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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Sanny and smitha welcome to stuff.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Never told you productive I heard you, And today we're
- 0:19Speaker 2: bringing back a Kristen and Caroline episode that I can't
- 0:23Speaker 2: believe we've never brought back as a classic before, but
- 0:29Speaker 2: is on the barrier Gaze trope, which I had a
- 0:35Speaker 2: conversation with a friend about with a friend of mine
- 0:38Speaker 2: about it recently and.
- 0:41Speaker 1: She didn't know what I was talking about.
- 0:42Speaker 2: It kind of surprised me. Do you ever have those
- 0:44Speaker 2: like topics that you think everybody knows, yeah, and then
- 0:47Speaker 2: when you find out, oh, you don't know about this,
- 0:50Speaker 2: it's kind of a jarn.
- 0:52Speaker 3: It does. It's because it's not a world. And then
- 0:54Speaker 3: they're like did you know?
- 0:55Speaker 1: And it was like yes, and then I'm like we
- 0:57Speaker 1: did an episode.
- 0:59Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you kind of feel like a jerk
- 1:01Speaker 2: or yes, like you don't want to be a no
- 1:05Speaker 2: at all, but also, that's our job. This is our job.
- 1:10Speaker 2: This episode came out. I remember the specific incident they
- 1:16Speaker 2: talk about in this one with Alexa in one hundred,
- 1:23Speaker 2: So this was a long time ago. It is still
- 1:27Speaker 2: a thing. I feel like it's progressed since then, but
- 1:30Speaker 2: it is still prominent in some cases, so I wanted
- 1:37Speaker 2: to bring it back just in case you haven't heard
- 1:40Speaker 2: of it or missed it somehow. You need to know, Yeah,
- 1:44Speaker 2: you need to know, So please enjoy this classic episode.
- 1:53Speaker 4: Welcome to Stuff Mom Never Told You from how Stuff
- 1:56Speaker 4: Works dot Com.
- 2:02Speaker 3: Hello, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Kristen and I'm Carolyn,
- 2:05Speaker 3: and today we're talking about a TV topic that a
- 2:09Speaker 3: lot of you lovely listeners have asked us to investigate.
- 2:14Speaker 1: Yeah, and that is the barrier gaze trope, also known
- 2:17Speaker 1: as the dead lesbian syndrome or dead lesbian trope. Basically,
- 2:21Speaker 1: things reached a fever pitch recently with lesbian and by
- 2:25Speaker 1: characters specifically getting killed off of shows, and a lot
- 2:28Speaker 1: of you guys wrote.
- 2:29Speaker 3: In Yeah, and if you aren't familiar with the trope,
- 2:32Speaker 3: which honestly I was not before doing research for this episode,
- 2:37Speaker 3: you can already tell just by the names of barrier
- 2:40Speaker 3: gaze and what's the.
- 2:42Speaker 4: Lesbian dead lesbian syndrome? Dead lesbian syndrome? Probably not positive
- 2:47Speaker 4: depictions going on. And it's an extension too, of conversations
- 2:53Speaker 4: that you and I have had and also when we
- 2:55Speaker 4: had a transactivist and friend, Raquel Willison here just about
- 3:00Speaker 4: the issue of the tragic.
- 3:04Speaker 3: Queer character, both in literature and big screen and small screen,
- 3:09Speaker 3: and today we're really focusing in on television and why
- 3:14Speaker 3: people are especially concerned in calling it out today, as in, like,
- 3:20Speaker 3: right this very day, the day you'll listening to this
- 3:23Speaker 3: these days.
- 3:24Speaker 1: Okay, Well, first we do want to give you a
- 3:26Speaker 1: breakdown basically of what this trope is, what it means,
- 3:30Speaker 1: what it indicates, and how it sort of exists at
- 3:34Speaker 1: a cross section of a few other tropes. But basically,
- 3:37Speaker 1: barrier gaze or dead lesbian syndrome tropes involve gay characters
- 3:42Speaker 1: getting killed off. Not surprisingly, that's pretty self evident. It's
- 3:45Speaker 1: another way of not allowing them happy endings. It's obviously
- 3:49Speaker 1: the most extreme version of not allowing them happy endings.
- 3:52Speaker 1: And like Kristen said, it goes along with that tragic
- 3:55Speaker 1: gay or tragic queer character trope of like you've got
- 3:58Speaker 1: to be punished for your subversive activity or going against
- 4:02Speaker 1: the norm. And as TV tropes dot Com explained it
- 4:08Speaker 1: and it's a great, great resource, this exists at the
- 4:12Speaker 1: intersection of the sex is Evil trope and the all
- 4:16Speaker 1: gays are promiscuous tropes, So sex is Evil you might
- 4:19Speaker 1: also see that, of course in like horror movies when
- 4:21Speaker 1: the virgin has sex and she's like instantly killed. Horror
- 4:24Speaker 1: movies are a trope corn ucopia.
- 4:29Speaker 3: Oh for an, you a copy of tropes solution.
- 4:32Speaker 1: I take that to Thanksgiving with me. But it doesn't
- 4:35Speaker 1: have to happen to LGBT characters in relationships. They don't
- 4:39Speaker 1: have to actually be having sex or be dating for
- 4:43Speaker 1: them to be killed off. In case you're wondering, you
- 4:46Speaker 1: also might have the trope of the psycho lesbian or
- 4:49Speaker 1: the depraved homosexuals tropes. Basically, the gay character or you know,
- 4:56Speaker 1: the LGBT character in question might simply be getting punished,
- 5:01Speaker 1: especially if he or she tried to pervert another character
- 5:05Speaker 1: on the show. So if you had a lesbian character
- 5:09Speaker 1: confessing her feelings to a presumably straight lady character, that
- 5:15Speaker 1: character is probably gonna get killed off.
- 5:16Speaker 3: Yeah, because if you look at film history, gay characters
- 5:22Speaker 3: have typically been evil because of their deviant sexuality, and
- 5:28Speaker 3: that also ties into the trope of all gays or promiscuous.
- 5:31Speaker 3: They're evil by virtue of their sexual proclivities and insatiable
- 5:35Speaker 3: sexual appetite. This is also something that we talked about
- 5:38Speaker 3: a lot in our Bisexual Erasure podcast, and if they
- 5:44Speaker 3: aren't evil, then they must die, you know, and usually
- 5:50Speaker 3: die in a magic pixie dream gol kind of way
- 5:52Speaker 3: in order to further a straight person's narrative, or they
- 5:58Speaker 3: might even uh so the role that you see often
- 6:01Speaker 3: with like the magical black person who's so wise hashtag
- 6:06Speaker 3: legend of bager Vans. I don't know why I needed
- 6:08Speaker 3: a hashtag that. That's just the title of a movie.
