Latest / Red Onion Randy - Life in a Supermax Prison / Harvey Grant Comes to Prison
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- 0:05Speaker 1: You have to fight and fight and fight and fight
- 0:08Speaker 1: to overcome. I can do something with my life. Hey, everybody.
- 0:21Speaker 1: It's Red Onion Randy. I apologize that this is a
- 0:25Speaker 1: little bit late. However, I kind of wanted to do
- 0:29Speaker 1: it this way for the simple fact that we had
- 0:32Speaker 1: a We had a pretty huge day here at Buckingham Prison.
- 0:38Speaker 1: So there's a guy on my pod named Norman Blow.
- 0:41Speaker 1: Good guy. He seems to be innocent. I'm not going
- 0:45Speaker 1: to go 100% out on a limb and say that
- 0:49Speaker 1: he is the way I did with my buddy, Micah Patterson.
- 0:54Speaker 1: I know Coach. We talk. We hang out sometimes. You know,
- 0:58Speaker 1: I've Had a chance to look at his case a
- 1:00Speaker 1: little bit, and he does look like he's innocent. He
- 1:04Speaker 1: does look like he was falsely accused, and it was
- 1:07Speaker 1: a money grab. But I haven't had a chance to
- 1:11Speaker 1: really go into his case, you know, and read the
- 1:15Speaker 1: whole thing and look at the nuts and bolts of it.
- 1:17Speaker 1: So that's the only reason why I add that caveat,
- 1:20Speaker 1: you know. But Norman Blow, we call him Coach in here.
- 1:29Speaker 1: He actually owned the ABA, American Basketball Association, if I
- 1:34Speaker 1: remember correctly. And he was friends with Harvey Grant, the
- 1:43Speaker 1: former player in the NBA for 11 seasons. He played
- 1:48Speaker 1: for the Washington Bullets. He played for Portland, the Portland Trailblazers,
- 1:56Speaker 1: and he came back and played for the Wizards again.
- 1:59Speaker 1: I think there's a fourth team, but I can't remember.
- 2:02Speaker 1: I'm not really a basketball guy. I used to like it,
- 2:05Speaker 1: but I followed the Mavericks. But his twin brother, Horace Grant,
- 2:14Speaker 1: is a lot more famous, more well-known, because Horace Grant
- 2:18Speaker 1: played on the Chicago Bulls with Michael Jordan, Scotty Pippen,
- 2:24Speaker 1: and Dennis Rodman and them, and won. a couple of championships.
- 2:28Speaker 1: He also played in Orlando with Shaquille O'Neal and Penny
- 2:32Speaker 1: Hardaway and then went to the Lakers and played with
- 2:36Speaker 1: Kobe Bryant and Shaquille O'Neal and won another championship there. Harvey,
- 2:48Speaker 1: you know, he really does seem like a good guy.
- 2:53Speaker 1: He seems like a genuine guy. You know, normally, I'm
- 3:01Speaker 1: really not impressed by a lot of people, to be
- 3:04Speaker 1: honest with you. I've been around a lot of people
- 3:07Speaker 1: in my life. I've been around good. I've been around bad.
- 3:12Speaker 1: Quite frankly, I grew up in prison after 35 years
- 3:15Speaker 1: of this. So mostly bad. Mostly I've been around a
- 3:19Speaker 1: lot of fucking bad people. And, you know, as we
- 3:23Speaker 1: all know, those who've listened to my story, I was
- 3:26Speaker 1: one of those bad people for a long-ass time. You know,
- 3:30Speaker 1: and now I'm on my journey of turning that around. It's... Man,
- 3:42Speaker 1: it's good. Like, it was... It was good to see
- 3:46Speaker 1: this guy come in. One, that says a lot about
- 3:50Speaker 1: Norman Blow. That says a lot about him as a
- 3:53Speaker 1: friend and about his character. That this guy, who was
- 3:56Speaker 1: an ambassador... for the Washington Wizards, has stood by Coach
- 4:04Speaker 1: this whole time. They talk on the phone. They text
- 4:12Speaker 1: each other constantly. Coach is helping him. He's helping Coach.
- 4:20Speaker 1: So when Coach created a program called Coaching for Life,
- 4:27Speaker 1: And it's a 16-week in-depth course. And I've had a
- 4:32Speaker 1: chance to read it. I've had a chance to go
- 4:34Speaker 1: through it. And it is really good. Like, it's really good.
