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A Q&A with Ashley I! · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: Hey guys, welcome to the Almost Famous podcast. While Ben
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  Speaker 2: is away this week, we thought it would be kind
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  Speaker 2: of fun for me to do a little Q and
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  Speaker 2: A has some girl talk with you. We got these
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  Speaker 2: questions from our social media the other day, and apparently
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  Speaker 2: he wanted to know these things for me. So I'm
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  Speaker 2: here with Heather. She's gonna be my little sidekick because
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  Speaker 2: I can't talk to myself like Ben kat. You know,
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  Speaker 2: when we have breaking news and I can't get on,
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  Speaker 2: Ben can come here and just he can have a whole,
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  Speaker 2: full blown, twenty minute conversation to himself and I feel
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  Speaker 2: awkward af doing that. So I am here to talk
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  Speaker 2: you know, a little plastic surgery or whatever it is
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  Speaker 2: with Heather because we know that that's topic that we
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  Speaker 2: like to talk about.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, we should have looked for some plastic
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  Speaker 3: surgery questions. I actually don't think those are in here.
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  Speaker 3: But have you had plastic surgery?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so I've never had plastic surgery, you know how
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  Speaker 2: Kendall Jenner says that she's never had plastic surgery.
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  Speaker 4: Don't get me started.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, should we get started. I think Kendall, I understand
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  Speaker 2: what she's saying about her nose though. So my sister
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  Speaker 2: had a nose job, my aunt had a nose job,
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  Speaker 2: and my grandmother had a nose job, and then my
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  Speaker 2: other grandmo, well, she did not want to have a
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  Speaker 2: nose job. But let's just say she doesn't have a
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  Speaker 2: tiny nose. And she she's alive and one hundred and
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  Speaker 2: two almost three m But my nose is natural. The
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  Speaker 2: Kendall says that hers got smaller with accutane, and I
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  Speaker 2: also think that my nose has gotten so much smaller
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  Speaker 2: with age. You go and look at my nose, especially
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  Speaker 2: when I'd smile in high school and college, it was
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  Speaker 2: so much wider. And now I'm wondering is it just
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  Speaker 2: acne medication in general? Because if it's if if she's
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  Speaker 2: not lying, which I really don't fully believe, but if
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  Speaker 2: she's not lying and it is acutane, it my nose
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  Speaker 2: got smaller once I started spron a lactone at twenty four.
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  Speaker 4: Interesting, yeah, for my acne.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I was on acne medication in high school.
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  Speaker 2: I was not on act but not like cyclin Like
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  Speaker 2: what are you talking about? Like no, I.
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  Speaker 4: Took oral medication. I took yeah, like cyclone. Probably it
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  Speaker 4: was red pills.
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  Speaker 3: I remember they were red capsules and they were large,
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  Speaker 3: And I can say that my nose did not shrink
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  Speaker 3: on those.
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  Speaker 2: You what under the knife for your nose? I did, Yes,
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  Speaker 2: if you're willing to.
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  Speaker 4: Share, yeah, of course, I don't care. Yes, I did.
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  Speaker 3: I have seen the Kendall Jenner pictures and I don't
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  Speaker 3: believe them. I think if I think she's talking on
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  Speaker 3: a technicality, I think that she's had work and reshaping
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  Speaker 3: refinement done to her nose, but she's not had a
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  Speaker 3: quote unquote typical rhino plasty. I think she's like trying
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  Speaker 3: to do a little loophole thing for us, where like
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  Speaker 3: I didn't have my nose broken, well neither did I,
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  Speaker 3: and I had a nose job, so you can have
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  Speaker 3: it still categorized as a rhinoplasty though any sort of
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  Speaker 3: surgical procedure to the nose that you don't have to.
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  Speaker 3: I think people have this false notion that you have
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  Speaker 3: to have your nose broken in order to get a
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  Speaker 3: nose job, and that's not the case.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, all right, And.
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  Speaker 3: She's also had her lips done like I don't know
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  Speaker 3: what she's talking about. That's what.
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  Speaker 2: That's what, Kendall. What really pisses me off, Kendal is
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  Speaker 2: that you in old episodes of the Kardashians made fun
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  Speaker 2: of Kylie for her lips. You're like, you don't have
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  Speaker 2: to do that to feel beautiful. You're beautiful the way
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  Speaker 2: you are. And it was like her whole soap box.
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  Speaker 2: And then she goes and she injects your lips a
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  Speaker 2: ton and it looks freaking great.
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  Speaker 4: It's fun.
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  Speaker 2: But just and yeah, like is it plastic surgery. No,
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  Speaker 2: But in the conversation, yeah, it's in the Yeah, in
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  Speaker 2: the conversation of aesthetics going in and getting something injected
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  Speaker 2: in your face, you should bring it up. Be like,
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  Speaker 2: you know what, I had baby botox as she said
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  Speaker 2: that she's had baby botox, and I have lip injections. Boom.
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  Speaker 2: That's it. Then then everybody loves you.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. I think there's more too.
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  Speaker 2: We won't focus on the nose.
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  Speaker 4: But back to you, what have you had done?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so, nothing under the knife, nothing to go to
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  Speaker 2: sleep with or anything like that. I've never been under
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  Speaker 2: anesthesia and I am the daughter of an anttyesiologist and
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  Speaker 2: it freaks me out. Like that's what scares me the
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  Speaker 2: most about surgery is that you go to some weird
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  Speaker 2: layer or your belief like that.
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  Speaker 4: That gave me anxiety.
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  Speaker 3: I would say literally right before I went in, like yeah,
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  Speaker 3: whole week whatever leading up to it, I was like
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  Speaker 3: really excited, mourning of I was excited, and I'd say,
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  Speaker 3: like an hour out, that is where the anxiety came from.
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  Speaker 4: But it was fine. Yeah, have you ever been under
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  Speaker 4: local anesthesia and woken up?
