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- 0:00Speaker 1: All right, hello everybody, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio.
- 0:04Speaker 1: My name is Brian and this is uh.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Well, it's the fireside Chat, but I'm doing something a
- 0:10Speaker 2: little bit different because the guest I'm speaking to is
- 0:13Speaker 2: on X, so we're gonna be doing X spaces, so
- 0:17Speaker 2: that means I'm also opening up the floor to anybody
- 0:19Speaker 2: else who wants to, you know, chime in with their thoughts.
- 0:24Speaker 2: It is, after all, International Men's Day. And you'll only
- 0:29Speaker 2: know that because well you either are already in the
- 0:32Speaker 2: loop on this stuff or I just told you and
- 0:37Speaker 2: I can prove it. Just go to Google and see
- 0:39Speaker 2: if there's a doodle up and that's how you know.
- 0:42Speaker 2: So coming with joining me here on the show is
- 0:47Speaker 2: mankind versus modern feminism. That's your X name, right, Welcome
- 0:52Speaker 2: to the show. Yeah, yeah, sure, it's good to have you. You're
- 0:58Speaker 2: I don't know if like guys, can you hear them? Okay,
- 1:01Speaker 2: because you might be a little bit low. Do you
- 1:02Speaker 2: have like a way to turn your mic up or something?
- 1:05Speaker 3: Does the sound okay?
- 1:07Speaker 1: I could just oh no, you're good, yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 1:09Speaker 1: you're good. Now.
- 1:09Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just looking at the levels and they were
- 1:11Speaker 2: a little lope, but you're You're fine, all right. So
- 1:14Speaker 2: let me just so, I just happened to notice that
- 1:19Speaker 2: you have been, like, you know, posting some pretty good
- 1:23Speaker 2: stuff on your on your page, and uh specifically like
- 1:30Speaker 2: you know, talking I guess, talking about men's issues and
- 1:34Speaker 2: also critiquing the sort of predominant paradigm, which is the
- 1:39Speaker 2: feminist paradigm. And I thought that was interesting because there's
- 1:42Speaker 2: a lot of people, a lot more people are like
- 1:45Speaker 2: sort of adding to that conversation. So I was curious,
- 1:49Speaker 2: how how do you come across this stuff, like what's
- 1:52Speaker 2: your red pill story?
- 1:56Speaker 3: Well, I'm not sure it was with red pill. I
- 1:59Speaker 3: come with this from a position or pro natalism. Yeah,
- 2:02Speaker 3: I'm a father, I have a couple of boys, I'm divorced,
- 2:05Speaker 3: I have them half time. And I come with this
- 2:09Speaker 3: from a perspective of and I always have in intersectual
- 2:12Speaker 3: relationships between man and women, that the family really matters,
- 2:15Speaker 3: that it's the core probably of Western democracy as a whole,
- 2:19Speaker 3: That the stability of that family matters, that kids matter,
- 2:24Speaker 3: that marriage matters. And I guess the way that I
- 2:28Speaker 3: came to this was as a function of some failed
- 2:31Speaker 3: relationships or a time figuring out why they failed, and
- 2:34Speaker 3: then an absolutely savage divorce experience that that was debilitating, injurious, incredibly,
- 2:51Speaker 3: incredibly painful, and I had no idea why it was happening.
- 2:56Speaker 3: I had no clue what was going on. I had
- 3:00Speaker 3: heard of the silver ball that I knew that nasty
- 3:02Speaker 3: divorces happened, But I think, like every guy, thought to myself,
- 3:05Speaker 3: well that can't happen to me because I'm not doing
- 3:07Speaker 3: anything to deserve it. And it's not that I was
- 3:10Speaker 3: a perfect man. I wasn't. But I wasn't hurting anybody.
- 3:14Speaker 3: I wasn't hitting anybody. I wasn't screaming at anybody. And
- 3:20Speaker 3: so I didn't understand, particularly after my divorce, why things
- 3:25Speaker 3: had to get so nasty and why things happened the
- 3:28Speaker 3: way they did. So my red pill, my education on
- 3:35Speaker 3: this began as I was trying to figure out why
- 3:38Speaker 3: things were going so badly. My expouse involved children, involved
- 3:46Speaker 3: child protective services a number of times, and they were
- 3:52Speaker 3: in our lives for oh I'd say almost two years
- 3:55Speaker 3: at one point, constantly hunting, constantly search even when they
- 4:05Speaker 3: had no concerns. They were hanging around. Our kids were
- 4:11Speaker 3: struggling at school. That's how eventually this kind of happened,
- 4:16Speaker 3: and there was emotional abuse in some physical abuse in
- 4:20Speaker 3: our relationship. I didn't call her abuse at the time.
- 4:23Speaker 3: I didn't call it what it was, and I thought
- 4:28Speaker 3: that I was doing everybody a favor because realistically, if
- 4:33Speaker 3: you're being abused, you have to leave. I even knew
- 4:37Speaker 3: that at the time, and so I was being My
- 4:43Speaker 3: ex spouse had depression, she had anxiety, generalized anxiety disorder,
- 4:47Speaker 3: she had major depressive disorder. They checked her for a
- 4:51Speaker 3: bunch of other things. There was discussions about borderline personality
- 4:53Speaker 3: disorder that I suspect in hindsight are true, although that
- 4:56Speaker 3: was never diagnosed to assess she was medicated. She was volatile,
- 5:03Speaker 3: She was passionate, which was what initially drew me to her. Beautiful, small,
- 5:09Speaker 3: you know, five foot high, very feminine. But once we
- 5:16Speaker 3: married and moved in together, things started to get really
- 5:18Speaker 3: rough and she started getting handsy, which I tolerated for
- 5:22Speaker 3: some time, and I thought, yeah, you know what, she's
- 5:24Speaker 3: not injuring me. I could take it.
- 5:26Speaker 1: I mean, handsy is in like trying to slap and stuff.
- 5:31Speaker 3: Yeah, the first time she did it, I was on
- 5:33Speaker 3: the phone with a colleague, a female colleague, and I
- 5:36Speaker 3: am I employ something in all my business conversations called
- 5:40Speaker 3: the human business human model. You know, it was not
- 5:42Speaker 3: a long time ago. So you started by saying, hey,
- 5:44Speaker 3: how's your day, right, and then you get to your
- 5:46Speaker 3: business question, and then at the end of this a
- 5:48Speaker 3: few moments you simply have a conversation about whatever commonalities
- 5:51Speaker 3: people may have. I'm a guy that doesn't come naturally
- 5:54Speaker 3: to me. I like to get straight to business, and
- 5:56Speaker 3: so I've adopted this model. And at the end of
- 5:58Speaker 3: the conversation, I was having a just a brief moment
- 6:02Speaker 3: of where I said, oh yeah, you know this was
- 6:05Speaker 3: back in I think twenty fifteen. Oh yeah, I'm just
- 6:08Speaker 3: burning a lot of my CDs to digital because the
- 6:10Speaker 3: age of the CD is done. And the female colleague
- 6:13Speaker 3: that I was speaking to said, oh, yeah, I'm doing
- 6:16Speaker 3: the same. And what I didn't realize is that my
- 6:19Speaker 3: wife at the time was standing by a door in
- 6:21Speaker 3: our home. I was in our homeworking. I was self employed,
- 6:25Speaker 3: and when she heard me having this conversation with this
- 6:29Speaker 3: female colleague, she became raged, came down demanded my phone,
- 6:34Speaker 3: which I hung up on right away. I'm like what
- 6:36Speaker 3: the hell's going on? And as soon as I hang
- 6:38Speaker 3: up the phone, she just slapped me. So there was
- 6:43Speaker 3: an element of physical violence in the relationship at that point,
- 6:45Speaker 3: and I thought, okay, it's a one off, but no,
- 6:50Speaker 3: it happened a few more times. This was about two
- 6:52Speaker 3: years after we married in twenty thirteen, and so things
- 6:57Speaker 3: had been emotionally volatile. I wouldn't have called them abusive,
- 6:59Speaker 3: but now looking back, I would say it was because
- 7:02Speaker 3: I'm out of the relationship at this point, and that's
- 7:03Speaker 3: pretty common for men where they won't call it abuse,
- 7:07Speaker 3: perhaps not even when they're out of the relationship. But
- 7:12Speaker 3: it certainly was emotionally abusive and became physically abusive. She
- 7:15Speaker 3: slapped me three times. Then she tossed a suitcase over
- 7:17Speaker 3: a set of stairs on top of my head. She
- 7:19Speaker 3: would regularly say that if I didn't leave the house,
- 7:22Speaker 3: because she would say that I had to leave, that
- 7:24Speaker 3: she was going to call the police and make something up.
- 7:26Speaker 3: She threatened false allegations a number of times. She was
- 7:31Speaker 3: medicaid for a brief period of time and things got
- 7:32Speaker 3: a little bit better, and then she stopped taking her
- 7:35Speaker 3: meds and things went off the rails in twenty eighteen,
- 7:40Speaker 3: and they went off the rails really quickly. False allegations began,
- 7:47Speaker 3: alienation from the kids, kind of you know, aggression that
- 7:51Speaker 3: was targeted towards the kids, and I didn't understand when
- 7:56Speaker 3: of this was happening. I researched borderline personality disorder. I mean,
- 7:59Speaker 3: I did all my reading right, and I thought, okay, well,
- 8:02Speaker 3: we'll fight through this. But it wasn't going to work,
- 8:05Speaker 3: and so eventually, in September of twenty eighteen, I fled.
- 8:09Speaker 3: I left the home on an afternoon on adviceive a
- 8:12Speaker 3: lawyer that I talked to, saying, hey, what the hell
- 8:14Speaker 3: is going on? And after the physical abuse and the
- 8:19Speaker 3: emotional abuse, at the end of it all, the fifth
- 8:22Speaker 3: time she had assaulted me, which would have been in
- 8:23Speaker 3: the spring of twenty eighteen, I pushed her back and
- 8:30Speaker 3: at that point I said to her, we have to
- 8:34Speaker 3: figure this out, because it's one thing if you're hitting me,
- 8:39Speaker 3: but I'm not you. I'm big, I'm strong, and I
- 8:45Speaker 3: was not okay with her hitting me. I wasn't okay
- 8:49Speaker 3: with her hitting me, but I thought I could deal.
- 8:51Speaker 3: I thought I could take it. I never thought that
- 8:53Speaker 3: I would respond, ever, but the fifth time that she
- 8:57Speaker 3: did it to me. I didn't even think. I just
- 9:00Speaker 3: pushed her back and she ended up on the floor.
- 9:04Speaker 3: Didn't pursue her, you know, didn't chase her, nothing, just
- 9:07Speaker 3: pushed after she slapped me. And she weaponized that pretty
- 9:11Speaker 3: much right away, and I chalked up a piece of
- 9:17Speaker 3: it to borderline personalities or when I've had Okay, fine,
- 9:19Speaker 3: if I leave, it'll end. If I just leave, it'll stop.
- 9:24Speaker 3: And so I left in the fall of twenty eighteen,
- 9:27Speaker 3: and it actually got way worse. That's when chot predicted
- 9:32Speaker 3: services was engaged. She went to CPS and she made
- 9:34Speaker 3: claims about me hurting the kids, hurting her. I found
- 9:38Speaker 3: in the CPS records later at trial that they actually
- 9:41Speaker 3: had no parenting concerns with me at all. None. They
- 9:44Speaker 3: actually wrote down that they had no parenting concerns with me,
- 9:46Speaker 3: and yet they kept the investigation of them for a
- 9:48Speaker 3: year hunting just devastating to have a CPS investigation over
- 9:56Speaker 3: for a year based on false allegations, allegations of physicalviolence,
- 10:00Speaker 3: allegations of emotional violence, allegations of alienation, allegations of sexual misconduct,
- 10:05Speaker 3: allegations of course to control, allegations of financial abuse. And
- 10:11Speaker 3: I wasn't surprised at that, knowing what BPD looks like,
- 10:16Speaker 3: like I had done enough to know kind of what
- 10:18Speaker 3: I might be facing. But what I was shocked at,
- 10:22Speaker 3: and this is what started me kind of looking in
- 10:27Speaker 3: more so into what was going on, was that everyone
- 10:30Speaker 3: believed her.
- 10:33Speaker 1: Everybody Now that shock you, Oh it.
- 10:38Speaker 3: Can I curse?
- 10:39Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 10:41Speaker 3: It fucking astonished me. I would show people evidence that
- 10:45Speaker 3: what was being said was a lie. They would refuse
- 10:49Speaker 3: to look at it. I would say, to Chop Protective Services,
- 10:53Speaker 3: that's a lie, and I can show you the truth,
- 10:55Speaker 3: and they would say, well, it doesn't matter because we're
- 10:57Speaker 3: not an evidence based organization. We're a probability organization and
- 11:00Speaker 3: we're making decisions based on probability, right. And I said
- 11:04Speaker 3: to them in writing it in person, I said to
- 11:06Speaker 3: CPS a number of times, but it didn't happen, and
- 11:09Speaker 3: I can prove it, and they would actually say to me,
- 11:13Speaker 3: we're not an evidence based organization. And I said, then
- 11:16Speaker 3: what are you like, what are you doing here if
- 11:20Speaker 3: you're not an evidence based organization? And I did not
- 11:23Speaker 3: understand at the time what the hell was going on.
- 11:26Speaker 3: Every single worker at CPS a total of five over
- 11:31Speaker 3: the course of about eighteen months lied. I found out
- 11:35Speaker 3: later at Toronto lied about me in the file, documented
- 11:39Speaker 3: that I was a problematic firearms owner that had been
- 11:42Speaker 3: reported to the police. This was never true. Documented that
- 11:44Speaker 3: I had been charged with domestic violence. That was never true,
- 11:48Speaker 3: documented that what were some of the other claims that
- 11:51Speaker 3: they had documented in essence, that I was a criminal
- 11:54Speaker 3: that I had, you know, had been investigated for domestic violence.
- 11:58Speaker 3: You know, they were concerned that I had firearms, had none.
- 12:01Speaker 3: I was a firearms under prior, but my spouse had
- 12:03Speaker 3: made me get rid of all my firearms. They made
- 12:05Speaker 3: her uncomfortable time. So I said, finally go to them.
- 12:07Speaker 1: It's fine.
- 12:08Speaker 3: I didn't want to, but I did. I couldn't hunt
- 12:09Speaker 3: it anymore, but that's fine. I wanted to save my marriage. Yeah,
- 12:14Speaker 3: And so the CPS folks documented. I was paralyzed by
- 12:21Speaker 3: what they were doing because not only they couldn't find anything,
- 12:26Speaker 3: but every single one of them lied. Every single one
- 12:31Speaker 3: of them supported my ex spouse. Every single one of
- 12:34Speaker 3: them negatively impacted my ability to parent. Every single one
- 12:38Speaker 3: of them was gung ho for her. It was clearly,
- 12:45Speaker 3: almost almost entirely opposed to my existence m H. And
- 12:51Speaker 3: I could understand that because when when CPS first got involved,
- 12:54Speaker 3: I thought, Okay, finally we're going to get some neutral
- 12:56Speaker 3: arborris here, Finally we're going to get some people who
- 12:59Speaker 3: can bring some I'm sandy to this. I mean, these
- 13:01Speaker 3: people have been trained to their university educated. They're intelligent people.
