Latest / Motivation Mindset Podcast / The Mentality of a Warrior: David Goggins’ Greatest Motivational Speech Ever
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- 0:00Speaker 1: For you to constantly win, win, win, when this voice
- 0:06Speaker 1: over here, the real you, is saying, get the god
- 0:10Speaker 1: here go.
- 0:12Speaker 2: You're nobody. You've always been nobody. And it's true.
- 0:17Speaker 1: People don't hear that.
- 0:19Speaker 2: That's a true voice.
- 0:20Speaker 1: That's the real reality of David Goggins at twenty four
- 0:24Speaker 1: years old.
- 0:25Speaker 2: It's not a false reality.
- 0:27Speaker 1: And then you had to create another voice over here
- 0:32Speaker 1: that are saying you're better than that other voice. And
- 0:34Speaker 1: you're in the freezing cold water that both voices don't
- 0:39Speaker 1: want to come in.
- 0:42Speaker 2: But you win.
- 0:45Speaker 1: And goes from the water to the studying, to the running,
- 0:48Speaker 1: to losing weight, to how you eat, to how you
- 0:51Speaker 1: function as a man every day of your life.
- 0:54Speaker 2: You're winning these battles.
- 0:56Speaker 1: And then I have normal people if you only have
- 0:59Speaker 1: one voice, never created the second voice. The winning voice
- 1:04Speaker 1: is a second voice. They have a one voice and
- 1:08Speaker 1: that's just I'm a piece of shit. That's all they hear.
- 1:13Speaker 1: And then they judge people like me who are out
- 1:18Speaker 1: here trying to be better. It's something that I can
- 1:22Speaker 1: never really it's a frustrating thing for me because I know.
- 1:29Speaker 2: The majority of people.
- 1:31Speaker 1: I know what goes on in the bank, because I
- 1:33Speaker 1: studied the mind more than almost more than you.
- 1:36Speaker 2: Because I wasn't. I'm a practitioner.
- 1:39Speaker 1: So for you to be a piece of shit and
- 1:41Speaker 1: come out of that, you don't just come.
- 1:43Speaker 2: Out of it.
- 1:44Speaker 1: You spend decades studying your mind, in the human mind,
- 1:51Speaker 1: on how it functions in good environments, bad environments, stressful environments.
- 1:57Speaker 2: Patient environment.
- 1:58Speaker 1: You studied all because you have to put all this
- 1:59Speaker 1: together together to create.
- 2:01Speaker 2: The mind to become successful. So I had to, like
- 2:05Speaker 2: God bless me with his brain.
- 2:08Speaker 1: I had to create a mind, and so in doing so,
- 2:11Speaker 1: I figured out every piece of shit human being in
- 2:13Speaker 1: the world, because that's what I was going off for myself.
- 2:18Speaker 1: So I know why you go on Instagram. I know
- 2:20Speaker 1: why you because you just have the time. You have
- 2:26Speaker 1: the time because you don't want to put that time
- 2:29Speaker 1: into bettering oneself.
- 2:32Speaker 2: So I know why I misunderstood.
- 2:35Speaker 1: I'm misunderstood by people who have plenty of time on
- 2:38Speaker 1: their hands to misunderstand me because they are exactly where
- 2:42Speaker 1: I once was.
- 2:43Speaker 2: It's a low life, lazy piece of shit. It's the
- 2:47Speaker 2: harsh reality of people who trow.
- 2:49Speaker 1: You, who go after you, they have nothing better to
- 2:54Speaker 1: do with your lives.
- 2:55Speaker 2: It's not some after school special. It's the truth. By
- 2:58Speaker 2: once that way, I know where it all comes from.
- 3:02Speaker 1: That's why it's frustrating me now, because I'm not so
- 3:05Speaker 1: frustrated the fact that I'm being trolled.
- 3:08Speaker 2: I'm a first right by the fact that you don't have.
- 3:09Speaker 1: The courage, the courage to try to be somebody better
- 3:13Speaker 1: than what you're not.
- 3:15Speaker 2: And that's the frustrating partment.
- 3:17Speaker 3: Uncommon amongst uncommon people is one of the greatest ways
- 3:21Speaker 3: to put it.
