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Mean Girl Behavior (Let’s Marry Harry EP 3 & 4 Recap) · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio. Welcome back
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  Speaker 1: to kind of Famous with Deanna Pappis and my producer Heather.
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  Speaker 1: We're back to recap episodes three and four of the
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  Speaker 1: new Netflix show Let's Marry Harry. These episodes were full
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  Speaker 1: of spits, swapping, interrupting, and elimination. So I don't know, Heather,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to waste any time. Let's get right
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  Speaker 1: into it.
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  Speaker 2: Let's get into it.
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  Speaker 3: I've got also some thoughts on Harry says something and
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  Speaker 3: then he changes his mind, Likegan literally goes the opposite.
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  Speaker 3: So I can't wait to get there. But yeah, let's
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  Speaker 3: dive into episode three.
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  Speaker 4: All right.
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  Speaker 1: The episode opens with the girls downstairs wanting to go
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  Speaker 1: upstairs and find Harry, and we hear more of the
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  Speaker 1: audio with Danelle. All of this is so weird to me.
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  Speaker 1: These things make me so uncomfortable. But the girls find them,
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  Speaker 1: but no one seems like super shocked by seeing the
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  Speaker 1: two of them together. The girls aren't happy with Danell
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  Speaker 1: going upstairs and our girl Sam. She says that she's
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  Speaker 1: here to get married, not here for the girl drama.
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  Speaker 2: Well let me ask you this though.
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  Speaker 3: The thing when when they come upstairs and they see
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  Speaker 3: Danelle and Harry, you know, coming out of.
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  Speaker 2: The closet or whatever.
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  Speaker 3: First of all, they both look absolutely fine, Like nobody's
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  Speaker 3: hair is shovel no one's disheveled.
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  Speaker 1: They're not like wiping mouths, and everybody's.
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  Speaker 2: Just like, oh hey, guys.
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  Speaker 3: It's like, don't you think that if there was something
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  Speaker 3: scandalous going on, they would have been like, girl, what
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  Speaker 3: are you doing in there? And like we'll get to
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  Speaker 3: it later in the episode where he takes her outside
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  Speaker 3: and stuff. But like, I think this is like major
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  Speaker 3: major fake out, setup, setup, setup, in my opinion, what's
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  Speaker 3: happening with Danell?
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  Speaker 1: I like totally agree. It's not the first time that
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  Speaker 1: we have seen it on this show, and we're only
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  Speaker 1: in episode three we're seeing it, right. Who knows what
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  Speaker 1: they were doing. He was probably showing her his like
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  Speaker 1: outfit for the next like ring ceremony or something.
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  Speaker 3: I think they very well could have been kissing, but
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  Speaker 3: I don't think anything like the audio was alluding to
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  Speaker 3: was actually happening.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, this piece always makes me very curious though,
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  Speaker 1: even having been on reality television, I don't know why
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  Speaker 1: this is necessary, Like they had to have gotten that
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  Speaker 1: audio from somewhere or do like I don't know, Heather,
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  Speaker 1: can they use that from another show? Or like, was
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  Speaker 1: it picked up from somewhere else and then they just
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  Speaker 1: lay it over to it feels unnecessary.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think that they can use it from another show.
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  Speaker 3: I think that the audio that when you sign your contract,
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  Speaker 3: actually this is mentioned in You're in the fine print
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  Speaker 3: of every contract on these shows, that they are at
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  Speaker 3: liberty to use the audio in whatever way they see
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  Speaker 3: fit or would like to use. But I don't believe
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  Speaker 3: that includes using audio from other shows or like non
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  Speaker 3: situations that happened during filming.
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  Speaker 2: I think that So what I'm hearing you.
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  Speaker 1: Say is that at some point something gets hot and heavy,
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  Speaker 1: whether we really get to see that or not.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I would think so because but listen. I also
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  Speaker 3: don't know because sound effects are used on shows too, right,
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  Speaker 3: Like sometimes we'll hear extreme farting noises in a scene
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  Speaker 3: or something and we're not seeing it happen. Those might
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, does this categorize itself as a sound effect,
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  Speaker 3: and like maybe it's actually not happening. I don't know,
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  Speaker 3: but I think you and I are on the same page.
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  Speaker 3: That we both don't believe that the audio that was
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  Speaker 3: being used in this scene was actually what was taking
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  Speaker 3: place ye off camera.
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  Speaker 1: I think they were just having a private conversation between
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  Speaker 1: the love birds.
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  Speaker 3: You're more wholesome than me. I think that they were
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  Speaker 3: making out.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Well, it all happens, and we see Sammy.
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  Speaker 1: She's so funny to me because I thought I had
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  Speaker 1: her pegged in the beginning of the show. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: really unsure at this point. Is is she coming off
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  Speaker 1: as the villain? I'm not sure. But anyway, she goes upstairs.
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  Speaker 1: She vinced to Harry about the drama with the girls
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  Speaker 1: because it's her and Juliana.
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  Speaker 3: It's her because she comes down stairs, Juliana is having
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  Speaker 3: a heartfelt conversation with somebody else, and Danelle like sorry,
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  Speaker 3: and then Sammy like laughs about something, and the girls
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  Speaker 3: are like Juliana like is very she's aggressive, she's very agro.
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  Speaker 3: She's very agro, and she's literally like, what are you
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  Speaker 3: laughing at?
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  Speaker 2: What's so funny? What's so funny? I was being.
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  Speaker 3: Serious, and it's like it's like she's like, oh, I
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  Speaker 3: just I don't know. I was just like laughing, and
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  Speaker 3: it's like I don't think it's that deep for either
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  Speaker 3: of them, but man, Sammy turns on those waterworks real
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  Speaker 3: quick and she runs to Harry, which I think is
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  Speaker 3: honestly super obnoxious.
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  Speaker 1: She seems to me, you know, I know, we heard
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  Speaker 1: her say that she has a son, and I believe
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  Speaker 1: that she said he's seven years old. But for some reason,
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  Speaker 1: what we are seeing on this show, Heather, she looks
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  Speaker 1: so much younger to me, like the way that she
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  Speaker 1: acts and kind of her But she is young. I
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  Speaker 1: know she is, but I guess I don't know. Something
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  Speaker 1: about becoming a.
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  Speaker 2: Mother toughens you up. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I will say quite forgetting that.
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  Speaker 3: For being episode three, we've seen her cry quite a
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  Speaker 3: bit already.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, there's still like I don't like drama either,
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  Speaker 1: and even when I was on reality TV years ago,
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  Speaker 1: I really tried to dodge that. I don't like any
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  Speaker 1: part of that. But even still in this it's just
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  Speaker 1: kind of weird. The way she kind of sits in
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  Speaker 1: the chair like she's in the room but she's not
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  Speaker 1: in the room. In the way she's like awkwardly laughing,
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  Speaker 1: it just felt so strange for me, and I'm really
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  Speaker 1: unsure at this point, I'm really unsure, but.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever it is, what it is, we see.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like drama, and I kind of feel like
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  Speaker 1: when she told Harry about it, he made it clear
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  Speaker 1: too that he doesn't like it either. But then there's
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  Speaker 1: this weird situation where he's like, well, let's you know,
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  Speaker 1: we'll just go and check it out. So he then
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  Speaker 1: goes into the backyard and he sits with the girls
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  Speaker 1: and he hears more about the drama with Sammy from
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  Speaker 1: the other side. But even this situation to me, Heather
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  Speaker 1: is so weird. The way they're all like, all four
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  Speaker 1: of them sitting on these two couches together.
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  Speaker 2: That's produced. That's a produced moment.
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  Speaker 1: I understand, but it just doesn't It doesn't line up
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  Speaker 1: for me. The way the one girl's cuddling up on
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  Speaker 1: Harry in front of all of his other girlfriends, and
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  Speaker 1: then Juliana is like, then she's back to her nice self, right,
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  Speaker 1: And then she's like, well, so she came down and
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  Speaker 1: she started laughing, and I just didn't appreciate it, Like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't like that. But I am uncomfortable with drama
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  Speaker 1: that says more about me than it does about them,
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  Speaker 1: because I don't like drama, but Harry flat out says
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  Speaker 1: that he doesn't like mean girl behavior either, and he
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  Speaker 1: doesn't want them to gang up on Sammy, so are
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  Speaker 1: kind of like, Okay, maybe he's a good man.
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  Speaker 3: It just feels to me like the typical trope we
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  Speaker 3: have to see in every one of these, you know,
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  Speaker 3: solo dating shows where there's one lead. It's like, at
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  Speaker 3: some point in the show, somebody always runs to the
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  Speaker 3: lead and says, you know, I'm having issues with so
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  Speaker 3: and so, and then the lead has to get involved
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  Speaker 3: and try to meet and it just happens on every show.
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  Speaker 3: It just happens on every show. If y'all watched every
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  Speaker 3: single season the way that I do, you would see
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  Speaker 3: it too. So to me, I was just like, Harry
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  Speaker 3: could care less about this, and I don't even think
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  Speaker 3: he really like last.
