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The Dad Pod with Beau Clark and Brock Davies · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: All right, we are back. It usually is give them
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  Speaker 1: Laala with Randall. But today, after a popular popular demand
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  Speaker 1: and request an obsessive text to me, you have got it.
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  Speaker 1: Today is the Dad Podcast. We have switched it up.
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  Speaker 1: We have bow back.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, gold clap, golf clap.
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  Speaker 1: And and Jack's who usually is in our Dad Podcast
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  Speaker 1: is out of town and we have replaced Jacks today
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  Speaker 1: with the incredible he Man Conan, the barbarian.
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  Speaker 3: Stud of Studs Brock.
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  Speaker 1: All right, so you asked for it, it's back. We
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  Speaker 1: said we're going to try to do this a little
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  Speaker 1: more often.
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  Speaker 4: Bo.
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  Speaker 3: You know, we we all got a little busy with
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  Speaker 3: having kids.
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  Speaker 2: You know, changing diapers, it's it's, it's a thing.
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  Speaker 3: So we have a we have a full hour today
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  Speaker 3: for you guys.
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  Speaker 1: Laala is in New York doing Watch what Happens and
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  Speaker 1: we are here to talk about children and fatherhood. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: all right, so my first, my first question, and then
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  Speaker 1: you guys, you know, I think we should just do
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  Speaker 1: what we do. What what for you guys, because you
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  Speaker 1: guys are first time fathers, What for you is the
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  Speaker 1: like the coolest thing now that your baby is nine
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  Speaker 1: months abo and your your baby's five months. What's the
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  Speaker 1: thing like that that was madule for you. That's changing,
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  Speaker 1: that's evolving.
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  Speaker 2: Her, her walking, her getting like now what she's she's
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  Speaker 2: she's you know. I think I posted on my Instagram
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  Speaker 2: when she first stood up. We were in Boston. I
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  Speaker 2: think this was like a month ago, maybe month and
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  Speaker 2: a half ago, but she first just stood up. So
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  Speaker 2: that was like losing my ship.
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  Speaker 5: Yep.
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  Speaker 2: Now she's crawling upstairs, she's crawling everywhere. I have like
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  Speaker 2: little I made like little baby Ninja, like like little
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  Speaker 2: obstical questions of the big water jugs. Yeah, so I
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  Speaker 2: put them all. I have like five of them. I
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  Speaker 2: put them all around. I space them out so she'll
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  Speaker 2: crawl up it and then walk to the next one.
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  Speaker 2: Walk to the next one, walk to the next one.
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  Speaker 2: Wow to the couch. Wait a second, So she's not
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  Speaker 2: she can't stand up and walk by herself, but she
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  Speaker 2: can walk holding on stuff.
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  Speaker 3: Right. So Okay, So that's that's huge. That's been that's huge.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So it's like been my whole like the last
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  Speaker 2: like three weeks. That's just been like, Oh, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: put an optical course here, and then I'm gonna put
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  Speaker 2: like a box well, she crawled under the box, pop
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  Speaker 2: back up.
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  Speaker 5: Wow boxes kids best toys, right, I can't wait to
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  Speaker 5: do some. We've we saw an app. It's like it's
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  Speaker 5: development phases where you can have the box and you
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  Speaker 5: can go and put some it woolen string through so
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  Speaker 5: you can go ahead and give them like lasers when
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  Speaker 5: they walk through and call through. I demoed this app
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  Speaker 5: and I can't wait for that phase. We're not there yet.
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  Speaker 2: What's the app called.
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  Speaker 5: I'll pull it up on my phone real quick. We're
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  Speaker 5: not there yet with some. She's definitely yeah, just lerting
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  Speaker 5: her voice. Last night we actually found out that she
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  Speaker 5: had a vocal call and she was just sitting there
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  Speaker 5: with her mouth wide open. Gone. Ah, it was the best.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Like her thought process was, it's like good.
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  Speaker 5: That's funny. Yeah, look, I'm all for it. I think
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  Speaker 5: I think watching can't wait for to stop walking. But
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  Speaker 5: kids have just imaginations, right, and they're completely blank. So
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  Speaker 5: they're just trying to learn how to do anything. I
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  Speaker 5: want to put my hand up and they figure that out,
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  Speaker 5: motors skills and all that. It's so exciting every step
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  Speaker 5: of the way. But congratulate watching your little walk around you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, because there's there's someone we know that I think
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  Speaker 2: that their baby started walking at ten ten months and
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  Speaker 2: I found that out maybe like three months ago, and
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  Speaker 2: I was.
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  Speaker 3: Like, ten months, ten months, that's aggressive, And I was.
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  Speaker 2: Like, we have to we have to tie that.
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  Speaker 3: We have to beat that. You get your kid to walk.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's what I'm doing. She's nine and already
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my gosh, can we do this because
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  Speaker 2: I'm literally I look at other babies that are older
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  Speaker 2: than her, and I'm like, she can do that. We
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  Speaker 2: can do that. We have to try to.
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  Speaker 3: Get Oh yeah, because you want to win.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I want to win, or at least tie.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I want to win. Well my kid, my.
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  Speaker 1: Kid's going to be doing triathlons at seven months. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just letting them all know that.
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  Speaker 5: It's teaching how to do the triathlons. You in, no,
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  Speaker 5: do I look like a guy that.
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  Speaker 3: I could barely run down the block?
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  Speaker 1: You know?
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  Speaker 2: I remember you said that when the what is it?
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  Speaker 2: The baby revealed? I was like, so what do you
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  Speaker 2: want to boy or girl? And You're like, I want
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  Speaker 2: a girl? You think I want to run aroun playing
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  Speaker 2: fucking soccer In like three years out, He's like, girls
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  Speaker 2: are chill. I'm like, okay, that's smart. But also going
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  Speaker 2: back to the walking thing, My winning at ten months
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  Speaker 2: actually sucks because now have more stress. It's like because
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  Speaker 2: now she's crawling all over the place, and it's like,
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  Speaker 2: I need I'm gonna be that parent with a leash. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm totally okay to be that parent. Oh you're gonna
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  Speaker 2: do that. I'm gonna be I'm gonna care. Somebody get
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  Speaker 2: the backpack that like like that holds onto her. I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna clip it to my belt. Squeak sweet sweet. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: there's those two squeaky sea. I don't think I really
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  Speaker 2: am going to be the leash because I would always
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  Speaker 2: judge them.
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  Speaker 3: But do you think Statsy would buy the leash thing?
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  Speaker 2: No, unless it was chic.
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  Speaker 5: What it was the leash with like the cold on
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  Speaker 5: the ex spade. That one's a little bit better. You
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  Speaker 5: can let it run for a minute.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to do that if we go to
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  Speaker 2: like Disneyland or something.
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  Speaker 3: Just disney Lands a different game. Disneylands a different game.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, it's it's just the stress is already there
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  Speaker 2: when she starts crawling because all of a sudden, I
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  Speaker 2: turn around and it's like, oh, she's getting into the cabinets,
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  Speaker 2: and then I had to go buy all those things
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  Speaker 2: the cabinet you know, locks do you guys?
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  Speaker 6: Do?
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  Speaker 3: Guys? Fine, this is with Lala, at least Lala.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know if it's just hormones or it's
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  Speaker 1: Lalla's you know, just very emotional person. But every time
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  Speaker 1: she has like a monumental moment, Laala like loses.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, she's.
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  Speaker 1: Growing up so quick, and I'm like, babe, this is
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  Speaker 1: the exciting shit. She's like, I know, and are they
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  Speaker 1: like that or I mean it's stops or or sheina
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  Speaker 1: like that.
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  Speaker 5: Look, Shana is just overwhelmed with anything that my child does.
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  Speaker 5: Anything she obviously excited, full sounds like, it's a great support.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, it's okay, cool, that stops.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I think I mean we are too impressed. Maybe
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  Speaker 2: yeah exactly, Yeah, no, no, the same thing that stops.
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  Speaker 2: It's like whatever she does, it's like, you know, when
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  Speaker 2: something new, we're like, oh my god, get out the camera,
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  Speaker 2: get that out the camera. But then now Harford knows
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  Speaker 2: what the camera is. So I don't know how you guys,
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  Speaker 2: are when it's like she's doing something cuan on some
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  Speaker 2: people on the camera, She's like.
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  Speaker 5: She stands at that.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: She loves FaceTime. She loves looking at herself. Wow, I
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  Speaker 2: was looking at herself in the mirror. That's the way how.
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  Speaker 3: Ocean Ocean likes. She loves the camera. She doesn't let go.
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  Speaker 3: Like it's morning at FaceTime.
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  Speaker 1: Laala in New York and had the camera, you know,
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  Speaker 1: in front of her and she she's trying to hold
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  Speaker 1: the phone and she's at that point but I don't
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  Speaker 1: know like how detailed the awareness, but she can see
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  Speaker 1: her mom and you could see she was smiling.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Those are Those are great moments that I remember that
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  Speaker 2: like the first.
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  Speaker 1: Time have you guys had have you guys had any
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  Speaker 1: scary moments where you were freaked like oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like near miss I just I.
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  Speaker 3: Don't mean like tragic, just like near like, oh my god.
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  Speaker 1: She she rolled off the couch, you know, I mean
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  Speaker 1: obviously I rolled.
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  Speaker 3: Off the couch a lot. That's why the way I am.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm saying, like, did anything like that happen?
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  Speaker 3: Did she you know, take it fall? Or is just
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  Speaker 3: anything that freaks you out?
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  Speaker 2: Or I mean, you know, there's some nothing crazy, but
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  Speaker 2: every time she does fall and like bumper, and especially
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  Speaker 2: now that she's up, yeay, yay, you bumped your head.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's so good, just.
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  Speaker 5: Trying to give her that's fine, you're good, don't worry,
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  Speaker 5: don't that's what you do.
