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What Is The Most Dangerous Type of Narcissist? · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  What is going on, beautiful folks?
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  Today we're talking about the most dangerous narcissist.
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  What kind of narcissist? What type of narcissist?
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  Who is the most dangerous narcissist out there?
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  If you're new here, my name is Lee Hammock.
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  I'm a diagnosed narcissist. And welcome to another episode
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  of The Narcissist Code. Let's go.
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  Welcome back, welcome back, welcome back, folks.
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  Yes, the most dangerous narcissist, right?
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  Yes, yes, yes, we talked about it today.
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  Y'all we we covering it. We're covering it.
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  So just to let you know, very recently I did another video
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  about narcissist. But what kind of narcissist did
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  you deal with right over covert whatever.
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  I just recently posted a video you can just search for today we
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  talk about the most dangerous type of narcissist.
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  I know what people going to say the covert narcissist, the most
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  dangerous, the malignant narcissist lead the overt
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  narcissist, the vulnerable narcissist.
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  That's narcissist, that narcissist, the flying
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  narcissist, The, the, the, the digging narcissist, the
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  narcissist, the flame throwing narcissist the most dangerously.
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  We're not talking about Power Rangers or the the captain
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  planet, right? We're not talking about that.
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  We're talking about narcissistic people, right?
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  What's The Who is the most dangerous narcissist?
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  Because that's that's extremely important to understand and this
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  is my mindset right here. Y'all, as they diagnosed
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  narcissists myself. The most dangerous narcissist is
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  the one that you're dealing with, right?
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  The one that you're dealing with or the one that you have dealt
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  with, regardless of what type of narcissist there is, right with
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  what that what type they are covert over whatever they can be
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  dangerous. I don't care if they're shy,
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  bashful, quiet, whatever, they can be dangerous as hell to your
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  mental physical well-being. They absolutely can.
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  They be dangerous health to your financial well-being.
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  They can try to ruin your whole entire life because their
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  feelings get hurt because you decided to leave them.
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  It's because you decided to break up the family even though
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  they were beating your ass and cheating on you, doing all this
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  kind of crazy ass stuff to you, right?
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  It's somehow your fault. The most dangerous narcissist is
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  the one that you have dealt with or the one that you're dealing
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  with, the one whose feelings that you've hurt, right?
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  The one, the one who've you've wronged in some way, shape or
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  form. The one who just can't get over
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  the, the pain that you put them through.
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  That one, that manipulative lying bastard, that one or that
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  two or that three, however many you've dealt with.
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  Cause a lot of times you deal with more than one, right?
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  And some happen to be worse than others.
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  And I tell this, that's why I tell the people, when you leave
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  a ties relationship, heal first. Heal first.
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  Get comfortable being by yourself.
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  Get comfortable being alone because it's important, y'all.
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  It's important to get comfortable being by yourself
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  because if you do not, if you cannot, if you will not, you're
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  going to find a worse person. You know how many people have
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  been dealing with an emotionally abusive narcissist, right?
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  Like it was just so bad. We got so bad.
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  Then you don't take time to heal.
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  You find another one. Like right after you have you go
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  from one relationship to another one.
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  No, no, no buffer, no healing, no nothing.
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  You find it physically emotionally abusive narcissist.
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  You find a controller one and one that threats to talk it
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  wants to start beating your ass or trying to take your life.
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  Once you start putting their hands around here or start
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  putting one of those Pew pews to your head, right, one of them,
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  you find one of them, they are dangerous.
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  Narcissistic people can absolutely be dangerous when
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  they like. Sometimes they have a psychotic
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  break. They can be dangerous as hell
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  and put you through the ringer. Try to take your life of honor
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  here. Try to send you on, try to send
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  you to meet God, right? You know what I mean?
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  Try to send you to meet God. If you're a believer, you won't
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  need to pray anymore. You'll be seeing face to face
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  with God, right? He might leave some kids behind
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  or their kids might precede you, right?
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  Because you have some of these crazy bastards.
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  They will take you out, the kids out and then themselves, right,
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  Because their feelings got hurt because they're so fucking weak.
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  They can't just take themselves out.
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  They got to decide to take their their wife and the kids and the
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  husband out. They got to take everybody out,
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  right? Let's get somebody out saying
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  flaming hot. I get when I see the family
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  annihilate this stuff, man, that gets on my damn nerves.
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  I don't think it's just so you take the kids out too you.
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  They want to get divorced because you've been cheating,
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  abusive to them. You, you ain't taking care of
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  them. You're doing all kinds of shit.
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  They finally want to get divorced, leave you, and then
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  you want to take their life, take the kids out and yourself.
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  That's so goose Fraba, right? Goose Fraba because I'm hot,
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  man. They get to my damn nerves, man.
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  Like seriously. Yeah.
