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Should He Be His Dad's Best Man? · Podcast - Big 98.7

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you dare get a sticker and not post it? You'd be nuts to do
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that, all right, did you? It's been known fifty second Avenue I
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think is probably the hot spot for street racing, for all the people speeding
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and doing that. But it just mean because I live out in that area,
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probably well. Speeding and street racing was a big topic last night at
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the Fargo City Commission meeting. Fargo's police chief was trying to throw out a
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bunch of different ideas to help fix the problem, including race and fines for
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racing. But they're saying right away that's not going to help the situation because
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that would need state legislative action. Commissioners did vote to reduce this speed on
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fifty second Avenue between twenty nine and Cheyenne from forty five to forty. Well,
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that's not going to do anything, but that might it might get me
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though. At four o'clock in the morning. Right now, I'm good because
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fifty second Avenue I can't go because of all that work on Cheyenne. But
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when when it's just you drive in, it's what it feels, say the
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highway kind of yeah, when there's no lights until forty fifth, you're like,
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ooh, so going forty it feels like you could walk faster. You
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know. Sometimes yes, but got it. They should make if you do
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get cought street racing, they should from the rest of your life. You
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have to have like a what do they call them, a governor, like
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they like in a like a golf cart game. You go so fast,
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so your car only can go the speed or five under the speed limit,
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that would be that's it would be wild. That's a good idea, and
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I stand by and there are a lot of people upset about this. The
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Morehead Business Association had to cancel their fireworks display because it just financially doesn't make
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sense anymore. That was the biggest display in more Head over at MSUM.
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We've worked with him in partner with him for a lot of years. It's
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pretty cool. But you know, I mean, does fireworks ever make financial
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sense? You know, my buddies and I when we used to get together
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on Cotton Lake, like we would all be pulling, you know, hundreds
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of dollars of fireworks together and then we blow them up and that's it.
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But there would be no Fourth of July celebration without the fireworks. That's what
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really brings it home, is that right? Yes, America bab was there
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even for Was there fireworks at the first Fourth of July? You think?
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Yeah? When Hancock put pen to paper, you think there was, Yeah,
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he probably the ink probably exploited right out of the pen. That was
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the first firework. Franklin looked up and saw Dakota splash or whatever that what
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do they call it? The Dakota eruption? You think what you think when
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Lincoln put his name on that dotted line, he lit off a smoke bomb?
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Yeah you think so? Uh huh, Well, then I'll be darned
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you're on wend Day, Pike. I do appreciate it, I really do.
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You're really bringing you think when Colonel's Santaday's put the quill down on that
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ledger, you think he had a Roman candle going out a sunny today,
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HI have eighty. Thank you so much for listening to this in the morning.
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No, Amanda stills, Let's see, let's see, and now the
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greatest TV show theme song ever? I could cry. I mean, name
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a better one. And we do have a Dowson's Creek related story. That's
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why we're doing this, Yash, I don't know that one does hit.
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You know what's also very nostalgic for me is this can you name the show?
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No, well, then you missed out on a great little program called
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The Wonder Years. Oh yeah, no, I missed that one. Sorry,
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I'm sure I watched it. But this isn't ringing any bells. Back
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back to Dawson's Creek. Wait till that slapping chorus comes in here we go.
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Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I remember it. You're just saying
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that's so I'll stop playing it. I'm kind of okay. Katie Holmes,
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she had sat done for this interview when he was talking about how she keeps
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in touch with all the cast members of Dawson's Creek, which is awesome.
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She's like, yeah, we have a group text. Every once in a
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while, we message each other. And then she goes, well, I
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didn't know until recently that the entire cast has a WhatsApp chat group that she
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was never a part of. She says, oh, but you know,
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I'm really bad at what'sapp. Whatever. You got to tell yourself, Katie.
