Latest / TFTC: A Bitcoin Podcast / #690: Why Billionaires Shouldn't Give It All Away with Johann Kurtz
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- 0:00Johan Kurtz, welcome to the show.
- 0:03Thank you so much for having me.
- 0:05Excited to talk.
- 0:06I am as well.
- 0:08Thanks for those of you who are unaware of Johan's work.
- 0:13Substack bestseller, being noble.
- 0:15He just came out with a book, Leaving a Legacy, which I've been reading through.
- 0:21Over the last week, opened it on Thanksgiving morning, read a few chapters while my children
- 0:26And we're playing, watching the Thanksgiving Day Parade.
- 0:30And I think it was very apt to be reading this book on that morning,
- 0:36particularly surrounded by my family on a holiday.
- 0:41Beyond, like I was saying before, we hit record.
- 0:45I'm very excited to be speaking with you today because I feel like this conversation
- 0:49will be a continuation of a long-running thread on this show throughout this year,
- 0:54particularly about this clash of the generations that we're seeing in the West, particularly
- 1:02baby boomers, Merce, millennials, Gen Z. It's not even Merce, but I think it's become very clear that
- 1:09there has been a shift in society philosophically in terms of how the wealthy older generations view
- 1:21their duty, particularly as it pertains to their kids and how they would pass down wealth.
- 1:27And I think the work that you're doing and what you have been doing is really highlighting that
- 1:34there is something's off in terms of the societal norms that are beginning to flourish today that
- 1:43are very contra to what built Western society over the course of millennia. So I think
- 1:51maybe starting there um is what how would you describe the state of this sort of positioning
- 2:00between the generations right now yeah i think i think we're at a very interesting point and we
- 2:05were discussing before the show that i'm not an expert on bitcoin but perhaps an area of shared
- 2:10interest is this question of time horizons when it comes to wealth when it comes to projects when
- 2:16comes to vision. And when I started pulling at this thread that became the subject of the book,
- 2:21and the sort of central question of the book is, why is it wrong to give your wealth to children
- 2:28upon your death? Sorry, why is it wrong to give your wealth to charity upon your death rather than
- 2:32your own children? And this is in response to a sort of a wide range of celebrity announcements
- 2:39that this is what they plan to do, and also sort of mega rich billionaire announcements that this
- 2:43is what they intended to do. But really, as I started pulling on this thread, I realized that
- 2:48in many ways, we occupy this culture of impermanence now when it comes to wealth.
- 2:53So it's not just the billionaires or the ultra wealthy celebrities who announce that they're
- 2:58planning to give their wealth away, who lose this intergenerational continuity. In fact,
- 3:03even ones that try to hold on to their wealth actually perform very poorly at that.
- 3:09So there's this very interesting book by Higani and White, The Missing Billionaires,
- 3:13who look at the maths across the 20th century. And if you take the wealthiest cohort at the
- 3:18beginning of the 20th century, and you project how that wealth should have grown if they invested and
- 3:24achieved normal returns, if they reproduced at the normal rate and spent at a sensible rate for
- 3:28someone in that wealth bracket, the 1,000 wealthiest families then should have turned into 16,000
- 3:34billionaire families today, but there are only sort of 700. And this speaks to this wider question of
- 3:40why are we so bad at constructing permanent things? Why? And what is the root at the heart
- 3:48of all these weird manifestations of this now impulse where one of the causes of intergenerational
- 3:54resentment that you mentioned, I think, is older generations choosing to spend their wealth down
- 3:58at the end of their life, indulging in very wealthy, very expensive, you know, cruises and
- 4:04things like that. Why do some choose to disinherit their children? How do some lose it in other ways?
- 4:09And really, there is this culture of impermanence that I think both you and I, from different perspectives, are trying to begin to resolve. And I have my theories as to how this arose. But I think there's a rich discussion to be had there.
- 4:24Well, having read the book, I think the story of King Edward is particularly interesting.
- 4:33In the 1930s, fell in love with an American woman while he was king and decided to resign as king and go live a life with his lover.
- 4:43and the way you describe in the book,
- 4:46he basically had an abdication of duty
- 4:49and it wasn't until after he stepped down from the throne
- 4:52that he really realized what he was missing out on
- 4:55and the disappointment he brought the country of England specifically
- 5:01because he just completely abandoned his duty.
- 5:05And I think that's indicative of what's happening
- 5:08at a wider scale here in the West right now.
- 5:12It's not only a king sort of releasing himself from his duty and not recognizing the profundity of that, but we're beginning to see that seep into the culture more widely.
- 5:24Yeah, no, exactly. Well, I think there are these behaviors which we sort of assume must come naturally to man and must be inevitable.
- 5:35But it turns out that a lot of those behaviors, a lot of those healthy expressions of societal cohesion are intimately tied to our beliefs, our sort of foundational convictions about reality.
- 5:46And as those beliefs shift, actually, a lot of the things that we assumed would live forever just start falling apart.
- 5:52But, you know, in the case of Edward VIII, who is one of the figures in the book who serves as this cautionary tale about divorcing the notion of wealth, privilege, power from this notion of duty, essentially.
- 6:09It all starts very early.
- 6:11So there's this notion that a king should never get divorced, marry a divorcee.
- 6:16They're subject to these actually incredible impositions on their personal freedom, which
- 6:19is the other side of the coin to being such wealthy, influential figures in society.
- 6:25You know, to whom, to he whom much has been given, much will be demanded.
- 6:30And as they lost faith in their own belief system, they started to undermine their own
- 6:34position, their own credibility in society.
- 6:36So, you know, Edward VIII was committing adultery with the woman who he went on to marry, an American, but we won't blame you for that.
- 6:47And as such, you know, wanting then to remain in his position as king when he wanted to marry her, a twice divorced woman who was in fact still married at that point, just became a very messy situation in which the structures that kept society together.
- 7:01And in that case, the institution of the monarchy were clearly at odds with the lived values of the people who inhabited them.
- 7:08And I think something like that has happened more broadly to all of us.
- 7:13And I think, you know, say what you like about Christianity, and I am a Christian, but at least Christianity gave the wealthy men of the West an entire integrated framework of duty,
- 7:26way of understanding their place in the world, why they had what they had, how they were morally
- 7:34responsible for their children and charity and so forth. It was a time-tested framework.
- 7:43And now that an entire class of people has ascended to a position of great wealth,
- 7:49essentially the boomer generation and some of those who came after them,
- 7:52outside the context of that moral superstructure of Christendom.
- 7:58If not Christianity, and I'm a bit partial here,
- 8:02but if not Christianity, we do need to form this entire
- 8:06coherent philosophy of duty as to the nature of the affluence we've built.
- 8:13Like, what is its purpose?
- 8:14It can't just be creating more and then indulging more
- 8:17because there's this sort of very unattractive culture
- 8:20of the hedonism of the aged that I think strikes us all as a sort of beneath our elders, um,
- 8:28that is doing great damage to society.
- 8:32No, it really is. And it's perplexing as a Christian myself. Uh,
- 8:41it trying to get out of the phrases because I was actually reading something this morning.
- 8:47maybe we'll just lean into it
- 8:52do you think a lot of
- 8:55what we're seeing in terms of this hedonism
- 8:59this sort of we're going to spend our wealth before we die
- 9:03and if we have more left over we're going to give it to charity
- 9:05because we don't spoil you kids
- 9:08you need to work hard
- 9:10is the root problem of this issue
- 9:15seep to the fact that we've fallen away from Christ as a society broadly in the West.
- 9:22Because that's one thing I loved about the book is all the biblical passages you have
- 9:28throughout it that really anchor these sort of core building blocks of a flourishing society
- 9:36that are being completely thrown to the wayside these days.
- 9:39Yeah, well, I mean, there's this phenomenon that takes place in really all areas of society.
- 9:47You can see some reflection of this, which is the Enlightenment comes and it challenges
- 9:52as the sort of Enlightenment tenants become popular amongst different areas of society.
- 9:57They challenge the sort of foundations of belief, long-held convictions, traditions,
- 10:02and so forth. And in some ways that has incredibly positive effects. The separation
- 10:08of science from kind of natural science, where there's all kinds of like dubious philosophical
- 10:14priors that are actually inhibiting the evolution of science. In some ways, there are benefits there.
- 10:20In other ways, it has, I think, fairly detrimental effects on society. But that is not immediately
- 10:26obvious, because people just have ways of doing things. They have certain assumptions. They grow
- 10:30up in a cultural milieu that still basically inherits all its traditions and all its assumptions
- 10:34from what came before. And so the kind of instability at the very base of society,
- 10:41at the very base of existence is not immediately apparent. And I think something like that has
- 10:45happened with property, with private property, which is that when Zhong Lok comes in and sort
- 10:52of establishes this very formalized notion of private property to oversimplify a complex
- 11:01transition. And he says, this is mine, that is yours. To intermix those two things, we have to
- 11:08enter into a consensual contract together. My private property is mine to do what I like with.
- 11:16Nevertheless, people still use their property and assume they had to use their property as
- 11:21Westerners always had. But interestingly, actually, if you look at the philosophy of
- 11:26John Locke as it regards to children and the sovereignty of the individual, he has a lot of
- 11:29trouble integrating this unchosen bond of children's deference to their parents and parents'
- 11:36irrevocable duty to their children into his framework of what becomes liberalism.