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  Speaker 2: No? Like, even when I got my wisdom teeth out,
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  Speaker 2: my dad didn't want me to go under because he
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  Speaker 2: didn't want a dentist doing the anesthesia. So they numbed
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  Speaker 2: me and they gave me laughing gas. And it was
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  Speaker 2: my first time with lefing gas. And I listened to
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  Speaker 2: justin Timberlake as another thing we could bond over future
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  Speaker 2: so love sounds, and I said, I'm gonna begin beginning
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  Speaker 2: to end on laughing gas guy like seven thirty in
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  Speaker 2: the morning, and I'm like super tired. I like saw
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  Speaker 2: a circus in whatever high state that I was in,
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  Speaker 2: because I've never like it was like I was front
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  Speaker 2: at the show, but like I'm in the show. I
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  Speaker 2: was like in the show. It was very interesting. So
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  Speaker 2: have you woken up wonder what.
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  Speaker 4: Do you wisdom teeth?
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  Speaker 3: I went under local anesthesia, and I have a memory
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  Speaker 3: of cause you're I want to say, I was like
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  Speaker 3: semi sitting up like the I wasn't like laying down
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  Speaker 3: in the chair. And I have a memory of my
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  Speaker 3: head coming up, opening my eyes, my surgeon, my oral surgeon,
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  Speaker 3: looking at me and me saying I'm aware, me saying
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  Speaker 3: I'm awake, and him going you're awake, and then going
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  Speaker 3: back to sleep.
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  Speaker 2: That's curious.
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  Speaker 3: That's the memory I have, is like waking up looking
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  Speaker 3: at him being like I'm awake, and then.
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  Speaker 4: Him saying it back to me and going back to sleep.
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  Speaker 2: That's so.
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  Speaker 4: I also after that experience.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know your dad has probably told you about this,
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  Speaker 3: but the things that happen after you come out of anesthesia.
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  Speaker 3: So during that specific one, I actually burst into tears.
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  Speaker 4: I actually like when I came out.
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  Speaker 3: And I had no idea that that's normal, just absolutely sobbing.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so normal, not fun.
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  Speaker 3: And then when I had cosmetic surgery, I had a
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  Speaker 3: lot of nausea and I ended up throwing up within
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  Speaker 3: an hour out of coming out of Fantasy Shock, which
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  Speaker 3: was not.
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  Speaker 2: Fun, incredibly common.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, But back to you.
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  Speaker 2: So what have I done? So I get my lips
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  Speaker 2: injected about once a year. I get get for eleven years,
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  Speaker 2: so it's been I like the kiss se right is it?
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  Speaker 2: Is it radiance?
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  Speaker 4: What is the wrestling?
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  Speaker 2: JUPI drum brand? It's wrestling, julid yeah brand, No, it's wrestling, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: And I love wrestling. They did a partnership with me
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  Speaker 2: and that was awesome, and I've also done I don't
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  Speaker 2: ju dam champ anyway. So that's it's like been one
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  Speaker 2: once a year, once every other year for the past
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  Speaker 2: eleven years. I got for the first time going into
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  Speaker 2: Bachelor in Paradise too, and then I really last a
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  Speaker 2: long time. I think my foreheads kind of trained at
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  Speaker 2: this point. So it's really like every five months I
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  Speaker 2: do boatox and then once a year I'll do the
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  Speaker 2: botox in my master muscles, my jaw.
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  Speaker 4: Did I tell you I just did that?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? No, do you like it?
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  Speaker 3: No, I'm not going to do it again. Just did
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  Speaker 3: it for the first time. I have found I don't
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  Speaker 3: see a result that I thought I was going to see.
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  Speaker 4: And second of long hasn't been at least two months now.
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  Speaker 3: At this point, I didn't realize how hard it was
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  Speaker 3: going to be to two after that.
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  Speaker 4: That's have you? Did you not experience that?
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  Speaker 2: No, maybe your jaw muscle was not strong enough to
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  Speaker 2: be actual to do it.
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  Speaker 3: No, it actually has like restricted and made like I think,
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  Speaker 3: I like ate a handful of nuts or something, and
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I can't eat any nuts right now.
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  Speaker 3: This is actually like taking a lot lot of energy
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  Speaker 3: to like chew my gosh.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so I won't be doing that again.
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  Speaker 2: You got too much. And I bet you your jaw
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  Speaker 2: wasn't too strong enough. Wasn't like that muscle wasn't strong
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  Speaker 2: enough to actually need to inject. So when I just
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  Speaker 2: don't reject on the jaw.
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  Speaker 3: I wanted a more defined jawline. That's why I did it.
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  Speaker 2: No, girl, that's how it works. It's not no you
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  Speaker 2: need you need to feel that that makes your jaw
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  Speaker 2: less defined, Yes, it makes it less defined, but it
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  Speaker 2: changes your shape. So for me, I go from having
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  Speaker 2: a square face to more of a heart shape face
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  Speaker 2: when I have the massive botox. Because see normally like
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  Speaker 2: after a year, it's been almost a year, my temple.
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  Speaker 2: Well right at the top of my cheekbone line up
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  Speaker 2: with my jaw muscle right here, so it'll be a
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  Speaker 2: straight line when I get the talks. This jaw muscle
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  Speaker 2: comes in a little bit, so it makes more of
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  Speaker 2: a feminine shape. Face. Does that make sense? And then
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  Speaker 2: sometimes because this is what's sucky about it, because it
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  Speaker 2: actually decreases the size of.
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  Speaker 4: Your jawline, the jowls.
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  Speaker 2: You might even get a little saggy, so you get jaws.
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  Speaker 2: So then my girl, which I know it's dumb, You're like,
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  Speaker 2: why would you do one and have to do the other?
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  Speaker 2: Then she fills in here to tighten up the line here,
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  Speaker 2: to make this it look really more reminant.
