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- 0:01Speaker 1: Welcome it, change Makers to the Deck Show with Tim
- 0:05Speaker 1: Flower and Tom McGraw.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Let's get into it.
- 0:09Speaker 3: Hello, change Makers, Welcome back to the Deck Show, Show
- 0:12Speaker 3: within a show, Reality Bites. It's it's our tradition to
- 0:18Speaker 3: have a year's end panel discussion regular listeners to both
- 0:24Speaker 3: the Deck Show and Reality Bites and over. Tim and
- 0:27Speaker 3: I have the other tradition of talking to Jeff Wright,
- 0:30Speaker 3: and we've already recorded that, and now we're very excited
- 0:34Speaker 3: to bring the whole panel back together because we have
- 0:37Speaker 3: seen an amazing year for Next Think, for decks, for
- 0:41Speaker 3: technology in general. I would see, I would say, thinking
- 0:45Speaker 3: specifically about decks, we've seen another Gardener Magic Quadrant this year,
- 0:49Speaker 3: another leadership position for Next Think. We've seen incredible Next
- 0:53Speaker 3: Think innovation unveiled such as Spark and Assistant AI Driver.
- 0:58Speaker 3: As we've covered quite extensively on the show. We've had
- 1:02Speaker 3: record breaking events in London and Boston, and we've had
- 1:06Speaker 3: we're proud and humble to say, another record breaking year
- 1:11Speaker 3: here at the deck Show and of course on Reality Bites.
- 1:15Speaker 3: So we're gonna we're gonna welcome everybody, all of our
- 1:18Speaker 3: all of our regular panelists are here with us, for
- 1:20Speaker 3: our end of year party, and we're gonna go one
- 1:23Speaker 3: by one. We've got some fantastic and fun questions for everybody.
- 1:28Speaker 3: I've loved the answers I've seen put in the chat,
- 1:32Speaker 3: so excited to get to everyone. But let's start with you,
- 1:35Speaker 3: Tim Flower, Tim Hayden.
- 1:37Speaker 4: Good time?
- 1:37Speaker 3: How about yourself doing great?
- 1:40Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 1:40Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, excited, excited just to go through the questions.
- 1:44Speaker 3: We've got a little music for everybody, We've got a
- 1:46Speaker 3: little a little fun and of course we're going to
- 1:49Speaker 3: be asking what you know first and foremost, most substantially,
- 1:52Speaker 3: what defined twenty twenty five for you? So let's let's
- 1:57Speaker 3: begin with this one. Tim, before we get to our
- 1:59Speaker 3: quick five aroun how would you put your finger on
- 2:03Speaker 3: the last twelve months.
- 2:05Speaker 4: I think you're going to hear a lot and the
- 2:07Speaker 4: answers and conversation about AI. So I'm not going to
- 2:09Speaker 4: start with AI. What to find it? I We've talked
- 2:14Speaker 4: about it on the show before. I write a couple
- 2:16Speaker 4: of both business and personal milestones in time related age
- 2:21Speaker 4: and time with the company. And I look back at
- 2:24Speaker 4: my twenty years at Hartford was all sitting at a desk,
- 2:27Speaker 4: and my ten years here at Next Think have primarily
- 2:30Speaker 4: been living out of a suitcase and traveling to all
- 2:34Speaker 4: corners of the world, talking with people both distant coworkers
- 2:39Speaker 4: and IT executives and strangers along the way, and being
- 2:43Speaker 4: immersed in different cultures like Tokyo and Sydney and Melbourne
- 2:47Speaker 4: and too many to mention all around Europe, and it
- 2:51Speaker 4: gives you. I contrast that with sitting at a desk
- 2:53Speaker 4: for twenty years, and it just changes your worldview, not
- 2:57Speaker 4: just in the business that we're in and how next
- 2:59Speaker 4: Thing can help all of these people everywhere they live,
- 3:01Speaker 4: but in your personal life too. In a larger sense.
- 3:05Speaker 4: It also connects me directly with the business of Next Think, right.
- 3:09Speaker 4: I think we can get lost in our chores and
- 3:11Speaker 4: our tasks and our to dos when we're sitting at
- 3:13Speaker 4: a desk. But being out and talking with people and
- 3:16Speaker 4: experiencing what they're dealing with and what next Think is
- 3:19Speaker 4: doing to help, I think, really invigorates me. And this
- 3:25Speaker 4: past year. This year it was probably the most travel
- 3:28Speaker 4: in my career. The first half of the year, I
- 3:31Speaker 4: was on the road maybe eighteen weeks out of the
- 3:34Speaker 4: twenty six nine weeks all at once, not coming home
- 3:37Speaker 4: for nine weeks. I left my home last February it
- 3:41Speaker 4: was frozen over and I came home in April and
- 3:43Speaker 4: the grass was out in the leaves around. So it's
- 3:46Speaker 4: a huge part of my job and my career and
- 3:50Speaker 4: my life is that travel around the world. But this
- 3:52Speaker 4: year really really peaked with some new places. But then
- 3:57Speaker 4: AI as well. Right, it defines almost everything that we
- 4:03Speaker 4: did this year. It's become for me. It's become that
- 4:07Speaker 4: knowledgeable collaborator rather than just a searcher for answers. Right.
- 4:12Speaker 4: It helps me form concepts for research and think about
- 4:15Speaker 4: things I might have missed or you know, even in
- 4:20Speaker 4: my personal life, helped me research some retirement Q and
- 4:23Speaker 4: A questions and planning and modeling, help with road trip advice. Hey,
- 4:27Speaker 4: I want to go to these three cities over the
- 4:29Speaker 4: course of two weeks, map it out for me and
- 4:31Speaker 4: what should I see. All kinds of things that would
- 4:34Speaker 4: just take days and weeks or even months to do,
- 4:37Speaker 4: it can do in seconds. So, you know, I even
- 4:40Speaker 4: uploaded a solar contract. I'm looking at solar for my house.
- 4:43Speaker 4: Uploaded the contract and said give me all the red
- 4:45Speaker 4: flags and it listed everything out that I should be
- 4:47Speaker 4: concerned with from a legal standpoint, So its just having
- 4:50Speaker 4: access to instant knowledge that that really woke woke my
- 4:56Speaker 4: senses up this year.
