Latest / Success Story with Scott Clary / Grant Cardone - Billionaire Real Estate Mogul | How To Get Anything You Want In Life or Business
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- 0:00If you're not looking for a butterfly, you're probably not going to see one.
- 0:02You're going to get what you look for. Focus on the target. Your target should be monster.
- 0:07Make a hundred exit. Then find out whether the business that you're in right now can actually
- 0:11get you to that target. And if you can't, don't leave it yet, but start studying the thing that
- 0:16could get you there. When I first made a million dollars, I did not go into hunger mode. But what would
- 0:20I have to do a billion? Oh, I'd have to change my model. Means I got to get out of my comfort zone.
- 0:24He doesn't whisper about success. He shouts it from rooftops. Grant Cardone is the
- 0:28unapologetic force behind a four billion dollar real estate empire. Best selling author of the
- 0:3310X rule and a man on a mission to help people think bigger, earn more, and never settle.
- 0:38From growing up broke to running one of the largest private real estate portfolios in America.
- 0:42I should be worth 20 billion dollars today. The haters have made me unbelievable amounts of
- 0:48money. I would not have the success I have without the haters. Grant's not just talking about wealth.
- 0:52He's scaling it. Love him or hate him. One thing certain, he refuses to play small. In this episode,
- 0:56we dive into the mindset, the money, and the movement behind one of the boldest voices in
- 1:01business today. My advice to parents is you cannot turn them over to YouTube and Facebook. Those
- 1:05are not nannies. TD was an early form of YouTube. He's garbage. You're watching garbage every day.
- 1:10They're terrible things and they're not even real. You have to want it. You've got to be willing to
- 1:14leave everything you have. I have never had success in my life. Not a next level success without leaving
- 1:20something I love. Scott Clarke is in the house. I'm broke. I'm not good to have here.
- 1:34No, it's for the big here. Thank you, man. I appreciate you so much.
- 1:37Grant, people know your origin story, but I like to teet up like this.
- 1:42They know my origins. They know the origin story. No, they know the origin story.
- 1:48The origin story, bro, would be before conception. That's true. Okay. The post, the post origin story.
- 1:54Okay. The post origin story. Okay. If you could tell yourself when you were struggling,
- 1:59when you were going through all the hard times, when you were very, very early on,
- 2:02yeah. One thing, what would that thing be? Let's see. One thing, where am I? Am I eight years
- 2:11old, 16? There's all these critical points in my life that you're struggling with addiction.
- 2:15Oh, yeah. Well, quit using drugs. Quit using drugs. Get rid of the chick. She was a drug addict.
- 2:22Get rid of all your friends. Quit going to the clubs. I mean, in my case, Louisiana,
- 2:26you don't have clubs in Louisiana. Yeah, bars. But, you know, basically what I had to do,
- 2:32which I would, you know, if you're if you're if you're having a drug problem today,
- 2:36guys look, nobody beats the drugs ever. Elvis, Michael Jackson, like just keep going down the list.
- 2:42Nobody beats it. Number one, number two, nobody starts as a drug addict. Everybody starts
- 2:47thinking they're just having a good time. And number three, you're not doing it by yourself.
- 2:52You're doing them with other people. Other people are always involved in a drug activity and get
- 2:57rid of them. Like you have to walk away from if you don't walk away from those people, those
- 3:01are not your friends. They're not even their own friends. Walk away. Go to treatment if you have to
- 3:07go somewhere where you're not going to use drugs forever. Understand, you're not powerless
- 3:11over drugs drugs. Drug addiction is not a disease. Drug addiction is a choice. Okay, to snark cocaine
- 3:19is a choice to smoke weed is a choice to pop appeal is a choice. There's no disease. No illness.
- 3:25It says you have to be a drug addict. That's a choice. No, and life is made up of choices. And I
- 3:30think that most of the audience that listens to this show, they figured out their life to a degree.
- 3:36They're fortunately not in a in a horrible spot. I'm sure some of them have had some tough times.
- 3:40But they've sort of figured out kind of what they want to do in their life. But there's still
- 3:45there's still so many choices. So the point of that question was, okay, so now you've overcome
- 3:50the drugs and the addiction. What's the advice you give yourself so that you can be some version
- 3:55of successful? Because the kids have so many different options, right? You can go. Yeah, well, I mean,
- 4:00you know, one you got to once you clean up, like even for you guys to don't have problems,
- 4:05right? Like in a lot in college, it doesn't not drug, but we all do just waste time.
- 4:10Nobody's ever looked back and said it was my drinking in college that made me successful.
- 4:16Never, like there's not one person that's ever said, yeah, bro, it was when I was freaking party
- 4:21and hard that made me who I am today. So, you know, you just got to once you once you
- 4:30quit screwing up, whatever you're screwing up, then you got to go make clean up the screw ups.
- 4:37Okay, now if you've been just kind of lazy and just goofing off, that's a liability too.
- 4:42Like you don't have to be a full-out drug addict to be a problem to yourself, your future,
- 4:46your future self, your family, your dreams. You're basically a liability. You're in trees
- 4:53into your dreams if you're if you're fucking off, okay? Like, so you got to clean that up. You got
- 4:58to look at, okay, what have I been doing that is below my potential? Admit that you're doing that
- 5:05and you got to stop it. One, two, you got to clean it up. You got to go clean up the damage
- 5:09that you did. You did damage. You know, and if you don't clean up the damage, then you're never
- 5:15going to clean up, okay? But basically, you're like, well, no, I haven't heard anybody. Yeah,
- 5:19bro, you hurt yourself. You ruin your own self-esteem for those five or six or seven or eight years
- 5:25that you underperform your potential. Yeah. So I spent between the age of 25 and probably 31 or
- 5:3132 years old, especially the first three years, 25 to 28, just cleaning up. All the damage I did,
- 5:39all the betrayals I made, like I promised somebody I was going to be someplace and I didn't.
