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Women, do you want to get married? Then never listen to married women! | Maintaining Frame 49 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Hello everybody. Oh, I got the wrong people up. Hold on,
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  I love everybody. Welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian.
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  I am here with Alice. Who do I need to be? Huh?
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  Need be? Do I need to be Hannah? Mike? And no,
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  no, no no, I didn't fix it really quick. I just I
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  didn't do it on this I didn't do it in this scene. I did
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  it in the other scene. So I don't have to I don't know.
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  You don't have to do like your best Hannah impersonation. Um, yeah,
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  this is maintaining frame number forty nine. Women you want to get married,
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  then never listen to married women. We're gonna be talking a little bit about
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  a video by uh Well. The channel is called pop Politics. Pop Politics.
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  I don't know if this woman owns the channel or if she's just if
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  it's like a bigger entity and she just makes content for it, but she
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  is making She made a video called why gen Z and Millennials are no Longer
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  Dating? And I thought we could look at some of the video, but
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  we can also look at some of the other Well, we don't have to
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  watch the videos, but like talk about the sort of like shift in the
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  conversation about dating. It seems like people are starting to take notice of what
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  we've been talking about for about nine years, ten years now. In in
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  August, it'll be ten regarding you know, the issues that men face.
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  I saw a channel called Man Talks and the title it's a man obviously,
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  and the title is marriage dying and is it even worth it? He also
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  made a video about how sixty six percent of men are just checked out of
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  dating according to a study. I don't know how accurate that is. And
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  even Joe Rogan, you know who normally uh takes a little bit of time
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  to dunk on MRA's, made a video called sixty percent are Joe Rogan on
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  sixty percent of young men being single? Um? So I think that how
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  did how did he how did he dunk on us this time? Well,
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  he didn't dunk on us, but but um, because I watched the whole
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  thing, he was just kind of like, this is scary because while essentially
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  it's like we're not forming families, we're not having children, we're not dating.
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  What's happening? Right? But I think that the general issue, though,
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  is that as as a lot of these people do, I'm not speaking
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  for Man Talks or this woman, but Joe Rogan is a good example of
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  this. Um. They want to talk about how, oh this is because
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  of social media, this is because of the Internet, this is because of
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  the COVID lockdowns. I mean, look, I think that some of those
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  things could have been a contributing factor, but it's not that. It's not
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  that you know it. And I watched Man Talks video and he said what
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  I was thinking, what I've been saying, which is that you know,
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  essentially, women have it in their heads that they deserve men that are out
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  of their league. And that's something that we see over and over and over.
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  And I think that is part of the problem because men in general are
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  more than willing to settle, like you know, most of the time,
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  because men consider themselves to be mid and so they expect that if they find
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  a mid girlfriend, then it's it's good. But men are considering themselves files
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  and sixes, and women are considering themselves tens all the time. Like it
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  doesn't it doesn't matter if they're overweight, doesn't matter if they take care of
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  themselves, none of that matters. They're ten. And that is causing problems.
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  Right, So this is the thing, and I think this woman acknowledges
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  that to some degree are my thoughts about what we will probably be talking about
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  today. And I'm okay, so oh yeah, I do. I do.
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  Hopefully you can hear me. But honestly, what's really interesting about this
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  is we were right there, like you said, ten years ago, talking
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  about the emotional and effect of all of how we frame the gender's interactions on
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  men um and on women, and you know, warning about stuff like this
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  because we see it, We see the leading edge of all of this,
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  and of course we're the ones we get dunked on. Yeah, like yeah,
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  you know, you know those men's rights activists, those men's issues advocates,
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  they got a point. But why can't they just shut up and go
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  away? Yeah, they're probably not qualified to talk about where did all these
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  problems come from? Why don't want to give us our heads up? Jesus
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  though we just got swide swipe, But the fact there are civilization is doomed,
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  and it's worse than that, because we live in a pot. The
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  scheme based on the idea that the next generation is going to be bigger than
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  our own. People realize that like all of our prosperous, like everything we
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  see around us is borrowed on the future labor of grandchildren that will never exist.
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  Yep, well that's the thing. Like, like, you know,
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  I gotta say that with some sympathy to millennials, young millennials and Generation ZUM,
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  you were propagandized into this. The women were bought into the idea that
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  they're worth more than they actually are and that they don't have to do,
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  you know, any personal growth or work on anything. And the boys have
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  been taught that they are always going to be below standards, you know,
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  they're always going to be shit. And there's no wonder that so many boys
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  are thinking, well, you know, I should just live as a woman
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  because I'm going to get something out of it. You know. It was
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  non binary or just or be anything but a man, basically anything but a
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  man, or anything but a man who seeks a woman. Now, I
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  just want to point out that I think that they I think there's something like
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  I'm not sure what's going on with the stats, but as far as I
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  can tell, it isn't sixty three percent of men are preferred to be single.
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  It's sixty three percent of men are single versus thirty seven percent of women.
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  I don't know how that washes out these these these um polls are confusing
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  as hell. But um well, and but there has consider being in a
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  relationship and what women consider being in a relationship are very different. Like a
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  woman dates a guy, right, let's say they have a one night stand
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  and she thinks we're together now, but the guy never made it and promises.
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  And I think part of the reason and for that is in general,
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  the way that we have usually like had it work is women they gate keep
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  the sex, men gate keep the commitment, and so if men aren't making
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  commitments, they pretty much assume that no commitment has been made. But this
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  also means that men have to constantly figure out where they stand with women,
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  because that's you know what I'm saying, Like they have to know that they're
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  in good standing and the women wants to be with them and they like them
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  and they enjoy their company before a man says, well, we're dating now,
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  or we should be dating now, or would you like to be my
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  girlfriend or whatever. But all of that, the men's input on that is
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  basically just gone, Like we like, men don't have a right to anything
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  in that it's all up to her. And that's I think why we're in
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  a place where, you know, women think they're in relationships that are not
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  actually in and hence the numbers are off like that, or they're dating guys
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  who are getting multiple women at the same time and they're considering that to be
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  your actual relationship. You know, being part of a man's committee does not
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  mean you are in a relationship with that man. Sorry, ladies, it's
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  not the case. But uh yeah, that's one possibility. But what's really
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  interesting, and everybody's got this whole I think they're keep perpetuating the sixty three
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  percent of men are electively single. Yeah, I don't think that's that's what's
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  going on. But what is interesting is that the numbers of men seeking a
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  relationship have dropped ten percent. Yeah, like they dropped from I don't know,
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  sixty something of the men who are single to something like fifty percent of
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  the men who are single. Now, honestly, that still leads a lot
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  of guys seeking out a relationship or some kind of interaction with women. So
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  I honestly, I think they really need to go back to these numbers and
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  figure out what the hell is going on. Because I don't know how you
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  can draw conclusions about it. But if we are to believe anecdotally that she's
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  correct and women are finding that men are just aren't interested anymore, I think
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  it's I think honestly at this point, and once again, you know,
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  I'm going to say something, and everybody's more like oh Man's Issues advocates heaven
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  blah, all right, it doesn't fuck, It doesn't matter your relationship status.
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  Just you just consider it a wash at this point, ladies, like,
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  if you're listening, you're not. You're probably not going to have a
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  partner. You know, you are going to be alone. You are going
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  to die alone, and that is going to be it. However, the
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  real question is do you want to die alone in some kind of screwed up
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  dystopian hellscape yeah, where you starve to death in a ditch and no one
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  cares because you're just another U. You're just literally just another body um?
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  Or do you want to live in a sort of like, you know,
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  high third world um situation, you know what I mean, not not like
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  a really scroungey third world, but sort of a nice third world like dare
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  I say, Mexico. At this point, um, you know, just
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  just the upper on the upper Yeah, yeah, India, you know,
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  like a nice India level of um of comfort. This is what American women
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  have to decide. Now, you're not going to have relationships, but you
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  can decide what the future holds if it's going to end up being a small
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  ya A good way of putting it versus an India. This is basically Western
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  women like yeah, you know in the UK, Europe, it's all again.
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  If we keep our eye on Spain, we'll find out where we're headed
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  because they're ahead of the curve. I'm Matt, Yeah, I'm talking from
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  an economic perspective because I'm not kidding when I say we've we have invested in
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  this Ponzi scheme. There isn't any grandchildren who are going to be paying off
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  the debt that we're doing creating right now, and eventually that's got to come
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  due. And when it comes to, everything freaking collapses. So that's why
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  I'm saying, do we go to a collapse of India or do we go
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  to a collapse of Somali Somalia? Like seriously, that and that's that's your
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  choice. Forget about being married, forget about relationships. Now we're at the
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  stage that women need to start thinking about reincentivizing and telling men the bare minimum.
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  Yes, your work keeping the lights on is absolutely critical. You should
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  be respected as a man for it. That's it. Like I'm probably mangling
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  what I'm saying, but a lot of things flowing through our fingers right now.
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  Yeah, and we got to make our decisions what we want to be
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  able to keep. And I hate saying this because it's an awful thing to
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  say, but women need to start at the very least respecting the fact that
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  men keep the lights on, and they keep the heating going, and they
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  keep basically everything in society running. That matters that at the end of the
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  day, you can say, well, we can pay you know, we
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  can pay Cloinecia to put up another Twitter or TikTok post and drink Latte's while
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  having her I don't know her wheat grass frat, but she you know whatever,
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  you know, you know, like the what we're seeing coming out of
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  these um so called Silicon Valley, like entrepreneurial efforts, whatever those places are.
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  We can do that. Or we can pay ted to keep the signal
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  lights operating, you know, and that decision. When it comes down to
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  it, the vast majority of people who are absolutely critical to the running of
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  our society and making sure people don't die are men. Yeah, and women
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  have right now. They have a choice because what they incentivize will persist,
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  and what women are incentivizing in the West among men is nothing is absolute destructive,
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  absolutely destructive. Yeah. So anyway, that's where we're at. Thanks
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  for the heads. So yeah, I'm sorry. But at the other hand,
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  I mean, we do if we if if women can get it together
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  enough to at least tell men that, you know, maybe maintaining it utilities
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  is a good thing, and mostly men do it. I mean, I've
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  been in a years long argument with a feminist who cannot even allow that,
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  because she cannot even allow the blatant fact that if men disappeared with them would
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  go ninety five percent of everything that keeps society running. Okay, ninety five
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  percent gone. That's that sewage, that's heating, that's lighting, that's electricity,
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  you know, that is rhoades of that gone, no maintenance on any
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  of it. We won't have a civilization without men. She will, not
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  one refuses to admit that. And it's all because of this kind of lack
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  of gratitude and insecurity, profound insecurity, and it's all like a bare minimum.
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  Western women should be thanking men for that. And we shouldn't just have
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  like memorial Day where we thank men where we well, actually nobody does that
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  anymore. I notice nobody. Nobody says thank you men for your sacrifice in
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  war and how many of you have died. We should also have memorial days
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  for every other way that men's expendability has made a society that's worth living in.
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  You know, how many men died for every single tunnel under a river
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  that people just take for granted, or every single mile of track, or
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  every single girder in a in a skyscraper. You know how many men have
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  died for that? How many men have died for the damn, the big
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  Damn. Yeah, and I'm blanking on the name big Damn. I saw
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  it. I can't remember the Hoover dam Yeah, you know, they would
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  have a there's like a folk song about it, you know. And how
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  many men died for the whale oil to light before we got How many men
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  died for the oil fields? Think about that? How many men died for
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  what we have now and we don't. We don't have a day where we
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  thank them. Yep, we have a day? How many days now for
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  women? Well they took all of men's days, you know, so remember
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  that what we have Mother's Day coming up this like in two weeks. And
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  I explain to people because they said, well, what about Father's Day?
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  And I was like, Father's Day, that's not a thing. Um,
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  that's just single Mother's Day. So there's Mother's Day and then there's single Mother's
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  Day. So yeah, and there's nothing. There's nothing actually respecting and memorializing,
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  no how much I mean, like even what is it? Memorial Day
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  gets made about men and women. And I'm not saying that there aren't women
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  that you know, are involved, but it's like it's microscopic. The scale
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  is microscott compared to men women involved reality because somebody might get their feelings hurt.
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  That's never actually taken any of the weekend. But I'm telling you that
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  this is this is it, like, this is this is the rubicon.
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  This is the watershed, you know, this is when we decide what kind
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  of like what kind of future we have are we gonna are we gonna gracefully
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  glide into sort of an India one pole of a bipolar system, the world
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  economic system. Uh, you know, it's not bad, it's not it's
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  not You're not gonna be living that bad India style or are we gonna go
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  Somali style? You know, that's when this is what women get to decide.
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  Now, whatever you incentivize is what we get to keep. Now,
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  we're not doing anything to incentivize the fundamental parts of our society that men are
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  responsible for. We don't. We don't give them any recognition of how much
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  they sacrifice to make sure this stuff keeps going. If we start, we
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  might keep it. But and that's just if we talk about fathers and mothers.
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  I mean, like you said, like we need something for the work
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  that men do, and I mean I don't. I don't want to drag
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  this out too long, so I want to get to what we're going to
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  be talking about. But the real interesting thing about it is is that generally
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  men don't want that, so we but we have to back them up regardless.
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  I think even though they're probably gonna say, you know what, I'm
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  just doing my job, like, they don't think of it as some you
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  know, massive sacrifice that they're making in most cases, you know. So
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  so yeah, well that that has to change, and I think people are
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  discovering that. So let's let me show you things before we get into the
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  video. So this is an article. I'm not gonna read the whole thing.
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  I mean, you can't see the whole thing, but I'll read the
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  headline. It's as fed up single woman thirty two furious over atrocious dating scene.