- 11:44But yeah, I mean, I think one's relationship to property is really part of this. The kind of
- 11:49older notion that I refer to in the book is not private property as we now understand it. It's
- 11:54this concept of dominion, which I think is a rather wonderful one, which is, yes, it is licit.
- 12:00It is justifiable for some people to have this tremendous wealth and power in society.
- 12:04But dominion, as the theologian Andrew Willard-Jones put it, carries with it the burden of rule.
- 12:10It's much closer to this notion of kingship than merely being rich, as in you have your wealth for
- 12:18purpose. It comes with demands upon you. And, you know, dominion, the root word there, this is the
- 12:24biblical term that sort of transforms into our contemporary notion of property through the
- 12:27enlightenment. The root word there is domus, it's house, like it's a living relationship with what
- 12:33you have. And it implies the necessity to nurture the inhabitants of that house, be they children
- 12:39or servants or, you know, even animals. It is this living relationship of mutual dependence that the
- 12:45King has with his subjects. And as we transition into private property and it becomes more about,
- 12:51well, I earned that thing and therefore it is mine to use as I please. And the way that it
- 12:55pleases me to use it is indulgence. And we sort of lose all natural restraints on the extent to
- 13:01which people feel ashamed about indulging in themselves. You end up with very strange things.
- 13:08It's like, there's this book that I really don't like, although I think, you know, well, it's called Die with Zero.
- 13:17I imagine it's a very popular book.
- 13:18I imagine many of your listeners have read it.
- 13:20It's by a guy called Bill Perkins, who's an energy trader, hedge fund guy.
- 13:25And in a way, he's trying to grapple with the same root issue, which is like, we have all this abundance.
- 13:29We only have a limited time on this earth.
- 13:31What are we trying to do with it?
- 13:33What do we want to accomplish before our days are through?
- 13:35And I think that provocation is actually very good.
- 13:37The instinct at the heart of the book is the right one But without this deep anchoring in philosophy and history and theology and the kind of very foundations of reality he can come up with good answers
- 13:50So he starts talking about these amazing birthday parties he had on a beach in the Caribbean,
- 13:54which gave him memories, which will last forever, which is like, it's great.
- 13:58You had a birthday party and it's great that you had your favorite band come and play with
- 14:02you, but that is not the calling that is, that cannot be the central message of existence
- 14:07of life. We have to get back to something more profound. To come up with a notion that is
- 14:14compelling enough to get the wealthy older generation to start using their wealth in
- 14:20a more righteous fashion. That's a great example. It seems like the older wealthy of today,
- 14:28they like these ephemeral experiences. You'll have those memories forever, but you'll have them.
- 14:35And they're ephemeral for not only you, for zooming out and putting your life on a longer timescale, but for society at large.
- 14:47And you talk about the concept of dominion in the beginning of the book, too, which I think is important to dive into.
- 14:53You really dissect what the Bible meant by the concept of neighbor, too, and talk about the story of the Good Samaritan.
- 15:01And I think that's another thing that's been lost. And if you look at the new valve rich of today, particularly in the tech sector, really trying to give all their wealth to these international charities as possible, they're really losing sight of what's most important, which is having a dominion and loving your neighbor, which is somebody living within that dominion.
- 15:27And there's just this whole trend of thinking that you can save the world by giving all your money to charities that are completely disconnected from your local dominion.
- 15:40Yeah. And when you refuse to recognize this, so the core question here is what's called partiality in philosophy.
- 15:47It's can it ever be defensible to preference those to give especially to those who are close to me, either relationally or geographically, just because they're close.
- 15:56In other words, if I have five pounds, can I ever defend giving it to my son as opposed to giving it to someone who's starving in Africa?
- 16:03And I'm convinced the answer is yes.
- 16:05And it's funny when you start, and I can explain that, but when you start ignoring that principle, you very quickly run into these crazy paradoxes, which I think are at the heart of why America is suffering, Britain is suffering right now.
- 16:17You know, there's this famous example in effective altruism.
- 16:20I think it was Peter Singer that put this forward, but it might have been another philosopher.
- 16:23But the essential question is, the provocation is, if I'm walking by a river and I'm wearing a very expensive coat and I notice a child drowning in that river, and if I climb into the river, I will ruin that jacket and therefore destroy its resale value.
- 16:43but I do manage to sell the one child, save the one child. Is that preferable to going to the
- 16:50nearest shop, selling the jacket, sending the money by an effective altruist charity to Africa
- 16:55where it could save 10 children? And some of the people in the effective altruism movement,
- 17:01because they've lost this moral foundation of partiality, their answer to that question is
- 17:06actually yes. And they present this as some kind of like a checkmate against anyone who wants to,
- 17:12who thinks of themselves as a patriot or thinks of themselves as someone who's rooted in a
- 17:17particular community, which is they try to expose hypocrisy using this example. It's essentially
- 17:22always preferable to earn as much money as possible to send that money to Africa.
- 17:27I think actually, when you start dissolving, we can go into the richer theological and
- 17:33philosophical version of this if you're interested, if you like. But the core question here is one of
- 17:39love. If you walk past a child and you don't save them, and you instead turn to this cold,
- 17:44rational calculation about effect maximization, you've lost love. And it's really love for those
- 17:52around us, love for those in our family, love for those in our community and our nation,
- 17:55that is the fundamental animating principle in the very bonds of society and of selflessness
- 18:02at all. And if you, yes, it is true that in this instance, if you sold your coat, you might
- 18:09save 10 children's lives and who knows what circumstances they're going to be raised in.
- 18:13You have nothing to do with them. You'll never meet them. But as soon as you sever that,
- 18:18that sort of animating principle of love, it is only a matter of time before everything falls
- 18:22apart. And I think that's what you're seeing now, which is like this trend of the kind of
- 18:26oligarchs distancing themselves from actual rooted communities living in societies as the kind of
- 18:32kings that they should be, like actually personally responsible for networks of less well-off people
- 18:38around them, you know, talking to them about their problems and so forth. Instead, living in these
- 18:42slightly atomized bubbles with increasingly weird ideas about the right thing to do with their wealth.
- 18:49Like that question of love and the philosophy, theology, and history there is a very interesting
- 18:54an important one to explore yeah well let's dive into it because i believe i recall correctly like
- 19:03the biblical etymology of neighbor the greek word agape right like that's really what it seeps in
- 19:10this and there's three types of of love in christianity agape being one of them um but this
- 19:17is i think it's an important topic to dive into like what are the different types of love and
- 19:24particularly why should you love your neighbor and what does that do to help build not only a
- 19:30legacy, but a functioning society in the long run? Yeah, it's a great question. I mean, it's,
- 19:36it's kind of this, every so often you come across an assumption that deserves to be challenged. And
- 19:43as soon as someone questions it, you sort of smack your head and you'd be like, oh yeah, of course,
- 19:47like that's, that's an assumption built on a really shaky foundation. And everyone, the kind
- 19:52of core, there are a few, but one of the most important biblical passages on charity is the
- 19:59parable of the Good Samaritan, which most people are familiar with. And that parable tells us to
- 20:06love our neighbor. And in common parlance, everyone says, everyone uses it as if that
- 20:11phrase says something different, which is you have to love everyone, everywhere, the same,
- 20:16all the time. And that is actually not the same thing at all. We at least should question that.
- 20:23The parable of the Good Samaritan, the word it uses for neighbor is derived from the coin Greek
- 20:29plesion, which is akin to proximity. It's akin to, it means basically it's a spatial component.
- 20:37It means who you're close to. And the parable of the Good Samaritan, that's actually, that theme
- 20:44is integral to the entire parable. It is someone who meets someone else, who has an encounter with
- 20:50someone else, and as a result, inherits these diverse responsibilities for their well-being
- 20:56because of that personal encounter. So it's not about a financial transaction. Money is a small
- 21:01element of it. Later on, money pays the innkeeper to look after him before returning to the destitute
- 21:06man. But he pours oil and wine on the man's injuries. He puts him on his own donkey. He
- 21:11personally takes into the innkeeper. In other words, again, there's this relational component.
- 21:17And that, of course, is integral not just to the word neighbor, but to the word charity.
- 21:21Charity is derived from the Latin caritas, which is in turn exactly, as you say,
- 21:25derived from the biblical Greek agape, which is this higher expression of love. And so again,
- 21:31you sort of discover when you start probing into these terms that are at the very root of our
- 21:35thought, people operate on these very shaky foundations to justify these grand projects,
- 21:44these philanthropic projects, foundations, which they present as obviously moral good.
- 21:48And everyone, you, I mean, I, probably you and many of your listeners look at some of these
- 21:54foundations and you think like you have this instinctive negative reaction. Like there is
- 21:59something that is really off about what they're doing, but because of the confused term of the
- 22:05language and therefore that kind of poisons the philosophy that builds off language,
- 22:11you're kind of robbed of any moral language to question or criticize those activities,
- 22:18short of like obvious conspiracy theories or just like obvious misdoing, some of which exist,
- 22:23of course. And I go into some of that in the book. But more than that, the actual foundations
- 22:28of the project is pretty questionable. Well, this whole concept of locality,
- 22:34I mean, it's applicable to a number of things, not only your duty to your neighbor, another human being, but in the context of this neglect of duty to build legacy over your dominion, within a dominion, I think another place in which you manifest is the physical architecture.
