Latest / The Divine Worth Podcast / You Are More Than You Think You Are — Self Worth, Confidence & What God Sees in You
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- 0:00SPEAKER_00: what would happen if we truly embrace this idea that the lord is calling us and
- 0:07SPEAKER_00: that he will help us to be able to overcome whatever it is that we're going through
- 0:12SPEAKER_00: and to be able to achieve whatever it is that he is asking of us what would happen
- 0:16SPEAKER_00: if we truly embrace that
- 0:18SPEAKER_00: welcome to the divine worth podcast where we are letting go
- 0:22SPEAKER_00: of our self-doubt anxiety fear limiting beliefs so that we can step into
- 0:27SPEAKER_00: the divine roles that god has for us i am your host life coach karen papin
- 0:32SPEAKER_00: and together we are embracing our divine worth and potential welcome to
- 0:37SPEAKER_00: the divine worth podcast i am really excited to share
- 0:41SPEAKER_00: with you what i'm sharing today because it is all about how god sees the truth
- 0:48SPEAKER_00: He sees your divine worth. Do you see your worth? Do you trust in God's vision of who
- 0:57SPEAKER_00: You are?" As a child, I really struggled with being able to speak if i was
- 1:04SPEAKER_00: With a group of people I had a hard time even getting any words to come out of my mouth and
- 1:11SPEAKER_00: i remember
- 1:13SPEAKER_00: just like not be able to get the words out or thinking my head over and
- 1:17SPEAKER_00: over I don't know what to say I don't know what to say and just kind of ruminating
- 1:20SPEAKER_00: over and over and it wasn't just like in speaking to a group of people
- 1:25SPEAKER_00: but it was also smaller groups and even at times one-on-one conversations
- 1:30SPEAKER_00: where I really struggled to be able to get the words out and I am so thankful for
- 1:35SPEAKER_00: the Lord
- 1:36SPEAKER_00: because he truly did see something in me that i did not see in myself
- 1:40SPEAKER_00: and he helped me to grow step by step into someone
- 1:45SPEAKER_00: who is now doing this podcast today and who has done summits and who has spoken
- 1:52SPEAKER_00: in state conference and to stake relief societies and in different wards
- 1:57SPEAKER_00: and various capacities and and it's just amazing to be able
- 2:02SPEAKER_00: to see how far i have come and
- 2:06SPEAKER_00: and it really was this step-by-step process where first the lord helped me
- 2:11SPEAKER_00: to be able to start speaking to people one-on-one or then to small groups and then
- 2:17SPEAKER_00: to a larger group i still remember the first time that i finally believed
- 2:24SPEAKER_00: and understood that the lord would help me to be able to have the words to be able
- 2:29SPEAKER_00: to say the words that he wanted me to say
- 2:34SPEAKER_00: and if he was asking me to give a talk that he would help me to be able to do that
- 2:37SPEAKER_00: and i remember getting up there in front of my ward congregation and just saying
- 2:42SPEAKER_00: a little prayer heavenly father okay this is what you want me to do please help me
- 2:48SPEAKER_00: to be able to speak and to be able to say the words that you want me to say
- 2:52SPEAKER_00: and i opened my mouth and i began to speak and i to this day still remember
- 3:00SPEAKER_00: how much peace i felt as soon as i started talking i knew the lord was
- 3:06SPEAKER_00: with me i knew he loved me i knew he believed in me and every single time after
- 3:12SPEAKER_00: that i would be really really nervous right before getting out there to speak but
- 3:19SPEAKER_00: then i would open my mouth and i would be filled with so much peace and i came
- 3:25SPEAKER_00: to really enjoy speaking
- 3:29SPEAKER_00: because it brought me closer to the lord and sometimes i'll say
- 3:34SPEAKER_00: that i'm actually thankful for my anxiety because of how it has helped me to be able
- 3:41SPEAKER_00: to deepen my relationship with the lord it has helped me to be able to trust more
- 3:48SPEAKER_00: in him and has taught me that he loves me through these experiences that i've had in
- 3:55SPEAKER_00: the hand lead kindly light it says this
- 3:59SPEAKER_00: lead kindly light amid the uncertain gloom.
