 30:46Speaker 1: a really hard thing. Like imagine if you made a mistake,
- 30:48Speaker 1: but then to have the whole world, like come down
- 30:50Speaker 1: on you for it, not just for 15 minutes, but
- 30:53Speaker 1: like for a decade. That was really, really hard for me.
- 30:58Speaker 1: So I really had to take some time because I
- 31:02Speaker 1: really had some post-traumatic stress disorder over feeling so awful
- 31:09Speaker 1: about that and how to get over people hating me
- 31:15Speaker 1: so much and making almost like their triggers about what
- 31:21Speaker 1: they were so angry about in their lives about me
- 31:24Speaker 1: and having to learn that a lot of the anger
- 31:27Speaker 1: people had at me was kind of about them and
- 31:31Speaker 1: what they were so angry in their own lives about.
- 31:34Speaker 1: So that's what I, you know, had to sort of
- 31:37Speaker 1: grapple with and realize that a lot of that really
- 31:40Speaker 1: wasn't about me.
- 31:41Speaker 2: No, and I think there's a level of like, I
- 31:44Speaker 2: know it sounds silly, but because Tiger was this like beloved, squeaky, clean,
- 31:51Speaker 2: athlete that the world was cheering on this was the
- 31:54Speaker 2: thing that like took him off that pedestal and i
- 31:57Speaker 2: think what people look for is they look for the
- 32:01Speaker 2: uh you know the villain and i think you became
- 32:04Speaker 2: the villain in the tiger story in the tiger saga
- 32:08Speaker 2: rather than people necessarily just blaming tiger it was like
- 32:10Speaker 2: oh she's also the villain in this story you know
- 32:13Speaker 2: what i'm saying so i think that that became your
- 32:15Speaker 2: narrative uh whether you wanted it or not that became
- 32:18Speaker 2: the narrative about it And, you know, unfortunately with Tiger,
- 32:23Speaker 2: he he can start winning again and people start to
- 32:26Speaker 2: forget and move on. You don't have that same luxury.
- 32:30Speaker 1: Right, right.
- 32:31Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 32:31Speaker 1: I mean, they definitely needed a monster to blame instead
- 32:35Speaker 1: of maybe the person in that story that might have
- 32:37Speaker 1: had their own issues. I mean, I think that for
- 32:40Speaker 1: a while that person had been driving towards a cliff
- 32:44Speaker 1: and I happened to be the passenger in that seat,
- 32:46Speaker 1: you know, and I just went over the cliff with them.
- 32:49Speaker 1: And I got famous because of that. So that was
- 32:51Speaker 1: what was really unfortunate to me. So anyways, all right.
- 32:55Speaker 1: So I have a couple of questions for you. So
- 32:57Speaker 1: at working at TMZ, was there any story that you
- 32:59Speaker 1: would not post about or any people that maybe you were,
- 33:04Speaker 1: you know, you were like had some preferential treatment towards
- 33:07Speaker 1: that you wouldn't post about?
- 33:09Speaker 2: Did we have boundaries and stuff? Yeah.
- 33:12Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 33:12Speaker 2: No, there was a lot of boundaries. And, you know,
- 33:16Speaker 2: I remember even when you had come on TMZ live,
- 33:19Speaker 2: there was a set of, uh, what was it like
- 33:22Speaker 2: text messages between you and David Boreanaz that they weren't
- 33:25Speaker 2: going to put out. So I think that was an
- 33:26Speaker 2: example of like, Hey, there's certain items that are maybe
- 33:30Speaker 2: a little too personal for the world to get a
- 33:33Speaker 2: glimpse of. And, you know, I know it sounds crazy,
- 33:37Speaker 2: but I think that there's like certain things that that's
- 33:41Speaker 2: not their job. Um, we didn't really cover a lot
- 33:44Speaker 2: of like funeral stuff. Um, Because that also was kind
- 33:48Speaker 2: of like a weird moment where people are trying to grieve.
- 33:51Speaker 2: But outing, we never outed anyone at TMZ in regards
- 33:55Speaker 2: to that needs to be a choice that they make
- 33:58Speaker 2: as their sexual preference.