- 22:54something we've covered over the years here is urbanism
- 22:58and how the physical environment sort of affects your mentality.
- 23:02And I think pulling on this thread of loving your neighbor,
- 23:06I think it highlights the importance of really focusing on a locality
- 23:10for your neighbor.
- 23:11It's like, hey, you have to live with this person and these people
- 23:14and you should make sure that they're taken care of
- 23:17and living good lives and aspire to be something greater
- 23:22and that manifests in the architecture as well to an extent where if you basically abdicate
- 23:31yourself of any duty to build long-lasting, aesthetically beautiful and sound architecture
- 23:38that's inspiring and makes people feel good to live in a certain place, it's not going
- 23:44to be conducive for a productive society either.
- 23:48Yeah. Architecture is this wonderful sort of canary in the coal mine that something is really wrong, really sick at the heart of our society, which is just that like most cities now are so spiritually innovating.
- 24:02Like you walk around and you're just confronted with a sense of ugliness, of cheapness, that you are in some sense being treated like a completely dispensable cog in a machine that can just inhabit any old thing that's as cheap as possible to erect.
- 24:17and it's getting to the heart of why that has happened is so interesting and so important.
- 24:25And I think it pulls in a lot of related themes here. I think my most basic observation is
- 24:29anyone that builds in that way does not have a conviction that their family will be inhabiting
- 24:37the same spot next to that building for generations to come. In other words,
- 24:42the most beautiful buildings in the UK tend to be the great aristocratic estates, which Britain is
- 24:50famous for, the lovely country houses, precisely because they were constructed as a recognition
- 24:57of the dignity of the estate that was handed to the builders and the fact that the builders'
- 25:02future generations would inhabit the same spot. But why, if you're not tied to the land in some
- 25:07way, if you're just a floating entity that could live anywhere in the country or internationally,
- 25:12Why would you bother to invest in something heavy and beautiful and lasting?
- 25:17Something that sort of speaks of the timelessness of values, which I think is this other thing.
- 25:22I've written about this elsewhere.
- 25:24If you look at the great architectural marvels of the West, to give an example, the Cluny Abbey, which is very, very famous and influential.
- 25:36abbey in France that influenced a lot of cathedral design, monastic design across Europe in the 10th
- 25:43century. And it was really one of the reasons that Europe looks like it looks, that the land,
- 25:51the Duke of Aquitaine who commissioned that, he spoke of wanting to transform his temporal goods
- 25:57into something lasting. Like he had this notion that his beliefs connected him with eternity,
- 26:03but not just looking forwards in time. It wasn't a sort of progressive vision of the world.
- 26:07It was an eternal vision of the world in both directions, like that which has always been
- 26:12beautiful and that which always will be beautiful. It was this kind of, um, the statement of values
- 26:18interwoven into the physical world through this commission and the sense of the permanence of
- 26:22morality and the human condition and man's struggles. And the need for beauty is this kind of,
- 26:27this kind of breakthrough into something, into something transcendent. And without those values,
- 26:34without, you know, the kind of like tension between the solidity of existence and place
- 26:39and rootedness and belief in the higher world that you can manifest through the creation of
- 26:45beautiful things, the kind of ethics of aesthetics and value belief, it's very difficult to build
- 26:51beautiful things. And even like, if you think about the way most people build companies now,
- 26:56They build them to sell them. So there's no conviction that a corporate building will be
- 27:01in your family's possession 30 years from now. So again, why invest in it as something beautiful?
- 27:06The best thing to do is to build it as cheaply as possible so that your company has the best
- 27:13balance sheet possible, can therefore be sold for the maximal sales number, and then your family can
- 27:20move somewhere else. And who cares about the people who have to inhabit that building? Because
- 27:23you have no personal connection to them no moral responsibility to them over and above providing jobs precisely because you lost this agape the sense of love for a neighbor
- 27:36So I think it's all deeply interlinked here.
- 27:38But I like you.
- 27:39I just lament the built environment that we live in now.
- 27:42I think it's one of the great sadnesses of our time.
- 27:46It really is.
- 27:47that's why I feel fortunate I recently moved back to the Philadelphia area,
- 27:51which certainly has its areas where it's lacking in beautiful aesthetics,
- 27:59but we're,
- 28:00we're spoiled with quality builds throughout the city,
- 28:04particularly in the part that I'm living in right now.
- 28:07It is,
- 28:08and it's truly inspiring driving,
- 28:09driving around.
- 28:10I was driving back from dropping the boys off at school today.
- 28:14And I always take the scenic route on the way home.
- 28:17because there's beautiful stone homes and it is inspiring.
- 28:20It makes you really think like, wow, this is something worth preserving
- 28:24and something I hope I can contribute to.
- 28:27And I mean, on the point of business building too,
- 28:30I think there's a great example of the book of a dynastic American family
- 28:38that made a very poor decision.
- 28:41Maybe we can jump into this topic of the importance of an individual family
- 28:46particularly leaders of a family, controlling the wealth and controlling what happens with your money as you pass it on.
- 28:54And you tell the horror story of the Ford family and the Henry Ford Foundation that they were sort of forced to start because of a new tax policy.
- 29:06But over time, slowly but surely, gave up control at the board level. And that foundation turned into something that would be unrecognizable to Henry Ford and his sons today.
- 29:20Yeah, no, exactly. One of the central contentions of the book, one of the central sort of philosophical
- 29:26arguments as to why dynasty is necessary is that there are certain projects, the kind of projects
- 29:32that build the West and our most beautiful buildings, cathedrals, and so forth, which are
- 29:37necessarily intergenerational in nature. They take a long time, great resources, and careful
- 29:42stewardship of a chain of custodians with the same transcendent values to achieve.
- 29:47The Ford Foundation is a good example of what happens when you commit to a seemingly benign endeavor in the most massive way, assuming that good effects will result, but you lose that sort of virtuous family at the heart of the whole thing.
- 30:05So the Ford Foundation, essentially what happens is Edsel, Henry Ford, the elder are confronted with the Roosevelt administration tax policy that you mentioned, which demands 70% of large inheritances.
- 30:20they're then presented with this very difficult situation because they risk losing literally
- 30:26everything in that they have their fortune, yes, but they also treasure, I think quite rightly,
- 30:31control over the Ford Motor Company, this incredibly important institution in America
- 30:35at that time, which bears their name and which is really transforming the world and the experience
- 30:39of American life. And they want to continue in that legacy. And if they have to sell 70%
- 30:45of their estate, they lose the controlling factor in that. So what they decide to do is
- 30:49they decide to give away 70% of their estate preemptively as a tax exemption and retain
- 30:57basically only the controlling shares, the voting shares in the Ford Motor Company and
- 31:01some other assets.
- 31:03But what they think is, okay, there is a way of doing this that allows us to sort of retain
- 31:07power, charitable control over what we're giving away at least.
- 31:12And that's the motivation for setting up a foundation with their name on it.
- 31:15So they can't spend this money on themselves anymore, but at least they can sort of control
- 31:19how good is done in the world. Henry Ford II becomes the chairman of that upon the death of
- 31:24Edsel and Henry Ford the Elder. And he becomes quite literally one of the most powerful men in
- 31:29the world. Ford Foundation is the largest foundation in the world, immensely wealthy
- 31:34and powerful. Henry Ford II is a very wealthy and powerful person in his own right with his
- 31:40personal fortune. And the only other people on the board of the Ford Foundation are men who are
- 31:46employed by Henry Ford, essentially, that Ford Motor Company employees. And the future seems
- 31:51bright. But then what happens is, is Henry Ford II starts doubting the importance of continual
- 31:59family control of this chain of custodians with a family legacy, with a name, with values in common.
- 32:06And he becomes persuaded that he has to democratize control of this foundation as a result.
- 32:11And to cut a very long story short, what happens is the board grows, different people with different values, many of which conflict, enter the board. And essentially, Henry Ford II loses control of the Ford Foundation. And the Ford Foundation becomes what Dwight MacDonald, the historian, described as a great pile of money with a lot of surrounded by people who want some.
- 32:31It just becomes this kind of like totally unmoored, but massively powerful due to its wealth factor in society.
- 32:38And it just, it starts finding completely contradictory things, many of which, I mean, I, and I imagine you would just view as like morally reprehensible.
- 32:47There's Douglas Ensminger in the 70s establishes this massive sterilization infrastructure in India, elsewhere, which becomes made mandatory by Indira Gandhi's regime.
- 32:59So there's a sterilization of literally millions of men a year using the infrastructure set up by the Ford Foundation, this kind of weird eugenics, completely false theory about the so-called population bomb which gripped the world, this kind of Malthusianism which gripped the world in the 70s.
- 33:16There's loads of other weird stuff they do.
- 33:18I mean, Ennis Lyons, who's a prominent substacker and a very intelligent guy, did this investigation a few years ago.
