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- 0:05Hello, everyone, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian
- 0:08with Allison and this is a new episode of Maintaining Frame, Trying something a
- 0:13little different. This time. We're recording on riverside as we are doing the
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- 0:23while we do this. So sure, welcome to the show, and let's
- 0:29see. Here's what we're going to be doing today. We're gonna be responding
- 0:34to a video that was put out on doctor Warren Ferrell's channel where he made
- 0:40an appearance on Doctor Phil. I don't know how new this this actual like,
- 0:45cause this might have been older, but maybe he just now got to
- 0:48run a putting it up. I don't know how long ago this was recorded,
- 0:51is what I mean. But I thought it was kind of interesting.
- 0:54And Cassie j is on there, and it's always nice to see Cassie.
- 0:58So she's look good, she is she is is looking she's looking good,
- 1:03and yeah, I thought it would be interesting to look at. So do
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- 2:20the tip. All right, back to you, Brian. All right,
- 2:23well let's let's look into the video now. So I'm gonna go ahead and
- 2:25share my screen here, and looks like it's putting it up there. So
- 2:31this is doctor Phil and he is talking with Cassie j and Warren Ferrell.
- 2:40We'll open it up a little bit more so we can see more of it
- 2:44and a couple of other guests. So there is Fortunately it's not that long
- 2:50and it's broken up into some decent check sections. So we'll just start with
- 2:53doctor Phil's opening. And this is being shared from doctor Warren Ferrell's YouTube account,
- 2:59so I don't know whatever you call it. Like, I'm sure doctor
- 3:04Farrell won't come after us for playing video now, although Doctor Phil might.
- 3:09But then again, doctor Ferrell, do Phil let doctor Ferrell put? Yeah,
- 3:15we'll see, we'll see. I don't know if we'll get through twenty
- 3:16two minutes. Did you did you get any highlights? I mean there,
- 3:21yeah, I got I know some moments. I don't have the time codes
- 3:23exactly, but I know where they are in the video. Yeah. I
- 3:24mean we probably won't be talking much when after Warren or doctor Farrell or our
- 3:31Cassie is having a mass as statement. I'm pretty sure we'll be agreeing with
- 3:37them. They'll have very little to disagree with, well mostly, yeah,
- 3:40there might not be much to disagree with their Cassie doesn't show up until about
- 3:45halfway through. So it opens up with your Phil and a couple of feminist
- 3:49women. Yeah, so oh boy, that's gonna be fun, Doctor Warren
- 3:53Ferrell in a couple of feminists, well or just women. Let's just be
- 3:57real. Okay, Well, but let's play. This is opening we should
- 4:00know. Get like the groundwork laid out by doctor Phil himself. Breaking news.
- 4:08Suspect in a deadly ambush at a federal judges home in New Jersey found
- 4:12dead. Detectives are now looking under what could have motivated him to allegedly shoot
- 4:17and kill the judge's son, and critically this is this is actually a while
- 4:21ago. This was history of anti feminist lawsuits. The murder of a prominent
- 4:26men's rights movement attorney in San Bordino County may be linked to the shooting at
- 4:30a New Jersey home of a federal judge. Harry Crouch, as president of
- 4:34the National Coalition for Men. He says he's known Mark Angeluci for more than
- 4:40twenty years. Okay, everybody is right, Mark Angelous. Yeah, so
- 4:47I mean this. I know that this is old news, but I don't
- 4:50think that this video is old that makes sense. I think that's prefacing it.
- 4:57Yeah, they're giving us a bit of background our. I p Mark
- 5:00Angeloucci. He was loved by everyone. He was sleep nice to me.
- 5:03I didn't know we did interview him, yes, and I and I've seen
- 5:06him at almost every every meet up. Mark Angeluci was there, so yeah,
- 5:12he was the most definitely like optimistic, you know, sweet natured guy,
- 5:17like it's absolutely brilliant. He was. He was a real g Yeah,
- 5:24that's what I think. I'm trying to adjust this a little bit more
- 5:27so I don't look so low, all right, So we're gonna continue on
- 5:30on that. But I think this is just all preface groundwork stuff. Plus
- 5:34all very nice to see all these familiar faces. Harry Krowt, you know
- 5:39it's been a while. Yeah, it's almost been a coof ago. It's
- 5:44it's been it's been more than a coof ago. He was very passionate.
- 5:48He worked for me for free. When I heard the news, I was
- 5:53horrified. What happened to him was completely unfair. Mark is our savior,
- 5:57and you talk about a man who died for what he believed in. We're
- 6:00doing this for Mark, all right. So that's yeah again, F's in
- 6:06the chat, all right. Doctor Warren Ferrell is a world renowned professor,
- 6:12speaker, and author of several books, including The Boy Crisis. He has
- 6:16been dubbed the Martin. So The Boy Crisis is not that old. I
- 6:19mean, it's a few years old. But this is like, so you
- 6:23guys can see, this is post twenty seventeen, you know, because I
- 6:29think that's around the time that he was promoting his book. So after that
- 6:31for sure, probably pretty recent. I'd say twenty twenty two or so,
- 6:35but I don't know for sure. Luther King of the Men's Movement, take
- 6:40a look, is there a boy crisis? Think about when we hear of
- 6:46a police officer shooting a black boy, we rightly protest black lives matter,
- 6:53but no one even thinks of saying boys lives matter. The un fil that
- 7:00boys have fallen behind girls in seventy developed nations want to Developed nations have in
- 7:06common a much greater propensity for divorce, leaving boys without your dad's being much
- 7:15again, just partia. Nothing disagreeable here, So we'll just go. We'll
- 7:21just keep going. We're likely to do badly in school, being more likely
- 7:26to be suicidal, homicidal, being more likely to be in prison. Samantha
- 7:32Edis is a feminist CEO of female run business Park Place Payments, and a
- 7:39married mom of three children. Now, Samantha says that doctor Warren's views are
- 7:43not only outdated, they are damaging to women and to men alike. Okay,
- 7:49well, now here's where the rage comes. Obviously, feminist mother entrepreneur
- 7:58does it all. She doesn't like Warren ferrells saying, probably Warren Ferrell's too
- 8:05nice in my opinion. That's that's how nice he is. Like he's like,
- 8:09you know, I mean, I respect him tremendously, but you know
- 8:13sometimes I'm not like just your you know, like could you just get the
- 8:16guns out? Yeah? Just but okay, I don't know. I think
- 8:20that would be like, I don't know, a son of the apocalypse.
- 8:22If Warren Ferrell ever loses Who's School, You'll know, I've never seen it
- 8:26bad. Yeah, I've never seen it. He does a lot of yoga
- 8:31and meditation. That's what he told me when I saw him. Okay,
- 8:35it shows mm hmm. I'm Samantha Edis. I'm a mom of three.
- 8:41I live with my husband and two daughters and a son. I also run
- 8:46a company focused on helping women achieve financial independence. I also have written a
- 8:52few books. Today, forty two percent of moms in America are the primary
- 8:56breadwinners. I think that's what equality looks like. My husband and I both
- 9:01work full time, so we have a very busy life, but there's an
- 9:03understanding between us that we're equals. The construct of our world is set up
- 9:09today as a giant thank you card to white men. Give you Okay,
- 9:13well yeah, yeah, the world. I can tell you one way,
- 9:20you're not equals. Morally, you've just established yourself as his moral superior.
- 9:26Right there, She's morally dominant over her men. Okay, well I'm pretty
- 9:33sure. I'm pretty sagiture. This is just the new. If your wife
- 9:35ain't happy a little bit, just happy thing like yeah, a happy wife,
- 9:39happy life. Yeah, perhaps, I mean it's I I okay,
- 9:45just to be because I have to. I know that these these TV spots
- 9:52they're always like edited like a lot because they want to cut it down to
- 9:56like the best bits and then put that out there. But I'm not hearing
- 10:03a lot of appreciation for her husband, who probably made her life comfortable enough
- 10:09for her to pursue this business. Right probably, well he's probably underwriting it.
- 10:16So yeah, yeah, that's true too. Good. Look at the
- 10:18history of our country, from the Constitution to our current laws. Most of
- 10:24them were designed by white men. With white men in mind everyone in my
- 10:30life. All right, Okay, white men earned that right because they fought
- 10:39a war to create the constitution. Right, they fought a war. They
- 10:46fought and died to construct the country. I mean, I was thinking about
- 10:50this because men who were part of the lower classes in the UK didn't have
- 10:56the vote until after World War One. Until after that were dying in the
- 11:00trenches. And the rationale for giving them the right is because they had made
- 11:05the ultimate sacrifice for ensuring the existence of the society. I should get a
- 11:09little closer to the mic. Sorry, And I was thinking about this,
- 11:13and I was like, well, I guess American men, But then I
- 11:15thought about it. No, American men died in the Revolutionary War to set
- 11:20up the constitution and the country. The US from the very beginning. So
- 11:26they were the ones who fought and died to construct this document. And now
- 11:33she's saying, well, it's made for men and for the white men.
- 11:37Well, yeah, they were the ones who fought and died to construct the
- 11:41document, like to have the opportunity to make this document the law of the
- 11:46land. That's who did that. And you're you're just you're just rendering that
- 11:52invisible. You're just ignoring that part. You're ignoring the cost and the sacrifice
- 11:56of that document, of those laws, those law wouldn't exist and they would
- 12:01have no power if they hadn't fought and died to establish the independence that began
- 12:07the whole shebang. You see what I'm saying, Like, yeah, of
- 12:11course, And she's just completely ignoring that. Mm hmm. It's like,
- 12:15yeah, lady, they gave you a place eventually, like, and they
- 12:20gave you legal equality and no step on the road, did you demonstrate the
- 12:26same level of sacrifice or commitment as a man to society and yet you have
- 12:30the same voice that's not equality. Yeah, Okay, It's amazing how little
- 12:39educated, very famous people that do very well are Like I mean, I'm
- 12:46just I'm just amazed by it. Like to be able to just say it
- 12:50was made by white men for white men, while living probably a really good
- 12:56life that's very cushy thanks to your white man. It's amazing. It's amazing.
- 13:01As a feminist, from my ten year old son to my girls and
- 13:05my husband, I think, yes, the margarita with your friends and leave
- 13:09the dirty dishes in the sink. Well, oh my god, leave the
- 13:16dirty dishes in the sink, because how demeaning is that. She probably has
- 13:20a cleaning lady. Honestly, yeah, I bet she does. I bet
- 13:26she does, but she leaves the margarita's in the sink for margarita. Mm
- 13:30hm oh, thank you both for joining the conversation. Look at how like
- 13:35is this okay? Is this even fair? Like doctor Phil has doctor Warren
- 13:39Ferrell, who's written countless books, he was on the board for the National
- 13:45Organization for Women. He's like, he is like really well educated on this
- 13:50subject. He's got all the data on his side. And then he brings
- 13:52on a soccer mom who like, basically her husband funds everything and she writes
- 13:58a couple of books. Well, we don't know that. I mean,
- 14:00we don't know that. We don't know she could be she could really doubt
- 14:05I really doubt that we're looking at a family in which she's the breadwinner.
- 14:09I doubt it, But I know it's possible. It's possible. Possible she
- 14:13has a woman who would tolerate such a loss and status as to not have
- 14:18married a man who makes more than her. But you know, who knows.
- 14:22Maybe I'm completely wrong. All right, let's look, let's appreciate it.
- 14:26Also joining us from Boston is lawyer, lecturer, and ardent feminist Wendy
- 14:31Murphy, who believes the last thing man need is a movement. It's a
- 14:37little bit awkward, to put it mildly, to say that the people in
- 14:41power need a movement when we think about movements as the things we hear about
- 14:48from either racial minorities or women or other classes of people who have suffered in
- 14:54some way and are marginalized. They're the ones who need a movement because they're
- 14:56just struggling to achieve basic equality. You know, it's interesting because this particular
- 15:01narrative, because men are in power, they don't need advocacy for their issues.