- 4:39Speaker 1: That's why you don't, like, if you are a part
- 4:44Speaker 1: of the Department of Corrections, I don't care what state,
- 4:46Speaker 1: I don't care what country you're in. If you want
- 4:50Speaker 1: to rehabilitate guys, do not go headhunting In a fucking
- 4:57Speaker 1: college or university. They don't know prison. They don't know crime.
- 5:03Speaker 1: They don't know criminals. They don't understand this in here.
- 5:09Speaker 1: You want guys, programs, stuff that makes a difference. You
- 5:14Speaker 1: don't need a degree in criminology. You need a record
- 5:20Speaker 1: in criminology. Because I know what it's like to walk
- 5:24Speaker 1: the streets. See, I'm one of those rare cats. I
- 5:28Speaker 1: can go in the country and be just fine, fit in.
- 5:32Speaker 1: You couldn't tell the difference. I can go into the city.
- 5:35Speaker 1: I can go into the hood and fit in. And
- 5:38Speaker 1: the only difference you'll notice is the fact that I'm
- 5:40Speaker 1: a little bit lighter than everybody else around me. Well, actually,
- 5:44Speaker 1: my white ass is a whole lot whiter. But that's
- 5:47Speaker 1: the only thing. I know both sides. I've been on
- 5:52Speaker 1: both sides. I've ran the streets on both sides. I
- 5:57Speaker 1: grew up in prison. I know prison better than just
- 6:02Speaker 1: about anybody else. There's no getting around that fact. I've
- 6:11Speaker 1: done 35 years in here. I grew up in here.
- 6:16Speaker 1: Seven years juvenile, 28 plus years adult. To see someone
- 6:28Speaker 1: like this guy stick around for coach to keep that
- 6:37Speaker 1: friendship when it could potentially harm his career. He's an
- 6:42Speaker 1: ambassador for the Wizards. Quite frankly, he could have lost
- 6:48Speaker 1: his job They could have sit there and just told him, hey, look, man,
- 6:53Speaker 1: we're going in a new direction. Thank you for your service. And,
- 7:00Speaker 1: you know, he's out the door all because he's stuck
- 7:03Speaker 1: by his friend. Look, his friend isn't locked up for
- 7:06Speaker 1: great charges. But, again, I believe he's innocent. Quite frankly,
- 7:12Speaker 1: I do. I think it was a money grab because,
- 7:17Speaker 1: quite frankly, the dude had a little bit of cash.
- 7:20Speaker 1: You know, and sad to say, but sometimes that happens
- 7:23Speaker 1: in life. So Coach wrote the program, and he went
- 7:35Speaker 1: through Rec. Supervisor Baker, and he went through Dr. Jackson
- 7:39Speaker 1: in charge of mental health, and it went through, you know,
- 7:42Speaker 1: the assistant warden and the major, and finally it landed
- 7:45Speaker 1: on the warden's desk, David Newcomer. David Newcomer read the program.
- 7:51Speaker 1: He sat down with Coach, talked to him. You know,
- 7:54Speaker 1: Coach explained everything to him, what he wants to do,
- 7:58Speaker 1: what he's trying to build this for, and why he's
- 8:01Speaker 1: trying to do it. And I'll say this. Newcomer got
- 8:07Speaker 1: on board. He jumped on board with both feet, and
- 8:11Speaker 1: he made this happen. I respect that. And It wasn't
- 8:18Speaker 1: because Harvey Grant could do anything for him. I'm sorry,
- 8:23Speaker 1: but you're not going to get some autographs from Harvey
- 8:26Speaker 1: Grant and go sell it on eBay for money. There
- 8:33Speaker 1: was nothing that Ward Newcomer was going to get out
- 8:37Speaker 1: of this. Honestly, I seriously doubt if the man gets
- 8:41Speaker 1: any press beyond what I'm doing right here on my podcast.
- 8:48Speaker 1: He saw what Norman Blow had. He saw what coaching
- 8:51Speaker 1: for life was about. And he was all in. He
- 8:56Speaker 1: made it happen. He went to Richmond. They was back
- 8:59Speaker 1: and forth talking. Like, they really got behind this program.
- 9:04Speaker 1: So today, October the 8th, 2026, Harvey Grant came up.
