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Why we need 5D SEE enlightenment functional adult love language people & relationships in the world · Inspiring Human Potential

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Today, you got to see me drinking coffee.
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So we're going to talk about the disconnect from this.
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Lovely field of Consciousness. I'm bringing to you.
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The human elements, the spiritual elements in the
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spirituality elements. But I'm going to start with the
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human stuff. The stuff that many people don't
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actually know how to connect in a way of tapping into their
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infinite higher human consciousness. - potential
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experience as they're too busy fitting.
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A mold that is beautiful to fit in for those who do the
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spirituality stuff, you know, they think about, for example,
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someone of said, Growers quotes today, we see if I can grab it
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where he says, yoga is not a philosophy, it's a type of life
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or lifestyle, and that's actually true.
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What I also know is that as Stephen porges points, out the
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polyvagal theory, doctor I think The exact title.
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But as you point out, in the class, I'm taking on the
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polyvagal entire Theory and application.
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He says, yoga is a very sophisticated portfolio of how
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to work with one's mammalian or human social engagement system.
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Our eventual vagus nerve our eventual, big old toning.
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So the yoga people, I don't know how many because I see many
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people and when I'm seeing the trending individuals, I don't
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actually See that they understand what they're working
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on with yoga. And I also don't see them being
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kinder to each other. Actually, I see a lot of the
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opposite because they're doing something that puts them.
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In the group of I belong to a group of spirituality, and, or
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spiritual. The same thing goes for the
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whole mysticism and intuitiveness as somebody from
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the 5 D Spectrum. Remaining, humble is easy
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because there is a knowing that we're all people.
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We're all special like, for real, not pretend.
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And I mean, it like this is where there's this deep knowing
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that we all are imperfect, like hello, does Humanity, not know,
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the word, Perfection and perfect.
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Like, there's just some things, we just kind of know as common
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sense and really what I want to equate.
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This to is a common-sense functional adult human being who
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matures through their own life experience.
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They're able to make sense of the very real terrible and or
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difficult challenges that happened without pointing a
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finger and doing the blame shame.
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Same guilt and, or Revenge, which is not a game but that's
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what usually comes out of my mouth.
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Because it's a circuitry that you see on TV all the time and
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that the mystics in the 4D space, keep talking about.
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It's the TV that is feeding your brain or it's some siphoning of
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energy or, you know, again, they're finding ways to say it
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being affected versus realizing, you're choosing to watch certain
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things, you're choosing to use, certain words, you're choosing,
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how to conduct this, right? And you're actually choosing to
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disregard the aspects that are happening in here as well.
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Now, to be fair, we didn't have all the semantics and
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trauma-informed stuff growing up.
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I know, I didn't know any of it, but I know that as a teenager, I
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made a very straightforward choice, and it doesn't mean
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because I still believe in anything really when it comes to
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afterlife. Just saying me.
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Not, I do. But I don't, I mean, it's one of
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those things, the chicken or the egg, which One will never know,
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that's what the 5D actually accepts.
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So we move beyond all subject matters because it's very easy
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to learn information, not identify with it.
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Remember that there's always new information that comes because
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apparently, I mean, again somehow someone didn't learn
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this, I don't know, I actually don't understand when I meet
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academics who are like that, I don't understand when I meet
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people or like them. Like I did you think that there
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would be a stopping at some point of accumulation of
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knowledge? Like what I say, so I'm going to
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share with you knowledge about being a human and here is where
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the lovely intuitive stuff. It adds.
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So being able to be intuitive. This is coming through by the
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way, as I complete Channel guidance for my lovely 5D
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Mystics, I chose to do video and I chose to be as informal as
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possible. My hair looks very funny today.
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But hey, maybe maybe, you know here's that.
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Let me joke, I actually feel that I'm like from the future.
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You guys. Have you ever seen that cartoon?
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With the family, I think it's suggestions.
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That's what I feel like when my hair does this thing but
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everybody else seems to like it. So there you go.
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I don't not. Not like it.
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And I do do like it. And here have a laugh.
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So let me begin what. I wanted to really get through,
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was the part about the disconnect from this field of
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Consciousness because that's where humanly speaking.