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  I get ghosted by so many men? Do better. I wonder why
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  nobody is calling you. I wonder why it's not working out. And you
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  know that it's this kind of like entitled attitude. But you know, she's
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  thirty two. At some point she's going to figure out that maybe the problem
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  isn't men man like you know, and this is something that we see over
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  and over and over all. Right, Well, I praties. I've gotten
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  into these arguments and and they argue that men shouldn't have any expectations, right
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  yeah, I mean, I don't know why they think that it's men's expectations
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  to the problem here. I guess they are in this case because she's not
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  meeting them and she gets ghosted by so many men. Well, yeah,
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  but they have a right to ghost you. Yeah, they don't have to
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  date you. That you don't have to date you, right, entitlement Like
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  this is sick, Like you don't have to have sex with you. They
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  do not have to touch you, they don't have to message you, they
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  don't have to date you. You're not entitled to that. How many times
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  do we hear it with the reverse insults are just actually, um, not
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  even saying that you know that people women are obligated to go out with them.
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  They just want some honesty about what women want. I've literally seen an
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  insult say you know, women want the six sixes, and then some dude
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  would be like, oh, you're such an insult. If only you have
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  the six sixes, women would want you. It's like, would you just
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  what good You're just you're you're fucking slamming him for telling it you what you
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  actually believe and what you've observed about women, Like how do you fit that
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  much stupid into your pretzel brain yet? Anyway, but like that, nobody
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  owes you anything, lady. They don't owe you anything. And the other
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  thing is that I get into these these arguments and they say, well,
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  women are giving men companionship. They shouldn't have to give anything more than that.
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  I'm like companionship. Well, first of all, okay, so you're
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  talking about friendship. First of all, I've never had a friend. If
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  the friendship's over, I have to pay them half my income, you know,
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  and I lose my kids or my dog or whatever, you know,
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  and half my stuff. I don't recall any friendship that involves that all these
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  legal hooks, okay. Nor if I have a friend and they hit me
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  in the face, the cops aren't going to come out and drag me to
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  jail, because they do with men if their female companion ends up being a
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  complete bastard. Okay. So there's that, and then there's the other thing.
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  How many women in our society are absolutely saturated with contempt for men's gender
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  identity and a belief that men are respondsible for the ills of the world,
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  simultaneously responsible for the ills of the world and also fixing them and saving them
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  from the own ship in their own life. Like, that's not companionship.
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  That's not companionship. Women aren't even offering that as far as I can tell,
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  and I would say it to any member of the spectrum of genders.
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  How many of they are that you should not date anyone who considers your gender
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  identity beneath contempt and regards it as responsible for the problems of the world.
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  No, you shouldn't. So how many women out there believe that, Well,
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  that makes them undtable as far as that really they should be. They
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  should consider themselves undatable because of that, And maybe men are waking up to
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  it. I can only hope the men are waking up to the fact that
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  you're not going to get companionship from someone who hates your gender identity or has
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  contempt for it, or believes that men are responsible for the human ills,
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  or wants to establish that kind of moral hierarchy in your relationship with you below
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  them. You're not getting a companionship from that. I could get anything from
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  that that's worth having. You're just gonna get contempt and entitlement. Oh yeah,
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  but you know, go ahead, Okay, well yeah yeah, let's
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  get into the video. So, um, but I just want to say
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  that I do I am this this this like this sort of like headline of
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  a woman going where are all the good men? I mean, we've been
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  talking about that for a long time, so it should not be a surprise,
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  but I think that it's becoming and I'm seeing more and more men.
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  You know, when they respond to these things and comments and stuff, they're
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  like, well, hey, you know, you gave us a raw deal.
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  We don't want anything to do with it too bad. You know.
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  If you want this to be better, then then help us fix it.
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  Otherwise I'm sorry, I just don't care. I don't. Yeah. The
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  first thing you can do, the first thing you can do as a woman,
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  is too sit down and remove the chip on your shoulder. Yeah about
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  being oppressed because you never were. That's the first deconstruct that don't start,
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  you know, the instant I say that, you know, I can hear
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  the wheels going, oh blah blah, but no, you never were.
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  You never were, and that particular lie has run its course. Okay,
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  all right, let's check it out. You're ready, Yes, I have
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  my tea. I am ready? All right, good, All right,
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  here we go. If you're a single girl out here in these streets and
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  you're thinking, am I crazy? Or are these guys like not even wanting
• 24:45
  to date and hook up, let alone get married? Am either problem?
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  Are we why these men don't want to get married? Yes? Yes,
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  basically most of it. You know, yes, so what else is there?
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  Well, I don't know. There are guys. Here's the thing.
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  Okay, here's the thing. It's part. I think there are guys who
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  are not living up to their potential and that would make them unattractive. But
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  I think that they're in the minority. I think most men are going to
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  try something. And the problem is is that women when they say, you
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  know, why aren't these guys dating me, they're not talking about any guy.
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  They're talking about the top guys like this, the giga chads, that's
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  the one that they're like, Oh, this is the unicorn man I want.
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  Oh he doesn't want me. What's wrong with men? No? No,
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  no, most men still probably would date you if you weren't, like,
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  you know, a horrible human being. But your standards are so hot
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  high that those other men are invisible to you. So of course you're going
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  to say, well, there's no men around because you're not even looking with
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  a regular pair of eyes, you know, you're looking through that filter of
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  like you know, the four sixes. Okay, you know, I think
• 26:10
  I think what we should do with this is we should skip to the part
• 26:14
  where she starts to get really like it's about five minutes in. Um okay,
• 26:22
  yeah, like just skip about five minutes in because that's when she really
• 26:26
  gets interesting and we should go back to the first part because honestly, I
• 26:30
  was astounded, astounded at the fact that she gets a lot of stuff right.
• 26:36
  Yeah, but then she makes a fundamental error, and I wonder if
• 26:40
  it's because this kind of mentality has to attach to a enemy, yeah,
• 26:47
  and have somebody that it's mocking, you know, and excluding unless she happens
• 26:52
  to also be a conservative woman. Like I know, I call out conservative
• 26:57
  women and conservatives, but um, I think that well, first of all,
• 27:03
  I think her definition of conservative might be very broad. I might actually
• 27:07
  be considered a conservative by this woman's definition, maybe because I'm a classical liberal.
• 27:11
  I mean, so I watched the whole video and she does like sort
• 27:17
  of create a category of woman and then calls it conservative and sort of like
• 27:25
  you know, roasts that group, those trad wives on TikTok and stuff.
• 27:30
  But um, she's also not exactly like going after well, she does talk
• 27:37
  about the ways that feminism contributed this problem, so it's kind of hard to
• 27:41
  see where she's coming from. She might be like, you know, the
• 27:45
  doing conservatism right or something. I don't know. Yeah, maybe, okay,
• 27:49
  I mean she looks she looks pretty like I would say conservative from her
• 27:56
  appearance. I mean she's got books. There's like a like a Roman head
• 28:03
  on her shelf and a disco ball and she's wearing like a blazer. I
• 28:07
  don't know. I don't know. I'm judging a book by its cover.
• 28:11
  Sue me, what was that? Okay? So maybe we start at four
• 28:17
  four started four minutes. Yeah, and we'll go back to the beginning because
• 28:21
  that's uh, you want me to go back to the beginning. No,
• 28:23
  no, we won't. We'll go back to the beginning after we do the
• 28:26
  end. Yeah, he's want gonna be blazing through this really fast. Yeah
• 28:30
  all right, Oh my, I did I did the I did the the
• 28:33
  vocal fry there? What the vocal fry? Oh? Oh all right,
• 28:40
  let's play the thing. By the way, guys, if you want to
• 28:41
  send us a message, you can send a super track. What. Oh
• 28:47
  yeah, I forgot to do that. Can you do that? Yeah?
• 28:48
  Go ahead, or do you want me to do it? Okay? No?
• 28:51
  No, hit like, guys, hit like. I see fifty five
• 28:53
  viewers and only twenty two like smashed it like button. It helps us like
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  reach more people, and I've noticed that since you guys have been doing it,
• 29:00
  we do get like a couple of new faces in our live chat.
• 29:06
  So that's pretty cool. I like more the more the merrier, is what
• 29:10
  I say. Okay, go ahead, alson, all right, So if
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  Badger dot com slash just the tip. All right. So I got a
• 29:57
  superchat just now from Mike two dollars, and Mike says five hour vocal fry
• 30:03
  as Mr Stream, I think he's making a request. Is that like a
• 30:07
  personal attack or something. No, it's probably a request. Like no,
• 30:11
  I know it's a request. I was just doing a Yeah, you gotta
• 30:18
  do that for five hours. I think you're gonna kill your vocal chords.
• 30:22
  I don't think it's possible. You have to bring somebody on who naturally has
• 30:26
  vocal fry. So all right, anyway, let's play the video. Let
• 30:30
  me just look and rumble really quick. Hello Zog, magnificent, mister O
• 30:34
  three oh three, mangaka ninety two. All right, let us let us
• 30:38
  go ahead and do this. It's till how men show their lives. Since
• 30:42
  the beginning of time, men have hunted and women were the gatherers and helpers.
• 30:47
  We switched this up as women and insisted that we can hunt instead,
• 30:49
  leaving men feeling confused and purposeless. In an act that drives men further into
• 30:53
  disorientation. Women have chosen to blur the line between masculine and feminine energies,
• 31:00
  recognizing the different roles man, oh, oh, she's a crystal one.
• 31:03
  She's a crystal Yeah, yeah, she said, she said energies. Yeah.
• 31:10
  I was like, oh boy, here comes the wu She's spiritual but
• 31:14
  not religious. Guys, they're really different. Well, okay, I will
• 31:18
  be honest. They at least held the line when it came to certain um
• 31:23
  corporate uh far pharmaceutical corporate malfeasance. Yeah, the holistic population. The holistic
• 31:37
  population. I noticed that though they are one of the few stores left.
• 31:41
  Like when we go to a holistic store that doesn't do the the mandates,
• 31:45
  the weird diversity occult flag thing. Oh okay, right, yeah yeah,
• 31:53
  well so it's interesting to have watched the evolution politically, yeah, because now
• 31:57
  they're lumped in with the are right, you know that? Right? Well,
• 32:00
  of course, I mean it's not Remember Fraggle Rock. Do you remember
• 32:07
  Fraggle Rock? Uh? You know, I never watched it, but I
• 32:10
  know, okay, well there was there was um just give me a second,
• 32:15
  Fraggle Rock, come on, work, damn you there was um.
• 32:23
  There was a character characters. Um, okay, go goo Mochi Wembley Jim
• 32:37
  mcl says, Mochi, question Mark I Red Fraggle Triangle. Okay, Bob,
• 32:45
  I think it's I think it's Mochi artistic hippie type fraggle okay, Mochi
• 32:50
  from Fraggle Rock. If you guys know who what fraggle Rock and who she's
• 32:55
  the She's the spiritualist hippie crystal worshipping. Um now she's far right, Yeah,
• 33:06
  well, yeah, of course seriously, yeah of course. So anyway,
• 33:09
  I have some respect for the for the crystal worshippers there. Actually I
• 33:14
  get it, independent I get it. But but you know, saying masculine
• 33:17
  feminine energies, it's it doesn't exactly like it's not exactly on the target.
• 33:24
  I put it that way, you know. It's it's like this thing that
• 33:28
  you say and people are like, oh, yeah, like I get it,
• 33:31
  But it's like, do you though, like do you does this really
• 33:36
  point to the problem or are you Yeah? Is this language a little too
• 33:40
  flowery for I mean, looks as long as your conclusions are the same,
• 33:47
  I don't really care how you got there. So but yeah, well okay,
• 33:52
  so the masculine feminine energies, I think the real issue is a lot
• 33:58
  more fundamental than that. It's simply women have told men that everything they do
• 34:02
  is wrong, you know, and and not surprisingly, this led to a
• 34:07
  lot of men just checking out, like I don't know why. You know,
• 34:12
  we say things like this, and everybody like, oh my god,
• 34:15
  those men's issues advocates, they're just so extreme. But that's just okay.
• 34:22
  You know how reality has consequences, and this is the consequence when you realize
• 34:30
  that men aren't just an infinite Santa machine. Yeah, you know, and
• 34:35
  sometimes the Santa machine doesn't work if you give it multiple inputs that make no
• 34:39
  sense in her contradictory. All right, don't do that. And then you're
• 34:44
  like, oh my god, you men's rights activists, you're so extreme.
• 34:50
  Oh yeah, extreme advocacy. All right, let's keep going. Theologically hardwired
• 34:57
  to play does not mean that women surrender our equality. It just means that
• 35:00
  men are motivated by the opportunity to show themselves as competitive, daring. Adventure
• 35:06
  is outrageous and achieving. But we've made them feel like these traits are no
• 35:09
  longer dog belting down. Yeah, no, it's all right, I hear
• 35:14
  it. But there's some bork action going on. Good thing Jojo is sleeping
• 35:17
  with um in the bed, so because he might be bugging me too.
• 35:24
  Yeah, I think it was a mailman. Oh, of course, of
• 35:30
  course, it's always it's always such a thing. You know, it's either
• 35:32
  mailman or squirrels. I'm really exactly sure what it is about squirrels that really
• 35:37
  sets Oh my god, Jojo like he has a fit like he but you
• 35:44
  know, he's a you know, I think it's because he's a hound and
• 35:47
  so he wants he's always thinking about hunting things. So, um, I
• 35:53
  think for I think for a shepherding breed like like Scipio, it's just this,
• 36:00
  this activity is not under my control or isn't under control. This activity
• 36:05
  is wild and unpredictable. I do not like this. I need a pattern
• 36:08
  to establish. Also, I think this animal has aerial supremacy over the house.