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  And it's not me trying to be a unaliving, unaliving yourself,
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  like advocate, right? I'm not trying to push that.
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  I'm just saying don't take your wife or your husband and kids
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  out before you do it to yourself.
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  That's just so evil. And you going to burn.
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  I don't care what you believe in.
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  You going to burn into the lake, right?
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  God told me to do it. No, God didn't tell you to do
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  that. That's something that that ain't
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  God. That's that's that's the devil
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  using the voice modulator. Then ain't God telling you take
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  your wife and kids out of here. That's that's the devil using
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  the voice modulator. That's the devil.
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  Damn. I actually had one of them here
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  and here damn my daughter was playing to here earlier, damn
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  it. And I want to get up and make
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  this with. I got to get get this gracious
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  y'all, I got to do this y'all give me one second.
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  Wait one second. I'm right back.
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  That's actually one right here. Yeah, I'm back, I'm back, I'm
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  back, I'm back. Don't leave.
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  Don't leave. Don't leave.
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  Don't leave. Don't leave.
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  My daughter. My daughter literally got her
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  playing earlier. And.
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  And there's a voice modulator right here.
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  Isn't that really a voice modulator?
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  It's what it'll say that changes your voice when you talk through
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  it. Yes, it's God.
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  Yes, it's God. That's really the devil, right.
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  Hello. My God.
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  Yes, it's God, but it's the devil.
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  You know what I mean? Yeah, I'm sorry.
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  Yeah, I should've hit pause. I could've hit pause on this.
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  He just would've got it. But yeah, I don't cut the VI,
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  don't like cutting the V. This is real.
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  This is raw. This is really raw with Lee.
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  But this is where it goes though.
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  Y'all I'm trying to bring. I know I'm bringing levity into
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  this situation and it's not a laughing matter, but it does get
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  on my damn nerves. It flames me up, right?
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  Because that's what it does. The most dangerous one.
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  That's why I tell you, you have to protect yourself, right?
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  The most dangerous type of narcissist is the narcissist or
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  psychopath. Toxic person, right?
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  Sociopath that believes their own lies, that doesn't believe
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  that they can be wrong, that believes that they believe their
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  own lies and, and believes the stuff that they're accusing you
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  of that you haven't done. The, the, the dangers
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  narcissist, because you can't talk off the ledge of holding
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  you accountable for something that they imagined, something
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  that they created, right? Not something you've actually
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  done. This is something that they
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  themselves have created. It's not something that you have
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  actually done. It's something that they think
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  you done right, something that they're putting into your head.
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  Some kind of paranoia is going on in their heads to make you
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  think, make them think that you're actually out here
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  cheating on them or doing something to them or going
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  behind their back or you're going to take the kids and
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  disappear. You're going to take all that
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  money. That's the thing.
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  Take all that money and stuff like that.
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  Those are the most dangerous ones, right?
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  I don't give. Yeah.
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  I don't care if they're quiet, meek, whatever, introverted,
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  they can still be dangerous. Do you see the newspapers all
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  the time after these family annihilated, family annihilated
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  situations? Like I never would have thought
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  that they would have done something like this.
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  I you, but you never know what's going on behind the scenes.
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  You never know what's going on behind somebody in somebody's
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  mind. You do.
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  Sometimes if they've been abusive and a loser and a just a
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  just a horrible ass human being, they get shocked that somebody
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  doesn't want to be with them anymore and they get so shocked
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  to the point that they want to harm or hurt the person or not
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  just unalive you, right? Sometimes they don't unalive
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  you. They just torture you legally,
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  financially, like through the children, right?
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  They do this type of stuff to you right here.
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  This is what they keep doing. This is what they're going to
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  keep doing. This is how they, you know,
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  narcissistic people operate. They want to, they want to
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  exhaust you. They want to make you feel weak.
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  They want to make you feel, they want to make you hurt.
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  They want, they want to hurt and harm you.
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  This is what they're going to have to do, right?
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  You know what I mean? This is what they're going to
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  do. This is the mentality.
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  This is the mindset of toxic narcissistic people.
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  The dangerous ones, the the most dangerous one, don't come.
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  Yeah, that's why this is kind of gets to my nerves when I'm
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  seeing in the comment section of people debating who's the most
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  dangerous narcissist, right? Like the covert narcissist, the
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  overt narcissist, this, mine that.
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  Yeah, yours, the one you dealt with, the one you've personally
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  dealt with, no matter how loud and boisterous they are.
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  The religious narcissist can be dangerous as hell too, right?
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  Because they have people like, is it?
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  Should I go there? I'm a go there.
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  Got this 2025. I thought I would hold nothing
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  back. Then I told you I wouldn't hold
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  nothing back. The religious narcissist can
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  absolutely be some of the most dangerous because they can build
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  these cult like followings when people don't think that they can
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  do anything any wrong. Especially if you got a
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  religious pastor, right, or preacher that's narcissistic,
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  that's abusive, that's an evil fucking person, right?