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Obviously they don't like you. That would hurt, so that's their one
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to talk pool about. You. Do you remember the show Practical Magic too
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or Practical Magic Now? Was it a show or a movie? It was
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a movie. I'm sorry I always say show, but yeah, the third
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time this week done, I've actually I sort of got never heard of that
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movie. Really it was was Sandra Bullock and Nicole Kidman, and I know
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I watch it, but this was way back in the nineties. It wasn't
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like one of my favorites. But this is going to be exciting if they
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do could happen. They're in talks to do number two and I just want
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to see Sandra Bullock back on the main stage. I mean talks to do
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number two as well. Okay, couple of coffee next, I've never I'm
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looking that movie up. Sally and Jillian, born into a magical family,
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have mostly avoided witchcraft themselves, but when Chilean's vicious boyfriend Jimmy dies unexpectedly,
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they get a crash course in hard magic. That is hard magic. Kind
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of feels like the hocus Pocus when they redid that when it was still good.
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I feel like they could make that one work, even though it sounds
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a little ridiculous. Well, it probably can't be worse than the first one.
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All Right, Taylor Swift, we'll not be making an appearance in the
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upcoming Marvel movie Deadpool and Wolverine. There was a lot of rumors and they
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actually started from Swifties. Do you remember when Hugh Jackman, Sean Levy,
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and Ryan Reynolds were all in the suite the Chiefs game with Taylor. They
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thought that was kind of a an easter egg, if you will, like
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dropping a nice, big old hint that Taylor's hanging with these guys because of
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that not the case. Apparently, there's a mutant named Dazzler in this show.
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And then Dazzler happens to be a pop star that they thought it was
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going to be Taylor. How she possibly have time for that right now?
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I don't know. Well, we also thought, how could she possibly write
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a whole nother album? And then we've found out it also had another album
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on top of the album. The girl just doesn't stop. I guess not,
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but she draws the line at dazzler, can't you mutant Dazzler? I
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get a Manda in the morning, did seven? Let's do it? Crack
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my knuckles. I'm getting a little judge. Let me get let me squeeze
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into my judgy pants tight? No okay, I didn't only throw them on
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once a week. They just uh, and we're pretending so anyway, and
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so now it's to get judge. This guy's got a brutal situation on his
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hands. So if you want to weigh in seven oh one two eight h
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one ninety eight seven. His name is Derek. He's agreed to talk to
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us. Now, Good morning, Derek. How's it going? Will kind
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of stuck between a rock and heart place here. I guess it was about
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three years ago. Now, I caught my dad cheating what's one of his
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co workers on my mom on your mom? Oh my god, yeah,
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Derek, did you watch yeah or what I caught it? Okay, yikes,
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you said three years ago, so quite a bit of time has passed.
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What's going on now that you've called in? My dad is his mistress
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from that time, and now they're going to get married, and my dad
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has asked me to be his best man in the wedding. And I'm just
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I'm pretty protective of my mom because of that whole thing. I'm torn here
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because I feel like it's going to crush my mom, Like I don't.
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I feel like I'm betraying her. Does that make sense if I were to
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participate. Oh that's a tough one, man. I also love my dad,
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you know, Yeah, it's still your dad, right. I mean,
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I'm sure you don't agree with what he did, but nobody's perfect.
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It's worked out for him. It's I mean, they're clearly moved on.
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I don't think. Yes, I know, time heals all wounds, but
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he's moved on. I'm sure. Is your mom still does this feel like
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it was yesterday to her? Is it still really fresh? I don't know
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if it's really fresh, but it's still I mean she's still single, she
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live alone. And so your dad is doing a big like hoopla again for
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this wedding, like full on wedding. Yeah, he's going all out,
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really, he's going all out. They have like a twelve day cruise planned
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for their honeymoon. It's like a hole big deal and he really wants me
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to be part of it. But I can't bring myself to say yes.
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I haven't yet, and I just don't know what to do. What we'll
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do. We're going to talk to some people, get some responses, get
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the vibe of what people think that you can kind of go off of that.
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We'll see what we can come up with. Okay, okay, cool,
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thanks? Well what do you think seven on one to two eight oh
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one ninety eight seven Should Derek be the best man in his dad's wedding as
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he marries the earl that he cheated on Derek's mom with? So I think
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no, I think that's gross. I mean, like, okay, dad,
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whatever, Like, yeah, do what you want, but you don't
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need to bring your son into it. Why are you having a big wedding?