- 9:10Speaker 1: A and B building went around 8 o'clock-ish. You know,
- 9:17Speaker 1: a little over 100 people in the gym. They did
- 9:19Speaker 1: their thing. And then around 9.30, 10 o'clock, they called
- 9:25Speaker 1: C & D building over after A & B building
- 9:27Speaker 1: went back. And I was one of the ones I
- 9:30Speaker 1: signed up to go over there because, you know, I
- 9:33Speaker 1: hang out with Coach. Coach is in my park. We've talked.
- 9:36Speaker 1: I've let Coach read my program, building perspective. He liked it.
- 9:41Speaker 1: He actually made me a part of coaching for life.
- 9:46Speaker 1: He wants me to come over and teach the section
- 9:50Speaker 1: on perspective because he really, really liked my program on that.
- 9:58Speaker 1: And we talk. We build. you know we we've we
- 10:01Speaker 1: broke bread together we've cooked together occasionally and you know
- 10:08Speaker 1: he comes to me when he needs somebody to talk
- 10:10Speaker 1: to when he kind of needs to get off his
- 10:12Speaker 1: chest and whatnot he comes hollers at me maybe not
- 10:16Speaker 1: every single time but often enough So we get over there,
- 10:26Speaker 1: you know, and he's asked me to ask a question.
- 10:30Speaker 1: But first, let me back up real quick. So we
- 10:33Speaker 1: get in there. They got the sound speakers going. They've
- 10:36Speaker 1: got the flags and everything back, and they got the
- 10:39Speaker 1: chairs out and, you know, everything. You got the warden there,
- 10:43Speaker 1: assistant warden, the major. you got captains, you got lieutenants, sergeants. Heck,
- 10:50Speaker 1: I even saw the two ladies that work in personal
- 10:52Speaker 1: property said, you know what, the hell with property today,
- 10:55Speaker 1: we're going to this. And they did, you know, and
- 10:59Speaker 1: more power to them than they're supposed to. She got
- 11:02Speaker 1: the guys there, we're talking, you know, shaking hands and
- 11:06Speaker 1: whatnot with people and, you know, as little time goes by,
- 11:10Speaker 1: they're ready and You know, we all quiet down and everything.
- 11:14Speaker 1: And Harvey and Coach sit up in the chairs in
- 11:16Speaker 1: front of the microphones. And, you know, they start talking.
- 11:19Speaker 1: And it's evident. It is clearly evident that Coach and
- 11:26Speaker 1: Harvey are tight. That they're brothers. They're friends. They're confidence. Like,
- 11:35Speaker 1: they're there for one another. Like, the rapport that they had...
- 11:40Speaker 1: was really good to see. It was a little heartwarming.
- 11:45Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? I'm sitting there and sometimes
- 11:50Speaker 1: you get these people, famous people or semi-famous people, people
- 11:55Speaker 1: that's got some money. Let's face it, the guy's a millionaire.
- 11:58Speaker 1: He played in the NBA for 10 years. He's an ambassador,
- 12:01Speaker 1: so he's making good money. All four of his sons
- 12:07Speaker 1: played in the NBA, and his daughter is a senior
- 12:13Speaker 1: in the University of Maryland. So they start talking, him
- 12:18Speaker 1: and Coach, and Coach is asking him questions, and Harvey's
- 12:23Speaker 1: talking about his life. He talks about how he grew up.
- 12:26Speaker 1: He talks about the foundation that his parents laid in
- 12:30Speaker 1: him and his twin brother's life, how they told him, look,
- 12:36Speaker 1: two things are going to happen. One, you're keeping your
- 12:41Speaker 1: ass out of trouble. And Harvey Grant is like 6'7,
- 12:46Speaker 1: something like that. I'm not sure. Tall cat, like this
- 12:50Speaker 1: dude is tall. His mom was 5'4, he said. And
- 12:53Speaker 1: he was terrified of her. And he was right to
- 12:56Speaker 1: be so. But she told him. And she told his
- 13:02Speaker 1: twin brother, said, look, you two are going to grow
- 13:06Speaker 1: up to be respectful young men You're going to grow
- 13:10Speaker 1: up to small. And when you become of age, your
- 13:13Speaker 1: ass is going to the military or your ass is
- 13:17Speaker 1: going to college. But you will not be living in
- 13:20Speaker 1: my house eating all my food as grown-ass men. So
- 13:24Speaker 1: what's it going to be? You going to college or
- 13:27Speaker 1: you going to the military? Either way, you're getting an education.
- 13:34Speaker 1: You will get an education. And they drove them to it.
