Episode 26 | What Does Their Relationship Have To Do With You

Your Effin’ Love Story · Jun 10, 2026 · 12m

Sharon and I were watching a YouTube video about an interracial couple — he's from Ghana, she's from the Netherlands — and the comments were full of people telling them they'd betrayed their respective races by being together.

And I thought — what does their relationship have to do with how you feel about yourself?

That's not a rhetorical question. That's the whole episode.

Because if you're getting upset about what two people are doing in their own relationship — calling them names, feeling outraged, feeling betrayed — that's not about them. That's about you. That's your relationship with…