- 5:45Yeah. You damaged me and it damaged them. They're trusted me. So you got to clean all that
- 5:49shit up. You need to write a whole list of everything you need to clean up and fucking go clean
- 5:53it up. And then once you're on the right path, you know, people still have a hard time figuring
- 5:59out where to spend their time and energy. Young kids have a hard time. And I say, young kids,
- 6:03I'm talking about I'm not that old, but I'm talking about 24, 25, 26, 27, not everybody's
- 6:10entrepreneurial, not everybody knows how to invest. People just start working for a company. They
- 6:14don't have a really an idea of where they want their life to end up and they just kind of drift,
- 6:18drift. Yeah. So how do you not drift when you start your career? That's very important. I
- 6:22think that, you know, between 20 and 25, it's a beautiful time because you can take so many
- 6:27fucking risks and you can try to do anything. And if you fuck up, it doesn't matter.
- 6:31Yeah, it really does. It doesn't matter, right? Every time you fuck up, you have that
- 6:36L on your on your board. Fuck it from a business perspective, but I rather you take risks
- 6:39than just play it safe. Yeah. Well, certain, well, you can take risk and still have W as though.
- 6:45Like, I think you know, I would tell everybody to quit making sense of your else, right? You
- 6:51got to be in the game. You got to be going for it. And you got to turn it into a win. There is a
- 6:55way to turn everything into a win. You don't have to have a bunch of losses in life. Like you don't
- 7:00have to accumulate a bunch of failures in order to like validate yourself. I told my daughter,
- 7:06she's 15 yesterday. I said, look, you get 13 my 13 year old. You get, you get confidence
- 7:13from doing something. Yeah. Anything to you get confidence from doing it consistently. And
- 7:20three, you get even more confidence if you do it and win. So if people could just put more
- 7:25tension on, look, I'm going to school, let's say I'm going to school, then fucking do greatest
- 7:29school or don't go to school and then go to work. But you got to do one of the two. You're either
- 7:34going to go to school, go to work or like what I did was I went to school and worked. And you know,
- 7:40and so I would just tell you like, if you're going to work and you got a refinery job, a shit job
- 7:45like I had or McDonald's. I worked at McDonald's. I didn't take it seriously. Do you got to become
- 7:50the best person at McDonald's or in the refinery? Whatever you're doing, you got to learn how to
- 7:54become a master of that trade so that you forget the rest of the world. You know, hey, when I do
- 8:01something, I do it well. And even better than everybody else. Do you think that you think that,
- 8:07you know, kids between 25, you know, 20, 25, do you think they're taking life seriously? Do you
- 8:13think I don't think anybody's taking life seriously? Forget the 25, 15, like you're going to 25,
- 8:19bro, but what about it eight or 10 or 12? My 15 year old's graduated from high school at 15
- 8:28years old. Yeah, your kids are exceptional because I was this I wasn't where they're at when I was
- 8:33in either because nobody was demanding me to be exceptional. People were making, they were making
- 8:38sense of me being a fucking kid. Yeah. No, you know, so people would need to quit making,
- 8:43you know, I'm only 12. I deserve to be a kid. Bro, you're not going to be a kid forever.
- 8:47You're going to be an adult most of your life. Okay. Like learn how to be one, learn how to talk
- 8:53like I'm be competent, be professional. What about just being a kid? What about the rest of your
- 8:58life? Okay. What about the rest of your life being a competent, professional person that you
- 9:05trust yourself so much because you made your bed. Like, why not make your bed every day,
- 9:11clean your stuff up, put your clothes up, like learn some basic stuff that you're going to need
- 9:16later in life, but most importantly, you're going to need your confidence. And so whether it's 12,
- 9:2025, 35, 45, 55, I don't know what old is. What is old to you? Are you talking about young people,
- 9:27really young people? You know what's old? What's old to me? Yeah, what age? When it's the first
- 9:32number that came to your head? No, no. What was the number? What was the number? I was going to say
- 9:3760, 65 is old. Dude, I'm 67. I know. That's why that's why you were editing, right? So you're
- 9:43editing like I said, what's the number? The number is instant. It comes to my, the answer is always
- 9:47instantly there, right? Like I don't edit anything. You ask me a question. I answer, I'm not like,
- 9:51oh, let me see. What's the right answer here? Right? So, so you think 65 is old, probably 60. You
- 9:57probably want to say younger than that, actually, because you think 25 is young, you know, but the
- 10:02truth is, who knows? My older brother died when he was 25 years old. He was old, dude. He was old
- 10:08for his age, for the time he had left. He was ancient. My father died when he was 52. So you
- 10:16don't know how long you're going to last. Do you might not make it back to Brickle this week today?
- 10:19Yeah. That's scary. This might be the last time we see you. God forbid. Rest in peace, go clear.
- 10:24What do you tell parents when they're trying to raise their kids? You made a good point. Yeah.
- 10:29You don't have to think that 20, 25 is the right age. You can get your kids started early young,
- 10:34help them understand business, help them understand to conduct themselves, help them understand how to
- 10:38invest. But parents, a lot of parents don't do that. I don't think you're the norm. No, you're not
- 10:43the norm with the parent. I don't know. I watch my kids, you know, I know it outlier. Huh? You're
- 10:48a good outlier is what I'm saying. You're not the norm to parents. Well, maybe. I mean, I don't,
- 10:52yeah, who knows? It's yet to be determined whether I'm a good parent or not. We'll see what,
- 10:56you know, when they grow up and they start functioning in society, and they start, you know,
- 11:01going out on their own, doing their own deals, then we'll find out whether we got a really good
- 11:05product out of our kids or not. But, you know, when I'm watching my kids at six and seven watch
- 11:10YouTube, I'm like, that can't be good for them. So now I could take the YouTube away from them,
- 11:16but then what are they going to do? Like, I need to spend time with them, you know, to like,
- 11:22because I want them to hear what I'm doing. Now, just because I think what I'm doing is right.