• 36:15
  I find this to be extremely distressing somehow, because he also doesn't particular
• 36:21
  like birds. But I will say though she is she is putting the onus
• 36:28
  where it belong. She acknowledges that these things, these traits that men have
• 36:32
  are are things that are inherent to their nature. And she is also saying
• 36:39
  that it's basically like, you know, women contributed to this problem. Um,
• 36:46
  anyway, we'll keep going. She gets like some of the details are
• 36:50
  off, like she says, you know, well, I'm not asking you
• 36:52
  guys to give up your equality. I'm like, what do you Nope?
• 36:55
  I mean that's obvious. But also like, do you really think them men
• 37:00
  and women are equal? And I'm serious here, Like women enjoy a tremendous
• 37:05
  amount of advantages that men don't have. So are you just trying to maintain
• 37:09
  a kind of like, oh, I wish it was you know, two
• 37:14
  thousand and twelve again, you know, so where I had all of these
• 37:19
  like obvious systemic advantages over men um and and that's like, I don't know
• 37:23
  that that bugs me, but I'm just going to write it off as Okay,
• 37:27
  You're just you're you're ignorant of the of the scale and scope of this
• 37:31
  problem because you're looking at it as just a dating thing because women have chosen
• 37:37
  to demonstrate those traits ourselves. Instead, women should be secure enough to both
• 37:40
  praise men for these traits while knowing how to soften into our true feminine essence,
• 37:45
  which creates balance and peace needed for a healthy relationship. Please don't soften
• 37:49
  into your essences, please not Yeah, like not in front of us.
• 37:55
  Just do that private, rigid structure, madam. You see how And I
• 38:01
  think she's trying to maybe she's just being really careful. But you see how
• 38:05
  she says, Oh, women, women are doing all those things, are
• 38:09
  they? Though? Like, are they doing it to the same extent?
• 38:15
  What do we consider female courage? Like talking to the to the human resources
• 38:20
  department about like some guy that made you feel weird, Like as like when
• 38:24
  you look at the things, the lengths that men go to and the lengths
• 38:30
  that women go to, it's not equal. I mean sometimes you'll get like
• 38:34
  that, you know outlier case where a woman like risks it all to like
• 38:38
  save her kids from something. But in general they're not doing that. Well,
• 38:45
  well we we we can. We don't consider like we consider masculine courage
• 38:51
  to be something to be relied on and expected. We consider courage and women
• 38:54
  no, we You're constantly saying that if women are afraid of something, the
• 39:00
  world needs to change to accommodate it, rather than women need to gain more
• 39:02
  courage. And the other thing is that no matter what she says about we
• 39:07
  equality, men still are absolutely one required for their courage. Yeah, and
• 39:14
  for their particular interests and their particular ability to regard risk. Very they have
• 39:21
  a higher risk tolerance and that's absolutely necessary. It's why our society continues to
• 39:25
  exist. The fact that we're just pretending towards equality doesn't change that fact.
• 39:30
  The only thing that's different is we no longer acknowledge it. We no longer
• 39:34
  recognize it. We no longer even point to it and say that's manliness.
• 39:38
  Yeah, it's considered. It's it's considered an uncomfortable thing to say, you
• 39:45
  know, part of the problem. Yeah, since coming here to Virginia,
• 39:52
  I met this older woman and at the dog park and a couple of the
• 39:57
  other older women that bring their pets, and I wanted to get them talking
• 40:02
  about, like, you know, what their experience was when they were younger.
• 40:08
  And what was really interesting is how much they admired masculine men. Because
• 40:14
  because I like the topic of what's the name of the Charles Bronson came up.
• 40:20
  And I've always thought Charles Bronson's not a pretty looking guy, you know,
• 40:24
  he's he looks like he's part catfish. And I don't mean that to
• 40:29
  be mean, because I like him in the movies. But the women were
• 40:32
  just they were just gushing about about this guy, okay, And I was
• 40:37
  like, what Charles Bronson? And oh yeah, he's so masculine, and
• 40:44
  he's got this you know, this face like it's carved out of like rock
• 40:47
  or wood or something. And I was like, wow, you know,
• 40:50
  I've never heard that before from like women of younger generations, and I just
• 40:58
  think it's interesting because they're acknowledging that what makes him appealing is less about his
• 41:05
  looks and more about like the kind of you know, his like the characters
• 41:08
  he plays, you know, which are like I wouldn't say, I don't
• 41:14
  like the word hyper masculine because that sounds like it's kind of like, you
• 41:16
  know, a dig, but just you know, like they're playing like these
• 41:21
  manly archetypes and that's what women are drawn to, at least these women,
• 41:24
  the ones I spoke to, and it was like half a dozen of them.
• 41:29
  Um, so yeah, I mean like why was Johnny Cash so popular
• 41:32
  with women? Same same thing, you know. So anyway, Yeah,
• 41:38
  what were you gonna say? No, I was just I was gonna degree,
• 41:44
  I mean, everybody has their own particular tastes. Yeah. Sure,
• 41:46
  it's not really about what the taste is, it's like the reason the reasoning,
• 41:51
  yeah, you know, is what I was asking about. Okay,
• 41:53
  let's let's see some continue, Yeah, women should embrace our traditionally feminine traits
• 41:59
  that can perfectly commit those with men. Nurture, insensitivity, sweetness, supportiveness,
• 42:02
  gentleness, warmth, expressiveness, empathy, affection, and tenderness. Do
• 42:08
  you want to Okay, So I don't think any of these things are uniquely
• 42:13
  female. I know if people in the chat are going to say that,
• 42:16
  but I think what she's saying is is that this is something that women can
• 42:20
  do to help men, I guess. And she is calling for women to
• 42:28
  fall into a traditional role, so she probably is more than kind of traditionalissue.
• 42:34
  Yeah, okay, fair enough, But I just want to say not
• 42:38
  a lot on just laying out the positives of masculinity and the positives of men,
• 42:49
  you know, just going into all the positives of women. I would
• 42:53
  also point out that over the last I guess generations, there's been a lot
• 43:02
  of discrediting the social status of mothers and and wives or even relationships like I
• 43:15
  mean, if you if you say I've been in a relationship for twenty five
• 43:17
  years, like it doesn't have the same clout anymore. You know, it
• 43:22
  isn't respected, It isn't like, oh yeah, if you spend yourself you're
• 43:28
  if you spend twenty five years in a relationship, you're doing a lot more
• 43:31
  growing than if you spend twenty five years alone. Honestly, yeah, for
• 43:36
  sure, that's a good way to put it. Okay, so it's it,
• 43:40
  but nobody respects that anymore. I mean even she at the beginning,
• 43:45
  she's like, oh, well, you know, traditional women don't have as
• 43:46
  much experience with relationships. Now, I don't know if she would include me,
• 43:52
  but I mean I've been married twenty five years, and essentially what she's
• 43:58
  saying is I have less experience with relationships and someone who's spent twenty five years
• 44:02
  in one year relationships. It's like, really, yeah, does that?
• 44:09
  Because the thing is that each point in a relationship comes new challenges. You
• 44:16
  know, getting old is a challenge, finding work, getting an apartment,
• 44:22
  learning, learning to work together, learning to live together, learning to just
• 44:27
  soften how your individual issues brought up against each other, you know, learning
• 44:32
  if you if you have a creature that's really reliant on you, like a
• 44:36
  dog or a kid. Cats aren't so much, but you know, you
• 44:39
  have to learn to raise that and work together to raise that. You know,
• 44:45
  there's all kinds of growth that takes place in a relationship that you do
• 44:49
  not get single. Yeah, I mean, you just don't because you don't
• 44:53
  have to accommodate anyone but yourself, right exactly. And there's also for guys
• 45:00
  that are watching or anyone that's watching. Have you, or if you're dating
• 45:07
  or have dated recently, have you experienced any of these these supposedly uniquely feminine
• 45:14
  traits or are all of them like all the women that you've been with working
• 45:19
  on that girl Boss grind like it's a whole vibe, because I mean,
• 45:24
  she's what she's saying is good. But I have to ask myself how many
• 45:30
  women actually like do this, do any of these things, if not all
• 45:35
  of them to a partner like as opposed to maybe their children. And even
• 45:39
  then, I'm not sure that they do it for their children, because you
• 45:44
  know, there's a reason why the single motherhood is resulting in you know,
• 45:51
  lower impulse control in their offspring. Girls hitting puberty earlier, more likely to
• 45:57
  become pregnant as teenagers, the men or the boys become you know, are
• 46:00
  more likely to become criminals, and all of the other stuff to follows.
• 46:05
  That doesn't sound like it's a product of empathy, nurture and sweetness, warm
• 46:08
  sensivity, tenderness, generalists, affection and expressiveness. Um, you know,
• 46:15
  so I wonder like how common are these traits in women these days? So
• 46:22
  well? And yeah, also like honestly, is this all right? I'm
• 46:29
  gonna be I don't think that I'm any of this. Oh you probably are.
• 46:35
  To Jonathan maybe a little maybe and maybe his maybe his look, I
• 46:43
  don't want to speculate, Okay, I appreciate these things from my wife though.
• 46:47
  Yeah, I'm just saying that I don't know if I have any of
• 46:51
  this. But I mean, the only thing that I could really honestly say
• 46:53
  is loyalty for me. Yeah, you know that's important, honor yea,
• 47:04
  Um, but that kind of thing like maybe they just would want a woman
• 47:08
  who's not going to stab in the back and then I can and actually take
• 47:12
  responsibility for her what she wants in a relationship and just be honest, you
• 47:16
  know, it has a reasonable a reasonable expectation for what you're going to get
• 47:22
  out of a relationship. That kind of thing, like, and all this
• 47:25
  other stuff is I don't know, it's it's just seems so is it really
• 47:32
  what is necessary? Yeah? You know, I mean, sure, if
• 47:37
  you want a guy who's who's who's more conservative, he probably should embody these
• 47:42
  kind of feminine characteristics. Um. And maybe maybe in the previous eras you
• 47:49
  know, I would have been completely unmarriageable, um, because I don't.
• 47:53
  But I mean in this one, can we go for not that but loyalty
• 48:00
  and to some degree because of the amount of powers, of political and social
• 48:07
  powers women have, you know, it's almost like you're called upon to be
• 48:12
  more courageous and more honorable, you know, in your conduct going live.
• 48:19
  I don't know what that was. It was like some weird glitch. All
• 48:23
  right, I'm back, we're back. We're back. We didn't lose it,
• 48:27
  thank god. That was really annoying and it was like out of nowhere.
• 48:31
  So stream lives obs just closed. It just crashed suddenly. And I
• 48:37
  don't know why that is so and do nothing about it. But we are
• 48:42
  back, so at least the stream didn't suddenly end, although it may have.
• 48:47
  Um No, I think it's back. Yeah, yeah, we're back
• 48:52
  everywhere. Okay, cool. Sorry, so alson, I'm sorry you were
• 48:57
  saying or missed like the last we had a bit of a glitch. I
• 49:01
  am just saying like, I don't know, it seems like this, this
• 49:07
  would be perfectly fine in a world where women didn't have the political and legal
• 49:12
  powers that they have now, Because I mean, if you just want to
• 49:15
  slump into baking brownies and and being t he you know, and and just
• 49:22
  have empathy and all this, I mean, that's that's a that's a couple
• 49:24
  of generations ago. Uh. And that's you know, your your husband controls
• 49:30
  your income but also controls your debt, you know, pays for your debts
• 49:32
  kind of situation that's like COVID. Sure you want to go all the way
• 49:36
  back, They're fine. But what what we're dealing with now is a situation
• 49:40
  where women have these powers. So and these powers mean that you have to
• 49:45
  have a different set of virtues or you just get rid of them. Yeah,
• 49:50
  okay, you either live up to them or you get rid of them,
• 49:52
  all right, And what you need now is loyalty, honor, and
• 49:57
  integrity more than anything. Like I'm just asking you, maybe I'm completely freaking.
• 50:05
  If you had a cold bitch but who is nevertheless loyal, had integrity
• 50:08
  and honor and treated you with respect, you know, would that be better
• 50:15
  then some woman who's a cupcake, but still stabs you in the back because
• 50:21
  she thinks of herself as a victim. That's the other thing, Well,
• 50:24
  women need to stop thinking themselves as victims. Because here's the thing. Go
• 50:30
  ahead, go ahead. Well, I was gonna say, here's the thing
• 50:31
  about the patriarchy narrative. This is the reason why I get so like frustrated
• 50:37
  and annoyed when you know, like NORMI types go, well, the first
• 50:42
  wave was good. This is the problem with that mentality. There's like a
• 50:45
  there's like a real like you know, like there's first of all, there
• 50:50
  is the idea that hey, it's just not true, and we should be
• 50:52
  operating from the perspective of what the truth is and not like some you know
• 50:59
  utopia like memory of what it was that Hollywood and the media and academics have
• 51:05
  constructed that isn't true. That's important, That's more important than anything else.
• 51:08
  But one of the other things that I think is a consequence of that kind
• 51:15
  of thinking is that women are buying into I think they're buying into this idea
• 51:22
  that men have oppressed them all throughout history and if they had an opportunity,
• 51:25
  they would do it again, and that now that women have you know,
• 51:30
  economic power and political power and information power and social power that they're going to
• 51:37
  use it to, you know, essentially like keep what they have and take
• 51:42
  as much as possible because it's kind of like reparations and it's but they only
• 51:49
  have, well, the only leg they have to stand on to claim that
• 51:52
  is this historical oppression bullshit narrative. And so if that dies, then they
• 52:00
  can't say, well, you know, men have always had power. It's
• 52:02
  like, no, that's never how it worked ever in history, and that
• 52:07
  needs to die. That lie has to die before because otherwise women are gonna
• 52:13
  basically be like, well, I mean, you know, if it weren't
• 52:15
  for the sixties, i'd i'd be like, you know, shackled to the
• 52:19
  stove or something, you know. And so so, okay, I was
• 52:23
  recently reading a novel, but not just like the summary of a novel,
• 52:29
  and it's like, I don't know where it's supposed to take place, but
• 52:30
  it's like some horrible patriarchy where women are just brood mares. I'm like,
• 52:36
  have you ever read about the Middle Ages or the Hymen? Yeah, that's
• 52:43
  not how it worked, Okay, Like Louis the fifteenth, his wife basically
• 52:50
  said after the tenth child, Yeah, I'm closing up shop. And there
• 52:52
  was nothing he could do about it. Oh okay, well tids is a
• 52:57
  lot. Yeah, ten kids is a lot. She was just tired.
