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From New Boobs to Old Memories · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent. Welcome to untraditionally, La La.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, my loves It is Lala Kent. Welcome back to Untraditionally,
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  Speaker 2: La La. We are in studio with T T.
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  Speaker 1: What's up.
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  Speaker 3: It's good to be here. Good to be here, good
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  Speaker 3: to be back.
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  Speaker 1: Baby.
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  Speaker 4: So I felt like we hadn't done a Q and A.
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  Speaker 4: And while, by the way, I love this sweatsuit.
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  Speaker 1: Where'd you get it?
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  Speaker 3: I'm really into them unique cloth. I'm telling you.
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  Speaker 1: Cloth is crushing. Yeah, it's so's living in it.
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  Speaker 2: You actually can't wear anything else right now. But I
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  Speaker 2: like the oatmeal on you do you?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good, Thank you. I need more of them. Yeah, well,
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  Speaker 1: you know me in a sweatsuit?
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  Speaker 2: Do they have the kind that sinch at the bottom
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  Speaker 2: though you're just the broad leg, Not that it matters,
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  Speaker 2: but I.
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  Speaker 1: Know, I think I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: They do have cinch, but they're not sweats I think
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  Speaker 5: they were more pant like cargoy. But they do have
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  Speaker 5: like the where it tapers into like.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's cute. I like that cuff of a sweatshirt.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, they have those all right, Well, but Baggie, is
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  Speaker 3: it even right now.
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  Speaker 1: I love a good baggy. What is that shim z thing?
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  Speaker 1: Who knows? I don't know. I love my skin.
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  Speaker 5: Well, hold on, I guess none of us are of age.
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  Speaker 5: When was bagging in We should know, sixties, seventies, eighties, nineties.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I were alive.
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  Speaker 2: I remember when I was in junior high. I remember
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  Speaker 2: like fu bu like the big baggy stuff so good.
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  Speaker 1: See baby fat.
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  Speaker 3: It's just what came after that, because that's what's coming in.
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  Speaker 3: I don't have the game.
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  Speaker 2: I started showing at like Charlotte Ruth buying things way
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  Speaker 2: too small for me at Abercrombie and Fitch.
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  Speaker 1: They're coming back.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're having to come back. I love it all
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  Speaker 2: all right. Questions questions fan.
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  Speaker 1: Q and a La la. Are you loving your new
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  Speaker 1: I knew boobies. Yes, I love them so much.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want anyone to freak out that that would
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  Speaker 2: be a question in front of my brother.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I love them. They're amazing, They're great. I'm so happy.
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  Speaker 2: My doctor crushed it, and she did not have an
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  Speaker 2: easy tap, she said. Once I went in for my
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  Speaker 2: my follow up after the surgery was done, she was like,
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  Speaker 2: when I got in there.
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  Speaker 1: It was wild.
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  Speaker 2: You guys, my peck muscles were like detached from where
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  Speaker 2: they should be.
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  Speaker 4: Like it was like full reconstruction. So I know that
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  Speaker 4: I got a bigger implant.
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  Speaker 2: But that's kind of like when someone goes in and
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  Speaker 2: it's it does sound similar to someone who gets a
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  Speaker 2: nose job and they're like, I had a deviated septum
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  Speaker 2: and now I get it. Though, I'm like, if you're
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  Speaker 2: going to go in there might as well right, like
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  Speaker 2: your you got to go in to like make this right,
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  Speaker 2: because I could have an implant that's in my throat
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  Speaker 2: at some point with all this scar tissue.
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  Speaker 1: While you're in there, let's switch your mouth. I'm like
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  Speaker 1: going a little big girl. No, I love them.
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  Speaker 4: Would you rather have all your thoughts set out loud
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  Speaker 4: or all your texts rud out loud?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, either way, am I, I'm probably getting my
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  Speaker 3: ass kicked.
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  Speaker 2: So I think for you, yours would be your thoughts, because
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  Speaker 2: I think you're more reserved when it comes to communication.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but then my thoughts may get me in trouble
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  Speaker 5: out loud.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So you would rather have your text right now?
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  Speaker 3: I'd go thoughts.
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  Speaker 1: You'd rather have your thoughts?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, they're good. Wow.
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  Speaker 2: I mean my thoughts usually just come out sometimes in text,
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  Speaker 2: so like either one, I'm like pretty.
