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Dating App No No · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: Time to make a love connection in Newington. This morning,
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  Speaker 1: Marissa's on the line a second date update. She went
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  Speaker 1: on a great first date and now she's getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 1: She wants answers.
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  Speaker 2: All right, let's get Yeah, good morning, Marissa, hie, Hey,
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  Speaker 2: how are you?
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  Speaker 3: But I'm okay?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So you got to tell us about this great
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  Speaker 1: first date you went on. I know the guy's name
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  Speaker 1: is Cole. What did you do? How did it go?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we went to dinner.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: I thought we had a really good time.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 3: Conversation was really good and I really want the same
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  Speaker 3: things out of life, and I felt like we both
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  Speaker 3: were very obviously attracted to one another. Okay, And now
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  Speaker 3: I'm just kind of thrown for a loop because I
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  Speaker 3: think I'm getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 2: Did you reach out to him, like call or text
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  Speaker 2: after the date?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I wanted to wait a respectable like I
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  Speaker 3: didn't want to I didn't want to reach out first,
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  Speaker 3: so I tried to wait like a day or so.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, I reached out, and now I'm getting.
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  Speaker 2: Nothing that seems a little odd.
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  Speaker 4: Could be like the heat and humidity sometimes, what do
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  Speaker 4: you mean? Sometimes guys just get lazy during the dog
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  Speaker 4: days of summer, and it's just one of those things
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  Speaker 4: where we just don't want to get off the couch.
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  Speaker 1: They're always lazy, Marissa. So it's completely ghosted.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I I think I texted him twice,
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  Speaker 3: but I don't want to texted.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, if you keep texting, then he's gonna think you're
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  Speaker 1: like crazy, like you're a safe.
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  Speaker 2: Five clinger, right, a stalker.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna call him up. Let's just jump right,
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  Speaker 1: and we're gonna call him up. I'm gonna ask him
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  Speaker 1: how to be honest and tell us how he thought
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  Speaker 1: the date went. And at any point, if you want
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  Speaker 1: to talk to Cole, you can jump in. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: something's something's kookie.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. Dude's scary easily, they're kind of like birds.
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  Speaker 1: She didn't give us a lot of information, like were
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  Speaker 1: their cocktails? Did you get drunk? Like, you know, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: Hi is Cole there?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, this is hey Cole.
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  Speaker 2: It's Courtney Cole, It's Walmart Jeff. Hey Cole, it's Savannah
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  Speaker 2: and we're calling. You're on the radio. You're on something
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  Speaker 2: called Second Date Update this morning call what All right?
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  Speaker 2: So we do this.
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  Speaker 1: Feature on the radio where if you go on a
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  Speaker 1: first date, it's fabulous, but you get ghosted after.
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  Speaker 2: That and you never get a second date.
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  Speaker 1: We try to get the answers, and so that's why
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  Speaker 1: we're calling you.
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  Speaker 5: All right, So okay, here's the deal.
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  Speaker 1: We just want you to be honest, just upfront, honest.
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  Speaker 2: Marissa called us.
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  Speaker 1: She said, you get you guys, went on a great
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  Speaker 1: first date. You have a lot in common. You want
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  Speaker 1: the same things out of life. She says, she texted
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  Speaker 1: you twice. She waited a day or two I think, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: after the date, which is respectable. Yeah, and she sent
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  Speaker 1: two text messages, but you have not responded.
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  Speaker 2: Is there a reason? Can you tell us how the
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  Speaker 2: date was for you?
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  Speaker 5: Okay? So yeah, I mean to be honest, like she is.
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  Speaker 5: She's a great person, like I liked her a lot
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  Speaker 5: and everything. But we had a good date. But the
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  Speaker 5: thing is is like she has three kids and she
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  Speaker 5: didn't mention it, like at all. I don't know what
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  Speaker 5: kind of mother doesn't mention her kids like that to
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  Speaker 5: me is like, and I don't want kids, so I
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  Speaker 5: don't know. It was It's like I think you really
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  Speaker 5: should mention your kids. Like first thing, I'm not sure
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  Speaker 5: about that, Like, what kind of mother doesn't mention her kids?
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  Speaker 5: Was it?