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  Speaker 2: And then you wait and then you wait for and
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  Speaker 2: then she giggles and you're like, okay, good, I do that.
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  Speaker 1: I do that like somebody's like I was changing the
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  Speaker 1: diaper the other day because now I'm like really changing
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  Speaker 1: the diaper because clearly Lalla posted.
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  Speaker 3: We saw and we were.
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  Speaker 2: Like, oh, Dad wants to do something wrong.
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  Speaker 1: If you guys were look at.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna comment on that.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, no, but I literally sebody call me
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  Speaker 1: and goes, dude, you don't you have two other kids,
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  Speaker 1: you know, not to change. Thenper I go, bro, I'm old, okay,
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  Speaker 1: and I forget and so I thought I was. By
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  Speaker 1: the way, it was the middle of the night, I
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  Speaker 1: were in the middle of early morning. I put the
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  Speaker 1: diaper on, was trying to be like heiro Dad for
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  Speaker 1: show or like I can still do this.
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  Speaker 3: And then I put the ship on. I was like
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  Speaker 3: baby look, I changed that.
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  Speaker 1: She goes, it's on backwards, camera comes out the fucking
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  Speaker 1: video in the picture, and I go to work or whatever,
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  Speaker 1: and then people start calling me like you can't put
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  Speaker 1: a diaper on?
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  Speaker 3: Right, I'm like, this fucked up?
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  Speaker 5: She got so you know what I did.
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  Speaker 3: True story. I went to the nanny, of course, but
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  Speaker 3: she wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: She was out, and I was like, I was like, Liz,
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  Speaker 1: hook hook me up. Let's have a little sit down.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, what do you mean. I go just these
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  Speaker 1: diapers are a little tricky for me. They look the
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  Speaker 1: front and the bad the same. She goes, I got you.
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  Speaker 1: And then we practiced for like twenty minutes. Did you
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  Speaker 1: practice on ocean or like a fake baby doll?
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  Speaker 3: No, on ocean? On ocean? How to take the ocean?
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  Speaker 5: How to take the gun?
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  Speaker 3: She's just strap hole tight, tight tight.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, all right.
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  Speaker 3: Then I came on, I'm gonna change the type. I
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  Speaker 3: got this bumble shit good job. Like, oh, you're not
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  Speaker 3: posting tonight.
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  Speaker 5: He's not posting. I post that success.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, what the fuck?
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  Speaker 3: They Oh my god, but you've been but you know.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I listen, I make a serious effort to
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  Speaker 1: you know, be in. But now now I'll tell you
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  Speaker 1: my from my perspective, what's changed for me with with
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  Speaker 1: Ocean is that, like you said, the personality now, her
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  Speaker 1: personality is so fucking alive and I look at her
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  Speaker 1: and I melt into like she just looks at me
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  Speaker 1: and with that smile, and I'm like, I don't even
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  Speaker 1: want to go to work, Like what the It's just
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  Speaker 1: so it's just it's magical. Every second is like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: different now, and I just I can't get enough. It's
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  Speaker 1: it's really like.
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  Speaker 2: I remember when you know, Hartford was first born. I
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  Speaker 2: feel like the first like month or two, it's like
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  Speaker 2: she looked through me and I was like, yeah, I
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  Speaker 2: mean I love this baby, but it's like she doesn't.
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  Speaker 2: She gets zero folks amount I mean, you know, it's
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  Speaker 2: like she's looking through me and get it. Like I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: all right, cool. And then now it's like the more
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  Speaker 2: the months, in the days that go on and on
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  Speaker 2: and on, then it's just then you start to see
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  Speaker 2: all these changes and don't.
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  Speaker 1: You feel the love is just it's it's I mean,
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  Speaker 1: obviously I'm fifty, so you know it's been a minute
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  Speaker 1: since a newborn and now that connection like of like different,
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  Speaker 1: it's so yeah, and it's like six months it's like,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, i just can't get enough. I go home
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, where's the baby, where's the paper? Where
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  Speaker 1: it's like crystal, It's like Christmas every.
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  Speaker 5: Morning you look a look at the time, like Ron,
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  Speaker 5: Now we're all being fathers at this period of time.
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  Speaker 5: I've never been home so much. I've never been home
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  Speaker 5: this month, c the available for child, same same and
• 10:01
  Speaker 5: so you can see everything. So it's like in the
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  Speaker 5: beauty of being at home plus but it's a struggle
• 10:05
  Speaker 5: to try and figure out that work life balance. But
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  Speaker 5: at the same time, that's the one pleasurable thing I
• 10:09
  Speaker 5: get from it, is that I've been home and get
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  Speaker 5: to have these experiences a lot more than what I did.
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  Speaker 5: Even with my first two I was at work every
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  Speaker 5: single day. Right, I try them and there'll.
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  Speaker 4: Be a sleep.
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  Speaker 1: I travel too, and I totally understand that, and it's
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  Speaker 1: like being really trying to be home all the time,
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  Speaker 1: at least in these early stages. It's like it's so different.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, I mean, every second is a different second.
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  Speaker 1: And I know it's cliche to say that, but really
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  Speaker 1: like waking up in the morning and seeing her just
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  Speaker 1: look up at me.
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  Speaker 5: It's like this smile smile starting.
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  Speaker 2: I race you literally raise each other down. There's like
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  Speaker 2: with the alert goes off, she's up, we race each
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  Speaker 2: other down to be the first parent to have to
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  Speaker 2: get that smile right, because it's.
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  Speaker 3: One second you get that first smile.
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  Speaker 2: We will literally like push each other down, up and
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  Speaker 2: I'll close the baby gate on her run downstairs, open
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  Speaker 2: that door, flash of lights, tunnel my music. I thought
• 11:01
  Speaker 2: to speak as much Chalian as I can, so it's
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  Speaker 2: just like chom, I do my little hand thing, and
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  Speaker 2: then she kind of lifts up her arm because yes,
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  Speaker 2: and Sati comes in. She's like, you motherfucker.
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  Speaker 3: It's it's so mad.
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  Speaker 1: It's I could relate. It's it's just I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: think most I think I don't know. There's just this
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  Speaker 1: magic that's just so unique that you fu just you.
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  Speaker 1: And I know people say, oh, you guys, we all
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  Speaker 1: have kids, we all feel that. But I think from
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  Speaker 1: a data perspective, I don't think people get to hear
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  Speaker 1: as much like we feel the same way. Like it's
• 11:28
  Speaker 1: you know, usually it's like, oh, it's a mom and
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  Speaker 1: it's you know, the mother and we're off at work, but.
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  Speaker 2: She's more sensitive.
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  Speaker 3: That's like old school right right.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm saying like, you know, like I melt into
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  Speaker 1: it too, that smile, and it's just it's crazy.
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  Speaker 3: Today she was outside.
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  Speaker 1: In the backyard and with Liz before I went to
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  Speaker 1: the office, and it was her nanny and I walked
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  Speaker 1: over and I and I walked right in front of her,
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  Speaker 1: and she just the grin the smile, and I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going.
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  Speaker 3: To work right now. Take the baby. Yeah, and I'm
• 11:54
  Speaker 3: gonna go sit for twenty minute.
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  Speaker 5: If the activity hasn't really gone too well with the baby,
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  Speaker 5: that's for sure.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just it's just hard because you just want to
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  Speaker 1: you know, you want to be I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: miss any of this.
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  Speaker 3: And I feel like, you know, I do you do
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  Speaker 3: you find that like a struggle trying.
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  Speaker 2: To balance No, because I mean one thing that you know,
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  Speaker 2: I'm kind of you know, COVID is awful, but from COVID,
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  Speaker 2: living in Los Angeles, staying at home and working from
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  Speaker 2: home a lot, Yeah, really gifted both of us. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's an amazing opportunity that we would never.
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  Speaker 3: Normally have you know what I mean, that's a good point.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good point because you were You guys were
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: really I mean when I say lucky, COVID was tragic
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  Speaker 1: and horrific, but you guys were lucky because you really
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: had your child at the beginning, right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean yeah nine months ago. Right, well, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I mean she was pregnant. She was pregnant during all that.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, I'm glad that Hartford was born. Kind
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  Speaker 2: of like the end, well not the end, but you know,
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  Speaker 2: it's like when it leaves.
• 12:45
  Speaker 5: The Times week of lot was coming back.
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  Speaker 1: But right, but I feel like, you know, you know,
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  Speaker 1: through all tragedy, we try to find like a number
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  Speaker 1: of light and I feel like all of us kind
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  Speaker 1: of had, you know, babies during yeah, during the during
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: WORLDWI pandemic, which I think a lot of people.
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  Speaker 2: Their own name, like do you know gen Z, They're
• 13:04
  Speaker 2: probably gonna have like, like, hey, baby baby. That sounds weird, all.
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: Right, So what should we shift to now? Oh, by
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: the way, I think in honor of.
• 13:15
  Speaker 3: Jax Taylor, should we roast him that? Yeah? Yeah, I
• 13:19
  Speaker 3: think we.
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: Should bring Brock up to speak, as Brock wasn't here,
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: but we want to share with you, and you you'll
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: remember better than I tell people what Jack's what we
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: did to him, and what he tried to do to us.
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: Do you know what a milk cart is? A milk
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: cart Jack's was? Jack's was brought around and slept in
• 13:38
  Speaker 2: a milk cart, a milk carton.
• 13:39
  Speaker 3: What was it? Right? It was a milk cart, milk
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: cart like a box, like a box.
• 13:44
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: He was acting like they you know, he like he's like, yeah, my,
• 13:46
  Speaker 2: you know, my family brought me around and milk carton
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: all around and I slept in a milt We're like,
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: what the no?
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: And he tried to tell us about the big thing was.
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: He kept saying to us down, I remember, this is normal.