- 13:04Speaker 3: They will shut this down. They didn't shut it down,
- 13:08Speaker 3: they were just fuel on the fire.
- 13:10Speaker 1: Yeah, And.
- 13:14Speaker 3: I began to think, how can these people, these university
- 13:16Speaker 3: educated people, How is it possible for these intelligent people
- 13:20Speaker 3: to lie like this, know that they're lying, and still
- 13:24Speaker 3: do it. How is it possible for them to look
- 13:26Speaker 3: me in the eye lie to me like how is
- 13:32Speaker 3: this happening? And why is it so universal in this situation?
- 13:37Speaker 3: And so I went beyond researching into what was happening
- 13:39Speaker 3: with my expose and what illness might be contributing to
- 13:42Speaker 3: her to her treatment of me, into why these people
- 13:46Speaker 3: would would act this way. And it was around that
- 13:51Speaker 3: time that a doctor I think she's a professor at
- 13:56Speaker 3: the University of New Mexico. Her name is doctor Tanya Reynolds,
- 14:00Speaker 3: published a paper called Man Up and Take It Gender
- 14:02Speaker 3: Bia Some world type casting. Do I have your permission
- 14:05Speaker 3: to pay some things into the chat?
- 14:08Speaker 2: So you I wouldn't know how to access it because
- 14:11Speaker 2: I'm currently displaying our conversation. But if you let me
- 14:17Speaker 2: think here, if you send it to me as a
- 14:20Speaker 2: d M, I can probably like share it there.
- 14:23Speaker 3: I can actually paste it into the chat for the
- 14:25Speaker 3: for the Honey Badger arcade. Yeah, the X space, I
- 14:29Speaker 3: could just paste it there if that's okay.
- 14:31Speaker 2: Uh, yeah, that's fine. Let me just try yeah, try that.
- 14:35Speaker 2: I'm gonna make some adjustments here on the on the layout,
- 14:39Speaker 2: and let's just move this back here.
- 14:45Speaker 1: Likes that. I don't know. That might be a little
- 14:47Speaker 1: bit messy, but.
- 14:50Speaker 3: All right, So.
- 14:53Speaker 1: Just uh, where did you put it?
- 14:55Speaker 3: I put it in the X space, So I'm on
- 14:59Speaker 3: X right now. In yeah, I'm in next to How
- 15:01Speaker 3: do I look at it? If you click on your
- 15:05Speaker 3: own So if you see what's a set of reminder
- 15:07Speaker 3: from my upcoming space, if you click around that image,
- 15:10Speaker 3: it should take you. It should open up the chat
- 15:13Speaker 3: beneath there.
- 15:14Speaker 1: Oh I see, okay, let me see if.
- 15:17Speaker 3: There should be a linkern at of science direct dot
- 15:19Speaker 3: com to doctor Tonya Reynold's article.
- 15:22Speaker 1: I'm trying.
- 15:22Speaker 2: I can also, yeah, dm it to me, that might
- 15:26Speaker 2: be better. Yeah, yeah, thank you, and welcome to the
- 15:29Speaker 2: chat the people who had just joined. If you guys,
- 15:32Speaker 2: are you know, if you're just hanging out, that's cool.
- 15:34Speaker 2: If you want to say something, I don't know, like
- 15:37Speaker 2: there should be a way to like raise your hand
- 15:39Speaker 2: or something in the Twitter space, right, So, okay, go
- 15:44Speaker 2: ahead and DM it to me and take a look
- 15:47Speaker 2: at Okay, I'll take a look at it right now.
- 15:49Speaker 1: Hold on, we'll see. Yeah, there goes Okay, science this to.
- 15:55Speaker 3: Me while you're putting it up. This to me was
- 15:56Speaker 3: an extraordinary article because this then led me to take
- 16:00Speaker 3: a look at evolutionary biology, which is the construct from
- 16:05Speaker 3: which I approach most of my work. Now, now, I've
- 16:09Speaker 3: always been a fan of evolutionary biology. I'm a polymath.
- 16:13Speaker 3: Is it relates evolutionary biology? I have no formal training.
- 16:15Speaker 3: My formal training in the university within psychology, and so
- 16:19Speaker 3: evolutionary biology was not popular in the humanities, never has been,
- 16:24Speaker 3: now less so than ever. But when I took a
- 16:27Speaker 3: look at this, and thank good, as Google in that
- 16:31Speaker 3: day was not as transparent about their wocism and progressivesm
- 16:35Speaker 3: a couple of other pieces began to come up. Segur
- 16:38Speaker 3: and berrious gamble bias came up, doctor Alis Egan's women
- 16:42Speaker 3: are wonderful bias also came up. And there was other
- 16:48Speaker 3: research that came up that showed that this is actually universal,
- 16:51Speaker 3: that that this kind of strange imbalance is cross cultural,
- 16:57Speaker 3: cross socioeconomic status. It's everywhere. And I've heard the term
- 17:03Speaker 3: dan of centrism before, but I dismissed the term dan
- 17:05Speaker 3: of centrism. I didn't fully dismiss it. I'm aware that
- 17:08Speaker 3: chivalry exists, and I just thought it was chivalry, right.
- 17:11Speaker 3: I thought, Okay, well, you know, men are stronger, and
- 17:14Speaker 3: so we put women first. But what I didn't realize
- 17:18Speaker 3: before I began looking into this kind of work was
- 17:22Speaker 3: that there's actually extraordinarily deep evolutionary roots in all of this. Yeah,
- 17:27Speaker 3: that all that's required to set it off. All that's
- 17:31Speaker 3: required is competition or conflict between men and women. That's it.
- 17:37Speaker 3: If men spend their time mainly with men and women
- 17:40Speaker 3: spend their time mainly with women. And that's not to
- 17:44Speaker 3: say what can't be legal egals. That's just to say
- 17:46Speaker 3: that there was a time when this was the case,
- 17:47Speaker 3: when men spent much of their time with men. We
- 17:50Speaker 3: had kind of gender assigned roles. I'm not saying that
- 17:53Speaker 3: that was good. I'm not saying it was bad. I'm
- 17:55Speaker 3: just saying it was At that point, this kind of
- 17:58Speaker 3: stuff couldn't really get traction because it's fired by competition
- 18:04Speaker 3: or conflict between men and women. And so it's something
- 18:07Speaker 3: that existed in a one one relationship between a man
- 18:11Speaker 3: and a woman, but it didn't necessarily explode like it
- 18:17Speaker 3: did with me and my expose because there was no audience.
- 18:22Speaker 3: But once you have an audience, there is this proclivity
- 18:26Speaker 3: to elevate the woman and to denegrate the men. And
- 18:29Speaker 3: it's not just a claim. It's not just saying goddess centrism.
- 18:35Speaker 3: This is rooted in our evolutionary biology. There's no meaningful
- 18:39Speaker 3: question that it's part of our sexually dimorphic evolutionary psychology.
- 18:45Speaker 3: It's there. But because everybody in the system, whether it
- 18:52Speaker 3: be child protective services or whether it be a judge
- 18:54Speaker 3: of trial, they've all come up to the humanities, yeah,
- 18:58Speaker 3: none of them have ever heard of this.
- 19:02Speaker 1: Ryan.
- 19:03Speaker 3: So the people who are making the decisions about what's
- 19:06Speaker 3: going to happen to you and your kids have no
- 19:08Speaker 3: education at all, and refuse to look at any education
- 19:13Speaker 3: at all about how corrupt and prejudiced and biased the
- 19:18Speaker 3: system actually is, particularly in the context of false allegations
- 19:21Speaker 3: from women related to parenting. The silver bullet. It's why
- 19:27Speaker 3: the silver bullet works so well is because it's triggering
- 19:29Speaker 3: an evolutionary compulsion. And that evolutionary compulsion, doctor Tonia Reynolds
- 19:34Speaker 3: has it mainly correct. And again, I'm a polymath, she's
- 19:40Speaker 3: an evolutionary, right, so she's got the certifications behind you.
- 19:45Speaker 3: What doctor Tony Renolds looked at, and what segram Barry
- 19:47Speaker 3: looked at, and what doctor Alice Eveley looked at was
- 19:50Speaker 3: intersexual relationships between men and women. They didn't necessarily include children.
- 19:57Speaker 3: But what it comes down to, and this is why
- 19:59Speaker 3: the work is partially right, is that there is a hierarchy,
- 20:02Speaker 3: an evolutionary hierarchy there. And this is what really red
- 20:06Speaker 3: tiled me, if you want to call it, is discovering
- 20:10Speaker 3: that and this just makes perfect sense. And anybody who
- 20:13Speaker 3: lives can can take a look at lived experience and
- 20:16Speaker 3: realize this. Children come first, women come next, men come last,
- 20:19Speaker 3: if at all. Yeah, but that's not a social construct.
- 20:23Speaker 3: Is the problem that's always been called out, even in
- 20:27Speaker 3: my own education, as a social construct, right, not a
- 20:31Speaker 3: social construct, It's an evolved compulsion. Yes, we can't escape it. Now,
- 20:38Speaker 3: we can escape it if we know about it. But
- 20:42Speaker 3: what this means is that in any environment where men
- 20:45Speaker 3: and women compete, women are going to win.
- 20:50Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 20:50Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I see where you're coming from it. Yeah, no,
- 20:54Speaker 2: for sure, for sure, we've talked about We've talked about
- 20:56Speaker 2: that on our show many times.
- 21:00Speaker 1: So that that was like, he gave me a lot.
- 21:03Speaker 1: But that's cool.
- 21:04Speaker 2: I appreciate the story, but I want to, okay, not
- 21:07Speaker 2: that not that it matters that much, because ultimately it doesn't.
- 21:10Speaker 1: I think that.
- 21:12Speaker 2: You are you know obviously, well you've done good research
- 21:17Speaker 2: from what I can tell, well read you know, and
- 21:20Speaker 2: everything else. But I'm wondering, just out of curiosity, you
- 21:24Speaker 2: seem a little I don't know, like, do the terms
- 21:27Speaker 2: red pill and ginocentrism like bother you maybe because of
- 21:31Speaker 2: the way they're perceived online or something accurate you think
- 21:34Speaker 2: they're inaccurate.
- 21:35Speaker 3: Okay, I think those terms are actually smaller than what
- 21:40Speaker 3: the real problem is. I don't think that centrism actually
- 21:44Speaker 3: covers it.
- 21:45Speaker 1: Do you think, okay, so okay, So the.
- 21:47Speaker 3: Problem is actually bigger than what centrism.
- 21:52Speaker 1: You don't think it covers enough of it, it's not
- 21:54Speaker 1: un't think it's sufficient.
- 21:57Speaker 3: I think that what's going on is that we have
- 21:58Speaker 3: an elephant in the room and what we're doing is
- 22:02Speaker 3: we're moving from couch to couch describing the elephant. And
- 22:06Speaker 3: one person is sitting near the head is describing the trunk,
- 22:09Speaker 3: and then the other person is sitting at the back
- 22:11Speaker 3: is describing the tail and a pile of crap on
- 22:12Speaker 3: the floor right. And so I think that there's a
- 22:15Speaker 3: very large elephant in the room, and I think that
- 22:18Speaker 3: we're describing pieces of it, and I think that that
- 22:23Speaker 3: it's very big and it's very difficult to see, and
- 22:26Speaker 3: we break it up into pieces so we can eat
- 22:28Speaker 3: it so we can understand it. But there's something much
- 22:31Speaker 3: bigger going on here than just like the challenge, for example,
- 22:37Speaker 3: kind of centrist. The challenge I had with that is
- 22:40Speaker 3: that it's an assumption that we put women first. Right now,
- 22:46Speaker 3: that's kind of telling.
- 22:47Speaker 2: That's a little bit of a I think it might
- 22:49Speaker 2: because it is a bit, because I think there's a
- 22:52Speaker 2: lot and look again, to me, I don't really care
- 22:56Speaker 2: what word we use. I don't care about that stuff,
- 22:58Speaker 2: but ultimately I don't. But I just want to make
- 23:01Speaker 2: sure that we're all like like coming at this from
- 23:04Speaker 2: the same place. So yeah, yeah, I'm not offended by
- 23:09Speaker 2: using them or not using them.
- 23:10Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. I know that there's been a lot
- 23:12Speaker 1: of like debate about you know, what it means. But
- 23:15Speaker 1: to me, I think that.
- 23:19Speaker 2: The evolutionary desire or instinct to put like of this
- 23:25Speaker 2: hierarchy of protecting children and then women and then you know,
- 23:30Speaker 2: like and then men being last or at least expecting
- 23:33Speaker 2: them to be to some to you know, expendable. I
- 23:37Speaker 2: think that there there is it is an evolved thing,
- 23:39Speaker 2: and I think that that is like something we're not
- 23:41Speaker 2: going to shake, like, you know, easily. But I do
- 23:45Speaker 2: think though, what I don't think that that's ginocentrism is
- 23:48Speaker 2: making that claim or at least when when people talk
- 23:51Speaker 2: about it. I think that what ginocentrism is is claiming
- 23:56Speaker 2: is that above and beyond the natural state of things,
- 24:00Speaker 2: like what is like evolution that can't really be changed,
- 24:04Speaker 2: there is an exploitation of that instinct and putting it
- 24:09Speaker 2: like let's say, putting it into unreasonable or like irrational places,
- 24:14Speaker 2: which is like sort So it's like there's a combination
- 24:18Speaker 2: of nurture and nature going on. And I think there's
- 24:21Speaker 2: a nurturing of the of the instinct in men by
- 24:26Speaker 2: telling them, you know, like you you have to do.
- 24:29Speaker 2: This is why we have like a dating market now
- 24:32Speaker 2: where you know, women can have extremely unreasonable expectations of
- 24:37Speaker 2: the men they want to date and men don't question it.
- 24:41Speaker 2: They just try to live up to it and they
- 24:43Speaker 2: compete with each other to do it because they think
- 24:45Speaker 2: that it does. Or if you have like I think,
- 24:48Speaker 2: you know, like say there's a woman in the in
- 24:50Speaker 2: the workforce, she's a journalist and she gets criticized or
- 24:54Speaker 2: insulted in some way, and the person doing it as
- 24:57Speaker 2: a man, then like you can write a whole story
- 24:59Speaker 2: around how that woman was abused and everyone will come
- 25:03Speaker 2: to that, you know, to the aid of that, or
- 25:05Speaker 2: it manifests in other ways.
- 25:07Speaker 1: And I think that that is based on what we
- 25:11Speaker 1: would call.
- 25:13Speaker 2: Romantic chivalry, even if it isn't necessarily romantic in the
- 25:17Speaker 2: sense of you're trying to pursue someone to be a partner,
- 25:20Speaker 2: but just like seeing women as a romantic object that
- 25:24Speaker 2: we are a romantic subject rather that we you know,
- 25:28Speaker 2: take extra steps to take care of or look out for,
- 25:31Speaker 2: and even to the point where women supersede children too,
- 25:35Speaker 2: as you can see with your story of Yeah, so
- 25:38Speaker 2: that this it's where it's it's not like the initial instinct,
- 25:41Speaker 2: like that's not going away, but like where it gets
- 25:45Speaker 2: lost in you know, where you're you're basically like, you know,
- 25:48Speaker 2: the the last election in the United States.
- 25:50Speaker 1: I don't know if you're American, but.