- 13:39Speaker 1: they pushed them to it. And man, that is something
- 13:43Speaker 1: I did not have. My dad never told me get
- 13:47Speaker 1: an education boy or else. I don't think my dad
- 13:52Speaker 1: gave one way or the other. You know? He just
- 13:58Speaker 1: didn't care. And just listening to Harvey's stories, you could
- 14:03Speaker 1: tell that his mom and dad loved him and his brother.
- 14:07Speaker 1: They was their... for them two boys. They pushed them,
- 14:11Speaker 1: they guided them, but they taught them. Like, they really
- 14:17Speaker 1: taught them. You know, they sat down and they explained
- 14:21Speaker 1: things to them. You know, and that was, that was
- 14:25Speaker 1: super cool. As, yeah, he, they definitely had, the Grant
- 14:30Speaker 1: boys had the relationship with their parents that I kind
- 14:33Speaker 1: of wish I would have had. You know. But, You know,
- 14:39Speaker 1: it was a good talk. I enjoyed it a lot
- 14:42Speaker 1: more than I thought I was, and I was kind
- 14:44Speaker 1: of looking forward to it, you know. And Coach had
- 14:48Speaker 1: actually approached me and asked me, hey, look, man, think
- 14:51Speaker 1: of a question. Think of what you would like to
- 14:54Speaker 1: ask Harvey, and I'm going to get you up in
- 14:57Speaker 1: front of everybody, and you're going to ask this question, so.
- 15:02Speaker 1: I did. I wanted to ask him something. I didn't
- 15:06Speaker 1: want to ask him a basketball question. Who's the hardest
- 15:09Speaker 1: person you ever had to play against? Who's your favorite teammate? No,
- 15:13Speaker 1: I wanted to ask him something about mental health. I
- 15:15Speaker 1: wanted to ask him something about balance. Balance has been
- 15:19Speaker 1: really big to me lately. It's something that I've been
- 15:22Speaker 1: thinking a lot about and I've been looking into. I
- 15:28Speaker 1: just stepped up. I grabbed the microphone and I told him, look,
- 15:33Speaker 1: I've been in prison since I was 11. I did
- 15:35Speaker 1: seven years juvenile, 28-plus adult, 35 years total. Prison's all
- 15:40Speaker 1: I know. But my part is in the Secretary of
- 15:47Speaker 1: the Commonwealth's office. It's being looked at. I could potentially
- 15:52Speaker 1: be released from prison any day now. That doesn't mean
- 15:54Speaker 1: I will, but there's the potential there. So if I
- 15:58Speaker 1: go home knowing nothing about the streets really, Like, I
- 16:03Speaker 1: want to have a wife. I've got a baby daughter
- 16:06Speaker 1: on the way. I'm going to have to work. I
- 16:10Speaker 1: want to chase my dreams and, you know, to become
- 16:12Speaker 1: an actor. You know, I've got all these responsibilities. I
- 16:16Speaker 1: need to find time to work out. How do I
- 16:19Speaker 1: find balance? So, you know, I talked to him about that,
- 16:23Speaker 1: and he told me, one, you know, talk to Coach.
- 16:28Speaker 1: Find some time to talk to Coach because Coach was
- 16:31Speaker 1: out there on the streets He was running a basketball organization.
- 16:37Speaker 1: He was running a lot of charitable events. He was
- 16:40Speaker 1: doing a lot of things. And, you know, he had
- 16:44Speaker 1: his family and his kids that he was taking care of. And,
- 16:48Speaker 1: you know, Coach has been there. He knows what it's like.
- 16:51Speaker 1: You know, so sit down and talk to him so
- 16:54Speaker 1: you can get more in-depth information than what I can
- 16:57Speaker 1: give you in this short span of time. But he said...
- 17:03Speaker 1: What you need to do is don't let it overwhelm you.
- 17:10Speaker 1: Focus on the moments that you're in and enjoy those moments.
- 17:16Speaker 1: Find people that you can talk to. Find people that
- 17:19Speaker 1: you can rely on. People that they get it. They
- 17:23Speaker 1: can understand. One of the things that he talked about
- 17:29Speaker 1: in his regular talk, not answering this question, but In
- 17:32Speaker 1: a way, it answered this question. He talked about when
- 17:36Speaker 1: he got retired. When he did retire, I mean to say.