- 15:07I mean, it doesn't actually really make sense from a if you looked
- 15:09at it from a class analysis, because it's not men in power, it's
- 15:13men of a certain class in power, and then lower than that class,
- 15:18they definitely would need advocacy. It used to be that unions and supposedly like
- 15:24Marxism, I know, would say that they advocated for those particular men,
- 15:30but of course they abandon that completely. They don't even give the pretense of
- 15:33doing so anymore. So it's like, well, that was because a worker's
- 15:37revolution didn't work because most of the workers being men. They were like,
- 15:43no, I think I'd rather be free and own my own shit and raise
- 15:46my own kids and take care of my own family by the sweat of my
- 15:48brow. Yeah, And so they were like, whoa, we need to
- 15:52come up with something else. How about we turn the women against them.
- 15:56Well, but what's interesting is they use the fact that are men in power
- 16:00to justify why their issues should never or are are already covered, even though
- 16:07it's patently true. It's patently false they're already covered, like there's obvious issues
- 16:11that men face, and yet she's using that as an excuse to ignore them,
- 16:15an excuse to ignore them. But the thing is that the people in
- 16:19power, whoever is in situations of responsibility, who's ever I guess running society
- 16:26not really empower necessarily of it. They don't necessarily advocate for their own issues.
- 16:33Like, that's not the case. It's such a simplistic analysis of power,
- 16:37and especially when it comes to the power between men and women, because
- 16:42women very much define men's identities. They define them in terms of being providers
- 16:48and protectors of women, right. And if you're defined as a provider and
- 16:52protector of women of a woman, when you get into power, all that's
- 16:56going to happen is that power is going to serve women. So you can't
- 17:00look at who's in power. Oh, because the people in power don't necessarily
- 17:06benefit themselves when their identities are controlled by someone else. I mean, kings
- 17:11were in power, but ultimately in many cases the power lay with the church.
- 17:15Why because the church defined their identities as Christians, right, same thing
- 17:21with women. Men are defined in terms of providing and protecting for women.
- 17:25That means when they get into power, that power goes to the service of
- 17:29their identity. They don't identify with their sex in the same way. It
- 17:33doesn't seem like it. Otherwise we wouldn't say things like be a real man.
- 17:37What does a real man mean? It means that you have provided and
- 17:41protected the people who are vulnerable. It doesn't mean you have a penis.
- 17:47You know, it's not just that, it's not everything. Every man is
- 17:51considered a real man. So I mean, right there, you see that
- 17:53the identity isn't taken from physically being male. It's taken from living up to
- 18:00the standard of protecting and providing for others. So that again, what's in
- 18:07power isn't the men. What's in power is where they take their identity from,
- 18:14and where they take their identity from is protecting and providing for women.
- 18:18All right, So this is this entire analysis is extremely simplistic, extremely childish,
- 18:25extremely lacking of any kind of nuance or understanding of human psychology. Yep,
- 18:30once again it's mainstream. It's insinsane, very it is very mainstream.
- 18:36Like you're spoilers, guys, you're not going to hear any arguments from the
- 18:38feminists that you have not heard since before you were born. Like it's it's
- 18:44going to be the same, same tune because the only one they know men
- 18:49bad women most affected is basically in every instance so and has nothing to do
- 18:55with actually giving a crap about men or women. It's just about lighting their
- 18:59pockets and relevant. But let's keep going equality. And then some Samantha,
- 19:04what do you think about this? Yeah, that's what men want. They
- 19:07want equality. And then some I don't even think they want equality, They
- 19:11just want to stop crapping on them. Yeah, I know. I think
- 19:15it's so unfortunate because I think that men are suffering and that well, I
- 19:21you know, it's like they get to serve for well ladies first, I
- 19:23guess. But it's okay because like they don't really have anything. It's gonna
- 19:27be. It's it. They don't really have anything. Honestly, they're just
- 19:30they're just making this like you know how people say, why are you like
- 19:34debating college feminists women in their or teenage feminists in their bedrooms. Ultimately there's
- 19:41no difference between them and and you know, a feminist with multiple PhDs,
- 19:45because they say the same crap. It's the same crap, So it doesn't
- 19:48matter who it's coming from. If you know, it's like they're literally doing
- 19:52like a it's like a pop a fly ball. You know, you can
- 19:55just catch it, like because it's the same garbage all the time. So
- 20:00Samantha Ettis and the other woman I'm you're not going to hear anything unique from
- 20:03them that I wouldn't hear from like Lacey Green when she was doing YouTube.
- 20:07It's gonna be the same stuff is just married and having kids. Now.
- 20:12I don't you know, I don't know what she's up to lately. I
- 20:15know that she started doing a show where she was like talking to people like
- 20:19more like frankly and openly and stuff. But I don't know where she stands
- 20:23on things I haven't seen her in forever. In race and gender, everyone
- 20:27wins, and if we approached it as okay, if women have economic equality,
- 20:36then men are also let off the hook a little bit. Then they
- 20:38have less pressure. So I actually think that saying kind of I looked at
- 20:42a lot of your news weren't a lot of what you say is that men
- 20:47are I know, right, if women are making the same amount as men,
- 20:52that makes men's life easier, right, girls, Well she thinks that,
- 20:59yeah, women are just going to be like totally fine with like being
- 21:03like an equal part spread winner or even the primary Yeah, exactly exactly,
- 21:10Like they're not just going to increase their expectations. No, exactly, Well,
- 21:15this is the same. That is what I'm saying it's the same argument,
- 21:19and I'm at the point now where it's like, if you haven't started
- 21:23asking yourself why women are not responding to this in the way that you presume
- 21:30or you ask us to presume, then you must know that this is actually
- 21:33not working. But you must know this what's actually you know, what's really
- 21:38happening right now. There was a recent statistic that showed that the youngest generations
- 21:45of boys have the highest rates of virginity, and people are trying to blame
- 21:51porn like this has been going around, you know, like Lauren Southern's trying
- 21:55to do this cope where she's like, oh, it's porn. No,
- 21:57women are literally becoming harems for the top one percent. That's what's happening.
- 22:03There are a small number of men that have access to more women, and
- 22:07this is a byproduct of you know, like this sort of like hookup culture
- 22:11and that kind of thing. So a large number of men are just being
- 22:15left behind, not because they're not living up, not because they're not measuring
- 22:18up, but because they're they're not the peak guy. And that is literally
- 22:22happening right now. And this is like one hundred percent proof in my opinion
- 22:29that with this woman is claiming is that, oh, well we're if we're
- 22:30both, we're both economic equality. If we have that, then women are
- 22:34gonna be like cool with it, and men are gonna be cool with it
- 22:37because it takes a load off of them. No, it's not working out.
- 22:41Women are just gonna raise their standards. They're gonna raise their standards,
- 22:44raise their standards, and it doesn't matter what their what their beliefs are,
- 22:48it doesn't matter what their politics are, it does none of that matter.
- 22:49It doesn't matter how trad they are. They're going to look at their situation
- 22:53and say I can do better because they have a instinct to do that.
- 23:00They are the table, that's right, And then we're not aloud to say
- 23:02that, like they're allowed to say that. Women are allowed to say that,
- 23:04women are allowed to shout it to the hills. I'm the table.
- 23:07What do you bring to the table, which which translates to how are you
- 23:11better than me? How do you have more than me? How are you
- 23:15superior to me? Right, that's what it translates to. And we're not
- 23:18allowed to point out that that's what women are doing statistically, and that's what
- 23:23they say they're doing. They want the bag right, Yes, okay,
- 23:29let's all right to be the breadwinner, but hold the door, right?
- 23:33Is that fair? Yes? Yes? And I think if you look at
- 23:36it, the pressure will be off of men if we achieve economic equality.
- 23:41So I very much agree with Samantha. We you know, we have women
- 23:44to the degree that they succeed and achieve free men to not have to put
- 23:48all the pressure on men just to be the breadwinner and to do experience what
- 23:52I call the father's catch two men. So yeah, I mean he's agreeing
- 23:59because I think he has a more of a yes and approach. Yes he
- 24:03does. He's there, and this very gentleman was mobbed by rabbits, feminists,
- 24:12them of all kinds of every well they used, they trod out the
- 24:15whole playbook. Everybody knows the playbook right now, right, misogynist, rape
- 24:19apologist, incess supporter, pedophile, like, they did all of it.
- 24:26They did all of it. Yeah, and a lot of them, probably
- 24:30like the college kids, they probably don't even really know. They were just
- 24:33told this about him. Don't even know who he is. Yeah, they
- 24:36don't even know who he is. So let's get to the meat experience.
- 24:40When they have children, they feel pressure to. I could skip this like
- 24:45doctor Ferrell does the whole thing where it's like, you know, men also
- 24:48have three options. They can work full time, work full time, or
- 24:52work full time. So let's let's play it through. You know, we'll
- 24:56stop for the but all we're going pretty quick, you can clip economically is
- 25:00the degree to which that is minimized. We're all in the same family boat,
- 25:06doctor Phil. When only one sex wins, both sexes lose well.
- 25:11But one of the things that I have to disagree with, or at least
- 25:15expand on, is when you're talking about this economic equality, you're defining currency
- 25:23in one dimension. And I've been married for forty four years and Robin,
- 25:32who now at this stage of our life, is very successful. That's doctor
- 25:37Phil's wife there, Robin. And that's right. That's another thing I was
- 25:41gonna mention when she said economic equality. I know this is a buzzword for
- 25:45some of you guys, but that's materialism. She's this is like a problem
- 25:49with these modern women is that they're way too They're told that if you have
- 25:55stuff, you're going to be happy, and it does not make them happy.
- 25:56It's not fulfilling in fact, what meant generally want more than anything is
- 26:02to be able to spend time with their children, which you can't like put
- 26:06a dollar amount to, you know. So like we're looking at a uh,
- 26:11there's a bit of talking past each other because she should know that like
- 26:17just having access to things like Margarita's and trips or whatever. I mean that
- 26:22stuff is fleeting. Like it's a weird thing to like become an activist over
- 26:27you know, I want more stuff. So I don't know, but it's
- 26:32a weird thing. But what makes sense with the with the logic of not
- 26:36realizing that the Constitution was bought with men's blood, it's beyond that's just it's
- 26:45just more that gives men more. They want more stuff. Who gave men?
- 26:52Who gave American men the Constitution? Gave it to them? It wasn't
- 26:56the case, you know, what gave it to him. What gave American
- 27:02men the Constitution was their willingness to fight, to fight for the autonomy of
- 27:10their nation. That's it, okay. Yeah, So that document that she
- 27:15says is just the thank you letter to white men. It was bought by
- 27:18men's blood. Of course, it's a thank you letter to white white men
- 27:23and black men to a degree. No, I agree one hundred percent,
- 27:29because like that's the thing she's trying eventually, always in the well. But
- 27:33like the truth is is that it was the Christian framework that allowed the Americans,
- 27:42the colon the colonists to realize that slavery was wrong. It was just
- 27:47a matter of how long it was going to take to abolish it, that's
- 27:49all. Yeah, Well, but what what I'm getting at is that black
- 27:52men also proved that they were willing to fight for the nation. Okay,
- 27:57so that it came, you know, franchise came from that. I have
- 28:03seen the letters that were written justifying franchise for black men based on their service
- 28:08to the state. Okay. So yeah, eventually that this also became a
- 28:12thank you letters not just to white men, but black men also sacrificed for
- 28:15it too. Asian men sacrificed sacrificed for it too. The only group of
- 28:22people that did not sacrifice for it was women, Okay, And so do
- 28:26not tell me that this is a thank you letter to all the men who
- 28:30sacrifice for its existence. That's true. Yeah, And it is really unfortunate
- 28:36that women are allowed to have this misperception of reality, and of course men
- 28:41just accept it because again men's identities are defined by protecting and providing for women.