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: What are you guys talking about? Everybody was okay, okay,
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: it wasn't like a full time bed, but like when
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: we went on holiday. Okay, you and Jacks then had
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: different upbrings than Bow and I. I wasn't putt in
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: a sock drawer and I was I putting a box
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: because I asked, So you were put in a sock drawer.
• 14:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah. It was youngest of five, so I was kind
• 14:17
  Speaker 5: of like the last went the two brothers, the two sisters,
• 14:20
  Speaker 5: and then I will put broke there, gotcha, and I
• 14:22
  Speaker 5: was on a little you will follow us up?
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: So like your middle brother had like the jean drawer,
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: be so you got one. I grew up in a
• 14:30
  Speaker 2: jean drawer. But Rock he got the sock drawer.
• 14:33
  Speaker 5: Yeah no, that's uh. I love my mom.
• 14:35
  Speaker 7: Thanks for that, Mom, Jack, I'm on the way to
• 14:37
  Speaker 7: the airport, about to check to check in.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: That's okay, Jack's just stay on the phone. You're live
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: on the Dad podcast.
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: Say hello, Jack's how you doing? Hey, buddy, you got
• 14:47
  Speaker 3: Brock myself and.
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: You were jealous?
• 14:50
  Speaker 5: Are you jealous?
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: Jacks?
• 14:53
  Speaker 4: Jack, I can't hear what's going on?
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: We miss you. We're on the Dad Podcast.
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: We got Brock here and myself and Bow we were
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: bringing up we were just bringing up milk cartons.
• 15:05
  Speaker 4: Milk card bottom.
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: Will you share with Rock you're how you were raised
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: in a melk curtain?
• 15:11
  Speaker 7: First of all, it's not a milk carton. It's an
• 15:13
  Speaker 7: egg box, eggbox.
• 15:17
  Speaker 4: It was an egg crate.
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: Egg crate.
• 15:20
  Speaker 5: Okay, could you break it down for us?
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: Break it down for us?
• 15:23
  Speaker 7: Well again, you got to remind you this is nineteen
• 15:26
  Speaker 7: seventy nine nineteen eighty Okay, and you know, people didn't.
• 15:29
  Speaker 4: Have a lot of money.
• 15:30
  Speaker 7: My parents were borderline hippies. Okay, okay is the hippie generation.
• 15:35
  Speaker 7: My parents went camping and I was a newborn and
• 15:38
  Speaker 7: it was happy, peace and love, and I went in
• 15:41
  Speaker 7: an egg box because it was safe and you just
• 15:44
  Speaker 7: did it. It was just safe. It was just like
• 15:46
  Speaker 7: a cardboard box with some blankets in it.
• 15:48
  Speaker 4: It was like I was. It was like I was
• 15:49
  Speaker 4: a straight cat.
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: You know, it actually sounds a lot more safe than
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: Brock's sock George, Like at least you're not going to
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: fall out and like land like three.
• 15:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 15:58
  Speaker 7: No, it was like it was like I was like
• 15:59
  Speaker 7: in a thirty box, Like when you go to the
• 16:01
  Speaker 7: grocery store and.
• 16:02
  Speaker 4: You get a big box a hedge and it comes
• 16:04
  Speaker 4: in a big box.
• 16:04
  Speaker 5: No, we don't know, he's the whole point.
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: We don't the reason we.
• 16:08
  Speaker 7: Got we had access to those boxes.
• 16:10
  Speaker 4: Because my dad worked at a grocery store.
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: Okay, Jack's I really fucking miss you. We need you
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: back here.
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: Okay. So so you.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: And Brock have a very very strong connection because Brock
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: just let us know that he was raised in a
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: sock draw.
• 16:25
  Speaker 5: Well raised, Yes, you were. When we go on holidays,
• 16:29
  Speaker 5: similar to Jackson. When we go on holidays, we were
• 16:32
  Speaker 5: at a family of we were a big family. We
• 16:34
  Speaker 5: were just family. So when we had a motel wherever
• 16:38
  Speaker 5: we say that, I got the suck.
• 16:40
  Speaker 4: Turl was yeah, yeah, you got right there like we were.
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: My parents were.
• 16:45
  Speaker 7: They didn't have a ton of money, but they like
• 16:46
  Speaker 7: to go camping exactly, and they're not going to bout
• 16:48
  Speaker 7: They're not going to bring up play pend the forest.
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: We're camping like they do.
• 16:54
  Speaker 7: Now, there's no such thing as packing place in nineteen
• 16:57
  Speaker 7: seventy nine.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, hold on, but I also I was eight years
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: old in nineteen seventy nine and I did go on
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: trips with my parents. And by the way, my parents
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: weren't billionaires or or loaded. I mean, you know what,
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: they were fine whatever it is, you know, middle class,
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: I guess. And I was never put in a soft
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: draw and I was never put in a crate. So
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: I'm just putting that out there.
• 17:17
  Speaker 7: I'm sorry. But as you go camping, we went to
• 17:19
  Speaker 7: ten camping. My parents were going to sleep in. My
• 17:22
  Speaker 7: parents are going to sleep in at ten You think
• 17:24
  Speaker 7: I'm going to sleep in anything better than that?
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: What exactly is ten camp tent camping a normal camping?
• 17:31
  Speaker 7: No, because because like some people camping campers some people
• 17:35
  Speaker 7: some people camp under the stars.
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: Well, we went in uh intense.
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: He's bringing up points like that kind when we sleep,
• 17:43
  Speaker 5: we sleep and sleep.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: Did did did they have like an extra small little
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: tent forward the milk crate or was it like did
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: they put you in the big one with the family.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: We're just trying to get.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: A visual where did you? Where were the milk crates?
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: Random has a picture of it. Let it shows show you.
• 18:01
  Speaker 5: He does.
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: He's gotta pay. It's a fucking box.
• 18:09
  Speaker 5: It's just a corboard box.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: Hey do you have do you have a main popping
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: one of your forehead right now?
• 18:15
  Speaker 5: Jack trying to explain what the boxes?
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: Can we can we get a photo of a box
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: and then frame it and then just have it here
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: in the studio.
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: Just look up eggbox, says eggs on the side.
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: Says eggs. You have to set. You have to set
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: us a picture of you in.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: The top drawing Jacksie the egg box and we're gonna
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: post it on her.
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: Sorry, all your parents were ballers. When you're a kid.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: No, we didn't do the nature thing. So nos in Miami. Yeah,
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: I was in Florida. We just went to the beach.
• 18:47
  Speaker 4: Arents like two Nichols are running together, what do you
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: want them to do?
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: But didn't worry you were raised in Michigan or you
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: were raised in Florida.
• 18:54
  Speaker 7: No, I was never. I don't know why people say
• 18:56
  Speaker 7: that I was never raised in Florida. My parents moved
• 18:58
  Speaker 7: to Florida when my sister and I got out of
• 19:00
  Speaker 7: high school, so we never would.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: People just assume my mother's from the Chigan too, And
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: I'm willing to bet that she wasn't raised in an acrol.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: Remember we did call his sister and she did verify
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: she did. Remember, Well, we called Jenny.
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: We need a photo of I really want to see here.
• 19:16
  Speaker 7: There was some other interesting things that your mother did
• 19:18
  Speaker 7: with you as a child.
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: I can just imagine.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: Wow, this podcast South real quick, my god.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: Jackson on the Boxing Gloves, I'm.
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: You know, Jack says a funk around.
• 19:33
  Speaker 5: He goes for t Kow.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: He just goes to write for the Dicks.
• 19:37
  Speaker 7: To say, I'm like, listen, I'm not the old My
• 19:39
  Speaker 7: parents weren't crazy.
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: It was just the norm for camping.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Britney's from the south, from Kentucky. So Brittany, Well, ask
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Brittany what what what? What boxes she slept in?
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: She doesn't remember, she doesn't remember.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: I'm willing to bet that Brittany did not sleep in
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: a box ever. And she went camping probably one hundred
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: times more.
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: Than you did.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and she lived on a farm, and she lives
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: on a farm and living on a farm, so yeah,
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: she probably is like, no, I slept on the crip.
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: I said, all right, well shot born.
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: Oh here we go with the year age yourself.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: That's why she was born on the spaceship my back.
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, about.
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: Was born, remember.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: Jeff, Remember Jack's has to walk to school on the
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: snow and cars before the cars.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: Were so he wrote it. He wrote a dinosaur, like
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: I did.
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: Someone on that principal the.
• 20:39
  Speaker 8: Strange down here. Maybe maybe that's right, maybe we're like
• 20:43
  Speaker 8: it's a little yeah. I always thought that too, And
• 20:48
  Speaker 8: then when I went down there, I was like, someone
• 20:49
  Speaker 8: lies to me.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: All right, Jack Jack's were so grateful. We love you, Brittany,
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: we love you, thanks.
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: For being on. Take care after that.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: We're gonna take a quick I love you guys, we're
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: gonna we're gonna take it.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna take quick break. We're gonna take
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: and come right back and we are back with Give
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: them bo Brock with Randall, give them bow and Brock
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: with Randall. That's the name of this podcast, Give them
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: bow and Brock with Brandon. I'm always I'm always third billing.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: Oh with Jackson a great. I mean, we love Jack's
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: but boy, he just gives it to it. He just
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: feeds it to us.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: I mean he's just teas it up. All right.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: Well, I was gonna ask about do you have like
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: a playroom, play area? I created like this fun because
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: you know, Stas is very like we need to keep
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: everything chic. Wen we got this house and then wasn't
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: you know this house is not very baby asked. We
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: didn't know we're gonna have a baby.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: So I was like, okay, okay, it's right because people
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: don't know. I've been in your house.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: It's beautiful to in the Hollywood Hills, except it's like
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: three levels, three levels with tons of stairs, tons of.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Stairs, three levels, and it's just like and it's everything
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: just looks very nice. So like, where are we going
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: to have like all these plastic things and colorful things.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like you're like when I see your house, I'm
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: like architecture digest like very very Hollywood like veryish, very.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: So so how did you so for me?
