Latest / The Baller Alert Show / Episode 63"The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Prod: iHandlebars
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- 0:02Speaker 1: The tree is real, it's about to go down. Wake up,
- 0:10Speaker 1: wake up and turn it down. You know, if you're
- 0:15Speaker 1: gonna shoot, you better shoot straight, because so who did?
- 0:17Speaker 1: I don't lose the worst thing you can deal with tracts.
- 0:19Speaker 1: Welcome to the Faller Alert Show featuring your lifestyle specialist
- 0:23Speaker 1: Hitty Burns and Ferrari Simmons. The trees my water because
- 0:32Speaker 1: it's poling in hers poling in my throat. What's wrong
- 0:35Speaker 1: with this poling out here? It's a lot of pollen.
- 0:37Speaker 1: Because you're like styles Jenny by Ferry Simmons, your favorite
- 0:40Speaker 1: Ethiopian Sue Solo. Happy birthday, the birthday baby, and shout
- 0:48Speaker 1: out to all the areas old. Your age today for
- 0:54Speaker 1: the cupcakes are literally crazy? Can you want to put
- 0:56Speaker 1: her age on the cupcakes? I'm like, oh, you're right
- 0:58Speaker 1: at this point though, but you're younger than all of us.
- 1:02Speaker 1: On the one thing I've learned, I have three sisters.
- 1:04Speaker 1: I'm not ashamed of my age though, I know, but
- 1:06Speaker 1: once a woman turns older than she doesn't discuss, she
- 1:10Speaker 1: doesn't want to talk about the numbers. Get I enjoyed
- 1:14Speaker 1: this number. I was just trying to do a whole
- 1:17Speaker 1: little presentation into presentation. That a color that you're wearing
- 1:20Speaker 1: your lips. No, it's like a nude. No, you know
- 1:24Speaker 1: what it was. What's she trying to say about my
- 1:29Speaker 1: baby lips? I didn't say anything, you did. What do
- 1:32Speaker 1: they look like? Are they like dark or kind of
- 1:34Speaker 1: like new dish? It just looks like like a mat Okay, Oh,
- 1:42Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe so it might be foundation. You
- 1:44Speaker 1: don't know how we get foundation? How much the birthday weekend?
- 1:46Speaker 1: Baby talk to us, give us, to give us. Oh
- 1:48Speaker 1: my god, was amazing the people that I see, the
- 1:55Speaker 1: people that I did see, I mean, O MG, is
- 1:58Speaker 1: so amazing. Barcy shout out to Oh my god. There
- 2:03Speaker 1: were so many people. Obviously RRI DJ at the brunch.
- 2:06Speaker 1: All of my girlfriends came to surprise. I'm gonna start
- 2:10Speaker 1: from Friday. Let me start, let me go on order
- 2:12Speaker 1: because I really let me start from Friday. Start from Friday.
- 2:17Speaker 1: We're talking about my birthday weekend. Let me start from Friday.
- 2:20Speaker 1: So Friday at the radio station at Street for five
- 2:23Speaker 1: with R and d C. Monday through Friday six and
- 2:26Speaker 1: ten pm. I'm on at the seven pm hour. Okay,
- 2:28Speaker 1: tune in, I'm at and you know, I'm just like,
- 2:33Speaker 1: we're in between breaks and I'm just like in my
- 2:35Speaker 1: phone chilling. Next thing, you know what, this guy walks
- 2:37Speaker 1: in with like these big bags and like all these shoes,
- 2:40Speaker 1: and I'm like, what's going on? And Rari and DC
- 2:43Speaker 1: are like, pick one, and so we take these shoes out.
- 2:46Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you the video season so you can
- 2:47Speaker 1: put that on screen. Put all these shoes out, and
- 2:51Speaker 1: I was just like, oh my, I was so overwhelmed.
- 2:54Speaker 1: And obviously my eyes immediately went to the easiest because
- 2:56Speaker 1: I just told my friend Corey earlier that day that
- 2:59Speaker 1: I wanted the easiest and then they appeared absolutely seven
- 3:03Speaker 1: hundred first release. So I picked those and before I
- 3:07Speaker 1: even pick I got surprised by my friends. All my
- 3:10Speaker 1: friends pop up at the radio station like Tara Elise
- 3:14Speaker 1: Um call like friends friends like it was insane. Um.
- 3:19Speaker 1: So I picked a pair. So happy and then yeah,
- 3:23Speaker 1: so I picked a pair, and then one of the
- 3:24Speaker 1: girls was like, get the other ones, get the other ones.
- 3:26Speaker 1: I was like, why don't get those two? And they
- 3:29Speaker 1: were like, you want those two? Get them? I was
- 3:31Speaker 1: like okay, So yes, I was gifted with two pairs
- 3:34Speaker 1: and oh that's so I appreciate that. And then they
- 3:41Speaker 1: were they were not like literally we walked out and
- 3:45Speaker 1: they were like, suit, do you know how much money
- 3:47Speaker 1: they spent on those shoes for you? I was like,
- 3:48Speaker 1: what they say? How much? Was it? The girl about three? Oh?
- 3:57Speaker 1: That was awesome. I appreciate honestly. It was beautiful the show. Yeah,
- 4:03Speaker 1: she's been working on your show. We yes, we had cupcakes.
- 4:08Speaker 1: Friday night. I was at eleven forty five and like
- 4:10Speaker 1: we just turned up. Shout out to the Leaf and
- 4:12Speaker 1: the Saturday run. Oh my god. The brunch at Atlantis
- 4:19Speaker 1: was so everybody showed up, like body showed up. All
- 4:23Speaker 1: these people shot up for me. It was so much love.
- 4:25Speaker 1: Shout out to DJ wil Rees Geronimo, like they are
- 4:28Speaker 1: my regular DJs, Absolutely love them. And Ry was a
- 4:31Speaker 1: great addition. He had a whole little like Sue solo
- 4:33Speaker 1: set with the African music vibes. It was It was
- 4:38Speaker 1: dangerous because everybody, like I said, first of all, actually
- 4:42Speaker 1: like if I could find a video of what was
- 4:44Speaker 1: going on on the stage behind for Rry Simmons, it
- 4:47Speaker 1: was some freak nasty. It was like when you used
- 4:54Speaker 1: to always be like touch yourself and the women. It was.