- 17:42Speaker 1: So when he retired, he's sitting at home. He doesn't
- 17:46Speaker 1: have to get up at a certain time. He doesn't
- 17:48Speaker 1: have to be at practice at a certain time. He
- 17:51Speaker 1: doesn't have to eat this. He doesn't have to lift
- 17:53Speaker 1: weights then. He doesn't have to recover here. All that
- 17:58Speaker 1: structure was gone, and he said it was great for
- 18:01Speaker 1: the first eight months. Then it got to the point
- 18:06Speaker 1: where it was becoming a problem. And the guys that
- 18:12Speaker 1: he had played with, he had lost touch with them.
- 18:17Speaker 1: So he didn't really have anybody at that moment to
- 18:22Speaker 1: talk to about it. He couldn't just call them up
- 18:25Speaker 1: because they had their families. They were going this place,
- 18:30Speaker 1: doing that. They drifted apart. So he didn't have anybody
- 18:36Speaker 1: to really rely on, and he was struggling. So he
- 18:40Speaker 1: called his older brother, or his twin brother, I mean,
- 18:44Speaker 1: excuse me, I'm not sure which one of them is older.
- 18:47Speaker 1: And his brother was still playing in the NBA at
- 18:50Speaker 1: that time. I think Harvey's career was 11 years. I
- 18:52Speaker 1: think his brother played for 16 years, if I remember correctly.
- 18:57Speaker 1: If not, it's not a big deal. And his brother said, look, man, dude,
- 19:03Speaker 1: go coach. Go mentor. Go do some commentary on television.
- 19:11Speaker 1: And Harvey was like, you know what? Yeah, you're right.
- 19:17Speaker 1: And he did that. He'd done some commentary. He was
- 19:21Speaker 1: a coach for a high school basketball team. He coached
- 19:24Speaker 1: in college. He coached in the NBA. And he also
- 19:28Speaker 1: coached with Coach in the ABA. And he got some structure.
- 19:34Speaker 1: He got some discipline. And he talked about the importance
- 19:39Speaker 1: of being disciplined. Knowing what you're going to do. Yeah,
- 19:47Speaker 1: of course, you know, stuff happens in life where you
- 19:50Speaker 1: have to improvise, adapt, and overcome. Sometimes plans change. Things
- 19:55Speaker 1: fall through, things change, all this stuff. So you have
- 19:59Speaker 1: to be prepared for that. But at the same time,
- 20:03Speaker 1: on the days that you can, stick to your routines.
- 20:08Speaker 1: Stick to your disciplines. Do what you're supposed to do,
- 20:11Speaker 1: when you're supposed to do it, how you're supposed to
- 20:13Speaker 1: do it, because then you don't have to think about it.
- 20:18Speaker 1: It doesn't become overwhelming to you. And if you do
- 20:24Speaker 1: get overly emotional about something, then stop what you're doing. Breathe.
- 20:30Speaker 1: Just breathe. And then pick the phone up and call somebody.
- 20:36Speaker 1: Somebody is going to be free. Somebody can give you
- 20:39Speaker 1: five to ten minutes just so you can kind of
- 20:41Speaker 1: get it off your chest a little bit so you
- 20:43Speaker 1: don't blow. So you're not overwhelmed and you're not dragged down.
- 20:55Speaker 1: I like that. I like that because I have a
- 20:58Speaker 1: routine in here. I have discipline in here. I know
- 21:00Speaker 1: what I'm doing, when I'm doing it. I even know
- 21:03Speaker 1: why I'm doing it. You know, I get up in
- 21:06Speaker 1: the morning. I pray. I drink me a cup of coffee.
- 21:14Speaker 1: I go to breakfast. I save what I can. I
- 21:19Speaker 1: bring it back. I change out to my rec clothes.
- 21:24Speaker 1: When they call rec, I go outside and I work out.
- 21:28Speaker 1: I come back in. I jump in the shower, wash
- 21:32Speaker 1: my ass. Come back out. I get my food. Put
- 21:37Speaker 1: it in the microwave. Warm it up a little bit.
- 21:40Speaker 1: Then I eat it. You know. I get up. I
- 21:45Speaker 1: read for a little bit. I'll check my text messages.
- 21:49Speaker 1: You know. 11 o'clock. I call my wife. Uh. So
- 22:09Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing throughout the day. You know,
- 22:14Speaker 1: and I'm going to need that when I get out. Yeah,
- 22:15Speaker 1: I'm going to have to be flexible. But I think
- 22:19Speaker 1: I can do it. I think I can do it.