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: You know, we in her nursery, Lalla set up like
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: a bunch of like you know, play stuff and all
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: types of stuff, and then in our bedroom we also
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: have like stuff. So I kind of that's kind of
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: where we're at right now because she's not moving around
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: so aggressively yet I think we're getting pretty close.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: Well, see, we had that we still I mean obviously
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: she has the nursery and we have all the fun
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: stuff in there. But now that she's moving around, you
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: have go to a different section. So it's like we
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: want we want to hang out upstairs. I have to
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: have something. So behind the couch, I just pushed Like
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: we have a huge living room, so I pushed the
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: couchs up closer to the TV, and I have a
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: good about eight by six feet in the back.
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: Oh that's smart.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: I went on and designed like a floor plan, like
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: a floor mat. There's like soft tiles.
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: It's like, oh yeah, I like the soft house. Yeah,
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: we have those upstairs in the nursery that the little cushion.
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: Cushion, and then I got just I had to buy two.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: But they're like the little plastic plate pen fences I'm
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: talking about, just like a gate. So then I just
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: right behind there and it's just below the couch, so
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: if you walk in, you can't really see it. Oh
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: you And then so it's like it's almost like an
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: invisible plate pair until you walk up towards the best
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: and then you see it. And then you see it.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: So when you guys are chilling watching TV, she's got
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: her own like fun area.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then usually to sit back there because there's
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: a little bench so we can have the television on,
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: still watch and then play with her.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Well, I just want to say, and then I want
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: to hear you, but I just got to say this.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: So I'm still in a three and a half year renovation,
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: as you know, and.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: It's like renovation, got a pickleball cort done first?
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: I push those.
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: I need this.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: I push those permits hard on the no. But we're
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: we're like we're like like days away from getting our
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: final permits, which is taking twelve months. I'm a family
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: room and I obviously when that's done, we'll we'll have
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: a whole area like that, which I think is toys
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: and yeah, and that's that that that's inspiring because now
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, okay, when we put the couches, like, well,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: that's a smart thing to do, because.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: They'll start to get bored. Like if they're just in there,
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: if they're just in a candle yea yeah, I mean
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: exact thing that, they'll just get board. It's like they
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: can run around and play with the same toys and
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: then all of a sudden it's like, wow, is that
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: a plastic bottle. I'm like, you want to sit there
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: and play with the plastic bottle for five hours? Not
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: the thousands of dollars of freaking you know, toys and
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: stupid shaky things, but Disneyland I built. You want the
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: arrowhead bottle water.
• 24:37
  Speaker 5: Listen to the crunch right, yes, yes, yes?
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: And what about you? What's your setup?
• 24:41
  Speaker 5: With the setup was? I mean, we had like some
• 24:44
  Speaker 5: soft blankets and all that, but now she was kind
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: of definitely moving, She's definitely on the floor, and so
• 24:49
  Speaker 5: I wanted to give him more firm things. So we
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: ordered the tiles and there's actually some really good options
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: online where you can go ahead and get really nastys
• 24:55
  Speaker 5: on on ones. We didn't go that route. We just
• 24:57
  Speaker 5: got the cheap colored ones for now. But I called
• 24:59
  Speaker 5: it a candle. Sorry, I call it a canne. And
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: she had told me off for that because it's a
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: plate pan. Yeah, eas not tell people you'll put in
• 25:11
  Speaker 5: your child into a candle. In trouble, you do, you
• 25:16
  Speaker 5: have to go on vacation. Just dropped her in the kettle.
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: I dropped her off, dropped her off at the kettle.
• 25:22
  Speaker 5: But yeah, so I'm looking forward to that. She's still
• 25:25
  Speaker 5: like walking around. She's got all the nice expensive toys,
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: and then there's also the cheap stuff, the cardboard and
• 25:30
  Speaker 5: the anything in the mouth really wow.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: And he puts the the like a ziploc bag and
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: then dried pasta shells in there, and it's like this
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: perfect little that she can eat and chew on and
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: shake around and.
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: Throw and wow.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: I'm like really, I'm like, you don't want the shakers
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: lived and it lights up and it plays and it
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: talks to you. You don't want Elmo, you don't want
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: Peekapoo Elmo. You just want you just want the cactus.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: Have you seen my Instagram stories and I follow you
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: the freaking cactus. It scared the ship out of her.
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: He press a button, Yeah, it goes look at my
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: mom mo. It has like a hundred songs of these
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: weird I can't tell it's it's not Spanish, it's not Portuguese,
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: not Italian. I think it's like Japanese or Chinese. But
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: they they're making the voices sound like they're from others.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: I have no idea. And then also you press a
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: button and when she goes it will it will do
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: it again. It's literally I've seen that it does it,
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: but it also like it imitates her, and so she
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: says the best it's the best thing. I get that Amazon.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: But there's like literally fifty different versions. You have to
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: find the one with all the music and that and
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: it back. Yeah, I mean it's all the same things,
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: but it's just it's just weird music. You're like, where
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: is it from?
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: This sounds great? Loves it.
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: She sound loves it. It took her like three because
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: the first three weeks he hated it. But you got
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: two of them, one in the upstairs platean and one
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: of the nurseres.
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: So it's all you're doubling.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you doubling that she loves that thing so much.
• 26:50
  Speaker 5: It's just like wow, So she can dance in front
• 26:53
  Speaker 5: of it and then you know, the.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: Thing just moves around and it's just like I mean,
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: it's and I have all like at least three So.
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: You have to you have to post a video this
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: week because I want to see how when.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: We post about this, I'll put it on yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 27:08
  Speaker 5: We'll post our crib set up.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah exactly.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll show you mine like a little walkthrough.
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: I'll open like lifestyles exactly.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: You brought up something on the break that you had
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: to deal with this weekend, like going to football and
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: stuff and how you face your partner, whether it's a
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: real support of go and joy or it's bullshit, it's
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: a trap. Tell me how your how your house works,
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: tell me how your house, tell me how your prison
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: cell works.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: I was like, that sounds more correct, No, nos, fantastic,
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: but it last night was it was a little difficult.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: But the majority of the time, I'm going to say
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: eighty percent of the time, it's not like Russian roulette.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: Eighty percent of the time you're good. Go. But then
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: after last night. I was like, oh there. When she
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: said go out, I'm like, are you sure? Are you
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: sure I can stay a messenger at halftime? Hey, rams
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: are losing. I can totally leave right now, right now
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: and be okay right and then you know, of course
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: I c I was with Tom Schwartz and and then
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: she's like, no, go ahead. So then we walked down
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: to hamburg Er Marry and it's drag show. And then
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: next thing you know, I'm like, okay, I said her,
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: I'd beat back at six, and I'm like Tom and
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: his little half half shots half shots, half shots, and then.
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: He's what is with his half shot bullshit?
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: Well I finally got him. I finally was like no, mother.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: I was like, if you're bull shot, you're gonna put
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: something in my face, you better drink it too. So
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: that's that's the thing. So it's like, if I'm going
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: walking out here toasty, so are you?
• 28:38
  Speaker 3: So he drinks.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So he drank and I left. I came home
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm gonna hang out with baby
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: and washer get you know, take the bath, and and
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: thing was fine. Then once the baby got put down, no,
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: and I was like I was like I don't know.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: I'm like, are you baby, I'm like, you told me
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: that I could go out, and she's like, no, it's fine,
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: it's just I just didn't. I'm like, but I asked
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: you I could. I told you I could go back.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: It's like, it's like you just like you said.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: And I was like, I was like five, no, you
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: can't do this to me.
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: It's wrong.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: It's wrong.
• 29:10
  Speaker 4: It's wrong.
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: And then you get so righteous about it.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: And then I made a pizza and I was like,
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: and I guess we texted wrong. And I made like
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: this flatbird pizza and then it was not very good.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: And then I was drunk, drunk pizza pizza making and
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: for myself and then I you know, she's on a
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: like you know, after pregnancy kind of diet and weight
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: she's eating. So I said, I told her. I'm like,
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: it's I'm pulling it out, you know, thinking that she
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: would come buy. So she didn't, and I threw the
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: pizza away because it also was gross. I kind of
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: over undercooked it and I threw it away. And then
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: next thing you know, she comes up and she goes,
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: you threw the pizza away. I wanted something and I'm like,
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm so sorry.
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: It's so bad you were losing everything.
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: I have another one. I went to the garage. I
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: got another pizza. Literally takes ten minutes to make, put
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: it in there. I don't want it, you don't want
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: and then I'm like, I can just make it. It's
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: it's a pizza. I can literally make it right now.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: And then I was so angry. So then I threw
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: that pizza away she wanted. But then I did not
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: like me throwing that second pizza away, and then it
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: was just me being a brat and an asshole. It's
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: just but I was like, well, fine, you know, and
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: then and then I'm like, I'm really sorry. I am
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: so sorry, like truly, like thought in my heart I didn't,
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: but I didn't know because you know, so now never
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: throw pizza away.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: And by the way, I want to say something, Normally,
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: normally i'd be like looking at you, like what a
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: sad life you have, But then I think about my
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: life and.
• 30:26
  Speaker 9: It's the same, exactly, It's exactly the same, Like like
• 30:31
  Speaker 9: literally this week, I I the World Series of Poker
• 30:34
  Speaker 9: just started in Vegas, and I was like, she knows it.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: Normally because it's normally in June, but you know, because
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: of COVID, they moved it. So I was like, I'm
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: really not playing as many events as I would normally play.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm like, it already started. I
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: missed like seven events because I'm home. And I looked
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: at you first she went to New York, and I said, Babe,
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: I love you so much.
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: I love you so much, and I want you to
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: have the best trip of your life in New York.