- 34:00Speaker 1: Right. Would people be surprised how many sources are actually
- 34:05Speaker 1: the person the story is about or their PR team? Oh, yeah.
- 34:09Speaker 2: I mean, let's be realistic. It's Hollywood. I literally... on
- 34:13Speaker 2: my podcast, Hollywood Raw, that's what we talk about. We
- 34:16Speaker 2: are revealing the fourth wall of Hollywood, and that's what
- 34:18Speaker 2: it is. Yes, there is the publicist calling different media outlets,
- 34:25Speaker 2: letting them know where their client's going to be, their
- 34:28Speaker 2: stylist saying, hey, my client's going to be showing up
- 34:31Speaker 2: to my building. Make sure you get photos of them
- 34:33Speaker 2: in their outfit, and the outfit is done by this designer,
- 34:36Speaker 2: this designer. It is all a factory. Hollywood is a
- 34:41Speaker 2: factory of you know, keeping people relevant, pushing people to
- 34:45Speaker 2: the top, pushing other people to the bottom. Like that's
- 34:47Speaker 2: just what it is. And so all the time there's
- 34:50Speaker 2: people tipping off paparazzi to where they're going to be
- 34:53Speaker 2: or someone in their camp tipping off paparazzi. That's just
- 34:55Speaker 2: how it works.
- 34:57Speaker 1: Right. Is there a story that you did not break
- 35:01Speaker 1: that you wish that you did?
- 35:03Speaker 2: Oh, that's a good question. I've never been asked that. Shoot.
- 35:10Speaker 2: I don't say I wish I broke it. But I
- 35:14Speaker 2: found it so unbelievable that I didn't believe it. And
- 35:17Speaker 2: that was the whole Caitlyn Jenner, Bruce Jenner stuff. And
- 35:22Speaker 2: I remember that was also, I want to say like
- 35:25Speaker 2: a National Enquirer star or something. And seeing a story
- 35:30Speaker 2: headline that came across that said like Bruce Jenner has
- 35:32Speaker 2: a closet full of dresses. And I literally made fun
- 35:34Speaker 2: of it. I was like, there is no way that
- 35:37Speaker 2: this is accurate. Like this is such a bullshit story.
- 35:42Speaker 2: There's no way. And then it came out. So I'm
- 35:45Speaker 2: not saying I wish I would have broke it. I just,
- 35:47Speaker 2: I remember it coming across the desk and thinking it
- 35:50Speaker 2: could not possibly be true. And then it ended up
- 35:54Speaker 2: being absolutely true.
- 35:56Speaker 1: Okay. What is the craziest thing you did to get
- 36:00Speaker 1: an exclusive story?
- 36:04Speaker 2: Let's see. Well, I would say something that I did
- 36:07Speaker 2: that wasn't necessarily that crazy. It just happened to be
- 36:11Speaker 2: a crazy situation where I had a gymnastics incident and
- 36:17Speaker 2: I dislocated both of my ankles at the same time
- 36:20Speaker 2: and ended up being in two boots on crutches on
- 36:25Speaker 2: a red carpet. And I was at the very end
- 36:29Speaker 2: of the line and everyone came up to talk to me.
- 36:33Speaker 2: Because normally for anyone that doesn't know kind of like
- 36:35Speaker 2: how a red carpet works, A red carpet, you know,
- 36:38Speaker 2: you've got everyone doing photos down the red carpet, and
- 36:40Speaker 2: then you've got all the media lined up down the side.
- 36:42Speaker 2: And it starts with like, let's say, Entertainment Tonight and
- 36:44Speaker 2: Access and E. And then it kind of, as you
- 36:47Speaker 2: go down, you're ranked. And the further down the line
- 36:49Speaker 2: you get, the less important you are in the atmosphere
- 36:54Speaker 2: of celebrity culture. And I was at the very, very end.
- 36:58Speaker 2: No one knew at that time, like what TMZ was.
- 37:01Speaker 2: And everyone came up to talk to me because I
- 37:04Speaker 2: looked so like, gimped up and injured that everyone came
- 37:09Speaker 2: to talk to me and i got all kinds of
- 37:11Speaker 2: exclusive interviews with people because i looked so sad and pathetic.