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It's explained both through the aspect of how our mind is Billed
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as a human being and the cymatics informed practitioners
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that, I got to learn from and just everything cymatics
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relations related. So if you actually learn about
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semantics and Trauma and Trauma memory, and you learn about the
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Mind, you'll have all the answers to why and how people
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work, but you'll have, first of all, what you would want is to
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understand yourself so that you can be a functional adult, the
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ones who are always in compassion, they're the
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functional adults, the ones who know that.
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People fuck up, excuse me. Hopefully YouTube will be okay
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with a little bit of, you know, cursing here or there.
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I definitely make it clear. It's not for teenagers or
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children so we'll find out if it gets taken offline.
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I'm so sorry. I'll re-record it.
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I have notes. It won't be as funny as this one
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but still it'll still get back online.
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So As I keep learning about the Mind from Daniel Siegel here is
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what I want to present you from my notes and I may have it all
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screwy genetics shapes temperament and how the brain
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develops is established by certain genetic factors, but
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there is no correlation to the way our personality unfolds, the
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way our personality unfolds is not related to our genes
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experience and random factors influence, how we develop.
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Now, FYI, Daniel Siegel was an attachment research In the
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developmental field of attachment research, for like I
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don't remember how many years, and now he has the mine site
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Institute. He still is in the field.
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He writes books. But he's not in the research
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field in and of itself, okay? And he always names his sources.
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If you want, I'll send you his link.
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I don't remember all the sources.
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I can't use my brain like that. Like, that's one of my flaws but
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I can take notes and give you the gist of things, that's why
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we accept the pseudoscience. Since but it's not bullshit.
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It's trying to empower and Enlighten and to support people
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who want to learn about being human and being nice to each
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other and understanding and building Enlightenment,
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functional adult, love language for reasons of, let us help
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others to move into their five dienes, which is unconditional
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loving people who can learn how to be equanimous, because it's
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really awesome to have conscious expansion conversations.
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I have plenty of them. The way our personality unfolds
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is not related to our genes. Okay?
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Read that part. Look at the maturation of our
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mind and he's talking about integration.
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So integration mines are flexible.
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Adaptive coherent energizing stable.
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There's a way that the researchers find an integrated
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mind is able to be adaptive and that is what brings inner
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well-being. The rigid mind moves into chaos.
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In those are all the people who are still in human suffering and
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this short podcast is going to be longer than what our usual
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ones are. But that's okay.
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It's an important one. When we look at At the
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maturation of our mind. It is very much shaped by
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experience. Okay, we got that.
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So the adult attachment interview aai for anyone is
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curious, reach out. I can talk about it to you a
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little bit or I'll just do an episode or I'll just send you to
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Daniel Siegel my new variables. The AI clearly shows how even if
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a person has had really difficult experiences but they
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have made sense of how those really difficult experiences
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have shaped them. Then the studies show that the
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outcome. Their children will be as if
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they had had secure experiences. And so there will be secure
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attachment with the person if this doesn't take place, so they
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don't make sense of what happened to them.
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Then the person creates patterns for the child and then that's
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where relational work. And your inner inter reflected
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world has shifted your mind and, you know, this is where it's
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great to have some addicts and sensorimotor therapists.
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It's great to have the entire good therapy community that
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knows about the body and my mind, not all of them do they
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don't all kept all of these new things because they're neat and
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you know, resistance to anything new.
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This is where it's not only the academics actually we see it all
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over the place. So if you don't create sense of
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what has happened to you in your life, you pass it on to your
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children. But he says if you know you do
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make sense of it you can always basically free yourself from the
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prison of sub-optimal, experiences work on yourself on
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the understanding and then that relates and translates to a good
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thing for that nature of reality.
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So reality, in this sense is where if your inner world is
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Stabilized because it's in a window of tolerance or not at
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ease and your social engagement system will get to the body at
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the end of the video. And this is where that
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disconnects. So the people who have this
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regulated and or modulated embodied cells, these are two
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words and actual just gets it. Now this is from my cymatics
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teachings that I got to learn about and so cymatics reveals
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three types of embodiment restorative embodied self, which
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is the 5D person. And the functional adults who is
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also compassionate worldwide, not just with their loved ones.