• 53:00
  He's done with it. She's like, no more. And then he took
• 53:02
  mistresses with her blessing because she just didn't want to have to give birth to
• 53:06
  any more of a spawn. He must have been one of those like turnstiles
• 53:10
  in the subway station. Yeah, people just passing through, just passing through.
• 53:16
  Yeah, they just passing through. Well, it's also because they'd use
• 53:21
  wet nurses, um, and you know, he just she just got tired
• 53:24
  of it. And you know women throughout history, yes it was that was
• 53:30
  sort of a critical role that they give birth because we wouldn't have existed.
• 53:36
  But that wasn't it wasn't like it was, oh that's all you were valued
• 53:38
  for. That's hardly like it. And women had incredible power throughout all,
• 53:45
  like the Middle Ages was a peasant culture. When they look at the actual
• 53:51
  situation for peasant women, they have power in their communities. In fact,
• 53:54
  they have sort of the the goat, like the the ultimate power and communities
• 54:00
  because they are the ones who essentially deal with making sure everybody has food to
• 54:06
  eat, and you know, things are properly um managed in terms of they
• 54:10
  don't get spoiled during winter, lighting, heating, shelter, like. They
• 54:15
  make most of the decisions that actually impact the survival of everyone, and the
• 54:20
  men's role is generally more ritual almost. It's like, yeah, you you
• 54:24
  you represent the family when the circuit court judge comes around every two freaking years
• 54:30
  and then you all go gather, you know, the uncles, to go
• 54:32
  enact retribution. But it's like this, this isn't a situation. This isn't
• 54:37
  a culture that was anti woman or women had no power, and this this
• 54:42
  im medieval culture was it was. It was very much a peasant culture.
• 54:45
  And I like some of the stuff people think about medieval times that women were
• 54:52
  disrespected, that women didn't have power, and also that peasants just could be
• 54:57
  randomly killed by nobles. You realize that that's when the trouble, the shit
• 55:00
  hit the fan for nobles, right, yeah, Like the peasants didn't like
• 55:05
  that, and a lot of why, um this everything evolved. The way
• 55:08
  it was was to leave peasants out of conflict, Okay, and then it's
• 55:15
  just it's so aggravating because I get get, I know him off in the
• 55:19
  weeds. I just want to complain about George RR. Martin a bit.
• 55:22
  That guy's stories are not realistic. They're not. They're just a naive that
• 55:30
  means they are they aren't. Okay, all right, first book? No,
• 55:35
  I know, I look, I get it, but I used to
• 55:37
  read lots of books and when people like when writers tried to do, oh,
• 55:40
  well, what if it was real? And then they it's always like,
• 55:45
  basically, what if it was nihilistic and dark and grim? Dark?
• 55:47
  Yes? And that isn't like, oh people are just dying. It's like,
• 55:52
  is that realism? Okay? All right? So in the first book,
• 55:57
  there's a butcher's son that gets cut in pieces by one of the king's
• 56:00
  men at arms and given to his father. I'm like, that's a revolution,
• 56:05
  right there. Yeah, realize that. No, that's that's not especially
• 56:08
  not because butchers were tradesmen in the Middle Ages. There's not even a surf
• 56:14
  he's a tradesman. Do you know who? The king's yeomen came from small
• 56:17
  property holders and tradesmen that would be the king's most loyal soldiers, the ones
• 56:22
  that he relies on to not get killed by the other nobles, and he's
• 56:27
  just pissed all of them off. No, no, Martin, No,
• 56:30
  you don't have a fucking clue about medieval politics anyway. Okay, this is
• 56:34
  really really in the weeds. All right, let's let's keep going. Okay,
• 56:37
  let's let's keep going. Yeah, all right, I'd like the fair
• 56:44
  in me wants person. I believe that I am capable of seeing both sides
• 56:46
  and pretty much anything and another cultural thorn that women need to take some respect
• 56:51
  on both sides. That's I think that's why she's doing this, Like she
• 56:55
  is saying a lot of right things, but she's still I think because of
• 57:01
  this need, this this this need to find like the other side right the
• 57:09
  well, how are women harmed by by men or whatever it is that that
• 57:15
  sort of like keeps her from like getting there. You know. Responsibility for
• 57:20
  is that we've decided as a gender that personal development is apparently a non issue.
• 57:23
  Most of us have a god complex that is being fueled by toxic therapy
• 57:29
  culture, which is ironically making us worse, not better. Yep, no
• 57:32
  lies detected. I'm just gonna keep going. No, no lies, No
• 57:37
  lies detected. Or show or show. Women have been brainwashed into thinking that
• 57:42
  we're perfect exactly the way we are, no matter how fat, lazy,
• 57:45
  mentally ill. That could be told and orphans don't work on me, and
• 57:51
  then there's never promise your runners high. And it has propelled the sin of
• 57:55
  self obsession and created a barrier preventing us from considering any other possibility other than
• 58:00
  they want to hurt me, either out to get me. Anyone that attempts
• 58:02
  to hold us to a higher standard is toxic and emotionally abusive. Yeah no,
• 58:07
  lies, no, lies detected. Still still I appreciate it, appreciate
• 58:13
  it. Yeah, yeah, it's good, good, all right, I
• 58:17
  still prove heart. The glorification of hyper selfishness propagandized us into the belief that
• 58:22
  every last one of us is a nine or ten, that's the ladiest to
• 58:27
  rate themselves on a scale of one to ten. And let's say I'm a
• 58:30
  ten? Okay, ten? Are you fucking oh no? Oh no,
• 58:37
  no, this is this is where I got there was. There was a
• 58:40
  massively overweight woman on this show, and she also considered herself a ten.
• 58:47
  She's known on the internet as Gorilock the Destroyer because she looks nothing like but
• 58:53
  I seen that means you've seen the golock. Okay, but yeah, this
• 58:58
  is like look, I mean, some people might say that these women are
• 59:04
  you know, uh, an extreme like outlier, but I think it's probably
• 59:09
  closer to the truth that most women overestimate their worth. And one of the
• 59:17
  reasons for this is not just like all the girl boss energy that's been like
• 59:22
  thrown at them for since fucking birth, but also men. There are simps
• 59:28
  that support that, Oh yeah, baby, you're a ten. Just just
• 59:31
  let me, you know, buy you a fucking like ham sandwich. Um.
• 59:37
  So, you know, in a way, men have in their own
• 59:40
  way, contributed to this, this inflated sense of self worth that a lot
• 59:47
  of women have. So it's a bit delusional to did you want to say
• 59:52
  something about that? And like, honestly, I don't know. That's just
• 1:00:02
  let's keep going. Let's keep going. It's you know, I'll just say,
• 1:00:05
  it's okay to be mid. There's nothing to be Yeah, it's okay
• 1:00:08
  to be mid. There's nothing I'm I'm very mad. Yeah, probably I
• 1:00:14
  am a mid too. Yeah, I'm okay with being mid. We're all
• 1:00:17
  mid here. I think that most of us are mid. That's the point
• 1:00:21
  of mid. Yes, it's just mid. Yeah, yeah, exactly.
• 1:00:25
  And the thing is that, you know, and if we had more respect
• 1:00:30
  for relationships, two mid people getting together and managing to make it last for
• 1:00:36
  twenty five years would be something that would make them not mid or at least
• 1:00:39
  respectable. But it doesn't. You know. Now everything is about this delusion
• 1:00:45
  about yourself. And honestly, like, okay, let's look at these women.
• 1:00:50
  You scrub that makeup off. I'll go back to you know, when
• 1:00:53
  they were answering the questions, because they're all wearing makeup, even the ones
• 1:00:58
  that they are, they knew they were going to be on a podcast.
• 1:01:01
  Yeah you know, you scrub it off, and yeah they're mid. Yeah
• 1:01:07
  they're mid. Like they're not. They're not ugly, not even the even
• 1:01:10
  the heavy one on the left, but they but they're but their sense of
• 1:01:15
  self worth makes them unattractive. I don't want to be around somebody who thinks
• 1:01:19
  they're a ten all the time? Are you crazy? Yeah? So anyway,
• 1:01:23
  Yeah, the previous eras, like in the so told horribly patriarchal eras,
• 1:01:29
  you know, women were attractive for more than just physical appearance. Yeah,
• 1:01:35
  well that's that's right. They had to do. They had to do
• 1:01:37
  more than just look good, because you could find, you know, good
• 1:01:39
  looking women in in the red district, red light district or the brothels or
• 1:01:44
  something. Well even then, like, um, it was okay. So
• 1:01:49
  for example, like some some cultural things, Um, if you were a
• 1:01:54
  Cortison, you couldn't just be beautiful to catch the eye the king. You
• 1:01:59
  also have to be and had to be witty. And kings sometimes had some
• 1:02:04
  really weird taste let me tell you. Yeah, like there was one before.
• 1:02:09
  Yeah, but you know, also it could be very bizarre. What
• 1:02:15
  for example, kings were attracted to sure, um like yeah, well no,
• 1:02:22
  no, not just feet, Like there was one one uh I think
• 1:02:24
  it was English king who had two mistresses. One was enormously fat and the
• 1:02:30
  other was enormously like terrifyingly thin, and he just liked them, you know,
• 1:02:36
  I just liked them. You know. It's just it's people are very
• 1:02:40
  odd and if we all want to just become this sort of cookie cutter one,
• 1:02:45
  then we're not really embracing the mid and just figuring out the other things
• 1:02:51
  that make us interesting and attractive. Yeah, we all want to be on
• 1:02:55
  the cover of a Harlequin. Well, that's bullshit. Nobody's going to be
• 1:03:00
  that. I mean, it's fine if you enjoy that. I'm not going
• 1:03:01
  to shame you for enjoying that. I like romance, although my romance is
• 1:03:07
  very it's usually different than the contemporary stuff. But you know, like,
• 1:03:12
  embrace your mid discover what else is interesting about you life, embrace the mid
• 1:03:19
  you know, and and stop pretending like you are something that you're not.
• 1:03:23
  Especially since and this is the problem, like a bet all of these women
• 1:03:29
  has have had like a nine guy who's a nine plus inside them, and
• 1:03:34
  now they're convinced that that's what they are. Yeah, that's right, that's
• 1:03:37
  what I That's what I mean when I say that to some degree, men
• 1:03:40
  have contributed to it. It's not just the uh you know there just like
• 1:03:46
  you know, they just desire female approval. But it's also the you know,
• 1:03:51
  guys at the top that are just like, well, I'll fuck her,
• 1:03:53
  and then she gets in her head that that's what she deserves. Yeah,
• 1:03:59
  but also like those guys are completely like the nines and tens that these
• 1:04:04
  guys are that these women are going after and Tinder, I've noticed this.
• 1:04:09
  They're becoming more fucked in the head, you know, just like they don't
• 1:04:16
  have social skills, which you don't. When you just dial up a woman,
• 1:04:19
  she looks at your picture and oh god, seven pack, Oh I'm
• 1:04:23
  right over there. You know, they have no spcial kills, they don't
• 1:04:27
  have anything else going for them. I mean, this is it, Like
• 1:04:30
  you have women like this who are mid who are fucking these these men who
• 1:04:33
  are just physically attractive, and the men that's basically their hobby is being a
• 1:04:38
  sex addict. Who Jesus Christ, this is this is the culmination of our
• 1:04:42
  civilization, is it? I know, I know, skippy, Oh it
• 1:04:46
  does look that way. Yeah, all right, let's keep going. Yeah,
• 1:04:54
  don't you guys think it's a bit delusional to rate yourself as a tenant?
• 1:04:58
  So y'all are perfect? Ye? Yeah, come on, every girl
• 1:05:02
  is a ten, Every woman's at ten? Is every guy at ten?
• 1:05:05
  Absolutely? See? I mean, like, look, I don't I don't
• 1:05:12
  know how common this this attitude is amongst women. But the idea that they're
• 1:05:16
  like, yeah, every woman is a ten. That is a feminist idea.
• 1:05:20
  Every woman has value and it's all equal, right and um. On
• 1:05:27
  the other side of that, when they say, well, is every man
• 1:05:29
  at ten, They're like, absolutely not. Why is that? Because of
• 1:05:33
  that narrative they you know, they already have it in their head that men
• 1:05:36
  are inferior and should feel lucky to get you know, a woman exactly,
• 1:05:43
  even the even the nines and tens should feel lucky. The lie is so
• 1:05:48
  pervasive that we not only lie to ourselves, we light to each other.
• 1:05:51
  You are physically lawless because of all this lying. We only entertain interests from
• 1:05:58
  men who are nine or tens, but realistically we're likely only sixes and sevens
• 1:06:02
  ourselves, more like fours and fives in a lot of cases. I mean,
• 1:06:06
  you you have no idea how low the bar is to be a ten
• 1:06:12
  um, But yeah, because the seven is a really attractive woman as far
• 1:06:15
  as I'm concerned, I don't know how this works, but a seven should
• 1:06:20
  be pretty attractive. A ten is like, you know, that's like I
• 1:06:25
  don't know, that's like super saying woman, like, that's like beyond you
• 1:06:30
  know, that's like you've never seen a ten before, or maybe you have
• 1:06:33
  once, so ladies, you know, yeah, I don't think there are
• 1:06:40
  celestial beings. Yeah, exactly, they're like they're like mythical creatures. You
• 1:06:45
  know, they live in some glade somewhere, like a garden of Eden,
• 1:06:49
  and no one ever sees them. If a man dares lay eyes on a
• 1:06:53
  ten, he will be blinded by the beauty. So there are no tens
• 1:06:58
  in the material world. Actually, there's no tens in the material world.
