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Harrysong Threatens 1 Billion Naira Lawsuit, Over Ex-Wife’s Emotional Abuse Allegations · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to an episode of Bandit Lorenz here.
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  How are you all doing if you're doing great?
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  For today's episode, I want to talk about Harrison and his wife
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  Alexa. Now these two people, they've
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  been online battling Alexa, begging, literally begging for
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  money. The latest is that she's been
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  hospitalised and she's begging for money to take care of
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  herself. She has given up her kids to
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  Harry Song because she said that he is using the kids against
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  her. Now, for some of you who don't
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  know, Harry Song is a Nigerian singer who was signed to a five
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  star record label which is Casey's and Imani's record
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  label. He did well.
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  He did, you know, he did well for himself.
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  And then he left, started his own career, started a new record
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  label, I think because According to him, he was producing,
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  writing songs for KC and he was not getting any acknowledgement,
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  like he wasn't being given the rights to his songs.
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  So he left. Now Harry Song decided to get
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  married. He was in his 40s when he
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  decided to get married to Alexa who was agency proper agency.
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  I think she was also 21 when he married her thinking he can
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  control her. The same situation between Ned
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  Muko and Regina Daniels and the same situation between the Juju
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  Israel DMW and his wife Courage. So Harrison decided to marry
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  somebody who is very young, who hasn't done anything much in
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  life, who he thought was we just going to sit down at home, take
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  care of the kids while he cheats in peace?
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  OK, so they got married, had kids, and Alexa started
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  demanding for her rights or some rights because Harrison was
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  busy, according to her, cheating, bringing women into
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  the home. She wasn't doing anything.
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  So he felt because you know, he is the one providing for the
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  family, there's no way she's going to leave.
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  So he's allowed to do whatever he wanted to do.
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  The shocker was when Alexa started to leave, she said she's
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  no longer getting she's she's not doing this marriage anymore.
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  And Harry's song, the you know, he was even online talking about
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  men cheating, that men are polygamous.
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  He was so disrespectful to this girl.
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  Also, this lady like laying the grounds.
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  I think maybe she was saying that she was going to come out
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  and call him out or something. So he decided to kind of say
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  certain things to water the ground, to say that he's
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  polygamous, he's this. He was just saying so many
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  derogatory things about this, about women in general.
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  Alexa left. There was so many, so much drama
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  because he wasn't taking care of the kids.
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  She came out, she cried that he was controlling her, he was
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  financially abusing her. There was no food.
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  You know, she, she, she, she came on live under defeats and
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  made so many videos and allegations After that, she,
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  according to her, she decided to give the kids back to Harry
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  because she couldn't take care of the kids.
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  And Harry's song, ever since then, he's been very vocal about
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  polygamy. He's been very vocal about men
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  not being a not like they cannot be tied to one woman.
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  Anyway, Alexa is back in the news again because she's in a
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  hospital. She said that ever since Harry
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  song, she gave the kids willingly to Harry Song, he has
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  stopped her from seeing the kids.
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  And she said the reason why she gave the kids back to him was
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  because she cannot take care of the kids.
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  She's not working, so she had to give him the kids, but giving
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  him the kids does not mean that she don't want to be the kids
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  life. So that has been the issue.
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  She said she's been to human rights, she's been to so many
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  places to help her like get visitation sports because
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  Harrison obviously he has means, is bribing everybody before now
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  she made a video, she talked about her challenges and what
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  went down this. Man has not Like he lets me
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  rest, He frustrates my efforts every given time he comes to my
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  house unannounced. He harasses me everywhere like
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  there's nothing he has not been doing.
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  But I cannot be coming online every day to come and tell you
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  the guys that this is what I'm going through, this is what this
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  man has been doing to me and all of that.
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  At this point I'm tired. I'm saying it like I'm I'm tired
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  and what I'm saying is barely around is his house self and his
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  houseboy like the in the house. He just wants to feel that yes,
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  he's the one that is in charge because he says I there are a
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  lot of allegations that are being laid on this complaint,
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  this petition that he bought for me that a lot of things he said
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  I would have countered it. Wish I will in time in in in
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  good time. I wish I would do that, but for
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  now he has been pressuring me about these.
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  Kids. He has been doing a lot of
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  things emotionally to because of these kids, so I'm going to now
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  give him. Custody.
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  For now, that doesn't mean I'm not going to come back for my
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  children. It's just that.
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  I've had enough, but I'm not going.
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  To write you now because. Because I know.
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  When the time. Is right.
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  I'm going to fight for my children.
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  They're just my nose. They're just four and three
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  years. Yes.
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  You want to take my? Kids to go and live with an
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  household, your household because you feel.