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  The evil person running in the church and they got people
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  celebrating their evil and just forgiving them for every single
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  thing that they've done. If you can't hold anybody,
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  anybody accountable in front of the congregation, what the hell
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  is the point of being in church? Will he let who let he who is
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  out seeing cast the first stone? Nobody is Jesus except for
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  Jesus. Nobody is God except for God,
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  right? Nobody's Allah except for Allah,
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  right? But these people make it sound
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  like they're vessels of, of the Lord of God or whatever, but
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  they be doing horribly evil stuff.
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  And they use God as a shield for their abuse.
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  They use God as a shield for their manipulation.
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  They use God as a shield for the horrible ass stuff that they do
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  to people, for cheating and lying and manipulating, stealing
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  money from the church, whatever it is.
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  They use God for creating these huge ass churches and then
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  having poor, poor parishioners, poor people to go there.
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  It's just wow, I got a private jet from from being the pastor
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  this church, but I got poor people to go to church.
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  Do y'all seek let's not go there because I know people I'm going
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  to piss people off, but y'all going to be pissed off
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  sometimes. Like This is why I realized as
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  well, y'all sidebar, there's nothing you can say on this
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  planet that's not going to make somebody angry.
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  Like there's nothing that you can say on this planet that's
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  going to be neutral to any to everybody.
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  Like you know what, I get that. No, no, that's always it's
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  always going to piss somebody else.
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  Somebody's going to get pissed off by what you say, by what you
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  have going on. This is the mentality.
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  This is what this is the type of stuff that's going to happen,
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  right? That's what I tell you.
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  You have to prepare for it. This is where preparation is
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  key. This is where preparation comes
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  into play. It because you're dealing with
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  this type of person like you have to prepare for it.
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  The religious pastors, the religious, the religious
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  narcissist can be dangerous. The the, the, the, the law
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  enforcement that was going to the law enforcement narcissist.
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  They can absolutely be dangerous as hell.
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  Yeah. I mean, how many stories, how
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  many one on ones that I deal with people that are dealing
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  with, they're dealing with cops, they're dealing with
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  narcissistic cops that are abusing the law to abuse them,
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  that are using the law to abuse them.
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  And how many people in that department sign off on it and
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  just cover it up for it because this is their teammate, this is
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  their, their, their partner or whatever.
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  They're in the same department. So I got to cover for it.
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  No matter how abusive they are, no matter how much horrible ass
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  stuff that they do to their partners or spouses or their
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  children, the department's going to cover for them.
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  Not everybody, not all of them, y'all not all of them.
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  I know we got some people on here who get get get their
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  fucking panties in the bunch. You get angry, they'll get your
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  box boxes all crunched up. When somebody starts talking
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  about public public police, we'll leave.
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  Shut the fuck up. Like damn, like stop getting
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  your feelings hurt about people when people are talking about
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  somebody that that is not you. Damn y'all be flying monkeys for
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  the abuse. That's why they get away with
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  shit all the time. Y'all be so in flying monkey
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  mode. They just want to support people
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  that are abusing other people. Well I need to see both sides of
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  the story. Wait, wait.
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  Is what? Sometimes, yeah, sometimes this
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  is what I can understand. When you're dealing with abuse,
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  sometimes one side is enough. Sometimes one side is enough.
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  What could this person could what, what could this person
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  have done to mitigate unalog, getting them unaliving, getting
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  their self unalog and their children as well.
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  What could they have done to to warrant that?
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  You want to hear the? Other side, what could they have
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  done to warrant that? Well, you got babies, toddlers,
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  one year olds, 2 year olds, 10 years old 10 year olds, 8 year
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  olds, 17 years olds getting unallied by their parent their
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  their parent with their hurt, their sensitive, egotistical,
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  narcissistic, abusive parent decides to take them out of here
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  too you. Want to hear the other side?
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  You want to hear the parents side?
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  Well. I need to hear his side.
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  Fuck you. You need to hear the side of
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  somebody who unallies their wife and kids or their kids or
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  whatever. They the hell now not going
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  there and I was just like, hey, you snapping?
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  Yeah, yeah, yeah. Y'all don't understand how
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  irritated I'm because children deserve to be protected, right?
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  Children deserve that they they can't advocate for themselves,
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  right, And a lot of times abuse victims can't advocate for
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  themselves. Men and women abuse victims
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  cannot advocate for themselves. So my page is is meant is geared
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  towards is turned into geared towards abuse victims having a
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  having a voice and just whatever you like you.
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  Lee knows what we're going through.
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  He can help us heal through it and to get the abusers to see
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  this, to see what you're doing and to stop it, go to therapy.