- 6:10Speaker 1: Where where hashtag Morgan Freeman.
- 6:12Speaker 3: Yes, where the gay character doesn't really have any storyline
- 6:19Speaker 3: to themselves, but they're just there to share their gay
- 6:25Speaker 3: wisdom and then disappear gay wisdom in order to though
- 6:28Speaker 3: only develop was a streat people, not the plot of
- 6:31Speaker 3: Queer Eye for the Straka gay Wisdom. I think so yeah.
- 6:35Speaker 1: I love that you brought up the manic Pixie dream
- 6:37Speaker 1: girl because while the manic Pixie dream girl is punished
- 6:40Speaker 1: for her cuteness and quirkiness by having to date the
- 6:44Speaker 1: whole the drag of a main character hashtag zact Brath.
- 6:48Speaker 3: We just hashtag all the names that we mentioned hashtag
- 6:51Speaker 3: zac Brath. Listeners are saying, hashtag no.
- 6:57Speaker 1: Well, the magical gay character just gets killed off. It
- 7:03Speaker 1: ties into these other tropes one is too good for
- 7:06Speaker 1: this sinful Earth, or the heroic sacrifice trope, with the
- 7:11Speaker 1: justification that you know, these people are just they're too good.
- 7:16Speaker 1: And you saw that trip start to evolve as our
- 7:19Speaker 1: attitudes toward LGBT people IRL in real life started to improve,
- 7:25Speaker 1: So like, oh, well, all right, we don't want to
- 7:27Speaker 1: necessarily like punish someone for being gay because it's not
- 7:31Speaker 1: so deviant anymore. We're more accepting now, so let's just
- 7:36Speaker 1: kill them off because they're too good. There, you are amazing.
- 7:40Speaker 3: They're still not being humanized as characters. But caveat here.
- 7:44Speaker 3: A queer character dying on screen does.
- 7:48Speaker 1: Not necessarily always.
- 7:51Speaker 3: Meet the qualification of this barrier Gay's trope, because if
- 7:55Speaker 3: you're working with and anyone can die tropes situation allah
- 8:01Speaker 3: Game of Thrones, it's probably not there to teach anyone
- 8:06Speaker 3: anything or indicate prejudice of some sort. It's just George R. R.
- 8:11Speaker 3: Martin being like, I love killing people.
- 8:13Speaker 1: I loved Red Wedding exactly, and especially when you have
- 8:19Speaker 1: so many characters on Game of Thrones who do have
- 8:22Speaker 1: sort of fluid sexuality. Yeah, it's like, oh well, good.
- 8:28Speaker 1: So they're just being killed off because Martin.
- 8:30Speaker 3: Way that any other human character would be killed off off.
- 8:34Speaker 3: It's equal killing, you know, and that's what we're really
- 8:38Speaker 3: about here, equal killing, equal character murder. Before we go
- 8:42Speaker 3: any further in this podcast episode, though, we must issue
- 8:47Speaker 3: a spoiler alert.
- 8:49Speaker 1: I mean that goes out saying like murdering characters is
- 8:52Speaker 1: like the whole.
- 8:53Speaker 3: Topic of this spoiler. So the first spoiler alert applies
- 8:58Speaker 3: to show the one because an incident in this show
- 9:03Speaker 3: is really what sparked a lot of conversation and backlash
- 9:09Speaker 3: against Barrier Gaze and has now reached the industry Hollywood
- 9:15Speaker 3: that's now grappling with, well, how should we do this?
- 9:19Speaker 3: Because the fan outrage was so loud and so strong
- 9:23Speaker 3: when a beloved character, very tough woman, Lexa, was killed
- 9:29Speaker 3: and it seemed like she was senselessly killed.
- 9:32Speaker 1: Yeah, and that was the tipping point. But she was
- 9:36Speaker 1: not the first such character to die. So in February
- 9:39Speaker 1: and March of twenty sixteen, like a whole Messa women
- 9:42Speaker 1: were killed off. You had Rose killed. She was on
- 9:46Speaker 1: Jane the Virgin, That was in February, she was killed off.
- 9:49Speaker 1: Then Lexa on the one hundred then Kira on The Magicians,
- 9:52Speaker 1: and then Denise on The Walking Dead, who I think
- 9:54Speaker 1: got a like an arrow through the eye as she
- 9:57Speaker 1: was talking.
- 9:58Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, a lot of these barrier Gay's deaths, and
- 10:03Speaker 3: with destray bullets, they like catch other people's bullets or
- 10:06Speaker 3: throw themselves in front of someone else, sort of sacrificial
- 10:10Speaker 3: lamb style. But in the case of Alexa, you know,
- 10:13Speaker 3: the bullet I believe that killed her wasn't meant for her,
- 10:18Speaker 3: and people were especially outraged because not only is she
- 10:22Speaker 3: a queer character, but in the story arc, she had
- 10:26Speaker 3: just reached this pivotal moment with a romantic plot line,
- 10:33Speaker 3: and I think that they had finally had sex for
- 10:36Speaker 3: the first time and then boomed death.
- 10:38Speaker 1: Yeah, well exactly. And I mean, these women in that
- 10:42Speaker 1: show were allowed to be fierce warriors, independent, they had agency.
- 10:50Speaker 1: Lexa in particular, was her clan's warrior commander, and she
- 10:54Speaker 1: was in a relationship with Clark, who was the leader
- 10:57Speaker 1: of her own people. And these fans, because everybody loves
- 11:02Speaker 1: to put names together, Klexa fans did have a real
- 11:05Speaker 1: reason to hope. I mean, they were in contact with
- 11:09Speaker 1: series creator Jason Rothenberg and his staff. They were talking
- 11:12Speaker 1: on Twitter, they were talking all over the Internet, and
- 11:15Speaker 1: they'd really engaged the audience and encouraged their love of
- 11:19Speaker 1: Clark and Lexa. They were like, yeah, these are great characters.
- 11:22Speaker 1: We're glad you love them. Continue to love them.
- 11:24Speaker 3: We're gonna make them fall in love with each other.
- 11:26Speaker 3: But it's gonna be complicated because you'll love that even
- 11:28Speaker 3: more because that's how relationships were.
- 11:30Speaker 1: But unfortunately, the actress Alicia Debnham Carrey, who played Lexa,
- 11:36Speaker 1: was getting ready to move over to Fear the Walking Dead.
