Latest / The Breakfast Club / INTERVIEW: Gizelle Bryant Talks Love Hotel,' RHOP,' Mia Thornton Being 'Dead To Her, Eminem Lawsuit + More
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning. Breakfast Club Morning.
- 0:05Speaker 2: Everybody is d J n V, jess Larius Chelamaine the God.
- 0:09Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest.
- 0:11Speaker 1: In the building.
- 0:11Speaker 2: That's right, we have j O Brian Welcome. How are
- 0:14Speaker 2: you feeling.
- 0:16Speaker 3: I'm feeling so good.
- 0:17Speaker 2: I was gonna name all the stuff that the Real
- 0:18Speaker 2: Housewives of Potomac. I was gonna say, shady podcast podcast,
- 0:23Speaker 2: Straight and Reasonably Shady podcast, Rob and you show love Hotel.
- 0:27Speaker 2: You're doing so much. I'm doing a lot, making a
- 0:29Speaker 2: lot of money out there.
- 0:32Speaker 4: Yes, well, you know we got the dad for the
- 0:33Speaker 4: college tuition. Thank praise Sam, keep preaching, preacher. But Jesus, yes, yes, yes,
- 0:44Speaker 4: but yeah, I'm doing a lot, and I'm you know,
- 0:46Speaker 4: it's good. I'm at a place where I can say
- 0:49Speaker 4: no to things. I'm doing things that like make me happy.
- 0:52Speaker 3: Yes.
- 0:52Speaker 2: How was the Real Housewives franchise?
- 0:54Speaker 4: Right?
- 0:54Speaker 2: Because you see Housewives being fired, franchises being canceled, rebooted.
- 0:59Speaker 2: New York was canceled and rebooted. I think Dubai has
- 1:03Speaker 2: been canceled. Yes, and a lot of them is they're
- 1:06Speaker 2: saying it trash. So how is Potonmac. It's still being
- 1:09Speaker 2: able to survive for all of this stuff.
- 1:11Speaker 3: That's first, it's potomac.
- 1:14Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
- 1:15Speaker 4: Yes, it's hard, Like the reality TV space is extremely difficult,
- 1:20Speaker 4: and it's it's difficult to like have some longevity. You
- 1:24Speaker 4: have to for Housewives, it's not hard. You guys have
- 1:27Speaker 4: to be friends. It's a show about friendship. So when
- 1:31Speaker 4: you are trying to be toxic, when you're trying to
- 1:33Speaker 4: say stuff to your castmates that's toxic and it's at
- 1:36Speaker 4: the point of no return, then there goes the show.
- 1:38Speaker 4: You can't come back from that. And no viewer wants
- 1:41Speaker 4: to sit in week after week and look at a
- 1:43Speaker 4: show that there's a bunch of women that hate each other.
- 1:47Speaker 3: It becomes unreal.
- 1:48Speaker 1: Hold on, that's the whole point of reality.
- 1:50Speaker 2: But I thought the conflict in the toxic was what God.
- 1:56Speaker 3: But it's it's a fine line. It's like a dance
- 1:58Speaker 3: you gotta do.
- 1:59Speaker 4: So it's wake toxicity, it's not hardcore toxicity. And then
- 2:04Speaker 4: you got to have be able to come back and laugh.
- 2:07Speaker 4: You got to be able to come back and make
- 2:08Speaker 4: fun of each other. And it's a girlfriend thing. You know,
- 2:12Speaker 4: you have some toxic girlfriends, right, but you know that
- 2:15Speaker 4: y'all can go out on Saturday and.
- 2:17Speaker 3: Have fun, but somebody's getting cussed out.
- 2:20Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's okay because there's a love there and
- 2:22Speaker 4: you can still like rise above it. Yeah, and then
- 2:25Speaker 4: Sunday we can all talk about what happened, yes, and
- 2:27Speaker 4: that be it. Yeah, and then you know you have
- 2:30Speaker 4: it's a dynamic of like there's some girlfriends that are
- 2:32Speaker 4: just like the wild card, the drunk one, the one
- 2:36Speaker 4: that's always going to like be reserved. It's the dynamic
- 2:40Speaker 4: of the group. But it just can't get to a
- 2:41Speaker 4: toxic place otherwise you're yes, you're going to be cancered.
- 2:44Speaker 4: Has it ever been a part or a time where
- 2:47Speaker 4: you're like, I don't want to do this to be
- 2:49Speaker 4: able TV? Shit, more like Thursday, I'm about to throw
- 2:51Speaker 4: in a town, Jez.
- 2:53Speaker 3: You're about to give me five?
- 2:54Speaker 4: Yes, of course, I always say, because real TV is tough.
- 3:02Speaker 4: If there is a point in a season in which
- 3:04Speaker 4: you don't feel like you want to quit, then you're
- 3:07Speaker 4: not doing your job.
- 3:08Speaker 3: You have to get to that point.
- 3:10Speaker 4: And for instance, this season, I didn't feel it unto
- 3:14Speaker 4: the end, so and I was checking myself with it
- 3:16Speaker 4: because I was like, I've been kind of like feeling good.
- 3:19Speaker 3: I've been in a great place. I don't feel like
- 3:21Speaker 3: I want to quit.
- 3:23Speaker 4: And and then towards the end of season, I was like, yeah, there, gone, there,
- 3:26Speaker 4: go there, But you have to give it all. If
- 3:30Speaker 4: you don't, then you shouldn't be doing it. And is
- 3:31Speaker 4: that that's so that's recipe to a good season.
- 3:34Speaker 3: Get that feeling. Oh, I was like this, this season
- 3:37Speaker 3: is gonna be fire, and it is.
