Latest / Reality with The King / Married to Medicine Recap EXCLUSIVE with Dr. Heavenly & Quad
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- 0:03Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
- 0:07Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
- 0:10Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
- 0:13Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and
- 0:17Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the
- 0:23Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in
- 0:27Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
- 0:31Speaker 1: scripted as well. How did you feel knowing that Toya
- 0:39Speaker 1: is still keeping the friendship with Kirk because were you
- 0:44Speaker 1: surprised that they even had a friendship.
- 0:46Speaker 2: In reference to Toya, I think that it is very
- 0:48Speaker 2: difficult for Toya to support me. It's very challenging for
- 0:56Speaker 2: her to do that. And part of that is because
- 1:00Speaker 2: I'm already that girl, you see what I'm saying. So
- 1:03Speaker 2: if she supports me, then it's continuing to push me
- 1:05Speaker 2: up a little bit higher, and that just can't be.
- 1:08Speaker 2: She just can't give me that. So she may give
- 1:10Speaker 2: me a little bit of something, but she'll never give
- 1:13Speaker 2: it to me in its full glory. The good thing
- 1:15Speaker 2: about it is that I don't need it.
- 1:21Speaker 3: Come here, Maybe you gotta rink a little piece of honey.
- 1:26Speaker 3: But you know, I have to do a lot of
- 1:29Speaker 3: bending over. Check. I have to check pulses. I had
- 1:35Speaker 3: to check scrota and prostates ro you know, you know
- 1:43Speaker 3: a couple of things.
- 1:44Speaker 4: Well you know what, maybe three like this, she's supposed
- 1:48Speaker 4: to take it like this.
- 1:56Speaker 5: Check the heart, check the heart doing it's that broke?
- 2:00Speaker 5: And is it Carlos? You didn't breaking no hearts? Colors?
- 2:05Speaker 3: Heart? Are you nervous?
- 2:10Speaker 5: Okay?
- 2:10Speaker 3: I feels good.
- 2:12Speaker 6: I'm going oh wow, very sumple. I like that word.
- 2:20Speaker 6: I can't be acting similar today.
- 2:22Speaker 2: Baby, you would have been you would have failed anatomy giving.
- 2:34Speaker 3: I got the dandamic duo.
- 2:38Speaker 4: Get into film and already, wait a minute, I gotta
- 2:40Speaker 4: get my congressional stelf together. Wait a minute, Wait a minute, Color,
- 2:44Speaker 4: I can't. I can't be playing with you today.
- 2:46Speaker 6: I literally came wheel film.
- 2:48Speaker 5: It's a professional doctor. What are you saying?
- 2:50Speaker 3: It's doctor King not to be good? Fuse Martin Luther. Okay,
- 2:55Speaker 3: you know my bro brother grand uncle, uh huh, yes,
- 2:58Speaker 3: you know, he had a dream. I mean I'm living
- 3:00Speaker 3: it proud in more ways than what. I am so
- 3:10Speaker 3: happy to have doctor Heavenly.
- 3:14Speaker 4: Yes, indeed, Miss what miscuas she got it?
- 3:20Speaker 2: Do you do you still have it?
- 3:22Speaker 6: Hey?
- 3:24Speaker 5: Next, what do you mean? What do you mean?
- 3:26Speaker 6: Well?
- 3:26Speaker 3: Someone said the love round now, so I didn't know.
- 3:28Speaker 5: I never heard anything. See here's the thing about luck.
- 3:31Speaker 5: I've never been lucky. I've always been blessed.
- 3:33Speaker 3: Oh can I say St. Patti's Day?
- 3:36Speaker 5: Oh?
- 3:37Speaker 4: Can I start off that saying something?
- 3:44Speaker 6: I'm not doing that?
- 3:45Speaker 5: What I am?
- 3:46Speaker 7: You know?
- 3:46Speaker 5: Because what was the baby?
- 3:53Speaker 4: I just wanted to start off by saying, I want
- 3:55Speaker 4: to thank miss quad for all of the support she's
- 3:58Speaker 4: given me on my campaign from time from the beginning
- 4:02Speaker 4: to now to the end. She's been out there canvassing,
- 4:05Speaker 4: walking the streets, knocking on doors, doing all of the
- 4:09Speaker 4: things she's mixed out on her campaign contributions.
- 4:12Speaker 6: You have two colors, Well no, I definitely.
- 4:14Speaker 7: We donated the maximum, moll because we are friends in
- 4:17Speaker 7: real life. She was knocking on doors. I was door knocking, canvassing.
- 4:23Speaker 7: I love a canvas, you know, listen, walking the streets.
- 4:28Speaker 6: You know, I'm humble.
- 4:30Speaker 7: So we are very happy that you are officially announced
- 4:36Speaker 7: to be running for Congress in District thirteen.
- 4:40Speaker 6: Qualified on Wednesday.
- 4:41Speaker 7: Qualified, So explain to us what that means, because the
- 4:46Speaker 7: most I know about politics is watching the view.
- 4:49Speaker 4: Okay, first and foremost, I'm running for Congress. That's US
- 4:51Speaker 4: House of Representative. Okay, So that's in DC. We were
- 4:54Speaker 4: representing DC and here in Georgia. To qualify, you have
- 4:57Speaker 4: to bring your money, you have to actually qualify to
- 5:00Speaker 4: come in, and you have to fill out a form
- 5:02Speaker 4: and do the things. But the great thing about my
- 5:04Speaker 4: campaign is we've already been knocking on doors.
- 5:07Speaker 6: You've knocked over eight thousand doors.
- 5:09Speaker 4: We've contacted over one hundred thousand people already, and we
- 5:13Speaker 4: plan to take this race.
- 5:15Speaker 7: Now you are, you are, and you were a part
- 5:17Speaker 7: of it being the campaign manager. So talk to me
- 5:19Speaker 7: about that because we saw you manage to offices.
- 5:22Speaker 4: Yes.
- 5:23Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing, and people always say, is it
- 5:25Speaker 2: hard to manage Heavenly? No, not when she trusts you,
- 5:28Speaker 2: and not when it's something that she's very passionate about.
- 5:30Speaker 2: And Heavenly is very very passionate about helping the people
- 5:33Speaker 2: of District thirteen. She lives it, she eats it, she
- 5:37Speaker 2: breathes it. We have numerous conversations throughout the day, that's
- 5:40Speaker 2: all we're talking about. This woman is so focused on
- 5:44Speaker 2: helping others. And here's the thing, she doesn't have to.
- 5:46Speaker 2: She doesn't have to. Heavily is well established, she's married
- 5:49Speaker 2: to a well established doctor, which she's a doctor as well.
- 5:53Speaker 2: This is her really giving her time and sacrificing herself
- 5:56Speaker 2: for the greater good of others. And so it is
- 5:59Speaker 2: very disheard when I see people who are, you know,
- 6:03Speaker 2: not really supporting her in such a way because what
- 6:07Speaker 2: she's doing is groundbreaking. We have a lot of people
- 6:10Speaker 2: who want to say, well, she's in reality TV and
- 6:12Speaker 2: she fights.
- 6:13Speaker 6: And I don't physically fight fight.
- 6:16Speaker 2: We're talking about verbally, like I don't yeah, yeah, verbally
- 6:21Speaker 2: fighting right, And for me that's a plus because I
- 6:24Speaker 2: would want someone to come in and have that same
- 6:26Speaker 2: vigor to fight for my district. Now I don't live
- 6:29Speaker 2: in Heavily's district, but Heavenly has my full support. As
- 6:32Speaker 2: she said earlier, Heavenly has been, you know, working and
- 6:35Speaker 2: seeing her patients still and doing press for this show
- 6:39Speaker 2: that that is called Married to Medicine, that is doing
- 6:42Speaker 2: phenomenal on Bravo.
- 6:49Speaker 6: But but what.
- 6:51Speaker 2: I'm saying is while she was away, I was standing
- 6:54Speaker 2: in the gap and we're knocking on doors and we're
- 6:56Speaker 2: talking to people and we're talking about figuring out what
- 6:58Speaker 2: what what do they want?
- 6:59Speaker 5: What are they looking for?
- 7:00Speaker 2: And they're really just looking for someone to be visible,
- 7:03Speaker 2: to be there and to feel that cares and they're
- 7:06Speaker 2: connected to And this is her, this is she.
- 7:08Speaker 5: She's very relatable and.
- 7:09Speaker 6: She had been my whole campaign.
- 7:11Speaker 7: But because like me, like Candy Burrs, like Andy Cohen,
- 7:16Speaker 7: and the many people who are supporting you, we know
- 7:20Speaker 7: that you're doing this for your love of the community.
- 7:23Speaker 7: And that's why it was nothing for me to contribute
- 7:27Speaker 7: financially to your campaign because we are friends in real life.
- 7:31Speaker 7: But if I thought you were doing this for television
- 7:34Speaker 7: or storyline, I wouldn't waste my money doing it. I
- 7:36Speaker 7: know how serious you are. Quad knows that you and
- 7:39Speaker 7: I talk all the time off camera.
- 7:43Speaker 3: So I know this is real for you.
- 7:47Speaker 6: Absolutely.
- 7:47Speaker 7: Unfortunately, like Quad has intimated, there are people who don't
- 7:51Speaker 7: believe that your castmate, Doctor Simone made a very public
- 7:56Speaker 7: declaration feeling like you're taking this office as a joke,
- 8:00Speaker 7: and she doesn't want you or the general public to
- 8:06Speaker 7: vote for These are her words, not mine.
- 8:09Speaker 3: She feels this as foolish.
- 8:10Speaker 5: And Why would she say that.
- 8:11Speaker 4: Why would she say that, you know, and this is
- 8:14Speaker 4: not the reality TV of me saying this. But if
- 8:17Speaker 4: I said that about her career as ob jui n,
- 8:20Speaker 4: I'd be really wrong. I think that one thing we
- 8:22Speaker 4: do on reality TV, and we have done uh successfully
- 8:26Speaker 4: is not attack someone's career. I mean, I could easily
- 8:28Speaker 4: say things, you know, But that disappoints me that she
- 8:32Speaker 4: says that because she absolutely knows this is serious. She
- 8:34Speaker 4: absolutely knows that. And I do think that I'm not
- 8:39Speaker 4: sure why they're so upset that I'm doing something for
- 8:43Speaker 4: my community.
- 8:43Speaker 5: It does not affect them.
- 8:44Speaker 4: Again, they do not live in my district, so they
- 8:47Speaker 4: cannot vote for me, although this is a federal seat,
- 8:50Speaker 4: meaning that you know, we're going to change laws and
- 8:53Speaker 4: you know, and do different things for the community. But
- 8:55Speaker 4: I don't know why they would be so upset that
- 8:57Speaker 4: I would take this time to sacrifice my life literally
- 9:02Speaker 4: for other people. I don't know why they're so upset
- 9:04Speaker 4: about this.
- 9:05Speaker 3: Did it break your heart?
- 9:07Speaker 7: Because listen, at the end of the day, at one
- 9:08Speaker 7: point in time, you, Simon and Jackie were called the
- 9:12Speaker 7: Golden Girl.
- 9:12Speaker 3: Yes, yes, and there was a friendship.
- 9:15Speaker 6: More Golden than I am. I can't help it go ahead.
- 9:19Speaker 7: So much so that in your hometown in Florida, they
- 9:22Speaker 7: went with you when you were, you know, searching for
- 9:26Speaker 7: you know, memories, your mom and all this other stuff.
- 9:29Speaker 7: Is it disheartening to know that this woman who you
- 9:33Speaker 7: had a real friendship with felt the need to comment
- 9:38Speaker 7: that publicly.
- 9:40Speaker 4: I think it's heartbreaking. I mean, I thought that me
- 9:43Speaker 4: and Simone had a real relationship. I don't know why
- 9:46Speaker 4: she would do the things she's doing. And honestly, I'm
- 9:49Speaker 4: gonna say I forgive her, you know why, because I
- 9:52Speaker 4: think that and I'm saying this. You know, everybody says
- 9:56Speaker 4: I'm reading or I'm shading when I say things.