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  Speaker 4: No, you have a very snatched jawline.
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  Speaker 2: Very thanks, thank you. So I do that. And then
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  Speaker 2: the other thing that I love is chin filler, which
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  Speaker 2: I've been doing for like seven years too, so just
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  Speaker 2: a little bit that's more fuminization thing, just to like that.
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  Speaker 2: So that's what I consistently do. I've dabbled with some
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  Speaker 2: other things, like sometimes there's like a drop of something
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  Speaker 2: in my cheek, but for the most part, I'm not
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  Speaker 2: like a big fan of having filler in the apple
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  Speaker 2: of the cheek. I think that is not a good
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  Speaker 2: place for anybody, like under fifty. I've had my underreyes
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  Speaker 2: filled before, but it's been almost it's been quite Has
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  Speaker 2: it been quite some time or was it recently? I
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  Speaker 2: just let my girl kind of go ham. She may
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  Speaker 2: have done it recently, So that's like to make sure
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  Speaker 2: that you don't have any like indentation. For me, I
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  Speaker 2: don't get the puff under the eye, but I will
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  Speaker 2: get like a little bit of a scoop. Does that
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  Speaker 2: make sense?
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  Speaker 3: Under eye scares me just because I've heard I've heard
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  Speaker 3: so much about the migration in that area being you
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  Speaker 3: have to like so many doctors or injectors just like
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  Speaker 3: aren't like well versed enough in the eye area. I
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  Speaker 3: think if I were to do under eye, I would
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  Speaker 3: more likely do fat injection than filler.
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  Speaker 2: Smart.
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  Speaker 3: I think that that ends up looking the most natural
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  Speaker 3: you can see. I also tried disport for the first
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  Speaker 3: time last time I was in and I don't I
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  Speaker 3: don't like it.
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  Speaker 4: I think I will go back.
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  Speaker 3: I've always used botox, and you can see I think
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  Speaker 3: the botox was still good, but like she didn't put
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  Speaker 3: any like in my elevens and that's the only place
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  Speaker 3: I get my stuff, and so the master was like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: first time that was me trying something new, and then
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  Speaker 3: I've nobody cares.
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  Speaker 4: But I've gotten filler.
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  Speaker 3: In my cheeks in the past, but probably haven't done
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  Speaker 3: that now in over three years because I didn't see
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  Speaker 3: crazy results and the price just wasn't making sense for
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  Speaker 3: me to where I was like, I might have to
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  Speaker 3: look into something more serious because I just can't be
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  Speaker 3: justifying seven hundred dollars every six months exactly. That's why
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  Speaker 3: I was like, this doesn't make sense. The botox makes
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  Speaker 3: sense though, because I just see.
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  Speaker 2: Kind of makes me feel good with makeup on because
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  Speaker 2: then nothing increases.
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  Speaker 3: I just see great results and so quickly. If you
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  Speaker 3: like in jacktions, look into them. If you don't like them,
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  Speaker 3: that's fine, don't come for us to each their own.
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  Speaker 2: My biggest advice though, is to be very careful with
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  Speaker 2: cheek filler in the apple. That is my biggest is
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  Speaker 2: that's a place that gets wrong a lot, and you
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  Speaker 2: get like you're saying under eye as well.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so first one is from Alyssa. She says, in
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  Speaker 3: what order do you do these things? Hair, makeup, outfit, so.
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  Speaker 2: Usually make up, hair, outfit. I will sometimes do hair
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  Speaker 2: first just to let like some skincare products absorb, So
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  Speaker 2: if I'm doing my process and I'm layering, sometimes if
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  Speaker 2: I don't have like a lot of time, I will
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  Speaker 2: be doing my hair while letting the absorption have And
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  Speaker 2: what's yours?
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  Speaker 3: Not that anybody cares, but it would be It would
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  Speaker 3: be makeup first because you never want to get it
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  Speaker 3: on your clothes that you're wearing.
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  Speaker 4: And then.
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  Speaker 3: Usually if my hair is like dry, then I would
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  Speaker 3: get dressed. But if it's not dry, I would dry it,
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  Speaker 3: get dressed, and then I would style because the thing
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  Speaker 3: that I can't stand the most is doing my hair
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  Speaker 3: and then having to put clothes.
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  Speaker 4: On over it and possibly messing it up. So that's
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  Speaker 4: why the good to know though. Okay, so this.
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  Speaker 3: Is from I am Kylie Morrison. They said what was
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  Speaker 3: your favorite group day on The Bachelor Season nineteen? And
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  Speaker 3: after party night?
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  Speaker 2: So when I read this initially, I was like, why
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  Speaker 2: do I only remember one? After party night? I think
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  Speaker 2: I only had one?
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  Speaker 4: Don't they usually happen after greup dates?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? So my first group date was the tractor race
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  Speaker 2: and there wasn't an after party because he chose Mackenzie
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  Speaker 2: to have like a one on one time with and
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  Speaker 2: then the after party I remember the most was when
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  Speaker 2: we went down the Santa Fe River like the Santa
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  Speaker 2: Fe and that night I was like being a sassy bitch,
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  Speaker 2: and that's the one that I remember the most, where
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  Speaker 2: I basically was just like, guys, I don't understand why
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  Speaker 2: we're trying. I basically said, why are we trying to
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  Speaker 2: be so nice to each other? I was like, why
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  Speaker 2: are we all happy for one another? He when somebody
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  Speaker 2: else gets the rose. I was kind of telling everybody
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  Speaker 2: they were being fake because I was like, why are
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  Speaker 2: we all so congratulatory when somebody gets the rose? At
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  Speaker 2: this point, like weeks ago, okay, it made sense, like whatever,
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  Speaker 2: he's getting to know all of us. But today we're
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  Speaker 2: all fighting for that rose and we're all jealous of her.