- 3:40Speaker 2: To you're the villain a lot and a lot of
- 3:41Speaker 2: these like, well, go at people's personal lives. You'll go
- 3:44Speaker 2: at d you have a relationship, personal env you know.
- 3:49Speaker 3: So we're friends and V I'm just asking.
- 3:51Speaker 2: I'm just asking.
- 3:52Speaker 1: I wanted to show my wife and I'm like, that's
- 3:54Speaker 1: not that youselle.
- 3:54Speaker 2: I know.
- 3:59Speaker 4: I think that anything that is out there on social
- 4:03Speaker 4: media is fair. It's semi fair game. I'll never go
- 4:07Speaker 4: after anybody's mother or child, but yeah, if it's out there,
- 4:11Speaker 4: let's talk about it. And and that's like a good
- 4:13Speaker 4: girlfriend relationship any right, take the cameras away. If something's
- 4:17Speaker 4: going on with my girlfriend, were gonna talk about it.
- 4:19Speaker 4: I'm not gonna get together with her and act like
- 4:21Speaker 4: it ain't happening. No, let's talk, and it does. And
- 4:23Speaker 4: just because the cameras are there doesn't mean it's shady.
- 4:27Speaker 4: It's how you handle the answer that that you feel
- 4:30Speaker 4: like it is shady.
- 4:32Speaker 5: I don't think you a villain. I think I think
- 4:33Speaker 5: you throw reasonable shade. Yes, he's the podcast.
- 4:36Speaker 4: Yes, you know, Rob is not with us this season,
- 4:40Speaker 4: and so the reasonable of the show has been like
- 4:44Speaker 4: you know, gone.
- 4:45Speaker 3: But I've had to.
- 4:46Speaker 4: Pick up that reasonable part A little bit about it
- 4:49Speaker 4: is that it's difficult part of my personality.
- 4:53Speaker 5: The thing I like about you though, because it's hard
- 4:56Speaker 5: to build the name outside of the reality show. A
- 4:59Speaker 5: lot of people that becomes their whole identity that have
- 5:01Speaker 5: not been the case for you.
- 5:02Speaker 4: No, because I leave it there so and that is
- 5:08Speaker 4: when we're filming. I leave it there when I come home.
- 5:10Speaker 4: I'm not trying to talk to my kids about it.
- 5:12Speaker 4: I'm not trying to think about it. It's I look
- 5:15Speaker 4: at it is, it's on camera stuff. I did it
- 5:18Speaker 4: on camera. Now that the cameras are gone, I'm done
- 5:20Speaker 4: with it. Now there's your your kids ever try to
- 5:22Speaker 4: talk to you about it. You got an older baby girl. Yeah,
- 5:25Speaker 4: that she questioned you about some things that she'll see
- 5:27Speaker 4: on there or does that ever happen? Well, they probably
- 5:31Speaker 4: won't mention it. And one of them is here today.
- 5:34Speaker 4: But they're shadier than me.
- 5:35Speaker 1: So if.
- 5:39Speaker 4: You know, their mama is me, their father is who
- 5:41Speaker 4: he is, they are some shady kids. So if I
- 5:44Speaker 4: come home and tell them what's going on, they you know,
- 5:46Speaker 4: they get.
- 5:46Speaker 3: A kick out of it.
- 5:47Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so they there are times when they're like, ma,
- 5:51Speaker 4: you can't say that, But then there are times where
- 5:54Speaker 4: they're like, good, I'm glad you checked her.
- 5:56Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.
- 5:57Speaker 2: And how do you deal with the blogs right, because
- 5:59Speaker 2: they attack everything that you do? Yes, the way you
- 6:01Speaker 2: decorate your house, the way you dress good, She guccied out.
- 6:04Speaker 2: I don't see the problem like I.
- 6:05Speaker 1: See her all the time talk about promote me.
- 6:09Speaker 2: When people take thrives that you can talk about you
- 6:11Speaker 2: when you know it's bys right.
- 6:13Speaker 4: I find it funny because that means if you're talking
- 6:17Speaker 4: about the way that I dressed on my house whatever,
- 6:18Speaker 4: that means you have nothing else right and you're just
- 6:21Speaker 4: not now making up something.
- 6:22Speaker 3: And yeah, y'all keep talking about me.
- 6:24Speaker 4: So it's like I don't even have to get out
- 6:25Speaker 4: of bed in the morning, like, because y'all are talking
- 6:28Speaker 4: about me, so I actually appreciate it.
- 6:30Speaker 1: I like the haters.
- 6:31Speaker 3: Yeah, they're my friends.
- 6:32Speaker 1: Now.
- 6:32Speaker 4: You just did your your first twenty one Questions live
- 6:35Speaker 4: show in Chicago.
- 6:36Speaker 3: Yes, how do you know?
- 6:37Speaker 1: Well, what I know?
- 6:39Speaker 3: I know anything? Are there going to be other cities? Yes,
- 6:45Speaker 3: so I'm planning that right now. Thank you so much
- 6:47Speaker 3: for asking.
- 6:48Speaker 4: I just that was something that I did on my own.
- 6:51Speaker 4: So we've reasonably Shady has done live shows, yes, but
- 6:54Speaker 4: it's been me and Robin. So it was my first,
- 6:57Speaker 4: you know, Beyonce by herself. It was my first breakout
- 7:00Speaker 4: by myself. I was terrified and I did it and
- 7:05Speaker 4: I felt like I killed it, Like I felt like
- 7:08Speaker 4: I can do this. I felt comfortable, which was personally
- 7:12Speaker 4: I needed that. So yes, I'm now planning the whole tour.
- 7:17Speaker 4: So we're doing West Coast first and then we're gonna
- 7:20Speaker 4: come through Charlotte, do a little Houston, Dallas, and then
- 7:22Speaker 4: come back to New York Atlanta. Yes, so February. So
- 7:27Speaker 4: why were you nervous? What made you nervous?