- 9:57Speaker 6: I think this.
- 9:58Speaker 4: Sometimes people need a mental break. I do not think
- 10:01Speaker 4: that simons frustrations are about.
- 10:03Speaker 5: Me at all.
- 10:04Speaker 4: When she came into the reunion, she was crying. She
- 10:07Speaker 4: made it about me. I don't know why. You know,
- 10:10Speaker 4: she said that Jackie would not choose a side. I
- 10:12Speaker 4: told Jackie choose her side because she needs you more.
- 10:15Speaker 5: You know.
- 10:15Speaker 4: I don't know what it is, but I do know
- 10:17Speaker 4: that people need a mental break sometimes. I think that
- 10:21Speaker 4: it's a lot on her. I mean, we've seen her,
- 10:24Speaker 4: and my heart goes out to her seriously from what
- 10:27Speaker 4: she filmed and at the time when we were filming,
- 10:29Speaker 4: I had never seen what she was going through. But
- 10:31Speaker 4: my heart goes out to some mo own and I
- 10:33Speaker 4: forgive her whatever she said. I take it, you know,
- 10:35Speaker 4: and I can take, you know, a backhand. But you know,
- 10:38Speaker 4: the people of District thirteen really need help. They really
- 10:41Speaker 4: need somebody to speak up and speak out for them,
- 10:43Speaker 4: somebody with a voice. As you see on my social
- 10:46Speaker 4: we've been on over fifty platforms, and that's earned media,
- 10:50Speaker 4: meaning that we can bring attention to what's going on
- 10:52Speaker 4: in our district with Title one and people not getting in,
- 10:55Speaker 4: the kids not getting the school, the food that they.
- 10:57Speaker 5: Need, the Snap benefits, Snap benefits.
- 11:00Speaker 4: The lunch is because I grew up on free lunch,
- 11:03Speaker 4: so I know what it feels like not to have
- 11:05Speaker 4: enough to eat and sometimes that was the only meal
- 11:07Speaker 4: I got in the day. I know what it's like
- 11:09Speaker 4: to be on wick and food stands, because you know,
- 11:11Speaker 4: it's no secret it came out on the show I
- 11:13Speaker 4: Got Pregnant before. But I don't think that it's a handout.
- 11:16Speaker 4: I actually think it's a lifeline and I would not
- 11:19Speaker 4: be here today without a lot of the benefits they
- 11:22Speaker 4: have today, including the federal grants and the Peil grant
- 11:25Speaker 4: and the federal student loans. So I would be totally
- 11:28Speaker 4: remiss not to think about the people that come up
- 11:30Speaker 4: against me behind me. And Simone has had some of
- 11:33Speaker 4: these benefits as well, so she should understand better than
- 11:37Speaker 4: any of us how important this is.
- 11:40Speaker 3: Well, how do you feel about that? Because you've been
- 11:42Speaker 3: around since day one?
- 11:43Speaker 7: You are nog We've even seen this season you and
- 11:46Speaker 7: Simone have a little back and forth as Heavily's friend,
- 11:52Speaker 7: as a cast member, a coworker, campaign manager. Did it
- 12:00Speaker 7: hurt you when she made that declaration? Because one thing
- 12:04Speaker 7: the audience and I am audience love about mathon medicine
- 12:09Speaker 7: so much so I tell my cast a bellt collective
- 12:11Speaker 7: and love of marriage to study what they do. No
- 12:13Speaker 7: matter what happened, you girls come and support each other.
- 12:16Speaker 7: We saw this past Christmas and the Christmas people. So
- 12:22Speaker 7: were you surprised to know that it's one thing to
- 12:25Speaker 7: have the discourse on the show?
- 12:28Speaker 2: Right?
- 12:28Speaker 3: Were you surprised that that declaration was seen around the
- 12:34Speaker 3: world and it got picked up by many outlets?
- 12:38Speaker 6: This declaration was this aster we filmed. Well, that's interesting
- 12:43Speaker 6: because I was at a game with Simona. She gave
- 12:45Speaker 6: me a hug.
- 12:45Speaker 4: That's what makes this so confusing, because she embraced me
- 12:48Speaker 4: at the Hawks game, because you know, we came and
- 12:50Speaker 4: support the Hawks, we came in Quad's house.
- 12:52Speaker 6: We actually got along brace, you know.
- 12:54Speaker 4: And I just don't understand the back and forth and
- 12:57Speaker 4: the ups and downs. That's why I say people need
- 12:59Speaker 4: a mental break sometimes. I think this show becomes a
- 13:02Speaker 4: lot for people and what they're going through, and I
- 13:04Speaker 4: think they actually take their emotions out on other people.
- 13:07Speaker 4: I do not think that reunion was about me at all.
- 13:10Speaker 6: I do not.
- 13:10Speaker 4: There's nothing I've done to Simone to make her feel
- 13:13Speaker 4: the way that she feels. In my opinion. You know,
- 13:15Speaker 4: we can talk about when she took my arm and
- 13:18Speaker 4: grabbed it and pulled it.
- 13:18Speaker 6: You saw it yourself. I was there, I don't, you know.
- 13:22Speaker 4: And it's one of the things I've learned in politics
- 13:25Speaker 4: and everything else. You believe only nothing you hear, but
- 13:29Speaker 4: only half of what you see. I was there, So
- 13:32Speaker 4: I'm disappointed in Simon. I would never say anything bad
- 13:35Speaker 4: about her career or how she she's able to do it,
- 13:39Speaker 4: But yes, it's unfortunate, you.
- 13:43Speaker 2: Know, for me, I think that sometimes it's very difficult
- 13:45Speaker 2: to kind of turn it off, right, to turn off
- 13:47Speaker 2: the reality TV thing. Right, What you go through on
- 13:50Speaker 2: camera sometimes can actually spill over over, can spill over
- 13:53Speaker 2: into your real life. And I think that's where Simone
- 13:57Speaker 2: could possibly be with Heavenly. I think Simon is better
- 14:01Speaker 2: than that. I did not like reading it. I would
- 14:04Speaker 2: have liked to see her being more supportive.
- 14:06Speaker 5: I never saw that. I seen it.
- 14:09Speaker 7: I listen a fan, I love the show. I love
- 14:14Speaker 7: you girls, I follow all you girls. Right when I
- 14:17Speaker 7: saw that it was maybe a day or two athle
- 14:19Speaker 7: shots the reunion, I was shocked because again I thought, okay,
- 14:24Speaker 7: but we're watching the show real time. That's one thing,
- 14:26Speaker 7: and I think, listen, no shade, I think rightfully, so
- 14:29Speaker 7: they should have questions.
- 14:31Speaker 3: I think that's fair.
- 14:32Speaker 6: Absolutely, that's fair.
- 14:33Speaker 3: I was shocked that it was. It was a declaration.
- 14:39Speaker 3: It was.
- 14:40Speaker 7: It was very It was very telling in terms of like,
- 14:45Speaker 7: you all would be fools to vote for this.
- 14:47Speaker 6: Fool wow, wow, you know what.
- 14:49Speaker 4: I'd have to go back to what my husband says,
- 14:51Speaker 4: we're not dealing with flesh and blood and on this
- 14:54Speaker 4: level because we've never been that dirty before. We're not
- 14:57Speaker 4: dealing with flesh and blood. These are wicked from high places. Really,
- 15:02Speaker 4: I mean I think that that's what that is. That's
- 15:03Speaker 4: all it could be, because mensimoning in a place like that.
- 15:08Speaker 6: Really, I've never.
- 15:09Speaker 4: Heard that before, and it's actually hurting my feelings and
- 15:11Speaker 4: I don't give my feelings hurt easily.
- 15:14Speaker 7: I want to ask you this too, because Quad says
- 15:16Speaker 7: something about turning the reality dial off on, you know,
- 15:20Speaker 7: down or whatever. Even after sitting here today, you and
- 15:24Speaker 7: I are known for our amazing recaps of this show.
- 15:28Speaker 7: Absolutely the fans have pointed in Messy Mondays, you have
- 15:34Speaker 7: this very.
- 15:36Speaker 3: Dynamic personality.
- 15:38Speaker 7: You know, you are somebody that has definitely said your
- 15:42Speaker 7: Mama jokes. Are somebody who have said a lot of
- 15:45Speaker 7: you know, irate things on the show. You are a
- 15:48Speaker 7: force to be reckoned with. What do you say, heavenly
- 15:52Speaker 7: to those people who only know you form reality television?
- 15:57Speaker 3: Quad? I know you outside of TV.
- 16:00Speaker 7: Unortunately the millions of you ers y'all get they only
- 16:03Speaker 7: see what they see on YouTube and what they see
- 16:06Speaker 7: on Bravo. So with that being said, what do you
- 16:09Speaker 7: say to people heapily. Who say I only know this
- 16:12Speaker 7: woman based on how she appears on the show. How
- 16:16Speaker 7: can I trust that this woman here that has on
- 16:20Speaker 7: a blazer a Gail.
- 16:22Speaker 3: Kingwig Gil King. You know what I'm saying, you know
- 16:27Speaker 3: is not giving us an.
- 16:29Speaker 4: App Well, the interesting thing is you all have to
- 16:32Speaker 4: understand that I was a doctor first.
- 16:33Speaker 6: I actually was.
- 16:35Speaker 4: I have been practicing in my community for over a
- 16:38Speaker 4: decade before we even started to show. These people in
- 16:40Speaker 4: this community know me. I'm the only one on the
- 16:42Speaker 4: ticket that can boast that I've lived in the community
- 16:44Speaker 4: for over twenty five years. But not only that I've
- 16:46Speaker 4: served in the community. I've had a practice in every
- 16:49Speaker 4: county in this district. This is not just my patience,
- 16:52Speaker 4: It's not just my community. It's my family at this point,
- 16:55Speaker 4: and I care about my family. Y'all know how hard
- 16:57Speaker 4: I fight for my family. If you say something about it,
- 17:00Speaker 4: Daddy or my children, I am upset. I feel like
- 17:03Speaker 4: in District thirteen people need somebody that's going to speak
- 17:05Speaker 4: up and speak out for them. They have nobody to
- 17:09Speaker 4: speak for them. They have no one to speak up
- 17:11Speaker 4: for them, and people will die. If you look at
- 17:13Speaker 4: that big, beautiful bill I can go over and over again,
- 17:16Speaker 4: and I know insurance better than anyone. Not only am
- 17:18Speaker 4: my doctor of redental surgery, but I have an insurance
- 17:21Speaker 4: license as well, Series sixty five realer state license written
- 17:23Speaker 4: for books and all of the things. But that doesn't
- 17:26Speaker 4: even matter. What matters is I care about the people.
- 17:29Speaker 4: I always side on the top, on the side of humanity, and.
- 17:32Speaker 5: People will die.
- 17:33Speaker 4: If you look at the Georgia pathway system, it's so
- 17:37Speaker 4: difficult to maneuver and people are going to be left behind.
- 17:41Speaker 4: The Peach Care for Kids takes care of the babies
- 17:43Speaker 4: under eighteen, Medicare takes care sixty five and over. But
- 17:47Speaker 4: if you're eighteen to sixty four, you have to have
- 17:50Speaker 4: eighty hours a week or a full time student or
- 17:53Speaker 4: community service. And people with autism and or mental health
- 17:56Speaker 4: challenges cannot hold a job.
- 17:58Speaker 6: What are they to do? And this is personal for me.
- 18:02Speaker 7: Yeah, to wrap things up too, because I know you
- 18:06Speaker 7: have a lot to do this week and until you
- 18:11Speaker 7: because the election.
- 18:12Speaker 3: Is in April.