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  Speaker 2: Let's just admit we're jealous.
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  Speaker 3: That seems so out of left field now of you
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  Speaker 3: to like say something. I know.
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  Speaker 2: I'm telling you. I was desperado back in the days
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  Speaker 2: of being single. I was just like, I must be loved.
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  Speaker 4: I was just jealous. You weren't there to make friends.
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  Speaker 2: I was there to make friends, but like I just
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  Speaker 2: couldn't deal with the celebration that was the rose ceremony,
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  Speaker 2: Like was somebody else getting a rose and pretending I
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  Speaker 2: was supposed to be happy?
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  Speaker 3: I just yeah, I can't imagine somebody coming back from
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  Speaker 3: a one on one date and being like, tell me
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  Speaker 3: about kissing him, tell me about da da da, when
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  Speaker 3: it's like i'd want him, you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 3: Like I get that, I get that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, And then oh I didn't have a I
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  Speaker 2: never had. That's why I never had a true afterpart.
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  Speaker 2: Besides that one, no wonder why it's the most the
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  Speaker 2: one that I only remember. There was one week where
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  Speaker 2: I didn't even have a one. I didn't have a date.
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  Speaker 2: I was one of those like three girls that week
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  Speaker 2: that just didn't have a date.
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  Speaker 4: What do you do in that situation when you when
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  Speaker 4: you don't have a date.
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  Speaker 2: I think I was in stressed.
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  Speaker 4: Do you guys just sit back at the house and.
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  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you just tan and eat and it's.
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  Speaker 3: Great, Oh interesting, okay date More fifty seven asks is
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  Speaker 3: Ashley going to change her last name to Hayben?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know yet. It's such a thing, especially like
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  Speaker 2: when like the house and the cars are like in
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  Speaker 2: that name, and then it's just like everything is in
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: like insurances and stuff, big accounts. It's like just sounds
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  Speaker 2: like why do I have to do that officially when
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: I can just tack it on usually?
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  Speaker 3: Right? Can I say that your Wikipedia page as you
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  Speaker 3: listed as Ashley I keneddi Hyben Oh really?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Like I have it on my Instagram too, Like
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  Speaker 2: obviously I'm very attached to my eye. I can't imagine
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  Speaker 2: actually eliminating the eye part of my last name. I
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  Speaker 2: ken Eddie just sounds nicer than Hamn. People actually thought
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: so hard for Jared, like how could you change your name?
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: I'm like I I am Ashley con Eddie Han in
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: so many ways. I just don't know that I have
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: to change it and go through that process. It's just
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: another job that I just don't know if I can undertake.
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't understand that important to me now.
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: For to be like actually in writing, some women make
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: their maiden name their middle name and then take on
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: it would.
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: Be it would be like, there's no way, but I
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: would make it Ashley Nicole Iken Eddi Habn. I couldn't.
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: You wouldn't drop a name you wouldn't drop the middle name.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: No, no, and like, I don't want to say that
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: it's not as important it's important to me. I just
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: feel like, of course it's important to me, but I don't.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: It's like our family name, but I just don't know
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: of having to do it legally is important to me.
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, I get it.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: And it also that's a very long last name when
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: you take on both, so I get it. Sacred Moon
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: Healing Light asks why did you decide to be a
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: brovo girly?
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, when the opportunity comes, say yes. I'm
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: a I'm kind of a yes person. I probably maybe
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: say yes too much. This was not one of the cases.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: I'm glad that I obviously said yes here, but it
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: simply puts I would rather say yes to an opportunity
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: and then later say no, I'm over it, than to
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: say no and then always wonder what if I try
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: to eliminate all the what ifs in my life.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: I really like that. That kind of goes into the
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: next question I guess from Dana. They say, do you
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: have any regrets?
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: Honestly, I do not. I mean, I don't have any
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: regrets that keep me up at night. Do I have
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: I said stupid things that I wish were particularly like
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: not on TV? Yeah, but I don't really like.
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: I'm interested. This is a question for me.
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: Uh, are you the kind of person to get embarrassed easily?
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: No?
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: Obviously, No, that's that's what I thought you were going
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: to say, Like you, you don't seem like a person
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: who there's people out there right who when they lay
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: their head down at night, the.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: Loop just goes of all the things that they did. Yeah.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she has to keep the TV on so that
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: she doesn't think about those things.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Interesting, I have always been, are you?
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: No?
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: I think I've always been on the more shy and
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: reserve side for most of my life. But there's very
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: little times I've actually ever been embarrassed by things that
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: I've either done or said. And I like, I'll leave
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: like conversations and walk away and I will not stress
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: or think about anything that I said in that day.
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: I don't know if I sit around thinking a lot
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: about what other people think about me, just in general,
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: I don't. I kind of just like I really don't
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: care and nice again, have I said things probably in
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: passing that I've been like, oh, probably could have said
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: that better, maybe nicer.
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: Sure.
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: I think I'm also quick though, to acknowledge if something
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: isn't like.
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: How I would usually say.
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: Something like I have a memory of one time, you know,
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: working with somebody and being like the day after being like,
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: you know, what I said yesterday was actually not nice
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: and wasn't indicative of like, you know, how I actually feel,
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: and so I apologize for that and moving forward, I'm
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: gonna try and do better too. Yeah, that's the kind
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: of stuff that will eat me up if I say
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: something that I know is out of character for me,
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: or like a little bit snippy or could have.
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: Been interpreted as snippy.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: That's the kind of stuff where I'm like, I'm gonna
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: come back on that, but embarrassed. I actually don't get
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: embarrassed that often or ever.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I really don't get embarrassed often. It would usually
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: just be with guy stuff back then.
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, now I don't care because I don't have any
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: guy stuff going on at aadill dot F zero seven
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: eight six asks how did it feel after you and
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: Jared fell in love? Considering you broke up twice on
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: Bachelor in Paradise.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: I'm assuming that she's alluding to the fact that like
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: were you worried, Were you ever nervous?