- 37:16Speaker 1: Oh god okay.
- 37:20Speaker 2: And then i thought after that after i was injured
- 37:22Speaker 2: i was like i should just start doing this more
- 37:24Speaker 2: often just go to a red carpet and have boots
- 37:26Speaker 2: on double feet and crutches everyone will talk to.
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- 37:52Speaker 1: What story are you most proud of?
- 37:55Speaker 2: Ah, let's see. Most proud of. I mean, I helped
- 37:58Speaker 2: break the Jen Aniston secret wedding. That was kind of...
- 38:02Speaker 2: interesting story to be a part of just because it
- 38:04Speaker 2: was such big news when her and Justin got married
- 38:08Speaker 2: and basically were playing it off as a birthday party,
- 38:12Speaker 2: but they really were inviting all their friends to surprise
- 38:15Speaker 2: them and get married. So that one was kind of
- 38:17Speaker 2: a fun one.
- 38:18Speaker 1: How did you get the scoop on that?
- 38:22Speaker 2: Just had some sources that had basically said, I think
- 38:26Speaker 2: something's going on here. You guys should look into it.
- 38:30Speaker 2: And so then it took a lot of digging and, um,
- 38:34Speaker 2: contacts and to, to really figure it out. And what
- 38:36Speaker 2: really kind of solidified it was there ended up getting a,
- 38:40Speaker 2: a photo of the, the pastor basically walking out the
- 38:43Speaker 2: back door with the Bible in hand. And that was
- 38:46Speaker 2: like the, wow, this is actually true. Um, but let's see,
- 38:51Speaker 2: I think, okay, I'm going to say this one. I don't,
- 38:54Speaker 2: I'm not going to say proud of, I'm going to
- 38:56Speaker 2: say that it was just such a big news story that, um,
- 39:01Speaker 2: you know, as a turning point would be Michael Jackson's
- 39:04Speaker 2: death and getting the initial tip and working on that
- 39:09Speaker 2: story and being one of the people that got a
- 39:12Speaker 2: confirmation of him passing and just being involved in such
- 39:17Speaker 2: a huge news story that like rocked the world. And,
- 39:21Speaker 2: but I wouldn't say proud of it. I would just
- 39:23Speaker 2: say it was interesting to be a part of it.
- 39:26Speaker 1: Were you there um for the kobe death uh no.
- 39:31Speaker 2: I was not i had already left tmz at that
- 39:34Speaker 2: point i remember sitting in my car and got the
- 39:37Speaker 2: tmz news alert on my phone that said he had
- 39:39Speaker 2: passed away and just sitting there stunned not knowing like
- 39:43Speaker 2: how is this possibly real.
- 39:45Speaker 1: Yeah that was crazy um Were you around during the
- 39:50Speaker 1: Donald Sterling scandal? Do you remember that whole thing?
- 39:54Speaker 2: I remember that. That was crazy. I didn't really have
- 39:57Speaker 2: any part in that one. My beat was definitely not sports,
- 40:02Speaker 2: but I remember how big that story was and how, again,
- 40:06Speaker 2: that was another one that I would say rocked the world,
- 40:09Speaker 2: or at least sports world here in the U.S.
- 40:13Speaker 1: But that was another one that TMZ did break. Mike Walters.
- 40:17Speaker 2: Yep, Mike Walters on that. I mean, there's so many.
- 40:20Speaker 2: I mean, you think back to Michael Richards' rant. You
- 40:23Speaker 2: think about Mel Gibson and his crazy, like, arrest in
- 40:28Speaker 2: Malibu and, like, all the crazy stuff that he said
- 40:31Speaker 2: to the cops that day and how they tried to
- 40:32Speaker 2: cover it up and bury it. I mean, it literally
- 40:35Speaker 2: was a part of some of the biggest news stories
- 40:37Speaker 2: in the world because from, you know, 2005 to 2010,
- 40:42Speaker 2: those are, like, I remember those so vividly with Britney
- 40:45Speaker 2: and Lindsay and Paris and, like, the 2007 era. And, uh,
- 40:49Speaker 2: you know, I, it was a wild time to be
- 40:52Speaker 2: a journalist in Hollywood. Right.
