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Romeo In The Morning 8-17-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: I was going on this romeo and we're back for
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  Speaker 1: the weekend. Talked a little bit about cosmetic surgery. A
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  Speaker 1: woman was saying that she doesn't know why men like
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  Speaker 1: it and for those who can't afford it. I guess
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  Speaker 1: her husband likes it but she can't afford it. And
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  Speaker 1: she was talking about how it gives she's insecure. Bout
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  Speaker 1: it all right, somebody said, Dad, a dilemma, What up, roam?
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  Speaker 1: So check out. I have an dilemma. The other night,
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  Speaker 1: I took my wife out to a rap party. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: what a rat party is when a show is done
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  Speaker 1: with production and throws a party to celebrate at the end. Now,
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  Speaker 1: my wife's sister, who's younger, watched our child while we
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  Speaker 1: were gone, So the night's going. My wife is getting hammered.
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  Speaker 1: We come home, A child's asleep. I guess put my
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  Speaker 1: wife to bed. I guess the sister's still up. I
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  Speaker 1: was d and D so I didn't drink. It was hungry.
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  Speaker 1: Me and her sister went to go get food, and
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  Speaker 1: on our way back, the sister is telling me her
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  Speaker 1: and her man have an open relationship. Anything goes. So
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  Speaker 1: we get back to the house. She starts taking off
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  Speaker 1: her clothes in a living room in front of me.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't see naked, just a bra and she left
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  Speaker 1: her pants off, bent over and started swaying back and forth,
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  Speaker 1: looking at me like, come get it me. I take
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  Speaker 1: my marriage seriously and didn't do it. But now it's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be awkward when I see her again. And part
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  Speaker 1: of me wonders if I should tell my wife what
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  Speaker 1: happened or just leave it because I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: mess up their relationship. What should I do? Well, first
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  Speaker 1: of all, you should have told your wife the next
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  Speaker 1: day when your wife was awake. That's what you should
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  Speaker 1: have done ideally. So I don't know how many days
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  Speaker 1: have passed since you went and this is yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know how many days have passed since you're telling
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  Speaker 1: me this. But the problem is you need to be
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  Speaker 1: more worried about your marriage than you do about the
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  Speaker 1: relationship with the sisters, because the sister already messed up
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  Speaker 1: the relationship by getting naked in front of you and
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  Speaker 1: trying to get you to hit That's I mean, that's
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  Speaker 1: that already, that was already the problem. The relationship's already
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  Speaker 1: done unless them, you know, unless your wife understands it
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  Speaker 1: already knows. But the longer you don't tell her about it,
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  Speaker 1: and if it comes up again, there's nowhere there's no
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  Speaker 1: way you win, because the sister will manipulate and the
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  Speaker 1: wife will believe the sister unless the I mean unless
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  Speaker 1: the wife already knows the sister's a whore. You know,
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  Speaker 1: the wife may already know that and then understand. So,
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  Speaker 1: but you should have told her the next day. That
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  Speaker 1: would have been your best option at this point. And
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  Speaker 1: the longer away from this situation that it gets, the
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  Speaker 1: more distance between when it happened and when you tell
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  Speaker 1: your wife or when your wife finds out, because she
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  Speaker 1: will find out. Yeah, you're gonna be screwed. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I would tell her, but I don't know how you
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  Speaker 1: tell her now. It's uh probably if by the way,
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  Speaker 1: it sounds too many days that passed, So yeah, good
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  Speaker 1: luck with that one already four to two, five, four
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  Speaker 1: or seven. This evan and so this guy texts me
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  Speaker 1: he had a dilemma, he said, is why. I guess
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  Speaker 1: him and his wife went out to a party and
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  Speaker 1: they the wife got drunk. He was the designated driver,
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  Speaker 1: so he didn't drink, and I guess the younger sister
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  Speaker 1: of the wife. His sister in law watched their baby.
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  Speaker 1: When he gets home, he puts the wife to bed.
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  Speaker 1: He goes to get something to eat, and the sister
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  Speaker 1: in law still up. His sister in law wants to
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  Speaker 1: go get somebody with him. All on the way back,
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  Speaker 1: I guess the sister in law said her and her
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  Speaker 1: man have an open relationship, and the sister in law
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  Speaker 1: proceeds to hit on him, take off her clothes, brawn panties,
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  Speaker 1: I guess, bent over in front of him, talking about,
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  Speaker 1: you know, come get it. He said he didn't know,
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  Speaker 1: He didn't know what to do. He said he takes
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  Speaker 1: his marriage seriously, doesn't know what to do, doesn't want
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  Speaker 1: to cause a problem between the sisters. Yeah, you should
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  Speaker 1: be more worried about the issue with your wife, not
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  Speaker 1: the issue with the with the sisters. You got to
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  Speaker 1: be more worried with the issue you and your wife
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  Speaker 1: are going to have when it comes out. You should
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  Speaker 1: have told your wife immediately, by the way, party four
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  Speaker 1: two five four seven seven yo. Rome, Hey, tell that
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  Speaker 1: guy not to say anything if he hasn't told her already,
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  Speaker 1: like you said, If he didn't tell her the next day,
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  Speaker 1: he needs to just keep his mouth shut and hope
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  Speaker 1: that it never comes up again. I'm pretty sure the
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  Speaker 1: sister doesn't want to have problems with his wife or
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  Speaker 1: with her sister, so I'm sure she's not gonna tell him.
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  Speaker 1: But at this point, Rome, you tell him just to
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  Speaker 1: keep his mouth shut and don't say anything. Well, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but here's the problem. What happens if the sister the sister.
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  Speaker 1: What if it slips one night, or what if the
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  Speaker 1: sister gets mad at the husband, or what if the
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  Speaker 1: sister gets mad at her sister. You know, women will
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  Speaker 1: bring up stuff to cause problems with each other if
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  Speaker 1: they're mad at them. She'll even what if the sister's
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  Speaker 1: getting an argument? She goes, well, you should talk to
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  Speaker 1: your husband about what I did, what we did the
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  Speaker 1: other night, or what we did after that rap party.
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  Speaker 1: You guys win too. You know, women are Women are dirty, sisty.
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  Speaker 1: They are some of the most ruthless human beings on
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  Speaker 1: the planet. Women do not care what they say. They
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  Speaker 1: have no filter when they're upset. Women do not regret.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you know you guys have a Guys have
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  Speaker 1: a filter. They'll say, you know what, I better not
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  Speaker 1: say this because I might regret it later. Women don't
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  Speaker 1: have that, so I don't know. Maybe right A guy
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  Speaker 1: hit me up. He was talking about I guess him
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  Speaker 1: and his wife went out the other night and they
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  Speaker 1: went to some sort of party. Well, the wife got drunk.
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  Speaker 1: The younger sister of the wife with babysitting. So when
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  Speaker 1: he gets back, he puts the wife, you know, the
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  Speaker 1: wife goes to bed. He goes to get something to eat,
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  Speaker 1: apparently with the younger sister. Now, when they get back,
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  Speaker 1: the younger sister or during this time, the younger sister
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  Speaker 1: tells the husband that herner man have an open relationship,
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  Speaker 1: and then I guess, proceeds to take off her clothes. Now,
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  Speaker 1: he never saw her naked, but she did have her
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  Speaker 1: underwear on and bent over in front of him and
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  Speaker 1: kind of like come get me. You know, he says,
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  Speaker 1: I take my marriage seriously, didn't do it, but now
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be awkward when I see her again. And
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  Speaker 1: a part of me wonders if I should tell my
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  Speaker 1: wife what happens, or just what happens, or just have
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  Speaker 1: it have to be because I don't want to mess
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  Speaker 1: up their relationship. What do you think it's gonna mess
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  Speaker 1: I think it's gonna mess up your relationship to be
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  Speaker 1: honest with you. I think that's the relationship you need
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  Speaker 1: to worry about. Is you and your wife, not her
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  Speaker 1: and her sister to be perfectly honest with you, but
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  Speaker 1: to reach his own already four to five, four seven
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  Speaker 1: to seven yr Rome, Hey, you better tell that dude
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  Speaker 1: to not say anything to his wife. He's gonna lose
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  Speaker 1: his babysitter. You know how hard it is to get
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  Speaker 1: a babysitter, Rome, how much it costs. Wow, that's what
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  Speaker 1: you're going with. This guy's gonna lose his whole family
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  Speaker 1: because his sister in law's a whore, and you're over
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  Speaker 1: here worried about losing a babysitter. Yeah. I would like
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  Speaker 1: to know, though, how long ago this happened? How many
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  Speaker 1: days ago did this happen to you? Because you should
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  Speaker 1: have told your wife the next morning to be perfectly
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  Speaker 1: honest with you and just said, hey, yeah, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: you're in a bad spot. I'm just gonna tell you
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  Speaker 1: right now. You're in a bad spot, unfortunately. And I
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  Speaker 1: have a feeling knowing these women today you are You're
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  Speaker 1: gonna be the one that gets screwed over this deal,
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  Speaker 1: even if you did nothing wrong. But that's why I
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  Speaker 1: always tell you, guys, never you should never be around
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  Speaker 1: another woman. If you're married, you should never be around
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  Speaker 1: another woman alone. I have friends since you know I
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  Speaker 1: don't work. I get off at ten am, so I
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  Speaker 1: will have friends that will go, hey, can you go
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  Speaker 1: buy the house and help my wife do this and that?