- 4:58Speaker 1: It was that, but then other people was touching on
- 5:00Speaker 1: them too. It was a lot of and the Saturday,
- 5:04Speaker 1: the finale, I was at ACE Lounge with UM with
- 5:07Speaker 1: R Jane. It was kind of weird, like not being
- 5:10Speaker 1: at Compound because it's like the first long not being
- 5:15Speaker 1: at Compound. But I had a last at Ace. UM
- 5:19Speaker 1: tried Beckham came out and he performed the birthday Bitch song.
- 5:23Speaker 1: Comment on one of those pictures like I had have
- 5:25Speaker 1: a shot makeup artists all weekend. I had Salem on
- 5:28Speaker 1: Friday and Messy on Saturday, air tree and in Ethiopian.
- 5:31Speaker 1: So that was super bommed to be able to just like, yeah, man,
- 5:34Speaker 1: I had an amazing birthday. So I loved I hit
- 5:36Speaker 1: her with a little I was like, I just love
- 5:37Speaker 1: how you coming into your city really embraced her. Over
- 5:41Speaker 1: the weekend, I was paying attention to everything and people
- 5:43Speaker 1: came out for so that was it was really cool.
- 5:46Speaker 1: I had a blast you guys. Octavia Honey, let me
- 5:49Speaker 1: tell you because I know she very hip hop as
- 5:56Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You know, she let me
- 5:59Speaker 1: tell she was a vibe. Kenny Barrow, she is a vibe.
- 6:03Speaker 1: The only actually everyone when you see us, some for you.
- 6:05Speaker 1: I know you're busy. Yeah, it's fine, it's fine, it's fine.
- 6:12Speaker 1: But she she's a vibe. Octavia's a vibe. Like I
- 6:15Speaker 1: literally was just like just rocking with her. I was like, ahead,
- 6:19Speaker 1: vibe Saturday. I feel bad Now it's cool. It's family. Listen,
- 6:26Speaker 1: you have family business attend to And speaking of prompt
- 6:29Speaker 1: they looked like, amazing, thank you for the whole Creol's amazing,
- 6:32Speaker 1: thank you. We'll get into my weekend show. It was
- 6:35Speaker 1: just straight turned up. A little r is allergies about
- 6:38Speaker 1: from all his damn pollen. That's happening to my niece
- 6:42Speaker 1: and Seattle. Yeah, I think swall. I feel like they
- 6:46Speaker 1: are like up here. Do they look a little like
- 6:50Speaker 1: he's sleepy? Yeah? The problem any plays sports and he
- 6:53Speaker 1: was playing baseball, so the ball Jane tomorrow man. But
- 6:58Speaker 1: outside of that, everything was cool. Can we talk about
- 7:00Speaker 1: the picture on your phone? That was no, no, no, no,
- 7:03Speaker 1: that's cool. That's cool. I'm gonna leave that off. That's
- 7:06Speaker 1: love when you accidently take put on the screen. All
- 7:10Speaker 1: right off. The birthday coming up, She's aries like love
- 7:14Speaker 1: aries man, San Diego, and we're gonna go to a
- 7:17Speaker 1: new beach. Hey wait, hold up, it's a new beach
- 7:22Speaker 1: in San Diego. You heard it first from me. Of course,
- 7:24Speaker 1: there's a new beach and sandy. Wow. Interesting to y'all.
- 7:27Speaker 1: A whole lot of you're gonna participate, y' go naked? Yeah? Okay,
- 7:36Speaker 1: all right? On the prom his girlfriend went to Prome
- 7:41Speaker 1: this weekend. Put that on the spring man, have WiFi
- 7:46Speaker 1: on this new beach. Okay, right now, now I mentioned
- 7:50Speaker 1: I apologize my young my oldest son went to prom,
- 7:54Speaker 1: and I have to say it was a whole thing,
- 7:56Speaker 1: like it was a whole range of emotions. So seeing
- 8:00Speaker 1: how he just put his whole swag together. He wanted
- 8:03Speaker 1: these guccy shoes and no sign and I was like,
- 8:06Speaker 1: you're sure you want those? Whyn't you get some slippers?
- 8:08Speaker 1: You know, I'm trying to put him onto some Yeah.
- 8:09Speaker 1: I mean he said, no, not that, trust me, trust
- 8:11Speaker 1: do the sneak of things. Yeah, he did it. Man.
- 8:14Speaker 1: I just had to send him a text. I I
- 8:15Speaker 1: couldn't stay long obviously, waiting for the pictures, and got
- 8:19Speaker 1: all the pictures in and I rushed to the airport
- 8:21Speaker 1: because I hosted in Oakland that night. But when I
- 8:23Speaker 1: was on the way to the airport, was texting him
- 8:24Speaker 1: like Yo, like I really admire you and your style, man,
- 8:28Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying. You got your own
- 8:29Speaker 1: you know what I mean. A big shout the little kinny.
- 8:31Speaker 1: Uh he went to Prime, went to Oakland. Yeah, I
- 8:33Speaker 1: must say, um, Oakland's lives as a motheruck man. I'm
- 8:38Speaker 1: big shout to Chris Dope and the team out there.
- 8:40Speaker 1: They had this ninth year anniversary um for Leege and
- 8:44Speaker 1: Leads is a bar owned by Chris and he's a
- 8:46Speaker 1: dope DJ. He comes to essence, he comes, you know,
- 8:49Speaker 1: every every every time I'm in the big places for
- 8:51Speaker 1: All Star whatever, he's around. So Chris. But it was
- 8:54Speaker 1: amazing nine years in downtown Oakland, which is up eating
- 8:57Speaker 1: itself obviously because you know, all black everything ain't always
- 9:01Speaker 1: shafted everywhere, you know, Tom for somebody last nine years
- 9:04Speaker 1: almost a decade, that's in the conference. So yeah, I
- 9:07Speaker 1: got back yesterday. My recovery time it's not the same, y'all.
- 9:11Speaker 1: I don't I got pride. I did over there, you know,
- 9:15Speaker 1: and I didn't have no hangover, but I just my
- 9:17Speaker 1: body was tied. Yeah, I mean I was jumping on
- 9:20Speaker 1: balls and ship and jumping all around and didn't this time.