- 18:13Speaker 4: Yes, early voting starts April twenty seventh. The last day
- 18:16Speaker 4: to register it's April twentieth. The actual election day is
- 18:19Speaker 4: May nineteenth. But you want to vote early. We saw
- 18:21Speaker 4: what happened with jas Mincrockt and all the games and
- 18:24Speaker 4: tom foolery they played. You want to get there, get
- 18:26Speaker 4: early and get your vote in for sure. April twenty seven.
- 18:29Speaker 3: Seven, when you were qualified. Your family was there. Yeah,
- 18:33Speaker 3: we saw Zachary, we saw your daughter, we saw Daddy.
- 18:35Speaker 3: We did not see your other son. Why wasn't he there?
- 18:41Speaker 4: You know, I know it played out on the show,
- 18:43Speaker 4: but my son I have not seen him since. I
- 18:49Speaker 4: haven't seen him in a while, almost a year now,
- 18:53Speaker 4: you know, I said it on the show. I don't
- 18:54Speaker 4: know if it's played already already, but you know, if
- 18:57Speaker 4: everybody knows that he got arrested, it was a big thing.
- 19:00Speaker 4: My husband did take care of it. I think what
- 19:02Speaker 4: a lot of people may not know, but they know now.
- 19:04Speaker 4: You know, after the show played, my son had a
- 19:07Speaker 4: mental health emergency and I did not as a dentist
- 19:11Speaker 4: and my husband as a physician, we did not know
- 19:14Speaker 4: what to do. We didn't know that you were supposed
- 19:16Speaker 4: to die nine eight eight and things like that. So
- 19:19Speaker 4: doctor Mimi was very instrumental in helping us through that situation.
- 19:22Speaker 4: And that was after he was arrested. He was given
- 19:27Speaker 4: a medication that he had a very bad side effect
- 19:29Speaker 4: to it if he actually became catatonic and he could
- 19:32Speaker 4: not move, he could not speak, and so when we
- 19:36Speaker 4: took to the hospital he got better. He refused to
- 19:38Speaker 4: take anything, and I don't blame him, right, but we
- 19:42Speaker 4: did get him into a medical facility. And because he
- 19:46Speaker 4: was twenty five at the time, twenty eight at the time,
- 19:49Speaker 4: he's twenty eight now twenty seven at the time, twenty
- 19:51Speaker 4: five when he was arrested, twenty eight at the time,
- 19:55Speaker 4: he's an adult. So they didn't have to tell us anything.
- 19:57Speaker 4: Even being a doctor and him being on our medical
- 20:00Speaker 4: insurance and everything, they would not give us any information.
- 20:03Speaker 4: And they treated him until his insurance ran out, and
- 20:06Speaker 4: then they released him.
- 20:08Speaker 5: And I have not seen him since.
- 20:11Speaker 3: Has he contacted you? Have you guys been texting?
- 20:14Speaker 6: Yes?
- 20:14Speaker 4: When I first announced that I was running for a
- 20:16Speaker 4: state representative, my son texted me and he says, this real, Mommy,
- 20:20Speaker 4: are you running for office? I said, yeah, baby, he
- 20:23Speaker 4: texted me that was a text and I was so
- 20:25Speaker 4: happy and he said, he said, Mama, that's real cool.
- 20:29Speaker 4: So since then we have been texting. I have seen
- 20:32Speaker 4: him on video chat FaceTime and stuff like that. But
- 20:36Speaker 4: physically I have not seen him.
- 20:38Speaker 3: Why does he not want to come over? Do you
- 20:40Speaker 3: not want to go?
- 20:41Speaker 6: I think because he was arrested.
- 20:43Speaker 4: You know how people have their own vision in their
- 20:45Speaker 4: minds of what you may think, or or maybe he
- 20:50Speaker 4: thought that, you know, we were disappointed in him or
- 20:52Speaker 4: something like that. But I will tell you today, I
- 20:54Speaker 4: would give every dime I got in the world to
- 20:57Speaker 4: see my son again. I am proud of him and
- 21:01Speaker 4: I love him, you know. But yeah, I have not
- 21:05Speaker 4: seen him. My husband talks to him every day. He
- 21:11Speaker 4: texts me or calls every day. I'm the type of
- 21:15Speaker 4: parent that you know is similar to some of the
- 21:18Speaker 4: parents out there that feel like, you know, you need
- 21:20Speaker 4: to have tough love with your kids. You know, he'd
- 21:22Speaker 4: come home if we weren't providing for him every day.
- 21:25Speaker 4: And that's when my husband and I disagree. My husband says,
- 21:28Speaker 4: as long as he has a breath in his body,
- 21:30Speaker 4: he will always take care of my son in a
- 21:32Speaker 4: sense that he will gives him money every day. I
- 21:35Speaker 4: feel like giving him money every day prevents him from
- 21:37Speaker 4: coming home. But Daddy doesn't want his son ever to
- 21:41Speaker 4: be hungry or anything like that.
- 21:42Speaker 5: So that's what we.
- 21:43Speaker 6: Differ a little bit.
- 21:44Speaker 3: Is he living alone?
- 21:46Speaker 4: As I know, he's living alone, damon. I mean, we
- 21:49Speaker 4: could find him, but we can't make him come home.
- 21:51Speaker 6: You know, got it.
- 21:53Speaker 3: And he's not ready to see you.
- 21:55Speaker 4: He's not ready to see anyone. He's I'm just hoping
- 21:59Speaker 4: one day he comes home because I don't think that
- 22:01Speaker 4: he he's seeing things in the right eyes. I think that, Yeah,
- 22:07Speaker 4: I just want to see my baby again. I don't
- 22:08Speaker 4: know what he's thinking, honestly, And we're close like and
- 22:13Speaker 4: you know, with all my children, I've given all I
- 22:16Speaker 4: got to give to them. They went to the private schools.
- 22:18Speaker 4: Not that bad matters. But he's a graduate, he's a
- 22:21Speaker 4: college graduate. He's an educated man. I just, you know,
- 22:27Speaker 4: maybe I made some mistakes somewhere. I don't know, but
- 22:29Speaker 4: you know, I want to see my son again. But
- 22:32Speaker 4: rather than complain, rather than sit idly by when I
- 22:36Speaker 4: see somebody going through a challenge, what I do is
- 22:38Speaker 4: I'm not trying to be vulnerables. Even though she says
- 22:42Speaker 4: to be vulnerable, I wasn't taught that. What I was
- 22:43Speaker 4: taught was get your buckle straped good and make a
- 22:46Speaker 4: change and That's what I'm doing, you know, for Medicaid, Medicare,
- 22:51Speaker 4: people without insurances, people with mental health challenges, people with autism.
- 22:56Speaker 4: Somebody has to speak up and speak out for the
- 22:59Speaker 4: people because nobody cares. I always say, either they don't know,
- 23:03Speaker 4: they don't show, or they don't care. And since then,
- 23:07Speaker 4: I've visited correctional institutions and I did not know this,
- 23:11Speaker 4: but I was able to tour them, and seventy one
- 23:15Speaker 4: percent of our brothers that are in correctional institutions have
- 23:17Speaker 4: mental health challenges. There are not enough crisis centers. If
- 23:21Speaker 4: my son was not Damon Comes junior, he met it
- 23:24Speaker 4: falling into that system. And they have people there two
- 23:27Speaker 4: to four years waiting for trial in a correctional institution.
- 23:33Speaker 4: So you got to think about all the And when
- 23:36Speaker 4: I started telling my story to mothers everywhere, it's always
- 23:40Speaker 4: a son, a nephew, a brother, a husband or someone.
- 23:44Speaker 4: Everybody's going through this, and I didn't realize what kind
- 23:49Speaker 4: of epidemic it was with in mental health, you know.
- 23:51Speaker 5: And I'm here to make a difference.
- 23:55Speaker 3: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.
- 23:58Speaker 3: Let's get back into the show. WUD what do you have.
- 24:02Speaker 7: To say to the people in District thirteen, because, like me,
- 24:09Speaker 7: you are somebody that only shows support when it's necessary.
- 24:13Speaker 7: You believe in this woman, you believe in her campaign,
- 24:15Speaker 7: you believe in what she stands for. What do you
- 24:18Speaker 7: have to say to the world in terms of why
- 24:22Speaker 7: they should vote for doctor Hevely.
- 24:25Speaker 2: Just like when I said at the open of our discussion,
- 24:27Speaker 2: she is very focused.
- 24:28Speaker 5: She really cares. She has passion for the people.
- 24:31Speaker 2: I've seen her single handedly just change the self esteem
- 24:36Speaker 2: and confidence of people just through giving them a better smile.
- 24:39Speaker 2: Who takes the time out to say, hey, I'm doing
- 24:41Speaker 2: this pro bono. You owe me absolutely nothing.
- 24:44Speaker 3: Your mother for for example, Oh yeah, yeah.
- 24:45Speaker 2: It's my mom, But that came through a friendship. I'm
- 24:49Speaker 2: talking about people that she doesn't know. Yeah, you know,
- 24:52Speaker 2: people that she doesn't even know, she's never met them before.
- 24:55Speaker 2: But she wants to see the greater good for other people. Again,
- 24:58Speaker 2: I say, Heavily doesn't have to do this.
- 25:00Speaker 5: She doesn't.
- 25:01Speaker 2: She's already set. She's already set. But the fact that
- 25:04Speaker 2: she says, hey, it's not just about me. I'm not
- 25:07Speaker 2: comfortable with just me and my family being successful, or
- 25:11Speaker 2: me and my family being able to eat or have
- 25:13Speaker 2: better health care that I'm uncomfortable. I need to do
- 25:16Speaker 2: something about that. And that's what you need. You need
- 25:18Speaker 2: a person who says, you know, regardless of where I
- 25:21Speaker 2: am today.
- 25:22Speaker 5: I once was you, I know you, I was you.
- 25:26Speaker 2: And someone who has experience and being able to kind
- 25:29Speaker 2: of cross the line right and again, like I said,
- 25:32Speaker 2: to be fearless. You don't need someone who could be bought,
- 25:35Speaker 2: who could you know, do backdoor deals, or someone who's
- 25:37Speaker 2: just running for the position and once they get the position,
- 25:39Speaker 2: now you never see them again. That we're in a
- 25:42Speaker 2: different climate. We need people who are action focused, right
- 25:46Speaker 2: and who really really would demonstrate being bold and fearless.
- 25:50Speaker 5: And I see that in my friend. Absolutely.
- 25:54Speaker 7: And where can people go on your website to you know,
- 25:58Speaker 7: donate and just really find out your causes that you're
- 26:02Speaker 7: passionate about and everything else.
- 26:04Speaker 4: Absolutely, I can tell you firsthand my passion is affordability.
- 26:07Speaker 4: A lot of people cannot afford to live. They can't
- 26:10Speaker 4: afford food, they can't afford gas, they can't afford lifestyle.
- 26:14Speaker 4: In my community, a lot of people are coming in
- 26:16Speaker 4: buying up properties, raising the rent so they cannot afford
- 26:19Speaker 4: to live where they actually work. Secondly, it has to
- 26:22Speaker 4: be healthcare. That's my first and foremost that I talked
- 26:25Speaker 4: about the insurances and how we need to make changes.