- 25:51Speaker 2: The last election of the United States was decided, and
- 25:54Speaker 2: on one side of it was you know, people thinking
- 25:56Speaker 2: about immigration and the economy and jobs and industry and
- 26:00Speaker 2: all this and foreign wars they didn't want to be
- 26:02Speaker 2: involved in. On the other side, it was just abortion.
- 26:04Speaker 2: So it's literally a campaign on what women want over
- 26:10Speaker 2: the interests of children, namely the unborn. And that was
- 26:14Speaker 2: like that was how much of a deciding factor it was.
- 26:17Speaker 2: I think that's the that's the I don't want to
- 26:20Speaker 2: call it imbalanced, but it's so incredibly lopsided that that's
- 26:23Speaker 2: the thing that I think the term gynocentrism is used
- 26:27Speaker 2: to point out. It's it isn't the whole picture, but
- 26:30Speaker 2: it's not supposed to be. I think it's just looking
- 26:32Speaker 2: at that, I think that the the evolved things aren't
- 26:35Speaker 2: going away, and no.
- 26:37Speaker 3: They're actually not. And the problem is that, and that's
- 26:41Speaker 3: part of why I mean that when it comes to
- 26:45Speaker 3: this stuff, we had language to describe mail misconduct. And
- 26:49Speaker 3: the reason we have language to describe mail this conductivity
- 26:52Speaker 3: because physical power. There's no question that physical power and
- 26:55Speaker 3: social power are kind of, you know, opposing each other.
- 26:58Speaker 3: You know, women, they've always had more social power in
- 27:01Speaker 3: small groups, particularly the collective of women. I mean, there's
- 27:04Speaker 3: no question that physical strength random world for a long time.
- 27:07Speaker 3: That doesn't mean that the chronical page rechers real, it's not.
- 27:10Speaker 3: It just meant that physical strength resulted in in output
- 27:13Speaker 3: of calories. That's how calories we were gleaned, and everything
- 27:17Speaker 3: else is a proxy for calories, economic wealth, you know whatever.
- 27:22Speaker 3: So physical strength dominated for a long time, and so
- 27:27Speaker 3: we have language to describe physical strength and the abuse
- 27:31Speaker 3: of physical strength. I don't think we even have language
- 27:34Speaker 3: to describe toxic femininity because I think that this power
- 27:40Speaker 3: that women have had has mainly accelerated into hyperdrives since
- 27:45Speaker 3: maybe the sixties, And so I think we're confused because
- 27:49Speaker 3: we don't even have I mean, words are buckets. Words
- 27:52Speaker 3: are buckets that contain concepts that we're taught to make
- 27:55Speaker 3: retrieval easy. I don't think we even have the language
- 27:59Speaker 3: to describe social manipulation as an abuse of power as
- 28:04Speaker 3: opposed to physical force. And as it comes to some
- 28:08Speaker 3: of these things like kind of centrism or a red pill,
- 28:11Speaker 3: like when women talk, for example, about oppression, really what
- 28:14Speaker 3: they're talking about is bearing children, the obligation to bear children.
- 28:21Speaker 3: And I understand that having kids is tough. I understand
- 28:24Speaker 3: that having kids, you know, if you're expected to have children.
- 28:26Speaker 3: I get why people might be upset about that. You
- 28:29Speaker 3: talked about kind of centrism and women being elevated. Like
- 28:32Speaker 3: the challenge with some of this language and are understanding
- 28:35Speaker 3: of the language and the constructs involved, is that women
- 28:38Speaker 3: aren't entirely wrong. They were obliged for a long time
- 28:43Speaker 3: to have kids because the option was they wouldn't receive
- 28:46Speaker 3: any resources or support and they'd either join a nunnery
- 28:49Speaker 3: or they'd starve. The deal was men die in battle,
- 28:54Speaker 3: and men die on the docks, and men die on boats,
- 28:57Speaker 3: and men die in the minds and have kids. This
- 29:00Speaker 3: was the ancient deal, right. The problem is that it's
- 29:04Speaker 3: not actually women that are being elevated. It is to
- 29:06Speaker 3: a small degree. And this isn't fact. This is this
- 29:09Speaker 3: is kind of my perception of things or why I
- 29:12Speaker 3: think we lack the language. It's actually women's for company
- 29:16Speaker 3: that's being elevated. The only reason that women are being
- 29:19Speaker 3: elevated is because they have a uterus. It's not women
- 29:22Speaker 3: per se that are being elevated. And that's why when
- 29:25Speaker 3: a woman is forty five, for example, she falls off
- 29:27Speaker 3: the map socially. If she's forty five and doesn't have kids,
- 29:31Speaker 3: where is she?
- 29:33Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna I'm gonna push back on that a
- 29:35Speaker 2: little bit, of course. Okay, so I see what you're
- 29:39Speaker 2: coming from. But the thing is, how was it in historically? Like,
- 29:44Speaker 2: how did it work in the past, because that's the
- 29:46Speaker 2: only place we can look, right, So a woman in
- 29:48Speaker 2: her forties was was uh, Well, women were definitely. I
- 29:54Speaker 2: don't think historically they were less than their uterus or
- 29:57Speaker 2: their ability to to produce children. I think that they
- 30:00Speaker 2: were different things at different points in life, just like men.
- 30:03Speaker 2: And so when a woman is young, she is you know,
- 30:08Speaker 2: no children, and she is fertile, and she's a you know,
- 30:12Speaker 2: like basically a prospect for the starting of a family
- 30:18Speaker 2: in the same way that young man is.
- 30:19Speaker 3: Right.
- 30:19Speaker 2: He's youthful, he's got energy, and he's ready to like
- 30:23Speaker 2: you know, risk it all, as it were, to try
- 30:26Speaker 2: to build something and usually at the cost of his
- 30:29Speaker 2: own body so that he can you know, attract a woman.
- 30:32Speaker 2: And and in fact, and for most of our history,
- 30:35Speaker 2: people didn't date per se. They just like knew the
- 30:38Speaker 2: family next door and you know, they grew up together,
- 30:41Speaker 2: and yeah, they were basically set up and it was
- 30:44Speaker 2: you know, a marriage was more like a business. Uh
- 30:47Speaker 2: you know, uh, let's say a merger right in a
- 30:49Speaker 2: lot of ways, because everybody worked and it was like
- 30:51Speaker 2: your family was your business. So when we got into
- 30:55Speaker 2: like industrialization and modernity and stuff, then the concept of
- 31:00Speaker 2: dating cam and this is actually you know, there's a
- 31:02Speaker 2: guy I had on my show. His name is this
- 31:04Speaker 2: is Shah and he's been doing a lot of research
- 31:07Speaker 2: into dowry. And like, dowry is not just like people
- 31:10Speaker 2: think of it, and they think of like, you know,
- 31:12Speaker 2: countries like India, but dowry has always existed in most
- 31:17Speaker 2: of you know, most societies where marriage was based on
- 31:21Speaker 2: bringing families together and you usually knew the people you
- 31:23Speaker 2: were marrying from childhood, so they were like, you know,
- 31:27Speaker 2: you guys were on good terms. It wasn't like the
- 31:29Speaker 2: way that it's presented in movies where you know, oh,
- 31:32Speaker 2: you're you are betrothed to this person that you don't know,
- 31:34Speaker 2: you don't like. It wasn't like that. That's that's Hollywood garbage.
- 31:38Speaker 2: That's a lie, right, And look, I'm not saying we
- 31:41Speaker 2: should go back to that. I'm saying that's where.
- 31:43Speaker 1: We came from.
- 31:44Speaker 2: But like a woman in once she becomes a mother,
- 31:47Speaker 2: then her she's valued for a completely different set of skills.
- 31:52Speaker 2: Right now she is a mother, she is raising children,
- 31:56Speaker 2: she is like feeding them and everything else, and of
- 31:59Speaker 2: course the father is doing his part in that. And
- 32:02Speaker 2: when she gets older, like in her forties, she becomes
- 32:05Speaker 2: a sort of like matron. Right, She's got grandkids, she's
- 32:08Speaker 2: involved with the community, she is so like this is yeah,
- 32:13Speaker 2: but these.
- 32:13Speaker 3: Are men, then those roles done transition. Men have the
- 32:17Speaker 3: same role from probably the age of fifteen.
- 32:19Speaker 2: It's basically yeah, yeah, although I think they can be
- 32:23Speaker 2: like mentors later on, like sort of like yes.
- 32:26Speaker 1: We become senatorial, you know what I mean, yes, exactly,
- 32:29Speaker 1: but I do think that, uh no, it's okay.
- 32:32Speaker 2: Just to make this point, I do think that if
- 32:34Speaker 2: there is a kind of like reduction in women's value,
- 32:39Speaker 2: like the way that we see them today, it's not
- 32:41Speaker 2: it's not because of something men did. I think it
- 32:44Speaker 2: was in fact, you know, the feminist movement. It basically
- 32:48Speaker 2: pushed them into the workplace. It it double the tax base.
- 32:52Speaker 2: It made women into you know, essentially vehicles for pursuing
- 32:58Speaker 2: career above all things, dating family second, And it was
- 33:02Speaker 2: all about like seeing everything in terms of monetization as
- 33:05Speaker 2: opposed to like other kinds of value, you know.
- 33:09Speaker 3: And I think you're actually painting the path to us
- 33:11Speaker 3: entirely agreeing. And here's maybe where we can make the bridge. Okay,
- 33:15Speaker 3: if if women today still had three or four kids
- 33:18Speaker 3: in their forties, I think they would be highly prized. Absolutely,
- 33:24Speaker 3: women only fall off the map generally if they don't
- 33:28Speaker 3: have children at their forty five, right, they want to
- 33:32Speaker 3: continue to not make the transition. Men don't have to
- 33:34Speaker 3: do that, And that way maybe we have it a
- 33:36Speaker 3: hair easier as far as development over time, because by
- 33:39Speaker 3: the time we're fifteen, everyone realizes that we're no longer
- 33:41Speaker 3: a puppy, that we're now an almost full grown dog.
- 33:44Speaker 3: And generally speaking, society tosses us into a sack and
- 33:47Speaker 3: tosses us into the river and says, fight your way
- 33:49Speaker 3: up and swim. No, it doesn't happen at fifteen. Maybe
- 33:52Speaker 3: it happens to twenty five. But society with large on
- 33:56Speaker 3: an evolved basis, doesn't really have much time for men,
- 34:00Speaker 3: not young. They have to fight their way up. That's
- 34:03Speaker 3: their job is to fight their way up. I get it.
- 34:05Speaker 3: It's fine. Society has plenty of time for young. They're feeding,
- 34:10Speaker 3: they think they're kids. The more potential kids they can bear,
- 34:12Speaker 3: the more attention they get. That's what Instagram is. That's
- 34:14Speaker 3: what only fans is. It's a celebration of fecundity, an
- 34:18Speaker 3: evolved compulsion to celebrate for coundity. But that celebration of
- 34:21Speaker 3: fecundity means tons of affirmation and validation and dopamine for
- 34:25Speaker 3: women and resources. This has always been the case. It's
- 34:29Speaker 3: a male competition for for condity, for fert it's not fertility,
- 34:33Speaker 3: it's not quite the same concept. And so they get
- 34:37Speaker 3: a ton of affirmation, a ton of validation and a
- 34:39Speaker 3: ton of resources, and they can use it for condity
- 34:42Speaker 3: to get that, whether it be professionally, whether it be personally,
- 34:45Speaker 3: we're evolved to elevate for condity. I think what women
- 34:50Speaker 3: are really objecting to is the transition from a celebration
- 34:52Speaker 3: of fecundity to a celebration of maternity and saying that
- 34:55Speaker 3: that's an oppressive change. And it's like, well, I guess
- 35:00Speaker 3: at what you're saying, but we sent eighteen year old
- 35:03Speaker 3: boys up to die in Germany like, and so the
- 35:10Speaker 3: male role doesn't really change as much as the female role.
- 35:13Speaker 3: It's just that we start to look at men as
- 35:16Speaker 3: disposable when they're eighteen, not disposable when they're in their
- 35:20Speaker 3: mid thirties, and not even kids like. Male disposability is
- 35:24Speaker 3: always on the table, always on an evolved level, and
- 35:28Speaker 3: so I don't think that men struggle with that as
- 35:32Speaker 3: much as long as it comes along with a certain
- 35:34Speaker 3: modicum of gratitude. Because as soon as everyone realizes that
- 35:38Speaker 3: we're no longer puppies like eight year old boys, they
- 35:40Speaker 3: get lots of attention. Fine, but as soon as boys
- 35:43Speaker 3: are post pbstent, the expectation is fight compete. Yeah, for sure,
- 35:51Speaker 3: win a partner, win a wife, and show us the resources,
- 35:54Speaker 3: have the car, you know, be able to support a family,
- 35:57Speaker 3: and there's no turning there. Like there's there's no change
- 36:00Speaker 3: men past that point. Women are celebrated for their company,
- 36:04Speaker 3: but if they don't turn the corner to maternity, that
- 36:07Speaker 3: celebration ends. And that's what I think many women find oppressive,
- 36:11Speaker 3: is that unless they have kids, there's just not much
- 36:16Speaker 3: Therefore them, they're not celebrated anymore. Society looks the other way.
- 36:20Speaker 3: And so I think that women really do find not
- 36:22Speaker 3: all women, but I think that many women do find
- 36:24Speaker 3: the obligation of maternity to maintain their social status. That's
- 36:29Speaker 3: what they really think. The chronical patriarchy is the handmaid
- 36:31Speaker 3: still is that are not valuable as you have kids.
- 36:35Speaker 3: What they don't understand is that that's not men doing it.
- 36:37Speaker 3: That's evolution doing it to women the same way as
- 36:39Speaker 3: evolution says men are disposable. Why would we on an
- 36:43Speaker 3: evolved level celebrate weak men who refuse to fight and
- 36:49Speaker 3: represent children. Why would we celebrate any form of masculinity
- 36:53Speaker 3: that doesn't create and maintain children and grandchildren? On some level,
- 36:58Speaker 3: there's no reason for evolution to code that in why
- 37:01Speaker 3: would we celebrate any form of femininity that doesn't result
- 37:03Speaker 3: in children, my grandchildren? Why would evolution?
- 37:06Speaker 2: Where does it go other than satisfying your own sort
- 37:09Speaker 2: of like, I mean, frankly narcissistic.
- 37:12Speaker 3: And that's one hundred percent right there. Yeah, evolution doesn't
- 37:17Speaker 3: care if men are oppressed. It doesn't care if women
- 37:20Speaker 3: are oppressed. I've read Richard Dowkin selfish gene. It makes
- 37:22Speaker 3: perfect sense. Evolution does not care if men are oppressed,
- 37:26Speaker 3: as long as we get the maximum number of adaptable grandchildren.
- 37:30Speaker 3: Doesn't care. Evolution doesn't care if women are oppressed, as
- 37:34Speaker 3: long as we get the maximum number of adaptable grandchildren.