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  Speaker 1: He looks so tired, Heather like, he was just like,
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  Speaker 1: all right, producers, what do you need me to say?
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  Speaker 1: I kinda just want to go night night exactly exactly.
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  Speaker 3: Well, the next day is the painting group date party,
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  Speaker 3: and just a refresher because the people who won the
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  Speaker 3: group date in the last episode were Sammy, Juliana, Shane,
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  Speaker 3: and Jade Oh.
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  Speaker 2: That's weird.
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  Speaker 3: Sammy and Juliana, who don't like each other, now have
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  Speaker 3: to be on a group date together. They have to
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  Speaker 3: go paint a bowl of fruit, and Shane is like
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  Speaker 3: saying in her interviews, She's like, I'm gonna need more
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  Speaker 3: substance in order to stay here in this whatever.
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  Speaker 1: This is the most that I have seen out of
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  Speaker 1: Shane all season. There are so many girls in this
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  Speaker 1: show where like when they pop up, I'm like, who
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  Speaker 1: is that? Has she been here the whole time? But
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  Speaker 1: this is like the first time that I am like
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  Speaker 1: seeing anything out of Shane. And it's kind of like
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  Speaker 1: she is aware too. She's like, I gotta show him
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  Speaker 1: a whole personality now or I'm never ever coming back.
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  Speaker 3: She's kind of funny, though, I was kind of like,
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  Speaker 3: why do you have to like fall to the background,
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  Speaker 3: Like you're kind of funny. She also had a waist
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  Speaker 3: that was later on and she's wearing of corse at top.
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  Speaker 2: Her waist was so tiny, yep.
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  Speaker 3: But she was funny. She kind of I like, kind
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  Speaker 3: of liked her vibe. And so then Jade thinks that
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  Speaker 3: her connection with Harry is more grounded in more grounded
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  Speaker 3: and less physical than the others, which you.
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  Speaker 2: Know we think that too.
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  Speaker 3: I also don't think that that's a great thing. I
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  Speaker 3: think Harry's like a physical person, so I think that's
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  Speaker 3: actually a bad sign. Jade.
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  Speaker 1: You see him on the group date, like he's bored.
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  Speaker 1: You could clearly see that he's bored. He tries to
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  Speaker 1: liven it up and he takes paint on the women,
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  Speaker 1: but like.
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  Speaker 2: He's so he was so bored.
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  Speaker 1: He's a twenty eight year old hungry male.
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  Speaker 3: What would you think though, if you were on this
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  Speaker 3: group date and you're trying to like you're like in
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  Speaker 3: the zone, trying to paint, and the guy comes around
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  Speaker 3: and is like trying to drop paint like in your
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  Speaker 3: hair and like on your outfit. Like Juliana really was
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  Speaker 3: like resisting and he's like she's so focused, Like I
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  Speaker 3: just want to be silly, No girl.
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  Speaker 1: Look at these girls, Heather, when you looked around the room,
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  Speaker 1: they are full face hair and makeup. They look stunning.
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  Speaker 1: I listen on wash my hair days. I don't want
• 9:35
  Speaker 1: you to mess with my hair either.
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  Speaker 3: But I can't paint, so I would I like have
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  Speaker 3: no artistic bone in my body.
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  Speaker 1: I went through my artist face.
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  Speaker 3: I really wish I could do that stuff, but mine
• 9:46
  Speaker 3: would probably look like, I don't know, something like abstract
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  Speaker 3: like blobs or something. So if he came around to
• 9:52
  Speaker 3: try to put paint on me, I would literally be like, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: let's do it, and I'd probably start getting paint on
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  Speaker 3: him because my pain I'd be like hey, I or
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  Speaker 3: I'd take his hand and I would like have him
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  Speaker 3: like slash, like throwing paint on my canvas and like
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  Speaker 3: making it more interactive. But it's just funny because he
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  Speaker 3: points out Juliana and Jade for being so serious, which
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  Speaker 3: Jade's painting actually looked pretty good when they flipped him around.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, I wonder she was focusing. She's
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  Speaker 3: actually good at this. Yeah, but Juliana ends up he
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  Speaker 3: ends up choosing more time with her. But before we
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  Speaker 3: get to that, then their next painting is they have
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  Speaker 3: to paint Harry naked.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, I could not wait to talk to you
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  Speaker 1: about this. Do do you think that he was really
• 10:41
  Speaker 1: you know, you know how I am. I need to know.
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  Speaker 1: I need more details, I need it all. Do you
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  Speaker 1: really think he was naked? Like we're the girls sitting
• 10:48
  Speaker 1: there staring at his six' Five. Wiener he's. Tall so
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  Speaker 1: so this is the.
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  Speaker 3: THING i was really trying to look for the naked
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  Speaker 3: undies that people have to wear in sex scenes and
• 11:03
  Speaker 3: nude scenes, typically and sometimes you can see them because
• 11:06
  Speaker 3: they just like they don't, match like skin tones or,
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  Speaker 3: something and you can kind of just. Tell maybe the
• 11:14
  Speaker 3: shots were too. QUICK i really couldn't tell if he
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  Speaker 3: was or. Not But i'm gonna say, THIS i didn't
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  Speaker 3: think that they were shocked enough if that's what they were.
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  Speaker 1: Seeing, okay so THAT'S i thought the same. Thing the
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  Speaker 1: only ANGLES i.
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  Speaker 2: Would have turned red if that were. Me if that
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  Speaker 2: were me and they.
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  Speaker 1: Were just, like, oh you would have turned red if
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  Speaker 1: you were.
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  Speaker 3: Impressed, NO i would have been red, regardless AND i
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  Speaker 3: would have been just, like oh my, GOSH i just
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  Speaker 3: meet your.
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  Speaker 2: Guy he's.
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  Speaker 3: Naked NOW i have to paint him AND i have
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  Speaker 3: to look at him While i'm, LIKE i would have
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  Speaker 3: been SO i would have been so tongue tied and.
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  Speaker 3: Flabbergasted but the fact is that they kind of all
• 11:59
  Speaker 3: like laughed little bit and like looked a little. Shocked
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  Speaker 3: BUT i think that's it was a reaction of oh my,
• 12:06
  Speaker 3: gosh this guy's in a. Speedo that's like the VIBE
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  Speaker 3: i was, getting and he probably was in some sort
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  Speaker 3: of skin colored.
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  Speaker 2: Speedo's that's what they.
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  Speaker 1: Did a good, job like having the bowl of fruit
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  Speaker 1: right in front of him and then blurring it. OUT
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  Speaker 1: i am, like Maybe i'm, sick BUT i like paused
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  Speaker 1: it and rewound LIKE i needed to know was a
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  Speaker 1: really NAKED i like needed the, Details, heather AND i
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: couldn't figure it out. Myself But i'm with, You like
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  Speaker 1: IF i thought IF i had been standing there and
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  Speaker 1: he came out with his penis hanging, OUT i would
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  Speaker 1: have been super, Uncomfortable, Like, Hi, harry we don't even
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: know each other yet we, kissed and your wieners hanging
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  Speaker 1: out was such a.
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  Speaker 3: Weirdo so then they all turn around their paintings And
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  Speaker 3: shane paints him as a.
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  Speaker 2: MERMAID i just had to list there because it made me,
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  Speaker 2: laugh and he was, like why AM i a?
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  Speaker 3: Mermaid And she's, LIKE i literally did not look at
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  Speaker 3: you from the waist, down AND i was, like that's
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  Speaker 3: kind of. Funny and then he gets to choose who
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  Speaker 3: he wants to extend his time, with and he Chooses.
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  Speaker 3: Juliana i'm not shocked by this are, You, LIKE i
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  Speaker 3: feel like the whole episode was setting up first off
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  Speaker 3: for the two of, them For juliana And, Sammy LIKE
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  Speaker 3: i knew that that was going to be like that
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  Speaker 3: during the painting.
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  Speaker 1: Episode but then at the, End i'm not surprised that
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  Speaker 1: he chooses her BECAUSE i feel like the chemistry has been.
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  Speaker 1: There we have been seeing, that and out of all
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  Speaker 1: the girls on the.
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  Speaker 3: DATE i just feel, like you chose to Save jade
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  Speaker 3: in the last episode from. Elimination why would you not
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  Speaker 3: then like double down on that decision and be, Like,
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  Speaker 3: okay NOW i chose to Save. Jade Now i've got
• 13:49
  Speaker 3: to like take her for some more time to really
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  Speaker 3: solidify like THAT i made the right decision or.
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  Speaker 1: Not, noheather he's our, boy he's not married with children,
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  Speaker 1: yet and he doesn't want to get down With. Jade
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  Speaker 1: he wants to get down With, juliana but he saved.
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  Speaker 3: Her this is what's like confusing Is i'm, like you save,
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  Speaker 3: her and then later on you're, like, OH i shouldn't
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  Speaker 3: have done, that and it's, like, well how do you
• 14:17
  Speaker 3: know you shouldn't have done? That you didn't spend time with.