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  Speaker 3: Screwed either one. Everybody knows about it already.
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  Speaker 2: Anyway, favorite part about being a girl mom. My favorite
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  Speaker 2: part of being a girl mom is like the sweetness.
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  Speaker 2: And I am around my friends who have boys, and
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  Speaker 2: I like to think that Ocean has really big dude
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  Speaker 2: energy because she's crawling on things, throwing things, making a mess.
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  Speaker 2: And then when I'm actually around boy energy, Like I
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  Speaker 2: took Ocean on a plateate the other day with boys
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  Speaker 2: and there was like this giant chalkboard and they were
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  Speaker 2: picking up the big things of chalk, you know, like
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  Speaker 2: they have chalk in like shapes and stuff, and they
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  Speaker 2: were just hucking them at the chalkboard and they were
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  Speaker 2: shattering everywhere, and my sweet little girl just sat there
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  Speaker 2: watching all koy like watching and continued eating her her
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  Speaker 2: ven cheese. I was like, wow, this is a lot.
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  Speaker 2: I love my girls, and I don't know where they
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  Speaker 2: get this. And when I say this to people, they're like,
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  Speaker 2: what are you talking about. You're gurly, you get glam done,
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  Speaker 2: you have the clippings. That's not all the time, like
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  Speaker 2: for the most part. I'm in baggies with Jordan Ones
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  Speaker 2: and like just very casual. My girls are so gurly.
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  Speaker 2: They want to do the makeup, they want high heels on.
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  Speaker 2: They're constantly in my closet oceans talking about all the
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  Speaker 2: shoes that she wants me to keep for her that
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  Speaker 2: are like six inches tall. I like the cuteness and
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  Speaker 2: the softness of my girls, who, by the way, I'm
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  Speaker 2: not the type of mom where it's like, you're a girl,
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  Speaker 2: you're gonna dress in pink. We need two twos and
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  Speaker 2: bows like I buy my kids like the Jordan's. Everything's
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  Speaker 2: pretty gender neutral, just because that's my vibe, right, It
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  Speaker 2: has nothing to do with anything else, And they just
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  Speaker 2: gravitate towards the fluff and the pink. And I'm living
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  Speaker 2: for so so right now because she has no fucking choice, right, Like,
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  Speaker 2: she just has to wear what I put her in.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm she's She's just to let you know. She
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  Speaker 5: is in a Christmas onesie this morning.
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  Speaker 2: Great, I love a Christmas onesie.
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  Speaker 4: What I saw I went, all right, it's just so
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  Speaker 4: on par with where we're at in life right now.
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  Speaker 5: I Mean, I feel like you spoke about it, but
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  Speaker 5: Lauren attended a friend of Bill.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you mean? And so I went to
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  Speaker 3: a meeting.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, And so I put the baby down and I
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  Speaker 5: opened her drawer and she had like two pairs of
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  Speaker 5: jammies either deer.
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  Speaker 1: They're all folded for me to put away. And I
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  Speaker 1: was like, all right, you're grinch tonight. Take your boys.
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  Speaker 1: They both come at Christmas time, by the way.
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  Speaker 3: But she's just so precious. She's a gift at all.
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  Speaker 2: She is, so she's everything. She's such a good decision
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  Speaker 2: that I made.
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  Speaker 3: I woke up, so she woke up this morning. Comes down, Mama.
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  Speaker 3: Where is she? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: That's what is your favorite thing?
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  Speaker 4: To what?
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  Speaker 3: You're so happy even if she sees you.
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  Speaker 1: Where is she? Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: I like, uh, I like girls. Going back to the
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  Speaker 5: other question, because I'm soft. So it's like I feel
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  Speaker 5: like I can be softer with them. Mmm, yeah, more delicate,
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  Speaker 5: come here, come on? Yeah, I love Yeah, And with
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  Speaker 5: a boy, I'm more. I feel like I'd have to
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  Speaker 5: be like, all right, I could do that, but then
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  Speaker 5: after I had to like punch him in the gut
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  Speaker 5: or something.
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  Speaker 1: Let them know, well, yeah, I do. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: They also wanted advice on being a girl, Mom, I think,
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  Speaker 2: just let them do their thing, like give them guidance,
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  Speaker 2: but like whatever they're they're into. My biggest thing when
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  Speaker 2: I became a mom is realizing it's like the one
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  Speaker 2: part of my life where I don't need to have
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  Speaker 2: control even when it's really really hard. The only time
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  Speaker 2: in my life where I've been able to find the gray.