- 4:02SPEAKER_00: Lead thou me on, the night is dark and I am far from home.
- 4:08SPEAKER_00: Lead thou my on,
- 4:10SPEAKER_00: keep thou my feet, I do not ask to see, the distant scene one step enough for me."
- 4:17SPEAKER_00: If i knew everything that the lord would ask me to do as a child
- 4:22SPEAKER_00: i think i actually would have been frozen in fear but all i needed was that next step
- 4:28SPEAKER_00: and the lord knew that and so he helped me step by step to be able to be in a place
- 4:33SPEAKER_00: where i am now where i am consistently each week using my voice to be able to help
- 4:41SPEAKER_00: to help you see that you are of worth and that he is there for you and
- 4:45SPEAKER_00: that he will help you to be able to accomplish the things that he is asking
- 4:51SPEAKER_00: of you he sees who you are and he knows what you are capable of
- 4:58SPEAKER_00: and as you put your faith and trust in him you will come to see that you are capable
- 5:02SPEAKER_00: of so much more than you realize so what keeps you from being who god sees in you
- 5:10SPEAKER_00: in what ways are you not trusting that the lord will help you are you overwhelmed by
- 5:17SPEAKER_00: a calling or an assignment or opportunity that feels
- 5:21SPEAKER_00: beyond your current abilities do you feel prompted to reach out to
- 5:26SPEAKER_00: to someone but worry that you won't know what to say do you feel inadequate as
- 5:31SPEAKER_00: a parent or a spouse or a ministering sister leader teacher or maybe even a friend
- 5:38SPEAKER_00: who is going through a hard time and you question if you're even saying
- 5:42SPEAKER_00: the right thing to them maybe you're feeling the weight and responsibility
- 5:47SPEAKER_00: of providing for your family
- 5:49SPEAKER_00: you may be asked to teach a lesson or give a talk or accept a calling
- 5:55SPEAKER_00: and immediately think i'm not the right person for this i can't do this
- 6:00SPEAKER_00: or you may fear being judged maybe you're caring for aging parents or
- 6:06SPEAKER_00: a child who's really sick and you wonder if you have the strength to continue on and
- 6:13SPEAKER_00: for what lies ahead you may feel prompted to forgive someone
- 6:18SPEAKER_00: and wonder if you have the capacity to be able to do it or you may be facing
- 6:22SPEAKER_00: a health challenge a financial burden or some other family trial and unsure
- 6:29SPEAKER_00: that you can handle the path ahead of you whatever it is that you are going through
- 6:34SPEAKER_00: the lord knows you and he sees you and he has the power to help you in
- 6:43SPEAKER_00: the scriptures there are so so many scriptures and examples of people who
- 6:49SPEAKER_00: the lord calls and they're just like wait you're calling me who am i
- 6:54SPEAKER_00: to do this right and one such of those scriptures is in judges chapter six and and
- 7:01SPEAKER_00: at this time they had turned away from the lord and as a result
- 7:05SPEAKER_00: the lord stopped supporting them in the battles that they faced with the people in
- 7:11SPEAKER_00: the area
- 7:12SPEAKER_00: and so they're in bondage to the midianites and recognize and understand that
- 7:19SPEAKER_00: that they need the lord's help and so they cry out to the lord and and start turning
- 7:26SPEAKER_00: towards him and so the lord sends a prophet to deliver them now we're going
- 7:33SPEAKER_00: to dive more into this prophet and the experiences that he had and his calling
- 7:39SPEAKER_00: and it says in chapter 6 verse 11 and there came an angel of the lord okay
- 7:46SPEAKER_00: so here comes an angel of the lord to call this prophet and ask him
- 7:50SPEAKER_00: to do these amazing things and in verse 12 it says and the angel of
- 7:55SPEAKER_00: the lord appeared unto him and said by the way and so this angel appears unto
- 8:03SPEAKER_00: this prophet whose name is gideon and in verse 12 it says and the angel of
- 8:07SPEAKER_00: the lord appeared unto him and said unto him the lord is with thee thou mighty man
- 8:14SPEAKER_00: of valor okay so he's this mighty man of valor that is how the lord sees gideon
- 8:23SPEAKER_00: as someone who is full of strength full of courage and and full
- 8:27SPEAKER_00: of faith okay mighty man of valor
- 8:30SPEAKER_00: And in verse 15 is Gideon's response.