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  Speaker 1: HER i don't think he really wanted. TO i think
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  Speaker 1: that for whatever, reason maybe it was producer led or.
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  Speaker 1: WHATEVER i think That juliana, like don't you have someone
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  Speaker 1: from your past that you're, like, oh that's my, Type
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  Speaker 1: like my picker is, broken mine, is and he will
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  Speaker 1: pick guys that kind of fit the same, bill but
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  Speaker 1: it's always. Toxic like that's WHAT i feel Like juliana
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  Speaker 1: is For, harry like he just can't have, her but
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  Speaker 1: he can't seem to let her go and he needs another.
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  Speaker 3: Taste well we'll get to The juliana stuff because that
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  Speaker 3: one really perplexed me. Later but so he Chooses juliana
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  Speaker 3: to have more time, with and more time just means
• 14:56
  Speaker 3: take an outdoor.
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  Speaker 1: Shower but we, Knew like didn't you not know that
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: this was gonna? Happen like when they he was covered with.
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  Speaker 1: Paint mind, you she Covers sammy's, name, right we didn't
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  Speaker 1: talk about. That sammy is the one who painted her
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  Speaker 1: name on his, chest all cute and, sweet and Then
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: juliana was, like, oh, Yeah i'll see you and raise,
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  Speaker 1: you and she goes over and just plasters his chest
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  Speaker 1: in blue. Paint i'm pretty sure just to prove a.
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  Speaker 1: Point so for, ME i, Knew like as soon as
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  Speaker 1: you got to take her on another, DAY i was,
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  Speaker 1: like here we, go here's our hot and steamy shower. Scene,
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  Speaker 1: that to, me by the, way was not, original the
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: hot and steamy shower.
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  Speaker 2: Scene, no, no.
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  Speaker 3: No when she went and painted over her, NAME i was,
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: like so you're one. Up is that you're just gonna
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: go do the same thing that another girl already did
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  Speaker 3: that was actually, Original like that to me is like
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  Speaker 3: kind of, Lame, Juliana like you should have done something,
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: else LIKE i don't, know like put paint on your
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: chest and then like come over and like press yourself
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: up against his back or.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: Something And, HEATHER i don't, know we.
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: Need to get you on reality TV's.
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: Sister i'm just, like you, know something else to do
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: with paint or put go up and put paint on
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: his Red oh do, this go, up put red paint
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: On harry's hands and then put his hands on.
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: Your body and be like catcha red.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: Handed oh oh my, god you are meant For REALITY, Tv,
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: heather like, this you are born for. This but the
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: fact that she just goes up there and does the
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: exact same thing That sammy does and then he rewards
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: that by giving her like extra time because he's, Like,
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: OOH i think that that's like sexy.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: That she did.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: That and if you, remember just the night, before he's
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: talking about how he doesn't like mean girls and he
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: doesn't want girls to be made Into, sammy and then
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: all we, see like WHAT i took away from that
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: is she's just being mean To.
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: Sammy, no he literally likes the. Fight he laughed that
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: they were like going. Back he's contradicting.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: Himself the night before he was, like, oh mean, GIRLS
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: i really don't like.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: This harry contradicts. Himself let's marry. Him that's actually the
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: full name of the show that they didn't tell you,
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: Guys they just.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: Dropped that first.
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: Part, yeah he contradicts himself quite a bit in these
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: two episodes we. See but back, anyways they go on
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: their little one on one and he talks about you,
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: know being a kid growing up In australia and how
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: he wants to do the same thing with his kids
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: that he got to, experience and then he talks a
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: lot about his dad and then gets emotional and starts,
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: crying and then they.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: Kiss and he kiss.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: What no one can.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: See and we talked about this in our first episode
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: is that When heather sends over her, notes it's always
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: like they kiss in all, caps exclamation, point exclamation, point exclamation.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: Points so like When i'm reading it before we, RECORD
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: i hear you in my head, going they, Kid.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: It's literally What i'm saying As i'm writing.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: It they.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: Kid but Then harry, says this is this is this
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: is WHAT i don't. Like Then harry says an interview
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: That juliana might be his number one pick because she
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: holds space for.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: Him so we don't compare, notes BUT i am LITERALLY
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: i am looking at my notes As i'm watching this show,
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: too AND i have it in all. Caps juliana Is
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: harry's number one because when he says this first, off
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: the sweet moment with her when they're talking about his
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: family In australia and he asks her would she live
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: there and his dad that we see like we see
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: it all come. Off we See, Harry we see his
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: his vulnerable, side we see you, know almost like a
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: real person. There AND i was there for that. Moment
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: it was very, quick you know WHAT i. Mean but
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: he cries and he is very vulnerable with.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: Her it makes me sad For harry in a lot of.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: Ways we talked about this THAT i was around HIS
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: i was the same age as him going through, this
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: and it's so difficult to try and navigate dating on
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: top of, that let.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: Alone now you're adding cameras and you're the star of this.
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: Show, LIKE i truly want to check in With harry
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: about looking back on. This AND i don't know how
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: long ago they filmed. THIS i want to probably say
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: six months ago longer BECAUSE i want to know where
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: he is mentally now compared to, this BECAUSE i feel
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: like he was way too.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: Fragile, yeah grief is. Hard grief is really, hard and
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: it's not. Linear it comes in, waves you. Know just
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: a side, NOTE i saw an interview with him this.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: WEEK i don't know what it is ON e where
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: they sit in the sauna and they're just all sweaty
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: in their.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: Towels, yeah, yeah yeah.
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: Whatever that whatever that show, IS i think one of
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: those guys are From Love.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: Island oh is that what it?
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: Is, well the two guys are interviewing him and they're
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: all just like sweaty in their towels And harry's all
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: read but they say to, him was it a good.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: Experience what is he hoping that people take away and
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: he shares WHAT i hope that people take away is
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: someone who is walking through grief and that they're open
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: about their journey in.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: That, absolutely, absolutely, yeah BECAUSE i see, it and for,
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: MEN i think it's really really important if men are
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: watching the. Show obviously the audience is predominantly, women but
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: if men are watching the show to, see you, know a,
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: hot straight young guy being open and emotionally aware and
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: sharing his grief, journey that's super impactful for men to
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: be seeing on a wide audience because it's.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Not shown a.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: Lot.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah it's very. Attractive it's just.
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: Helpful SO i really do appreciate That harry is being.
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: Open i'm just sad WHEN i watch it Because i'm, like,
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: oh it's so it's so hard AND i can't imagine
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: doing it ON. Tv at the same, Time, Yeah so
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: they go back to the house and the women fill,
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: in you, know the other gals about the group painting.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Date they talk About harry being.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: Naked even, then even then though did you see? It
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: they were, Like, oh he's, naked and they're, like oh my.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: God one girl's, like you saw his? Penis but no
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: one touches on. It, now there's no big. Discussion they're not,
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: like oh my.
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: God they, say they say LIKE i didn't LOOK i
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: didn't look. DOWN i just if he was, naked you
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: would look, Absolutely and you know that there would be
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: some itms about.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: Absolutely there would be some comparison about test driving that vehicle.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: Or saying like he's well endowed or, something but none of.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: That we don't get any bites like. That and Then
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: harry And juliana return from their date And juliana is
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: in a.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: Robe harry's fully, dressed so that was a.
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: Choice juliana says.
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: An interview her feeling are growing For, harry which is.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: Scary and Then harry And sammy they have another. Moment
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: sammy comes up To harry's room and she tells him
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: how sweet he, is but she's crying because she didn't
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: get chosen for the one on one date and he
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: like promises to her that he's going to spend more
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: time with, her and he says he Chose juliana because
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: she was having more fun with him during the painting. Date,
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: actually that's that's not. True, though that's not. True she
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: was not having fun with You juliana WAS i think
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: he was all over, that just at the very end
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: when she went up there and painted over his chest
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: and like got.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: Caddie the whole time he's walking around with the. Paint she's, like, no,
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: no don't get.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: Down you have a producer's, mind if you think about,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: it this whole date is going on. Right harry's bored
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: out of his, mind and these like these four, girls these.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: NOODLES a producer absolutely put her up to. That they were, like,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: hey if you want to like some alone time With,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: harry you need to step it up This and that's
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: exactly what happened in the. End that's WHAT i feel.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: Like, Anyway i'm, Sure i'm. SURE i just. DON'T i just.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: WHAT i will give To harry is that at least
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: he doesn't from WHAT i am seeing so, FAR i
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: like that he's not sugarcoating things to make himself look.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: Better like he straight up looks at her and was,
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: LIKE i don't know what to tell.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: You she was more, fun AND i was down for having,
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: Fun LIKE i wanted to have some, fun BUT.
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: I wish he would just been LIKE i actually kind
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: of liked it when she came up and took.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: Control blah blah.
