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103: Welcome to Plathville (S5E10) / 90 Day Fiancé (S10E5) · Reality TV Cringe

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  Welcome to read Reality TV Cringe. I am one of your hosts, Delia,
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  and I'm here with my real tight homegirl and my daughter in law Beatrice.
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  Save me. How are you doing? Doing great? Now that I'm
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  with you? We have so much content to go over. Tonight we are
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  going to be reviewing the latest episode of Welcome to Plathville and also the latest
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  episode of ninety Day Fiance. Two totally different vibes, Yes, totally different
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  vibes. And I took all the notes and such for Plathville and you did
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  for ninety Day Fiance. But I just have to say, going right in,
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  I didn't mind the music tonight on Plathfill I didn't either. I thought
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  it was so wholesome. I had a tear ball you did, and it
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  wasn't just because of the music, but it was for this family and everything
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  this family has been through. See I know me too. It's very very
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  sweet and sad. Yeah, very sad. And Mariah's to blame one hundred
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  I'm drinking. I know she's not, but no, I thought these were.
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  I thought these were actually really excellent episodes. So I'm excited to get
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  started with you. But before we do, we have to give you the
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  disclaimer to hide your wife and hydra kids. This is a politically incorrect podcast.
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  All right, now, before we get into the episode of Welcome to
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  Plath Phil, I understand. We got a little message we did on our
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  speak pipe And by the way, if you want to leave us a message,
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  you can talk up to ninety seconds. That's a lot of time.
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  It is a lot of time to tell us what you think. All you
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  have to do is go to Speakpipe, dot com, slash Reality TV Cringe
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  and we'll listen and we might play it as well. Yeah, we got
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  a message. I think her name was Rachel. Okay, hey, girls,
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  love the podcast, keep it up, never stop. I'm here with
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  a hot take on Kim Plath. So I come from a Southern Baptist homeschool
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  family, so I have kind of a weird insider view on her mentality,
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  not excusing anything that she's done wrong, which the things are manifold, but
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  I think Olivia's toxicity and influence on this family goes way farther into the destruction
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  of the family than we even know. And I think that in the preview
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  when Mariah's ad ivie'al responsele, I think it's kind of acknowledging that I think
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  Kim poured her life into a belief system that she was told will give you
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  this Beaver Cleaver family experience. But then her kids grow up, Ethan doesn't
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  talk to her for what years, her seventeen year old moves out. I
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  mean, she's just totally disillusioned. She was wanting this wholesome family life.
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  The church said, do all these things, shelter your kids, homeschool,
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  and you'll get this perfect child in this perfect life. That didn't happen for
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  her, and coupled with the trauma of having run over her child and caused
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  their death. Obviously it was an accident, but I can see how this
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  is a very broken woman and so she looks at you know, she looks
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  over the ocean of her life and is like, this life with Barry was
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  a waste, This was a lie. This didn't turn out the way I
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  was told it was going to. And I think that the divisions that Olivia
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  sewed and kept in that family are a huge contributing factor as to why they're
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  all in shambles right now. What do you guys think? Love the podcast?
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  You guys are awesome and never stop this podcast. I will die.
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  Thank you, Rachel, Thank you Rachel. You're awesome. And that was
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  an interesting take. Yeah, and I think it's pretty based, Like I
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  actually agree with a lot of it, because I think Kim's going through kind
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  of a midlife crisis, Like it probably is because of everything that Olivia did,
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  obviously, but compound that with her oldest children just being like fuck you,
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  Mom, you suck e rasis terribly we hate you essentially for the last
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  couple of years. Like I'm sure that really messed her up. Yeah,
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  and that's the first time I've ever looked at it that way. Yeah.
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  Now, of course, Hosanna, which is the eldest child, she's gone
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  off and she's kind of stayed in the vein of how they brought her up
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  and just kind of perpetuating the same old thing. But Micah moved away started
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  a modeling career, which was certainly not conventional or traditional. Ethan married in
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  a conventional way according to their religion, but that is obviously turned out to
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  be a shit shown Mariah leaving when she's sixteen slash seventeen, and yeah,
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  I can see how she'd look back on the timeline of her life and say,
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  wow, I did all of this. I truly believed it. I
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  didn't eat sugar for all these years. Sugar were all right, okay lady.
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  Nobody did all of these things for my children believing, and it didn't
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  work. None of it worked. Like three out of four of my eldest
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  kids hate me, don't like me, or are gone well go to therapy
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  though yes, strikes me as so freaking checked out. I'm like, what
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  are you doing this season? Kid, because every single episode is tell a
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  different kid about your new lover. Yeah, Ken Palmer, Like nobody cares.
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  We needed to hear that one time, And then how are you making
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  this family heal? Like what are you doing to make sure that your kids
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  feel safe right and included and a part of your life? Like what about
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  that? I'm way more interested in how you are parenting your children, like
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  we see with Barry versus this same thing every single week, right, And
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  maybe it's because it's like the first time you've ever been happy or whatever,
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  or maybe it's the first time you've been happy since Joshua passed. And I
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  get that and everything, but like, slow your role a little bit and
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  step outside of yourself and see how your actions could be harming or impacting all
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  of your children that you decided to have. Regardless of this whole divorce with
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  Barry, you still have all of these kids' lives that you're responsible for and
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  responsible for being a good role model too. So I don't know it's hard
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  for me with Kim because I totally understand and empathize with her, because I
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  mean, she is definitely a broken woman, like Rachel said, And I
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  saw a post recently on Reddit of somebody echoing these same sentiments of being like,
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  well, she was raised by an alcoholic mother and like she was sexually
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  molested or whatever as a kid. So it's like she's had a long history
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  of deep trauma that she probably has never dealt with, honestly. And now
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  you're fifty something and you have a million kids and you're leaving a twenty five
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  year marriage and trying to explore yourself. And that's fine, but like,
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  I don't know good she's doing it in such an immature way. And we
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  were talking a few episodes ago about one of the shows that we cover,
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  and we were saying that like the moment you are significantly traumatized in your life
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  and or like take a massive dose of drugs, you tend to be frozen
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  in time intellectually and emotionally at that age, right, And so we see
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  Kim, who you know, she has told us she was abused, and
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  I think she was molested in this way, and she had an alcoholic mother.
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  She was always being traumatized as a child, and then she had continued
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  trauma in her marriage, especially when Joshua passed. I think she's frozen in
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  time intellectually. I think she's frozen in time emotionally. I don't think she
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  knows how to emote in a healthy way. Yeah, I feel like she's
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  numb, checked out and just trying to get her box eight. Yeah,
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  I think that's life. She really thinks that's life. I have to tell
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  you, though, with regard to Welcome to plathfil something really chapped my hide.
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  And it's when Ethan's coming back to pick up his car, but really
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  to see his family, and he's sitting down with Barry, and Barry is
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  so happy to talk with him, and Ethan is like so happy to be
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  there, and Ethan is talking to him about his new job loading trucks,
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  moving boxes, and he's sitting next to his father, who's college educated and
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  who has a bomb ass job. I don't know what that job is,
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  but I know that it allowed him to afford all of these multiple properties.
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  He's well off, he's well educated, and you're sitting next to your twenty
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  four year old son who can only load boxes onto a truck because you never
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  gave him an education, You never equipped him for this life. To me,
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  the weight of that regret is also what might be keeping Kim completely numbed.
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  Because if she allowed herself to feel anything, can you imagine in an
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  honest and authentic way to really feel the gravity of what she has done to
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  her kids, Like, how do you go on? I mean really after
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  all of that, plus with her accidentally over Joshua and everything, Like,
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  dude, I don't even know how she functions even the way that she does
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  right now. Like, I know she's immature and she's emotionally disconnected, but
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  like I feel like she kind of has to be in order to go through
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  life because of the shit that she has done to everybody around her. It's
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  like and Bury too and Barry too complicit. If I'm Barry in this moment,
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  I'm like, what can I do to get my son into a new
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  job, into a new trade, into a new profession. Although Ethan is
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  very handy and he can own his own mechanic shop if you, oh,
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  there's a lot of things that he can do and that he has done.
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  But I would be like, what can I do to help my kids right
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  now? Right? I don't know. I just felt like the juxtaposition of
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  where they were both in life, and Ethan doesn't have the same advantages that
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  Barry had. No, he took them all away from their kids, plus
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  their celebrations, they yep, those all away, Yeah, And that is
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  sad. It's fucked up. All right, Let's get into the last episode
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  of Welcome to Plaithvill season five, episode ten, entitled I I Am Not
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  Bound to Please. I'm so tired of I'm not bound to Please. We
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  open with Ethan making his way to Kroe. He's obviously going to pick up
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  one of his cars, but really he's going to be there to see his
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  siblings. He misses them quite a lot. Yeah, we have Olivia on
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  the couch talking about how there has been a shift with Ethan since they arrived
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  in Minnesota, because there was a block of time that Ethan was not talking
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  to his family at all. But his family has been reaching out and Ethan
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  has been talking to them, and now there's a change in his spirit and
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  he seems more interested to engage with his family. So that's why he's going.
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  And he hasn't called Olivia, He's only sent her a text. Yep.
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  And Olivia is not necessarily happy about him changing his relationship with his family
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  either, because she says in her talking head, I told him he needs
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  to keep me updated, and then the next thing I know, he's making
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  plans without me and he's lying to me. I'm like well, I don't
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  know about that. I don't know if he's necessarily lying to And also,
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  is it really your business to know what he's doing with his family. If
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  he's trying to mend the relationships with his family, and he's not making you
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  go, he's not putting you in an unsafer compromising position by being around his
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  family, which trigger you so much. He is going by himself. He's
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  made that decision to let you be at home, and you're still not okay
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  with it. It's just really fucked up to me. He's damned if he
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  does, and he's damned if he doesn't. Yeah, and so he's just
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  like, Okay, well, I'm going to go. I'm not going to
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  have endless phone calls with you where you're making me feel bad because I want
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  to have a relationship with my family. And if I brought you this entire
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  time down, you would be preparing me on how I'm supposed to act with
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  my family, and I'd have all of these conditions and you'd be gate keeping
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  my connection with these people. And I don't want that. It's too much.
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  So just give me a break, let me see my family for real,
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  and I'm happy be free for real hashtag for a little beron. So
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  he gets to the Plath home and opened the door and all the little girls,
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  so Ethan and mic Go's there, Yeah, what did you think?
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  I thought this was so sweet? And Micah was saying that this is like
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  the first time him and Ethan have really been at home together in a really
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  long time, so it's really special. And Ethan talks about how he's kind
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  of thought about missing out on the little kids's lives and everything over the past
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  few years, but he says something pretty interesting. He's like, I don't
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  think anything would have changed it though, Like it doesn't matter if I was
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  in a different headspace or whatever back then, Like it still would have happened
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  the way it needed to happen. So I don't want to dwell on it.
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  And I'm like, dang, okay, Yeah he's been introspecting. Yeah,
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  I think he does ask the kids whether Kim has been around, and
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  they're like every now and again, maybe every couple of weeks, So she's
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  not spending a whole lot of time with her family. Maybe they're going over
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  to the dance studio apartment. Yeah maybe, I don't think so. And
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  I also think she has since relooked to somewhere in Florida, which is something
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  I heard probably on Reddit, so don't take my word for it, but
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  I think she's spending a lot of time in Florida, so I don't even
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  know if she's around that much. Those poor girls, yikes. Yes,
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  it's a bummer. They go into the living room and they start playing the
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  guitar and singing. I love this so much. It was really wholesome.
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  Yeah, and I loved it. I love it a lot. I come
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  from a musical family and we all play instruments and shit, and I just
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  loved this so much because both Mica and Ethan start playing the guitar and the
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  girls are like a little singing with them. I'm just like my heart.
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  It's like the thread that connects all of them. And when we get to
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  Mariah and Lydia, we also have a musical thread there, and I just
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  thought it was really special, which is saying something because of course we usually
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  lament anytime Mariah opens her mouth to sing for real, but this was actually
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  pretty lovely. After this, we bop on over to Victoria, Minnesota,
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  and Olivia is meeting with some RANDO person who's not actually her friend. It's
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  a producer plant, and we're having a conversation with this person so that Olivia
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  can start to discuss how she feels about her wedding vows and where she is
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  right now with her relationship with Ethan. I felt the entire scene was disingenuous.
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  Yep. I think she is currently as we're watching, she's currently on
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  a campaign to start to malign Ethan, especially when she's sitting on that couch
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  girl and she's talking about how Ethan doesn't want to have kids with me,
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  he doesn't want me to be able to influence our children, he doesn't want
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  our kids to be anything like me. Those are such vilifying statements. Yep.
