Latest / Stuff Mom Never Told You / Fictional Women Around the World: Arwen Evenstar
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha, and welcome to Steffan
- 0:07Speaker 1: never told you Protection of by Heart Radio, and welcome
- 0:19Speaker 1: to another sub sub sub sub sub segment of fictional
- 0:23Speaker 1: women around the world, and today first one of the year.
- 0:29Speaker 1: There was a lot of pressure, Samantha, and I'm going
- 0:30Speaker 1: to talk about that for a second. But today we
- 0:35Speaker 1: are finally tackling a Lord of the Rings character. We
- 0:39Speaker 1: have not done it yet, not the one that I
- 0:42Speaker 1: originally intended though, as I told Samantha, because I originally
- 0:48Speaker 1: meant to do Aowen, the feminist papers on her were
- 0:54Speaker 1: too many for me to handle. So we are just
- 0:58Speaker 1: going to table that for now, and instead we're talking
- 1:03Speaker 1: about our when even Star I can't do the Elvish,
- 1:06Speaker 1: do not come at me. I'm not going to do
- 1:08Speaker 1: her last name in Elvish, but it translates to even Star. Uh.
- 1:14Speaker 1: You know. Actually, the last time I watched Lord of
- 1:16Speaker 1: the Rings is with you, and it was when we
- 1:19Speaker 1: were in La at a conference. Oh yeah, and I
- 1:23Speaker 1: broke my laptop.
- 1:25Speaker 2: Yep, that exactly. It has.
- 1:28Speaker 3: It's like a comfort show because I just recently watched
- 1:30Speaker 3: it again. My partner's family loves loves this tale. We
- 1:36Speaker 3: even played a card game based on it. It was
- 1:39Speaker 3: actually really good to go on different missions and you
- 1:41Speaker 3: have to do it together or you fail as a whole,
- 1:45Speaker 3: you know, as the Fellowship essentially, and it follows the
- 1:49Speaker 3: book and not the movie, so there's a lot of components.
- 1:52Speaker 3: Was that's very disappointed on some of the things that
- 1:54Speaker 3: were left out of the movie, even though the movie
- 1:56Speaker 3: was really great, great adaptation. So us here are nerds
- 2:01Speaker 3: with the Lord of the Rings trilogy and Tolkien fans
- 2:06Speaker 3: just watched it once again. Like I said, I am
- 2:09Speaker 3: on my rewatch of the Return of the Key, there
- 2:12Speaker 3: was conversation about going to the theaters.
- 2:14Speaker 2: We didn't make it, but big fans, I'm excited.
- 2:18Speaker 1: Yeah, I am also a big fan. I do have
- 2:23Speaker 1: a strange thing that happens to me when I love
- 2:26Speaker 1: something I specifically from a certain time of my life,
- 2:32Speaker 1: that it's almost painful for me to rewatch. So I
- 2:36Speaker 1: haven't I don't engage in rewatches that much, but that
- 2:42Speaker 1: the Lord of the Rings movie, the Lord of the
- 2:45Speaker 1: Rings movies are back in theaters right now and they're
- 2:48Speaker 1: doing very well. And I was reminiscing on about how
- 2:53Speaker 1: much I did love them as a kid, I would
- 2:55Speaker 1: go to midnight showings. I would run to the best seats.
- 2:59Speaker 1: This was before where you got a sign seats and
- 3:01Speaker 1: they would just like raise the ear. Yes, we would run.
- 3:08Speaker 1: I had like the glowing Lord of the Ring goblets
- 3:12Speaker 1: that you could get from Burger King. I still have them.
- 3:16Speaker 1: I had a fancy copy of all the books. I
- 3:19Speaker 1: named my cat Arwin. I really just like the name,
- 3:23Speaker 1: but apparently it means noble maiden. Yes, and my dad
- 3:29Speaker 1: loved Lord of the Rings. He was always talking to
- 3:32Speaker 1: me about it. This was a big like bonding thing
- 3:36Speaker 1: for us. I did read the books. I read The
- 3:40Speaker 1: Hobbit and the Similarian and Samantha and I have talked
- 3:45Speaker 1: about our book it slash accelerated reading experiences, but they
- 3:49Speaker 1: are a lot of points you could get for reading those. Sure, yes,
- 3:56Speaker 1: but Tolkien is pretty daunting, Like everything he wrote was
- 3:59Speaker 1: pretty daunting, and there's just so much very specific war.