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: She was yeah, I said, nobody.
• 30:59
  Speaker 5: I really mean that, just trying to high pop, like,
• 31:01
  Speaker 5: enjoy this experience, and.
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: You're going for three days, and I want those threas
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: to be magical. And then I was wondering on.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: Tuesday if I could go to Vegas for one of
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: them in the World Series Poke, come right back on
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: Wednesday morning. It's exactly how I say it, so and
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: and and it's like quiet and she goes because she's
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: really cool about all that, and she's just like, Babe, yeah, yeah,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: go I go, so hold on, so I could definitely
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: got then, and I'm like enunciating, I'm like, so I
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: can definitely go to the World Series of Poker in
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Las Vegas on Tuesday back Wednesday, babe, Yes, okay, okay,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go. Okay, I love you like It's like
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: I'm petrified because even though she says, yes, what happens
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: tomorrow morning when I get on the plane.
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: And go or Wednesday. Here's the thing what made me
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: think of this, how you're like, I love you. You
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: need to do that for like going to dinner or
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: just any of the smallest thing. So you keep saying that,
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: so when you do have to ask for something, it's
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: numbed out right.
• 31:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: Also, get on your get on your Instagram live and
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: then record her saying that. Then you have proof.
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: That's the world.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: So she wants to shame you.
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: And you could be like, oh, well look at this,
• 32:10
  Speaker 5: he is playing at the same level you are. Right.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: That just popped in my head.
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: You are you are?
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: You are thriving, right, I mean look at Brock and
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: Eye were so we're so beat down, We're like, tell us.
• 32:22
  Speaker 5: More, I went pants. I just don't pick him out
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: every morning. And she I'm talking under the thumb wear
• 32:30
  Speaker 5: the pants, she tells me, trying to win.
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: That is okay, by the way, and Lala would like
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: right now, she was listening. I mean, she was here,
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: she'd say, you know, that's bullshit.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: I let you do you know where you want to,
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, she does give me, you know, because
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: I travel for work and all that stuff.
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: But but at the end of the day, like when
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: it comes to like.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: A personal, real straight up personal trip like that, yeah,
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: I have to I have to ask for for for mercy.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: And we're also not like we're not we're not trying
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: to sound that. Our wives are like, are like, no,
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: we you know, gives me so much freedom and so
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: and she's some fantastic other word. But this but this
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: is just how ladies and gentlemen or ladies who's listening
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: to this? This is basically what we talk about if
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: there was no mic, because we sit there, we gossip,
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: we complain, but when then we go back, we're like,
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: what if you want baby, Yeah, okay, sure you know.
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: And that's literally how how it is as being a dad.
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: You know, we sit there and we talk and gossip
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: about all the you know, well she did that wall,
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: I want to do this. I'm taking control. I'm the man,
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: I could do this, and then we're like, yeah, what
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: do you want? Okay, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry. Can
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: I make you another pizza?
• 33:28
  Speaker 5: Okay, right, it's about you? What about you? I mean, well,
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: I'm going through it right now because we're going we
• 33:34
  Speaker 5: have the same issues because it's kind of like I
• 33:36
  Speaker 5: want to fly, but at the same time, well, I
• 33:38
  Speaker 5: got to do it with planning, and I'm the worst
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: of planning like that. So the only way like where
• 33:43
  Speaker 5: it makes sense and when I get an men is
• 33:45
  Speaker 5: when I'm asking her to do stuff but she's like, yeah,
• 33:47
  Speaker 5: but you didn't plan for this. You just want to
• 33:50
  Speaker 5: spontaneously don't hang out your friends. Sounds fucking fun, but
• 33:52
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna have to plan. Yeah, So if I can
• 33:55
  Speaker 5: plan ahead, I get one hundred percent. Yes, I get
• 33:59
  Speaker 5: a hundred pcent. But it has to be planned.
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I ask like five six days ahead even.
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: Have they plan just for like baby dates and stuff.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: You have to plan to do anything. There's no going
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: out by yourself like last.
• 34:11
  Speaker 5: Minute, no sporadic stuff. And then and then what I
• 34:13
  Speaker 5: try and do is I double down on the emotional
• 34:15
  Speaker 5: deposits because I'll be like, hey, honey, are you sure
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: you don't want to go out with your mum and
• 34:18
  Speaker 5: and your mom and your friend tonight, like I'll stay
• 34:20
  Speaker 5: home with baby. I didn't want to go out anyway,
• 34:23
  Speaker 5: but I'll stay home with the cats. Whatever. But if
• 34:25
  Speaker 5: I can give her those emotional ones, so I can
• 34:27
  Speaker 5: like take those take that credit and just cash in
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: and have the credit in there, but be like, hey, honey,
• 34:31
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna double down right now. And they go to
• 34:33
  Speaker 5: Vegas Randall see Alana And as long as it's planned.
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think less said Lala. As easy as good,
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: cool as they get.
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: But you know again, I think just notice like she
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: wants to say to me, like, hey, I'm going to
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: go with my girls to dinner, like with the girls,
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: and she says it.
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: Like, you know, hey, tomorrow I want to do this whatever.
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, go have fun. And I think it's
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: the same.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: I think it's just you know what, we're joking about
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: our girls being like that. But at the end of
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: the day, I think it's just mutual respect. It's like, hey,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: I want you to feel safe and comfortable. I'm going
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: to go on this trip.
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: Is this okay? Do you feel okay? And what about you?
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: How's it with you? Soon? Same like the planet, it's.
• 35:09
  Speaker 5: It's the plant planning. This is a tough one for
• 35:12
  Speaker 5: me because I'm having nanny, I have a mother in law.
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: Oh that's that's a whole other leg a whole.
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: Other share with us rock.
• 35:22
  Speaker 5: But it's it is honestly like this weekend we had
• 35:26
  Speaker 5: we had a blow up and then reflected and I actually.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: Hold on, Okay, you can't just skim over that here
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: on them with Randall when today is give them owen
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: Brock with Randall.
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: Don't skim over that like a rock. What is just
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: to find blow up? Because we've all had them. So
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: I just want to know what deaf Colm was this
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: ten eight?
• 35:46
  Speaker 5: It was difficult. This was difficult ten like who been
• 35:48
  Speaker 5: at home for two days by myself?
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: America?
• 35:52
  Speaker 5: Like that kind of Yeah, we had we had words
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: from Vegas go back. Well, here's here's the reason. You
• 35:58
  Speaker 5: don't put somebody in a car when you have different
• 36:00
  Speaker 5: opinions of somebody for four hours to Vegas and four
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: hours back, three out of four weeks in a month.
• 36:06
  Speaker 5: Oh that's why. That's why I put it down. So
• 36:09
  Speaker 5: we just had enough of each other and each other's
• 36:11
  Speaker 5: opinions and then I lost this.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: Wait is it you and she in a different opinion,
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: or you're the mother.
• 36:16
  Speaker 5: Me and Sheen are me and himm you against both
• 36:18
  Speaker 5: of them?
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh this is this dude, what you are knowing?
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: What you're done?
• 36:23
  Speaker 4: Dead.
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: By the way, I get out, I get out.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: I get out in Death Valley in the one hundred
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: and twenty two degree heat, and I walk. I won't
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: by the way, Laura would have kicked me out of
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: the car. I wouldn't have a choice. So yeah, I mean,
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: it wouldn't have been an option. I would be like
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: driving and she'd be like, stop, get.
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: Get the fuck out uber your ship to Vegas.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: I could see, like her, the window roll down and
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: then like a bottle and then she pursys on half
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: of it and then puts the cap on and then
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: throws it at you.
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: And then were you there on that trip? Every went on,
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: I was.
• 36:54
  Speaker 5: Passing by, just going to golf.
• 36:56
  Speaker 4: Hold on.
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: So you guys had a different opinion. Do you want
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: to get into that or that's.
• 37:00
  Speaker 5: Well, it's the same. It's the same as opinions. It's like,
• 37:02
  Speaker 5: right now, you can't ask anyone what they believes are
• 37:04
  Speaker 5: in politics. It's cool.
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: Why are you doing this on the way to fucking
• 37:12
  Speaker 3: lost Vegas.
• 37:13
  Speaker 5: No, it's just my cool value. When somebody else says
• 37:15
  Speaker 5: the egg values and I'm just sitting there driving in
• 37:17
  Speaker 5: a car after they listen to it until I get
• 37:22
  Speaker 5: there and get out of the car, I'm like, honey,
• 37:24
  Speaker 5: we're not doing this for a while. And that was it.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: That's like, that's like talking about that in Christmas and
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: the eki me. You just there's certain things you don't eat.
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: Or something like it's a given. Oh my gosh, I
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: want to be in a card for no, no, no, no, no,
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: I'm not getting anxiety right now.
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: It's like it's like at least at home Thanksgiving those
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: dinners you leave, at least you can like.
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: Go to the bar and like you could get up
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: literally and get.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: A little and then go back down.
• 37:44
  Speaker 5: You're like, yeah, you know what you get least week,
• 37:46
  Speaker 5: pull on the gas station. I just get out, calmly,
• 37:48
  Speaker 5: walk inside, get a red pool, staying there for ten minutes,
• 37:51
  Speaker 5: walk back in the car, crack it and keep your.
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: You're gonna walk around the back and be like start
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: punching the garbage can.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't think there's any version of this experience
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: that I could tolerate. I do you know there's airplanes today, right,
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: and you could for ninety nine dollars you.
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: Could get on like Southwest, and it's worth the peace
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: of mind because.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: This four hours between your daughter Sena and the mother
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: in law. I mean, and I, by the way, I'm
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: down for Shina.
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: I love Sheena. She's one of my friends. But like
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: you put two women in a baby in a car
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: with you, I mean, what do you think is gonna happen?
• 38:27
  Speaker 5: Exactly what happened.