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  Do we believe her? Is there a kernel of truth here with that?
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  I'm sure there is a kernel of truth in that. Ethan's like,
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  well, we have very different opposing views, and I don't want you to
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  like tell our kids that my beliefs are shitty or vice versa. Like it's
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  probably something like that right where he tried to explain it to her, like
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  we need to come to some kind of agreement, Like it's fine if we
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  differ on some things, but if we are so far apart on these major
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  issues and how are we going to raise kids? Like that's a valid that's
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  super responsible and enlightened. Yes, yes, so I think she's totally,
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  like you said, on a campaign to make him evil. So didn't he
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  ask in this season alone, like twice when they're having kids? That's the
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  thing too, Like he has been asking her for children, yep. And
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  the way she's trying to contextualize it now is like, no, he's saying
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  no to children because me and my value. Yeah, okay, in my
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  integrity, he does someone have kids with me? But yeah, me too,
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  because I feel like he's been asking you for kids and you're probably the
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  one. But that's just me and my bias with the lamp. I'm so
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  biased against her because I just don't believe anything that she says. So at
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  this conversation with this Lady Maya, she's talking about her vows and how when
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  she took her vows and we see a flashback she vowed to let ethan lead,
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  to obey, to follow, and how now you're of our Lord twenty
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  twenty two when this is being filmed, she just doesn't feel that way anymore
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  because she wants to be an equal, which I think is valid. But
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  do we think that Ethan doesn't want her to be an equal or doesn't treat
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  her like an equal, because I think Ethan accommodates and adjusts his entire life
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  for her. Yep, all the time, hence all the time moving every
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  single year, and he's like, every time we move, it sets me
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  back. Yeah, And I'm thinking, does that mean in your career,
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  in what you're trying to build for yourself, how does it set you back?
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  But I believe him, Oh yeah, but he does it anyway because
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  she's an equal partner or more in that relationship. What did you think He's
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  always standing up for her, He's always trying to comfort her, and he's
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  trying his best, even though he comes from a fucked up family that doesn't
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  know how to communicate properly or emote like real human beings like, He's trying
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  his best to deal with Olivia and her irrationalities, but it's never good enough
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  for her. And the whole wedding vow thing. I've watched this episode three
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  times and I noticed on the third time, when she's telling her friend Maya,
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  my vows were to obey and submit to him. Then the producers do
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  a really nice, dirty edit, and the vows that they showed were just
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  her saying, I've out to respect you and love you, and like treat
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  your opinion like it would be mine, and like respect to you and just
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  be a good wife. Like there's nothing in there that says I'm I'm vowing
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  to obey you one hundred percent and be the dutiful what's that Handmaid's tale?
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  Like she's acting like it's that, and it's not that. Like marriage is
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  about mutual respect. You've never respected Ethan. That's clear in your all of
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  your actions from the last several years, and now you're going to flip the
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  script and say that it's him this whole entire time. I'm not buying it.
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  I want it, Yeah, I just don't see it in terms of
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  the facts and what we're seeing on film. And it feels like Ethan does
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  a whole lot to make sure that you're happy. And I really think that
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  Ethan expected your relationship to vastly improve once you got to Minnesota because you had
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  been telling him the reason that you're unhappy and miserable is because of his family,
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  and so if he takes you away from his family. This is going
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  to give you the opportunity to build into a new marriage, but no,
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  you immediately start separating yourself more. And one thing I wanted to point out
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  here at the beginning of this conversation with Maya, Maya's like, what's up.
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  What you been up to? And She's like, oh, just bartending
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  school. And I think Maya's like, have you been traveling? And She's
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  like a couple of trips coming up here and there, but not much.
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  And then when we get to Barry in Ethan, yeah, Barry's like,
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  so is Olivia traveling a lot for her photography business? And Ethan's like,
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  I can't even keep up. She's always gone, you know. She'll tell
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  me she's not going to be here, and I'm just like, oh,
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  okay, I don't even know where she's going. That something about that sat
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  a little weird with me, Like is she traveling and going places and doing
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  things with other people? Telling Ethan that it's for her business, I wouldn't
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  be surprised when really she's going to Saint Lucia for another reason, Because may
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  I remind you on watch What Happens Live, yea like girl implied that if
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  anybody in that relationship cheated Ethan or Olivia. It wasn't going to be Ethan.
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  Yeah, it was gonna be Olivia. So I'm like, where are
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  you going? Girl? And what are you doing? Girl? She got
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  the seven year itch. There's got to be some kind of playing around here
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  or whatever, because her whole story that she's unhappy because of Ethan's family is
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  bullshit now that we're in this season. And that's fine. If you're unhappy
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  with Ethan, like more power to you, and you deserve to like get
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  out of an unhappy marriage and be happy with somebody else, that's fine.
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  Just be fucking authentic about it. You can't help but like throw them under
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  the bus and have these nasty digs and these passive aggressive conversations with these fake
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  ass friends that you don't even care about, don't even know, like mind
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  you this whole conversation with her friend, like she's only talking about herself too.
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  So I'm just like, this is so stupid. I can't stand here.
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  Stupid. And as she's on the couch, the producer asks her,
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  are you thinking about walking away from your marriage? And she says something like,
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  well, I mean it's not my choice, but at the same time,
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  you know, I'm thinking about what it is that I want to do
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  for myself. But so she's implying again that this is not something that she
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  actually wants to do, that this is more Ethan's choice. Just like Ethan
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  doesn't want to have children with me, Ethan also doesn't want to be married
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  to me. When Ethan in his talking heads this whole episode, this whole
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  season, is like, I hope me and Olivia can work things out.
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  I love her so much, I care about her so deeply. All I
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  want to do is work on my relationship with Olivia. And when Barry invites
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  him to the California trip, Ethan's like, I don't want to go because
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  I want to work on things with Olivia, right, So, like that's
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  all that's been his first priority this whole entire time, And Olivia is implying
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  that he's going to leave her. Okay, I mean I kind of hope
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  he does leave her. Yeah, I would be so shocked if he's the
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  one who initiates this divorce because spoiler, they are now separated and on their
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  way to a divorce. But I don't know. I still think she's puppet
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  master orchestrating the entire thing and trying from this point on to frame him as
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  the bad guy in the relationship when the fact of the matter is oliviy,
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  you've just changed. And you know what, that's okay. You married him
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  when you were eighteen years old or nineteen years old. You were young,
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  you didn't know you were You hadn't lived on your own yet, you got
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  out on your own, you were able to develop your passions and your interests.
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  You discovered that this guy's never going to change. He's got his values,
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  his core values, and his beliefs. Yours shifted and started to grow
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  change. And that is entirely okay. But call it what it is.
• 21:37
  You don't have to demonize him as you're walking out the door. Yeah,
• 21:41
  exactly, You just don't have to do that. Gross Okay. So after
• 21:45
  this we head on back to kro Georgia, where Barry gets off work and
• 21:48
  he sits down with Ethan. And I thought this was a really beautiful scene
• 21:53
  because and Ethan if even references how just a little while ago he almost got
• 22:00
  into a physical altercation with his father. Yeah, but they've come a long
• 22:04
  way. And what this says about Barry is that he's forgiving, he's quick
• 22:10
  to forgive, and also that he prioritizes and truly loves his children and wants
• 22:15
  a relationship with his kids. And so they're just having a regular schmegular conversation.
• 22:21
  Bearr's like, what are you down here for? Are you here for
• 22:22
  your cars? And Ethan said, well, yeah, but also to see
• 22:26
  you and the siblings. That's the main reason I'm here. That was so
• 22:30
  freaking sweet, And like Barry just has the biggest smile on his face his
• 22:33
  whole entire time, like actually emoting like a human being, and it's just
• 22:37
  really like wholesome. And I love that Ethan has grown enough too to like
• 22:41
  move past some of his anger with his dad too, and like look at
• 22:45
  him, like, wow, he's actually really changed and prioritized us, And
• 22:48
  I really appreciate that. And so I hope that this is just like the
• 22:52
  start of them mending things and like the whole family kind of coming back together,
• 22:56
  because it seems like all of the siblings are missing this big family unit
• 23:02
  that they grew up with. And I mean, why wouldn't you, like
• 23:04
  if you had a decent enough childhood, despite like the homeschooling and the religious
• 23:10
  indoctrination and like all of that stuff, all that aside, they at least
• 23:14
  had like a family that seemed to love each other. You know, absolutely,
• 23:18
  yes, they were knitted together and they shared a lot of values.
• 23:22
  And you can tell that the kids, the older kids, look back on
• 23:26
  that really fondly. Yeah. And I think this is why Ethan is returning
• 23:30
  to Georgia because he needs this. He can feel his relationship with Olivia falling
• 23:33
  apart. They are no longer on the same page, and he just needs
• 23:37
  kind of that soft place to land, which is his family. And Barry
• 23:41
  is just the perfect parent here giving him that soft place. So happy to
• 23:45
  see you, son. It's like the prodigal son from the Bible. Yeah,
• 23:47
  and the son comes the wayward son comes back, and the father is
• 23:49
  doesn't matter where you've been, w you've been with lying down with pigs,
• 23:55
  which you know, we don't mean to say that's Olivia well land down because
• 23:59
  you're let's have a party. Like he's just got that energy and I really
• 24:03
  love to see it. He asks about Olivia and her business, and to
• 24:07
  the camera, Barry says, you know, my main thing is I want
• 24:11
  to just connect with Ethan. Yeah, it's really awesome that he's home.
• 24:15
  I want to make sure this relationship is on track, and you know,
• 24:18
  at some point in the future I would love to get things back on track
• 24:22
  with Olivia so we can be civil, we can be in the same room
• 24:26
  at functions, and we can at least be superficially nice. That was great,
• 24:30
  right, that was so good. And like, even with all of
• 24:33
  this too, Ethan in his talking head is like, you know, Dad's
• 24:37
  opening up to me about the divorce and all of that, but I don't
• 24:40
  want to get into anything with Olivia because that will just make tensions worse.
• 24:42
  And I want to ask you why, why would that make tensions worse?
• 24:47
  Because Olivia would be mad about it, or they would be mad about it.
• 24:49
  Oh, Barry in them the family might not like Olivia even more.
• 24:55
  Yeah, so it would make that chasm even wider. Oh that it totally
• 24:59
  would, Yeah, totally would. Yeah, but Olivia probably wouldn't want Ethan
• 25:03
  to be talking about her, yeah at all. So he does seem pretty
• 25:07
  stiff, stiff lipped even when he's talking, for example, with Micah.
• 25:11
  Yeah, you can tell his face is really red and he doesn't want to
• 25:15
  say much. But he also really really wants somebody to talk to. Yeah,
• 25:18
  he has nobody to talk to about it. He does not. He
• 25:22
  asks Barry about Kim. Yeah, and he doesn't even say mom, he
• 25:26
  doesn't. He says Kim. Yeah. He's like, so, Kim's not
• 25:27
  around right, not at the house anymore. And Barry's like, yeah,
• 25:32
  she moved out. I'm like, dang. And Barry says that they have
• 25:36
  like fifty percent custody or whatever, so she gets the kids fifty percent of
• 25:41
  the time. But then the kids when Ethan came by or whatever, said,
• 25:45
  oh, she's here every now and then. Right. Interesting, I
• 25:48
  wonder where the truth is with that. I don't know. It's not with
• 25:51
  Kim. The truth is not in Kim. This scene ends with Barry inviting
• 25:56
  Ethan to join him and Isaac as they travel out to La to visit Micah,
• 26:00
  and Ethan just gets this smile that honestly we really haven't seen since season
• 26:04
  one that nooish, Oh my gosh, I'm gonna hang out with my dad
• 26:07
  and my bros. This is awesome. He gets a smile that makes me
• 26:12
  really see and believe that he wants to come back into the fold with his
• 26:18
  family and this is why Olivia is so threatened. Yeah, this is why
• 26:22
  Olivia is so put out because she ain't gonna stop him. This is what
• 26:26
  he wants. He wants to go home, yep. And that's why she
• 26:29
  Maybe that's why she leaves, because she's like, oh, you want to
• 26:30
  get back together together with your family and then cool, peace out. I'm
• 26:34
  gonna find myself, right. She will take that as a rejection as opposed
• 26:40
  to helping him to make that connection and doing whatever she can so that he's
• 26:44
  healthy and happy and has what he needs. And she is healthy and happy
• 26:47
  and has what she needs, which I think Ethan wants her. But she
• 26:49
  can't do it. Yeah, she doesn't know how to do it. Next,
• 26:52
  we go to Tampa and we have this scene with Mariah and Lydia and
• 26:59
  I thought this was sweet. When they pulled out the speaker to play some
• 27:03
  of their music, I was like, is this going to be your solo
• 27:06
  songbook music? Because it's so I need a dress. I braced myself for
• 27:10
  it. But they pulled up some of their old gospel songs and we were
• 27:15
  able to see some of the photographs from when they were a Christian traveling band.