- 11:38Speaker 1: She got a new job, so they had to kill
- 11:40Speaker 1: her off. Just so happens that her character was a
- 11:42Speaker 1: really powerful lesbian, So she ends up taking a stray
- 11:47Speaker 1: bullet and all the nerd rage. But so you mentioned, like, oh,
- 11:52Speaker 1: but she had just reached this pivotal point in her
- 11:54Speaker 1: relationship and character. The audience loved her, and then all
- 11:57Speaker 1: of a sudden she dies. That exactly Parallelll's earlier nerd
- 12:01Speaker 1: rage from two thousand and two. Hollywood Reporter read all
- 12:04Speaker 1: about this when Tara on Buffy was killed. So, as
- 12:09Speaker 1: Hollywood Reporter points out, both of these characters, Tara and
- 12:14Speaker 1: Lexa were shown consummating their relationships with their female love interest.
- 12:19Speaker 1: Just minutes before getting killed. Both were hit by stray
- 12:23Speaker 1: bullets meant for another person. Both died in their lover's arms,
- 12:27Speaker 1: and both have led to fandom outrage.
- 12:32Speaker 3: And in the case of Lexa, the fans also felt
- 12:36Speaker 3: bamboozled in a way because they felt like their fandom
- 12:41Speaker 3: had kind of been used against them to sort of
- 12:43Speaker 3: draw them in with the what they felt like was
- 12:46Speaker 3: a direct contact with the showrunner and suddenly the thing
- 12:53Speaker 3: that they loved and were rooting for was taken away
- 12:56Speaker 3: for them from them.
- 12:57Speaker 1: So that started the.
- 12:59Speaker 3: Hashtag LGBT Fans Deserve Better on Twitter, and they are
- 13:05Speaker 3: now two websites, Wedserve Better dot com and Lgbtfans Deserve
- 13:09Speaker 3: Better dot com, which has a ton of great resources
- 13:13Speaker 3: if you want to learn more about these tropes and
- 13:15Speaker 3: just about LGBTQIA representation in film and television. That's quickly
- 13:24Speaker 3: developed into a great source for that.
- 13:26Speaker 1: Yeah, but they also channeled their frustration and nerd rage
- 13:30Speaker 1: into in real life activism as well. They helped raise
- 13:34Speaker 1: tens of thousands of dollars for this group called the
- 13:37Speaker 1: Trevor Project, which is a nonprofit focused on LGBTQ youth
- 13:42Speaker 1: suicide prevention. So this is not just something that you
- 13:45Speaker 1: can dismiss with like, oh, those are angry fangirls and fanboys. No,
- 13:50Speaker 1: these are people who are putting their money where their
- 13:52Speaker 1: mouth isn't saying okay, are you going to continue to
- 13:55Speaker 1: show negative representations or not allow gay characters to have
- 13:59Speaker 1: happy endings? Well, we are going to counteract that in
- 14:02Speaker 1: real life and try to counteract any effect that those
- 14:06Speaker 1: negative depictions might have and support our fellow LGBTQ IA
- 14:10Speaker 1: community members.
- 14:11Speaker 3: Which makes sense when IRL again, I think this episode
- 14:16Speaker 3: might be the most time we'd ever used IRL, and
- 14:18Speaker 3: I'm totally cool with it, But also to the betrayal
- 14:23Speaker 3: of being a queer fan sitting there and seeing this happening,
- 14:27Speaker 3: and then when you turn off a TV and you
- 14:30Speaker 3: have to walk outside, go to school and be in
- 14:32Speaker 3: public and also be concerned for your safety potentially sure,
- 14:35Speaker 3: you know, like, there are a lot of layers to this.
- 14:38Speaker 3: This is about a lot more than just having a
- 14:41Speaker 3: beloved character taken away. And as a result of this
- 14:47Speaker 3: fandom force, the mainstream media has taken note and Rothenberg,
- 14:53Speaker 3: the show creator, directly apologized and it sparked a lot
- 14:57Speaker 3: of coverage from auto Straddle and pretarticular Auto Strata. We
- 15:01Speaker 3: cite on the podcast all the time. They're a terrific
- 15:04Speaker 3: site for all things queer, So check them out if
- 15:08Speaker 3: you haven't already. But they put together a list of
- 15:12Speaker 3: killed off lesbian and by characters beginning in nineteen seventy
- 15:17Speaker 3: six and even looking outside of shows in the United States,
- 15:22Speaker 3: and they revise it to then include a total of
- 15:24Speaker 3: one hundred and sixty six When they opened up, you know,
- 15:28Speaker 3: the comment thread to fan saying, Okay, who have we missed?
- 15:31Speaker 3: And boy is it startling how many they did.
- 15:34Speaker 1: Miss Yeah, And you know, because that list does open
- 15:37Speaker 1: it up to shows all over the world. Germans, you
- 15:40Speaker 1: got a lot of dead lesbians on your media's.
- 15:43Speaker 3: There was that one show in particular two where.
- 15:46Speaker 1: I can't remember what it was, but there were a lot.
- 15:48Speaker 3: Yeah German listeners, if you know what we're talking about.
- 15:51Speaker 3: Because scrolling through it was like every other one, it
- 15:56Speaker 3: was like, getta dat house. And that's the only.
- 16:03Speaker 1: Well my favorites. So anyway, because so many of those
- 16:06Speaker 1: shows were not US based shows, I had not seen
- 16:09Speaker 1: a lot of them, and some of my favorites though,
- 16:13Speaker 1: and that's a weird thing to say. Your favorite character
- 16:16Speaker 1: favorite characters who were then also killed were definitely Rachel
- 16:20Speaker 1: from House of Cards. She's a bisexual character who had
- 16:25Speaker 1: a met a terrible fate or thing bless her heart.
- 16:28Speaker 1: But also from Boardwalk Empire, one of my favorite shows
- 16:32Speaker 1: that I legit miss being on the air, Angela Darmody,
- 16:38Speaker 1: who was Jimmy Darmody's wife, so another bisexual character and
- 16:42Speaker 1: her lover, Louise Bryant. They were killed in this tragic misunderstanding.
- 16:48Speaker 1: This gangster shows up to kill Jimmy, but he gets
- 16:51Speaker 1: there and it's only Jimmy's wife and when her lover
- 16:55Speaker 1: comes out of the bathroom, he thinks it's gonna be
- 16:57Speaker 1: Jimmy because there's his wife in bed, right, so that's
- 16:59Speaker 1: got to be Jimmy. No, it's another woman, and he
- 17:02Speaker 1: like confusedly and panic e Lishley shoots both women and
- 17:09Speaker 1: it's it was horrible.