- 28:47They just want women to be happy. No, they just don't,
- 28:49and also have a little space where they don't have to do shit. That's
- 28:53it, Like, that's right, that's it. They don't. They don't
- 28:57actually say no. Actually, this is really unfortunate. You know, it
- 29:00takes a while for men to learn how to do this, to stand up
- 29:03for themselves. It really does it like it really does, but to say,
- 29:10hey, no, I we men earned this. We earned this as
- 29:14a group because the Constitution had no place to exist before we made that place
- 29:19by dying for it. Mm hmm. I'm playing more tol entrepreneur economically,
- 29:27but early on she chose to be a stay at home mom, and there
- 29:33is no amount of money that I could have spent to equate to what she
- 29:40contributed to the family. Then once she fulfilled that role, she said,
- 29:45Okay, now I want to step out, and that doesn't mean that you
- 29:48can't be They're really nice of you to uh to accommodate that. I mean,
- 29:55do you do you see what's not being said here? Phil made that
- 29:59happen for his wife. Yes, he did what it took to give her
- 30:03these choices. Yes, is that going to be recognized at all? No,
- 30:07I don't think so okay to do that as well. She just chose
- 30:14to do it in a serial fashion. But she's very economically successful now,
- 30:18but she was very economically critical to our family at that time as well.
- 30:22When those children come, women have three choices, they say what works for
- 30:27all? Right, I'm gonna skip the actually let me yeah, because it's
- 30:33not what's making me say good lord, it's just this unexamined children, or
- 30:37I want to do some combination of the both. And forty percent of married
- 30:41women work full time, forty percent are involved with the children full time,
- 30:44twenty percent are part time workers. But oftentimes men in those same positions say,
- 30:49well, I have three choices too. Option one is I can work
- 30:52full time. Option two as I can work full time, an option three
- 30:55as I can work full time. And we call that liberation what In fact,
- 31:00it's not liberation. It's an obligation to earn money. Yeah, I'm
- 31:03not saying them get their violins out for you here. We have to take
- 31:07it bright man. For women. Yeah, I know, I know,
- 31:12well, they have had to speak this entire they've they've spoken for how long?
- 31:21And he got like one SoundBite in. I mean, yeah, doctor,
- 31:26they're not getting their violins out for them, because if they did,
- 31:29they'd have to actually recognize how much men work and sacrifice for women, not
- 31:36just how much. I mean, they don't even recognize how much men had
- 31:38to sacrifice for the Constitution in the first place. Like I find this in
- 31:42this entire dialogue embarrassing as a woman, because I recognize the level of sacrifice
- 31:48that went into the existence of that document, the existence of a free Britain
- 31:53after World War one and two. Okay, I recognize the level of sacrifice
- 31:59that men have made throughout history for their societies, and it is embarrassing to
- 32:02watch a woman with a child who has gone through menopause, a child who
- 32:10has gone through menopause yap about how those that document is somehow like a what
- 32:20did thank you car? Actually a thank you card is a good way of
- 32:22putting it. You're right, and it is one hundred percent earned. But
- 32:25to pretend like that's an unearned that they didn't earn, that they were the
- 32:30ones who did earn it. They earned it, They earned it, Yes,
- 32:37and they don't want to see that because then they have to recognize how
- 32:42much of their life, how much of that woman's life is founded on her
- 32:47husband's work and isn't really necessarily her alone? Okay, and how much doctor
- 32:54Phil is making his wife's life possible? And yeah, sure she took care
- 33:00of his kids. Those are she's taking care of her own kids too?
- 33:04Mm hmm, like I mean really, okay, all right, I'm gonna
- 33:08let's kid he started dating men? Oh I should wait, h let me
- 33:15see you so strong? He started dating men? Wait for you here?
- 33:22Uh, you take it break. We're going to meet a man who says
- 33:24his hatred for women grew so strong he started dating men that. I don't
- 33:30think it works that way, but anyway, we'll talk to him next.
- 33:35Apparently it does for him. I hate women. I think they're evil,
- 33:45I think they're manipulative. I think they're all bitches. All this has driven
- 33:49me to a point where I'm dating a man now. I literally have a
- 33:52boyfriend because I couldn't put up with women anymore. Aho al, I'm pausing
- 33:59there for then, so here comes the I guess like how much? No,
- 34:05no, the Jerry, the Jerry Springer character. Oh, I see
- 34:08guy, Like, let me know in the chat when you hear from him,
- 34:13is this guy a plant? Because I'm like, I've never heard of
- 34:16him before, and yet he gets on doctor Phil. I think it's really
- 34:21weird. I've I've you know, I've spoken to in cells, I've spoken
- 34:23to Mick Tao, people who are really frustrated with the way things are,
- 34:29and I've never heard of this guy. So let me know if you guys
- 34:30think he's like a fed or something like just just there to stir ship up,
- 34:37you know, before we get into it. So I probably should do
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- 35:23this goal. Sorry that there's a little bit of a gap left, but
- 35:25if we could get that covered, I'd really appreciate it. I really don't
- 35:30want to have to do arm twisting because I was like, oh, it's
- 35:32a break. I get to take a break from doing that. But if
- 35:36I have to, I will. If you make if you guys make me,
- 35:38I will do it. How's that for passive aggressive? All right,
- 35:42all right, let's do it. Has reportedly been a growing number of male
- 35:51only groups whose animosity towards females is accelerating an alarming rate. Now, my
- 35:55next guest is a former spokesman for on such group, and he says,
- 36:01well, in his words, he hates women so much that he started dating
- 36:07men. Are they going to try to understand this guy or just be like,
- 36:12oh my god, I can't believe it. Well, I don't want
- 36:14to give out a way. Look at it this way. Look at it
- 36:17this way. Men's identities protecting and providing for women. Right, they're probably
- 36:22just going to confirm that. Right. They can't believe. They don't even
- 36:27know what he is because he exists outside of that. You know, it's
- 36:31like an alien walked onto stage. You see what I'm saying? Yeah,
- 36:36okay, video shating exactly how he feels about women. I'm Jack Peterson.
- 36:42I was the spokesperson for the in cell community. It's a bunch of guys
- 36:45who have trouble getting laid. I hate women. I think they're evil and
- 36:49manipulative. They're all bitches just lying for as all of them. Men are
- 36:53discriminated against in our society. Men really are like the new minority, and
- 36:59I think that we need to regain control of women used to be in the
- 37:04nineteen fifties. All this has driven me, are you okay? Yeah,
- 37:08I know, I know, right, let me, let's finish his thing.
- 37:12But like this is like a little unbelievable. Like I remember when Bredeo
- 37:16was on like that that like Jubilee thing and he was saying some kind of
- 37:21like wild stuff. But this is like really like this is like no,
- 37:25ma'am, like married with children level stuff? Is this real? Like I'm
- 37:30sorry, I don't think no, man, Yeah, I have a boyfriend
- 37:34because I couldn't put up with women anymore. I couldn't put up with being
- 37:37cheated on by you know what, I think doing betrayed so pretty much.
- 37:42Wait, was he an insult or was he dating? Like this is really
- 37:45in cel? He was? He? That's so I'm saying, like this
- 37:47is this kind of glows in the dark. He ran and I don't know.
- 37:52This is the thing too. Like again, I have to say,
- 37:54we're watching Doctor Phil. Okay, this is a very popular show. Doctor
- 38:00Phil was friends with Oprah Winfrey. Oprah Winfrey had Doctor Warren Ferrell on her
- 38:06show, I think in the seventies or eighties, so like eighties massive.
- 38:13These are massive celebrities, and when they get people on, they get people
- 38:17on that are like probably at a comparable level of of they should be at
- 38:22a comparable level of say like renown, like doctor Warren Ferrell, who's probably
- 38:28like the most well known MRA in the world, like I mean just off
- 38:32the top of my head, definitely in the US, but probably in the
- 38:37whole world. Right, And he gets on these big talk shows. He's
- 38:40like he it works because he's got the appropriate candor. He's very polite,
- 38:46he's soft he's well spoken. He obviously will never attack feminism. You know,
- 38:52he will always like put women like at least at equal footing or be
- 38:57really kind because he doesn't want them to destroy him for it, I guess,
- 39:00or or he really believes it, which I think is more likely the
- 39:04case. But this guy, I'd never heard of him, Like, how
- 39:07does somebody like that get on Doctor Phil Because he's being used. He's being
- 39:12used. I mean, it's it's true. I mean he's he he's seen.
- 39:16That's what I'm saying. I think he's a plant, either like he's
- 39:20paid off by fucking George Soros to something, or he is like the They
- 39:24were like, let's find the craziest person and the most radical person we can
- 39:30get our hands on, or someone who just wants to start. Let me
- 39:34tell you what they're doing to raise their profile and put them on our show.
- 39:37Okay, let let me tell you what they're doing. Okay, they
- 39:40have Warren Ferrell there. The issues that men face are becoming so obvious and
- 39:47impossible to ignore, right, So they what they do is they bring this
- 39:52guy on and they handicap Warren Ferrell. They basically put a neck chain around
- 39:59Orren fel L's neck and tie him to this stone weight with this guy,
- 40:06because there is absolutely no reason for this man to be here except to discredit
- 40:09Warren Ferrell and his position and force Warren Ferrell to answer to him, which
- 40:14is ridiculous because Warren shouldn't have to answer to this individual. This individual is
- 40:20constructed by women's opinions on TikTok. Is constructed by women's opinions on YouTube.
- 40:25It's constructed by the incredibly callous mercenary attitudes that are being presented. It's constructed
- 40:37by the fact that we now exist in this soft polygamy. It's constructed by
- 40:42the fact that women didn't get rid of their standards for providership, they just
- 40:45increased them. And it's also constructed by feminist narrative saying that only certain things
- 40:52are masculine now and they're all negative. Right. This person, this man,
- 40:57this guy is a constructor of Warren Ferrell's opponents. He is their shit
- 41:04gollum, and they're trotting him out in order and saying, oh, well,
- 41:08look, Warren, this is a man. You answer to him.
- 41:12I'm like, well, no, this is your ship gollumn. You ship
- 41:15this guy out. It's your mess, not Warren Ferrell's. But that's what
- 41:20I think they're doing. I haven't seen this people. Absolutely, It's like
- 41:22they it's like they said, Okay, we're gonna have this really educated guy
- 41:27who's very knowledgeable and very polite and nice talk about men's issues. So what
- 41:30we need is somebody that represents everything that we hate about m RAS. So
- 41:37let's let's let's let let me just gave them. They had feminists make a
- 41:39list of everything wrong with m RAS and with men, and then they were
- 41:44like, we're gonna make a person out of all this. It was like
- 41:46sirpentor like take the DNA of every hater of every you know, like every
- 41:52misogynist fantasy they could come up with, you know, every whatever every year.
- 41:57It's the character that's exactly it. He's old and has a beard,
- 42:00and he like curses, and you know, it's like he's he's perfect,
- 42:05Like he's their perfect creation. Yeah, exactly, and then they and they
- 42:09put him on the show tap dance. Their ship is doing their little tap
- 42:15dance. Why should you have to answer to it? Why is the why
- 42:19is the discussion even being brought down to this level? Right? Yeah,
- 42:23But the ultimate goal of this entire structure is to simply make doctor Phil's phil
- 42:32audience, just to make them to keep them in their echo chamber. Who
- 42:38is doctor Phil's audience? It's women, Like women are the major Like remember,
- 42:44he was a friend of Oprah's. I don't know if they're still friends,
- 42:46but he was a friend of Oprah's. So his audience is Oprah's audience.
- 42:51This is what we're dealing with. So yes, there's no way,
- 42:54there's no way that this guy is not, you know, a one hundred
- 43:00percent like fake in one fashion or another. Let's let's like, yeah,
- 43:05you didn't choose you, Brian, they chose this dude. Okay, let's
- 43:08keep going. Well, Jack joined us live from Chicago. You said some
- 43:14things in that video very the meaning about women. Do you really feel that
- 43:21way? Okay? And meanwhile, the stupid bear meme is going like freaking
- 43:25viral. I would rather meet a man in the woods than a bear,
- 43:30or I would rather meet a bear in the woods in a man. Yeah,
- 43:37well, the bear pill is as far as I'm concerned. Now,
- 43:39it's if you're going to assert that, then let's imagine and a city of
- 43:45bears in which all of your interactions with men are replaced with interactions with bears.