• 27:21
  Yeah, they did that for a few years. Yeah, they have
• 27:23
  two whole albums out. I went and looked them up and everything, my
• 27:26
  gosh, and it's all auto tuned, which I'm like, Mariah and Lydia,
• 27:30
  do you not know auto tune exists for your own singles? Like,
• 27:33
  I feel like it would have been a lot better. May I make a
• 27:36
  recommendation? But it's cute because they play one of the songs and then both
• 27:40
  of the girls start singing again, and I'm like, oh, my gosh,
• 27:42
  I'm feeling something in my old dead heart. And then they play a
• 27:47
  song that Mariah doesn't recognize and it's actually Ethan singing, you know, And
• 27:52
  I was like, this is so sweet. It was so cute. And
• 27:55
  Ethan's voice kind of reminded me of my grandfather's, like that old timey like
• 28:00
  just like sweet Christian guy singing, because I Poppy used to do that.
• 28:03
  He used to play the guitar and everything and just sing old timey songs.
• 28:07
  So I really loved that. I did too. Lydia's like, wouldn't it
• 28:11
  be cool if we could get the whole family back together. We could just
• 28:14
  sing some of these songs together again. Awesome and Mariah gets really morose,
• 28:21
  her face kind of falls, and we start talking once again about her troubles
• 28:26
  with Ethan and how she has blocked Ethan and Ethan can't talk to me that
• 28:30
  way, and that there were issues which you know, we've already heard before,
• 28:34
  so we don't necessarily have to talk about again, because the more interesting
• 28:37
  thing that she ends up saying to Lydia is that she blames herself for the
• 28:42
  downfall of her family. She thinks that trashing her family publicly on the national
• 28:51
  stage visa vis this show, throwing them under the bus, talking mad shit
• 28:56
  about her parents is what led. Maybe that was the first chink in the
• 29:00
  armor of the family, but it led to its ultimate destruction. And you
• 29:04
  know what, I don't want to put that on her, because the divorce
• 29:08
  between Barry and Kim, that's on them. But at the same time,
• 29:12
  I feel like she and I don't want to put this on her, but
• 29:15
  I feel like she did a lot of damage to this family and the culture
• 29:18
  of this family and shaming this family and like trying to humiliate her parents.
• 29:26
  And she says Olivia is partly responsible for that course, because of course I
• 29:30
  think we think Olivia was the pied piper trying to lead those children out of
• 29:34
  the Plath family. But it was ultimately Mariah's decision and MICA's decision, and
• 29:41
  Ethan's decision, yep, to throw them under the bus. And maybe that
• 29:44
  was the first wobble for Kim. Maybe. And I mean, she talks
• 29:48
  about the ripple effect, like once you have one division in the family,
• 29:51
  it just rips and rips and rips until there's this huge cavern between everybody.
• 29:56
  And so I was happy to see her take a little bit of respond just
• 30:00
  because that's good for growth, like personal growth and just understanding how your actions
• 30:06
  affect everybody else. And I thought it was interesting how part of her frustration
• 30:10
  with Ethan comes from this idea that he hasn't really stood up for the family.
• 30:15
  Yes, and he's been trashing that too too. Yeah, And so
• 30:18
  I'm like, Okay, so you were trashing the family. Now you've come
• 30:21
  around, and now you're frustrated that Ethan is still trashing the family or still
• 30:25
  has his anger that we did it in the first place, because he's the
• 30:27
  eldest son. And yeah, whether Mariah was selfish or not, the fact
• 30:32
  of the matter was she was sixteen years old, right, seventeen years old,
• 30:36
  Ethan, you were an adult and your wife was doing what she was
• 30:40
  doing. And so I think she's really disappointed that Ethan allowed that to happen,
• 30:45
  yeah, and allowed even her and Mica to say the things that they
• 30:49
  did yeah about the family and even celebrate when they did right, and not
• 30:55
  say anything, not do anything about it. He just let it happen for
• 30:57
  years, and he's still kind of complicit in it because he's not willing to
• 31:03
  admit that Olivia is the problem in the family, which I really hope if
• 31:07
  we get another season. I'm sorry to interrupt you, but if we get
• 31:10
  another season, I really hope we get some truth out of that gay please,
• 31:12
  I really hope. But I'm kind of worried, Like with how his
• 31:15
  Instagram post was when they announced their separation, he was very like short with
• 31:21
  his words, careful with him. He didn't say anything mean. Meanwhile,
• 31:25
  Olivia's has been snarky this whole entire time, but like she would kind of
• 31:29
  deserve a little shade thrown back at her. I think so one hundred percent.
• 31:33
  I felt so bad for Mariah me too, And that's got to be
• 31:37
  really heavy to sit under. For sure, But you know what, it
• 31:41
  is not her fault. Again, she was a minor, And I feel
• 31:45
  like ninety nine point nine percent of the responsibility of the dissolution of this family
• 31:51
  is on Kim Plath. Yeah, and when we get to the next scene
• 31:52
  where she's talking to Amber, Kim actually takes some responsibility for her part in
• 31:59
  things. I guess I'm like, it was the whole part. Yeah,
• 32:02
  it was the whole Enchilada. Yeah, is your responsibility for things? But
• 32:07
  yeah, I felt bad for Riah. I felt those tears. I even
• 32:09
  had a little miss in my eyes. I did, and I normally I'm
• 32:13
  like, shut up, stop singing. You're so maudlin, cheer up.
• 32:17
  You're young, you're beautiful. Your body is flawless, honey in your little
• 32:21
  velvet shorts. Life ahead of you, you don't even know. But she's
• 32:24
  nineteen, she's twenty. Yeah, she's really wanting her family and she's hurting,
• 32:29
  and I feel bad for her. Well, yeah, it's really hard
• 32:31
  to go through a divorce, especially in a family this big and everything,
• 32:35
  and then it's hard to realize that you've hurt your family in the process and
• 32:37
  then have to like take responsibility for that. And grow from it. And
• 32:42
  it can be hella depressing, but like girl, cheer up, buck up,
• 32:45
  be there for your family. Right. The only time we have is
• 32:49
  the presence exactly, So make the most of it, my dear. Next
• 32:52
  week, go over to Amber and Kim. They are at Kim's dance studio.
• 32:59
  Apartment is really beautiful, I said every single time. But these people
• 33:01
  are loaded. I know that is a nice apartment. And Kim wants to
• 33:06
  have another conversation with another child about her cheating, adulterous. Oh ass ways,
• 33:14
  little Amber has to have this ship visited upon her innocence, and I'm
• 33:17
  resentful, and her eyeliner was really bad, and like your upper lid eyeliner
• 33:23
  is like not even touching your lid, and it's what are you doing?
• 33:28
  It's the booze, dude, she's drunk. She's drunk. What's up?
• 33:31
  Really, She's she's to go to a makeup cowner. She needs to have
• 33:36
  somebody to her makeup professionally. What Mary Brown? Why haven't they given some
• 33:45
  hair and makeup to Mary Brown or any of those women. It's been twelve
• 33:50
  seasons, eighteen seasons. I'm saying, you know what they're doing. They
• 33:52
  exactly what they're doing. So what did you think of this conversation between Kim
• 33:57
  and Amber. Well, I was kind of hoping for more snarkiness from Amber.
• 34:00
  I was hoping for more of an attitude because they showed the flashback of
• 34:04
  her last season being like, well, why are you expecting dad to move
• 34:07
  out? Shouldn't you be the one to get out of her? Mom's gotch
• 34:09
  A good iconic scene, So I was really hoping for some kind of comment
• 34:14
  like that of like, yeah, that's pretty suss mom that you're dating another
• 34:17
  guy, and like why are you telling me about this if you're not planning
• 34:21
  on marrying him yet? Like, I don't know. But Amber seemed okay
• 34:24
  with it kind of She's like, well, I may I have my own
• 34:27
  feelings about it, but I love you and you're my mom. And I
• 34:30
  guess she had gone into this conversation knowing already that she had been dating Kim.
• 34:36
  Yes, because she had already heard from her siblings and or her father,
• 34:38
  other people who are trying to take care of her. Yeah, so
• 34:42
  she already knew. Kim hadn't even talked to her about it, but she
• 34:44
  already knew. It's just all so bungled and terribly handled. I have no
• 34:47
  respect for you as a parent, Kim, none. But I thought Amber
• 34:52
  handled it as best as she could. And she says to the camera like,
• 34:54
  it's not really what I want, but you know, I'm but then
• 34:58
  I decided to be a p just so mature. She's Wow, I'm happy
• 35:02
  that my mom is happy. And Ken seems like a nice person like Yolo,
• 35:07
  and she's like fourteen, right, Like I would not have been that
• 35:08
  emotionally mature. I would have been so mad. I feel like she's a
• 35:12
  little ticking time bomb. I'm like, she could go a couple of different
• 35:15
  ways as those hormones start cycling through that little body. She can go demon
• 35:21
  mode or she can go angel lydia mode. I'm very curious to see which
• 35:23
  which is very smart she is and she has her own opinions, which is
• 35:27
  why Kim was rightly afraid to tell her. For sure. Kim was so
• 35:31
  relieved. Yeah, she was like, oh my god, the really she's
• 35:34
  okay because all the older kids express their discomfort, discomfort, negativity, negative,
• 35:39
  that's the right word. Yeah, with all of this, so I'm
• 35:42
  so glad that at least I have one kid that's happy with it for her
• 35:45
  now, for now, but you fucked her up. Yep, this girl's
• 35:50
  now fucked up. So that's on you, Kim. And then of course
• 35:53
  the final part of this episode, we have Ethan and Micah making the track
• 35:59
  from Caro all the way up to Minnesota, taking that car back, but
• 36:04
  really facilitating a conversation that these two brothers really need to have. And so
• 36:09
  there were some things that came out in this conversation that I thought were interesting
• 36:14
  for me. For example, when Ethan just kind of out of nowhere starts
• 36:19
  saying that love hurts. Yeah, you know, love hurts. When Joshua
• 36:24
  died, it hurt. And then Micah said, it still hurts when our
• 36:29
  dog Ruby died and we had to put her down. That hurts. When
• 36:32
  Olivia changed and became a totally different person, that hurts. I'm just like,
• 36:38
  he needs somebody to talk to. Really, he really needs therapy.
• 36:43
  Yes, Mike's not the person. I think Mike's going to do his very
• 36:45
  best. Micah's energy alone, to me transmutes people like, I don't know,
• 36:51
  I'm trying to say something here. I think Micah's presence is so chill
• 36:54
  and lovely and accepting that Ethan can feel safe to off gas in front of
• 37:00
  Michaeh and Mike's not going to judge him. No, Mike's maybe going to
• 37:04
  talk from his perspective, but he's not going to do it in a judgy
• 37:07
  way, and that's going to help Ethan to process. Yeah, And I
• 37:10
  think that's what Ethan really needs, honestly, And I'm sure wanted to go
• 37:15
  yeah, And I'm sure Micah is like happy to just be talking with him
• 37:17
  about anything and everything. But like for Ethan, who's been emotionless pretty much
• 37:23
  the last several seasons we've seen him, like, he hasn't really been the
• 37:27
  happy, go lucky guy from season one for a while, for him to
• 37:30
  just open up with love hurts, and I'm really tired of it hurting.
• 37:35
  I'm like, damn, your like heart is broken right now. It's broken
• 37:38
  because you miss your fucking family, even though you don't really want to admit
• 37:42
  it, you miss them a lot, and you miss how it used to
• 37:45
  be before Olivia came and fucked it all up. You miss Olivia and who
• 37:49
  she used to be. And it's fine that she's changed, but she's changed
• 37:52
  in such a way that you can't really grow with her, that's the problem.
• 37:57
  And then all of this stuff like I'm just like I feel really bad
• 38:00
  for him. I feel really bad for him, and Olivia's really messed him
• 38:02
  up because love shouldn't hurt this bad. Well, but I mean, when
• 38:07
  you get married at eighteen years old, it's going to hurt. And I
• 38:09
  really can't. As for as much as I don't like Olivia, I cannot
• 38:13
  blame her for becoming her own person. And then that not aligning with who
• 38:16
  Ethan is. That's really not her fault. But I do feel bad for
• 38:21
  Ethan. In this moment, he kind of opens up the conversation by saying,
• 38:23
  I spent a year and a half to two years really sad, Yeah,
• 38:28
  like deeply sad because Olivia changed. And I asked myself, is it
• 38:31
  because of mom? Did Mom make Olivia change? Or is it something in
• 38:36
  Olivia that caused her to change? But whatever happened made me really sad.