- 3:21Speaker 2: That's it.
- 3:22Speaker 1: Like for me, what got me in trouble with the
- 3:24Speaker 1: Navy Seals is I wanted to be one so bad.
- 3:27Speaker 2: So bad. I fought my ass off, and I.
- 3:30Speaker 1: Saw them as uncommon people, very uncommon. But once you
- 3:34Speaker 1: become a Navy Seal, you're all Navy Seals. So guess
- 3:36Speaker 1: what happens, You're common again. I wanted to be uncommon
- 3:39Speaker 1: amongst uncommon people. I wanted to be the guy. I
- 3:43Speaker 1: don't care if you can lighten me, don't if you
- 3:45Speaker 1: don't understand me. I didn't give once I went through
- 3:47Speaker 1: this journious path of life. You ain't got a whole
- 3:50Speaker 1: bunch of guys that don't enlighten me. I don't give
- 3:53Speaker 1: an I'm a warrior.
- 3:55Speaker 2: Period.
- 3:55Speaker 1: There's a lot of guys that have been a lot
- 3:57Speaker 1: more Calmbat than me. A warrior is not all way, Zach.
- 4:01Speaker 1: The warriors and mother says, hey, I'm here again today,
- 4:05Speaker 1: I'm here again tomorrow. I want to be here the
- 4:07Speaker 1: next day. I'm fifty years old, I'm still getting after it.
- 4:10Speaker 1: It's a person that puts no limit on which possible,
- 4:13Speaker 1: and that's what got me in trouble a lot. And
- 4:15Speaker 1: that's why I went to Ranger School as a seal.
- 4:17Speaker 1: That's why I tried to go to Delta Force twice.
- 4:19Speaker 1: You know, I've been I've been through all these different
- 4:22Speaker 1: training programs because I was looking for in the military.
- 4:25Speaker 1: What I saw is in the training, these people get
- 4:29Speaker 1: their ass handed to them. After they get out, a
- 4:32Speaker 1: lot of them get civilized. I always wanted to go
- 4:35Speaker 1: back into training, and we were all that. I wanted
- 4:38Speaker 1: to go back to war, and the war was in
- 4:40Speaker 1: that training program where you see guys who can quit,
- 4:43Speaker 1: guys who are brutal, guys who are suffering, guys who
- 4:45Speaker 1: are you go?
- 4:46Speaker 2: So, as a seal, you don't volunteer for Ranger School.
- 4:49Speaker 2: I did. I put in seven chips got turned down.
- 4:51Speaker 2: My you know, got accepted.
- 4:53Speaker 1: I went at twenty eight, twenty nine years old, and
- 4:57Speaker 1: they go, why did you go? Because I started becoming civil,
- 5:00Speaker 1: I started becoming complacent. I need to get my fucking
- 5:03Speaker 1: ass kicked again. And when you go as a seal
- 5:06Speaker 1: going down to you have no rank in ranger school,
- 5:08Speaker 1: you could be a major. You're just sking Joe Brown.
- 5:12Speaker 1: You're nobody and you're not eating, you're not sleeping. So
- 5:15Speaker 1: I always would put myself. I would immerse myself and
- 5:18Speaker 1: shit like that. Even I would climbed the ladder and
- 5:21Speaker 1: I intentionally fall back down that motherfucker to say, all right, man,
- 5:25Speaker 1: getting soft, dude, getting soft, kick your fucking ass again.
- 5:29Speaker 2: And I you know, it's kind of the process.
- 5:31Speaker 3: Did you find resistance from that amongst other guys that
- 5:35Speaker 3: didn't like to make that you were making them uncomfortable?
- 5:38Speaker 3: Because that is something that people there's a natural instinct
- 5:41Speaker 3: that people have when someone's working harder than them to
- 5:44Speaker 3: somehow another diminish that person.
- 5:46Speaker 1: Well, I know that a lot of guys don't like
- 5:48Speaker 1: me for a lot of reasons, and I realize that
- 5:50Speaker 1: I am a guy that doesn't care if you like me.
- 5:52Speaker 2: Or not.