- 11:28Yeah. But what's your advice for parents on how to raise a kid? Well, he's being super kind
- 11:36and you're saying that we don't know. Listen, my advice to parents is phenomenal. My advice to
- 11:42parents is you cannot turn them over to YouTube in Facebook. Those are not nannies. Okay. Or,
- 11:50or like I grew up on Tom and Jerry TV, TV's just another TV was an early form of YouTube is garbage
- 11:57to you watching garbage every day junk. You're being sold terrible foods, medications, one out of
- 12:06every three ads on any channel that you're on is going to be you got a hypertension. You got
- 12:10the restless legs syndrome. Do you have erectile dysfunction? Do you have depression? A
- 12:16bipolar like this is terrible shit. Your kids are being programmed with to believe these are
- 12:21normal fucking things. They're terrible things and they're not even real. So get your kids off a
- 12:27TV, get your kids off of YouTube. You got to get your kids active. You know, we took our kids
- 12:32out of school. I do not want my kids with your kids. No offense. That's how you're raising your
- 12:37kids. I don't want my kids with your kids. Your kids believe in all this made up diseases and
- 12:41shit. I don't want my kids here and from your kids. What your kids have been programmed to believe.
- 12:46So and it doesn't make me right. Like I'm not making anybody wrong here and what I'm saying. We
- 12:51took our kids out of school. We took full responsibility for their education. We homeschool them
- 12:56with a 365 days of the year almost. They're required to work for us since they were six years old.
- 13:02They have contracts to work for us. They have a list of things they have to do.
- 13:07They're happy kids, man. They're very socialized. You know, everybody's like, oh, they're not
- 13:11going to they're not going to be socialized in the schools. Yeah, exactly. They're going to be
- 13:16socialized the way we want them educated. So and again, I just want to like preface all this, but
- 13:22I am not giving parental advice. I'm just telling you how we raise our kids. Yeah, but I like that
- 13:28you I like that you have a different opinion than most and it's not just with how you raise them.
- 13:32It's like you you have you have opinions about investing about wealth and you just reframe
- 13:38you reframe shit in a way that I don't growing up. I didn't get access to the information about
- 13:44wealth about investing for my parents and again, nothing wrong with my parents. I love them so much.
- 13:48Yeah, yeah, but I did, you know, my dad worked for the government, right? It's risk adverse nine to
- 13:53five. So I was yeah, yeah, yeah, that I had a little bit more of your wisdom. Yeah, yeah,
- 13:59when I was young. Yeah. So how do you you know, how do you read how do you fix your relationship
- 14:04with money and wealth if you come from that super risk adverse family? Well, you I think you have
- 14:09that you have to want it. I've been obsessed with the concept of money since I was like eight
- 14:18years old. I've always been interested in it. You know, I'm a kid watching my dad had the power.
- 14:25Mom didn't have any, you know, I think women women couldn't even get a damn credit card till like
- 14:301974. That's true. Is that true? I don't know. That's wild. Let me ask. When did women first get a credit card?
- 14:36Here's an answer 1974. Get out. Dude, I was graduating from high school and and and kids. My mom
- 14:48couldn't have access to a credit card. If she wanted to get a loan, she needed a husband or a
- 14:52brother. Why am I telling you that? Because how can women women have been left left alone in the
- 15:00finance department? Okay, my mom, the woman that raised me because my dad died when I was 10,
- 15:06didn't have access to a credit card. So that was suggesting that women didn't understand about
- 15:11money. The men were out working to take care of the women and dad dies. I don't have anybody
- 15:19teaching me about money either, but I noticed this. My dad had control of the money. He's the one
- 15:23that said what car we drove or had when we bought a house or didn't, how much money we could spend
- 15:29if we ever went to Disneyland. I mean, we did. We went to Disneyland one time. I had one trip in 10
- 15:34years and it was the end of his life. He knew it. So I'm like, man, whoever's got the money, bro,
- 15:42makes the rules. And so I've been obsessed with the concept of money. So the first thing I would tell
- 15:47you is people need to make a decision whether they're they want money or not. And I think most people
- 15:53have tapped out. It's got on the money game. They're like, I'm not going to have it. The game's rigged.
- 15:59I just need to be happy. I'm just going to save. I'm just going to save what a little bit I have.
- 16:05Rather than no, I'm going to earn more. And I'm going to create wealth for myself
- 16:10about family. So I think that's what people need to decide first. If they want to change,
- 16:15do you even want to create wealth? People do. I'm sure I need deep down. I don't think so. You
- 16:21don't think so? No, I think most people have quit on it. The concept. Do you think they quit because
- 16:26they don't know how? I think they quit because they don't believe they can be because they've been
- 16:31programmed to believe you can't be one of the wealthy people. And I mean, it's for them not for me.
- 16:40That's what they think. Money's for the other. The one percent. The point on one thing. It's for
- 16:43some group. Yeah. Some specific race. You know, and I don't know how to get it.
- 16:54So I'm just going to take the job I have. Like I would highly recommend everybody to make wealth
- 16:59one of your number one most important ambitions in life. To have wealth, to create tremendous
- 17:05amounts of prosperity for yourself and your family income, acquiring assets, passive income,
- 17:12massive appreciation, like have tremendous. Like I think a target for all married couples and
- 17:18individuals regardless of what your passions in life are. If you're an artist, your goal would not
- 17:25be to be a starving artist. It would be to be a wealthy artist. No, of course. You know what happens
- 17:30in Toronto? This is what happened in Canada. In Toronto, cost of living is very high. Yeah. Young
- 17:36young people, whatever. Yeah, you go. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 25 30 year old people cannot buy a house. Yeah.
- 17:42They can't buy detached homes. So they're trying to buy a condo or they're renting a condo. Yeah.