• 1:07:02
  Yeah, they're just you, guys, and it's okay, let's keep going.
• 1:07:08
  All right, let's let's keep going. I'll be honest, I'm not
• 1:07:11
  going to rate you guys, but none of you are attending. Women are
• 1:07:13
  operating in such a high level of delusion that will refuse to date our own
• 1:07:16
  level or lower, while simultaneously strong arming men into dating down something that we're
• 1:07:20
  not even willing to do ourselves. If you want a boyfriend, you have
• 1:07:23
  to drop your standard. You have to settle to be in a relationship.
• 1:07:26
  You have to settle for something left. I don't think it's settling, though,
• 1:07:28
  because what's going on is you have average women that don't want to date
• 1:07:30
  average men. All right, Okay, it's not settling. Yeah, it
• 1:07:34
  is settling. Eventually you have to be like, okay, this is what
• 1:07:39
  I got. Well, she's saying that men have to settle. Yeah,
• 1:07:44
  well it's not men that have to settle though. They're not enough men out
• 1:07:47
  there willing to settle. And they don't need to settle because you're all buy
• 1:07:50
  them. Not the top tier guys, No, not the top two,
• 1:07:54
  Like why would they? And the other thing is it's that, like,
• 1:07:57
  at what point do we recognize that these top tier guys are not themselves desirable?
• 1:08:03
  Yeah? Well, these guns and tens, they I mean, like
• 1:08:08
  and that's that's the thing too, is that we're going off of like pretty
• 1:08:11
  shallow parameters. Yes, so you know, women are just looking at them
• 1:08:16
  and saying, he looks like he makes six figures? Is it even that
• 1:08:21
  anymore? Or is it the fact that they have this this look right that's
• 1:08:27
  attractive that they go for. Yeah, I honestly is it really? Because
• 1:08:33
  I don't see much matchmaking happening. But regardless, the guys on tender who
• 1:08:39
  are making bank, who apparently are the big the product, because the women
• 1:08:43
  aren't the product on tender, the the the midmen might as well not even
• 1:08:48
  exist on Tender. Yeah, the high men, like the top so called
• 1:08:54
  alpha men, are the product on Tender. Yeah, that these women are
• 1:08:59
  buying that keeps the keeps the model working. Like if you are not,
• 1:09:05
  you don't have a seven pack, you don't have a chiseled job, don't
• 1:09:10
  go on tender as a guy, You're not gonna get anything. But the
• 1:09:12
  other thing is that what are these men on tender? Are they themselves in
• 1:09:16
  any way of benefit? Like I mean, if they can go on and
• 1:09:21
  enjoy having sex addiction as a hobby, all power to them. But you
• 1:09:28
  know that that isn't that isn't developing yourself, That isn't becoming a rounded person,
• 1:09:36
  that isn't gaining a skill, that isn't even becoming social. It's just
• 1:09:43
  acting out. You know, usually it's acting out some serious So the guys
• 1:09:48
  that I know who are promiscuous, you know, no offense to the people,
• 1:09:51
  because I know somebody will probably take offense. Most of my experience,
• 1:09:55
  they do it because there's something damaged about them. Yeah, you know,
• 1:10:00
  in the past, like something hurt them and this is this is their addiction.
• 1:10:06
  This is their addictive behavior that they act out that hurt um, you
• 1:10:13
  know, and well whatever it's it's it's like it's it feels like it's just
• 1:10:16
  human dysfunction. Mm hmm. But you know, monetized. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:10:23
  well that's the thing too, is that you know, we I guess
• 1:10:26
  you could blame dating apps to some degree because of the way that they organize
• 1:10:30
  people meeting. I think that like men that are like legit tens, they're
• 1:10:35
  not on tender, they already found someone, they're already in a relationship or
• 1:10:40
  married. Um. Yeah, and like you're basically seeing like the eights.
• 1:10:45
  And because those guys are still like the top of the bar in that particular
• 1:10:49
  space, the women will consider them tens. But I think the tens are
• 1:10:54
  gone like the men that you know, just like the women. All right,
• 1:10:59
  Anyway, She's got a point though, when you realize, okay,
• 1:11:05
  you're not attend and maybe you also have some problems, some mental health issues
• 1:11:11
  that you don't just be like, oh I gotta be accepted as for a
• 1:11:14
  while, Ama, but realize that this is an issue. You know,
• 1:11:16
  when you start taking stock, you can start saying, all right, if
• 1:11:21
  I get somebody who I can live with and grow with, that's good enough.
• 1:11:28
  Yeah you know what I mean, Yeah, you don't. You don't
• 1:11:30
  need to have the unicorn. You can just have somebody who you care about
• 1:11:38
  and who cares about you. And has your back, and that's it.
• 1:11:40
  And I think men are much more likely to be okay with that, you
• 1:11:45
  know, and women aren't all right, and I think men are finally waking
• 1:11:53
  up to that. Yeah, yeah, all right, let's keep going projecting.
• 1:12:00
  She used men of being superficial, but modern women are the most superficial
• 1:12:02
  beings to ever exist. Men are so superficial. Would you date a guy
• 1:12:06
  that chorter than you? Absolutely not. What has happened is women have cut
• 1:12:10
  out ninety eight percent of the potential dating pool and convinced themselves that they're cool
• 1:12:14
  sharing the top two percent of men because we'd rather perpetually be in the talking
• 1:12:17
  stage with a ten than having a meaningful, fulfilling and monogamous relationship with a
• 1:12:21
  seven. Seven is still a pretty good looking That's very good. I mean,
• 1:12:28
  yeah, and again it is the woman a seven. I know what.
• 1:12:30
  I know that she's not trying to say that. I don't think she's
• 1:12:34
  trying to say that women who are like fours deserve sevens. I think that
• 1:12:39
  she's basically just saying, you know, women's expectations exceed their actual grasp their
• 1:12:45
  ability to actually get what they're looking for, which isn't necessarily like the you
• 1:12:53
  know, sometimes I wonder if women go after the tens because they like to
• 1:12:59
  make other women ellis and not necessarily because they you know, think that that's
• 1:13:03
  a good man. Well, there's a huge amount of competition. There's also
• 1:13:06
  social proof. Male ten is a ten because other women want him. And
• 1:13:12
  that's real, like a real meat hook reality there. If you can only
• 1:13:15
  be attracted to a guy because other women are attracted to him, then you
• 1:13:19
  are only going to be attracted to guys who have plenty of other options.
• 1:13:23
  Well, actually, if a woman discovers that a man is attractive to lots
• 1:13:27
  of other women, she will become attracted to that man when she wasn't before.
• 1:13:32
  Yeah, do you know what I'm saying? Yeah at all. And
• 1:13:35
  I think that's that's something that's driving tender too. And that's sort of like
• 1:13:39
  a negative spiral because what happens is women are really I think what they're doing
• 1:13:44
  is they're like social proof. So I want the man who's attracted to I
• 1:13:48
  don't know, five five women are attracted to him. So that's what the
• 1:13:51
  top I want a man ten women are attracted to him, and that's like
• 1:13:59
  the top ten percent right, I want a man that twenty women are attracted,
• 1:14:03
  you see, And it keeps getting higher and higher. The inflation of
• 1:14:06
  social proof gets higher and higher and higher, until you're left with almost no
• 1:14:10
  men that could possibly raise to that bar. And it has nothing, It
• 1:14:15
  has absolutely nothing to do with the men themselves. It's just the out of
• 1:14:19
  control hypergamy and social proof. And I think that's what's really happening, is
• 1:14:24
  you've got this feedback loop between hypergamy and social proof. So if a man,
• 1:14:28
  if a woman can attract a man who's in the top twenty, oh,
• 1:14:32
  but what if you could attract a man in the top ten. What
• 1:14:35
  if you could attract a man and you know who has has has ten other
• 1:14:39
  women after him, or or twenty or one hundred, you know, and
• 1:14:44
  it just keeps getting higher and higher and higher. Yeah, it's and I
• 1:14:48
  think a lot of it is that part of the delusion is that these women
• 1:14:54
  maybe think that they're in relationships with these men when they're not. Yepkay,
• 1:15:00
  yep, okay. If you can't accurately assess here's how attractive I actually am,
• 1:15:06
  you're going to keep chasing after men that they're going to have an accurate
• 1:15:10
  assessment of what you look like. And they're gonna say, I'll hook up
• 1:15:14
  with this girl, I'm never going to commit to her. I'll keep her
• 1:15:15
  along and keep her I'll never give her commitment. According to Tinder data,
• 1:15:18
  while men swipe right on fortun yeah go ahead, are they are these men
• 1:15:24
  actually still doing this though? It looks like it's well, it looks like
• 1:15:29
  men are declining more and more, not justus in terms of wanting to date,
• 1:15:31
  but wanting to have sex. Well yeah, but but like, but
• 1:15:35
  the men who are most likely to attract women, so like the top men,
• 1:15:42
  I mean, they're just gonna fuck around like that, you know,
• 1:15:45
  like that. So this is why you you know, um, you will
• 1:15:50
  find that, you know, what is considered promiscuous for men seems to be
• 1:15:57
  on average a lower number. But that's not because men aren't having as much
• 1:16:00
  sex. I mean, it is, like true, but it's because the
• 1:16:02
  top men are having a lot of sex and the men every all the other
• 1:16:08
  men are having significantly less or no sex. And I mean, like bi
• 1:16:13
  sex. I should probably clarify. I'm also including relationships, so not just
• 1:16:16
  it seems like it seems like there's overall fewer men, fewer and fewer men
• 1:16:23
  each year, or even wanting to have sex. Yeah, I think that's
• 1:16:26
  also changing. Or the men who were having a lot of sex are settling
• 1:16:30
  down and so they're out of the dating yeah, or are there, or
• 1:16:35
  they're going into that horrible nihilistic phase where yeah, they just I don't know,
• 1:16:42
  they don't know what the hell they've done with their life. An well,
• 1:16:45
  that's another thing is that men, even even the chads, they have
• 1:16:49
  to know what their actual worth is so that they don't end up with women
• 1:16:55
  that could psychologically damage them or other wise abuse them. Because even those men
• 1:17:02
  are are are subject. I mean, look at Johnny Depp as an example,
• 1:17:06
  the guy. The guy could have any woman he wants, and he
• 1:17:11
  chose an abuser. And I mean, you know, maybe he was just
• 1:17:16
  not in a good headspace at the time because he was like doing drugs and
• 1:17:20
  drinking and all these other things. So I mean, like think about it
• 1:17:24
  like that. He's He's probably a good example of the kind of man I'm
• 1:17:27
  talking about, and the kind of man that, like almost all women think
• 1:17:30
  that they are worthy of like legit, that's not delusional to them. So
• 1:17:40
  okay, So let's see. Now she's going to talk about a new study.
• 1:17:43
  You guys, remember the Oka Cupid study from like a few years ago,
• 1:17:46
  or actually it was a long time ago, where they discovered that women
• 1:17:51
  find most men on okay Cupid below average attractiveness, whereas men found women to
• 1:18:00
  be about average, like they had like a more balanced reason of the women
• 1:18:05
  on those days on that dating site. Well, they have also done one
• 1:18:09
  for tender, and she's going to talk about it. So here we go
• 1:18:12
  in your data. While men swipe right on forty percent of women on average,
• 1:18:15
  this number is only seven percent for women. No wonder men feel like
• 1:18:18
  dating is completely pointless for the guy's left barely hanging on. It feels nothing
• 1:18:23
  short of fatalistic. If a guy tries to embrace his masculinity and show chivalry,
• 1:18:26
  it's deemed toxic at best, sexual harassment at worst. I've been in
• 1:18:30
  a terrible car accident. My legs are penned under the car and I can't
• 1:18:34
  reach stick in my phone. Can you please get some help? Are you
• 1:18:38
  serious? I have a boyfriend. It's true, Um, it's true.
• 1:18:45
  Yeah, Like I just watched this video that apparently did the Realms where this
• 1:18:50
  woman was filming this dude, and she said this is what happens when you
• 1:18:56
  reject a man. But during the video, he's talking about, well,
• 1:19:00
  why did you He specifically referenced her her insulting his career or his his choice
• 1:19:09
  of job. And I'm like, there's some contacts missing here. Why would
• 1:19:13
  why would he be talking about her attacking him and insulting his job if this
• 1:19:18
  was about him being rejected by her. I'm like, there's some contexts missing
• 1:19:24
  here that's really needed. And everybody was believing that this woman's framing of this
• 1:19:30
  encounter was some kind of I don't know, dating based violence, And I'm
• 1:19:35
  like, yeah, but what if she attacked him and insulted his job?
• 1:19:41
  Yeah? What if it had absolutely nothing to do with whether or not he
• 1:19:45
  found her attractive and attempted to, you know, instigate some kind of date.
• 1:19:49
  You know, because it seems like this doesn't really like the evidence doesn't
• 1:19:57
  support the premise, shall we say? Okay, all right, let's continue.
• 1:20:04
  And it gets bleaker because men today are financially incentivized to not pursue marriage.
