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🎙️ Episode 13: Why Women Hate Weakness in a Man · Financial Survival Network

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  Speaker 1: What's up, gentlemen. I am Johnny Depth, author of one
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  Speaker 1: thousand first dates Portrait of a Palm Beach Player, and
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  Speaker 1: today we're going to rip the band aid off. One
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  Speaker 1: of the most uncomfortable truths in the dating world. Women
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  Speaker 1: hate weakness in a man. If that triggered you, good,
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  Speaker 1: because it's time to end your weakness. Let's be real.
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  Speaker 1: You can bench three hundred pounds, you can drive a Porsche,
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  Speaker 1: but if you show up to your woman week insecure, needy, indecisive,
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  Speaker 1: you might as well be rolling up in a clown car. Why.
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  Speaker 1: Because women are wired for strength. They always have been.
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  Speaker 1: Thousands of years ago. If a man couldn't fight off
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  Speaker 1: a predator or protect the tribe, he wasn't just undesirable,
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  Speaker 1: he was dangerous to her survival. Fast forward to today,
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  Speaker 1: that ancient instinct is still alive, and well, she might
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  Speaker 1: not know why she lost interest. She'll just say you changed,
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  Speaker 1: or the spark's gone. Nah, my friend. What's gone is
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  Speaker 1: her respect for you. And once that respect is gone,
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  Speaker 1: it's over. Maybe not immediately, but definitely inevitably. Here's where
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  Speaker 1: most guys mess up. They confuse vulnerability with weakness. Vulnerability
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  Speaker 1: says I'm dealing with something, but I've got this weakness,
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  Speaker 1: says I can't handle this. Can you fix it for me?
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  Speaker 1: And when you show up week, especially in how you
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  Speaker 1: deal with her, she doesn't feel safe, protected, or desire.
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  Speaker 1: She feels like she's now the one in charge. And
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  Speaker 1: here's the punchline. She doesn't want to be in charge,
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  Speaker 1: even if she says she does, even if she thinks
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  Speaker 1: she does, because when she starts leading and you start following,
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  Speaker 1: the dynamic dies, The polarity collapses, the attraction fades, and
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  Speaker 1: soon you're just roommates or worse, emotional support animals. And listen,
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  Speaker 1: I've been that guy. I've played the white knight. I've
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  Speaker 1: bent over backward. I've tried to talk it out, I've
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  Speaker 1: tried to prove I'm a good man. But what I
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  Speaker 1: learned after a thousand first dates and honestly more than
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  Speaker 1: a few hard lessons, is that trying to prove yourself
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  Speaker 1: is weakness disguised as effort. The moment you stop leading,
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  Speaker 1: the moment you defer, apologize for being masculine, or tiptoe
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  Speaker 1: to avoid drama, you lose the frame. And when you
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  Speaker 1: lose the frame, she loses attraction and contempt creeps in
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  Speaker 1: that sarcastic laugh, the eye roll, that passive, aggressive silence,
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  Speaker 1: And here's a psychological bombshell. According to Dr John Gotman,
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  Speaker 1: the number one predictor of divorce contempt, and the most
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  Speaker 1: obvious sign of contempt the eye roll. The moment she
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  Speaker 1: starts looking at you like you're beneath her. That's the
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  Speaker 1: moment she starts emotionally detaching, and it's just a countdown
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  Speaker 1: from there. But here's the twist. Sometimes a man has
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  Speaker 1: been weak his entire life or his entire relationship, and
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  Speaker 1: one day she crosses a line so hard it wakes
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  Speaker 1: him up. She cheats, she mocks, she disrespects him in
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  Speaker 1: a way that cuts to the boat, and in that moment,
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  Speaker 1: sees himself and hates what he's become, and everything changes.
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  Speaker 1: He stops chasing, stops justifying, stops asking for permission to
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  Speaker 1: be a man, and suddenly she doesn't recognize him. He's
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  Speaker 1: got a backbone, now, a voice, a boundary, and for
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  Speaker 1: the first time he's not scared to lose her. And
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  Speaker 1: when that happens, either she transforms out of respect or
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  Speaker 1: he walks. Either way, he's free. So let me ask you,
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  Speaker 1: are you living weak? Apologizing for wanting what you want,
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  Speaker 1: letting her set the tone, letting your emotions get hijacked,
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  Speaker 1: begging for peace while handing over your power. Because if
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  Speaker 1: you are, you're not in a relationship. You're in a
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  Speaker 1: slow motion collapse. It's time to end your weakness, step
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  Speaker 1: into your frame, lead with clarity, stop trying to prove,
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  Speaker 1: and start being This isn't about domination. It's about sovereignty,
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  Speaker 1: about becoming the kind of man she wants to follow,
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  Speaker 1: not because she has to, but because she can't help herself.
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  Speaker 1: I'm Johnny Depth, and this is the truth. Most men
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  Speaker 1: never hear until it's too late, but you you're hearing
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  Speaker 1: it now. To order a copy of my book one
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  Speaker 1: thousand first Dates Portrait of a Palm Beach Player and
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  Speaker 1: unlock your inner strength, click the link in the description.
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  Speaker 1: Your next chapter starts when you decide to stop being
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  Speaker 1: weak and start being dangerous in the right way. Happy Dating,