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If I Have to Ask, It Doesn't Count

If I Have to Ask, It Doesn't Count: The Mind-Reading Trap in Relationships

“If I have to ask him to do it, then it doesn't count.”

We often imagine that when someone truly loves us, they should just know. They should know when we need a hug, when we're overwhelmed, when we want them to plan a date, or when we simply need a little extra attention.

But what happens when we turn that expectation into a test of love?

In this episode of Make It Make Sense, Nitin is joined by fellow psychologist Sachi Shah to unpack one of the most common and quietly damaging patterns in relationships: expecting…

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