• 1:20:11
  Are you single? I'm actually yes, why are you single? Because
• 1:20:15
  it's expensive? But he's right, but he's right. He's on a line,
• 1:20:20
  but he's right. Um, he's he basically said, I think he
• 1:20:24
  said bitches are expensive, So and you know what, Yeah, yeah they
• 1:20:31
  can be because you have to like you have to like flash your cash,
• 1:20:38
  flu oh cash so that women will basically see that you're going to be able
• 1:20:45
  to provide. So this puts men in a tough spot. And plus,
• 1:20:49
  you know, men aren't really safe in in a lot of work spaces because,
• 1:20:55
  um, they could get accused of something by a woman that doesn't like
• 1:20:58
  them. Um, and the whole work environment has has been changed, right,
• 1:21:02
  it's female centric. Men lose their jobs. Men are put on a
• 1:21:08
  lower priority for things like hiring, for promotions, for raises, etc.
• 1:21:13
  So if men just earn enough to get by for themselves, then they'll just
• 1:21:18
  do that. And why wouldn't they So anyway, women are seventy percent more
• 1:21:26
  likely to initiate divorce, according to the American Sociological Association. Men know if
• 1:21:30
  they choose the wrong woman it will end in divorce, and the research shows
• 1:21:33
  that she will be the one to benefit, not him, while both spouses
• 1:21:38
  lose men. I like how she says it, Like it's shocking news but
• 1:21:42
  we've known this, Like you can look up old stand up comedy routines by
• 1:21:47
  guys like Eddie Murphy and they'll and you know, have Eddie right, and
• 1:21:51
  they'll tell you that that was going on decades ago. So um, Alice,
• 1:22:00
  you want to say anything or no, I just want to say that,
• 1:22:03
  like we've been talking about this for how many years? Yeah? In
• 1:22:10
  April, I think, or not August, in August August. It'll the
• 1:22:15
  only time that they pay attention is when suddenly you men aren't paying attention.
• 1:22:18
  So I guess MiG tao was the way to do it. In the end,
• 1:22:24
  Well, that get the attention of a lot of people that are like
• 1:22:28
  looking at the you know, replacement rates and uh, well women's happiness.
• 1:22:33
  Let's be real. So h m hm. Women are not going to be
• 1:22:39
  happy when this Ponzi scheme collapses. No, they're not perspective and be like,
• 1:22:45
  you know what, I've been doing this all wrong? But I mean
• 1:22:49
  maybe it could be the best thing that ever happened to them. They'll start
• 1:22:53
  realizing, oh hey, maybe this this um, this horrible dystopia that we've
• 1:22:58
  constructed. I have to find a partner actually survive in it. Yeah,
• 1:23:01
  and and the process of bonding over the process of survival and dealing with shit
• 1:23:06
  will make you happy because you'll discover what love is. All right, all
• 1:23:12
  right, So I have a super chat from Albatross because it's five dollars and
• 1:23:15
  says, I'm tired of the exasperated claim that if we give up on dating,
• 1:23:19
  it's the end of the species. There's eight billion of us. We're
• 1:23:23
  not going extinct tomorrow. Well, no one's saying that, but like,
• 1:23:27
  I think it is a problem, and I don't think there's anything wrong with
• 1:23:30
  saying it. This is not this planet is not overpopulated, so please don't
• 1:23:34
  give me that. Um and uh yeah, I mean if people want to
• 1:23:40
  make families, we should give them the you know, as much, like
• 1:23:45
  I guess, um, incentive and room to do so. But like the
• 1:23:51
  problem is, yeah, yeah, there's the problem is that. Yeah,
• 1:23:56
  sure, we don't need over we don't even our people necessarily. Well,
• 1:24:00
  unfortunately, our financial system is based on that, and we've been borrowing a
• 1:24:06
  lot in the West, and what we've been doing is we've been exchanging debt
• 1:24:14
  for other countries productivity, and that is going to come do so we can
• 1:24:19
  say, yeah, we don't need to have children. Well okay, but
• 1:24:23
  then we need to figure out how we're going to surprise the collapse because that's
• 1:24:28
  the way the system is structured. We've been pushing that off of into the
• 1:24:31
  future, onto the future children that aren't going to happen because nobody's having children
• 1:24:35
  anymore. So what happens then, what happens when all of this collapse,
• 1:24:40
  is how do we maintain even the survival without a system where money works.
• 1:24:49
  Okay, so yeah, sure we can talk about not having kids whatever,
• 1:24:54
  but there's going to be some realities that we have to face if that happens,
• 1:24:58
  and it's going to happen. I mean, we're not gonna be fixing
• 1:25:00
  this. So we have to decide how we're going to ameliorate the damage that's
• 1:25:06
  going to be done. And I can tell you, like, what happens
• 1:25:12
  when what happens when the debt and there's no way that people realize there's no
• 1:25:17
  way the West ever we're going to pay its debt back because it's not having
• 1:25:21
  children, it has nobody to put the debt on in the future. Ye
• 1:25:27
  okay, what happens when that happens and then money loses a significant amount of
• 1:25:32
  its value. That's a painful thought, isn't it. Well, what's going
• 1:25:38
  to motivate men to continue to keep society running? All right? So thank
• 1:25:45
  you for the super chant. Let's continue typically suffer a larger hit because of
• 1:25:51
  child support and alimoni. Men are looking at this and weighing the risks,
• 1:25:54
  and the unfortunate reality for women is that instead of seeing these statistics and thinking,
• 1:25:58
  okay, true love in a family is pro that outweighs the con they
• 1:26:00
  opt out of the equation entirely. Men are more willing to put up with
• 1:26:04
  loneliness because in their mind, they'll still get to keep their money and dignity.
• 1:26:10
  I mean, yeah again, like it's it's you know, women,
• 1:26:17
  you don't really have to offer, like it's it's not a massive sacrifice.
• 1:26:21
  Just don't treat him like shit and you know, like work with him.
• 1:26:27
  So funny how we have constructed this system that's ultimately pretty destructive and self destructive
• 1:26:34
  simply because women don't want to feel reliant on men. H you know,
• 1:26:40
  I think that's probably where harems came from too. I know it sounds really
• 1:26:44
  strange, but probably Harem girls thought they were completely independent and empowered probably,
• 1:26:50
  and they existed within the only world that really mattered, you know, And
• 1:26:56
  this is this is it, like we are our great final action as a
• 1:27:02
  society is women's empowerment, so called empowerment, which isn't empowerment. It's just
• 1:27:10
  creating this sense that women don't need men to accommodate an insecurity. And it's
• 1:27:19
  just this whole constructed landscape where women think they don't need men, even though
• 1:27:25
  men continue to do the majority of the work of society. They don't need
• 1:27:29
  to even recognize that or any aspect of that, and they can continue to
• 1:27:33
  rely on it and just live in a fantasy land. And the big thing,
• 1:27:39
  like a lot of people will say, well, it's the lack of
• 1:27:42
  relationships and children. It's not even that, it's the lack of any kind
• 1:27:47
  of sense of reality or positive feedback. Yeah, and I know that,
• 1:27:53
  like you said, Brian, that men would be just like, wow,
• 1:27:56
  this is my job. But really, are men going to continue to do
• 1:27:59
  a job they think it's actively harmful? No, I mean I think it'll
• 1:28:02
  where. I think it'll wear out. I mean I think men have like
• 1:28:05
  done an amazing job of hanging in there this long. But yeah, I
• 1:28:11
  think that that, Yeah, it's it's not it's not something that can last.
• 1:28:15
  Look literally, the what what is the stop gap? What is the
• 1:28:18
  gap here? It's money. And I've actually said on Twitter that I almost
• 1:28:27
  want the universal basic income to come in because then once we get rid of
• 1:28:33
  that final incentive for men to continue to construct the society, we are going
• 1:28:39
  to see how little we have left. Yeah. No, once it's gone,
• 1:28:46
  Like, once men get a universal basic income, they're going to have
• 1:28:49
  no impetus to go out there and do all of the jobs that are absolutely
• 1:28:56
  horrible. Yeah, and maybe we should do that, Maybe we should totally
• 1:28:59
  free men from their yoke. Well, they're gonna end up being made into
• 1:29:02
  slaves so that they can like earn resources so that we can give it to
• 1:29:06
  women. So I don't know that we're gonna stream men if we institute that,
• 1:29:11
  because they're gonna need a workforce, and men are gonna be there by
• 1:29:15
  by hook or by crook. But that's probably why they haven't done it,
• 1:29:21
  because they know they haven't done it because they know that's exactly what would occur.
• 1:29:27
  Yeah, Okay, all right, let's keep going in dignity plus thanks
• 1:29:31
  to the pandemic. They have learned that they can also get all of their
• 1:29:34
  sexual and self esteem needs met without leaving their couch. Well, I don't
• 1:29:43
  think porn does anything for a man's self esteem, but if he is giving
• 1:29:48
  money to e girls online, he might be getting a boost from them because
• 1:29:55
  they thrive on their um like the kind of girlfriend experience they offer to their
• 1:30:02
  audience of men. So I don't know if that should be good for their
• 1:30:08
  self esteem, but maybe it helps. Maybe maybe men just want to feel
• 1:30:13
  like there's a woman out there that likes them, and the e girls they
• 1:30:16
  kind of scratch that itch. So yeah, I guess, I guess,
• 1:30:23
  I don't know. I mean, porn doesn't necessarily do that, but okay,
• 1:30:28
  let's let's keep going. Fidence is boosted through comments, likes, and
• 1:30:30
  retweets on social media, sexual needs are met through pornography. Why would men
• 1:30:34
  feel motivated to go to bars, for example, to spend their money on
• 1:30:38
  drinks for women who may or may not even be interested. If there's a
• 1:30:41
  lot of bars in New York City, you love to sell it at a
• 1:30:42
  bar They're like, why are you talking to me? You can cut to
• 1:30:44
  the chase with pornography and we have to I know, I know, I
• 1:30:47
  was just gonna pause it. Yeah, this pass, I am playing it
• 1:30:50
  a little fat like at a higher speed. That's why she's talking like that.
• 1:30:55
  It's not because she sounds like that. Yeah, I would just point
• 1:30:59
  out the the fact that more men are like that porn hub gave a offered
• 1:31:06
  a free premium membership would suggest the increase might be attributable to that. I'm
• 1:31:14
  sure that maybe more men are on porn hub. Who knows, but I
• 1:31:18
  don't know. I think that this this data is a little bit might be
• 1:31:23
  um might be sullied or not nor compromised by the fact that this reflects them
• 1:31:29
  giving the sex trafficking datas they were looking at worldwide traffic changes percentage of traffic
• 1:31:35
  compared to an average day. Uh. Major free porn high website, porn
• 1:31:43
  Hub has seen increased traffic since it began offering countries under lockdown free premium membership.
• 1:31:46
  Well, yeah, they just offered free premium membership. Of course,
• 1:31:50
  it's going to see more traffic, That's what I'm saying. So this is
• 1:31:56
  this isn't actually sex trafficking. This is traffic to porn hub as a website.
• 1:32:00
  Yes, okay, all right, good yea, yeah, I'm just
• 1:32:04
  like okay, but again, like, is that men's fault. I don't
• 1:32:11
  think. I mean, I don't know if she's saying that, but it's
• 1:32:13
  not men's fault. She's just saying that men are getting more from porn.
• 1:32:15
  Yeah, they're getting there, they're getting their needs met. Well, if
• 1:32:19
  they honest to go, truth is I can't Like that's incredible, Like the
• 1:32:26
  modern woman has is now outclassed by porn in a fleshlight. Yeah, like
• 1:32:33
  how do you manage that? Well, they probably don't wouldn't like to come
• 1:32:40
  face to face with that reality. But I think that men um, I
• 1:32:45
  mean, they're gonna do what they're gonna do. They're very men are are
• 1:32:49
  you know, uh practical that way, They're pragmatic, Like, well,
• 1:32:55
  I can't find a woman, I guess I'll go to this free website.
• 1:33:00
  That's the thing. Like a lot of porn is free, so you don't
• 1:33:01
  even have to like pay for a membership. And I don't even think pornhub
• 1:33:06
  is the number one place. I don't know what is, but I'm sure
• 1:33:10
  this is the only one. There's tons of porno on the on the internet.
• 1:33:14
  I'm just saying that the statistics are not not exactly if this is the
• 1:33:16
  statistics of traffic to porn Um, to porn Hub as a result of them
• 1:33:24
  giving away premium membership, like dude, this is not I'm not disagreeing with
• 1:33:29
  the overall argument, but I don't think this is strong evidence of it.
• 1:33:33
  That's what I'm saying. Okay, there there was an interesting talk at ICMI
• 1:33:38
  twenty sixteen. Martin Daubney did it about porn addiction, and I do think
• 1:33:44
  that it's not something we should ignore. I know a lot of people say,
• 1:33:48
  well, you know, like there's no harm in it or whatever,
• 1:33:50
  but there might be it might it might be, it might be worth looking
• 1:33:55
  into. I think I think too much porn consumption can can mess you up.
• 1:34:00
  So well, honestly, what to think about the alternative? I know,
• 1:34:03
  I know, I mean the alternative would be I'm not saying women,
• 1:34:08
  it could just be celibacy. You could just like, you know, focus
• 1:34:13
  on other things like just you know, because I think that foreign focused on
• 1:34:18
  sex. So what was that? No? The dogoes boarfing? Okay,
• 1:34:27
  having a boof's boofing that usually precedes a burke. Okay, right, let's
• 1:34:34
  let's keep going. Many men took advantage of the opportunity in Lockdown. Fast
• 1:34:39
  forward two years later, the habit has been formed and the men are drastically
• 1:34:43
  different. The false identity of women and the increasing apathy of men to say
• 1:34:47
  the least is literally adding up to human extinction at the point, Jen all
• 1:34:54
  right, no, well maybe maybe the extinction of the West. Yeah,
• 1:35:03
  okay, all right, all right, Nz, and young millennials are just
• 1:35:08
  not getting married. We are living through a serious crisis. The eligible bachelors
• 1:35:12
  are buying pretend land in the metaverse and subscribing to the only fans of the
• 1:35:16
  girl next door. They aren't building a house or a life beyond the digital
• 1:35:21
  landscape because we've done a horrible job as women making commitment and marriage look like
• 1:35:28
  a worthwhile risk. Oh no, my dear, Oh no, a worthwhile
• 1:35:33
  risk. Okay, this is just the end result, Like this is.
