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Dirty Rush: They Said What? · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with
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  Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice.
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  Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler.
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  Speaker 3: Welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush. Sororities and
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  Speaker 3: fraternities go hand in hand, the parties, the drama, the situations.
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  Speaker 3: But today we are flipping the script. We're putting fraternity
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  Speaker 3: boys in the hot seat and having them answer the
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  Speaker 3: questions sorority girls have always wanted to ask, but maybe
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  Speaker 3: never dared to.
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  Speaker 2: Feel Like Dirty Rush after.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get into it.
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  Speaker 4: But the way I just.
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  Speaker 1: Read a script, I didn't come up with that yet.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't write that.
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  Speaker 5: All right, session episode Dirty Rush. It's Ben Higgins, Bob Guinea,
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  Speaker 5: Dean Bell, Brett Adams, Wells Adams, and Zach Shallcross joining you.
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  Speaker 5: This is gonna be rated X. I would not listen
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  Speaker 5: to it if you're under the age of twenty five.
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  Speaker 5: Welcome back to another A little context for everybody listening.
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  Speaker 5: We were in Carmel, California together for the AT and
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  Speaker 5: T pro am. Everybody just started out. We're gonna start
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  Speaker 5: with Brett Adams. We're gonna go clockwise from there. Remind
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  Speaker 5: everybody where you went to school. Everybody here was in
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  Speaker 5: a fraternity of some type for some period of time.
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  Speaker 5: We're gonna be answering questions that we're sent in, and
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  Speaker 5: then we're gonna be also answering questions from the sorority
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  Speaker 5: girls who are here with us. That kind of sounds
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  Speaker 5: weird considering most of us are married. They're also work
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  Speaker 5: with us on the pipe. So, Bratt, where'd you go
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  Speaker 5: to school? University of Kansas Rock Chalk Jayhawk? Hey you
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  Speaker 5: all right clockwise?
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  Speaker 2: Let's go.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I forgot you didn't want to hear my fraternity?
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  Speaker 6: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I do, thank you. I went.
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  Speaker 7: I was a Phi Gamma delta, also known as a Fiji.
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  Speaker 6: Bob Guinea, Bob Guiney here, Michigan State University, Alpha tau
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  Speaker 6: omega atos.
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  Speaker 1: Oh oh, the Atos at my school were meatheads pretty
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  Speaker 1: much everywhere you know.
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  Speaker 5: You know, Bob Guinea was a college quarterback at Michigan State.
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  Speaker 2: Of course, I do, okay good.
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  Speaker 1: I went to the University of Mississippi, but we call
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  Speaker 1: it old Miss Toddy, and I was I was a
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  Speaker 1: Sigma Kai, but I got kicked out.
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  Speaker 5: Ben Higgins here, Indiana University, Acacia and Asia.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, what is that? It's colored. It's like a it's
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  Speaker 2: like a bug. It's like a weird crayon color.
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  Speaker 5: It's kind of like the bohemian like grove. It's a
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  Speaker 5: secret society.
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  Speaker 2: Did you make up something?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 2: I did? Dean, Hey, thanks man. This is Dean Bell
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  Speaker 2: reporting live.
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  Speaker 8: I went to University of Colorado, Colorado Springs, Colorado. Pi
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  Speaker 8: Cappa Fie, you were a bike. I'm just kidding. I
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  Speaker 8: was not in the Loser and I was not in
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  Speaker 8: I didn't need to buy my friends.
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  Speaker 2: Well gd I goddamn Gamma Delta Iota.
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  Speaker 8: That's exactly what I was, because again, I didn't need
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  Speaker 8: to buy my friends.
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  Speaker 2: Bring this conversation. I got so much smack to talk.
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  Speaker 5: All right, boys, we're gonna bring this back into a
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  Speaker 5: place of actual organization.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna start with what are you wearing, Acacia.
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna start with Bob Guinea here. How many STDs
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  Speaker 5: were rampant in your house personally or community both?
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  Speaker 1: That's a real question that was saying, you know, you know,
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  Speaker 1: what's what's funny is that there's a girl Uh in
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  Speaker 1: the sorority that was like next to us. It was
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  Speaker 1: a Kapa cup of gamma that had Uh an STD
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  Speaker 1: that was she had akesha.
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  Speaker 2: What do you take for acasia? Because that one was
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  Speaker 2: very popular.
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  Speaker 6: Well, a lot of a lot of penicillin, and I
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  Speaker 6: think you have to shave things.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, well is she doing okay? Now? Yeah, she's dead.
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  Speaker 2: Now Akasha Kills really knows that.
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  Speaker 6: I would say at any given time, you know, there's
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  Speaker 6: probably some stuff that could cause blindness, others that just
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  Speaker 6: made you kind of have itchy, rashy things.
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  Speaker 2: But it was like a thing. I don't know if
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  Speaker 2: that's said, it was a thing.
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  Speaker 6: I do know that we had a nickname list, like
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  Speaker 6: a listen There were some nicknames on it, and one
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  Speaker 6: of the guys nicknames was the Alaskan King Crab.
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  Speaker 2: Why was he called that? He might have had a
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  Speaker 2: case of the crabs? Is that curable? You with Akasha,
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  Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, Amy jumped on that real fast. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they built very personal.
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  Speaker 9: Yes it is. I don't have anything, but I want
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  Speaker 9: to provide accurate information for people listening.
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  Speaker 5: You didn't know that we weren't going to You jumped
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  Speaker 5: on that way before we had a chance to respond.