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like did you ever think back like on that
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: of like, oh we've broken up before, like it could
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: happen again.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: No, I'd say that we never really were together and
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: therefore we never really broke up. So when we were
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: actually together, I never had I mean, it was straight
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: to marriage, like we both knew it. And that was
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: one of the reasons that Jared kind of always was
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: tiptoeing and noncommittal because he kind of knew all along
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: that if we were going to be together, we would
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: be married, like we would have to, like it wouldn't
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: be like we're dating. It's like we were dating with
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: very much intention. So Yeah, I never did worry. It
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: felt very good and very comfortable and very happy. And No,
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: I never had any worries.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: I love that at I do two eight four asks
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: will we see anyone from Bachelor and should make a
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: cameo on real housewise of Rhode Island.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope. So we're we're trying to figure that out.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: I would like to have someone there, but it would
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: it's it's an undertaking to kind of I feel bad.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: Part of me feels bad because it's just like, hey,
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: can you come here. It's like not going to be
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: like a great quality time experience or you will, it's
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: and it's kind of going to feel like work and
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: you want to come to, right, you know what I mean?
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: But like I know that I have some girls that
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: would be willing to do that, like as friend work,
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: do you know what I mean?
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: Like as like and we're talking you're talking about next season.
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: We're not talking about this season, if.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: There is even a next season, because we are talking
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: out of our butts right now. It's actually not been
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: like technically dreen led for a second six correct, we
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: just assume so it's great success.
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, another question from that same user, they said,
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: how do Dawson and Hayden like having the cameras around?
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: So Dawson and Hayden with that, you know, they were
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: one and three and a half when the cameras were around,
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: and they didn't act as if anything was like they
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: weren't phased by it, except it's weird because it's not
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: just a camera too, like you have a whole production
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: team in the house. Yeah, and they like were phased
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: by it. And I don't even know why. They did
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: their thing, and I wonder if we were to film again,
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: how Dawson would take to it, just because he does
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: have his times where he doesn't want to be on
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: camera and like he won't be on camera, you know,
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: it's like, hey, can you you want to say this
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: like or do that again? It was funny? Or can
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: I film that? And then he's like no, and I'm
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: like all right, So so we'll see if he's angsty
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: with it. And I don't ever want him to be
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: on camera if he doesn't feel like it. He's very
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: hit or miss with it. Sometimes he wants to play
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: the camera and sometimes he doesn't, which I think is
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: probably all us.
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: I bet they're just not phased by it, because you
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: guys aren't phased by it, you know what I mean,
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: Like you just act like business as usual when they're
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: around filming you, so they you just set the tone
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: like for your kids, they're just probably like okay, you know,
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: and just keep it moving. Plus, you guys are always
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: filming content and stuff in your own time for your jobs,
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: so it's just probably something that they're they're aware of,
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: like that this is what mommy and daddy do. Okay
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: From Haley. Some of the biggest celebrities are Bravo fans
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: since joining Housewives, Have any new celebs slid into your
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: DMS or started following you?
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Huh? Not sliding into the dms? Okay, start following me?
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't know. I guess I wouldn't see it.
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: Pull out to your phone.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: Right now, I'm going to go through some of the
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: biggest ones and let's see if they are following you.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: John Ham is a notorious Bravo fan.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: Oh god, he is not. Oh that's so ashally cool
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: because Friends and Neighbor is my show right now.
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: Literally, he is on Watch What Happens Live all the time.
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: He's a huge summer house fan. He does like Housewives
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: like he is very vocal about how much Bravo he watches.
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: It is not a secret.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: No, he does not follow up. Okay, so funny.
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: Jennifer Lawrence also a huge Housewives fan in general, Bravo fan.
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: She doesn't have social media, or if she does, she's
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: not the one using it, so that's not worth looking
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: at with who Jennifer Lawrence?
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: Does it make you.
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: Excited nervous when I tell you that these A listers
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: are like most likely watching you on the show.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: No, I think that's so cool.
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: But I'm trying to think of like other big name celebs.
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: There were, Oh, like Mila Kunez.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: I think Melis I've already like have a rapport with
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: I metried twice and she's super nice. And I mean
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: she's she's chatty, you know like what I mean, like
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: I don't say hi, nice to meet you, like move on,
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: like we've had like two conversations.
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: Is she following you on Instagram?
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: No? No, but she is a Goo Bravo girl. She's
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: anyone at zero she follows zero.
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: Okay, well fine, we won't. We won't hold that against her.
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: I'll think of some other names as we go.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: Oh it does say no, it says this is a
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: fanic Cata Mila Kunas Miilakunas has no social network.
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: Oh that makes sense.
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: At Megan Katie twenty three asks how was the transition
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: from one to two babies?
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: I'm so nervous.
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: Be nervous. It's so much harder. I don't know how.
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: So many people say, well, I think it's like a
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: fifty to fifty split. I had lots of people dming me,
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: don't be nervous. It's much easier going from zero from
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: one to two than it is from zero to one.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: I don't know, it's just a wild time in my house.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: Like every day of my life. I feel like I
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: have like over simulation central like I have. There's like
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: a lot of demands on me, like does that mean
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: does that make sense? Like it's like I have to
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: do that for Hayden, And I'm hearing mom being screamed,
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: being screamed by Dawson, and then there's just more more
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: invisible load a lot. It's just a lot, and like
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: I love it. It's wonderful. It's the best. And when you
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: see them like hugging and like calling each other best buddies,
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: it's the cutest thing the entire world. And I know
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: that this is like particularly a phase. I mean, have
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: almost two year old and a four year old is
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: like the thick of it. As they'll say, so, I
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: bet you if you come back to me at four
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: and six, I'll be like, oh, it's like good. But
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: I have all always found the tingu shin. It's harder.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: Obviously I'm not a parent, but I would say that
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: probably when they're both in school at the same time,
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: that'll also be really different.