- 17:45And then they're getting married later. If there's too expensive, they're having kids later because
- 17:49it's too expensive. And the thing about Toronto, which is even worse than New York or Miami or LA,
- 17:55is the cost of living is going up and the jobs, the salaries aren't going up in line. So now you have
- 18:01a single bedroom condo that's a million dollars, but you can only make 70 grand out of university
- 18:06or college. Yeah. Yeah. How the fuck are you going to afford that if you don't have your parents
- 18:09giving you money? So now all of a sudden, yeah, yeah, you feel like, fuck, I just got to push my
- 18:14life back 10 years. So I'm 35 to start when my parents were doing it when they were 20 years old,
- 18:19right? But they didn't get ahead either. No, they didn't get ahead. But now I don't feel
- 18:22at loss and stressed out. Yeah. And then this is where they have to start to relearn. Well,
- 18:29you got to decide, you know, your parents thought that the middle class was just enough. They
- 18:34thought that owning a home, paying off your debts, preparing for retirement was going to be enough,
- 18:41they were wrong. This goes back to what we talked about earlier. Look, when you find yourself in a
- 18:46place in life where you're like, this is fucked up. Okay, whether that's whether that's a drug addiction
- 18:52or you're like, wait a minute, dude, I'm working my ass off. These are just different problems.
- 18:57This is a high, not even a, it's a middle class problem. Man, I'm working my butt off. Man,
- 19:02I'm doing everything right. Yeah. You don't talk like that up there. But you I'm doing everything
- 19:06right. But I got nothing. I got no free time. I got no money. I'm stressed all the time. That's
- 19:12a middle class problem, right? What you want is some damn upper class or wealthy class problems.
- 19:19And if you're not looking for those problems, you're not going to have them anymore than if you're
- 19:24not looking for a butterfly, you're probably not going to see one. So you got you got you're going
- 19:29to get what you look for. Okay. And if you're just looking to get by which most people in Canada
- 19:34are simply looking just to get by. I just want to be happy. I think a lot of people are going to get
- 19:39by Trudeau wasn't that bad. Like, guys, you have the highest tax rates in almost any developed
- 19:48nation. The lowest wages, if we added Canada to America, you would be the second lowest state
- 19:55wages in the, in North America. You spent, you take the PST, the GST, you guys have more taxes.
- 20:03It feels like you're at a ditty party. Okay. You go from room to room. Take this, take this,
- 20:07take this. Take this. I'm like, goddamn, bro. Like, you know, you guys just like bang bang. And
- 20:14you get your little, you get your health insurance for free. And you think, oh, we, we get health
- 20:18insurance. You're getting killed. And that's why I am for Canada joining America as the 51st state.
- 20:26It's not just Canadians. It's not just Canadians. They're stressed out trying to figure out life,
- 20:31dude. It's all over. It's all over. It's all over. And I mean, we were fortunate that we had the
- 20:36ability to come down here. We had the resources. Didn't hurt too much. We could change our whole
- 20:40life. You figured out how to get down here, though. Yeah. You left comfortable. Yeah. To get,
- 20:45to move toward a dream. Yeah. And that's what people should do. They should leave comfortable.
- 20:49Comfortable is an addiction too, by the way. Okay. Comfortable is a serious addiction.
- 20:55It allows you to socially drift through life. You don't even know you're on a drug, but you are.
- 21:02You're on a drug of like, I don't want to take risk. I don't want to feel stressed. I just want
- 21:07enough. I just want everything to be perfect. Yeah, bro, you're living in a fantasy. You're addicted
- 21:11to a fantasy that does not exist. And sooner or later, you're going to feel economic stress in
- 21:15your life to retire, to take care of the bills, to take care of your parents. It might not even be you,
- 21:20by the way. You might not be driving begotts and Rolls Royce, but you find out, oh, your dad's
- 21:26got dementia and you got to put him in a place. And that place is going to cost 15 grand a month.
- 21:31And you want planning on $180,000 a year bill for the next 12 years.
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- 25:01comfort hits you all the time. And if you're not expecting it, if you're doing better than
- 25:05all your friends, that's when comfort is the most dangerous. Because you're like, I have a business
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- 25:28like, why not a billion? Yeah. Right. And that took you back. And then you were like thinking
- 25:32in your head about why not a billion? Why not 10? That's what I'm doing. We were trying to buy,
- 25:35we were at that time, I think our target was to do a $100 million real estate deal. Yeah.
- 25:40And he's like, well, why not 10 exit? Mr. 10 exit. I said, do you right? You know what? What am I
- 25:46thinking? But I was trying to figure, you know, I knew I could do 100 because I'd done 80. Yeah.
- 25:51And so I was doing this incremental, this linear growth. A lot of entrepreneurs fall into that
- 25:56trap. We all do it analytically. You're like, okay, I'm going to take these little baby steps. I'm
- 26:00going to be conservative, particularly when you're starting to make it. When you first make,
- 26:04when I first made a million dollars, I went into conservation. Yeah. I did not go into hunger mode.
- 26:10I went into like, okay, I got to conserve this million dollars. What you should, what I should have
- 26:14done is, okay, I want to 10x this million. And so what Lewis was saying was, well, grant what,
- 26:20if 100, if you think 100, why not 10x that? And I'm like, okay, but what would I have to do to do a
- 26:26billion? Oh, I'd have to change my model and change in my model. What I was doing means I got to
- 26:33get out of my comfort zone. And comfort is a wicked, wicked addiction because I am good. I don't
- 26:41want to mess anything up. I'm just finally getting grouped in here. If you're hit in 100 million,
- 26:46there's only a few people that are going to tell you how to get to a billion. Yeah. It's not like
- 26:50you can go to somebody on the street and they're going to, like, you have to find, be very specific.
- 26:54Yeah, but we're going to spend time with. Yeah. I had a buddy lost six billion dollars last week.
- 27:00Different level. I talked to him on Tuesday. Yeah. He was up 17. He was up five billion.
- 27:08And in a day, I said, man, bro, what's it like to be you right now? Okay. He's like, it's wild,
- 27:14man, it's crazy. The guy I was with him two years ago, he was worth $2 billion. I went from two to
- 27:20eight, eight to 13. And in the last two weeks, 13 to 22, picked up nine billion dollars in two
- 27:28weeks, five billion in one day and then lost six billion on Friday. What's the difference? So I
- 27:35the reason I'm just telling you that like this guy started selling cookies and mowing lawns.
- 27:43And everything he's ever done, he just figured everything he's ever done worked. And he just
- 27:49figures out how to make shit work. And he never gets satisfied. And if you met him, he's the most
- 27:55humble, most interesting guy. He's, he wants everybody to do well. He wants everybody to have
- 28:02abundance. He does, like you would not know. He doesn't drive big cars. He doesn't have his own plane.
