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- 0:00Speaker 1: All right, we're getting ready for Second Date Update. We
- 0:01Speaker 1: got braid on the line. Braden, give us a little
- 0:03Speaker 1: bit about what's going on in your dating situation.
- 0:06Speaker 2: So I went on this date with this girl. We
- 0:09Speaker 2: went bowling and even hooked up afterwards in my car.
- 0:13Speaker 2: Now I'm not really hearing from her, So maybe you
- 0:14Speaker 2: guys can help me out.
- 0:15Speaker 1: What kind of car do you have?
- 0:17Speaker 2: I got a Camaro?
- 0:18Speaker 1: There you go. Next kidding, Kitty, just jokes, Bray, all right,
- 0:25Speaker 1: hang on, all right. Second Date Update starts next with
- 0:27Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich.
- 0:28Speaker 3: And I know she'll be the death of me. Ele.
- 0:31Speaker 4: The next segment we're going to do is called second
- 0:34Speaker 4: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and get,
- 0:37Speaker 4: and that's what the bit is called. Second Date Update
- 0:40Speaker 4: starts right now on John Jay and Rich.
- 0:43Speaker 1: John Jay Rich, it's time for Second Date Update. You
- 0:46Speaker 1: meet somebody either on an app, at church, at a club, whatever,
- 0:50Speaker 1: You make a date. You go out on the date.
- 0:53Speaker 1: Then the person doesn't call you or respond to your
- 0:55Speaker 1: text message anymore. So you come to us, we hear
- 0:58Speaker 1: your story, like we are here with Braiden. Then we're
- 1:01Speaker 1: gonna call the person you went out with and find
- 1:02Speaker 1: out why they're blowing you off. Good morning, Braiden.
- 1:06Speaker 2: Hey, good morning guys.
- 1:07Speaker 1: What's your story, Braiden.
- 1:10Speaker 2: Yeah, so a couple of weeks ago, I went out
- 1:13Speaker 2: with this girl, Christine, and I don't know if I
- 1:19Speaker 2: thought the date went really well. We went bowling and
- 1:21Speaker 2: we laughed and we're chatting the whole time. I had
- 1:25Speaker 2: a great time, and yeah, things kind of escalated and
- 1:28Speaker 2: we ended up by hooking up in my car for
- 1:30Speaker 2: a little bit. She didn't want to go back to
- 1:33Speaker 2: my place was a little far, and you know, she
- 1:36Speaker 2: didn't want me to come to her, and I guess
- 1:37Speaker 2: for roommates reasons, but but yeah, I mean it felt
- 1:42Speaker 2: like we were really into each other and it went
- 1:44Speaker 2: really well. But now I'm kind of confused because I
- 1:47Speaker 2: haven't heard from her for like almost a week, and
- 1:50Speaker 2: you know, we texted a little bit, you know, the
- 1:52Speaker 2: day after our date, but now it's like she's totally ghosted,
- 1:57Speaker 2: and like, I don't know what's what's up. Like, you know,
- 2:01Speaker 2: I thought things went really well. I thought that we
- 2:02Speaker 2: were both kind of giving off the same vibe.
- 2:06Speaker 5: Anything weird happened while you were making out in the car,
- 2:08Speaker 5: Like I don't know the awkward Did you go too far?
- 2:11Speaker 1: What did it defender? Like?
- 2:13Speaker 3: Were you too sloppy?
- 2:14Speaker 2: I don't think so. I mean we're both super into
- 2:17Speaker 2: it and we were both bummed at like, you know,
- 2:19Speaker 2: neither of our places was an option that night, So
- 2:23Speaker 2: and what was it like?
- 2:24Speaker 6: It wasn't like, oh my gosh, I like this so much,
- 2:26Speaker 6: but I have roomains home where it was like, oh,
- 2:28Speaker 6: too bad, my roommates are home and I don't want
- 2:30Speaker 6: to go too far to your house. Was she just
- 2:31Speaker 6: trying to get out of there?
- 2:34Speaker 2: I mean I didn't get that impression. Knows just like yeah,
- 2:37Speaker 2: like yeah, sorry, my roommates are home and makes me uncomfortable,
- 2:41Speaker 2: like bringing a guy over when they're there, which I get.
- 2:43Speaker 2: So I don't know. No, I really thought like we would,
- 2:47Speaker 2: we would, you know, continue it another time. But now
- 2:51Speaker 2: I'm like a little freaked out.
- 2:53Speaker 1: I wonder if maybe you gave her the ick with
- 2:54Speaker 1: the way you were bowling. What do you picture he
- 3:00Speaker 1: was squatting down or he makes a perverted comment when
- 3:03Speaker 1: you put your fingers in the ball.
