I Loved Him. So Why Did It Take Me Eight Years to Marry Him?

Health, Life & What’s Next · Aug 27, 2026 · 22m · transcript

I loved him. We built a life together. We had a daughter, a home, history—and still, it took me eight years to walk down the aisle.

At one point, I even canceled the wedding.

There was no scandal. No secret relationship falling apart.

So what was I waiting for?

In this very personal episode, I share the truth about what was really happening—and the uncomfortable realization that changed everything.

This conversation is about marriage, but it is also about fear, control, independence, and the things we say we want while quietly finding reasons to wait.

Because sometimes we are not waiting for…