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  Speaker 2: I felt very personal.
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  Speaker 8: A question for Bob and just to be clear for
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  Speaker 8: the listeners out there, yes, this is East Lansing East
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  Speaker 8: Lancing Mission in the nineteen forties.
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  Speaker 2: Is that right? Just to be clear, what was happening
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  Speaker 2: during World War Two?
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  Speaker 4: Was it tough?
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  Speaker 2: Am I supposed to be here? Am I the oldest
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  Speaker 2: guy here? But thankfully Brett's here? So the answer is no.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, so you are in the fraternity and then you
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  Speaker 8: got drafted to fight the world?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, ww two American we were in mash. I did
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  Speaker 2: start a mash with hot lift Sulhan. Yeah, I think
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  Speaker 2: that's bob.
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  Speaker 5: I'm not going to even fall up because I think
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  Speaker 5: it's a common answer for everybody here when it comes
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  Speaker 5: to a fraternity experience.
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  Speaker 2: I would say this.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's important to talk about. There was a
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  Speaker 1: health department and I always thought it was funny because
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  Speaker 1: people would go to it because things were happening.
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  Speaker 2: Here's my questions departments. Is that Why is that funny?
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  Speaker 2: That's the whole point of the health department Because this
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  Speaker 2: question was about s t d's.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well that no one was going there because they
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  Speaker 1: had the flu.
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  Speaker 8: That that experience is not solely on fraternities and sororities.
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  Speaker 8: Every college student has that experience. Okay, these gd ees
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  Speaker 8: on my side of the aisle, not me.
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  Speaker 5: Specifically, or assass Again, it feels like people are defending
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  Speaker 5: things they don't need to be defending.
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  Speaker 2: That doesn't make any sense.
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  Speaker 5: Is this is about the fraternity sorority life, they're not
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  Speaker 5: Burns Brett Adams. In terms of dating a frat boy,
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  Speaker 5: how do you know if a guy is actually interested
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  Speaker 5: in you or not?
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  Speaker 4: If a guy is interested in me? That's a strange question.
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  Speaker 5: Was a real girl is asking this question? She's wondering
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  Speaker 5: in terms of, Hey, she's interested in fratorney boy. You
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  Speaker 5: know your buddies, you know yourself. How do you like,
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  Speaker 5: how does she know that you're actually interested in her
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  Speaker 5: as a fraternity guy?
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  Speaker 2: Hmmm? Or is the answer that they just aren't well.
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  Speaker 7: I think between the fraternities and sororities that it's pretty
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  Speaker 7: much conversation amongst friends.
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  Speaker 4: And we're around, and.
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  Speaker 7: I would guess that this is such a strange question,
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  Speaker 7: like how much to answer whether someone's interested or not?
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  Speaker 7: But I think it's word of mouth that your buddy says, hey,
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  Speaker 7: this girl's interested in you.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know that's this.
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  Speaker 2: I think you're on the right track.
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  Speaker 5: Anytime in my college experience, if like somebody's interested in
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  Speaker 5: somebody else, there would be at least the conversation with
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  Speaker 5: a girl would be like is he actually interested?
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  Speaker 10: Me?
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  Speaker 2: And a buddy would be able to be like one
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  Speaker 2: hundred percent he is or not?
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  Speaker 7: Yes, But I also think guys will push their buddies
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  Speaker 7: into being interested whether they are or not.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, especially like I'm gonna say this. Date parties. Ah, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: remember date parties.
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  Speaker 4: Loved them.
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  Speaker 1: Date parties were a great opportunity to meet new people.
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  Speaker 1: And what I remember from those parties was lots of alcohol, yes,
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  Speaker 1: and a lot of people saying, wells, she doesn't like you.
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  Speaker 2: Does that make a wells? Adams? Try harder. This is
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  Speaker 2: why I'm here today.
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  Speaker 8: I've got a million questions and I'm so sorry interrupts.
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  Speaker 8: Do I know you're managing this whole question topic debate?
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  Speaker 2: Answer?
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  Speaker 8: You went to Kansas, You went to Michigan State, you
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  Speaker 8: went to Ole Miss, you went to Indiana. Those are
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  Speaker 8: all prestigious and large schools and universities, right.
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  Speaker 5: Same with Colorado Christian University of Colorado, Strace.
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  Speaker 2: The school is so nice they had to use the
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  Speaker 2: state name twice. Thank you, Ben.
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  Speaker 8: Why on earth would you either of you charismatic individuals ever,
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  Speaker 8: need to be in a position to meet more girls
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  Speaker 8: because you're always going to be out and about at
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  Speaker 8: any of these great schools, right, and like, what what
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  Speaker 8: is the what is the incentive to go into a
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  Speaker 8: fraternity to meet more girls when you can always just
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  Speaker 8: go out into the street.
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  Speaker 2: We couldn't. We couldn't drink on campus. We had to
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  Speaker 2: have off campus housing.
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  Speaker 7: You couldn't drink on Also, some of us are not
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  Speaker 7: as charismatic as you are.
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  Speaker 4: We need some help so.
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  Speaker 2: We don't have a mustache.
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  Speaker 4: That's right.
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't grow.
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  Speaker 6: That mustache in my life depended on it.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, this is okay, another follow up question, Bratt. First
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  Speaker 8: of all, how dare you because you are the most
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  Speaker 8: you have more charisma and your one finger than I
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  Speaker 8: do in my entire body.
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  Speaker 4: That's not true. Don't sell yourself short.
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  Speaker 2: That's a genuine, honest question that I had.