- 40:56Speaker 1: And speaking of that, what was the transition like from
- 40:58Speaker 1: being just a website to becoming a TV show? And
- 41:01Speaker 1: all of a sudden you guys were kind of, you
- 41:04Speaker 1: guys were becoming celebrities yourselves a little bit. People were
- 41:08Speaker 1: recognizing you and, uh, what was that like?
- 41:11Speaker 2: You know, it's funny because inside the office, nothing really changed.
- 41:15Speaker 2: So the, those pitch meetings that you see to this
- 41:20Speaker 2: day at TMZ, that's really how it started off. We
- 41:22Speaker 2: were in this tiny little room out in Burbank and
- 41:27Speaker 2: it was, you know, and I think at a time
- 41:29Speaker 2: maybe 20 of us, but we would sit around and
- 41:32Speaker 2: kind of like a little semi-circle in our cubicles and
- 41:34Speaker 2: Harvey would sit at the front and his whiteboard and
- 41:37Speaker 2: go on the room. What do you have? What do
- 41:38Speaker 2: you have? What do you think is going to be good?
- 41:40Speaker 2: What do you think is a great news story? And
- 41:43Speaker 2: after a couple months of that, it was like, they,
- 41:45Speaker 2: they saw potential in this and brought in and brought
- 41:47Speaker 2: in cameras, did the same thing, just filmed us doing
- 41:52Speaker 2: our normal morning meeting. And that's really what we did
- 41:56Speaker 2: every day for the next 11 years of my career there.
- 41:59Speaker 2: And so nothing changed inside, but yes, the outside, that
- 42:03Speaker 2: was a weird transition for me to, you know, I
- 42:07Speaker 2: remember the first time I got recognized was like a bed,
- 42:09Speaker 2: bath and beyond, you know, just, in the aisle and
- 42:12Speaker 2: some lady walked up to me, I think the show
- 42:14Speaker 2: had only been on for like two days. And she
- 42:15Speaker 2: was like, I know who you are. Can I take
- 42:17Speaker 2: a picture with you? And I'm like, this is weird. Why,
- 42:20Speaker 2: why wouldn't you? And I just remember being like, this
- 42:22Speaker 2: is crazy. And then, you know, it didn't stop after that.
- 42:25Speaker 2: TMZ became a phenomenon on television and people loved it.
- 42:29Speaker 2: And it was a guilty pleasure for a lot of people. And,
- 42:31Speaker 2: you know, I think it hit a demographic that wasn't
- 42:34Speaker 2: just a female audience tuning in. You got a lot
- 42:37Speaker 2: of a male audience too, because there was a lot
- 42:39Speaker 2: of again, scandals covered or women in bikinis or whatever.
- 42:44Speaker 2: And it brought in a different audience than all the
- 42:46Speaker 2: other TV shows. And it allowed couples to sit down
- 42:49Speaker 2: and watch television together and get into entertainment news.
- 42:53Speaker 1: Right. Take us through what happens from getting a story
- 42:57Speaker 1: tip to posting an article for people that are not familiar.
- 43:01Speaker 2: So, well, there's two levels. So if it's literally just hey,
- 43:07Speaker 2: this is a great video of someone because there's a
- 43:09Speaker 2: paparazzi that caught so-and-so tripping and falling in the street,
- 43:14Speaker 2: that takes a couple minutes, right? There's no, you don't
- 43:17Speaker 2: have to really dig into that too much. You can
- 43:19Speaker 2: throw a video up, put some text around it, and
- 43:21Speaker 2: that's a story. If it is a massive news story,
- 43:25Speaker 2: then it takes the whole newsroom to stop down, start
- 43:30Speaker 2: picking up the phones, calling, and confirming whether or not
- 43:33Speaker 2: a story is is real and so those stories could
- 43:37Speaker 2: take 10 minutes if you you get enough people to
- 43:40Speaker 2: confirm it or it could take you know two months
- 43:44Speaker 2: to make sure that the the story is accurate so
- 43:47Speaker 2: but it you know with tmz it was such a
- 43:49Speaker 2: it's like a family it was like a family thing
- 43:51Speaker 2: that everyone would jump in to help someone else out
- 43:54Speaker 2: to to confirm if their story's real or not because
- 43:56Speaker 2: you also it's competitive you also want to beat cnn
- 44:00Speaker 2: and snbc and all the other outlets to a story
- 44:03Speaker 2: if you know that they also have been tipped off
- 44:05Speaker 2: at the same time.