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Like how many people get married a second third time? Yeah, but
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you don't have to judge him, but it's their choice. Maybe it's her
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first wedding. I'm sorry, did you just say I don't have to judge
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them? You know where we are. I know you just said. You
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put your judging pants on, and now you're judging me for judging not.
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No, not, that's rule number one. It's not fair. I take
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it back. I am judging. I'm I'm judging that. Three years later,
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after hooking up with his coworker, this guy's having a big wedding and
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wants his adult son to be the best man to stand by his side.
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No, absolutely not. I think that he should be in the wedding.
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Just tell your mom, you know what. This is also my dad.
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I want to be there and support him. I don't agree with the decisions
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he made, but clearly, after three years this isn't just a little like
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fling anymore. Do I agree that they're having a big wedding. No,
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but I don't think anybody should have huge weddings anymore either. Now you're judging
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people who have big weddings. Besides, really, but I think you.
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I think you stand up by your dad. I mean he I would assume
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he admits that what he did was wrong, but it ended up working out
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with the assumption. Don't you think it's your dad? It's your agreed it's
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your dad by all like, go ahead and go, But does dad allow
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it to? Like, you know, you give me the best man and
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you're gonna go on to some sort of weird bachelor party with your dad.
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Now they're just like making things up. You heard him. It sounds like
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dad's doing it upright, Dad's doing the whole nine yards bachelor party. It's
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we're I go for the bachelor party bike. Oh, probably sim City,
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I guess, and you know what happens there. This one really got your
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workd oune. Okay, I am worked up. I need to go down
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on nine eight seven? What should he do? Good morning? Definitely,
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No, he can't do that, Like he's gonna stand by his mom.
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If he does that, he's gonna hurt hurt so much. Well exactly,
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but you think because it's gonna hurt his dad, right, we all agree
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that his dad would be hurt by him saying no. But you think because
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of his past sins, you know, we kind of owe him one or
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what. It's not even about the sin, it's just he made his choice.
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Like he made and not all choices have consequences that we love, you
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know, like kind of made it best take it's very well put. Well,
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Thank you man, thank you for calling. Thank you. I totally
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agree that's right. Starting to feel like I'm the odd one here because I
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feel like, no, it's okay. We put it on Facebook and we
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also got a couple of texts here. Sarah, one of our top fans
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on Facebook, said the same thing happened to me. I refuse to attend
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my dad's wedding as I did not agree with it. It's been twenty five
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years and I still don't feel bad or regret not attending. His actions ruined
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our family, and I didn't feel like supporting it for sure. That is
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like it's a really good staying like it's one thing for him to do it,
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and like you still love him. It's your dad, and of course
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you're not cutting him out of your life, but like for dad to take
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it a step further and do this big grand wedding, like that's just like
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rubbing everyone's face in it, totally not necessary. I'm guessing that his new
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wife either maybe was never married or that's what she wants and he's what you
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think she would like even just have a little shame and it's their decision.
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Their adults, they get to do what they want. We got another message
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here. Clearly he doesn't agree with or support the wedding. Why would you
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participate in a wedding you don't support. I didn't even show up to my
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sister's wedding because I didn't approve of it after they both cheated on each other.
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Not only would I tell him no, I would not even show up.
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Got one more message here, Okay, since he is very protective over
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his mother and about what happened, the person he needs to talk to is
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his mom, which I do agree. I'm sure she already knows that her
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ex is going to be getting married and whom he just needs to you know,
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I think he just needs to tell her how he feels. If he
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feels conflicted and he wants to participate, then allowed you know, well,
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yeah, hey, of course gives you the green light then you know by
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all means. But I and I think that's the first conversation that needs to
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be have. Acknowledge her feelings. But then and also, she's going to
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be in your life now forever. You might as well go and show up
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or until the next wedding, the next coworker he falls in love with.
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Yeah, Bi, I'm just saying, okay, so are we entering that
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the judgment that it's just a hard no. I think it's the hardest of
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no's. I think you don't go. I think you tell your dad,
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Dad, this is ridiculous. You're I don't know how old you are,
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but it's like, what are we doing? You know, go to the
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courthouse if you feel like you've two three years after doing that with my mom,
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you feel like you need to get remarried again. All right, we'll
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enter your judgment because I'm too scared to give mine. You've said your piece.