- 5:53Speaker 1: And when you're an alpha male and you're against other
- 5:56Speaker 1: alpha males and we eat our own, alpha males eat
- 6:00Speaker 1: their own.
- 6:01Speaker 2: And I love that ship.
- 6:03Speaker 1: I can go, man, I want to eat Hey man,
- 6:05Speaker 1: I'm all about that kind of mentality, but I would
- 6:08Speaker 1: sometimes take it to another level.
- 6:10Speaker 3: Now.
- 6:10Speaker 1: I went part of of a good old boy network
- 6:12Speaker 1: I don't want to be part of. I wanted to
- 6:13Speaker 1: be David Godance for too long in my life, and
- 6:17Speaker 1: it got me in trouble for too time my life.
- 6:19Speaker 2: I wanted to be accepted growing up.
- 6:22Speaker 1: I lied.
- 6:23Speaker 2: I did what I could. If you can like UFC,
- 6:26Speaker 2: and I did it. I love it.
- 6:28Speaker 1: I love it, man, Let's go and watch it. Man,
- 6:30Speaker 1: be my friend, be my buddy. Can week ass ship?
- 6:33Speaker 1: I found out through this path of life, who is
- 6:36Speaker 1: David Goggins?
- 6:37Speaker 2: Who am I to? Going through all? I did it alone.
- 6:42Speaker 2: There was no con.
- 6:42Speaker 1: Trophy on the wall and the mantle that trophies in
- 6:45Speaker 1: my brain. No one helped me get the no one
- 6:47Speaker 1: paid my bills, no one did shit for me. No
- 6:49Speaker 1: one ran those miths lost that can wait.
- 6:51Speaker 2: Look.
- 6:52Speaker 1: I suffered on my own and developed this man who
- 6:54Speaker 1: said that's who I am? Man a very competitive, ultra competitive, dude.
- 6:59Speaker 1: That taking what you want, man.
- 7:01Speaker 2: I call that personal sovereignty exactly.
- 7:04Speaker 3: There's not a lot of people that have that. That's me,
- 7:06Speaker 3: And there's a lot of people that change who they
- 7:08Speaker 3: are depending upon what people want from them.
- 7:11Speaker 2: And that's that's me.
- 7:13Speaker 3: Yeah, that's important, man. And most people struggle their whole
- 7:16Speaker 3: life to find out who they are, struggle their whole
- 7:19Speaker 3: their whole life to find out what defines them, what
- 7:21Speaker 3: they actually enjoy and what they don't.
- 7:23Speaker 1: You start putting yourself in situations that suck, you'll find
- 7:26Speaker 1: yourself people with a talent problem who are so talented
- 7:30Speaker 1: they're hard to train, they're hard to push if you're
- 7:33Speaker 1: their coach and you're trying to get them to see
- 7:36Speaker 1: that we got to get you past this talent problem.
- 7:39Speaker 1: We got we gotta get you the point where you're
- 7:41Speaker 1: into that mental zone, caay you.
- 7:43Speaker 2: We gotta get you way past your talent.
- 7:45Speaker 1: And it's hard for coaches to take these these fighters
- 7:49Speaker 1: or whoever pastor talent. And on the other side is
- 7:52Speaker 1: that is where they gain true true levels, the levels
- 7:57Speaker 1: beyond talent. That's that's where it really is. Because if
- 8:00Speaker 1: you're able to take a motherfucker down to deep end. Well,
- 8:04Speaker 1: my friends just putting a toe in fuel in the water,
- 8:06Speaker 1: and shit if it might first the deep end. He
- 8:08Speaker 1: had to take you down there, and he's mentally strong.
- 8:10Speaker 2: It's over. It's over, man.
- 8:12Speaker 1: They could because they because they live in the deep End.
- 8:15Speaker 1: They live in it, man, They thriving it.
- 8:18Speaker 3: It's almost like you have to have the ability to
- 8:21Speaker 3: go to the deep end, no matter whether or.
- 8:22Speaker 2: Not you'll ever go there, right, yes.
- 8:25Speaker 3: And some people are like, well, I'm never going to
- 8:27Speaker 3: go to the deep end, but you should be able to.