- 43:52Yeah you want left, fine, go live in that city. Hell,
- 43:57imagine the city of women considering what what women due to each other in
- 44:00prison. The city of women is going to be an utter nightmare. But
- 44:02you know whatever, it's men's problem. Yeah, okay, women are evil.
- 44:09I honestly believe that women have the capacity to love, women have the
- 44:14capacity to be good. But they it says former spokesperson for in cell group.
- 44:19They didn't even get into the specific group anyway. Let's art. None
- 44:24of this, None of this seems real to me. Now, this is
- 44:28this is a show about men's right or for fels like, why have they
- 44:30why have they put this guy on the panel with me? No, this
- 44:34is I think this is the moment that he realized that this is total ship.
- 44:37Yeah right, like this is not real. We need to take away
- 44:42women's rights to make things good again, are you serious about this or are
- 44:45you just saying this to be provocative? Well, unintentionally based question mark.
- 44:52I'm sorry, I've been to a point now where I really am dating a
- 44:55man. I've been su and betray him. Why were you? Why were
- 45:04you? Okay, so he was the head of an insult for illusion too.
- 45:09Seriously, I think let's not take the illusion. Don't look too closely
- 45:14at the illusion. Just enjoy it like a fireworks show. Don't try to
- 45:19analyze the physics. That's right. Just treat him. You were just burying
- 45:25your head in your hands when he was saying what he was saying. Okay,
- 45:30relationship with women, women in the world, you do not control.
- 45:35You're taking responsibility for him. Wearing Warren. Yeah, he wants the responsibility
- 45:39for him. I think that he's trying to like pivot to something else.
- 45:44I think that he knows that this guy is thrown in. He's like a
- 45:46monkey wrench. Open your heart to them. You hear it when they're upset
- 45:50and they're angry, You hear them out when they you're on screen next to
- 45:54Jack. You might want to scoot a little bit to your right. But
- 46:00what do you want to say? Oh my goodness, I was going to
- 46:02ask if how did this become about Yeah you, we're just going to attack
- 46:07this guy now? No, yea, But seriously, like this guy has
- 46:10made everything about defending women. Was this not about men's issues? I?
- 46:20Yes, I get it. No, I get it is because the there
- 46:22is a great hole. There was a poll that he did at the beginning
- 46:27of the show that he mentions at the end of this video that I think
- 46:30is worth looking at. But I got a super chow, I got a
- 46:32show from Great Indoors, and he gives us ten dollars and says, I'm
- 46:37wondering how well that first woman's business is doing. If the goal of our
- 46:43company is as vague helping other women thrive, I bet it's some kind of
- 46:49useless NPO. You mean, like NNGO maybe where the CEO take oh nonprofit.
- 46:53Yeah, where the CEO takes in hundreds of thousands of dollars per year
- 46:57from the government, spreading propaganda in the way Allison has talked about in previous
- 47:01shows. Yeah, that's probably right. I mean, if I had to
- 47:05guess, I would say that I don't know. Like I said, these
- 47:08these women seem pretty well off and apparently connected because they were able to get
- 47:13on Doctor Phil's show. So ye, there you go. Doctor Phil is
- 47:16wasting his time with these people, though it's a clowne show mm hmm,
- 47:22because I don't know what era he's from, but it sure doesn't match up
- 47:24with any era i've ever seen. Really, I thought that men control women
- 47:30in this era, that's what your entire life though. I thought this was
- 47:34the current I thought this was the current year. I thought this guy was
- 47:37was not. I thought he was typical. So now you have to now
- 47:42you have to like explain to us how you're still oppressed. But this guy
- 47:45is an outlier. You know, it's really interesting how they brought this guy
- 47:50on this because he's not charismatic. He didn't. He looks awkward and uncomfortable,
- 47:57you know, he just doesn't. So he's basically brought here to just
- 48:01discredit anything and then turn it back into well, okay, we need we
- 48:07need to center women and women's feelings and women's rights and women women women,
- 48:15which I think that's what a civilization does, like they just do it to
- 48:19its own destruction. Okay, let's keep going, all right. Women is
- 48:25so offensive. It's really like having a guy come on and say, I'm
- 48:30white, I hate black people. I think we should be able to just
- 48:35how about you? It is a woman's example. It hates speech in the
- 48:37worst possible way. You know, you're a right to be cruel, mister.
- 48:43You can be as vile as you want. This is America. Your
- 48:46free speech rights dominate. But you're surprised. Yeah, for now, until
- 48:52you take away those rights. Women don't like you. Hell, you should
- 48:55have gone gay years ago. Wait to get Wait you didn't. You're ding
- 49:00the causal causal error. Wrong. He went gay as a result of women's
- 49:05behavior, right, Okay, but whatever, she would have gone gay years
- 49:08ago. Okay, Well there you go. Okay, let's keep going.
- 49:14This guy's a joke, but super constructive. Here's the Thing's wife stayed home,
- 49:20she took care of her, you know, her children, She took
- 49:22care of the house, probably cooked, and I bet it made for a
- 49:25happy marriage. She was not a career woman for years, and that was
- 49:30a successful situation. So he's talking about doctor Phil's wife. Now doctor Phil
- 49:34is going to be like, well, you're the lowest person on earth,
- 49:37so you can't you can't even have a common sense opinion on my wife.
- 49:42Let's well, Jesus in my opinion. All right. Two things, She
- 49:47is basically discrediting her own movement because she said, because she will assert that
- 49:52this is the way that women are treated. At the same time, she
- 49:55he wants she wants to judge this guy as being socially isolated because he says
- 50:01this is the way that women should be treated. Which is it? I
- 50:06mean, this guy is obviously just voicing the opinion of all men, because
- 50:08you want to appeal to that, to the belief that men have all have
- 50:12this opinion. At the same time as you want to say, well,
- 50:14you are just off in your own little corner as a misogynist, reflecting nothing
- 50:20of mainstream. Well, which is it? Choose one? And then now
- 50:23he's actually made a good point. Phil's life. Phil's wife was very traditional.
- 50:32Yeah, okay, let's all right, stay all job. Who's wife?
- 50:39Are you talking about? Your your wife? Phil? Oh? But
- 50:45it's true, bad example to pick there, Jack. My feeling is because
- 50:53I chose to be a stay at home mom and do my passionately take care
- 51:00of my home, our home, take care of our children, take care
- 51:06of our family, and take care of my husband, take care of myself,
- 51:10and did it so passionately. It therefore allowed fill up to do his
- 51:16job passion How does that? He said, here's the thing, if women
- 51:24loved men as they are. Okay, you know, honestly, this this
- 51:29whole idea that men don't pull their weight in in chores. This bullshit.
- 51:34Time you survey after time you survey has shown that when you include, when
- 51:39you include paid work, when you include chores, when you include the uh,
- 51:46the going back and forth from work, men and women do almost identical
- 51:51amount of work men, if not men doing about half an hour more.
- 51:55Okay, so this is just take that right off the table, all right.
- 52:00Also, married women are significantly happier than single women, so their husbands
- 52:05are making them emotionally happier. So let's take the emotional labor off the table.
- 52:08There's what married women are not losing out. Okay, let's take all
- 52:12of that off the table. Emusional lab Now, what I'm getting at is
- 52:19if women wanted to be with men, if women loved men for their companionship,
- 52:24there wouldn't be a single man, well maybe a few, but they
- 52:28would be. They would be they would find women who are interested in that.
- 52:30There would most men wouldn't be saying go back to the to the kitchen.
- 52:36What they're after is when women were in the kitchen, they loved men,
- 52:39or they at least appeared to love men or appreciate or respect them.
- 52:44That's it. When men want women wherever will make women love them. Okay,
- 52:53I want I want these women to understand that that whatever position women are
- 52:59in that makes them love men, that's the position most men want women to
- 53:04be in. Alison, Okay, let me repeat that. Yeah, you're
- 53:07going, oh, shoot your video. Your video froze too. I don't
- 53:13know why. Okay, well no, it's probably my internet, you know,
- 53:19like, let's be honest. Yeah, okay, let me let me
- 53:22clarify what I said. Okay, while I was going robo, I apologize
- 53:27for that. What I said was this is that most men want women in
- 53:31whatever position makes women love them. That's it. That's what's tragic about all
- 53:38of this. That's what utterly tragic about all of this. They bring this
- 53:42guy on and he is disillusioned because he doesn't think there's any way for him
- 53:47to take an action that will lead to a woman loving him. That's it.
- 53:52And he's lost hope. So he's dating men, probably because he's getting
- 53:55a better experience. At least he feels valued by his partner, right,
- 54:00and he's he's allowed to be embittered, like, I don't see why we
- 54:04all have to Like everybody, let's do a round table. Let's all dunk
- 54:07on the inst you know, it's like, well, why are you why
- 54:13do you think that this is something worth responding to? Right? Like,
- 54:16does he like I mean, does he like teach children in schools? Does
- 54:21he like run the He's just something with an opinion. But you know what
- 54:25I mean like this, you guys like you really like you drill down on
- 54:30that. What it's like finding Yeah, it's like finding out there's a there's
- 54:34a spider in the bathroom. Just destroy it, like with with a flamethrower
- 54:38because you you just don't want it to like multiply or something. Well,
- 54:43you know. But what's really hilarious is he's not really an expert on being
- 54:45an insult because he's had no friends. No, yeah, he's had girlfriends
- 54:50and boyfriends. He's the local color. He's the local color. Is the
- 54:58ship colored? Gol. But he makes a good point, and I'm going
- 55:02to translate this. He's basically saying, Phil, when your wife was in
- 55:09this particular position, she expressed love and respect for you. So I think
- 55:15that more women should be in that position, because then they'll express love and
- 55:20respect for more women for men. I don't know if he's right, but
- 55:23that's what he's saying. That's it. Yeah, and none of this is
- 55:28productive because it's all takes place in the context of this kind of incredibly angry
- 55:36relationship between men and women, like this constant sense of conflict between men and
- 55:39women without an understanding that all most men want is to be able to put
- 55:46women in a position, to use their skills and abilities to put women in
- 55:51a position in which women will love them. Am I wrong? No,
- 55:55this man is probably exactly the same. He doesn't hate women, he hates
- 56:01the fact that he thinks that it's impossible to be loved by a woman.
- 56:06Now that's tragic. Yep, all right, I got a super chat from
- 56:10albert Ina Retro gave us two dollars. Canadian says he didn't go gay.
- 56:15He's an actor. Now I'm gonna play more. It's only because I was
- 56:20so passionate about my decision he then had the opportunity to be passionate about his
- 56:29career. Let me say, he even said I agree, Like he just
- 56:35said that. Of course they're going to talk over him now because he's a
- 56:37bad guy. We've we've already cast him. This is actually making me feel
- 56:42sort of ill in our family. When these decisions were made by the way,
- 56:47we were so poor. I've often said, if it wasn't for two
- 56:52for one burger Bucks, one of us would have starved. And thank god
- 56:54she didn't eat there as much as I did. We have to take a
- 56:59break a woman who well there again again, just want to point out I'm
- 57:04glad for you, doctor Phil. You were with someone and you were poor,
- 57:07and you you managed to live by the means that were available to you
- 57:13until you made it work. This is good, but it's also rare.
- 57:17This is the this is the problem today. That attitude would not fly like
- 57:23for many women would say, well, why your your dusty bum? Why
- 57:28would I mess around with you? I can find like another man that has
- 57:30more so like you. It only worked because you found a partner that was
- 57:37willing to work with you where you both were, where you were at so
- 57:42so that you could build something, and she supported you while you did that.