- 4:04Speaker 1: So I'm going to do my best here. Also kind
- 4:09Speaker 1: of famously, not a lot of women involved, and those
- 4:13Speaker 1: who are typically defined by their relation to men, as
- 4:17Speaker 1: in the wife, the mother, the sister, which we'll talk
- 4:20Speaker 1: a little bit about with Rowin. I almost did glad
- 4:23Speaker 1: Real too, but with the new Amazon show, it was
- 4:27Speaker 1: making my head hurt. So that's another thing we're gonna
- 4:29Speaker 1: have to do later. And also, I'll say a lot
- 4:35Speaker 1: of the depictions of women are more empowered, even if
- 4:40Speaker 1: only a little, in the newer live action stuff, compared
- 4:43Speaker 1: to the books, so we are going to talk about
- 4:47Speaker 1: the differences there. It's been a long time since I
- 4:51Speaker 1: have read the books, and this is why aoen that
- 4:56Speaker 1: it's going to have to be a whole bigger episode
- 4:58Speaker 1: because when I was doing my like, first, oh, we
- 5:02Speaker 1: should do an episode on this, and people are like,
- 5:04Speaker 1: do you remember this happened in the books, I was like,
- 5:06Speaker 1: oh no, I didn't. Okay, I'm gonna have to look
- 5:10Speaker 1: into that. Though author J. R. R. Tolkien once said
- 5:16Speaker 1: the story of Arwen and Aragorn is essential, the tale
- 5:19Speaker 1: of Airgorn and Arwin appeared in the appendix of The
- 5:23Speaker 1: Lord of the Rings, and from what I understand, she
- 5:25Speaker 1: is not in it much. But I can't recall that either,
- 5:29Speaker 1: even though I know I did read it, so all right.
- 5:34Speaker 1: Arwen Evenstar is played by liv Tyler in the live
- 5:37Speaker 1: action films. She is the half elf daughter of Lord
- 5:42Speaker 1: el Rond, and Lady Celebrian. Her family is well off
- 5:46Speaker 1: and well regarded. She is the granddaughter of Galadriel. She's
- 5:52Speaker 1: like very connected. She's like a famous self. We'll say.
- 5:58Speaker 1: She was born in the Elvish city riven Dell, and
- 6:01Speaker 1: she spent a good chunk of her time either there
- 6:04Speaker 1: or in Lothorian with Galadriel. Because she is half alf
- 6:08Speaker 1: she gets to decide if she wants immortality or not,
- 6:12Speaker 1: which is a big part of her story. Another thing
- 6:17Speaker 1: that is a big part of her story is her
- 6:19Speaker 1: mother was captured, tortured, and poisoned by orcs, something that
- 6:23Speaker 1: el Rond was able to heal physically. You kind of
- 6:25Speaker 1: see that in the movies, but she never truly recovered,
- 6:30Speaker 1: and she went on the boats to the Blessed Realm,
- 6:34Speaker 1: which I've always presumed be heaven, but I guess it's
- 6:41Speaker 1: up for interpretation. When Arwin was over two thy seven
- 6:46Speaker 1: hundred years old, she met a twenty year old man
- 6:49Speaker 1: named Aragorn while he was staying at riven Dell, and
- 6:54Speaker 1: it was love at first sight for him. He mistook
- 6:57Speaker 1: her for like a mythical Elvis, and he just thought
- 7:02Speaker 1: she was the most beautiful thing. And talk about an
- 7:05Speaker 1: age gap, although she is actually pretty young for an elf.
- 7:11Speaker 1: Most elves are much older than that, And in case
- 7:15Speaker 1: you don't know and this universe, elves don't age the
- 7:19Speaker 1: same as humans and are usually described as almost a
- 7:22Speaker 1: theorially beautiful, and she was described as amongst the most beautiful.
- 7:26Speaker 1: She's like the Helen of Troy of the elves. So
- 7:32Speaker 1: about thirty years later from this meeting, Ara Gorn and
- 7:34Speaker 1: Rowin meet again and promise themselves to each other. However,
- 7:40Speaker 1: this meant that Rowin was choosing to give up her
- 7:43Speaker 1: immortality by not sailing into the Blessed Realms and remaining
- 7:47Speaker 1: with Ara Gorn instead, something her father wouldn't permit until
- 7:52Speaker 1: Aragorn became the king of Gondor and Arnor. So Ara
- 7:56Speaker 1: Gorne went to war and she supported him. She waved
- 7:59Speaker 1: his banner. This is not the case in the movies,
- 8:02Speaker 1: by the way, There's no such condition, and Airgorn spends
- 8:07Speaker 1: a lot of his time thinking he doesn't deserve the power,
- 8:11Speaker 1: like even want it. Irwin is the one who has
- 8:14Speaker 1: complete faith in him and is trying to build him up.