- 8:30Speaker 1: Yes, one hundred percent. You have to be trained to
- 8:32Speaker 1: do it. You have to be trained for it for
- 8:34Speaker 1: when that time comes. You're like, Okay, I'm deep in qualified. Yeah,
- 8:39Speaker 1: i am deep in qualified. I got my deep End certification.
- 8:43Speaker 3: But you know what's interesting about this book is you
- 8:45Speaker 3: talk about how there was moments even though you're clearly
- 8:49Speaker 3: deep end qualified, clearly deep end certified, sir, you took
- 8:53Speaker 3: some time and you haven't been the deep end for
- 8:55Speaker 3: a while, and they're kind of a part time savage
- 8:58Speaker 3: now right, this is kind of bullshit, and you reckon
- 9:00Speaker 3: in yourself even though you know your ability, you know
- 9:04Speaker 3: your history. You know what you've been capable of doing
- 9:06Speaker 3: in the past, but.
- 9:08Speaker 2: I haven't been there.
- 9:09Speaker 3: Nope, I've been there in a while, and you got
- 9:10Speaker 3: to go back.
- 9:11Speaker 1: It's funny about that part time savage thing in there, man,
- 9:14Speaker 1: where I can totally dog myself because the truth all
- 9:17Speaker 1: this became nice making up, baking an egg protein shake
- 9:21Speaker 1: early morning shit, and I stopped having those hard conversations
- 9:26Speaker 1: with myself, boy, my whole life. That's why my first
- 9:30Speaker 1: hate my ass boy, because.
- 9:31Speaker 2: I'm hard on me.
- 9:32Speaker 1: If I'm hard on me, I don't give about you.
- 9:36Speaker 1: I don't give about what you don't give everything about me.
- 9:38Speaker 2: Nothing else.
- 9:39Speaker 1: Hard on myself, bro, Every morning I woke up, all right, motherfucker.
- 9:43Speaker 1: I call it my morning meeting, my morning meeting. We
- 9:46Speaker 1: all have these meetings off the day long.
- 9:48Speaker 2: You know, we go to work.
- 9:50Speaker 1: We're working for somebody else. They want a meeting because
- 9:53Speaker 1: they want to be successful. So we all sit our
- 9:54Speaker 1: ass down, try and make them better, try to make
- 9:56Speaker 1: them more money, try to make them more powerful.
- 9:59Speaker 2: We don't do that for us. Every morning I wake up,
- 10:01Speaker 2: I used to.
- 10:02Speaker 1: I had to get back into it again because in
- 10:04Speaker 1: that chapter, you see, I came up a bitch. That
- 10:07Speaker 1: morning meeting, I wake up, okay, because what did you
- 10:09Speaker 1: do yesterday? Where were you at? And I just go
- 10:12Speaker 1: through to analyze my life. And then I went through
- 10:15Speaker 1: period of time there. Man, when I stop having those conversations,
- 10:17Speaker 1: you know how you Let's say you and your wife
- 10:20Speaker 1: go out. Let's say I don't I don't know, miss
- 10:22Speaker 1: making up.
- 10:22Speaker 2: A story here.
- 10:23Speaker 1: You your wife go out and you see your cousin,
- 10:26Speaker 1: and your cousin's fat as. I don't know, I don't
- 10:29Speaker 1: know they are not, hopefully not. They are. Apologize maybe.
- 10:33Speaker 1: So they go out and you see your cousins. She's
- 10:36Speaker 1: fat as, he's fat as.
- 10:37Speaker 2: Whoever, and.
- 10:40Speaker 1: You guys get back in the car and you guys, man,
- 10:42Speaker 1: you see my Mary Joe, how fast she was.
- 10:46Speaker 2: That's what we do.
- 10:47Speaker 1: We go back and the hard conversation that you should
- 10:50Speaker 1: be having married Joe.
- 10:51Speaker 2: Hey, married Joe.
- 10:51Speaker 1: You gained some weight, hunt, sister, I'm kind of big.