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It's an ad that Tatian of how you choose to engage in the
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world. So when you can see like a
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sadhguru, he's talking about a lot of amazing topics in his is
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a spirituality teaching and all of that.
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But when you see, he's a Quantum Askew knows how to address any
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person if they're challenging him.
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He knows how to smile and be friendly, he's always in his own
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state of. He's, he's Activated his social
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engagement system. I can do it too.
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I'm still working on some of the areas where for me I get very
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passionate but it's easy to move into the East State because my
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connectedness and that's where the 5D body type will pull me,
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always towards East. I'm talking about this, this
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body doesn't like rigidity. My head doesn't like rigidity.
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I don't like cold for a reason. If some people do they feel safe
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and I don't feel uncomfortable in it, and this is something.
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People don't actually even remotely, think about because
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they're not curious about being human and they're not curious
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about why people do what they do.
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They judge each other and they look up information to keep
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pointing those fingers. They don't actually get curious.
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Curiosity is by the way, our social engagement system.
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So I'm always curious about everything, okay?
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So the restorative embodied self, which is where the 5D
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person is and the functional adults, the people who are
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easily and compassion towards themselves and Humanity, they
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Deeply relaxed, calm alert warm. They have access to social
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connecting and their Prime for connection.
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That's where we are. We love people no matter who
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they are, no matter what, biological rudeness, thank you,
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Stephen porges for that term. This is when a person is in
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their sympathetic or dorsal Bagel or basically, they're in
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their charge States. There's many different words I
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can use, they all equal. The same thing, they're not
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being in their social engagement system.
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They are in what is going to be a modulated and or dysregulated.
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Embodied self. And then they're going to be
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addressing the individuals around them with a rigid mind.
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And that's where the adoptive child comes into the mix harsh
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unforgiving. And, you know, I see a lot of
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them out there shouting at each other, I cancel culture, the
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people who block each other. The people who basically are
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just saying, life sucks or Humanities sucks.
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They're all against this is where I see a bunch of teenagers
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all over the place. When I, when I hear the type of
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lack of conversations because of the agitation and the lack of of
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Nest, that agitation is equal to U not having mastered your
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mental, or your emotional playing yet, which is in your
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connectedness here, and your body, of course, because you're
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not learning to use your nervous system, the social engagement
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one you have yet to even understand that you are still
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working through unresolved, trauma memory or attachment
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stuff. The category.
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So secure attachment is where I I really find it.
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Interesting how the statistics show that us alone has 50
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percent to 65 percent. Secure attachment will get to
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the sense of self. I'll read it.
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Now of the secure attachment is coherent free autonomous.
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So they basically know I exist I have a right to be here.
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So do you you'd think they'd be more grown-up about it but
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that's where they have those charge states that.
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I got to learn about for my lovely teacher soon more.
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And this was My trauma, educational certificate class
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from dr. Albert Wong's, Soma Topia.
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You can go look some autopia.com up and start their your
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education or and I see a p.m. or the mindset Institute or
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embodied philosophy. Or, you know, like you can just
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read in a way of being curious, so many ways to find out how
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your body and mind works and how you can actually access your
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inner well-being every day of your life without needing to do
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any yoga by A, I did do yoga with said, grew.
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I mean, I did his inner engineering, I loved it.
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The yoga of Grace, loved it, loved all my lovely experiences.
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I didn't need it to be the type of person of, let me be
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courteous to you. Let me be compassionate, it's
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inclined feeling for the 5D person, I'd say that those who
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want to move into the five DNS, they use the word a lot.
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It is about being a light worker.
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We're all lights. It's about building
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relationships because Know how to communicate because we know
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how to be at ease. This is where true confidence
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is. When you're not actually in any
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way, shape, or form, getting agitated because somebody hurt
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your feelings because they did something and really people
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don't do things. Excuse me, they use words that
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other people will find offensive that they use their little
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morality book a coat and all that.
