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Guest Hypnotist Ian Cue and the Wolf Mindset · The Hypnotist

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Hi, it's Adam here. Welcome to the Hypnotist
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podcast. And today I'm joined by guest
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hypnotist Ian Queue. Ian, welcome to the show.
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Thank you very much for having me, Adam.
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It's been a, it's been a long time, so it's good to be on
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there finally, mate. Yeah, and I think it was a few
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years back you were on Modern Mindset, my other podcast, but
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you know, we actually met at a hypnosis training session many,
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many years ago of rapid inductions and and those kind of
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things. So it makes sense to have you on
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the hypnotist podcast. Tell us a little bit of your
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background in terms of you know, what you do because I, I know
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you from your work in the in the police, but also, you know,
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hosting a group and being a hypnosis.
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So give the audience a bit of a background on on you and who you
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are. Yeah, so this this story might
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help those who are a bit skeptical of the hypnosis world
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that we have been living in for some time.
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Adam, I was a skeptic myself. I started this journey as a body
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language enthusiast. I travelled the world in 2007
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after taking a break from work. And for six months.
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After picking up a body language book so I'd studying human
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behaviour, I had plenty of time to do it each day and I was able
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to do it in variety of countries around the world.
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America, Thailand, New Zealand, Australia were just some of the
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ones that which I was analyzing. Body language.
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So I bought these skills back to the UK and I was able to
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oversee, decipher what people really meant, what those
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thinking, what they was feeling and I was able to use that in
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lots of variety of work. Then I saw a hypnotist one day,
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sort of made me expand this world of psychology, our body
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language thing. Then I sort of want to go into
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the mind, I saw a hypnotist, curious, I've seen all the Paul
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McKenna things and I was thinking, is this real?
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Is this actually can these are these people really thinking
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that they are a motor car driver in a washing machine whilst
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listening to this music? So I approached this hypnotist
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at the end of it and I. Asked him some questions.
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And actually, when he told me about where he learned hypnosis,
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instead of I kept an open mind. I kind of followed my skepticism
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and my thoughts. I was still curious.
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So I ended up taking the course as a skeptic.
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And it was only when a another hypnotist or trainee hypnotist
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lifted my hand and said that there's balloons on them that.
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My hand was. Raising without me doing it, did
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I all start to understand and make sense that it wasn't a
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Harry Potter land that I was going to go into.
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It was a state of imagine focused and and that is what led
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me down this path from 2008. It led me to meet amazing people
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like yourself. I'm very proud to know people
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like yourself and people who have done some amazing things
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and how quickly change can come about using this powerful
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method. I was a complete skeptic.
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Now I'm a convert. Now I've done hypnotherapy, NLP,
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new linguistic programming, lots of different methods in the
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therapy world and move to where I am now, which is owning a
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company called Wolf Mindset. So very pleased.
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And if those who are listening who heard that quick story, I'll
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give a little teaser to. Your audience.
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Adam, at the end of this, we'll do a quick session.
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And I will do. That what my first experience
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was with hypnosis. To anybody who's listening here
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today, we'll be able to get that same experience to see what they
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think. Yeah, and I think experiencing
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hypnosis is is very different from hearing about it because to
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the outside world it does look a little bit magical, mystical, a
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bit woo woo and a little bit, you know, a lot of people I
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think have the perception that everyone that does it is faking
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it, particularly stage hypnosis. And I remember when I was doing
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my postgraduate studies in clinical hypnotherapy, we had to
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do dissertations. And my dissertation title was,
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is hypnosis real or are people just playing along?
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And, and the key convincer for me looking at real kind of like
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clinical studies and the the peer reviewed reviews is that
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it's fine to pretend that you're a motor car driver or that
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you're riding a horse in the Grand National.
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But what I was looking at are the things like pain.