- 9:23Speaker 1: I didn't not fall that that was one time ever,
- 9:25Speaker 1: so you don't want to see where we get. This
- 9:28Speaker 1: is where your little sister let you. I failed one
- 9:30Speaker 1: time at the pocket four as a classic moment, one
- 9:34Speaker 1: time falling at one point in time and the way
- 9:37Speaker 1: Mark Bars got the club set up, but just not
- 9:40Speaker 1: conducive for me to stay in that one little section
- 9:42Speaker 1: for three hours. And I don't know how you did
- 9:43Speaker 1: it for the fora and I did only followed one time.
- 9:46Speaker 1: You are you are at the park in d C.
- 9:49Speaker 1: How long come out? Never forget that I'm d yeah
- 9:54Speaker 1: at the career. So yeah, but I thank you for
- 9:58Speaker 1: I can't stay in your gass, no cupcakes? Can the
- 10:00Speaker 1: cocakes back? In case you missed it, just the friend
- 10:07Speaker 1: of up you took me back and it made me
- 10:09Speaker 1: feel like I fall off things I didn't fall off.
- 10:11Speaker 1: Listens fall? Did he fail through the door? Hard? Yeah?
- 10:19Speaker 1: Back with the cold. I gotta ask you all the question,
- 10:27Speaker 1: Bolling Nation, did you see us? I haven't seen it yet.
- 10:32Speaker 1: I don't like movies, and I do plan to watch it.
- 10:34Speaker 1: I'm going to see it. Today. I apologize I had
- 10:37Speaker 1: too much going on this weekend. But did y'all see
- 10:39Speaker 1: the video that we posted by Kendre ko Oh? Yes,
- 10:43Speaker 1: so you see it? Do you see it put on screen?
- 10:46Speaker 1: Let let's let's see that. If they missed that, dope,
- 10:50Speaker 1: it's ship. They were going out the thing you know
- 10:52Speaker 1: I'm talking about as a family was scared, Oh my
- 10:55Speaker 1: god that Then they got in the parking lot, they
- 10:57Speaker 1: reenacted basically part of us right, and they had this
- 11:01Speaker 1: dance thing. I got five A. It was appropriate. Obviously,
- 11:05Speaker 1: I'm just coming from Oakland, but no, I thought that
- 11:06Speaker 1: was amazing. Um. Also, bail Alert would like to shout
- 11:09Speaker 1: out Davidoi is it David said? As he said on
- 11:17Speaker 1: Cool However, okay David, Okay. So David Oh has a
- 11:25Speaker 1: new single, fall Out, and is doing amazing and states
- 11:27Speaker 1: obviously we've been playing a lot of his records, you know,
- 11:31Speaker 1: in the club already before fall got you know, UM
- 11:34Speaker 1: released the radio. But I want to say this, I
- 11:37Speaker 1: signed a calm. I think Darvado has the legs to
- 11:41Speaker 1: really do that, you know what I'm saying. I think
- 11:43Speaker 1: he really had if Pete came because he wanted to
- 11:45Speaker 1: do stuff here in the state from my understanding, and
- 11:47Speaker 1: then it didn't work out fast enough when he went
- 11:49Speaker 1: home and it blew up himself and when he personally
- 11:53Speaker 1: enjoys and that's when his career actually took off, was
- 11:56Speaker 1: when he became comfortable being himself and seeing the reception.
- 11:59Speaker 1: You gotta live last night, big shot to uh my
- 12:01Speaker 1: Garden hedline. I want him to do the album. I
- 12:03Speaker 1: want him to do that the States, but you know,
- 12:06Speaker 1: I mean, I want him to do an American album.
- 12:08Speaker 1: The thing was America had to be ready for it,
- 12:10Speaker 1: because if you think of how impactful African music is
- 12:13Speaker 1: even in nightlife, and how little media coverage they're getting,
- 12:16Speaker 1: like we're just now seeing them like him even on
- 12:19Speaker 1: Bailer Alert, just now getting booked at these big clubs,
- 12:22Speaker 1: like this music has been in the club for a
- 12:26Speaker 1: little bit now quite a bit into them for them,
- 12:29Speaker 1: and just not beginning this media coverage is amazing to me.
- 12:32Speaker 1: This is one of the best international crossovers I think
- 12:36Speaker 1: that I've been able to see since I've been able
- 12:38Speaker 1: to pay attention to music year a year, a couple
- 12:42Speaker 1: of years, a couple of months. Over that. Yeah, insane, insane.
- 12:46Speaker 1: He deserves it, and he didn't have the tone. I
- 12:48Speaker 1: think the thing that attracted me when I sag an
- 12:50Speaker 1: incind with the tone, and I think Doodo has that
- 12:53Speaker 1: rust raspy tone and obviously he can sing and rap.
- 12:57Speaker 1: So I wanna, I wanna. I want to see that
- 12:59Speaker 1: album forward to the album. R Kelly trying to plead
- 13:01Speaker 1: the country or no, y'all, I'm just I'm asking of shots.
- 13:05Speaker 1: If you're trying to go somewhere apparently supposed to be
- 13:09Speaker 1: being booked by the royal family over there, and to
- 13:11Speaker 1: buy three days they We're like, no, no, no, we
- 13:15Speaker 1: didn't know. We did not come back. If he leaves,
- 13:17Speaker 1: he not coming. I swear to God, I was gonna
- 13:19Speaker 1: say the same thing and he stay, He'll stay in
- 13:21Speaker 1: to buy too. I wouldn't want to stay in buy.
- 13:24Speaker 1: I really think he's trying to get up out of here.
- 13:26Speaker 1: What I will say is if he goes anywhere in
- 13:28Speaker 1: the Middle East or Africa and continues the same lifestyle,
- 13:33Speaker 1: he's not going to make it like but I mean,
- 13:39Speaker 1: but there their street justice. Having four wives has nothing
- 13:43Speaker 1: to do with what R Kelly does to people that
- 13:46Speaker 1: do not want to engage in the activities he's making
- 13:50Speaker 1: them and gage. All I'm saying is has nothing to
- 13:52Speaker 1: do with being with thirteen and fourteen year old little girls.