- 37:38Speaker 3: Doesn't care. The assumption here that many modern feminists have
- 37:42Speaker 3: is that life is supposed to be fun. It's supposed
- 37:44Speaker 3: to be affirmation and validation, and no, evolution doesn't give
- 37:48Speaker 3: a good goddamn if you're happy. It doesn't care. It
- 37:52Speaker 3: didn't hardcode your happiness into its construct. It hard coded
- 37:57Speaker 3: the maximum number of adaptable grandchild. And here we are
- 38:02Speaker 3: a bucking evolution, and buck and evolution and manipulating it
- 38:06Speaker 3: now by artificially creating conflict between men and women, and
- 38:11Speaker 3: all of a sudden, their birth rates are tanking, and
- 38:13Speaker 3: all of a sudden marriage is tanking. We've got a
- 38:15Speaker 3: men and boy crisis where men are withdrawing. It's the
- 38:19Speaker 3: manipulation of the evolutionary construct under the auspices of rising
- 38:23Speaker 3: female power in an anti natalist construct. Modern feminism's primary
- 38:29Speaker 3: target is children, not men. They're going through men to
- 38:35Speaker 3: get to babies. Why is abortion the number one topic
- 38:39Speaker 3: for modern feminists? Their real target is not men. They
- 38:44Speaker 3: have to go through us to get to babies. They
- 38:48Speaker 3: don't want babies because babies, to them are that turning
- 38:53Speaker 3: of the corner that represents the oppression. We're not the
- 38:56Speaker 3: actual target. We're the proxy, if you know what I mean,
- 39:00Speaker 3: Because because what does a relationship with the band result in? Well, kids, right, marriage, family,
- 39:06Speaker 3: it's kids. The heart of the modern feminist movement is
- 39:12Speaker 3: is the belief that babies are oppression and that's divorcin
- 39:15Speaker 3: that's d be war.
- 39:16Speaker 2: I mean, that's that's so it's not you you're saying
- 39:19Speaker 2: modern feminism, but that's like, that's all feminism. That's what
- 39:23Speaker 2: it always was because like literat like even Mary Wilson
- 39:27Speaker 2: Craft was like the proto feminist was essentially writing about
- 39:33Speaker 2: like liberation of women means liberation from their biology, because
- 39:38Speaker 2: that's the only way that can go. Literally, nowhere else
- 39:43Speaker 2: it can go, Like this is why, like the trans
- 39:45Speaker 2: thing is big now because there's nowhere else to go,
- 39:47Speaker 2: Like we're just going to try and change our bodies
- 39:49Speaker 2: like the nature.
- 39:50Speaker 3: That's right, generity constructionism, or you know, an elimination of sex,
- 39:53Speaker 3: of memorphism. But my mother, for example, I would I
- 39:56Speaker 3: would call my mother a feminist. My mother agrees with gender.
- 40:01Speaker 3: I mean, I guess in today's lingo, like if you
- 40:03Speaker 3: take a look at Mary Harrington's work, Louise Perry's work
- 40:06Speaker 3: as feminists, right, yeah, Mary Harrington has created this or
- 40:10Speaker 3: carved out this niche, calling it reactionary feminism. And Mary
- 40:15Speaker 3: Harrington is an essence saying, listen, we live in a
- 40:18Speaker 3: time where women can be whatever they want to be.
- 40:21Speaker 3: But it's probably best if you don't compete with men.
- 40:24Speaker 3: It's probably best if you do focus your early years
- 40:27Speaker 3: of becoming a wife and a mother, because you're probably
- 40:30Speaker 3: going to be happiest and your children will be in
- 40:32Speaker 3: the best possible shape. And so my mom, she's like
- 40:36Speaker 3: eighty now, but she's along that same line as well.
- 40:41Speaker 3: My mom never went to university. Her parents didn't let
- 40:43Speaker 3: her go to university. Her parents only let her go
- 40:45Speaker 3: through grade ten. This was back in the in the fifties.
- 40:48Speaker 3: But my mother says, listen, I'm working my ass up,
- 40:50Speaker 3: I'm working hard. I'm your father's equal, but I refuse
- 40:54Speaker 3: to compete with them. He and I are not going
- 40:56Speaker 3: to compete. We're equals. But my mother has no interest
- 41:00Speaker 3: in competing with my father, and my father has no
- 41:02Speaker 3: interest in competing with my mother, not zero. And that's
- 41:07Speaker 3: the only reason that they're approaching their sixtieth wedding anniversary
- 41:11Speaker 3: is because they refuse to compete. And my mother does
- 41:13Speaker 3: not believe that women should compete with men, even if
- 41:16Speaker 3: they're in the same career paths. Like it doesn't mean
- 41:19Speaker 3: that women can't be lawyers. It just means that we
- 41:22Speaker 3: need to produce male female competition whenever we can, because
- 41:26Speaker 3: the male female competition engages gender buy some real typecasting,
- 41:30Speaker 3: and that means that we're off to the racist with
- 41:31Speaker 3: false allegations and all kinds of talksic conduct to manipulate
- 41:36Speaker 3: the evolved compulsion right, and so family law that's a
- 41:41Speaker 3: competition between men and women now is wife. It is
- 41:46Speaker 3: completely rife with gender bias. Real typecasting now you know
- 41:51Speaker 3: I've I've struggled with gender Buy some real type casting
- 41:54Speaker 3: because it has a It uses the term around like,
- 42:00Speaker 3: it uses the term morals as if, as if this
- 42:03Speaker 3: isn't purely evolved conduct like I'm not sure people understand.
- 42:09Speaker 3: Cats do this, Dogs do this, Elephants do this. Every
- 42:17Speaker 3: single primate does this, every single one, and the really
- 42:24Speaker 3: strange things. And again this is my own work now,
- 42:26Speaker 3: but it was based on doctor Reynold's work. It's not
- 42:30Speaker 3: just that cats do it with cats and dogs do
- 42:33Speaker 3: it with dogs as a marked preference for infants than females,
- 42:38Speaker 3: with no preference for males. If you have a man
- 42:42Speaker 3: and a woman fighting, even if the woman is the
- 42:45Speaker 3: aggressor and there's a male dog present, he's more prone
- 42:50Speaker 3: to bite the male, even if the male is the victim.
- 42:54Speaker 3: It's interspecies. Cats will comfort children and women, but they
- 43:00Speaker 3: will leave men alone. Cats respond to female vocalization favorably
- 43:05Speaker 3: by approaching and rubbing, but not male vocalization. This is
- 43:09Speaker 3: not some some moral thing. Cats don't have morals. Dogs
- 43:15Speaker 3: don't have morals. Guerrillas don't have morals. This is an ancient,
- 43:20Speaker 3: evolved system that at this point, many but not all,
- 43:24Speaker 3: but many women are manipulating for personal gain. And that's
- 43:27Speaker 3: what modern feminism is. Because if the course of all
- 43:29Speaker 3: of this is children first, then women, then men. You
- 43:35Speaker 3: follow me so far, that's a super construct. If if
- 43:39Speaker 3: modern feminism is fundamentally anti natalist, and you reduce the
- 43:44Speaker 3: number of children or eliminate the number of children, who
- 43:48Speaker 3: is the primary beneficiary of the evolved bias? If you
- 43:56Speaker 3: take up the kids, who's the maximum beneficiary of the system.
- 44:03Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it's the women.
- 44:05Speaker 3: It's the women.
- 44:06Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 44:07Speaker 3: They receive the affirmation of validation, the attention, the resources,
- 44:11Speaker 3: and they have no responsibility at all to pass it on.
- 44:14Speaker 3: And men aren't even part of the construct. And it's interspecies.
- 44:20Speaker 3: Can I send you to the DM of something, Yeah,
- 44:23Speaker 3: go ahead, Okay, here it's a Grock analysis. Just did
- 44:31Speaker 3: it the other day, and so I've kind of renamed
- 44:33Speaker 3: this and again, this isn't this is my work, and
- 44:37Speaker 3: I believe it's a very very good work, but it's
- 44:41Speaker 3: all based on the initial my initial understanding of doctor
- 44:47Speaker 3: Tonya Menold's work. So I'm sending it to you now, Okay,
- 44:51Speaker 3: I got it right here. You should have a Grock analysis.
- 44:53Speaker 1: Now, yep. Oh yeah, this is a lot. Okay, it's long.
- 45:00Speaker 3: Now, we don't need to go through it in detail. Yeah,
- 45:04Speaker 3: it's going to be useful to have up in the chat.
- 45:06Speaker 3: In fact, I'll post it in the x chat here
- 45:09Speaker 3: so that people can see it if they want to
- 45:10Speaker 3: see it. Where is it here?
- 45:14Speaker 1: There?
- 45:14Speaker 3: It is. So doctor Reynolds looked at this from a
- 45:23Speaker 3: from a human level, just a human level. Okay, mm hmm,
- 45:28Speaker 3: and that's fine. What she didn't look at what no
- 45:31Speaker 3: one has really integrated is that it's an interspecies pattern
- 45:34Speaker 3: of conduct. Okay, So what I took a look at
- 45:37Speaker 3: in this analysis was how deep does this go? And
- 45:42Speaker 3: this is where Grot confirmed based on assembling a bunch
- 45:46Speaker 3: of different research. Cats will comfort children before women, Cats
- 45:49Speaker 3: will comfort women before men. Cats almost never comfort men.
- 45:52Speaker 3: They'll come to men for food, they'll come to men
- 45:54Speaker 3: for attention when they want attention, but they almost never
- 45:58Speaker 3: come to comfort men whenmen vocal. Same for dogs, same
- 46:02Speaker 3: for climts, same for elephants. Okay, so this is not
- 46:07Speaker 3: gender bias in moral type casting with all respect to
- 46:12Speaker 3: doctor Reynolds, this is something much much different. And what
- 46:17Speaker 3: I've called this I asked Rock for some names and
- 46:20Speaker 3: we kind of went through things. It's this. I've actually
- 46:24Speaker 3: called it the synergistic interspecies. And this might be a
- 46:28Speaker 3: little precocious.
- 46:29Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 46:29Speaker 3: The synergistic interspecies infant female triage medality.
- 46:38Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.
- 46:40Speaker 3: Because this isn't just about men and women and kids.
- 46:44Speaker 3: This is so much deeper. If a man and a
- 46:48Speaker 3: woman are having a fight and a stray dog was
- 46:50Speaker 3: to intervene, he would bite the men.
- 46:52Speaker 1: Yeah, this isn't just.
- 46:55Speaker 3: About people, right, this goes into every So what this
- 47:00Speaker 3: means the synergistic interspecies sift is the acronym every single
- 47:06Speaker 3: interaction we have. We are sifting people into buckets of
- 47:10Speaker 3: infant through femininity, through masculinity. Who's at the bottom end
- 47:16Speaker 3: of that as far as who has the most responsibility
- 47:18Speaker 3: and the least benefits. It's not just men, it's the
- 47:22Speaker 3: most masculine men. Yeah, it's a distribution curve of proclivity
- 47:29Speaker 3: favoring infantilization.
- 47:31Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
- 47:32Speaker 3: Now think about modern feminism and infantilization. The claims the
- 47:36Speaker 3: conflict What they're doing is they're pushing themselves down towards infantilization,
- 47:42Speaker 3: the Handmaid's Tale, the tyrannical patriarchy. Man are ol oppressors.
- 47:47Speaker 3: They're vocalizing, whether it be in writing or on YouTube,
- 47:51Speaker 3: they're vocalizing and infantilizing themselves to get the attention.
- 47:54Speaker 1: That's it.
- 47:55Speaker 3: Dogs do it, cats do it. Everything does it. That
- 47:59Speaker 3: femine is simply it's an evolved construct. Modern feminism is
- 48:03Speaker 3: an evolved constructs. It's that's why they can believe in
- 48:07Speaker 3: what they're doing and lie at the same time. Mm hmm,
- 48:11Speaker 3: because it feels correct even if they're lying. That's what
- 48:18Speaker 3: happened to me with Child Protective Services. That's what happened
- 48:21Speaker 3: to me. A trial, even though I ended up with
- 48:23Speaker 3: fifteen to fifty Guspie is what happened to be a trial.
- 48:26Speaker 3: Everybody wants to support the female vocalization. Dogs want to
- 48:30Speaker 3: support cats want to support it. Gibbons, gorillas, elephants want
- 48:34Speaker 3: to support it. So do lawyers, so do judges, so
- 48:38Speaker 3: does everyone. Everyone does all that women have to do,
- 48:44Speaker 3: and not all women. Many women hate this construct. Mary
- 48:47Speaker 3: Harrington hates it. Louise Perry hates it. That aren't hates it.
- 48:50Speaker 3: Many excellent women of excellent character hate this evolved proclivity.
- 48:56Speaker 3: But there's no question that modern feminists are paying out
- 48:59Speaker 3: an evolve proclivity towards grievance narratives, female vocalization to gain
- 49:06Speaker 3: power and cutting off the tail end of the infant.
- 49:10Speaker 3: They're cutting off the obligation to have children, so that
- 49:15Speaker 3: they are at the they are the bottomneck, they are
- 49:18Speaker 3: the receiving end of all affirmation, all validation, all of that.
- 49:23Speaker 3: That's my red pill mode.
- 49:25Speaker 1: Yeah, that was my reds.
- 49:27Speaker 3: Understanding that this isn't even just about people. This goes
- 49:32Speaker 3: way way deeper than people, and it's not about morals.
- 49:36Speaker 3: Modern feminism is not a social construct. They are playing
- 49:39Speaker 3: out an evolved compulsion to deceive and self infantilize and
- 49:44Speaker 3: characterize men as oppressors. And they believe it. And yet
- 49:50Speaker 3: it's a lie. Yeah, but they believe it.
- 49:54Speaker 1: They actually course, no, of course they do.
- 49:56Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I yeah, I think there are people
- 49:59Speaker 2: who also so see seek benefit from this setup. But
- 50:05Speaker 2: but there is something If it's evolved, then why is
- 50:08Speaker 2: it killing us? Because it's going to at like with
- 50:12Speaker 2: the birth rates plummeting.
- 50:14Speaker 3: Oh no, no, here's an answer to that question. ABC
- 50:17Speaker 3: News just uncovered that answer. Let me see if I
- 50:20Speaker 3: can get this for you. I might have to paste
- 50:22Speaker 3: in here. ABC News just ran a pole about what
- 50:26Speaker 3: man woe will want.
- 50:27Speaker 1: Okay, oh, I know we covered it on the show.
- 50:29Speaker 1: Are you talking about?
- 50:30Speaker 5: Like?
- 50:30Speaker 3: Right? Okay, right now? The way that you figure out
- 50:35Speaker 3: what someone wants is not when they're in a position
- 50:37Speaker 3: of dress, because stated preferences versus revealed preferences mean that
- 50:42Speaker 3: you have to be in a position of power and
- 50:44Speaker 3: strength to have your revealed preferences show someone's got a
- 50:47Speaker 3: gun to your head. Are you going to tell the
- 50:48Speaker 3: truth or you're going to lie and tell them whatever
- 50:49Speaker 3: lie they want you to tell. You're going to say
- 50:51Speaker 3: whatever they want to say. Yeah, So you can only
- 50:54Speaker 3: tell the truth and have your stated preferences match your
- 50:58Speaker 3: revealed preferences when you have power. That's it. That's the
- 51:02Speaker 3: only point in which you can afford to be honest. Business,
- 51:04Speaker 3: No gun to your head. Women have more power now
- 51:09Speaker 3: than they've ever now. They're less happy than they've ever been,
- 51:12Speaker 3: but they have more power now, and so they can
- 51:14Speaker 3: start to allow their stated preferences to align with their
- 51:17Speaker 3: revealed preferences, and that's what the ABC poll uncovered. I
- 51:22Speaker 3: don't believe, although there's a distribution curve of proclivity, I
- 51:27Speaker 3: don't believe that women ever wanted marriage children.