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  Speaker 8: I went to a school that was probably a quarter
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  Speaker 8: of the size of all of your schools, and there
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  Speaker 8: was never an issue of like meeting someone or for
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  Speaker 8: you or no, that's what I'm trying to get at,
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  Speaker 8: ben or making friends and I'm not trying to disparage
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  Speaker 8: any of this decision making, whether it's an assortia or
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  Speaker 8: fraternity or anything. I'm just curious, like, what is the
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  Speaker 8: incentive on your guys' party.
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  Speaker 7: Did you have any friends that went to Colorado State
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  Speaker 7: University you knew before you went to school?
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  Speaker 4: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: So many?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I went to University Kansas. I did not know
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  Speaker 4: one soul. I didn't.
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  Speaker 7: That was my intro into college and to get friends
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  Speaker 7: to acclimate myself.
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  Speaker 4: So I didn't have the luxury that you did, Dean,
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  Speaker 4: which is what.
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  Speaker 5: In charisma I thought you were asking school did you
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  Speaker 5: have friends that went one?
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  Speaker 2: So I will say this.
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  Speaker 6: I also think at a larger school sometimes it helps
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  Speaker 6: to have some ways to make that place smaller. Like
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  Speaker 6: for me, the football team made it really small. The
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  Speaker 6: frat made it even smaller. It was like I felt
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  Speaker 6: like I was I knew everybody. So I went to
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  Speaker 6: school with two guys that that I knew, but because
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  Speaker 6: I was on the football team, I didn't live with them.
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  Speaker 6: I was in the football dorm. I got to know
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  Speaker 6: a ton of people from that. But then the fraternity
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  Speaker 6: made it even smaller. So from that perspective, yeah, I
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  Speaker 6: took a really big school and made it really.
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  Speaker 7: Small and you got to meet girls pretty easily.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you knew one one or two people. You
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  Speaker 1: knew zero people zero. I knew one person.
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  Speaker 2: Miss.
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  Speaker 9: My question is when you went to a date party,
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  Speaker 9: did you ask the girl you had a crush on
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  Speaker 9: or did you ask the girl you were friends with.
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  Speaker 6: I will say this, I went to a lot of
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  Speaker 6: date parties as a friend that ended up you know,
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  Speaker 6: potentially benefits having benefits.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I did have I didn't date.
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  Speaker 6: I didn't ask anybody I had a crush with, necessarily
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  Speaker 6: because I just went to the sorority date parties.
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  Speaker 2: They were way more fun.
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  Speaker 5: And to be honest, I think the reason why I
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  Speaker 5: went out to parties and invited new people and tried
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  Speaker 5: to meet girls was also just like that acceptance of hey,
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  Speaker 5: I have like attractive girlfriends that can like I will
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  Speaker 5: see at the bars. It was like almost like a
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  Speaker 5: fun like like community that you were building of, like, oh, no,
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  Speaker 5: you my buddies coming with me? I know, so and
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  Speaker 5: so girl, let's go sit within the night. That's totally cool.
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  Speaker 5: I've gone to two date parties with her. We're good friends,
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  Speaker 5: and all of our friends are attractive. And that's like
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  Speaker 5: almost like a status thing for me, where I'm like,
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  Speaker 5: my buddies are coming with me to meet the good
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  Speaker 5: looking girls at the bar.
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  Speaker 1: Ben was just collecting hot chips.
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  Speaker 6: From what I understand, we need to ask real quick,
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  Speaker 6: have you ever had a bad case of acacia.
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  Speaker 4: Case?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, did you take Pennis again? It was bad for
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  Speaker 2: turning out. I'm gonna ask, well, is this question?
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  Speaker 5: How fast do guys decide if a girl is just
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  Speaker 5: a hookup girl or a girlfriend material?
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  Speaker 2: I think it happens instantly.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, thank you, Dean.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it happened like you know, what, do
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  Speaker 2: we do it later? No one's listening to this show.
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  Speaker 2: Hundred thousand downloads yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I agree, though, I think you know. But
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  Speaker 1: I also think women feel the same way about men.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it's women decide a lot quicker than men. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: and they're like, I will hang out, I will tolerate
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  Speaker 1: you for another twenty minutes or not.
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  Speaker 4: So it seems like lot.
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  Speaker 1: Honestly, I think it's more the other way around, of
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  Speaker 1: like I think that she's tolerating me. This is working out,
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  Speaker 1: this is awesome.
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  Speaker 2: I might have I might get a case of.
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  Speaker 5: Zach Shallcross, I got a question for you. I think
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  Speaker 5: you're gonna perfect for it. We all shared the STDs
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  Speaker 5: we've dealt with in life.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah no, no, no, we haven't other than us all have.
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  Speaker 4: You know how?
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  Speaker 8: I know you haven't shared that because Wells is still
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  Speaker 8: not talking right now.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, know, Zach.
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  Speaker 5: My real question for you, and this is written in
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  Speaker 5: by a sorority girl wanting to know these answers, what
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  Speaker 5: is something if you could go back to college? What
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  Speaker 5: is something in college that would give you the ick?
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  Speaker 5: Like make you completely turned off? And if anybody after
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  Speaker 5: Zach answers has any insight into chiming in on this,
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  Speaker 5: I think it is a helpful question.
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  Speaker 10: My god, in college, I let's just.
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  Speaker 4: Put it this way.
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  Speaker 10: I uh, desperate, It's not the right word for myself,
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  Speaker 10: but it was pretty damn close.
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  Speaker 4: So not a lot of things gave me the.