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It's like with the poly secure thing you know how many people
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have reacted to me saying I'm polyamorous yeah so I'm
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learning. I'm still how to navigate that
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space. It's going to get fun as we move
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into more of 2023 and Beyond just because apparently
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everybody knows how to tell everybody else what to do in
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their life, but you know, it's different when you're a teenager
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and then when you grow up and you see of grown-ups do it too.
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Because again, I thought it was just teenagers being silly.
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So the secure attachment people I'd say that they are lost
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within their charge States even though they think they're not.
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And I'm talking right now about the intuitive's who think they
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can tell everybody else where we're headed.
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Verse is starting to learn about other things, besides only the
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metaphysics of the tourism, which is amazing.
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I love every bit of information that I have.
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I'm keeping on learning but I'm like, okay, why are you still
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talking about the same stuff? It's been like, I don't even
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know how many years since I've been with this 5D Ascension.
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It's amazing. I knew we'd be here today.
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Now, I know where we're at. You know, but I see the 4D
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Community particularly They are they just seemed lost is what
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I'm going to say and it's not hard to find their way if only
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they stopped behaving. Like they knew how to tell other
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people what to do and I'm going to leave that one alone for now.
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We'll keep talking about it in other episodes back to the
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important stuff. So the sense of self or avoidant
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is instead disconnected the sense of self for ambivalent is
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a confused sense of self and the sense of self for a
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disorganized. Used attachment, which is a
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category in and of itself and the disorganized attachment will
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actually have secondary category assigned to it classification so
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be disorganized with secure or insecure avoided or insecure.
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Ambivalent and the disorganized gun has a fragmented sense of
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self. This is where they experience
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the derealization and depersonalization as they
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experience life. It's almost as if life isn't
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happening to them. And this is due to the inner
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conflict, they have one body, one mind their household is
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Terror. Whether it be parents yelling at
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each other or siblings getting beaten.
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The infant is terrified and their physiology or neglect
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being left. I for like a whole day in your
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room alone, this is where it will get to the experience
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expectancy part. That's what's going to give you
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input on why this happens. But the brain stem is going to
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want the brains of my things back here.
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Excuse me is going to want to get away from the source of
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Terror but obviously an infant can't and the limbic system of
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our brain which I think is here. I don't remember but I do know
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the hand model. The hand model module model but
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anyways yeah this this is the limbic system for Daniel
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Siegel's hand model not that you guys will know it but just using
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different pieces of information that I know And as I was saying
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the limbic area seeks to attach to the figure.
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So the limbic area of the brain is saying, no, no go towards her
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caregiver because we expect to be able to trust.
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Trust means expansion of consciousness, trust means
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safety from your body. That's what trust means, which
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is why when said grooves shares his quotes on how trust isn't
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what you do? I understand what he's saying?
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My question is, how many people actually put it into practice
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because expanding consciousness? Means you and I can have an
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adult conversation with vulnerability that can only
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happen. If you have those lovely 5 DC
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and Lightman still age your people because then like mental
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age of a person, for my 5D Mystics is the person who is
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committed to their humanity and they're committed to supporting
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human evolution and expansion of consciousness.
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So we naturally inclined to know how to stay grounded in reality
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Because unless I'm in a physical peril.
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Don't need to be reactive to you being in biological rudeness.
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And when you're a 5D Mystic, you actually always aren't
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compassion because, you know, that deep deep down some shits,
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going down again. Oops, I hopefully, YouTube won't
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please you to be forgiving. Some stuff's going down that has
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to do with that non-secure or disorganized attachment with the
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dysregulated and modulated embodied self.
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So, this is where that's not a choice.
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It's not a choice of a traumatized brain, traumatized
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brain. Has a shrunken hippocampus, is
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shrinking. Prefrontal cortex and an
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enlarged amygdala. There's another, there's a way
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that person's people will navigate life without knowing
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that they can move out of it, just because they're refusing
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quote-unquote education. And really what it is is when
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they're looking up anything, they're trying to let me blame
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the next person who disappointed me teenagers so much Modulated
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embodied, self is like learning. It's in sympathetic and does a
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bit of socializing and intermittently connected.