- 51:32Speaker 1: You don't that women ever want to help.
- 51:34Speaker 3: It marriage or children. No, not, not for its own purposes.
- 51:41Speaker 3: I believe that women were created by evolution as men
- 51:45Speaker 3: were created by evolution, and that women were created by
- 51:48Speaker 3: evolution to require men and the caloric input that men
- 51:52Speaker 3: could provide. That's why concealed avulation involved in women. You're
- 51:57Speaker 3: familiar with that. Oh, no, concealed ovulation. We're one of
- 52:02Speaker 3: the only species on the planet that has sexual relations
- 52:05Speaker 3: outside ovulation.
- 52:05Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, yeah, we can have.
- 52:09Speaker 3: Sex and even enjoy sex outside ovulation. The reason that
- 52:14Speaker 3: evolved is so that women could secure resources from men
- 52:18Speaker 3: without having a child for their own survival, not just
- 52:22Speaker 3: for the survival of a child. Okay, this is the
- 52:25Speaker 3: basis for prostitution, concealed ovulation, the exchange of resources for
- 52:28Speaker 3: sexual access mind as a child without without a child. Now,
- 52:33Speaker 3: that was okay in a circumstance where women had to
- 52:37Speaker 3: approach men for resources, because if they approached men for
- 52:39Speaker 3: resources often enough ovulation kicked in. And that's not to
- 52:43Speaker 3: say that women were oppressed women. Many women enjoyed those experiences.
- 52:48Speaker 3: Sex isn't always some tyrannical patriarchal of active oppression. Women
- 52:52Speaker 3: have enjoyed sex for ages. Okay, this is not new,
- 52:57Speaker 3: but in that context of women being compelled to approach
- 53:00Speaker 3: men for resources, eventually they got pregnant. But no one
- 53:06Speaker 3: was choosing pregnancy one hundred and fifty thousand years ago.
- 53:08Speaker 3: We've only had the little to think for one hundred
- 53:10Speaker 3: and fifty thousand years. No one knew they were going
- 53:13Speaker 3: to have a kid when they had sex. We were
- 53:17Speaker 3: incapable of thought. No one was choosing children. What women
- 53:22Speaker 3: were choosing was to exchange sex for resources, and occasionally
- 53:27Speaker 3: they were more compelled to do it because they were
- 53:29Speaker 3: ovulating and enjoyed it more because they were ogulating. No
- 53:33Speaker 3: one was choosing children. No one was choosing the relationship.
- 53:37Speaker 3: The relationship was an evolutionary construct. It's not a social construct.
- 53:42Speaker 3: Marriage is not a social construct. Vasa presdent prolocked them
- 53:44Speaker 3: on the part of men, an oxyotocial on the part
- 53:46Speaker 3: of women. This is what family. This is what family is.
- 53:48Speaker 3: These chemicals define it family is an evolutionary construct. It's
- 53:55Speaker 3: harder in people than it is in other species. But
- 53:57Speaker 3: family is an evolved construct. Men a vaca pressed and
- 54:00Speaker 3: as a function of sex that makes the make guard women.
- 54:04Speaker 3: That's male love right there. Women of oxytocin as a
- 54:08Speaker 3: result of orgasm and breastfeeding, that's family. Like these chemicals
- 54:12Speaker 3: define it. The family is an evolved construct, perhaps best
- 54:16Speaker 3: personified in Western democracy, which is probably why Western democracy
- 54:20Speaker 3: has done as well as it's done, because the nuclear
- 54:24Speaker 3: family has never been stronger than in the context of
- 54:27Speaker 3: Western democracy. It's part of the nuclear family that built it.
- 54:31Speaker 3: No one country, if you know what I'm saying, it's
- 54:33Speaker 3: that construct that did. But in that construct, women weren't
- 54:38Speaker 3: consciously choosing children. They were choosing the marriage. They were
- 54:43Speaker 3: choosing the relationship, just as through concealed ovulation, because it
- 54:48Speaker 3: was their access to social status, which is resources. Social
- 54:52Speaker 3: status is a proxy for resources. If you're strong within
- 54:55Speaker 3: your community, your community will support you right with resources
- 54:59Speaker 3: and camalory. They were choosing social status, and they were
- 55:03Speaker 3: choosing their own lifestyle. And there's her own survival. But
- 55:08Speaker 3: now that women have power and are no longer compelled
- 55:11Speaker 3: to seek men for protection or for resources which men
- 55:15Speaker 3: didn't do to them. Evolution designed them that way. Evolution
- 55:18Speaker 3: designed us our way. Now that women are coming from
- 55:21Speaker 3: a position of power, they no longer have to say
- 55:24Speaker 3: that they value marriage children. They can actually speak a
- 55:27Speaker 3: stated preference that mirrors the revealed preference. They never wanted
- 55:33Speaker 3: marriage and children for marriage and children's sake. They wanted
- 55:36Speaker 3: it for survival. If a woman didn't have children, she
- 55:40Speaker 3: was going to be in a nunnery. Like, do women
- 55:45Speaker 3: really want to eat porridge every day? No?
- 55:47Speaker 2: Well, I mean lots of women do join nunneries, But
- 55:52Speaker 2: I think it just sounds like what like, do women
- 55:56Speaker 2: not get any joy out of motherhood?
- 55:59Speaker 1: Do they not?
- 55:59Speaker 3: They have, absolutely, but only once, but only once they
- 56:02Speaker 3: have the kids.
- 56:03Speaker 5: Right.
- 56:04Speaker 3: See, because breastfeeding, so men sex, good sex result in oxytocin.
- 56:10Speaker 3: For women, it's a bonding chemical, right, It bonds people together.
- 56:14Speaker 3: But once a woman has children, the number one source
- 56:17Speaker 3: of oxytocin is no longer sex. It's breastfeeding that otocin in.
- 56:23Speaker 3: A new mother maintains her mental health and holds her
- 56:27Speaker 3: in the family unit. As long as she's breastfeeding, she's
- 56:31Speaker 3: unlikely to end the family because the oxytocin from the
- 56:34Speaker 3: best feeding gives her a sense of contentment and peace.
- 56:38Speaker 3: She's content.
- 56:41Speaker 1: What about the what about? What about this?
- 56:43Speaker 3: Though?
- 56:44Speaker 2: So like as an aside, Okay, So I believe that
- 56:49Speaker 2: another thing that impacts women's behavior when it comes to
- 56:52Speaker 2: whether or not they're gonna get married, stay married and
- 56:55Speaker 2: have children, or if they're going to get divorced or
- 56:58Speaker 2: whatever it is they choose, depends on the social circle
- 57:03Speaker 2: they're in. And I think that it's a social contagion,
- 57:06Speaker 2: one of the I have a data point where a
- 57:10Speaker 2: woman who is in proximity to other women who have
- 57:14Speaker 2: gotten divorced are they are more likely to get divorced.
- 57:18Speaker 2: So if they see their friends are getting divorces, it
- 57:20Speaker 2: increases their chance of getting divorced by like a significant number.
- 57:25Speaker 1: I find it. And it's a social.
- 57:30Speaker 3: You're getting the nailed right on the head.
- 57:31Speaker 1: But the opposite of this is true as well. What
- 57:35Speaker 1: I was gonna say.
- 57:36Speaker 2: The opposite is true because if a woman is around
- 57:38Speaker 2: a woman like, let's say they're in a group of
- 57:40Speaker 2: friends and one of them is like, one of them
- 57:44Speaker 2: gets married, and the other women like are more likely
- 57:48Speaker 2: to get married. And if one of them has kids,
- 57:50Speaker 2: then the others are more likely to have kids. And
- 57:51Speaker 2: if they're if a bunch of women are all you know,
- 57:55Speaker 2: within a sort of proximity of each other, and they're
- 57:57Speaker 2: all having children, then they're they're all going to get
- 58:00Speaker 2: a lot of It's not just the chemicals of breastfeeding,
- 58:04Speaker 2: but it's the social aspect of it becomes essentially, what
- 58:10Speaker 2: where they get all of their joy and their affirmation from,
- 58:13Speaker 2: Whereas if they're not doing that, they're getting it from
- 58:16Speaker 2: you know, I don't know, social media engagement, attention from
- 58:22Speaker 2: the attention economy, from men, from other women. They're they're
- 58:26Speaker 2: engaging in social media like you know, dog piling or
- 58:31Speaker 2: whatever it is, but they're not. It's like the energy
- 58:34Speaker 2: is they're still asking for this stuff, but they're just
- 58:37Speaker 2: getting it from somewhere else, you know what I mean.
- 58:39Speaker 3: And you're one d percent right. And the name and
- 58:42Speaker 3: evolutionary psychology and evolutionary biology for that is strategic post
- 58:46Speaker 3: social behavior. And there's a good reason for it. It's
- 58:49Speaker 3: that men survived as individuals often but women could never
- 58:55Speaker 3: survive as individuals one man versus one woman, you know,
- 59:00Speaker 3: Like again we're talking one hundred thousand years ago, when
- 59:03Speaker 3: when our compulsions were drafted by evolution or longer. A
- 59:07Speaker 3: woman alone was dead or raped, that's yeah, whether it
- 59:13Speaker 3: be a predator or a human predator, right or starvation,
- 59:18Speaker 3: she was dead. That's not the case for a man alone.
- 59:22Speaker 3: His chances of dying.
- 59:24Speaker 1: Were hot and he could end up dead, so he.
- 59:27Speaker 3: Could end up surviving and moving through. Well, everything that
- 59:30Speaker 3: creates a fifty percent plus one chance of improving survival
- 59:35Speaker 3: eventually gets hard coded by evolution, and so evolution hard
- 59:38Speaker 3: coded women to become more of a collective. That's what
- 59:41Speaker 3: strategic pro social behavior is. And the interesting thing is
- 59:44Speaker 3: hi to stop sort of eliminates strategic pro social conduct.
- 59:48Speaker 3: It's not something to that experience, which is why women
- 59:50Speaker 3: form collectives really quickly and men just don't. That's part
- 59:54Speaker 3: of the gender biasomol type casting is part of why
- 59:57Speaker 3: women will often act as a collective and men will
- 1:00:00Speaker 3: often act as individuals. Because women's survival depended on them
- 1:00:04Speaker 3: not straying too far from other women when the men
- 1:00:09Speaker 3: were gone hunting, when the men were away for a
- 1:00:11Speaker 3: period of time, and so women needed to form a
- 1:00:16Speaker 3: social collective. Here's the question, how do you know that
- 1:00:18Speaker 3: you're protected in any herd anamo, any collective. Do you
- 1:00:22Speaker 3: want to be at the edge of the hurt where
- 1:00:24Speaker 3: pretor paget you, or do you want to right? But
- 1:00:27Speaker 3: who's in the center of the hurt? And the answer
- 1:00:29Speaker 3: is high status females. The high status females are the
- 1:00:32Speaker 3: center of the hurt. Right, you want to be into
- 1:00:36Speaker 3: the high status females. How do you accomplish that goal?
- 1:00:40Speaker 3: You do what they do, and you believe what they believe.
- 1:00:43Speaker 3: You act like they act. You mirror the higher influence
- 1:00:48Speaker 3: women in your social group. And so if you're married
- 1:00:53Speaker 3: to the highest status woman in her social group, she's
- 1:00:57Speaker 3: not going to be swayed much by one of her
- 1:00:58Speaker 3: friends getting divorced because she's the highest status female in
- 1:01:02Speaker 3: the group. But if you're married to one of the
- 1:01:04Speaker 3: lower status figom in her social group, and her highest
- 1:01:07Speaker 3: influenced friend gets divorced, you're fucked and there's nothing you
- 1:01:13Speaker 3: can do about it. Because her physical survival two hundred
- 1:01:17Speaker 3: thousand years ago didn't depend on her doing what you
- 1:01:20Speaker 3: told her to you were gone most of the time.
- 1:01:24Speaker 3: Her physical survival depended on her proximity physical social proximity
- 1:01:30Speaker 3: to the highest status female in her peer group. Any
- 1:01:36Speaker 3: woman who got cast to the edge of the tribe
- 1:01:39Speaker 3: by the highest any woman who got excommunicated from her
- 1:01:41Speaker 3: peer group died. That's strategic pal social behavior, and that's
- 1:01:46Speaker 3: why women are more susceptible to anarexia. That's why they're
- 1:01:49Speaker 3: more susceptible to bolima. That's why they're more susceptible to
- 1:01:53Speaker 3: social contagion of gender contagion. That's why young women are
- 1:01:58Speaker 3: more susceptible to getting ticks after they watch a higher
- 1:02:01Speaker 3: status female on TikTok with a large following at facial tics. Yeah,
- 1:02:06Speaker 3: because women see their peer group as physical survival absent
- 1:02:13Speaker 3: external threat. If there is an identifiable external threat, they
- 1:02:17Speaker 3: see you as a man, as their physics a life,
- 1:02:19Speaker 3: but absent a visible external threat that a man is
- 1:02:23Speaker 3: supposed to defend them from, in essence a predator of
- 1:02:26Speaker 3: some kind. They see other women their peer group as
- 1:02:30Speaker 3: their physical safety. They're safer with their peer group, and
- 1:02:35Speaker 3: so if they're peer group has a couple of high
- 1:02:38Speaker 3: status women who have gotten divorced, there's nothing you can
- 1:02:41Speaker 3: do as a man. Mm hmm. You are not absent
- 1:02:45Speaker 3: to bear at the door. Absent a saber tooth tiger
- 1:02:49Speaker 3: at the mouth of the cave than you standing between
- 1:02:51Speaker 3: you between her and it with a spear. She is
- 1:02:55Speaker 3: going to chase your peer group.
- 1:02:58Speaker 2: All right, I got a super chant now I got
- 1:03:00Speaker 2: to read out really quick from ZARAENX. He sent it
- 1:03:03Speaker 2: earlier and I again a chance to read it. He
- 1:03:05Speaker 2: sends ten dollars and says, men protect the family. The
- 1:03:08Speaker 2: best way to have all members of a family left
- 1:03:10Speaker 2: vulnerable is to minimize the efficacy of the protector. Otherwise
- 1:03:14Speaker 2: all members would work in concert of guarding said family.
- 1:03:17Speaker 2: Guaranteed the most evil individual couldn't come.
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: Up with this.
- 1:03:20Speaker 2: It works too well. All right, thank you for that, ZARANX.
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: Sorry that was like from a while back, so the
- 1:03:26Speaker 2: context might be lost. You mentioned that women like they
- 1:03:31Speaker 2: have power now, and I think it's the illusion of power.
- 1:03:36Speaker 2: Like every they're very comfortable, like men have made modern
- 1:03:40Speaker 2: women very safe and comfortable with all of our modern conveniences,
- 1:03:44Speaker 2: and I think it's given them like this this threat
- 1:03:48Speaker 2: or danger of being like you know, unsafe where they
- 1:03:53Speaker 2: need men.
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: I think that's kind of like it's gone like that.
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: The threat is there. No, the threat is real, and
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: it's there.