- 57:45You are literally explaining what the problem is by your own example as an
- 57:51attempt to dunk on this guy, this cartoon, this stand up relationship is
- 57:57his example. Yes, who was pointing out that your relationship is the example
- 58:01that like would be best despite your economic circumstances. If anything, the woman
- 58:07on your panel that thinks that's all it's all about money and economic equality and
- 58:12all that. She's probably the one that you're sort of opposing, even though
- 58:16you won't dare do that because you're kind of a simp, because like you
- 58:22would basically you would have to convince her that having money or like access to
- 58:28material wealth is not as important as love and commitment. And you know your
- 58:35your relationship. So it walked away from the feminist movement. She'll tell us
- 58:40why next before we get into casting. J I just want to know,
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- 1:00:08right, let's let's watch a little bit more, all right. Cassie Jay
- 1:00:15says a controversial documentary she made about the men's rights movement didn't just change her
- 1:00:22point of view, it changed her life. Take a look, men and
- 1:00:28Boys are in Prices and the ager support. Every society survived based on its
- 1:00:34ability to train its sons to be disposable of workplace. The family course system
- 1:00:44truly, but if you start to talk about those issues, people get hosted.
- 1:00:52Oh ship, Big Randon, fucking scum girl, the gender version.
- 1:01:00We're not blaming. Michael Kimmel has been discredited. Yeah, Karen, Yeah,
- 1:01:08so Michael Kimmel disgraced. Yeah, that was like a bit of a
- 1:01:15like I had a rush of nostalgia wash over me when I saw those people,
- 1:01:20like, yeah, these were the days. The woman, the Toronto
- 1:01:24woman with the piercings. That was like, you know it's you know,
- 1:01:34I love I swear I love I love I love that that Big Red and
- 1:01:38and fucking scum Girl are like in the main they are mortal. Big Red
- 1:01:46is immortalized all over the internet, like she is the face of feminism,
- 1:01:51Like it's her and that woman that was screaming at the sun. You know,
- 1:02:00I love it. I love it. Oh yeah, yeah, we
- 1:02:02need to we need to have a full care and experience. So bring it
- 1:02:07back here and go back to write right here. You're beliefs of the white
- 1:02:12natural. We're not. We just named everything bad after them. Well.
- 1:02:21Joining now from San Francisco is Red Pill documentary maker Cassie j So. Cassie,
- 1:02:25thanks for joining us. Thanks for having me. How did this change
- 1:02:29things for you? Oh? Complete, Uh well, I don't know about
- 1:02:34one eighty, but I can summarize that. I started out as a very
- 1:02:37staunch feminist for about ten years before making the Red Pill documentary, and after
- 1:02:45about three and a half years until I completed the film, I no longer
- 1:02:49call myself a feminist. I'm also not a men's rights activist, but I
- 1:02:53definitely see both sides, and I find myself somewhere in the middle where I
- 1:02:58can understand book. What was the biggest revelation to you when you got into
- 1:03:04your research and started talking to some of the participants in the documentary? Gosh,
- 1:03:10well, I mean the line I would to pause it there for a
- 1:03:14moment. Uh so, I again, Cassie has had two kids since she
- 1:03:21married her boyfriend, so at the time she was dating this guy, very
- 1:03:24nice guy. By the way. I met him at a couple of icy
- 1:03:28mines. I think, yes, I got along with him right away.
- 1:03:31You know, he reminds me of an old friend of mine from Chicago.
- 1:03:35Very He's very reminiscent of that guy. And she said that when she was
- 1:03:39making the movie she was dating him, but she wasn't sure she wanted to
- 1:03:45marry him like she was. Actually I wouldn't say she was thinking about breaking
- 1:03:47up, but she was definitely like not thinking about like you know, being
- 1:03:52tied down, you know, like she was when when Cassie j says she's
- 1:03:55feminist, she was feminist, Like she was not, you know with this,
- 1:04:00she was like die of the wool. She actually made the documentary for
- 1:04:03anybody who's new, she made the documentary in order to debunk the Men's movement,
- 1:04:10to like expose them as misogynists, but because she has integrity and did
- 1:04:15the work and talked to the people in the movement and got to know them
- 1:04:18and understand where they were coming from. Even Paul, who's probably the one
- 1:04:23of the more abrasive parts, you know, because like Warren Ferrell, you'll
- 1:04:28probably walk away going, how can I hate this guy? He's basically a
- 1:04:30teddy bear, but Paul's the opposite of that, right, And she was
- 1:04:33like, but see, that was what Paul does well, is he gets
- 1:04:39your attention and then you want to understand why he feels that way. And
- 1:04:44if you're somebody who wants to learn the truth, you'll learn that anyway.
- 1:04:46So since then after when she actually changed her mind was not while she was
- 1:04:51making the film, but while she was editing the film. This is a
- 1:04:56conversation that I had with her when I did the interview way back and when
- 1:05:00we were in Australia, and she said that she she changed her mind during
- 1:05:04the editing of the film, not the making of the film. So she
- 1:05:09was still ready to like, you know, make this like hit piece,
- 1:05:13but when she did the editing, she was like, I'm I was wrong
- 1:05:15about a lot right, And since then it also changed her relationship. And
- 1:05:20this was another thing I talked to her about when I did the interview,
- 1:05:24was that like she found that this man that helped her make these movies,
- 1:05:30that was involved from the get go, he was like ride or die,
- 1:05:32and she married him and then they had children together and she's on her second
- 1:05:36child. Her first child actually was a miscarriage, which was really tragic.
- 1:05:41So she's actually had three attempts. But and she was going to make a
- 1:05:45documentary about miscarriage, yes, making that public, right or yeah, she
- 1:05:49made that public. Yeah, because she was going to make a documentary about
- 1:05:53miscarriage and based on that experience. So but yeah, so Cassie Jay has
- 1:05:59been like completely transformed. I follow on Instagram and I would suggest you follow
- 1:06:03her on Instagram too, But anyway, yeah, I mean I don't do
- 1:06:08anything on Instagram except follow a couple of people, but Cassie is one of
- 1:06:12them. So okay, boundury list of men's issues just goes on and on
- 1:06:16and on, and we don't have enough time to discuss each one. But
- 1:06:20suicide rates seventy three or I'm sorry, seventy eight percent of all suicides are
- 1:06:26men. Workplace fatalities nine percent in the US or men. There's child custody
- 1:06:32issues, there's child supports, imprisonment for failure to pay child support. There's
- 1:06:39many, many, many issues. I could go on and on if you'd
- 1:06:42like. I find it interesting that some of those things that you're describing about
- 1:06:48airtime in terms of the suicide rates, the fatality gates on the job because
- 1:06:55what people bring in clowns like that. Yeah, and I mean, ultimately
- 1:06:59he had a good point, but really he turned everything back to talking about
- 1:07:04women instead of talking about instead of talking about men's issues. Sorry, guys,
- 1:07:10I have to get used to getting close into the mic in order to
- 1:07:15improve the sound. But you know, like that's are you are you looking?
- 1:07:20Are you looking uh Cassie up on Instagram there, Brian, Yeah,
- 1:07:26I'm looking at Cassie's picture with her husband there. Ah yeah, yeah,
- 1:07:31I was just curious about like anyway, oh yeah, and that sort of
- 1:07:36thing. That's not the kind of equality that women talk about wanting. They
- 1:07:42want different kinds of equality, but there are risks associated with that as well,
- 1:07:46And you agree with that, right absolutely. I think that you know,
- 1:07:50as we gain equality in this world, we're going to see a lot
- 1:07:56of discomfort and a lot of things that make both sides uncomfortable. And I
- 1:08:01think what we've seen from your conversation, we're not But no one's gonna make
- 1:08:05women go to the mines and like come on coal, Like that's not gonna
- 1:08:10happen. They're not gonna send women to like lay down tar on the you
- 1:08:16know, like asphalt on the street. That's not like, that's not gonna
- 1:08:19happen. Like why are we pretending like as we become more equal, like
- 1:08:25women are gonna be more uncomfortable? Maybe like that's not gonna happen, because
- 1:08:30well, I mean, as it should be, men and women should have
- 1:08:33choices in their life unless you're gonna start forcing women to like take out the
- 1:08:38g like like be garbage collectors and sewer workers and like you know, like
- 1:08:43work on uh I don't know, like electric power lines, like you know,
- 1:08:47like unless you're gonna make them do that. This is is not gonna
- 1:08:50happen. Like this is so such a joke. It's such a joke.
- 1:08:55But anyway, yeah, great, Indeor has just sent us a super chat
- 1:08:59super child for five bucks. And he didn't say anything, so I don't
- 1:09:00know if he meant to, like say, okay, let me see what's
- 1:09:03going on in the back here, and Albernata Retro gave us I'll do I'll
- 1:09:08do that in a second. Albernata Retro gaves us two dollars. Canadian says
- 1:09:11Cassie's husband worked on ant Man and The Lost? Did he really I know
- 1:09:15that they were. I know that they work in the business. I mean,
- 1:09:20I'm happy for him, but not a great movie, be honest.
- 1:09:25Not his fault. I'm sure that he wasn't like involved with the writing.
- 1:09:29But anyway, Jen is that there's actually a lot more common ground than than
- 1:09:35we realized. But it's when nobody speaks. I mean, obviously we have
- 1:09:40an extreme here with Jack, and I think an extreme. I know,
- 1:09:45I feel sorry for Jack. I feel that he's obviously suffering and feels that
- 1:09:48what by other people suffering, he will alleviate his own suff How are you
- 1:09:54suffering? Because he's suffering? Like, honestly, like lady, he's not
- 1:09:59good to make anyone suffer if the only thing he's doing is dating, dating
- 1:10:03dudes, like, nobody's suffering from him. It's the words he's saying,
- 1:10:09mean words, Alison. He's basically that he's basically, uh, cat turd.
- 1:10:15This is cat turd personify. That's what this is. I'm I'm calling
- 1:10:19it. This is my head canon. That guy is cat turd. The
- 1:10:25Yeah, I mean like I missed a gland that's handed out to women at
- 1:10:30birth. But I don't care. Let him with the boyfriend, Let him
- 1:10:33hate women? Who cares? Yeah? Right? Who move on? He
- 1:10:38likely doesn't. But yeah, I honestly think that what he hates is the
- 1:10:42idea that women can't he can't be loved by a woman. That's it.
- 1:10:45Yeah, But you know what if he's genuinely able to find happiness with a
- 1:10:48man, I think that's great, right, Like, if that's if that's
- 1:10:55what he wants. If and he's and he's he's doing it fine. Like
- 1:11:00I don't think it's a good idea to date another person out of spite,
- 1:11:03which you know really gets to a lot of feminist approaches to things. But
- 1:11:08you know, don't do things out of spite because that's ultimately not very helpful
- 1:11:13and not very healthy for yourself. But if he's happy, he's happy,
- 1:11:16if he's found happiness with him, man, all power to him. I
- 1:11:20take a nothing burger. It's a nothing burger. This man is a nothing
- 1:11:24burger. Okay. I feel like none of these I don't know, there's
- 1:11:29something very shallow, not genuine about most of these conversations, Like there's just
- 1:11:33no, it's not a real conversation. This is why TV is dying.
- 1:11:39Okay, I gotta thank you, Oh thank you. All right, So
- 1:11:44the Great Indoors gives us one hundred dollars, So thank you Great Indoors.