- 17:10Speaker 3: It was so sad, panicky Lishy. Also, yeah, my new
- 17:13Speaker 3: favorite advert.
- 17:14Speaker 1: You're welcome. Well, I just Angela Darminy's character was so
- 17:18Speaker 1: great on Boardwalk Empire And if you haven't watched the show,
- 17:22Speaker 1: I recommend you do it. It's a good binge watching show.
- 17:26Speaker 3: And it kind of follows a pattern that I casually
- 17:31Speaker 3: notice scrolling through that auto straddle list, where it seems
- 17:35Speaker 3: like for lesbian and bisexual women who were killed off,
- 17:42Speaker 3: there's also that negative undercurrent of the deceitful h lesbian
- 17:49Speaker 3: and bisexual woman. Usually she's perhaps like cheating on her
- 17:53Speaker 3: husband with a woman and he is then enraged and
- 17:57Speaker 3: kills her. There's a lot of murder jealous lovers go
- 18:01Speaker 3: on as well.
- 18:03Speaker 1: Now, the thing is, though, all of these character deaths
- 18:07Speaker 1: go back way farther, way farther back in time than
- 18:11Speaker 1: Lexa getting killed on the one hundred, and both the
- 18:15Speaker 1: character killings and the audience reactions are tied into a
- 18:19Speaker 1: lot of views about the acceptance honestly of LGBT people
- 18:24Speaker 1: in real life, in reality. And so we are going
- 18:27Speaker 1: to dive into some of that historical representation of LGBT
- 18:31Speaker 1: folks on screen. We come right back from a quick break.
- 18:47Speaker 3: So to put a little historical context on this conversation,
- 18:50Speaker 3: as we like to do here, it's stuff Mom never
- 18:52Speaker 3: told you. We are relying a lot on a book
- 18:55Speaker 3: by Steven Schropiano called The Primetime closet a history of
- 19:00Speaker 3: gays and lesbians on TV, and as it's probably not
- 19:06Speaker 3: surprising as the LGBTQIA community has gotten louder and more
- 19:13Speaker 3: visible offscreen, they've become more fed up with that lackluster
- 19:20Speaker 3: and often discriminatory media representation, which today is mirroring what
- 19:27Speaker 3: happened back in the sixties and seventies, which is when
- 19:30Speaker 3: we see the first lesbians in particular start dying on television.
- 19:36Speaker 1: Yeah, and so if we go back to the nineteen sixties,
- 19:38Speaker 1: basically through the mid sixties, the discussion and representation of
- 19:43Speaker 1: gay people on TV was generally limited to talk shows.
- 19:46Speaker 1: I thought that was interesting. I had never thought about
- 19:50Speaker 1: that really, And that is because you know the same
- 19:55Speaker 1: way that today, on like sixty Minutes or Barbara Walters
- 19:59Speaker 1: or something like that, they might take a social issue
- 20:02Speaker 1: that a lot of people are scared of, like heroin
- 20:04Speaker 1: abuse or opiate overdoses and go dive deep into it
- 20:09Speaker 1: for an hour to address people's fears. The same frickin'
- 20:13Speaker 1: thing was happening with LGBT people back in the day.
- 20:17Speaker 1: So in response to viewers presume concern over gay people,
- 20:22Speaker 1: these talk shows were investigating homosexuality along the same lines
- 20:28Speaker 1: as alcoholism or drug abuse, because, like Kristin was saying,
- 20:33Speaker 1: as the LGBT community is getting bigger, more vocal, more visible,
- 20:38Speaker 1: so is the concern and the homophobia around them. Well,
- 20:43Speaker 1: at this time it was mostly focused toward gaymen because
- 20:46Speaker 1: at the time people were like, what lesbians, that's just
- 20:50Speaker 1: you have some like weird problem where maybe your husband
- 20:54Speaker 1: isn't satisfying you, but game in we're watching you yours.
- 20:58Speaker 3: That's deviant. I would also like quick side note, when
- 21:03Speaker 3: you said talk shows, the first thing I thought of
- 21:05Speaker 3: was like Jerry Springer style talk shows, But I don't
- 21:09Speaker 3: know the Jerry Springer shows not on in the sixties
- 21:11Speaker 3: and seventies, but I would imagine that you would also
- 21:16Speaker 3: see them on daytime talk shows, but more in the
- 21:18Speaker 3: freak show style of look at these you know, she
- 21:22Speaker 3: didn't know her husband was gay? Riting just like again,
- 21:25Speaker 3: being treated as characters rather than people. And in nineteen
- 21:30Speaker 3: sixty seven, Oh Mike Wallace and CBS News produced a
- 21:36Speaker 3: special report on gay people literally called CBS News the Homosexuals.
- 21:46Speaker 1: I mean, it would be funny if it weren't so.
- 21:47Speaker 3: Awful, right, I mean very much a product of its time. Yeah,
- 21:52Speaker 3: but Mike Wallace interviews all these gay men and describes
- 21:57Speaker 3: them as quote the most despised minority gris in the
- 22:00Speaker 3: United States, which, okay, might not be off the mark there,
- 22:04Speaker 3: But then he starts talking to psychoanalysts, and this is
- 22:08Speaker 3: really where the thing just goes right off the side
- 22:12Speaker 3: of the cliff.
- 22:12Speaker 1: Yeah, because one of those psychoanalysts that he talked to
- 22:15Speaker 1: emphasized being gay as a mental illness which has reached
- 22:19Speaker 1: epidemiological proportions. He also indicated that it's a learned behavior
- 22:25Speaker 1: tied with an unnaturally strong tie with the mother, which
- 22:29Speaker 1: disrupts normal gender identity, triggers separation anxiety, and prevents him
- 22:35Speaker 1: from forming heterosexual relationships in adulthood. Oh good, So we're
- 22:40Speaker 1: not quite past Freud yet, we're still very very afraid
- 22:45Speaker 1: of what it means to be gay. But not too
- 22:48Speaker 1: long after that CBS report comes out, you have some
- 22:53Speaker 1: massive cultural shifts going on, because in June nineteen sixty
- 22:56Speaker 1: nine you get the Stonewall Riots, which marks basically the
- 22:59Speaker 1: beginning of the modern vocal gay liberation movement. And that
- 23:04Speaker 1: means more than ever, the community is more visible and
- 23:08Speaker 1: it's a more viable political force.
- 23:10Speaker 3: And quick Stonewall shout out to trans women of color.
