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Why Most People Fail Their Spiritual Awakening (And How to Survive) · The Spirit Nomad: Spiritual Awakening + Life Purpose

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  If you're going through a spiritual awakening, I feel you.
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  Spiritual awakening can be really, really tough, and it can
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  help bend multiple times throughout your life where you
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  have this dark night of the soul where your old life falls away,
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  but you're not yet in your new life and it's lonely.
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  It's frustrating, it's confusing.
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  So today I wanted to share why most people struggle so much,
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  why most people don't survive their spiritual awakening, why
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  they don't get out on the other side, and what you can do about
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  it so you can push through out into your new aligned beautiful
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  dream life that is your birthright.
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  I feel like a lot of people judge or make fun of spiritual
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  people, but as you know, if you're a spiritual person, it is
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  a crazy journey and it is not something to laugh about.
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  Spiritual awakening is lonely. Your old desires fall apart,
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  your old identity doesn't fit, your relationships change or
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  fall away, your motivation collapses and no one prepares
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  you for that. I have changed so much since I
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  first had my spiritual awakening, like I am
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  unrecognizable. Let me know what's happened on
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  your spiritual awakening journey.
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  The first reason why most people don't survive their spiritual
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  awakening it's because the ego feels like it's dying.
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  Because it is. A real spiritual awakening
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  doesn't add something to you. It removes what you were using
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  to feel safe. Beliefs, roles, dreams,
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  attachments, coping mechanisms. So your ego panics because the
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  structure you lived inside is dissolving.
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  And most people try to escape this face instead of letting it
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  complete. And that leads us to point #2
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  which is that most people try to go back.
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  Back to the relationship that was toxic, back to the job they
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  hated, back to the friends that they've known since childhood.
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  Feel safe, they know them, but they drain them.
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  All the identities, bad habits like smoking, drinking, all
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  distractions. And they might still be using
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  crystals and the road cards and feel super spiritual, but
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  nothing is actually changed. The ego is still very much
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  there. It's making sure everything is
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  like it used to be. So the awakening gets passed and
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  not by the universe, but by fear.
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  Truth bomb and #3 is that awakening without embodiment
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  breaks people. So I noticed a lot of people,
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  they awaken mentally but not physically.
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  So they see through the illusion, but they still live
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  inside it. So embodiment is so important.
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  And I find this is extra difficult for spiritual people.
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  We needs to be grounded, have grounded routines.
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  You can literally go out, be barefoot in the grass.
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  That's a great form of grounding.
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  Or if you're feeling really restless, dance, right?
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  Ecstatic dancing is beautiful, a beautiful way to release
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  restless energy. Or boxing, if you're feeling a
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  lot of pent up anger from people who have taking advantage of
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  you, you have trapped emotions, let it out through boxing and
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  now you're learning self-defense as well.
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  Two in one. So when you don't have
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  embodiment, you turn inwards instead.
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  And that's when anxiety, depression and meaninglessness
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  start. And I feel this is especially
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  true when it comes to jobs. If you feel really unfulfilled
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  and drained by your job, but you do nothing about it, this can
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  create really bad depression. And that's what happened to me.
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  I never really thrived in nine to five jobs.
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  I hated being trapped in an office all day.
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  I wanted freedom to travel the world, be my own boss, share my
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  gifts with the world instead of fulfilling somebody else's
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  dream. I noticed I just pointed like
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  this and I meant to a boss, right?
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  I love that I no longer have a boss.
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  I am in charge of my own life and I think that is what so many
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  spiritual people want and that is why I keep talking about
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  business on my channel. I know this was originally a
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  spirituality channel, but the more I talk with spiritual
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  people and hearing how unfulfilled, how unmotivated,
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  how unhappy they are, and then hearing their struggles at work,
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  like I made the connection, like it's not just me.
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  So many spiritual people are struggling in their nine to
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  fives because most spiritual people are empaths.
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  So we soak in the energy, thoughts of other people.
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  So if you're in an open plan office all day, you're going to
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  get trained. So the way out of this, the
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  embodiment part of this is to change your job to something
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  we're fulfilling or start a business, sharing your gifts,
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  whatever you are passionate about.
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  And you don't need to pay for ads or learn any complicated
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  skills. You can let you just post
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  YouTube videos like I am doing now and then in the YouTube
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  description, link to a product that you love.
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  You know, get an affiliate Commission for that or create a
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  course or program like my Nomad Freedom Academy where you're
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  helping people through a transformation.
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  And that way you're no longer trading your time for money.
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  You'll have freedom energy, you're impacting people.
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  I have a free guide in the description how to find your
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  life purpose in five simple steps.
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  That one I really recommend if you just feel, oh, Julia, I have
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  no idea what my life purpose is. And if you do know what your
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  life purpose direction is, but you want more clarity on like
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  which niche to pick for your business, then I have also put
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  in the description a link to our call bookings so you can book a
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  free business clarity call with us so you can get someone to
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  brainstorm with when it comes to your niche and your purpose.
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  There are a few more slots this week, so check it out.
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  So to sum up all these things I've been babbling on today is
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  that your spiritual awakening doesn't end, doesn't complete
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  with insights. It complete when your life
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  changes, when you look at your relationships, your job, your
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  values, your boundaries, your direction in life.
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  And you see, OK, this is an element, this isn't an
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  alignment. OK, what do I do about it?
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  How can I bring all my pieces of my life into alignment?
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  And that is how you survive your spiritual awakening.
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  Let's affirm in the comments, I let the old me dissolve.
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  One final tip I wanted to leave you with as well is to simplify
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  your life. This has really helped me.
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  So both declutter in your house, but also declutter in your
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  digital stuff like making sure your desktop is not a mess.
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  So lots of folders and files everywhere.
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  Your relationships, like do you have relationships that drain
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  you or uplifts you? So let's go with friendships
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  that no longer serve you. Find friendships that does.
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  Join groups with people who are on the new path that you want to
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  go. Get a nourishing routine that
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  you do every day. Let's go of any habit that is
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  not productive. For example, if you are
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  scrolling on social media for hours per day, put a time limit
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  on your phone or delete the app all together so you only have it
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  on desktop. A meal prepping, having a simple
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  a meal plan, anything you can do to simplify your life will give
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  you so much more space to move through this spiritual awakening
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  that you're going through. And if you're like me and you
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  crave lots of freedom and peace soft life, then watch my next
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  video Best Business Models for Spiritual People, where I reveal
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  the best business model. If you want a delicious soft
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  life, click somewhere around this video or in the pinned
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  comment. Love you and see you in the next
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  one.