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: Definitely definitely that you'll be like, yeah, this is amazing.
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: I drop them both off.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah when I say this, like and make a note
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: that it's like I also housewives became a thing like
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: before my son was even one, So it was just
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: like I've been going through a lot. So if it
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: were like I was just living my normal life, like
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: maybe I wouldn't think it was as hard of a
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: transition as it feels.
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that makes sense.
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: At Maria Love's Icon, dream Center asks what do you
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: love about Jared?
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: Well, literally everything, Like he's just quite something. He's just
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: as part he's as close to perfect as can be.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: He is like the most hands on dad. He is
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: a care or like he takes care of us very well.
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: For instance, the other day, like he goes to Audrey's,
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: he does something, he brings me home coffee, He lets
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: me sleep while he's making Dawson's lunch, wakes up Dawson,
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: takes care of like then like I'm up, and then
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: like I get Dawson like clothes or whatever. He takes
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: Dawson to school. He's just the and then he's out
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: mowing the lawn and then he's back at work and
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: then he's telling me something. It's just like the man
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: is NonStop and constantly being like productive for our family.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: And then he is just as sweet as you think
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: he is, Like he's he's also sassier than you think
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: he is. But he is just the most like well
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: character man, Like he has the best part and only
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: wants to do good. He hates hurting to the point of,
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: like I've said that, like he can't even watch the
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: show because like he feels bad that anybody would be
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: feeling bad.
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, another question from me, what is your love language
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: and what's Jared's love language.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: It's probably the most point of contention for us really,
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: Like if I were if you were to say, like,
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: what is like a disagreement in your marriage, it would
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: be our love language not being the same. But I
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: can't actually imagine it being the same. That would be
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: like maybe overload.
• 32:30
  Speaker 4: That would be weird.
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: I don't think a lot of people have the same
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: love languages as their partner.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm a touch person. I am the very
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: much touch person with like words of affirmation probably be
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: my second because I hadne like kind of picked too.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Jared is definitely.
• 32:48
  Speaker 4: A sounds like acts of service.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: He is an act of service as a number one
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: because he is always providing me with acts of service.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: So when I'm like, but you haven't like touched me,
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: like where is like a cute sexy touch? And then
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: he'll be like I just did all of this and
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, but babe, like that's wonderful. And I
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: accept that as being so wonderful, But I don't accept
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: that as being like love and romance.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: But I think there's two things here, right. That's how
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: he gives his love language. But what does he like
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: to receive? No, he likes to receive acts of service
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: as well.
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: Okay, okay, he likes to receive Okay.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: It's like he comes home and the house is clean
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: and like the dishes are done. He'll be like thank you.
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: That means like a ton to him. And then he
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: also likes quality time, like he likes going out on
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: to dinner and movie and then he but yeah, so
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: mine is like all touch and I'm just like that.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: And that's the funny thing is like sometimes like he
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: doesn't he doesn't love the lung languages. He's like blah
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: blah blah. I love like I guess blah blah blah.
• 33:59
  Speaker 4: I expect interesting.
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: I like that though that you. I like that you're
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: aware of it and that it's something that you guys discuss.
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: Even though you said it's a point of contention, I
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: think it's good that it's at least out there.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't say it's a point of contention where it's
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: talked about a lot. No, But if we're ever going
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: through like an annoying week or two, which it's been
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: a while, but you know how like every couple's going
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: to have their ebbs and flows. Whenever we're having like
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: an ebb, I be like, read this book The Five
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: Blog Languages.
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: Okay, Nicole.
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: Nicole Millway asks why another reality show?
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean it's kind of my job. You know,
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: it's kind of like I've gotten this, that's was my start.
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: If it weren't for that, I wouldn't have become an influencer.
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: So it's kind of symbiotic nature that is influencing in
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: reality TV. Going.
• 34:58
  Speaker 4: That's the truth.
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: But I think Ashley, you and I both know people
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: that are like one and done, like they just they
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: don't want to do it again, or they have such
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: negative experiences or you know what I mean.
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: I think for you, I.
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: Would say that reality TV has given you so much
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: obviously and in your life, your husband, your family.
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: So I think, I think, and I think that translates
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: how appreciative you are for all those things. And so
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: why would you turn your back on reality TV when
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: it's given you so much great stuff and you've had
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: clearly good experience?
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I am, I've had great experiences. That's one
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: of the reasons that I want to do it again. Fundamentally.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: Are there tough days, especially with housewives like being very argumentative, Yeah,
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: but like it's such a fun experience overall, and I
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: have everything to owe to it.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: So, and I'm forever grateful and I have a love
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: that always thinking like how this happen? How'd I fall
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: into this amazing, amazingness?
• 36:09
  Speaker 4: I know, and I think that translates.
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: When you're on camera, people people connect with you for
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: that reason. Bella asks what is your favorite alcoholic drink
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: and favorite drunk food.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: My favorite alcoholic drink is a mimosa. I'd like it
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: to be normal at all times of day. I just
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: feel like that's the drink that I can drink like
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: super like. I don't drink very often, but when I
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: do drink, I want to I do honestly want to
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: feel it. Okay, so with the mimosa, I can drink
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: it fast enough to feel it. Yeah, because it tastes
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: good to me. When I have a drink and I
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: don't like it that I'm just like gently sipping at it,
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: and then I'll never end up feeling it. Another thing
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: that I've noticed and wow, like eye blabber man, but
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: I really can't get drunk wall filming or at any
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: events when my brain is in like you're in some
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: sort of like work present yourself mode, I don't ever
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: let myself feel it. I probably also don't drink ever
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: fast enough to feel it in those environments.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: But that's good.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: So whenever people are like, oh my god, Ashley was
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: so drunk on this or like in that scene, I'm like,
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: absolutely I was not. I can tell you I was
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: drunk two scenes during Bachelor, and there were when I
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: was at my most relaxed, like I knew I was
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: getting a rose that night.