- 1:11:46I really appreciate you coming in clutch. There. That good. So we
- 1:11:54basically have like ninety dollars left just to fill in that gap. And I
- 1:11:57again, I'm I'm really sorry about the the I don't know if the fake
- 1:12:01out goal it just it just ended up that we had like a bit of
- 1:12:06a a fall. I can't give you the word. We just had a
- 1:12:14gap that needed to be covered last minute. So let us let us continue,
- 1:12:19all right. I've suffered at the hands of women, and as far
- 1:12:26as taking away women's rights and what I talked about before, I think that
- 1:12:30would be a better situation for them where they would be happier. When you
- 1:12:33say, last rights, what kind of rights are you saying should be taken
- 1:12:38away from women? Why are we talk about women's right? Let's predict,
- 1:12:42let's predict. What do you think he's gonna say? What do you think
- 1:12:45he's gonna say? Guys, who knows? But like, why are we
- 1:12:49talking about women's rights? Like why is all the the air in the room
- 1:12:54being sucked out? Again? I got to just mentioned women and it'll go
- 1:12:58away. Okay, let's I have no interest in what this man Okay,
- 1:13:03okay, this random dude just fell out of someone's closet just like boop bam,
- 1:13:09he's there. Oh yeah, let's just put him on. Let's find
- 1:13:12out what he thinks about men's women's rights, and so we don't have to
- 1:13:15talk to Warren Ferrell about the problems facing ment Like, yeah, I'm not
- 1:13:20I am not impressed by this, nor am I nor am I taken in
- 1:13:24by this bullshit? Okay, let's let's let's get it, get it over
- 1:13:29with, shall we say? I don't think they should have the right to
- 1:13:31vote. I don't think they should be I think they should Good luck,
- 1:13:35you're gonna have to convince them of that. I think they should be forced
- 1:13:39to stay home and submit to a man. Do you hear the crowd?
- 1:13:54So funny, It's so funny, how traumatized the audience gets at this,
- 1:13:59this random guy saying this, like it doesn't it just where did they go?
- 1:14:04They go, like to like some homeless park in the city and grab
- 1:14:08this guy and say, hey, say a bunch of bullshit. I know,
- 1:14:13I know what right you want to be famous? Kid? Just say
- 1:14:16repeal the nineteenth and watch the screams. Like talking about this, the fact
- 1:14:21that there are that this reaction even manifests it doesn't really make a good case
- 1:14:28for women. I'm sorry, ladies, but if you're reacting to this random
- 1:14:30guy saying this in this way like you're just so aghast, Like what does
- 1:14:34that say about you? Like you don't follow through it. Logically, Okay,
- 1:14:40who's going to vote to get rid of women's boat. Well, it's
- 1:14:42gonna help be women, all right, Well then don't do that. Don't
- 1:14:45do it. Just don't do it, ladies, just don't. And the
- 1:14:47other thing is that I don't know, I don't even know why we need
- 1:14:51to this. This guy is taking attention away from men's issues. And I
- 1:14:56think that's the essential point. I think it is too. Yeah, I
- 1:14:59mean, like I wouldn't there there's plenty of more qualified people. They literally
- 1:15:02have the trailer for the red Pill. They could have literally talked to Paul
- 1:15:06or Karen or like they could have been online. I mean maybe Paul was
- 1:15:11approached and he was like fuck that, I'm not going on there. I
- 1:15:15don't know, maybe him, Yeah, I mean, like we could talk
- 1:15:20to somebody who actually talks about men's issues, like this is not a men's
- 1:15:25issue. This is talking about women's rights. It's not a men's issue,
- 1:15:29the separate thing like yeah, but they don't treat it like a zero sum
- 1:15:32game though. See. That's another thing is they have to make it into
- 1:15:35this this this competition, which it doesn't have to be. Yeah, this
- 1:15:41Carnivale how how could for Bolton? I am I'm actually really pissed on behalf
- 1:15:55of Cassie because now they're making her answer to this dipship that they found.
- 1:15:59They are going to you, Oh, I'm going to say something really rude,
- 1:16:09you, beauty. I just like ship really make it clear that Jack
- 1:16:15the inceel does not represent the men's rights movement. So he is absolutely an
- 1:16:20extremist that I certainly disagree with. I'm sure doctor Warren Ferrell does. What
- 1:16:26do you disagree with? Old Hill believed in and supported women's rights, and
- 1:16:34they are bringing this random extremist. Why don't they just go to the average
- 1:16:40feminist academia and just find someone with tenure and then bring her on and she'll
- 1:16:46say even more radical stuff than he is. They could do that. I'd
- 1:16:51be surprised if they were already feminists willing to actually engage, because whenever they
- 1:16:56do, they get demolished. Michael Kimmel, this is their new this is
- 1:17:00their new strategy. Yeah, bring on, like either bring on a crazy
- 1:17:06person or create a crazy person and then just or is there something like or
- 1:17:12is he just looking down? You probably promised some fentanyl or something to do
- 1:17:15this. I have no idea. This is just really not real to me.
- 1:17:19And I love the background. Really. Yeah, he's like institutional lord.
- 1:17:30They constantly do ship like this, like she should not have to answer
- 1:17:33to him. This is a waste of time. This is a waste of
- 1:17:36everyone's time. You have brought two of the most important voices in men's issues
- 1:17:42onto your show. I know that Cassie doesn't identify as a men's rights activist,
- 1:17:46but she is an important voice in men's issues, and so is Warren
- 1:17:50Ferrell. And you have this joker and he is derailing everything. And this
- 1:17:57is what's so infuriated, because I think that's the point. Yeah he is.
- 1:18:00I think that is a point why they also care about men's rights.
- 1:18:05So, but women are less than see that. You see his face.
- 1:18:15He's got the duper's delight. Yeah, I know he's he's full of ship.
- 1:18:19Mm hmm. Somebody's got a fentanyl package just out of out of sight,
- 1:18:24saying, hey, good good, Clap for it, Clap for it,
- 1:18:28clap for it. And I know there's guys who have these opinions,
- 1:18:31and they're also not men's rights activists, nor are they interested in men's issues.
- 1:18:35Most of these guys couldn't give a crap about child custody or you know,
- 1:18:43men being raped and experiencing domestic violence with those services, or false accusations.
- 1:18:48Maybe they care about false accusations or circumcision or any of all of the
- 1:18:54various issues that people who actually care about men think about, Like you don't.
- 1:19:00There's no connection between caring about those issues and saying women need their rights
- 1:19:03taken away, except that so far, despite being the drivers of our political
- 1:19:11system, women have yet to take responsibility for the issues that men face.
- 1:19:15And yes, it is women's responsibility. Like men take responsibility for protecting and
- 1:19:19providing for women when they aren't able to do it for themselves, women should
- 1:19:24do the same for men, full stop. And I don't think we're gonna
- 1:19:29go forward until that happens. Like, this is what we need to figure
- 1:19:32out, to straighten out and figure out. This is the thing, This
- 1:19:36is what This is the question that the human race now has, and we
- 1:19:41got to figure it out or we're not going forward. There's no future and
- 1:19:45it's not going to it's not gonna be figured out by Oh, women will
- 1:19:48vote to get rid of their own vote. Well, maybe once you figure
- 1:19:53out women taking responsibility for all of society, not just themselves. Yep.
- 1:19:58Right, and and there there is no way to argue that this is not
- 1:20:00the case, because there's all kinds of narratives right now excusing women for not
- 1:20:05having to take responsibility for society, and that starts with, oh, society
- 1:20:10oppresses women, Men oppress women right there right in that narrative, which is
- 1:20:15central to our society is the narrative that women do not have to take responsibility
- 1:20:18for their control or their power in society. All they need to do is
- 1:20:25make society serve them. That is not a functional attitude long term, right,
- 1:20:30Okay, But regardless, how do you get women to vote, to
- 1:20:33get rid of their vote without dealing with the issue of women taking responsibility for
- 1:20:39their power? That requires women taking responsibility for their power. Yeah, okay,
- 1:20:45I mean, if one wants to understand the men's Issues movement see Cassie
- 1:20:51Jay's read, they will And also to the exactly what you were talking about
- 1:20:58before. It's like war and fair try to salvage something is a lose lose
- 1:21:01situation. Yeah, because he knows, he knows it's a setup. He's
- 1:21:04got to know, so he's like, well, okay, just go watch
- 1:21:08Cassie's movie. This is a waste of your time. That is not you
- 1:21:12know, shruy salvage. Some men need the help of men to raise the
- 1:21:16children. And what's often happening with boys today is that the boys that are
- 1:21:21part of the boy crisis. The boy crisis resides where dads do not reside.
- 1:21:27Children who are not raised by death Joe have dad involvement, are hurt
- 1:21:31in more than fifty different areas, including suicide, drug addiction, homicide,
- 1:21:38you know, all your can we just agree on one thing that if Jack
- 1:21:43is the man in the family, the children and the mother should run like
- 1:21:46hell in the other direction because you don't need it have a one parent family.
- 1:21:51Oh you and him anywhere near any child? What a long show?
- 1:21:58A long show? Yeah, of course right, And of course he gets
- 1:22:03applause. These women are not even like really thinking about what Warren pharaohs.
- 1:22:12They're in the emotional zone because this woman is essentially making the women in the
- 1:22:18audience relive the trauma of this random dude on their panel that said women shouldn't
- 1:22:26vote and they should stay home and raise children. And she's like, you're
- 1:22:29gonna relieve this, and I'm gonna make war and Farrell answer for that somehow.
- 1:22:32Yeah, and why does he have to answer for this, this idiot
- 1:22:36or not even an idiot, like I mean, he made a good point.
- 1:22:41But let's let's hear it. Let's let's hear the end of it,
- 1:22:44all right, let me let me go back a little bit. And the
- 1:22:45mother should run like hell in the other direction because you don't need him.
- 1:22:49Better to have a one parent family, one woman than have him anywhere near
- 1:22:55any child. We're any gay, but I think we'll can agree about that.
- 1:23:00I've got to take a break. We've heard a lot of opinions from
- 1:23:03some of the leading figures in the field of been a way rides. Lord,
- 1:23:13what a circus you remember? Can I just say, do you remember
- 1:23:17when we did a multi person paneled debate on that one channel on Twitch the
- 1:23:28flock or the wick Wick TV or whatever it was, and you said afterwards,
- 1:23:31these are not serious people. Mm hmmm. I think that you understate
- 1:23:38how normal that conversation is. Because this is the same conversation. You can
- 1:23:43say these aren't serious people either. But these people are all over television,
- 1:23:46all over the internet. Everyone is seeing that. So this is normy content,
- 1:23:50just like that was normy content. So unfortunately, this is like where
- 1:23:57we should be batting at. I mean, like that's where people are.
- 1:24:01So this is why I felt that even though we could dismiss those conversations as
- 1:24:09not serious, I mean, the truth is is that it's closer to normal
- 1:24:13because this is actually like less interesting than that was. You know what I'm
- 1:24:18saying. Yeah, yeah, no, no, I got what you're saying.
- 1:24:23I do have Let's let's do a little bit more and then I gotta
- 1:24:25do thank you? All right, Well this is got I really appreciate the
- 1:24:29fact that I have to do it. Thank you. You noticed I want
- 1:24:34to I want to point something out. You notice how Warren Ferrell was actually
- 1:24:39getting to the point of talking about a men's issue, right, yeah,
- 1:24:43and then they just completely derailed it. She completely derailed it to return to
- 1:24:47talking about women. You know, whatic sand m Yeah, okay, let's
- 1:24:55keep it. We as a society discriminating against and attacking men for simply being
- 1:25:00who they are, or are certain groups of men being emasculated by the steady
- 1:25:03growth of the women rights movement? Now these are just some of the court
- 1:25:08what's the difference, what it's the way we Wait, can I hear that
- 1:25:13again? Tell me the difference between these two comparisons that doctor Phil's bringing up.
- 1:25:16Because I'm confused, let me go back a little bit more. An
- 1:25:21attacking man for simply being who they are. Wait, where's a society discriminating
- 1:25:30against an attacking man for simply being who they are? Or are certain groups
- 1:25:35of men being emasculated by the steady growth of the women rights movement? At
- 1:25:42what's the difference? Like, I mean, when you say certain groups of
- 1:25:46men, well yeah, but like okay, maybe when he says certain groups
- 1:25:49of men are feeling and masculated, he's saying that there are. It's either
- 1:25:56happening to all men and it's undeserved, or it's happening to certain men but
- 1:26:00it is deserved. Maybe that's what he means by that, because the man
- 1:26:03that feels upset by this or feels emasculated, it's on you. But if
- 1:26:09we as a society are attacking men in mass but just for being who they
- 1:26:13are, well, then maybe that's a problem. You know. I Mean,
- 1:26:16it sounds like there's no difference, but I think that's the difference.