- 7:30Speaker 3: Because I have a tendency to Okay.
- 7:35Speaker 4: To know me is to know that I'm very quiet
- 7:39Speaker 4: and to myself and I like to be home in
- 7:41Speaker 4: my my business.
- 7:43Speaker 3: What yes, yes, so, And I have.
- 7:51Speaker 4: A tendency to kind of say things that's really on
- 7:53Speaker 4: my mind and it could be a bit much. And
- 7:56Speaker 4: Robin always kind of like checks me in that and
- 7:58Speaker 4: she's just kind of like whoa, Like that was team
- 8:00Speaker 4: too much, like calm down. So I didn't have that person,
- 8:03Speaker 4: and just doing it by myself made me feel like
- 8:06Speaker 4: a I'm gonna mess up, and you know that's a
- 8:11Speaker 4: scary thing, like and if you don't have anybody like
- 8:13Speaker 4: to quote catch you.
- 8:14Speaker 3: So I did it well, it went well.
- 8:17Speaker 4: I was happy, and now I vis because you're adding
- 8:20Speaker 4: cities and I think that's good.
- 8:21Speaker 3: So congratulations own.
- 8:24Speaker 2: Yes, yeah.
- 8:25Speaker 1: How did you feel to have the house to yourself?
- 8:27Speaker 3: Oh my god?
- 8:28Speaker 1: Because you an empty enough?
- 8:29Speaker 3: Yes, okay, so let's talk about it because you're not there.
- 8:33Speaker 2: I'm nowhere.
- 8:34Speaker 3: You are nowhere near either of you, Okay, so let's
- 8:38Speaker 3: talk about it.
- 8:39Speaker 4: At first, I was like super sad because I dropped
- 8:42Speaker 4: off three kids in three cities in seventy two hours.
- 8:44Speaker 4: So it was like a thing and minds you all
- 8:46Speaker 4: my kids go to HBCU shout.
- 8:48Speaker 3: Out to the HBCU going to Hampton Hampton. No, no, no, no.
- 8:52Speaker 4: Grace is going to fam fam the ones in the
- 8:54Speaker 4: ones that Spelman And she's at a doors at Yes,
- 8:59Speaker 4: she's a freshman. She just finished all of her this
- 9:01Speaker 4: is her first semester. She's rocking.
- 9:04Speaker 3: What a three point nine four points? Don't get it twisted.
- 9:12Speaker 3: Don't get it twisted. That's next year's conversation.
- 9:15Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just I'm.
- 9:18Speaker 3: Okay.
- 9:20Speaker 4: So when I got home, I was super sad, like
- 9:25Speaker 4: I was just like, what am I going to do?
- 9:26Speaker 4: And then the next day I woke up and I
- 9:28Speaker 4: was like, I'm walking around the house naked.
- 9:31Speaker 3: I love that.
- 9:32Speaker 4: It's so freeing. I get up when I want to.
- 9:35Speaker 4: I don't have to go to the grocery store. I
- 9:37Speaker 4: don't have to feed anybody.
- 9:38Speaker 2: This is like.
- 9:41Speaker 3: And all I can, all I have to do is
- 9:43Speaker 3: just think about me.
- 9:45Speaker 4: And that's a great feeling to just think about yourself
- 9:47Speaker 4: after you've been thinking about and planning around somebody else's
- 9:51Speaker 4: life for a damn near twenty years.
- 9:53Speaker 3: Like it's a nice feeling.
- 9:55Speaker 4: Where you ever, I don't know how to say, have
- 9:58Speaker 4: you how did you feel about them?
- 10:00Speaker 1: Splitting up, like.
- 10:03Speaker 3: To Hampton and Angel.
- 10:05Speaker 4: So they both applied to both colleges and they both
- 10:09Speaker 4: got in to Hampton and Spellman. So I was thinking
- 10:11Speaker 4: they were just gonna make the decisions stay together. However,
- 10:16Speaker 4: Angels a better fit for Spellman. A door is a
- 10:19Speaker 4: better fit for Hampton.
- 10:21Speaker 3: A door at.
- 10:21Speaker 4: Spelman would kill her because it's just not a good
- 10:25Speaker 4: fit for her. It's they're they're very quiet, they're very studious.
- 10:28Speaker 4: They party like once a week. You know, she need
- 10:30Speaker 4: a party like three times a week, so she need
- 10:32Speaker 4: to get it in.
- 10:33Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 10:35Speaker 4: So I was concerned, but I knew that if they
- 10:38Speaker 4: were were going to split up, they would thrive, and
- 10:40Speaker 4: they are.
- 10:41Speaker 3: They're thriving.
- 10:42Speaker 5: How did that even feel having all three of your
- 10:44Speaker 5: kids go to college in h I got four daughters,
- 10:47Speaker 5: a whole ball of them go to college.
- 10:48Speaker 1: But they have all three, Yeah, ended up going to college.
- 10:52Speaker 3: I didn't realize that.
- 10:53Speaker 4: It was like, like I did a great job until
- 10:56Speaker 4: people started telling me, they're like, just so this is
- 10:58Speaker 4: a flex, Like you got all three of your girls
- 11:00Speaker 4: in college, a black college.
- 11:02Speaker 3: I'm super proud of them.
- 11:05Speaker 4: I you know, when you're in it, you don't realize
- 11:09Speaker 4: you're what you're doing. And when I was in it,
- 11:11Speaker 4: I didn't realize, like, yeah, I'm making my life all
- 11:14Speaker 4: about them. I'm making sure that they're doing all the
- 11:17Speaker 4: extracurricular stuff and that they're expanding their horizons.