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: Blah it's like because she just did the same, Thing
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: LIKE i, said she did the same thing That sammy,
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: did and he didn't Choose. Sammy, YEAH i don't, KNOW
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: i DON'T i JUST i don't think he's how about.
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: THIS i don't think he's into either of. Them harry
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: and sam they go make out by The this is.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Where the show starts in a downward. Spiral for, Me,
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: heather like in this, moment it is like bouncey abow,
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Wow like you get into.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: A very uh a series of spit swapping the.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Situations you. Know my thought, was, Like, OKAY i WHEN
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: i was on REALITY, tv WHEN i was On The,
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: BACHELOR i definitely kissed, him AND i had to like
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: compartmentalize who he was with and where he was. At but,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: like these girls are all like living in the same
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: house and they are seeing him kiss other women and
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: they do not. Mind one of the girls isn't it
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: isn't It? Emily she sees, him she interrupts his. Date
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: she sees him kiss this s girl, goodbye and then
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: she goes up and starts making out with him.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: Too like to, me that feels pretty. Gross so my.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: Girl emily comes in Interrupts. Sam the other girls are
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: cheering her, on by the, Way she's, Like i'm gonna
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: go do.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: It she like she goes out there and she's, like,
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: hey like hate to. Interrupt she's our.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: Virgin she's our.
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: Virgin and then and then they're, like they like look at.
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: Her she, goes, OH i, Mean i'll let you say
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: goodbye to each. Other until she just stands there and
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: like kind of turns her.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Back and the way this camera is like one shotting
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: him kiss this girl With emily in the. BACKGROUND i was.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: Like, oh, girl girl for. Me and Then emily get.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: Girl she gets right in there and he, goes do
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: you want to have? Fun and she, goes, YEAH i
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: want to have fun and then they start making, out
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: AND i wrote they make out right, away Go. Emily
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: and Then abby interrupts and it's just like we just
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: See harry kissing, everyone and THEN i, wrote, omg he
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: spits In abby's.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: Mouth. Omg.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Ew, so so for those, Listening heather AND i texted each.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: OTHER i have to be careful BECAUSE i GET i
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: get like to WHERE i can't, stop SO i just
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: keep watching SO i cannot Text heather because she's behind
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: me in the, episode AND i am like. Dying i'm,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: Like i've got you playing out in my head AND
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: i need to hear. This harry makes before this. Happens
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: he makes a comment that, like this is the sweetest
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: thing he's ever, Done like he doesn't even have to.
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: Move these girls.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: Are just coming jumping in one after, another making. Out
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: this is like the time of his. Life BUT i
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: was laughing when this happens between him And abby BECAUSE
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: i was so grossed. Out they pan the, camera he
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: sits up and he hawks a big loogie into her.
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: MOUTH i didn't even rate the second gross thing that
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: they do because it will it'll make me sick to
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: like actually say it out.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Loud if you want to say, it you, can But
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: i'm not going to.
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: Because it's it's that's the one gross thing they do.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Together then they do another gross.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: THING i literally on my, NOTES i am looking at.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: It it says in all, caps what the Actual, yeah
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: it's so it's so. Icky it's so icky when he
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: picks his nose and then asks her to eat.
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: It.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Heather he is a twenty eight year old grown. Man
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: he is twenty eight years old he picks his. Nose
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: he has got to be his excuse has got to
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: be that he was just sloshed long, day he sleep,
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: deprived he was just. Wasted LIKE i have to think
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: there has to be something for.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: Him he picks this booger out of his.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Nose she acknowledges that he is picking said, booger and
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: then he asks her to eat, it and when she,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: refuses he then eats it and then deep throats.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: Her, HEATHER i, GEAT i could.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: NOT i.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: Can't it's so.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: ICKY i don't ever want to be in a relationship like, That,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: like not ever in a million years DO i want
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: to be in a relationship like.
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: That i'm going to just say, this you don't get
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: into a relationship with somebody who does.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: That i'm just telling.
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: You those those two like sealed it with sealed your
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: fate their.
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: Girlfriend abby not. Happening. Uh so it was so, Ick
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: it's so it was VERY i can't.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: Even IF i needed a new ick to add to
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: my lips. Stuff why men gross me? Out that one
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: went straight to the. Top this is the TEXT i
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Sent dianna WHEN i was. WATCHING i, SAID i was just,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: thinking DO i want to Marry, harry and then.
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: He spit Into abby's mouth AND i, said, NO i
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: don't Because.
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: Lie I've i've every TIME i See harry in a
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: doorway on this, show oh, man it's like it's like
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: A disney movie and like birds are singing and butterflies come.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: Out LIKE i just, like, uh so.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: You ever allow yourself to get into that. SPACE i
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: want you to immediately think to the shot of him
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: hovering over her face as he doesn't he doesn't just
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: like a little.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: Spit he hacks a moogie and it like.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: Drips you see the long drey we can his mouth
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: into her. MOUTH i want you to always think of, That,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: heather the next time you start glamorizing our Boy, HARRY
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: i want you to remember that that one and a
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: half inch loogie that goes from his mouth to her.
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: Mouth oh my, god it's. Ecting it was, never never
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: in a million. Years so Then, danelle she's back in the.
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: Picture she comes up To harry's room and they, kiss
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: and THEN i, WROTE, omg we see the lights go
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: off and she gets under the covers like they hook,
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: up and then it's, like so we don't see anything.
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: Right what we see is the covers go over and
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: it looks like it looks Like harry's on top of.
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: Her it does so then all of a, sudden then
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: the then we see the the the sheets fly, back
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: and she leaves and she like leans in to like kiss,
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: him and he says like. Something he says something to,
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: her and she goes, like don't say things you don't,
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: mean and he says that they'll see each other in the,
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: morning and we see that her tennis shoes are.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: ON i cannot even believe you don't have this in
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: your notes because we were texting what were.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: Texting and we were, like did she actually not take
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: her shoes?
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: OFF i don't think she did with, him but.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: As a, viewer LIKE i look at weird things like,
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: THIS i noticed it, too AND i KNOW i said
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: that to you over text, message And i'm, like that
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: girl did not take her dirty ass shoes, Off LIKE
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: i don't let people wear shoes in my, house let
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: alone in my, clean crispy white. Sheets she doesn't even who,
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: doesn't just like oh one second and like slips them
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: off with her. Feet she gets in and like canoodles
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: him with her big. Sneakers.
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: On, well this led me to say to you THAT
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: i actually don't Think harry is living in the house
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: with these. GIRLS i don't think that this is actually his.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: ROOM i think it was just like a heavn he
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: picked his nose and ate it and spit a loogie
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: in a girl's. Mouth you think he cares some dirty
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: tennis shoes in his, bed he's about to get.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: DOWN i don't think that he's actually staying there BECAUSE
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: i think if he, were we would have already had
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: some little, midnight late night rendezvous that would have been
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: shot and. Showed we haven't had those. Yet so WHAT
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: i think happens.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: Is he stays late, night he films with the, girls
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: they get what they, need.
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: And then when they go to, bed they.
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: Leave because notice we don't have any footage either of
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: the girls like in their rooms. Alone we did get
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: some shots and we see that they're in bunk beds,
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: typical but this show clearly does not have stationary cameras
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: set up near the.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Bedrooms we get the same shot in his bedroom. Too
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: we get the same shot every single, time and it
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: is you, know forward facing the bed in the.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: Doorway but outside of, that.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: The same with the. Bathroom we've already discussed, that and
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: the previous episode it was the. Closet we don't see
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: any of. That we get the same stationary shot in
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: that bedroom at all times. Exactly, So so how many
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: producers do you think we're sitting in there facing the
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: bed as they pretend the lights go out and she's
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: in there tucked under.
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: Her with her shoes. ON i don't think any producers
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: are in the. ROOM i think that they're all at
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: video village.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: Watching, okay so when they when they slip to his
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: little itms and he's in the closet and he flips
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: the cameras, on do you think that that is actually
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: where he is.
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: SLEEPING i think that that is at another location where
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: he's actually.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: Living, yeah like maybe at the hotel that he's probably
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: staying at.
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: Nearby but, YEAH i don't think that that room is
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: in the house because it also has like.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: A very different look compared to the other.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: Rooms it's much softer and warmer than the room that
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: they show at the house all the. Time does it
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: have a lot of wood or?
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Something on the.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Word it, does and that the bedroom has a lot
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: of very white lots and lots of white and hardwood,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: floors and when we see him flip those cameras in
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: that it looks almost like an office or.
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: Something it looks very. Warm it looks very very.
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: WARM i think that that's a stationary, room probably near
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: his hotel, room so that he can do those shots
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: either in the morning or at night before.
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: You, know he either goes to see the girls or
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: when he comes. Back BUT i.
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: Don't and that's also very, typical right that the lead
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: does not stay in the same house with the. Contestants
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: if you look, back you Know travis Kelce i'm trying
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: to think of the last like dating show like this
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: THAT i watched that Wasn't The bachelor Or The, bachelorette
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: AND i want to say it Was Travis kelcey's dating.