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  Speaker 10: As a three hundred and five pound offensive lineman at
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  Speaker 10: a not a great football school.
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  Speaker 2: It's a great answer. So I'll tell you you were
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  Speaker 2: okay with anything, you know, a.
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  Speaker 10: Standards kind of uh.
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  Speaker 6: I have a friend who used to say a great saying.
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  Speaker 6: He would always go, you know, bomb if your standards
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  Speaker 6: are too high.
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  Speaker 3: Lower them.
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  Speaker 2: I swear to God, I don't know that. I don't
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  Speaker 2: know my insight into this.
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  Speaker 5: When it comes to college, man, that's Kenny Rogers.
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  Speaker 4: Well, college is like, yeah, I want to hear what
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  Speaker 4: you have to say, Ben.
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  Speaker 2: Because I think I thought you were going in this direction.
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  Speaker 5: I think college, any uh, what gave mediac was anybody
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  Speaker 5: that felt too forward and like interested in talking about
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  Speaker 5: like a future too quickly. Like in college, I was
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  Speaker 5: not in the space to ever think about marriage. I
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  Speaker 5: was there to figure myself out.
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  Speaker 2: And have a good time.
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  Speaker 5: And if anybody, like on a date or at a
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  Speaker 5: bar or a date party, would corner me and be like,
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  Speaker 5: you know, find this.
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  Speaker 2: What is this? It would be like it's not my thing.
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  Speaker 10: I thought you were too into me, And I'm like,
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  Speaker 10: are you kidding me?
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  Speaker 4: What kind of problems?
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  Speaker 2: Okay?
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  Speaker 4: Around interested?
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  Speaker 7: Not beat around the bush, but the yeah is a
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  Speaker 7: stinky vagina.
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  Speaker 5: I don't disagree. I mean, is anybody here gonna say no.
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  Speaker 2: Bob, my mic doesn't seem to be working.
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  Speaker 11: That's like a literal ichy. Hey, what're laying it all out?
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  Speaker 11: Sidn't Let's go ahead and cut that. I didn't know
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  Speaker 11: that we were laying it all out. I thought we
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  Speaker 11: were kind of.
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  Speaker 5: A hundred percent laying it all here's a okay, let me
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  Speaker 5: just ask that question based on a Brett response.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my, that's why I'm so glad you're Brett. Just
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  Speaker 2: makes my life so much easy. From zero? What are
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  Speaker 2: you gonna talk?
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  Speaker 4: Five?
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  Speaker 2: Is the same thing? Whatever it is, I'm sorry, but
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  Speaker 2: it's not. It's not a safety tree.
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  Speaker 5: But no, to Brett's point, the net, Hey, Brett might
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  Speaker 5: be the only one willing to say it. But to
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  Speaker 5: Brett's point, if you run into that situation in college,
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  Speaker 5: is it not talked about amongst your fratorney brothers?
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  Speaker 4: One hundred percent? So is he wrong?
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  Speaker 2: No, he's wrong in my opinion. Granted have her turn brothers, but.
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  Speaker 6: Never talked about talking about that with your fraternity.
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  Speaker 8: Brother Well, I have a fraternity brothers eyes. That was
• 19:06
  Speaker 8: never like a topic converce in my experience. Think you
• 19:09
  Speaker 8: be okay for you? I mean, are you saying you're good?
• 19:13
  Speaker 8: Don't respond? Or it doesn't exist in college?
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just so.
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: Cleanest, most sanitary place in America.
• 19:24
  Speaker 8: Pulling myself back to college, I got one thing to
• 19:26
  Speaker 8: say stinking vagina is still better than no vagina.
• 19:31
  Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, and I think, well on that goodness,
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: I can't wait for this.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: To come aheadline of.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: This podcast is going to be sky it's better than that.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: It's such a good quote from Dean, Right, that's all
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: we need.
• 19:49
  Speaker 12: Can I give it a normal answer or like a good.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: There's nothing worse than someone talking about their family. Oh,
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: I don't need to know about your parents.
• 20:03
  Speaker 12: See I want to I don't care what's happening over
• 20:07
  Speaker 12: there to your thing.
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: It's fine, No, you don't. You want to know about
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: the person you're talking to.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: No, you don't remember their daughter?
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: Are you talking about the Fox News?
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Let's be honest.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: Way, everyone's parents watches Fox News in.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: This room right now?
• 20:30
  Speaker 12: All right, okay, And the second that you start talking
• 20:33
  Speaker 12: about their family, let me talk, let me talk about
• 20:35
  Speaker 12: your parents, they're like, well, they love Talker Carlson.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: You're like, fuck, I gotta go.
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: They watched which halftime show?
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I'm talking about. I don't care.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: Let's go on a lovely day.
• 20:52
  Speaker 10: You just met this person, and they say, oh no,
• 20:57
  Speaker 10: the question was.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Just turning to beat them. The question was what gives
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: you the theck and someone's like, well, let me tell
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: you my dad he loves Tucker Carlson, And you're like, fuck,
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: I gotta go.
• 21:11
  Speaker 8: This is this is what's hard to hear from a
• 21:13
  Speaker 8: GDI's perspective on this is. Ben said marriage too quickly,
• 21:17
  Speaker 8: You said family too quickly. For me, it was like,
• 21:20
  Speaker 8: you guys are already talking about taking to that level.
• 21:23
  Speaker 8: Never in my experience that I experienced, were you talking
• 21:25
  Speaker 8: about my biggest s dick in college was a girl
• 21:28
  Speaker 8: that was like addicted to meth, you know what I mean?