- 44:07Speaker 1: So now you host your own podcast. What made you
- 44:10Speaker 1: finally leave TMZ?
- 44:13Speaker 2: You know, it's funny. It's because I started there so
- 44:15Speaker 2: young and it was really the only job I had
- 44:17Speaker 2: ever known. My life had transitioned a lot. I had
- 44:22Speaker 2: gone from being a single college kid to being married
- 44:26Speaker 2: and having kids and, you know, I was doing this
- 44:29Speaker 2: crazy drive every day from Orange County to LA. And
- 44:32Speaker 2: I got to the point where I'm like, I just
- 44:34Speaker 2: need something different. And one of the big things I
- 44:37Speaker 2: always thought about was like, I've every day, I've always
- 44:40Speaker 2: talked about celebrities and I kind of want to start
- 44:42Speaker 2: talking to celebrities myself. And so that's where I was like, okay,
- 44:47Speaker 2: I want to, I want to leave, but like, what
- 44:48Speaker 2: am I going to do? And I worked for, you know,
- 44:51Speaker 2: doing like little gigs for access Hollywood for a while.
- 44:53Speaker 2: I auditioned to be, uh, the coast with, uh, with
- 44:57Speaker 2: Kelly Ripa, uh, And none of the, nothing really panned out.
- 45:00Speaker 2: And so I'm like, what am I doing here? And
- 45:02Speaker 2: ended up starting up my podcast, Hollywood Raw with my buddy, Adam,
- 45:07Speaker 2: who is also a former TMZ photographer. He actually works
- 45:12Speaker 2: out in New York. He is a paparazzi in the
- 45:14Speaker 2: streets of New York. One of the most well-respected camera
- 45:17Speaker 2: guys out there though. Like he's not, you know, when
- 45:20Speaker 2: people say the word paparazzi, there's like the stigma to it,
- 45:22Speaker 2: but he's a, he's a really good guy. And as upper, like,
- 45:26Speaker 2: good questions and always wants to make celebrities look good.
- 45:29Speaker 2: And so like, he's one of those people that Oprah
- 45:32Speaker 2: walks out and she's like, Hey, Adam, come over and
- 45:34Speaker 2: let me have a conversation with you. You know, like
- 45:36Speaker 2: he's one of those kinds of guys. So we decided
- 45:38Speaker 2: to join forces, start up Hollywood Raw and, and talk
- 45:41Speaker 2: about what it's really like in Hollywood. There's the Hollywood
- 45:44Speaker 2: that is the PR press side that is glamorous and amazing.
- 45:48Speaker 2: And then there's this other side that, you know, is
- 45:51Speaker 2: really like what's really going on? Like what you asked
- 45:54Speaker 2: me are celebs calling paparazzi? Yes. And we'll talk about it.
- 45:58Speaker 2: And we'll name names and talk about celebs that will
- 46:01Speaker 2: do it. And we've had quite a few celebs come
- 46:03Speaker 2: on a podcast and admit to it and say, I
- 46:05Speaker 2: absolutely have like we had Brian Austin Green on, I
- 46:09Speaker 2: think it was like two, three years ago. And he
- 46:11Speaker 2: came on and he was like, yeah, Megan and I
- 46:14Speaker 2: used to do that. But it was because it benefited us.