- 28:10You'd never even know it, bro. Like, but, but the point I'm making about him, he's never stopped
- 28:15because he was comfortable. Yeah. He was always reaching for another part of the game to play the
- 28:21game. It wasn't even about money. At that level, it's not about money. Yeah. That's not about
- 28:26money anymore. But what's the difference between that guy and 99% of entrepreneurs?
- 28:33Well, I mean, almost everything. Almost everything. Well, I mean, first thing I thought of
- 28:38is what's the difference between him and me and the difference between him and me is the vehicle.
- 28:43The vehicle he's using is more explosive than the vehicle I'm in. Meaning, meaning the,
- 28:51the, the, the Vias, I'm using to create wealth. And the things that are different for most people,
- 28:58by the way, is the vehicle that they're simply in. You're, you're, you're in the wrong vehicle. Yeah.
- 29:04If you want, if you have his mind set or my mind set, which is abundance and prosperity and I want
- 29:09to take care of myself and my kids, but I'm already doing that. So now what? Well, I want to take care
- 29:15of a whole bunch of other people to millions and millions of people. He wants to do that. I want to
- 29:21do that. And maybe you're watching and you're like, yeah, I don't care about all that. Well, that's
- 29:26problem. Yeah. I just want to take care of, you know, if you're thinking right now, I just want to
- 29:30take care of myself and my family and buy a condo and retire one day. Well, you're never going to
- 29:34do anything big because the dream's not big enough. But the difference for the three of us,
- 29:40these three groups of people between me and Bob and me and the audience that might be watching.
- 29:46At the end of the day, if you have the same mind set as the three of us, the difference is the
- 29:50vehicle is vehicle is explosive. Mine's bigger than most people's, but it's still not. I don't have
- 29:57a paper event. Yeah. Me meeting a public event. I've always thought about that because you built,
- 30:03you built a traditional company before you went into real estate that you're doing sales,
- 30:08you're making a lot of money doing that. I was always curious just from a strategic perspective.
- 30:12If you're talking to a young entrepreneur and they had like a look into your brain at the time,
- 30:17how did you decide to go into real estate versus to not just triple down on the thing that was
- 30:23already working versus investing in startups versus private equity? There's a million different
- 30:28things you can do and some of them do have IPO. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I was making it that time I was
- 30:33making a million bucks a year. I couldn't spend, I couldn't make any more money doing what I was
- 30:38doing because I didn't have any more time and I was scared to raise my prices anymore. In the
- 30:43audience, I don't think the audience would have paid anymore. I think I tapped out my audience.
- 30:48I didn't have any more time. So time and money equals the multiply, right? So I was in the wrong,
- 30:56I was in the wrong space. So I'm like, okay, I had extra surplus money. I'm like, I'm not going
- 31:00to reinvest in my business. It's not going to grow my company. What do I do with the money?
- 31:07I didn't understand startups. I had no connections, no wall street. I didn't understand wall street.
- 31:12I didn't, nobody was telling me what to invest in. So I said, I'm going to invest in something
- 31:17that I know is not going to go away and it was real estate. So I bought a 48 unit deal. Yeah.
- 31:23It worked well for me about 38 units after that. Then I bought 92 units. In like 90 days, I bought
- 31:29whatever that is, 140 units. And that was $5 billion ago. Do you think that most people should
- 31:37if they're just starting out, go down and follow the path that you went on or should they learn
- 31:42something now? Focus on the target. Your target should be monster. I don't care where you are.
- 31:48Your handicap blind can't walk, can't talk. I don't care what your freaking issues are.
- 31:53Whatever your target is, 10x the target, make a hundred exit. Okay. Then find out whether the
- 32:00business that you're in right now can actually get you the vehicle, the what you're driving right now,
- 32:08can get you to that target. Okay. And if it can't, don't leave it yet, but start studying the
- 32:14thing that could get you there. So the first thing I wouldn't have done is I wouldn't, first of all,
- 32:18I wouldn't have been born in Lake Charles, Louisiana. I wouldn't have been born by a middle class
- 32:22family. Okay. I would have been born in New York City by some Wall Street firm family connected to
- 32:29Wall Street. I would have gone to school, not at McNeely State University. I would have gone to
- 32:35school at Harvard Yale or you know, one of these great schools. I'd been connected to the Obama's
- 32:39and the bushes and the like if I could do my whole life over in the trumps and then you know,
- 32:46I'd know Tim Agnan and I'd be Ray Dalio and I hung with these guys. You can't do that. So
- 32:52what else would you read? Well, I'm just saying, but some of the people listening can't. You guys
- 32:56are going to some fucking third tertiary school in in Midland, Texas and get out of school. Bro,
- 33:02that school is not going to help you. This is insanity. You know, I got a group right now that
- 33:08wanted to make me part of their organization and hang me with this very distinguished metal. And
- 33:14they're like, they don't want to do it now because I tell people, don't go to college. I'm like,
- 33:18most people should not go to college. This is crazy that you're going to spend four, five or six
- 33:23years going to college, spending money, not earning income to learn something that you could
- 33:31literally open an iPad up and learn. So now are there some people that should go to college?
- 33:36100% but most people should not be spending four, five, six years. And if you're going to go to
- 33:41the best college, man, go to the best college, get the best degree you can in the shortest period
- 33:46of time possible and connect with the other players that are there. So what would I do different?
- 33:50I would not have gone into selling automobiles. Once I became great at selling automobiles,
- 33:58I wouldn't have gone into training people how to sell cars. I would have bought car dealerships.
- 34:02Or I would have been a consulting selling marketing, not training. I wouldn't have traveled 300
- 34:09days of the year, even though that built the character and the discipline and a whole bunch of
- 34:13characteristics that I have today that are great, like handling rejection and disappointment.