- 11:21Speaker 3: So I felt like this is what I'm supposed to
- 11:25Speaker 3: be doing.
- 11:25Speaker 4: But now that I see the result of it, I'm like, damn,
- 11:28Speaker 4: I did that thing, and I'm just proud of them
- 11:31Speaker 4: because they are. You know, you want your kids to
- 11:36Speaker 4: live their best life, but they really are, so it's
- 11:39Speaker 4: nice to see.
- 11:39Speaker 1: And you didn't try to influence all of them to
- 11:41Speaker 1: go to Hampden.
- 11:41Speaker 3: I didn't, did I M I mean I wanted listen.
- 11:49Speaker 4: Their dad went to more House, so he wanted one
- 11:51Speaker 4: on them as Spelman, I wanted one of them at Hampton,
- 11:56Speaker 4: and it worked out.
- 11:57Speaker 2: I was gonna ask, when you know co parenting, how
- 12:00Speaker 2: did y'all get to the place where y'all can co
- 12:01Speaker 2: parent that way? Because y'all went through a divorce and
- 12:03Speaker 2: I'm sure it wasn't a nice divorce.
- 12:04Speaker 1: No, how did y'all get to.
- 12:05Speaker 2: A point where y're Of course, of course, so when
- 12:08Speaker 2: y'all got to a place where it was where y'all
- 12:09Speaker 2: both could really co parent and take all the emotions
- 12:12Speaker 2: out of it. How did y'all get there?
- 12:14Speaker 3: When did that have I'm gonna be honest, it was
- 12:16Speaker 3: it was a lot of me.
- 12:19Speaker 2: That was the problem.
- 12:20Speaker 4: No, No, it was a lot of I decided when
- 12:23Speaker 4: they because they we got divorced. They were little, they
- 12:25Speaker 4: were like two and three, and I decided. I got
- 12:28Speaker 4: my attorney told me, you got a long road with
- 12:31Speaker 4: this guy. So if you don't like him, if you
- 12:36Speaker 4: think he's a fool, you got to put that in
- 12:38Speaker 4: the back burner because it's about your kids.
- 12:41Speaker 3: So I had to just let it go.
- 12:43Speaker 4: Did he throughout the course of their life pissed me
- 12:45Speaker 4: off every other day?
- 12:46Speaker 3: Yes, But I had to let it go.
- 12:48Speaker 4: And I didn't want them to feel like because we're
- 12:50Speaker 4: getting a divorce, they didn't didn't have a family unit.
- 12:54Speaker 4: So I would invite him to everything. We're going on vacation,
- 12:58Speaker 4: he can come, we're doing dinners, he can come. And
- 13:01Speaker 4: as long as he didn't, you know, clearly pissed me off,
- 13:05Speaker 4: then we can continue to do it. So yeah, I
- 13:08Speaker 4: mean it's tough, but you got to just put your
- 13:10Speaker 4: kids first.
- 13:11Speaker 2: When you went on vacation or you invited him. Was
- 13:13Speaker 2: he able to bring his new girl or were you?
- 13:15Speaker 3: Now, I mean he could have, he just never did.
- 13:19Speaker 4: Yeah, and I in my vacations, I kept it about the.
- 13:22Speaker 3: Kids, okay, because I one was going to ask you
- 13:24Speaker 3: what would have happened to him? But never mind because
- 13:29Speaker 3: change it.
- 13:29Speaker 4: I mean we had we didn't stay in the same room,
- 13:32Speaker 4: so he might have had flown somebody out and I
- 13:34Speaker 4: never saw her. But he kept it respectable in front
- 13:38Speaker 4: of the kids, for sure, which I appreciate.
- 13:41Speaker 3: I appreciate that. But no, it's not easy.
- 13:43Speaker 4: And to Jamal's credit, because I had them the majority
- 13:47Speaker 4: of the time, he let me do my thing with
- 13:51Speaker 4: the girls. He wasn't like a helicopter parent and like
- 13:54Speaker 4: trying to question how I was parenting them. So that
- 13:59Speaker 4: was I appreciate that, let me do my thing. And
- 14:01Speaker 4: with you being an open nester, now yes, dating because
- 14:05Speaker 4: getting back to your naked knowledge, I'm sorry, I haven't
- 14:22Speaker 4: even heard the term open nest Jesus, what empty?
- 14:27Speaker 3: I like, open, open, open, open again.
- 14:33Speaker 4: So they facetimey all the time and they see I'm naked,
- 14:35Speaker 4: and they're like, please put some clothes on. So the
- 14:39Speaker 4: whole walking around naked is a thing. It's a good
- 14:41Speaker 4: thing because that like makes you feel sexy.
- 14:44Speaker 2: Yes, so yes, the landscape has come more than once
- 14:47Speaker 2: a week and show.
- 14:50Speaker 1: Three times a week.
- 14:52Speaker 4: I don't stand in front the window empty, right, So
- 14:56Speaker 4: it's it's a good feeling.
- 14:57Speaker 3: And yes, I have been dating.
- 15:00Speaker 4: Your question because I sing on the show you did
- 15:01Speaker 4: speed dating with Ash who was now divorced.
- 15:04Speaker 3: But yes, how was there? Are you still seeing the
- 15:06Speaker 3: guy from the speed data?
- 15:08Speaker 4: Yeah he's around, Yeah, there's several. You got a roster, Yes,
- 15:13Speaker 4: it's about that. It's because I have the time now.
- 15:17Speaker 3: Yes, So if you had time for a roster, you'd
- 15:19Speaker 3: have a roster, that's right. Yeah, and if you weren't
- 15:22Speaker 3: in committed relationships people, which all of you are in.
- 15:24Speaker 4: Yes, yes, okay, because I used to have a roster
- 15:27Speaker 4: girl up and down the streets, Chris, Chris, I just
- 15:35Speaker 4: settled down.
