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- 0:00Speaker 1: It's Dirty Little Secret with Billy the Kid in the
- 0:02Speaker 1: Morning on Mix 102.9. Brought to you by Mint Dentistry.
- 0:06Speaker 2: That's right. It's Billy the Kid. Candace Lopez.
- 0:08Speaker 1: Pinata Poo is here. And yes, your confessions, your secrets,
- 0:12Speaker 1: anytime you want at 833-787-1029. Doesn't matter what kind of
- 0:16Speaker 1: secret it is. Just bring it on.
- 0:18Speaker 2: You got one. Go ahead.
- 0:19Speaker 3: I have a confession that completely, like, sounds totally insane
- 0:23Speaker 3: when I say it out loud.
- 0:24Speaker 2: Okay.
- 0:26Speaker 3: I secretly hate my best friend. Hate?
- 0:29Speaker 2: Did you say hate? Yeah.
- 0:31Speaker 1: Secretly hate. Just that sentence. I secretly hate my best friend.
- 0:34Speaker 2: How are they your best friend if you hate them?
- 0:37Speaker 2: What's going on? What's the backstory here?
- 0:39Speaker 3: Yeah, like the crazy part. We've been friends since we
- 0:42Speaker 3: were kids. You know, we grew up together. We've been
- 0:45Speaker 3: through everything like relationships, family drama, breakups, everything. You know,
- 0:49Speaker 3: for years, I thought that this girl would be in
- 0:51Speaker 3: my life forever.
- 0:53Speaker 2: Right.
- 0:54Speaker 3: And then I called off my wedding. Um, so my
- 0:58Speaker 3: fiance and I had a really ugly breakup and yeah,
- 1:02Speaker 3: during one of our arguments afterwards, he decided to throw
- 1:05Speaker 3: something in my face, which, uh, he, he showed me
- 1:09Speaker 3: screenshots of my best friend basically, you know, shooting a
- 1:15Speaker 3: shot with him.
- 1:17Speaker 2: Oh, this is after you broke up. He's like, Oh, here,
- 1:21Speaker 2: check this out.
- 1:21Speaker 3: What?
- 1:23Speaker 2: Oh no.
- 1:24Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:24Speaker 3: And I think, Oh, I mean, nothing actually happened between them,
- 1:29Speaker 3: but the messages, like she was flirting, testing the waters,
- 1:33Speaker 3: you know, just saying things that you absolutely do not
- 1:36Speaker 3: say to your best friend's fiance.
- 1:38Speaker 1: Wow.
- 1:38Speaker 3: You know? Right.
- 1:39Speaker 2: So you're like, this is gross. Immediately, I'm like, you're
- 1:42Speaker 2: not my friend anymore. Right.
- 1:44Speaker 3: Yeah. Of course, my ex was being a complete loser
- 1:47Speaker 3: about it. Like, he's like, oh, I could have hooked
- 1:48Speaker 3: up with your best friend if I wanted to, but
- 1:50Speaker 3: I didn't. Like, okay, congrats, but you're a loser anyway.
- 1:54Speaker 2: Right. Did you ever confront her about this?
- 1:58Speaker 1: Nope.
- 1:58Speaker 3: Nope, I never did. Why?
- 2:01Speaker 2: Why not? Why wouldn't you do that?
- 2:03Speaker 3: Well, okay, maybe I should have, but... at that point,
- 2:07Speaker 3: like my life was falling apart, you know, anyway. And
- 2:10Speaker 3: I just did not have energy for another huge blow up.
- 2:14Speaker 3: You know what I mean? Like it was too much. And,
- 2:17Speaker 3: but I never looked at her the same way again.
- 2:19Speaker 3: You know, I, I don't trust her.
- 2:21Speaker 2: No. Um, do you still talk to her? Yeah. Yeah.
- 2:25Speaker 3: We, we still call each other best friends. We still talk.
- 2:28Speaker 3: We still hang out occasionally.
- 2:29Speaker 1: Wow.
- 2:30Speaker 3: But like I said, I don't trust her. I don't
- 2:32Speaker 3: respect her. And if I'm being totally truthful, I, I
- 2:36Speaker 3: don't even really like her anymore.
- 2:38Speaker 2: So why not just cut it off and be like,
- 2:39Speaker 2: you're an awful person. I never want to see you again. Right.
- 2:42Speaker 3: Well, this is where I'm probably going to sound terrible.
- 2:46Speaker 3: She works pretty high up for a certain airline. Okay.
- 2:49Speaker 3: And because of her job and the benefits she gets,
- 2:52Speaker 3: I basically, I fly for free. Oh.
- 2:56Speaker 2: Oh, my God. Wow.
- 3:00Speaker 3: I'm taking trips that would normally cost me thousands of dollars.
- 3:04Speaker 3: I can decide I want to go somewhere and I'm
- 3:06Speaker 3: on a flight. So it's worth it. I lost a lot,
- 3:11Speaker 3: you guys. I lost a lot here. For sure. Somewhere
- 3:14Speaker 3: along the way, I realized I might not want to
- 3:16Speaker 3: be your best friend anymore, but I definitely do not
- 3:18Speaker 3: want to lose those flight benefits. And I know that
- 3:21Speaker 3: makes me sound horrible.
- 3:22Speaker 2: I mean, flights are expensive.
- 3:24Speaker 1: They are. I kind of like, I don't want to
- 3:27Speaker 1: advocate this behavior and using somebody, but she did you wrong.
- 3:30Speaker 1: So it's not like she's not getting what she deserved.
- 3:33Speaker 3: Like in my head, you know, she tried to get
- 3:35Speaker 3: with the man I was supposed to marry. Yeah, that's true.
- 3:38Speaker 3: She just doesn't know that I know.
- 3:40Speaker 2: I can be mad at you, but let me be
- 3:42Speaker 2: mad at 30,000 feet.
- 3:43Speaker 1: It's easier to be mad at you when we're in Paris.
- 3:47Speaker 2: Or in Tulum.
- 3:48Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 3:49Speaker 2: Let me be mad on this flight real quick.
- 3:51Speaker 3: Right.
- 3:52Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 3:52Speaker 2: Oh, wow.
- 3:53Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 3:53Speaker 2: I did not expect that. No. There you go.
- 3:56Speaker 1: Wow.
- 3:56Speaker 2: I can't stand you, but let me go to the
- 3:58Speaker 2: Bahamas and clear my head.
- 3:59Speaker 1: It would be hard to hang out and swallow it.
- 4:03Speaker 1: That kind of thing is a friendship-breaking, deal-breaker.
- 4:06Speaker 2: Yeah. For real. Done forever.
- 4:08Speaker 1: Have you ever stayed friends with someone because of a benefit?
- 4:11Speaker 1: When you shouldn't have, like, obviously in this case, it's
- 4:14Speaker 1: the flights.
- 4:15Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 4:15Speaker 3: No.
- 4:15Speaker 1: I don't think I have, but it's.
- 4:18Speaker 2: A non-judgment zone. Yeah, I'm not judging. So how long
- 4:21Speaker 2: are you thinking you could do this? Is it just
- 4:22Speaker 2: going to be a forever thing? I know, right?
- 4:25Speaker 3: So she loses her job.
- 4:26Speaker 2: So you're just going to keep doing it, you think?
- 4:28Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, until those flight benefits disappear. I don't
- 4:32Speaker 3: see our friendship ending anytime soon. Like I said, we
- 4:34Speaker 3: just don't see each other that often. We're both busy,
- 4:38Speaker 3: you know, just like everybody. We're busy.
- 4:40Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 4:41Speaker 3: But, you know, sorry. I catch flights, not feelings, man.