- 8:17Speaker 1: She gives him her even star necklace as a reminder, which,
- 8:21Speaker 1: by the way, I do have that necklace. And here's
- 8:26Speaker 1: a quote, I would rather share one lifetime with you
- 8:29Speaker 1: than face all of the ages of this world alone.
- 8:32Speaker 1: That's from the first movie. And speaking of the first movie,
- 8:36Speaker 1: she was the one to safely transport Proto to Rivendell,
- 8:41Speaker 1: and she faced down the ringways Slash Nasgule to do it.
- 8:45Speaker 1: There's a very epic river flooding scene and she wields
- 8:49Speaker 1: a fancy sword. She was not the one to do
- 8:52Speaker 1: it in a book. In the book, this was a
- 8:55Speaker 1: movie only thing.
- 8:58Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 8:59Speaker 1: She also vibes Aragorn via a vision, which she also
- 9:02Speaker 1: didn't do in the books. But when he falls and
- 9:06Speaker 1: he's like drowning, she's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yes,
- 9:13Speaker 1: that's the Okay, that's one way to put it. Apparently,
- 9:18Speaker 1: Originally in the Two Towers of the movie, she was
- 9:20Speaker 1: supposed to fight alongside Aragorn at Helm's Deep, the big
- 9:25Speaker 1: fight scene at the end, but they scrapped it and
- 9:28Speaker 1: instead her father shows her a future of sadness if
- 9:32Speaker 1: she gives up immortality, and she later has a vision
- 9:36Speaker 1: of the sun she would have with Aragorn, and then
- 9:39Speaker 1: it's implied that she was ill or something and that
- 9:43Speaker 1: her fate was intertwined with the fate of the One Ring.
- 9:48Speaker 1: I read a lot of interesting things about this. I
- 9:50Speaker 1: guess I've never really thought about it too much, but
- 9:53Speaker 1: a lot of people were like, her dad was manipulating
- 9:56Speaker 1: her by not showing her the whole truth, so manipulating
- 10:01Speaker 1: Eric Gorn by not telling him the whole truth. So
- 10:04Speaker 1: if you want to read into that discourse, it does exist.
- 10:08Speaker 1: But yeah, they did definitely change their plans, and you
- 10:12Speaker 1: can read some interesting interviews about why they did. Once
- 10:16Speaker 1: ari Gorn succeeded in his quest, Arwin met him in
- 10:22Speaker 1: Minas Tarif and the two married and they became She
- 10:26Speaker 1: became Queen of the United Kingdom. She gave her spot
- 10:31Speaker 1: on the ship sailing to the Blessed Realms Staffrodo, and
- 10:37Speaker 1: she and Aragorn had a son and a few daughters.
- 10:40Speaker 1: She died of her broken heart soon after air Gorn did,
- 10:44Speaker 1: at the ripe age of two thousand, nine hundred and one.
- 10:48Speaker 1: But they I think he lived until about ninety. Oh
- 10:54Speaker 1: that doesn't make sense, because he.
- 10:55Speaker 2: Was like ready like seventy yeah something, sixty something something.
- 11:01Speaker 1: Because they said they ruled together for one hundred and
- 11:03Speaker 1: twenty years.
- 11:04Speaker 3: Yeah, so he because he's he being a part of
- 11:07Speaker 3: the clan.
- 11:08Speaker 2: He was ages slowly as.
- 11:10Speaker 1: Well, so he like he lived a long life. And
- 11:18Speaker 1: then she she went back to her home and was
- 11:23Speaker 1: so like haunted by memories. She laid down and just
- 11:28Speaker 1: was like, I'm good, this is the end for me.
