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Stage 5 Clinger · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: Are you guys ready for a second date update. I
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  Speaker 1: hope we can make a love match.
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  Speaker 2: Let's do it.
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  Speaker 1: Going to Bristol this morning, We've got Stacy on the line,
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  Speaker 1: who went on a great first date. She's getting ghosted
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  Speaker 1: and wants to know why. Good morning, Stacy, Hi, good morning,
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  Speaker 1: thanks for having me. Welcome to the show. So tell
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  Speaker 1: us about this great first date.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I did have a great first date with this
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  Speaker 3: guy that I met on you know, like one of
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  Speaker 3: those dating apps, like one of a million out there,
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  Speaker 3: and it was wonderful. We went to this really nice
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  Speaker 3: restaurant for dinner and just overall the date was amazing,
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  Speaker 3: perfect guy. And you know, it's crazy because we have
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  Speaker 3: the same life goals, like we want to get married
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  Speaker 3: and have a family, and you know, I called and
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  Speaker 3: texted him a few times after the date to thank him.
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  Speaker 3: But it's kind of weird because now I'm getting ghosted
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  Speaker 3: and I really don't know why I So, yeah, it's weird.
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  Speaker 2: His name is Nate. The producer says, his name is Nate.
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  Speaker 1: But you in one date you found out all about
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  Speaker 1: your life goals.
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  Speaker 2: That's a lot. You got down to business.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I'll tell you what when something feels organic, you
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  Speaker 3: just have to roll with it. And I felt like
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  Speaker 3: we were just on the same trap.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, and you're getting ghosted? Was there a lot of alcohol?
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  Speaker 1: And I'm just trying to find think of reasons why
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  Speaker 1: maybe you're getting ghosted. Did you drink too much?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: No, nothing like that. I think maybe I had like
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  Speaker 3: one cocktail.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, Wait, so you said you found out a
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  Speaker 5: lot about him. Did you like insta stalk him beforehand
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  Speaker 5: and then you went into the date like knowing way
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  Speaker 5: too much information?
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  Speaker 3: No, nothing like that. I just you know when you're
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  Speaker 3: when you date a lot, you kind of know, like
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  Speaker 3: the questions you want to ask to get no people, Sure,
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  Speaker 3: So I kind of just kind of came in already
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  Speaker 3: knowing what I wanted to know this guy.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: And so you felt there was an instant connection between
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  Speaker 1: the two of you.
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  Speaker 3: Honestly, I really did. Yeah, all right, I think it
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  Speaker 3: was right there.
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  Speaker 1: I think we should just call him up, you guys, absolutely,
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  Speaker 1: that's all right.
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  Speaker 2: So listen, you're gonna be listening in. At any point.
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  Speaker 1: If you want to talk to Nate, you can, but
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  Speaker 1: we're just gonna ask him to be honest and tell
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  Speaker 1: us why he's ghosting.
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  Speaker 2: Are you ready for the answers?
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  Speaker 3: Yep, let's do it.
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  Speaker 2: This is a tough one. She sounds like a sweetie.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: I think there might be something to the insta stalking thing.
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  Speaker 2: She does sound a little crazy. She has that voice.
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  Speaker 6: You know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: No, Jeff, i'd be judge. Hello, Hi, is Nate there?
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  Speaker 6: Yes, this is Nate.
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  Speaker 2: Hey Nate, It is Courtney, Nate, It's Walmart Jeff.
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  Speaker 1: Hey Nate, It's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety
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  Speaker 1: five seven.
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  Speaker 2: How are you.
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  Speaker 6: I'm doing fantastic. Are you today this morning? Oh?
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  Speaker 2: We're good. Welcome to the show. It is a second
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  Speaker 2: date update.
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  Speaker 1: It's a feature we do where if you go on
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  Speaker 1: a first date and it's a great time and you
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  Speaker 1: get ghosted, but you want answers, you call us and
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  Speaker 1: we get the answers.
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  Speaker 2: So that's why we're calling you this morning. Nate. Ooh okay, okay,
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  Speaker 2: So let me refresh your memory.
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  Speaker 1: Stacey called us. She said, you guys went on a
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  Speaker 1: first date. You guys met online on a dating app.
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  Speaker 1: She says, you're like the perfect guy. It was like
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  Speaker 1: a dream date. And you have a lot of life
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  Speaker 1: goals in common. But she's reached out to you a
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  Speaker 1: couple of times and now you're ghosting or how was
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  Speaker 1: the date for you?
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  Speaker 6: Well, well you just said right there. Just I mean,
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  Speaker 6: it makes me a little uneasy. He's just up fun. Hey, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: I remember the date, and I remember staying let me
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  Speaker 6: just say that. Okay, that date was intense, Okay, intent.
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  Speaker 2: As in, how why.