- 3:07Speaker 7: So I mean, yeah, but the fact that you know that,
- 3:15Speaker 7: like that's you know that the day, That's a good
- 3:18Speaker 7: point all right, dude.
- 3:19Speaker 1: Well that's enough for us to call her. Say. Her
- 3:21Speaker 1: name is Christine. Here's how it works. You chill. We're
- 3:23Speaker 1: gonna get her on the phone, okay, and then we're
- 3:25Speaker 1: going to interview her and find out why she's blowing
- 3:27Speaker 1: you off, right, all right. Second Ate update continues next
- 3:31Speaker 1: with John Jaye Rich. John Jaye Rich, we are in
- 3:36Speaker 1: the middle of second Ate Update.
- 3:38Speaker 6: Let's meet Brayden, who started off cuffing season by taking
- 3:42Speaker 6: his holiday date to a bowling alley, the most romantic
- 3:47Speaker 6: of locations, which led to a dance of love in
- 3:51Speaker 6: the car, but was Brayden's clumsy, drooling lunges all gut
- 3:57Speaker 6: her balls.
- 4:02Speaker 1: I mean that's a good recap right there, right, Bradon, Yes,
- 4:06Speaker 1: very complimentary when you think about it. All right, So
- 4:09Speaker 1: we're gonna get Christina on the phone and find out
- 4:11Speaker 1: why she's blowing you off, all right, So you stay quiet. Okay?
- 4:14Speaker 3: Here, Hello, Hi is this Christine?
- 4:27Speaker 4: It is Hi. My name is Peyton. I'm with John
- 4:29Speaker 4: jay and Rich and we just wanted to talk to
- 4:31Speaker 4: you on the radio really quickly if you got time
- 4:32Speaker 4: this morning.
- 4:33Speaker 1: Okay, Christine, we got a call from a guy, so
- 4:36Speaker 1: you know, We're doing our radio show and talk about
- 4:38Speaker 1: relationships and dating and if anyone went on any fun
- 4:41Speaker 1: dates lately or they got blown off. And sure enough,
- 4:44Speaker 1: this guy calls us says he went on a date
- 4:46Speaker 1: with you. He described the date as a lot of fun,
- 4:49Speaker 1: even got into the makeout session in the car afterwards. Right,
- 4:52Speaker 1: you follow me so far? You know what I'm talking about.
- 4:56Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I'm following you so far.
- 4:59Speaker 1: His nickname was all of us in the studio is
- 5:01Speaker 1: Braid in the Bowler. So what's the deal with Braid
- 5:05Speaker 1: and the Bowler.
- 5:11Speaker 8: Yeah, I just there was just a lot of little
- 5:13Speaker 8: stuff that that wound up being really it added up
- 5:17Speaker 8: to kind of bigger stuff. So I'm yeah, I was
- 5:21Speaker 8: kind of done.
- 5:22Speaker 1: Could you tell us the little stuff?
- 5:25Speaker 8: Yeah? It just it turned into like like little comments
- 5:28Speaker 8: and things that he did during bowling, Like, okay, so,
- 5:32Speaker 8: for instance, like I was trying to joke around about
- 5:35Speaker 8: the fact that I'm not good at it, you know,
- 5:38Speaker 8: and I was trying to make a joke about that,
- 5:41Speaker 8: and he goes, oh, well, I'm just naturally good at
- 5:44Speaker 8: this kind of thing, and it just seemed like kind
- 5:49Speaker 8: of egotistical. And then we go further on in the
- 5:52Speaker 8: game and like I actually do get a strike and yeah, right,
- 5:57Speaker 8: And and he's not he's not hyping me up though,
- 5:59Speaker 8: he's not. He's not being happy for me. He just goes, yeah,
- 6:03Speaker 8: you're catching on, Like.
- 6:06Speaker 6: You didn't freak out that you never bowl and you
- 6:08Speaker 6: got to strike. That's a pretty big deal, right, Yeah.
- 6:12Speaker 8: He'd no, he was just like, yeah, you're catching on,
- 6:14Speaker 8: Like like his job to like make me better at
- 6:19Speaker 8: it or I don't know, it just it came across
- 6:21Speaker 8: like he's always acting like he's he's he's better at things.
- 6:25Speaker 8: He's he has to be smarter, it has to be
- 6:27Speaker 8: a competition, and it just it, honestly just kind of
- 6:32Speaker 8: put me in mind of my dad because he was
- 6:35Speaker 8: like that too. And I know you're ansay daddy issues
- 6:37Speaker 8: and I understand, but like he just kind of acted
- 6:42Speaker 8: like that and and I'm projecting like the hate that
- 6:46Speaker 8: I have for my dad being like that onto this
- 6:48Speaker 8: and it was just not comfortable for me anymore.