- 8:33SPEAKER_00: He says, O my Lord, wherewith shall I save Israel? Behold, my family is poor in Manasseh and
- 8:41SPEAKER_00: I am the least in my father's house. Okay, do you see the difference between what
- 8:48SPEAKER_00: the Lord sees in Gideon and what Gidean sees in himself? Here the Lord
- 8:53SPEAKER_00: Gideon as a man of valor, of faith
- 8:57SPEAKER_00: Of strength, of courage
- 9:00SPEAKER_00: and gideon is like but my family is poor in manasseh like who who am i
- 9:06SPEAKER_00: to do this i am the least of my family so it's like not only is my family poor
- 9:12SPEAKER_00: but it's like i am the least like who am i to do this and and you're asking me to be
- 9:19SPEAKER_00: the prophet and the deliverer of israel okay so how many times do you feel that
- 9:26SPEAKER_00: the way that gideon is feeling
- 9:29SPEAKER_00: How often do you fail to recognize that you are a mighty man or a mighty woman
- 9:38SPEAKER_00: of valor, of faith, of courage, and of strength?
- 9:42SPEAKER_00: Because that is what the Lord sees.
- 9:46SPEAKER_00: And the Lord's response in verse 16, And I,
- 9:49SPEAKER_00: the Lord,
- 9:49SPEAKER_00: said unto him,
- 9:51SPEAKER_00: Surely I will be with thee, and thou shalt smite the Medianites as one man.
- 9:56SPEAKER_00: Alright, so the Lord says,
- 9:59SPEAKER_00: the lord lets him know he's already let him know what he sees
- 10:04SPEAKER_00: of him he right off told him that mighty man of valor right and once again and
- 10:10SPEAKER_00: and now he's telling him i'm gonna be with you
- 10:13SPEAKER_00: i'm going to be with you and you can do this okay and then you go through
- 10:19SPEAKER_00: as we continue with gideon's story we see that it's like a process for him to become
- 10:24SPEAKER_00: the person that heavenly father sees in him because the first thing that
- 10:29SPEAKER_00: the lord asked him to do is to tear down to destroy the altar veil and tear down
- 10:38SPEAKER_00: the grove around it and and
- 10:41SPEAKER_00: what happens is is gideon's listening to
- 10:44SPEAKER_00: the lord right he he knows his focus he knows that he needs to put his faith
- 10:49SPEAKER_00: and trust in the lord and so he's like okay the lord's telling me
- 10:53SPEAKER_00: that i can do this i'm i'm going to do this
- 10:55SPEAKER_00: but he's still there's still some fear there because what happens is
- 10:58SPEAKER_00: in verse 27 it says then gideon took 10 men of his servants and did as
- 11:03SPEAKER_00: the lord had said unto him and so it was because he feared his father's household
- 11:08SPEAKER_00: and the men of the city
- 11:10SPEAKER_00: that he could not do it by day that he did it by night
- 11:16SPEAKER_00: so there's some fear there he's like i'm afraid to get caught doing this thing that
- 11:22SPEAKER_00: the lord is asking of him and so he goes at night time to do it and he
- 11:27SPEAKER_00: but he does do it he does go out there and destroy the altar of baal and cut down
- 11:33SPEAKER_00: the growth of trees and offer a sacrifice unto the lord and i
- 11:38SPEAKER_00: And then day comes and people are all like, who did this?
- 11:42SPEAKER_00: And they're going around and they're asking and they're trying to figure out who did this.