- 26:27Speaker 4: We must make the ACA permanent, we must extend Medicaid
- 26:31Speaker 4: and Medicaid. We also have to talk about education a
- 26:35Speaker 4: little bit. I'm a double HBC. You graduate Florida and
- 26:37Speaker 4: m University Maheria Medical College, and like she said, I
- 26:40Speaker 4: would not be here without the pel grant and the
- 26:43Speaker 4: federal student lows. So those are the things that I
- 26:45Speaker 4: fight for. But to answer your question, you can find
- 26:47Speaker 4: me on all social at doctor Heavenly for Georgia and
- 26:51Speaker 4: also doctor Heavenly for Georgia dot com. So yeah, make
- 26:54Speaker 4: sure you get up, get out and vote guys. That's
- 26:56Speaker 4: the only thing I can stress for you because our
- 26:59Speaker 4: vote does matter. It does account and I've been all
- 27:02Speaker 4: across the district and everybody has different issues. But I'm
- 27:05Speaker 4: the person for the job. I'm smart, I'm relatable, and
- 27:07Speaker 4: I'll be here and I trust, trust and believe I
- 27:10Speaker 4: do all my jobs well. Whether it's a beautiful smile
- 27:12Speaker 4: colors smile for us. Well, there's reality TV, and I
- 27:17Speaker 4: think we give great entertainment, and I think and actually
- 27:20Speaker 4: as a congresswoman, I will do the job better than
- 27:22Speaker 4: anyone else is capable.
- 27:24Speaker 7: And and I'll say this, I think what we're seeing
- 27:27Speaker 7: in the world right now is gone.
- 27:29Speaker 3: Are the days where you can only do one thing right?
- 27:32Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
- 27:33Speaker 7: We have shown the world and we're multifaceted. I was
- 27:35Speaker 7: a reality TV producer, I have a podcast.
- 27:38Speaker 5: You know.
- 27:38Speaker 3: Listen, girl, you have so many hats that you're wearing.
- 27:40Speaker 3: So I do.
- 27:41Speaker 7: Believe that when God puts a calling in your life,
- 27:45Speaker 7: and one thing you said publicly, he even said to.
- 27:47Speaker 3: Me is God called you to do this, and you.
- 27:50Speaker 7: Became obedient and like QUI you know, even said you
- 27:54Speaker 7: don't have to do this.
- 27:56Speaker 3: There's no gain for it. So I'll say this much.
- 27:59Speaker 7: I'm proud that you are putting your passion where your
- 28:03Speaker 7: mouth is and you're actually doing the work because a
- 28:07Speaker 7: lot of people don't.
- 28:09Speaker 4: Y'all see me in these streets. I really do care
- 28:11Speaker 4: about my community humility. We're at war right now. A
- 28:14Speaker 4: lot of things are going on and people don't understand.
- 28:16Speaker 4: If nothing else transparency, somebody that's going to speak up
- 28:19Speaker 4: and speak out and let guys, know what's going on,
- 28:21Speaker 4: a lot of people are not knowing what's and pay attention,
- 28:25Speaker 4: pay attention what's going on because this is some trying
- 28:27Speaker 4: times and ten years ago it may not be a
- 28:29Speaker 4: space for doctor have live. But right now in the
- 28:31Speaker 4: day and age, they need someone that's going to be unafraid,
- 28:35Speaker 4: unafraid on bought to speak up and speak out for
- 28:38Speaker 4: our people. And I can't think of anyone better to
- 28:40Speaker 4: do that.
- 28:41Speaker 3: You heard it here first, y'all.
- 28:43Speaker 7: Exclusive, Hey to the people, listen, we have to get
- 28:49Speaker 7: into Mariti medicine.
- 28:51Speaker 3: What big about you? Girls? Y'all don't sleep. Every season gets.
- 28:57Speaker 7: Better, at better, at better, and you guys are doing
- 29:00Speaker 7: such a fantastic job keeping us talking. The show is
- 29:04Speaker 7: doing extremely well this season. Congratulations, you know listen to
- 29:09Speaker 7: be in the game for twelve seasons and to beat
- 29:13Speaker 7: Potomac at the ratings.
- 29:15Speaker 5: Oh lord, you will not let them let them people down.
- 29:17Speaker 5: You won't let them down.
- 29:19Speaker 3: Have you heard from Giselle?
- 29:20Speaker 7: Since the records and the proof and the timeline and
- 29:24Speaker 7: the receipts and the evidence show that she actually did
- 29:28Speaker 7: say what she said, did you get an apology?
- 29:30Speaker 3: DM? Texts or flowers?
- 29:32Speaker 2: You know, I always don't check my DM, so I
- 29:34Speaker 2: could be a little bit behind. But I did not
- 29:35Speaker 2: get any flowers to my beautiful home. However, I did
- 29:38Speaker 2: see somewhere someone sent to me that her and my
- 29:42Speaker 2: gud toar war Robin. They did apologize to the Caz
- 29:46Speaker 2: of course, married to medicine.
- 29:48Speaker 5: So that's well enough for me.
- 29:50Speaker 2: Yeah, well enough, Yeah, nice political campaign.
- 30:01Speaker 6: I will tell you this. They told me. When people pause,
- 30:03Speaker 6: don't you say not another word?
- 30:04Speaker 2: They say that they waiting for you to say something
- 30:06Speaker 2: else and.
- 30:07Speaker 6: Mess it up and just be quiet waiting. He's waiting
- 30:11Speaker 6: for you.
- 30:12Speaker 5: And now that's all I asked as well, all as well.
- 30:16Speaker 3: Why is it all well with y'all LaToya? What is
- 30:20Speaker 3: what is going on with y'all at Toya this season? Listen,
- 30:24Speaker 3: you guys are in Jamaica.
- 30:26Speaker 7: And doctor Jackie has appointed Toya to be the leader
- 30:32Speaker 7: with the med Gals exactly, and you two ain't seeing
- 30:36Speaker 7: it for Toya having a job.
- 30:39Speaker 2: So to me, actually, I was available to hear her
- 30:43Speaker 2: out in Jamaica. To be honest with you, I was
- 30:45Speaker 2: available to hear her out. I think what has happened
- 30:48Speaker 2: here over the years with the Medgala now that was
- 30:51Speaker 2: our third year of doing it. I think that the ladies,
- 30:55Speaker 2: and this is in unisnse right, that she didn't support
- 30:59Speaker 2: That was the senses across the board.
- 31:01Speaker 5: You know.
- 31:01Speaker 2: Now, I wasn't there the first time around her. I
- 31:04Speaker 2: came in.
- 31:04Speaker 5: I tiptoed towards the end.
- 31:06Speaker 2: But you know the girls on my desk, you know,
- 31:09Speaker 2: I got off my red across my desk right.
- 31:11Speaker 5: That the lady was not supportive. And then too she
- 31:14Speaker 5: was not supportive.
- 31:15Speaker 2: And so I think the ladies wanted to say, hey,
- 31:17Speaker 2: we were trying to verbally tell you that it wasn't
- 31:20Speaker 2: doctor Jackie's event, because she thought, well, you know, why
- 31:23Speaker 2: do I have to pay for doctor Jackie's event.
- 31:24Speaker 5: Doctor Jackie don't pay for any of my events.
- 31:26Speaker 2: And I was trying to say to her personally, I
- 31:28Speaker 2: know me, I will say, no, it's not Jackie's event,
- 31:31Speaker 2: it's our event as a collective. Jackie is just the
- 31:35Speaker 2: hem of it right now, right And she just couldn't
- 31:38Speaker 2: get that through her skull.
- 31:40Speaker 5: She just couldn't get it.
- 31:41Speaker 2: And so with that being said, the girl said, well,
- 31:43Speaker 2: you know what, it's better than show or than to
- 31:45Speaker 2: tell them. And so that's why they decided to have
- 31:48Speaker 2: her to be appointed. The chairperson is.
- 31:51Speaker 4: I'm not letting this go. I do not think that
- 31:54Speaker 4: Toy is a fool like Simone said I was. She
- 31:57Speaker 4: saw the invitation and always said the ladies of Marriati Medicine,
- 32:00Speaker 4: Toya is no fool.
- 32:01Speaker 3: So Toya, she's not a fool.
- 32:04Speaker 6: Not like me. She's not a fool. But no, no, no,
- 32:08Speaker 6: I'm just laughing off with what Simone has said.
- 32:10Speaker 4: Listen, I ain't gonna let this shit go it bird,
- 32:12Speaker 4: and I'm not trying to use profanity.
- 32:15Speaker 7: You revealed, some would say exposed that doctor Jackie told
- 32:20Speaker 7: you that Toya was not doing a good job leading
- 32:25Speaker 7: the mad Gala, and you put doctor Jackie on the spot.
- 32:31Speaker 7: I thought we were in church because it was quite
- 32:32Speaker 7: as a church mouse. She didn't say anything. You know,
- 32:36Speaker 7: the girls feel that you have doctor Jackie's back, and
- 32:41Speaker 7: she never defends you. I want to ask bag this question, though,
- 32:51Speaker 7: Let your chairman ask. So the girls feel that doctor
- 33:00Speaker 7: Jackie h skates around easily. Hence they said you took
- 33:06Speaker 7: her chair at the reunion.
- 33:07Speaker 3: So why don't.
- 33:09Speaker 2: Try to take anything from anyone. What's for me is
- 33:12Speaker 2: for me. That's how I see it. Yeah, So I
- 33:14Speaker 2: don't take anything from.
- 33:15Speaker 7: Anyone because after eleven seasons, you said.
- 33:21Speaker 2: Well that was that was that was the seat that
- 33:23Speaker 2: the people had appointed to me.
- 33:25Speaker 3: Okay, when doctor Hevenley.
- 33:32Speaker 7: She got she got qualified up and elected to sit
- 33:35Speaker 7: in that seat, y'all.
- 33:36Speaker 3: It was gooded by Academy of Production.
- 33:40Speaker 7: So with that being said, when doctor Heavenly revealed that
- 33:45Speaker 7: doctor Jackie feels that Toya it's not doing a good
- 33:48Speaker 7: job at this and even intimated that Jackie gave Toya
- 33:53Speaker 7: this so that she could fail, because we all know,
- 33:56Speaker 7: well you all feel like she would do.
- 33:58Speaker 2: You know, we it was never about her feeling. It
- 34:03Speaker 2: was about her learning a lessons.
- 34:10Speaker 3: Make sure it was a su lesson.
- 34:13Speaker 7: Do you think that Heavily was just fed up from
- 34:16Speaker 7: always protecting Jackie because Heavily never gets that protection of return.
- 34:21Speaker 5: I do, yes, That's exactly how it is.
- 34:24Speaker 2: I think, And I and I and listen, we we
- 34:27Speaker 2: we stand in support with Jackie.
- 34:29Speaker 5: We love Jackie.
- 34:30Speaker 2: But I talked to Heavenly, you know, and we're not
- 34:32Speaker 2: talking about Jackie because she is a friend of ours.
- 34:35Speaker 2: But I try to help Heavily to understand. You just
- 34:37Speaker 2: have to love your friends and know what type of
- 34:41Speaker 2: friends they are. Right, you know you have some friends
- 34:44Speaker 2: who are like absolutely amazing at this right, And when
- 34:47Speaker 2: you need someone to call on and to cry too,
- 34:49Speaker 2: then that is the person you call. Right when you
- 34:52Speaker 2: need someone to strap on their boots and put that
- 34:54Speaker 2: all black on and ride out, that's the person you call.
- 34:57Speaker 2: Well you need someone to possibly say, you know what
- 34:59Speaker 2: I'm thinking about this new business and you know, what
- 35:01Speaker 2: do you think about this idea, then that's the person
- 35:03Speaker 2: to call. So it's it's it's for me. It's about
- 35:06Speaker 2: understanding the strength of your friend. That's how I explain
- 35:10Speaker 2: that to heavenly.
- 35:10Speaker 7: What is doctor Jackie strength? As a cast member of
- 35:14Speaker 7: American Medicine.
- 35:16Speaker 5: Jackie's strength.
- 35:17Speaker 2: I think you know they hired Jackie initially because it
- 35:21Speaker 2: was word around town was Jackie was the person who
- 35:24Speaker 2: had a lot of celebrities that she had delivered a
- 35:26Speaker 2: lot of a lot of celebrities babies, and I think
- 35:30Speaker 2: they wanted that. I think they they were attracted to that,
- 35:34Speaker 2: and that's one of the reasons why I think they
- 35:36Speaker 2: selected Jackie. Now, she's very smart, she's excellent at what
- 35:39Speaker 2: she does. She really cares. She was my doctor state side.