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  Speaker 6: I'm telling you the first ten minutes of this thing, right, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: so she.
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  Speaker 4: Was saying my name, she was saying my name, my
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  Speaker 4: last name, right, and she kept saying it as her
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  Speaker 4: last name, trying to make sure it sounded good.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not even like totally like I'm.
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  Speaker 4: On defense of my one that she wants to take
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  Speaker 4: my last name or keep her own name anyway with
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  Speaker 4: the whole thing, but the fact that you're coming out
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  Speaker 4: here assuming my last name in the first ten minutes
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  Speaker 4: we met, woa off wine, like, I mean yeah, and
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  Speaker 4: then immediately she says she wants to make plans for.
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  Speaker 6: New Year's I mean, we just got out of I
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  Speaker 6: just got out.
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  Speaker 4: Of a Halloween costume.
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  Speaker 6: Man, want to make plans for New Years?
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  Speaker 4: And away on Valentin i'd say so. Now we're thinking
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  Speaker 4: four months after the first like ten minutes we met.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, that's just way too soon.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, she she she's definitely. She's just looking
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  Speaker 4: to get married, have kids and doesn't matter with Hills.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that's a lot.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, Nate, I am so angry at you
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  Speaker 3: right now. Do you have any idea how long I
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  Speaker 3: waited for you to text me back?
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  Speaker 2: I am.
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  Speaker 3: I'm shaking in anger, like this is ridiculous. I could
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  Speaker 3: have already moved on with someone else and all you
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  Speaker 3: had to do was text me back after our date.
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  Speaker 3: What kind of gentlemen are you? Because no so decent
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  Speaker 3: guy would do that. I was so wrong about you.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, well, I guess it's a good time to tell you, Nate.
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  Speaker 2: Stacy's also listening in so surprise.
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  Speaker 1: I do feel though, Nathan, you should have told Stacey.
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  Speaker 2: You should have told you weren't interested.
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  Speaker 3: That would have been nice because I could have spent
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  Speaker 3: the last couple of weeks chatting it up with someone
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  Speaker 3: else and maybe trying to find my soulmate.
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  Speaker 4: True, I don't think in the I don't think any
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  Speaker 4: taking someone's last name and then talking about going away
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  Speaker 4: three months. Within the first ten minutes of meeting is
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  Speaker 4: a healthy conversation. It tells me that you're not looking
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  Speaker 4: for Nate for Nate, You're looking for someone to fill needs.
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  Speaker 3: You were giving off all the wrong signals because we
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  Speaker 3: already started talking about, you know, future plans, trying to
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  Speaker 3: see if our goal is aligned. So if that's what
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  Speaker 3: you were looking for, you completely gave me the wrong
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  Speaker 3: impression of yourself. And frankly, you're the one to blame
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  Speaker 3: for all this.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you know, usually usually at this point I offer
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  Speaker 1: to pay for a second date, Like.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Nate, can I just say you dodged a boy here?
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  Speaker 2: This sek is crazy, crazy.
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  Speaker 3: Don't I'm not crazy.
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  Speaker 2: I know what I want, all right. She knows what she
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  Speaker 2: wants and she wants to go out and get it.
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  Speaker 2: I got it. Stay luck to you.
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  Speaker 4: Then, yes, I wait, if you're looking for a soulmate,
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  Speaker 4: you're swiping in the wrong direction. You can't get it
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  Speaker 4: an online dating.
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  Speaker 2: Wait question for you?
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 2: Wait? Wait?
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  Speaker 5: So what would be like your preferred timeline? Like if
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  Speaker 5: you're looking for your soulmate? Like, what is what does
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  Speaker 5: your timeline look like?
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  Speaker 2: Three weeks ago? You don't have a timeline when it's
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  Speaker 2: your soulmate.
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  Speaker 3: Well no, but like listen, I already said, when something's organic,
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  Speaker 3: it'll just happen. But you know what, I thought maybe
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  Speaker 3: Fate would actually step in at this time, but I
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  Speaker 3: guess not, And I guess Nate is not the gentleman.
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  Speaker 1: I thought he was. Okay, can we just Stacy, you
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  Speaker 1: have no desire to go out with Nate again? Nate,
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  Speaker 1: do you have any desire to go out with Stacy again? Maybe,
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  Speaker 1: like you guys can slow it.
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  Speaker 2: Down a bit.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe, I mean, like I just want to get to
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  Speaker 4: know people and have a good time.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so angry right now. And you know what, at
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  Speaker 3: least I know where his head is at.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, at least you both know all right.
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  Speaker 1: Well, Stacy and Nate, we appreciate you guys being on
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  Speaker 1: a second date update and being so honest and open
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  Speaker 1: with us.
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  Speaker 3: Well, thanks for having me. Sorry that you know it
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  Speaker 3: didn't work out in my favor, I guess