- 34:17Look, bro, I go on and on. Okay, I would have never bought the 48 units
- 34:22in the 38 and then the 92 and then sold them. I would have accumulated another 3000 or 4, 5000 units
- 34:30in San Diego. I would have never gone back. I would have never bought it with my money. I should
- 34:35have raised money from the get go. And I should have been a public company 20 years ago.
- 34:41Like, what else do you want me to tell you? No, it's good. The things I did right, I waited for my
- 34:45wife to get the right wife. Did a great job with my kids. I waited till I was 51 to have kids.
- 34:53I've never been bankrupt, never had a foreclosure, never asked Fannie or Freddie for extensions,
- 34:59forbearance. I've been in four lawsuits, cracked them all, beat all of them into the fucking ground.
- 35:05And I'm so proud of that. I've had four audits, won all my audits, tax audits. I've moved five or
- 35:12six times. Every move has been successful for me. I built a brand from scratch using YouTube and
- 35:19Facebook. I mean, those are the things I did well, but I wouldn't do any of it again.
- 35:24Believe it or not, I wouldn't do it. I should be worked 20 billion dollars today.
- 35:29Now, it's funny because people just starting out like they look at what you built and then they
- 35:34try and copy you, but I think that there's easier ways to do so many so many easier ways. Do not copy
- 35:38what I did. Do not go into coaching. We're not going to education. Would you tell people to get a
- 35:43job to learn shit before like even work for a startup to learn all the stuff before you start
- 35:48telling me that I would tell you go, go work with somebody. Go get next to some grinder like me.
- 35:55There's not a lot of people like me, by the way. Go, go get, you got to find somebody that
- 36:00is successful and still wants to be successful. You got to find somebody with money and still
- 36:05wants to use money, not somebody that's on the decline. They can be on the decline. They can be
- 36:10very wise, have a lot of information. They could tell you great stories to share a lot of wisdom,
- 36:16but bro, you want to be, you don't have to be the first man. You could just be in the vehicle.
- 36:22Yeah. And you look, I could have rolled with my buddy. Okay. I've known Bob for 12 or 15 years.
- 36:29I could have, when I met Bob, I could have dumped everything I was doing and rolled with him
- 36:35and Larry invested alongside him. I'd be worth probably six or seven or eight billion dollars
- 36:40today. Rolling with the dude. I don't have to be the driver. You guys don't need to be the boss.
- 36:45You don't need to be the startup. Warren Buff had never started shit through Elon Musk never
- 36:50started a company. It's also true, right? Yeah. Yeah. So, you don't have to be the man. You don't
- 36:56need to be, you don't need 50 investments. Steve Jobs had two investments when he died.
- 37:02It's very good advice because everybody's running. It's very good advice. No, everyone's
- 37:05trying to be an entrepreneur and I also don't think everybody wants to be the boss. Everybody
- 37:08wants to be boss tags on their car. I'm like, that's so stupid. The women, what do they call
- 37:13themselves? The CEOs. And then there's another one. The girl boss. I'm like, dude, it's so dumb
- 37:21because it's the ego. It's the ego. People should care about making money, not just serving their
- 37:26own ego, doing this bullshit startup. I work for myself. I'm like, that's a way of saying,
- 37:31you don't have any customers. Do you always work for the customer? You have a customer you have
- 37:37to work for. There's Donald Trump does not work for himself. He works for the American people.
- 37:42Half of them hating. Half of them loving. And that's kind of what it's going to be like in life.
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- 39:57pricing dash offer for 60% off. I hate the idea of self-made because everybody everybody's built
- 40:04anything customers, investors, co-founders, employees, nobody's done it on their own. Everybody can
- 40:12be wealthy. Like I believe this with every cell of my body. Everybody on planet earth eight
- 40:19billion people on okay, where you are, who you are, what your problems are. Shart of maybe the
- 40:24Gaza Strip. Are you crying today? You could be great wealth. And even the people in Ukraine could,
- 40:32but you're going to have to leave Ukraine. You're not going to get wealthy in Ukraine today.
- 40:37And you have to one, you have to want it too. You got to be willing to leave everything you have.
- 40:42If you're not willing to walk away, like you did from Toronto, you got to walk away from everything
- 40:48you have. The friends has started for me when I was 25. Goes back to what I said earlier in
- 40:51a story with my drug addiction. I had to leave my friends, the girlfriend, everything that was
- 40:56comfortable, the bars, the clubs, the house I lived in, everything, bro, I had to walk away from
- 41:00it all. I have never had success in my life. Not a next level success without leaving something I
- 41:06loved. And you have to know that it's all on you. No one's coming to save you. No government is
- 41:10coming to save you. No, no, no friends coming to save you. It's absolute ownership. Well,
- 41:14they're coming to save you, but they ain't coming to save me. You know what I'm talking about?
- 41:17I just don't, nobody's ever come to save me. No one's coming to save me. They might be coming
- 41:22for you guys, but they ain't never coming for me or Scott. No, no, you got to, it's ownership
- 41:27over your own. Yeah. Shit. Yeah. Really. Yeah. And if you want to make money, if you want to make
- 41:32wealth, if you want to, if you want to build a company, if you want to go work with somebody who's
- 41:35grinding out and you don't have to be the number one, you can number two, number three, whatever.
- 41:39But some people can't do that. There are, I got to be number one. Number one of what?
- 41:42It doesn't matter. Number one of what? No personal responsibility of your situation.
- 41:46Yeah. I totally agree. That's it. That's really it. One thing that I love that you speak about a lot
- 41:52is Elena and you speak about your, you know, your marriage and how strong it is and how important it
- 41:57is. And I don't think that's discussed enough. When you have that person at home, that is the
- 42:02biggest difference. That is the one thing that I think that most people don't pay enough attention
- 42:07to. Yeah. The right partner. I don't, I don't too. I mean, I, you know, what do you mean you don't?
- 42:11I mean, I don't, I don't, I don't, like if I, if I was very honest, I do not do a good enough
- 42:19job as a husband. Why do you say that? Because I don't. I know, you know, I would rate one of my
- 42:26lowest scores in life is as a husband. I don't see that the same way myself. Is a father?