- 35:42Speaker 2: As I was going through my IVF journey, she did
- 35:44Speaker 2: all of my tracing and tracking uh and I saw
- 35:47Speaker 2: where you know, she cares about her patients. We prayed
- 35:50Speaker 2: together a number of times. She was available to me.
- 35:53Speaker 2: So she's she's an excellent doctor.
- 35:56Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 35:56Speaker 3: Is she an excellent reality star?
- 35:58Speaker 2: Is she an excellent reality start? It depends on what
- 36:00Speaker 2: you're looking for in reality star.
- 36:01Speaker 6: Can I can I say something now please?
- 36:04Speaker 4: What I would like to say is Jackie has been
- 36:07Speaker 4: an amazing friend to me. She has been there for
- 36:10Speaker 4: me when nobody else has been, unlike Qua Quad in
- 36:14Speaker 4: a different way. Quad has been so supportive publicly and
- 36:18Speaker 4: you know and everything. But Jackie is public and Behanxi
- 36:22Speaker 4: and all of all.
- 36:23Speaker 5: Of the things.
- 36:25Speaker 4: And I'm afraid about this that I'm gonna be very
- 36:27Speaker 4: honest with you guys. I was really upset with Jackie
- 36:29Speaker 4: at one point because she would not speak up and
- 36:33Speaker 4: tell her truth, especially at the reunion. She chose to
- 36:36Speaker 4: coddle Simone. She chose to do whatever she needed to
- 36:39Speaker 4: do to make Simone feel better. But you have to understand,
- 36:42Speaker 4: my friend, she's going to tell a lie when it
- 36:45Speaker 4: actually benefits you and makes you feel better. She's going
- 36:47Speaker 4: to act away when she feels that you need her,
- 36:50Speaker 4: like Simone needed her mentally and emotionally at the reunion.
- 36:53Speaker 4: I will never take anything away from doctor Jackie because
- 36:56Speaker 4: she's been there for me, just like Quad has. But
- 37:00Speaker 4: everybody has their line on this show. Jackie has always
- 37:03Speaker 4: been the one that wanted to stay pulled up even
- 37:05Speaker 4: when she couldn't be. Jackie is always the one that
- 37:08Speaker 4: wanted to be the mother to pull people back together.
- 37:10Speaker 6: This is a TV show.
- 37:12Speaker 4: Outside the show, just like in my candidacy, we are
- 37:14Speaker 4: different people, right. Jackie has drawn a line on what
- 37:17Speaker 4: she would do on television, right, just like my line
- 37:21Speaker 4: is to never disrespect my husband. I respect that she
- 37:24Speaker 4: respects me in that and I just don't have any
- 37:28Speaker 4: ill feelings. And when I do speak up for doctor Jackie,
- 37:31Speaker 4: I don't mind doing it. I almost want to do it.
- 37:34Speaker 4: So if I'm doing what I want to do and
- 37:35Speaker 4: she's wanted, then we have a mutual friendship now, right.
- 37:39Speaker 4: But I am not going to lie. I felt some
- 37:41Speaker 4: kind of way at the reunion, and so when Toya
- 37:44Speaker 4: read the filth out of Jackie, I said idly by
- 37:48Speaker 4: and maybe I was wrong that for being in my emotions.
- 37:52Speaker 4: But Jackie, I wanted to. I wanted to, but I
- 37:57Speaker 4: just couldn't based on what had transpired. But Jackie has
- 38:01Speaker 4: been an amazing friend to me. She's maxed out on
- 38:04Speaker 4: my campaign. She's been a supportive in the way. And
- 38:06Speaker 4: Quad will say this as well, you got different kind
- 38:09Speaker 4: of friends. My husband said to me, you got different
- 38:12Speaker 4: kind of friends. Jackie's not capable of being the kind
- 38:15Speaker 4: of friend that Quad has been to me. Jackie's not
- 38:18Speaker 4: capable of doing it, just like I'm not capable of
- 38:20Speaker 4: certain things, you know, and.
- 38:22Speaker 5: I respect it.
- 38:23Speaker 4: I love Jackie as a friend and I will always
- 38:25Speaker 4: love her as a friend, just like I would Quad.
- 38:28Speaker 5: I love you man, Thank you. I love you too.
- 38:31Speaker 6: I receive that and I love someone too transparent.
- 38:34Speaker 4: Whatever she got going on mentally, physically, in her in
- 38:37Speaker 4: her space, I feel like Simona is going through something
- 38:41Speaker 4: and it has nothing to do with me, and my
- 38:43Speaker 4: heart goes out to her.
- 38:45Speaker 5: I did not know.
- 38:48Speaker 3: I do want to ask you guys this.
- 38:50Speaker 7: You said you feel sorry for someone you saw that
- 38:52Speaker 7: she was going through this season. You two were very
- 38:56Speaker 7: instrumental season five after reunion, and Simone and Cisa were
- 39:02Speaker 7: on the verge of divorce, y'all shed tears. Y'all spoke
- 39:05Speaker 7: to them backstage on the stage that was seven years ago.
- 39:13Speaker 7: To see their conversations this season. You are somebody who
- 39:20Speaker 7: went through a divorce and that was very tough for
- 39:22Speaker 7: you to file. It was very tough for you to
- 39:24Speaker 7: go through it, and it was tough for you to
- 39:26Speaker 7: have to experience experience, experience him.
- 39:31Speaker 3: Back on the show with his wife. You have to
- 39:34Speaker 3: go through all of that.
- 39:35Speaker 2: The people loved the baby. They thought they was gonna
- 39:37Speaker 2: like man. So with that baby set a.
- 39:40Speaker 5: Top over there. There was no baby. That was a
- 39:42Speaker 5: little twenty two little pig soup.
- 39:45Speaker 3: Okay, as a woman who went through divorce herself on television,
- 39:52Speaker 3: on television when the world told you to say, do
- 39:58Speaker 3: you too?
- 39:59Speaker 7: Sometime times I feel like, based on what we're seeing
- 40:04Speaker 7: seven years later, that maybe they should do what's best
- 40:10Speaker 7: for them, and if that is going through a divorce,
- 40:14Speaker 7: being divorced, we should allow them to do that.
- 40:18Speaker 5: I think everyone needs to do what's best for them.
- 40:20Speaker 2: No one is twenty four to seven under the roofs
- 40:23Speaker 2: of anybody else's house. It's just not I don't agree
- 40:27Speaker 2: with people pushing people to stay together. You might hush,
- 40:32Speaker 2: go ahead, you might ask a few questions that girl
- 40:34Speaker 2: and not pushing.
- 40:37Speaker 1: You.
- 40:37Speaker 2: May you may kind of just say, hey, let me
- 40:40Speaker 2: ask a few questions just so I can kind of
- 40:43Speaker 2: see where you are, maybe help you to see where
- 40:45Speaker 2: you are and to kind of see if there's a
- 40:47Speaker 2: place of emotion where you can find that tenderness for
- 40:50Speaker 2: your spouse again. Right, But I don't agree with anybody
- 40:53Speaker 2: pushing anyone to stay anywhere for me, but with.
- 40:57Speaker 3: All due respects, it appeared that got push them and
- 41:00Speaker 3: stay together.
- 41:01Speaker 2: Well, watching it, we encouraged that if love is not
- 41:08Speaker 2: done here, right, if it's not one hundred percent done here,
- 41:11Speaker 2: then we can we got some space to work it out,
- 41:13Speaker 2: to see things through. With Simone, I think Simone is
- 41:17Speaker 2: a hard worker, She is a loving mom. I think
- 41:21Speaker 2: she is a very supportive wife. And what I would say,
- 41:26Speaker 2: and seeing the scene this season when they were around
- 41:30Speaker 2: the table having family dinner, it hurt me, man and
- 41:33Speaker 2: I felt what someone was coming from, like you're giving
- 41:36Speaker 2: everything to your family and no one is appreciating you,
- 41:42Speaker 2: no one is giving you support. That hurts, That hurts,
- 41:46Speaker 2: and then you're only as good or they make you
- 41:48Speaker 2: feel like you're only as good as what you give them.
- 41:51Speaker 5: I didn't like that. I didn't like that at all.
- 41:54Speaker 2: And Michael and I had a conversation when we were
- 41:57Speaker 2: at the reunion and yeah, it's Michael and we that's
- 42:02Speaker 2: my baby, Like, that's my baby. He loves miss Quiet
- 42:05Speaker 2: Honey as he should. But I said, you know, be
- 42:09Speaker 2: easy on your mom. Love on your mom a little
- 42:12Speaker 2: bit more. Treat it well, don't don't do what you're doing,
- 42:16Speaker 2: stop what you're doing, and make sure she knows that
- 42:19Speaker 2: you love her. He said, I got it. I got him, squie,
- 42:22Speaker 2: I got you. I am And he said he would,
- 42:24Speaker 2: he would do better. And I believe that he's doing
- 42:26Speaker 2: better by his mom.
- 42:27Speaker 3: Do you think Cisa will do better by his wife?
- 42:29Speaker 6: I do, I do.
- 42:31Speaker 5: I see. So everyone knows that that's my brother.
- 42:34Speaker 4: Uh.
- 42:35Speaker 5: He's a great guy.
- 42:36Speaker 2: Uh.
- 42:36Speaker 5: He loves on his sons.
- 42:38Speaker 4: Uh.
- 42:38Speaker 2: He loves Simone. I think that he needs to operate
- 42:41Speaker 2: in action when it comes to Simone. I think he
- 42:45Speaker 2: needs to start being more physically there when it comes
- 42:48Speaker 2: to Simon and the boys and being supportive of Simone.
- 42:51Speaker 2: See the boys will one day get married. They're gone
- 42:53Speaker 2: that's it. But Simone has always been here and it's
- 42:56Speaker 2: about Simone and Cecil. You know, nothing should come in
- 43:00Speaker 2: between that covenant, and I think not even children, right,
- 43:04Speaker 2: So I want.
- 43:05Speaker 5: To encourage Cecil.
- 43:07Speaker 2: Cecil, get in there are your damn good man, and
- 43:11Speaker 2: you need to step up, and you need to show
- 43:13Speaker 2: your wife how good and how much and how much
- 43:15Speaker 2: of the world you think of her, because she's been
- 43:17Speaker 2: working hard.
- 43:17Speaker 5: And she said a sacrifice a lot.
- 43:20Speaker 3: What are your thoughts.
- 43:20Speaker 7: Do you think they should work on their marriage or
- 43:24Speaker 7: do you think sometimes.
- 43:26Speaker 3: You just have to throw on the child.
- 43:28Speaker 4: I think that yes, when we actually encourage someone to stay.
- 43:33Speaker 4: I think the reason she stated is because she wanted to.
- 43:35Speaker 4: I don't think that we could have made her do
- 43:37Speaker 4: anything she didn't want to do. There's nothing you could
- 43:40Speaker 4: do or say to make me leave my husband. Now,
- 43:42Speaker 4: I will say this, I understand both sides of it.
- 43:46Speaker 4: I understand this Amone works very hard, you know, and
- 43:48Speaker 4: it's very difficult of being an African American woman working
- 43:52Speaker 4: hard and not seeing your spouse work as hard as
- 43:55Speaker 4: you do, and how it's for trade and my heart
- 43:59Speaker 4: goes out to her. But also I would say, Cecil,
- 44:02Speaker 4: it has to be very difficult for Cecil to watch
- 44:05Speaker 4: the show, and I'm not understanding what is actually what
- 44:09Speaker 4: I saw on the show. That he was portrayed as
- 44:12Speaker 4: a man that does not contribute financially or emotional support
- 44:19Speaker 4: on the show. That's what they you know, and for
- 44:21Speaker 4: him to look at that when I know that's not
- 44:23Speaker 4: the case. I know that he's a hard worker. I
- 44:26Speaker 4: know that he loves Simone. I know that he loves
- 44:29Speaker 4: his children. I think we have to take time out
- 44:31Speaker 4: and think about how he feels as well, because he's
- 44:34Speaker 4: a good guy. He's a good guy. Even when someone
- 44:37Speaker 4: was cursing out my man, it was very difficult. I
- 44:39Speaker 4: did not don't think that say anything derogatory about Cecil
- 44:43Speaker 4: because he's such a great guy. But I do understand
- 44:47Speaker 4: Simone as well. You know, when you're when you're.