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: SHOW i never watched The Taylor swift's husband had a
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: reality dating she never ever watched.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: That to be, HONEST i didn't know Who Travis kelsey
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: was until he Became Miss. Swift, okay no.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: Clue so that's WHERE i actually learned who he.
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: Was it was ON e and it was Called Catching
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: kelsey and it was like twenty, sixteen and it was
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: a bunch of girls that lived in a house and
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: they were all trying to date, Him and if anybody
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: wants to watch, IT i think they put it back
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: up On peacock after he got together With, taylor and
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: you can watch, it and he's so goofy and so
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: funny and so, cute and that's WHY i was, Like
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: oh my, god this guy's. HILARIOUS i was also at
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: the same time working on a dating show FOR e
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: that was also In The Athlete, realm SO i had
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: to kind of watch it for. Work BUT i remember being,
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: LIKE i don't know who this guy, is but he's
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: so cute and so. Funny and now he's Mister taylor's.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: Married he's married to the most eligible woman in the.
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: World you could go on a reality show and end
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: up marrying the biggest pop star of all. Time people
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: nobody cares if you go on REALITY.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: Tv why DON'T i.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Don't you don't, Know, heather if that's in the cards
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: for all of.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: Us i'm just saying it.
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: Could you, Could or you could be like Beca tilly
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: and you could go On The bachelor and then end
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: up going and being a guest At Taylor swift's wedding
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: with your fiance because that also.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: Happened so isn't it so?
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: Wild could be married to the pop star or you
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: could be a guest at the pop star's.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: Wedding either or if you.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: Go on to be the delusional human being THAT i,
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Am i'm hearing you say that life is not over
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: for me, Yet.
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: Heather, no AND i think that anybody listening that wants
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: the idea of going on REALITY tv and feels right for.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: Them they should they should take.
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: It going back to This dinnell, Thing, okay so she
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: leaves shoes, on it goes back to her room.
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: Whatever and then the next day.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: At the, house it's morning like it's like early. Morning
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: it feels like.
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: It's the, morning And harry wants to talk To danell,
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: immediately like one on, one and he takes her.
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: Outside what are those like horse? Stables, yeah it looks
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: like horse, stables right it?
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: Did?
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: This this property is.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: Massive they look like they're In, malibu to be, honest
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: because it's early. Morning we're getting some of that gray
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: fog coming in off the water.
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: There for sure In, malibu because remember we had those
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: THOSE pc shots in the first. EPISODE i believe they're
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: at a wedding venue In. Malibu that's why the property
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: is so, Large that's why there's an estate on.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: It that's probably why.
• 36:12
  Speaker 3: They, like nobody's just like got a house like that
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: that they then give to A tv show to.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: Film, yeah and also it's already.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: Set up with the hupah the gazebo, thing and that
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: to me also makes me think that it's it's ALREADY
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: i also did A tv, show a dating show that
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: then went and filmed at a wedding venue and like
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: made it look like In. Malibu i'm wondering if it's
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: actually the same. Property the house looks slightly. Different so but,
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: yeah so this is that's WHERE i think they. Are
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: they're at A they're at a wedding venue In. Malibu so.
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: Uh he says that he wanted to talk to her
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: and he wants her to. Know he looks at her
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: and he's very serious and he goes, LIKE i want
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: you to know that this is more than just. Sex
• 37:00
  Speaker 3: and then did you see he takes a pause and
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: he goes to me and she goes. Yeah she, goes, yeah,
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: yeah that's, great that's great to. Hear AND i wrote,
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: HERE i feel like the way they are talking they
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: didn't have. Sex it was just like a heavy, makeout.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: RIGHT i didn't think that. EITHER i saw the. Tussle
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: and sometimes it's really hard for me to get on
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: board with these shows because having been on REALITY, TV
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: i can't just like see it for what it, is,
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: Right so you THINK i couldn't, Either BUT i can sometimes. Compartmentalize,
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: yeah making out in the, BED i thought they're just
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: implying that they had. Sex and then when we see this,
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: conversation it feels really weird to. Me heather how he's
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: like it's not just about, sex but like she's, like,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: bro we didn't have. Sex she didn't say, that but
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: that's the vibe That i'm.
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: Getting but that's the, vibe right because they what they
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: say like last night was last night was.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: Fun it makes me wonder did he try to did
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: he try to see how far they could? Get LIKE
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: i imagine he's a hot, man you, know he's in
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: here with all these hot girls who are literally like
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: riding him sometimes is he just like needing to burn
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: some sexual? Tension and did he push not? Push that
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: sounds bad on his, Part like were they caught up
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: in the moment of tussling around in the, bed and
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: he is the next morning wanting to reassure her that
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: he really likes. HER i highly doubt he would have been, like,
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: no we. Shouldn't like he probably would have really enjoyed,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: that but that he's also trying to, say, LIKE i
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: am sexually attracted to. You there is this physical. Chemistry
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: BUT i think he also really really likes.
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: HER i, think first of, all notice that we didn't
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: have any noises during this bed. Scene if they were
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: getting it, on we would have had noises and they
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: would have used. Them makes me wonder were there noises
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: and they chose to use them during the closet, scene
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: and then they can't reuse them during the bedroom.
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: Scene i'm blown.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: Away you're a Little you're a literal. Genius so they're
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: using them as the.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: Setup then we.
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: See the actual bedroom scene and they're, like, actually we
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: don't need to use the. Audio the visual is appealing
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: enough of what's happening.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: Here and then we'll have him come and.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: Like do a, talk AND i would just LOVE i
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: get the vibe that they didn't have.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: SEX i get the. Vibe but then, okay.
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: So Then harry, Says harry says he bought a ring
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: before this experience and he wants to give it to.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: Her this was.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: Weird this was.
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: Weird it's weird because what everybody's already wearing a fake
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: ring in this, Experience so you're gonna give her another fake,
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: ring tell her not to tell, anybody and then at
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: some point if you decide to have her go, home
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: are you gonna also have to be, like give.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: Me back the other. Ring i'd like both, back.
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: Please it's strange and it felt. Fake, yeah that whole
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: thing felt really fake to. Me AND i will just.
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: Say ben did an interview a while ago With Kurent,
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: olympios who you know from next Season bachelor In, paradise
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: also iconic iconic, villain and she said there was this
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: time where she had to go To nick's room and
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: she was, LIKE i don't, know trying to get attention
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: or get some time or. Whatever and she said That
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: nick said something to her like we don't have to do,
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: this and she was, like do do? What LIKE i
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: just came to your room to like talk to you or.
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: Something SO i just think that that's a little bit
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: of what's happening here, too where he's like it's more
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: than just sex for. Me for me and those like
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: the way he said, it and she was just like, cool.
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: Cool, cool okay. Cool it was almost like did we
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: have sex last? Night like like DID i miss? Something
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: DID i miss?
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: Something it very much felt like.
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: That it was also quick right On Love island The,
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: Undercovers like the under The covers scenes play for a
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: long time because stuff is actually happening On Love, Island
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: this to me felt very fast like. This the scene
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: was quick and then she was, GONE i don't, KNOW
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: i just you know now that you say that.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Too Love overboard did the same thing when we saw
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: some of them getting getting down in their. CABINS i,
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: mean they definitely like showed some. Stuff and even that
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: steamy shower scene if you, remember that lasted for a
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: while and we got the audio to that and then
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: it carried on on.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: Camp the audio from that show scene.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: It's about as bad As Harry hawk and a loogame that.
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: Girls oh my, gosh there was no. Denial those two
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: both went back to the boat and were, like.
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: Yep we did. This we absolutely got.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Down, yeah so it works. Out it's totally, fine you.
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: Know heather back at the, house we See charlie and
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: she's feeling really nervous that she might be going home
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: because she's a bit too. Serious and, Listen, charlie we
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: all we all are there with, you, honey like we
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: all see. It you, know THERE'S i don't think at
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: this point there's any saving. Her but we also get
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: maya be she also feels nervous because she hasn't talked
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: With harry.
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: Enough.
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: Shane she feels like she isn't growing closer To harry.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: Either you, know this is a good, SETUP i think
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: for what they are expecting to. Happen BUT i don't, Know,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: HEATHER i don't. KNOW i didn't see anything crazy out
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: of these three girls, anyway SO i kind, of for
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: me as a, VIEWER i could have done without this whole.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: Bit but it's so. Fine it then goes on to our,
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: mentors and they called them something different on the. SHOW
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: i wrote it down somewhere AND i can't find it
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: in my, notes but they called them something, different not.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: Mentors they called them like. Confidants they called them. Confidants,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: yeah they didn't call them. Mentors they called them. Confidants
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: AND i heard that so much in episode, three four
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: AND i watched on BECAUSE i have, issues BUT i
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: kept hearing them call them. Confidants but, anyway we See
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: harry talking to the three of.