- 4:57Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds a bit like I had the same
- 4:59Speaker 3: thing by in a second hand car. I was just
- 5:01Speaker 3: uploading service histories of the cars. I was breaking it
- 5:06Speaker 3: down for me, and I thought, I'm no longer blind
- 5:09Speaker 3: in this process. I'm no longer as vulnerable as I
- 5:11Speaker 3: always otherwise, I am not being much of a car person. Tim,
- 5:16Speaker 3: coming back to your the global nature of your year,
- 5:20Speaker 3: which is of course indicative of the global creep of decks,
- 5:25Speaker 3: right and that we live in, and it's reaching new
- 5:28Speaker 3: new markets and new and new horizons. If you had
- 5:32Speaker 3: to just think of one place that you were most
- 5:35Speaker 3: pleased to have seen with your own eyes, could be
- 5:39Speaker 3: very specific, could be a country, and obviously not casting
- 5:43Speaker 3: Shade and all the other wonderful places you went. What
- 5:45Speaker 3: what what? What was? What were you most grateful for
- 5:47Speaker 3: having seen?
- 5:49Speaker 4: My favorite is Sydney because I've been there several times now,
- 5:51Speaker 4: But the one that really made me set up and
- 5:54Speaker 4: pay attention to was Tokyo because going to Japan, it's
- 5:59Speaker 4: such it's not a European based culture. It's very different
- 6:02Speaker 4: in the way they operate, if you will. And the
- 6:08Speaker 4: questions I had going in and flying into into Tokyo
- 6:11Speaker 4: were is dex going to translate? And it's almost h
- 6:18Speaker 4: It's almost a perfect metaphor because you've got to do
- 6:20Speaker 4: so much translation of the language as well. Right, You've
- 6:23Speaker 4: got to when you're in a meeting, you talk for
- 6:26Speaker 4: two or three sentences and then they translate it, and
- 6:29Speaker 4: then they translate it back to you, and then you
- 6:30Speaker 4: talk for another two or three sentences. So the will
- 6:33Speaker 4: decks translate for me was the perfect metaphor because you've
- 6:36Speaker 4: got to you gotta do the language translation first and
- 6:39Speaker 4: then make sure the concept also translates to to how
- 6:42Speaker 4: they operate. But Tokyo just as a culture, clean, inviting, quiet,
- 6:47Speaker 4: so respectful, friendly people. I would go back over and
- 6:52Speaker 4: over and over again. The food was great, too.
- 6:54Speaker 3: Beautiful, beautiful, Okay, quick fire around Tim, I've got so
- 6:57Speaker 3: many people to get for you. But what's a was
- 7:00Speaker 3: your word?
- 7:01Speaker 4: It just came up the last earlier this week, Tom,
- 7:05Speaker 4: and it was one that you coined, and I think
- 7:06Speaker 4: it fits perfectly.
- 7:08Speaker 3: Ai Fi.
- 7:12Speaker 4: Well, it was the first time I heard it was
- 7:14Speaker 4: from you, so Ai if I just take it. I'll
- 7:17Speaker 4: take it of you know where the world is being
- 7:22Speaker 4: AI fied it is.
- 7:23Speaker 3: Indeed, that's for sure personal use case if you have
- 7:26Speaker 3: you already touched upon that when you mentioned your.
- 7:29Speaker 4: Probably my personal use case is just as you know,
- 7:32Speaker 4: as you hit that age, you start to think about
- 7:34Speaker 4: the future and what retirement might look like. Having instant
- 7:37Speaker 4: access to to modeling and advice. Now you obviously got
- 7:41Speaker 4: to run it by humans to make sure you're on
- 7:43Speaker 4: the right track, but just get your thinking about what
- 7:46Speaker 4: what consumption of your savings might look like and how
- 7:49Speaker 4: to model it.
- 7:50Speaker 3: That was mine, absolutely and the musical flavor to today's song,
- 7:56Speaker 3: and it doesn't have to be from this year, just
- 7:58Speaker 3: a song that spoke to you. You may have listened
- 8:00Speaker 3: to it a lot, or it may have just just
- 8:03Speaker 3: vaguely or specifically defined the year in some way.
- 8:06Speaker 4: So I don't I have a tough time getting into
- 8:10Speaker 4: some of the more modern songs, especially current year songs,
- 8:13Speaker 4: so I tend to go into the wayback machine. My
- 8:16Speaker 4: taste strange from when I when I need to kind
- 8:19Speaker 4: of get it all out. Judas Priests and Scorpions and
- 8:22Speaker 4: Iron Maiden and led Zeppelin and Floyd, But then I'll
- 8:25Speaker 4: swing over to David Sanborn and Tower of Power. But
- 8:29Speaker 4: when I have a busy week and I want to
- 8:30Speaker 4: just come home and decompress, I always go back to
- 8:33Speaker 4: Pat Metheni group. So if you haven't heard of Pamatheni's
- 8:37Speaker 4: awesome guitar player, great music, music, aptitudes, and there's one
- 8:43Speaker 4: specific album. All the albums are great. If you haven't
- 8:46Speaker 4: heard of Patmatheini, go listen to any album You'll you'll
- 8:48Speaker 4: enjoy it. But it's just mellow, real relaxing. So the
- 8:53Speaker 4: album as we Live Here and the song is Here
- 8:55Speaker 4: to Stay, and it's just that song I go back
- 8:58Speaker 4: to whether I'm on a plane and I need to
- 8:59Speaker 4: kind of calm the nerves, or I get home and
- 9:01Speaker 4: I want to relax. Here to Stay is kind of
- 9:05Speaker 4: my go to.
- 9:06Speaker 3: Terrific Terrific and I have I'm gonna almost choose it random.
- 9:10Speaker 3: We've got Meghan, Dina, Ariana, and Sean with us two.
- 9:14Speaker 3: I'm gonna choose them at random other than Dinah, who
- 9:17Speaker 3: fair Warning is going to come last, just because I
- 9:19Speaker 3: want to end the discussion with Dina's musical choice.