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: Fair in Colorado Springs there was a fair bit of that. Okay,
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: where did you go to school? Cold in Colorado? In
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: the Colorado Springs campus?
• 21:41
  Speaker 8: Trying to make it, Ben is like, oh, she's trying
• 21:44
  Speaker 8: to get married too quickly. Wells like she's trying to
• 21:47
  Speaker 8: introduce me to her parents too quickly. I'm like, oh
• 21:49
  Speaker 8: my gosh, you're not doing meth.
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: That's awesome.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: Teeth, For God's sake. It was rough out there, Okay.
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: Speaking of hygiene, Oh, none of this is usable.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: You'd be surprised. Oh yeah, it's very usable.
• 22:11
  Speaker 5: Speaking of hygiene, Bob Guinea, were you ever worried about
• 22:16
  Speaker 5: your living conditions at the fraternity house?
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: Uh no, I'm super o c D anal weirdo. You
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: know about that cleaning college?
• 22:25
  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, my roommates weren't always you weren't in a fraternity.
• 22:30
  Speaker 5: But were you ever worried about the cleanliness of the
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: home that you were living in?
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: Well, okay, not a chance in hell.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: I'm about the homies currently.
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: Whoa No.
• 22:49
  Speaker 8: I shared a room with a young man for a
• 22:51
  Speaker 8: good couple of years there, and was he also a raccoon?
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: He was king wreckon. I mean, you guys know me.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Most of you guys know me pretty well. I'm not
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: the pretty easy going.
• 23:07
  Speaker 8: When it comes to that stuff, right, So it's like, oh,
• 23:09
  Speaker 8: don't worry about showering for a couple of weeks, don't
• 23:12
  Speaker 8: worry about wiping your butt after you go to the bathroom.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: You know, as long as you're happy on that basically.
• 23:18
  Speaker 8: But there were a couple of times where you know
• 23:20
  Speaker 8: you're in a place and you're like, is going to
• 23:24
  Speaker 8: clean himself?
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: Ever? And they probably thought the same thing about me too.
• 23:27
  Speaker 8: And it's different obviously because you guys were all on
• 23:31
  Speaker 8: fraternities and you're living closer to each other than.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: We are or I am with my friends.
• 23:37
  Speaker 8: But yes, I was worried about my friend's sanitation a
• 23:40
  Speaker 8: couple of times.
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: How often, Brett, were you washing your sheets in college?
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: That is a very good question.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: That's the best one so far in the circle of
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: truth here.
• 23:53
  Speaker 7: I would maybe hope I washed my sheets every two weeks.
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: That's good, that's really good.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: I agree, that's normal.
• 24:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I was a normal guy. You were once a week,
• 24:05
  Speaker 4: that's really yeah. Well we're not filthy like Dean what.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: I would literally go once a semester. Yeah, I'm oh,
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: where that bad's? Proudly you just put when I'm going
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: to bed after a.
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: Shower, his sheets stand up?
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: What does that even mean?
• 24:31
  Speaker 9: Are they're actually telling the truth right now that you
• 24:34
  Speaker 9: washed your that you wash your sheets in the fraternity,
• 24:38
  Speaker 9: like feeling dirty on a weekly or twice a month,
• 24:42
  Speaker 9: baseless because I was in a sorority, and I'm scrolling
• 24:45
  Speaker 9: the brain right now to be like, did I ever
• 24:47
  Speaker 9: wash my sheets? Like and I'm a clean person. Yeah,
• 24:51
  Speaker 9: because did you have a washer dryer in the fraternity?
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: I did?
• 24:55
  Speaker 10: Yes, Yeah, we didn't have like working water, but we
• 24:57
  Speaker 10: had like a washer and dryer.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: And a lot. I do think you're fold guys. I'm
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: weird with that stuff.
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I was going to say, I think it's a
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: unique group where I know enough about all of you
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: to believe you like telling the truth, because I think
• 25:13
  Speaker 5: all of us, like even since college, high school, we
• 25:17
  Speaker 5: were washing our sheets often because we want to be clean.
• 25:20
  Speaker 5: I've always been weird about my sheets.
• 25:22
  Speaker 6: Especially that much business rolling through those sheets on a
• 25:25
  Speaker 6: weekly basis.
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: And curiosity when you're struggling, when you got a bad
• 25:33
  Speaker 5: case of a cash you want to keep that ship.
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: You also have.
• 25:36
  Speaker 9: One, two, three, four, like six sorority girls just by
• 25:39
  Speaker 9: show of hands who washed their sheets once a week.
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: That's impressive, beautiful. What does that tell you about you?
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: This is let me I got to hear.
• 25:52
  Speaker 8: Yeah, this is what it is, all of you, all
• 25:55
  Speaker 8: of you folks over here. They're okay, there's probably part
• 25:59
  Speaker 8: of that too, but it's just it's a rich folk
• 26:01
  Speaker 8: thing to wash your sheets.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 26:04
  Speaker 8: If you can wash your sheets once a week, that
• 26:06
  Speaker 8: means you have a backup set of sheets that you
• 26:08
  Speaker 8: can put on the bed while the other sheet is washing, and.
• 26:10
  Speaker 5: A lot of how sheets work.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Okay, Richie, Yeah, I understand what you're getting. Yeah, yeah,
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: I washed my sheets one time.
• 26:26
  Speaker 8: They disintegrating in the dryer because that's how poor quality
• 26:29
  Speaker 8: they were.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's why we couldn't do it in Colorado.