- 22:24Speaker 1: You know, it's going to be tough. I imagine that
- 22:27Speaker 1: it is. I'm going to have a lot of stress
- 22:29Speaker 1: and a lot of pressure that, you know, most normal
- 22:31Speaker 1: people on the streets don't have. I believe I can
- 22:36Speaker 1: do it though. And that's something else he talked about
- 22:41Speaker 1: was believing in yourself. He talked about how much he
- 22:44Speaker 1: believed in us. And it didn't come across kitschy. It
- 22:49Speaker 1: didn't come across as something that he would say. You know,
- 22:54Speaker 1: that just normal people would say. You could see the heart.
- 22:58Speaker 1: You could feel the heart in it when he said, look,
- 23:01Speaker 1: I believe in you guys. This isn't a one and done.
- 23:05Speaker 1: Y'all will see me again. As long as the warden
- 23:09Speaker 1: lets me on the compound, I will come. I will
- 23:12Speaker 1: show up. I believe in coaching. I believe in coaching
- 23:18Speaker 1: for life. I believe in what y'all are doing here,
- 23:21Speaker 1: and I believe in you individually. For y'all to make
- 23:26Speaker 1: it into the incentive program, you've already shown that you're
- 23:30Speaker 1: working towards that change. you're working towards turning over that
- 23:38Speaker 1: new leaf. And he's going to try to get other athletes,
- 23:50Speaker 1: to get other people involved in this. Not just him.
- 23:56Speaker 1: He's going to try to get current NBA players. He's
- 23:58Speaker 1: going to try to get some NFL players, maybe some
- 24:01Speaker 1: MLB players, maybe some business leaders. And so on. I
- 24:10Speaker 1: can't imagine how Coach is feeling right now. Like, he
- 24:15Speaker 1: has to be riding a pretty damn good high. That,
- 24:20Speaker 1: you know, one of his best friends read his program,
- 24:26Speaker 1: liked it, and pushed to come here. Said, look, this
- 24:29Speaker 1: is what I want to do. Made the phone call,
- 24:33Speaker 1: sent the emails, and Everything else. And then drove hours
- 24:39Speaker 1: to come. Got up early. Got up early to drive
- 24:44Speaker 1: all the way down here from where he lives. You know,
- 24:51Speaker 1: and to come in and it was a success. Like,
- 24:54Speaker 1: it was great. You know, like, Coach had surprised Harvey.
- 25:00Speaker 1: There's this older black guy up here. Really short guy.
- 25:04Speaker 1: I mean, he's like 5'4, maybe. And they call him
- 25:08Speaker 1: Little Reggie. So Coach and Harvey are sitting there talking
- 25:13Speaker 1: in front of everybody, and all of a sudden the
- 25:16Speaker 1: music pops on. And Coach is like, yo, what's, hey, yo, Rollins,
- 25:25Speaker 1: what's going on? And Rollins, you know, he's in on it.
- 25:28Speaker 1: He's like, I don't know what's going on, man. And
- 25:31Speaker 1: all of a sudden out the back, You got this
- 25:33Speaker 1: little old black guy. He's got these gray shorts. He's
- 25:35Speaker 1: got them all pulled all the way up over his
- 25:37Speaker 1: belly with his shirt tucked in. He's got his state
- 25:40Speaker 1: boots on. He's got his sweatband around his head. He's
- 25:43Speaker 1: got the basketball, and he comes dribbling it up. And
- 25:45Speaker 1: guys are looking like, yo, what the hell is going on? Like,
- 25:48Speaker 1: is this, like, seriously? Like, yo, what's going on? So
- 25:52Speaker 1: the dude pulls up on Coach and Harvey, and he
- 25:56Speaker 1: kind of gets in Coach's face a little bit. He said, look, man,
- 26:00Speaker 1: I'm here for the basketball game. Coach is like, yo, bro,
- 26:03Speaker 1: that's this afternoon. That's after lunch. He said, no, man,
- 26:06Speaker 1: you told me it was this morning, man. I come
- 26:07Speaker 1: ready to bowl. Like, you know, what's going on and everything. And,
- 26:12Speaker 1: you know, a little back and forth, blah, blah, blah. And,
- 26:15Speaker 1: you know, he turns, he looks at Harvey. He's like,
- 26:17Speaker 1: who are you? He's like, man, I'm Harvey Grant. And
- 26:20Speaker 1: he said, man, you don't look like you're nothing special
- 26:22Speaker 1: to me. And he kind of steps to him, which,
- 26:25Speaker 1: you know, obviously it's, you know, everybody kind of knows
- 26:28Speaker 1: what's going on at this point and Obviously, Harvey stands
- 26:31Speaker 1: up and he's like, little Reggie's head came to this
- 26:36Speaker 1: dude's waist. It was funny as hell. Guys in the
- 26:40Speaker 1: audience were just tripping and clapping and laughing. It was good, man.