- 23:14Speaker 1: Yeah, and so things start falling like dominoes when it
- 23:19Speaker 1: comes to the gay rights movement. In nineteen seventy three,
- 23:22Speaker 1: the American Bar Association passed a resolution supporting the repeal
- 23:25Speaker 1: of statesodomy laws, and just a year later, in seventy four,
- 23:29Speaker 1: homosexuality is finally removed from the American Psychiatric Association's list
- 23:34Speaker 1: of mental disorders. The same year, you get federal anti
- 23:39Speaker 1: gay discrimination bills introduced into the House, and it failed,
- 23:43Speaker 1: but similar measures were passing in cities and counties around
- 23:47Speaker 1: the country.
- 23:48Speaker 3: And all of this is being mirrored on television in
- 23:52Speaker 3: the nineteen seventies where you actually start to see gay
- 23:57Speaker 3: characters on TV medical drama's life like.
- 24:00Speaker 1: The bold Ones Medical Center.
- 24:03Speaker 3: Which I like how it's like, well, you know what
- 24:05Speaker 3: you're getting with that one, and Marcus Welby m D. Yeah.
- 24:11Speaker 1: And I mean, just like we've seen in these in
- 24:13Speaker 1: these trends we've been talking about, in response to the
- 24:17Speaker 1: growing gay rights movement, LGBT characters are starting to get
- 24:21Speaker 1: treated with a more liberal attitude. That's great, right, Yay,
- 24:25Speaker 1: a more liberal attitude. But but we're still scared of them, right,
- 24:29Speaker 1: that that fear and condemnation that sort of pervaded all
- 24:34Speaker 1: of the earlier talk shows and CBS specials was just
- 24:38Speaker 1: replaced with pity, intolerance, not acceptance and treating them like
- 24:43Speaker 1: human people.
- 24:44Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean still there's a there's this old saying
- 24:48Speaker 3: that I remember from my Christian upbringing of love the
- 24:52Speaker 3: sin or hate the sin, and very much that that
- 24:56Speaker 3: kind of mindset with this, well, we accept you, but
- 25:02Speaker 3: not actually really because we think that inside your core
- 25:04Speaker 3: something is broken.
- 25:05Speaker 1: Right, and so on these shows, if it was the
- 25:07Speaker 1: patient who was gay, the sexuality itself was not treated
- 25:13Speaker 1: as a disease, which okay, good, but that so called
- 25:19Speaker 1: or so deemed sexual confusion or homosexual panic was often
- 25:24Speaker 1: part of the plot's medical mystery and linked with some
- 25:27Speaker 1: other condition like diabetes, heart disease, or ulcers. You know
- 25:29Speaker 1: how these medical shows even today always have to have
- 25:32Speaker 1: some like underlying drama driving the plot. It's not just
- 25:37Speaker 1: like she came in with a headache. It's like she
- 25:39Speaker 1: came in with a headache cause she's in the medal
- 25:41Speaker 1: of homosexual panic.
- 25:43Speaker 3: I'm trying to now imagine an episode of house where
- 25:47Speaker 3: it's like, well, it turns out he's gay, that's it.
- 25:53Speaker 1: So in other words, basically, with these plot lines, you
- 25:57Speaker 1: had to resolve the questionable sexual orientation before you could
- 26:01Speaker 1: uncover and treat that underlying medical condition. And of course
- 26:06Speaker 1: being gay was usually linked with a parent and or
- 26:09Speaker 1: just choosing the lifestyle. So, for instance, this one example
- 26:13Speaker 1: that author Stephen Tropiano gives is you have this man
- 26:18Speaker 1: in this one episode on a medical show who he's diabetic,
- 26:21Speaker 1: He's gaining a lot of weight, He's miserable, and so
- 26:23Speaker 1: is his wife. His miserable wife is complaining about how
- 26:26Speaker 1: basically she doesn't get late anymore and she wants to
- 26:28Speaker 1: divorce him. And their son is quiet and withdrawn. So,
- 26:32Speaker 1: like all of these health problems combined with social and
- 26:36Speaker 1: marital and parental problems, what's going on?
- 26:38Speaker 3: Diagnosis gay? Right?
- 26:40Speaker 1: Yeah, Basically, the doctor figures out that this diabetic man
- 26:44Speaker 1: is gay, and the diagnosis, so to speak, basically sends
- 26:48Speaker 1: him into deep depression and he attempts suicide, which, hello,
- 26:53Speaker 1: we already have like a super high rate of LGBT
- 26:57Speaker 1: people in this country being more likely to attempt suicide.
- 27:00Speaker 1: So the character attempts suicide, goes to a shrink. Oh,
- 27:03Speaker 1: but it's a happy end in Christin Oh what happens? Right, Well,
- 27:07Speaker 1: he goes to the shrink and he finds out that
- 27:09Speaker 1: he's not actually gay. It's just his fear of homosexuality
- 27:13Speaker 1: that's at the root of a neurosis.
- 27:15Speaker 3: Oh called internalized homophobia. Right.
- 27:18Speaker 1: Oh, thank god? Right, Like, he's not actually gay, just
- 27:21Speaker 1: hate gay people, and therefore he doesn't have to die. Yeah, exactly.
- 27:27Speaker 3: And if we hop forward across a lot of doctors
- 27:31Speaker 3: and nurse characters at this time who are never really
- 27:35Speaker 3: fully fleshed out, but they might be gay, and they
- 27:36Speaker 3: don't necessarily die, but they're just sort of like sideshow
- 27:40Speaker 3: freaks really.
- 27:40Speaker 1: Right, Like, So if a doctor comes out, it's usually
- 27:43Speaker 1: not going to be a recurring character a doctor nurse.
- 27:45Speaker 1: It's gonna be someone who's in there to stir up
- 27:47Speaker 1: a bit of drama. And because they've stirred up drama,
- 27:50Speaker 1: they're putting either their lives or the patient's life at risks.
- 27:53Speaker 1: So you've got to.
- 27:54Speaker 3: Go, sister, get out of here, Get out of here,
- 27:56Speaker 3: and literally get out of here. One woman did. Okay,
- 28:01Speaker 3: that's a weird way to say that. The character was
- 28:04Speaker 3: killed off. So when we get to nineteen seventy six,
- 28:07Speaker 3: there's a soap opera called Executive Suite, and this is
- 28:13Speaker 3: the origin of the so called dead lesbian syndrome. So
- 28:18Speaker 3: on an episode of Executive Suite, there's this woman Julie
- 28:23Speaker 3: who confesses to another woman, Leona, that hey, Leona, I'm
- 28:28Speaker 3: a lesbian. And Leona's like, oh my god, Julie, I'm
- 28:31Speaker 3: a lesbian too, and I'm very attracted to you. But
- 28:36Speaker 3: they're both like, but diagnosis gay.
