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From the porch and talking about purpose! · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the Porch, I know you're not used to me
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  saying that it's always the chicken coop, but it is very
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  dark right now and raining really hard.
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  So, there's no way I'm going to get out there on time before I
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  actually start coaching today. So, I thought, you know what,
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  I'm going to shoot it from the porch, to make sure I can get
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  out there. You can hear the rooster off in
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  the distance, but it's definitely from the porch this
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  morning. So, today I want to talk to you
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  about Back that purpose is not always clear in our life.
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  So it's a big thing in the world of self development coaching to
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  talk about, you know, what's my purpose?
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  I want to be on purpose and we seek it out.
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  We talked about it, we want to feel fulfilled and sometimes
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  that need to feel fulfilled, drives us insane because we hear
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  what everybody else. Is telling us, we should be
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  feeling. You know, you should know we be
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  on purpose, you know, work for your purpose.
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  If you, if you are feeling, if you're doing what you love,
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  you'll feel fulfilled your whole life, and you'll never have to
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  feel like you're, you know, you're off.
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  Well, quite frankly, a lot of that is bullshit, you'll still
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  feel off. You'll still feel like you
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  question things. You know why?
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  Because you're human and that's what happens to us in our quest
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  to always be growing, which we really can't help.
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  That's part of how we are wired to just want to grow all the
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  time. So it pushes us to go out and
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  listen to what other people have to tell us.
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  Well, here's the interesting part of this, when you're
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  seeking that you better, make sure you understand where it's
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  coming from because a lot of people will push you in
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  directions that might not necessarily be true.
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  It might be where they are at that point in time and it's true
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  for them. But it might not be what's true
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  for you. So you have to always take it
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  with a grain of salt. That's why I often say.
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  Say in what I do with everybody, listen, I'm here to help you
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  have other thoughts, other perspectives.
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  But ultimately you choose what's right for you?
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  You don't have to believe anything.
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  I say. You can just get the information
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  and make decisions for yourself. And I think that's the safer way
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  for people to feel and understand that they're not
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  wrong. I mean, you're not always wrong
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  for how you feel. So when you're questioning your,
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  you're very purpose in life. Give yourself the break, the
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  grace and say, you know what, even if it's small and Tiny and
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  I don't see it in this moment, it has to be here.
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  You know why? I know that because I'm doing it
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  and I'm always navigating towards something else towards
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  my piece that might make me feel a little bit different and a
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  little bit better and a little bit more, you know, on purpose,
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  so to speak. So can you purpose be something
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  small? Yes.
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  Your purpose can be something small.
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  Can your purpose be something huge?
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  Yes, it can be. Can it be unknown to you
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  sometimes? Yep.
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  I'm one thousand percent certain that purpose isn't always clear
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  to people because they're so close to it.
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  They're like the fly up against the glass.
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  They don't see that they're actually on purpose.
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  So at a recent conversation with someone and She does something
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  that is absolutely necessary in the world that I work in.
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  She is absolutely without question.
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  A major piece of the world that I work in and she didn't see her
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  purpose. She was saying, I don't, you
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  know, I'm replaceable. Well, we're all replaceable.
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  We're all replaceable. That's the thing about human
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  beings anything or anyone can be replaced Bubble.
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  But that doesn't mean you're not on purpose.
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  That just means that you haven't gotten it, clear in your head,
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  how to view this piece of it. So after a conversation of quite
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  some time, she was able to see the value in really what it is
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  and and this is really what it comes down to viewing.
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  Your value isn't always tied. So intrinsically to the purpose,
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  you have value no matter what you're doing.
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  You have value that you bring forward, even if you are.
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  Let's just say let's do something and say you are a
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  writer and you're writing a book and your book hasn't come out
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  and you've been writing this book for years and you're
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  frustrated that you've been writing the book for years and
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  it's really driving you crazy. And you want to finish the book
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  and during the day you go off and you do your day job where
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  you trade time for money and you're still in your head.
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  You want to be Fire. Okay, so would you sit there and
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  say to yourself, you're not on purpose, just because the book
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  is not finished? Well, yes, some people would do
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  that, they'd be frustrated, they be aggravated which would cause
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  them to slow down on the book but anything you do and pour
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  into the book helps, you get closer to that Finish Line.
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  It also doesn't mean that you are not on purpose, maybe that
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  is the purpose. Maybe you're supposed to have
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  the struggle. Maybe you're supposed to have
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  that to feel like what it is. How amazing it feels to get
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  through it and get on the other side of it.
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  So being on purpose is incredibly important.
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  So I'm going to challenge you to think about all this stuff
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  today, go and focus your attention on really thinking
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  about how much value that you see in what you're doing and
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  realize that, you know what you're on purpose doesn't have
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  to be tremendous, it can be small, you might be a person.
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  And that's here just to go out and make everybody smile and
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  laugh and God knows we all need that.
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  I mean, it doesn't have to be something tremendous.
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  It just has to be recognized and I am a true 1000% steadfast
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  believer that we are all like a tapestry.
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  And there are different pieces. Different parts, different
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  puzzles to each and every one of us that we all bring to the
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  table and we all Have purpose and we all know those purposes
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  don't have to be tremendous, but we all know our purpose.
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  We all know our purpose on some way shape or form.
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  So, don't diminish it go out and just focus on finding that happy
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  spot and put yourself into a great state today.
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  And tomorrow, I will see you from the chicken coop because I
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  know the rain will be stopped by then.
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  So I hope you guys have a very blessed day and I will see you
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  then. Bye.
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  Bye.