- 33:26And there's this huge amount of money going to defunding the police department in Minneapolis, going to building grassroots Muslim power, going to building a ESG system with Chinese characteristics.
- 33:39All this just weird stuff.
- 33:41And that is totally like all of this is essentially political stuff.
- 33:44It's governance stuff.
- 33:46But it's totally unaccountable to anyone.
- 33:48It's unelected.
- 33:49It's like they don't.
- 33:51The Gates Foundation, for example, doesn't accept any proposals to them.
- 33:55they have to handpick the people who they're going to make donations to to go on projects.
- 34:00So it's totally inscrutable, totally out of control, but massively powerful.
- 34:04And I think basically whatever your politics, that's just such an unhealthy influence on society.
- 34:09So my conviction is that, yeah, you need this kind of dynastic control, this careful set of
- 34:17stewardship, responsibilities, intergenerational values. And you really need a conviction about
- 34:23what you're trying to achieve, which I think is really the key thing that's lacking here.
- 34:28Well, it's also indicative of what happens when you sort of neglect dominion, right? Because
- 34:37another consequence of this is, I think at least partly consequence of this was the degradation of
- 34:43Detroit, which obviously the Ford family had helped build up. And once they ceased control
- 34:50of the board of the Ford Foundation. That's when it began going out and doing these things outside
- 34:57of the dominion of Detroit, Michigan. And Detroit is now completely hollowed out.
- 35:04Yeah, quite so. Yeah. I mean, the Ford family, say what you like about Henry Ford,
- 35:08the elder, and I'm sure people have their issues with him, possibly justifiably. But he was loyal
- 35:14to his city. I mean, he built the Henry Ford Hospital. He bought Dearborn Village. He hired
- 35:20a huge number of different communities, including African-American communities at strong wages over
- 35:26and above what he had to pay. And indeed, often when he didn't have good work for them to get
- 35:31these communities like Inkster through the depression. And there was that sense of stewardship
- 35:37there, a relationship between a man and his city. And I'm not going to present myself as
- 35:43an authority on what happened to Detroit, because I know it's complex. There's an interesting
- 35:49dimension of this that's covered in the book, Strong Towns, which is very good as well,
- 35:52which is about the financialization of the infrastructure. But a lot of it has to do with
- 35:57this complete divorce of people and wealth from sense of place, like the globalization of the
- 36:04market, reduced tariffs, but also like when wealthy families stop viewing themselves as
- 36:10rooted in a particular community, whose generations are intimately tied to the future of that
- 36:16community, and who have to live in the center of that community, then you get these security
- 36:22issues. I mean, imagine if there was a family worth whatever the Ford family would be worth
- 36:26today, tens of billions of pounds, who had to live in the center of Detroit and was responsible
- 36:31for the security situation there. And the security situation, once that goes, just means that you get
- 36:37tremendous flight of all kinds of productive communities, businesses, and so forth. And it
- 36:42just massively accelerates the process. Charles Murray has a good book about this coming apart,
- 36:47which is like all the kind of intractable problems that come when you move from this model where the
- 36:52elites are dispersed throughout the country, each bringing elite competence and resources to bear
- 36:58against the problems of a diverse array of communities to just concentration and Martha's
- 37:04Vineyard and a few other places in the community. And then they can get away with the most
- 37:09ridiculous luxury beliefs because they're totally insulated from all of the consequences of those
- 37:15beliefs. And the rest of the country is kind of left to rot. So yeah, no, I think you're absolutely
- 37:20right to call out that what happened to Detroit was just this travesty.
- 37:27Yeah. Strong Towns, another great book. Make sure you read it. Chuck Morona. That was another book
- 37:32that really opened my eyes.
- 37:34And I think if you're looking for a sort of playbook
- 37:40on how to build a strong town,
- 37:42particularly if you are somebody with a lot of wealth
- 37:45who would like to bring back some of these core concepts
- 37:48and build a legacy, that's definitely a must read.
- 37:52But on this subject of building a legacy,
- 37:55I think one concept that you touch on in the book
- 37:59that people have a natural aversion to is the concept of nepotism.
- 38:06And you make the case for why it's good.
- 38:09Why is nepotism good?
- 38:12That's a great question.
- 38:14One thing that I really encourage people to do is not to reason about claims,
- 38:22like to reason about the most important issues in their life
- 38:26using these terms that they only tenuously understand and that have this uncertain history
- 38:32that have all kinds of like hostile claims smuggled into them. And then without that,
- 38:39that sort of deep reflection on what they're actually saying and believe make these very
- 38:43consequential decisions. So like nepotism, let's say everyone uses that term, they throw it around,
- 38:50right? Like, oh, so-and-so is a Nepo baby. And that's this incredibly personal slight,
- 38:55But why should that be so? I mean, like acting has always been a family business, right? A hundred years ago, two, three, four, 500 years ago, these, these particular domains, these cultural domains are always family businesses.
- 39:07and and business families have this unique capacity to to to bring forth genius in their
- 39:16children like if you go and and look at the great geniuses of history and perhaps unfortunately many
- 39:23of the most contemporary examples are like sporting stars many of them were raised in the
- 39:28context of a family business of being raised from a young age to achieve tremendous things
- 39:35and being raised amongst other people who are excellent in that domain.
- 39:39This is actually the theory of a Hungarian figure who's interesting called Laszlo Polgar,
- 39:44who was the father of Judith Polgar, who's by far the strongest female chess player to ever live,
- 39:49and whose sister Zuzsa was the second strongest chess player in the world after her.
- 39:57And Judith was such a strong player, she's almost a living refutation of the idea that women can't be
- 40:02as good as the very top men in chess, which is like she's the only paradox that somewhat brings
- 40:09that assertion into question, which does speak to this conviction of Laszlo that
- 40:16a young specialization has all these factors which bring forth excellence.
- 40:22So if we're going to reason about nepotism, we should at least understand what it is,
- 40:25because there seem to be all these confounding factors. Family businesses outperform publicly
- 40:30traded companies in the marketplace. This is actually a well-established financial phenomenon.
- 40:35You can look at the work of John A. Davis, who's a former professor at Harvard Business School,
- 40:39MIT Science School of Management. It is pretty well-reflected and well-understood that family
- 40:43businesses have these unique advantages, like their ultra-long time horizon planning,
- 40:49carefully managed and planned succession strategies, like the fact they have an intrinsic loyalty to
- 40:57the institution that is not simply a mercenary one, that people can count on being with the
- 41:01same institution in five, 10, 15, 20, 50, 100 years, and so are willing to make sacrificial
- 41:07decisions in the short term that pay off in the long term There a variety of reasons there So in the face of this observation that like a many of the best sporting players of our age Floyd Mayweather you know Max Verstappen I give many examples Tiger Woods the Williams sisters et cetera et cetera
- 41:23You can really go on to like the greatest of all time in pretty much any sport. And you'll find that they were raised by a family who played the sport.
- 41:29Given that this is reflected in sports and business, we should really question the idea that like nepotism breeds incompetence and raises ineffectual people to the top.
- 41:39So what actually is nepotism? Nepotism means something specific, and it doesn't mean the way that almost everyone uses it today.
- 41:46Nepotism comes from this very interesting work called Il Nepotismo di Roma, which is the nephews of Rome, but it's a reference to it's a Gregorio Leti book in the 17th century.
- 41:58It's a reference to this very specific and interesting history, which is this institution called the Pope's Nephews.
- 42:04And it's always been in the Catholic Church up until quite recently, a tradition to bring
- 42:09in a family member of the Pope, traditionally a nephew, to the papal court because it was
- 42:14understood as a place of intrigue and inherent instability that required someone of absolute
- 42:19loyalty close to you to help you navigate that court to bring stability in.
- 42:23At a certain point, which had radical ramifications in pretty much every domain of Western life,
- 42:30there was a string of popes who were quite clearly corrupted in their role. And they had illegitimate
- 42:36sons and they brought them into the church under the pretense that these were popes' nephews.
- 42:40And they basically ransacked the church using this illicit connection. And that was what became
- 42:46nepotism in the English language. In other words, it was a practice of deception, of infiltration
- 42:52of institutions that were intended to be public by private families in order for enrichment
- 42:58of the individual family under a practice of deception. In other words, it's much closer to
- 43:04what we would now term corruption, as in political corruption, than it is merely familial preference
- 43:10within a particular industry for one's own children. And if you stop and think about it,
- 43:15of course, if you have a particular excellence within a particular field,
- 43:21it is advantageous to pass on that excellence to your children. You have a unique understanding
- 43:25that you have, that you can potentially pass on using your incredibly high fidelity,
- 43:30high bandwidth relationship to your child. You have relationships that it would be a tremendous
- 43:34shame and it would be a universal loss if you didn't pass on. And you have, as I argue,
- 43:42this particular moral responsibility to your child. And done correctly, that echoes outwards
- 43:47as this tremendous advantage to society at large. And so, yeah, I mean, like nepotism means
- 43:55something specific. And there are instances in which corrupting factors conducted under the
- 44:04table can undermine the integrity of a necessary institution or domain. And we should be very
- 44:11cognizant of that. I think quite rightly, it's been brought up in, for example, deceptive
- 44:18practices. I think there's a family in the States, obviously, this isn't my country,
- 44:22that has basically been, has been applying for loans, fortunately.