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If people are just pretending that they don't feel pain, but
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they are really feeling pain, there would probably be some
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kind of reaction to that. And the more I looked at some of
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the the actual kind of applications within kind of
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surgery and hospitals and dentists, it's kind of like,
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yeah, people can't be playing along under those circumstances
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because there's no upside. There's no audience to kind of
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play up to like you either don't feel the pain or something else
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is kind of happening there. So that for me gave me a, a
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sense of what's actually going on because I think in stage
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hypnosis, some people really are.
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And, and as hypnotists, we can see what to look for in, in
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terms of real deep trance and, and what most people would call
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hypnotized. But there are the people that
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they, they just want to kind of have fun.
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They want to get involved. And actually, if you said, you
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know, look, there's no hypnosis here, who wants to just do some
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improv on a stage and have a good laugh, they'd do that as
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well. But they're not really
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hypnotized. So I think if people's frame of
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reference is stage hypnosis, it does blur the edges because not
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everyone on the stage is hypnotized.
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They just, they might be other forms of psychology like
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compliance or social proof or expectation, not necessarily
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hypnosis, but if someone's had an addiction for 10 years and
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they've tried to stop and they can't and then they have a
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couple of sessions and then they they don't do that thing
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anymore. Are they playing along?
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Well, probably not because they really did want to make that
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change and they couldn't and now they can.
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So there's kind of clues in, you know, for me, it's real if it
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works, that that's my frame of reference.
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What's the most useful thing that you found in day-to-day
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life from NLP or hypnosis? I actually find that maybe the
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NLP actually, if I, if I'm pretty clear, I would have
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probably say statement analysis and the body language side of
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it. The statement analysis is the
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words that we use and how we adapt our wording when we are
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hiding stress, discomfort and deceit.
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It's a fascinating subject. You, you could say if, if
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someone said to me, for instance, if I said, have you
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been to that cinema before? And they go not really.
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And most people would hear that as a no.
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But that's not true. Not really means it doesn't mean
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it means yes actually, just I don't really go there.
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The word really weakens the answer.
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So there's a whole host of phrases and words that people
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will use to weaken the language. So statement analysis is really
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handy to to listen to what people are saying and the body
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language. So again again, I did mention
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about this whole host of. Science and and arguments.
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About lying, I think the best way of of talking about body
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language and stuff in this area is comfort and discomfort.
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Are they comfortable or what's made them uncomfortable and what
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emotion are you seeing a mask or trying to mask What they or.
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What emotion? Are they presenting once you
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begin to see those kind of things and you can really see
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potentially your people's intentions, what their thoughts,
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what they're looking to mask, what area that you're talking
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about, which makes them uncomfortable and then you can
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look to and I think like you. Talked, we talked about.
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NLP and modern excellence. So I think in modeling as a
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whole, modeling someone's behavior, changing tonality,
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pacing, breathing, once you start doing that again, that's
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that kind of coincides with that rapport building.
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I think you don't actually have to do that consciously, I think
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if you start to believe that this person.
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That you're going to do your. Best for them and you really
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focus on what they're saying and how they're.
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Feeling you would. Autonomously start to match a
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lot of that anyway, but having that conscious thinking will
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start to get you to a similar level where they start to think,
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well, this person's really, really cares.
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And we do care a lot. The the police do do care.
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They they want that result for for that person and for that
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victim. So it's, yeah, all these sort of
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skills start to be just pick them up.
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You're dealing with people all day, every day.
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Job after job so. Because when I, when I learn
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about hypnosis and LP, my first job was in sales, selling radio
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advertising. And you know, for me being very
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shy, being very introverted, it was like the perfect environment
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to test communication skills where you could measure results.
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Because if you can communicate well, if you can influence, you
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can see that in terms of revenue and, and all of that kind of
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stuff. And I imagine, you know, in a
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police environment, it's very similar, like you've got this
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non-stop, you're communicating with colleagues, you're
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communicating with suspects, you're communicating with
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victims all the time. There's so much information
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coming. It's a it's a great boot camp to
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kind of really become an excellent communicator.
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Yeah, well you have to be. You quickly get found out if if
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you struggle with communication. It could always lead to
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complaints and stuff if you are struggling to communicate.