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: Them did you notice, though by this episode they've kind
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: of dropped the spying, element.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: Which i'm thrilled. FOR i know you AND i. RECORDED
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: i did not need. THAT i didn't need that in
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: the first episode that we. Watched it's a piece and
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: aspect of the show THAT i really could care less,
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: For So i'm actually glad that we don't have to
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: deal with them. Anymore the only one THAT i really
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: kind of feel like brings something to the show Is Amanda,
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: Clues but you, know she has a history on television
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: and hosting and stuff like, that so her part feels
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: very natural to.
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: ME i kind of liked the spying element because it's
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: then it's like we are seeing things That harry isn't
• 44:11
  Speaker 3: and instead now it's just turned Into harry tells them
• 44:14
  Speaker 3: everything that's happened and then they go, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: Okay SO i DON'T i also don't feel like it's
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: not this, one but it's the next, EPISODE i, think
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: where they give so much information that it's like the
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: elimination is then not a surprise because we already know
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: who's going.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah so basically after that they go to the elimination,
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: ceremony they say five more women are going, home and you,
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: Know harry gets that chance against to save somebody if
• 44:46
  Speaker 3: he wants, to but has to eliminate somebody, else and
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: so he. Eliminate they Eliminate, Emily Charlie Shane, Jade, sammy my, Girl.
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: Emily she's, emotional she wishes that you, know they saw
• 44:58
  Speaker 3: something in. Her but, babe he's just he's really you,
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: know having his mini fuck boy time still on this
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: and you're just it's just.
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: She's too good for. HIM i, mean that's really what it.
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: IS i don't think it's she's too good for. Him
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: it's just like that's just not aligned with you at.
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: All like this guy does want to get physical and
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: he's not gonna wait until he's married to do.
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: It so and then it looks Like harry's gonna Save.
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: Sammy he. Doesn't he. Doesn't he just loves.
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: Surprised uh no, AGAIN i think He, YEAH i don't
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: think he Likes, sammy AND i don't think he Likes.
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: JULIANA i don't think that he Likes sammy, either AND
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: i could definitely see him just wanting to get down With,
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: Juliana LIKE i see more of the physical chemistry there
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: and the whole toxicity of the like who likes who.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: More it's just that, pool you know WHAT i. Mean
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: BUT i guess for, ME i was, like, then why
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: did we spend so much time On? Sammy why?
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: Why because she had a unique storyline of being a single,
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: mom but.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: They touch on it in the first, episode they allow
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: her to share, it AND i think episode one and
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: two and then we're, like, literally she's just another. Girl
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: we don't hear anything else about her son anymore other
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: than that conversation With harry and his confidants where they're, like,
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: hey you, know if you're not into her like she,
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: Has i'd rather just send her home to her, children her.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: Child and that's kind of.
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: It, YEAH i, mean we're going to get into it
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: in this next. Episode but there's like people that are
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: still in the mix that haven't, spoken SO i think
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: it's a mixture right, Of, LIKE i don't think he's into,
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: her BUT i think like we got to keep some
• 46:39
  Speaker 3: people around that actually like are having friction with other
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: cast members and like actually have a hint of depth
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: to them that makes them. Memorable AND i think THAT'S i,
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: Mean sammy's the crier of the, show, right she is The,
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: Bella she is The ASHLEY I, Kinetti like there has
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: to be one who's constantly crying and that you, know
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: you don't forget who she is because if you put
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: the others in a, LINEUP i wouldn't have been able
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: to tell you everybody by, name BUT i can tell You.
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: SAMMY i just had this like.
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: This whole like epiphany that, HINDSIGHT i mean, WHATEVER i hate,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: SAYINGS i hate them that hindsight is always twenty. Twenty but,
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: LIKE i don't. Know WHEN i was on REALITY, TV
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: i was just, like oh my, god you, know and
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: just watching things back and especially getting to podcast now
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: and dissect shows and stuff like that with.
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: YOU i just just.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: Hearing your insight on this from your perspective of work
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: in the.
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: Industry i'm, like, girl you so. Dumb, no don't you think.
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: That don't think, that but, NO i absolutely.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: Think LIKE i had an experience AND i went on a,
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: show AND i really have no problem being LIKE i
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: went on The bachelor And The bachelorette for the right.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: Reasons as dumb as it, SOUNDS i went on the
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: show for the right reasons and playing back like IF
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: i ever Seen, ECLIPSE i feel most grateful for. That
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: LIKE i was there for the right. REASONS i was truly.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: MYSELF i didn't get sucked, into you, know the other
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: pieces of the. Show LIKE i, LIKE i Know i've
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: said this to you, before but like that felt really
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: aligned with my path THAT i was supposed to be.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: On but THEN i do things like, this AND i
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: see the way they cast, people like they have certain
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: cast members that they need people to fill that. Void
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: AND i just didn't see that. BEFORE i just.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: Didn't we call them. Archetypes, yes, yes that's.
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: It we have certain archetypes that we look, for and
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: you don't always find, them and you find ones that
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: don't necessarily fit the mold and end up being you,
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: know great. Additions but, yeah Like i'm sure you, know
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: at some point there was a conversation of we should
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: find a single mom Because harry wants, kids you, know
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: and so they probably were on the lookout for a
• 48:59
  Speaker 3: single mom or somebody who you know had maybe taken you,
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: know a parenting role in you, know a niece or
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: nephew's life.
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: Or something like. That back at the.
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: House then after the elimination, ceremony which by the, WAY
• 49:26
  Speaker 3: i don't love, that there's also then another scene after the.
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: Elimination i'm kind of, like let's just end on the
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: elimination and then let's just go go into the next.
• 49:35
  Speaker 3: Episode BUT i don't, know maybe this is A netflix.
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: THING i feel like they kind of do. This so
• 49:40
  Speaker 3: after the, elimination they go back to the house And
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: danelle is like still wearing her little secret.
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: Ring did you notice.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: Though when she puts it on at the, stables she
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: puts it on her right, Hand and then this moment
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: in the kitchen they are having this conversation with other
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: women in the kitchen because we can hear how chaotic it,
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: is she has it on her left hand like a
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: wedding band behind her engagement.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: Ring did you notice?
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: That, WELL i think all of them are wearing them
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: on their engagement ring.
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: Finger she took the, band the little tiny ring That
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: harry gave to, her and she is wearing it on
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: her left hand behind her engagement ring like a wedding.
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: Band, YEAH i MEAN i don't. KNOW i don't know
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: what to say about. THIS i, mean he, goes he
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: asks like if anybody's, noticed and she's, like, no you,
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: know nobody's, noticed you, Know and so, ANYWAYS i don't.
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: KNOW i think that this is all gonna like blow
• 50:37
  Speaker 3: up in his, face like somebody's gonna catch, on somebody's
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: gonna see, it somebody's gonna ask about, it because a
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: producer is gonna prod somebody to ask about, it and
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: it's all just gonna blow up And harry's gonna be.
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: Fumbling So juliana.
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: Pulls harry for a chat and takes him upstairs to his,
• 50:53
  Speaker 3: room and Then amber immediately is, LIKE i gotta go
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: do something because like these girls are being aggressive and
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: So i'm going to go, interrupt and so she goes
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: upstairs and immediately, interrupts And juliana doesn't like, this and
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: then she starts To amber starts to make out With
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: harry after she says that she doesn't want to.
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: KISS i had lots of thoughts on this scene on
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: both of these, Women Like juliana is, like everyone should
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: respect my time With, harry like we have this close.
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: Connection she is literally saying this to all of these
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: women who also want to have a close connection With.
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: Harry everyone should respect my time because we have this
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: relationship that we're.
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: IN i would have been, like, Hey, juliana no, disrespect
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: but you already got a one on one date with,
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: Him but no one dressed that to.
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: Her they all just sit and listen like they're best.
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: Friends nobody says that to.
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: Her and then so episode four kicks off with them
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: still making, out And juliana is.
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: Pissed she's now just like on a. Ranch she's just.
• 51:53
  Speaker 3: Walking around the house telling everybody like she's pissed that she,
• 51:56
  Speaker 3: got you, know, interrupted and she's going to be cutthroat
• 51:59
  Speaker 3: from now.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: On as if she wasn't already.
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: Exactly and so Then juliana And amber have this like
• 52:07
  Speaker 3: weird confrontation right. Away so Like amber comes downstairs and
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: she was, LIKE i Think julian was, like how was your?
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: Conversation she's like it was. Good she's like it that's.
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: Good it's just.
• 52:19
  Speaker 4: Like so, aggressive and Then amber's, Like i'm, sorry it's
• 52:24
  Speaker 4: like just it's like. Weird so then it's the next
• 52:26
  Speaker 4: day and there's a compatibility, challenge but it's about.
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: COMMUNICATION i thought that this was actually. Cute, OH i
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: thought that this challenge was.