• 38:40
  Well, I'm like, what did she change? So, like, what
• 38:44
  did she change so much that has been devastating to him? The religion?
• 38:47
  Yes, I mean, but like that and then she would have to be
• 38:52
  like an atheist then, right, because that would that to me, is
• 38:54
  like the only realalistic scenario that would get make Ethan so devastated, right,
• 39:01
  Like if she just completely denounced all of it, was like, I'm an
• 39:04
  atheist. I don't even believe in any of it. All this shit is
• 39:07
  stupid. Your beliefs are stupid. If she reacted like that, but it
• 39:09
  doesn't seem like she is. No, I don't know what exactly the change
• 39:14
  is because she's just saying it's political and it's social, I can guess,
• 39:19
  but I can tell you what caused the change, and it's fame. It's
• 39:23
  this television show. And as soon as she felt she had a platform to
• 39:30
  model herself as the better person, yeah, or the person with superior morals
• 39:34
  and values, she took that all the way. Mm. And I think
• 39:38
  virtue signals and makes herself out to be a certain kind of person. And
• 39:43
  I don't even know if I believe that she's actually that kind of person,
• 39:46
  the person she wants us to believe that she is. Like, if she
• 39:51
  were actually that person, I would vibe with that. We probably align in
• 39:53
  most ways politically, socially, and otherwise. But I don't believe her.
• 39:58
  Yeah, And I can imagine that's very confusing to somebody like Ethan who just
• 40:01
  wants to connect and I want to connect to the person that I thought you
• 40:05
  were and now who are you? And why are you this person? Right?
• 40:07
  And it's like it's not like she changed so much over a long period
• 40:10
  of time, like they've only been married for four years. So I'm sure
• 40:15
  that's also shocking for him too, like just okay, like two years ago,
• 40:21
  we were vibing and we were fine, and now everything is completely one
• 40:23
  percent different and I don't even know how to like mesh with you anymore.
• 40:29
  So I'm sure that's why it's heartbreaking what happened. Well, Welcome to plathfal
• 40:32
  happened, and what's going to happen to Olivia for real? For real when
• 40:37
  Welcome to Plathville is over or she's not invited back to Welcome to Plathfel because
• 40:42
  she's no longer a Plath No. I've been seeing so many comments online being
• 40:45
  like I want to spin off with just you. I want to see just
• 40:49
  you in your life. I don't care about the plaths like people here.
• 40:51
  The reality is that nobody wants to see that. I don't see anybody is
• 40:54
  actually going to watch that I ain't watch this Olivia in terms of the national
• 40:59
  consciousness. Reality to television consciousness is only important insofar as how she relates to
• 41:07
  the Plath That sounds the Plaths that sounds terrible. But that's what we're interested
• 41:12
  in, I mean interested in her impact on this family. We're interested in
• 41:15
  how she's actually in a relationship with Ethan, and I would be interested to
• 41:20
  see what happens to her afterwards. But under no circumstance do I want to
• 41:23
  follow this woman and her life because she doesn't tell the truth. I really
• 41:25
  don't think she tells the truth. Everything's a set up and a con She's
• 41:30
  a master manipulator. And I was thinking while watching this episode with like her
• 41:35
  and her sister Lydia Grace, and like they must have come from such a
• 41:38
  fucked up family to both be like these crazy, manipulative, shady people,
• 41:45
  like where everything has to be a fight, everything has to be a conflict,
• 41:50
  they're always reacting to something like their family life must have been much more
• 41:55
  messed up than the plasts. I am ido too, Yes, I think
• 41:58
  that you have a microcop of inter family politics and like who's the kid that
• 42:04
  gets the most favor and it sounds like Olivia was always vuying for that,
• 42:07
  and she was a narc and she was turning Lydia, Grace and the other
• 42:09
  kids in and so it just sounds like it was pretty terrible. Yeah.
• 42:14
  So I think there's hope for Olivia. I think she's got a lot of
• 42:16
  raw materials. She can turn that around. And again I say, at
• 42:21
  her age, I was an absolute monster, an absolute monster. I was
• 42:25
  too unconscious. I was a free radical on the planet, damaging everything I
• 42:30
  contacted. So there's hope for Olivia, But I am not buying currently.
• 42:34
  I am not buying what she is trying to sell. Nope. Now,
• 42:36
  the other thing that they had a conversation about in the Uhau on the way
• 42:40
  to Minnesota was Mariah, Yes, so what did you think about that part
• 42:45
  with the whole music conversation? Right, So Mica brings it up and says,
• 42:50
  well, Olivia stole her music and held it over ransom over Mariah,
• 42:54
  and Ethan immediately is like, no, that's not the case. But I'm
• 42:59
  like, I was trying to remember while I was watching this, has Mariah
• 43:01
  talked about her stealing the music? As Mariah said, Olivia stole my music
• 43:06
  and didn't give me the passwords. I don't think she said it so plainly
• 43:09
  as that. I think she implied it that. One day she wanted to
• 43:14
  get into the account and she noticed I'm unable to get into the account.
• 43:17
  Yeah, so she wrote Olivia and said, hey, can I get the
• 43:20
  log in information? I want to get my music, and that is when
• 43:23
  they started to have it back and forth. Olivia didn't respond right away,
• 43:28
  and so within a day or something, Mariah responded to her non response saying
• 43:32
  I'm going to get a lawyer, and then Olivia nuked the account, sent
• 43:37
  her her files and then said take all of my pictures off of your Instagram
• 43:40
  because if you don't, I'm going to copyright claim them. Right, So
• 43:44
  it sounds to me, then tell me what you think. It sounds to
• 43:46
  me like Mariah doesn't know technology. Yeah, she didn't know how to log
• 43:51
  into the account that Olivia had set up for her and potentially maintained for her.
• 43:57
  And at some point, when she knew that Olivia had called out Kim,
• 44:00
  her mother for stealing from Ethan, she knew she didn't want to be
• 44:05
  affiliated with Olivia anymore, and so there was already conflict and problems. She
• 44:08
  asked for the information and that was the last straw and turned around and probably
• 44:14
  framed it as Olivia was going to take my music. Yeah, I don't
• 44:16
  think Olivia was trying to do that. I don't know. I don't think
• 44:20
  so either. I think Olivia was probably being a little bit more shady than
• 44:22
  what she's implying, though petty certainly patty petty, like the older sister type
• 44:28
  of thing of like, oh well, no, I never said that,
• 44:30
  Like you're just lying, You're just trying to get me in trouble with mom.
• 44:32
  Like it's like that kind of a vibe for me, where I think
• 44:37
  Mariah's being a little dramatic too, because she's like, I'm going to get
• 44:39
  a lawyer and get my stupid music. Are my five dollars that I made
• 44:44
  for my music if you stole from me? Like that's a little ridiculous.
• 44:47
  But I'm just like also kind of tired of hearing about this whole commys wow,
• 44:52
  Like I'd rather hear about the whole credit card MLM thing with Kim.
• 44:55
  I'd rather get all the sides from that. I'm tired of hearing Olivia just
• 45:00
  like play the victim with this whole Mariah music, thaying like, it's done.
• 45:04
  You gave her her music. Can we just be over it? But
• 45:07
  she's so fucking bitter and so aghast that somebody could accuse her of stealing and
• 45:13
  holding this music ransom over Mariah, that she's just going to milk it for
• 45:17
  all that it's worth and continue to cause tension within the family because now it
• 45:22
  would for its tension between Micah and Mariah, because Mike's siding with Mariah and
• 45:28
  Olivia used to be friends with both of them, and now she's like,
• 45:30
  fuck, y'all right, I'm just over it. Yeah, I'm kind of
• 45:34
  over it too. And I really wish they would have just talked about the
• 45:36
  social media post because that is what Ethan is really upset about, and that
• 45:39
  would have led into a conversation about the credit card that Kim allegedly took and
• 45:45
  ran up and made Ethan pay, and like, I want to hear more
• 45:47
  about that. Because of course, when Kim had the opportunity to address this,
• 45:52
  she's like, I know my truth. I don't have to tell anybody
• 45:55
  my truth. My truth, so I'm like, okay. So then if
• 45:59
  there's an act accusation out there against you, and you're not going to defend
• 46:02
  it. We have no option but to kind of believe what the accusation is
• 46:07
  exactly. But if we could have Ethan in the U haul truck with Micah,
• 46:10
  maybe elaborate a little bit about why he's pissed about the social media post,
• 46:14
  because I can attest to the fact that mom stole from me, like
• 46:17
  I would love to hear that. Yes, I would love to hear that
• 46:21
  too, and then it maybe it would help Mariah and Mica and not be
• 46:23
  filled with rose colored glasses, you know, over their mom and stuff,
• 46:27
  because they're both kind of trying to be in better faith with Kim And I'm
• 46:31
  just like, Okay, your mom's not an angel here. She's not perfect.
• 46:36
  Like she's done some shitty shit too. Absolutely there's truth to all of
• 46:40
  it. I'm just tired of like Olivia milking it just for the cameras and
• 46:44
  for drum of Mariah milking, walking, milking and not talking about it.
• 46:47
  It's dumb, right, get over it, grow up. I'm over it.
• 46:52
  This episode ends with Ethan sitting on the couch saying that he can say
• 46:55
  one hundred percent with certainty that Olivia did not steal he did not steal,
• 47:00
  and anybody who says that they did is lying. Okay, Mariah, and
• 47:05
  so he allowed to say, but they're lying. Yeah, so okay,
• 47:07
  I don't know. I actually think it's maybe a misunderstanding. It probably it's
• 47:10
  not that deep. Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. Do We then go
• 47:14
  to the preview and we see Barry and Kim sitting at a table watching Mariah
• 47:19
  ballroom dance, and Barry's telling the camera that he does not condone Kim seeing
• 47:27
  Ken Palmer, but what can he do about it? Oh my god,
• 47:30
  he is seething. He looks mad, he looks uncomfy sitting there next to
• 47:35
  Kim. Oh, oh Jesus. But he showed up, didn't he?
• 47:37
  Yeah, he did. He showed up. Then we see Mariah calling while
• 47:42
  Micah and Ethan are in the U haul and saying that she's not gonna apologize
• 47:46
  for something she's not sorry for. Okay, Christian girl, Okay, come
• 47:52
  on, just put your shit down. Pride cometh before a fall. Say
• 47:55
  I'm sorry I should have paid September's rent. I mean, I'm offender.
• 48:00
  The two yelled at me, But we can get over this. You're my
• 48:01
  brother. I love it. It's really not that hard, but she doesn't
• 48:05
  want to do that. And finally we see Olivia facetiming with Lydia Grace,
• 48:08
  who is a iconic shit stir. Yeah, what are you gonna do if
• 48:14
  Michael walks into your house after texting you and saying he just wants to keep
• 48:16
  it light and airy, And she's like, I can't be fake. Olivia
• 48:20
  says, I don't know how to be fake, So we're gonna have a
• 48:23
  conversation about it. Okay, okay, If anybody on this show knows how
• 48:29
  to be fake, honey, it's you Ben being fake for real. So
• 48:35
  I'm here for it. And you know, I was reading Reddit before I
• 48:37
  actually watched the episode, and people were like, oh my god, so
• 48:40
  boring and they're singing again, and so I was going into it like,
• 48:44
  oh lord, this is going to be terrible. But I actually really liked
• 48:47
  this episode me too. I like seeing the kids coming back together. I
• 48:52
  like seeing Barry kind of centered in the middle of that family. I like
• 48:55
  seeing Kim being so shallow ye that all she has in her life is to
• 49:00
  talk about Ken Palmer to her kids who don't want to hear it anymore.
• 49:04
  At all like, I cat, I love it, even though Olivia shit,
• 49:07
  I'm just like, oh bitch, you're trying to pull the wool over
• 49:09
  everybody's eyes. But Ussie right through you. We both see right through her.
• 49:14
  We've got raccoon eyes. Yeah, we can see in the dark.
• 49:16
  Yeah, we're nocturnal. This is a great time to take a break.
• 49:21
  We got to pay the bills. We will be back on the other side
• 49:23
  to talk about nine to Day Fiance. I can't wait. That was a
• 49:28
  shit show as well, so we'll be right back. All right, we
• 49:32
  are back to talk about ninety day Fiance. And I just want to say,
• 49:37
  not ninety day fiance the other way. No, not nine to day
• 49:40
  fiance before the ninety days, not even ninety day fiance the single life,
• 49:45
  Nope, or nine to day Fiance Pedra and Chantelle. Although I want to
• 49:49
  watch that and you won't. Let a lot of people know, a lot
• 49:52
  of people want us to watch it. I'm just like, oh my god,
• 49:54
  apparently there's some shit going down with Pedro. Well, I watch my
• 49:58
  thoughts on YouTube, and you know who that is. She's so funny.