- 44:50Speaker 5: Dead, say we at least my man worked.
- 44:51Speaker 4: This was like something no, no, no, I said, you
- 44:53Speaker 4: don't talk about man because you can't win this with
- 44:55Speaker 4: My husband's a whole fucking doctor, That's what I said.
- 44:59Speaker 4: But I said you couldn't win because she was saying
- 45:00Speaker 4: all kinds of derogultivety things about my husband. Remember, Oh yes, Okay,
- 45:04Speaker 4: that's before she pushed me, but go ahead.
- 45:06Speaker 6: But anyway, she.
- 45:07Speaker 3: Made it seem like Damon doesn't pay bills.
- 45:09Speaker 6: She said he didn't.
- 45:10Speaker 4: He didn't say she said he didn't pay his bills
- 45:12Speaker 4: on time. And and you know, in my mind, you know,
- 45:14Speaker 4: my old me would have said, but he can pay
- 45:16Speaker 4: a bill. He makes the money to pay a bill.
- 45:19Speaker 6: But uh, you know, me trying to understand Cecil and
- 45:23Speaker 6: where he's at right now. And you know, I do
- 45:26Speaker 6: think that he does have a job.
- 45:27Speaker 5: You know, it works.
- 45:29Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think that he does what he can,
- 45:32Speaker 4: you know, And I think it's very difficult to be
- 45:34Speaker 4: married to somebody who who you know, probably is more
- 45:41Speaker 4: successful in layman's terms, uh, you know, educationally and financially,
- 45:46Speaker 4: for a black man to do that, I.
- 45:48Speaker 5: Mean, you know, it's a graduator from Morehouse.
- 45:50Speaker 6: I'm saying he's not a doctor, know what I'm saying.
- 45:52Speaker 6: You know he has a degree.
- 45:53Speaker 4: Yes, I'm just saying, as a man point of view,
- 45:56Speaker 4: this is my perception of what I think it is.
- 45:58Speaker 4: I think that's very difficult for man to For me,
- 46:05Speaker 4: my husband told me it would be very difficult if
- 46:07Speaker 4: he wasn't a doctor being married to somebody as successful
- 46:09Speaker 4: as I am, it would probably bother him his ego,
- 46:12Speaker 4: his manhood and things of that such.
- 46:14Speaker 6: So I think that's true for a lot of men,
- 46:15Speaker 6: and that for.
- 46:16Speaker 3: Most men, men want to be the breadwinner, and they're
- 46:18Speaker 3: really they.
- 46:19Speaker 6: Want to be the bread men. But not only that.
- 46:20Speaker 4: I think a lot of times it may be okay
- 46:23Speaker 4: if the woman could be quiet about it, if the
- 46:25Speaker 4: woman is not reminding them constantly.
- 46:27Speaker 2: That I do this, I do that, But you wouldn't
- 46:29Speaker 2: have to remind them if they didn't so frequently. Forget now,
- 46:33Speaker 2: let's get into that.
- 46:34Speaker 5: We could have a conversation.
- 46:35Speaker 2: So men need to always show appreciation, sharing with you
- 46:38Speaker 2: for the hard work and dedication that a woman is
- 46:41Speaker 2: giving and what she's doing, and if she's helping to
- 46:44Speaker 2: elevate that man.
- 46:45Speaker 5: You have to appreciate that.
- 46:50Speaker 7: You're very passionate about this topic too, because obviously we
- 46:54Speaker 7: know that you were married to a doctor.
- 46:58Speaker 3: You were brave and courageous enough.
- 47:02Speaker 7: To divorce, yes, And the reason why I say brave
- 47:05Speaker 7: and courageous is because I do feel like there's some
- 47:09Speaker 7: women who will love to divorce their husbands.
- 47:12Speaker 5: Absolutely.
- 47:13Speaker 6: Do you guys know any who I mean someone said herself,
- 47:18Speaker 6: Yeah she did.
- 47:18Speaker 2: That was at Brady's birthday dinner. But I think, you know,
- 47:22Speaker 2: she could have been speaking out of anger. A lot
- 47:23Speaker 2: of times when people are upset, they say things that
- 47:25Speaker 2: they really don't mean.
- 47:26Speaker 3: You know that you don't think she meant it?
- 47:28Speaker 5: No, I think I actually I.
- 47:29Speaker 4: Think sometimes TV it is easier to stay. That's what
- 47:33Speaker 4: I would say for some people.
- 47:36Speaker 2: I think that's where your question. You were leading going
- 47:38Speaker 2: in that direction with the question. So for me, yes, yes,
- 47:41Speaker 2: I decided listen, here's the thing. Well, love is love
- 47:44Speaker 2: and is great, and what love is not it's not
- 47:46Speaker 2: so good, then it's over.
- 47:48Speaker 5: That's just how I look.
- 47:48Speaker 4: Do you believe that there's some women that are not
- 47:51Speaker 4: as strong as you that really want to leave their relationship,
- 47:53Speaker 4: but they stay in it, not in general, but even
- 47:56Speaker 4: on reality TV because they don't want the the the
- 47:59Speaker 4: I failure any of course.
- 48:02Speaker 6: I think you see anybody on our show that have
- 48:05Speaker 6: that that.
- 48:06Speaker 2: I think this I think on camera and off camera
- 48:09Speaker 2: women in general. You know, when you feel like, you know,
- 48:11Speaker 2: what's my family gonna think? You know, you know I
- 48:14Speaker 2: am I gonna look like a failure and embarrass the
- 48:16Speaker 2: name of the family. You know, I'm in this marriage
- 48:20Speaker 2: and I hate it and this person is no longer
- 48:21Speaker 2: good to me, But I feel like I got to
- 48:23Speaker 2: stay for the for face to save face. I'm not
- 48:25Speaker 2: about saving face and I'm not about being fake. If
- 48:28Speaker 2: it's not working for me, then it's pretty much over.
- 48:30Speaker 2: And that's just how I look at it. You know,
- 48:32Speaker 2: I feel like there's this life is so short. I
- 48:36Speaker 2: do not see myself wasting time on trying to force
- 48:39Speaker 2: something to work when it's just not working.
- 48:42Speaker 5: I don't have that type of time. I'm forty four
- 48:44Speaker 5: years old.
- 48:44Speaker 2: You understand what I'm saying, and I will continue to
- 48:47Speaker 2: make that decision and make the happy choice for me.
- 48:49Speaker 5: It's just what it is.
- 48:50Speaker 4: And AD was stronger than a lot of people would be.
- 48:55Speaker 6: You know what I mean. For me, I would never
- 48:56Speaker 6: believe everything I need.
- 48:58Speaker 5: But you have the public criticis you know you got
- 49:00Speaker 5: to get that anyway. You know what I mean.
- 49:02Speaker 2: I mean, you're never going to satisfy everyone, and you
- 49:05Speaker 2: shouldn't even be in a business of trying to satisfy,
- 49:07Speaker 2: not looking for someone's approval.
- 49:09Speaker 5: You know what I mean. You shouldn't live for you,
- 49:11Speaker 5: and I always live for me. And that's just it.
- 49:13Speaker 2: When my when my marriage wasn't working, it wasn't working,
- 49:16Speaker 2: it was time for me to go. And guess what,
- 49:19Speaker 2: I was able to let him free. And now he's
- 49:21Speaker 2: found happiness, right, And that's that's awesome, right. And I
- 49:25Speaker 2: even was able to free myself from that situation and
- 49:27Speaker 2: I found happiness, and I've you know, you know, we'll
- 49:30Speaker 2: find it again, you know, and I might find it
- 49:32Speaker 2: five more times after that. You have to say what
- 49:34Speaker 2: I'm saying, but it's I don't believe in being stuck anywhere, right.
- 49:38Speaker 7: I want to talk to you about that because listen,
- 49:40Speaker 7: one of the biggest storylines we've seen this season is
- 49:43Speaker 7: your IVF journey.
- 49:44Speaker 3: Kirk and I had a chance to meet him last year.
- 49:49Speaker 3: We all were together Kathy Hilton's Christmas party, had a
- 49:53Speaker 3: good time. It was a great time. Man and I
- 49:55Speaker 3: met Kirk. Kirk was lovely. I met him one time
- 49:58Speaker 3: last season. We were all for YouTube.
- 50:02Speaker 7: This season, a lot of the quas fraud. They did
- 50:08Speaker 7: not like him at all. They thought he spoke to
- 50:11Speaker 7: you crazy. They thought he was very insensitive to the journey.
- 50:17Speaker 7: I even said on my platform, mother than I lied
- 50:20Speaker 7: with Dustin Claudia in Blue that I know you personally,
- 50:24Speaker 7: and when I would watch the scenes, I know my
- 50:27Speaker 7: girls in love and I said, well, maybe they just
- 50:30Speaker 7: have a little tip, But I said, she loves him.
- 50:34Speaker 7: And there's not one person breathing who could tell me
- 50:36Speaker 7: that when it came to Kirk.
- 50:38Speaker 3: There wasn't love there. It was love there.
- 50:41Speaker 7: We found out through Kirk, unfortunately that you two did
- 50:45Speaker 7: break up. He did say the luck ran out when
- 50:52Speaker 7: other women were flirting with him, when we all just assumed, you, guys,
- 50:56Speaker 7: we're still together. What would wrong in your relationship with
- 51:02Speaker 7: Kirk to where you decided to break up with him
- 51:05Speaker 7: or did he break up with you?
- 51:06Speaker 2: This is what I'm going to say about that, and
- 51:08Speaker 2: I won't spend very much time on it, right because
- 51:10Speaker 2: the past is just that, you know, and I look
- 51:12Speaker 2: to the future and my life is great now. Right.
- 51:15Speaker 5: Was there real love there?
- 51:16Speaker 2: I completely loved him completely, didn't play about my love
- 51:21Speaker 2: for right. Unfortunately, it just didn't work out. In love
- 51:27Speaker 2: sometimes it's just not enough. Right As of right now,
- 51:34Speaker 2: I'm single and moving forward.
- 51:37Speaker 6: And from South Africa, baby, yes, just got.
- 51:41Speaker 2: Bad from South Africa, you know, and you know, life
- 51:45Speaker 2: is what you make it. You know, there's no need
- 51:47Speaker 2: to stay in a place again that if either of
- 51:50Speaker 2: us are not making the most of it in a
- 51:52Speaker 2: good way, this is probably time for us to call
- 51:54Speaker 2: it quitz.
- 51:55Speaker 3: Did you call it quits?
- 51:56Speaker 5: First? It was mutual. It was a mutual situation.
- 52:00Speaker 2: And when we go back to saying what was that,
- 52:04Speaker 2: luck ran out. I never worry about luck again, Like
- 52:07Speaker 2: I said earlier, I'm not lucky. I'm blessed, So I
- 52:10Speaker 2: don't never worry about luck.
- 52:12Speaker 3: Do you feel that Kirk was insensitive when it came
- 52:17Speaker 3: to the journey that.
- 52:18Speaker 2: You were going with, You know, I think he thought
- 52:25Speaker 2: that it was just gonna be a one time thing,
- 52:27Speaker 2: you know, and we we just we don't have that power,
- 52:32Speaker 2: We don't have that control, you know. We we don't
- 52:36Speaker 2: know if it's going to take the first time that,
- 52:38Speaker 2: you know, and for us it was four times we
- 52:41Speaker 2: did IVF and aren't getting the eggs extracted and the fertilization.