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With people every day. So it is baptism by fire.
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Must to speak. Communication is is key.
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Communication is extremely important in the area and it can
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be the difference between having a roll around with someone or.
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Calming someone down to. To get on a similar level, and I
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think that's actually similar to where some techniques in NLP
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come in without even people realizing patent interrupts.
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Patent interrupts are so powerful when someone is
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suddenly. Confused and looking.
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For a different answer, to get them out of a previous pattern
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into a curious, you know, curious.
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Pay what? What did you mean by that?
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Or. Or explain more and it can
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really change people's behaviour quite quickly.
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So yeah, that's some areas which is quite useful one.
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One thing I picked up on, and I don't know if it was learning
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about NLP and hypnosis which helped me pick up on it, but is
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that certain professions have certain tonalities.
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It's kind of like a teacher tends to have a teacher voice
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over time. And I think people in police, if
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they have lots of upward inflection and they don't sound
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certain or confident, then I think that would impede their
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ability to kind of do their job. So I don't know if you've
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noticed this, but do you find that people within the police
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either tend to have that kind of authoritative and and quite
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credible tonality as, as just like that's how they were?
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Or do you think it was learned like they needed to, to speak in
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that way in order to kind of do well in their role?
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When officers start, they a variety of different
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backgrounds, variety of different ages and variety of
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different experiences and many don't start off with that
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authoritarian tone. Some naturally have it and some
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don't ever get it, some some just do not get it.
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But I think from the situations that they're in, it is like a
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behaviourist learning curve. They experiment with different
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scenarios that they go to and obviously if an authoritarian
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tone works or they are modelling the tutors or more experienced
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officers and they see it and they.
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See that work Then that's. How it comes about often from
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looking at their peers, looking at senior, more experience and
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seeing what works and that's how it goes on.
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That's how it then moves on from obviously generation to
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generation. Does authoritarian approach and
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voice work? It does in a lot of situations.
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So you have to. It's good if you can find your
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voice. Yeah.
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And and also knowing what's appropriate for a circumstance
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because if if you're dealing with someone that's just lost
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someone, you know, you're not going to be delivering, you
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know, sad news in an authoritarian way, you're going
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to change the approach. But I imagine like, it is
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helpful when you've got a lack of time that people are
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responsive and compliant pretty quick.
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And if you've got that upward inflection of, you know, you
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know, can you stop, you know, can you, can you show me some
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information? They're like, oh, I can say no
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to this. It's just implied in the, in the
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tonality. So let you say a baptism of a
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fire like you either it either clicks into place or it becomes
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a very challenging role to do. And, and that also links to the
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body language, which I know you were, you did an excellent
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presentation at the UK hypnosis convention.
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I think it was the, you know, a very engaging, I think was it 10
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minutes that there was just no words at all, you know, into the
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presentation, just all the body language.
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You, you're kind of the, the Charlie Chaplin of the, of the
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hypnosis world, you know, and, and it's true, you know, there
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was a lot of, of kind of facial expressions, you know, maybe Mr.
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Bean for a more modern reference there to, to really kind of
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communicate a lot with kind of movement and that.
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Shows up Mr. Bean, if you're listening on this podcast and
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not. Watching don't look like Mr.
15:01
Bean, but there was there was some good body language and and
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kind of miming skills there. Tell us about because I think I
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think you, you help people learn about kind of body language.
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So tell us a bit about what you were talking about at the UK
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hypnosis conference last year and what you're going to be
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talking about next year. Well, actually later this year.
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It's November, isn't it? Yeah, so last year was talking
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about just some simple body language methods that people
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should know about from shaking hands.
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To how to stand. What politicians are trained in
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and presentation body language. I think it's a good way to start
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just how we hold ourselves, how we move around the room and
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things that we already know that I actually taught the hypnotists
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in the. Room a lot.
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About what they already know, but I think that when we.
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Are growing up, you know it's depending.
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On your the background. Depending on your world.