- 1:04:02Speaker 2: And what we have in terms of like what keeps
- 1:04:04Speaker 2: these women safe is extremely fragile, and it's constantly being
- 1:04:08Speaker 2: chipped away at, and in fact, in a lot of ways,
- 1:04:11Speaker 2: women are chipping away at it themselves because of how
- 1:04:16Speaker 2: safe we have made them, right, so you know, we
- 1:04:20Speaker 2: so like, yeah, so I think that this is it's
- 1:04:24Speaker 2: it's strange then that women are actually undermining their their
- 1:04:29Speaker 2: own safety net, probably because they're they're not aware of
- 1:04:33Speaker 2: how dangerous the world actually can be and it can
- 1:04:36Speaker 2: happen very fast. And also, why then is there a
- 1:04:41Speaker 2: multi billion dollar industry that's trying to convince women to
- 1:04:46Speaker 2: you know, not have kids and divorce their husbands and
- 1:04:49Speaker 2: tank the birth rate and kill their own babies, like
- 1:04:54Speaker 2: if it's modern, well, like the whole cathedral, like the
- 1:05:01Speaker 2: whole like education, media, you know, politics, the whole apparatus
- 1:05:08Speaker 2: is essentially weaponizing women's fear insecurity and narcissism to destroy
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: themselves and our society by choosing, you know, to divorce
- 1:05:22Speaker 2: themselves from men, to not like, to not trust men,
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: to constantly fear men, to see them as the enemy,
- 1:05:28Speaker 2: to see them as competition, which is like, you know,
- 1:05:31Speaker 2: according to what you said, is like the reason is
- 1:05:34Speaker 2: like the root of all of this, and yet they're
- 1:05:37Speaker 2: that much money and energy has to be thrown in
- 1:05:39Speaker 2: that direction.
- 1:05:42Speaker 3: So I haven't answered for it's an imperfect answer, but
- 1:05:44Speaker 3: I have an answer for that, which is the concept
- 1:05:46Speaker 3: of the doom loop. Are you familiar with the work
- 1:05:49Speaker 3: of John B. Calhoun and the behavioral sinks back in
- 1:05:55Speaker 3: the sixties and seventies, Okay, So John Calhoun, he was
- 1:06:00Speaker 3: an athologist and animal psychologist. They call it athology and animals,
- 1:06:03Speaker 3: which is a huge mistake. To separate animal psychology and
- 1:06:06Speaker 3: human psychology is a massive there. It's where the concept
- 1:06:09Speaker 3: of social constructs comes from. It's the separation of human
- 1:06:11Speaker 3: and animal psychology. We wouldn't look at a rat and
- 1:06:14Speaker 3: say it was choosing. We would look at a rat
- 1:06:17Speaker 3: and say it's playing out its biology. We don't look
- 1:06:19Speaker 3: at people that way. We should. There's no separation between
- 1:06:22Speaker 3: human and animal behavior in that way. So he had
- 1:06:24Speaker 3: rats and mice and he would build these colonies, and
- 1:06:26Speaker 3: he would put rats and mice in these huge colonies,
- 1:06:29Speaker 3: just two three four breeding pairs, right, yeah, just a couple,
- 1:06:32Speaker 3: and he would watch what happened as population climate and
- 1:06:36Speaker 3: the one colony. Actually he did this repeatedly, the colony
- 1:06:42Speaker 3: would grow to a certain point that was nowhere near
- 1:06:46Speaker 3: the capacity of the space he'd given them. He would
- 1:06:49Speaker 3: give them a space that accommodated like two thousand rats easy,
- 1:06:52Speaker 3: and he would give them unlimited food, and he would
- 1:06:54Speaker 3: give them unlimited water. But at some point the birth
- 1:06:58Speaker 3: rates began a tank and at that point the rat
- 1:07:02Speaker 3: civilization was already dead. They just didn't know it. What
- 1:07:06Speaker 3: happened at that point is the population density climbed, the
- 1:07:09Speaker 3: number of social roles wasn't there, and the rats destroyed themselves.
- 1:07:16Speaker 3: The experiment, Yeah, that's exactly it.
- 1:07:20Speaker 1: I just don't I know it by that name, not the.
- 1:07:24Speaker 3: Right experiment. So he called it a behavioral sink. And
- 1:07:27Speaker 3: he actually said that the that the rat civilization of
- 1:07:30Speaker 3: the most civilization suffered two deaths, the spiritual death which
- 1:07:34Speaker 3: preceded the physical death. Mm hmm. And that's the spirit
- 1:07:38Speaker 3: of a doom loop. It's it's like a rocket ship
- 1:07:41Speaker 3: that creates its own fuel once a certain set of
- 1:07:44Speaker 3: conditions are triggered. A doom loop means that the rocket
- 1:07:48Speaker 3: no longer requires an import of fuel. It creates its
- 1:07:53Speaker 3: own okay, which has become it becomes a it becomes
- 1:07:58Speaker 3: a perpetual motion machine, is what it does. Now, that's
- 1:08:01Speaker 3: only possible in things like human behavior, right, Like, it's
- 1:08:06Speaker 3: only possible where irrationality can exist. Can't happen in physics,
- 1:08:12Speaker 3: can't happen in chemistry. There you've got catalysts and stuff
- 1:08:15Speaker 3: that run out and the reaction ends. It can only
- 1:08:19Speaker 3: happen in the presence of a certain amount of evolutionary
- 1:08:23Speaker 3: compulsion or psychotic insight or psychotic massformation. Psychotic massformation is
- 1:08:29Speaker 3: a DESMT. It mirrors Young's analysis of society wide pathology
- 1:08:34Speaker 3: mental pathology. There were villages in Europort. Everybody was compelled
- 1:08:38Speaker 3: to dance and they couldn't stop dancing. Psychotic massformation right
- 1:08:42Speaker 3: the Salem wuich on psychotic massformation where a group of
- 1:08:45Speaker 3: people simply believe a certain thing and nothing you do
- 1:08:48Speaker 3: could dislodge them. Well, in this concept of what doctor
- 1:08:51Speaker 3: Tony Ryolet's called gender biasaball type casting that I call
- 1:08:55Speaker 3: synergistic intersexual you know, infantyal triage. If women create a
- 1:09:03Speaker 3: context of threat, if women can create the context that
- 1:09:07Speaker 3: men are the external threat, and if society elevates women
- 1:09:13Speaker 3: above conflict, society suppresses men it's what society will do.
- 1:09:20Speaker 3: If women say men written large are the threat to
- 1:09:22Speaker 3: our existence, then men will actually subjugated the men and
- 1:09:27Speaker 3: women will as well. Now the ap A tested this.
- 1:09:30Speaker 3: This is a fascinating link I can send to this
- 1:09:32Speaker 3: quickly where they looked at implicit bias. They looked at
- 1:09:36Speaker 3: some of this stuff because they had made this statement
- 1:09:38Speaker 3: that traditional masculinity was problematic. I'm not sure if you
- 1:09:41Speaker 3: recall all that. Oh yeah, they got some heat. Well,
- 1:09:44Speaker 3: all masculinity is problematic. Really, yeah, I mean there is
- 1:09:48Speaker 3: no non toxic version of masculinity at this according to
- 1:09:52Speaker 3: the a p A. But the AP is led by
- 1:09:53Speaker 3: not just modern feminist but modern intersectional feminists. The question
- 1:09:56Speaker 3: the concept of gender, right, let's say, yeah, these are
- 1:09:59Speaker 3: these are jitterity construction is running the APA at this point,
- 1:10:02Speaker 3: which explains a lot of kind of where they're coming from.
- 1:10:05Speaker 3: So they ran the study that they did nothing with.
- 1:10:08Speaker 3: But it is absolutely stunning. It is it's a study
- 1:10:14Speaker 3: that confirms that women's evolved, likely evolved under the circumstances
- 1:10:21Speaker 3: implicit bias against men is actually greater than racism.
- 1:10:25Speaker 1: Oh yeah, for sure.
- 1:10:26Speaker 3: Ran in twenty twenty two. I'm gonna send it to
- 1:10:29Speaker 3: you now.
- 1:10:30Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean the conversation around racism is actually just
- 1:10:32Speaker 2: a distraction, it's miss injury.
- 1:10:35Speaker 3: Yeah, since to the study. It's from PubMed. It was
- 1:10:38Speaker 3: in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, And this
- 1:10:41Speaker 3: study actually confirms much of what you and I are
- 1:10:44Speaker 3: talking about here. Men want women to win by a
- 1:10:49Speaker 3: little because that's how we get laid. Honestly, that's how
- 1:10:53Speaker 3: we have sex. If women lose and their serotonin is
- 1:10:57Speaker 3: low and their dopamine is low, and their their their
- 1:11:00Speaker 3: social success is low, they don't want to surround. But
- 1:11:02Speaker 3: if we make women feel good, we get to have sex,
- 1:11:06Speaker 3: and we're compelled to do that.
- 1:11:08Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
- 1:11:08Speaker 3: So men actually have a slight compulsion across all races,
- 1:11:12Speaker 3: all socio economic statuses to slightly elevate women's interests above
- 1:11:17Speaker 3: the wrong by having what's called a negative implicit bias.
- 1:11:20Speaker 3: We don't actually think badly of women at all. Individual
- 1:11:23Speaker 3: men can act badly, but as a collective, men actually
- 1:11:26Speaker 3: want women to win by a little, just a little
- 1:11:28Speaker 3: above our own interests, which fits chivalry theory, it fits
- 1:11:31Speaker 3: everything else we're talking about gender by some more typecasting.
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: Did you send me the study the last one you
- 1:11:36Speaker 1: just caught up. Yeah, okay, where did you say?
- 1:11:39Speaker 3: If you look in your chat?
- 1:11:40Speaker 1: But now I got to refresh this maybe because I
- 1:11:45Speaker 1: don't see it.
- 1:11:48Speaker 2: Let's see, is it to soltial eliminate strategic pro social
- 1:11:51Speaker 2: behavior through Is it that one?
- 1:11:53Speaker 3: Or No? Nope, that's that's going from before.
- 1:11:56Speaker 1: That's weird. I don't see it. So as a d
- 1:11:59Speaker 1: M two, I'm to pass it to Allison.
- 1:12:03Speaker 3: So they ran this study. Yep, it's the largest social
- 1:12:08Speaker 3: bias they could measure. And again, it ran through It
- 1:12:14Speaker 3: ran through all socio economic classes, it ran through all races, okay,
- 1:12:18Speaker 3: which means when something like that happens, there is a
- 1:12:22Speaker 3: very high probability that is evolved. Oh sorry, I sent
- 1:12:27Speaker 3: you the wrong one. Sorry, I much have copied and
- 1:12:29Speaker 3: paste that. I can see that. Now, let me get
- 1:12:30Speaker 3: the right one. Okay, I got it here. No, I
- 1:12:35Speaker 3: said to them, it's my own fault. I'm sending the
- 1:12:38Speaker 3: correct one to you right now from a journal.
- 1:12:40Speaker 1: No, it's fine. Well, look, I can't go for much
- 1:12:43Speaker 1: longer because it's like really late here. But I wanted to.
- 1:12:50Speaker 2: Uh ask okay, so this sounds very like predestined. So
- 1:12:58Speaker 2: and so then why are you pro natalists If it's all.
- 1:13:01Speaker 3: Pointless, someone's gonna survive. Okay, So I don't want my children.
- 1:13:06Speaker 3: I do not want my sons infected by this. We
- 1:13:10Speaker 3: cannot and again this is gonna sound doom saying at
- 1:13:12Speaker 3: this point, But like look at the work of doctor
- 1:13:14Speaker 3: David Betts, for example, like the the the the professor
- 1:13:18Speaker 3: of War for Insurrection at King's College is saying, we're done.
- 1:13:24Speaker 3: Mm hmm. The people who are experts in insurgency and
- 1:13:28Speaker 3: civil war, many of them at this point, are saying this,
- 1:13:32Speaker 3: this goose is functionality cooked, We're finished. People aren't listening,
- 1:13:37Speaker 3: much like people will build on the Andreas fault line
- 1:13:39Speaker 3: in California and then be surprised when earthquake knocks down
- 1:13:42Speaker 3: their house. Human beings are narcissistic, eccentric. We're not going
- 1:13:46Speaker 3: to listen, right that That's the whole myth of Cassandra.
- 1:13:51Speaker 3: People could tell the truth and no one listens. No
- 1:13:55Speaker 3: one listens, you know, it's the way things are. No
- 1:13:58Speaker 3: one's listening. Ye, my children are not going to have
- 1:14:03Speaker 3: the life that I had if I can help them,
- 1:14:06Speaker 3: and by talking about the evolved biases, when civilization falls
- 1:14:11Speaker 3: It's not that everyone dies. It's not some zombie apocalypse.
- 1:14:14Speaker 3: It's thirty to forty to fifty to sixty years of
- 1:14:16Speaker 3: managed to decline, where life gets tougher and tougher. But
- 1:14:20Speaker 3: if I can tell my sons love women, but never
- 1:14:23Speaker 3: compete with them. Love them, never compete with them. Ever,
- 1:14:30Speaker 3: find a career where you do not have to compete
- 1:14:32Speaker 3: with them, even if it means that you have to
- 1:14:34Speaker 3: be an entrepreneur. Never compete with women. You're going to lose,
- 1:14:41Speaker 3: because that's what evolution has set up. It's not that
- 1:14:47Speaker 3: civilization fall and kills us all. No, I have children, right,
- 1:14:53Speaker 3: and so I have to act in a way that's
- 1:14:55Speaker 3: consistent with my children's best interests. I can't just say
- 1:14:58Speaker 3: we're done, give up. I work sixteen hour days, I
- 1:15:02Speaker 3: work hard, right, I have to build what feature I can.
- 1:15:07Speaker 3: Even if I know the civilization, the Western democracy is done,
- 1:15:11Speaker 3: it's finished. It can't survive this doom loop. We're in
- 1:15:14Speaker 3: a doom loop. We're in a behavioral sink. We're finished.
- 1:15:18Speaker 3: But my sons can still have a great life because
- 1:15:21Speaker 3: it's not that Rome is burning to the ground. It's
- 1:15:23Speaker 3: not like everything's being set on fire. It's that we
- 1:15:26Speaker 3: have to make do with what we have if we
- 1:15:28Speaker 3: have kids. I'm a prominatalist. I have to do with
- 1:15:30Speaker 3: some of my children's best interests, right, So what's the
- 1:15:35Speaker 3: point I'm lying down on the ground and saying the
- 1:15:37Speaker 3: sky is falling, I give up. I feel like doing that,
- 1:15:40Speaker 3: Trust me, I feel like doing that with the experiences
- 1:15:42Speaker 3: I've had. But you can't. I have sons. They have
- 1:15:47Speaker 3: to have a better life. And so I could say
- 1:15:49Speaker 3: to my sons, love women, recognize this system. Don't hate
- 1:15:53Speaker 3: on women. Men misbehave women misbehave Men as a collective
- 1:15:58Speaker 3: have not done great. Sometimes a collective aren't doing great
- 1:16:01Speaker 3: right now? Hadl Andrews recent thing on the feminization of
- 1:16:04Speaker 3: a society writ large in essence, she's saying it's over.