• 52:37
  Speaker 3: Cute and this is as like people who've listened know
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: That i'm A i'm a Big Love island. FAN i
• 52:44
  Speaker 3: don't The Love island challenges are have become pointless now
• 52:48
  Speaker 3: on THE us, version they're just doing. It it does
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: not do. Anything it doesn't make couples closer. Together if,
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: anything it just creates friction that then ends up going
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: back to the. Villa this was cute because there was
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: like a goal and like there was stuff like there's
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: like the there's there's a prize.
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: Of like getting more you, know one on one time with,
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: him AND i just thought it was.
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: Cute so so basically the girls are gonna have to
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: compete in pairs and they're gonna have to Guide harry
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: through wedding inspired obstacles and Then harry's gonna be blindfolded
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: the whole time and so they can only like use their.
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: Voices but then the other girls are going to be
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: like screaming to like distract him like while he's doing,
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: it so we, see you, know him being guided and
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: then basically whoever's the fastest gets the one on one
• 53:38
  Speaker 3: date with. Him so we See abby And, rikaya, which
• 53:44
  Speaker 3: by the, way so It's. Rikaya but then they all
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: keep calling her riki Ki, Yeah Kiki kiki rikkey Key,
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: rikaya like they all Just it's, LIKE i love a good. Nickname,
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: THOUGH i think it's kind of cute that everybody was
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: like riki Ky like later, anyways she's they're both so.
• 54:01
  Speaker 3: Cute and Then ricia, though is, Like, OKAY i haven't
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: kissed this guy. YET i do want to kiss, him
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: BUT i don't want it to be like at the.
• 54:10
  Speaker 2: House she's very specific about. That she like wants it
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: to be like on a.
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: Date because she doesn't Want juliana coming after her in
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: the middle of the.
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: Night, Anyways so like they do.
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: The they do the challenge And harry has to get
• 54:27
  Speaker 3: makeup and put it On.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: Abby, Okay i'm. Dead he has To i'm, dead.
• 54:36
  Speaker 4: And she she, goes, okay, yeah you got what you?
• 54:40
  Speaker 4: Got when he like walks over with it and he
• 54:41
  Speaker 4: takes the cap off and she, goes, oh, no. Black
• 54:45
  Speaker 4: he pulled of all the lipsticks in, there he pulled
• 54:48
  Speaker 4: a black. One, NOW i don't, Know i'd have to
• 54:51
  Speaker 4: go back and really watch it with a fine tooth.
• 54:53
  Speaker 4: COMB i don't think that that thing was full of black, Lipsticks,
• 54:58
  Speaker 4: LIKE i think that was an, actual genuine like he
• 55:01
  Speaker 4: pulled the black lipstick out of a.
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: Pile, OH i actually Was.
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: Like on the other, Hand i'm, like, oh these producers
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: put nothing but black in.
• 55:08
  Speaker 3: There they could not wait to do. THIS i totally
• 55:11
  Speaker 3: don't think. THAT i. DON'T i THINK i think it
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: was a mixture of, colors but.
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: BLACKLYN i also like this date in. Particular harry has
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: a lot of fun with, it AND i appreciate, that
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: you know WHAT i. MEAN i think that really makes.
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: It why is he so jumped me through the whole?
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: THING i love.
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: It he's like, screaming like when anything touches. Him he's
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: a scaredy. Cat he's a big six' five. Scaredy cat
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: can you imagine Him On fear factor with the cockroaches
• 55:39
  Speaker 3: and the like eating of bugs or the. House clothes oh. My,
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: Gosh also harry needs to Be? On traders what are, you?
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: Doing peacock why have you Not Put harry Jousey? On
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: traders he would be so he'd be. Very good he'd
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: be so good on. That show we see a bunch
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: of the girls go through this and the only other
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: one really worth mentioning is the last One is danelle
• 56:08
  Speaker 3: with the, lingerie challenge and the challenge is that he
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: has to take the lingerie off, of her but then
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: he has to put new ones, on her and to,
• 56:17
  Speaker 3: No surprise harry is very successful at taking.
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: It, off listen did you see how many times he copped?
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: A feel did you see how many times he cop
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: a feel on her as he's trying to dress her?
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: AND lingerie, i mean, she's gorgeous they, all are they,
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: all are but he is like really milking this opportunity
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: to fill her up?
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: Right now don't see? The connection don't see. The connection
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: who do you think.
• 56:41
  Speaker 3: By episode four where we're at, right now who do
• 56:44
  Speaker 3: you think is like a?
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: FRONT runner i.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: Don't know i'm super, thrown off BUT like i, Can,
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: see oh it's so HARD because i can kind of
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: just see all the ones that he wants to have.
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: Sex with i'm having a really hard time seeing him
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: end up with someone in, the end which is what
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: he's posing for all, of us is that he wants
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: to get married and. Have kids i'm having a really
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: hard time. Seeing THAT but i can see all the
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: ones that he wants. To. Bang, yep yeah so It's,
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: not heather Let's marry. Harry, Anymore right he's not. There
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: yet he's not prepared for a love like YOU and
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: i have. To, offer yeah.
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: They're really not like helping anybody out with the editing
• 57:24
  Speaker 3: to like slant you into believing somebody's in.
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: The, LEAD really i. Don't think.
• 57:30
  Speaker 3: Back Of the, House though Harry, And, emma okay, so
• 57:34
  Speaker 3: sorry the Winners are Rikiyah. An abby they win the
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: communication challeng which means they're going to be going on
• 57:41
  Speaker 3: a two on one date the.
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: Next day so back Of The house Harry.
• 57:45
  Speaker 3: And emma emma is getting worried because she hasn't had
• 57:48
  Speaker 3: a date yet and she feels they have, a connection
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: but she would rather leave than be eliminated if he's,
• 57:55
  Speaker 3: not interested and he kind of reassures her that he
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: feels good. Around, Her, sorry emma you are are actually
• 58:00
  Speaker 3: not in The front you're not a FRONTRUNNER like i
• 58:04
  Speaker 3: feel like maybe this was the first time you spoke in.
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: This episode, you're adorable but You're not. Harry's vibe i'm.
• 58:10
  Speaker 3: REALLY sorry i tell he.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: Is a habit of, doing. This though the girls who
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: come to him and, are, LIKE oh i, don't know
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: you know this is not working, for me where he's, like,
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: no, no no.
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: You're good all Except.
• 58:19
  Speaker 3: For rikaya, YEAH yeah, I, mean deanna be real when
• 58:26
  Speaker 3: you were.
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: THE lead i know it's in. MY contract i. Literally
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: CANNOT but I guess i tried to do it in
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: a sense of like let them DOWN because i didn't
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: want to be.
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: A liar i have a really hard.
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: Time lying it goes against every grain of, my body
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: AND so I guess i tried to in a sense
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: AS best i could without going against my contract with
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: BEING like i, don't know, you, KNOW yeah i.
• 58:50
  Speaker 3: GET it i don't, get IT but i, Get IT
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: like i can't imagine what it would be like to be, like, NO.
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: Stay I think i told you about THE time i
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: had to make out with that GUY and i back
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: in my drinking DAYS when i, would drink they forced
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: a bunch of tequila down my throat because they, were
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: like you have to kiss this guy because it's one
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: on one date and if, you don't the viewers will
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: know that you're sending. Him HOME and i, WAS like
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: i really don't want to kiss. THIS guy i. Really
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: don't and EVEN when i did kiss him after like
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: six shots.
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: OF tequila i literally.
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: Was just, like ugh and the producers wouldn't stop the
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: SCENE until i like let him make out. With ME
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: and i wouldn't. DO it. I wouldn't i was on
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: we can sit here. ALL day i am a very patient.
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: HUMAN being i wouldn't.
• 59:32
  Speaker 4: DO it.
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: I can't. I can't it's, so.
• 59:37
  Speaker 3: Dirty IRESs that's NOT what i say to people when
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: they're going. On shows, i'm like nobody can make you
• 59:47
  Speaker 3: kiss somebody you don't.
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: Want to they can't make you. Do that that, is.
• 59:51
  Speaker 3: ILLEGAL right, I hope i really hope things have changed
• 59:56
  Speaker 3: since you WERE, on Tv because i've never had to,
• 59:59
  Speaker 3: do THAT and i personally would NOT if i were in.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 3: That position the two on one date is on a
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 3: beach cliff and these three are going to go repel down,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 3: the side and we Find out harry is scared, of
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 3: heights but then he freaking zips.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 2: Down the side of.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: THAT cliff i am dying at your notes BECAUSE when
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: i was watching, This, SCENE heather i have it in
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: my Notes to harry is like, bye girls see. A
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: bye like there is not a chivalrous bone in. His
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: body he is not trying to protect these. Two women
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: he is like running down the side of.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 2: This.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: CLIFF literally i don't think he has it's too hard,
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 3: for him by, the way because he's got such, you
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 3: know beautiful. Long legs but he really is down at
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 3: the base of that cliff and is, like yeah and
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 3: also taking off the gear like he's already like out
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: of the harness by the time they.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: Get down, for me it was like he's he's also in,
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: a hurry but is he also like trying not to
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: like it was probably all like strapped into his. Groin
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: area and he's, six' five so i know we didn't
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: get to see it in, the painting thing but like
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: it had a, Surely, it's.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: Uncomfy.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah uncomfy uh so he, chooses his, little you know Mini.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: Date with abby.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 4: They talk, again it's like can we talk about something
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 4: else other than children? And?