- 13:56Speaker 1: There's real street justice in Africa and in the don't
- 14:00Speaker 1: use the guy. But if he gets booked, he ain't
- 14:02Speaker 1: coming back. If he's not, but he's not gonna come
- 14:06Speaker 1: back either way, whether he stays or he stays. I
- 14:09Speaker 1: wish she going on to get some of the African
- 14:11Speaker 1: street justice. Lazy and gem Thirty six year old Mark
- 14:14Speaker 1: gold Man's who kicked that seven year old lady seven
- 14:17Speaker 1: year old lady on actually unstable as well. He got
- 14:20Speaker 1: locked up. They're gonna hurt that. Yeah, they should break
- 14:24Speaker 1: his every limb on his body for kicking the old
- 14:26Speaker 1: Did you see that? And how he saw? One time?
- 14:29Speaker 1: I got mad? Can I ask you a question? Though?
- 14:31Speaker 1: It's just like the white guy in Dallas who punched
- 14:33Speaker 1: the girl like I'm trying to knock her face off
- 14:36Speaker 1: and people are taping. How do you tape and not
- 14:39Speaker 1: do nothing? Everybody wanna put everybody wanta put it on
- 14:42Speaker 1: social media now. But if my thing is like how
- 14:45Speaker 1: don't you like my first reaction is to help? I'm sorry?
- 14:48Speaker 1: Like how trust me? I understand that that is it's
- 14:52Speaker 1: disgusting to see the lack of compassion is is sickening, Like,
- 14:57Speaker 1: it's just sick. I don't I don't w harm and
- 15:01Speaker 1: death on people. I mean, that's just not my thing.
- 15:03Speaker 1: But at the same time, I do do believe in justice,
- 15:07Speaker 1: in the right justice. Sometimes it ain't legal. Okay, great?
- 15:10Speaker 1: Um for real? Chanelle, y'all, for real has a collection
- 15:13Speaker 1: coming out with Chanelle. Are you excited like the way
- 15:15Speaker 1: that sounds for real? Chanel? Yeah, that sounds really dope.
- 15:19Speaker 1: But he got some stuff for dude, did you see
- 15:20Speaker 1: it was actually really I think I think maybe his
- 15:25Speaker 1: collection might change some people's minds. I gotta have the
- 15:27Speaker 1: sweatshirt and the sneakers. I don't know about the big
- 15:30Speaker 1: hobo bags. That's mobile woman thing, but yeah, I think
- 15:33Speaker 1: I saw a roll and some slippers. I mean, here's
- 15:34Speaker 1: a couple different. There's a lot of man getting into
- 15:36Speaker 1: the you know, whole bag with a messenger bags. It's
- 15:39Speaker 1: not necessarily a new thing. Waits getting the whole bags.
- 15:45Speaker 1: Getting the whole bags it was short for hobo. Yeah,
- 15:48Speaker 1: it was short for hopo. My bad speaking of bad
- 15:52Speaker 1: Kodak black y'all, he's causing controversy. Y'all old places so disrespectful.
- 15:57Speaker 1: Oh my god. We talked about young man it last week.
- 16:00Speaker 1: I E gonna suck a gay woman's titties like you are.
- 16:02Speaker 1: Just yeah, he's now talking about but yes, Michael rapp
- 16:09Speaker 1: Report obviously went on him because Biggie and pot. He
- 16:12Speaker 1: went on to say that the only reason the legends
- 16:14Speaker 1: because they are dead, and Michael Rappaport went on him,
- 16:18Speaker 1: um and rightfully, so like, how do you even say
- 16:20Speaker 1: those words out of your mouth? A lot of a
- 16:23Speaker 1: lot of you know, of our youth don't really seem
- 16:26Speaker 1: to have a great understanding of what our legends are,
- 16:30Speaker 1: of what why our legends are legends. I know for
- 16:32Speaker 1: a fact that he knows who big in your pockets
- 16:35Speaker 1: and respect. He's just trolling, I'm telling you. He was
- 16:39Speaker 1: on stage obviously and said that you know, he likes crackers,
- 16:43Speaker 1: but tell us cracking to stay out of black folks.
- 16:45Speaker 1: And this is exactly what he said. Word he said,
- 16:50Speaker 1: you know, I love crackers, nothing wrong with that. It's
- 16:54Speaker 1: really big in Florida, that work, is it? Okay? So
- 16:57Speaker 1: that's okay, all right, I'm just saying he loves big
- 17:02Speaker 1: in Alabama too. Well, this is a controversial topic that
- 17:06Speaker 1: I'm about to cover. Um. It was a reporter on
- 17:09Speaker 1: um baul alert that a priest seventies something to your
- 17:14Speaker 1: old priest was stabbed um doing a live taping. I
- 17:17Speaker 1: think it was Montreal. Um. And it's not yet to
- 17:20Speaker 1: be said who the attacker was, why it was happening,
- 17:24Speaker 1: so forth. It's on as far as what we can find.
- 17:27Speaker 1: But I think Sussoul has an opinion on what I
- 17:31Speaker 1: Let me say this, I do not want to be
- 17:33Speaker 1: attacked by any of the wonderful friendly people that are
- 17:36Speaker 1: Canadian because you people are beyond swell, way too kind.
- 17:42Speaker 1: My first thought though is, well, maybe he was a predator.
- 17:48Speaker 1: Maybe maybe he molested this man, or or maybe he
- 17:51Speaker 1: is the father of a kid that was molested. Because
- 17:55Speaker 1: there you can't see so much like there's the video
- 17:57Speaker 1: isn't that great to where you can see if he
- 18:00Speaker 1: already had the knife in his hand, and maybe the
- 18:01Speaker 1: priest saw the knife and just knew to get away,
- 18:04Speaker 1: or if he just saw his face. Um, you can't
- 18:08Speaker 1: really see all that. So obviously we don't really know
- 18:10Speaker 1: exactly what it was. But my first thought was he
- 18:13Speaker 1: might have been a child predator. Maybe yeah, you just
- 18:17Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, you know, I stab a priest like
- 18:21Speaker 1: that and didn't leave. Times people do crazy, crazy, crazy
- 18:26Speaker 1: stuff like it does happen, you know, saying I don't.