- 9:23Speaker 5: I think it's really happy, It's.
- 9:27Speaker 3: Perfect the way to go out. It's a way to
- 9:29Speaker 3: go out. So there's a teaser for listeners have to
- 9:31Speaker 3: try and guess what it might be. Let's go to
- 9:34Speaker 3: you next, Meghan, since you have the last to drop
- 9:36Speaker 3: your takes with a year into the chat, and they're
- 9:39Speaker 3: and I'm excited to I think to read them, to
- 9:42Speaker 3: be honest with you, So I'm excited to hear what
- 9:45Speaker 3: they are. How is your year and what defined twenty
- 9:49Speaker 3: twenty five in your view?
- 9:51Speaker 2: Coming in blind? Let me talk second time. That's brave,
- 9:55Speaker 2: all right? My year twenty twenty five, twenty five is
- 9:58Speaker 2: a great year, I think for me personally, but also
- 10:01Speaker 2: I think for Decks and for our customers and at
- 10:05Speaker 2: least the people that I got to work with, which admittedly,
- 10:07Speaker 2: if you're a Next Thing customer and you've met me,
- 10:09Speaker 2: you're probably a happy Next Thing customer, but hopefully hopefully
- 10:12Speaker 2: they all are. But yeah, for me that there were
- 10:17Speaker 2: sort of like two contrasting words that came to mind
- 10:20Speaker 2: when I was trying to think about this year, and
- 10:22Speaker 2: they were balanced and ambition. And I think I'm going
- 10:25Speaker 2: to go with the ambition first. Right, I've said this before,
- 10:29Speaker 2: but when I was preparing content and working with customers
- 10:33Speaker 2: on their sessions for our conference experience. Twenty twenty four,
- 10:37Speaker 2: there was a lot of hype around AI and what
- 10:40Speaker 2: it could do in the workplace and what agentic AI
- 10:42Speaker 2: could do, and they all wanted to build these sort
- 10:44Speaker 2: of employee facing self service portals and that all these
- 10:49Speaker 2: grand plans, but none of it had actually happened yet.
- 10:54Speaker 2: And then this year we started to actually see that
- 10:56Speaker 2: come to reality. As I was putting the content together
- 10:57Speaker 2: this year, you know, we have actual organizations coming to
- 11:00Speaker 2: was saying, hey, we actually were setting this up. It's
- 11:02Speaker 2: really working. We're hooking it up to all these different
- 11:04Speaker 2: data points, like things are coming into it reality. So
- 11:07Speaker 2: for me, that's the ambition piece of it is that
- 11:11Speaker 2: people had this ambition in twenty twenty five and the
- 11:14Speaker 2: tools to make it a reality. And then for me personally,
- 11:18Speaker 2: I started the year by doing my first ever I
- 11:21Speaker 2: don't know if this aspect of my personality has made
- 11:23Speaker 2: it onto the reality by its podcast, but I'm a
- 11:26Speaker 2: very outdoorsy person in my personal life. So I did
- 11:29Speaker 2: my first ever technical mountaineering summit at the start of
- 11:33Speaker 2: the year in Patagonia. I ran, I did my first
- 11:36Speaker 2: triathlon this year started backcountry ski touring. So for me
- 11:41Speaker 2: personally too, a lot of my ambitions kind of came
- 11:43Speaker 2: to reality. But I think, yeah, it was fun, it.
- 11:46Speaker 5: Was a good year.
- 11:47Speaker 2: It was a good year in my person in my
- 11:49Speaker 2: free time, did a lot of stuff. But I think
- 11:53Speaker 2: with that, and with you know, the overall sort of
- 11:57Speaker 2: heavy usage of AI that we saw this year, at
- 12:00Speaker 2: least for me my perception of it, it seemed to
- 12:03Speaker 2: really pick up in twenty twenty five, comes that balance, right.
- 12:07Speaker 2: I think along with the rise of AI, comes the
- 12:10Speaker 2: rise of AI slop, comes the rise of the awareness
- 12:13Speaker 2: that sometimes the stuff that AI gives you is garbage
- 12:17Speaker 2: and you have to approach it with balance. I think
- 12:21Speaker 2: we've seen that in the professional world where and this
- 12:25Speaker 2: will my word of the year is related to this,
- 12:27Speaker 2: but people have started to lose faith in some of
- 12:30Speaker 2: the content that they find online. I think people have
- 12:34Speaker 2: started to lose a little bit of patience with some
- 12:39Speaker 2: of the results that AI churns out for them. I
- 12:41Speaker 2: think that we need to remember to strike a balance,
- 12:45Speaker 2: and I think this year you definitely saw that. I mean,
- 12:48Speaker 2: everyone that I spoke to about setting up their interactive
- 12:51Speaker 2: employee self service. They were all very optimistic about it,
- 12:55Speaker 2: but they also understood that, you know, it's it needs
- 12:59Speaker 2: to actually still provide a good experience. We can't just
- 13:01Speaker 2: go into this hog and say this is the best
- 13:03Speaker 2: thing we've ever made, because what if it isn't? We
- 13:06Speaker 2: have to leave room for that, for that balance. And
- 13:09Speaker 2: so that's kind of my I'm not the biggest fan
- 13:12Speaker 2: of AI personally. I think people know that about me.
- 13:16Speaker 2: So I think approaching it with balance was something that
- 13:18Speaker 2: I saw people doing, and I saw people sort of
- 13:21Speaker 2: becoming a little more cautious and frustrated with the output
- 13:25Speaker 2: that you can get from AI and sort of asking, like,
- 13:30Speaker 2: you know, is the juice worth the squeeze kind of thing.
- 13:33Speaker 3: It's why people have been tuning in in record numbers
- 13:36Speaker 3: to a deck show in reality. But where we can
- 13:39Speaker 3: we can guarantee six humans in the loop? No, not
- 13:45Speaker 3: a single one of us is not a single one
- 13:48Speaker 3: of us is being replaced by AI just yet. So
- 13:51Speaker 3: you alluded that to the word of a year, But
- 13:53Speaker 3: did you give us it?
- 13:55Speaker 2: I did not. My word of the year is m Dash.