- 26:49Speaker 1: You could kind of feel tension just kind of drain
- 26:53Speaker 1: off of guys. And I think a lot of it
- 26:55Speaker 1: was just tension that nobody even kind of realized they had.
- 27:03Speaker 1: It's different when you're laughing just by yourself. Like, it's
- 27:07Speaker 1: just a couple of you, like, your boys, yada, yada, yada. But, like,
- 27:12Speaker 1: when it's over 100 people on both sides of the fence,
- 27:17Speaker 1: you've got the inmates, you've got the guards, the wardens,
- 27:23Speaker 1: all this, you know, and everybody's laughing together because Lil
- 27:28Speaker 1: Reggie is just acting like a damn fool. That was
- 27:34Speaker 1: pretty cool, man. It was funny. I'm telling you, I'm
- 27:40Speaker 1: not sure if they were filming it or not because
- 27:43Speaker 1: I knew I was going to get called on to
- 27:45Speaker 1: ask a question because I was sitting up front and everything. Plus,
- 27:51Speaker 1: I don't really like sitting in a crowd of people.
- 27:53Speaker 1: That's not my thing. I kind of like being up
- 27:55Speaker 1: on the, you know, so I got to cheer all
- 27:58Speaker 1: the way up front on the left, the very last
- 28:00Speaker 1: cheer in a row. And, you know, that's where I
- 28:03Speaker 1: was at. And it felt good. It felt good to
- 28:12Speaker 1: be a part of something bigger than yourself. It felt
- 28:16Speaker 1: good to be a part of something a little bit
- 28:18Speaker 1: bigger than your clique, your guys, you know, the crew
- 28:22Speaker 1: you hang with. You know, everybody was on the same page.
- 28:28Speaker 1: Everybody thought that shit was funny. Like, everybody did. You know,
- 28:33Speaker 1: and then obviously Lil Reggie apologized, and he's like, hey, Warden,
- 28:36Speaker 1: don't write me a charge for 229, and I know
- 28:38Speaker 1: I ain't on the list. You know, and the Warden
- 28:41Speaker 1: was in it. Like, he got involved in it. Like,
- 28:44Speaker 1: he was joking and laughing. Like, it was, you know, granted,
- 28:49Speaker 1: that's not normally newcomer style. Let me tell you, newcomers,
- 28:54Speaker 1: they'd be a little bit of an ass, to be
- 28:55Speaker 1: honest with you. You know, he's a little rough around
- 28:58Speaker 1: the edges. He can be hard to talk to and
- 29:00Speaker 1: communicate with. You know, granted, the man does got to
- 29:03Speaker 1: deal with a lot of bullshit every single day, so
- 29:05Speaker 1: I guess I get it. You know. But that was, yeah,
- 29:12Speaker 1: I had a good time. Like, I genuinely had a
- 29:15Speaker 1: good time. And I learned some stuff. And that's what's important.
- 29:21Speaker 1: You know, yeah, we laughed, we had fun. But we
- 29:25Speaker 1: learned something. You know. Yeah. And you could tell that
- 29:29Speaker 1: the dude was real. You could tell that the dude
- 29:32Speaker 1: was here because he wanted to be here. His organization
- 29:36Speaker 1: didn't come and tell him, hey, yo, look, man, you're
- 29:39Speaker 1: going here. and you're going to talk about this. Good
- 29:42Speaker 1: luck with that. No, like, this dude fought to be here.