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  Speaker 2: And also when I see the things that they're doing.
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  Speaker 2: Ocean more so because she's five, but her little her
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  Speaker 2: little personality, I clock it, and I know what needs
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  Speaker 2: to be refined, right yeah, but what I can't shut down.
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  Speaker 2: It's like that needs to be protected, incubated. And my
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  Speaker 2: job now is to just like it's not really I
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  Speaker 2: don't want to silence her, like she doesn't want to
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  Speaker 2: do something, because she's very adamant no yeah, and like
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  Speaker 2: she was.
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  Speaker 4: Really driving me fucking up a wall the other night.
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  Speaker 4: I asked her probably fifteen times, brush your teeth, brush
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  Speaker 4: your teeth, and then I got anks. I go, Ocean,
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  Speaker 4: I'm not asking you again, brush your frickin teeth.
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  Speaker 1: I'm done. We heard.
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  Speaker 2: She brushes her teeth, goes to the bathroom. You think
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  Speaker 2: and act she's washing her hand.
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  Speaker 4: She goes Mom you know sometimes you get yelly with
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  Speaker 4: me and I don't like it.
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  Speaker 5: That's when you have to go, because she's smart. Man,
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  Speaker 5: you have to go.
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  Speaker 3: If I ask more than twice, you're going to get yelly.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So what I first did is I said, you
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  Speaker 2: know what, mom has been on edge lately. I'm really sorry.
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  Speaker 2: When you become a mom, you'll understand this. I gave
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  Speaker 2: her a hug, and I said, but let me tell
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  Speaker 2: you something, Ocean. Do you realize I asked you a
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  Speaker 2: hundred times and you didn't listen? And did you notice
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  Speaker 2: that when I yelled it?
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  Speaker 3: You did?
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  Speaker 1: You did do it? How about you.
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  Speaker 2: Listened the first time when I asked nicely? Have you
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  Speaker 2: you'll never experience?
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  Speaker 5: Have you seen the just like videos, reels, tiktoks of
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  Speaker 5: like parents and they're like gentle parenting versus like.
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  Speaker 1: Fuck around and find out parenting.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and like they'll be like, please take your hand
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  Speaker 5: out of the sink, take your hand out.
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  Speaker 3: Man, get your hand out of the seat yanked.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, And it is like the craziest thing. There's multiple
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  Speaker 5: There was a dude and his son just kept like
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  Speaker 5: climbing on the blinds and he just got like halfway
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  Speaker 5: up and he goes, you're gonna fall and he goes
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  Speaker 5: get down and the kid just drops it and just
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  Speaker 5: drops straight to his ass and like just screeze away.
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  Speaker 5: And it's like, I mean, it is to the point
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  Speaker 5: where like you just have to yell I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 2: You know what though we all are in this boat
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  Speaker 2: ocean is the fuck around and find out?
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  Speaker 3: No, she is.
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  Speaker 1: And here's the thing.
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  Speaker 5: She's smart enough because even when she'll come to the
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  Speaker 5: back house and press my buttons because they she's pressed
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  Speaker 5: all of your guys is, so she's like, who else
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  Speaker 5: can I come around and fucking funk around and find out.
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  Speaker 3: With press them?
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  Speaker 5: And she'll come and she's so good at just pushing
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  Speaker 5: it and pushing it until you have to be stern
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  Speaker 5: and then she'll do mean it's like, oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 5: how are you gaslighting me?
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  Speaker 3: Right now?
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  Speaker 1: Cut that from him? Trigger? Where's my therapists? That team
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  Speaker 1: across the sideline team? Don't you pull that ship with me?
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  Speaker 3: Gaslight?
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  Speaker 2: So says the type where she'll go in ever so
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  Speaker 2: delicately and go point it. She'll try to get into
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  Speaker 2: the snack area and go mum, and I'll literally say
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  Speaker 2: one time so said, no, you're not having a snack,
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  Speaker 2: sobs her eyes out, like I have to be so
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  Speaker 2: delicate with her.
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  Speaker 5: They got ten seconds of a quivering lip, and if
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  Speaker 5: you don't get there in time, you've lost her, lost her.
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  Speaker 1: She is me and I am her.