- 46:16Speaker 2: We would go to Hawaii and And we would call
- 46:19Speaker 2: them up and say, please come take the photos so
- 46:22Speaker 2: that you will leave us alone for the rest of
- 46:23Speaker 2: the trip. And I just thought it was such an
- 46:26Speaker 2: honest look at this couple that was so famous and
- 46:29Speaker 2: all over the place. And they would say, yeah, we
- 46:32Speaker 2: did it, but because of this, this, and this, and
- 46:34Speaker 2: it's not a bad thing and it's not shameful to
- 46:36Speaker 2: call the paparazzi and it's a game. So Hollywood Raw
- 46:39Speaker 2: has just kind of been our, our go-to place. We
- 46:41Speaker 2: talked to publicists. We talked to you like fixers, like
- 46:45Speaker 2: people that are behind the scandals. We've had a, a,
- 46:48Speaker 2: crisis pr specialist on recently and private uh private jet
- 46:53Speaker 2: attendance like all kinds of stuff just to get what
- 46:56Speaker 2: it's really like in hollywood along with celebrities so.
- 47:01Speaker 1: Yeah i would love it so who do you think
- 47:03Speaker 1: is the most misunderstood person in hollywood right.
- 47:06Speaker 2: Now oh um most misunderstood person in hollywood shoot um
- 47:15Speaker 2: man that's a it's a loaded question right there um
- 47:20Speaker 2: I honestly, I don't know. I feel like, I feel
- 47:22Speaker 2: like there's some people that get a really bad rap. Um,
- 47:26Speaker 2: I don't know if that's necessarily misunderstood, but I think like,
- 47:30Speaker 2: I've always thought about what I'm, it's going to sound silly,
- 47:33Speaker 2: but what a really genuinely nice person Paris Hilton is
- 47:36Speaker 2: or Kim Kardashian. And all they do is get shit
- 47:39Speaker 2: on every single day of their lives by every media
- 47:43Speaker 2: outlet out there by everyone. They just love to hate
- 47:46Speaker 2: on them, but they're like, underneath it, they're really nice,
- 47:50Speaker 2: kind women. And I've met both of them and hung
- 47:53Speaker 2: out with both and they're super nice. So I'd say
- 47:56Speaker 2: a little misunderstood.
- 47:58Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good answer. I saw you just had
- 48:01Speaker 1: Tara Reid on.
- 48:03Speaker 2: She was wonderful. I love Tara. And you know what?
- 48:05Speaker 2: She's a good answer for being someone that is misunderstood.
- 48:10Speaker 2: And when we had her on, we just, you know,
- 48:13Speaker 2: We wanted to get her perspective because she has been
- 48:15Speaker 2: a focal point of the media for a long time.
- 48:17Speaker 2: And she has been the butt of a lot of jokes. And,
- 48:21Speaker 2: you know, she was one of those people that we've
- 48:22Speaker 2: been dying to have on because we've covered her so
- 48:25Speaker 2: much over the years. And she said, look, the one
- 48:28Speaker 2: thing that wasn't fair was that no one ever covered
- 48:33Speaker 2: the side of her where she was never late to set.
- 48:37Speaker 2: She never messed up her... Didn't know her lines. She never...
- 48:42Speaker 2: partied so hard that she was bad at work. You
- 48:44Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? She's like, I, she said, I
- 48:46Speaker 2: partied and I would go out and have a good time,
- 48:49Speaker 2: but I was professional when I needed to be professional.
- 48:52Speaker 2: And she goes, that was the part that I was
- 48:54Speaker 2: misunderstood about. And I think Tara Reed definitely got dealt
- 48:58Speaker 2: the bad hand because we make, we glorify a lot
- 49:02Speaker 2: of reality stars for the behavior that she had at
- 49:05Speaker 2: that time, but she got trashed at that time for,
- 49:10Speaker 2: or just having a really fun young youth. So she's
- 49:14Speaker 2: a good person. Tara Reid is probably a good person
- 49:17Speaker 2: to say she's misunderstood. Yeah. Yeah.
- 49:20Speaker 1: You're, um, that's what I saw from your interview with her.
- 49:24Speaker 2: Um, okay.
- 49:24Speaker 1: Tell me about trophy smack. You did a six figure
- 49:27Speaker 1: deal with Mark Cuban on shark tank.
- 49:29Speaker 2: I did. What a weird transition, right? Going from like
- 49:32Speaker 2: celebrity entertainment reporter to hawking fantasy football trophies. Yeah.