• 1:35:40
  We were saying that this is not a worthwhile risk nine years ago, and
• 1:35:47
  now that women are delusional, they exaggerate their value. You know, honestly,
• 1:35:58
  this is a good thing in a way. I'm going to go back
• 1:36:00
  to what Albatros said. This is this is the this is the bottom of
• 1:36:05
  Pandora's box. Now all of these women are basically not getting married. They're
• 1:36:12
  throwing their sex there's they're they're basically having these non relationships with the top ten
• 1:36:17
  percentiment. But then again, men aren't getting hooked by the meat hook realities
• 1:36:23
  of marriage anymore. You know, the mask is off, the lizard faces
• 1:36:30
  out, and we're all we're all nearing nearing the singularity of honesty, you
• 1:36:36
  know what I mean, we're getting there. We might we might just tip
• 1:36:41
  into being honest with ourselves and with our society. Maybe one can hope.
• 1:36:47
  And the fact that men aren't getting married anymore, the fact that it's now
• 1:36:54
  the bait on the hook is so rancid. Men are just like, yeah,
• 1:36:57
  you know, I don't think so. I mean, it never should
• 1:37:00
  have been abated hook in the first place. Yeah, like she says,
• 1:37:05
  oh, men don't think that women are worth the risk. You never were
• 1:37:09
  worth the risks. You've just become so appalling that you're literally forcing men away.
• 1:37:15
  That's good. Women were never worth these risks. They were never they
• 1:37:21
  were never worth the risks of divorce. They were never worth getting away from
• 1:37:29
  no fault divorce or getting away from fault divorce, getting away from and if
• 1:37:34
  you want to do that, actually you could. You could just have a
• 1:37:39
  handshake and everybody walks away. No money's exchanged, presumption of joint custody the
• 1:37:45
  end. That's not what happened. Okay, you made men run a gauntlet
• 1:37:53
  upon divorce at your will. Ladies, you destroy his life at your will.
• 1:37:59
  You were ever worth that. But only now men are waking up to
• 1:38:03
  that fact because and it's not even because of them, it's because it's so
• 1:38:11
  glaringly obvious that you hate men. Did nobody want? No men want to
• 1:38:15
  be around you? Like? How much crap did you think you could spew?
• 1:38:21
  Like how much old patriarchal privilege, toxic masculinity, patriarchy? Oh oh
• 1:38:29
  oh, how much of this ship did you think you could spew and just
• 1:38:31
  keep trucking on? Yeah? Yeah, you know, before men just finally,
• 1:38:40
  finally, finally grow a fucking spine and realized you cannot. You let
• 1:38:47
  me tell you something. You get more sex. You will get more companionship
• 1:38:53
  from a fucking uh silicone sex doll than you do from a woman who hates
• 1:39:00
  your gender. You get more legitimate love from a piece of silicon than you
• 1:39:06
  do from a woman who talks about toxic masculinity. It has absolutely no ability
• 1:39:13
  to identify anything positive. Okay, but you at least the silicon is neutral.
• 1:39:21
  The other is a hate machine, a misery machine that you have latched
• 1:39:28
  onto your carteroid artery and given the ability to tear your throat out. Why
• 1:39:33
  was this ever considered something that women were worth? Okay, A woman who's
• 1:39:42
  worth something will sign on to a lifetime deal of loyalty and honor and integrity.
• 1:39:48
  She won't sign onto the no fault shit. But you can't do that
• 1:39:53
  now because it's there, is right there, and all of the meat hook
• 1:39:56
  realities it represents are right there. So let me tell you what women need
• 1:40:00
  to do. Women need to become advocates for men's issues. That's what they
• 1:40:06
  need to do. They need to become vocal advocates for women's issues or men's
• 1:40:12
  issues. They need to start vocally talking about the issues that men face and
• 1:40:15
  divorce court, when they lose their children, when they lose their livelihoods.
• 1:40:19
  They need to step up and be brave for once and face the feminist punches
• 1:40:24
  that will inevitably occur if they stand up to the queen bees who want to
• 1:40:29
  continue to fuck this society into oblivion. That's what women need to do.
• 1:40:33
  They need to stand up for men. They need to start kicking this ship
• 1:40:39
  out of their life and stop talking about being oppressed. You never were,
• 1:40:44
  ever Face the fact that you were wrong. Face the fact you can be
• 1:40:48
  wrong, because that's what this whole narrative gives. This lie, and it
• 1:40:53
  was always a lie. It's never been scientifically proven. Nobody's even thought that
• 1:40:57
  they have to prove this scientifically. This is the worst fucking shit to ever
• 1:41:02
  come out of academia, the most unsourced, unsubstantiated, constantly proven wrong shit.
• 1:41:10
  This is the anus of the fucking anus of the devil. Right here
• 1:41:15
  is feminism and all the crap that surrounds it. This is ground zero for
• 1:41:23
  the bullshit, and women need to kick it out of their life. I
• 1:41:28
  don't care if it makes you feel like you're gonna win arguments. I don't
• 1:41:30
  care if it makes you feel like you're right. I don't care if it
• 1:41:33
  soothes your insecurities. Okay, kick it out, challenge it, remove it.
• 1:41:41
  You don't have to be a fucking conservative woman to do it. In
• 1:41:44
  fact, conservative women need to do this too, because you've got a whole
• 1:41:46
  shitload of it as well. All right, kick it out. Kick out
• 1:41:51
  the idea of men being more sinful than women. Kick out the idea of
• 1:41:56
  men's sexuality and you're more demonic than women. Kick it all, kick it
• 1:42:00
  to the curb. That's what women need to do. And they need to
• 1:42:02
  do it not because they're going to get a husband at the end of the
• 1:42:04
  day, but because our society is running to a fucking halt because of the
• 1:42:10
  lie and because of the bullshit that we keep spilling about each other and about
• 1:42:15
  the world and about the world as it has been constructed. All right,
• 1:42:20
  that's what women need to alright, and if they're not doing it, you
• 1:42:29
  don't deserve a man. And I would honestly beg men to just gain the
• 1:42:33
  spine to start telling women, or to start realizing that a fleshlight in porn
• 1:42:43
  is a better companion than a woman who wants to morally dominate you based on
• 1:42:48
  a lie. Yep, Okay, all right, there's only a little bit
• 1:42:55
  left in this video. Unfortunately, I don't have a field good solution for
• 1:43:00
  you. I personally think gen Z and younger millennial men may be a lost
• 1:43:03
  cause. But they're not a lost cause you stop. Okay, that really
• 1:43:09
  infuriates me. They are not the lost cause. They are doing what men
• 1:43:15
  have done throughout all of human history, which is try to figure out what
• 1:43:20
  women want from them. M you are the lost cause. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:43:29
  that's like the Notebook when I remember it was like Ryan Gosling and the
• 1:43:36
  girl and he's like, just tell me what you want. Yeah, Like
• 1:43:41
  it's not that easy. Jesus Christ, some integrity and honor, like women
• 1:43:46
  who could just express what they want. I can tell you what I want.
• 1:43:53
  I want men to want more. Yeah, I want men to expect
• 1:43:59
  more. I don't know if I'll ever get that what I want, but
• 1:44:01
  that's what I want. I want men to have more pride in themselves because
• 1:44:08
  you guys have not failed a damn thing. All the conservatives talking about how
• 1:44:13
  weak men blah blah blah, No, incomprehensible women's desires is what destroys societies.
• 1:44:21
  Women who pursue their own personal agendas at the expense of everyone else is
• 1:44:27
  what destroys societies. Haram intrigues destroys societies. Revenge like tribalistic revenge pushed by
• 1:44:34
  the mothers who can't get over whatever fucking shit happened two hundred years ago.
• 1:44:40
  That's what destroys societies, all right, Okay, the freaking Bible is right,
• 1:44:47
  the horror Babylon destroys societies, and we are not. We are not
• 1:44:53
  If we're not recognizing this, we're not recognizing women's culpability. And I don't
• 1:44:58
  see how men have failed at all, even with all the conservative bullshit about
• 1:45:01
  fucking weak men. Really, where are the weak men? You mean the
• 1:45:05
  guys who are still continuing to fix the sewer lines, still continuing to make
• 1:45:12
  sure that the electrical cables run, even as if it results in a greater
• 1:45:16
  rate of their deaths. Like, men are still bearing the brunt of this
• 1:45:20
  society. So where are the fuck are the weak men? Where are they?
• 1:45:26
  Are they all the men who have been disenfranchised that would would have usually
• 1:45:30
  gotten some kind of middle management job that got pushed out for women so your
• 1:45:34
  daughters could feel like they were doing something. You know? Is that are
• 1:45:39
  those the weak men? Because it looks like men are still doing what they
• 1:45:44
  always did, which is protect and provide for everyone else. It's the women
• 1:45:50
  who are the problem. There are the boss causes, like we would even
• 1:45:58
  say that they women were subject to the same kind of demotivational hatred that young
• 1:46:03
  men are subject to. We would definitely point to that to explain how they
• 1:46:09
  became the lost cause or how they were disenfranchised. Hell, we even think
• 1:46:14
  if women can't see themselves in success, they can't they can't possibly model success
• 1:46:20
  right like this is, but we won't afford the same latitude for men.
• 1:46:27
  It's not men, and it's not young men who failed. It's society and
• 1:46:30
  it's these crazy ass women. We don't know what the fuck they're doing or
• 1:46:34
  what they want, and want to ask me, like, literally, how
• 1:46:39
  can it not be women? Women are the ones who are trying to fucking
• 1:46:43
  tell men to create society. But no, not like that, because that's
• 1:46:47
  patriarchy in Your actions are obviously toxic to women, but you still have to
• 1:46:51
  do them because that would be toxic to what It's like, how can you
• 1:46:57
  put this much high volume bullshit into the water and not take responsibility for it
• 1:47:03
  and not be expected to take responsibility for it? Good God, And I
• 1:47:09
  don't see how I'm wrong. This is what's so infuriating about it. How
• 1:47:14
  can you constantly tell men that they responsible for a system that oppresses women and
• 1:47:17
  then in the next perth expect men to be able to continue to construct that
• 1:47:21
  system. How am I wrong? Right? No, I don't think you
• 1:47:27
  are yea, all right, I know you don't think I am. Yeah.
• 1:47:31
  Is instill better self worth in the men of Gen Alpha that's the generation
• 1:47:35
  that comes after Gen Z, because if not, this will be the end.
• 1:47:40
  We are already at sixty three percent of men under thirty who have just
• 1:47:43
  left the dating market. If we don't change course now, that statistic will
• 1:47:47
  reach one in no time. If you think I'm off base at all,
• 1:47:50
  I am open to criticism. Send this video to the young men in your
• 1:47:54
  life and ask them if anything I said is untrue. Ladies, let's commit
• 1:47:57
  to letting men be men. Zero it out. Honestly, I think this
• 1:48:02
  has got a zero out before it gets better. Yeah. Maybe, And
• 1:48:09
  women need to listen to this. They do. You need to be open
• 1:48:13
  and vocal advocates for men, not just Johnny Depp, because there's a lot
• 1:48:17
  of women who are sort of I guess that was a huge slap in the
• 1:48:19
  face for a lot of women, But there are plenty of men who are
• 1:48:24
  suffering, who weren't in the top one percent like Johnny Depp. Hm.
• 1:48:30
  I mean it's like, you know, you don't even have to freaking like
• 1:48:32
  she said, you don't have to give up your soul called equality. I
• 1:48:35
  don't think that was ever possible. Yeah, but I don't. I mean,
• 1:48:41
  I even don't think that it should have to be said. But I
• 1:48:45
  get it because again, women have been propagandized to think that, oh,
• 1:48:50
  let me just put this back up. For some reason, it didn't save
• 1:48:53
  the changes I made. Um, women are propagandized to think that if they,
• 1:48:59
  you know, show any weakness, I guess men are just going to
• 1:49:02
  jump in there and take away their rights, which is like, it's it's
• 1:49:08
  obviously ridiculous, but I think that women have been conditioned to think it.
• 1:49:12
  I mean, every every time you know, uh, something um happens that
• 1:49:17
  could be in any way interpreted as oppression, they and all the women start
• 1:49:24
  whining about the Handmaid's Tale and wearing pussy hats and all of that because they
• 1:49:28
  because I think, they're in a state of absolute paranoid delusion that men,
• 1:49:32
  if they get a chance, will destroy them. And I don't think that's
• 1:49:36
  what. I don't hardly any men want to do that, and the few
• 1:49:41
  that might destroy women, yeah, hardly any know. What I'm saying is
• 1:49:45
  is that even in the case where a man might want to do that,
• 1:49:48
  he probably also wants to do that to men. So it's not like he
• 1:49:51
  has a thing against women in particular, like Elliott Roger. You know,
• 1:49:59
  everybody will tell you that Elliot Roger hated women, but he killed men.
• 1:50:02
  So yeah, and killed the men a lot more. What's more important what
• 1:50:08
  he says or what he does. Okay, let's go to the beginning,
• 1:50:12
  because it's ridiculous. All right, I'm going to the beginning. Let's see.