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  Speaker 2: Did you guys meet on a dating app?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Because I feel like that's like a big thing to
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  Speaker 2: leave out.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and she did? She Okay, so it wasn't on
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  Speaker 5: her bioacis sorry. I was like got to throw I
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  Speaker 5: was thrown off by this whole You know that she
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  Speaker 5: didn't mention it at all in her bio.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, but you know, let's just bring Marissa in.
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  Speaker 1: Marissa, apparently you didn't mention you had three kids on
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  Speaker 1: your bio and Cole's offended by that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, Cole, Hey, well I.
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  Speaker 2: Forgot to tell you, Cole. Marissa is also on the line.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what you mean by that. What kind
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  Speaker 3: of mother doesn't mention her kids? I don't know what
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  Speaker 3: you're buying by that, But a great mother, a great
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  Speaker 3: mother who's protecting her three kids. I don't think I
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  Speaker 3: need to tell every single person, but.
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  Speaker 2: But I that's the point one.
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  Speaker 3: Message with that I have kids. I think that I
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  Speaker 3: should save that for somebody that I'm serious about dating.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think there's anybody's business that I have kids
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  Speaker 3: or three kids. Okay, thank you very much, and I
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  Speaker 3: I was really serious about seeing you again. I thought
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  Speaker 3: you were too, And so I don't really I don't
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  Speaker 3: really know what you mean by that. Honestly, I think
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  Speaker 3: it's offensive, Okay, Cale, Is.
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  Speaker 2: It like deeper?
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  Speaker 1: Is it more deep for you that, like you don't
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  Speaker 1: want children, and so you're on a dating app and
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  Speaker 1: your your preference is somebody without children need to want children.
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  Speaker 1: And you didn't know that she had kids because she
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  Speaker 1: left it off her profile.
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  Speaker 5: I mean that's part of it. But also like, okay,
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  Speaker 5: if you have three kids, that's a huge part of
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  Speaker 5: your life. This isn't like having a dog or something.
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  Speaker 5: This is valid. You know, this is a huge part
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  Speaker 5: of your life. Like how can you not say that immediately?
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  Speaker 5: Because if I knew that, I wouldn't have swiped right
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  Speaker 5: now begin with.
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  Speaker 6: You know, I have to agree. I think with something
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  Speaker 6: like kids, like Cole's right, that is a really big,
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  Speaker 6: like lifestyle change.
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  Speaker 2: Not everybody might be cool with that.
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  Speaker 6: So I think it is something you might want to
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  Speaker 6: include on your profile, Marissa. But I don't think that
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  Speaker 6: makes you like a like a bad mom or like
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  Speaker 6: what kind of mom?
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  Speaker 2: Like I don't think that makes you a bad mom.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you. I honestly was just trying to be a
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  Speaker 3: great mom and do what was best for my kids,
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  Speaker 3: and that's clearly not having coal in their life. So thanks.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so so you got your answer, Marissa, there's your
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  Speaker 1: answer why you got ghosted. I completely understand a little
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  Speaker 1: bit of both sides here. I usually offer to pay
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  Speaker 1: for a second date, but in this case, because Cole
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  Speaker 1: is upfront saying he doesn't want kids, that was like
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  Speaker 1: in his bio, and you have three, I do not
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  Speaker 1: believe it's a match and worth the second date anyway.
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  Speaker 2: Do you guys agree?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? For sure.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not interested.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, well listen, I appreciate you being
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  Speaker 1: honest with us, Cole, and I'm glad you got your answers.
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  Speaker 2: USA. You know the I know you.
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  Speaker 1: Want to protect your kids, But an easy way to
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  Speaker 1: get back out there and date and find somebody who
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  Speaker 1: wants to you know, wants children or likes to be
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  Speaker 1: around children, is to add it in your bio.
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  Speaker 4: I would think this coming from the woman who is
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  Speaker 4: having a hard time navigating Hinge. By the way, this
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  Speaker 4: is just ye, Marissa, you shouldn't be taking any sort
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  Speaker 4: of dating app advice from Courtney, Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I don't.
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  Speaker 6: That actually isn't bad advice though, Like, in no fairness
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  Speaker 6: to Courtney, you know it.
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  Speaker 1: Don't take any advice from me, But I wish you
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  Speaker 1: both well, okay, and I'm glad we got the answers.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you guys,