- 18:28Speaker 1: I don't think we should ever gave the possibility that
- 18:31Speaker 1: sometimes the older woman you know from to tell the
- 18:38Speaker 1: guy randomly that she was going to stab him with
- 18:40Speaker 1: a knife, like she she threatened the guy that kicked
- 18:42Speaker 1: her first, and there's evidence leading to say that that
- 18:45Speaker 1: it actually happened. Because the whole reason why she doesn't
- 18:48Speaker 1: even live in her apartment was because she was also
- 18:50Speaker 1: threatening other people that she was going to stab them
- 18:52Speaker 1: with knives, and she stopped paying her rents. So like
- 18:54Speaker 1: they're like, people do stuff all the time, you know,
- 18:57Speaker 1: sometimes for no reason at all, but there are multiple
- 19:02Speaker 1: who knows, who knows? But my first thought was that, yeah,
- 19:05Speaker 1: I think that, Yeah, I think at the end of
- 19:08Speaker 1: the day, you know, that has been so rampant in
- 19:12Speaker 1: the church, um and and it's been held a secret.
- 19:18Speaker 1: And you know, again I always talk about this with y'all, Like,
- 19:20Speaker 1: you know, they have their own money, they have their
- 19:23Speaker 1: own government like that. I mean, they like there are
- 19:26Speaker 1: a whole another entity and to keep that, you know,
- 19:31Speaker 1: so secretive and have have tormented all these young spirits
- 19:35Speaker 1: and they're all young, like I mean, every every incident
- 19:37Speaker 1: started with a child. Don't you feel like now it's
- 19:40Speaker 1: like all the secrets are coming out everywhere, everybody's secrets everything,
- 19:46Speaker 1: because before, you know, everything was just so territorial, meaning
- 19:50Speaker 1: like you would have to come to Georgia to see
- 19:52Speaker 1: what it was, what it's like to be enjoged, you
- 19:54Speaker 1: have to go to California and then you just rely
- 19:57Speaker 1: on people's opinions of the locations. Now we can see
- 20:00Speaker 1: what's going on in Toronto right now because people are
- 20:03Speaker 1: all on social media anything that happens, like you would
- 20:07Speaker 1: have to literally go to that place, or you know,
- 20:10Speaker 1: if we're hearing something that's happening on the other side
- 20:12Speaker 1: of the world, like we can find out what's going
- 20:14Speaker 1: on in Ghana right now. I think a part of
- 20:17Speaker 1: it is like this generation is supposedly like the biggest
- 20:21Speaker 1: generation and could really change the future if if they
- 20:24Speaker 1: wanted to. So I think that a lot of them
- 20:27Speaker 1: and what we're seeing right now, even with women getting
- 20:29Speaker 1: married later and having kids later, is because we talked
- 20:31Speaker 1: about this before. Where the dynamics in the household have changed.
- 20:34Speaker 1: I think a part of this generation, they're using the
- 20:38Speaker 1: power that they have, like with social media, to stop
- 20:40Speaker 1: the bullshit, like like to at least to call it
- 20:42Speaker 1: out at least, And I think that's a part of
- 20:44Speaker 1: why we're saying yeah and or highlighted, you know, but
- 20:48Speaker 1: but they are calling it out, they're saying, hey, Unfortunately,
- 20:51Speaker 1: some people are losing compassion behind this. But there are
- 20:56Speaker 1: some people that are using this properly, and they're using
- 20:57Speaker 1: it to get knowledge out so that we can help
- 20:59Speaker 1: each other. They're around the world. Honestly, there are things
- 21:01Speaker 1: happening in foreign countries that we would not know at
- 21:04Speaker 1: all had it not been for somebody having a relative
- 21:07Speaker 1: living there being able to say help us x Y
- 21:10Speaker 1: and z Will Packer he's doing that docuseries happened here
- 21:18Speaker 1: and nobody would have known about that, you know, if
- 21:22Speaker 1: it was an internet. Exactly like this age of kids
- 21:25Speaker 1: like you, I say, my kids like I think that
- 21:27Speaker 1: generation is going to be the generation that makes a
- 21:29Speaker 1: lot of things changed that you think a lot of
- 21:32Speaker 1: the old ways of thinking. Those people are in their
- 21:34Speaker 1: eighties nineties when they you know, Unfortunately I had to
- 21:38Speaker 1: say it when they were gone. It's gonna be a
- 21:41Speaker 1: new way of thinking. Just kind of like think about
- 21:43Speaker 1: the millennials. You know, we talk about this all the time, Kenny,
- 21:45Speaker 1: because like you know, a lot of the millennials kind
- 21:48Speaker 1: of like be disrespectful to the old g s. That's
- 21:51Speaker 1: their way of thinking, you know what I'm saying. Like,
- 21:54Speaker 1: and then we could take it even deeper, like by
- 21:56Speaker 1: two thousand and fifty, most everyone's color is gonna be sues.
- 22:01Speaker 1: Not think it's gonna be like a little a little
- 22:03Speaker 1: lighter than sue. It's not even gonna be like a
- 22:06Speaker 1: white black majority in the world. It's gonna be brown.
- 22:10Speaker 1: It's gonna start browning. It's gonna have that shot. That
- 22:14Speaker 1: nice little tent right there, it's a nice tint. It
- 22:18Speaker 1: was like it desensitizes a lot of people. That's totally
- 22:23Speaker 1: to see all that stuff online. Sometimes we just saw, yeah, murders,
- 22:28Speaker 1: you'd be seeing murders outside. I never forgot sometimes, man,
- 22:31Speaker 1: the dude sterling. Damn. Then the one time when the
- 22:36Speaker 1: cop did that and shot him boom boom, and that
- 22:39Speaker 1: was on social media or the junior RP Junior in
- 22:42Speaker 1: New York totally. He was bleeding that all on social media,
- 22:46Speaker 1: the Facebook live daths that they were multiple. It wasn't
- 22:48Speaker 1: this one. Drake had a partner that got murdered when
- 22:51Speaker 1: he was waiting in a lobby somewhere. Some people just
- 22:53Speaker 1: boom boom boom, and he just slumped over. Crazy, crazy man.
- 22:57Speaker 1: Seeing that. Ship's definitely this sinnercize on many levels at
- 22:59Speaker 1: the one with the whole sexual contribution from these women,
- 23:03Speaker 1: it's like, you can't there's no imagination anymore. You can
- 23:06Speaker 1: go see it right now. I think also with these murders,
- 23:08Speaker 1: it's like I waited for y'all to even watch the
- 23:10Speaker 1: priest that because I'm just like that, just that I can't.