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So that's a person who in and out they still need to find it
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their environment. And you'll see these individuals
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will end up in. What I've noticed is, they'll
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end up with their in-group and then they just all act like
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they're big and tough. It's like again, high school.
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And there you can tell, they think they know everything
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because of their mannerisms sympathetic is fight flight.
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Most of them are not going to be in Flight.
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If their group, they're going to be in.
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Right. And once you have an in-group,
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by the way, your brain gives this release of, I think it's
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serotonin or dopamine once you are in an in-group.
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This is again studies that I won't remember the whole facts
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because I just don't have that but I can search my classes
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where I got this information, this is with Daniel Siegel.
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So I know he has all this empirical data accumulated and
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yeah our brain actually when you have an in-group, if you see the
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out-group, you're going to naturally.
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We feel less trusting. So modulated people, I see them
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all over. This is where that 3D 4D.
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They're like little Clans and they are basically ha ha.
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We know everything not conversation.
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I mean again I I thought grown-ups would become grown-ups
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as I grew up. Now I'm a grown-up and I don't
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see grown-ups. I see a bunch of people that
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don't understand what it means to be emotionally mature and
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they don't think it has anything to do with their brain or their
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body, by the way. So that I do understand.
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Because again, we didn't have all of this accumulated data.
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Then again we had some of it, didn't we?
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And we still have that thing called Free Will Choice as we
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moved into our teenage years and then into our young adult years
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and you know, day after day, you make the choice, how am I going
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to treat the people around me? How am I going to treat my mouth
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when I talk about life? How am I going to wake up in the
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morning? It's all about mindset because
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this is what decides? How am I going to explore?
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Now, let me say. One thing, the body is important
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and that suffering leads to my mind to hone in on Concepts.
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But here again, 50% of the US population alone has secure
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attachment, that leads me to know that their body was not in
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a state of so much suffering. That their psychological floor
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could not actually move into a natural progression of
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functional adult hood. And from what I see of from the
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adults, I see that. It's a conscious choice of just
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saying people are this Life is that?
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And it's all the books and all they just, you know, movies that
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apparently they live out. So here's the dysregulated
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embodied, self, they are fatigued, they are in shame,
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they are in usually room additive and or despair.
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I've seen that I see it all the time when people say that
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they're everyday is not going to ever change and that it's again
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a piece of beep. So Put all of that together.
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And when I learned about restorative embodied, self
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through the somatics classes that I took, I learned something
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beautiful, which was this thing about restorative, it's like,
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you're always in this, it's okay, it's going to be okay when
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you learn about, what secure attachment is and having
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restored, embodied self. So this is where the 5D person
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is this is where the 5D Mystic is.
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So we easily are able to attune to each other, because we're not
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afraid. Afraid of each other.
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When we are around people who have potentially this biological
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rudeness come up because of their safety, behaviors we
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intuitively, do not say, let me start a fight with this person
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because our ego is not sensitive.
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We don't need to prove who we are.
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We know who we are. We are our own and fact self
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agents and what I get to share with you on all of the ihp
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content is how to move into more and more of your inner growth
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mindset, more and more of you being yourself and leading with
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your heart. Heart.
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That is always loving the restored.
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Embodied self is the natural way.
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Everybody is actually it comes into this world.
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This is the part you come into this plane.
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Even though I would say that they're doing research.
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So when Daniel Siegel talks about the book, he's writing
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with his colleagues they're looking into when you come out
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of that womb you know the disk that what happens in that
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moment, okay. So for example that is where
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something disrupts a good Good feeling of ease and stuff like
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that. But again, I want to actually
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bring us to wrap up. So let me keep reading to you.
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The part that was even more important to share with you
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today. Again, these are from my
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classes. One is from my awakened embodied
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certificate class. And it's just a little bit on
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dysregulated and modulated and restorative embodied, self just
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the Snippets of my notes and if you look those up, I'm sure
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there's plenty of pamphlets out there and things like that.
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And and, Daniel, Siegel with the mindsight Institute,
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interpersonal neurobiology. So, these notes are from that
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and I'm in the editing of the course, and I'm looking at
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attachment right now. So that's why it's all about
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this attachment system that we have.