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  Speaker 2: What game show would you guys be on if given
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  Speaker 2: the opportunity.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like games.
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  Speaker 3: I mean back in the day, put me on dealer,
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  Speaker 3: no deal baby. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I think as a family, we have a briefcase one.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, pure luck, Yeah, pure luck.
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  Speaker 1: Put me on that one. No talent, no nothing, just
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  Speaker 1: let me look luck. Yeah, that way, no one can
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  Speaker 1: be like put a dumb I know this idiot.
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  Speaker 3: It's like I would have just picked that one. Oh well,
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  Speaker 3: we were just on different pages.
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  Speaker 1: I guess totally.
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  Speaker 2: Do you feel like having boundary slash protecting your piece
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  Speaker 2: is difficult since you were on a reality show? I
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  Speaker 2: think I think that having boundaries and protecting my piece
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  Speaker 2: is difficult because.
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  Speaker 1: Of just my Yeah, I honestly, I think it's just
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  Speaker 1: being a human being.
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  Speaker 3: It's really really hard. Us are dealing with it.
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  Speaker 5: Think of that guy protect your piece from what reality?
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  Speaker 3: He's so good.
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  Speaker 1: I wish you knew his name. He's like crushing it
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  Speaker 1: right now.
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  Speaker 5: If anybody knows. He's a very good looking gentleman. He's
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  Speaker 5: got the like.
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  Speaker 1: He's like an Italian guy, nice beard.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and he always just talks to his phone just directly.
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  Speaker 5: But he just says, like how people just say you
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  Speaker 5: need to protect your piece, and he goes, from what reality?
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  Speaker 3: And he's so true. We're all going on.
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  Speaker 4: With everything, whether it's relationships, relationships with your mom, money.
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  Speaker 5: Woe oh when he says he also says mental health
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  Speaker 5: is true wealth and he goes, great, I'm pouring two categories.
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  Speaker 5: He goes, I didn't know that we had an economy
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  Speaker 5: for both.
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  Speaker 4: And don't know that there was a currency for my
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  Speaker 4: mental health. So that's good to know that. Like I'm
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  Speaker 4: also broke there, Yes, Laila, do you think you'll ever
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  Speaker 4: get back to acting? I mean, I don't want to
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  Speaker 4: go out and like audition and things like that, just
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  Speaker 4: because life is freaking busy and anyone who's in this
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  Speaker 4: industry knows it's an audition and then it's a callback,
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  Speaker 4: and then it's a callback, and then it's another callback,
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  Speaker 4: and then it's like.
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  Speaker 3: With a thousand people that look like you, right, Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Then it's like, okay, we're going to screen test you. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: now the director is going to cut. It's like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: I don't even want the part.
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  Speaker 3: Man, you have time.
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  Speaker 1: If you want to give me a phone call, be.
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  Speaker 3: Like hey, somehow ye got it?
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  Speaker 2: Sure, I'll have fun, but like to go out and
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  Speaker 2: do that, It's.
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  Speaker 3: Just nah, Yeah, do you want to know what? You
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  Speaker 3: still have to have?
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 1: Passion?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? And hopes and dreams.
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  Speaker 2: Have you two always gotten along so well? Or did
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  Speaker 2: you have a lot of squabbles when you were younger.
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  Speaker 2: I don't ever remember fighting with you.
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  Speaker 5: I remember like not fighting, but like arguing, and then
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  Speaker 5: just like coming to a point where we would argue
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  Speaker 5: for so long.
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  Speaker 3: We would look at each other and be like, what
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  Speaker 3: are we arguing about? The laugh or you.
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  Speaker 5: Like you would come in and what you were arguing
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  Speaker 5: about as you were talking about it like the back burner.
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  Speaker 3: You would talk like we.
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  Speaker 5: Were at when you were like Easton, your life is
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  Speaker 5: front burner, but when mine is going crazy, mine has
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  Speaker 5: to be from And.
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  Speaker 3: As you were saying it, you're like, I didn't like this.
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  Speaker 1: That's how all of our things would go.
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  Speaker 5: It would be me or you and as we were yelling,
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  Speaker 5: it would be coming to our own conclusion of like
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  Speaker 5: I'm really stupid for what I'm arguing with her about,
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  Speaker 5: and then we go all right, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 2: I just remember life being pretty easy. Like we would
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  Speaker 2: play in Saint George with like your trucks, remember where
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  Speaker 2: there is.