- 23:13Speaker 1: And I think it's the older you get to, the
- 23:15Speaker 1: more compassionate and thoughtful you are. But it's just like
- 23:17Speaker 1: to see everything it wants. It's like, damn, like it's
- 23:20Speaker 1: too much. Like sometimes I think it's overload of information.
- 23:25Speaker 1: I think women being sexy or though is a part
- 23:27Speaker 1: of the liberation, though I don't really know how it's
- 23:31Speaker 1: affecting anybody negatively or making people act negatively, because it's
- 23:36Speaker 1: almost it's almost assuming that if a woman is sexy,
- 23:39Speaker 1: then it's allowed for somebody to be a predator or
- 23:43Speaker 1: be harmful. So I mean, it's it's kind of it's
- 23:45Speaker 1: kind of tricky. That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying.
- 23:47Speaker 1: I definitely don't believe that's what you're saying. But I'm
- 23:49Speaker 1: saying that the sense of t I'm talking about, I'm
- 23:53Speaker 1: talking about reason for no reason, that's what I'm talking about.
- 23:59Speaker 1: And that's that's trash that young girls looking up to
- 24:02Speaker 1: this time. Now okay, now, now time for a ball
- 24:05Speaker 1: or mail this motherfucker here today. Not that's okay, ball
- 24:14Speaker 1: of man. Hey, listen once I for everybody from the
- 24:16Speaker 1: baller mail. You can continue to send baller mail in
- 24:18Speaker 1: my dm uh coming. My pot has been texting me.
- 24:21Speaker 1: The ball of mails to this ship is been fun name.
- 24:23Speaker 1: I will leave your name out. Listen at Ferrari Simmons
- 24:28Speaker 1: uh baller mail. Should I feel some type of way
- 24:30Speaker 1: my husband doesn't want joint checking and saving accounts. This
- 24:34Speaker 1: is this ship is really y'all, Like I really got
- 24:37Speaker 1: this ship. Like okay, I can't wait to hear this one.
- 24:40Speaker 1: If you're going through a tough time, whether it's you know,
- 24:43Speaker 1: relationship career. You know, Baller Nation, we got y'all. Now
- 24:45Speaker 1: this is this is a quick baller mail, but it's
- 24:48Speaker 1: gonna lead to us a deep convo. My husband and
- 24:51Speaker 1: I have been married going on for three years together.
- 24:54Speaker 1: We've been together for ten years. My question is we
- 24:56Speaker 1: still have separate banking accounts. Should I feel some type
- 24:59Speaker 1: of way about him not wanting to have a joint
- 25:01Speaker 1: checking and save his account? What advice would you give
- 25:05Speaker 1: this female? Yeah, and she loves our show. By the way, though,
- 25:09Speaker 1: I would say if you I'm my personal opinion, what
- 25:12Speaker 1: I gave for three years now together for team Okay,
- 25:14Speaker 1: I've been married almost twenty and I think it just
- 25:16Speaker 1: caused divisiveness if everything is not in the same pot.
- 25:19Speaker 1: I mean that whole, hardly all the way around, not
- 25:21Speaker 1: just finances. I think decisions like it has to be
- 25:25Speaker 1: a joint thing, because when it's not a joint thing,
- 25:27Speaker 1: it's like what was you doing the what? You know
- 25:29Speaker 1: what I mean? Like and even so I think in
- 25:31Speaker 1: relationships there's yin and yang, So somebody clearly is probably
- 25:34Speaker 1: better with the finances than the other, because I don't
- 25:36Speaker 1: think you two just come in ultimately like so you
- 25:39Speaker 1: know what I'm saying into your bag as far as
- 25:41Speaker 1: like what you need to be doing financially, So like me,
- 25:43Speaker 1: I'm not good at that. I spend money. I'm a
- 25:46Speaker 1: gift giver. My love language is gifting. So I'm glad
- 25:49Speaker 1: I have Jessica because it keeps me from, you know what, saying,
- 25:52Speaker 1: jumping off the bridge. I see artists and I want
- 25:54Speaker 1: to support. I wanted to stand in the third and
- 25:55Speaker 1: it's like, you spend, but you know that partnership allows
- 25:59Speaker 1: you know, the safe zone for me and the spending department,
- 26:02Speaker 1: So I would say it should be joint. Um. I
- 26:04Speaker 1: agree though that it might be that maybe she's not
- 26:08Speaker 1: great with money, maybe she does always spend, spend, spend,
- 26:12Speaker 1: But I do want to know, like what's the dynamic
- 26:15Speaker 1: like in their relationship, Like are they discussing financial concerns together,
- 26:19Speaker 1: Like are they making decisions on big purchases together? Or
- 26:22Speaker 1: is it that he's just like, no, you have your account,
- 26:25Speaker 1: worry about your own, because then I would have an
- 26:27Speaker 1: issue with it. But if he's doing it because he
- 26:29Speaker 1: knows that he needs to protect the family and their
- 26:32Speaker 1: finances because she probably has an outrageous spending habit, then
- 26:36Speaker 1: maybe it is best that they have separate accounts. Um
- 26:39Speaker 1: I would say this to me. I think it's a
- 26:42Speaker 1: leadership type of thing. I mean, you got people when
- 26:44Speaker 1: you're in a relationship with somebody, especially you guys married
- 26:46Speaker 1: but tend to be together for ten years, I think
- 26:48Speaker 1: you should have separate accounts and one account together to
- 26:51Speaker 1: save his account of something. You should be one account
- 26:54Speaker 1: together as a family that you guys can use for
- 26:57Speaker 1: if you vacation or something like that. You know what
- 27:00Speaker 1: I'm saying, Depending on what that is. So I think
- 27:02Speaker 1: you should do a start off maybe having a conversation,
- 27:05Speaker 1: and I think you guys should start off with a
- 27:07Speaker 1: joint savings account. So now we were looking at it
- 27:10Speaker 1: as I say, you do that with somebody who is
- 27:12Speaker 1: willing to save money. If that person is always space.
- 27:14Speaker 1: But we set boundaries, you know what I'm saying, So
- 27:16Speaker 1: we say, okay, listen, this is an account that we
- 27:18Speaker 1: have together to save money. You have your account, I
- 27:21Speaker 1: have my account. But I just think if you guys
- 27:23Speaker 1: are married as a union, you should have a joint account.
- 27:27Speaker 1: I agree that that should that should be a requirement.