- 44:29And I think this is in the motel industry,
- 44:33has been using a whole financial infrastructure to enrich their own family
- 44:36under the pretense that this is an objective policy that is suspect.
- 44:42But the basic idea of helping your children into the industry
- 44:46that you are excellent in and trying to ensure
- 44:48that they are also excellent in the industry
- 44:50is like a cornerstone of Western society.
- 44:53Up until about 1950, that is how literally the entire West was built.
- 45:00Well, this gets back to duty and dives into the topic of
- 45:05how do you actually pass along this knowledge?
- 45:08What should the relationship with your children look like?
- 45:13How do you fulfill your duty of making sure that you have a legacy?
- 45:20Because it just doesn't happen.
- 45:23You need to actually work towards it.
- 45:26What are the best practices to make sure that your children understand the gravity of what you're passing down to them?
- 45:35Yeah, great question.
- 45:37So this was a dimension that I didn't anticipate being an integral part of the book when I started it.
- 45:41I thought it would be a philosophical defense at a conceptual level of dynasty, of generational
- 45:48wealth, of a stable upper class.
- 45:52But actually, what I realized as I went on was that it was actually not possible to defend
- 45:58that proposition if people did not have a framework to pass on stability, virtue, and
- 46:06ambition for greatness in the context of wealth.
- 46:09And that's something that I think we've really lost in our society for reasons I'll go into in a second.
- 46:14So what I did was I went and I looked for the great families of the West who had successfully passed on wealth stably.
- 46:21They'd grown it over many generations.
- 46:24Typically, these are aristocratic families, although they're not exclusively aristocratic families, and who would achieve the kinds of things that I argue we need in the book.
- 46:31these kind of great projects, beautiful architecture, artistic patronage, cultural sophistication,
- 46:37concepts like fair play, manners, etiquette, taste, the upholding of the physical and spiritual
- 46:42health of particular communities. And there really are examples of that. So I tried to
- 46:47distill out of them these principles for raising healthy families that are capable of these things.
- 46:55And without that, if you don't have access to a framework like that, I do actually totally
- 47:01understand why people feel like disinheriting their children, because they're conscious that
- 47:07they simply don't have a methodology to ensure the children raised in the context of wealth
- 47:12that experience these tremendous wealth events will be able to be virtuous, will find purpose,
- 47:17will find discipline and drive and entrepreneurship. I get it. If the only way you know how to pass
- 47:23those virtues on is by putting someone in this kind of dog-eat-dog competitive marketplace,
- 47:28place, then that's the only way of ensuring you have hardworking children. And I understand why
- 47:34that's your instinct. However, history shows that that is not necessary. And indeed, if that is the
- 47:38route that you pursue, you can never have these multi-generational great works, which I argue is
- 47:42a tremendous shame. I think basically what's happened is it used to be that society was
- 47:49naturally set up so that you could pass on wealth to your children without corrupting them. In other
- 47:56words, if you go back to 18, 19 before in the US, almost every family, 90% of families are agrarian
- 48:03workers, typically working small, personally held farms. And when a patriarch passed on his wealth
- 48:09to his children, what he was actually doing was passing them a farm and some other assets, perhaps
- 48:14a house, et cetera. And so, yes, you're passing them on wealth, but this isn't highly liquid wealth.
- 48:19This isn't wealth that it's easy to squander. This is wealth that makes demands of the children.
- 48:23They don't have to work that land. They have to use it for its purpose. What happens is in the 20th century, there are these two overwhelming trends, which have healthy upsides, which are why they're accelerated, but which also have these unforeseen downsides.
- 48:38downsides. Those two trends are a massively increased class mobility. So you get people
- 48:44who come from quite humble backgrounds to being some of the wealthiest men in history,
- 48:48particularly in the tech sector, but elsewhere as well. And those people don't have the rooted
- 48:53aristocratic practices, which I talk about in the book, the traditions, the ways of raising children
- 48:58in the context of wealth, because they're first generation wealth. They have no contact with the
- 49:02tradition of raising healthy, wealthy Western children. The second thing is this overwhelming
- 49:10trend towards the liquidity of wealth. So it used to be that, yes, even aristocrats were very wealthy,
- 49:16but again, their wealth was bound up in physical estates that they couldn't sell,
- 49:21productive land around the estate that had to be managed if not actively worked,
- 49:25art, which was particular to their family and was therefore not liquid, etc., etc. So they had some
- 49:31liquid wealth, but they were basically inheriting these assets that were tremendously luxurious,
- 49:36but made, again, these great demands of stewardship, of dominion.
- 49:39That all changes in the 20th century. So you can now pass on wealth in entirely liquid assets,
- 49:46as is in fact now the norm. It's expected that children will sell their parents' house.
- 49:50If they even inherit a house, they might just inherit liquid cash or stocks and shares,
- 49:54which are easy to... And even during a patriarch's lifetime, it's likely if they
- 49:59start a family business, they'll sell it. So it really is essential to actually ask at a
- 50:07foundational level, how can we achieve a level of stability in the midst of all this chaos?
- 50:14And I have a few chapters on this. And they basically fall into three categories. Let me
- 50:22sign my contents page here so I can accurately describe. The first is raising children worthy
- 50:28of Empires. That's a chapter name. And the principles there are essentially how to raise
- 50:39children in a context where they intensely feel this sense of duty, this call to greatness from
- 50:46a young age. And that takes on a variety of forms. It takes on faith and the very presence of virtues
- 50:52in their lives. It takes on the intensity of their contact with family heroes, the greatest
- 50:59men of the family and civilization that they're particular to who have went on before. It takes
- 51:04on the playing of dangerous games, sports, the aristocracy have always engaged in more dangerous
- 51:10games than the rest, precisely because they need to learn to master self-discipline in the face of
- 51:16risk, of pain, of hardship. That's why the aristocracy have always engaged in this paradoxical
- 51:21relationship where they have the most to lose. And yet they frivolously, it seems, engage in
- 51:26hunting wars and jousting and combat tournaments and so forth, because it brings out this self
- 51:32sacrificial relationship with difficulty that is necessary. The importance of ritual, which is
- 51:39the assumption of these lived practices, which your forefathers did before you, which your
- 51:46your generations which follow you will take on themselves. And so it shifts you from this
- 51:52moment into eternal time. And I talk particularly about Christmas as this very interesting example of
- 51:58an institution in which all generations are sort of contemporaneous. Like they all return
- 52:03for one day a year to the same practices, the same values, the same vision of the world.
- 52:08And there's a lot else. I mean, I'm not just going to provide you with a huge list, but
- 52:12But tell me where you want to go with that.
- 52:15But this was the most fun series of chapters to write,
- 52:18just because researching all these strange aristocratic families
- 52:22that had achieved tremendous things was very fun.
- 52:25How much importance does the extended family come into this?
- 52:29Because I think of my family, I feel very fortunate.
- 52:32I come from a large Irish Catholic family.
- 52:34My mom was the youngest debate,
- 52:36and they started this tradition of bringing the whole family down to the beach every summer.
- 52:44And we still keep that going to this day,
- 52:47where now between myself, aunts, uncles, cousins, and now they're children,
- 52:54we've got a pretty big group that returns to the beach.
- 52:57And I like to think this is sort of anchoring us in this ideal of like,
- 53:02hey, we're a strong family and this is how we do things.
- 53:06Yeah. I'm not sure. And this is the first time I've thought about this, so don't take this as a canonical answer. I'm not sure it's the fact of the size of the family itself that is the important factor there. It's the two things that are implied by that.
- 53:23large families tend to have a series of values and often transcendent religious beliefs,
- 53:30which are motivating the family to, to like, they are, they are making sacrifices for higher ideals.
- 53:39Having a large family is a difficult thing. Uh, I I've got a few kids myself, uh, and I've had
- 53:44them since I was quite young and it, it, I mean, it certainly makes your life more challenging.
- 53:48It's a wonderful and rewarding experience. But in my case, and as in the case of many of my friends, although we knew it would be inconvenient to have children young before our careers were fully formed, we did feel this divine mandate to have children to sort of create new souls to worship God.
- 54:07Now, that might not be your religious conviction, but nevertheless, it is a common observation that these very large families are motivated by transcendent ideals, which they are placing their family at the service of.
- 54:21And whenever you do that, whenever you have this transcendent framework that the family is subject to, you again build this capacity for stability, for greatness of vision, for discipline in the face of temptation.
- 54:34The other thing is that it's a very healthy behavior and it's the sign of a well-functioning
- 54:40family when they make an effort to all get together several times a year.
- 54:45It shows that they value family, they value their identity as members of the family, that
- 54:49they place personal investment in the integrity of the family, the owner of the family name,
- 54:58that their self-conception, their identity.