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, nope, I can't do it. Even though
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  Speaker 1: I know none of my friend's wives find me attractive,
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  Speaker 1: none of my friends that my friends are so much
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  Speaker 1: richer and better than every way than me, you still
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  Speaker 1: don't want to put yourself in that position in any
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  Speaker 1: former fashion. But you guys don't listen. So check this out.
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  Speaker 1: This guy texts me and let me read you the
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  Speaker 1: text real quick. I'll pull it up and just read
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  Speaker 1: it all to you. Says Hey, rom I check this out.
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  Speaker 1: I have a dilemma and took my wife to a
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  Speaker 1: rap party. That's where a show ends production and they
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  Speaker 1: throw a party to celebrate the end of it. My
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  Speaker 1: wife got drunk. We had my sister in law, my
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  Speaker 1: wife's younger sister watch our child. My wife got drunk.
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  Speaker 1: I was the D and D so I didn't drink.
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  Speaker 1: We took my We got home, took my wife to bed,
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  Speaker 1: and I guess the little sister was still up and
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  Speaker 1: I was going to get some food, so she wanted
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  Speaker 1: to go with me. Well, on the way back, she
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  Speaker 1: tells me that herner man of an open relationship. We
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  Speaker 1: get back to the house, she starts taking off her
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  Speaker 1: clothes in the living room in front of me. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't see her naked, just braw and thong, and she
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  Speaker 1: left her pants off and bent over and started swaying
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  Speaker 1: back and forth, like come get it me at take him.
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  Speaker 1: I take my marriage very seriously, So I'm just curious, Rome,
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  Speaker 1: should I tell my wife or not. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what to do. I don't want to cause a problem
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  Speaker 1: between them. Well, you shouldn't worry about the problem between
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  Speaker 1: your wife and her sister, because your sister's the one
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  Speaker 1: who caused that problem. You should worry about the problem
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  Speaker 1: between you and your wife when your wife founds out
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  Speaker 1: and you weren't the one to tell him already. Fourteen
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  Speaker 1: five four seven to seven. Hey, Rome, I just heard
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  Speaker 1: what you were talking about, and it's funny that you
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  Speaker 1: say about your friend's wives. I got to call one time.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a plumber and my buddy's My buddy had a
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  Speaker 1: prumbing problem, so he calls me and says, hey, can
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  Speaker 1: you go fix this problem at my house? And I
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  Speaker 1: didn't think nothing of it, Rome, but his wife was home,
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  Speaker 1: so I went over to fix the plumbing problem. The
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  Speaker 1: wife opened the door with her top off and then
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  Speaker 1: proceeded to show me the problem and stand over me
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  Speaker 1: the whole time. It was very awkward and and comfortable room.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do, and then she starts
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  Speaker 1: flirting with me. I had no idea what my friend
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  Speaker 1: and his wife's home life was like. Apparently they had
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  Speaker 1: been going through some problems, Rome, and they ended up
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  Speaker 1: divorcing about six months later. So you're right, Rome, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta be careful what you do when you go to
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  Speaker 1: your friend's house or when you're around your friend's wives.
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  Speaker 1: Oh oh, I guess we're going to find out what
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  Speaker 1: happened right now. The guy who started this whole thing,
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  Speaker 1: The guy who started this whole thing this morning about
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  Speaker 1: his sister in law hitting on him, getting naked into
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  Speaker 1: a bond, Penny's shaking her butt in front of him
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  Speaker 1: while the wife was passed out. I guess we're going
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  Speaker 1: to find out, he says. Okay, Rome, So I went
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  Speaker 1: on a whim and I just told my wife what happened.
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  Speaker 1: And here's the kicker, which makes me mad. She said
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  Speaker 1: she knew that it was a She knew that it
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  Speaker 1: was a plan plot to see if I would cheat
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  Speaker 1: on her. Wow, And she didn't say anything to me
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  Speaker 1: about it because I didn't sleep with her sister. Now
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  Speaker 1: I'm mad. I asked her, why why would you test me?
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  Speaker 1: She said, because I guess I had her sister's name.
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  Speaker 1: I guess I had her sister's name and a dream,
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  Speaker 1: so she was wondering if I had a thing for her.
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  Speaker 1: But still I'm mad because I feel kind of violated,
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  Speaker 1: non trustworthy when I've been nothing but faithful. I'm mad, Rome.
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe her sister would go that far to
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  Speaker 1: her brown panties in front of you to help her.
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  Speaker 1: That's dedication between sisters, by the way, that's loyalty. I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to tell you this in all seriousness, and I
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  Speaker 1: know that I shouldn't be saying this to you. Once again.
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  Speaker 1: Why I say women are the dirtiest people on the planet.
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  Speaker 1: You should never I wouldn't one hundred percent trust any
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  Speaker 1: woman because of that right there, first of all. And
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  Speaker 1: that's why I just said when men cheat, at least
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  Speaker 1: they feel guilty about it. Women don't. Women blame somebody
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  Speaker 1: else for them being a cheater, or for them sleeping
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  Speaker 1: with your husband or whatever. What's even funnier is would
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  Speaker 1: the sister slept with you? She probably would have. But
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this, and I know it's real
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  Speaker 1: easy for me to throw this out there, but you
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  Speaker 1: should divorce her to do something that deceitful and that dirty,
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  Speaker 1: you should divorce her. And I know that's nothing. Me
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  Speaker 1: saying that is is just you know, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what you're going through. I know you're mad, But if
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  Speaker 1: it was me that happened to me, I would divorce
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  Speaker 1: her today. But that's just me because how can you
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  Speaker 1: be with how can you deal with the woman that
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  Speaker 1: would do that to you? You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I say women are really the dirtiest people
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  Speaker 1: on the planet. They will do anything and justified in
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  Speaker 1: any manner to get what they want. Even when they're
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  Speaker 1: in the wrong, they'll still make some stupid, idiotic justification
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  Speaker 1: to make you the bad guy, and she did so, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I would. I'm just saying if it was me, I
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  Speaker 1: would divorce her today. I'd kick her out of the house.
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  Speaker 1: She'd be out. Okay, what else did I miss with
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  Speaker 1: text messaging?
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  Speaker 2: Hey?
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  Speaker 1: Rome, bring up the topic of expectations? Okay, for me,
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  Speaker 1: I cannot afford to have cosmetic work done, But these men,
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  Speaker 1: including my husband, want women who do that to themselves.
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  Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, They're beautiful, but they are creating
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  Speaker 1: an unrealistic standard of beauty for those of us who
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  Speaker 1: don't have that work done. Makes at least me feel
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  Speaker 1: less then, and I'll never be good enough. Well, what
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  Speaker 1: are you talking about when it comes to cosmetic surgery?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, are you talking about bigger boobs? Are you
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  Speaker 1: talking about a bigger butt? Are you talking about lposuction?
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  Speaker 1: Are you talking about a facelift? I mean, what cosmetic surgery?
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  Speaker 1: There's a lot going on there. What is it that
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  Speaker 1: your husband is looking at or men are looking at
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  Speaker 1: that you can't You can't have because you can't afford it.
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  Speaker 1: Because you know, I'm gonna tell you this, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what your body type looks like. Are you overweight?
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  Speaker 1: Are you because you can always work out and get
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  Speaker 1: thinner and tighter and look great. Is it your boobs
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  Speaker 1: are too small and he likes bigger boobs? Is it?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, if that was the case, why do you
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  Speaker 1: get with you in the first place? I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: don't you'd have to explain a little more about what
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  Speaker 1: you're saying. Is way too big expectations that men have
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  Speaker 1: are I get it, you know some are unrealistic, but
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  Speaker 1: also some are on. You can't just blame men for
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  Speaker 1: these unrealistic expectations. Do you think all women are getting
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  Speaker 1: this work done for men? I've told you this before
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  Speaker 1: that you know women are not. Most women are not
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  Speaker 1: getting anything done for their husbands. They could literally care
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  Speaker 1: less about how you think, how you look at them. So,
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  Speaker 1: but that's just how women are. Once they lock you down,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you become second best already four two five,
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  Speaker 1: four seven to seven. So I guess you have to
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  Speaker 1: be a little bit more. You have to explain a
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  Speaker 1: little bit more to me about what you're talking about.