- 49:37Speaker 1: But were you really on shark tank?
- 49:39Speaker 2: Yeah, we did shoot tank. Um, so right after I
- 49:43Speaker 2: had left TMZ, again, I was searching for like, what,
- 49:46Speaker 2: what the hell am I going to do now that
- 49:47Speaker 2: I'm not on TV every single day and I don't
- 49:49Speaker 2: have a steady paycheck. And, you know, are people going
- 49:52Speaker 2: to look at me as like, Oh, just that TMZ guy.
- 49:54Speaker 2: Cause I also felt like when I left, there's a
- 49:56Speaker 2: certain stigma to TMZ, right? Like it's, it's different leaving
- 50:00Speaker 2: entertainment tonight than it is leaving TMZ, right? Like we
- 50:03Speaker 2: can acknowledge that there's a different level of respect there
- 50:05Speaker 2: in the entertainment industry. And, um, my buddy and I
- 50:09Speaker 2: were talking and this was probably two months after TMZ.
- 50:12Speaker 2: And he was like, Hey, you know, we're in the
- 50:14Speaker 2: fantasy football dad group together. And he was like, I,
- 50:17Speaker 2: you know, I can't find a good trophy out there.
- 50:20Speaker 2: What do you think? Should we make these? And I
- 50:22Speaker 2: was like, hell yeah, let's do it. And that little
- 50:24Speaker 2: idea started in my garage, um, building trophies at night
- 50:29Speaker 2: over the weekends and selling them online. And And within
- 50:33Speaker 2: the first year, I think we had $ 800, 000 in sales.
- 50:36Speaker 2: And then it was literally out of my garage. Just me,
- 50:39Speaker 2: my wife would help me. We'd be sweating and a
- 50:41Speaker 2: hundred degree weather in Southern California. And then, you know,
- 50:46Speaker 2: we just kept building it and building it. And then
- 50:49Speaker 2: Shark Tank had always kind of been something we'd wanted
- 50:51Speaker 2: to do. And so we were like, all right, well,
- 50:54Speaker 2: let's try. I still have contacts in the industry that
- 50:57Speaker 2: can like help out. And we got, you know, an
- 50:59Speaker 2: email put in on our behalf and they called us
- 51:01Speaker 2: back and It took a year and a half to
- 51:03Speaker 2: get on Shark Tank, but it was the coolest thing
- 51:07Speaker 2: to be a part of. And it was, it happened
- 51:08Speaker 2: right in the middle of COVID. So we had to
- 51:10Speaker 2: go out to Las Vegas and be in their big
- 51:14Speaker 2: quarantine bubble for, you know, for like a week. And,
- 51:18Speaker 2: and yeah, we ended up locking down Mark Cuban as
- 51:20Speaker 2: a business partner and he invested $ 600, 000 into the business.
- 51:24Speaker 2: And he's been a great business partner with us and
- 51:27Speaker 2: building the brand and, We're now we've gotten the official
- 51:31Speaker 2: ESPN trophy. We work with Yahoo. We've, you know, we're
- 51:35Speaker 2: doing all these things that I pinch myself all the time.
- 51:37Speaker 2: I'm like, how did I, and I'm not a sports guy.
- 51:40Speaker 2: How did we get into this world where my daily,
- 51:44Speaker 2: my daily life is surrounded by trophies and sports and
- 51:47Speaker 2: all of this. And it's been really, really fun. We
- 51:50Speaker 2: make championship belts and bling chains and it's, it's wild.
- 51:54Speaker 1: Oh my God, that's amazing. That's so fun. All right.
- 51:57Speaker 1: So my last question is, what do you see as
- 51:59Speaker 1: the biggest story in the news right now that you're
- 52:01Speaker 1: covering this week that you're following or something we should
- 52:04Speaker 1: all be watching?