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Growing up, you're going to you're going to notice things
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and see your world differently. I'm very sorry to to say to.
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Anybody who's lived through. A life of, say, trauma.
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You're going to notice expressions of anger probably a
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lot quicker than other people. You're going to notice dangers
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and threat a lot. Quicker than anybody.
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Else and. Again.
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That could again. If you've gone through
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difficulties, it could become your superpower.
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You'll be able to notice different things and other
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people would those who've gone through a a traumatic incident
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with somebody in particular. You may begin to notice signs of
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abusers, then other people won't.
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The red. Flag, so to speak.
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So the hypnotists are obviously dealing with with people that
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have got all, all different. Variety of things that.
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They go to for the hypnotists for these hypnotists are going
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to start noticing. Body language more they're.
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Going to notice where somebody needs support or some
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assistance. They're going to notice when the
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feeling is bubbling up from that tension.
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They're giving them a self, a self hug or the right to
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dropping down, and they're looking down to have their own
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internal voice and feelings. All of these.
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Things are going to. Notice, so it's mainly just
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getting these these amazing people in the room.
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What they already? Know, but we often, we often
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have only have a gut feeling. It doesn't go to our head until
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we're trained. I think we just go.
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I don't feel right in this room, but I don't know why.
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Or go to a pub and go. There's a vibe in this room.
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I need to get out. Yeah.
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Or you go to a house party and you think.
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Well, I. Think they may be single.
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And I think that these two over there, they're on a first date,
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You just pick up these things, but you can't quite rationalize
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it. And this year is an area which
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really fascinates me. That's one of my favorite areas
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in relation to fear and fear that holds us back.
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There's so many routines that we have in our lives and so many
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ways that we deal with, with problems with situations and
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people, often down to our fear response.
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That's been ingrained in us as a fear response that worked on a
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previous time. So each time it repeats that
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pattern for survival. And that's what I'm going to be
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looking into the fear trap, why we can get trapped ourselves in
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fear and how it can spiral out of control.
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That's what my what I like to work with people on, getting out
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of their own head, getting the feared out of the way and live.
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More so. That's going to be this year.
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Well, I'm looking forward to it. I'll, I'm going to be there, you
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know, so I'll, I'll definitely check out your, your
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presentation. Then tell us about the Wolf
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mindset because I've been a member of your group for a few
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years now. I think it's a very empowering
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group, but you know, people might be fascinated by the name
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Wolf mindset. Tell us a bit about what it's
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all about, what the name represents, and what it
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includes. It just came about after doing
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one-on-one hypnotherapy for years.
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I was seeing people with trauma anxiety and after helping them
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get through that, they they then lived there what they.
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Would they would call? Sort of.
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A baseline life. They had all the aspiration and
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dreams, but they wouldn't live. They wouldn't.
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Go. They wouldn't push themselves
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out of the comfort zone beyond what we just worked on.
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So on follow-ups, it'd be frustrating.
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Yes, the trauma had gone. Yes, the anxieties had been had
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been sorted and I was obviously really proud about that and
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really proud of them for the work they've done.
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But on follow-ups they they wouldn't then go further outside
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their comfort zone. There wasn't living.
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It was 2022 that I was in bed and I had this image in my head.
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This logo just came to me. It was, it was a few days before
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Christmas, so I couldn't shift this idea.
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It was this wolf logo. And then then that evolved
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within by the by the next full moon, which was strange enough,
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a wolf moon. In January, Wolf Mindset was
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born. It was created for therapists
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who had dealt with clients who had, who had help with anxiety,
20:24
who would help with the things that were holding about the
20:26
blocks, who wanted to live more, who wanted to get themselves
20:29
further out the comfort. Zone and that then.
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Spiraled this this, this group, this wonderful group that we
20:36
got. And the reason why I've gone for
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wolves is because it's that pack mentality.
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Loneliness is a big. Thing which really which?
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Really doesn't help with people. Loneliness is one of the is not
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talked about often enough. I don't.