- 1:26:19I think that it's like you're either in the camp of men that can that
- 1:26:24can take the heat, or you're in the camp of men that can't take
- 1:26:27the heat. These are just some of the questions that we've been discussing this
- 1:26:31past hour and that rage on the internet, and you know, I just
- 1:26:38want to say my position on this is you listen to extremists that get out
- 1:26:45in you know, the real far reaches where they leave logic behind and they
- 1:26:53start taking radical positions. And I've here's referring to the plant. I think
- 1:26:59that it doesn't matter like he's if you think that becoming gay is radical,
- 1:27:05I mean, dude, it is the crazy sort of homophobic there at bit.
- 1:27:12I mean, so the guy became gay, Okay, I mean maybe
- 1:27:15maybe he was. Maybe his trauma comes from his mother. I mean,
- 1:27:19but like, I mean, we would ask, but you know, you
- 1:27:24can't ask. I just say, has the wrong opinions? Okay, before
- 1:27:28you continue, just let me get in here. Okay. So the person
- 1:27:35that we brought in to derail the discussion. Mh, what do we think
- 1:27:43about this person? I think that you brought him in to derail the discussion.
- 1:27:47Yeah, to frame it and to take it away from discussing men's issues.
- 1:27:54And you have to realize that men see this. Men see the length
- 1:27:58that you go to to avoid actually addressing the issues that they have, and
- 1:28:02they have to live in a society that will not Like how long have I
- 1:28:08been doing this, I have not seen let me let me put it this
- 1:28:12way, I have not seen significant progress in men or sorry, in society
- 1:28:15dealing with men's issues. What I've seen is significant progress in society destroying itself
- 1:28:23because it isn't dealing with men's issues, which you know, there's a difference
- 1:28:27there. And I hope people understand that we're gonna beat our heads against this
- 1:28:31until women take responsibility and they'll hither have to take responsibility to take away their
- 1:28:35vote or they'll have to take responsibility for our society to be able to sustain
- 1:28:41it. And there is no way that men can't have a voice in our
- 1:28:44society and have a sustainable society. Right. So, yeah, that's what
- 1:28:48I think about that extremist. I'm and and you know, bringing on some
- 1:28:53female extremists. And also I would point out that, in my opinion,
- 1:28:57saying that men oppressed women is extremism. Yeah, it's never been proven.
- 1:29:02It is an outrageous statement to say that the male half of a species would
- 1:29:10do anything but be either if the female half isn't in need of them,
- 1:29:15they just screw off and do their own thing, or if the female half
- 1:29:19is in need of them, they stick around and help. Like. Those
- 1:29:24are the two options in in the in the wild and in evolution. That's
- 1:29:28it. Well, I mean there's some variations between those two options, but
- 1:29:30those are the two extremes. Nowhere does the male animal, for example,
- 1:29:35eat the head of the female animal after he impregnates her for obvious reasons.
- 1:29:42So this whole narrative of oppression is an unproven extremism right from the start.
- 1:29:47All right, let's I could go on, but I don't want to because
- 1:29:51I want I don't want to. You know, that's where you create divide.
- 1:30:00But I think if you talk to intelligent people about coming together, all
- 1:30:06of those things fall away. Let me tell you something. If if if
- 1:30:12I go through a windshield and have a head injury and wind up in the
- 1:30:16hospital and I look up and the finest surgeon there is a mother instead of
- 1:30:25a father, I could care less. Yeah, but again, this is
- 1:30:30kind of a stupid thing because nobody's saying women like again, unless you're responding
- 1:30:35to the gol. Nobody's saying that. But but but you might, you
- 1:30:41might be a little worried if the hospital was using DEI practices and that's why
- 1:30:45there's a woman there, So like there is an argument to be made that
- 1:30:49maybe it's like when you get on a plane and there's a female pilot and
- 1:30:54you look up the company that, like you know, then they're like,
- 1:30:57oh, yeah, we have DEI scores really high because look at all of
- 1:31:00the female pilots we have. Then I think that if you're worried, that's
- 1:31:03okay because it's rational, right, But yes, if she is right,
- 1:31:10if she is a surgeon on the basis of meritocracy, like when I had
- 1:31:14cancer or I guess technically you say you still have it. But when I
- 1:31:17had cancer and I had to get an operation, the surgeon that that removed
- 1:31:21my tumors was a woman, and I knew that she came highly recommended,
- 1:31:27like that, I looked at her credits, creditation. I didn't do it
- 1:31:30because she was a woman. I did it because my life was on the
- 1:31:31line and I was a big concerned period and she did fine. Yes,
- 1:31:36that like this is like, why are you even saying this, like,
- 1:31:39who are you arguing against? Because they brought in the shit Gollum in order
- 1:31:45to make the argument, like seriously, create an argument they could actually argue
- 1:31:49against, because then, I mean it's basically what they did was they brought
- 1:31:54in somebody to uh take the agro like because they couldn't deal with Cassie and
- 1:32:00doctor Ferrell. Like literally, they can't deal with these two people, so
- 1:32:03they bring in the shit Goalum and they argue with him instead and all of
- 1:32:08this stuff, and so they can start making making simplistic Yeah, they can
- 1:32:14start making simplistic assertions like this and make it meaningful, like the shit Goalum
- 1:32:18has changed the entire discussion, the entire universe of discussion to that. And
- 1:32:25yeah, I know there's people men in the comments who'll be like, but
- 1:32:27I also agree with him. Great. Well, unfortunately we still have to
- 1:32:31get through the stage of convincing women to take responsibility, like before we get
- 1:32:35to the stage of getting them to vote away their rights. So and at
- 1:32:40that point, like the problem is solved, so whatever, But regardless,
- 1:32:45my overall point is that now they are making it legitimate to have these simplistic
- 1:32:50conclusions, empty headed vacuous conclusions like this, And again, we're not even
- 1:32:57talking about men's issues. We're talking about whether or not we respect female surgeons,
- 1:33:01are you again? And that's because of their freaking their their their fed
- 1:33:08pilled plant. Mm hmm. Okay, let's keep going. Well, is
- 1:33:13the finest surgeon that is there? Oh, look at the women, ladies,
- 1:33:19stop and think the embarrassing women shouldn't be in the workforce is idiotic.
- 1:33:28This country would collapse. Oh my god, this country would collapse actually,
- 1:33:33and we'd be we'd be hurting, but we'd be okay. It's men meant
- 1:33:39for like an hour that would kill people. But okay, how why did
- 1:33:44they bring on Cassie and Warren Ferrell? I could you know what when Warren
- 1:33:47Ferrell was just like going down and saying watch the red Pill? What this
- 1:33:51was just basically him giving up on it on this entire discussion. Yeah,
- 1:33:56Like he's literally you could see it in his eyes. He's like, oh,
- 1:33:59okay, this is another one of these. And then he's just like,
- 1:34:01watch the red Pill when it has it not like always this This is
- 1:34:08like you know, I know Jubilee has has contacted me to come on,
- 1:34:15and I'm going with great pleasure. I'm going to tell him that the immigration
- 1:34:17lawyer said it was a bad idea, So they can go fuck themselves because
- 1:34:21this is this is exactly what's gonna happen. I will talk, Yeah,
- 1:34:26sure you go. I'll ask Paul if he wants to go with Harry.
- 1:34:29You know, they get some people in the US to go, but I'm
- 1:34:32not fucking going because I know it's probably gonna be some ship like this.
- 1:34:36Mm hmm. Okay, let's let's keep going. Let's keep going and have
- 1:34:42that talent pool in America. There's no question that the pendulum swings too far.
- 1:34:47And when you get guilt by accusation and someone's life is wrecked because of
- 1:34:55a zeitgeist something that's blowing through society, I guess I got that's that is
- 1:35:00an injustice. And there are injustices to women, there are injustices to men,
- 1:35:06and that's something that has to do with with justice and human rights.
- 1:35:13And to me, that's not gender specific. That's on both sides of the
- 1:35:17gender. It's happened to women who have been raped and get excoriated and humiliated
- 1:35:27on cross examination and shamed out of taking their Oh my god, we're talking
- 1:35:31about this now, you know. I saw a clip speaking of rape and
- 1:35:36reelegations. I saw a clip where on the Whatever podcast. But it was
- 1:35:43like a serious conversation with this guy named Officer Tatum. Who's this guy who's
- 1:35:47like a cop or maybe he's an ex cop and he makes videos and they
- 1:35:53were asking he was talking about false allegations of domestic violence and sexual assault and
- 1:36:00stuff, and he said that in all of his years as a cop of
- 1:36:08Pete, women who claimed abuses or whatever were lying, Like he said,
- 1:36:13it was in the overwhelming like almost all cases. He said he dealt with
- 1:36:16maybe like two or three real cases of a woman being abused and that most
- 1:36:23of them were untrue. And he said, and he was lamenting, like
- 1:36:26how you know this is bad because like there are no consequences, so you
- 1:36:30know, you basically incentivize it, and that it makes it harder for women
- 1:36:35to step forward. I don't think that's true. I think that you just
- 1:36:39do it. How does it make it harder for women? I know,
- 1:36:43like I'm saying, no, I mean, like women who are real victims,
- 1:36:45I guess, but I don't think that's true. I think that's just
- 1:36:47him trying to throw a bone to women. But the point about in his
- 1:36:51experience. I know it's anecdotal, but in his experience, maybe I can
- 1:36:56find it that is actually quite telling. I mean again, you know,
- 1:37:00I think that like we're all like these people are just like operating under this
- 1:37:05this fog of lies about our rule society and the relationship between men and women,
- 1:37:11and they're still trying to make like doctor Phil's trying to be the smartest
- 1:37:15guy in the room, and he is so incorrect, you know, because
- 1:37:18he's like both sides and that, and that's all like the enlightened centrism drives
- 1:37:23me up the fucking wall. Yeah, it's not both sides. Only one
- 1:37:27side is being empowered by the government. Yes, right, And so when
- 1:37:30you do that, it's like you don't get it, Like you're you you
- 1:37:33haven't heard anything. We're back at square zero. Yeah. First of all,
- 1:37:39you have to even be outside of this framework. You have to just
- 1:37:43be like, Nope, I don't believe that men oppress women, And you
- 1:37:46are going to have to prove that if you want, if you want to
- 1:37:49assert it, you're gonna have to give me the evidence and the fact that
- 1:37:54men are and have authority even authority over women does not mean they oppress them.
- 1:37:59You have to look at the car consequences of that authority. And if
- 1:38:01the consequences of that authority is that women are better off the men, then
- 1:38:05obviously it's not oppress of authority. Like by definition, like oppression has to
- 1:38:12be cruel, it has to be unjust, and if the people in authority
- 1:38:17are making a better situation for the people they have authority over, then that
- 1:38:21is not unjust or cruel by definition. That doesn't mean that I advocate for
- 1:38:27men be having authority over women. Why because I can see how throughout history
- 1:38:32that framework has been used to remove men's compassion, compassion for men, or
- 1:38:40the expectation that they don't constantly sacrifice for women. So now, anyway,
- 1:38:45that is my opinion on that. And once you're in that framework of men
- 1:38:50oppress women like that, that's it. Like you're basically in that world and
- 1:38:57we are all on that, Like you've basically sat down on the roller coaster
- 1:39:00ride of men opress women and you're you're, you're, you're there, You're
- 1:39:03you're going on that ride. That's it. That's you gotta get out if
- 1:39:09you want to get off the ride. You have to get out of believing
- 1:39:13that men of press women, or at least just believing it by road,
- 1:39:16right, you have to be able to ask that question. Okay, But
- 1:39:20and and it's is as far as more I sitting. It's extremism to believe
- 1:39:26that half the human race oppresses the other half, the other half that they
- 1:39:30require to even reproduce the most critically important evolutionary pressure. You know, men
- 1:39:38require women to reproduce, right, And we are not a species that does.