• 1:50:17
  So from here, I guess let alone get married either problem or we
• 1:50:21
  why these men don't want to get married. I have good news and bad
• 1:50:27
  news. The good news is you're not crazy. The bad news is it's
• 1:50:30
  worse than you thought. The very oscule amount. Yeah, all right,
• 1:50:34
  so we just have to stop to make sure that we don't get hit by
• 1:50:38
  the algorithmen. And although I don't know if this this channel is going to
• 1:50:43
  have that kind of algorithm, but yeah, but yeah, I mean,
• 1:50:47
  I don't know. Let's keep going, all right, The very minuscule amount
• 1:50:53
  of Kingpin level good men. The ones that are actually has the material are
• 1:50:57
  almost certainly already married, about to be or here's your very grim reality check,
• 1:51:01
  rotting away to near extinction. What does that even mean? Um?
• 1:51:09
  Well, yeah, I mean they're like it says here Chris Christiano Ronaldo takes
• 1:51:13
  extreme measures to not marry his girlfriend. So I mean he's he like these
• 1:51:17
  footballers, man, these athletes, they're like getting woke on this shit like
• 1:51:23
  this, like the the you know, because of what's happened to so many
• 1:51:27
  other athletes before. Um, but yeah, extinctions. Well, I mean
• 1:51:33
  why are they doing that? Like that's the thing, Like why is is
• 1:51:36
  it just because they're they're they're afraid to commit. No, no, it's
• 1:51:42
  because they know it's dangerous, or they're not given the opportunity because women are
• 1:51:46
  are not looking at them. And that's like most men are just not getting
• 1:51:51
  the opportunity. They're not getting the chance, and the few that do,
• 1:51:57
  most of those guys are like, no, I'm not fucking with you.
• 1:52:00
  You know, I'm not going to marry you, but I'm not going to
• 1:52:03
  put a ring on it. So I'm just thinking about this, Like i
• 1:52:08
  mean, at the end of the day. I guess people could argue that,
• 1:52:12
  you know, my relationship not something to aspire to, perhaps because you
• 1:52:18
  know, Jonathan isn't seven to seven seven or whatever the fuck. You know
• 1:52:21
  what I mean, we're all mid But at the same time as all of
• 1:52:27
  these women, all of those supposed tens, they're never going to have a
• 1:52:31
  companion. They're never going to know what it's like to love someone. They're
• 1:52:36
  never going to know what it's like to be protected by someone or cared for
• 1:52:41
  by someone. Yeah, they're never going to know what it's like to be
• 1:52:45
  to have someone sacrifice their life like not just you know, with a bullet,
• 1:52:48
  but just every day, like Okay, this is the person that I
• 1:52:54
  will be okay with if my last day is with them. They're never going
• 1:52:58
  to experience any of that. They're never gonna have a person who means that
• 1:53:02
  much to them or they mean that much too. None of that's going to
• 1:53:06
  be theirs. Their life is going to be buying shit, having a middle
• 1:53:13
  management job, getting cats, probably because a dog will be just too much
• 1:53:17
  emotional. Uh, it's not that cats are bad, it's just that cats
• 1:53:23
  are very emotionally independent. They're a little bit wild, they take care of
• 1:53:28
  themselves. They're never going to have that kind of interdependence. Yeah, they're
• 1:53:35
  never going to have that kind of interdependence with anyone. And what will I
• 1:53:40
  have achieved when they go into their grave? You know? I mean?
• 1:53:45
  And you know, and they did, they did studies that the people who
• 1:53:49
  are happiest are the ones who have relationships with other people, you know.
• 1:53:56
  And I'm like looking at this and it's like, well, what what have
• 1:53:58
  you achieved by waiting, by excluding the midmen? You know, what have
• 1:54:03
  you achieved in your life by doing that? You know you're not You didn't.
• 1:54:09
  You were never in the running for a fairytale wedding married to a prince
• 1:54:14
  God. I wouldn't want to be married to Hanny or Harry. But regardless,
• 1:54:18
  you know that, you were never in the running for that. You
• 1:54:21
  were never going to get that. You were never going to get mister nine
• 1:54:28
  or mister seven seven seven, You're never going to get that. So all
• 1:54:31
  you were ever going to get was either companionship or nothing. And you chose
• 1:54:36
  nothing. I mean literally, you chose a man. You had the choice
• 1:54:43
  between a guy who could have been a companion to you, who you could
• 1:54:46
  have grown with you could have grown old with you, could have faced the
• 1:54:50
  world with you, could have had somebody by your side with you know,
• 1:54:55
  you could have built something with you replaced that fucking nothing. You're a joke.
• 1:55:05
  You know, I would commiserate with you. But you chose it.
• 1:55:09
  You chose fucking nothing. You literally chose nothing because of a delusion. Hmm.
• 1:55:18
  That's women. Yeah, I know, okay, choose nothing then,
• 1:55:26
  but really, who cares? I mean, aside from the fact that our
• 1:55:30
  society is probably going to be crushed by the weight of women's choices. I
• 1:55:34
  mean that might happen after we die, you and me, Brian, we
• 1:55:39
  have a good run maybe, you know, and then our society, civilization
• 1:55:44
  will grind to a halt and it'll be over, and then somebody else will
• 1:55:46
  take over and say levee, so it goes. You know. It's it's
• 1:55:51
  it's women that age that are really going to feel it. Yeah, Like,
• 1:55:56
  I don't think we're gonna be holding this off. We might hold it
• 1:56:00
  off till twenty and fifty, you know, maybe maybe a little bit further.
• 1:56:04
  But by the time these women, I think they're probably in their twenties,
• 1:56:09
  they're in their fifties. Oh, it's gonna be a rough world for
• 1:56:13
  them. Yep, oh god, all right, all right, it's not
• 1:56:17
  going to be uh yeah, let's get to the craziness that she got up
• 1:56:24
  too. Am I is it me? Am? I the drama? I
• 1:56:32
  don't think I the drama. Maybe I am. Turns out the large majority
• 1:56:38
  of men eighteen to thirty years old are single by choice. I'm just pausing.
• 1:56:43
  I think that's where the error came in. Um. I think that
• 1:56:46
  the real issue is that they're dropped. The number of women who are looking
• 1:56:49
  for anyone is dropping precipitously. Yeah. Okay, let's keep going. But
• 1:56:57
  here's the thing. This is where it gets a little bit crazy. What
• 1:57:00
  she says. Yeah crazy, after all, don't believe me. A new
• 1:57:02
  Pew research study found that sixty three percent of men don't want to pursue any
• 1:57:06
  sort of relationship with women that means serious or casual. They literally feel no
• 1:57:12
  motivation to leave their house period. You know things are bad when guys think
• 1:57:15
  of booty call is too much work? All right again, maybe a booty
• 1:57:24
  call is too much work. Maybe it is more than a booty call.
• 1:57:27
  The evidence points to some very specific problems I've seen multiple conservative commentators speculator about
• 1:57:32
  what they think is the root of this shift, and no surprise, they're
• 1:57:35
  wrong. Let me tell you something about ninety nine percent of female commentators on
• 1:57:39
  the right who talk about dating culture and relationships, hardly any of them have
• 1:57:43
  had significant real world experience with dating culture and relationships. Okay, here's the
• 1:57:48
  thing, all right, they haven't had significant world world, real world experience
• 1:57:53
  with relationships. Okay, you date in order to get into a relationship,
• 1:57:58
  presumably, right, So dating and not ending with a relationship is failure,
• 1:58:03
  you know, like you're you're taking the bar to become a lawyer, you
• 1:58:08
  know, and you're saying, oh, they have more experience being a lawyer
• 1:58:13
  than taking the bar exam. Um, yes, yes, you may have
• 1:58:18
  more experience taking the bar exam, but that doesn't mean people should listen to
• 1:58:25
  you about how to become a lawyer. In fact, it means the exact
• 1:58:29
  opposite. Right, do you get what I'm saying? Yeah, maybe those
• 1:58:33
  two attenuated. Okay, when you're dating, you're dating to try to get
• 1:58:36
  into a relationship, but the relationship is the success. She's saying, I
• 1:58:42
  have more experience with failing than success. Yeah, I understand because relatively well,
• 1:58:48
  I don't know, I don't Yeah, this this woman probably did have
• 1:58:51
  some failed relationships. She didn't say it, okay, but she kind of
• 1:58:56
  said it, so yeah, I kind of said it. And the other
• 1:58:59
  thing is that she says that traditional women in relationships don't have experience with relationships.
• 1:59:05
  I beg to differ. I think they probably do have experience with relationships
• 1:59:11
  because they are in one, see what I'm saying. But just because you
• 1:59:15
  have a whole bunch of relationships doesn't mean you have experience with being in a
• 1:59:18
  relationship. They like if their mother and father are married and together and all
• 1:59:26
  that. Yeah, So I just really this first bit was just like the
• 1:59:30
  last bit was good because she she outlined everything. She had a few problems
• 1:59:34
  I think in what she was saying. But but this is where it was,
• 1:59:38
  like, what the hell are you on? Why are you embracing failure
• 1:59:43
  like women who are married or the women you should talk to if you want
• 1:59:45
  to be married, yeah, and emulate like okay, not not the women
• 1:59:51
  who are dating. Yeah, all right, let's just finish a little bit
• 1:59:56
  more and then we're done. All right, all right, let's do a
• 1:59:59
  little bit more. I did get a super rumble rant I'm sorry rumble rant
• 2:00:02
  from Nova fan twenty one who gives us a dollar and says, thank you,
• 2:00:05
  Hannah, that's not Hannah, that's Alison. You're talking about Alison.
• 2:00:10
  Yes, it's not Hannah's Alison. What you said has been spot on At
• 2:00:14
  this point, I feel the only worthy question is what percentage of Western women
• 2:00:17
  won't learn from their mistakes? Well, I mean, I'm afraid we don't
• 2:00:20
  have the answer to that. It's probably a lot. But maybe if if
• 2:00:25
  women are humbled enough, they might like look in the mirror and figure something
• 2:00:30
  out. So that's all we can really, I mean, it's out of
• 2:00:33
  our hands. I mean, we have been yelling about this forever and I'm
• 2:00:39
  glad to see that more people are starting to like, see there's a problem
• 2:00:44
  and they're talking about it. But at the end of the day, you
• 2:00:46
  know, if women don't like stand up and stand for men, well we're
• 2:00:53
  gonna we get what we get, I guess, so maybe we'll do better
• 2:00:58
  next time. Really, they think they're too highbrowt for dating apps were disgusting,
• 2:01:02
  and I hate to they marry a first or second guy they've made eye
• 2:01:04
  contact with and their understanding on what it's actually like out here is hate to
• 2:01:09
  say it, No, I don't derive from trad wife Twitter accounts secretly run
• 2:01:12
  by gay men trying to catfish straight one. All right. The only thing
• 2:01:18
  I want to say about that is, I'm not sure that dating apps are
• 2:01:23
  the best way to do things. I don't think that they're I don't.
• 2:01:28
  I don't know, I don't. I don't think that there's like a lot
• 2:01:31
  of bullshit that goes on there, and maybe, I don't know, maybe
• 2:01:36
  men would be better served, um like in places that they want to be,
• 2:01:45
  whether you know, if you're into sports, if you're athletic, if
• 2:01:47
  you're into hiking or backpacking or libraries, whatever, maybe that's maybe men should
• 2:01:57
  be in those spaces, and maybe those are better places to meet you know,
• 2:02:00
  potential um like mates essentially. Okay, I think dating apps are.
• 2:02:10
  It's just there's a lot of like lying that goes on, and there's a
• 2:02:14
  lot of people that are pretty damaged and and I think in general you can
• 2:02:16
  probably like find people in your area too, So I don't know. Yeah,
• 2:02:23
  I mean, don't listen to me because I'm married a girl from Canada,
• 2:02:27
  But um, Okay, all right, so I'll just refer to the
• 2:02:31
  woman who broke the code of dating apps. Um, if you're going to
• 2:02:34
  be a woman, probably dating apps aren't too bad for if you're a woman.
• 2:02:40
  Just basically what she did is she she she said that her her girlfriends
• 2:02:45
  had bad experiences on tender, and so she sort of watched how they interacted
• 2:02:49
  with it, and they swiped right on men that she said she would never
• 2:02:54
  swipe right on ever, because they just weren't relationship material and you could hell
• 2:03:00
  yeah, it's like it's like these women are going on Tinder to gamble.
• 2:03:04
  Well maybe if I play the slot machine, it'll pay out, And so
• 2:03:09
  she just went for a guy who looked like relationship material and she won.
• 2:03:13
  Yeah, so if you're on Tinder, you might want to do it quickly
• 2:03:16
  before all the men leave they realize that this is shit and just drop out.
• 2:03:21
  If you're a woman on Tinder, you just have to look for a
• 2:03:25
  man who looks like he's he's about as attractive as you and has the qualities
• 2:03:29
  necessary for a relationship, and you'll probably do Okay. Yeah, if you're
• 2:03:33
  a man, just get the fuck off twin Tinder, because it's it's you
• 2:03:38
  know, but um anyway, But my overall point is she doesn't make the
• 2:03:45
  connection between what she calls traditional women just going and getting Like, just what
• 2:03:53
  does she mean by the second man that traditional women lay eyes on? Because
• 2:03:58
  I'm sure they probably yeah, she said the second man, So they only
• 2:04:01
  go for like, I don't know that they don't really do enough like um,
• 2:04:10
  sampling, yeah, sampling, window shopping whatever. Maybe that's why they're
• 2:04:15
  in marriage. Maybe that's why the Kingpin men are already married because the women
• 2:04:19
  were like, yeah, this is a good guy. That's it. Boom
• 2:04:23
  done. Yeah, Like, just what do you you embrace failure? Lady?
• 2:04:30
  You embrace it and then you complain about failing. Stop embracing it.
• 2:04:40
  That's a good sound, all right, that's all that's fail sound from the
• 2:04:45
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