- 11:46SPEAKER_00: And you know what?
- 11:48SPEAKER_00: Gideon is saved.
- 11:50SPEAKER_00: His father stands up for him and is just kind of saying, you know, will ye plead for Baal?
- 11:58SPEAKER_00: Like, let him save his altar.
- 12:00SPEAKER_00: Let him fight for himself kind of thing.
- 12:03SPEAKER_00: And so Gideon is saved.
- 12:04SPEAKER_00: which of course the lord knew that that would be the case of course
- 12:07SPEAKER_00: the lord's gonna provide a way to make sure that he was protected
- 12:12SPEAKER_00: because he had this great work that the lord knew that he could do and
- 12:18SPEAKER_00: so we continue on and once again gideon is being asked
- 12:22SPEAKER_00: to do something that's scary that's hard and the lord and the lord wants him
- 12:29SPEAKER_00: to be able to lead the israelite armies
- 12:33SPEAKER_00: into battle against the midianites and it's not just the midianites but
- 12:36SPEAKER_00: the malachites and the children of the east they were all gathered together and and
- 12:42SPEAKER_00: so at this time gideon is actually leading this group of israelites
- 12:49SPEAKER_00: as their commander the lord tells him that he gideon will save israel and even then
- 12:56SPEAKER_00: even though he had this experience where he did something hard he listened to
- 13:00SPEAKER_00: the lord and he was protected in
- 13:03SPEAKER_00: the process he's still like wait what is it is this really what you want me to do
- 13:10SPEAKER_00: and so verse 36 and gideon said unto god if thou wilt save israel by my hand
- 13:16SPEAKER_00: as thou hast said behold i will put a fleece of wool in the floor and if the dew be
- 13:22SPEAKER_00: on the fleece only and it be dry upon all the earth beside
- 13:26SPEAKER_00: then shall i know that thou wilt save israel by mine hand as thou hast said
- 13:32SPEAKER_00: okay so even
- 13:33SPEAKER_00: the lord has said it he's still like this is this really what you want me
- 13:37SPEAKER_00: to do please show me this sign and he's very specific about what the sign is
- 13:43SPEAKER_00: because he wants like no doubt here he really just wants to know for sure
- 13:49SPEAKER_00: that this is what the lord is asking of him and so he puts a fleece outside the door
- 13:55SPEAKER_00: and so he puts this fleece down and and it soaks up this dew
- 14:00SPEAKER_00: and the ground all around it is dry and that is his sign and so of course
- 14:07SPEAKER_00: the lord does that gives gideon the sign and even then
- 14:13SPEAKER_00: and he says let not thine anger be hot again turned hot against me okay be hot
- 14:18SPEAKER_00: against me so he's like he knows that he's testing the lord here
- 14:23SPEAKER_00: but he still has some doubt and he's like please lord do this let's take this sign
- 14:31SPEAKER_00: a step further i'm gonna put the fleece out again and
- 14:35SPEAKER_00: and instead of it being covered with dew have the ground covered with dew and
- 14:39SPEAKER_00: the fleece being dry and and then i will know that this is what you want me to do
- 14:46SPEAKER_00: and so he puts the fleece out and the lord once again answers his prayer
- 14:51SPEAKER_00: and gives him a sign and the fleece is completely dry but the ground is wet
- 14:55SPEAKER_00: with dew all around it and so once again the lord is telling him i am here
- 15:00SPEAKER_00: with you this is something that you can do
- 15:04SPEAKER_00: and so that's what happens Gideon takes this army out there to be able to fight
- 15:12SPEAKER_00: the Midianites and I think the story that follows also shows how the Lord provides
- 15:19SPEAKER_00: a way for us to do the things that he accomplishes and it's not in the ways
- 15:25SPEAKER_00: that we expect because here Gideon is leading this Israelite army
- 15:31SPEAKER_00: and there's about 32,000 men with him and the Lord tells him you have too many men
- 15:41SPEAKER_00: and I think that the Lord here is trying to teach Gideon a lesson
- 15:47SPEAKER_00: and not just Gideon but all of the Israelites and us as well he's trying to teach us