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Think in the world. Loneliness can really make
20:52
people spiral downward not having support, and some people
20:58
have struggled to get their support because they're too
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friendly with people that wear too many masks.
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They can't be themselves for a variety of reasons.
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So Wolf Mindset was born and I started creating courses on
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anxiety, on hypnosis, on self esteem, and I started creating
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all the things which hold people back.
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And that's what was what start growing this amazing community.
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We all look after each other, this Wolf Pack where it doesn't
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matter how strong you are, you're helping those at the
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back. If you're at the back, you're
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helped along to the front. And it's that community feel and
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I love talking. About it I.
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It's something I'm very proud of.
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We've worked great and we try to make it fun.
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It's we try to make it so that we go out to different places
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and do some great things as well, pushing ourselves out of
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our comfort zone. So that is a snippet of it,
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Adam. Absolutely.
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And and as someone that's been in the Wolfpack, I can, I can
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highly recommend it. You know, things like, yeah,
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crazy runs in countryside, swimming in rivers and, you
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know, fun activities in the, in the Wild West and, and that kind
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of stuff. It's it's great.
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There is going to be a link. So if you click the link in the
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description, you'll see my link tree.
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And on that link tree is the landing page for Wolf mindset.
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So if you are curious of learning more about the wolf
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mindset, do check out that link. It's Ian's groupie and it's the
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wolf leader. So definitely check that out.
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Liam, you're going to do a hypnotherapy experience for us,
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so over to you. Absolutely.
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Thank you very much, Adam. And if you do come along to the
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Wolf Mindset group, we call ourselves a Wolf Pack.
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You will be looked after. And you'll join a group from.
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People around the world, we'd love to have you there.
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So thank you for having me, Adam, and everybody who's
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listening. We're going to do a short
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hypnosis session, something that I discovered, the first thing
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that helped me discover and understand hypnosis.
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Was that? It is a state of focused
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imagination. You will be aware of what's
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going on, you will feel often quite relaxed, but you often
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won't drift off into another world unless that's where you
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want to go. But for this to work, you just
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need to sit comfortably, have yourself with your back against
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a nice cushioned. Rest with your feet.
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Flat on the floor. What I'd like you to do before
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you close your eyes. Is just.
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To take a deep breath and. When you're ready to breathe
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out. I want you just to notice these
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are. Sensations in your body.
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And when you allow yourself. Now to get your breathing into
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that nice rhythmic. State, I'm going to ask you.
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To lift up your. Arm but.
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Bend it so that. Your hand is.
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Flat with your palm. Facing the floor.
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And so that your palm is fairly close to your chest, lower your.
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Hand so it's just above your navel and hold it there for a
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moment. Have.
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A Look at your hand and notice where it is.
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And then when you're. Ready to take part?
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In this hypnosis session and allow it yourself to go into
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your deep imagination, close your eyes and begin to take
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yourself there now. As you rest your head
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comfortably at the. Place where it is now.
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Now allow yourself to focus on your feeling of your arm, where
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it is, and imagine, just imagine that you have on your arms
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string anywhere that you want it tied, tied to your fingertips
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along your arms all the way up to your elbow.
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If you'd like to, you can have that string tie going up your
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arm. As you look closely, you now see
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the string is becoming attached to a balloon.
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Each string attached to its own balloon.
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Those balloons can look, feel like anything you want them to
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be, but they're magical balloons, wonderful balloons.
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I'd like you to allow yourself to find any stresses and strains
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of the day, any of your anxieties or uncomfortable
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feelings that you may notice or find in your body.
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You allow yourself to imagine those feelings that no longer
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serve you or that you no longer need moves along to the arm,
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however you want it to see, feel or even hear.
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Allow those feelings, those emotions, those images or those
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thoughts that no longer serve you or that you no longer need
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to hold. Move up the string and into the
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balloons. And as they do, notice now the
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pull, the rise, potentially ever so gently or Even so strong.