- 28:39Speaker 1: This can't be right.
- 28:41Speaker 3: And so Julie gets so upset and she rushes after Leona,
- 28:47Speaker 3: who's just like, you know, trying to I guess see,
- 28:51Speaker 3: trying to run away from her lesbianism. And Julie gets
- 28:54Speaker 3: hit by a truck. And then get this, Julie's husband,
- 29:00Speaker 3: because of course here we go with like the deceitful
- 29:02Speaker 3: sexuality thing. Julie's husband then blames Leona, and Leona has
- 29:07Speaker 3: a nervous breakdown.
- 29:09Speaker 1: Though we only have one dead lesbian here, the other
- 29:12Speaker 1: one is safely tucked away in a some kind of
- 29:15Speaker 1: mental institution. Yeah, so good, we're all safe, right, the lesbians,
- 29:20Speaker 1: we're putting them away. But yeah, that nineteen seventy six.
- 29:25Speaker 1: Executive Suite is always cited as the first time you
- 29:28Speaker 1: start to see lesbian or by or gay characters just
- 29:33Speaker 1: getting killed off as punishment not having to quit their
- 29:36Speaker 1: line of work as a doctor on a show.
- 29:38Speaker 3: And even though old Twitter and snatchits didn't exist, there
- 29:44Speaker 3: was protest. So as gay advocacy groups and activists and
- 29:50Speaker 3: allies started noticing this pattern on television, especially on primetime TV,
- 29:57Speaker 3: they began to stand up against it, especially because primetime
- 30:02Speaker 3: television was critically symbolic in their struggle to gain acceptance
- 30:08Speaker 3: in wider society, because it's like, if you can be
- 30:12Speaker 3: portrayed as an actual human person who's not broken, you
- 30:16Speaker 3: simply like everyone else, possesses sexual orientation of some sort,
- 30:21Speaker 3: then that is a sign of a cultural shift in
- 30:26Speaker 3: a positive direction. And gay activists succeeded in sending a
- 30:31Speaker 3: clear message to television producers and broadcasters and listen, these negative,
- 30:35Speaker 3: malicious stereotypes are not going to be tolerated. So history
- 30:42Speaker 3: is repeating itself really in terms of the activism around it.
- 30:45Speaker 1: Yeah, it seems like the more vocal and this is
- 30:48Speaker 1: not just for LGBT folks, but the more vocal. A
- 30:51Speaker 1: marginalized group is the harder and weirder.
- 30:55Speaker 3: The pushback is from dominant groups, and we aren't going
- 30:59Speaker 3: to get into this. So listeners, if you have insights,
- 31:03Speaker 3: please share them with us. But I'm now curious, since
- 31:07Speaker 3: this was going on in the seventies and gay advocacy
- 31:12Speaker 3: groups were making headway, what impact then the AIDS crisis
- 31:18Speaker 3: had on all of it this. If it stalled it,
- 31:20Speaker 3: if it pushed it back.
- 31:22Speaker 1: Well, I think that would play into and please, I
- 31:26Speaker 1: do want to hear from listeners, but I think that
- 31:27Speaker 1: would play into the pity the gay person. Don't fear
- 31:32Speaker 1: the gay person or condemn the gay person as much,
- 31:35Speaker 1: at least as it played out on TV or in
- 31:37Speaker 1: mini series or things like that.
- 31:39Speaker 3: But here's the thing, Caroline. Straight characters are killed off
- 31:43Speaker 3: all of the time.
- 31:44Speaker 1: It's true.
- 31:45Speaker 3: What's wrong with that?
- 31:47Speaker 5: We're going to talk about that when we get right
- 31:49Speaker 5: back from a quick break.
- 32:03Speaker 3: So in the words with Jerry Seinfeld seenefeld As, I
- 32:07Speaker 3: like to call what's the deal with the with straight
- 32:11Speaker 3: characters dying? And we're not calling it the barrier straight strope.
- 32:16Speaker 3: I'm playing like an and culturish Devil's advocate right now,
- 32:20Speaker 3: and I really don't like it.
- 32:23Speaker 1: Well, Reese over at Auto Straddle puts it really well,
- 32:27Speaker 1: so I will quote her. Reese says, we comprise such
- 32:30Speaker 1: a teeny tiny fraction of characters on television to begin with,
- 32:34Speaker 1: that killing us off so haphazardly feels especially cruel.
- 32:38Speaker 3: And this is.
- 32:38Speaker 1: Something that Dorothy Snarker love your last Name dot echoes
- 32:43Speaker 1: over at Hollywood Reporter. She says, it's not that lesbian
- 32:46Speaker 1: and bisexual characters shouldn't ever die on screen, far from it,
- 32:50Speaker 1: but currently our tragic endings are shown at an inordinately
- 32:54Speaker 1: higher rate than our happy one.
- 32:56Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean painting. And this was something too that
- 32:59Speaker 3: snake you think a lot of. Raquel willis in our
- 33:02Speaker 3: conversation with her about trans characters on television in particular,
- 33:07Speaker 3: and just her desire and that we share with her
- 33:11Speaker 3: to see portrayals of trans people who aren't tragic, who
- 33:17Speaker 3: can fall in love, who can live a life like
- 33:22Speaker 3: everyone else you know, and just be characters rather than
- 33:27Speaker 3: having to be the tragic other. And you also have
- 33:31Speaker 3: to keep in mind statistically just the disproportionate rate of
- 33:36Speaker 3: these kinds of characters being killed off. If you look
- 33:40Speaker 3: if you compare to population wise, not only of their
- 33:43Speaker 3: representation on screen, but also more broadly.
- 33:47Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean LGBT characters are super underrepresented on TV,
- 33:52Speaker 1: but their deaths are overrepresented. And so basically, if one
- 33:55Speaker 1: straight character is killed, there's still going to be a
- 33:57Speaker 1: whole mess of other straight characters left. It's a whole
- 34:00Speaker 1: mess of a whole mess of them, and this show's
- 34:02Speaker 1: lousy with them. But if a gay character is killed,
- 34:06Speaker 1: it's not like there's going to be so many other
- 34:09Speaker 1: LGBT characters in the wings to I don't want to
- 34:13Speaker 1: say cushion the blow, but like it. It's it's a
- 34:18Speaker 1: harder hit basically character wise, if like your one gay
- 34:21Speaker 1: character or you're like two gay characters are killed off.
- 34:24Speaker 3: And chances are that's not even going to be a
- 34:26Speaker 3: lead character, so you don't even have a fully fleshed
- 34:29Speaker 3: out like person there.