- 27:30Speaker 1: As like, if somebody's bad or worse with money, then
- 27:34Speaker 1: help them fix it. Correct, thank you O C. T.
- 27:36Speaker 1: Because that's what I was going to go and headed to.
- 27:38Speaker 1: Because helping somebody fix it doesn't fix it right away
- 27:41Speaker 1: to where you would just go ahead and get the account.
- 27:43Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But if if it is
- 27:45Speaker 1: a situation where he's just like nah, I got the
- 27:48Speaker 1: money and he's kind of treating it like a puppet
- 27:50Speaker 1: master situation, then I would have an issue. But if
- 27:52Speaker 1: he's actually doing it the right way, like hey, um,
- 27:56Speaker 1: the only reason we don't have a joint account is
- 27:58Speaker 1: because two months ago you spend a little little baby shoes,
- 28:03Speaker 1: you know, the school money on some shoes. I say,
- 28:06Speaker 1: I think, I say fix it because you're one. You know,
- 28:09Speaker 1: you're married, That's what I'm saying. You know, help your
- 28:12Speaker 1: partner out. You're a team, so a team should have
- 28:16Speaker 1: something for the team, Like if you have your account,
- 28:18Speaker 1: how am I supposed to know? Like you know, has
- 28:20Speaker 1: everything going? Like okay, if we have something together, we
- 28:22Speaker 1: can both mind talk as a team. We can communicate,
- 28:26Speaker 1: because that would the marriage is union. You guys have
- 28:28Speaker 1: to communicate. And I think you should start with a
- 28:30Speaker 1: savings account, not know joint checking account because now everybody's
- 28:35Speaker 1: spending you know what I'm saying, because now also that
- 28:38Speaker 1: might help with goals though, see the thing about not
- 28:41Speaker 1: sharing everything, you can't whole hardly be all the way
- 28:43Speaker 1: in if it's not whole, like I just believe that,
- 28:46Speaker 1: and being the most senior here in relationships like it
- 28:50Speaker 1: just it works better when it's all on the table
- 28:53Speaker 1: because if it's because when you because I'm gonna tell
- 28:55Speaker 1: you this, when you are in a relationship and there's
- 28:57Speaker 1: something left off the table, there's always something to pick
- 29:01Speaker 1: at that, you know what I'm saying to for your
- 29:03Speaker 1: thing not to be okay. Like, for instance, if you're
- 29:08Speaker 1: going to buy a house, right and you know this
- 29:11Speaker 1: is a you know, a new purchase for the both
- 29:13Speaker 1: of you. You're in it and want your your both
- 29:16Speaker 1: responsive for X, Y and Z whatever the dollar mount is,
- 29:18Speaker 1: and you put with it. Then you get to the
- 29:20Speaker 1: closing and it's like, well, now I ain't got X,
- 29:22Speaker 1: Y and Z. That's gonna form a problem because you
- 29:25Speaker 1: will supposed when you hide and stuff that building security exactly.
- 29:29Speaker 1: And so now I'm we're going into the biggest decision
- 29:31Speaker 1: of our lives, and I can't trust you to come
- 29:34Speaker 1: to But the whole time, if it was together, it
- 29:36Speaker 1: would have been monitored, it would have been you know
- 29:38Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. So I just think that when
- 29:40Speaker 1: it's left off the table, you just leave room for
- 29:43Speaker 1: inconsistencies in your relationship. You know what I mean. I
- 29:45Speaker 1: think the last thing I'm gonna say, finances a big part.
- 29:48Speaker 1: I'm sorry, finances a huge part. However, you want to say,
- 29:50Speaker 1: it's not about money, what having much? You want to say,
- 29:53Speaker 1: it's not about money, your quality of life. It's all
- 29:57Speaker 1: dependent on That's exactly what I'm saying. Like men, me
- 30:00Speaker 1: and baby put on the screen take off. That was
- 30:04Speaker 1: your toes in that picture. Now hey were saving to
- 30:07Speaker 1: buy a house, right, We had to put all out
- 30:09Speaker 1: of debt on the table. Everything, all expenses every day
- 30:14Speaker 1: that every month that we pay for because we have
- 30:16Speaker 1: to communicate about that. So by November, when we know
- 30:19Speaker 1: applied to get pre approved for the amount that I want,
- 30:22Speaker 1: get a big logs gonna be a little area over
- 30:25Speaker 1: there about you anyway, Um, you know we are gonna
- 30:29Speaker 1: hold each other accountable monthly goals that we set to. Yes, financially,
- 30:34Speaker 1: so that's beautiful, But I see that's that's that's called
- 30:36Speaker 1: planning together, have a meeting. Yeah, but you gotta put
- 30:42Speaker 1: it on the table because if you leave it's like
- 30:44Speaker 1: I always tell Jessica like that when when we got together,
- 30:46Speaker 1: like let's not go to bed mad. That's how That's
- 30:49Speaker 1: another thing, like you have to be able to have
- 30:50Speaker 1: at least get it off your chest because when you
- 30:52Speaker 1: hold ship in, that's when it just builds and that's
- 30:55Speaker 1: just it becomes just you know, cancer source and you
- 30:57Speaker 1: can't have that relationship. Come ow all, hope that answered
- 31:01Speaker 1: you helped you. That was a good one to that.
- 31:03Speaker 1: That was a good eno. Time for future. Say we're
- 31:11Speaker 1: gonna take it back to creep now time in creeping skirts, skirts,
- 31:21Speaker 1: scirts scared. Okay, that's not listen all right man, Hollywood man,
- 31:27Speaker 1: listen y'all. Y'all are doing a great job men in
- 31:29Speaker 1: Hollywood at defending their women. Gary Owens went off on Delta.
- 31:36Speaker 1: He went off on Delta for questioning his wife about
- 31:39Speaker 1: her first class status and not questioning the white man
- 31:41Speaker 1: behind her. So shout out to him. But I'm gonna
- 31:42Speaker 1: take it to trouble man a k A t A
- 31:46Speaker 1: b k A tip a k A the King of
- 31:49Speaker 1: the South all that Okay, he's got multiple names, but anyway,
- 31:51Speaker 1: he's sicking taddy 'all coming for his baby tiny Okay,
- 31:55Speaker 1: he says, Okay, maybe this is a teachable moment. What
- 31:59Speaker 1: do y'all really hope to achieve by coming on my
- 32:01Speaker 1: page speaking ill of my wife under a picture of
- 32:04Speaker 1: my family? Wtf make y'all think I'm just gonna let
- 32:09Speaker 1: y'all try me and mind I'm showing with strength because
- 32:12Speaker 1: y'all are young black women, and I'm trying my best
- 32:16Speaker 1: to respect you and uplift you like you all deserve.