- 52:05Speaker 2: Well, I know that this is going to come out after,
- 52:08Speaker 2: but I would say obviously the Oscars are a big
- 52:11Speaker 2: deal right now. I think everyone wants to know about
- 52:15Speaker 2: Will Smith, Chris Rock. Now we're hitting the one year
- 52:18Speaker 2: anniversary and Chris is doing all his comedy shows talking
- 52:21Speaker 2: about his first time kind of responding to it. I
- 52:25Speaker 2: think the Vanderpump Rules drama will probably be going on
- 52:29Speaker 2: for a little bit just because everyone likes a good
- 52:31Speaker 2: cheating story. But I would say those have been kind
- 52:35Speaker 2: of the biggest stories as of right now. But again,
- 52:40Speaker 2: tomorrow something will happen. It'll dominate the news and the
- 52:44Speaker 2: Vanderpump Rules stuff will fade into non-existence. Right.
- 52:48Speaker 1: And isn't that interesting how the news, everything just the
- 52:52Speaker 1: tables will turn and somebody else will get in trouble.
- 52:55Speaker 1: And that's how a good scandal goes.
- 52:58Speaker 2: And honestly, I think that is one of the reasons
- 53:01Speaker 2: that may have bit you in the butt was because
- 53:04Speaker 2: there were so many women that had come forward that
- 53:06Speaker 2: it never allowed another news story to dominate the headlines
- 53:10Speaker 2: for like months. Right.
- 53:13Speaker 1: Because the story kept going and going and going.
- 53:17Speaker 2: Right. When it would die down, someone else would come
- 53:19Speaker 2: forward and it would bring it back up. And of course,
- 53:21Speaker 2: They're going to bring me up with a new woman
- 53:24Speaker 2: in the headline. They're going to mention you, right? So
- 53:27Speaker 2: it's just, it fed itself for so long that I
- 53:32Speaker 2: almost felt like you couldn't get out of the Bermuda
- 53:35Speaker 2: Triangle of news coverage. Yeah.
- 53:38Speaker 1: Well, the interesting thing is yesterday I was on the
- 53:40Speaker 1: cover of the Post again, but 14 years later, I
- 53:46Speaker 1: just think it's because he's one of the most famous
- 53:48Speaker 1: people in the world, right? So the scandal sort of
- 53:50Speaker 1: just never... goes away when it has to do with
- 53:53Speaker 1: a similar topic. And I think, unfortunately, I will always
- 53:57Speaker 1: be associated with that. And I just, I've learned to
- 54:02Speaker 1: go along with it. And I think the challenge is
- 54:04Speaker 1: figuring out how to deal with it. And as long
- 54:08Speaker 1: as I can figure out how to get people's perception
- 54:11Speaker 1: of me to change. And that's what I'm trying to
- 54:14Speaker 1: do here with my podcast, realize that I've been misunderstood
- 54:17Speaker 1: for many years. And it takes, you know, people really trying...
- 54:21Speaker 1: understanding who I am besides that, you know, because there's
- 54:26Speaker 1: all sorts of parts to me that don't have to
- 54:27Speaker 1: do with just that one headline sort of. So thank
- 54:32Speaker 1: you for joining me. And I appreciate you. And I'm
- 54:37Speaker 1: glad that we are in this circumstance now. And I'm not,
- 54:41Speaker 1: you know, yelling at you to leave me alone anymore.
- 54:44Speaker 1: So now at least I can call you and laugh
- 54:48Speaker 1: with you instead of basically telling you to. get lost.
- 54:51Speaker 2: So thank you for having me on. I always like
- 54:54Speaker 2: having a genuine, honest conversation, especially with someone that I
- 54:58Speaker 2: have covered many, many times. I was, it was funny
- 55:02Speaker 2: right before this interview or this chat, like I was
- 55:06Speaker 2: Googling and it was like my videos of you, like
- 55:09Speaker 2: me pitching out, talking about you was coming up left
- 55:12Speaker 2: and right. And I was like, Oh my God, I
- 55:14Speaker 2: really have talked a lot about her over the years. Yeah.
- 55:17Speaker 1: So it's funny to now Yeah, to now see you
- 55:21Speaker 1: 10 years later, 14 years later, and know that we
- 55:23Speaker 1: can laugh about it, I guess.
- 55:25Speaker 2: So thank you for having me on. I appreciate it.
- 55:27Speaker 1: Of course. Take care.
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