• 50:00
  I already know how funny she is. Yeah, And if you don't,
• 50:02
  you should find her. Yeah, but I was watching her recap of Pedro
• 50:07
  and Chantal, and I was looking at some of the footage and I'm just
• 50:09
  gobsmacked and how different Chantal looks, because the last time I followed them was
• 50:15
  like maybe their first season or their first couple of seasons. But she is
• 50:19
  one hundred percent different. Yeah, and Pedro was in his tidy whities in
• 50:23
  the bathroom with his leg kicked up onto the counter with all of his junk
• 50:28
  spilling forth. I'm like, but you liked out, Petro. You done
• 50:31
  this is incredibly an appropriate. Could you imagine if your husband did that when
• 50:36
  he was brushing his teeth? No, what are you doing? Pro Magnan
• 50:39
  nn ogg make fire? Jesus, we see your jump? Thanks so crazy
• 50:45
  anyway, but I want to watch it. It seems really ridiculous and right
• 50:49
  up our alley. But we won't. We won't. We've got three shows
• 50:52
  that we're currently doing, plus we have busy three extra shows that we are
• 50:54
  currently covering on Patreon. So let's just stick to ninety Day Fiance for now.
• 51:00
  Okay, Yeah, well, start us off. What do we got
• 51:01
  here? You're gonna bring us up to speed because this has been airing for
• 51:07
  about a month. Yep, So you will kind of download us on all
• 51:10
  of the couples. Yeah, and then we'll get into this week's episode.
• 51:14
  Yeah, Okay, I'm just gonna go over all the couples. All right,
• 51:16
  I'm just gonna say, I'm gonna follow your Yeah, I'm going limp,
• 51:19
  go with the flow, going, limp, go with the flow.
• 51:21
  So we have six couples this season. A couple of them are new.
• 51:24
  First one we have is Robin Sophie. But who's the hamster guy? That's
• 51:30
  Clayton. Oh my god, I can't wait to get to the hamster guy
• 51:32
  because not hamster guinea pigs. Oh I'm sorry, my bad. God,
• 51:37
  that was wonderful. But anyway, who's the first couple, Rob and Sophie.
• 51:40
  Rob is thirty two from La aka Anglewood. Dollar Store Drake, Yes,
• 51:46
  dollar store Drake. Okay, God, it's Sophie who's twenty three and
• 51:51
  from London, England, and she's so fucking rich. Dude? Is she
• 51:54
  so rich? She doesn't even know what her grandfather does for a living.
• 51:58
  She's not rich. She has made and ship. She's a social media influencer,
• 52:02
  Like she's just living her best year girl, I really love him if
• 52:06
  she's willing to cohabitate with him in that broke down cardboard box of an unsafe
• 52:14
  apartment, that radio apartment that looks like a hostel, with his fucking bathroom
• 52:19
  that's outside of his plays and all this shit everywhere. I'm just like,
• 52:22
  it's California. He's probably paying four thousand a month for that. Is he
• 52:27
  like a singer, is in the entertainment industry. He said, jack of
• 52:30
  all trades, and he used to be a model. And that's how he
• 52:32
  met Sophie because she DMed him because you know, he's so hot and so
• 52:36
  attractive, and so he was getting dms upon dms upon dms from all these
• 52:40
  hot bitches, but they weren't hot enough for him until Sophie DMed him.
• 52:45
  Well, He's like, wow, in all fairness, the man is handsome.
• 52:50
  He looks a little bit like Jesse Williams from Gray's and that I am
• 52:53
  a little bit a little bit of I'm a little bit of He's not hideous,
• 53:00
  Well, he's not hideous. It's got kind of a weird head.
• 53:02
  He does have kind of a strange head. And his profile, like from
• 53:07
  his profile, he looks like a baby. Yeah, but what makes him
• 53:13
  ugly is his personality, dude and the serial killer eyes. I'm just like,
• 53:16
  what is wrong with you? You are operating at such a disadvantage.
• 53:20
  You really have no business giving her a hard time for having trauma around birth.
• 53:23
  Yeah, Jesus Christ. Well yeah, so you missed that last episode
• 53:27
  because we're catching up on these. So last episode, she revealed at like
• 53:31
  some dinner or whatever, that she didn't want to get pregnant, and apparently
• 53:35
  they had never talked about this before, even though they're planning to get married.
• 53:37
  Apparently they had never talked about it. He was shocked. He got
• 53:40
  up from the table like stormed off and was like, super piston her for
• 53:45
  not wanting to get pregnant, because that's how you communicate and maintain a healthy
• 53:49
  relationship. Is you just storm yep? Yes? And so then she revealed
• 53:52
  she's got a medical condition. She had assist on her over or something or
• 53:55
  a tumor, I can't remember, and she was told that it could affect
• 53:59
  her for tidy. And so in this week's episode, we meet them having
• 54:04
  lunch or whatever, and they're trying to talk about this agreement on studio apartment.
• 54:13
  So they're having lunch or whatever, and she's talking him about it and
• 54:15
  trying to explain herself as to why she doesn't want to have kids or why
• 54:21
  she's scared of being pregnant, and he's like, but I want a little
• 54:22
  me though. I want babies though, So how are you gonna I'm okay
• 54:27
  with a sarrogate. Yeah, I'm okay adopting. And he's like, well,
• 54:30
  if it's not like from my lloy from ud, if it's not blood
• 54:34
  of my blood, I'm not interested. God, God, ego, ego,
• 54:37
  ego, ego, Dick, how about just sit with her? Ask
• 54:40
  her where her fear comes from. Why does she feel that way? Is
• 54:44
  there anything I can do for you? I'm not going to rush you,
• 54:46
  baby, And if and when we ever have a child in the future,
• 54:50
  it's going to be beautiful. I'm going to be right there to support you.
• 54:52
  I mean, is that just a crazy pipe dream that it's possible a
• 54:54
  man would do that for a woman? Yes, because it's not okay,
• 54:58
  fiance, I'm sorry, okay, oh you missed too. And like the
• 55:04
  first second episode, he had such a cringe airport proposal to her. He
• 55:08
  like did a whole ass dance with like a speaker and ever aal like Salu
• 55:15
  and Collate. It was so way to minringe a speaker a speaker like bluetooth
• 55:21
  speaker, and he did it in the middle of like the walkway area,
• 55:23
  so people are walking by him, and he's like, God, can you
• 55:25
  guys just like leave me alone. I'm trying to like dance. And Sophie's
• 55:30
  jet lagged as fuck and she's tired with no magup. She's like, can
• 55:32
  we just like go home. It's like four in the morning, wash my
• 55:36
  butt and eat a girl cheese sandwich and just chill. But she's got to
• 55:39
  go back to that fucking studio apartment. Though. He's just so cringe and
• 55:44
  he like got mad at her because she wasn't like super excited about it because
• 55:46
  she's jet lagged and tired, and she's like, and also, I'm embarrassed.
• 55:50
  This is embarrassing. Do you see yourself? It was pretty amazing and
• 55:53
  you see yourself from outside of your own body? Yeah, because I'm seeing
• 55:57
  you and it's awful. Yeah. The other thing in their storyline is that
• 56:01
  she has not told him that she is best actual Oh my gosh, she
• 56:06
  locked at you to box well, she's never been to box it. She's
• 56:08
  never been to get a box it. She liked to get a box it
• 56:15
  a woman yet though she's more like by curious, Sorry, isn't that every
• 56:24
  woman? Is that such a scandal to tell Dollar Store Drake. He's gonna
• 56:28
  love it, By the way, I hope he's gonna immediately want to set
• 56:30
  up a threesome, you think so, of course, I don't know,
• 56:35
  man, I don't know. I feel like she's scared to tell him because
• 56:39
  she's worried that he's gonna get mad, and like, judging by how he
• 56:42
  reacts to everything else, to always be mad, I feel like you'll escalate.
• 56:45
  And so in this episode, they go to the cur with Rob's friend
• 56:53
  and who seems really nice. Well, he doesn't like, Oh, Sophie,
• 57:00
  I'm sorry. I was thinking of oh, you're right. They go
• 57:02
  to the club with that guy, and she has a friend that she met
• 57:06
  on some site, some dating app. Right in the friends section of the
• 57:10
  dating app. She met this lady and they go to the club together and
• 57:16
  Rob's friend is immediately like, so are you into girls? How'd you meet
• 57:20
  this girl? Uh? Do you like girls? Like she's asking her friend
• 57:23
  and she's like, now, I'm not who are you? Yeah, I
• 57:27
  just met you. Why are we talking about my sexuality in appropriate? And
• 57:30
  Sophie's like, no, she doesn't. I guess she allegedly met this friend
• 57:35
  on the dating app in the friends section before she realized that she was bisexual.
• 57:39
  She wanted to eat the box. Probably, she probably want to eat
• 57:42
  a box. She probably wants to experiment a little bit. Okay, should
• 57:45
  come into la. She wants to be freaky data. That's fine, but
• 57:47
  like, tell your man first, though, Yes, I feel like he's
• 57:51
  just gonna explode about it. He's gonna be like what, he's gonna be
• 57:53
  one of those toxic men that's gonna be like you exactly. It's my jack
• 57:58
  himmering. And it's not enough for me. No, I need much more.
• 58:02
  I need a box a box. But yeah, that's pretty much at
• 58:08
  the end of this episode. I was going to get to Okay, sorry,
• 58:12
  so I was gonna get to that, you're in charge of ninety fiance.
• 58:14
  You never let me lead. I'm sorry, I'm terrible, And then
• 58:19
  the episode concludes with some shocking information I was shocked, which is Sophie moved
• 58:27
  out of the shitty studio apartment into a much nicer house with a much nicer
• 58:31
  hotel, with an actual bathroom, an actual shower. I guess. The
• 58:36
  night prior to her moving out, she was looking on Rob's phone and she
• 58:40
  found an app where he was soliciting and sending nudy photos and videos to some
• 58:46
  OnlyFans chick probably or to several chicks, I don't know. But it really
• 58:52
  tore her up because he's done this before. So he's done this before,
• 58:55
  and she's confronted him about it and said, please don't ever do this again
• 58:59
  because this is a hard boundary and I don't want you to do it again
• 59:01
  because I consider it cheating. And then he does it again, and so
• 59:05
  they had a big old fight, and she's devastated because she loves him and
• 59:07
  she has nobody here, and she's stuck in Englewood, California by herself.
• 59:12
  And she's like, if I was in London, I would just go to
• 59:15
  my mom's or go to your friends. I'd be see you never. I'm
• 59:17
  like, well, if you're so rich, just get on your first class
• 59:21
  ticket, get on the plane and go back to London. Just get out
• 59:22
  of here. You don't want to live here. You don't want to be
• 59:24
  here, but she loves him for some reason, so they're probably gonna talk
• 59:29
  about it, and he's gonna be like, I wasn't even doing anything.
• 59:31
  I wasn't even doing anything. Well good kind of doing that in the car
• 59:37
  ride that she was filming. Yes, I'm not a perfect man, not
• 59:40
  perfect. Like you can say that again. I'm like, dude, there's
• 59:44
  one to say the least. There's a difference between like watching porn and then
• 59:47
  sending lude videos to a porn actress and then getting them back, Like that's
• 59:54
  what it sounds like he was doing. He was like responding, like,
• 59:57
  probably jacking off. Young people are crazy. I don't do add shit,
• 1:00:00
  I mean, but young just to send a nude. I did send a
• 1:00:04
  nude one summer somewhere in Colorado. You know that it could reserves it any
• 1:00:10
  moment, and if it does, I'll show you all because I look so
• 1:00:13
  good in it, woo like. But I'm just like, that was scandalous
• 1:00:16
  back then when I did it. Well, yeah, these you got kids
• 1:00:21
  doing it. You got all kinds of people just sending their nudes and sex
• 1:00:24
  and everything, and I'm scandalized for you young people. Stop doing it,
• 1:00:29
  and now there's a Hi Deep fakes and ship where people are making fake nudes
• 1:00:31
  of people's faces and I'm just like good Award Luciferian matrix. But do go
• 1:00:37
  in too. Yes, So that's how it leaves this episode. She's not
• 1:00:40
  going anywhere. She's crying about it. They're going to talk about it,
• 1:00:45
  and then she'll get back together with him, and then he'll inevitably do it
• 1:00:47
  again, like he's just a piece of shit. Oh. I did have
• 1:00:50
  an article though about him, okay, because he's been arrested. So Rob's
• 1:00:55
  been arrested twice. So his first offense took place in January one, thousand
• 1:01:00
  and seven, when he was seventeen years old. He was charged with one
• 1:01:02
  count of aggravated battery and one count of battery related to an incident that occurred
• 1:01:07
  at seven pm. Blah blah blah blah. And then the second time he
• 1:01:12
  was arrested was nine months later, and he was charged with one count of
• 1:01:15
  aggravated assault and one count of of obstructing or impeding of lawful activities. Oh
• 1:01:23
  my goodness. Yeah, So, I mean he was young and maybe he
• 1:01:29
  was involved with like bad people, but the aggravated assault thing though, I'm
• 1:01:34
  like you and danger girl. Yeah, I kind of went back to London.