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  Speaker 1: I guess, because you can always just get fitter, get
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  Speaker 1: in great shape, and look great, and that's free for
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  Speaker 1: the most part, you know. So, but what are you
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  Speaker 1: talking about? What do you need what the what is
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  Speaker 1: the expectation you were talking about that you can't afford
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  Speaker 1: cosmetically already four two five fours seven to seven, and
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  Speaker 1: it's brought me a hey, roam, bring up the topic
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  Speaker 1: of expectations. This is what somebody just sent me for me.
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  Speaker 1: I cannot afford to have a cosmetic work done. But
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  Speaker 1: these men, including my husband, want women who do that
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  Speaker 1: to themselves. Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful, but they're
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  Speaker 1: creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those of us
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  Speaker 1: who don't have that work done. Makes at least me
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  Speaker 1: feel less than it. I'll never be good enough. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what you're talking about. You know, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what kind of cosmetic surgery that men want. There
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  Speaker 1: are a lot of men out there that don't like
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  Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery. For all the men out there, including your husband,
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  Speaker 1: that say they want somebody who's enhanced cosmetically, there's just
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  Speaker 1: as many men out there who don't. That's what somebody
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  Speaker 1: just texted me already four two five four seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: A Rome. Not all men want that. My husband doesn't
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  Speaker 1: like cosmetic surgery, at least that's what he tells me.
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  Speaker 1: He likes all natural women. So yeah, so you it
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  Speaker 1: depends on what you're talking about specifically, Okay, and I
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  Speaker 1: would say this, maybe your husband's not for you. The
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  Speaker 1: problem here's the thing. You know, they always that old
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  Speaker 1: saying there's somebody for everybody, and there really is. If
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  Speaker 1: you're one of these women that wants to or can't
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  Speaker 1: afford to be cosmetically enhanced, there's a man out there
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  Speaker 1: who wants you and it's still a good man. You
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  Speaker 1: don't have to settle. That's the problem. Is a lot
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  Speaker 1: of you women think you have to settle, you know,
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: because of I can't get bigger boobs, I don't have
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: a bigger butt. Well, you don't have to settle. There's
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: a man out there who's going to be just as
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: good as any man who wants that cosmetic surgery done
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: to a woman or his woman. There's going to be
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: just as many men out there that want that as don't.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: So the topic is a I don't know, I'm not
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: really sure what you're what you're trying.
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: To get at.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: And on top of that, if you her husband likes that,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: what you said, your your husband, why isn't he paying
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: for it? If you're willing to do it and he
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: likes that. Why isn't he figuring out a way to
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: pay for that for you? Why do you when you
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: say you you can't afford it? What does that mean
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: you you can't afford it? I mean your husband doesn't
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: pay for anything like that? Or can he afford it?
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: A lot of questions here already four two five, four
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. But I would say that that woman
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: who just called, she said her husband doesn't likes all
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: natural there's just as many men out there who don't
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: like women who are cosmetically enhanced. Well, so somebody sent
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: me this, he says, Hey, brow mean bring up the
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: topic of expectations for me. I can't afford to have
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: cosmetic work done, but the's been, including my husband want
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: Women who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong,
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: they're beautiful, but they are creating an unrealistic standard of
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: beauty for those of us who don't have that work done.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: Makes at least me feel less than and I'll never
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: be good enough. Well let me tell you that, and now,
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: well let me read this text matches A four two
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: five four seven to seven yo. Rome. The girl just
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: said that she feels she doesn't feel good about herself
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: because of cosmetic surgery that's on her. She needs to
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: build her self esteem, not try to get her self
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: esteem from her husband. I mean, that's a great point.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: Why would you let some other woman's looks you know? Well?
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, maybe you need to be more have
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: a little more self esteem, a little more confidence in
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: yourself if you're gonna let somebody else's looks, you know,
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: determine how you feel about yourself. And then on top
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: of that, your husband must play a part in your
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: self esteem. Does he not tell you look good enough
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: or look good? I mean, how does that work? You
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: know what's funny? I was listening to this is this
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: is really gonna sound. I was in Vegas and I
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: was standing in this hallway and it was me and
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: another guy who was on a phone. I was just
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: standing there, having a drink, just in a hallway, and
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: this guy was walking by. He was on his phone,
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: kind of pacing back forse I heard him talking to
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: this woman and he goes and when he ended his
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: phone call, I guess she might have been meeting him.
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: Is what it sounded like. When he ended the phone call,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: I heard him say this. He said, okay, be careful.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: I'll see you in a minute, or i'll see you
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: in a little bit, and you look beautiful and then
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: he hung up. How many times did your husband tell
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: you you look beautiful? Alrighty? Four, two, five, four or
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: seven to seven? Hey, room, you're right on the money
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: with this, with this, so one we as men actually
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: don't like it when money, when money turns into plastic.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: A lot of women think they need surgery because that's
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: all they see in the mainstream meet. Yeah, okay, I
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: get it, but let me ask you a question. Okay,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: and I agree with what you're saying. And this is
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: more for the woman who said the expectations of men?
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: What did your man expect when you met? How long
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: have you been together? How old they're new? Is your relationship?
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: You know, because society has gone through different phases of
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: fake boobs were the thing, big butts were the thing,
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: Skinny waists were the thing, Thicker was the thing. So
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: depending on the on men and the era that they
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: grew up in will depend on the woman and what
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: features they find attractive. So maybe your husband doesn't find
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: you attractive, and why would you stay with him? Or
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: why would you accept that? But like I always said,
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: a woman in great shape, regardless of big boobs or
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: big butt or whatever, can compete with a woman who
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: has cosmetic surgery. Already four two to five four or
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: is seven seven? A lot of balls in the air
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: right now, A lot of stuff going on to this conversation.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I got this text mess just hey, Rome, let's see
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: here what you send me? Oh man, hold on, I
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: gotta pull it up, hey, room, bring up the topic
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: of expectations for me. I can afford to have cosmetic
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: work done, but these men, including my husband, want women
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong, They're beautiful,
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: of us who don't have that work done. Makes at
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: least me feel less than and I'll never be good enough.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Already four two five four or is seven to seven?
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: Good morning to hot what's going on? What's upa hey?
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: Hey, hey, so about this topic this morning, about this
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: cosmetic surgery. First of all, I am very grateful. I've
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: been with my husband for ten years, and on a
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: regular basis, I hear that I'm beautiful, I mean probably
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: three four times a day, Okay, and I'm very appreciable. Okay,
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: I would say thank you or you know sometimes Yeah, anyway,
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: if your man asked you to get some work done
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: on your body.
• 23:14
  Speaker 5: He really don't like you.
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: Real what did you fall in love with?
• 23:21
  Speaker 5: Bruh? Yeah?
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. Yeah, I mean, you're right, you're right.
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: Can we can? She ask him to get a bazillion ballment?
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Uh?
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: My boy, I don't. I don't disagree with you. I
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: That's why I I do think that where is he
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: coming from? Because there are men out there that want
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: what you look like? There are men out there that
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: want plastic cosmetic, There are men out there that want
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: all natural. There have men out there want a girl
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: with small butts, big boobs or big butts small, But
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: I mean there's just us.
• 23:59
  Speaker 6: Women need to realize.
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: Listen, A natural woman listens a lot of time.
• 24:03
  Speaker 5: Just think about God is not gonna give them.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Sure, sure, most pretty pretty girls have no boobs in
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: no books.
• 24:10
  Speaker 5: Okay, you find a Holly Berry.
• 24:12
  Speaker 6: She wasn't working with nothing.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: That you're true? That's right? Okay, Okay, oh.
• 24:18
  Speaker 6: Girl got big lips.
• 24:19
  Speaker 5: The girl got big. But some girls have to get
• 24:22
  Speaker 5: what you get.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Well, I would, I would argue. I would make the argument,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: and this is where I'm gonna I would make the
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: argument that a woman in great shape who may not
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: have big boobs or a big butt, looks just as
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: good as some woman who's got cosmetic surgery done for
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: bigger boobs or I don't like cosmetic on butts, but
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: you know, for bigger boobs. I think that's where she's going.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: But I think they look both both look attractive. It just,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: you know, depends on what you're into.
• 24:53
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: Well, me and my husband had that conversation.
• 24:55
  Speaker 8: He was like, no, I don't want anything fake on
• 24:57
  Speaker 8: you because I'm not.
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not looking for no fake look.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, I think there's a little bit. I
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: think the issue there's a bigger issue of her self esteem,
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: which is uh, I think falling. I think she needs
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: to really look at more so than not being able
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: to afford cosmetic surgery. Alright, you too, bit.