- 13:57Speaker 3: Because m dash beautiful show. Just love it.
- 14:05Speaker 2: No, I just like to think I'm personally responsible for
- 14:07Speaker 2: how much AI uses an M dash because I am
- 14:09Speaker 2: a huge fan of it as a piece of punctuation.
- 14:12Speaker 2: I think it's a beautiful piece of punctuation. And now
- 14:14Speaker 2: we all as copywriters have to go through and systematically
- 14:17Speaker 2: delete every M dash we ever use or that if
- 14:19Speaker 2: we're using, like, that's the trick right now.
- 14:22Speaker 3: No you don't. You can tell it now, Meghan, you
- 14:24Speaker 3: can tell it.
- 14:28Speaker 4: Meghan replaced it with the Oxford comma.
- 14:29Speaker 2: You'll be Also, I've been using a semicolon a lot
- 14:33Speaker 2: more than I ever did before. Listen.
- 14:35Speaker 3: It's so funny because that whole story, because I was
- 14:38Speaker 3: totally cool. Oh god, I know I've been blindly sending
- 14:42Speaker 3: my dash. But the thing was, I just think it
- 14:47Speaker 3: highlights it illuminates the paradox, the paradox called nature of
- 14:51Speaker 3: AI work. Right, we're all using it. I like to
- 14:55Speaker 3: think I use it fairly, carefully and well, and then
- 14:59Speaker 3: we're all try and cover up our tracks. It's just
- 15:03Speaker 3: it's just a silly situation, isn't it. It's a it's
- 15:05Speaker 3: a it's a paradoxical scenario.
- 15:07Speaker 2: I mean, I definitely use it at work, and then
- 15:09Speaker 2: I have to go through and be like let's not
- 15:10Speaker 2: make it so obvious. I used it.
- 15:12Speaker 6: It work.
- 15:13Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm quite proud, you know. I think
- 15:16Speaker 3: I'm quite quite good at it. But okay, well, my
- 15:19Speaker 3: own dashes I'll keep. I'll keep them in point of principle,
- 15:22Speaker 3: And what about a personal I here's something I do
- 15:26Speaker 3: know about about your megan as well as your your
- 15:29Speaker 3: intrepid mountaineering and triathlon earring and such like, which is
- 15:35Speaker 3: not big on personal use usages in AI, but which
- 15:40Speaker 3: which could scop me entirely? Or is there one you
- 15:43Speaker 3: succumbed to this year?
- 15:45Speaker 2: So I, on principle do not use AI in my
- 15:47Speaker 2: personal life. I think that it is cousin.
- 15:50Speaker 4: Well.
- 15:51Speaker 2: I won't go into what I think because this is
- 15:52Speaker 2: a professional podcast, not my personal take. But I did
- 15:57Speaker 2: out of curiosity. I had it build me a training
- 15:59Speaker 2: plan for a ski mountaineering race that I am doing
- 16:02Speaker 2: in February, and I thought, wow, that's interesting. And I
- 16:05Speaker 2: haven't looked at it again since, so I'll be honest,
- 16:08Speaker 2: I I thought, cool, good suggestions, CHATCHYBT, thanks, and I
- 16:13Speaker 2: sort of yeah, I don't. I don't use a I
- 16:16Speaker 2: sorry N word.
- 16:19Speaker 3: I like it. I like it. It's a good. It's
- 16:20Speaker 3: a good take, and it's a it's a nice a
- 16:24Speaker 3: nice thing to stick with. Good good luck to its endurance.
- 16:28Speaker 3: Finally getting off the AI track, at least a song
- 16:31Speaker 3: of the year.
- 16:33Speaker 2: I had a hard time picking this because a lot
- 16:35Speaker 2: of the music I listened to I really love is
- 16:37Speaker 2: all these like you know, girly pop singers and sort
- 16:40Speaker 2: of sapphic music like another member of this podcast, but
- 16:45Speaker 2: none of it felt super appropriate to say on a
- 16:47Speaker 2: work podcast. So instead I will say uh, won't be
- 16:51Speaker 2: Possible by Odd Mob, which I had on heavy repeat
- 16:55Speaker 2: for a lot of the year, and it's a good
- 16:57Speaker 2: song to reinforce, you know, setting boundaries with people.
- 17:00Speaker 3: Very nice.
- 17:01Speaker 6: We did have a really good conversation about how amazing
- 17:05Speaker 6: it is that there is more sic pop on the
- 17:08Speaker 6: theme by this question.
- 17:11Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a real renaissance of girl pop happening out there,
- 17:15Speaker 2: But all of the songs have themes that I would
- 17:17Speaker 2: not want to discuss on this podcast. So I'm not going.
- 17:20Speaker 3: To you know, reality by sapphic pop playlist? Why why not?
- 17:28Speaker 2: Why not put it in the description?
- 17:30Speaker 3: And I just want to say I want every every
- 17:32Speaker 3: panelist to give me their unvarnished takes, because if it
- 17:36Speaker 3: does cross a lot, I can always just edit you out,
- 17:39Speaker 3: me you take, and I'll be the judges where it's professional.
- 17:44Speaker 2: It has happened before he has edited me out.
- 17:48Speaker 3: Members of the panel. Thank you so much, Megan. Wonderful responses,
- 17:53Speaker 3: and let's go next. Since we've just heard from you,
- 17:57Speaker 3: and since it will allow us, as you've alluded to,
- 17:59Speaker 3: the staffhic pop theme to recur in the musical round,
- 18:05Speaker 3: how are you? How's your year been.
- 18:08Speaker 6: It's been a really good year this year. I got
- 18:12Speaker 6: to work a lot on AI drive, as many of
- 18:15Speaker 6: our customers will know, because you've probably gotten an email
- 18:18Speaker 6: for me asking how's it going. If not, email me
- 18:21Speaker 6: tell me how it's going. But as a result, I've
- 18:25Speaker 6: had the chance to speak to so many different people
- 18:27Speaker 6: about their motivations, their challenges around using AI, around getting
- 18:32Speaker 6: other people to use AI. And it's been interesting to
- 18:35Speaker 6: see how the hype of the past two years has
- 18:39Speaker 6: turned into this very systematized, operationalized, extrinsic set of motivations
- 18:45Speaker 6: where organizations are really pushing the adoption of AI in
- 18:50Speaker 6: a way that I think is starting to be at
- 18:52Speaker 6: odds with the intrinsic motivators that I think will actually
- 18:56Speaker 6: drive the work to make it useful, to make it impactful.