- 1:16:08Speaker 3: She's been clear that the law will not survive feminism,
- 1:16:14Speaker 3: that the intersectional application of justice means that women will
- 1:16:17Speaker 3: give justice to whoever they want instead of giving justice
- 1:16:20Speaker 3: to all. Yeah, that's my experience. But I've encouraged my sons,
- 1:16:26Speaker 3: for example, to not My sons are our teenagers, and
- 1:16:30Speaker 3: I've said they love to hunt, they love to fish,
- 1:16:32Speaker 3: you know, they love to be in the country. I've said,
- 1:16:34Speaker 3: live in the country, live in a place where you're
- 1:16:38Speaker 3: closer to existential harm, Live in a place where community
- 1:16:42Speaker 3: is community because you're not surrounded by pavement. Live in
- 1:16:46Speaker 3: a place where you can walk in the forest, live
- 1:16:48Speaker 3: in a place where there's water. Don't let the cities
- 1:16:52Speaker 3: are first. If you watch David Betts's work, if you
- 1:16:54Speaker 3: listen to David Bets or any of the folks in
- 1:16:57Speaker 3: the Nova Insurgency and what they believe is coming, the
- 1:17:01Speaker 3: cities are going to go first because the cities are
- 1:17:02Speaker 3: the hot bed of modern feminists. And so why am
- 1:17:08Speaker 3: I not lying on the ground giving up.
- 1:17:11Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 1:17:12Speaker 3: Maybe if I didn't have kids, i'd be a nihilist.
- 1:17:14Speaker 3: Maybe i'd be a black pill. I have children. Yeah,
- 1:17:20Speaker 3: I'm compelled to fight for my children, and not just
- 1:17:23Speaker 3: my kids. I feel strongly about fighting for kids. Rit
- 1:17:27Speaker 3: large modern feminism is kill them. They are the target.
- 1:17:33Speaker 3: Babies are the target. Men are just the path to
- 1:17:37Speaker 3: eliminate the babies. If they eliminate men, they eliminate babies.
- 1:17:43Speaker 1: They don't.
- 1:17:45Speaker 3: They aren't thinking it. They think that they're targeting a
- 1:17:48Speaker 3: male depression. They're not. They're really targeting this conception and
- 1:17:54Speaker 3: pregnancy and the twist in the role towards being a
- 1:18:00Speaker 3: mother instead of being affirmed and validated for fecundany. Their
- 1:18:07Speaker 3: target is babies, not us. They just have to go
- 1:18:09Speaker 3: through us to get to the babies because they never
- 1:18:12Speaker 3: wanted them in the first place. They only wanted them
- 1:18:17Speaker 3: to secure their own survival and social status. All right,
- 1:18:23Speaker 3: So I'm not saying that no women wants kids. Evolutionary
- 1:18:27Speaker 3: compulsion to want them, yes, but outside the existential the
- 1:18:31Speaker 3: reason that birth rates are tanking is women don't existentially
- 1:18:34Speaker 3: need men anymore and aren't compelled to train sex for resources.
- 1:18:37Speaker 3: That's the main reason. Absence and existential need for men,
- 1:18:41Speaker 3: an evolved existential need for men.
- 1:18:46Speaker 2: Get if things get bad enough that existential need for
- 1:18:49Speaker 2: men could come back.
- 1:18:51Speaker 3: Like, what do you think when that happens? I mean, like,
- 1:18:58Speaker 3: if we see the mattters now, if we see the mouths,
- 1:19:01Speaker 3: and I see it, and once you see it, once
- 1:19:04Speaker 3: you read these papers, you cannot unsee it if you
- 1:19:07Speaker 3: understand what they say. If I had someone from my past,
- 1:19:11Speaker 3: my ex wife come to me now and say hey,
- 1:19:13Speaker 3: I've changed my mind, I'd say I don't care. I'm
- 1:19:19Speaker 3: not doing anything for you, because I'm not I'm not
- 1:19:22Speaker 3: a boy, I'm a man. You cannot come back to
- 1:19:25Speaker 3: me as a woman for convenience now that it's convenient
- 1:19:29Speaker 3: for you. Yeah, because you're just going to flip the
- 1:19:31Speaker 3: other way again.
- 1:19:33Speaker 2: All right, just a moment, mister Xavier in the chat
- 1:19:36Speaker 2: wants to speak, So I gave you permission. You should
- 1:19:39Speaker 2: be able to speak. Try to unmute and go ahead,
- 1:19:42Speaker 2: mister x Yeah.
- 1:19:44Speaker 1: I'm used to spaces.
- 1:19:45Speaker 5: I was going to say, if you want to make
- 1:19:48Speaker 5: things easier, if you ever go to your chat, rather
- 1:19:50Speaker 5: than just leave it in the chat bubble, you can
- 1:19:53Speaker 5: share it to the space. So if you go to
- 1:19:55Speaker 5: any tweet and you hit the up arrow, you'll see
- 1:19:59Speaker 5: a new category, share to Space. It'll say share to
- 1:20:02Speaker 5: International Men's Day. And you could have something in the
- 1:20:05Speaker 5: quote unquote nest because it used to be Twitter the
- 1:20:08Speaker 5: bird the nest. It's now called the jumbo Tron. So
- 1:20:10Speaker 5: just a little addative if you wanted.
- 1:20:12Speaker 3: To do that.
- 1:20:12Speaker 1: Let me see if I okay, I'm just checking, so
- 1:20:15Speaker 1: sent me this, so I go share too. Oh yeah,
- 1:20:19Speaker 1: share the space. So did I just did it? I think? Yeah,
- 1:20:23Speaker 1: And now you'll see something Okay, cool, I didn't know that.
- 1:20:26Speaker 5: Thank you, no problem, just for listeners and then to
- 1:20:30Speaker 5: follow along what you're talking about. Its great conversation.
- 1:20:32Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you, thank you.
- 1:20:35Speaker 3: Ultimately, if there is no cure, it's going to take
- 1:20:37Speaker 3: a few generations for men to kind of men who
- 1:20:39Speaker 3: see it anyway, for men to forgive and move on.
- 1:20:43Speaker 3: It's going to take two three generations.
- 1:20:44Speaker 1: For men to forget what's going on, right, Yeah, for sure.
- 1:20:48Speaker 1: Uh yeah.
- 1:20:48Speaker 5: The pain is one sentence. I know you're wrapping up,
- 1:20:52Speaker 5: so I'm making it really quick. I know you say
- 1:20:53Speaker 5: you were wrapping it up. But I did like the conversation.
- 1:20:56Speaker 5: I don't know if this was a one on one interview,
- 1:20:58Speaker 5: so I didn't want to no.
- 1:20:59Speaker 3: No, I was.
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: It was a space.
- 1:21:01Speaker 2: I let anybody who wants to say something can go
- 1:21:03Speaker 2: ahead and say a few words if they want, go ahead.
- 1:21:07Speaker 5: Okay, no problem.
- 1:21:08Speaker 1: I do like the analysis. It is a little bit.
- 1:21:11Speaker 3: Uh.
- 1:21:12Speaker 5: I do disagree on the solution though. It is a
- 1:21:13Speaker 5: bit black pilling. And I understand your your your perception
- 1:21:18Speaker 5: of why that. But if you take a look at
- 1:21:20Speaker 5: the climate, it's not so doom and gloom as everybody's
- 1:21:24Speaker 5: talking about it. I mean it's very chaotic as these
- 1:21:27Speaker 5: things are, as we you know, when she reads the
- 1:21:29Speaker 5: precipice of of of you know, sexual dynamics and the
- 1:21:33Speaker 5: chaos of it, you kind of have to go the
- 1:21:35Speaker 5: other way. So you get the m r. As, you
- 1:21:36Speaker 5: get the chads, you get the the andrew tates, and
- 1:21:39Speaker 5: it's all over the place. But there there it's an
- 1:21:41Speaker 5: effort because it is so chaotic. So I see that
- 1:21:45Speaker 5: as a win. Actually there's a silver lining of people
- 1:21:47Speaker 5: trying to figure it out because the the men and
- 1:21:50Speaker 5: women dynamic is something that it's it's it's complementary, right,
- 1:21:53Speaker 5: we need each other. It's receptacle. But as you know,
- 1:21:57Speaker 5: not in the way it is right now, for all
- 1:21:59Speaker 5: the reasons you stated sown to Mankind's point, Like what
- 1:22:04Speaker 5: I've been saying all this time, mister X, it's not
- 1:22:07Speaker 5: just complimentary. The man and woman thing is everything, like
- 1:22:11Speaker 5: we get we're literally distracted by all these other things happening,
- 1:22:15Speaker 5: and if we don't deal with the man woman thing,
- 1:22:18Speaker 5: then none of the other stuff matters. And the fact
- 1:22:20Speaker 5: that you said, you know, when you pointed out Mankind
- 1:22:23Speaker 5: that like you know, the it's where it's greater than racism.
- 1:22:27Speaker 5: I mean that didn't even I didn't even blink an
- 1:22:29Speaker 5: eye because I knew that that was actually like the
- 1:22:32Speaker 5: root of it, like everything else comes from that.
- 1:22:35Speaker 3: It's like it makes perfect logical sense because when you
- 1:22:37Speaker 3: think about the oldest division in the human race, there's
- 1:22:40Speaker 3: only one human race. Yes, the oldest division in the
- 1:22:43Speaker 3: human race is sexual dimorphois in male and femo.
- 1:22:46Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:22:47Speaker 3: Race and after culture came out way way later, way later,
- 1:22:52Speaker 3: and a lot of the problems we're heading right now,
- 1:22:55Speaker 3: these divisions, critical race theory, critical ethnic theory, you know,
- 1:22:59Speaker 3: critical sexual theory. These all flow back in part to
- 1:23:02Speaker 3: the grievance narrative. And the oldest grievance narrative that exists
- 1:23:08Speaker 3: is the synergistic interspecies infant female triosh children and women
- 1:23:15Speaker 3: than men. If we can solve that, we can solve
- 1:23:19Speaker 3: everything else. If we can't solve that, it's the fountain.
- 1:23:23Speaker 3: It's the source of gender ideology, the the the the
- 1:23:27Speaker 3: infantilization of gender ideology. The students with with with Kefias
- 1:23:32Speaker 3: on this, you know, protesting in the streets saying you're
- 1:23:35Speaker 3: saying when somebody says you're genociding us, when you're not
- 1:23:38Speaker 3: yeah right, we're not genociding trans people. We disagree when
- 1:23:43Speaker 3: they say you're genoiciding us. They're engaging that bias by
- 1:23:46Speaker 3: infantilizing themselves. Every cat, every dog, every elephant, every primate
- 1:23:51Speaker 3: would respond to their distress. They're infantilized distress. That is woke.
- 1:23:58Speaker 3: That is progressivism, self infantilization. To engage this infantilized bias
- 1:24:04Speaker 3: where we see them as children and we rush to
- 1:24:07Speaker 3: their defense. It's evolved, but it's evolved into a doom
- 1:24:11Speaker 3: loop that includes race, religion, culture, ethnicity, nationalism. The original
- 1:24:20Speaker 3: source of it is sexual division. The original, the old
- 1:24:24Speaker 3: division is sexual division. And the only way to resolve
- 1:24:28Speaker 3: it is to see these biases, to see the evolved
- 1:24:34Speaker 3: nature of the division and say stop.
- 1:24:38Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we have to see the wall.
- 1:24:40Speaker 3: If we're not going to hit it, if we're not
- 1:24:41Speaker 3: going to hit the wall that we're running into, we
- 1:24:44Speaker 3: have to at least see the wall.
- 1:24:47Speaker 2: No, yeat, Yeah, I don't disagree. So Brian, there's another
- 1:24:50Speaker 2: Brian in here these botch TV. He actually requests to speak.
- 1:24:55Speaker 2: So I'm gonna let you talk. I already approved you,
- 1:24:57Speaker 2: so go ahead.
- 1:25:00Speaker 4: Just got a quick question in regards to your guys conversation.
- 1:25:05Speaker 4: So you guys mentioned everything boils down to men and women.
- 1:25:10Speaker 4: Everything and and pretty much in society boils down to
- 1:25:14Speaker 4: men and women. And you're seeing this trend. Obviously, I've
- 1:25:18Speaker 4: I've watched maintaining frame. That's like the one thing I
- 1:25:23Speaker 4: never miss when when you Brian and Alison, when you
- 1:25:29Speaker 4: guys do it. So that's that's something I never miss
- 1:25:32Speaker 4: And one one of the one of the things that
- 1:25:36Speaker 4: I wanted to ask, I guess is because you're noticing
- 1:25:39Speaker 4: this trend of just young men like myself, twenty six
- 1:25:43Speaker 4: year old young men gen z ers, just giving up
- 1:25:49Speaker 4: on like dating. I'm not necessarily black pilled, but just
- 1:25:53Speaker 4: checking out and you know, just that engaging with women
- 1:25:58Speaker 4: in a sexual for a sexual purpose or for any
- 1:26:02Speaker 4: for any of that. Obviously, the declining birth rates, declining
- 1:26:05Speaker 4: marriage rates, and you guys propose some solutions obviously with
- 1:26:11Speaker 4: seeing the biases within our court system, within our world,
- 1:26:14Speaker 4: within our society. I guess my question is is like
- 1:26:18Speaker 4: where where do you Where do you start? Because that's
- 1:26:21Speaker 4: kind of you know, that's a big hurdle and obviously
- 1:26:24Speaker 4: this is going to take a long time. But obviously,
- 1:26:29Speaker 4: you know, you don't want people like myself that are
- 1:26:33Speaker 4: young that are not having kids, you know, when they're
- 1:26:36Speaker 4: in the prime of their lives, not having families. You
- 1:26:38Speaker 4: have to have the desire of men to come back.
- 1:26:40Speaker 4: And like you said, Brian, it's going to get it's
- 1:26:43Speaker 4: going to get to a point where it's so bad
- 1:26:46Speaker 4: that you know, for men at least, or for men
- 1:26:50Speaker 4: checking out, it's going to get so bad to where
- 1:26:52Speaker 4: like women are going to be like, please come back.
- 1:26:53Speaker 4: And we've already seen that with articles that you've obviously
- 1:26:56Speaker 4: covered on the show.
- 1:26:57Speaker 1: Going Well, I mean book, All I would say is, uh,
- 1:27:01Speaker 1: men aren't coming back. By the way, what was that?
- 1:27:05Speaker 3: And men aren't coming back?
- 1:27:07Speaker 1: The men aren't coming back.
- 1:27:09Speaker 3: Well, there's no indication when they say men, can't you
- 1:27:12Speaker 3: come back?
- 1:27:12Speaker 2: Like you no, no, no, yeah, for sure are coming back. Well,
- 1:27:16Speaker 2: what I think is happening is men are just working
- 1:27:20Speaker 2: on themselves. So they're just like you know, going and
- 1:27:24Speaker 2: working on themselves and hopefully, and I think this is
- 1:27:26Speaker 2: absolutely crucial because I've been I've been advocating this from
- 1:27:30Speaker 2: boldly since I started doing this, is that they're forming
- 1:27:33Speaker 2: some kind of fellowship with other men in some way
- 1:27:37Speaker 2: online in person, because that's where you like, that's where
- 1:27:42Speaker 2: you can cultivate yourself without like women's they can be
- 1:27:47Speaker 2: a distraction for men, even if they don't mean to be.
- 1:27:50Speaker 1: It doesn't matter that. Like, I think that men need their.