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: I love the way she talks. She's got great opinions.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: I got this text mess just hey Rome, let's see
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: here what she sent me. Hold on, I gotta pull
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: it up, hey room, bring up the topic of expectations
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: for me. I can afford to have cosmetic work done.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: But these men, including my husband, want women who do
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: that to themselves. Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful, but
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those of
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: us who don't have that work done. Makes at least
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: me feel less than and I'll never be good enough
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: already four to seven to seven. Hey, Rome, seem that
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: woman on this topic is wrong. These people with cosmetic
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: surgery don't look good. Well, that's where you're totally wrong,
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: and it's worse than drugs. They all end up looking
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: like Keith Richards when it's all said and that, No,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: they don't. First of all, you're completely wrong about that. Okay,
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: there are a lot of women who get cosmetic surgery
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: and look amazing, and there's nothing wrong with cosmetic surgery.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with doing that to improve yourself. The
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: problem that comes with this woman is she talks about
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: her self esteem, comparing herself to someone who has cosmetic surgery,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: and she can't afford it, and her husband is not
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: helping her with that. Her husband's the same, you know.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: It's just like, as she puts it, all these men,
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: these unrealistic expectations of what women should look like, and
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: her husband's one of them who likes it. But to
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: say that all women who get cosmetic surgery look horrible
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: is just playing out false. Okay, there's a lot of
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: women who get boob jobs and they great. There's a
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: lot of women who get you know, whatever they're doing
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: at you know, facelifts, tummy tucks, bit, you know, boob
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: list things like that, and they look amazing. I think
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: the butt is the hardest one. I think the only
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: one that really is the toughest surgery is the butt lift.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: But the butt thing. Okay, so you're wrong about that.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: But the bigger issue here is why is your husband
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: letting you feel making you feel less then or affecting
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: your self esteem because of cosmetic surgery. You know, somebody
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: will like you the way you are. You know, some
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: men like it both. You know, some men just like
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: beautiful women. Whether it's fake or real, it doesn't matter.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: Some men have a preference, some men don't. You know,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: your husband sounds like he has a preference and he's
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: you know, affecting your self esteem, which you're blaming the
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: women for setting an unrealistic version of you through cosmetic surgery.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: I'm blaming your husband for not being there to build
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: your self esteem? Got this text mess? Just hey Rome,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: let's see here what you send me? Oh man, hold on,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I gotta pull it up, hey room. Bring up the
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: topic of expectations for me. I can afford to have
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: cosmetic work done, but these men, including my husband, want
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: women who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong,
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: they're beautiful, but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: for those of us who don't have that work done.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Makes at least me feel less than and I'll never
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: be good enough already four two five four? Or is
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: seven to seven? Good morning to hot? What's going on?
• 28:35
  Speaker 9: Hey Rome?
• 28:35
  Speaker 8: Who's to say the women that get this cosmetic surgery
• 28:38
  Speaker 8: weren't insecure and we're trying to please their men to
• 28:41
  Speaker 8: begin with? It just seems like a cycle to me.
• 28:44
  Speaker 8: Some women because they want to feel good and it's
• 28:47
  Speaker 8: about them, and some do it for like this woman
• 28:51
  Speaker 8: right here, for instance, she gets it to please to
• 28:54
  Speaker 8: die her husband or whomever she's with. Some of them
• 28:58
  Speaker 8: paid for it.
• 28:59
  Speaker 10: So the expectation on realistic expectations. Maybe the sometimes the
• 29:06
  Speaker 10: men themselves.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't disagree with you. I
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: don't discribe you at all.
• 29:15
  Speaker 8: I don't know.
• 29:17
  Speaker 5: I think.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: I just think, if we're going to really look at it,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: who's thinking her feel insecure about herself, her or her husband,
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: or this unrealistic idea of beauty through cosmetic surgery? Who
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: would you put the who would you put the most
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: blame on?
• 29:32
  Speaker 9: Her husband?
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Absolutely? Absolutely, you married.
• 29:36
  Speaker 8: He married you because there was something about you that
• 29:39
  Speaker 8: you liked.
• 29:42
  Speaker 11: Of a sudden, he wants to change.
• 29:46
  Speaker 8: Somebody else have. Maybe he has attracted me their change.
• 29:50
  Speaker 10: But this is where it goes back to Who's to
• 29:53
  Speaker 10: say the women that he is comparing her to didn't
• 29:58
  Speaker 10: have a husband or a man.
• 30:00
  Speaker 8: I was right, cam and they did.
• 30:01
  Speaker 10: It because of that?
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, So let me ask you this question.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: Why I got you online? Somebody said, I can say
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: that eighty five percent of men think women with cosmetic
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: surgery they see them as a recreational use. Only most
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: men like the real thing. You believe that, No, I
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: think it's probably fifty to fifty men, you know.
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, thanks for calling. I appreciate it. Yeah,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: I would say you're wrong. I would say you're completely wrong.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: There's most men, you know like beauty. I mean, I
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: would say most men don't. I would say most men
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: they like either either or is what I would say.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: So your percentage of eighty five percent think women who
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: have cosmetic surgery are only early recreational use and most
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: men like the real thing. I would say you're one
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: hundred percent wrong, because I think most men can go
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: either way. Hot's hot. They just like what's hot. Okay, Now,
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: maybe they prefer bigger boobs or bigger butts or whatever,
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: thinner wastes or whatever. But I think I think between
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: plastic surgery and real most men don't care. They just
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: like what they like, whether it's real or not. They
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: could care less already. Four two five, four, seven to seven.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: I got this text mess just hey Rome, let's see
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: here what you send me? Oh man, hold on, I
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: gotta pull it up. Hey, room, bring up the topic
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: of expectations for me. I can afford to have cosmetic
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: work done, but these men, including my husband, want women
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful,
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: of us who don't have that work done makes at
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: least me feel less than and I'll never be good
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: enough already four two five four seven to seven yo Rome.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: Most women that get cosmetic procedures done are in some
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: way insecure of themselves, so that ladies shouldn't feel less.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: I love fake boobs, but every other procedure should look
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: should look as natural possible, not like most women in
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: Beggersfield that have big droopy butts with chicken legs. Well,
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: I believe if we talk about cosmetic surgery right, that
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: the butt is the worst one to get. It's the
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: one that you don't have much control over, and it
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: could and it never works. So but to say that
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: most women who get cosmetic surgery are insecure in themselves
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: anyways or feel less, maybe maybe that's why they get
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: it done, or maybe they want to look better. First,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: do you think every woman that wants to look better
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: is insecure? Maybe a room? If her husband wants her
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: to have that work done, then he needs to pay
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: for it. If he can't, then he needs to shut
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: the hell up and make her feel beautiful. Well, but
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: does she want the cosmetic surgery be it sounds to
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: me in the text message she wants to cosmetic surgery
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: to please her husband. So maybe you're right, maybe he
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: does need to pay for it. Why isn't he That
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: is a good point, all right, eight four two five
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: four seven seven. But you know, I'm gonna go back
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: to what I saw the other day. This guy on
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: the phone told his I don't know if his wife
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: girlfriend told her she was beautiful before he got off
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: the phone, which is kind of how often do you
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: hear that? How often do you hear somebody? You hear?
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: Guys are all the time say I love you, you know,
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: but you never hear I never. But I will say this,
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: It did seem like when he said that, there was
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: an awkward pause in the conversation, like it seemed awkward
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: for him to say that to her. It didn't seem
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: like she it didn't seem like she appreciated what he said.
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: It seemed awkward for some reason. Now, maybe that was
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: just me because I don't hear that a lot in conversations,
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: But yeah, it's something. It's something already four four seven
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: to seven. We got this text mess just Hey, Rome,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: let's see here what you send me? Hold on, I
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: gotta pull it up, hey, room, bring up the topic
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: of expectations for me. I can afford to have cosmetic
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: work done, but these men, including my husband, want women
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful,
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: of us who don't have that work done. Makes at
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: least me feel less than and I'll never be good enough.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Already four? Two to five four? Or is seven to seven?
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: Good morning? Hot? What's going on?
• 34:35
  Speaker 8: Okay?
• 34:36
  Speaker 11: No one's looking at the picture by the way this morning.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: That's well, sorry, good morning.
• 34:41
  Speaker 9: No one's looking at the whole picture here, Romeo.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, what's up?
• 34:44
  Speaker 11: There's a million men out in this world and a
• 34:48
  Speaker 11: billion women.
• 34:48
  Speaker 5: I mean, there's just so many.
• 34:50
  Speaker 11: People you can be with.
• 34:51
  Speaker 10: Why would you sit there and hear yourself being tortured every.
• 34:56
  Speaker 9: Day about how a man feels about someone that had
• 34:59
  Speaker 9: work on them. I mean, good for them, but if.
• 35:02
  Speaker 11: He isn't doing his job where you feel insecure and
• 35:06
  Speaker 11: now you're you know, texting Romeo and.