- 10:55Speaker 1: That's what I do to myself. A lot of people
- 10:57Speaker 1: that we see all day long, we see them. You know,
- 11:00Speaker 1: I had the hord conversation with we walk around whether
- 11:03Speaker 1: you hate me and get better than like me? As
- 11:07Speaker 1: day the same and that's how I feel about David
- 11:09Speaker 1: gagets me hate.
- 11:11Speaker 2: I hate me David Man, I hate you, David, but
- 11:14Speaker 2: I get better from it.
- 11:15Speaker 4: And what I realized was because that was me in
- 11:18Speaker 4: part from where I was from. But I realized there
- 11:21Speaker 4: was a lot of people that I got to see
- 11:23Speaker 4: that were like the sort of person I didn't want
- 11:24Speaker 4: to be like. Right, And that was the reverse role model.
- 11:27Speaker 4: So I could look around and I could say, I
- 11:29Speaker 4: really don't want his relationship with his wife, and I
- 11:32Speaker 4: hate the way that he is using alcohol to get
- 11:35Speaker 4: over the problems in his life. He doesn't have any
- 11:37Speaker 4: integrity or tell the truth. She is a liar and
- 11:41Speaker 4: a backstabber and a gossip. And the thing is that
- 11:44Speaker 4: you can actually achieve a lot of success in life
- 11:46Speaker 4: by avoiding failure, Like most success in life actually is
- 11:50Speaker 4: avoiding failure. Yes, you need to be able to be competent,
- 11:52Speaker 4: but first you need to not get out of the race.
- 11:54Speaker 4: That's the one second decision, right, You need to not
- 11:57Speaker 4: lose before you can win. Right, And the reverse role
- 12:00Speaker 4: model is you weaving your way through a selection of
- 12:03Speaker 4: people that you don't want to be like. And I
- 12:05Speaker 4: think that you can get an awfully long way. Just
- 12:07Speaker 4: by doing that, I.
- 12:08Speaker 1: Did that my entire life. I had the ultimate blueprint
- 12:11Speaker 1: by watching my family. I was the youngest kid, So
- 12:15Speaker 1: the youngest kid has the total advantage. You know, you
- 12:18Speaker 1: may get picked on, you may get bullied with everybody,
- 12:20Speaker 1: but you sit back and exactly what you said. I
- 12:24Speaker 1: sat back and watched my dad. Definitely don't want to
- 12:26Speaker 1: do that, my mom, my brother, whoever it may be.
- 12:30Speaker 1: I sat back and I paid attention to everything around me,
- 12:34Speaker 1: and it was the ultimate blueprint to.
- 12:36Speaker 2: How to live life. I don't have a lot to
- 12:38Speaker 2: live life. How not to live life is. I watched
- 12:40Speaker 2: people do shit.
- 12:41Speaker 1: I said, ah, I don't want to be like that.
- 12:44Speaker 2: I said, for you to be this person who comes.
- 12:48Speaker 1: On and lies and tries to literally tear down everything
- 12:53Speaker 1: I've worked for, you are in a very very bad place.
- 12:59Speaker 1: Come to find out, you was in a very bad
- 13:03Speaker 1: mental place. So I get what you're saying. I've learned
- 13:06Speaker 1: to study people before I react, because there's no successful
- 13:11Speaker 1: person in the world who's in a good headspace that's
- 13:14Speaker 1: going to ever attack anyone in that kind of manner.
- 13:17Speaker 2: There's always going to be something wrong with them. So
- 13:19Speaker 2: you got to always dive a little deeper before.
- 13:21Speaker 1: You get your feelings hurt, Before you get your feelings
- 13:24Speaker 1: hurt by that bully at school or that boss at work,
- 13:29Speaker 1: take time, take that one second to pull back and
- 13:33Speaker 1: study them. Because most people who are in good places,
- 13:37Speaker 1: they don't care about what you're doing. They don't care
- 13:40Speaker 1: about what you're doing, They don't try to destroy you.
- 13:42Speaker 1: They actually will try to build you up versus destroy
- 13:46Speaker 1: who you are.
- 13:46Speaker 2: As a person.
- 13:47Speaker 1: So that's where I'm at now in life, is most
- 13:51Speaker 1: people who do that, they're in a very dark, dark place.
- 14:08Speaker 3: Bund