- 55:00integration is well established. And also it's just like a logistic task. Like a lot of people
- 55:07have this inertia when it comes to family, like, yeah, I'll call my dad a few times a year,
- 55:11but it takes a motivated, disciplined family to all get together several times a year, especially
- 55:16to enact these very healthy sort of civilization, the affirming rituals. Like, again, I'm not
- 55:22American, but I really appreciate the importance of something like Thanksgiving, where the family
- 55:29gets together, they inhabit these rituals that every other family in the country shares,
- 55:34that their forefathers have before them, that hopefully their children will after them.
- 55:38And in so doing, society and the family attains a solidity and an integration,
- 55:43metaphysically speaking, which I think is tremendously important.
- 55:48Yeah, it really is. And it's, I mean, this dovetails into what I think is one of the biggest
- 55:55problems in society right now, particularly in the United States, and I imagine in England
- 56:02as well, is this delay in family formation, which many are attributing to the economic
- 56:12stress that younger generations are under.
- 56:14And others would extend that further and attribute it to the fact that the older generations
- 56:21refuse to throw millennials and Generation Z a bone financially to help get them on their feet.
- 56:29And again, going back to duty, it seems like there's a dereliction of duty on the older
- 56:34generations to seed the continuation of their families, for lack of a better phrase there.
- 56:44Yeah.
- 56:44I think this question of family and society's very ability to reproduce the sort of natalism birth rate question is intimately tied up across every generation in different ways to this question of wealth and duty being divorced from each other.
- 57:06So in some sense, well, let me give you an example.
- 57:10There's a very important demographer in this exact space called Lyman Stone.
- 57:14He's one of the common sources. Whenever you see a study on the effects of X and Y on birth rates, it's often Lyman Stone or the Institute of Family Studies, which is where he works, that is the root of that.
- 57:27So he does very important work, and I'd encourage people to check him out.
- 57:33It's his conviction, and I don't totally share it, but it's his conviction that almost all of this is reducible to the fact that fewer people are getting married now.
- 57:43that birth rates tend to be downstream from the marriage rate. And the marriage rate is,
- 57:49but like if you isolate like married couples, especially couples who married young,
- 57:53they're still having children at a relatively high level that is broadly representative of our
- 57:59forefathers. And so actually what is happening is that we're downstream of a relationship recession,
- 58:04as it were, rather than a total lack in having interest in having children in and of itself.
- 58:11because actually if you poll people, the majority, although it is going down, but the great majority
- 58:15of people still say that they want to have children. And yet most of them will go on to
- 58:19never have children. I think that that's like, there are a range of reasons for this, but in my
- 58:26opinion, a central reason for it is, you know, it's often lamented now that, oh, I wish people
- 58:33just had this instinct for marriage, like previous generations that like weren't the novels of Jane
- 58:39Austin so wonderful because there was such a lived sense of romance and people just had this instinct
- 58:43for marriage and stable relationships and so forth. But actually, if you look at the
- 58:48civilizational practices of those prior generations, the whole of society was making a huge investment
- 58:54in ensuring that institutions were maintained and patronized that got young people together
- 59:00in these stable pairings again and again until they pair-bonded. So in Georgian London, which is
- 59:08the context of the novels of Jane Austen, there was this whole marriage circuit. There's what was
- 59:15called the marriage season where all people from the same social class would coalesce around London
- 59:21for three months. There would be a specific calendar of events, which was maintained and
- 59:26patronized, funded by the older generations who would expect their own children to participate.
- 59:32And they would make it attractive to do so by introducing an element of luxury to these balls,
- 59:37to the opera, to social visits, to visits to pleasure gardens and so forth. And there was a
- 59:44compact. Yes, the young would be expected to pair bond and to produce marriages and grandchildren
- 59:49to make their parents happy. But at the same time, it was understood that the parents were
- 59:54expected to make a tremendous financial and personal investment in maintaining this infrastructure.
- 59:59And I think it is true that the younger generation, especially, they've lost their faith
- 1:00:04in this, the single importance of marriage, taking that oath in front of a community of
- 1:00:11eternal, you know, commitment to your spouse. They've lost their faith in that. And I think
- 1:00:15that is, that's a travesty in and of itself. But, you know, for anyone older out there,
- 1:00:19I would really encourage you to think carefully about all the ways in which you're not helping
- 1:00:23your children getting married and having children that you could be, because that is of
- 1:00:27civilizational importance.
- 1:00:30Yeah, and I mean, this gets into the effect of tech, technology on the interpersonal relationships,
- 1:00:38particularly of younger people, because the Jane Austen scenes that you just described,
- 1:00:46I mean, they don't really happen anymore.
- 1:00:50People are literally looking at their phones, looking for a partner to potentially pair up
- 1:00:56with and meet 101, these sort of long-held traditions of, I mean, here in the United States,
- 1:01:03remember when I lived in the South, I went to Cotillion, you had the debutante balls.
- 1:01:07You were sort of forced to go learn etiquette manners and learn how to dance with a girl.
- 1:01:14And you were expected to go to those classes. And then eventually when you get old enough,
- 1:01:19you had the debutante ball. I think that's still alive and well in parts of the South,
- 1:01:25when I think of here up north.
- 1:01:27I guess we have dances and things like that,
- 1:01:30but particularly for children or later teens, early 20s,
- 1:01:36it seems like those types of events have been completely replaced
- 1:01:41with this sort of fast-moving dating scene enabled by these apps,
- 1:01:48which I think are terrible for men and women of this age.
- 1:01:53And again, I don't want to harp on my family too much, but I met my wife.
- 1:01:58My wife's best friends and my cousin.
- 1:02:00My mother and father-in-law are friends of my aunts and uncles.
- 1:02:04We often joke we're as close to an arranged marriage as you can get.
- 1:02:10But there was, and we met participating in the tradition of my family going down the shore, going to the beach in the summer.
- 1:02:19And I think we did have conditions that sort of led us to each other.
- 1:02:23which are being lost.
- 1:02:26Definitely.
- 1:02:27Yeah.
- 1:02:28I mean,
- 1:02:28there's this,
- 1:02:29there's this,
- 1:02:29there's this odd thing now where it's,
- 1:02:34it's the upper classes who are able to weather the storm best to impart to,
- 1:02:38you know,
- 1:02:38Rob Henderson,
- 1:02:39who calls this luxury beliefs,
- 1:02:41this idea that they're making very bad social and,
- 1:02:44and sort of ethical decisions,
- 1:02:46but they able to insulate themselves from the worst effects of that by sheer resources And it really the people further down the socioeconomic ladder that really feel this
- 1:02:57the worst.
- 1:02:58You know, when poor people get divorced or are never married in the first place and have
- 1:03:02children, whether intentional or not, it creates all kinds of stresses that you just can't
- 1:03:05escape from.
- 1:03:06And that becomes a very destructive cycle.
- 1:03:08But if you actually isolate the top elements of society, many of them are still quietly
- 1:03:13making sure that a lot of that infrastructure is there for their own children. There's a very
- 1:03:17interesting example in France. France, it's actually unlike other countries. There's an
- 1:03:23element of the French elite who are quite radically conservative. They're not necessarily outspoken
- 1:03:29about it, but unlike in England, where the wealthy elites are very liberal, same in Germany, same in
- 1:03:34America, largely, although obviously there are geographic divides in America. The French old
- 1:03:41aristocracy are still quite conservative. And Pascal Emmanuel Gopry, who's a commentator on
- 1:03:47Twitter and Substack, who has sort of proximity to this class, he wrote this essay that I reference
- 1:03:53in the book on his publication, Accelerationist, about how these people act in private. And it's
- 1:03:58very, very interesting. They have a system called Les Jalets, which is like a calendar of social
- 1:04:03events, carefully happens under the table, invite only to introduce their children to each other
- 1:04:09from quite a young age to do dancing, cultural activities, exactly as you describe, etiquette,
- 1:04:14and still quietly, they recognize the enduring necessity of these institutions.
- 1:04:20But I think the whole of society would just be a better place if everyone engaged in something
- 1:04:25like this. I mean, you read Bowling Alone by Robert Putnam, which is about the social fabric
- 1:04:29of 1950s America. People are going out multiple times a week to social events, to civic associations,
- 1:04:35to local performances. The social fabric is so intense, so interconnected that it's just this
- 1:04:44incredibly life-affirming existence. And if you go back into old England, there's this whole
- 1:04:49calendar of festivals, fates, pranks. It's this wonderfully colorful, intensely social environment
- 1:04:57that we've really lost.
- 1:05:00So yeah, anything that people of means can do.
- 1:05:04And again, it's rooted in a community.
- 1:05:07It's rooted in love.
- 1:05:08It's rooted to personal relationships.
- 1:05:10All of these, like that's how you thicken
- 1:05:12the social fabric around you.
- 1:05:14Anything you can be to not be maximally
- 1:05:17sort of transient and ephemeral,
- 1:05:19that's very poisonous.
- 1:05:20So this question of like rooted patronage
- 1:05:24becomes essential.
- 1:05:27So what are the first steps to get back to this?
- 1:05:31How do we climb out of this morass that society seems to be stuck in right now?
- 1:05:39You know, there's sort of two things, two core themes to the book.
- 1:05:47The first is about raising children.
- 1:05:53The book is sort of framed in raising children in the context of wealth.