- 15:36Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I feel like it's my time.
- 15:38Speaker 4: I feel like I'm not going to settle into something
- 15:40Speaker 4: unless it's really, really really right.
- 15:42Speaker 3: Yeah, and I earned that.
- 15:45Speaker 2: Yeah, do you want to get married again?
- 15:47Speaker 4: So I have said for like the longest time, absolutely,
- 15:51Speaker 4: not like for what like what does that bring to me,
- 15:55Speaker 4: but I might.
- 15:56Speaker 3: I'm open.
- 15:57Speaker 2: What changed your mind?
- 15:58Speaker 1: What's his name?
- 16:00Speaker 3: Mind? Your business?
- 16:04Speaker 4: I'm open because I do feel, like, you know, my
- 16:08Speaker 4: kids have never seen like a straight up family unit,
- 16:12Speaker 4: and they don't really understand the concept of what that means.
- 16:16Speaker 3: So if I'm able to give.
- 16:18Speaker 4: That to them, and if the guy is I'm asane,
- 16:21Speaker 4: then I will.
- 16:23Speaker 3: And is that how? And there will be major prenups
- 16:26Speaker 3: trusts all that handled.
- 16:29Speaker 4: I was just gonna ask you about how you're moving
- 16:33Speaker 4: forward with, Like how do you date now? Because your
- 16:36Speaker 4: last marriage infidelity.
- 16:38Speaker 3: Played a big part in it.
- 16:39Speaker 4: So how are you with trusting who you're even dating
- 16:43Speaker 4: even if it's not exclusive?
- 16:44Speaker 3: Like are you scared?
- 16:46Speaker 4: Like, no, not scared at all. I mean, I think
- 16:49Speaker 4: all of us have trust issues just by nature, we
- 16:54Speaker 4: black people, Like who are we trusting? But at some
- 16:58Speaker 4: point in time you gotta let go. And I I'm
- 17:02Speaker 4: okay with that. I'm okay with being with a man
- 17:05Speaker 4: and I can finally just like let it go. Yeah,
- 17:07Speaker 4: And I'm not the girl to like, I don't know
- 17:09Speaker 4: about you, Jess, but I don't like look through people's
- 17:12Speaker 4: phones and I'm not I'm not like trying to find
- 17:17Speaker 4: I'm not trying to be FBI, I'm not trying to
- 17:19Speaker 4: find out what you're doing.
- 17:21Speaker 3: I actually just don't care.
- 17:23Speaker 4: So if you're out here doing something, I'm the easiest
- 17:26Speaker 4: girl to cheat on, because like I just I won't.
- 17:28Speaker 1: I won't.
- 17:28Speaker 4: I'll be the last to though. Yeah, So once you
- 17:31Speaker 4: break the trust, it's a problem.
- 17:33Speaker 3: Kids with your dating with. So they hate everybody.
- 17:38Speaker 2: I'm sure do they nobody good enough for moms.
- 17:43Speaker 4: But they feel like I just run through them. I mean,
- 17:47Speaker 4: not like that was terrible to let me clean that up, Okay,
- 17:57Speaker 4: do I run through Okay? So they just feel like
- 18:00Speaker 4: I don't take anybody seriously and I don't allow men
- 18:03Speaker 4: to make.
- 18:04Speaker 3: Mistakes that I'm just like onto the next.
- 18:07Speaker 4: So they don't really even get invested unless they really
- 18:10Speaker 4: see I'm invested.
- 18:11Speaker 1: Yeah, how they've been doing the show without Robin.
- 18:14Speaker 3: It was tough. It was tough, you know, Robin. Y'all
- 18:17Speaker 3: know she's notoriously late.
- 18:18Speaker 4: I was always thinking she was going to come into
- 18:21Speaker 4: the scene just late per usual. She was always kind
- 18:24Speaker 4: of like the voice of reason where people are going
- 18:26Speaker 4: left and screaming at each other. She was always looking
- 18:28Speaker 4: at like the bigger picture and we didn't have that.
- 18:33Speaker 3: So, yeah, I missed. I missed, definitely miss her.
- 18:35Speaker 4: Yeah, but she's just opened up a medspa in Colombia.
- 18:41Speaker 4: You know, the target in Columbia. Yeah, in that strip mall.
- 18:44Speaker 4: I hate that, I said the target and Columbia you
- 18:46Speaker 4: knew exactly.
- 18:47Speaker 3: Yeah, many targets in Colombia.
- 18:49Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so it's in that in that mall.
- 18:53Speaker 3: Congratulations, Yeah, definitely. It's called Glow thirty.
- 18:56Speaker 4: Yeah. The next time you're in town and it's like
- 18:58Speaker 4: a subscription type of medspot.
- 18:59Speaker 3: She's she's doing great.
- 19:01Speaker 5: Did you ever think about walking because she said she
- 19:03Speaker 5: got fired? Did you ever think about walking when she
- 19:05Speaker 5: got fight?
- 19:06Speaker 3: I was supposed to quit my job because you got fired.
- 19:08Speaker 3: That's right, I know, that's right. I was supposed to
- 19:12Speaker 3: fumble my bag.
- 19:14Speaker 4: Doubt.
- 19:14Speaker 1: Did y'all have a combo about it?
- 19:15Speaker 3: I'm sure, of course.
- 19:17Speaker 4: Like after she got the call, she immediately called me,
- 19:20Speaker 4: but she kind of felt it coming, you know. Unfortunately,
- 19:25Speaker 4: she's in a situation in which she's with her her
- 19:28Speaker 4: guy Wan, but for whatever reason, people don't like that relationship,
- 19:33Speaker 4: and so year after year she would have to defend it,
- 19:34Speaker 4: and it was kind of like everybody was tired of this,
- 19:38Speaker 4: but you know you shouldn't. You shouldn't have to defend
- 19:41Speaker 4: the person that you have been married to, that you
- 19:44Speaker 4: love constantly, like let it be.