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I think Dad, you think you should not only be the best man,
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you should throw him a big Bachelor Bard say that and Amanda in the
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morning on Big seven. There are still things people do on a daily basis
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that are in fact quite rude, and they're very common, you know what
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I mean. So I've got the top five that people were chiming in on
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this very subject, Amanda, So all right, I tell me if it's
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something you've seen or maybe even done yourself, doubtful. So we'll see.
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This one is interesting because obviously it is rude to look at your phone while
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someone is talking to you, but somebody pointed out it is equally as rude
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to just start talking to someone who is looking at their phone, because that's
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essentially you saying that, well, I know what you're doing on your phone.
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It couldn't be important, So here's me talking to you. My gosh,
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I really like this because guilty as charged for the one being on the
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phone. Yes, but every once in a while, I'm clearly in the
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middle of doing something right and my husband will oh, you're on your phone,
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and I'm like, yeah, I am. Yeah. I always say
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to my wife, I'm like okay. I get like generally like it's not
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okay, but I was doing something. Yeah. It's not like it'd be
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different if it was in the midst of just scrolling and doing something right,
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and that I'm gonna go, oh, yeah, you're talking to me.
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But I don't care if I'm reading the blank one eighty two Wikipedia page for
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the four thousandth time I'm doing something that is interesting. I've never had that
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flip flop. But either way, I think the world can do better in
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both regards because it gets to be a little extreme. Amen's sister. Another
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rude thing that you see very commonly when people are walking on a footpath.
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The footpath will fit two people, but if there's let's say, two people
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coming towards you and neither one of them moves, isn't that the most annoying
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thing in the world, Like you got to like step off of the path
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to get out of the way. Kind of feel like when you see them
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coming, and if it's just one person, I would just go to the
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side, yeah, and let the two go because they're together. I just
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I feel like there's people out there who just never get out of the way
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for anybody, and they're the worst people, you know what I mean.
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Like when you like you're in a crowd and you see somebody coming and I
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like dodge out, like jump out of the way, and meanwhile they're just
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like, you know, firm shoulders. It's the guys, obviously, Yeah,
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Like I'm not getting out of the way through anyone. Also, another
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common thing that is rather rude insulting some insulting something about yourself or someone else
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in front of someone who has that same trait, Like if you're sitting there
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and you know, you're really not that big, but you're going, oh
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my god, I'm so fat. But you said somebody has the same trade.
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I'm saying. If you're sitting there going oh my god, I'm so
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fat, and you're sitting there in front of your friend who might be morbidly
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obese, it's like, yes, that's offensive to them, you know what
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I mean. Or you see it a lot with making fun of like let's
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say, like celebrities or even like people who are bad people. You know,
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like if somebody commits a crime, then everyone's like, oh, that
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old fat idiot. It's like, well, okay, yeah, he's a
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bad person. But making fun of them for that, it's like he's not
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going to hear it. But you now, your friend who is overweight makes
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you feel how do you feel about me? Then it also annoys this person.
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When you're driving in a parking lot and someone or like a family has
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to walk through the walkway or out of a store and they take an extremely
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diagonal path, you know what I mean, because it takes definitely longer.
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I get you, like you're trying to take a straight line to wherever your
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car might be in the parking lot, but you're just like totally disrupting the
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flow of re Just go straight across, yes, make it as short of
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a route as possible, and then go find your car. Thank you never
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even thought about that. I get so so upset and judging about how fast
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people are walking, and I get you know what I mean, like when
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somebody's trying to when you're waiting for somebody to cross, come on, like
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a little bit of a sense of urgency here, please you. Yeah,
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we don't need an mean all la gaggers. I don't need to see like
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you know, high knees, but if I could see a little bit of
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a shuffle acting like you care that I'm just sitting here waiting for you.
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And then finally, common things you see that are actually rude. Approaching someone's
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dog without asking first, Oh, yeah I pet your dog? Can I
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because you don't know? Well yeah, they say, like this person said,
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I have a super shy dog. Are we I know we love dogs,
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but are we assigning shyness to dogs? Yeah? Maybe timid. I
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get if the dog is gonna lose it or bite you, but it's like
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my dog's shy. Just make it nervous. Bike how do you engage that?