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  Speaker 5: We'd go to the pool and like play basketball, then
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  Speaker 5: we'd play shuffle board.
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  Speaker 1: I remember, I still remember us ever, like.
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  Speaker 5: Coming out here when you first moved out here. I'd
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  Speaker 5: come out here with like a friend and then we
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  Speaker 5: just like crash in your front room, me and my homie,
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  Speaker 5: and then you just like go out and drink and stuff.
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  Speaker 5: The only arguments we'd get in was drunk, not even drunk, well,
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  Speaker 5: I'd yell at her, well, I your combined would drink, yes,
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  Speaker 5: But when we were both drinking, the only time I
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  Speaker 5: would get yell at you or get mad at you
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  Speaker 5: is because you would.
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  Speaker 1: Just every guy, oh he's hot.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, at least respects yourself, resparts herself. Goddamn it, respects yourself.
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  Speaker 5: She's just drunk throwing herself at every guy. You're so hot,
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  Speaker 5: Oh my god, damn it just restruct.
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  Speaker 4: And by the way, I probably took ninety eight percent
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  Speaker 4: of them home.
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  Speaker 1: It was not that nice. Even more proud. It was
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  Speaker 1: not a good time.
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  Speaker 5: Don't you remember when we were in That was the
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  Speaker 5: last fight that I really remember us getting into Whereat,
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  Speaker 5: New York.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, it was bad. You were like I just
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  Speaker 3: wanted to fuck him.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, do you not hear yourself?
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  Speaker 3: Do you know?
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  Speaker 1: But I did? Even Bert Bert was like, you got
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  Speaker 1: to listen to him. I think he's got a really
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  Speaker 1: good point over here.
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  Speaker 4: He was a basketball player and had a ferrari so
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  Speaker 4: I didn't really.
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  Speaker 1: See much else.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I mean to teach their own.
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  Speaker 4: I remember I was in the box of the X.
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  Speaker 4: Remember I was trying to know what do you do?
• 15:44
  Speaker 4: Here's what's great about that moment in time? Without it?
• 15:46
  Speaker 4: Like I can now and I'm happy.
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: I appreciate you bringing up these moments because when I'm
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: in my life now, I'm like, damn, did I live?
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: Did I live?
• 15:56
  Speaker 4: Like I'm thirty five, I have two children, I'm sober
• 15:59
  Speaker 4: like I live?
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: And then you bring up things like.
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: The trip to New York, and I go, you know,
• 16:07
  Speaker 4: this was a good move to make every variety and
• 16:10
  Speaker 4: settling down good move.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: I don't know about you.
• 16:13
  Speaker 5: But every day, every new day, like today that is
• 16:17
  Speaker 5: something that I just now remember. Tomorrow I will replay
• 16:21
  Speaker 5: something that I have just suppressed and put down very
• 16:26
  Speaker 5: far that I'll remember, And then I usually have to like, oh,
• 16:30
  Speaker 5: do you ever have to like talk to yourself, like
• 16:32
  Speaker 5: when you think of something very like every day embarrassment,
• 16:36
  Speaker 5: You're like, oh okay, hey, even alone, You're like, all right,
• 16:39
  Speaker 5: things are all right, things are all right.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: It's not happening now.
• 16:44
  Speaker 5: Every day something in my drunken escapade and the I
• 16:48
  Speaker 5: remember something every day and I'm like, hongcan.
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: Okay to embarrassment, embarrassment, first hand embarrassment, And I'm like, Okay,
• 16:57
  Speaker 4: we're not there.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: We're not there. Calm down, head, where you're feed are law,
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: where your feet are.
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: But yeah, well no, we don't fight back to that.
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: The last question, what's the best and hardest part about
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: being back on TV? The best part is I just
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: love creating reality TV.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: It's like just the best. I have so much fun.
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: The hardest part about it, without venturing back in time,
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: The hardest part was dealing with the anxiety and PTSD
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: from my last time on TV, which now has kind
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: of gone away. I we'll see if another season's picked
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: up of the show that I'm not on you, guys,
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: I am not on the Remember I talk about it
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: is Eastern going to get hair plugs when the Dreads
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: make his hairline receid.
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: That is so I saw Kwavo.
• 17:53
  Speaker 5: His his haircut was going viral because doing that.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: Guys, guys, you may you, but you know what I'd
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: like to go to?