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: Getting people depend.
• 35:13
  Speaker 6: Like saying it in a bad way. I'm saying it
• 35:15
  Speaker 6: like in a mental way, like if.
• 35:18
  Speaker 5: You're just you just don't really know how to answer
• 35:20
  Speaker 5: your own question.
• 35:22
  Speaker 11: I feel like you shouldn't get classic surgery be mentally
• 35:27
  Speaker 11: ye're doing it for other reasons.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: The real, the real problem in this conversation is why
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: is she blaming women who get cosmetic surgery on her
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: insecurities as opposed to blaming her husband for her insecurities exactly?
• 35:45
  Speaker 11: And she should flip the script and have him have
• 35:47
  Speaker 11: seenis surgery and then they'll all be happy.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: Well, what if he's already got a good one?
• 35:53
  Speaker 5: Well, you know, I don't know.
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: I mean there's always better.
• 36:03
  Speaker 8: You might find up tearing me out in paper.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: Oh you wait, lie, you are not lie?
• 36:14
  Speaker 8: Well I speak the truth?
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you too. Right, there's always a better,
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: you know what out there? Always somebody's got a better.
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: What I got?
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: This text? Mess? Just hey Rome, let's see here what
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: you send me? Oh, hold on, I gotta pull it up,
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: Hey Rome, bring up the topic of expectations for me.
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: I can afford to have cosmetic work done, but these men,
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: including my husband, want women who do that to themselves.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful, but they're creating an
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: unrealistic standard of beauty for those of us who don't
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: have that work done makes at least me feel less
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: than and I'll never be good enough already four two
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: four seven to seven. Fake boobs rome, Okay, there's nothing
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: wrong with fake boobs, nothing wrong with real boobs, nothing
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: wrong with fake boobs. Okay, Hey, you know Roman regards
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: yards to the diminishment of the beauty standard. I absolutely
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: love my girlfriend's fake boobs. Her mom gifted the boobs
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: enhancement to her, and what should I.
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: To her?
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: And what I should be doing is thinking her mom. Okay, Look,
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: the bottom line is with this conversation is enhancements. All right,
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: If you want to enhance something, there's nothing wrong with that. Enhancements,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery. There are a lot of people that look
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: amazing when they get it done. Okay. Maybe somebody doesn't
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: like having small booves, they want bigger boobs. Maybe somebody
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: wants has big boobs and they want smaller boobs. I mean,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: it is, whatever it is, whatever makes you feel good
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: is what you're going to do. The problem with this conversation,
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: where you're missing is this woman's self esteem is based
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: on her husband's disregard for her feelings. It's not cosmetic
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: surgery's fault. It's out these women who can afford to
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: get a dune's fault that your standard of beauty is
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: being diminished. It's your husband's fault. He's the one that's
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: making you feel bad. He's the one that's making you
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: feel insecure, like you're not good enough already four two
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: four seven to seven. So once you start putting blame
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: in the right place, maybe you will feel better about yourself.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: Good morning to know what's going on the broom day about.
• 38:27
  Speaker 8: This hold back trying to do your stuff.
• 38:29
  Speaker 11: Man, Like, I feel like some girls that some girls
• 38:32
  Speaker 11: that do get it, I feel like theyture you secure, but.
• 38:35
  Speaker 5: At the same time.
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: They want that attention.
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: Maybe maybe that's what it is. Maybe they want to
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: look better in their clothes. Maybe they want to Maybe
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: you're right, I I uh, maybe that's it.
• 38:49
  Speaker 6: And and the fact that my girl, she tells me
• 38:51
  Speaker 6: she wants together, but you do, wanted to get it
• 38:53
  Speaker 6: way before she got with me, and I was telling her, dude,
• 38:56
  Speaker 6: you don't want me to find you're already good you know.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe it's trying hold on, hold on, Okay, Well,
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: maybe she wants to look better in some ways, you know,
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: why not.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's just how reality.
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: Now, girls didna bel just to look good, you know,
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: just to show.
• 39:18
  Speaker 5: If they want that attention.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: Maybe maybe maybe you're right, I mean there's and yeah,
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: I guess I could see you know, I guess I
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: could see it. It's a it's a it's a simple
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: topic for her for what she's saying, because she's saying
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: that she feels insecure and she's blaming these women who
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: get plastic surgery, and the reality is her husband is
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: the one making her feel insecure. So that's very simple.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: The conversation as a whole of plastic surgery and cosmetic
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: surgery is a little more complicated. So you know, all right,
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: thanks for calling.
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: You do so.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard to argue with any woman who
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: gets plastic surgery to say she didn't do it because
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: she was insecure or she wasn't she had to be
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: insecure about something to get cosmetic surgery, right, maybe all right,
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: Good morning, Romeo. Oh it's Paulina. Hey, Paulina. I'm just
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: gonna say this this men that men objectify women only
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: because they ejectify themselves. First, no one has a gun
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: to these women's head, forcing them to get plastic surgery
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: to get their boobs and ask done. They do it
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: on their own, whether a man pays for it or not.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: Just like women compare men to their men and don't
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: say anything to anyone but friends and family. Men do
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: the same thing. They compare women to other women. However
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: they say it to their women's face. Uh, they say
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: it to their women's face. It's up to the woman
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: to work on herself and her insecurities. Okay, all right, Paulina, worry?
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: How what's going on?
• 41:13
  Speaker 5: Ronald An?
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: What's up?
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: What man?
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: Hey about the shop to stay?
• 41:17
  Speaker 5: There's nothing wrong with enhancements, you know.
• 41:21
  Speaker 11: Whatever, whatever makes.
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: Them happy, their body, their choice.
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: Okay, both ways.
• 41:26
  Speaker 5: You got guys out there knowing stuff to their body as.
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: Well, so it works both ways.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: Whatever makes you feel good, whatever helps them feel a
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: certain way, or you know.
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: Whatever the case may be.
• 41:37
  Speaker 8: Everyone can't afford it, so everyone has to do something different.
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: But you know, at the end of the day, happing it.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: Is what matters, right, Sure, Yeah, I aren't to scare you.
• 41:47
  Speaker 5: I mean, it's it's I don't I don't I don't
• 41:50
  Speaker 5: know what else.
• 41:50
  Speaker 8: I mean, I don't see what the issue is well.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: The issue is her insecurities about it. The issue is
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: the issue has nothing to do with plastic surgery or
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery. It has to do with her husband making
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: her feel insecure by talking about how much better women
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: look with plastic surgery. That's the issue. It's not this
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: is not it. This is not a real conversation about
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: plastic surgery or cosmetic surgery. Because you're right, you want
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: you want to get it, makes you feel good, makes
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: you look better, that's nothing wrong with it. So that's
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: what it comes down to.
• 42:24
  Speaker 5: It's his fault for making her feel that way, exactly.
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: It's his fault for making her feel like she's not
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: good enough, not plastic surgery's.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: Fault, exactly.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: That's down talk to you. I mean, that's really what
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: this conversation comes down to. Cosmetic surgery is great. A
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: lot of women get it. They look amazing. A lot
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: of women don't get it. They look amazing, Okay, But
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: the conversation has to do with her husband making her
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: feel less than I got this text, Messa. Just hey room,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: let's see here what you send me. Oh hold on,
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: I gotta pull it up, hey room, bring up the
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: topic expectations for me. I can afford to have cosmetic
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: work done, but these men, including my husband, want women
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful,
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: of us who don't have that work done. Makes at
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: least me feel less than and I'll never be good enough.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Already four two five four, or is seven to seven?
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: Good morning?
• 43:20
  Speaker 10: Hot?
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: What's going on?
• 43:22
  Speaker 5: Hey, romo? I'm gonna go through a couple of things.
• 43:24
  Speaker 8: About me personally really quick.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead.
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: So I was at two hundred and forty pounds right
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: now I'm at a solid one seventy five.
• 43:32
  Speaker 5: Right, I've lost some weight. I have blue skin like
• 43:34
  Speaker 5: my tummy, right, Hey, got whatever?
• 43:37
  Speaker 10: So I want to get you know, skin remove.
• 43:40
  Speaker 5: A surgery just to feel better about myself. I feel
• 43:42
  Speaker 5: great right now, Don't get me wrong. I'm confident. I
• 43:45
  Speaker 5: feel so good. Okay, but it's gonna make it better,
• 43:48
  Speaker 5: right yep.
• 43:48
  Speaker 6: Well, I have been with my dude for about a
• 43:52
  Speaker 6: little over you're.
• 43:53
  Speaker 5: Already well him, Okay, I have I'm upstairs, but I
• 44:01
  Speaker 5: have a lot in my trunk, right, so that's just me. Well,
• 44:05
  Speaker 5: I get with him and whatever a long time ago.