• 26:32
  Speaker 12: Spe He's got seven thread cot.
• 26:40
  Speaker 5: Okay, Richie, I didn't know. Like it is still a
• 26:46
  Speaker 5: thing in my life now. I don't let shoes ever
• 26:48
  Speaker 5: touch the bed, like when my wife packs and she
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: puts her like, don't throw your wife under the bus
• 26:56
  Speaker 5: luggage up there, No, it's there. We we do it
• 26:59
  Speaker 5: in our home. There is never a shoe that touches
• 27:02
  Speaker 5: the bed while we pack. In fact, luggage doesn't even
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: hardly touch our bed because that's been so many different places.
• 27:08
  Speaker 5: That is a sacred place for sacred things to happen.
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: Sacred. Yeah, all right, we're.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: Gonna go back to Wells for this one. Be honest.
• 27:32
  Speaker 5: There is a beautiful girl that you have shown interest in,
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: and she's shown interest back. How important to you is
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: it that she gets good grades in addition to.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Just so everyone knows, I didn't say that.
• 27:53
  Speaker 5: I prefer grades you. Here's the scenario. You invite her
• 27:57
  Speaker 5: to a date party. You've been into her physically. You
• 28:00
  Speaker 5: show up and.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: I've been in physically.
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: You show up to the date party and she drops
• 28:09
  Speaker 5: the bomb that, like, hey, I'm going to actually be
• 28:11
  Speaker 5: here an extra semester because I just failed three of
• 28:14
  Speaker 5: my five classes.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: Does that be honest? Is it a bad thing? Good thing?
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: Do you not care?
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: The fact that I graduated from college is a wild
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: thought experiment for me. So the fact that someone else
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: might have done that, I'm totally fine with. Maybe them
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: taking five years of which I took. I like to
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: call it a victory lap. You know what's good? My
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: wife didn't go to college. She's very smart. But I
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: like to think that, like, it doesn't matter how long
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: it takes you to get through college. If you loved
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: someone or you find someone, it's pretty great. And if
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: they have a casha, you know, it's kind.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: Of selling for that. Ye I don't know how like
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: a gamma didn't get out of this list. That feels
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: like like a beta, Like you hate that answer. I
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: just don't think you're telling the truth.
• 29:33
  Speaker 5: I think the truth would be you don't care if
• 29:37
  Speaker 5: they got good grades?
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: Right, I don't care? Don't I mean to be honest
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: with you, I really don't care.
• 29:41
  Speaker 8: Something there's something attracted about a girl that gets good grades,
• 29:44
  Speaker 8: better grades than you do, at least in my opinion,
• 29:46
  Speaker 8: I don't see how you.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: Can If the girl's more smarter than you or more
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: applied than you are, that's kind of hot, I think, right, Yeah, yeah,
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: I see that point. Not saying that.
• 29:58
  Speaker 8: You're wrong, obviously, I'm just saying there is.
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: I don't care. I don't care.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: I feel like super smart or.
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: Not that smart.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: As long as like we connect on some sort of
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: like emotional level, that's all it really matters to me.
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: I always felt like I feel like I'm just talking.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Every time you ask well as a question, I'm on here,
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: I go, yeah, tell me more. Yeah, yeah, I feel Yeah.
• 30:24
  Speaker 8: Every time there was a girl that was way smarter
• 30:27
  Speaker 8: and way more applied than I was, I was like,
• 30:29
  Speaker 8: I gotta find a way to talk to her, you know,
• 30:32
  Speaker 8: not for for any other reason than you just be like,
• 30:36
  Speaker 8: she's way better than I am, and I need to
• 30:38
  Speaker 8: prove to myself that maybe I can be on her level.
• 30:40
  Speaker 8: That's at least a moment.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
• 30:43
  Speaker 8: So there's something inherently attractive about and you're a lot
• 30:46
  Speaker 8: smarter than.
• 30:46
  Speaker 5: You and you never thought like, I want to date
• 30:48
  Speaker 5: her because she's going to make more money than me
• 30:50
  Speaker 5: and she can potentially just float this life.
• 30:53
  Speaker 8: Listen, listen, listen as someone that's married to someone that
• 30:57
  Speaker 8: makes way more money than does it was a great
• 31:00
  Speaker 8: It's not It's not something I strived.
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: For, I guess, but you fall through. You did a
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: great job doing it.
• 31:09
  Speaker 5: Nice work, Yeah, Brett, I'm coming back to you for
• 31:14
  Speaker 5: this one best and worst pledge experience. The scenario here
• 31:21
  Speaker 5: set up by the question was, Hey, is it ever
• 31:23
  Speaker 5: frustrating for guys as they try to get into a fraternity?
• 31:27
  Speaker 5: The pledgship is so long, girls don't really do the pledging.
• 31:30
  Speaker 5: It's more fun and like exciting for everybody, But the
• 31:33
  Speaker 5: guys kind of go through like a really tough few
• 31:36
  Speaker 5: weeks as they lead up to getting accepted into the fraternity.
• 31:40
  Speaker 5: Was that ever frustrating for you? But then also shared
• 31:43
  Speaker 5: the best things that come out of pledgship?
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Uh?