- 19:47Speaker 3: So she's she's not.
- 19:48Speaker 4: She's stressed free. Right now, I'm the one stressed out
- 19:50Speaker 4: because I'm still on the show. But she's like stress
- 19:52Speaker 4: free and living her best life?
- 19:54Speaker 2: Are you bringing those the people that you're dating on
- 19:55Speaker 2: the show?
- 19:56Speaker 4: And no, what what are you talkingous? Now?
- 20:00Speaker 1: Don't make the whole faith.
- 20:02Speaker 4: I mean, he's gotta be. So I did the speed dating,
- 20:04Speaker 4: so let me talk about the speed data.
- 20:06Speaker 3: So he we were.
- 20:07Speaker 4: Going out a couple of times, but then you know,
- 20:09Speaker 4: he really liked me, just like a little too much.
- 20:12Speaker 4: You know, he was like telling me all the time,
- 20:14Speaker 4: and that's kind of like the kiss of death.
- 20:16Speaker 2: You don't like affection.
- 20:17Speaker 1: I don't like infection affection affection. We don't affection. Of course,
- 20:24Speaker 1: you don't like infections affection.
- 20:26Speaker 4: I do, But it's it's a way that he did
- 20:28Speaker 4: too much, too quick, And it's like you just tell
- 20:31Speaker 4: me I'm great once.
- 20:32Speaker 3: Not like all day every day and keep praising yes,
- 20:35Speaker 3: yes that.
- 20:36Speaker 2: Is so.
- 20:38Speaker 1: What if I really feel that way.
- 20:40Speaker 5: What if I'm looking at you and I'm like, damn
- 20:41Speaker 5: your god, bless me, oh my god.
- 20:46Speaker 4: I mean, because then it's the challenge is over for me.
- 20:50Speaker 4: Then you know I got him.
- 20:53Speaker 3: Yeah, I to look forward to. Now what else?
- 20:56Speaker 4: Yeah, so or tell me in other ways, make it
- 21:00Speaker 4: be a gift, make it you know, don't tell me
- 21:02Speaker 4: what your words tell me with action.
- 21:03Speaker 3: Right, So I did something else in my life I did.
- 21:08Speaker 4: I can't say I did do a dating show, right,
- 21:12Speaker 4: So I told him about the show before I left,
- 21:14Speaker 4: and that kind of like threw him off and he
- 21:17Speaker 4: couldn't understand it, so he wouldn't thought.
- 21:19Speaker 2: He was the one and you went, you go ahead
- 21:20Speaker 2: and go on to dating.
- 21:20Speaker 4: Yeah, but I said, I I already got this bag
- 21:22Speaker 4: before I met you, so.
- 21:24Speaker 2: You should have understood.
- 21:26Speaker 3: And he did.
- 21:27Speaker 4: But he went away for like three months and then
- 21:29Speaker 4: when all of a sudden, he just like reappeared.
- 21:31Speaker 2: He went away for three months jail or no, went away.
- 21:34Speaker 4: Like out of my line talking. Yeah, way, I don't
- 21:39Speaker 4: mess with those guys anymore.
- 21:41Speaker 3: That's in my past.
- 21:43Speaker 4: So now he's back full throttle. He you know, he
- 21:47Speaker 4: wants to do trips and he wants to do all
- 21:49Speaker 4: the things because now he's putting his his full energy
- 21:52Speaker 4: and attention in it the way that I want to
- 21:54Speaker 4: receive it. That motivated him, That motivated him, So every
- 21:57Speaker 4: now and again, you just got to like let him.
- 22:00Speaker 5: So when you tell him that, when you say, look, man,
- 22:02Speaker 5: you don't got to tell me I'm great all the time,
- 22:03Speaker 5: how does he react to that?
- 22:05Speaker 1: Well?
- 22:05Speaker 4: Just so, I mean, it's just I just want to
- 22:07Speaker 4: express myself. I just want to let you know. And
- 22:09Speaker 4: I mean I haven't, like you know, I haven't.
- 22:11Speaker 2: I don't.
- 22:12Speaker 3: I don't really meet women like you all the time.
- 22:13Speaker 4: And it's just yeah, I know player, Like it's just like, wow,
- 22:18Speaker 4: you understand.
- 22:20Speaker 1: I understand.
- 22:22Speaker 2: Now you're dating somebody. You want to tell us she beautiful,
- 22:24Speaker 2: but you can only tell her once a year.
- 22:27Speaker 5: You know, people always I heard what she said. You said,
- 22:29Speaker 5: he should also show you. You got to tell me,
- 22:32Speaker 5: show me what your actions. Yes, I can understand that.
- 22:35Speaker 3: Yes. And my kids mad him and they was throwing
- 22:37Speaker 3: shade at him.
- 22:38Speaker 4: So it's just like, yeah, like I said, I need
- 22:40Speaker 4: three months.
- 22:40Speaker 2: So you can't do anybody that's quote unquote average or
- 22:44Speaker 2: broke you because you're talking trips. You took on buy
- 22:46Speaker 2: me expensive gifts.
- 22:47Speaker 4: Daughter is like, nope, okay, thank you putting words in
- 22:51Speaker 4: my mouth.
- 22:52Speaker 3: All right, you don't have to.
- 22:54Speaker 4: I'm not the Gucci Louis product girl, Like, you don't
- 22:56Speaker 4: have to. Yes on right now, how I bought this
- 22:59Speaker 4: for myself?
- 23:00Speaker 3: Okay, right, I don't.