• 44:07
  Speaker 5: We're looking at his exes whatever, and I'm like, okay,
• 44:10
  Speaker 5: well what I've noticed is that they all have huge boobs, right,
• 44:15
  Speaker 5: no booty. And I'm like, okay, so he's a boob guy.
• 44:18
  Speaker 5: She never brings it up. Whatever. So once I brought up, okay,
• 44:21
  Speaker 5: I'm going to get my you know, my skinny l
• 44:23
  Speaker 5: with surgery, He's like, yeah, go for it. Are you
• 44:25
  Speaker 5: going to get your boob done too?
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: Immediately made me feel like oh okay, and so I
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: was like, okay, so I brought it up.
• 44:33
  Speaker 5: So you're a boob guy, right. He was like, oh no, no, no,
• 44:35
  Speaker 5: I like booty. Booty is my thing. And I said not.
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: Really look at your axes, I said, because all your
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: exes have big old boobs, you know.
• 44:44
  Speaker 5: And he was like yeah, but I don't like booty.
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: I mean, I don't like, I.
• 44:47
  Speaker 5: Don't like boob. Might see his booty. I've just I've
• 44:50
  Speaker 5: never been able to be with the girl with a
• 44:52
  Speaker 5: big butt. And I'm like, boom, okay, but now you're
• 44:55
  Speaker 5: telling me that I need to go up inside when
• 44:57
  Speaker 5: I go get my surgery.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: This question, let me ask you. This question is there
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: anything wrong with him asking me that.
• 45:05
  Speaker 8: Asking me to get a bigger sign up serious?
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, because that's what he prefers, I guess, even
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: though he denies it, but it did in that moment
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: make me feel like like that he doesn't like it.
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: The reason the reason I say that is because somebody
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: texted me and said, Romeo, what's wrong with a woman
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: doing something for their man to make them more attractive?
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: And that why I would say, is that an option
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: for you cosmetically because your man will find you more
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: attractive now because of that?
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I can see myself doing it, not
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: like crazy like his ex girlfriends, but yes, to get
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: a little like maybe like a tough size a couple
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: and a half more.
• 45:52
  Speaker 6: Yes, I'll do it.
• 45:53
  Speaker 10: But I mean I'm I'm comfortable with how I am
• 45:56
  Speaker 10: right now.
• 45:56
  Speaker 7: But I mean, if that's what he likes, and well,
• 45:59
  Speaker 7: the reason I say the reason I say that is
• 46:01
  Speaker 7: because there are a lot of women listening right now
• 46:04
  Speaker 7: that would say you should never have to get cosmetic
• 46:07
  Speaker 7: surgery for your man.
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: He didn't he liked you before cosmetic surgery, so you
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: should never go In the same way that we would say, well,
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: what if your man comes and says, you need to
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: lose some weight to be more attractive. Should you do that?
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: You know a lot of people believe you're just supposed
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: to love somebody or be attracted to somebody the way
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: they are because you love them.
• 46:27
  Speaker 5: But right, But that's the thing though. What if they
• 46:29
  Speaker 5: got together and she was smaller? You know, he blew up? Okay,
• 46:33
  Speaker 5: well she didn't. He didn't.
• 46:34
  Speaker 8: He wasn't attracted to you, big girl, like he was
• 46:36
  Speaker 8: attracted to you.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: So he got to you.
• 46:38
  Speaker 5: You want me to get back to Yeah, how you
• 46:41
  Speaker 5: used to be. There's nothing wrong with that because that's
• 46:43
  Speaker 5: what he.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: Fell so he got he got with you with small
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: big Okay, yeah.
• 46:48
  Speaker 5: But if he fell off with too big, then yeah.
• 46:50
  Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know.
• 46:51
  Speaker 6: But for me, the booth thing, I'll do it.
• 46:55
  Speaker 5: I don't get so when you're gonna get you just
• 46:57
  Speaker 5: made me feel some type of way when he asked
• 46:59
  Speaker 5: me the first time.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: So when are you going to get a boob job?
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: Hopefully tomorrow?
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: No, So I got this text bass just hey, Rome,
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: let's see here what you send me? Oh, hold on,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: I gotta pull it up. Hey, room. Bring up the
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: topic of expectations for me. I can afford to have
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: cosmetic work done, but these men, including my husband, want
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: women who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: they're beautiful, but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: for those of us who don't have that work done.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: Makes at least me feel less than and I'll never
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: be good enough. Already four two five four, or is
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: seven to seven? Good morning? Hot? What's going on?
• 47:34
  Speaker 11: I think it's really crazy when the woman has done
• 47:37
  Speaker 11: plastic surgery or whatever, but then they end up having
• 47:41
  Speaker 11: kids and the kids are wondering when their foods are
• 47:45
  Speaker 11: going to come in. The mom is like, uh, that's
• 47:48
  Speaker 11: like never gonna happen, or the daughter's like wondering why
• 47:52
  Speaker 11: her knows are different than her mom, And that's what happens.
• 47:55
  Speaker 11: I have no friends who's gotten lots of plastic surgery
• 47:59
  Speaker 11: and their kids are like, why.
• 48:00
  Speaker 5: Don't I look like mommy?
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's hilarious.
• 48:04
  Speaker 8: They're so true, you know.
• 48:06
  Speaker 11: I think it really starts from the very beginning, and
• 48:08
  Speaker 11: that's why they end up using men to make them
• 48:11
  Speaker 11: feel uncomfortable, because they're already uncomfortable because they don't look
• 48:14
  Speaker 11: like their moms become evolved, where restroom times have been around.
• 48:18
  Speaker 8: For you know, since the eighties.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so most people have well, I don't want.
• 48:23
  Speaker 11: To say like most, but a lot of people have them.
• 48:26
  Speaker 11: So a lot of people are growing up with parents
• 48:29
  Speaker 11: who have classic surgery and they have no idea that
• 48:31
  Speaker 11: they're never going to look like they're on That's great.
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: That's a great point. I can't believe you came up
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: with that.
• 48:39
  Speaker 5: It's true.
• 48:41
  Speaker 11: This little girl looking at her mom and looking at
• 48:43
  Speaker 11: herself in the mirror, she's like three, looking at her like,
• 48:46
  Speaker 11: you really mess up your kids.
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would. I'm not disagree with that. There's a
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: great points. I know I never thought about that.
• 48:54
  Speaker 11: Kardashians their kids to come look completely.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: Well, they look completely than when they're young. Hey, that's
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: a great point. I appreciate the phone call. That's hilarious.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: Seven it's seven. Let me get to some of these
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: text messages. Hey, Rome, good morning. I have a saying
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: about fake boobs. If you can touch them, they're real.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: That's pretty buddy. Hey, Roan, what's the problem with fixing
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: something you're insecure about? No one questions when someone decides
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: to get braces or fix their teeth, or get a
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: better job or yeah yeah, I can't argue with that comment.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: Hey room, it's Paulina again. This just goes to show
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: men can't have standards. Paulina, you always do this. You're right,
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: She's kind of right. All right, Hey Rome, I'm just
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: tuning in.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: What a jerk.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: It's his fault for making her feel like that's that. Now.
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: I'm a booty loving kind of guy, and my fiance
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: knows that she feel that she needs a b b
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: L and I wouldn't want that for her. I think
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: she is beautiful the way she is. I love her
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: little booty.
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: Well.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know, but BBL is the best cosmetic surgery.
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: I don't think those go I don't think those go well.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: Overall already four two four, seven to seven, what's going on?
• 50:19
  Speaker 5: I don't know. I'm gonna get my boobs done. It's
• 50:21
  Speaker 5: gonna be for me.
• 50:28
  Speaker 6: It's gonna be for me because I hate We're gonna fral.
• 50:34
  Speaker 5: True girls who have their booths done.
• 50:36
  Speaker 6: They don't even wear frall.
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: You gotta do what you gotta do, whatever makes you
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: feel better.
• 50:42
  Speaker 8: How does my husband's faulty look like this?
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: I mean, I rest my.
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: Three kids plus him.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: That's where's already four two five, four seven to seven.
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: Sounds like she needs a new man who makes her
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: feel loved, as she should only get plastic surgery for herself,
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: not for him. Ain't nothing wrong with plastic surgery, but
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: get it because you want it, not someone else. She'll
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: regret it. Also, there's nothing wrong with your man asking
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: you to get plastic surgery, but their approach needs to
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: be nice and loving. Men can be so straightforward that
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: it comes off rude and mean. You just kind of
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: contradicted yourself, though, that was the same person that said
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: the same text two different text messages. You said that
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: women should get plastic surgery for themselves, not for a man,
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: but there's nothing wrong with it as long as they're
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: nice when they ask you.