- 19:01Speaker 6: And I think that that is going to also lead
- 19:03Speaker 6: into twenty twenty six. I want to talk too much
- 19:06Speaker 6: about this because I'm excited for us to share predictions,
- 19:10Speaker 6: but I do think that we're going to start to
- 19:13Speaker 6: see some of this reckoning we're starting to hear about.
- 19:16Speaker 6: You know, we can't just ride the hype train, right,
- 19:20Speaker 6: we have to actually figure out what we're doing with
- 19:23Speaker 6: this and be really intentional about it. So that's been
- 19:27Speaker 6: a really big defining thing for me professionally this year.
- 19:32Speaker 3: Yeah, I like what you said. Everyone's been quite positive
- 19:34Speaker 3: about this year. And I was just listening to you
- 19:36Speaker 3: say that as well, Oriana, and I thought, maybe this
- 19:39Speaker 3: has been like obviously, everybody can have personal circumstances in
- 19:42Speaker 3: any given year which suck, right, and putting that to
- 19:46Speaker 3: one side, could twenty twenty five have been like the
- 19:49Speaker 3: first generally positive year we've all seen since COVID, Do
- 19:52Speaker 3: you know what I mean? We're more often than not
- 19:54Speaker 3: people like, yeah, it was quite good. It was quite good.
- 19:56Speaker 3: I quite like this year.
- 19:57Speaker 6: Personally, Like I'm in the US and I'm on a
- 20:00Speaker 6: professional podcasts, so I'm not going to answer.
- 20:06Speaker 4: The US.
- 20:07Speaker 3: I'll be editing myself out of it's a fat point.
- 20:12Speaker 3: But everyone seems quite cheerful. Everyone seems quite I mean.
- 20:16Speaker 6: I will also say that, like, fundamentally, the the ideology
- 20:21Speaker 6: that I most despise is nihilism. So not to get
- 20:25Speaker 6: overly philosophical, but I do think that in any situation
- 20:31Speaker 6: where you know, especially as somebody who is very passionate
- 20:35Speaker 6: about many topics, I think that's the most important thing
- 20:39Speaker 6: to me is not you know, despairing at the problems
- 20:46Speaker 6: in the world, but rather like what are we doing
- 20:49Speaker 6: about it? And actually going to my word of the year,
- 20:53Speaker 6: my word of the year is going to be a
- 20:54Speaker 6: mediation because I don't know, I know often word of
- 20:58Speaker 6: the year is like a new word, but this has
- 21:00Speaker 6: been like the theme for me, shall we say so.
- 21:04Speaker 6: I did the course on mediation at the beginning of
- 21:05Speaker 6: the year, and as a really fascinating experience, is something
- 21:10Speaker 6: that is motivated to do as a way to give
- 21:12Speaker 6: back to my communities, and I've already found it incredibly
- 21:15Speaker 6: useful personally and professionally to just be a better facilitator
- 21:21Speaker 6: to help people have more effective conversations. And it's also
- 21:25Speaker 6: made me think a lot about you know, what mediates,
- 21:29Speaker 6: what feel facilitates our experiences?
- 21:31Speaker 2: Right?
- 21:31Speaker 6: How do we interact with the world? And AI is
- 21:34Speaker 6: one of those things, right, And it is a filter
- 21:40Speaker 6: through which we interact with the world, right, And I
- 21:42Speaker 6: think it's made me reflect a lot on what are
- 21:45Speaker 6: the filters that we don't realize that we have, what
- 21:49Speaker 6: are the filters that we do realize that we have.
- 21:51Speaker 6: How do these shape our experiences? And so, you know,
- 21:55Speaker 6: even having a lot of thoughts and feelings and opinions
- 21:59Speaker 6: on what's going on on the thing that's important to
- 22:02Speaker 6: me is okay, and how do I choose to engage
- 22:04Speaker 6: with that?
- 22:04Speaker 2: Right?
- 22:05Speaker 6: So that's that's my my reaction to.
- 22:08Speaker 5: All of that.
- 22:09Speaker 3: The perfect dovetailing of your personal and professional focus there
- 22:13Speaker 3: isn't it. You know that that question of mediation is
- 22:16Speaker 3: is your is your area of professional expertise and passion
- 22:20Speaker 3: as well as as well as as well as the
- 22:22Speaker 3: sort of personal extra professional one.
- 22:26Speaker 6: Yeah, I love it.
- 22:28Speaker 3: Awesome And do you have a personal AI use case?
- 22:32Speaker 3: You got one of those for us?
- 22:34Speaker 6: So I also don't really like to use AI in
- 22:37Speaker 6: my personal life. I've definitely experimented with it because I
- 22:40Speaker 6: need to learn about it, right, I want to be aware.
- 22:45Speaker 6: But honestly, one of the things that I find is
- 22:49Speaker 6: that if I need help with the project, if I'm
- 22:52Speaker 6: lacking a relevant skill to me, that's a great opportunity
- 22:55Speaker 6: for me to connect with other human beings. I am
- 22:59Speaker 6: surrounded by me community, and every time I ask somebody, hey,
- 23:03Speaker 6: I need the skill I need to work on this project,
- 23:05Speaker 6: It's helped me build stronger bonds with people. It's taught
- 23:09Speaker 6: me new skills rather than having a machine do it
- 23:11Speaker 6: for me and having to just trust that it was good.
- 23:14Speaker 5: Right.
- 23:14Speaker 6: Like, the feedback cycle of working with people is fantastic,
- 23:20Speaker 6: and I highly recommend hitting with creative people around you
- 23:23Speaker 6: to solve interesting problems. It's a lot of fun.
- 23:26Speaker 3: I like it a sort of a not using AI
- 23:28Speaker 3: used case of for you if that's cool too?