- 52:45Speaker 5: And all that.
- 52:46Speaker 2: But I think he was thinking, well, you know, this
- 52:49Speaker 2: may not be so difficult. It will be a one
- 52:51Speaker 2: time thing and then we'll have this baby and everything
- 52:53Speaker 2: will be great. And it took a little longer, you know,
- 52:56Speaker 2: it took uh three more times after financially more money,
- 53:02Speaker 2: did you.
- 53:03Speaker 3: Was all your money of the you guys split at
- 53:04Speaker 3: fifty to fifty?
- 53:06Speaker 5: No, he paid for the first one, Okay, yeah, yeah,
- 53:09Speaker 5: you know, and so that's about the size of it.
- 53:13Speaker 2: You know, I think that he just I think sometimes
- 53:16Speaker 2: men don't completely understand the full rem of what it
- 53:23Speaker 2: takes when a woman is going through IVF. You know,
- 53:26Speaker 2: because you can go through this and not get any eggs.
- 53:29Speaker 2: You know, you can go through it and only get
- 53:32Speaker 2: one egg, and so you don't want to just put
- 53:34Speaker 2: everything into this one egg. Of course, you want to
- 53:36Speaker 2: get as many eggs as possible, and henceforth we got
- 53:39Speaker 2: four of them, and so it just takes a little longer,
- 53:42Speaker 2: and you know, there's a lot that comes to with it,
- 53:45Speaker 2: you know, for people who say, oh, it wasn't real, Yes,
- 53:49Speaker 2: everything that we did was real. You know, he and
- 53:52Speaker 2: I worked together for a year before I even brought
- 53:55Speaker 2: him to television. You know, we traveled the globe together.
- 53:57Speaker 2: We're very very close, very close. So it's preposterous to
- 54:02Speaker 2: think that it was a fake relationship. It's even more
- 54:06Speaker 2: asinine to think that I would put my body through
- 54:09Speaker 2: the rigorous shock of what it takes to go through
- 54:14Speaker 2: IVF not only one time, but four times.
- 54:17Speaker 5: It's just ridiculous. You know, everything for me was very real.
- 54:22Speaker 3: Are you still going to go through your IVF journey?
- 54:25Speaker 6: You know what?
- 54:25Speaker 2: Right now, I'm enjoying life. There would be a time
- 54:28Speaker 2: where I would walk. It would it wouldn't matter what
- 54:31Speaker 2: if I was at the grocery store or out shopping
- 54:34Speaker 2: or at the airport, I would just get stuck on
- 54:37Speaker 2: looking at a baby and just really just follow this
- 54:40Speaker 2: this family like across the hall. As late, I found
- 54:48Speaker 2: myself doing that actually at the airport in South Africa.
- 54:54Speaker 5: So are there other options? Adoption?
- 54:56Speaker 2: Almost certainly, like there's adoptions, There is somebody else, oh Urrogancy.
- 55:02Speaker 5: For sure.
- 55:03Speaker 2: There's something else that I actually learned while I was
- 55:06Speaker 2: going through my process in Ghana. There was a young
- 55:09Speaker 2: girl in the in the recovery room with me and
- 55:11Speaker 2: I was I woke up and I was like, wow, man,
- 55:13Speaker 2: she's really young.
- 55:14Speaker 5: And I was like, what's your name? How old are you?
- 55:16Speaker 5: She's like I'm twenty two, And I'm like, are you
- 55:18Speaker 5: going through IVF?
- 55:20Speaker 2: You know, because that was my own that was my
- 55:21Speaker 2: thought process I'm thinking her reality, my reality can possibly
- 55:25Speaker 2: be her reality. And she said no, she says, I'm
- 55:27Speaker 2: donating gigs. Wow, that's something that's big right there. And
- 55:33Speaker 2: of course she was donating eggs and getting paid so
- 55:36Speaker 2: she can continue to help me.
- 55:39Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that could do. That could happen.
- 55:42Speaker 2: But what I do want women to understand is that
- 55:45Speaker 2: just because it doesn't happen for you the first, second, third, four, fifth,
- 55:48Speaker 2: sixty seven times, right, it only takes that one time.
- 55:52Speaker 2: It only takes that one and your last time is
- 55:54Speaker 2: not indicative of what can happen for you in the future.
- 55:58Speaker 2: So I am very very positive a power outlook on it.
- 56:01Speaker 2: And when God says it's time, it'll be time.
- 56:05Speaker 7: How did you feel when King made the comment under
- 56:10Speaker 7: our post when you spoke about the breakup and how
- 56:16Speaker 7: he announced it the first because a lot of people
- 56:18Speaker 7: felt that we only know you because of Quad. So
- 56:21Speaker 7: because Quad introduced you to us, give that woman the
- 56:24Speaker 7: right to introduce to us that y'all broke up. He
- 56:28Speaker 7: left the comment under the post thing for you to
- 56:30Speaker 7: be careful before he starts speaking out about some stuff
- 56:33Speaker 7: and exposing people.
- 56:35Speaker 4: I don't know what he could expose because he doesn't
- 56:38Speaker 4: know anything about me. However, I will say that I'm
- 56:41Speaker 4: wishing everybody to just be happy.
- 56:43Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.
- 56:43Speaker 5: I want him to.
- 56:44Speaker 4: Move forward and be happy. I want Quad to be happy.
- 56:47Speaker 4: I do think they had something very special. I think
- 56:51Speaker 4: I did think high live him and I still do,
- 56:53Speaker 4: you know, And I hope he lives his life amazing,
- 56:57Speaker 4: just like I see Quad living an amazing life as well.
- 56:59Speaker 5: I think that's well said. Heavenly.
- 57:01Speaker 3: What was the last time that Kirk Hast reached out
- 57:04Speaker 3: to you?
- 57:08Speaker 4: Hm?
- 57:11Speaker 2: It was recent, very recent, maybe a few days ago,
- 57:20Speaker 2: saying what I don't I don't here, I don't indulge.
- 57:28Speaker 5: Listen, I don't indulge. You know. Here's the thing. I'm
- 57:33Speaker 5: I'm all in when I'm all in. I'm so in.
- 57:36Speaker 2: I'm so in when i'm all in. Sometimes I can
- 57:39Speaker 2: even be blinded that I'm so in. So when I'm
- 57:43Speaker 2: all out, when I'm out kind of all out.
- 57:46Speaker 7: Do you not not to belabor. I'm gonna move on
- 57:49Speaker 7: because I know you personally. When I watch these scenes,
- 57:52Speaker 7: I know you, so your eyes lit up like like
- 57:55Speaker 7: when when you're around Damon.
- 57:58Speaker 6: Hey, you know, my whole voice change that ain't.
- 58:01Speaker 3: The girl I talked to every boy, dad, who is that?
- 58:05Speaker 4: So you?
- 58:06Speaker 7: When you when you said, as a tourist woman, when
- 58:09Speaker 7: you're all in, you all in, and that's how tourists
- 58:11Speaker 7: women are. But sometimes when you're all in, you could
- 58:15Speaker 7: be blinded. Do you feel like you have blind spots
- 58:18Speaker 7: in your relationship with Kirk?
- 58:21Speaker 2: Love is beautiful and it's an amazing feeling. I would
- 58:25Speaker 2: encourage anyone to enjoy it.
- 58:29Speaker 5: That's what I'll say.
- 58:32Speaker 6: Hmm, you ain't gonna go nowhere with that.
- 58:37Speaker 7: Is coming up, and I know you get into at
- 58:40Speaker 7: the reunion, so I also want to make sure that
- 58:41Speaker 7: people watch the reunion now. But that being said, Toya
- 58:46Speaker 7: Butch Harris came on my podcast with Eugene and she
- 58:51Speaker 7: said that Eugene and Kirk are friends. They have a
- 58:55Speaker 7: great friendship. And she said she has a great friendship
- 58:59Speaker 7: with Kirk. She's so far follows him.
- 59:01Speaker 3: She also enlisted Kirk and his car company to have
- 59:07Speaker 3: her son for his sixteenth birthday party to you know,
- 59:09Speaker 3: get one of the vehicles from from Kirk.
- 59:12Speaker 5: That's a lot of talking about certain.
- 59:14Speaker 3: Things and I did ask her.
- 59:18Speaker 7: I said, oh, you said follow him because you know
- 59:23Speaker 7: they broke up and she said, we're friends. How did
- 59:28Speaker 7: you feel knowing that Toya is still keeping the friendship
- 59:33Speaker 7: with Kirk, because were you surprised that they even had
- 59:37Speaker 7: a friendship.
- 59:39Speaker 5: This is what I'll say to that. I think.
- 59:45Speaker 2: Eugene and he may have a budding relationship, fresh new
- 59:50Speaker 2: possibility there right.
- 59:52Speaker 5: I don't know.
- 59:52Speaker 2: Maybe even after they see this, they'll probably go and
- 59:54Speaker 2: hang out together, you know, to.
- 59:55Speaker 5: Try to seement it. But that's okay.
- 59:59Speaker 2: And reference to Toya, I think that it is very
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: difficult for Toya to support me.
- 1:00:09Speaker 5: It's very challenging for her to do that.
- 1:00:12Speaker 7: Uh.
- 1:00:12Speaker 2: And part of that is because I'm already that girl,
- 1:00:15Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying. So if she supports me,
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: then it's continuing to push me up a little bit higher,
- 1:00:20Speaker 2: and that just can't be.
- 1:00:22Speaker 5: She just can't give me that.
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: So she may give me a little bit of something,
- 1:00:26Speaker 2: but she'll never give it to me in its full glory.
- 1:00:29Speaker 2: The good thing about it is that I don't need it.
- 1:00:31Speaker 3: Boom, do you think you have the life that Toya wants?
- 1:00:36Speaker 5: You know, I think people find happiness in their own lives.
- 1:00:39Speaker 3: You know, what do you think happily.
- 1:00:45Speaker 4: I'm running for Congress District thirteen. Y'all did not want
- 1:00:47Speaker 4: to know what I think. Really, I really don't, because
- 1:00:50Speaker 4: I do have thoughts on it. Leave it alone, please don't.
- 1:00:54Speaker 2: On that same episode, Toya and I will say, I
- 1:00:58Speaker 2: think it when we're talking about Toy right and you're
- 1:01:02Speaker 2: talking a little bit about me and Tory in not relationship.
- 1:01:05Speaker 5: We're not beefing at all, and we're actually really cool
- 1:01:07Speaker 5: right now.
- 1:01:07Speaker 2: But I think that at any chance Toya could take
- 1:01:11Speaker 2: to think to think she's.
- 1:01:14Speaker 6: Going because no, no, no, you cannot listen.
- 1:01:18Speaker 4: Do you think that if Toya wanted to do you
- 1:01:22Speaker 4: think she's just such good friends with Kirk that she
- 1:01:24Speaker 4: got to hang out with him and do his cars
- 1:01:26Speaker 4: and all that.
- 1:01:27Speaker 6: Why do you think she's doing that? I'm just asking.
- 1:01:29Speaker 6: I just asked the questions why.
- 1:01:31Speaker 3: Well that was the I asked the same question too.
- 1:01:33Speaker 6: They just great friends that she got to go down
- 1:01:36Speaker 6: there and put on put on for that?
- 1:01:38Speaker 2: Well, I will or what what's for her son's birthday?
- 1:01:41Speaker 2: Let's let's you know, people and will do whatever for
- 1:01:44Speaker 2: their children. There's a lot you could do for your children.
- 1:01:47Speaker 5: People will do whatever they will for their kids, and
- 1:01:50Speaker 5: and that was a great perk.