- 15:53SPEAKER_00: that we do not need to fear because we have him in our lives and so
- 16:01SPEAKER_00: he says all those who are too afraid let them return and depart from mount gilead
- 16:07SPEAKER_00: which is where they're all gathered and and there returned of the people twenty
- 16:12SPEAKER_00: and two thousand
- 16:14SPEAKER_00: and there remained ten thousand twenty two thousand men left leaving them with
- 16:22SPEAKER_00: a much smaller army of just ten thousand men
- 16:27SPEAKER_00: to go up against the midianites these midianite armies and
- 16:32SPEAKER_00: the lord says you still have too many men with you you still have too many
- 16:36SPEAKER_00: with you bring them down unto the water and i will try them for thee and
- 16:43SPEAKER_00: so that's what happened is i go down unto the water and and some of the men rush to
- 16:49SPEAKER_00: the water and just put their faces in to drink of the water
- 16:52SPEAKER_00: because they're thirsty right
- 16:55SPEAKER_00: and some of the men kneel down and they drink from their hands and the lord says
- 17:01SPEAKER_00: that those who drank from their hands those are the men that you will take with you
- 17:08SPEAKER_00: to go into this battle and so we're at ten thousand out
- 17:13SPEAKER_00: of those ten thousand men three hundred okay not three thousand but three hundred
- 17:22SPEAKER_00: okay 10,000 to 300 let's just get this straight that this is not like a
- 17:30SPEAKER_00: a large amount of people but 300
- 17:33SPEAKER_00: men are the ones who got down on their knees and put their hands in the water
- 17:37SPEAKER_00: and brought their hands, the water with their hands to drink from.
- 17:42SPEAKER_00: And the Lord says unto Gideon by the 300 men that delivered will I save you
- 17:47SPEAKER_00: and deliver the Midianites into thine hand
- 17:50SPEAKER_00: and let all the other people go every man unto his place.
- 17:55SPEAKER_00: So Gidean has gone from having 32,000 men
- 18:01SPEAKER_00: to now just 300
- 18:05SPEAKER_00: Do you see the lesson that the Lord's trying to teach here?
- 18:08SPEAKER_00: Sometimes we think that we need this great grand production or that we need
- 18:12SPEAKER_00: to do things exactly right,
- 18:15SPEAKER_00: but the Lord is actually telling us, hey, you don't need all of that.
- 18:20SPEAKER_00: all i'm asking is for you to be willing as we put forth that willingness
- 18:25SPEAKER_00: the lord helps us to be able to become strong and he provides a way to be able
- 18:30SPEAKER_00: to accomplish the things that he has asked of us and it's really interesting
- 18:36SPEAKER_00: because what happens is they go and they go to battle
- 18:40SPEAKER_00: and those 300 men blow their trumpets and instead of fighting
- 18:45SPEAKER_00: the midian knights themselves the midian men midian knights
- 18:50SPEAKER_00: get startled and they start fighting each other and that is how the battle is won
- 18:56SPEAKER_00: and so it was not won in the way in a typical way that
- 19:01SPEAKER_00: that we would have expected it to happen and a lot of times that is how
- 19:06SPEAKER_00: the lord works is things do not work out the way that we expect but
- 19:11SPEAKER_00: as we put our faith and trust in him he helps us to be able to do that
- 19:16SPEAKER_00: in the book of nephi there's several great examples where the lord put his faith
- 19:21SPEAKER_00: and trust in him and the lord helped him to be able to accomplish what it is
- 19:24SPEAKER_00: that he wanted nephi to accomplish when nephi was asked to go and get the plates
- 19:30SPEAKER_00: with his brothers nephi said to his his dad i will go and do the things which
- 19:36SPEAKER_00: the lord hath commanded for i know that the lord giveth no commandment
- 19:40SPEAKER_00: unto the children of men save he shall prepare a way for him
- 19:44SPEAKER_00: to save he shall prepare a way and that's what the lord does and we see it time
- 19:50SPEAKER_00: and time again in the scriptures and i know that if you stop and really think