• 31:47
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean pledgship sucks. I think all these guys
• 31:52
  Speaker 7: will tell you that it's horrible. The actives make your
• 31:58
  Speaker 7: life as miserable as possible. It's not fun for however
• 32:02
  Speaker 7: long it is, whether it's four months, nine months, whatever
• 32:05
  Speaker 7: it is, it is a miserable time that you think
• 32:12
  Speaker 7: or they tell you that there's a light at the
• 32:14
  Speaker 7: end of the tunnel and to keep going. My worst
• 32:19
  Speaker 7: experience during that was, you know, obviously the accessibility of
• 32:24
  Speaker 7: the actives had that could wake you up at any
• 32:27
  Speaker 7: time of the night for whatever they needed. If they
• 32:30
  Speaker 7: wanted omelet made at three o'clock in the morning because
• 32:34
  Speaker 7: they came home drunk.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: You had to do that.
• 32:35
  Speaker 4: That sucked.
• 32:37
  Speaker 7: The bond that I made with the guys. I am
• 32:41
  Speaker 7: much older than most of you guys here and those
• 32:45
  Speaker 7: that's right ship for you, Bob, But thank god we
• 32:48
  Speaker 7: are here together holding hands. But I will tell you
• 32:53
  Speaker 7: that the bond that I made with these guys, I
• 32:58
  Speaker 7: still have a text chain with all my fraternity brothers.
• 33:01
  Speaker 7: I still see them every year, and I think that
• 33:04
  Speaker 7: is pretty special. Despite whether you think that a fraternity
• 33:09
  Speaker 7: is good or not. At my age, to still have
• 33:12
  Speaker 7: the friendships that I have with these guys, I wouldn't
• 33:17
  Speaker 7: trade it.
• 33:17
  Speaker 5: For the world, and I think it's the point of
• 33:20
  Speaker 5: doing this whole thing.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: Zach.
• 33:23
  Speaker 5: Final question, We're going to throw it back to a
• 33:25
  Speaker 5: question we've already asked before we open it up. To
• 33:29
  Speaker 5: a second part of this episode where we get live es.
• 33:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 33:33
  Speaker 5: Yeah, because I don't know how well we actually answered this.
• 33:38
  Speaker 5: But how did you know in college if a girl
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: was just a hookup or a girlfriend?
• 33:43
  Speaker 4: I was here for that part.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Oh you were there, but I don't think you actually were.
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: His answer was not clearly very memorable.
• 33:57
  Speaker 4: Wait, so what was the question?
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: You were in fact not here for this part.
• 34:02
  Speaker 5: Your first question asked was more about the ick, but
• 34:07
  Speaker 5: this was how do you know if a girl was
• 34:09
  Speaker 5: just a hookup or girlfriend?
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: Material?
• 34:12
  Speaker 10: Okay, I walked in right when you guys were talking
• 34:14
  Speaker 10: about this. I would say, how would you know? I mean,
• 34:22
  Speaker 10: it's pretty immediate, but like I piggyback off what you said,
• 34:26
  Speaker 10: like they're making the decision before, like, and I'm going
• 34:29
  Speaker 10: to lean on this again. I didn't have the wherewithal
• 34:35
  Speaker 10: to make have that decision. I didn't have that thought process. Really,
• 34:40
  Speaker 10: could you just like hell, yeah, whatever, let's go.
• 34:43
  Speaker 4: Could you hate? You want to talk sweet?
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 34:47
  Speaker 4: We want to go further? Cool too?
• 34:50
  Speaker 5: Based on answer Anne Well's answer, would we all agree?
• 34:56
  Speaker 5: Because I think this is like revolutionary for so many
• 34:59
  Speaker 5: that when we're in college, specifically, I think girls in
• 35:05
  Speaker 5: a lot of ways want the guy to be interested.
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: And really the message that you guys are sending is
• 35:11
  Speaker 5: really the guys are just hoping the girls interested.
• 35:15
  Speaker 4: Is this like a lesson.
• 35:18
  Speaker 12: Also in life in general, in college or But I
• 35:23
  Speaker 12: think that we don't hold.
• 35:24
  Speaker 4: The cards my man. Yeah, we really.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: I think that's the point. We've never been in charge.
• 35:28
  Speaker 5: We've never been in charge, and I mean I do
• 35:32
  Speaker 5: think that is like a note to take from this
• 35:35
  Speaker 5: is all of us are sitting here being like we
• 35:37
  Speaker 5: never felt in charge now.
• 35:39
  Speaker 10: No, we're just trying to figure it out. We have
• 35:41
  Speaker 10: no idea what we're doing, still don't, but like figuring
• 35:45
  Speaker 10: out on the fly.
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: But a pretty girl is interested in you.
• 35:47
  Speaker 5: You are ecstatic and feeling very lucky, and I think
• 35:52
  Speaker 5: in their mind they're like, I hope he's interested me,
• 35:54
  Speaker 5: and you're like, oh, yeah, have been, will be one
• 35:57
  Speaker 5: of me?
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Can I give a closing thought?
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: I haven't thought after your thought?
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, so this whole thing is supposed to be.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: About fraternities and sororities, right, Like that's the idea, which
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: is like a community of people that are coming together
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: and enjoying each other's company. And we are at this point,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: don't laugh at me, right, you laugh too?
• 36:23
  Speaker 11: Uh.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: In our community, we used to have these things that
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: like people would like go and join and like it.
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: It was usually the church, right, Like.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: People would come to the church and then they drop
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: their kids off and then they would do like church
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: activities or whatever. And it was like this sense of community,
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: and that's gone away. Let's be realistic, like that's just
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: not what's happening in a lot of the communities around here.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: And I think that the one thing that is cool
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: about sororities and fraternities is that, like it's a sense
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: of community. Everyone wants to feel like they're a part
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: of something. And even though I was kicked out of
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: my fraternity, like it was a cool period of my
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: life where I felt like I was a part of something.