- 23:31Speaker 6: And yeah, yeah, Like anytime I'm attempted to use AI,
- 23:33Speaker 6: I'm like, okay, but how do I know that it's good?
- 23:39Speaker 6: Who can help me with that? And then I talk
- 23:40Speaker 6: to a human and then you know, I don't know,
- 23:42Speaker 6: maybe there's an application fore I, but I've gotten more
- 23:46Speaker 6: out of it by starting with other people.
- 23:51Speaker 3: And I know you submitted in the chair a song
- 23:54Speaker 3: for you? Is it sapphic pop? Because I didn't know
- 23:56Speaker 3: a song, it's not actually a song hearing.
- 24:03Speaker 6: So I do love suffic pop. That is a lot
- 24:07Speaker 6: of my playlists. But the other thing that I love
- 24:10Speaker 6: is actually trad folk, so it's these are not the
- 24:14Speaker 6: same at all. But this year I started hosting house
- 24:18Speaker 6: concerts in my home and it has been an incredible experience.
- 24:23Speaker 6: The last concert was last night, which is why I
- 24:26Speaker 6: popped that in the chat extremely late at night, because
- 24:28Speaker 6: I had just finished up and was just full of
- 24:32Speaker 6: the joy that comes from being in a room with
- 24:36Speaker 6: live music, with you know, a packed space full of
- 24:40Speaker 6: people singing along to the choruses. And it's another reminder
- 24:44Speaker 6: of just how important those those human experiences are. And
- 24:48Speaker 6: the word I said was collective effervescence, which is a
- 24:51Speaker 6: term that was coined to describe that experience when you're
- 24:56Speaker 6: experiencing something with a group of people together. You know,
- 24:59Speaker 6: you're moved by the music, and a re single artist
- 25:02Speaker 6: that has performed in my house has told me, Wow,
- 25:04Speaker 6: that was such an amazing experience because when you have
- 25:08Speaker 6: such an intimate show. You have that incredible feeling of
- 25:12Speaker 6: like connection and vibing together.
- 25:15Speaker 3: That's just truly peak awesome. We're all assuming you've got
- 25:20Speaker 3: the most amazing home. Now are honor as well?
- 25:23Speaker 6: You know, well, don't be too impressed. We had to
- 25:26Speaker 6: cramp some people onto an hear match just because we
- 25:28Speaker 6: ran out of chairs.
- 25:29Speaker 3: Not necessarily lavish, but you know, able to capture a
- 25:32Speaker 3: vibe like that, it must be it must be a
- 25:34Speaker 3: special place. Wonderful though. Thank you so much, Arianna, And
- 25:40Speaker 3: it does sound like you had a nice year, regardless
- 25:42Speaker 3: of you know, all the Shenanigans in the background. And
- 25:47Speaker 3: since we know dinner is last, it means Sean is
- 25:50Speaker 3: of course next. And you know, like many people on
- 25:55Speaker 3: this pod, Sean I would say, you know something of
- 25:59Speaker 3: something of the AI skeptic. It's a little bit AI resistant,
- 26:05Speaker 3: but maybe this year has seen you teach a little
- 26:08Speaker 3: bit nearer to a dark side. Tell us about.
- 26:10Speaker 7: It, false incorrect?
- 26:13Speaker 4: I like it.
- 26:14Speaker 7: I just have reservations. No, I've been using it a
- 26:16Speaker 7: lot this year. That's what kind of defined the year
- 26:19Speaker 7: for me, both in work and in personal life. But yeah,
- 26:24Speaker 7: I just find like most people have already said in
- 26:26Speaker 7: the pod, like sixty to eighty percent accurate, which brings
- 26:30Speaker 7: up like bigger philosophical questions what happens when it gets
- 26:32Speaker 7: to one hundred percent accuracy? How do we find our
- 26:35Speaker 7: own agency in the work we do, et cetera, et cetera.
- 26:38Speaker 7: But I think it's an awesome tool. I'm just always
- 26:42Speaker 7: slightly skeptical of what comes out.
- 26:45Speaker 3: As well as well. One might be healthy. Yeah, any
- 26:51Speaker 3: any other detail from the year that stands out to
- 26:54Speaker 3: you show you want to I mean, I like a
- 26:58Speaker 3: quick fire around here, you go for me, you can
- 27:01Speaker 3: do it, but it's to you. Yeah.
- 27:02Speaker 7: No, I mean we focused a lot for in terms
- 27:05Speaker 7: of research this year and like what defines workplace productivity
- 27:08Speaker 7: and for businesses and how do they trace it to
- 27:10Speaker 7: value and what does that mean? But I think, like
- 27:13Speaker 7: we're all saying, you know, it's pretty positive. I think
- 27:15Speaker 7: next year is going to be We're going to have
- 27:18Speaker 7: more data and research out there, both from next Think
- 27:22Speaker 7: and externally about like how are these tools really living
- 27:25Speaker 7: up to their names? And that's going to be pretty
- 27:28Speaker 7: cool and interesting. And we're just going to continue to
- 27:30Speaker 7: kind of change the definition of work like individually and
- 27:34Speaker 7: then organizationally, how people are getting things done and how
- 27:38Speaker 7: they find value. So it's a very interesting topic that
- 27:41Speaker 7: I like.
- 27:41Speaker 3: Working on super word of for year.
- 27:44Speaker 7: Sean Oh, we talked about this a couple of weeks
- 27:47Speaker 7: ago Vibe coding, but just personally because I'm I'm too
- 27:50Speaker 7: stupid to understand coding, so I thought this is great,
- 27:53Speaker 7: but I definitely recognize the dangers that exist, and we
- 27:57Speaker 7: talked about our prior episode please it out checking that podcast.
- 28:02Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, personal AI use case of.
- 28:08Speaker 7: So this is really geeky, but I'd like to ask
- 28:10Speaker 7: it like history questions, and I do this thing. I
- 28:13Speaker 7: used to do this in Wikipedia, where I would just
- 28:14Speaker 7: scroll to the bottom or I'd find like a certain
- 28:17Speaker 7: figure and click on that person's profile and then I
- 28:19Speaker 7: just kind of go in a rabbit hole. Now I
- 28:21Speaker 7: just go to CHATCHYBT and I'll ask, like, who else
- 28:24Speaker 7: was alive during Genghis Khan and where and when? And
- 28:27Speaker 7: then I just go down thirty minutes of that just
- 28:31Speaker 7: asking it historical questions.