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: That's a whole nother conversation of how much should you
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: do for your partner? Why is it wrong for your
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: husband to ask you to get bigger boobs? But it's
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: not wrong for you to ask him to dress a
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: certain way? Or you know, no, one's a surgery one's not. Hey, room,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: I got a question, so girl, uhh, we'll get to
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: this in a minute. That's something we've got to talk
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: about later come morning. How it's going on.
• 52:05
  Speaker 6: Ye, I'm in the same boat with that lady. Bro
• 52:08
  Speaker 6: what's up except for the boot drop stuff? But you know,
• 52:13
  Speaker 6: I'm my wife.
• 52:14
  Speaker 5: You know she loves me.
• 52:16
  Speaker 6: I know she loves me.
• 52:18
  Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure she would love.
• 52:19
  Speaker 6: Me if I was six feet you know what I mean, Oh,
• 52:21
  Speaker 6: taller and unfortunately connects his old thirdery on me or
• 52:29
  Speaker 6: ladies like that, you know what I mean. So you're
• 52:32
  Speaker 6: gonna have to deal with it.
• 52:34
  Speaker 9: I mean, I'm not sure.
• 52:36
  Speaker 6: I'm fine. I'm five six, but.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: Oh you're short. Hey, you're short? Okay, five six?
• 52:42
  Speaker 6: Never mind, man, I got damn sure.
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: Hey, but she married you short, so she should love you.
• 52:45
  Speaker 5: Sure?
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: Now, what's going on talking about that?
• 52:53
  Speaker 10: Yeah?
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: Whatever?
• 52:55
  Speaker 3: Oh, I'm right here with my buddy. Well work, okay
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: to the radio, right, Okay, have one opinion. I have
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: one opinion. Okay, mine is I really don't. I don't
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: function with it, you know, I don't know. Just something
• 53:09
  Speaker 3: about like when you play with the little toy it
• 53:12
  Speaker 3: feels so fake. If it was like you're gonna grab
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: something that's gonna pop.
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: Well, when's the last time you actually felt plastic surgery.
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: Things have changed. It's a lot better now than it
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: was thirty years ago.
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: But like, let's say you're you're, you're in the moment, right,
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: you know, you go to grab a handful or something
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: made a few things shifting around. But my buddy, my
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: buddy said he don't care. No, he take it from
• 53:39
  Speaker 3: a full time up.
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 53:42
  Speaker 3: I told him, you know, I was like, if I
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: have a choice, Okay, if I have a choice, I'm
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: a I'm a you know, I'm a stick to a
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: little natural one.
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, I mean there's nothing wrong with that. You can
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: find natural, you can find plastic either one not just
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: yeah okay, all right, man, thanks already for you or
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: seven to seven everyone Rome, everyone for somebody. All these
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: females are for the internet. Uh, I don't know. The
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: internet has brong brought out the whore, I mean the
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: inner hore in. Yeah, the Internet will bring out the
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: inner hore in anybody, I guess, because it really is.
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: That's why we say hose are always gonna win. They
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: always they say that, Uh what do they say something
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: about something when there's a big whatever, When the end,
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: when the incomes, the hose will still still be there.
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: Uh yeah, so I guess just look at the internet,
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: all right, yeah, uh yeah, Hey Rome, my wife got
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: a boob job because she wanted to because after having
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: our kids, they were a bit saggy. But it's a
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: win win because now I enjoy them the most, that's funny.
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: So I don't know.
• 55:06
  Speaker 9: I think.
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: When it comes to cosmetic surgery, I think the people
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: that hate the most are the ones that can't afford it,
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: you know, kind of like the woman was saying, not
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: everybody can afford it, and it kind of you know,
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: upsets her a room. The husband is expressing what he wants.
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: Why is that bad? If they get divorce, she should
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: be losing weight and getting her lips done tomorrow. A
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: woman can say her husband needs to lose weight and wait.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: A woman can say her husband needs to lose weight
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: or needs to make more money, and that's fine. But
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: as soon as a man says something about the appearance
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: he prefers he's a dirt bag. That is one hundred
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: percent true. And that's why, you guys, within reason, don't
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: be it. Don't be you know, don't say that in
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: in a mean aggressive way. But if you want your wife,
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: or you know your girlfriend a certain way, then you
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: should be able to say that, right, especially if they
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: were that way to begin with. But hey, women could
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: do it all day long. But that but that's only
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: because you guys accept it. He's trying to stay in
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: a relationship. He's trying not to cheat. These ladies need
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: to put their feelings to the side and give the
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: man that proble that provides for them what they want.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: No questions asked, well, I understand what you're saying. I
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: wouldn't necessarily say it is those words, But yeah, why
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: wouldn't you want to? You know, a woman has no
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: problem telling her husband to cut his hair a certain way,
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: wear these clothes look like this for me?
• 56:47
  Speaker 3: You know why?
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: Why don't you look better for me? But the minute
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: you tell a woman that, or your wife that, you're
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: absolutely right, you're being a jackass, you're a dirt bag.
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: You're absolutely right. But here's what I'm gonna say to
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: that is this, You guys don't need to accept it. Okay,
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: you guys believe for some reason that you have to
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: accept however a woman treats you and you don't. Because
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: there's a woman out there who won't treat you that
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: way and will have everything that you want. You know,
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: it works both ways. So there's no reason for you
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: to stay in a relationship where you're not getting what
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: you want to the extent that she just says no,
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it, and you're wrong for asking
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: me to. Okay, all right, I mean, but you should
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: have a reasonable conversation about it. You shouldn't just start
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: throwing out ultimatums. You should have a reasonable conversation. And
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: if it's not gonna work, it's not gonna work. Do
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: you send me a rom Imperfections make a woman hot? Well,
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: I mean okay, I mean everybody likes what they want,
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: so I get it. Sure that's what you like. Hey,
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: good morning Rome or good morning Rome. Yeah, right to
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: Rob here. The guys that like that need to remember
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: that they have to maintain all that because I know
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: ladies who had cosmetic surgery at once. Uh, at once
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: it looked good, but now it's uh, it's not uh
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: it first looked uh, it first looks saggy, but maybe
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: it's who does it. Yeah, I don't know what the
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: uptake or what the upkeep is on plastic surgery. So
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: some people like it. Some women want it, some women don't.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: Some women think that they're better because they're all natural
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: and even though they don't look as good as some
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: women who have gotten plastic surgery, plastic and cosmetic surgery
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: does not is not bad, okay. People who do it.
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: A lot of women who do it look amazing. Okay.
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: And just because you can't get it doesn't mean that
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: you know it's wrong. Maybe you can't. You shouldn't be
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: a hater because you can't afford something. If that's the case, Okay,
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: don't be a hater because of that, because I'll tell
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: you right now, you can take You can take a
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: woman who's got cosmetic surgery and put him next to
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: a woman who looks great naturally, and they can both
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: look great. Okay, So it's one's not better than the other.
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: You just you guys have formed your opinions on it
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: and for your own whatever reason, maybe because you can't
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: afford it, or maybe because you I don't know, I'm
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: not really sure what your justification is for it. But
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: you know, for the woman that started this whole thing about,
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: you know, feeling insecure because she can't get it and
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: her husband likes it, is is an issue? You know,
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: it's an issue in your marriage that they need to
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: work out. So yeah, already four two, five, four, seven
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: to seven? You n Rome? Would you send me here?
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: Good morning Rome, bro. If her husband making her feel bad,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: divorce him, get the cash, go TJ, get them surgery
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: she needs, and get another one. Uh case closed, next topic.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: All right, good morning. What's going on?
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 5: Which is a whitey?
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: What's going on?
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 9: I'm just say it like this, like he knew what
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 9: he was getting into, Like my husband beforehand, I already
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 9: had my mommy pooch from having a kid. I had
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 9: a second year with him, and he already doing the
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 9: games here.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 6: Don't get me wrong.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 10: He stills a woman who I have buy the surgery, And.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 9: I'm like, dang, they looks great. The turnover time when
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 9: you have buy securgery.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 10: No, M I can't do that. I could barely handle
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 10: it in my opendon removed.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, let me ask you this question.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: Let me let me ask you a serious question.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 5: Okay, okay.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: If he knew what he was getting himself into, like
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: you said, Okay, what if it's the other way, what
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: if what if he married some some hot you know
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: toned you know piecea you know what, and she changed
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: into something different. Can he say the same thing. Can
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: we have the same argument? Well, hey, I married you
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: like this and you got like that.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 9: I would say, yeah, I mean okay, that happens sometimes
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 9: to some women. It happened to me.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 10: But I mean, you already knew I was it.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 4: Let's just say b.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 9: Because like I was, like, you already knew what. He
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 9: was getting self into itout I cannot.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to argue with you. I won't argue
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: with that. If he knew if if he got with
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: you one way, he already knew it. But she's gotta
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: go the other way too, then.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 9: Right, if he got with you as a time I
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 9: was getting myself into his him, I'm like, okay, when.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, okay, okay, all right, thanks for calling later.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's gotta work both ways, right, Well, for
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: some reason they pop well for her, I guess it does.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: But the hypocrisy and women, it doesn't work both ways, hey, roam.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: Her insecurities come from her own internal dialogue, her wanting
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: to look men who get work done or look better,
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: and feeling bad because she doesn't look like that. How
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: is that her husband's fault? She can always hit the gym,
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: take care of herself and better herself. But that takes
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: hard work, and that's something women don't like to do.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: It's easier to just get in debt ten k for
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: a BBL than to be disciplined, work out and eat.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you're right, I just working out doesn't
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: I don't really know what the situation is, to be
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: honest with you, you know, I mean different people have
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: different reasons for plastic surgery or cosmetic surgery.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: You can't work out and get bigger boobs. Right, You
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: can't really work out and get a bigger butt. You
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: can get toned, but it just depends on what you're
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: trying to accomplish. Right, But I agree with you. I mean,
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: it's just you're always going to have that argument, right.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: I would venture to say, though, how would I put this?