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How shy you're doc? Yeah, my dog rarely talks in front of
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people. That is kind of a weird phrase to be using, timid insecure
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would be weird. Yeah, he's having an identity crisis, like a minute
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in the morning on I know it sneaks up on you every year, but
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this week is all about dad. It's Daddy week. It is he Father's
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Day weekend. Didn't sneak up on me a bit over Daddy all week?
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Oh yeah, tell me, tell me what ways you been celebrating daddy?
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Well, yesterday are you talking about your dad? Your husband? Nick?
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My husband? Nick? I did talk to both my dad's yesterday and then
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Yeah, been just really getting ahead of things. You know, you have
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until Sunday. I'm also like the annoying daughter who like calls my dad's all
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the time. That was very nice. Yeah, what are you? Are
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you going to tell me how you spoiled daddy or is this not for the
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air? Nope? I kicked off his Father's Day week by uh, why
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do you make everything so weird? But no laser hair removal on his back?
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Over it? Everest regenerator. Yes, I thought I saw a harry
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Back. Harry Back on your story. Yeah, I thought, you know
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what, because he he's always shaving it, and I'm like, you know
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what, let's get this handled. He's got a big golf weekend ahead of
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him. That's how he celebrates Daddy Day away from the kids. You can't
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show up to a golf weekend with a hairy back. I get a little
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sweaty, not grow back. They go through a couple of treatments and yeah,
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then he's good to go. Zip zapp zippity zapp. He loved it
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at first. He was kind of like seriously and then all about it.
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Now good for him? Yeah, what about chest hair? Do you leave
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that? He did leave that. Where do you draw the line? We
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just said the back like the bat wings and all that. Yeah, and
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he was he's a hairy boy. I mean, I just keep going,
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why stop at the waist, let's really to each there. I think that's
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a pretty good Father's Day gift. Although there are many bad Father's Day gifts,
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and I feel guilty of all of these over the years. Tell me
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if he would enjoy any of the worst Father's Day gifts. In twenty twenty
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four, k Okay boring gift cards. I just feel like it would be
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a boring car. I don't know, a Minard's gift card. See,
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I was just gonna say, I feel like we give lands Pants Fleet Farm
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gift card, Like that's kind of his. It's like, go buy what
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you need because I don't even know where. He's so transactional, he's boring.
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He is more of actually the arc. He loves going over to the
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Ark and doing some shopping, So that would be a good gift card.
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What's the arc? The arc adict treasures? There's one on thirty second,
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A couple of them. Oh household story. Tell me all the gems he
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finds good for him. Also ties, I think that goes without saying at
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this point it's pretty cliche to get your dad a tie, unless you've got
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the dad who has to rock a tie all the time. Yeah. Right,
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and then you want to do some fun, yeah exactly. You gotta
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have the right dad for that one. Uh, Hawaiian t shirts find themselves
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on the worst Father's Day gifts? Is that a why did I get We
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used to get our dad Hawaiian T shirts? Is that still a thing dads
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are wearing? I think like at the Lake in the summer. It was
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just the thing. I I don't think I've seen a dad in a Hawaiian
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T shirt. I think it's time for a comeback. Good. Why can't
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I just show up wearing a Hawaiian T shirt? But I think you can.
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No, you can't be real. Come on, it's like back in
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school, Like if you showed up wearing something dramatically different, everyone's gonna talk
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about it. You're gonna get made fun. I mean, that's what the
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energy you need to be bringing. H I'm wearing a gray T shirt currently,
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so I could really, you know, I could use some pop.
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Yeah pop is when you got your pink golf polo on. Yeah. Cheap
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tools find themselves on the worst Father's Day gifts. You wouldn't even attempt.
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The tools don't even bother you, right because they are so expensive, you
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know, And it's like, he doesn't need another hammer if you're dad is
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a tool guy, right, probably not, So don't don't get him a
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cheap one. And that goes for the next one too, golf related items.
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Because I'm a golf guy and let's say I did have a kid.