- 28:32Speaker 3: So that's how cool I am. No, bro, I really
- 28:36Speaker 3: relate to that, like I could. I kind of build
- 28:38Speaker 3: I'll build up like a little shortlist of historical topics
- 28:43Speaker 3: I want to talk to chat about, and then I'll
- 28:45Speaker 3: just be like, Okay, I've got spare forty minutes, and
- 28:47Speaker 3: I'll just, like you say, just go from one one
- 28:49Speaker 3: to the next time.
- 28:50Speaker 7: I mean, it's cool to be like, all right, so
- 28:51Speaker 7: what was going on during the Aztec Empire over here
- 28:54Speaker 7: in Europe or what was just kind of hop around?
- 28:57Speaker 4: I love that?
- 28:58Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I could. And I get like a real
- 29:00Speaker 3: sense of fulfillment from it being I'd come away thirty
- 29:02Speaker 3: forty minutes and that was fun. That was fun in
- 29:04Speaker 3: that that like filled a lot of little gaps in
- 29:07Speaker 3: my head, you know. Yeah, I love that one.
- 29:08Speaker 7: Yeah, forget it on. Then I go back and do
- 29:10Speaker 7: it again the next day.
- 29:11Speaker 3: Absolutely, I see you got it. You got a song
- 29:14Speaker 3: fresh on?
- 29:15Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 29:15Speaker 7: My song of the Year is seased for Cookie by
- 29:18Speaker 7: the original Cookie Monster, Sesame Street. My daughter and I
- 29:21Speaker 7: listen to that every morning on the way to take care.
- 29:23Speaker 4: It's gonna be stuck in my head all day now, Sean.
- 29:26Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a gym. How's it good. I'm gonna get
- 29:31Speaker 3: on this.
- 29:31Speaker 7: Corporate podcast, you know how.
- 29:33Speaker 3: I am pretty fresher. I want the melody. Okay, I'll
- 29:37Speaker 3: let you have wonderful thank you so much showing and
- 29:41Speaker 3: of course, last but not least, Dina, how are you?
- 29:46Speaker 3: How was twenty twenty five?
- 29:48Speaker 5: I'm all good. It was a mix of everything, just
- 29:53Speaker 5: like every other year. Uh not so great. On the
- 29:57Speaker 5: personal side, I lost my dad this year year, so
- 30:01Speaker 5: that's that one is one of the biggest heroes I've
- 30:04Speaker 5: ever had in my life. However I have been when
- 30:08Speaker 5: that's on the personal side. So on the professional side,
- 30:11Speaker 5: it has been motivating me to actually go back and
- 30:15Speaker 5: find the matrix of everything. Pun no pun intended, you're
- 30:19Speaker 5: gonna You're knew I would mention the matrix was going
- 30:22Speaker 5: to come up always always because so when when when
- 30:26Speaker 5: you're confused, you want to go to back to the basics, right,
- 30:29Speaker 5: And this is one of the things this year has
- 30:32Speaker 5: defined was exploring what are our basic measures for success
- 30:36Speaker 5: for innovation, for how to automate what to automate, what
- 30:40Speaker 5: not to automate the use of AI and actually go
- 30:43Speaker 5: back to the basics, build some pillars. We're going to
- 30:46Speaker 5: be using AI unfortunately fortunately sometimes right, but we have
- 30:51Speaker 5: to have some pillars, which led us to agree as
- 30:55Speaker 5: a team, maybe on most of the cases on looking
- 30:57Speaker 5: at quality, efficiency, and comple lines. These are our pillars.
- 31:01Speaker 5: We're going to use AI, but we don't want to
- 31:03Speaker 5: be losing our human fingerprints along the process to fall
- 31:08Speaker 5: into sloppiness, which now i'll lude into my word of
- 31:13Speaker 5: the year's AI slop or work slop.
- 31:17Speaker 3: And I think you introduced us to that.
- 31:20Speaker 5: Yes, it's been there and few and few articles have encountered.
- 31:24Speaker 5: And actually the more people are going to start to
- 31:27Speaker 5: use a new tool. So AI is just an automation tool,
- 31:31Speaker 5: just one more cool way two automate what you are
- 31:36Speaker 5: repeating most of your time. So it will lead to
- 31:39Speaker 5: some efficiency, but it's drawing the boundaries, finding those lines
- 31:43Speaker 5: as in what should I use AI for and what
- 31:45Speaker 5: should I not use a I for? Also not to
- 31:47Speaker 5: use your human touch into it at the end of
- 31:50Speaker 5: the day.
- 31:52Speaker 3: MS and work slop kind of kind of close, I
- 31:55Speaker 3: think is a word.
- 31:57Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, the more the more I use E, the
- 31:59Speaker 5: more I don't want to use AI. So that's just
- 32:02Speaker 5: how it is, like both ends of the extremes.
- 32:06Speaker 3: Was there a personal use case for your dinner?
- 32:08Speaker 5: Where plenty plenty? So I use it in my personal
- 32:11Speaker 5: life to help me brainstorm, to help me arrange travel trips,
- 32:18Speaker 5: recommendations on where to go, what to where not to go,
- 32:21Speaker 5: when to go, what's the best places, and such things.
- 32:23Speaker 5: So basically arranging and getting my thoughts that are all
- 32:27Speaker 5: over the place into one spot, help me focus on
- 32:31Speaker 5: some things and highlight value of whatever we're trying to articulate.
- 32:35Speaker 5: So basically summing everything back to those three pillars, quality deficiency,
- 32:39Speaker 5: under compliance of everything that you want to do.
- 32:42Speaker 3: Phenomenal and you know, we reach for your song and
- 32:45Speaker 3: your dinner in just a second. But we'll say that
- 32:47Speaker 3: part of the reason I was like, well, Diana has
- 32:49Speaker 3: got to go last, it's partly because the song just
- 32:53Speaker 3: is just it's just got such a kind of culmination
- 32:57Speaker 3: quality to it, you know, culminate in this song in
- 33:01Speaker 3: my in my opinion, And so tell us, tell us
- 33:05Speaker 3: what it is and why it's your song, not only
- 33:07Speaker 3: as I understand it twenty twenty.