- 1:27:53Speaker 2: Own spaces, and unfortunately, a lot of times when men
- 1:27:56Speaker 2: try to make their own spaces, women tend to intervene
- 1:27:59Speaker 2: because they don't you know, It's been going on forever. Yeah,
- 1:28:03Speaker 2: but I think that, yeah, yeah, but but look, I'm
- 1:28:06Speaker 2: just to you know, put it straight. I think most
- 1:28:10Speaker 2: men are working on themselves and they should They shouldn't
- 1:28:13Speaker 2: be distracted by women for now. And and what will
- 1:28:17Speaker 2: happen is the ones that essentially outside of women, the
- 1:28:20Speaker 2: ones that have cultivated themselves the best, will come out
- 1:28:24Speaker 2: the other side and they will probably meet a woman
- 1:28:28Speaker 2: that has also done that same work. And so I
- 1:28:31Speaker 2: think that that's the way it has to go. I
- 1:28:33Speaker 2: think it's gonna you know, like I've been saying for
- 1:28:36Speaker 2: a while, there has to be more suffering before people
- 1:28:40Speaker 2: start to like shake out of the you know, out
- 1:28:43Speaker 2: of this like and and a lot of people won't,
- 1:28:46Speaker 2: and that's unfortunate. But it's already happening. We've seen it,
- 1:28:50Speaker 2: you know, people who have fallen for various pitfalls, like
- 1:28:53Speaker 2: they fell into the gender the gender theory stuff and
- 1:28:57Speaker 2: they started taking hormones, or they mutilated themselves because they
- 1:29:00Speaker 2: wanted to live as the opposite. Those people they're they're
- 1:29:02Speaker 2: gene pools over, like they're done and it's sad, but
- 1:29:06Speaker 2: like there's nothing that can be done right.
- 1:29:09Speaker 1: And I will say this too, I think the.
- 1:29:11Speaker 2: People who will be able to endure this storm are
- 1:29:16Speaker 2: gonna be the ones that have either never really known
- 1:29:19Speaker 2: this stuff, so they didn't they weren't a part of
- 1:29:21Speaker 2: the urban monoculture. They were basically living in rural parts
- 1:29:26Speaker 2: or sort of away from all this madness, or they
- 1:29:29Speaker 2: were the ones that really made a focus on building
- 1:29:32Speaker 2: community and like you know, operating within that community in
- 1:29:35Speaker 2: a small scale so that they can like build something
- 1:29:38Speaker 2: with someone Like where I used to live in Chicago.
- 1:29:41Speaker 2: I moved to Virginia in twenty twenty and I've been
- 1:29:47Speaker 2: here ever since. And I was married before I moved,
- 1:29:50Speaker 2: so but my wife and I lived here and we
- 1:29:53Speaker 2: started going to a church and everyone there they're you know,
- 1:29:57Speaker 2: there's they're all very young, they're in their twenties. They're
- 1:30:00Speaker 2: all working on multiple children and I don't think they're
- 1:30:02Speaker 2: ever gonna get divorced. And it's like it's like a
- 1:30:05Speaker 2: different it's a different world. It's like a time machine. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:30:11Speaker 2: small town, closer to nature. I mean, there's some modern
- 1:30:15Speaker 2: influence out here as well, because usually where you get
- 1:30:19Speaker 2: people who have it worked out really well, you get
- 1:30:21Speaker 2: also like a significant amount of resistance to that. So
- 1:30:25Speaker 2: you'll have like, you know, like for example, there's a
- 1:30:28Speaker 2: lot of witches here for some reason. You know a
- 1:30:30Speaker 2: lot of people that are that are sort of like
- 1:30:34Speaker 2: very very against this, but they're but that that's fine
- 1:30:37Speaker 2: because they're still in the minority. My point is is
- 1:30:40Speaker 2: that also these people they're they're not just like doing
- 1:30:44Speaker 2: well in terms of like staying married and having kids
- 1:30:47Speaker 2: and build building community, but they're also self sufficient enough
- 1:30:51Speaker 2: that if like we lose you know, some of all
- 1:30:55Speaker 2: of the sort of abundance that we've built, they're going
- 1:30:57Speaker 2: to be able to withstand that. They're not going to
- 1:31:00Speaker 2: worry about like, you know, if the Internet goes down
- 1:31:03Speaker 2: or if they I don't know, they lose like some
- 1:31:07Speaker 2: some some let's say access to you know, what we
- 1:31:12Speaker 2: take for granted, all of the sort of comforts of
- 1:31:15Speaker 2: modernity that people in the big cities couldn't handle if
- 1:31:18Speaker 2: they lost. These people will have it. They grow their
- 1:31:20Speaker 2: own food, they raise their own animals, right, they do
- 1:31:22Speaker 2: everything on their own. So it's like the Amish, like
- 1:31:25Speaker 2: they're gonna withstand all of this. They probably don't even
- 1:31:27Speaker 2: know this is going on, you know.
- 1:31:29Speaker 3: Rural or small town self sufficiency is the antidote to
- 1:31:33Speaker 3: the narratives aggrievance. Yeah, the antidote because once you're self
- 1:31:37Speaker 3: sufficient to a degree, your serotonin kicks in. You feel
- 1:31:40Speaker 3: like success. Once you've had that kind of success, you
- 1:31:44Speaker 3: do not want to go back to the narrative reefs. Yeah,
- 1:31:47Speaker 3: you feel ashamed if you do. And so when you're
- 1:31:50Speaker 3: looking at small town agricultural environments or manufacturing environments where
- 1:31:54Speaker 3: people have to work hard, where there are some physical
- 1:31:57Speaker 3: risks in the woods outside of town, coy the that
- 1:32:00Speaker 3: the local news carries or something. Right, when there's a church,
- 1:32:04Speaker 3: and and not just for believers, but there's a utility
- 1:32:07Speaker 3: to religion, which is the strategic pro social behavior piece.
- 1:32:10Speaker 3: Generally speaking, in a church, divorce is going to be
- 1:32:12Speaker 3: frowned on, considered a failure. Well, if you're seeing, if
- 1:32:16Speaker 3: you are a believer, try to, you know, try to
- 1:32:20Speaker 3: pick someone from a church congregation. If you are already
- 1:32:23Speaker 3: a believer, I mean, don't lie about it. But if
- 1:32:25Speaker 3: you're already a believer, try to choose someone from a
- 1:32:27Speaker 3: church congregation whose parents are still married and whose friends
- 1:32:31Speaker 3: attend the church. Because the strategic pro social behavior, they're
- 1:32:35Speaker 3: the impetus the compulsion on her for success. For what
- 1:32:39Speaker 3: success and safety means is going to be marriage and children,
- 1:32:44Speaker 3: right yeah, And her friends are her safety zone, not you,
- 1:32:47Speaker 3: your safety from eminent physical risk, their safety in a
- 1:32:52Speaker 3: long term level, So choose. Choose from women who have
- 1:32:56Speaker 3: a friend group, who who have parents who stayed together.
- 1:33:00Speaker 3: And that's not to say ignore a woman who's got
- 1:33:02Speaker 3: divorced parents, but you're not going to be as effective
- 1:33:06Speaker 3: by strategical or social behavior as she is. Right right,
- 1:33:11Speaker 3: it's not the same meta. Women are not different. We
- 1:33:13Speaker 3: don't respond to divorce the same way. We don't respond
- 1:33:15Speaker 3: to the world the same way. Men are is influenced
- 1:33:18Speaker 3: by their friends the.
- 1:33:19Speaker 1: Same way, right yeah, And.
- 1:33:21Speaker 3: So just choose carefully, but understanding the evolt compulsions can
- 1:33:25Speaker 3: help you choose carefully mm hmm, and can even help
- 1:33:29Speaker 3: in marriage counseling for haveit's sakes, right, But people, all
- 1:33:33Speaker 3: of these people come from the humanities. There's not a
- 1:33:35Speaker 3: therapist out there. There might be one in a thousand
- 1:33:38Speaker 3: who would take a look at it through an evolutionary lens,
- 1:33:41Speaker 3: but the answer lies in the evolutionary lens.
- 1:33:44Speaker 1: Yeah, so botch TV. I hope that that helps. I
- 1:33:51Speaker 1: don't know if you Yeah, it does.
- 1:33:53Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's that's what I would say. Like, definitely, Look,
- 1:33:56Speaker 2: don't even worry about women right now. Just focus on
- 1:34:00Speaker 2: like bros and yourself a little bit, right, That's right,
- 1:34:07Speaker 2: But understand too that you.
- 1:34:09Speaker 3: Being the best version of yourself is likely going to
- 1:34:13Speaker 3: result eventually in a woman stepping right in front of
- 1:34:16Speaker 3: you in her own subtle way and saying, wife me up.
- 1:34:20Speaker 1: No exactly if she's not interested in you.
- 1:34:22Speaker 3: If you're not the best version of yourself, you're not
- 1:34:25Speaker 3: the long time, right. And it's a red pill thing
- 1:34:27Speaker 3: where they say ignoral women be the best, and women say,
- 1:34:29Speaker 3: well that's MiG tau. No, it's not. Being the best
- 1:34:32Speaker 3: version of yourself means that you're going to be quietly
- 1:34:35Speaker 3: admired inside the community quietly.
- 1:34:39Speaker 4: Yeah, until somebody approaches you in front.
- 1:34:41Speaker 3: Of you, make eye contacts, strike up a conversation, and
- 1:34:45Speaker 3: what she's really saying when she does that, be careful
- 1:34:47Speaker 3: about sexual or perception biased. It's not that you maked,
- 1:34:50Speaker 3: but she may very well be saying I find you
- 1:34:54Speaker 3: quite interesting, and I'm thinking about whether you're family mature.
- 1:34:58Speaker 3: And then you're in. But you're if you've made the
- 1:35:02Speaker 3: best version of yourself, if you've worked on that, yes, right, yeah,
- 1:35:07Speaker 3: don't get stuck in relationships so quick, be your best
- 1:35:09Speaker 3: self and eventually a woman may very well just walk
- 1:35:12Speaker 3: up to you and say, wife me out.
- 1:35:14Speaker 2: Yeah, and if they don't, you'll probably be okay with
- 1:35:17Speaker 2: that too by that time. Yeah, like so yeah, that's
- 1:35:20Speaker 2: the thing. But look, thank you, botch. I really got
- 1:35:23Speaker 2: to wrap it up. I think Xavier has hand up again,
- 1:35:25Speaker 2: no problem, thank.
- 1:35:26Speaker 5: You quick, just as if I could get through no interruptions,
- 1:35:30Speaker 5: it'll be less than forty five seconds. So I put
- 1:35:33Speaker 5: something in the nest and and it's the conversation.
- 1:35:36Speaker 3: Right.
- 1:35:37Speaker 5: You could hear advice from everybody, but it's really your
- 1:35:39Speaker 5: choice at the end to work on you and take
- 1:35:41Speaker 5: the best advice you can because The conversation is happening
- 1:35:45Speaker 5: where the the you know, the Mike Tower's saying, don't
- 1:35:47Speaker 5: even bother the ANDW tates name for superficial bogies. And
- 1:35:52Speaker 5: we have the christ people who have a great morality stance.
- 1:35:56Speaker 5: But at the same time, it is kind of servitude
- 1:35:59Speaker 5: when you have no authority, but you are executing your
- 1:36:02Speaker 5: gender roles. So there's pluses and minances in every every
- 1:36:06Speaker 5: different avenue and people that you talk to.
- 1:36:08Speaker 1: And kudos to you.
- 1:36:09Speaker 5: You're a zoomer.
- 1:36:10Speaker 1: You guys got it.
- 1:36:11Speaker 5: I mean everything was set it up for you for failure.
- 1:36:13Speaker 5: But I don't know if it's the Internet that you
- 1:36:15Speaker 5: guys know how to navigate information well and skip through
- 1:36:18Speaker 5: Toro proper banda. But you guys are really really base
- 1:36:21Speaker 5: even though it was set up for you to fail.
- 1:36:23Speaker 5: So even though you have the worst of it, you
- 1:36:25Speaker 5: have the best of it too, So take your advice.
- 1:36:28Speaker 5: The conversations are happening. And the reason I put that
- 1:36:30Speaker 5: on the ness is everybody has their their formula right
- 1:36:35Speaker 5: and yeah, you know something's antiquated. You take you learn
- 1:36:38Speaker 5: the history, not only to not repeat the mistakes that
- 1:36:41Speaker 5: you know we don't want to repeat, but you want
- 1:36:43Speaker 5: to keep it work well too. There were some great
- 1:36:45Speaker 5: things that the church did.
- 1:36:47Speaker 1: There's some good yeah for sure. Yeah.
- 1:36:50Speaker 2: Take everything on its own. Don't worry about where it
- 1:36:52Speaker 2: comes from. Uh, just look at it objectively. The purpose
- 1:36:57Speaker 2: of wisdom is to look back at what worked and
- 1:37:00Speaker 2: then implement that in like a new context, not to
- 1:37:04Speaker 2: just disregard it because it's old, you know.
- 1:37:07Speaker 1: So yeah, I agree. I mean I got a pretty
- 1:37:09Speaker 1: base grandma though.
- 1:37:12Speaker 2: Dope, all right, So look, I really I went way
- 1:37:16Speaker 2: over on time. This has been great though. I appreciate
- 1:37:21Speaker 2: mankind versus modern feminism for coming on, and thank you
- 1:37:25Speaker 2: mister X and Brian for saying saying a few things.
- 1:37:28Speaker 2: And those of you guys who are watching so mankind
- 1:37:31Speaker 2: real quick?
- 1:37:32Speaker 1: Are you just on X? Where can people follow you?
- 1:37:35Speaker 3: I'm just an X right now.
- 1:37:36Speaker 6: I am developing some material, but I don't want to
- 1:37:38Speaker 6: have facet and I don't want and I want to
- 1:37:40Speaker 6: be careful, right yeah, because really, if we can't reach
- 1:37:44Speaker 6: some women with what we're saying, and the system, the
- 1:37:46Speaker 6: evolved bias is set up in a way to make
- 1:37:48Speaker 6: that very very difficult, challenging thed innistry.
- 1:37:51Speaker 3: It's backfire effects like challenging modern feminist isn't cool, right,
- 1:37:54Speaker 3: It's not going to help even though I do it
- 1:37:56Speaker 3: all the time. It's not helpful. Can't help myself. I
- 1:38:00Speaker 3: do it all the time. So I don't have any
- 1:38:02Speaker 3: socials yet. It's just on X, but I will do
- 1:38:05Speaker 3: some things please. I think the education piece here for
- 1:38:08Speaker 3: men particularly is actually essential and i'd like to be
- 1:38:10Speaker 3: part of that over time.
- 1:38:11Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:38:12Speaker 1: Yeah, man, Well definitely we'll have you on sometime again
- 1:38:15Speaker 1: if you if you like. And uh, this is good
- 1:38:18Speaker 1: stuff and I mean not sure.
- 1:38:19Speaker 2: Alison would have some like a good conversation with you
- 1:38:22Speaker 2: about these concepts, as well as Karen.
- 1:38:25Speaker 1: She's pretty steeped into.
- 1:38:26Speaker 2: The evolutionary stuff, so all right she is. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 1:38:31Speaker 2: she's very like they're both very knowledgeable on these things.
- 1:38:34Speaker 2: But okay, I'm gonna end the space here, so thank
- 1:38:39Speaker 2: you guys for joining us on the space. Please follow
- 1:38:41Speaker 2: everybody here if you since you're in the room with them. Christina,
- 1:38:47Speaker 2: I don't know. I guess you didn't want to say anything.
- 1:38:48Speaker 1: That's cool. You're you're you're fine. Just to chill there
- 1:38:51Speaker 1: if you like.
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