- 42:33Dude, I'm a freaking like I am a great father. It's a friend, like 60. I want to scale of 100.
- 42:44I'm not a great friend. Okay. Relationships. Yeah. Transactions. Oh, shit. Good. I'm like 99. I'm
- 42:53a transaction guy. I love transit. You can't tell me that that it's easier to build when you're
- 42:59single. Golf. I'm like a 65 or 70, but I like to play the game, right? But I only go out there to
- 43:04do deals. I get it. No, you can't meet people meeting new people and socializing. I'm terrible at
- 43:09it. Yeah, but I don't like it. But you don't think that an advantage of having that relationship?
- 43:14No, there is. I'm just telling you, I'm not great at it. So you're asking me about relationship
- 43:18advice. And I'm like, you're asking a guy. I was not at great at it. I'm asking you to say
- 43:23if it's important or not. Yeah. It's very, bro. Of course. Come on. You know, we're living
- 43:29together. We're sleeping together. We're waking up together, going to bed together, like
- 43:35sharing kids together. Like you need to get that right or you don't. Yeah. And it's going to be
- 43:40with you every day. The only thing more important than that is probably your relationship with yourself.
- 43:47So like that's the other thing. Like what's that relationship like? Everybody's talking about
- 43:51the other person. Yeah. What about the one with themselves? How do you feel about yourself? Because
- 43:55if I don't get that right, I'm not having a relationship with somebody else that's going to be
- 43:59right. I'm just I'm brutally honest dude. Okay. Yeah. Like do you feel like yours is good with
- 44:04yourself? Oh, yeah. It's good with myself. Yeah. Yeah. But but most people though, the most
- 44:09people that like the world by living is so lonely, bro. Okay. Because because nobody, and I mean
- 44:20nobody, when when under pressure under certain situations, very recent situations, by the way,
- 44:29partners, employees, spouses, everybody's like, I don't think this is the right play right here.
- 44:40Of course you don't, dude. I'm the one that knows this playbook. Okay. This is my playbook.
- 44:44This is what I have to do. And at that moment, you're by yourself. Okay. So you guys think I'm
- 44:48going to have a wife. You might think Gina's going to support you. Gina's not going to support you
- 44:53all the time. There's going to be times in life. When you hit a point, no one is going to support
- 44:59you. And you're doing the right thing. You're going to be doing the right thing. And everyone is
- 45:05going to be like, not this time Scott can't support you. It isn't a bro because they don't know what
- 45:10you're going to do at that moment. They don't know what's right for you at that moment. And so there
- 45:15is going to be times in life, bro, where everybody. And that's where you better be certain about
- 45:22yourself being right. I'm not talking about a narcissist now or arrogance or some stupid
- 45:29amount of self-confidence or delusion. This is in life where you got to know you're right
- 45:35more often than you're wrong. And you have a track record of being right more often than you're
- 45:40wrong. How do you trust yourself to make the right call? Do the right thing, bro. And make sure
- 45:44it works. It's what I call my daughter. Work builds confidence.
- 45:51Consistent work builds more confidence and work that wins
- 45:56builds even more confidence. So you might have seen some of these lawsuits that I was in, right?
- 46:00And everybody's like, why is he getting so public? Why is he letting people know about this lawsuit?
- 46:04There was one last year, one this year. I've only been in four or five lawsuits in my whole
- 46:08career. A neblet. They're loud. Didn't start any of them by the way. Didn't start any of them.
- 46:12They did. And then I try to try to settle it quietly and it does go away. And then I'm like,
- 46:18OK, well, now I have to go grand car down. OK. So that's when you find how much gangster you got in
- 46:24you. But the problem with the gangster, the problem with the real baller, the problem with the
- 46:28guy that really goes hard. OK, it's that Tom Brady. It's the end of the game thing. These people
- 46:37are buying themselves in that moment. And this is something no one can ever tell you can
- 46:42never be prepared for. That's when you got to trust you that you're doing the right thing.
- 46:46I'm doing something right now. It'll come out here in the next week. Maybe, maybe four days.
- 46:51Might be this week. I'll consider interview you next week after we could have done a lot.
- 46:55I'll give you a little tease on. I'll give you a little tease. Hold on. Let me let me let me
- 47:00look it up so my phone right now. Unfortunately, yeah, the tease is it's my time.
- 47:10OK, it's my time. I'll send you the photo next week. So there's a lot of stuff that happens
- 47:21when people are doing stuff like I do behind scenes that you never know about.
- 47:28And then when it pops, right? When it when it when it happened, you look great. Man, no more bad.
- 47:34OK, you get easily clean stuff up there, but they're getting a rank because that he looks good.
- 47:39OK, and there's things that happened behind the scenes that people don't know. And then
- 47:45all of a sudden it pops to the front and you're like, why did he push that?
- 47:50In this case, why did Grant make that public? OK, well, there's a reason why I made a public.
- 47:54I'm not stupid, but everybody around you, do you know how lonely Donald Trump must be?
- 48:04I have no doubt. Do you think Melania supports him every 100% of the time?
- 48:10She probably thinks he's crazy for even doing this. Everybody thinks he's crazy, bro.
- 48:16Everybody's got to think he's crazy. There is no way that guy's doing what he's doing on a daily
- 48:22that he gets support from everybody around him. It's impossible. First of all, there's too
- 48:25many people to have that much. You can't get that much support. Everybody else around him has
- 48:31their own opinion. Yeah. So anyway, if you're in a leadership position, you're going to be in a
- 48:36situation one day where you got to go take a hill. You got to go you got to go take you're going
- 48:42to be on a mission and you're going to look up. There's going to be a whole bunch of people around
- 48:46you behind you. Bro, you buy yourself. Okay, you're the leader. They ain't 50 leaders. There's
- 48:52a leader. And if you need to check with everybody else about the right thing to do right now, you
- 48:57ain't a leader. So because when you check with them and say, Hey, what do you guys think? You're
- 49:02going to get no, no, no, don't do that. But that's not the right thing to do. I mean, I don't
- 49:07know what the right thing to do for you is. I just know when I go you got to trust yourself for
- 49:11garlic. Bro, you got to trust yourself and you better be, you better be right. You need to be
- 49:16right more often than you're wrong by 10x. Yeah. That means you need to be right a lot. Okay,
- 49:23so that's why I said, no bankruptcies, no foreclosures, no defaults, no forbearance, never. Like,
- 49:31I have a list of never, never forbearance, never bankruptcy, never for closure, never,
- 49:36never laid on a bill. Okay, never. I was laid on one bill and guess what? I never paid to go.