• 1:01:37
  Yeah, you don't need any of that business. No, I don't
• 1:01:39
  really like him though, I've never I haven't gotten there's no redeeming qualities whatsoever.
• 1:01:45
  Got weird eyes. I'm just like you, look baby profile, weird
• 1:01:49
  man. Well you think he looks like Jesse? What's his face? And
• 1:01:52
  when he's looking straight on, there's like and if I'm blurring my eyes,
• 1:01:54
  I'm blurring my eyes and he's looking straight on, I'm like, oh my
• 1:01:57
  good goddess, daddy. Sorry, I don't know. We'll see what happens
• 1:02:01
  with them. Next couple we have is the most scandalous. I think Nikki
• 1:02:06
  Exotica and Justin aka Egor. Let's call him Igor. That is his name.
• 1:02:13
  That is his name, that is what his family calls him. Yes,
• 1:02:15
  that is what he was Moniker. Yeah, there's no reason to call
• 1:02:20
  him Justin. Well, he used to look like Justin Timberlake. That's why
• 1:02:23
  she renamed he. Come on, poor guy. I know. So NICKI
• 1:02:29
  is forty seven. If you can believe it, she I cannot. She
• 1:02:37
  looks older. Sorry, but she is a transgender woman. She's from Hoboken,
• 1:02:40
  New Jersey. She's had a million plastic surgery. I mean, yeah,
• 1:02:46
  well she's gotten only fans. She's prostitute. She yeah, and she
• 1:02:51
  charges like sixteen dollars a month for the only time. I'm not trying to
• 1:02:52
  hate on sex workers, but she's a terrible person. So she's awful.
• 1:02:57
  I don't care. She is awful. So she's had a million pleas of
• 1:03:00
  surgeries. She's had her eye color surgically changed. That yes, which is
• 1:03:05
  nuts. I didn't even know that that was the thing. Igor is thirty
• 1:03:09
  six and he's from Kishnau or whatever, Moldova. He has a personal trainer
• 1:03:15
  where Andre the monsters from. Yep, Yeah, those Moldovan men are something
• 1:03:21
  else. But they met seventeen years ago when Nikki was actually in Moldova meeting
• 1:03:29
  another man that she fell in love with. Okay, and this previous relationship
• 1:03:32
  didn't work out because when she flew back to Moldova because she was in a
• 1:03:36
  relationship with this guy in America and then he got into some trouble and he
• 1:03:39
  got deported, So then she flew back to Moldova to see him after he
• 1:03:43
  got deported. And she gets there and he's in an apartment with another chick,
• 1:03:49
  Like he's got a whole ass wife. So they ended their relationship.
• 1:03:52
  And then she immediately gets on a dating app because as we know, she's
• 1:03:54
  obsessed with sex. And she meets Igor and they go on a date and
• 1:03:59
  it was very wholesome and sweet. They didn't even have sex that first night.
• 1:04:02
  And then and how old was Igor at the time. He was nineteen,
• 1:04:06
  Okay, so pretty young, but I thought he was a miner.
• 1:04:10
  Like there were some people saying online that she had groomed him when he was
• 1:04:14
  like seventeen. I don't know if that's true or not, because I was
• 1:04:17
  looking up their ages. He was nineteen. But they dated for a while
• 1:04:21
  and then after her fourth trip to Moldova, she was like going back and
• 1:04:25
  forth to see him. After her fourth trip, he proposed to her.
• 1:04:29
  So they had a whole ass relationship. They were together for two years.
• 1:04:31
  But he did not know she was trans at this time. No, and
• 1:04:34
  she had already had the bottom surgery. So she had had the bottom surgery
• 1:04:39
  when she was twenty. So they were banging, Yes, they were banging
• 1:04:42
  a lot. They were together for two years. She did not tell him
• 1:04:46
  that she was trans this entire time. He had no idea, and back
• 1:04:49
  then she actually looked a little bit more natural, she wasn't as filled with
• 1:04:53
  plastic. And she decided to tell him that she was trans in the middle
• 1:04:57
  of an argument. So they were arguing ab something about like cleaning or whatever,
• 1:05:01
  and she said, you know what, I have a secret to tell
• 1:05:04
  you. I used to be born a man. And she admits to this
• 1:05:08
  herself that she traumatized him because of this. And so you refreshed me as
• 1:05:11
  to where they were in the timeline in terms of ages when this happened,
• 1:05:15
  Like he was early twenties, Okay, so he's known for a long time.
• 1:05:18
  Though it's not like he just learned this season. This was known for
• 1:05:23
  years. Yeah, this was fifteen years ago when they had already had their
• 1:05:26
  two year relationship. They had proposed and had sex, yes, and they
• 1:05:30
  were in the process of getting the K one visa back then. And so
• 1:05:33
  once she decides to blurt this out, their relationship basically ends for many,
• 1:05:39
  many, many years, and they're very strained because Igor was traumatized, of
• 1:05:43
  course, and didn't know how to react and didn't know how to deal with
• 1:05:45
  things, and so it really fucked a lot of things up, and so
• 1:05:49
  I guess over the last fifteen years they had been keeping in touch periodically and
• 1:05:55
  probably seeing each other off and on. As the years go by and Reese
• 1:06:00
  they have tried to like rekindle things a bit and like try to have a
• 1:06:03
  normal relationship again. So he proposed to her a second time. I think
• 1:06:06
  they were on a trip in like Mexico or something. And so that's where
• 1:06:10
  we're at now, is that he knows she's Trands. He's known she's Trands
• 1:06:14
  this whole entire time. He's like dealt with all of those feelings and everything.
• 1:06:16
  It's still hard for him though, and he still struggles with that as
• 1:06:19
  we see in this season, he struggles particularly with intimacy. But I think
• 1:06:27
  it's also because of how Nikki is with her personality. I think she's kind
• 1:06:30
  of crazy and she's overbearing yes, team too much, Yes, And so
• 1:06:35
  he doesn't really know how to get his man energy. He calls it to
• 1:06:41
  spark up for her. So that's where we see them in this episode.
• 1:06:44
  Can I ask you a question? Yeah, So, after he learns that
• 1:06:47
  she's trans, and then they make up and they start talking again and they
• 1:06:51
  see each other. They go to Mexico where they having sex at that point.
• 1:06:56
  Okay, so there was a time when he could have sex with her
• 1:07:00
  and felt aroused. Yeah with her, Yeah, after he learned that she
• 1:07:03
  was trying to So, Okay, that gives me some good context for what's
• 1:07:08
  going on here. But because in this particular visit, he's not having sex
• 1:07:12
  with her, well, she just got there, right, she just flew
• 1:07:15
  in. And because he hasn't been fucking her the second that she got in,
• 1:07:19
  she's upset by it because they haven't seen each other in nine month,
• 1:07:24
  nine months, so she expected him to just ravish her the second that she
• 1:07:29
  got off the plane, and he hasn't because again, they haven't seen each
• 1:07:31
  other in nine months. So it's like, just take some time a little
• 1:07:34
  bit. Let's just like calm down and like ease into it and it'll be
• 1:07:39
  fine. And judging from their relationship at the very beginning, when she said
• 1:07:44
  their first date, he didn't even try to have sex with her, and
• 1:07:45
  she was very surprised by that. He seems like the type of guy that's
• 1:07:48
  like, let's take things slow, let me romance you a little bit,
• 1:07:51
  let me whine and dine you a little bit, right, that's what it
• 1:07:54
  seems like to me. But that's not good enough for her. So last
• 1:07:57
  episode they had a huge fight in the park where she was like, if
• 1:08:00
  you don't fuck me within forty eight hours, I'm leaving. And she flipped
• 1:08:05
  out in the park like she was like very inappropriate. She was like asking
• 1:08:09
  him to lick ice cream off her face and like all this stuff, and
• 1:08:13
  he just upset. And now in this episode she's blaming it on the hormones
• 1:08:16
  because I guess she took a hormone shot like just before she flew over to
• 1:08:19
  Moldova, and those can make her crazy, which I guess I can understand,
• 1:08:25
  but like, dude, yeah, calm down, right, it's pretty
• 1:08:30
  fucking crazy. Like every scene with them is her talking about the intimacy.
• 1:08:35
  Well, and I'm sorry, but this is giving me Kimbali predator vibes.
• 1:08:41
  Yeah, and there's all kinds of older women on these franchises that are constantly
• 1:08:45
  pressuring younger men into sex in a very unhealthy and toxic way. Yep,
• 1:08:50
  that alone is a boner killer. Yeah. I think it's gross. I'm
• 1:08:55
  like, chill out. He doesn't owe you shit. First of all,
• 1:08:57
  let me ask you questions. So do we think that he has a fundamental
• 1:09:00
  issue with her being trans, like that he has a problem with it,
• 1:09:04
  or do we strictly think it's because of her ass personality. I think part
• 1:09:10
  of it will always be the trans thing. I think he is accepting of
• 1:09:15
  it at this point in time, but I think it's taken him a while
• 1:09:17
  to get to that point. And you know, maybe he's not necessarily attracted
• 1:09:24
  to her anymore either, not because of the transgenderism stuff, but because she
• 1:09:29
  looks a lot different from when they first started dating, and it is a
• 1:09:32
  stark change, and like her personality is a little crazy, little I mean,
• 1:09:40
  she's a full blown narcissist. Like when they're at that restaurant, she's
• 1:09:43
  like, oh my god, I just got clocked, honey, there's cameras
• 1:09:45
  there. Yes, And you are a bit of a spectacle physically, I'm
• 1:09:49
  sorry. I mean with all of your glitter clothing and your many plastic surgeries.
• 1:09:55
  So people, especially in Moldova, they're going to look it has nothing
• 1:09:58
  to do with being clocked. No, But it's like she connects absolutely everything
• 1:10:01
  back to her being transgendered. Yep. And then she's still not like acknowledging
• 1:10:08
  that, oh, Igor probably isn't wanting to have sex because of all of
• 1:10:13
  the shit that I've put him through in this relationship. Like they have been
• 1:10:15
  fucking before this, so maybe this is all like producer driven or something,
• 1:10:18
  or like, maybe this is just their storyline and maybe by next episode they
• 1:10:23
  will have had sex and everything will be fine. But she's expecting it like
• 1:10:27
  multiple times a day, every day because back when they were first together many
• 1:10:31
  many years ago, they were screwing all the time. So she wants to
• 1:10:35
  go back to that. That's what she thinks is good for a relationship.
• 1:10:41
  And I'm like, okay, but what if he can't deliver that, then
• 1:10:44
  are you gonna get mad at him for it? Or are you gonna blame
• 1:10:46
  it on the trans stuff? Like I don't think it's that. Like,
• 1:10:48
  I think he's dealing with a lot and you kind of messed him up for
• 1:10:53
  life by scarring him for life. I don't know a whole lot of forty
• 1:10:57
  seven year old women who want to have sex seven times a day, I
• 1:11:00
  mean, or a year. I don't even want that. I just like,
• 1:11:03
  there's just a certain kind of rhythm to your life, and he's got
• 1:11:08
  a natural rhythm too, And so if he's nineteen years old, absolutely wants
• 1:11:11
  to fuck all the time, ten times a day. Absolutely, But he's
• 1:11:14
  thirty six years old, Yeah, he's out of a sexual prime. Yep.