- 32:19Speaker 1: But y'all got me fucked up. Shout him be out here,
- 32:24Speaker 1: shaped like a whole two leader peach Fago and got
- 32:27Speaker 1: the nerve to make critical, disrespectful comments about minds. I
- 32:33Speaker 1: obviously love it and love it for over eighteen years.
- 32:38Speaker 1: If you had a man who loved you as much
- 32:40Speaker 1: as I love her, that was an all caps Okay,
- 32:44Speaker 1: I doubt you'd be miserable enough to leave such hateful comments.
- 32:48Speaker 1: Let's not have this discussion again. Now get a life
- 32:52Speaker 1: with your goofy asses. Hashtag King's thoughts. I gotta, I gotta,
- 32:57Speaker 1: I gotta put the camera on my motherfuck the face
- 33:00Speaker 1: Amer on my face. It's too true to this. You
- 33:01Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Number one, I'm gonna get this
- 33:03Speaker 1: out of the way. When you're a public figure, you
- 33:06Speaker 1: have to be you know, aware, take the good with
- 33:09Speaker 1: the bad. You're gonna get scrutinized publicly, especially when cs
- 33:13Speaker 1: TV show about your relationship and your family and all that,
- 33:16Speaker 1: and then transgressions happen. People have People are entitled to
- 33:21Speaker 1: their opinion because you are a public figure. So and
- 33:24Speaker 1: you have a public profile. People, I got it to
- 33:29Speaker 1: somebody'all all need to mind your mother there. Bro. God
- 33:33Speaker 1: damn got a whole ball. I got some whole bullshit
- 33:35Speaker 1: going on in your life and you're fucking mad. So
- 33:38Speaker 1: you just said, you know what, I'm going on t
- 33:40Speaker 1: I page this ship gonna make me feel better. I'm
- 33:42Speaker 1: talking to my ratchet that cousin back in South Florida
- 33:45Speaker 1: because she'd be having some fun up ship going on
- 33:47Speaker 1: her life. She said, this makes her feel better sometimes. Man,
- 33:49Speaker 1: you just need to go on here to focus on you.
- 33:52Speaker 1: You know, you all on the Instagram and social media
- 33:54Speaker 1: talking about tip and tying it. What else this in
- 33:57Speaker 1: the whole family? Hey, my niked lead it's alone. Bro, godda.
- 34:01Speaker 1: If you say ship last week, why do you got
- 34:03Speaker 1: to say some ship today? Why do you got to
- 34:05Speaker 1: say tomorrow? You gotta say God damn, bro, you're spending
- 34:10Speaker 1: all this time on till on your motherfuck her self
- 34:14Speaker 1: and putting yourself a position to get a bigger bag
- 34:16Speaker 1: than your ass probably ain't even getting right now, Shut
- 34:19Speaker 1: the funk up, James Brown cap was one of those
- 34:24Speaker 1: comment from your cousin. She'd be on that mother. I've
- 34:27Speaker 1: seen her sometimes, I've seen she gotta fake today she'd
- 34:29Speaker 1: be going on two followers on that ship. Damn. You
- 34:33Speaker 1: know it's it's just disheartened man, when you know, especially
- 34:36Speaker 1: when you get over some ship, like the hurdles to
- 34:38Speaker 1: him and tiny have gotten over, you know what I mean.
- 34:41Speaker 1: It's just like let him go on to be If
- 34:43Speaker 1: I had to pick it, I would say they are
- 34:45Speaker 1: today's how stools. To be honest with you, I'm just
- 34:47Speaker 1: talking about the way that he loves his family. Is
- 34:49Speaker 1: nothing he doesn't do for his family. I'm talking about,
- 34:52Speaker 1: you know, somebody comes to the show in public, some
- 34:54Speaker 1: forth and song, so you got to give him that
- 34:56Speaker 1: critical regardless, I think respecting things that are unconventional to them.
- 35:02Speaker 1: Like it's like it's they look at their relationship and
- 35:04Speaker 1: they're just automatically assumed that they know what they would
- 35:07Speaker 1: do if they were in that situation. Um, so they're
- 35:10Speaker 1: looking at it and and they're just judging, and it's
- 35:13Speaker 1: I don't think because you're a public figure, you are
- 35:18Speaker 1: subjected to scrutiny more than any other person. I think
- 35:20Speaker 1: people have their opinion regardless, it's just that because you're
- 35:23Speaker 1: on a bigger scale, you're getting it more. I think
- 35:26Speaker 1: the bullshit is just people people just not minding their business,
- 35:29Speaker 1: being too insecure with their own ships. So they call it.
- 35:32Speaker 1: They call out what they don't like about themselves on
- 35:34Speaker 1: other people. And I think that's just what it is.
- 35:36Speaker 1: I mean, people cousin on the screen, I don't know.
- 35:41Speaker 1: I know, you know what I'm Yeah, some people just
- 35:47Speaker 1: don't got nothing better to do. God, if they're not
- 35:49Speaker 1: a part of the solution, you're part of the problem.
- 35:52Speaker 1: And now that time I need to post. The other
- 35:59Speaker 1: day it said wins and lessons. The known statement is
- 36:06Speaker 1: usually wins and losses, but I'd like to say wins
- 36:09Speaker 1: and lessons because see, if you are on the right path,
- 36:11Speaker 1: in your journey, it's nothing but a win. You're gonna
- 36:14Speaker 1: run into some things at times that are lessons. It's
- 36:17Speaker 1: not really a problem if you really think about it.
- 36:20Speaker 1: If you're out here breathing, you can wake up the
- 36:22Speaker 1: next day. That means you have another opportunity to go forward. So,
- 36:25Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen in Balling Nation wins in lessons. See,
- 36:29Speaker 1: when you stop, it stops. But if you keep going,
- 36:32Speaker 1: you're bound to get to your goal. Now, go forth,
- 36:35Speaker 1: Balling Nation. The dream is real. Peace, it's real.