- 11:33Speaker 1: But again, like it's it's difficult because the books and
- 11:37Speaker 1: the movies have sort of differing point of views here,
- 11:43Speaker 1: but yeah, that's that's sort of her story. She has
- 11:46Speaker 1: appeared in a couple of video games and some extended
- 11:51Speaker 1: universe stuff, but generally but not as much, not as
- 11:58Speaker 1: much as you would think for how important they've made
- 12:01Speaker 1: her to Aragorne's story. That does bring us to some
- 12:17Speaker 1: of the tropes because I think there are some very
- 12:19Speaker 1: familiar tropes here. I when I saw this movie, how
- 12:26Speaker 1: old would I have been? Maybe middle school, high school?
- 12:30Speaker 1: But I thought, like, especially her scene with the river,
- 12:34Speaker 1: I thought it was so cool. I thought that was
- 12:36Speaker 1: like awesome. And after that, you know, she does become
- 12:43Speaker 1: more of a more of a like in a distance,
- 12:48Speaker 1: let me wake you up from dying or something like that.
- 12:53Speaker 1: But I did really like the character. But at the
- 12:56Speaker 1: same time, it is a lot of the tropes around
- 12:59Speaker 1: her are like her dad deciding when or if she
- 13:06Speaker 1: can get married. I mean, you can argue that in
- 13:11Speaker 1: the movies at least she does, like she makes the decision,
- 13:15Speaker 1: and she does argue her case, and he does. It's
- 13:19Speaker 1: not like giving up your immortality is a pretty big deal.
- 13:25Speaker 1: So it's not that he shouldn't have opinions about it,
- 13:32Speaker 1: I guess, especially because it's affected his family, because he
- 13:36Speaker 1: also had that same choice. But that is kind of
- 13:40Speaker 1: a trope of the like, I don't think you should
- 13:45Speaker 1: do that, and this is the tragedy that will occur
- 13:48Speaker 1: if you do be ready to deal with this. I guess.
- 13:54Speaker 1: You know, you could say, yeah, you should know what
- 13:57Speaker 1: you're getting into. But also it how often this kind
- 14:04Speaker 1: of thing comes up. I was kind of reminded of
- 14:06Speaker 1: Twilight is sort of the she has to decide if
- 14:12Speaker 1: she's gonna be a vampire and like live forever or
- 14:19Speaker 1: a stay human and just those kind of big decisions. Also,
- 14:26Speaker 1: you know, this is her giving up her immortality for
- 14:30Speaker 1: her man, which is a big trope. I think you
- 14:37Speaker 1: could get into a lot about your thoughts about the
- 14:41Speaker 1: worth of living forever versus living with somebody that you
- 14:48Speaker 1: really care about, and sharing that life with them, But
- 14:52Speaker 1: that's definitely a trope of like she did give up
- 14:57Speaker 1: a pretty big thing to be with them. Yeah, overall,
- 15:05Speaker 1: I have to say, I feel like air Gorn and
- 15:10Speaker 1: Irwin's relationship was healthier in the movies, but I mean
- 15:19Speaker 1: in the book she was still she was still very
- 15:25Speaker 1: supportive of him, and uh, you know, I think it's
- 15:32Speaker 1: more just how you get to see it. Like one
- 15:34Speaker 1: of the articles I was reading was saying, you know,
- 15:36Speaker 1: the tale of our air Gorn and Arwin in the
- 15:42Speaker 1: appendix of Lord of the Rings does have these elements,
- 15:47Speaker 1: but who's necessarily reading the appendix And also just the
- 15:54Speaker 1: way they spread it out and the movies makes their
- 15:58Speaker 1: relationship seem more powerful, more meaningful, instead of just like
- 16:05Speaker 1: this one story you read at the end right of
- 16:08Speaker 1: an appendix.
- 16:09Speaker 3: I mean, it feels very like timing of Tolkien and
- 16:14Speaker 3: his little society of like the little care they had
- 16:18Speaker 3: of women anyway, but they did need to put it
- 16:22Speaker 3: in there. But if they're going to make them a
- 16:23Speaker 3: part of the story, then they got to make them grandiose,
- 16:27Speaker 3: like the daughter or the niece of a quaint king.
- 16:29Speaker 3: And you know, like they had to be a big
- 16:31Speaker 3: character because outside of that and they're really just there.
- 16:36Speaker 2: Yeah, so it makes sense to what it was.
- 16:38Speaker 3: And then like, I can't remember because I know you're
- 16:40Speaker 3: not taking talking about Owen, but was there a romance
- 16:43Speaker 3: between Owen and air Gorne Inn the book?
- 16:47Speaker 2: I can't remember.
- 16:48Speaker 3: I just remember really being annoyed by this plotline, this
- 16:51Speaker 3: forced romance between them.