- 1:01:52Speaker 7: No, well, Toya did say she was very confused by
- 1:01:54Speaker 7: the timeline of the breakup. Toya intimated that, you know,
- 1:02:00Speaker 7: so you and Kirk could have been broken up during filming,
- 1:02:04Speaker 7: and that you made some sort of deal with Kirk
- 1:02:08Speaker 7: to continue filming, although you two were already broken up,
- 1:02:13Speaker 7: and that could be the reason why we're seeing such
- 1:02:16Speaker 7: inks from Kirk during this season unlike last season, because
- 1:02:21Speaker 7: he's only there as a willing participant for your storyline.
- 1:02:26Speaker 7: She made lots of references in terms of she is
- 1:02:32Speaker 7: confused by the timeline the breakup. She wanted to know
- 1:02:36Speaker 7: it wasn't adding up, that the math wasn't mathing, and
- 1:02:39Speaker 7: intimated that you two were possibly broken up during filming
- 1:02:42Speaker 7: of season twelve.
- 1:02:42Speaker 5: Actually we were not. We broke up in the in
- 1:02:44Speaker 5: the last quarter of the year. What's up with your face?
- 1:02:50Speaker 7: You want to say something, No, I just wanted to
- 1:02:52Speaker 7: know your response to that in terms of you and
- 1:02:57Speaker 7: King were not because one thing we did see because
- 1:03:00Speaker 7: we know they do pick up interviews right and typically
- 1:03:03Speaker 7: when the husband's boyfriends Beyonce's are doing the interviews, they
- 1:03:08Speaker 7: have to be with the main cast member, which is
- 1:03:09Speaker 7: the woman, and we saw in the previous episode that
- 1:03:13Speaker 7: he was alone in the interview.
- 1:03:14Speaker 2: Yeah, those were unique situations, and I'm not going to
- 1:03:19Speaker 2: speak on his family, but he had a dear loss
- 1:03:22Speaker 2: in his family, and production wanted to get his viewpoint
- 1:03:26Speaker 2: of spending time in Jamaica because he's from Jamaica, of course,
- 1:03:30Speaker 2: and we actually did the couple's trip there, and.
- 1:03:33Speaker 5: Production's going to make it happen. You know, I was busy.
- 1:03:36Speaker 2: I was doing some other things that day, and then
- 1:03:38Speaker 2: I think I even was with Simone and see so
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: later on that evening, after I got done with some
- 1:03:43Speaker 2: of my affairs that I had to take care of.
- 1:03:45Speaker 7: How did you feel when she How did you feel
- 1:03:49Speaker 7: when Curtis said that he believes one of the reasons
- 1:03:53Speaker 7: why you weren't blessed to have a baby is because
- 1:03:56Speaker 7: you and King were living in sin Ah.
- 1:04:00Speaker 2: Yeah, well, we've already talked about this. I don't think
- 1:04:03Speaker 2: that Curtis was in position to make a judgment at
- 1:04:06Speaker 2: all on our relationship. In fact, I don't think anyone
- 1:04:10Speaker 2: is in position to make a call on our relationship.
- 1:04:15Speaker 5: Not the Harrises.
- 1:04:16Speaker 2: Well, I don't think Eugenie never has, but not Toya,
- 1:04:19Speaker 2: not Curtis, not anyone. I think the focus should be
- 1:04:22Speaker 2: on their own relationships. And that's just see it.
- 1:04:26Speaker 7: Twitter went a blaze and they all felt like Curtis,
- 1:04:30Speaker 7: the Bible also talks about infidelity.
- 1:04:34Speaker 5: Well, as I.
- 1:04:35Speaker 2: Said before, like I didn't know that Curtis was, you know,
- 1:04:38Speaker 2: Bible total scripture quoting.
- 1:04:42Speaker 5: It was new to me. It was new to me.
- 1:04:43Speaker 2: But again, like I said, I don't think it's fair
- 1:04:45Speaker 2: for anyone or I don't think anyone is qualified to
- 1:04:49Speaker 2: speak on my relationship.
- 1:04:51Speaker 7: Were you shocked when you saw Curtis reference the Bible
- 1:04:55Speaker 7: despite his public infidelity at the Atlanta Airport?
- 1:04:58Speaker 5: I hate your colors so much.
- 1:05:02Speaker 6: You know what I think you know? At this joint.
- 1:05:07Speaker 3: On the Conquest, I don't meet the GNC supplement.
- 1:05:17Speaker 4: Well, my god, today I will say this, I would say,
- 1:05:20Speaker 4: who was without sandcast the first one.
- 1:05:22Speaker 6: I think that we all have our imperfections.
- 1:05:25Speaker 4: I know I do, and uh yeah, And I think
- 1:05:28Speaker 4: that we all have been guilty of judging people when
- 1:05:31Speaker 4: we should not, and I don't I do not think
- 1:05:33Speaker 4: that Curtis should have said those things.
- 1:05:35Speaker 5: This is what I think of Toy. I think that
- 1:05:40Speaker 5: I think her and I are alright, or were.
- 1:05:42Speaker 6: Cool enough and really get up fish friends.
- 1:05:46Speaker 5: This is what I think.
- 1:05:47Speaker 2: But at any time where Toya thinks that I could
- 1:05:50Speaker 2: be doing bad or could be embarrassed, or could be
- 1:05:54Speaker 2: uh not doing so well, and she can kind of push.
- 1:05:57Speaker 5: The narrative on that, she will. That's what I think.
- 1:06:00Speaker 6: Is that a friend?
- 1:06:02Speaker 5: No, it's not necessarily for I don't treat my friends
- 1:06:05Speaker 5: like that. I don't Colins. Do you treat your friends
- 1:06:08Speaker 5: like that?
- 1:06:08Speaker 1: No?
- 1:06:09Speaker 3: I have real friends.
- 1:06:10Speaker 2: I get into it, get into it well. I think
- 1:06:13Speaker 2: that's what Mimi was asking. What Mimi was saying, Hey, Simone,
- 1:06:17Speaker 2: it's Toya a say friend. I think she said something
- 1:06:20Speaker 2: about Toy you been a safe friend, right, And I
- 1:06:22Speaker 2: think that's what Toy was trying. I think it was
- 1:06:25Speaker 2: Mimi and Angel who questioned Toya a level of friendship?
- 1:06:28Speaker 5: Am I correct?
- 1:06:29Speaker 7: It was?
- 1:06:29Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 1:06:30Speaker 2: And so when you have these type of questions predicated
- 1:06:33Speaker 2: around someone's character and uh, you know, people are just
- 1:06:39Speaker 2: kind of scratching her head at it, I think it's
- 1:06:42Speaker 2: it's probably the time for said person to kind of
- 1:06:45Speaker 2: step up and be a better person and show that
- 1:06:48Speaker 2: she's a better friend and understands girl code and it
- 1:06:51Speaker 2: wasn't about being in your twenties. And you know, there
- 1:06:55Speaker 2: was a situation where Toya was really trying to uh
- 1:07:00Speaker 2: humiliate Angel in front of someone. And that's just what
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: That's just the true tea and Toya knows that. Toya
- 1:07:06Speaker 2: knows exactly what she was doing with that. You don't
- 1:07:09Speaker 2: go up to anyone and asks, oh, oh, well, you
- 1:07:11Speaker 2: just last week asked me to hook somebody. Hook you
- 1:07:13Speaker 2: up with somebody. And from my understanding, it's my good
- 1:07:16Speaker 2: Angel would say, my good friend Angel. She said, listen,
- 1:07:20Speaker 2: the girls come down hard on Toya. You know, they say, Toyo,
- 1:07:22Speaker 2: you don't have a job, and toy you don't do
- 1:07:24Speaker 2: this and don't do that, and she does nothing with
- 1:07:26Speaker 2: her dates and her time. You know, she just leans
- 1:07:28Speaker 2: on Eugene. It works Eugene to the bone and works Eugene.
- 1:07:32Speaker 2: The girls have said that. The girls have said that,
- 1:07:34Speaker 2: and so what Angel was doing was like, hey, as
- 1:07:37Speaker 2: a compliment, girl, don't worry about what they say. It's
- 1:07:40Speaker 2: nothing wrong with being a stay at home mom and
- 1:07:43Speaker 2: having a good husband. Girl asked, good, that is Eugene
- 1:07:45Speaker 2: having any friends? But it was more of a begging
- 1:07:48Speaker 2: her up and helping her like feeding her self esteem.
- 1:07:51Speaker 2: In regards to that, some kind of way, Toya turned
- 1:07:54Speaker 2: that around and made it negative. But it didn't farewell
- 1:07:57Speaker 2: for Toya. It didn't age well and it never we all.
- 1:08:00Speaker 2: When you are doing things that are nasty and that
- 1:08:03Speaker 2: are dirty, and you're specifically intentionally doing those things, then
- 1:08:07Speaker 2: to turn around and ask this man, how is angel
- 1:08:10Speaker 2: in the bed?
- 1:08:10Speaker 5: What your cat watch?
- 1:08:11Speaker 6: You wanted to know? Hell, what's your cat watching?
- 1:08:14Speaker 3: You said? Cat watching like pussy cash.
- 1:08:21Speaker 2: So I'm just talking about as a friend, as a friend,
- 1:08:25Speaker 2: or as a person who's wanting to have a relationship
- 1:08:27Speaker 2: or friendship, as a person who is growing to know someone.
- 1:08:31Speaker 5: Those are things that you just don't do. You just
- 1:08:33Speaker 5: don't do it.
- 1:08:34Speaker 4: And to close, I will say that Quad has been
- 1:08:36Speaker 4: an amazing friend, an amazing amazing friend, on camera, off camera,
- 1:08:43Speaker 4: on campaign, off campaign, giving emotional support, financial support, in
- 1:08:50Speaker 4: every way.
- 1:08:52Speaker 6: I appreciate you, friend, Thank you for everything.
- 1:08:55Speaker 5: Thank you. Sorry, don't cry, baby, don't cry. I'm proud
- 1:09:01Speaker 5: of you.
- 1:09:01Speaker 6: Girly, Wirly, girly, don't cry, Girly, I'm proud of you.
- 1:09:06Speaker 2: Thank you, I appreciate it. I'm proud of you, and
- 1:09:08Speaker 2: I will do the job by saying and the people
- 1:09:11Speaker 2: can trust me. Yes, I'm proud of you and you
- 1:09:13Speaker 2: get in there and you work yours.
- 1:09:14Speaker 6: Oh you know I am.
- 1:09:15Speaker 5: I'm excited about it.
- 1:09:17Speaker 4: I'm upsetsed, and I do all my jobs well, just
- 1:09:21Speaker 4: like I'm done on married to medicine, just like I
- 1:09:23Speaker 4: do on teeth. I'm gonna do the hell out of
- 1:09:25Speaker 4: their job and I'm going to enjoy doing it. And
- 1:09:27Speaker 4: my friends are going to help me. Hell, I got
- 1:09:29Speaker 4: a group of doctors that want to put policy together.
- 1:09:33Speaker 4: I got so much that we're going to do that.
- 1:09:35Speaker 4: We're going to show up and show out for this.
- 1:09:37Speaker 2: And we need a little financial support when we're talking
- 1:09:40Speaker 2: about women in IVF.
- 1:09:42Speaker 4: Oh yeah, absolutely absolutely, federal dollars. Yeah absolutely.
- 1:09:48Speaker 3: Well, Look, I love the two of you, and you
- 1:09:51Speaker 3: guys know that we're friends in real life. I love
- 1:09:54Speaker 3: this show. I've been I've been campaigning, okay.
- 1:10:00Speaker 7: Years about how the Merits and Medicine is the best
- 1:10:03Speaker 7: show on Bravo. I've always said I'm never letting up
- 1:10:06Speaker 7: on that Mereton Medicine is the best show on Bravo.
- 1:10:11Speaker 7: And I'm so happy that the people are now catching
- 1:10:15Speaker 7: onto it and it's a beloved show, so many people
- 1:10:18Speaker 7: love it. You two are extremely instrumental to the success
- 1:10:22Speaker 7: of the show, and I thank you to for coming
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