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  This is not a safe place. But it's just like, hey, damn,
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  Lee did it. At least stop being emotionally
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  abusive. Lee Lee has a good relationship
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  with his children now he's he's rebuilt it.
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  He's rebuilt, rebuilt his whole life.
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  He's helping millions of people. But you don't have to.
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  You don't have to take my journey, but I do want you to go
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  get help. I don't want you to be dangerous
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  as hell and be on the verge of unaliving your family because
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  your feelings get hurt because you're not.
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  You don't feel good enough because you are doing horrible
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  ass stuff and they decided to hold you accountable by leaving
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  you. When is that?
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  Like I said, when is that ground for taking them out of here?
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  You know what I mean? When is that grounds if you to
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  having those thoughts, if you even if you haven't thoughts of
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  harming yourself, what was going on stop even you, you sometimes
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  you have to advocate for yourself, your mental health.
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  Y'all seriously, if you feel like you fit the category or the
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  criteria for somebody that's got out here having these thoughts
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  and harming yourself and harming your family and friends or
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  harming kids in the school or whatever the hell you trying to
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  do, advocate for yourself, for your own mental health before
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  it's too damn late. You got to advocate for
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  yourself. That's what I've done.
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  I've advocate, advocated for my own mental health for the last
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  eight years. I've been in therapy, I've been
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  working to myself and yes, I do snap sometimes.
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  I'm still a narcissist. I still have a personality
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  disorder, right? It hasn't gone away.
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  It doesn't just magically vanish, right?
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  See, I was going to say what they did, Lee, when you said
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  fuck you. That's the narcissist coming
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  out. So, So what?
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  I'm rooting for you. I want you to win.
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  I had to start using leading language like that in cussing
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  sometimes to wake some people up because if you talk to some
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  people softly, they don't get it.
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  Sometimes you just have to breakthrough.
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  There's a Tony Robbins stuff. You got to breakthrough by
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  cussing somebody, cussing somebody out sometimes, right?
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  Sometimes you have to be able to do that right, You know, and I
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  care about you. I want you out to win.
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  I care too much. My therapist, like you might be
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  carrying too much. You got to take a step back.
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  Sometimes he's just like, I want to stop carrying y'all, like I
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  want y'all to win. I hope y'all made it this far
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  and didn't just didn't cut the video off.
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  And I thought guzzing, but I want y'all to win.
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  This is passion. This is anger turned into
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  passion. It's turned into action.
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  I want this. I want my anger and my passion
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  to turn into your action. If you're dealing with a
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  dangerous narcissistic person, you feel like the person that
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  you're dealing with fits the criteria, then you might want to
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  protect yourself as well, protect your children.
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  You might want to take the necessary steps which switch
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  your schedule up, restraining orders, arming yourself, right?
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  Talking to the court system. I know the court system is not
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  there for everybody. I know it works different.
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  Everybody. I know it's failed people over
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  and over again. I know it.
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  Sometimes you have to keep advocating for yourself.
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  You absolutely do. I have support groups, the
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  mental, I have a support group and coaching and stuff like
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  that. The mental and mental
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  illness.net where I talk to people all the time.
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  I'm helping people through these situations.
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  The support group is for survivors and thrivers, right?
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  But I do the one on ones and coaching with narcissists and
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  talk to people as well, right? I do that.
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  I just want y'all to win. Y'all.
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  I hope, I hope that came through my message.
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  I hope that, yeah, resonated with you, that I want you to
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  win. Go out.
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  Whether I'm cussing or not, whether I'm joking or not.
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  I want you to win 'cause there are a lot of dangerous,
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  narcissistic people out here who are using their positions of
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  power, who are using the positions in government or in
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  the hospitals and the fire department and the police
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  officers and nurses, doctors, whoever.
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  They're using their positions, pastors, pastors, wives, whoever
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  the congregation, whoever it is, me and women like whoever,
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  whoever they are. Anyways, y'all, I know y'all mad
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  at me, but if you're mad at me, use it.
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  Take action. Don't unfollow me.
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  I'm just unfollow. My action is unfollowing you.
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  I'm going to follow somebody else who talks to me nicer.
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  But hey, that's how you feel, that's how you feel.
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  I still wish you the best. I still want you to win.
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  I'm still here if you need me. I'm not going anywhere even
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  though TikTok, y'all, y'all TikTok just got banned today
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  officially, but they haven't taken it off yet.
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  So if you only follow me on TikTok, you just come here for
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  the longer videos. I post the shorter videos here
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  too. The shorter videos are right
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  where you are right now. Y'all subscribe to the channel.
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  And as always, y'all as always Mitchell and this is out.
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  Peace. Thank you so much for making it
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  to the end of my video. I am extremely grateful for you.
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  Help us reach more people and click on the screen to watch
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  you've been through. Thank you so much again.
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  I will see you in the next video.
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  Peace.