• 1:11:16
  So yeah, she just seems full of pressure, full of dramatics,
• 1:11:20
  and completely inappropriate. And again that's a boner killer, and I feel bad
• 1:11:26
  for him, Like he's like, can I just go to my gym on
• 1:11:29
  my own, right, it's a small gym, the ceiling is falling in,
• 1:11:32
  it's not appropriate for people from other countries. I'll take you to a
• 1:11:35
  different gym. But like she's constantly pushing the limits and making it about the
• 1:11:42
  transdom, making him with the transfer, and also requiring him to prove himself
• 1:11:45
  to her and his love to her over and over again and exhausting. Yeah,
• 1:11:49
  the whole gym thing was really annoying to me because I'm like, he's
• 1:11:53
  literally saying, I found a gym that's good for foreigners and for people who
• 1:11:57
  are not from here, so like it would be good for you, trust
• 1:11:59
  me, please, I want to take care of you. I'm a personal
• 1:12:01
  trainer, right, yes, And she gets insulted by that, and she's
• 1:12:05
  like, well, we should be proud to be who we are. And
• 1:12:08
  I'm like, Okay, you can't change the whole country, though, you
• 1:12:12
  can't change these people. Like, yes, you can be out and proud,
• 1:12:15
  but like, that's totally an American Western privileged thing. In my opinion,
• 1:12:19
  as a layers being, as a representative of the community, we have
• 1:12:24
  it pretty good in most states in America. There are some states that are
• 1:12:28
  crazy. I'm not gonna lie. I've been to Alabama, okay, and
• 1:12:30
  those people are a little But for the most part, we don't know what
• 1:12:36
  it's like to be in a country that is predominantly homophobic and transphobic, like
• 1:12:42
  Moldova is not a friendly place for algibidicul act. So let your man take
• 1:12:45
  care of you, seriously, be safe. That's what he's supposed to do,
• 1:12:48
  and he's trying to do that. That's how he actually does show you
• 1:12:53
  love. So they're interesting. I'm not a fan of Nikki at all.
• 1:12:57
  No, and not a lot of people are. No, she's a narcissis.
• 1:13:00
  Yes, she's terrible. What else do you got going on besides all
• 1:13:02
  of this? I want to know who you are as a person, what's
• 1:13:05
  great about you? What do you believe in? What are you passionate about
• 1:13:08
  besides tits and ass and your face? For real? And was it this
• 1:13:11
  episode or last? I can't remember. She takes ninety minutes to get ready.
• 1:13:15
  Minimal, my god, Minimum. And all of the nails all of
• 1:13:18
  these women have. Can you imagine wiping your ass with those kind of nails?
• 1:13:21
  Like we cook, like we garden, we do all of these things.
• 1:13:25
  I cannot even imagine having nails longer than this. The second I have
• 1:13:29
  anything underneath my nails, I'm like, so disgusting. Let me dip them
• 1:13:31
  in bleach. They can have these claws. No thank you, no thank
• 1:13:36
  you at all. Guys. I My husband's like, if you ever get
• 1:13:40
  nails like that, He's like, absolutely not really, he thinks they're disgusting.
• 1:13:44
  I mean, I don't blame him, Yeah, I don't blame no
• 1:13:45
  offense. If you guys have nails. And there are some nails that are
• 1:13:48
  beautiful, like it's just not like most people keep them clean. Like when
• 1:13:51
  you get them long like that, clat clack clacking like that, it's like,
• 1:13:55
  oh my god, I can't can do it, Nikki, You're crazy.
• 1:14:00
  Next couple we have is Clayton and Anna Lee. So this is the
• 1:14:02
  first time we're meeting this couple. Clayton is the guy with the guinea pigs.
• 1:14:06
  Kenny Obese Chiicha love a guinea pig. I love in Obese Chiwawa.
• 1:14:11
  And it turns out they're pretty cute. But I'm like, take them on
• 1:14:14
  walks though. Yeah, it's not good for their house generally speaking. But
• 1:14:16
  Clayton, but he dresses up a skinney pig. I mean, do they
• 1:14:21
  enjoy it? Though? He seems kind of weird. Can you just pet
• 1:14:25
  me alone? I don't need to wear clothes. Meeting me in a natural
• 1:14:29
  habitat and I will thrive. Papa He lives in lexing Kin, Kentucky.
• 1:14:33
  He is a thirty year old who lives with his mother. His mother lives
• 1:14:38
  in a walk in closet. Honey, why why she was supposed to move
• 1:14:44
  out? But it was so comfy in the closet it's been three years.
• 1:14:46
  Well, she's a hoarder, obviously, because all of that mess in his
• 1:14:50
  apartment, in your own house, she probably hoarded it out. Did you
• 1:14:54
  see that storage unit? That was all her shit. I caun't with people
• 1:14:58
  like this. That was all her shit. Always the most belligerent people when
• 1:15:00
  you try and challenge them and all the ship that they're littering around your place,
• 1:15:04
  they get so upset and angry. Well, and I'm like, this
• 1:15:08
  woman is in a closet. Well, and this dude, this cyber security
• 1:15:11
  analyst, like, you're making decent enough money and I don't know what the
• 1:15:15
  cost of living is and lex and can it can't be, but it can't
• 1:15:17
  be like California for real. So I'm like, you can afford a two
• 1:15:21
  bedroom apartment so your mom doesn't have to live in the floor of a walking
• 1:15:25
  closet. But maybe she wants that. I don't know, honey, She's
• 1:15:28
  going to be a problem. This whole couple is gonna be a girlfriend's going
• 1:15:31
  to be a problem. And this guy is just so milk toast and shook.
• 1:15:38
  Is he a virgins he had sex before? Well, no, he's
• 1:15:42
  met Honaly in person, so maybe they did bang. I don't know.
• 1:15:45
  But he gains a lottle so he imprinted like a little duckling on her poo
• 1:15:48
  Nanni. He wants her back so much, but he can't get rid of
• 1:15:51
  his mother. She's so what They're gonna have sex in the bedroom probably,
• 1:15:55
  and she's going to be right there in the closet probably. Just like listening
• 1:16:00
  on this plant, I don't get it. Can you imagine if I mother
• 1:16:02
  in law? Absolutely, I'll just stay in your closet. Everybody really cuffy
• 1:16:08
  up with pillows down. No, I have my fucking pat my iPad,
• 1:16:11
  and I can watch it cray. I'll keep to myself. Just before we
• 1:16:15
  recorded this, her husband was telling me, will you take care of her
• 1:16:19
  if I die? And I was like, well yes. He's like,
• 1:16:21
  will you have her move in with you? And I said, yeah,
• 1:16:24
  you can live in my walk in class. Absolutely not. I want my
• 1:16:28
  own pad. If possible, I'd like my own pad. But I just
• 1:16:30
  this arrangement is preposterous. Is this for real? Is this script? Yeah?
• 1:16:34
  I think in his Oh my god, I think it's for real.
• 1:16:39
  But like Honily, seems like she is playing this dude for what it's worth.
• 1:16:44
  Because when Clayton gets on his computer to talk to hist his gaming friend
• 1:16:49
  or whatever that he's never met but he's known for thirteen years, he reveals
• 1:16:54
  that Honey has not told her family or anybody that Clayton even exists and at
• 1:16:59
  their dating and she hasn't told her dad, especially who her dad apparently calls
• 1:17:03
  her multiple times a day, like constantly, So I don't know if that's
• 1:17:10
  really her dad. Oh, Like, I'm wondering if it's like a boyfriend
• 1:17:13
  or something. Boyfriend. I don't know. It just seems shady. And
• 1:17:15
  then also Honaie revealed to Clayton that she's got a job waiting for her in
• 1:17:20
  the US. Oh okay, so I think she's just a green card for
• 1:17:25
  stair stepping to where she ultimately wants to be the because this is never going
• 1:17:29
  to work. No, she's gonna be pissed as soon as she gets into
• 1:17:31
  that apartment. And then that mother walks out from the kitchen with her hard
• 1:17:34
  face to on her way to the walk in closet, being like, can
• 1:17:39
  I bring some boxes for my storage unit and put it right in your space?
• 1:17:43
  Yai? Yeah, So they're gonna be a mess. Next we have
• 1:17:46
  Geehune and Devon two point zero A, Nick and Devin. Is that piggy
• 1:17:51
  Yeah okay, yeah, yeah, she's from Arkansas. Yes, she seems
• 1:17:57
  sweet. She's only twenty three Okay, it's really young. And then we
• 1:18:00
  have Nick who's from South Korea. I don't like him for some reason.
• 1:18:02
  Really mm mmmmmm. I think he there's something about him. He's got a
• 1:18:06
  mean strg there's something by checks sort of misogynistic about him, yeah, and
• 1:18:12
  judgmental about him. I don't like him. And she seems very vulnerable,
• 1:18:15
  yes, and gullible. She's young too. They met in Australia. I
• 1:18:19
  guess they were on some trip together or something. They met there, So
• 1:18:24
  that's how they know each other. And they've been dating for like two years.
• 1:18:28
  And so this episode picks up with her flying to South Korea because she's
• 1:18:32
  going to meet Nick's parents and hopefully get their blessing for him to move to
• 1:18:38
  the United States with her. And I don't know how this dude expects to
• 1:18:42
  adapt from Soul North not North Korea and Jesus Sol South Korea to go to
• 1:18:48
  Sarcey, Arkansas. It is going to be a huge culture show. I
• 1:18:53
  mean, I don't know how he's going to function, but we'll see how
• 1:18:56
  that goes. But he's like preparing her how to like interact with his parents
• 1:19:00
  and like don't look them in the eye and like make sure you bow and
• 1:19:03
  like drink from the side and like all these weird things. So she's prepared
• 1:19:09
  and respectful to his parents, and his parents sound like they don't like Americans
• 1:19:14
  and they don't like why we're so awesome. I mean, I guess to
• 1:19:17
  other cultures we are not to our own culture were. But they, they,
• 1:19:25
  I think, are judging her because they think that she is taking Nick
• 1:19:30
  away from them. Right, So I don't know, you have like a
• 1:19:31
  weird ulterior motive to come to America, seem like to make money or to
• 1:19:36
  use her for a green card. Because like, he's in Soul Korea,
• 1:19:40
  so he's probably gainfully employed, although Jihune wasn't. I knew he wasn't.
• 1:19:44
  But and he's gainfully employed, is he's not a loser yet? And so
• 1:19:47
  she doesn't want to go to Soul Korea because I would much rather go to
• 1:19:50
  Soul Korea personally Korean food. I mean me too, I love somebody,
• 1:19:55
  me too, eat my way up and down the corridors of Korea, honey,
• 1:20:00
  real. But no, they want to go to Arkansas. Oh god,
• 1:20:02
  have you ever been to Arkansas? No, and no offense if you're
• 1:20:04
  from Arkansas. That's a spooky steak Ethel's moving there. Oh, I actually
• 1:20:10
  loves it, and so it is big Ed and Liz, but there's just
• 1:20:13
  something about it. They're not very welcoming there. But I was in a
• 1:20:15
  couple of mountain towns, like out back places, and it was kind of
• 1:20:18
  like Colorado City. Oh yeah, they're looking at you, watching what are
• 1:20:21
  you doing in my town? Yeah, just a vibe there that I'm not
• 1:20:25
  really a fan of. So I'm worried for this young man. I'm worried
• 1:20:28
  too. And if I don't even know where Sirzy Arkansas is, so I'm
• 1:20:30
  like, that must be a small ass fucking town. Well, you know,
• 1:20:32
  Ruddit is already talking about it, and they're like, he'd better be
• 1:20:34
  ready because it's a really small town, racist town. Oh and then there's
• 1:20:40
  other people saying, actually it's not that bad. It's a college town.
• 1:20:43
  There's different kinds of people here. It'll be all right, But we'll see.
• 1:20:47
  Why is his name nick? Though? I don't know, Okay,
• 1:20:51
  I'm just wondering. We haven't really met like a lot of them yet.
• 1:20:55
  Okay, so it's only been the last like two episodes. Why does he
• 1:20:57
  call her piggy? That seems rude of endearment? He does she like it?
• 1:21:01
  No? I mean she's just like, well, I didn't realize that
• 1:21:04
  that was a terminitive endearment. But he's like, no, I think she's
• 1:21:06
  cute. She's kind of chubby, but like you know, to them with
• 1:21:10
  the K pop stars and everything, like chubby is not our version of chubby.
• 1:21:15
  Chubby is like healthy, okay, because you know some of the K
• 1:21:18
  pop stars, like there's one in particular, I can't remember the name,
• 1:21:20
  but your daughter's obsessed with her. Where like everybody hates her because she's like
• 1:21:27
  a normal looking chick and she has like meat on her body. Oh so
• 1:21:30
  they call her fat. Yes, Oh so they're gonna think, well,
• 1:21:31
  I want to call her piggy because I don't remember her name. Yeah,
• 1:21:34
  they're gonna think she's obese. Yeah, they're gonna think she's like chubby.
• 1:21:39
  But like that's probably why I don't like her, because he calls her piggy
• 1:21:42
  and she doesn't like it. Let me catch my husband calling me something that
• 1:21:45
  I don't like. Well, yeah, she calls things and I'm fine with
• 1:21:49
  it. He calls me his six hundred pound wife, which is fine,
• 1:21:54
  but like if I didn't like it and he called me that, that would
• 1:21:58
  not stand. And he also never that and vice versa, because that's a
• 1:22:00
  disrespectful thing to do. That's why a great nick whatever his name is.