- 19:54SPEAKER_00: about your life that you can find examples in your own life as well where
- 19:59SPEAKER_00: the lord has helped you to be able to accomplish the things
- 20:02SPEAKER_00: that he has commanded you and it's not like we have to do this
- 20:08SPEAKER_00: perfectly we will make mistakes but those mistakes are not surprises to god they
- 20:14SPEAKER_00: that is why we have a savior because our heavenly father knew
- 20:19SPEAKER_00: that we would make mistakes that we would need the atonement in our lives
- 20:25SPEAKER_00: so understand recognize be humble recognize
- 20:29SPEAKER_00: that yeah maybe i shouldn't have done things that way and then ask the lord for help
- 20:37SPEAKER_00: in fixing it
- 20:38SPEAKER_00: or in doing things better the next time and in doing things better the next time
- 20:44SPEAKER_00: because he's there for us right and he's going to help us through this whole process
- 20:49SPEAKER_00: and what i love about gideon's story is that it does show us it is a process
- 20:54SPEAKER_00: and we just need as it says in lead kindly night one step enough one step forward
- 21:02SPEAKER_00: and then we can take another step and another step
- 21:06SPEAKER_00: but let's just start by taking that first step another great example from nephi is
- 21:12SPEAKER_00: that is when he's building a boat and layman and lemuel see that he's building
- 21:17SPEAKER_00: a boat and they're just like who are you that you think
- 21:21SPEAKER_00: that you can build this boat like it's not gonna float they're they're just like
- 21:27SPEAKER_00: putting him down and making fun of them and just like this is not something
- 21:32SPEAKER_00: that you can do
- 21:34SPEAKER_00: And Nephi starts telling him about Moses And the things that Moses did And the way
- 21:40SPEAKER_00: that the Lord led the Israelites out time and time again And reminds his brother
- 21:45SPEAKER_00: the great things that the Lord has done for them And pretty much says,
- 21:50SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 21:52SPEAKER_00: if the Lord can do all this He can teach me how to build a boat And sometimes
- 21:58SPEAKER_00: in our lives we feel like we are building a boat when we don't know how
- 22:03SPEAKER_00: that the lord guides us and leads us step by step in the women's conference
- 22:09SPEAKER_00: in 2021 elder ronald rasban says this quote we come to know we come
- 22:16SPEAKER_00: to know our father by following the example of the savior who stated i came into
- 22:22SPEAKER_00: the world to do the will of the father because my father sent me
- 22:28SPEAKER_00: so have we come unto the world for the same purpose end quote
- 22:33SPEAKER_00: we are here to do the will of the lord
- 22:38SPEAKER_00: not only are we following
- 22:40SPEAKER_00: the savior's example in doing this which we are also asked to do is
- 22:44SPEAKER_00: to become like him but we are also doing the lord's work
- 22:49SPEAKER_00: of course of course he's going to help us right and he's in this relentless pursuit
- 22:56SPEAKER_00: of us as we know from elder karen because he loves us and he wants us to succeed
- 23:02SPEAKER_00: because he loves us right and he's just asking for us to try to take
- 23:08SPEAKER_00: that one step enough to exercise even a particle of faith
- 23:14SPEAKER_00: in ether chapter 12 27 and yet sometimes we are the ones who get so caught up
- 23:21SPEAKER_00: in our own ideas of who we are and in our weaknesses and in our insecurities
- 23:27SPEAKER_00: that we fail to see that the lord can help us in spite of all of those things
- 23:32SPEAKER_00: and i love ether 12 27 because it says that i give unto men weakness
- 23:39SPEAKER_00: that they may be humble
- 23:41SPEAKER_00: the lord gives us weakness why because it teaches us to turn to him it teaches us
- 23:48SPEAKER_00: to how to rely on him like i said with my anxiety that is something
- 23:54SPEAKER_00: that has helped me to be able to grow closer to my savior