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And we also have the nervous system.
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Okay? So let me finish up reading, as
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I was saying the part about, if you don't create sense out of
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what happened, then you pass it on to your children and this is
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where I love. What I hear the 4D.
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All they talk about energy. Vampires Itzhak about DNA
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upgrades and yet, none of them actually seem to have read about
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this, which is where, if you're still talking the same story,
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you know, like, do you know what you're talking about?
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Hmm, this is and, and to me, it's like, I understand the
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concept, but then I don't see the application of.
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Let me bring forth this, he's to me.
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It's because they don't actually understand how their body works
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as a person. It's not a philosophy, it's not
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only lifestyle. You're a person who has a actual
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body that has a Harmony. You can achieve its called
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restored, embodied self you achieve it though by getting
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into an integrated mind to get into an integrated.
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Mind means you disengage from the rigid mind, that comes up
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when things that don't go the way you want them to go.
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This is why again. And for those who have a level
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of non secure attachment or the disorganized attachment, there's
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a second Are because their body and their psychological floor
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has a sense of self that is not coherent or whole.
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So they have a second layer to look through, it's not worse or
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better, it's just going to be two layers versus just one.
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And that's all. And again, that's all for those
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of us who do handle our emotions continuity because we actually
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are able to Feel. It's going to be okay, that's
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the restored, embodied self person and so some people they
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don't have that but some of us do and we're here to share with
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others in different ways. Again, that's the 5D person in
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the book of five deal and for the book of just day-to-day
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land, it's just regular people who are using this and they're
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gaining knowledge and they're empowering people with knowledge
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by saying. Aye, we're in a time of change
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going to be okay. We just need to work together as
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always. And know that there are
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differences in some people, they're upset and there's
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reasons for why they have that upset and that's just work again
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where we can every day. 24 hours is what we got, okay?
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So the experience of making sense of your life can free you.
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So that instead of passing On, to the Next Generation, these
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difficult experiences that you had, you make sense of them and
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making sense process stops. The transgenerational passage
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Suboptimal attachment and making sense of your life makes sense
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to do. So when we are born, here's the
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part about the attachment system.
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When we are born into the world, we have a nervous system fancy
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skin cells that try to face the inner and outer layers of the
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nervous system. The brain stem very
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well-developed limbic area. He says, this is Daniel Siegel
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in the middle partially developed the course.
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The cortex is hardly developed at all.
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And we've got the to push is going on inside of us now.
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I don't remember what these two pushes our but he goes on to say
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we've got experience expectance development and that's what I'm
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wanting to hone in on right now. So at Birth it looks like we all
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have an attachment system which is experience expectant there.
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The first day of our life we have a set of neural
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connections. The neurons are in systems that
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involve attachment which involves the limbic area and
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some of the prefrontal regions this is set up for expecting to
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have a caregiver. And so it appears that every
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member of the human species expects to have a caregiver
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biologically speaking. Do when they say, we
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biologically expect have a caregiver.
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They mean it in this sense. Secure attachment is where these
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experiences that my nervous system is already expecting to
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have are going to be fulfilled. That's the idea of experience
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expectant. Okay.
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And so, furthermore, he says it appears that experience
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expectant systems expect to have contingents communication
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Contingent communication is when signal from person, a is sent to
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person, B and person B will do three things they will receive
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the signal. They will make sense of the
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signal and they will respond in a timely and effective manner.
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Now, this means receiving making sense in responding, okay, these
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are the components of contingent communication, and this is what
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makes for secure, relationships across cultures.
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Now, here's where it's not only children, right?
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When we Relate to each other. The same thing we want to be
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seeing heard validate accepted in our vulnerable places.
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This is what it's called to be in.
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Growing expanding relationships of people who can be forgiving
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and nuanced, the ones who cancel each other out.
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Are not moving into flexible. Adaptive coherent, energized and
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Stable Minds, they're not moving into integrated minds and
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they're not moving into their Oneness Consciousness.