- 49:45And I never will pay to go. Okay, never lost the lawsuit. Not the first one, the second one,
- 49:49the third one, the fourth one or the fifth one. So been in an audit with the IRS, four of them,
- 49:54never lost, never lost, never lost, and never lost. So you got to, I know that's going to sound
- 50:00arrogant to people, but the point I'm trying to make is bro, you guys got to make winning important.
- 50:04Don't start a fight. You can't finish. Don't start a damn litigation. You can't win because
- 50:09it's going to look bad. You know, don't start a fight with your wife that you can't win. It's just
- 50:15a waste of time because you got other battles that you need to have. And so this is where me and
- 50:20back to the relationship question, me and my wife do well mostly when we're worried only about
- 50:26beating back the enemy. And remember, she's not the enemy. You know, there's an enemy and there's
- 50:32a target. Okay. And our, when we're doing best 21 years, we've been married. We are focused on
- 50:39the target and the enemy, not each other. I think that's so important. Yeah. Like this is the
- 50:44stuff, right? Like, well, well, well, land is playing in the second, but I just want to say
- 50:49for entrepreneurs out there who are listening to this, relationship is important. It's not going
- 50:53to be perfect all the time, but it's going to be better than not being in a relationship or being
- 50:56married to somebody who's a good sporting partner. You have to find a way. You have to find a way
- 51:02to just take ownership over all the shit that you're going to deal with. Yeah. And then, yeah,
- 51:06you know, people say everyone has to fail. But what you're telling me is like, you know what,
- 51:12you got it, you got to win. You got to win if you're an entrepreneur. You got to be in the game,
- 51:15dude. And you don't have to fail. You should be in the game and win. You should make winning like
- 51:20an addiction. Yeah. You know, the back to the relationship thing too. Like the billbell
- 51:25check thing. He's 76 years old and she's 25 or something. It's 51 years, bro. I saw something
- 51:30on this morning. I'm like, I can't even think with it being single. Like I have made so much more
- 51:38money as a family man than I ever made single. So your family's not going to, they're not going
- 51:45to hold you back. They're going to make you better. Particularly the kids, the kids are going to
- 51:49make you more creative. My wife, my wife has a, if you pick the right spouse, dude, they're going to,
- 51:54they have you think, if they really believe in you, yeah. I don't even know that my wife really,
- 52:01really believes in me. I just think my wife believes that I am the one that can actually make
- 52:09shit happen. And so she just dreams of these big ideas. She, she doesn't really care how bloody I
- 52:16have to get in the process. She's just no, I think I can throw him out there and he can do it.
- 52:21You do do it. I do do it, dude. So it's better than somebody who thinks small. Yeah. Yeah.
- 52:26It's always better than somebody who thinks small. You want to, but it gets a little exhausting,
- 52:30right? Because I'm like, God damn, dude. Like we can do this. And I'm like, no, no, fine. No, no.
- 52:35You can do this. She, she, you can do this. But that's her we. Yeah. Her we is, I got to go do it.
- 52:42Last thing I want to ask, yeah. And she's awesome. By the way, Elena, I know phenomenal human being.
- 52:48She, she, she is like her own. Yeah. She's a force. She's a bit. But that's why when you pair up
- 52:53with the right person, yeah, that's what, that's what it's magic. It's really magic. Yeah.
- 52:58Two things, two things to close this out. First, I was, I was actually told to ask this because
- 53:05apparently you give a different answer every single time. There's a fun question. Oh, yeah,
- 53:08yeah. You've got to tell, you got to tell the audience something that you've never told anybody
- 53:12before. Something about you than nobody knows. I can't do that one. I thought you said you don't
- 53:21add it. Yeah, but I am in this case. Something I've never told anyone before. You could lie to me.
- 53:32I wouldn't even know. But no, I'm trying to think about something I've never told any. It's kind
- 53:38of a hard question for me because I've talked about so much of my life. All right. What's an idea
- 53:43on your mind right now that you haven't actually? Yeah. I'm second guess in the whole California thing,
- 53:49you know, whether I want to do that right now. So I've been to California three times to go see
- 53:58if I could wake up the state to flip it red. And right now I'm waking up to someone and saying, man,
- 54:03I got too many other things going on. I don't have any business doing that. I don't even know if I
- 54:07won't tell anybody that, but I don't know if it can be flipped. I don't know if it can be flipped.
- 54:12I mean, I would go there if I could flip it. If I knew I could flip it, if I knew the people
- 54:16wanted to do this, I know the people running right now over there for the Republicans that there's
- 54:21no way they can pull it off. They're just not charismatic enough. They're not energetic enough.
- 54:27They're not thinking outside the box big enough. They're not killers. So they're not going to pull
- 54:33it off. So it makes me feel obligated like, did you could go up there and make a difference?
- 54:37I actually think I could win it. And I think it's very, very important. It's the third or fourth
- 54:42largest economy on planet earth is phenomenal. It's a great resource side. It's a terrible
- 54:48died. California used to be amazing. Unbelievable. Yeah. And now it's all gone down now. So maybe I'll
- 54:54just, maybe I'll just, you know, redirect Canada. We're on the prime matter side. Okay.
- 55:00Aren't you? It could be your first project. I think you can. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
- 55:03That last question. Yeah. You know, you've given over a lot of wisdom and advice.
- 55:07If you had to pick the most important piece of wisdom and the context is, you're going to pass
- 55:11this lesson onto your kids. Yeah. You have to pick one. Yeah. What is that lesson in one?
- 55:15You will never get anything great without leaving something good.