- 34:31Speaker 1: They might just begin wrapping up the storyline.
- 34:33Speaker 3: Yeah, and Vox tallied up all of the deaths, all
- 34:38Speaker 3: the TV deaths from seventy six to twenty sixteen, and
- 34:43Speaker 3: they were focusing on American television because they noticed especially
- 34:50Speaker 3: with and they really do tie it to spoiler Ned
- 34:54Speaker 3: Stark's death on Game of Thrones, starting this trend of
- 35:01Speaker 3: a lot of death on television. Yeah, so for an
- 35:04Speaker 3: idea of just how deathly TV has become, so Vox
- 35:09Speaker 3: crunched the numbers and found that two hundred and forty
- 35:13Speaker 3: two characters of all characters on TV died between the
- 35:18Speaker 3: fall twenty fifteen and spring twenty sixteen television seasons, and
- 35:22Speaker 3: that about ten percent of those were LGBTQ women.
- 35:27Speaker 1: Interesting. Yeah, I mean, we do love statistics here, so
- 35:30Speaker 1: I have some more for you. Auto Straddle also crunched
- 35:33Speaker 1: them numbers and posted this fabulous infographic that looked at
- 35:37Speaker 1: LGBTQ characters deaths between nineteen seventy six and twenty sixteen.
- 35:45Speaker 1: They said that there were more than fifteen hundred shows
- 35:48Speaker 1: with straight characters and just one hundred and ninety three
- 35:52Speaker 1: featuring lesbian or by characters, which is about eleven percent.
- 35:57Speaker 1: Of those one hundred and ninety three shows, six eight
- 36:00Speaker 1: had dead lesbians, and about half of those were shows
- 36:03Speaker 1: where anyone can die, like a Game of Thrones. And again,
- 36:08Speaker 1: of the one hundred and ninety three lesbian featuring shows,
- 36:10Speaker 1: just sixteen percent had happy endings for lesbian and by characters.
- 36:14Speaker 1: And the thing that is emphasized over and over again
- 36:18Speaker 1: is that, ay, this is not great. Why are we
- 36:21Speaker 1: over representing gay character's deaths. Well, we just talked a
- 36:24Speaker 1: lot about it. But also this negative representation is reinforcing
- 36:28Speaker 1: a lot of cultural bs that is happening right now,
- 36:31Speaker 1: because we all want to see ourselves represented positively in media,
- 36:35Speaker 1: right and when LGBTQ kids or adults for that matter,
- 36:40Speaker 1: only see themselves as tools facing imminent demise, as Snarker writes,
- 36:45Speaker 1: death sadness and despair can seem like a self fulfilling prophecy.
- 36:50Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's if you even see a gay character
- 36:55Speaker 3: on television. Glad studies this every year and keeps tallies
- 36:59Speaker 3: and in twenty fifteen, out of eight hundred and eighty
- 37:06Speaker 3: one regular roles on broadcast TV, only four percent or
- 37:11Speaker 3: thirty five of them belonged to LGBTQ characters. So, first
- 37:18Speaker 3: of all, you're not even seeing them, but then when
- 37:20Speaker 3: you are, you're seeing them meet tragedy. And in the
- 37:24Speaker 3: context of our offscreen wave of anti LGBTQ sentiment and
- 37:31Speaker 3: legislation like the whole bathroom bill issue that is now
- 37:36Speaker 3: made its way up to the Supreme court, and the
- 37:40Speaker 3: fact that you can still be fired for your sexual
- 37:43Speaker 3: orientation in most states, and also on top of that,
- 37:46Speaker 3: issues like the super high unemployment rate among trans individuals,
- 37:51Speaker 3: the homelessness rate among LGBTQ youth, bullying, and links to
- 37:58Speaker 3: attempted suicide and drug abuse, like it's it's not offering
- 38:04Speaker 3: very much, hope. You know that's not exactly. You know,
- 38:07Speaker 3: we watch TV a lot of times as an escape, right,
- 38:10Speaker 3: but that's not an escape, yeah, just a reinforcement.
- 38:14Speaker 1: And I mean tropes are tropes for a reason, right.
- 38:17Speaker 1: They exist as tropes because they happen so often, and
- 38:21Speaker 1: they are props for storylines that are used so often
- 38:25Speaker 1: that you can spot them, and they are coded in
- 38:27Speaker 1: a certain way so you know what is happening and
- 38:29Speaker 1: why something is happening. And to me, like, we can
- 38:33Speaker 1: live a lay for a bit, because otherwise it's clearly
- 38:36Speaker 1: just becoming lazy storytelling. At some point now it's already
- 38:40Speaker 1: become lazy storytelling. And so that's why it's so interesting
- 38:43Speaker 1: to study storylines that take this dead lesbian syndrome trope
- 38:49Speaker 1: or this barrier gaze trope and put a different bend
- 38:54Speaker 1: in the storyline so that it is tragic when a
- 38:58Speaker 1: character dies, when a queer character dies, when a character
- 39:01Speaker 1: of color dies, but that it doesn't have to be
- 39:06Speaker 1: meaninglessly tragic.
- 39:08Speaker 3: And an example of that and major spoiler alert to
- 39:13Speaker 3: Orange is the New Black. Fans who are not caught
- 39:16Speaker 3: up on the show, skip ahead or just listen to
- 39:20Speaker 3: another episode, because this is a big one. So in
- 39:26Speaker 3: the latest season finale, Cohouse is tragically and senselessly killed
- 39:34Speaker 3: during a peaceful protest at the prison where the show
- 39:39Speaker 3: takes place.
- 39:40Speaker 1: Yeah, and as you can imagine, people freaked out. I know,
- 39:43Speaker 1: she was one of my faves. She was probably my favorite.
- 39:48Speaker 1: She was a great character.
- 39:50Speaker 3: Her relationship with Tasty.
- 39:52Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, she's a great character on TV, but also
- 39:55Speaker 1: a great depiction of just just a kind like I've
- 40:00Speaker 1: if you were in real life, I would want to
- 40:01Speaker 1: be friends with you. And you can imagine that people
- 40:05Speaker 1: freaked out, not just because she was such a beloved character,
- 40:07Speaker 1: but here she has a queer character of color. And
- 40:10Speaker 1: Catherine Van Aaron donc another great name over at Vulture
- 40:13Speaker 1: in June twenty sixteen, really kind of investigated Poussey's death
- 40:18Speaker 1: from the perspective of all of the anger that fans
- 40:22Speaker 1: were feeling, especially through the lens of the Barrier Gays trope,
- 40:26Speaker 1: like why do we have to kill off yet another
- 40:29Speaker 1: queer female character, and Van Aaron Donc basically comes to
- 40:34Speaker 1: the conclusion through her piece of like, well, this isn't
- 40:38Speaker 1: the same thing really as Barrier Gaze. Pousey's death was
- 40:43Speaker 1: not simply there to prop up a straight white character storyline,
- 40:48Speaker 1: even though a white character is technically the quote unquote lead.