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They're staying within their adoptive child limited
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Consciousness and It's that difference between an infinite
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higher human consciousness. Potential person choosing this
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as their experience versus the opposite, not better or worse.
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Choices choices Free Will. So he says, the example, is,
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let's say I'm cold and he's talking about an infant and 20
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times. My body is cold twenties
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happens. 20 times in a row. Nobody is aware of me, nobody
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responds to me. There's not the developmental of
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trust. There is not the developmental
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of theirs. Not the development of
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contingent communication. What I'm experiencing is the
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development of non-contingent communication and so I begin to
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learn that the person is not going to be someone who sees me,
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soothes, me, or has synchronicity with me.
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There is no sensitivity of what is going on.
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Inside of me, there is no contingent communication.
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The drive to have contingents communication to be seen suit
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and securely attached. Essentially brings the stress to
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the body of the And so, in a year of life, that first year of
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Life, you'll find that most of who is talking about importance,
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like even Gabor maté, that first year of life.
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This is why it's important because that first year is where
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the body will have to adapt to what is M, that not being met,
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it's frustration and disappointment.
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But it's physiological. There's Sensations that are
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uncomfortable for the physiology.
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And the shutdown of the seat of empathy.
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This is where there's a way they will make sense of.
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It does not mean it cannot be put back online which is where
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all people who want to advocate for each other but aren't
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standing with each other humanly speaking.
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Do not understand that we each are either able to be in
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compassion because we do engage in social engagement in our
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bodies or not. And when that doesn't happen,
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when they're not in restored, embodied self with integrated
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Minds. Those are all people.
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Who are instill their adoptive child responses, they have a
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rigidity coming up, can be cognitive, dissonance it can be
32:33
there in group, it doesn't matter what it matters is that
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they're not actually clear and effective just yet as adults
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their emotional and reactive. And that's, you know, something
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that those of us who are adults can handle with compassion,
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which is really just the right silence, sometimes, sometimes
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it's not. So, this basically first year of
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life, because Has of frustration disappointment or essentially
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the body's not getting what it expected.
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The expect experience expectant. System is a circuitry in our
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brain, it works with you it's not getting what it needs its
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going to have to adapt its environment.
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Like any one of the living creatures does.
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Okay, so we were living creature.
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We're going to die and that adaptation process to not having
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secure attachment equals non-secure insecure attachment.
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So we got avoidant and ambivalent, and then we have the
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Glory of disorganized attachment on its own.
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And again, disorganized attachment will get a secure
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insecure avoidant or insecure ambivalent secondary
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classification. So, when you do understand why
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people are how they are, you understand that, they're all
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beautiful, beautiful human beings and that if they don't
33:49
know how to be a beautiful human being just yet that they can use
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functional adults, Enlightenment love language.
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Relationships. They can use people who are a
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little bit more equanimous within their bodies because we
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chose to love and we know how to love and that we can then turn
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that other cheek because we understand that by being able to
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be blunt authentic transparent and turn the other cheek so you
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keep on conversing. That's the correct of
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experiences. Relational experiences is all
34:22
about how you and I can connect together and the 5D person and
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them 5D Mystic and anyone who wants to even use this word 5D.
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You know, again when I began my Ascension, I knew as some of
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this stuff is a little off. I get it, but stuff is missing.
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But what 5D means is Oneness Consciousness and it's always
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been about uncontrolled up the people in the spiritual and
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spirituality World. Amazing subject matters, bring
34:50
them with the human stuff. I get to fill that Gap because I
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love being human. I mean really we don't know of
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any other a Alien species just yet, I'm sure they're out there
34:59
but we haven't met them. That stay grounded and let's
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stay supportive. And let's actually allow our
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love to spread and Inspire human potential.
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So that we can have grown up conversations, we can actually
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move the systems in places and as for how things are going to
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turn out. We will talk about that some
35:17
other time but again there's eight billion plus people here
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like you know I really feel it's kind of silly to think that
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we're going to have one way to see how tomorrow is going to be.
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But we can begin by giving each other the chance to live a inner
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well-being for real looking forward to hearing about any
35:35
questions you have. I hope you enjoyed have a great
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day.