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 3: FARM animals yeah, I don't know i just really want
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 3: to talk, About, something else HARRY like AND i and
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 3: i also just, like she's like explain like your ideal day,
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 3: of being married and she's like like making.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: Food, And, my kids like let's let's talk.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 3: About something else like it would be like, a really
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: beautiful deep conversation where we look into each other's.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: Eyes and, dancing and look get. In your, kitchen come.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 3: On we like hold hands or like we make love
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 3: in the morning and then we have coffee and then
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 3: it's like we.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: GO on vacate, i don't know.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: We go to the farmer's market and, buy cucumbers together.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 3: Something other than farm animals and going, to THE beach
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 3: like i just want to talk.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: About, something else.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah back, at, the house okay they keep Calling.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: Her, de BRAYLEY yes so i remember AT episode one,
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: I Was.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: SAYING deborah lee I Think, it's DEBORAH lee like. I
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: do not i've not heard her Call.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 3: HERSELF to brayley, i feel like and It's Spelled, like
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 3: deborah lee but. There's no space so are we just
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 3: supposed to Be Like de brayley. I've never heard i've also.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: Wondered Was it just? Harry's accent too is that the
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: reason why it sounds like that Because of? His australian
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: accent but then the mentors Call her de. BRAYLEY as,
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: well i know SO all morning i was like stressing
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: out About Calling her Debora.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 3: LEY or debrayley i was really stressed. OUT about it
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 3: i have to come on the pod and tell us
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 3: how we're supposed to.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: Say your name so, She is like i'm.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 3: Really career focused most of my friends and family and
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 3: my hometown. Are settled down so now she's ready. To, settle, down.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: Okay Cool cool Now harry and.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 3: Rikaia then have their little mini thing and it gets
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 3: a little awkward because he tells her he's like feeling unsure, and,
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 3: she's like yeah, we haven't kissed, and, HE'S like yeah
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: i get like more of a friend, vibe from, you
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 3: not romantic, and, SHE'S like well i want my husband
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 3: to be.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: My, best, friend no babe this is him. LETTING you down.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: I, was very uncomfortable very. UNCOMFORTABLE watching this i had
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: like SWEATY palms, because i think once again he did
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: a really great job of not trying to let her
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: read in. Between the lines.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: It was her she.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: Wasn't RECEIVING it and i was just like when, she
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: WAS like well i want to marry, MY best friend,
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: i was, like, oh girl girl girl girl, Girl, girl girl.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 3: No no no and also but she, knew it right
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 3: she knew that there was like, it's not there and
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 3: and so when, WHEN he's like i get more of,
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 3: a friend vibe, and, SHE'S like well i want to marry.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: MY best friend, i was, like oh that. STOP stop
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: doing i have.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: To say too when they were climbing up on that little,
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: rock right there this is, just for me because YOU
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: know that i wanted, to helps man you DID you
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: know i was going to? Say it immediately and his
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: big tall ass like hops right up on that rock
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: and then he watches her kind of like stumble and
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: look around and climb, on the.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 3: Rock kind of like points as to like how she
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 3: can get up right on a hair girl.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: RIGHT up here i, literally was, Like, oh NO harry
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: and I would never we're never going. To make it
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: we are never going.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 3: To. Make it no you know that if he, was
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 3: into her he would have picked her up and put
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 3: her on, the rock himself, because she's like, she weighs nothing,
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 3: she's so tiny, and she's gorgeous, by the way all
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 3: the girls on this. Show are gorgeous so she gets
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 3: emotional about this because and, then, he goes well. Talk
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 3: to me he says he's working with his therapist on
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: being less, dismissive AND ghosting, which. I go wow i, Literally,
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 3: Was like, wow harry again if there are any young men,
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 3: watching this show this is a shining example of, what
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 3: to do.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: A shining example but also. As A girl when, i'm,
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: sitting THERE right If, i AM rikaia and i am
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: Sitting there with harry when he says this that he
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: has been working on being dismissive and ghosting, WITH his
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: therapist i am taking a mental, Note, OF that heather
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: i am putting it in. The file cabinet it is
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: not a red flag for me at that point because
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: he says he's, working ON it but i am absolutely
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: taking a mental note of that one and keeping that
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: JUST in case i ever need to go.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: Back.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 3: To, that exactly so, She, Goes home okay. I'm not
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 3: surprising she doesn't. Even go home she literally goes to
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 3: a van. And then leaves she doesn't even go back.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 3: To the house but then we do go back to
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: The house And harry and abby. Return by themselves They
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 3: tell everybody. Rikaya has, left you know it was. A
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 3: great conversation harry tells all of them it was a
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 3: great conversation and, it was hard, but you know it was.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 3: The right Thing and Then harry and ellie go to
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 3: have A conversation, AND i, wrote i wrote? Who, IS
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: this seriously i Don't know. WHO ellie IS i.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: Think i am just like, Learning, from YOU heather because
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: i keep glancing up AND down because i have my
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: notes in, front of me and it literally Says? Who
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: is ellie when did? She get here it says when did?
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 2: SHE get here i saw.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 3: Her THROUGHOUT scenes and i wrote TO you, and i
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 3: said there's A blonde here i've. Never seen before and
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 3: also then when she does, Get into, interview i'm like
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 3: you are significantly older, than EVERYBODY else and i can
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 3: tell just by.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 2: Looking at her so she ends up she. Is thirty two, that's.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 3: Not old but it is older than any, comment that's
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 3: here and It's.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: Older than Harry, harry and.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 3: Juliana you know they chat in, his bedroom again and
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 3: This is, Where, i'm like harry what is? Wrong with
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 3: you he's saying that he thinks, in his interview he's
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 3: saying that he thinks that she's more into him than he. Is,
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 3: into her babe you said in the last episode she was.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: Your number one?
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 3: What is happening and then he says that he's also
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 3: feeling like he's falling into his toxic traits with her by.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 2: LOVE bombing her i don't.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: See him, love bombing HER but what i definitely see.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: A toxic relationship there.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 3: Was some love bombing of like, her being like you're
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 3: obsessed with me and He's like, SHE'S she's like, i love,
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 3: you love me and.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 2: He's like yeah but.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: THEY'RE both toxic i don't FEEL like when i think,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: OF love bombing i think of some guy who's doing
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: it to a girl to just. Keep. Her going right
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: it feels very toxic. On both parts they are toxic.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: For one another tell me how much? You, love me
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: no you tell me how much? You, love me no.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: TELL me first i just think.
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 3: It's BAD banter and i also. STAND by that i
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 3: don't think, he LIKES her but i just. It's all
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 3: weird you can't say she's your number one and, then
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 3: be like she likes ME more than?
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 2: I Like?
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 3: Her what harry then the elimination, ceremony is happening and
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 3: two women have, to go home and so They eliminate De,
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 3: brayley And juliana and harry Chooses to save juliana because
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 3: he wants to work on his toxic past that he.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 3: Feels she's, triggering she says learning experiment, for this episode
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 3: like that next week he's, gonna, be like whoops my
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 3: mentors were right to.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: SEND you home, i, DON'T know guys i.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 3: Haven't Watched ahead but harry decides To, then eliminate, ellie,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 3: WHICH sorry babe uh didn't know, who you were so
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 3: with not feeling super invested, in this elimination and she
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 3: tells him she thinks he's making. A horrible mistake, That's,
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 3: pretty ballsy ellie because.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 2: You. JUST got here i feel like.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: What we also didn't say is that when he was speaking,
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: to his mentors YOU know, what i mean they were
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: also saying. The same thing like, she is older she
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: is very, well put together she's on another like. Level
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: of women like they were definitely building her up.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 3: And she is they look bummed when he sends her
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 3: home and The women are then the remaining women are
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 3: very confused by his Choice to keep Juliana and.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 2: Let ellie go.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 3: So at the end, Of the Episode harry and, juliana
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 3: you know Are together and harry tells her how He's
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 3: feeling love, bobby with her, and, SHE'S like oh i
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 3: wasn't interpreting It as love bobby thought we were, just
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 3: being goofy and he says this is a pattern for
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 3: him where he seeks validation in this way from women
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 3: women he's not even really. That interested in so again
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 3: he says he thinks, that an interview he Says he
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 3: thinks juliana likes him more than.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 2: He likes her so that's the end.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 3: Of, episode four obviously we will be back for More
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 3: Recaps Of. Let's marry, harry i'm, invested more toxicity bring.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: It like we don't have enough On Our own let's i'm.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: Here for.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 3: It it's cute i'm, still INVEST in and i do
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 3: want To see if.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: Harry gets. Married i'm Down so.
• 1:10:41
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• 1:10:44
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• 1:10:46
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• 1:10:47
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