- 23:01Speaker 4: I don't need that, but you can show me little flowers.
- 23:05Speaker 4: It doesn't have to be it's okay. So to answer
- 23:08Speaker 4: your question, my daddy a man that's broke, Now, that's
- 23:12Speaker 4: that's like, why would I do that?
- 23:15Speaker 1: That was because you're trying to get a politically correct Anthony're.
- 23:18Speaker 4: Like, look, I'm not, and Jess, you can appreciate this.
- 23:23Speaker 4: You've worked hard for where you are stability.
- 23:26Speaker 3: And financialist, right as have I. Why you don't need
- 23:30Speaker 3: to take care of a man?
- 23:31Speaker 2: No?
- 23:31Speaker 4: No, so it's no. And I don't know who you're with. Yeah,
- 23:35Speaker 4: it's I'm not with somebody I got to take care
- 23:37Speaker 4: thank you. Now. I was in a relationship like that,
- 23:40Speaker 4: a couple of relationships like that, so I definitely know
- 23:42Speaker 4: what you mean. No, I don't want to date nobody broke,
- 23:45Speaker 4: but and I know that because I've dated broke people.
- 23:48Speaker 6: So that's why I know that she probably never did.
- 23:51Speaker 4: I've dated broke men and been up you know what
- 23:54Speaker 4: I mean, and try to help and not no.
- 23:57Speaker 1: No, if he's a great man, everything, you just don't
- 24:00Speaker 1: have the finance.
- 24:01Speaker 4: So so that can only go so far, and I'm
- 24:04Speaker 4: fine with that, but it can only go like in
- 24:06Speaker 4: the bedroom, and then like where are we going to dinner? No,
- 24:09Speaker 4: you can't pay. Are we going on the trip? No,
- 24:11Speaker 4: I can't afford my tickets, you can't afford yours.
- 24:13Speaker 1: And of course they love you.
- 24:14Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's like, where what are we doing here? Yeah?
- 24:18Speaker 1: I got the show with love Hotel right, hotel?
- 24:21Speaker 2: Yes. Now I wanted to ask about the I know
- 24:23Speaker 2: you're still in a lawsuit with Eminem? Did that ever
- 24:25Speaker 2: finish that? Whatever happened with that? Is it over yet?
- 24:28Speaker 4: Y'all could probably appreciate this, y'all probably no more than me. Okay,
- 24:31Speaker 4: So y'all know a guy named Paul Rosenberg managing we
- 24:34Speaker 4: deposed him, and from that, okay, I can't say much.
- 24:39Speaker 3: From that, I think it's almost over. It's almost over.
- 24:43Speaker 4: So the our position was Eminem deposed. Eminem's team had
- 24:47Speaker 4: me and Robin deposed, So all is fair in love
- 24:50Speaker 4: and war. We're going to depose eminem. So when our
- 24:53Speaker 4: side said, okay, we need to post him, all hell
- 24:55Speaker 4: broke loose, it was like, oh, no, no, never, he
- 24:58Speaker 4: doesn't even know anything about Well if he doesn't know
- 25:01Speaker 4: anything about this, why are we here?
- 25:03Speaker 1: Because his name is all in the headline.
- 25:05Speaker 3: Right, But that's a lot. I mean you had to
- 25:07Speaker 3: have told him something.
- 25:09Speaker 4: So because of that, I think that there have decided, Okay,
- 25:13Speaker 4: these girls aren't going away, and like we got to
- 25:16Speaker 4: settle well, Patent and Trade is going to settle it
- 25:19Speaker 4: or figure it out because we're at the end of
- 25:21Speaker 4: the road. All depositions have been done, all disclosures, all all,
- 25:24Speaker 4: and yes, we've spent a lot of money.
- 25:26Speaker 2: Last how much do you pay your lawyer fees?
- 25:28Speaker 3: It's still ongoing, but a lot, a lot.
- 25:32Speaker 1: He didn't He don't own the word shady.
- 25:34Speaker 4: You don't own the word shady. And what they don't
- 25:39Speaker 4: and what we know is there have been other companies,
- 25:41Speaker 4: small companies, insignific not insignatany but small like upstarts, that
- 25:45Speaker 4: have had shady in their name, and they paid them all,
- 25:48Speaker 4: they paid them all to go away, just to make
- 25:50Speaker 4: it go away. We weren't going to do that or
- 25:52Speaker 4: unless y'all didn't offer something that could make us go away.
- 25:55Speaker 4: But no, we're too far in now, and no, it's no,
- 25:59Speaker 4: And I don't even get it, Like, why would you
- 26:01Speaker 4: be doing this to us because we, thank god we
- 26:04Speaker 4: had the money, but let's just say we didn't and
- 26:07Speaker 4: we're just two black women out here just trying to
- 26:09Speaker 4: make a dial out of fifteen cents.
- 26:10Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 26:10Speaker 5: Yeah, make sure you subscribe to the Reasonably Shady podcast
- 26:13Speaker 5: on the blacka Ieheart Radio podcast network, available everywhere you
- 26:16Speaker 5: listening to the podcasts.
- 26:16Speaker 3: There you go and we drop all my dates.
- 26:18Speaker 4: Yeah, world, quick, what is the real beef with Karen
- 26:22Speaker 4: and who you kring to me?
- 26:25Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 26:25Speaker 4: Because you know what one one minute, y'all throwing shade
- 26:28Speaker 4: and y'all supporting each other.
- 26:29Speaker 1: Is there a real beef?
- 26:30Speaker 6: Is what I should have said, beef any underlying issues.