• 37:38
  Speaker 4: Okay, what about favorite drunk food?
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: Oh, you're a drunk food is just like anything for
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: the drive through obviously McDonald's most McDonald's. I mean, I
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: love all the drive throughs. I really do not discriminate
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: when it comes to fast food. Depends what I'm in
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: the mood for.
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: Have you seen the online TikTok discrimination with Arby's lately?
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: Okay, Arby's fries are the most undergrad fries of all
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: of them. It's a delicious franchise. There's just not many
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: of them. It used to be like my weekly meal
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: over in college.
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: Really, that's so funny.
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: No people are being like, watch me, watch me call
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: my office and tell them I'm buying them all Arby's.
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: And then they'll like tape themselves and then they'll everybody.
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: They'll be like, yeah, I'm so picking up Arby's. What
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: do you want? And they'll be like Arby's. There's like
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: a million of these videos online.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: That's so funny, absolutely hysterical. And I bet you if
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: these people actually bring Arby's to work, they're gonna say, Wow,
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: we've been sleeping on this.
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: I went to a school that did fast food as
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: like what you could buy at school.
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: I don't know if they did this.
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: They do this at all schools, so we would have
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: like Pizza Hut one day, Arby's another day, Subway another.
• 38:54
  Speaker 4: Day, Like what, yes, I.
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: Mean, this is what happens when you grow up in
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: Orange County exactly.
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: So when I was in junior high, Rby's was a
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: day of the week that you could buy cool. We
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: used to bring our lunch to school though, so it
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: didn't even matter. But okay, uh. Tamson underscore ten asks
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: do you feel out of place on the Housewives of
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: Rhode Island And their follow up question is Jared glad
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: that you're doing the show?
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, let me answer the Jared Glad thing. First,
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: Jared and I were both like very skeptical. He was
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: more skeptical than I was. He really could have had
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: it either way. He probably would have preferred not to,
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: you know. He was just like a little bit more
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: like on the fence. He was like, why should we
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: change our life which already wonderful? And then I was like, what,
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: the opportunity is so immense? Right? Yeah, And now I
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: think he's glad that I did it, and I think
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: that he's glad that I haven't gotten in any drama
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: or said anything really particularly stupid. Because there's one thing,
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: me saying it, and then there's like one thing like
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: watching it back and being like, oh, okay, she's doing
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: you know it's yeah, she's right, she was right. So
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: I think it's been relieving that there hasn't been any
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: drama around us if there was, Like he yeah, and
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: then do I feel out of place? I certainly do
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: to certain extent. Yeah, but I really feel like my
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: friend Rosie is feeling very out of place too, So
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: I feel like to some degree, everybody kind of probably
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: feels out of play. Maybe maybe not. I don't know.
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: It's a new group of people, Like, of course there's
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: going to be like some you know, I'm getting to
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: You're getting to know them, just as they're getting to
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: know you. And you know, some of these women clearly
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: have really long standing connections of high school or elementary
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: school or something, so of course you're it's natural to
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: feel a little bit out of place in those situations
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: when you're trying to break into a group that's, you know,
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: super connected.
• 41:10
  Speaker 4: I think anybody would understand that.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so yes, I do.
• 41:15
  Speaker 4: And how long have you been living in Rhode Island?
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: Remind me living around for five years?
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: So five years though, compared to some of these women
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: who have been there their entire lives. I mean it's
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: it's you're still you know in a lot of ways,
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: like learning and you know, I think that that's totally normal.
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: I actually want to know though, another question from me
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: the community of Rhode Island. What's it been like since
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: you've gone to the grocery store or like.
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: Just been out and about.
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: You know, are more people stopping you making comments? You know?
• 41:55
  Speaker 4: What's the line like at Audrey's lately?
• 41:58
  Speaker 5: Like mine at as unbelievable, it's to the door every day. Wow,
• 42:03
  Speaker 5: It's great, big Rhode Island for showing up like wow,
• 42:08
  Speaker 5: that is one of the biggest differences in our lives Audrey's.
• 42:13
  Speaker 5: Let's be clear, like, despite some of the stuff that
• 42:16
  Speaker 5: you see on the show, it's always been pretty busy.
• 42:21
  Speaker 5: It's always been successful.
• 42:23
  Speaker 4: It looks busy in the show.
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: Hasn't been financially worthwhile, you know what I mean. Like,
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: I think there's a little bit of a I wouldn't
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: say confusion because I don't know that's been presented so much.
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: You haven't seen enough to understand yet. But it's like
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: it's always done well, but it has been worth it
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: to us when we have another income stream is basically
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: the real question here because everybody it's got great reviews
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: and it's pretty busy. It's been pretty busy, but now
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: it's like slammed. It's like whoa, which is awesome. It's great.
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: And then I haven't necessarily noticed that I've been getting
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: more recognized in Rhode Island. Sometimes I do feel like
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: people make more eye contact with me everywhere that I go,
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: and they like slightly smile, like in an acknowledgement, And
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: I'm like, are they just smile smiling me or are
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: they just are they like kind of saying like I
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: know who you are with that smile. So that's been happening.
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: You haven't had people coming up and being like I'm
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: loving the show, Oh my gosh, you're so.
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: Yes, definitely okay, I was gonna say that's crazy. Yeah,
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: but not necessarily in Rhode Island. Like I just I
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: you know, I'm in Virginia right now. I was in Kentucky.
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: I've been like like kind of like everywhere I go. Yeah,
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: it's like a I love this, Like, yeah, it's so nice.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: Everybody's been super kind.
• 43:44
  Speaker 4: Literally my it's it's taken over my TikTok.
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: Feed you and I are on the State algorithm just.