- 1:39:44We are actually not a species that does the rape thing, or at
- 1:39:46least and what I mean by that is we have a concept of consent.
- 1:39:51Other species don't. Okay, so we have well, actually, let me
- 1:39:55put it this way. We have rape because we are so much about the
- 1:40:00opposite. Mm hmm. So rate becomes a horrifying thing. Well, we
- 1:40:04we're the only ones that would call it rape other animals and just call it
- 1:40:08breeding. Well yeah, I know, but I'm saying like, okay,
- 1:40:13let's let's finish because at the end your position, it's it's just as unjust
- 1:40:18in that situation. So I simply stop judging and start looking for common ground.
- 1:40:28Then we'll find answers. Because to me, everybody has something to contribute,
- 1:40:33if we'll just take the blinders off and recognize it. Okay, are
- 1:40:39men the new minority? Obvious? Okay, so are men the new minority?
- 1:40:43I don't like this question, but pretty that's the question I asked my
- 1:40:45audience at the start of the hour. I'll have the results right here and
- 1:40:51i'll be revealing them next to this is the virtual audience this question, Are
- 1:41:01man the new minority? And here are the results. Twenty one percent said
- 1:41:08yes and seventy nine percent said no. All right, so let's so you
- 1:41:14can see who voted what the only ones that voted yes looks like it's almost
- 1:41:20all men. That that's a man, that's a man. And then of
- 1:41:25the ones that said no, it was men and women that said no.
- 1:41:29So men are not made an interesting point, and basically he said that a
- 1:41:32society doesn't survive unless it somehow makes its sons disposable. And this is sort
- 1:41:41of a reflection of that. What they really mean by our men a minority
- 1:41:45is should we care about their issues? And of course they overwhelmingly vote no.
- 1:41:49We should continue to not care because we want to keep men disposable.
- 1:41:56They don't know that's what they're doing. The men should still be defined solely
- 1:42:02in how they protect and provide for women, not in terms of their own
- 1:42:06needs, Like you would have to actually be like, I am a man,
- 1:42:11My needs are legitimate. And that's that's the horrifying thing, isn't it.
- 1:42:15Yeah, they want you to continue in order to be in order to
- 1:42:21really exist, I have to protect and provide for others. They've already invested
- 1:42:27in this idea that men can't be a minority, and they invested so much
- 1:42:31into it that too, even like consider that they're completely wrong about that is
- 1:42:36going to cause them tremendous pain, and so they have to double down.
- 1:42:40This is why they always double down. Okay, what's interesting about this.
- 1:42:45It's mostly men that said yes, So there's actually men that recognize that they're
- 1:42:50and I mean, look, I don't like the question are men the new
- 1:42:54minority? I don't like the question because I think it's tricky because some people
- 1:42:58might have said no, just based on I'm like, oh, well,
- 1:43:00statistically, they can't be a minority because you know, they're there's they're half
- 1:43:03the population, maybe a little less than half. That doesn't make them a
- 1:43:08minority per se. So I don't like the frame of the question. But
- 1:43:10if the question is really are men a group deserving of more recognition for their
- 1:43:18issues? And you're like, like, do boys need those issues addressed?
- 1:43:24Like that? Like it would be I get. I just don't like the
- 1:43:27frame of the question. I think it's a bit of a tricky question in
- 1:43:30the way that it's framed. I think it's ugly. But I do think
- 1:43:32that the men who voted yes do understand the question because they do see that
- 1:43:39and of course people are going to vote against this, but this is okay
- 1:43:42because it just shines light on again, why do we do this? And
- 1:43:45and it just tells you, like, just people to the overwhelming majority of
- 1:43:50the population is just not ready for this conversation and they're not willing to have
- 1:43:55it. So yeah, well that's unfortunate, but you know, we need
- 1:44:00to make sure that there is some people know what the hell happened, when
- 1:44:04it happens, and why it happened, so and then and then when we
- 1:44:10are in a position of rebuilding, they'll have the wisdom, hopefully well enough
- 1:44:15to address this stuff. The other thing about this is use the word When
- 1:44:19you use the word minority and you're talking to an audience that's overwhelmingly female.
- 1:44:25You are asking women do they see men in the same way that they see
- 1:44:30other purse puppy groups like trans people, like black people, whatever. Right,
- 1:44:36So, because this is an audience of mostly women, and it's women
- 1:44:43that sort of like drive our current culture is is highly feminine, not just
- 1:44:49what every culture is, well it is, but I mean like there's the
- 1:44:53intersectional you know, like feminine or the intersexual feminist thing where they're like taking
- 1:44:59these oppressed groups and they're putting them in their little categories and saying, I'm
- 1:45:02going to care for this thing. But and then and they and regular women
- 1:45:06or other women or whatever non can't see. They're saying, can you see
- 1:45:11this group as a minority? But it doesn't work because they're like no,
- 1:45:14Because in order for me to be able to say I care about trans people,
- 1:45:17I care about black people, I care about you know, lesbians,
- 1:45:20whatever, I would have to they would have to be a group that I
- 1:45:25care about more than another group. And the only other group is always men.
- 1:45:30So they can't by definition, they can't be a minority. They can't.
- 1:45:33They can't. They can't put men over the minorities in the first,
- 1:45:36pay can't occupy that space, so that they I think as to reject it.
- 1:45:41This what this poll really is saying to the men who voted yes or
- 1:45:45no, is do you identify as a protector and provider of women? Or
- 1:45:48are are you capable of recognizing your needs? And they say no, you
- 1:45:53know, and the funny thing is that they'll say, well, that's toxic
- 1:45:56masculinity for so we don't have we can ignore the downsides of it. But
- 1:45:59that's just actually what this is. This is asking men, do you care
- 1:46:01about your needs? Do you identify with your needs? No? I identify
- 1:46:05with women's needs. And it asks women, do you identify men with having
- 1:46:10needs? Or do you identify men with serving your needs? No, identify
- 1:46:14men with serving my needs. Well, that locks men into a position of
- 1:46:19stoic and it locks women into a position of child. Yeah, okay,
- 1:46:26can let's yes. Is there anything further? Yeah, so there you have
- 1:46:30it. I have to say, from my point of view, just so
- 1:46:34you know, there would be no Doctor Phil show without women, because probably
- 1:46:41eighty five to nine of my staff is female, My executive producer is female,
- 1:46:46my director is female. So I gotta say any taking an out of
- 1:46:51my workforce. Well, and I guess and they're also still oppressed. Okay,
- 1:46:58good art, Like I guess you got us what Warren Ferrell certainly like
- 1:47:03I could just see the process in his mind when when this happened. It's
- 1:47:08just like, this is a waste. I'm just going to try to get
- 1:47:10the mess the most I can out get out of this. I'm just gonna
- 1:47:13show the red pill at the end. Well, you know what he's really
- 1:47:15you know what he's really saying though when he says that, what doctor Phil
- 1:47:19is really saying is I don't hate women, Like that's all. That's it.
- 1:47:24Like I love women, I respect women. I respect women so much.
- 1:47:29I basically like my whole career and livelihood depends on their confidence, you
- 1:47:34know, and their approval. My audience is women, like this is the
- 1:47:38thing. He has to do that because his audience is women, so like
- 1:47:42and and again if because he can say something out of pocket, like he
- 1:47:45probably saw what happened to uh the audience reaction to their golum and he was
- 1:47:50like, well, I'll never say that, you know what I mean,
- 1:47:53Like, I don't want my life destroyed. Also, women don't have any
- 1:47:56power m here with a sketch artist and a flashlight trying to do trying to
- 1:48:03do this broadcast. So no way that's happening. Uh. I want to
- 1:48:09thank all of my guests today seriously, and for more information about today's show,
- 1:48:13log on to Doctorphil dot com. I know the conversation will be hot
- 1:48:17and heavy. Uh, you can follow me on Facebook Twitter. All right,
- 1:48:20I'm gonna stop it there. So that they use the ship Gollum to
- 1:48:25dismiss everything like it's it's basically they put him out there and he's like,
- 1:48:29well, pay attention to this. It gives you the excuse to dismiss everything
- 1:48:33that we that these guys talk about. And that's it. That's that's what
- 1:48:38happened. They just they just basically said, yeah, you don't have to
- 1:48:41care about this. Look at the ship Gollumn. Mm hm oh god,
- 1:48:45damn well, this is not this is conversation. The comments are pretty are
- 1:48:49pretty good. Some of them are people that watch us. Yes, Jay
- 1:48:53Demali said, doctor Phil is not the right person to hold these discussions his
- 1:48:57audience as women, never mind him being about his nocentric as they come,
- 1:49:00so he's incapable of engaging factually and thoughtfully. It would estrange his audience,
- 1:49:05and someone responded saying, one correct, Doctor Phil knows his female audience demographic
- 1:49:10very well and will retune a discussion to appeal to them more. And that's
- 1:49:14exactly why he's so gynocentric to begin with. Somebody else said, to see
- 1:49:18who rules over you find somebody you're not allowed to criticize women. That's why
- 1:49:24Phil was groveling before them in closing remarks, Yes, because they were probably
- 1:49:27giving him the daggerize too. So yeah, like, of course it turned
- 1:49:34out the way I expected. But at least the chat, like the comment
- 1:49:43section, is pretty based. Doctor Phil knows how to get an audience by
- 1:49:47throwing people together who would never get along in real life. Warren Ferrell is
- 1:49:49the voice of reason between these extremes of gender views. So is Cassie j.
- 1:49:55When that man in Feminist took issue with Warren Ferrell about dad deprived,
- 1:50:00she went straight for the man bashing narrative that single mothers are better than having
- 1:50:03an abusive man in the house. What a hateful conclusion that has nothing to
- 1:50:06do with Warren's point. This is why people have an issue with feminism today.
- 1:50:11I mean they should have had it throughout all time. It's not because
- 1:50:14they want to take rights away from women. When women suffer, we say
- 1:50:18it's systemic. When men suffer, we say it's their fault. So anyway,
- 1:50:27this jack type works as a straw man, probably why he's in the
- 1:50:30show. Yes, somebody said nailed it. Yeah, I don't even know
- 1:50:32who that is. Like, this is so stupid. A lot of people
- 1:50:36are basically like on the same page, though, I don't see a lot
- 1:50:40of people celebrating this. Don't disparage Fred Flintstone. He treated his wife well,
- 1:50:46he did. Yeah, so this is mostly doctor Warren Ferrell's audience though,
- 1:50:53to be fair. Anyway, So that's it. That's the video.
- 1:50:58You guys have any thoughts on that. You want to send a super chower
- 1:51:00or something. Alison, what are you doing? Oh? Oh it dropped?
- 1:51:08Recording continues normally for everyone else when a participant in the Internet disconnects the
- 1:51:12rest of the Oh there she is, Yes here, I am still Okay,
- 1:51:36let's just end it. What happened? Did it drop again? All
- 1:51:40right? Yeah? Yeah, okay, Well feed the Badger dot com slash
- 1:51:45us okay, because it's gonna just screw the entire recording up. If we
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- 1:51:51help us out for the month. Feed the Badger dot calm slash just the
- 1:51:55tip to send us your comments to avoid the YouTube sends the YouTube comment Enhancement
- 1:52:00system, shall we say, and thank you for joining us again. Apologies
- 1:52:04for the technical difficulties that we're still trying to iron out I have. I'm
- 1:52:09not sure what happened here, but we'll keep We'll keep endeavoring to to work
- 1:52:15this out and make it, make it, make it all work, all
- 1:52:17right? Back to you, Brian. All right, Well, if you
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- 1:52:33this video because Sherry's caring. Sorry I didn't read all the other super chats
- 1:52:38I got, but I did read them, I just didn't read them aloud.
- 1:52:42Thank you so much for coming on today's episode of Maintaining Frame, and
- 1:52:45we'll talk to you all in the next one