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: I think about two when she's older that you can't
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: have that kind of argument too.
• 38:39
  Speaker 5: I was completely silent for four hours, Oh my god,
• 38:41
  Speaker 5: because I was just hairy opinions, and so I just
• 38:44
  Speaker 5: bubbled it up. I wasn't responding to anything.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: For four hours.
• 38:47
  Speaker 5: I was just like, oh my god, we can tell
• 38:50
  Speaker 5: my god, I say. When we got there, I was like, honey,
• 38:52
  Speaker 5: this is how I feel about that last four hours.
• 38:55
  Speaker 5: And I delivered it very poorly, and we all fuck
• 38:59
  Speaker 5: up there and then so she's like, look, I'm going
• 39:02
  Speaker 5: to stay at my mom's for tonight. You and Joy,
• 39:03
  Speaker 5: you go get focused, you get what you need to get.
• 39:05
  Speaker 5: And the role of the story was I was just
• 39:07
  Speaker 5: projecting on my frustration with work and trying to find
• 39:10
  Speaker 5: my balance out that when I have somebody else they're
• 39:12
  Speaker 5: having their opinions about this stuff, I just snap on them.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: And it just happened to be My mother had like
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: this stereotypical law relationship. I like, I don't like Dana
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: Stacey's mom. Godsend like godsend, yes, you know sometimes twenty minutes.
• 39:28
  Speaker 5: What do you guys hear that?
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: Hold on? That's kissing an ass. Now let's take it.
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: Let's take a break right here, and let's give it
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: up to Dana. All right, so you can guess all
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: look at the fu is this no, but it's true.
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: But also it's like having having a parent or like
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: someone a family member close because my mom's in Florida
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: my dad, Yeah, that is.
• 39:52
  Speaker 5: And that's why that's what it's like. It can be
• 39:54
  Speaker 5: frustrating for me. But at the same time, you're lunch
• 39:57
  Speaker 5: in Australia, but you're lucky family, you know what I mean. Like,
• 40:00
  Speaker 5: so I respect that and that's where my issues, when
• 40:03
  Speaker 5: it comes down to it, is just my issues, and
• 40:04
  Speaker 5: I have to be like, all right, broke the shut out,
• 40:06
  Speaker 5: You'll be fine.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: And also the help that you get from from as
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: much annoying as you that you guys hit, She's a blessing.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: I would always be by the way, I bless you, blessing, blessing.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: I agree, Like I'm also lucky because we have her mother,
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: who is at the house lot, like twenty five days
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: out of the month. But the thing is, I love
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Lisa is like my like one of my best friend's
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: true story, Like she's there for Lala and I and
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: she's phenomenal. But I'll tell you, having Lisa be able
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: to get an hour and sixteen minute flight, like last
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: night she came in Lalla in out of town and
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: I was like, come help and be there with me,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: and like, you know, just it's it's It does make
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: it easy for me because my mother's you know, she's
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: in her seventies and she lives. I mean, she flies
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: all the time, but she's in Miami. That's a six
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: hour flight, three time zones. Lisa, I could call within
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: an hour and she's here an hour, you know, a
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: couple hours.
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: So I think it is nice. Like somebodys, we take
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: it for granted and we you know, we all get it.
• 41:02
  Speaker 5: You guys are miss because of Miss Lisa Lisa is
• 41:06
  Speaker 5: not best. It was still a flight away, and yours
• 41:09
  Speaker 5: is a flight away.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, Dana's only an hour and a half.
• 41:12
  Speaker 5: Away, twenty minutes down the street.
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: Similar, it's kind of similar trips.
• 41:17
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's twenty minutes down the street. I thought she
• 41:20
  Speaker 5: was like in Zusa, Issa, so on the freeway there,
• 41:23
  Speaker 5: it takes like thirty minutes.
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: Okay, But what's.
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: The biggest fight you ever had with your mother in law?
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 41:30
  Speaker 5: It was just oh, it was just no, no, no.
• 41:33
  Speaker 5: We had one down in San Diego where she was
• 41:34
  Speaker 5: worried about the people setting up the tent too close
• 41:37
  Speaker 5: to the footpath. And I was like, why are you
• 41:39
  Speaker 5: talking about somebody else's They have nothing to do with us,
• 41:42
  Speaker 5: Like you're talking about something that doesn't affect our life
• 41:45
  Speaker 5: in zero ways. And I don't want to have this conversation.
• 41:48
  Speaker 5: And I sounded like an asshole, and I made her upset.
• 41:51
  Speaker 5: That was the biggest one, by the.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: Way, and I am we've all by the way, we've
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: all been listen, we've all been there, and like, especially
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: during COVID when like it was really intense and business
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: and you know you're stressed just to put food on
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: the table and all that stuff. You know, we've all
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: done things and I've listen. You know what I love
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: about Lisa, honestly is truth both of us. When we
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: have been wrong and she's been wrong and I have
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: been wrong. One thing we have in our group is
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: we can always apologize and be forgiven. Like that's the
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: thing I'll saytest because I don't have that with everybody
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: in my life. Like there are people who hold on
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: a ship for a long time. If I fuck up
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: and I say, at least I'm really sorry I said that,
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: or I'm sorry that I acted a certain way that
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: hurt your feelings, she forgives me and vice versa. She's
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: come to me and said I shouldn't have whatever done that,
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, thank you. So I think as long
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: as you can always own it and be forgiven, then
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: it always things work out, at least in family, you know,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: because I think a lot of family members sometimes go
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: on for decades not speaking. I mean I have friends
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: out there that don't talk to their parents or their
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: in laws because one thing happened and both sides can't
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: politics right.
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, I just think life's too short.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: And you know, family at the end of the day,
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: no matter what happens in life, you're always going to go.
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: You know, the family's never gonna they're not leaving.
• 43:11
  Speaker 5: But I feel like your feelings are always valid at
• 43:13
  Speaker 5: that point in time. You feel like that for a reason.
• 43:15
  Speaker 5: So even if you express him, didn't apologize for and after,
• 43:18
  Speaker 5: it's okay.
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: To be wrong. Correct.
• 43:20
  Speaker 5: So you just felt like that, correct and that, and
• 43:22
  Speaker 5: that gets you go to as long as you're going
• 43:24
  Speaker 5: to eat it off and be like, you know what,
• 43:25
  Speaker 5: that was my bad. But as long as the other
• 43:27
  Speaker 5: piss on the stands that they could be in the
• 43:29
  Speaker 5: wrong too, and I acknowledge that as well.
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: Right, But then it's also being the bigger person to
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: just take it just I'm gonna take this. I'm just
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: going to take this lost, and I think we all
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: have to do that.
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: Something.
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: It's just you know, something, it makes it It's just why,
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: like you said, life's too short, you know, and keeping
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: fam especially now that we have kids and you know,
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: the holidays are coming up, our holidays and like later
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: down the road, you want as much family around that,
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: you know, around our daughters that that you know, so
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: it's not like she just has us and like maybe
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: like one mother for for Christmas or Thanksgiving.
• 43:58
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: So I'm always like, oh, do you would you like
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: to be a part of my family? Like would you
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: you know? Because I'm an only child. So it's like, well.
• 44:06
  Speaker 5: When you went camping?
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we didn't do the camping, but I was
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: just wanted, like, you know, like a whole bunch of
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: family around, right, you want.
• 44:13
  Speaker 5: Like the big gap in Italian You probably did you
• 44:15
  Speaker 5: have your family?
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: I didn't meet them until I was like twenty two.
• 44:18
  Speaker 5: Damn.
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: So oh wow.
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah so my birth yeah, my birth father, my dad
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: is when my mom was like six, gotcha. So that's
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: been my family.
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: So yeah.
• 44:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: But now with Hardford, I'm just like really excited about
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: Thanksgiving where we're doing it, you know, Christmas, wait.
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: Let's talk about the holidays. Where are you doing your Thanksgiving?
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: We're doing an Arrowhead, but then we might do it
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: at our house too. We don't know. We're still trying
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: to figure that out. But for Christmas definitely, we were
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: thinking about renting like Airbnb and Big Bear. But then
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: I'm like, we have I think twelve fifteen people coming,
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: you know, it's mostly like Stussis and then my mom,
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: do you know how expensive that is?
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: You know how expensive that is?
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: And I'm just like, I really want like a white
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: Christmas like snow and all that ship. And I'm like,
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: but that's so expensive, and I really like, what do
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: we want to spend our money on?
• 45:06
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: It's like, so we're just it's such a hard and
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: La is just so not like I've never really lived
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: in a Christmas area from from Nashville to naturally Miami
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: in La Yeah, Florida, Austin, you know, so these aren't
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: very Christmasy times in Los Angeles. So we're still trying
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: to figure it out. What about? What about?
• 45:24
  Speaker 5: So we've got we're gonna we're doing a Hawaii trip.
• 45:26
  Speaker 5: She has done with her family the last three years.
• 45:27
  Speaker 5: So we're gonna go to Hawaii and maybe if Australia
• 45:32
  Speaker 5: opens up their borders, my mum will fly over to
• 45:35
  Speaker 5: spend it with us.
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: They can't even come out.
• 45:36
  Speaker 3: They're the borders pretty tough.
• 45:39
  Speaker 5: They might be opening up in December to leave and
• 45:41
  Speaker 5: come back, but right now it's it's still close. So
• 45:43
  Speaker 5: we'll be doing Hawaii and then that will be before
• 45:46
  Speaker 5: Christmas and then we'll be back we'll just be back here.
• 45:49
  Speaker 5: We haven't got any.
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: Point like un years, I have no idea.
• 45:52
  Speaker 5: I mean that's a little bit too far.
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean six days from Christmas.
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: Christ because it's a specific. Also, New Year's suck. I
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: don't remember what I did is overrated. I don't think
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: I had a great New Year, you know since I
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: was like seven.