• 18:00
  Speaker 5: She should we run a poll today just to see
• 18:02
  Speaker 5: what people say.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: We know what people say. They're never going to change
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: their minds. They want you to get rid of the dreads.
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: They've already said it. They've already said it. The people
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: have spoken.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: Okay, so we keep them.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: But I'll go to Turkey with you. No problem.
• 18:14
  Speaker 5: You don't want hairline, No, we just have to hope
• 18:16
  Speaker 5: that I've got mom's dad's hair.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: So I started following this girl.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: Her name is I Think Beauty Confidential on INSTAGRAMO beauty Confidential,
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: you guys, No, I think it's beauty Broker, the beauty broker.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: And she.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, beauty broker official. She's absolutely stunning. You basically go
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: to her and she will tell you what she thinks
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: you need, Like if you're like I want to no shop.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: She'll be like, you don't need a no shop.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: What you need is this, And then if you did this,
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: and then she'll get she'll recommend the doctors and if
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: there's like an eight month waiting list, she can try
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: to like expedite your appointment.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: I'm who is she?
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: She's just in a dart beforehand and has like.
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: I don't know her exact backstory, okay, but I do
• 19:07
  Speaker 4: know that she's well versed.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: I think she worked for a plastic surgeon. So she
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: actually goes into the rooms and like watches the surgeries
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: be done and like says, no, we need to like
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: and she's absolutely stunning.
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: I think I want to go to her. I'm needing
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: like a refresh. All right, well, just let me do
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: my thing.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: No, but like do your thing at like forty or
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: forty five. You're fine right now, do you?
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: I think it's all about maintenance.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: Which friend's character do you see yourself most in?
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: Probably Joey for me.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: Really, I don't know. I think I'm I don't.
• 19:43
  Speaker 5: Think it's up for me to decide. I think it's
• 19:45
  Speaker 5: other people's opinions of who I would.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: Be, Yeah, who I would like to be.
• 19:50
  Speaker 5: Yeah, is ross seems like he's got a shit together,
• 19:53
  Speaker 5: but just wiling out in the way.
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah, like a has a way good job, pays the bills,
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: it has so yeah, a lot of divorces.
• 20:05
  Speaker 5: Like that's his downfall, is a lot of divorces. But
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: other than that, very well put to man, I.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: Think he's just a hopeless romantic.
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but we don't know how it ended with me
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: and Rachel.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: And they got together, she got off the plane, duh.
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but we don't know. They're a fighting couple. Who
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: knows how it went.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: I think they worked it out because I'm now a
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: hopeless romantic. I see myself. You're a bit of I
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: wish I was gonna be aloof And just like Harmonica,
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: I think I'm Monica, like neurotic, weird.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: No, you're fucking Monica.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: I'm okay with that.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, good because I also think in Sex and the City,
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: I'm Miranda.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: Never watched it, but very happy before.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: That's fine. How do you know when it's time to
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: say goodbye to your dog?
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: Fuck, that's right. Never never know.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: I mean when I knew it was time to say
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: goodbye to Lily, the girl could not walk, she could
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: not stand up on.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Her defecating on them, could hold her own bodily fluids.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: It was really fucking we we have held on a bit.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: We did my poor mother because Lily could not go
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: up the stairs trigger warning. Lily couldn't go up the stairs,
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: so she would sleep in my mom's room. And at
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: this point in time her body was shutting down, so
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: it was just diarrhea and every morning we had to
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: like clean that shit up, take her outside and bathe
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: because she couldn't go get in a car. It was awful.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: We held on way too long.
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: Yeah, well, we held on till they were using the
• 21:35
  Speaker 5: restroom on themselves. So you guys can decide. I guess
• 21:39
  Speaker 5: when your time is.
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: Right along the lines of death, what is each of
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: your favorite memories with your dad.
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: Having a glass of wine on the stoop with the
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: old bastard. It's the best?
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: Oh, I liked that was fun.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: I didn't do that, but like I would come down
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: on on like Sunday mornings football season and he would
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: have like the cute glasses that were like hand painted
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: cocktail glasses, vodka soda.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: Ready to go. It was like, yeah, in the morning, let's.
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: He really loved making pancakes. And then the I don't
• 22:13
  Speaker 5: know what the uh the sausage are?
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: Was it?