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Now notice how with your eyes closed, it's feeling in your
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mind's eye, noticing those balloons pulling that arm higher
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and higher. It's almost like those balloons
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want to escape. The more things you find, the
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light the balloons get, the more it pulls your arm higher and
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higher and higher. Now, as you begin to find that
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your unconscious mind, that a wonderful imagination, the part
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that really knows things deeply about you that perhaps you
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didn't even think about, is finding things that no longer
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serve you any uncomfortable anxieties, stresses and strains.
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Any pains that no longer need to be alerting you again, like
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steam as it disintegrates, moving up your body or down from
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your mind into that shoulder into the arm, pulling those
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balloons higher and higher. Now notice how your arm feels
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lighter and lighter as the balloons pull it higher and
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higher. Notice when you breathe in.
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If you take a nice deep breath in, you'll feel those balloons
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get a bolt of energy pulling it even higher with every breath
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that. You take.
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As you sit there now, when you're ready, and only when
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you're ready should you wish to. Hypnosis is not a state of
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needing to have our eyelids closed.
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You may open up your eyes to see how high your arm has now
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become. Now you may notice it's just a
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few centimeters, but it has shown your unconscious mind is a
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wonderful, amazing part of you. It may have.
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Moved a few. Feet but just close your eyes
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once you've seen if you. Wish to do so.
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And drift down 10 times deeper into this state than you were
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just a moment ago. Now, when you're ready and only
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when you're ready, when you feels all of it has gone from
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your body. Checking your chest, your
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stomach, your mind, your heart. Once it's all in those balloons,
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when you're ready and only when you're ready, you can allow
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yourself. You can allow those strings.
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You can allow your imaginations to let go.
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Let those strings go. As you do so.
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Notice the weight of your hand begin to drift down towards your
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lap. Only the rate and speed it takes
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for your. Confidence to rise?
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For you to start feeling wonderful about who you are,
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what you've achieved in your life.
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And all the positive. Aspects that you have within
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your life. Notice that sense of gratitude,
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sense of love for yourself that you should have, and when you're
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ready, and only when you're ready, when you've done enough
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for today. Taking that last look up at the
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balloon. Drifting further and further.
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Away knowing that they're no longer within your life, that
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are not needed. You can see them floating away,
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or you can feel them drifting further from you, making you
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feel lighter and you know they're gone.
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You can come back around in the room.
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Take as long as you need. What's a lovely little hypnosis
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experience there, Ian? That's OK.
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Yeah, off, off on the fly as well, Adam.
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On the fly, absolutely. I like that it's, you know, I
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think a lot of hypnotists use that kind of, you know,
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sometimes book in one arm and the balloon in the other as a,
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as a kind of a, a deepener, A convincer or an induction.
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Like it does so many things. But I like, I've never actually
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thought of putting, let's say, disempowering emotions into the
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balloon and having the balloon floats away.
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I think it's a nice touch there to kind of create a level of
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disassociation from disempowering resource states.
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I think it's a very nice. So for people listening right
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now, Ian, if they want to learn more about you, your hypnosis,
31:37
wolf mindset, what's the best way they can learn more about
31:39
you? They could pop on along.
31:44
Well the best thing for them to do would probably be click on
31:46
the link in your link link tree. There's that's the landing page
31:50
that I have to find out more. I've also got a website.
31:53
Which is wolf. Dashmindset.com come along and
31:58
have a have a little look. I'm also on most social media
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sites as Wolf Mindset too. I'm on TikTok.
32:06
You'll have to see me out. I am one of the dancers and the
32:09
the strange ones. People don't mind saying, I
32:12
don't mind saying it myself and I don't fully agree.
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I'm a little bit crazy, but that's a good thing.
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I like to to be myself and that is a little bit off the charts
32:23
sometimes. Absolutely in in a wonderful
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way, Ian. It's been great to catch up.
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Great to have you on the show and we've we've kind of delayed
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this way too long. It should have happened months
32:33
ago, but we've we've made it happen.
32:36
Thank you so much for joining me on The Hypnotist and to everyone
32:39
at home, thanks for joining me and we'll see you soon.
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