- 1:05:57to go on to achieve great things. But really it's, it's universally applicable in that we all live in
- 1:06:03an incredibly material, uh, materially abundant culture now, even if a lot of those material
- 1:06:08abundances are in kind of cheap and disposable items like TVs and who knows what on the internet
- 1:06:13and so forth. Um, and, and that brings intense temptation that really it was, it was only some
- 1:06:19members of the upper classes that would have had, uh, in, in the past. I mean, if you think about
- 1:06:24the temptations of lust. Now every young man has that in his pocket all the time, and young women,
- 1:06:30whereas that kind of seeming scale of choice would have been available to a very select few
- 1:06:36members of previous generations. The point there is to say that there's actually a lot we can
- 1:06:40learn, all of us can learn from the great families who raised virtuous children in the face of
- 1:06:47temptation from generations that went before. And some of this is incredibly basic. It's fun,
- 1:06:54life-affirming stuff, it's not grueling. It's having dinner with your children,
- 1:06:58talking to them, teaching them values and so forth, which a surprising number of people don't
- 1:07:02do, including in the nouveau riche, there's this kind of accepted thing of grinding,
- 1:07:06working super long hours to make as much money as possible to maximize shareholder value.
- 1:07:12And the glorification of the 6am to 9pm grind, which is actually very destructive to
- 1:07:20raising children and you won't be able to pass that wealth onto them if they're not ready to
- 1:07:24receive it. So, uh, so there's that element of it. There's like raising children. And then I think,
- 1:07:29I think the second thing is like, there's a lot of very wealthy people who I consider to be
- 1:07:33fundamentally well-intentioned, but misled due to this, uh, slightly pathological, uh,
- 1:07:40culture of philanthropy that has arisen. And it really does concern this rootedness of community,
- 1:07:47this love of neighbor as a proper understanding of charity. And the final chapter in the book is
- 1:07:53attempting to provide inspiration on all of the ways that you can start reviving the social fabric
- 1:08:00of your particular community and family, looking at examples from contemporary charity and the
- 1:08:07great families and men of the West. But I think those two things, like children and place,
- 1:08:13are neglected in today's society to our great detriment.
- 1:08:19Yeah, that's, I mean, particularly the tech elite.
- 1:08:22I tweeted this out on Thanksgiving.
- 1:08:24I saw that you saw it, but that's all I could think of
- 1:08:26after reading a few chapters that morning.
- 1:08:29If you look at the tech class, the billionaire class there,
- 1:08:33it's a lot of childless men who have billions of dollars
- 1:08:39that are extremely philanthropic, no connection to any particular locality.
- 1:08:46And I didn't mention this in the tweet, but a lot of them are transhumanists.
- 1:08:51It seems like they're trying to separate themselves from our humanity.
- 1:08:58And it is actually incredibly frightening when you think that the wealthy elite,
- 1:09:03the upcoming wealthy elite of our age think this way.
- 1:09:09yeah i couldn't agree more yeah it's sort of like one step removed from being
- 1:09:13um being removed from your community is actually being removed from the very essence of the self
- 1:09:21you know and attempting to transcend your your mortal existence um and there's a lot i could
- 1:09:28say about that that that's a that's a whole that's a whole other let's expand on because i think it's
- 1:09:33important and i hope some of the individuals in this particular class would be introspective
- 1:09:41about this and it is like i watch it like that brian johnson guy who's trying to live forever
- 1:09:46he's doing all these experiments live streaming himself doing five grams of mushrooms like it's
- 1:09:51some sort of public experiment that people are going to get value out of it's like what are you
- 1:09:56doing? What is the purpose of all this? Well, for me, it's difficult to discuss this subject
- 1:10:05in a compelling way to people who don't already believe what I believe. And the reason for that is
- 1:10:11when it comes to morality and this life, fundamentally, I believe what I believe,
- 1:10:20and I act what I act, and I argue what I argue because of the most foundational truth claims
- 1:10:25that I hold dear about the world.
- 1:10:27And those are basically theological convictions, faith.
- 1:10:30And I can nevertheless go out and I can argue on secular podcasts.
- 1:10:34I been on some finance podcasts and so forth with non quite confidently because I believe in natural law In other words I believe that like every aspect of our material reality is in some way reflective of fundamental truths
- 1:10:51which is why even from the pre-Christian cultures, you know, the culture of Aristotle,
- 1:10:56Aristotle had so much access to the truth, to correct ideas about the good, the beautiful, and so forth,
- 1:11:02despite not having a Christian faith, because he was an intelligent, perceptive, contemplative
- 1:11:08person who looked about and he saw the sort of reflection of the divine in creation itself
- 1:11:13and was able to reason from there.
- 1:11:15Now, because of the fact that existence itself sort of aligns with divine truth, you can
- 1:11:24therefore make these kind of like secular practical arguments with people who don't
- 1:11:29believe about like why it's right to believe certain things.
- 1:11:32The problem is, is that when you start talking about eternity itself, like in some sense,
- 1:11:38I believe that it is good to die.
- 1:11:40And even, I mean, you know, God willing, should I, should I die not in a state of mortal sin?
- 1:11:47It would be a good thing to die.
- 1:11:49Like you want to, you want to ultimately meet your maker, gaze upon the beatific vision
- 1:11:55in eternity forevermore.
- 1:11:57but it's difficult to argue with someone that believes that like death is it it's the end uh
- 1:12:06there's nothing after that when it comes to life itself you know and so like that is not to say
- 1:12:12that there is no discussion to be had on the subject of transhumanism it's more to say that
- 1:12:17like the discussion that needs to be had is is a really deep philosophical and theological
- 1:12:24discussion about the very substrate of existence itself, which is difficult to sort of casually
- 1:12:30transition into.
- 1:12:31I mean, you can, of course, make observations like, it's very unclear to me what good a
- 1:12:39lot of these people are actually doing in the lives of the people who surround them.
- 1:12:44But yeah, I mean, that's a big discussion.
- 1:12:48Yeah
- 1:12:49And so
- 1:12:52I'm sure you've seen the trend too
- 1:12:55A few
- 1:12:56Most famously Nicole Shanahan
- 1:12:59Of the ex-tech wives
- 1:13:01I think they're beginning to have
- 1:13:03This realization
- 1:13:05She very publicly converted to Christianity
- 1:13:08In the last couple of years
- 1:13:09And more recently I believe
- 1:13:11Last week was
- 1:13:12Opining on
- 1:13:14How
- 1:13:15disappointed she was in herself for thinking that she could change the world through the
- 1:13:22world economic form specifically. And I do have optimism and hope that we are getting to
- 1:13:30such an extreme polarized part of, I guess, the pendulum swing of time where people are
- 1:13:41beginning to wake up. There's something innate and intuitive that comes into play when things
- 1:13:48get off track too much. And I feel like we're reaching that point where people
- 1:13:53are really beginning to become more introspective and think, what are we actually doing here?
- 1:13:59Is this the right path moving forward? Which is a good sign, in my opinion.
- 1:14:04Definitely. Yeah, I mean, the kind of devil's bargain of philanthropy is
- 1:14:10we're not going to take care of our like personal relationships first and foremost
- 1:14:14because the classic model of like community centered religious charity is essentially
- 1:14:19palliative in that it goes to people who are suffering in society and tries to ease their
- 1:14:24suffering so it typically takes the form of like arms giving to the poor or donations to hospitals
- 1:14:29or like feeding the needy sheltering you know so it's like taking someone who's suffering and
- 1:14:32trying to ease their suffering as an expression of love and kindness what philanthropy does is it
- 1:14:38says, actually, we're going to dispense with the theological convictions. This comes out of
- 1:14:42Andrew Carnegie, the gospel of wealth, a whole set of interesting changes.
- 1:14:47And we're actually going to go to what we perceive to be the source of these problems,
- 1:14:51because we believe in our fundamental power, now that we have these sciences of sociology,
- 1:14:57psychology, and so forth, to actually alter the fundamental things, which are giving rise to
- 1:15:03suffering in the first place. So we can actually eliminate poverty. It's like a fundamental claim
- 1:15:07someone who's a committed philanthropist. The problem there is that once you do that,
- 1:15:12you are no longer engaging in charity. You're basically engaging in macroeconomic management,
- 1:15:18politics, and so forth. And as soon as you make that transition in your mind,
- 1:15:23you are faced with this tremendous temptation that I think many great men of our age have
- 1:15:27fallen prey to, which is like, oh, if I only had a bit more power, then I could really solve these
- 1:15:32root issues. If I only had a bit more power, I could really... You know what? Maybe my foundation
- 1:15:37is not big enough, maybe I should convince other people to donate their billions to my
- 1:15:40foundation as well. And maybe I can partner up with the World Economic Forum and maybe I can.
- 1:15:44And it just becomes this centralization of power, this confluence in their minds of
- 1:15:52some misconception of charity, plus bureaucracy, plus very spurious scientism, plus powerful
- 1:15:59government, centralized institutions, international action. That is like, at a certain point,
- 1:16:05you have to stand back and be like, oh yeah, wait, there's actually more people living in
- 1:16:10absolute, there's twice as many people living in absolute poverty in Africa as there was in the
- 1:16:14nineties. Like, what are we doing? Like people all over America are dying deaths of despair.