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It's like, oh my gosh, what we already got Nick his Father's Day
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gift. He bought that Iowa State golf bag when we were back in Iowa
22:18
last month. That doesn't that was a month ago, and you said he
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bought it. We we're kind of like not the gift givers situation here,
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but my goodness, a man should be able to buy himself a golf bag
22:30
without it counting as his father's dad he scored this Father's Day Holy smoke,
22:34
you know what I mean? Like, don't I don't like other people buying
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me golf stuff because why well unless I'm like specifically telling you what it is
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I want, and you know you're also probably not gonna be able to afford
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it. Okay, So okay, I shouldn't say that you can probably afford
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it. I'm not saying it's so expended. If I've rolled in here with
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some Provy one golf balls, you're just gonna say no thank you about that
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would be agree But you know that's not what I would get. Like,
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let's say I had a kid. You know they're going to roll in with
22:59
some top flights, you know, some some Wilsons, and I'm gonna be
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like, oh gee, thanks, and then I'm gonna hit him into a
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field. So even if they got you, like a really cute shirt that
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said number one Dad on it, Oh that's say that because best Dad mugs
23:15
or other merchandise is also number two on the worst Father's Day lifts Funny t
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shirts as well. Instagram is getting me really good right now with all kinds
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of pop up dads. There was actually a golf shirt that you could put
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the kids' faces on. I mean, just such an ridiculous T shirt like
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golf, like a bunch of them, like a bunch of faces all over.
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Yes, And I thought, because he's in that big golf tournament this
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weekend, that that would be hilarious. I don't think he'd wear it,
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though, and I don't want to waste the money, but I thought it
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would be funny, you know, easy it would be to make money to
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sound stupid stuff like that online. People are just sockers for that kind of
23:48
thing. Guilty. And what do you think the number one worst Father's Day
23:52
gift is? Oh? I thought for sure it was number one dad merch
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No, No, the only thing worse socks in on where? Yeah,
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that's fair. Nothing says I don't love you like all those things a bag
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of Haines breefs, like in the morning, big nutty eight point seven.
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Have you ever, Amanda, have you ever had a bar had a guy
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tried to hit on you and you've had to shut down his hopes and dreams.
24:17
Yeah, I feel like I've always been pretty gentle and they've been rude
24:21
about it. Okay, Well, here's the reasons why somebody may have turned
24:22
you down. It's not you, it's never it's never your faults of course.
24:27
Three you know, for example, she lied for no reason. To
24:32
clarify, Let's say you're chatting with somebody out maybe you're out of the bar,
24:36
and she's talking about herself and the great job she has and the money
24:38
she makes and all this and that, and then you ask her for her
24:41
phone number. Well, it's at that point she realizes if you're going to
24:45
continue this relationship, she would have to explain that she's lying about all of
24:48
these things, so she couldn't possibly Yeah, have you ever done that?
24:53
Like if you made up a name and it's like, well, I can't
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actually talk to you now because I'm going to at some point have to reveal
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my real name. I mean, this is a little uh, a little
25:02
too much honesty here, Pike. But you know, Pork and Tatiana.
25:06
The reason Tatiana went with Tatiana is because I used to be Tatiana at the
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bars all up in Colorado. But I love the name. Oh yeah,
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odd Wig ad alter Egos Pork and Tantiana. Yeah, I always thought that
25:21
was a funny. So like, how do you decide if a guy gets
25:23
the real name or not? Or is it just everybody gets Tatiana? Yeah?
25:29
I don't even remember that. I kind of felt like everybody got Tatiana
25:32
unless it was, you know, somebody that you were going to pursue.
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That's what I'm saying, Yeah, what do you draw the line? No?
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I mean, if I'm going to communicate with them again, I'm not
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going to have them be like, hey, Tatiana, that would be weird.
25:45
Well, actually, another painfully honest reason a woman may have turned you
25:48
down. She's still getting over a breakup. Does that really stop anybody?
25:52
Yeah? I mean, like if you're out and about, somebody's taught like,
25:56
you don't have to marry the guy. I know, but you don't.
26:00
They're just maybe not ready for that next chapter or any of that.
26:03
I think that that, well, we're all warm blooded humans. She's bounty.
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Wow, Wow, you are terrible. What what am I terrible for?