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: You know, I like New Year's.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: I like the New Year's because it's just a vacation
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: time where everything's closed and allows me my only two
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: weeks between Christmas series to just be chill, like you
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: know what I mean, without worrying like, oh my god,
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: who's doing this?
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: Because really, people checked down.
• 46:17
  Speaker 5: Nobody's doing any people end of December, beginning of January,
• 46:21
  Speaker 5: you're not getting any like up top day, you know,
• 46:22
  Speaker 5: doing any business wise.
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: Correct.
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: And also New Year's with a baby, how that's going
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: to be a totally different New Year. Maybe we all
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: get together do baby supper or something like that.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: We're gonna be where for New Year's will be in Miami,
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: So everybody, if you guys want to come down obviously,
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: and we're gonna babies on the beach chill, you know, the.
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: Babies on the beach and then Christmas.
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: You know, like because my whole life I grew up
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: in Miami in La right, so like I never had
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: a white Christmas. Ever, the Lalla has really driven at
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: home that for Ocean throws Christmas. She wants to spend
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: it in you deer valley. Yeahah, and we're gonna run
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: a place up in the mountain and first time ever
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: Christmas in the snow.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: That's awesome. Yeah, that's that's what that's what we want. Yeah,
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: this is the kind of same type of snow vibe.
• 47:05
  Speaker 5: And yeah, I don't want a snowy No, I'm fine
• 47:08
  Speaker 5: with the beach.
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: I mean yeah, but I mean, I you know, she's
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: the boss, so you know, so she gave me Miami
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: for New Year's and I and I'm gonna, you know,
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: we compromise on Christmas.
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: You like, okay Christmas. But you know what I like skiing.
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: And the thing is is that every year I go
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: to Sunyan.
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: It's the only time ever ski And because Sony Ants
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: has been canceled, you know, in terms of live the
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: last couple of years, this will be nice to go
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: and I'll be able to ski and and oh she'll
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: be able to have her first Christmas in the snow
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: that she'll never remember a little.
• 47:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know what if she'll never remember, with.
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: All the videos that we take of it, she's gonna remember.
• 47:40
  Speaker 3: By the way, By the way, I agree, good point,
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: because there's so much video.
• 47:43
  Speaker 5: It's just so easy.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I have, like the hard copies back
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: when I was a kid, Jack's hies with black and
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: white copies of photos.
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: Jessica sets, Oh yeah, I have those too.
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: I was saying, Jack's has like, you know, old black
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: and white photos because he was born you know, back
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: in the seventies fact before color was invented. So I
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: was born in eighties, so that was nineteen eighty that's
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: right when color card photos, Jack Jacksie.
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: Our photos are like polaroids, and it's always like March
• 48:06
  Speaker 3: eighty one.
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: February seventy written in cursive on the back, and I
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: faded because it's like the blue ball point.
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: It's like faded, and all your ship, all his ship's
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: like you know, fucking video.
• 48:20
  Speaker 5: It's it's actually, how old are you?
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: How are you?
• 48:23
  Speaker 5: I'm thirty one now, not even forty one, okay, so yeah,
• 48:28
  Speaker 5: and I'm fifty. That's a little right in the middle. Yeah, wow, yeah,
• 48:33
  Speaker 5: like you were born like I was born before Nintendo.
• 48:35
  Speaker 5: You were born what like Super Nintendo the second.
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: I was I was born Atari twenty six hundred.
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: I had that. My dad had that with the freaking
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: orange orange.
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: Pop.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: Of course, there's an instagram that pops up that it's
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: like has all the game consoles and they're like, which
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: one are you? And I'm like the first one.
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: I was the one before that.
• 49:00
  Speaker 5: There was the test before it became a little die.
• 49:03
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, sketch it.
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my gosh wow.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: And then what about I mean, it's just fun and reminisce.
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: But what about technology? So when you were so we'll
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: start with you when you were born, when we were young.
• 49:15
  Speaker 5: Technology is also slower in Australia than it is a little.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: Bit when you were a teenager, like because that's the
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: time you want to run, Like when you were thirteen
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: and like seventeen, what device did you did you rock?
• 49:25
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 49:25
  Speaker 5: I didn't even have a fine I'll grow up in
• 49:26
  Speaker 5: the country, so I was.
• 49:27
  Speaker 3: Nothing nothing, Okay? Uh was what was your first phone?
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: You ever got?
• 49:32
  Speaker 5: That you that you can remember thirty three fifteen when
• 49:35
  Speaker 5: I was like sixteen.
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: Noia Kia was just the square device.
• 49:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I remember, okay, and that was my first mine.
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: You had a pager and I was paid Yeah ninety
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: three pager, that pager where you would like you could
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: you have.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: To go to the sety three Wait ninety three.
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: I was graduating college and I had my first flip
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: phone in and then I remember I was so excited
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: going to the flip ninety three flip phone ninety four
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: when I was graduating college that.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: Maybe my mom just didn't buy it for me.
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: You probably didn't get it. Yeah, you got right, I
• 50:05
  Speaker 3: got we all have. I had a pager. I had
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: a pager al during college, but then I got I
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: was able to like, in my what does a page
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: it's a little much, it's a little any way, take
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: a moment. Please just take a moment. Take a moment.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: This is what's amazing about generational gap. Brock just said it,
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: by the way, not even making fun of me. I'm
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: just saying, wow, Well.
• 50:24
  Speaker 5: Because I always see them in the movies like oh
• 50:26
  Speaker 5: I got a page and they looked down and it's.
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: Like, oh, I just want to take this moment.
• 50:30
  Speaker 5: I mean, he's being sincere.
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: That's what's amazing. I feel like I feel like I
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: just grew another ring.
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: I think I just age you.
• 50:37
  Speaker 3: I'm picking up my coffee. You have to I'm picking
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: out my fucking casket.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: The fuck.
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: Let's go look at what? Tell what the pager is?
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: So patrons, this a little like you know, device square
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: thing where like your mom would call you and like
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: it would be from her number and the like you
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: got to pull over.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: This one would show up. It would show up and like,
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: this person's reaching you, and then you have to go
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: to a pay phone. But in a back then it
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: was a dime and then to like hey, and you'd
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: be like, oh mom, Like he's got a page for
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: It's like what time you're gonna be home?
• 51:07
  Speaker 5: You like says She's kind of cool. When you on them,
• 51:10
  Speaker 5: it's a vibrant.
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: And it gets the number. But then like in high school,
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: you could send message. You would do like you message
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: it one for three. If you're dating someone, she would
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: just randomly message you one for three I love you.
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And then you can do certain little things
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: like the little codes and stuff. Yeah, your friends would
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: know that this is like you know, like like where
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: we're going to meet all types of like her number.
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: Then next would be like like like another code of
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: like all ones, which means like an exclamation point is
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: an emergency, get you know, get over there.
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: My parents had My parents had phones from the minute
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: they came out. My parents were like like into the technology.
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: And my mom had that first brick phone.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: I was so one of the with the backpack.
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: My dad had the back yeah, the big thing with
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: the big thing. It was like it looked like you
• 51:52
  Speaker 3: were working, you know, working on like an aircraft.
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: Like one in his car. I remember it never worked.
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: He had one in the car, the car he had
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: in a car there's and it never works, like this
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: is a brand new car. This thing doesn't work with
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: the cord, I mean with the cord of the whole thing,
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: like in the car. Did you ever see like the
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: Beverly Hillbillies movie from over the nineties, Remember when like
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: the Beverly hill Billies, Like it's like the nineties movie
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: and they're sending the back of the limo and they
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: just you know, get out of their country and she
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: pulls up the brick phone and they're like and the
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: woman like she think she's talking to somebody.
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: Earl oh, my god like that.
• 52:25
  Speaker 5: When I moved to America, That's why I got a
• 52:27
  Speaker 5: four to four number, because I wanted.
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: No, oh my god, That's why.
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: I was the same wh when I moved to LA
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: I wanted three one old. Just be like oh, because
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: at that time there was no four two four, It
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: was three one oh. There was only three one o
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: and two one three and eight one eight. So if
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: you were like two and three, you're a Hollywood person.
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: If you were eight, when eight you were the Valley
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: and three and oh you were like Beverly Hills. I
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: was broken and a nickel and I'm like, I'm yeah.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: I mean why I parked my car sixteen blocks away
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: from the valet because I didn't want Tony to see,
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: you know, the rundown car I had because early work.
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was I'm ee. Because when I first moved here,
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: I moved lived in Tuluga Lake for I think the
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: first yeah, for the first year, and then Silver Lake.
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: You kept it and I just kept it.
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you yeah, twenty one years, same number, same number,
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: twenty one years. Well, I think I've had about three
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: in the twenty one years, but one is like legit
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: and I've.
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: Had it for so long that sometimes people like mess
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: like when we like when you know, people found out
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: that I had a baby, I'll sudden just getting all
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: these random numbers like congratulations, and you have no idea,
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: no cloud, no idea, no clue, like I.
• 53:32
  Speaker 5: Still my bad friend. I'm like, who who's these I
• 53:34
  Speaker 5: have with semi random numbers?
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm the same and you know, and and
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: then I start like I always want to change my
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: number because I'm like, I just you stopped with all
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: the constant messages. And then I'm like that I get
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: an anxiety, like, oh my god. Then what about business?
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: What about that guy like that I dealt with three
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: years ago? What if he wakes up and wants to
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: do a deal with me this year?
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: I can't.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: I can't.
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, It's like I freak out.
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: Yep, I loved Now.
• 53:59
  Speaker 5: I go on for you? How's going back off the
• 54:02
  Speaker 5: pages in the final spring? It back into being panenting?
• 54:05
  Speaker 5: What about the sex lot? How are we doing it?
• 54:08
  Speaker 5: How's it affected you guys? Has anything changed? Because I mean, yeah,
• 54:13
  Speaker 5: let's why are you guys starn to me?