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: I don't know without actually knowing, you know, I don't
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: know that's I mean, you're absolutely right. It doesn't cost
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: much to exercise. You can run around the block, do
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: some squats, do some burpies. I mean, it doesn't cost
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: ask any fool that's been locked up. You know what
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: it cost to get in shape. You know what I'm saying. So, yeah,
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: I agree with you. But people are lazy in general.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: They just don't want to do the work. Why do
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: you think these everybody's on the shot and seven oaks? Yeah, brouh,
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: Let's see, I was if we uh, let's see if
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: we was feeling bad about if we was feeling bad
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: about herself or has low self esteem. At least she
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: started a conversation on Romeo in the morning uh Kurrent
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: County to Talk uh Kurrent County Talk show that brings
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: common sense to all these dumbasses out there. Now, let's
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: help the dude, because we don't know how she is.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: Propose they start working out together. Oh that's one, two
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: a threesome first birthday or three if he's still in
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: love with her, paying for them damn surgeries, he's already
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: married to her. Sure, I'm okay. I don't know where
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: the threesome comes. And I always think it's funny when
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: people bring up a threesome because ninety nine percent of you,
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: if you have one, you're gonna lose your relationship. It's
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: not gonna work out for you. So there's only a
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: small percentage of people that can handle that in their
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: lives work out. But honestly, I don't know what the
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: problem is. That's the I don't know what her what
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery is making her feel insecure, because there's a
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: lot of things that can be done, I mean, boobs, butts, liposuction.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what her problem is. If
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: it's weight, then that's something that can be fixed without surgery.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: If it's boobs or butts, then I don't We got
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: to have a different conversation. So I don't know what
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: her problem is to give her an answer on what
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: why she feels insecure. And she's saying all men like
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: past all men like cosmetic surgery. That is not totally true.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: Her husband likes it. But the problem is this, and
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: I think you have to have a real conversation about this.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: When you've been in a marriage for over ten years,
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: people change, things happen, and you know it's not all
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: just going to be communication. I mean that's what everybody
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: wants to say. Well, as long as we communicate it
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: as long that's not real. When you've been with somebody
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: for a long time, you cannot be expected on either side.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: Husband or wife, whichever partner you are. You cannot just
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: say to yourself, well, you're just you just need to
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: accept me the way I am. That's an idiotic idea.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: You want to be attracted to the person you're with. Unfortunately,
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: when you're not, that's when cheating occurs. And it's and
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: I don't think you should cheat, that's not at all
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But what I'm saying is point do
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: you have to look at your spouse and go, not
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: only do I want to be attractive to him or her,
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: but I want him or her to be attracted to me.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: And with all the things that change over the years,
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: you know, life takes a toll on you, kids, marriage bills,
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: it takes a toll on you. At what point, if
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: you really want to be with somebody and be happy
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: for the rest of your life, at what point do
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: you get to look look at your partner and go, look,
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: we need to make some changes to where we're both
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: attracted to each other again like we were when we met.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: Nobody wants to have that conversation. But why would you
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: want to be unhappy? Why would you want to be
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: with somebody you're not attracted to? Hey, Rome, my best
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: friend got her boobs done and her body done, and
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: her husband was pissed. I don't want to uh, didn't
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: want to help her recover, didn't want to have anything
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: to do with it. But now he sees how much
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: more confident she is, and now he loves it. Well
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: fair enough, I mean, yeah, I get it, I get it,
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: I get it, I get it. Why didn't he help
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: her though? Why she letting her? Why she allowing him
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: to benefit after him not helping her recover? That's what
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: I want to know. Hey, Rome, it ain't her man's fault.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: Blame her mom, Oh man's fault. And if you're insecure,
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: I don't Here's the thing about this about when it
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: comes to what I believe, when a woman's insecure about
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: other women, I don't think her man can do anything
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: about it. If you're insecure, because you because all these
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: women in your world or in wherever you think, or
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: wherever you're seeing at the plastic surgery, and it's making
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: you feel insecure. Even though your husband likes it, he's
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: still your husband. He cannot make you feel better about it.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: I don't think any man when a woman's insecure about herself,
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: I don't think a man can do anything to fix
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: that or to help her not feel insecure about it,
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: because I don't believe he's the one making her insecure. Now,
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: you feel insecure about your relationship because your husband's not
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: paying enough attention to you, or he's working too much,
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: or that is something he can do about or he
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: can fix within him. But when women are insecure of
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: other women, there's nothing a man can do. Hey, Rom,
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: those girls getting bbl's boob jobs don't change the mileage
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: on the car. Still a salvage title. Yeah, but you
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: put a new pain job on a car. They look bomb.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: They look good, So what why are you worried about
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: mileage if they look good?
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: Eight fourteen five four seven to seven year Rom? How
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: can you sit there and say that a man cannot
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: help his wife feel more secure about herself easy because
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: she's she doesn't. It's not him who's making her feel insecure.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: It's other women who have plastic surgery or other women
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: who are looking better than her. And so what do
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: you I don't understand what you're missing in that. I mean,
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: I guess you could say because he likes it, but
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: you can't like something and I mean, is he supposed
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: to not like it? What's your point? So we were
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: talking about a few different things, and this woman was
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: upset because she says men like plastic surgery, which, well,
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: who doesn't, I mean, who doesn't like attractiveness?
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  Speaker 3: You know?
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  Speaker 1: And she said that even her husband does, but she
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: can't afford to get it. So she's mad at her husband,
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  Speaker 1: I guess. But without knowing, we never found out what
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  Speaker 1: she was, what she thought she needed cosmetically that her
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  Speaker 1: husband liked or thought, you know, we never found out
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  Speaker 1: if it was wade, if it was boobs. What if
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: we never found out what it was. So to have
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  Speaker 1: a conversation about it is a little crazy because maybe
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  Speaker 1: it's something she could do without surgery. Maybe it's not.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. But there's a few things that you
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  Speaker 1: guys don't seem to understand, and that is one. How's
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  Speaker 1: he supposed to make her feel more confident if he
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  Speaker 1: tells her he loves her, if he tells her he
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  Speaker 1: likes it. Can both not be true? Can you not, like,
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  Speaker 1: let's say, fake boobs and be in love and like
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  Speaker 1: the way your wife looks? Can both not be true?
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  Speaker 1: Or does one? As at one or the other. The
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  Speaker 1: other thing is she's upset, she's insecure about other people.
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  Speaker 1: He's not the one, I don't believe, and maybe he
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  Speaker 1: is making her feel insecure. Women do not get insecure
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  Speaker 1: over their looks based on a man. They get insecure
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  Speaker 1: over their looks based on other women. And nine times
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  Speaker 1: out of the ten, any woman that's insecure about the
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  Speaker 1: way she feel it looks it's because other women are
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  Speaker 1: making her feel insecure, you know, And normally they're not
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  Speaker 1: even making her feel insecure. She just looks at him
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  Speaker 1: and feels insecure. It's like that old thing. It's like
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  Speaker 1: that whole old adage with the you know, remember the
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  Speaker 1: magazines of the models in the magazines, women don't really
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  Speaker 1: look like that, So women were insecure. I mean, you
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: can't blame insecurity on well you can, but I don't know, really,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta get over that on your own. You gotta
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: do what you gotta do to feel more comfortable with yourself.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you can't blame other women who like to
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: work out, who like to stay in shape, who like
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  Speaker 1: to eat right, who like to get plastic surgery, and look,
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  Speaker 1: you can't blame them for your insecurities. They didn't do
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  Speaker 1: anything to you. They're not doing it to hurt you.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, at least I don't think so. Thirty
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  Speaker 1: four two, five, four, seven to seven. It's not eighty
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  Speaker 1: four point one in the morning every morning, more ninety
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  Speaker 1: four point one