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He Was in Prison 8 Years, Then Immediately Did This to His Wife · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  She held this man down for eight years while he was in jail only
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  for him to get out and and cheat y'all.
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  And it's not funny. It's just like, come on man,
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  listen to this. I just I'm stop talking.
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  But after eight years in prison, I come home and get married and
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  I ain't know I was a hope. It's just the psychological mind
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  state of an inmate in prison. When you incarcerated and
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  somebody is doing something for you and giving you everything
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  that nobody else is doing and coming to see you and put money
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  on your books and answering them phone calls and preparing a life
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  for you, you go into a mind state where you believe that you
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  are actually in love with a person.
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  So when I came home, I really thought I was in love.
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  No, what? What you're describing is like
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  you're using somebody you thought you were in love when
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  somebody's doing everything for you.
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  You thought you loved them, huh? Now what I did was I cheated, I
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  lied, I was a natural narcissist.
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  I couldn't I didn't know why I cheated half of the time.
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  Sometimes I would cheat and just be like God damn bro the fuck
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  you got everything you need at home but you still doing it.
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  But when mother fuckers was giving me money and taking care
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  of me I felt as though that was love.
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  I never really knew what it felt like to be in love.
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  I never cared about if I wanted to be in love.
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  I just went off of a temporary motion and that's what a lot of
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  us inmates do. We get down there and we sitting
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  there and we go on a vulnerable state and we lose everything we
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  got. And then the first person that
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  show us a little bit of love, we think we in love.
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  No, it sound like you just wanted to find somebody to use.
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  You said as an inmate, you go into a vulnerable state.
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  No, it's just like you lose everything, but then somebody
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  shows you some love. You think you're in love with
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  that person. Now it sound like you're just
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  using a big doubt. It sound like you just wanted
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  somebody to be around while you survived to help you through.
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  It's not being in love. You're supposed to be in love
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  when you love someone unconditionally.
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  And that's not where I was at with it.
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  So I'm cheating like a motherfucker on my wife, man.
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  She's steady forgiving me, steady forgiving me.
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  And I end up going back to the house, man, over and over and
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  over so many goddamn times, man, until I drove that woman crazy,
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  you know what I'm saying? And she just kept believing in
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  me because she felt like, man, he going to change one day.
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  One day he going to get his shit together.
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  And that day never came. And four years later, almost 7-8
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  years before I actually sat down one day was like, man, fuck this
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  shit. I'm done cheating.
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  I'm done doing this, I'm done doing that.
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  I had to get my shit together so. 7-8 years later after
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  cheating and putting her through hell, now you want to get your
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  stuff together. It's not like you.
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  It's not like you were torturing that that woman, big dog, just
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  keep it hot. It's not like you were torturing
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  that woman and now you're making videos about it.
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  Like I'm going to tell you how I tortured her.
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  I'm going to show you. I did this right here.
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  I'm going to show you. I did that right there.
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  Let's come on, dog. That's that's rough.
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  This next video I'm going to give y'all, I'm going to tell
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  y'all why inmates do certain type of things, why they get
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  your name Teddy, why they want you around their kids, why they
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  want you to God damn mom, feel like they the only one.
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  You know what I'm saying? It's all a game y'all.
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  Yes, it's all a game. So hit that follow button and
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  run this fucking video up. I don't think you need to do a
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  Part 2. I think you said it right there.
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  You said why they why you want, why they get your name tatted,
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  why they want you around their kids because they're not there.
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  They want you to take care of their kids while they're locked
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  up. They are using you.
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  Everything that he said representative love to him was a
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  transaction was transactional. This is this is what
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  transactional love looks like, right?
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  This is literally what transactional love looks like.
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  I don't know this man like the person who posted this is not
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  him. He like he didn't post this
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  somebody else did. Let me clarify.
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  He posted it, but somebody else clipped it and posted it on
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  their own page right. How many Morgan said child, you
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  sweet ain't you would not May he find a man of his dreams.
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  The raw honesty is so powerful. No, it's not.
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  That's not raw honesty. This is like looking for clicks
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  now. It's called being a user.
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  Yeah, that's why I literally want to say you just using
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  people. Fortunately, this is common
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  sense to me. Yeah.
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  Holding down an inmate for eight years for him to get out and
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  cheat on you for eight more years.
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  Is it. That really is something going
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  on right there. Right.
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  Anyone in survival mode is not in love.
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  They're both. This is for both men and women.
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  Yes. Cheating is most definitely a
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  decision. They tell the oldest time.
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  Yeah. Holding down a holding down an
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  inmate, like I said, it's not I'm not saying it's always going
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  to work out the same way, but you I very rarely hear any
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  success stories, right? Very rarely hear any success
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  stories about this type of this type of relationship dynamic
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  dynamic. Most times you hold the inmate
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  down, they use you, cheat on you, abuse you, and then they
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  leave you. They they, they steal and they
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  think you belong to them. Why do they get your name
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  tatted? They think you belong to them.
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  This is as simple as that. You don't need a Part 2, right?
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  They don't need a Part 2. It says after eight years in
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  prison I come home and constantly cheat on the woman I
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  married that held me down. He like held him down probably
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  didn't talk to anybody else and This is why and this is this is
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  going to sound harsh. Y'all got to like ask yourself
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  this question right here. And I know this might not apply
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  to some people. If you are holding someone down,
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  would they do the same for you with this man right here, who's
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  who's first sentence out of his mouth?
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  I already knew some shit was going on, right?
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  The first sentence out of his mouth sounded great.
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  Like listen to the first sentence.
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  I already knew something was going on with him.
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  Like listen. Because I'm going to piss a lot
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  of people off on this fucking Internet.
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  I'm a piss a lot so. After eight years in prison, I
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  come home and get married and I ain't know I was a hope.
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  This is. The psychological mind state of
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  an inmate in prison. The psychological mind state,
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  mind state, mind state, right? No, you just a user man.
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  You just found a woman who was vulnerable or had some stuff
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  going on here and you use them and then you came out, you still
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  you had no job or nothing like that.
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  You came out. You were using her again to
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  cheat on her and go home and just like hey, I'm doing a
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  horrible but I'm not going to stop.
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  That's a choice. That's an active choice right
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  there and then like this this y'all, this is a tale that's
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  over the time for real. Like you see this happening all
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  the time. You get your face played by
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  holding people down like this. They'll say all the things you
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  want to hear, just like I love you.
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  I'm gonna marry you soon. I get home.
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  And he did just that. He married her as soon as he got
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  home and started cheating immediately.
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  Anyways, y'all, I ain't ready this video around too much
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  longer. Just make sure you hit that
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  subscribe button. You haven't.
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  button y'all. Peace.