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  Like since I said no I. Rejected you your offer for me
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  to. Come back, you want to.
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  Frustrate me. I currently live in Asaba and
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  yes, we be. Clear that.
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  I would not be even. Only you make my life miserable
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  in this Asaba. So I planned on relocating to
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  Lagos when I took him to welfare, I told.
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  Him. I told.
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  But at. This point.
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  I don't know what else to do, he said.
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  He has all the connections. He has.
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  The money and everything and he's he's been trying to
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  frustrate me. So this is me saying.
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  Everything OK with you? I love you guys so much but.
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  I just. Have to do this.
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  Mommy's going to come back, OK. That's it.
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  If women get you guys to go do prostitution to go and do
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  whatever I want you guys in my life.
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  I want to take care of you guys as much as I want, for your dad
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  is not listening me. I just want you.
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  Ah, this is sad. This is sad because these are
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  full grown men who are in their 40s.
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  Like making lives, the lives of younger women miserable.
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  And the reason why they go for these younger women is because
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  they know that they are not financially stable.
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  I mean, if you're in your 40s, you should be getting married to
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  somebody in their 30s or somebody in their 40s to match
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  that energy. Because you know that at that
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  point that woman or that Lady or that girl is those are left from
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  her right? She's had education, she's maybe
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  built a career or a business and maybe just she can take care of
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  herself. So they don't go for such women.
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  They go for people in their 20s, twenties, not just even mid 20s.
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  They go for 20/21/22 because they know at that point they're
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  just probably just graduating. So you haven't, you've not had a
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  job. So when they marry you, they
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  make sure you don't work. You just having kids immediately
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  and then you stay at home mom. Then they can abuse you
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  physically, psychologically, financially, mentally.
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  I don't think they bargained that Gen ZS are going to leave
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  marriages. Gen ZS are leaving marriages,
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  Left, right, centre they are. And they're leaving the kids.
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  I mean, she returned the kids to him, yes.
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  You know, she's crying about house girls taking care.
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  That's what's going to happen. And the reason why she returned
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  the case was because he was refusing to help her
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  financially. So these men, they know exactly
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  what they're doing. They know what they're doing.
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  And Alexa has landed in hospital because she's she's feeling so
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  bad. She's emotionally drained.
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  People are different. I mean, Regina Daniels, yes, she
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  had boys. So she, she doesn't care.
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  Not that she doesn't care, but she I don't think she put her
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  mental health first before the kids, before her ex-husband Ned
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  Muku. So she's taking care of herself.
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  She's not coming out online crying.
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  I'm not saying that she she doesn't feel it privately.
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  I'm not saying that she doesn't cry privately.
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  But she is not breaking down publicly.
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  I think Alexa need to get a grip.
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  She needs to because maybe she wasn't online when Harry Song
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  was going through. Because they marry them young.
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  Imagine a 2021 year old girl when you marry her when your
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  your whole shenanigans happened 10 years before.
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  At that point she was 12 so she wouldn't know what you had done
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  to Hush is marrying a superstar. Alexa is currently in the
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  hospital begging for money to take care of herself so you can
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  then imagine where would she find money to take care of the
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  kids or fight her husband or her ex-husband.
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  This is just sad. Or round ladies or girls.
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  Young ladies, before you get married make sure that you have
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  something you're doing. You have a job, you can't take
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  care of yourself. Live alone.
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  Live alone for a couple of years.
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  Understand cost of living, understand paying rent, paying
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  bills, buying clothes, feeding yourself, going to work,
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  transportation. Understand all those expenses.
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  Because I think we've been conditioned to just go from your
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  parents house, your parents taking care of you to a
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  husband's house. So you don't know all those
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  things. You, you, you have no idea.
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  And then you're thrown into the deep end where you can't, even
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  if things are not going as planned, you can't move, you
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  can't shift. Make sure you're not
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  independent, not financially independent, but you understand
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  so that when you start popping out those kids, you know that if
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  anything happens, this is what it will require.
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  And then you make strategic decisions.
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  Even if you're leaving or even if you want to leave, you have
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  to leave in a way where you're going to be OK.
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  You're not just going to wake up in the middle of the night and
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  leave anyway. Let me know what you think.
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  Do you think that Harry Song is abusive or do you think that
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  Alexa should get her life together, get a job?
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  Social media is not real life. If you go to a page, you see how
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  curated the pages, but she's online begging money, begging
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  for money. So do you think she is living
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  above her means and Harry Song is refusing to pay?
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  Or do you think that Harry Song married a very young girl who he
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  thought he could manipulate only for her to say enough is enough?
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  Let me know what you think. Thank you very much for watching
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  today's episode. Please like, like, like and
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  share. Thank you very much for
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  watching. Bye bye.