- 23:57SPEAKER_00: because i know he was there for me and i know that he will sustain me
- 24:02SPEAKER_00: in doing those things that he has asked of me does that mean there aren't times
- 24:07SPEAKER_00: that i'm like wait you want me to do what
- 24:10SPEAKER_00: right so it was a step-by-step process for me to where i first had to learn how
- 24:16SPEAKER_00: to open my mouth one-on-one with people and then in small groups and then
- 24:20SPEAKER_00: in larger groups and then speaking to a whole whole congregation and then i came
- 24:25SPEAKER_00: across video and would freeze on video and and i had to learn how to overcome
- 24:31SPEAKER_00: that barrier to be able to use my voice and it's just the lord saw something in me
- 24:39SPEAKER_00: and he sees something in you and he will help you in this whole process
- 24:44SPEAKER_00: i love in first samuel chapter 16 the lord is telling the prophet samuel
- 24:49SPEAKER_00: that he is going to anoint another to be king and he goes to the house of jesse
- 24:55SPEAKER_00: and sees all of jesse's sons and he was like maybe that's the person and
- 25:01SPEAKER_00: the lord's like no oh what about that son nope what about that son he's like go
- 25:05SPEAKER_00: on going down the line of sons and the lord's just like nope and it is young david
- 25:12SPEAKER_00: who the prophet samuel then sees and that is when the lord says that's him and
- 25:19SPEAKER_00: in verse 7 first samuel 16 7 it says for the lord seeth not as man seeth
- 25:28SPEAKER_00: for man looketh on the outward appearance but the lord looketh on the heart
- 25:35SPEAKER_00: sometimes we are looking on this outward appearance and we become more focused
- 25:41SPEAKER_00: on what others will think of us and we start to criticize ourselves and think
- 25:47SPEAKER_00: that we are not capable of doing what we feel called to do
- 25:52SPEAKER_00: of following those promptings of fulfilling our callings of being
- 25:58SPEAKER_00: a ministering sister of ministering to others
- 26:03SPEAKER_00: teaching our kids that the lord looks on our heart and he does not see as we see
- 26:10SPEAKER_00: and that's why it's so important that we trust in him proverbs 3 5 through 5
- 26:19SPEAKER_00: and 6 trust in the lord with all thine heart
- 26:22SPEAKER_00: and lean not unto thine own understanding in all thy ways acknowledge him
- 26:29SPEAKER_00: and he shall direct thy paths let us trust in the lord
- 26:33SPEAKER_00: and not lean unto our own understanding of our limitations of our weaknesses
- 26:38SPEAKER_00: but let us acknowledge him in everything look for all those ways
- 26:43SPEAKER_00: that he is showing us that he is there for us and trust in him
- 26:47SPEAKER_00: and he will direct us going back to ether 12 27
- 26:52SPEAKER_00: after it says i give unto men weakness that they may be humble it also says that
- 26:58SPEAKER_00: if men come unto me i will
- 27:02SPEAKER_00: and have faith in me then will i make weak things become strong unto them and
- 27:08SPEAKER_00: that is exactly what the lord does and he and during that time that he is saying
- 27:14SPEAKER_00: that he is talking to moroni who is struggling to write
- 27:21SPEAKER_00: and he's just like people are going to make fun of the words that i am writing and
- 27:27SPEAKER_00: the lord's like fools mock but they shall mourn and my grace
- 27:31SPEAKER_00: is sufficient and then he goes into sharing this about weaknesses
- 27:36SPEAKER_00: and how he can make them become strong and moroni is the one who wrote moroni 10 4
- 27:41SPEAKER_00: and 5 where we are asked to pray to know the truthfulness of the words within
- 27:47SPEAKER_00: the book of mormon and it's quoted probably one of the most quoted scriptures that
- 27:52SPEAKER_00: the missionaries share as they are teaching to remind people of the importance
- 27:57SPEAKER_00: of praying to know for the truth
- 27:59SPEAKER_00: what would happen in doctrine and covenants section 121 verses 34
- 28:03SPEAKER_00: through 36 it says behold many are called but few are chosen