- 40:50Speaker 3: Of that show. Yeah, if she had like taken a
- 40:52Speaker 3: bullet for Piper or something, we would be having a
- 40:55Speaker 3: different conversation.
- 40:56Speaker 1: Right, But Poussey is not the only queer character on
- 40:59Speaker 1: the show, the only queer character of color on the show,
- 41:02Speaker 1: And she wasn't killed because she was a queer woman.
- 41:05Speaker 3: Yeah, And clearly, her being senselessly killed by hired law
- 41:12Speaker 3: enforcement in the case of the prison, by these correctional
- 41:17Speaker 3: officers mirrors what is happening offscreen with police brutality and
- 41:26Speaker 3: black lives matter, And the entire episode became really a
- 41:32Speaker 3: eulogy to.
- 41:34Speaker 1: Pousse Yeah, and a eulogy for the black people in
- 41:38Speaker 1: this country who have been gunned down by police. And
- 41:42Speaker 1: it's also a commentary on our prison system, our justice system.
- 41:46Speaker 1: The fact that someone who was so beloved, a character
- 41:49Speaker 1: who was so beloved by the other characters but also
- 41:52Speaker 1: the audience could just be wiped off the face of
- 41:56Speaker 1: the earth in just a moment like that, in a
- 41:59Speaker 1: moment that they were trying to restrain her and they
- 42:02Speaker 1: accidentally killed her. It is senseless, but it has so
- 42:07Speaker 1: much meaning and it was monumental for the show and
- 42:10Speaker 1: for the other characters. It wasn't treated as just like.
- 42:13Speaker 3: And now the storyline progressive, right, and now a joke
- 42:16Speaker 3: from Pensentucky right.
- 42:19Speaker 1: And of course another show and again massive spoiler alert,
- 42:23Speaker 1: but another show that really does kind of an interesting
- 42:26Speaker 1: take on the traditional barrier gaze trope is Black Mirror.
- 42:31Speaker 1: They're all standalone episodes, and the episode titled San Junipero
- 42:36Speaker 1: features two queer women characters who fall in love. So
- 42:42Speaker 1: you imagine, like, well, tragedies right around the corner, and
- 42:47Speaker 1: it kind of is, but there's a happy ending.
- 42:50Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they did. They pulled this off lawlessly. I thought,
- 42:53Speaker 3: I loved the episode. How do we even describe it?
- 42:57Speaker 3: It's such a I don't I want listen to watch it,
- 43:01Speaker 3: because it really is a beautiful episode and very Unblack
- 43:04Speaker 3: Mirror in its in its happy ending spoiler alert, but
- 43:10Speaker 3: it doesn't. While Yorky one of the characters, we know
- 43:16Speaker 3: that her family was not accepting of her being a lesbian,
- 43:21Speaker 3: and that when she came out she left the house
- 43:26Speaker 3: I believe, and was in a terrible car accident the
- 43:28Speaker 3: paralyzed her. So you do have like that element of punishment.
- 43:33Speaker 3: But when it comes to their love story, it's really
- 43:36Speaker 3: pure and beautiful.
- 43:37Speaker 1: You know, it's too It's it's fun to watch because
- 43:41Speaker 1: it's two young women being so giddy in their love
- 43:45Speaker 1: for each other, and there's drama, and there's conflict and
- 43:48Speaker 1: should I should we do? I love you?
- 43:50Speaker 5: Do I not?
- 43:51Speaker 2: Do?
- 43:51Speaker 1: I want to be with you? And they do get
- 43:54Speaker 1: to be together. But here's the twist. So again spoiler
- 43:57Speaker 1: like if you're still listening to Eylther, But the whole
- 44:00Speaker 1: thing is this exists in the future, and in the future,
- 44:04Speaker 1: when you die, you have the opportunity to basically be
- 44:07Speaker 1: uploaded to some spirit cloud. Basically Apple is our overlord,
- 44:14Speaker 1: and it is through this program that these two women
- 44:19Speaker 1: who would not have otherwise been able to even meet
- 44:22Speaker 1: or be together, got to not only meet and not
- 44:27Speaker 1: only fall in love and be giddy and have great sex.
- 44:30Speaker 1: But they got to go off into the sunset in
- 44:33Speaker 1: a jeep wrangler and live happily ever after together. So yes,
- 44:36Speaker 1: is their punishment? Is there the acknowledgment of life not
- 44:40Speaker 1: being not easy for queer people? Yes, but through death
- 44:47Speaker 1: they get to live together forever.
- 44:50Speaker 3: And also the fact that we have Kelly who is
- 44:56Speaker 3: proudly and openly bisexual, and she a woman of color,
- 45:01Speaker 3: and her character also was married and had a child,
- 45:06Speaker 3: and her husband and a daughter had both since died
- 45:10Speaker 3: and chose not to go to the cloud, chose not
- 45:16Speaker 3: to go to the Steve Jobs heaven. So that too,
- 45:21Speaker 3: is a pretty revolutionary depiction that you rarely see on television.
- 45:27Speaker 3: So I thought that they handled it swimmingly. And this
- 45:32Speaker 3: was certainly a fine example of queer people dying on
- 45:36Speaker 3: a show, but the death being.
- 45:39Speaker 1: Joyful, Yeah, and it being just the beginning. They get
- 45:43Speaker 1: to have their their happy ending together.
- 45:45Speaker 3: And there's been this thing called the Lexa Pledge that
- 45:50Speaker 3: some creators developed in the wake of fan protest over
- 45:56Speaker 3: Lex's death in the one hundred that has sparked more
- 46:01Speaker 3: conversations about showrunner responsibility for how they depict gay characters,
- 46:06Speaker 3: because there is that line between not wanting to stifle
- 46:09Speaker 3: the creative process, but also understanding that as a creator,
- 46:14Speaker 3: you have a responsibility to your audience and if you
- 46:17Speaker 3: care about the impact of your media that you're making
- 46:20Speaker 3: on the world at large, then it's something that you
- 46:25Speaker 3: absolutely need to consider. So I'll be really curious and
- 46:30Speaker 3: I'm hopeful to see whether this barrier gaze trope dies,
- 46:35Speaker 3: whether we can bury it.