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Women Cheat Too! They hardly get caught because they are thinkers and planners · Maintaining Your Badassness!

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  Welcome back to maintaining your bad-assness.
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  We often talk about men cheating, but we all know there are women who cheat
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  You know why?
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  Because women are thinkers and planners.
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  And sometimes they can cheat in the worst way.
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  Okay, this couple is married for three or more years.
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  And this man vowed that he would stay with his wife and her two teenage daughters until
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  they moved out the house no matter what.
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  The woman started accusing her husband of cheating.
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  Any chance she got, like, why are you working late?
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  Why are you on your phone?
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  Who are you talking to?
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  And she was just so paranoid that people began to believe her before men even spoke.
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  So sometimes we are biased into thinking the man is cheating and is destroying the relationship
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  when it's actually the woman.
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  We've been trapped into thinking that all men are cheaters, all men destroy relationships,
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  and if marriage is broken up, it's the man's fault.
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  Because men do cheat most of the time.
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  Now when I say men, I mean most men.
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  Or some men.
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  So I don't need to say most men and some men.
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  I'll just say men and women because some women and some men cheat.
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  But most men cheat more than women.
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  But when women cheat, they hardly get found out or they end it before it becomes a nightmare.
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  So this couple was on a talk show.
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  The audience heard her speak first.
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  And they were like, hmm, hmm, hmm.
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  Yeah, she got some clues there.
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  She got a reason to think he's cheating.
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  And the man for three years told her he never did cheat.
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  Like, I'm not cheating on you.
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  I love you.
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  I made a vow to you and your kids that I will be there and take care of you.
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  Why would I cheat and destroy this?
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  Then it was brought out that she accused her 17-year-old daughter of sleeping with her
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  husband.
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  So in her mind, they were sleeping together.
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  or would be having sex in a car.
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  She, the wife found something in the car that did not belong to her.
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  And she accused her husband of cheating with some random woman along with her own daughter.
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  And she would just act so nasty to her daughter.
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  Like, her daughter is a minor even though she's 17.
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  And if she was cheating with her husband, she should be on the husband case more than
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  a daughter because, again, the daughter is a minor.
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  I know they know what they're doing, but a minor cannot consent.
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  So the daughter was crying and everything.
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  You know, how can you accuse me of sleeping with your husband?
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  The man was even crying.
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  And the woman was so sarcastic, yet she was believable.
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  And then all three of them took lie detector tests.
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  They man passed for not cheating, not having any sexual contact with any woman, including
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  her daughter.
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  Her daughter passed for not lusting after her husband, not having any sexual contact,
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  not having sex.
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  They both passed.
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  Then it came to the woman's test results.
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  She was just smirking.
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  She didn't say, I'm sorry.
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  She didn't do any of that.
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  She just had a smirk on her face like, she confessed before she took the test and
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  had at least three affairs.
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  Three affairs in the three years that they'd been married.
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  The husband was so hurt.
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  He said, I made a vow to take care of you and my stepdaughters until they moved out,
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  even if we were heading for divorce.
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  He said, I got six, four months ago.
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  And I'm still going to be there until the last one moves out.
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  Then I'm walking.
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  I'm leaving your ass.
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  You know what the wife said?
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  Go ahead.
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  Like, okay.
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  Bye then.
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  Like, she was not only a cheater.
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  She was a narcissist.
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  She was a psychopath.
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  She barely apologized to her daughter giving her a fake hug.
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  I'm sorry.
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  But she was still smirking and laughing like, how are you going to bring a man in your house,
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  take care of you and both of your teenage daughters.
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  Cheat on him.
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  Then smirking his face.
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  Or national TV.
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  There's something really wrong with her.
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  Oh, and then her daughter was saying, you need mental help.
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  Her daughter was saying that all along.
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  And then the mother said, yeah, okay, I will get mental help.
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  Okay, you're right.
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  I do need mental help.
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  And then the daughter said, I think they provided on this TV show.
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  The mother got real upset.
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  Okay, okay, okay.
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  Y'all want to, okay, y'all want to play the victim.
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  Okay.
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  Y'all want to shame me.
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  Okay, okay, bye.
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  I'm like what is wrong with her?
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  So women can mess up relationships, too.
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  And they can be more manipulative than the guy.
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  It's crazy the way people do each other in this world.
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  till next time.