- 28:10SPEAKER_00: and why are they not chosen because their hearts are set so much upon the things
- 28:15SPEAKER_00: of this world and aspire to the honors of men
- 28:21SPEAKER_00: isn't that interesting and i want you
- 28:23SPEAKER_00: to know that you are called many of us are called
- 28:29SPEAKER_00: yet few are chosen and it's not that the lord isn't choosing us it's
- 28:35SPEAKER_00: that we ourselves are set so much upon the things of this world
- 28:41SPEAKER_00: and aspire to the honors of man we are so focused on how we are going
- 28:46SPEAKER_00: to be perceived by others we are seeking things other than what
- 28:51SPEAKER_00: the lord is asking us to seek but yet when we turn our hearts and put our faith
- 28:56SPEAKER_00: and trust in him then we truly are chosen
- 28:59SPEAKER_00: because we are choosing him what would happen if we truly embrace this idea that
- 29:06SPEAKER_00: the lord is calling us
- 29:09SPEAKER_00: and that he will help us to be able to overcome whatever it is that we're going
- 29:13SPEAKER_00: through and to be able to achieve whatever it is that he is asking
- 29:16SPEAKER_00: of us what would happen if we truly embrace that we would stop questioning
- 29:21SPEAKER_00: if we are qualified to serve and we would serve with strength and with energy and
- 29:27SPEAKER_00: with love
- 29:29SPEAKER_00: because really it's all about love.
- 29:31SPEAKER_00: Serving from that place of love is serving as God would serve.
- 29:35SPEAKER_00: We would be sharing our testimony through our words and through our deeds.
- 29:40SPEAKER_00: We would be living examples of our testimony and the words would come more easily
- 29:47SPEAKER_00: as I have seen time and time again as we truly believe.
- 29:52SPEAKER_00: that he will help us will reach out to our lonely neighbor will forgive the person
- 29:58SPEAKER_00: who hurt us and with love set boundaries and we would accept the callings that feel
- 30:05SPEAKER_00: beyond our abilities and our capabilities
- 30:10SPEAKER_00: we would spend less time focusing on our weaknesses and more time focusing on
- 30:16SPEAKER_00: the lord's power and instead
- 30:18SPEAKER_00: of asking can i really do this we would begin asking how can i love and show
- 30:29SPEAKER_00: that love what can the lord do through me and how can i show his love
- 30:35SPEAKER_00: for his children because really this isn't about us it's not about us it is
- 30:41SPEAKER_00: about what we can do what we can do yes but it is actually about strengthening
- 30:48SPEAKER_00: and uplifting god's children and the impact that we can have as we put our faith
- 30:55SPEAKER_00: and trust in the lord to be able to do his great work to be able to show his love
- 31:00SPEAKER_00: for his children it's not about us
- 31:04SPEAKER_00: it's about god's children and helping them to know that he is in relentless pursuit
- 31:11SPEAKER_00: of them think of the ripple effect that happens a child gains a testimony because
- 31:18SPEAKER_00: a parent does not give up a struggling member feels seen because someone followed
- 31:25SPEAKER_00: a prompting a teen stays connected to the gospel because a leader shows up week
- 31:32SPEAKER_00: after week
- 31:35SPEAKER_00: a family receives help because someone acted in faith rather than fear the lord is
- 31:41SPEAKER_00: with us you are of worth you are capable of so much more than you realize take
- 31:47SPEAKER_00: that next right step and the lord will be there
- 31:50SPEAKER_00: with you throughout this whole process of recognizing and understanding what he sees
- 31:57SPEAKER_00: in you he loves you and you are of great worth and you are needed thank you
- 32:02SPEAKER_00: for joining me today
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- 32:07SPEAKER_00: for this week okay your small and simple action is actually to share this
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- 32:18SPEAKER_00: to be able to help them accomplish what it is that he's asking
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