26:15
Still there comes a point where I get like or something, but it's
26:18
like, you don't need to turn a guy now, I don't know,
26:22
you're terrible. She says, you're terrible, really really Okay. Another reason
26:26
a woman may have turned you down she is married. Red flag alert.
26:32
That could be it, I will tell you. And I am terrible at
26:34
even paying attention to this rings Like I never looked for him. I didn't
26:40
even pay attention. And then I have a friend who's single and she's like,
26:45
that guy is a ring. I'm like, oh, okay, yeah,
26:47
I guess so literally, it could be a big, cartoonishly big.
26:51
It could be a ring pop on your finger, and I'd be like,
26:53
I didn't didn't notice that. And then finally, another painfully honest reason a
26:56
woman would turn you down is she knows that one of her friends is interested
27:00
in you already. Have you ever read that We're out and abound somebody already
27:03
like kind of dims dump so sort of peed on the hydrant, if you
27:07
will. I think that happens back in the college years for sure, it
27:11
was like, hey, that one you totally DIBs early on. But every
27:17
once in a while there would be the well, that person's clearly not into
27:21
you. It's like I surrender, correct, Come again, ta get a
27:26
man in the morning, say seven, what pool season is here? So
27:30
your kids might be going to public pools, they might have a pool in
27:33
your own yard they're in And here's a question for you. Because a mom
27:37
went viral after proclaiming on an Instagram post that it is the official start to
27:41
the pool counts as a bath season. Oh okay, and that she plans
27:47
to not bathe her kids after they attended a public pool and immediately a little
27:52
different. Parents had a whole lot to say, such as things like no,
27:56
wonder how a pandemic happened, or oh that's nasty, or definitely a
28:02
tubby night for Mike. Don't say tubby night? Do you? Are you
28:06
guys ready for the tubby tubby? No? Now, we do not use
28:08
the word tubby in our home. Okay, good, thank god. But
28:11
you know you consider things like the chemicals that well, just the pea,
28:17
the sweat, the sun screen. Yeah, so real talk here if we
28:21
are so we don't have a pool. But if we were to use like
28:23
our little splash pad that we have that you hook up to the sprinklers outside,
28:27
yeah, I am one hundred percent unless they're like disgusting well sliding around
28:33
in the in the grass. But if they're sliding in the grass, it's
28:37
like I will literally wipe them down and that would be considered a bath,
28:38
like not even a Yeah, you take out the chemicals and all that,
28:42
right then, yeah, it is a bad for me. A public pool
28:45
is maybe the only thing, and there's this is a good up for debate
28:48
conversation. They'll go to the lake and Friday is Saturday, maybe during like
28:55
chigger season. Will rinse them off when they get out of the lake,
28:59
but for the most part, they're not getting a bath until Sunday night when
29:03
we get home because it's just lake season. So that might be gross to
29:07
people who find the lake disgusting. For me, I would be more apt
29:11
to rinse my kids off this second they get out of the pool because chlorine
29:15
is so gross. Yeah, that's why they got showers. You got a
29:17
shower before and after, right, Yeah, they're just as to mention,
29:19
did you ever have this issue? I remember my sister who had like blondish
29:22
hair. Oh, turning green? It would turn green after the swimming lesson
29:26
at the Dilworth pool. Yeah, depending on the chemicals and what's going on.
29:30
Not no, what do you think what's going on? I don't know
29:33
what the chemicals. I know there's chlorine, but I feel like there's something
29:36
else in there. It's chlorine. I think it's just certain hair that reacts
29:40
to it so gross. But yeah, other than that, just bathing your
29:42
kids in general not necessary. It depends on how active they were, what
29:48
they were doing. Sometimes we do just like, hey, we're just rinsing
29:51
off our bodies. My kids are already in that. Why don't want to
29:53
get a hair? What it's like? That's fine. I'm not even not
29:57
even fighting you washing your hair? Hey, sid fun fact, Mamma doesn't
30:03
like washing her hair every day either. Really, I haven't gotten does a
30:06
dry shampoo yet, but she'll be fine. What's an appropriate age for shampoo?
30:11
I don't know. I'm not even I can't even think about that, right,