- 16:54Speaker 1: There was a I think there was some like a
- 16:59Speaker 1: unresive all tension between them. I know what you're talking about, right,
- 17:04Speaker 1: because she wanted to be a warrior and she saw
- 17:09Speaker 1: him as a warrior, and so she felt that camaraderie
- 17:15Speaker 1: with him. I don't know because I haven't read it
- 17:18Speaker 1: in so long, but I can't remember if it was
- 17:21Speaker 1: meant to be like, oh he's got doubts.
- 17:24Speaker 3: There's a triangle, a triangle that is always forced. I
- 17:28Speaker 3: couldn't remember, but yeah, I do remember loving the scene
- 17:33Speaker 3: of her rescuing photo really odd line of oh did
- 17:37Speaker 3: I catch a ranger off his guard? I was like,
- 17:39Speaker 3: that's such a weird like line in this entire like
- 17:44Speaker 3: aged tail.
- 17:47Speaker 2: Yeah, but no, I get it. But yeah, I feel
- 17:53Speaker 2: like her.
- 17:55Speaker 3: I love the way they protracted her as more of
- 17:58Speaker 3: a fighter and it's involved then rather than just the
- 18:01Speaker 3: possibility of something to come home to. Essentially it wasn't interesting.
- 18:07Speaker 3: And then also the the reason to fight kind of
- 18:12Speaker 3: the additional reason to fight because in the movie he
- 18:15Speaker 3: kind of gives up because he doesn't want to go
- 18:16Speaker 3: see those who have died, the ghosts of the fallen
- 18:21Speaker 3: soldiers who portrayed the king. But like that was the
- 18:25Speaker 3: one catalyst that pushed him to become claiming the king
- 18:27Speaker 3: or whatever kingdom or whatnot. But it is interesting to
- 18:31Speaker 3: see the throwback to who was seen as essential in
- 18:36Speaker 3: the storytelling because I again, I know you're not going
- 18:40Speaker 3: to talk about Owen, but she did take on that
- 18:42Speaker 3: stride a little more of that rebellion and wanting to
- 18:46Speaker 3: be a leader, to be called a leader and be
- 18:49Speaker 3: seen as a leader, end up being a wife in yeah,
- 18:54Speaker 3: bringing two kingdoms together, but whatever, we're gonna go with that,
- 18:59Speaker 3: but yeah, it I have never read The Hobbit either,
- 19:04Speaker 3: so I can't really say to like the origin stories
- 19:07Speaker 3: of some of these things. But also, like again, I
- 19:10Speaker 3: did not read the Appendix either, as much as I
- 19:12Speaker 3: loved but that's that's where Tolkien is kind of like,
- 19:15Speaker 3: this is where the major details are that you're missing
- 19:17Speaker 3: out on that.
- 19:18Speaker 2: That seems very token esque. Yes, you really cared. You
- 19:24Speaker 2: will dig here.
- 19:27Speaker 1: You don't know who the great great great grandfather of
- 19:30Speaker 1: this dwarf is. What are you doing?
- 19:33Speaker 3: The detail about lineage, which yes, could be said about
- 19:36Speaker 3: something as well as the landscape that he has is
- 19:40Speaker 3: sense very well.
- 19:42Speaker 1: Technically, Eric Gorn and Irwin are related.
- 19:46Speaker 2: That makes sense. I don't know why, but that feels right.
- 19:48Speaker 1: But very very distantly, like over like a thousand years.
- 19:55Speaker 1: But yes, just speaking of lineage, I didn't know that
- 19:59Speaker 1: until I was doing the researcher this. Oh okay, all right, okay, yeah, no, no,
- 20:08Speaker 1: we're definitely gonna have to come back and talk about
- 20:09Speaker 1: Aowen because I totally forgot that she was essentially scolded
- 20:13Speaker 1: for killing the ring right there, like women don't do that,
- 20:19Speaker 1: and it was in the book. I just completely forgot.
- 20:23Speaker 1: So yeah, exactly exactly. But this is what we have
- 20:31Speaker 1: to say about Rowin for now. But if you do
- 20:34Speaker 1: have any other thoughts or anything that.
- 20:36Speaker 2: We missed, we're going to get some. We're gonna get
- 20:39Speaker 2: some thoughts. I'm excited.
- 20:41Speaker 1: Gosh me too, I'm very interested. I'm very interested. Well,
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