• 54:15
  Speaker 3: Here's the thing I say. I think we're looking at
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: you because you're nine months in so you have the
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: most runway away from the birth.
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: Okay, so let's start with you, and then I'll go
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: to me because I'm ahead of Brock, and then Brock
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: is the closest.
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: To the birth.
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: Okay, So I've I guess I'm I'm frustrated with myself
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: because at forty one, I should be like like buying
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: those pills at seven eleven to the front that like
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: get you know, because forty one, I thought that my
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: mojo is supposed to like go down. I don't know
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: what happened, but like after when I like after, I
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: feel like, yeah, after Harford was born, I I like, also,
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: I'm so attracted to my wife that I'm just like
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: you know when she like just changes, I'm like, hey,
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: I'm so attracted to my wife, and my brain is
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: so like sexually activated, like the past nine months, my
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: body is like I feel like I'm I'm a rabbit.
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: I just I'm always thinking about it. I always thinking about.
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: Her hold on in pregnancy. How often you have.
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: All the time, which is all the time at least
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: to at least.
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: To talk about we were like it just got like
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: we did, but like it got like awkward. I thought
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 55:21
  Speaker 5: I definitely slide down.
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: I was like, it was a little it was a
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: little yeah, it's a little mental for a small penis.
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: So I didn't have.
• 55:30
  Speaker 6: You guys are like my big old dick was going
• 55:32
  Speaker 6: to pop it in the head. Get at scientifically, no
• 55:36
  Speaker 6: way whatever you have on her half I heard it
• 55:40
  Speaker 6: was just.
• 55:40
  Speaker 5: Like there's a lot going on there. I was like, honey,
• 55:43
  Speaker 5: this isn't working for me. It just it just got
• 55:45
  Speaker 5: It was emotional.
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: It was a mental for me to doing now now
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: what about after after so so on? So are you saying?
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: So I would sit there and she would be like,
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: you know, I have to get like you can't just
• 55:58
  Speaker 2: we're not you know, it's not like first year that together,
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: which instant. So now I'm like, now I found the way.
• 56:03
  Speaker 2: I'm like, would you like, would you like a midday
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: massage because there's there's no more morning sex because hardfer's
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: gonna wake up.
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: I'd rather sleep now, you know, you know what the
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: hardest thing for us, and and and she's all about it,
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: and she you know, we just had a conversation like
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: you know, when she gets back from this trip, like she's.
• 56:20
  Speaker 3: Really feeling it.
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: And the thing about is is time and that's something
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: that we're now working on in the relationship, is like,
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: you just have to make sure that time in the
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: relationship is a priority.
• 56:30
  Speaker 3: And I think that was hard for both of us.
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: I think the baby came and everything was about the
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: baby and then work and then coming out of a pandemic,
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: trying to make a living, trying to put you know,
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: trying to get back to some level of even because
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't a great time. And I think
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: now we've looked at each other and said, there's nothing
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: more important than time together.
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: And I think it took us.
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: We're six months into to ocean, but I think it
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: took us about four and a half months we started saying, Okay,
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter.
• 57:01
  Speaker 3: We have to have time for each other.
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: Because why, guys are the foundation.
• 57:03
  Speaker 3: You need them. You need to keep that correct and
• 57:05
  Speaker 3: I and I think people forget that.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: I think you know, when you ask people, they'll say,
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: and therapists have told me this, you know that I've
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: gone to in my life. Uh, you know, just on
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: an individual base, they saying, you know, just so you know,
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: relationship has to be the priority. Yeah, because if your
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: relationship is healthy, your children will be healthy. Yeah, your
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: relationship is dysfunctional.
• 57:25
  Speaker 3: Your your children's dysfunctional.
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: So I so we both took that as meaning not
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: we're dysfunctional, but just like your kids are going to
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: be great, but if you're great, they're going to be phenomenal, right,
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: Like they're gonna be okay. So now we're saying okay,
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: time together, date nights, trips, like.
• 57:44
  Speaker 3: You know, we just on this floor.
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And there's nothing more important to us now
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: is creating that time together.
• 57:51
  Speaker 3: So that's that's for us.
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: It's helped us in the in our sex life and
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: and being reconnected in a more positive way because and
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: more positive but just in a healthier way, because our
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: attention between work and our baby was taking up like
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: consuming us. But now it's like no, no, no, no,
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: Tuesday's date night doesn't matter what the fuck's going on.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: We're going out to dinner and we're coming home and
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: we're getting it on.
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: See yeah, Moday Night's definitely that's easy.
• 58:20
  Speaker 5: Going to get home for the date night. It's like, wait,
• 58:22
  Speaker 5: we have to Oh. I felt like we did the
• 58:23
  Speaker 5: same thing Sina and I we had We were like
• 58:26
  Speaker 5: we got to make time for ourselves. But then then
• 58:28
  Speaker 5: it got to a point where we're putting so much
• 58:29
  Speaker 5: pressure on coming home and having sex that it wasn't
• 58:32
  Speaker 5: happening because I was just like for me, I was
• 58:34
  Speaker 5: kind of like I was like, oh, I'm just gonna
• 58:37
  Speaker 5: go to bed, like I'm tired. And so to get
• 58:40
  Speaker 5: over that, we tried it a few times, went to
• 58:41
  Speaker 5: Palm Springs and even during like our first time having
• 58:45
  Speaker 5: sex after baby was like four months into it, and
• 58:47
  Speaker 5: then everybody even trying was like halfway through making that
• 58:50
  Speaker 5: with her in like full play, I'm like, I like,
• 58:53
  Speaker 5: look at her, what are you thinking about right now? Well,
• 58:55
  Speaker 5: she's like, oh, I'm thinking is it still the same
• 58:57
  Speaker 5: down there? Is my baby inside? Like I was like,
• 58:59
  Speaker 5: it's and then that doesn't do it for me? Yeah,
• 59:02
  Speaker 5: and needs you win with this? This is I need
• 59:04
  Speaker 5: a response for that to get that energy gone.
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: So like you need the connection and you also and
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: you're also also probably and I know you because your
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: sense of a person like you want her to feel
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: safe and connected. So you're asking her like are you
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: all right? And she's also has the insecurities, which which
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: I know you know Lala has or had you know,
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: I think in the beginning, but it's like I just
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: tell her like it's you and I like, don't don't worry,
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: like when we're in that moment, like let's just and
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: she's she's you know, she h yeah.
• 59:31
  Speaker 3: I think. I think you've got to just work on
• 59:33
  Speaker 3: it because it thinks not it. There's no book to it.
• 59:35
  Speaker 5: It's like, well, exactly what worked for us was just spontaneously,
• 59:39
  Speaker 5: So what instead of me going like, hey, like let's go,
• 59:41
  Speaker 5: we're gonna go to dinner, it's not get it on.
• 59:43
  Speaker 5: After I was like, hey, honey, I'm getting the shower quick,
• 59:45
  Speaker 5: come with me. And then I dumped in shouting and
• 59:48
  Speaker 5: it was like, oh that was easy, see where it is.
• 59:50
  Speaker 5: And then it just took all the stress of going
• 59:52
  Speaker 5: to dinner and coming home and playing and have six
• 59:54
  Speaker 5: like the mental runway there. I was just like handy
• 59:58
  Speaker 5: jumping shower with me real quick that we just started
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 5: making out and the it what God.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: It's almost like those like the nerves like when you're
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: saying it's like the nerves on the first date, you're
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 2: like all the day, like do I kiss her when
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: I drop her off? I mean like I got to
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 2: the restaurant yet, But do I kiss her when I
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 2: drop her off? Oh my god, what do I do?
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 2: What I or you know, or just even that first yeah,
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 2: this first moment. But we sit there and uh, we
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 2: just kind of I just have the thing like I'm saying,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: midday massage and you know, and I go midday massage,
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: no touchy like, no sexy time, just to be like,
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: if she doesn't want sexy time, you still get a massage, right,
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 2: Sometimes she does, so then it's like it's it's a
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: win when she gets a massage and you know, we
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 2: get to you know, make a love.
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 5: I love that.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 5: I've never been so happy and like happy in any
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 5: relationship my entire life. But now with this one, she's
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 5: she's a mother of my child, and it's she's amazing.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 5: It's just the best. Like, and talk to guys that
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 5: have the same situations going on, like I just always
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 5: want to make sure I did the best version of
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 5: myself for my family now, and that's the pressure I
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 5: put on myself.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: And it's an evolution, like we're all nobody's perfect law
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: is not perfectly I'm not for you guys, like, but
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: but as long as you work on it and you
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: put the effort in.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 3: I think we're all in up in the right place.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we're doing pretty damn good.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 3: I think we're over I think the three of us
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: are overachievers.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 5: I definitely didn't put my kid in a bulks yet
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 5: now or it sucks, I'm going to order ed Carton's
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 5: milk car what is it?
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 2: Carts for all of us?
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, this was awesome and honestly this
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: is probably my favorite podcast. This is the ship I
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: love and I know you guys like it. So we
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: got to try to make this, you know, every eight weeks,
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: like we were out to try to do this because.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 3: This is like good guys. You know, we don't get
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 3: the time like to just talk with.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: We need to have like at least enough time for
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: new things to happen.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: A couple of months goes.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: By and we come back in and now, you know,
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: and now your daughter's you know, sprinting, My daughter's in marathons.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 5: One's still in the pen.
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: Well, dude, I want to thank you guys for the
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: give Them Bow and Rock with Randall podcast today. I
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: had the best time. Uh, everybody, Brox Instagram is.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 5: Brooke on the School on the School Davies, the good.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 3: The bad, bogie uh yeah, and you know where to
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 3: find me with my six followers. There you go, Thanks
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 3: for having and we'll see you guys next week.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 5: See you guys,