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The Dancer · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: All right, Lindsay, and Windsor is on the line. Good morning, Lindsay, Hi,
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  Speaker 1: good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Well, welcome to second Date Update. Obviously you know what
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  Speaker 2: it's all about.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So the producer says, you went on a date
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  Speaker 2: with a guy named Max.
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  Speaker 1: Tell me about this fabulous date with Max.
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  Speaker 4: I did.
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  Speaker 3: He's like, very sweet, we had a very hallmark estate.
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  Speaker 3: So we went to the shore. We got some ice cream,
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  Speaker 3: and we walked along the beach like it was very cute.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm just so confused on why I feel like
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  Speaker 3: I'm getting ghosted right now because I thought the date
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  Speaker 3: went perfectly fine, like it was magical.
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  Speaker 2: Good conversation. Did you feel like there was flirting? Was
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  Speaker 2: there any flirting going on?
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely? Yeah. I felt like we hit it. We had
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  Speaker 3: an amazing you know.
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  Speaker 1: Chemistry when you guys were on the beach.
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  Speaker 2: Did he stop and pick up like seashells and needles
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  Speaker 2: for you and stuff like that, needles to get beaches,
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  Speaker 2: Let's be.
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  Speaker 3: Honest, definitely like pick us some shelves.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, okay, And you reached out to him
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  Speaker 2: to thank him for the date or whatever, hoping for
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  Speaker 2: a second date, and that's he's just not returning your
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  Speaker 2: call or text.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah I did. I uh, like thirty minutes after our date.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, you know, I made it home, like
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  Speaker 3: I was texting him thank you and all that.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, And so you're getting totally ghosted and you want
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  Speaker 2: you just want answers.
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  Speaker 1: You want to find out why you're getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 4: M hmm.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Well this is what we're gonna do.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna have you on hold. We're gonna call Max.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna ask him about the date as well. You're
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  Speaker 2: going to be listening in at any point if you
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  Speaker 2: want to chat with Max or talk to him, feel
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  Speaker 2: free to jump on the line.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Let's call him.
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  Speaker 2: I would do a sure date, but but don't want
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  Speaker 2: to wear a bathing suit.
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  Speaker 1: We don't have to wear.
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  Speaker 2: But if you're going to go to the beach, if
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  Speaker 2: it's a beach day, you do.
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  Speaker 1: Hello is Max there?
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Hey is Max? Hey?
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  Speaker 1: Hey Max, it's Courtney Max. It's Walmart chef. Hey Max,
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  Speaker 1: it's Savannah. You're on the radio. You're on Kiss ninety
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  Speaker 1: five to seven this morning.
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  Speaker 4: Oh hey guys, Hey, how's it going on?
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  Speaker 1: It's going.
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  Speaker 2: Well, listen, I have to tell you you're on the radio
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  Speaker 2: because it is Second Date Update, And if you're familiar
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  Speaker 2: with the show, then you know about Second Date Update.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah I do. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So that means you're ghosting someone after a great first
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  Speaker 2: date and I'll refresh your memory.
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  Speaker 1: Because you could be like a data halic. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Lindsey called us and said, she went on like a
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  Speaker 2: date that was so beautiful. It was like a Hallmark movie.
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  Speaker 2: You went to the shore, you walk the beach, you
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  Speaker 2: had a great time. But now you're ghosting her.
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  Speaker 4: No, a date was good, it was great, she's great
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  Speaker 4: and we had a really good time together.
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, then why if the date was great and
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  Speaker 2: she's great, was there just not a connection?
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  Speaker 1: Did you not feel like a romantic connection?
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  Speaker 4: No? I felt like there could be something there, but
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  Speaker 4: I just didn't. There's something, uh, like like life stuff
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  Speaker 4: that that I'm just that that wasn't working for me.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, like long term values or like marriage, kids, religion,
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  Speaker 2: like what what are what's going on?
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  Speaker 1: Secret throughout?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 4: So so she said on a profile like what she
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  Speaker 4: does for work, and she says, you know dancer and uh,
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  Speaker 4: And I was like cool, like works with kids or
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  Speaker 4: you know, does ballet recitals or you know, teaches kids
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  Speaker 4: or whatever. Nice, but yeah, but I found out it
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  Speaker 4: is that she's actually a stripper.
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  Speaker 2: Oh nice, Oh oh dancer dancer Okay, oh.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, this is lindsay Himax. I just have to jump
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  Speaker 3: in right now, and I'm I'm completely appalled and offended
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  Speaker 3: by your opinion right now.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, well it's my I mean, you didn't say anything.
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  Speaker 4: It's pretty different to say you're like a dancer, like
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  Speaker 4: are you in a are you like a ballet dancer?
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  Speaker 4: You teach kid? Like that's a I actually.
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  Speaker 3: Have a background in ballet. I do have a background
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  Speaker 3: in ballet, but I did choose to be a stripper,
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  Speaker 3: and I don't understand why, like there's so much stigma
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  Speaker 3: around that. And then coming I didn't get that vibe
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  Speaker 3: from you when we were on the date, so I'm
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  Speaker 3: very surprised.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know if there's like stigma. It's
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  Speaker 4: just like I feel weird taking it home to see
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  Speaker 4: my grandma. If like that's what you do for it,
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  Speaker 4: like whatever, people have it as a job, but it's
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  Speaker 4: just I don't want to It's not really for me,
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  Speaker 4: you know, Okay, Wow.
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  Speaker 3: It's a legitimate job though, Like I have to do
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  Speaker 3: customer service, I have to like be physically fit. There's
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  Speaker 3: a lot of skills that go into my job.
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  Speaker 1: And you probably make good money. Do you make good money? Lindsay?
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  Speaker 3: I make six figures?
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  Speaker 1: Oh go girl, there's a lot of lap dancers figures.
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  Speaker 1: It's over one hundred thousand, you know, I know.
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  Speaker 2: I kind of feel like we should reconsider our career
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  Speaker 2: choices at this point. So can we just so, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I made.
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  Speaker 3: One hundred thousand dollars last year and this year I'm
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  Speaker 3: like heading to almost two hundred thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 2: So she's a really good stripper, then you're really good,
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  Speaker 2: all right. So so Max, it's more like a lifestyle
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  Speaker 2: thing for you.
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  Speaker 1: It's just you're not you.
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  Speaker 4: Don't yeah long term, like oh great, I'm going to
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  Speaker 4: the office and then you're just like going to the
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  Speaker 4: strip club and like I have to think about that
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  Speaker 4: when you come home from work. Like I get that
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  Speaker 4: it's a job, but it just makes it makes me uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want you.
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  Speaker 3: Want to share a really hot girl. I'm sorry, Well, okay.
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  Speaker 2: I would usually offer to pay for a second date,
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  Speaker 2: if you guys wanted to try and make it work
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  Speaker 2: through a second date. But I feel like it's probably
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  Speaker 2: just not a connection, and it's it's just you guys
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  Speaker 2: think totally different and I don't. I just I'm not
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  Speaker 2: going to offer the second date.
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  Speaker 4: I just I don't think it is the right fit.
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  Speaker 4: And I thought that was just cool to just move
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  Speaker 4: on from that. But I didn't know I was being
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  Speaker 4: attacked here.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, nobody's attacking you, and I appreciate you for
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  Speaker 2: being honest and finally letting Lindsay know. And Lindsay, you've
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  Speaker 2: got closure, You've got the answers.
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  Speaker 1: Now you know why you were getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, as I thought, So okay, Lindsey, Max, thank you
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  Speaker 2: guys for being on a second date update.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you