- 6:51Speaker 1: Hmm.
- 6:52Speaker 3: I get that.
- 6:54Speaker 1: Just because he's a better bowler than.
- 6:55Speaker 3: You, I think was what he was saying.
- 6:57Speaker 1: You went from being a better bowlard, which interesting we listen,
- 7:00Speaker 1: you self diagnosed yourself with daddy.
- 7:02Speaker 6: Issues, which is you know, introspective.
- 7:05Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, that was really interesting.
- 7:07Speaker 5: Well and then the fact that she knows that and
- 7:09Speaker 5: she can see that in him. It's like that there
- 7:11Speaker 5: is no bigger red flag, right.
- 7:13Speaker 6: Okay, but what about the red flag that she went
- 7:15Speaker 6: and made out with him in the car?
- 7:16Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 7:17Speaker 5: Afterwards to make out with sometimes people are off and
- 7:19Speaker 5: then you're done. You want to see you test out
- 7:25Speaker 5: a little bit and you're like okay, you know, but
- 7:27Speaker 5: the deeper issues is this is going anywhere?
- 7:29Speaker 3: Right?
- 7:29Speaker 4: Like when she's looking at him and just wants to
- 7:31Speaker 4: hate his face, Like, yeah, it's probably not a good match, like.
- 7:34Speaker 5: A rage makeout?
- 7:35Speaker 1: Were you making out with him in the car at all?
- 7:37Speaker 1: And thinking about your dad? Gros I encourage everyone tonight
- 7:43Speaker 1: whenever you're intimate with together, think about your parents. Would
- 7:47Speaker 1: you encourage that you have such issues? Well, Christine, we
- 7:53Speaker 1: actually have Braiden on the line.
- 7:55Speaker 2: Yo, Christine, see are you are you actually serious? And
- 7:59Speaker 2: I like I remind you of your dad, Like are
- 8:02Speaker 2: you are you joking? Because that's kind of insane.
- 8:07Speaker 8: I mean what, it's okay if you do, but like
- 8:10Speaker 8: you're the one that it's kind of like sorry, I'm
- 8:13Speaker 8: a little forward right now. You're the one that was
- 8:17Speaker 8: like coming at it and kind of making it a competition.
- 8:19Speaker 8: And it's it's not cute, you know what I mean,
- 8:22Speaker 8: Like it's it's it's a lot.
- 8:25Speaker 2: I mean, it's not girls like confidence. I mean, like
- 8:28Speaker 2: I bowled a good game and we're like joking and
- 8:31Speaker 2: like we even hooked up. So I don't I just
- 8:33Speaker 2: don't get why, Like that's like why you ghosted.
- 8:37Speaker 6: Well, I mean she's telling me pretty directly, yeah, it's
- 8:43Speaker 6: it's okay.
- 8:44Speaker 2: Well, I guess like confidence, mind you of your dad,
- 8:48Speaker 2: Like I don't know, it just feels like you're projecting. Honestly,
- 8:51Speaker 2: it's like her.
- 8:53Speaker 3: Say, I am projecting.
- 8:54Speaker 1: I mean a lot of your your manner is the
- 8:57Speaker 1: reminded her father, and.
- 8:58Speaker 4: I guess she's And if you don't your dad, that's
- 9:01Speaker 4: all you're seeing in him.
- 9:03Speaker 1: I look at it as a red flag for both
- 9:05Speaker 1: of you.
- 9:09Speaker 2: Could be well, I mean, I guess, like I don't know,
- 9:13Speaker 2: just own up to it and call it your daddy issues,
- 9:16Speaker 2: you know, instead of just like yeah.
- 9:19Speaker 6: But also also you need to be a little less egotistical.
- 9:22Speaker 6: It sounds like why you're bowling.
- 9:25Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't help it. I'm a pretty good bowler.
- 9:27Speaker 6: No second, we're not gonna we're not gonna Brad hit
- 9:29Speaker 6: that down a little bit. You're gonna keep that right there.
- 9:35Speaker 1: Watch his bowling talents.
- 9:38Speaker 8: We're just like we're gonna double down.
- 9:40Speaker 4: Then we're not.
- 9:40Speaker 8: We're not gonna like stand right there, We're just going
- 9:44Speaker 8: to double down. Okay, all right, just checking making sure.
- 9:47Speaker 1: All right, So no, no second date for each of you.
- 9:48Speaker 1: You're out right both of you not.
- 9:50Speaker 6: Interested kind of you?
- 9:52Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, well thank you both for going there
- 9:55Speaker 1: with us.
- 9:56Speaker 2: Thanks, no problem.
- 9:58Speaker 1: Yes, yep, that's second date update John day Rich