• 1:22:04
  I'm not really a fan of him either, because I think Devin is pretty
• 1:22:09
  nice. Like I'm hoping she's not going to be like old season Devon with
• 1:22:13
  Devin and Gihoon, because she was a fucking monster. But we'll see,
• 1:22:16
  well in the next episode. She's crying already, so something goes wrong with
• 1:22:19
  them parents. And he predicted that Karian restaurant. Really yeah, He's like,
• 1:22:24
  she gets overwhelmed really easily, and she'll cry. And didn't he say
• 1:22:26
  something like, I hope if she blows this up for me, Yeah,
• 1:22:30
  so because he's already reach she'll mess it up. But because he he said
• 1:22:34
  that if she cries, it's going to make his parents hate her. Oh
• 1:22:38
  my god. So I think that he's saying that in reference to like,
• 1:22:41
  I hope my parents don't see something in her, see something that she's done
• 1:22:45
  something to make well. The way he phrased it though, is like he's
• 1:22:48
  setting her up to fail, like she's going to blow it up. How
• 1:22:51
  about you be her advocate and representative. Is the person who loves her and
• 1:22:56
  shield her and cover her like a lover would do. But that's too much
• 1:23:00
  to ask for. It is ninety day fiance to ask for. Mistogynistic prick
• 1:23:04
  calls his girlfriend Peggy against her will m h. Next we have Geno and
• 1:23:10
  Jasmine. We still have more. Oh god, gen Chasman. She's absolutely
• 1:23:15
  insane. Ray Absolutely, there's something about her. I like, though,
• 1:23:20
  what don't There's just like something her sense of humor, like, so there's
• 1:23:25
  something about her that's a bit magical. Yes, ugly he is. Gino
• 1:23:31
  is such a slug. Gino is such a liar. Genos sent her nudes
• 1:23:39
  to his ex girlfriend. He is such a vile loser. I don't know
• 1:23:44
  why he would be with her because she's emotionally, verbally and possibly physically abusive.
• 1:23:48
  But she's way out of his league. Oh, one hundred thousand person.
• 1:23:53
  And now she has a rash and she's pissed about it. So this
• 1:23:56
  episode picks up with her itching her body all over. She's got hives from
• 1:24:00
  head to toe because Gina's house is dusty and dirty and gross. And you
• 1:24:04
  didn't see this episode, no, but when she arrived in America in Michigan
• 1:24:09
  wearing the thinnest fucking jacket every he doesn't and being like, I'm so cold,
• 1:24:13
  they just can't handle it. She gets to his house and he decorated
• 1:24:16
  with the Panamanium flag and everything, and he put it upside down, which
• 1:24:20
  was automatically an insult to her. And then there's like dust everywhere. He
• 1:24:25
  like didn't get any good food for her because she's vegan, so he didn't
• 1:24:29
  buy anything for her to eat. And then she gets to the Okay,
• 1:24:32
  she gets to the bathroom. I saw that, and there's literally a log
• 1:24:35
  of shit in the toilet. Okay, I didn't see that. I saw
• 1:24:39
  I saw the toilet. Well, there's a shit in there. Yes,
• 1:24:42
  come on, it's the standard in the hell to flush. It's the bar
• 1:24:45
  in hell for men. Like, how are you going to be fifty years
• 1:24:48
  old like Gino is and not know to flush your fucking toilet and just hire
• 1:24:53
  a maid to come on in and clean up your place? Well, because
• 1:24:56
  a woman is coming to town, he can't hire a maid because he quit
• 1:24:59
  his job. He quit his job? Is that way he could spend time
• 1:25:02
  with her? Why did she want to be with him again? And his
• 1:25:05
  dick doesn't work, if I recall correctly, his dick don't work. It
• 1:25:10
  does work if she peas on him. Oh, or she seems to love
• 1:25:14
  I don't know, dude, I don't know what is wrong. I think
• 1:25:16
  she has a weird complex with Gino where she thinks she's so beautiful because she
• 1:25:21
  is objectively she less beautiful than she used to be beautiful. Yes, she
• 1:25:26
  used to be beautiful before the fillers, right, But like I think in
• 1:25:30
  her mind she could get any man, and I think she could. She
• 1:25:32
  could, and she's choosing Gino because maybe money or something I don't know,
• 1:25:39
  or maybe she's got a weird like punishment fetish for him, like maybe it's
• 1:25:42
  a weird dynamic humiliation. Used to be an engineer, right, so he
• 1:25:45
  should be employable. Yes, okay, But like I think she's got a
• 1:25:49
  complex, like he won't come with me during sex, so am I ugly?
• 1:25:55
  Like maybe that's why she's gotten all these postive surgeries. Like I don't
• 1:25:58
  know, dude. They have a weird fucking vibe to me, and she's
• 1:26:01
  so emotionally unregulated and unstable, like it's insane. But I mean, how
• 1:26:05
  do you know not to clean up your house? Like the first time I
• 1:26:09
  met my husband, who was a bachelor. You know, he told me
• 1:26:13
  he owned his own home. He had like five vehicles, and I'm like,
• 1:26:15
  oh, score. So I went to his house. You see,
• 1:26:19
  it is on literally the side of a highway. And I went into the
• 1:26:24
  house and it was clean. It was serviceable. I mean it was decorated
• 1:26:29
  in the most terrible ways with like man metal posters on the walls and paneled
• 1:26:35
  walls and like industrial berber carpet, but like it was vacuumed, like there
• 1:26:40
  was nothing on the counters, which were like Vinylnola or whatever. It was
• 1:26:45
  really a terrible, terrible situation. But it was clean. Yeah, because
• 1:26:49
  he knew I was gonna come over and maybe I was going to drop some
• 1:26:51
  pannies. Yeah, I did not do I did not do it. He
• 1:26:54
  didn't give up the cook but at least those sheets were clean. Yeah,
• 1:27:00
  his bedroom was cleaned. Do you know every man knows. Take what you
• 1:27:03
  got, Shine it up, yeah, hint it up, dust it off
• 1:27:06
  right, you make it ready for the woman. You're not asking for much
• 1:27:11
  really, to clean up. Flush your fucking toilet, asshole. It was
• 1:27:15
  unbelieveabil. She walks in the bathroom and immediately is like, are you fucking
• 1:27:19
  kidding me right now, and he closes the toilets he and flushes. He
• 1:27:25
  was so embarrassed. Oh my god. And so in this episode he's like,
• 1:27:28
  my house isn't dirty. I'm not a hoarder or anything. Yeah,
• 1:27:31
  it's not dirty. And she has hives from hegetoe. Have you ever had
• 1:27:34
  hives from heagetoe? Yes? I have two. Yeah, there's nothing worse
• 1:27:38
  than the world. Fucking awful. It's terrible and it lasts for like a
• 1:27:42
  week to two weeks. She had to get an allergy shot. Yep.
• 1:27:44
  They had to go to urgent care to get an allergy shot. So she
• 1:27:46
  terrible. Be Okay, no, honey, I'd be checking out deuces going
• 1:27:51
  back to Panama and my ex boyfriend Dane for by the way, way hotter
• 1:27:56
  than Geno. Yeah. When she uses that in arguments all the time,
• 1:27:59
  she's like, he fucks me, that's a fact. I mean, yeah,
• 1:28:02
  can't get his stick card? Why are you with gnand and this weaponized
• 1:28:06
  incompetence toilet and I can't be expected to know how to dust a shelf.
• 1:28:12
  That's why you're here to be my bangmate. Yeah, so get to it,
• 1:28:15
  absolutely wild. Does she have an OnlyFans. I don't know. I
• 1:28:18
  wouldn't be surprised. God, I gotta make money somehow, I mean quit
• 1:28:24
  his job, So what are you gonna do? Wow? Yeah. And
• 1:28:28
  then the last couple we didn't see in this episode was Manuel and Ashley,
• 1:28:30
  which we don't have to talk too much about because they're really annoying. But
• 1:28:33
  Ashley's the witch. Manuel's the Catholic. I'm pretty sure he's here just for
• 1:28:40
  the green card because he's got a ton of family members in New York,
• 1:28:44
  which is where Ashley lives, and she didn't even know that he had all
• 1:28:46
  this family up in New York. Last episode, there was some argument with
• 1:28:49
  a phone where he was demanding to have a phone so he could contact his
• 1:28:54
  family, and then she was able to get a phone for him, but
• 1:28:57
  it would take two days. He's like, that's not good enough, and
• 1:29:00
  he gave his family Ashley's phone number, and so they were hounding her,
• 1:29:05
  like calling her twenty times a day, Oh my god, no, thank
• 1:29:09
  you to try and get a hold of him. So there's some weird shit
• 1:29:12
  going on with them where I think he's lying, he's scamming her. Yeah,
• 1:29:15
  but she's also kind of annoying person. Okay, well, but she's
• 1:29:19
  a witch, so that's gonna be interesting. Yeah, they've already gotten into
• 1:29:23
  it about it. Oh god, I missed it. Yeah. Shoot,
• 1:29:26
  I'll have to go back and watch, but I won't. You won't.
• 1:29:28
  I'll just recap you everywhere. Let me know what happens, girl. And
• 1:29:30
  then we have the preview. So Anna Lee arrives in America and she goes
• 1:29:34
  into Clayton's house with his weird mom and the guinea pigs and everything. And
• 1:29:39
  I'm sure that's going to be a mess. Are you so blessed to have
• 1:29:44
  a mother in law like me? Don't you just think every single day?
• 1:29:46
  Wow, it could have been way worse. She could have been in my
• 1:29:48
  closets. Awesome, I have a podcast with her. She's pretty, You're
• 1:29:53
  like my best friend. It could have been way worse. There's horror stories
• 1:29:58
  of people with their mother in law us. And then we have Manuel and
• 1:30:01
  Ashley going to couples therapy, so we'll get to see that it would be
• 1:30:05
  great if it was couple's therapy with doctor Orna. Oh yeah, oh god,
• 1:30:10
  yes. And then Nick and Devin have dinner with his parents as she
• 1:30:13
  starts crying, and then Justin introduces Nicky to his friends and she immediately talks
• 1:30:17
  about how she used to be a prostitute and do drugs, and then Gino
• 1:30:23
  and Jasmine fight. Okay, well I look forward to it. Yeah,
• 1:30:27
  and I'm excited to be on a new adventure. Yeah, Sister Wives is
• 1:30:30
  winding down, Plastla is winding down for the inevitable. We already know what's
• 1:30:33
  gonna happen. Everybody leaves their alls, divorces, families are blown apart.
• 1:30:38
  So now we need new victims. Yes, to follow, to stalk from
• 1:30:42
  our dumpster, the perch of our dumpsters. Yeah, watch and judgment.
• 1:30:45
  Does these people flail about their lives? Ridiculous people? There was no ridiculous
• 1:30:51
  much better than I know we are, though, everybody is, well,
• 1:30:58
  this was fun. Yeah, I'm liking the season already. I'm pretty entertained
• 1:31:00
  by all of these people, even though they're longer episodes, like, there's
• 1:31:04
  a lot of content. Yeah, yeah for it. I look forward to
• 1:31:08
  continuing the journey with you. Yeah, I am running out of gas,
• 1:31:11
  though, how long have we been potting? I feel like potting for a
• 1:31:13
  long tree to four days, so we gotta go. So anything else that
• 1:31:15
  we need to say to these beautiful records before we go beadressed. Well,
• 1:31:19
  if you love our podcast, I sure hope that you give us a glowing
• 1:31:23
  five star review on your favorite podcast platform. It really helps us. Girl.
• 1:31:27
  Thank you so much, and we'll be back next week to talk Sister
• 1:31:30
  Wives. We should also mention, by the way, we're off for Thanksgiving
• 1:31:32
  week. Yeah, but you know what, I think the season finale of
• 1:31:35
  Sister Wives is going to be on that they're not gonna break it up.
• 1:31:40
  I don't think so bad. Last time they made us wait, so they're
• 1:31:43
  amazing. Here's the thing. If Sister Wives releases their final episode the Monday
• 1:31:48
  of thanks and we're gonna have to do it. To do it, we're
• 1:31:50
  gonna have to going just for you, not for platform. For ninety we'll
• 1:31:55
  be there for Sister Wives. But if it's not the finale, we're gone.
• 1:31:59
  The only content you can get is gonna be on Patroon because we release
• 1:32:00
  something every week. You're gonna love it. Yeah, and so until we
• 1:32:05
  return, please don't forget that we love you so much, and please