- 1:16:19What are we doing? Like clearly whatever this is, is not, it's not only spiritually dead.
- 1:16:24It's like materially bankrupt. Like I'm sure, I'm sure you could point to victories, right?
- 1:16:29Because there's just, there's so much effort and so much money going around that I'm sure there are
- 1:16:33defensible and important lines that some of these foundations have done.
- 1:16:36But fundamentally, their model of the world is broken, and that's leading to a lot of harm.
- 1:16:40Yeah, my favorite sort of LARP in the realm of us Americans who are going to go save Africa,
- 1:16:51I believe it was the actor Ashton Kutcher, ran this big malaria net drive.
- 1:16:58They've raised millions of dollars to get malaria nets.
- 1:17:00I forget in exactly what country
- 1:17:03in Africa and they came to find
- 1:17:06that they just used the nets
- 1:17:07as fishing nets
- 1:17:10and drained part of the area
- 1:17:12of all their fish
- 1:17:14and the highlights again
- 1:17:15if you have this dislocation
- 1:17:17physically from Dominion
- 1:17:20and it goes back to central planning
- 1:17:22more broadly which is something
- 1:17:23I like to focus on a lot
- 1:17:25particularly as it pertains to monetary economics
- 1:17:28and the effects of central planning
- 1:17:30on monetary economics have very perverse negative externalities. No one individual or small group of
- 1:17:37individuals should be able to control the most important tool, arguably, that we use as humans,
- 1:17:42which is money. It's the lack of proximity to the actual problems that are hurting everyday
- 1:17:49Americans, particularly in the middle of the country that cannot be solved by a bunch of
- 1:17:55people in the Eccles building making minute lever pulls on what the interest rate should be or how
- 1:18:01much money should be in the system at any given point in time. And similarly with the malaria in
- 1:18:06that case, it's like you do not know what's actually happening on the ground and the very
- 1:18:13nuanced variables of the problems that exist and how the introduction of another variable
- 1:18:18will be received where Ashton Kutcher thought like, oh, they're all just going to
- 1:18:23use the malaria and that's protect themselves from from mosquitoes and it
- 1:18:28turned out to be a laughable sort of example of the the hubris of somebody to think that they could actually know what is needed to
- 1:18:39solve the problems in that exact locality. Thousands of months. Yeah. My conviction is like,
- 1:18:46it's not that we should be ignoring Africa. It's just like, if you feel that's your calling,
- 1:18:50then move there. And I'm like completely serious about that. I mean, there's, there's someone,
- 1:18:55um there's someone who's quoted in the book called robert lupton and robert lupton is a
- 1:19:00career charity guy and i think he's a real hero and he he runs this uh organization called fcs
- 1:19:06focus community strategies and he wrote this expose called toxic charity which actually looks at
- 1:19:12the real world effects of these very large philanthropic endeavors and often they cause
- 1:19:16like complete chaos i mean like the classic model that they all follow is something like
- 1:19:22uh you know people in uh sudan south sudan need clothes so we're going to ship uh you know 500
- 1:19:30tons of clothes into south sudan and you just wipe out the entire textile industry of south sudan and
- 1:19:35they never recover from that it's just like these silly blunders like that and what robert lupton
- 1:19:41does is he he actually just moves to whatever community he lives in the middle of whatever
- 1:19:45community, he wants to improve and he commits to like 10 years. Yes, he solicits donations. Yes,
- 1:19:52he deploys financial resources, but never without having a deep and intimate relationship
- 1:19:56with everyone who is interacting with those resources and their downstream effects.
- 1:20:03And it's a gradual process. It's a layered, nuanced, complex process. It's a process which
- 1:20:08never divorces cause effect or shies away from complexity. It's iterative. And, uh, and yeah,
- 1:20:17it's just like, where's the spirit of adventure? I mean, there's always been eccentric Westerners
- 1:20:20who have moved to like remote places in the world and, and try to achieve great things. And I think,
- 1:20:26you know, the age of adventure is upon us again. So, uh, so yeah, I mean, people should do that.
- 1:20:32Yeah. If you want to solve the problem, you got to be close to the problem.
- 1:20:35And then I guess just to wrap up, I know you mentioned before we hit record, you're not really well-versed in Bitcoin, but I do think we both agree that to achieve some of these legacy goals, you need to be able to store wealth and pass it on.
- 1:20:52And I think that's where we align very tightly is this idea that being wealthy is not a bad thing.
- 1:21:01It is virtuous, especially if you're bringing good things into the world and doing good things within your dominion and following your duty, living up to your duty to do good in the world and love your neighbor.
- 1:21:15And I think one of the ways in which that's been corrupted is the fact that it has actually been harder for people to build and more importantly preserve wealth to lower their time preference to think about legacy and improving their dominion.
- 1:21:32And that's one thing I truly believe and have witnessed within my own life and observing others who have been in Bitcoin for a while.
- 1:21:42I think it is possible to use Bitcoin to build wealth and then focus on these legacy questions and really be intentful about it.
- 1:21:55I think it's actually one of the biggest parts of the equation is how do you actually preserve that wealth?
- 1:22:03What are the mechanisms, to your point?
- 1:22:05Earlier, the wealth that's passed down these days is in completely liquid assets that are certainly liquid,
- 1:22:14but they're being continuously debased because we're just printing money and debasing the unit by which we measure wealth more broadly.
- 1:22:25And so I think there is a very important role for Bitcoin to play in all this.
- 1:22:33Yeah, I buy that.
- 1:22:34I mean, I think two things are in tension.
- 1:22:36The first is like, to the extent that Bitcoin can protect you from inflationary pressures, where a centralized institution is essentially devaluing your money in order to pursue their own agenda.
- 1:22:47That could be a very good thing for the empowerment of specific communities because you actually have sovereignty over your wealth.
- 1:22:53On the other hand, there is a tension that I see in Bitcoin, which is one's relationship with money can become pathological when one loses sight of the fact that it is ultimately intended to bring about real world goods.
- 1:23:09In and of itself, money is not a moral quality.
- 1:23:12It's not a moral good.
- 1:23:13In fact, it's a source of temptation.
- 1:23:15but lived as a tool to achieve real world effects that do good for the people around you to whom you have a moral responsibility and whom you can uplift and love.
- 1:23:25It's a very powerful tool.
- 1:23:27So I think like Bitcoin is a fascinating endeavor and potentially one that can do a lot of good.
- 1:23:35But like conviction in Bitcoin alone is possibly not enough.
- 1:23:40It has to be accompanied with a vision of how to transform that asset into real world goods and what those goods should be and why they should exist and so forth.
- 1:23:51So avoid the sin of, I mean, this is turning into a sermon.
- 1:23:54I don't mean it to be a sermon.
- 1:23:55But if, you know, avoid the sin of avarice, which is like obsession with money, qua money.
- 1:24:00And like have, I think, greatness of vision, a very invigorating thing is to imagine the things you can actually do in the world.
- 1:24:06No, I'm very happy you said that.
- 1:24:09I think it's very important because there are many within Bitcoin and view it as like, I mean, Michael Saylor, most famously, I'm going to buy as much Bitcoin as possible and then I'm burning my keys when I die.
- 1:24:20Another childless billionaire.
- 1:24:23And I completely disagree with that view of Bitcoin or that perspective on what Bitcoin is and what it's meant to achieve.
- 1:24:35I think it's incredibly important to use it as a tool to do good in the world.
- 1:24:41And so I'm very, very happy that you brought that up.
- 1:24:44And for our audience particularly, which is filled with a lot of Bitcoiners, to think about that because it is important.
- 1:24:52There's many people too focused on the end state of Bitcoin's full monetization.
- 1:24:56It's like, well, you can use it as this tool to do good along the way, because who knows how long it will actually take to reach the full potential that you believe it will.
- 1:25:09Yeah, absolutely.
- 1:25:13Leaving a legacy, inheritance charity, and thousand-year families.
- 1:25:17We can get on the thousand-year families, but maybe we can do that another time.
- 1:25:20Johan, this was an incredible joy for me.
- 1:25:23Thank you for joining us.
- 1:25:25Thank you for writing the book.
- 1:25:26Thank you for all the work that you do with your sub stack, becoming noble.
- 1:25:31It's incredibly important work.
- 1:25:33I truly believe that.
- 1:25:34I think we need a shift in the mentality, particularly in Western society, in terms of what are we doing here?
- 1:25:42How are we building for the long term?
- 1:25:44And what is our legacy going to be for our generation, particularly as millennials, Gen Z, boomers?
- 1:25:52It's not too late to start thinking about it either.
- 1:25:56I think there's a lot of boomer hate out there,
- 1:26:00but I know there are many good boomers out there
- 1:26:03that are thinking about this stuff as well.
- 1:26:05But we just need, I think, these ideas to become more popular
- 1:26:09and people need to think more intently about these things.
- 1:26:15Well, it's been a complete pleasure,
- 1:26:17and I'm really really grateful for the invitation.
- 1:26:20So thank you.
- 1:26:21You enjoy your night, and that's all we have today.
- 1:26:23Peace and love, freaks.
- 1:26:24Okay.