- 29:47Speaker 1: He genuinely fought to be here, to come speak to us,
- 29:50Speaker 1: to come spend time with us. He gave everybody over there,
- 29:56Speaker 1: he autographed You know, because they had these little, like,
- 29:59Speaker 1: these little flyer things, like these little programs. That's what
- 30:02Speaker 1: they're called, programs. You know, and I had my little
- 30:05Speaker 1: card on, like, a little three-by-six index card. You know,
- 30:09Speaker 1: my question written down and everything. And I actually got
- 30:11Speaker 1: him to sign that. Everybody else, you know, was getting
- 30:14Speaker 1: him to sign the programs. I went a little bit
- 30:17Speaker 1: different because, well, hell, that's what I am, different. You know,
- 30:21Speaker 1: and I talked to him, shook the man's hand and everything,
- 30:23Speaker 1: made a little joke on Coach and everything. A prophecy,
- 30:27Speaker 1: I said Coach's team was going to lose, and Coach's
- 30:29Speaker 1: team lost in the basketball game after lunch. You know? Yeah,
- 30:36Speaker 1: I liked it. Guys are still talking about it. You know,
- 30:41Speaker 1: guys are still laughing about it. They're happy. It's not
- 30:46Speaker 1: every day, you know, you get a former NBA player
- 30:52Speaker 1: come into prison unless he's done some dumb shit and
- 30:55Speaker 1: got locked up. You know, they don't come. NBA players
- 31:01Speaker 1: don't come to prison voluntarily very often. So for this
- 31:06Speaker 1: guy to take the time out of his busy schedule
- 31:09Speaker 1: to come, man, that meant something to every single one
- 31:11Speaker 1: of us. So, Mr. Harvey Grant, I don't know if
- 31:16Speaker 1: you'll ever listen to this episode or not, but, man,
- 31:18Speaker 1: thank you. Thank you for coming in. Thank you for
- 31:22Speaker 1: taking my question seriously and giving me the best answer
- 31:26Speaker 1: that you could give me. I appreciate it, and I
- 31:30Speaker 1: know Coach appreciates it, man. I know what you did
- 31:34Speaker 1: for him today really, really, really touched him. That's a
- 31:39Speaker 1: good thing, man. You made him a little bit better
- 31:44Speaker 1: man today. On his behalf, I appreciate that. God bless you.
- 31:52Speaker 1: You know, you never know, people. You never know what
- 31:57Speaker 1: you could do that could change somebody's life, that could
- 31:59Speaker 1: have an impact on somebody's life. You know, that right there,
- 32:04Speaker 1: Harvey Grant showed what true friendship is, what true love is,
- 32:08Speaker 1: because he didn't turn on his friend when his friend
- 32:11Speaker 1: came to prison. Whether Coach is guilty or innocent, you know,
- 32:17Speaker 1: I'll leave that for someone else to decide. I personally
- 32:21Speaker 1: believe he is innocent, but I can't swear to it.
- 32:28Speaker 1: But Harvey didn't give up on him. Harvey has been
- 32:32Speaker 1: with him this whole time. Accepting his phone calls, probably
- 32:38Speaker 1: putting some money on his books, helping him out here
- 32:41Speaker 1: and there, doing some stuff for him. You know, who
- 32:45Speaker 1: knows everything that he's done. Just because you have a
- 32:51Speaker 1: friend that fucks up, makes a mistake, don't quit on them.
- 32:58Speaker 1: Don't give up on them. Especially if you see that
- 33:03Speaker 1: they're trying. Especially if you see that they're fighting to
- 33:07Speaker 1: be better, to do better. Stay the course. Even if
- 33:14Speaker 1: they do go to prison. Who knows? Maybe just maybe
- 33:23Speaker 1: God allowed Coach to get caught up in what he
- 33:25Speaker 1: got caught up in whether guilty or innocent so that
- 33:31Speaker 1: he could come to prison so that he could get
- 33:33Speaker 1: someone like Harvey in here you know and it's real
- 33:39Speaker 1: funny how this year 2026 so many things so many
- 33:46Speaker 1: things have started changing in the Virginia Department of Corrections
- 33:51Speaker 1: And for the better. So many things have been changed
- 33:55Speaker 1: for the better. So maybe, maybe God wanted old Coach
- 33:59Speaker 1: in here for a reason. So he could get guys
- 34:02Speaker 1: like Harvey to come in here and talk to us
- 34:04Speaker 1: and maybe get some other people, maybe to bring some
- 34:06Speaker 1: more light into this darkness. Because there's a lot of
- 34:12Speaker 1: people in here that could use some help. And a
- 34:14Speaker 1: lot of them just need to know that there's somebody
- 34:16Speaker 1: out there who cares and somebody out there who believes.
- 34:20Speaker 1: That right there can make a world of difference. All right,
- 34:24Speaker 1: that's all the time I got. Yeah, thank you, Harvey.
- 34:29Speaker 1: Thank you, Coach. I appreciate it. I had a damn
- 34:31Speaker 1: good day. I had a damn good day. I will
- 34:34Speaker 1: remember this for a long, long time.