• 22:17
  Speaker 5: Like it wasn't Jimmy Dean's, but it was in that
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: red package reminds me of him.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: I think it was Jimmy's.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: Was it Jimmy's? I don't know. I have to see
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: the package.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: Why doesn't Easton date Brittany? He always talks so highly
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: of her. That would be like incest or something.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: She's like famili Yeah, everybody.
• 22:34
  Speaker 5: On the show is la familiar. Even talk about Michelle.
• 22:36
  Speaker 5: I could never date Michelle. She's like a sister to me, now.
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like the homie, like comes over with her kid.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: We all, yeah, we all take it.
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: We all just talk.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like you talk about life, what we're doing, Yeah,
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: our hopes and dreams.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: I agree.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Why did we cancel the Lacy and Tt bonus episode?
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: They were fucking fabulous. So they were fucking fabulous. They
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: were amazing.
• 23:11
  Speaker 5: Both episodes got complaints, I guess yes, and people whomever
• 23:19
  Speaker 5: the people are, the people are.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: Just didn't want the fucking headache, so they were like,
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: you please just stop, and we just never I never
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: had that issue on vander Pump because you know all
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: of these people that do the like they're in the
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: comments section right, They're loud and see all the shit
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: that I never see. And I just thought it would
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: be fun to like, have you guys recap it. I
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: wanted no part of it. You guys were steering that ship.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: It was fun. We enjoyed it, and now I don't
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: have to guess what other people did too.
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well, thank you guys for tuning in the ones
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: who did.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm all good. I've been doing
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: this a long time.
• 23:56
  Speaker 5: It was like, hey, we thought it would be great.
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: For everyone around it is.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: I can next.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: I can't give them a set of ovaries to get
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: the fuck over it. I'll use my own and I'll
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: get the fuck over it. So who's your Bravo bestI
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: who is not on the valley in VPR. My Bravo
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: bestie who's not on the valley or on VPR.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: That is so hard.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: I don't really have any like Bravo celebrity bestie that
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: I'm like super close with. Actually, like, if we're not
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: going to go down the like pigeon holing up, that's
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: your best friend. I mean, I love Derinda. Dorinda and
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: I are super close. She is now I think a
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: part of the E family. Yeah, I mean, bravo bestI.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: That's throwing me for a loop because I don't feel
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: like I'm like fifteen anymore. I'm like, it's my bestie.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I just like I have my tight group.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: I'm more cordial, very close with Brittany and Janet and
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: Michelle and I have like a very cute special friendship.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: She's like the one I call it every single day,
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: like we do the checking It's like in the morning,
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: at night.
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: You and who Michelle, Oh yeah, every time we I
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: just hear you on the phone and then I'm just yeah,
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: I'll walk through the house because I'm like going to
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: do something and You'll just be where are you going?
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: And She'll just be talking. I'm like, are you God?
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: Every morning? Every morning, I am so happy that you
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: guys do though, where.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: Do we gotta do the check in? Who? Let's see?
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: I am starting the Real Housewives series? Which should I
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: start with and go from there?
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: Brent or the OG New Jersey?
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: Right OG New York. It's the best, That's what I mean.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: I mean, OC is the original of the Housewives, and
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: it was supposed to be behind the gates. I don't
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: think you can go wrong honestly with O. G. Roney
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: og OC or what was it oc Jersey or New
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: York as your first but like I was in New York,
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: is the most iconic television that you will ever see
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: in your life.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: It is a must.
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: That's coming from me who like really doesn't watch.
• 25:57
  Speaker 5: But when that, like season one, two, three, I find
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: myself being like dad and standing and watching.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: It's the greatest television. You feel like it's while on
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: the wall.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: They're so chaotic and hard to follow, but it's everything
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: like you do. Not feel like it is a produced
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: show in any sense of the amount.
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: You're like, no, you couldn't put that together as perfectly
• 26:18
  Speaker 5: as they did if you planned it.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: You couldn't control those things.
• 26:21
  Speaker 5: It just had to be done that way. It's the
• 26:24
  Speaker 5: best way to put it. It's like Jersey Shore.
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: It just it just happens. It just happened.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: It just happened. Oh those fucking East Coasters. There's nothing
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: like it. Man, are you and just still friends? How
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: funny that Jess texted me over the weekend and she
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: sent me a clip of the podcast that we all
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: used to do together, and she was like, this just
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: popped up in my memories. I miss you. This is
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: where I live now. If you're ever in the area,
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: we should get a coffee. And I was like, I
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: miss you so much all the time, every day, love
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: and adore Jess.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: I do say anything I do too. Yeah, you know.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: I did a podcast with Amber about what friendships I
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: feel went south and not saying that Jess and I
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: we whatever happened happened, but I miss her so much.