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: And so I get it, like I get the dirty
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: rush thing of it all.
• 37:21
  Speaker 5: And you still, even though you were removed from the fraternity,
• 37:24
  Speaker 5: your friendships today you still have from that fraternity.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: You come to my fraternity golfnment every year.
• 37:36
  Speaker 5: That was a statement for you to open it up
• 37:37
  Speaker 5: and say, yes every year you come.
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: Do I know that?
• 37:41
  Speaker 5: But the listener, does you hang out with every Sigma
• 37:44
  Speaker 5: Ki that I ever ung out with. We go to
• 37:48
  Speaker 5: a golf event every year with like thirty people, yes from.
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: And I love all those people, and half of them
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: were at my wedding. And yes it's a the listener
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: does not know that. Sorry, so I'm so sorry we've
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: been drinking. But yeah, it's a lovely community that like
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: maybe a lot of people don't get to experience. But
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: even though I was kicked out of this thing, it's
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: still a big part of my life.
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  Speaker 2: It's still buddies you've seen for years later. Dean, what
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  Speaker 2: was your thought?
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  Speaker 8: I can give a closing statement that thinks, okay, whoa dude,
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  Speaker 8: Everyone like I did a good thing.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 8: My closing statement wanted to be I think the concept
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  Speaker 8: of this podcast is great, and I think it's so
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  Speaker 8: fun to take a trip down memory lane.
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  Speaker 2: What I wanted to say was.
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  Speaker 8: I feel like a piece of shit and and a
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  Speaker 8: loser from just yesterday. My embarrassment and my shame that
• 38:48
  Speaker 8: I feel from yesterday so big. But even going back
• 38:50
  Speaker 8: to college is bigger and stronger than ever, right, So
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  Speaker 8: to to take a step back to college and remember
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  Speaker 8: how maybe like sure of myself I was or uncertain
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  Speaker 8: or not confident or whatever it might have been, especially
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  Speaker 8: when I was back in college. I look back at
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  Speaker 8: that and I have a lot of gratitude obviously for
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  Speaker 8: being able to make it out of that, but how
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  Speaker 8: I was back then, I was so stupid, for lack
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  Speaker 8: of a better word. And so when I think about
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  Speaker 8: us being in fraternities, or you guys being in fraternities
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  Speaker 8: or whatever, or the listeners being in sororities, it's such
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  Speaker 8: an important aspect of your life, but it's also such
• 39:31
  Speaker 8: a blip on the radar, and it feels like such
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  Speaker 8: an old head thing to say, to be like, it
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  Speaker 8: doesn't really matter, and of course to you guys it does.
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  Speaker 8: Like you just said, your fraternity brothers are such a
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  Speaker 8: big part of your life. My experience is different because
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  Speaker 8: I didn't have that. But I look back on those
• 39:47
  Speaker 8: days and you're asking us these questions where it's like,
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  Speaker 8: how did you feel about this at that point, and
• 39:52
  Speaker 8: I'm like, well, honestly, I was just an idiot back then.
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  Speaker 8: And I think that's the most important, in my opinion,
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  Speaker 8: the most important takeaway to remember that everyone, especially the
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  Speaker 8: guys in the fraternities, are idiots when they're twenty nineteen
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  Speaker 8: to twenty three years old. They're so stupid at least
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  Speaker 8: I was. I was so stupid at that age, right.
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  Speaker 8: I still think I'm stupid, but I was especially stupid
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  Speaker 8: back then. And anything that they feel, or any way
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  Speaker 8: that they act or react to anything you do is
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  Speaker 8: so irrelevant and so fucking stupid because those guys are stupid,
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  Speaker 8: and you shouldn't put much stock into what a guy
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  Speaker 8: thinks at you. I'm sorry of you at that age
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  Speaker 8: because they're a fucking idiot.
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  Speaker 5: It's a season of development, not definition, so it doesn't
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  Speaker 5: define you.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, so let's talk about that.
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  Speaker 4: What is college?
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  Speaker 1: Is college a place where you're supposed to go get
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  Speaker 1: higher learning or is college a place where you're supposed
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  Speaker 1: to figure out how to live by yourself as a
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  Speaker 1: normal I.
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  Speaker 2: Think you learned social skills.
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  Speaker 6: I think you learned social I can't tell you I
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  Speaker 6: learned from that's more important than the It's like the
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  Speaker 6: journalism degree that I got.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if I think is as valuable as
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  Speaker 1: like I figured out how to do taxes and I
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: figured out how to deal with people all that stuff,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Again, it's development, it's it's not. For so many of us.
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  Speaker 5: It's such an important four years, five years, six years,
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  Speaker 5: whatever did. But it is, it's a graduated what we
• 41:34
  Speaker 5: got through it. It's a season, and I think there's
• 41:37
  Speaker 5: a lot of mistakes made, a lot of stories to
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  Speaker 5: be told, a lot of embarrassing moments, a lot of
• 41:42
  Speaker 5: nights out with the boys. Now that you can be
• 41:44
  Speaker 5: like you remember when you did that, Brett, that was wild,
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  Speaker 5: but it isn't who you are today. And I think
• 41:49
  Speaker 5: that's always I think that's a lesson that we all
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  Speaker 5: have in life. But one hundred percent, it's the social skills.
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  Speaker 5: We're gonna pause here. We'll come back with a second
• 41:57
  Speaker 5: episode with live questions that have been burning on the
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  Speaker 5: hearts of some of America's top sorority girls.