• 43:50
  Speaker 4: How much people are loving the show.
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: And then I told you, you know, my sister and
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: I we are huge fans. And my sister and I
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: just like talking about the show other people telling me
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: how much they're loving it.
• 44:03
  Speaker 4: People on our team that you know, work, you know, and.
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: What we do is talk about housewives telling us how
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: much they love it. And so I just have not
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: seen the Bravo universe take to a cast as quickly
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: as when they did to salt Lake. And you know
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: that salt Lake has been like bumped up to my
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: favorite since New York went away a while ago.
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: So I think it's great. It's just it's been so
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: exciting to watch.
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, Bravo to my cast. They are they
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: are something to watch everybody.
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: It is a wonderful combination, wonderful setting to have it in.
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: It's like I want to go to Rhode Island. I've
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: never been there before. Like it's just a whole lightning
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: in a bottle situation that we have, which is amazing
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: as a viewer and a lover of the franchise. Okay,
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: your last question is from Steph who says, what's one
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: piece of advice you'd give to anyone thinking about going
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: into business with their spouse.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Well, that's hard because Jared and I like both quote
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: own Audrey's. But he is the like manager. He runs Audrey's,
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: you know, the owner and operator. I don't do a
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: single thing there. But you do promotion and decorating.
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: You know, as Gizzy, you do Instagram campaigns. It's not
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: like you together, it's not like you don't.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, that is where we actually work more together,
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: like on Instagram account. And I'd say that do something,
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: but have your two separate roles in it. You know,
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: Like Jared and Jared and I are really good when
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: it comes to making ads together. We're both very creative
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: and he has I have kind of like the gauge
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: on the audience, and then he has the eye of
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: a director producer. He has the movie I So together
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: we work really well on ads then and we go
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: to get excited about it. It's like something that like
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: when we have the time and the creative freedom, we
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: have a really good time with that.
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: But I think that's good advice, right if you're going
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: into business with your spouse.
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: Two different expertise under the same umbrella.
• 46:14
  Speaker 4: Or have two separate roles.
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: Right, So, if somebody is going to do the interior
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: design for the business, that means that that's that person's job.
• 46:23
  Speaker 3: The other spouse is going to maintain the finances or
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: the books or the hiring process. Like it doesn't mean
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: we meddle and we you know, cross lines and blur
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: it because that's what's important. Like you're saying about working
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: with your spouse is different than working with a business
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: partner or another employee or somebody you're not related to.
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: You have to maintain those separate boundaries because that's when
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: things aren't separate.
• 46:50
  Speaker 4: That's when you.
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: See businesses or marriages fail because of those blurred lines.
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: Anything else that you've learned about working with your spouse,
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: things that people maybe don't say or talk about.
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: To me, I think it's easier to work with your
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: spouse than it is to work with a friend, because
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: I think you're going to be on better behavior with
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: your friend. I feel like so comfortable with Jared that
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: like I don't love something, I'm going to say it,
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: and sometimes he wishes that I was actually more pleasant,
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: because sometimes he'll be like oh why do I Why
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: am I ever going to tell you that? Because just
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: just put it down? I go no, No, I didn't put
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: it down like that. I like put down that like
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: little section of it. Whereas a lot of times with
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: friends and affable enough with him to do that, and
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: with friends, I probably would just go along with their
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: idea because it wasn't necessarily going to affect my entire life.
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: But also I just wouldn't want to hurt their feelings.
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: And I'm a little bit more apt to hurt, not
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: hurt his feelings, but be critical in a way of like,
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: let's work together and get and make this perfect, versus
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: just like trying to appease.
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: Are you big picture and Jared's more detail oriented? Because
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: I think that that's also important when working together with anybody,
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: spouse or not spouse. Two people, I think in business
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: cannot both be finite get in on the detailed people.
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: Somebody's got to be able to pull back and be
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: a big picture person at times.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: That's the opposite.
• 48:25
  Speaker 4: I was wondering if that's something that you guys both are.
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: He is the big picture guy and I am the
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: detail oriented one. Like I will drive him crazy because
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: in doing, whether it's a video or even like decorating
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: the house. It's just I'm the one that's like, we
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: have to move that into or we have to shouldn't
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: we address this part and shouldn't that be there? And
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: then he's like, no, no, no, work with me here. Just
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: trust me, like when I put it all together, it's
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: going to look good or it's gonna make sense because
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: I will I will take so much longer with my
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: content and videos and cura. And he is just like no, no, no,
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: Like he says that there's certain directors that need like
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: a bajillion takes right, and then there are directors that
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: take like five takes and they're like one of them
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: will be good and they both have hit movies, you
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: know what I mean.
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: M h, Well, this has been fascinating for me. I
• 49:25
  Speaker 3: feel like I've gotten to know you on a completely.
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: Different level in depth peace signing.
• 49:30
  Speaker 4: No.
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: I mean, I think we have to do these more
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: regular I know that we I have to now I
• 49:35
  Speaker 3: have to do with one with Ben. I need to
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: know Ben on a different level because we've done ones
• 49:40
  Speaker 3: with you guys together. So if you've got more questions
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: for Ashley, please leave them in the comments send us
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: a DM. We will continue to do these kinds of
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: episodes because I find them fascinating and I think you
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: guys do too, So thanks Ashley for you know, being
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: under a microscope today.
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: O course so fun when I have, you know, a
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: Bravo expert. And I just think that because you're in casting,
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: like you understand personalities really well and that's always nice
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: to talk to.
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I mean, you are a casting person's
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: dream in so many ways, you know, and that's why
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: you are on the other side of the camera and
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: having continued success, and it's so much fun for me
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: to watch. So thanks for all of this. It's been fun,
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: and we'll do more of these in the future.
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: And until next time, I've been Ashley.
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: I've been Heather, Bye bye.
• 50:34
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• 50:37
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