• 27:08
  Speaker 5: Yeah, what happened was time did not align with everything.
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: And that's exactly what happened. And guess what that's called life?
• 27:15
  Speaker 5: Just time wasn't It just didn't happen. And I want
• 27:19
  Speaker 5: the best for her, But I miss her so much too.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: Like when she'd come into the house and go, hey.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: Goof, I missed the she was like such a special
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: bright light. Yes, and you know what you're writings. And
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: it had everything to do with timing and she wanted
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: things and the timing was I so desperately wanted to
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: give her all of those things, but the timing was
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: not allowing me, I know.
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: And that's the only bad thing is like that timing
• 27:46
  Speaker 5: now is I mean, is bad?
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: I want to.
• 27:49
  Speaker 5: Say it, like it would have been so perfect, like
• 27:51
  Speaker 5: the timing, the timing, if I have to say it.
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: If she could have held on and just.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: Like another like yours.
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: I'm not kidding you she would it would have been
• 28:00
  Speaker 5: so different. And but that's the thing, is like she
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: wanted to be able to move on and so and
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: it's hard to just keep thinking like you know, but.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: Like yeah, you were here, we are Yes.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: I love her, I miss her and she is one
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: of my most favorite people still to this day. Who's
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: your favorite Rhode Island housewife?
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: Uh?
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: Kelsey and Liz Rhode Island.
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: Do I need to start watching this again?
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: Or you're like, how are these women the same? Seasoned?
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: But again East Coasters they make the greatest TV.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: I mean, Kelsey's out here being like, I have a boyfriend.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: We've been together ten years.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: He's really really rich, but he hooks up with other
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: people and six months out of the year he's not
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: here because he's with other women. And she's like, but
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: you know, I don't want to work, So how do
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: I give up this lifestyle? And she goes so I
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: have another boyfriend as well, I'm like, Wow, I can't
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: even be mad. This seems like an actual, like perfect
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: fucking setup.
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: Good. It all sounds like something's gonna blow up.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: It always does.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: Last question, what's a boundary you both wish you set
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: sooner for yourself? You know, I actually just learned a
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: new boundary that I have yet to conquer creating.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: I'm too I fall too quickly, I am too much
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: of a lover.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: I have realized that I love a good love bomb,
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: which is extremely toxic. You would think that I would
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: have learned this already. A boundary is for me, Like
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: you can say whatever you want, there is going to
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: be a boundary put up that unless you can back
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: up what you're saying to me with an action. I
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: have to be able to call it a day without
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: like hanging on for fucking dear life. Because my love
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: language is words of affirmation. So words means so fucking
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: much to me.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: And that's all you were getting me nothing?
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: What in the world boundary? Yeah?
• 30:01
  Speaker 5: And how funny how you always you it's words of affirmation.
• 30:06
  Speaker 5: But you love to tell everyone that paper takes ink.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: I don't love to say that.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: That's mom saying, well, mom loves to say, paper tanks ink,
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: and then when I should take it with you now,
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: and then when I tell her you shouldn't be eating
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: what you're eating, she's like, look at what the box says.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: I'm like, paper takes inc.
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: Well, now you learned. Look at how funny.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: Trust me, no one has it figured it out, all right,
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: Even the people who are writing these self help books.
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: They're just a little bit ahead of where you are,
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: are they though? They? I mean, you have to hope
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: that's why you bought the book, right, That's.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: Why I don't buy the books. I'm like, I don't
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: think anyone can.
• 30:44
  Speaker 5: I mean, if I'm buying the book, I'm really hoping
• 30:46
  Speaker 5: you're just a couple steps ahead of me.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: I'll get to where you're at.
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: But yeah, all right, I loved that Easton. I'm so
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: happy that you came to this, And thank you so
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: much for listening to another episode of Untraditionally La La.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna catch you on Monday for a bonus Wednesday
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: for regular old episode and remember an Unlikely Affair with
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: myself in Amber Childers airs every Thursday night at nine
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: pm wherever you get your podcasts.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: Thank you, love you, Bye bye,