- 33:09Speaker 5: Five, but every year almost Yes, it's my favorite favorite
- 33:13Speaker 5: song of all times. I think it's my way Frank
- 33:16Speaker 5: Sinatra because it really takes you back to the bits
- 33:22Speaker 5: and pieces of everything. It has a journey, it has
- 33:24Speaker 5: a beginning, it hasn't and it has a sweet, melancholic
- 33:27Speaker 5: feeling into it as well, so and it's not so
- 33:31Speaker 5: sub centered. So it's in the respective of the name
- 33:35Speaker 5: that I ludes to my way, it's just mine out
- 33:37Speaker 5: of the highway. But that's not the case. On the contrary,
- 33:41Speaker 5: it's the other way around, where it's just a journey
- 33:45Speaker 5: that you're feeling through. So everybody could could go through
- 33:49Speaker 5: it in their own different kind of ways. But yeah,
- 33:52Speaker 5: irrespect of how many songs I fall f on for,
- 33:56Speaker 5: I go back to the matrix.
- 33:59Speaker 2: Which is my way.
- 34:00Speaker 3: Excellent, excellent, Thank you, Thank you, Dinna, thank you for
- 34:04Speaker 3: bringing the perfect way to conclude our collective reflection on
- 34:08Speaker 3: twenty twenty five. One thing I would I would say,
- 34:11Speaker 3: and I think it's I think what's been common to
- 34:14Speaker 3: the show and obviously common to us all as individuals,
- 34:19Speaker 3: is a very kind of real sense that we're living
- 34:21Speaker 3: through a period of genuinely historical change for the world.
- 34:26Speaker 3: I think they'll forever be a pin in the mid
- 34:29Speaker 3: twenty twenties as being a time of some significance for humanity,
- 34:34Speaker 3: hopefully hopefully one that's seen in hindsight as more good
- 34:39Speaker 3: than bad. And I think the Deck Show has reflected this,
- 34:43Speaker 3: and I think reality bites in general, and certainly today
- 34:46Speaker 3: has reflected that too. We hope we've been able to
- 34:50Speaker 3: contribute to the discussion and contribute to all of our
- 34:53Speaker 3: listeners the way our listeners look at the development of
- 34:56Speaker 3: all this technological development and the development of professional lives
- 35:01Speaker 3: and the digital workplace in general. It's certainly so many
- 35:05Speaker 3: for people we've spoken to, and so many for people
- 35:07Speaker 3: we get to speak to here and on a regular basis,
- 35:10Speaker 3: have influenced how I've seen things and how I've approached
- 35:14Speaker 3: my own my own planning and future, and and my
- 35:20Speaker 3: planning for my own future. And it's always been a great,
- 35:24Speaker 3: great pleasure to work on the show with you, Tim
- 35:26Speaker 3: and with everybody here. And shout out to our shout
- 35:29Speaker 3: out to our producers Ella and Catherine as well as
- 35:32Speaker 3: always who do such a phenomenal job in the background,
- 35:35Speaker 3: and shout out to the listeners. We appreciate you all
- 35:38Speaker 3: very much, and the Reality by Its team look forward
- 35:41Speaker 3: to seeing you next year and a happy new year
- 35:45Speaker 3: to everybody.
- 35:48Speaker 2: Everybody.
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- 36:15Speaker 3: Until next time, everybody, well, Tim in particular called me
- 36:19Speaker 3: out having shuffled off the state sharing my own song
- 36:25Speaker 3: for year and and and and what do you want?
- 36:29Speaker 3: Do you want all of them? Tim?
- 36:31Speaker 4: The word the word what the year meant to you
- 36:36Speaker 4: is really articulate, really well done, But you skipped out
- 36:38Speaker 4: on the places where we can actually ridicule you.
- 36:42Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so exactly they're not very fun that okay, ridicula.
- 36:47Speaker 3: Good luck to you with these solid with these solid suggestions.
- 36:51Speaker 3: Word for you decentralization. Yeah, comes back to that episode
- 36:58Speaker 3: we did on it Take a I with with Rob Wilson,
- 37:05Speaker 3: and he just it just was so striking to me,
- 37:08Speaker 3: this notion that the the conventional sense of a career,
- 37:13Speaker 3: the day days are probably numbered, the conventional sense of
- 37:16Speaker 3: what it means to work for an organization, to have
- 37:18Speaker 3: a to have a job, as we've understood our whole lives,
- 37:22Speaker 3: it's probably are probably numbered, you know, sooner or later, right,
- 37:26Speaker 3: But that doesn't mean Also, if you think about it
- 37:28Speaker 3: as decentralization, it's not that that's necessarily a negative, because
- 37:32Speaker 3: there's something potentially quite liberating in that, you know, totally
- 37:36Speaker 3: new way of maybe of approaching our lives and and
- 37:39Speaker 3: and our and and and how we make a living,
- 37:42Speaker 3: and how we and how we think of us what
- 37:44Speaker 3: our skills are. So it made me feel kind of.
- 37:46Speaker 3: It struck me, but it made me feel very kind of.
- 37:48Speaker 3: It gave me an optimism at the same time, something
- 37:51Speaker 3: very new and my my song of the year. So
- 37:54Speaker 3: I encourage everybody to check out Freddie Gibbs and Alchemists
- 37:59Speaker 3: Alfredo two album. It was really a a It's a
- 38:03Speaker 3: sonic delight. But there you go, everybody, anyone want to
- 38:07Speaker 3: mock me, mock away.
- 38:09Speaker 4: We've got to listen to the song. But I think
- 38:10Speaker 4: you're I think you're on solid ground.
- 38:12Speaker 5: Okay, you're good, You're past.
- 38:19Speaker 3: Disappointed. I shouldn't have had something more cringe. I promise
- 38:22Speaker 3: next year I will have cringe Arama for you. Okay,
- 38:24Speaker 3: So see y'all next year.
- 38:26Speaker 4: Everyone