- 26:34Speaker 4: To truth be told? I think Karen I obviously we
- 26:37Speaker 4: started to show together. Yeah, let's pray for Karen because
- 26:39Speaker 4: she's going to court next week. I think that in
- 26:44Speaker 4: Karen's mind, she wanted to be whatever she wanted to
- 26:49Speaker 4: be as far as the show was concerned, and she
- 26:52Speaker 4: had a lot of people in her ear and so
- 26:55Speaker 4: I think that that caused her to like come for
- 26:57Speaker 4: me and come for me. Yeah. But I've known Karen
- 26:59Speaker 4: since before the show started, like we were friends, so
- 27:01Speaker 4: I knew what she was doing sometimes on camera was
- 27:04Speaker 4: just some nonsense.
- 27:04Speaker 3: And I was gonna ride with you with this nonsense.
- 27:06Speaker 4: But I mean, we've been doing this for so long now,
- 27:08Speaker 4: Like at its core, we love each other. At its core,
- 27:11Speaker 4: we root for each other. But she just comes from
- 27:13Speaker 4: me because.
- 27:14Speaker 3: She gets bored, got it.
- 27:15Speaker 4: Yeah, And I'm okay with that. I'll play, I'll play.
- 27:18Speaker 3: With you you.
- 27:21Speaker 4: Okay, I just had to except for myself. I watched
- 27:23Speaker 4: the Yes, myself and Ashley is on the show. Yeah,
- 27:26Speaker 4: I've been doing a lot of business together. Yes, yes,
- 27:29Speaker 4: and and actually it's wild.
- 27:32Speaker 3: Yes, I don't like. How do y'all feel about public
- 27:36Speaker 3: displays of affection? Mm hmm.
- 27:38Speaker 1: That depends.
- 27:40Speaker 3: It depends on where we at.
- 27:44Speaker 4: Yeahs, Like, you know, if we're going somewhere, if it's
- 27:47Speaker 4: the date night and we're somewhere intimate, fine, But I don't.
- 27:50Speaker 3: Really like the hold hands.
- 27:52Speaker 4: I don't like every now and then.
- 28:02Speaker 6: So yeah, I don't know. I can have a little
- 28:04Speaker 6: small laps hands don't hold them.
- 28:06Speaker 3: Yes, you know, so, I don't know. It just it depends.
- 28:09Speaker 3: It just depends. I don't really like public affections.
- 28:13Speaker 1: Yes, I'm very affectionate in public.
- 28:15Speaker 4: Okay, so, but if so, I I like that, but
- 28:19Speaker 4: I've got to be like in a relationship or really
- 28:21Speaker 4: with this guy. So to meet all these guys and
- 28:23Speaker 4: all of a sudden like like they want to kiss
- 28:25Speaker 4: me on camera, like, it kind of freaks me out.
- 28:28Speaker 5: See that's whack because, like you said, you're not in
- 28:30Speaker 5: a relationship, and these guys might be doing that just
- 28:32Speaker 5: because you are yourself.
- 28:34Speaker 1: Let me get a look. They could be cloud chasing.
- 28:36Speaker 1: You don't know, you know what I mean.
- 28:37Speaker 4: Yes, so, but other ladies on the show, they was
- 28:40Speaker 4: cool with it. And so it's you'll see just all
- 28:44Speaker 4: over here being apprude and you'll see pimps up, hose down.
- 28:50Speaker 3: Okay, So what's.
- 28:53Speaker 5: Up with Mia Thornton. I heard you say that she's
- 28:55Speaker 5: she's dead to you? And it's two part questions. You
- 28:57Speaker 5: said she's dead to you, and they're hard when people
- 29:00Speaker 5: bring your children into the reality show.
- 29:02Speaker 4: Yeah, no, so the second part, Yes, it is disgusting
- 29:06Speaker 4: when you talk about children. They didn't sign up for this,
- 29:10Speaker 4: and children just off limits. That's like across the board.
- 29:12Speaker 4: Children are off limits. So if you want to come
- 29:15Speaker 4: for me, come for me, like you don't have to
- 29:18Speaker 4: bring my children into this, So that for me is
- 29:22Speaker 4: a point of no return. Like she and I used
- 29:24Speaker 4: to be friends off camera, but that's over. And I
- 29:27Speaker 4: feel like you do it when you're desperate. You do
- 29:30Speaker 4: stuff like that when you're.
- 29:31Speaker 1: Desperate, when you ain't got no storyline, when.
- 29:34Speaker 4: You desperately want to think that this is going to
- 29:36Speaker 4: elevate you. And it didn't really work out that well
- 29:40Speaker 4: for her. I mean, I don't nobody's buying into that. Yeah,
- 29:43Speaker 4: and she's got enough to worry about. She got a husband,
- 29:45Speaker 4: she got a little boyfriend, she's she don't know the
- 29:47Speaker 4: paternity of her child.
- 29:48Speaker 3: She I mean, don't go on.
- 29:50Speaker 2: Wow.
- 29:51Speaker 3: So yeah, she's dead to me. Still, Yes, she'll be alive.
- 29:58Speaker 1: Damn if she apologize.
- 30:01Speaker 4: So there was, So we're gonna let the show play out,
- 30:03Speaker 4: but there was. She was given ample opportunity to apologize,
- 30:06Speaker 4: but you know what she did. She doubled and tripled
- 30:08Speaker 4: down on it.
- 30:08Speaker 3: Yikes, I can't do that. And nobody plays when it
- 30:12Speaker 3: comes to their kids, playing.
- 30:13Speaker 2: About their kids nobody. Yeah.
- 30:15Speaker 4: So if you're thinking and you're gonna continue to do it,
- 30:17Speaker 4: that means you really feel that way about my kids.
- 30:20Speaker 3: And that's a never.
- 30:21Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 30:21Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. Well, don't thank you to the dead, No, she.
- 30:26Speaker 2: Won't to apologize to l Well, the Real Housewives of
- 30:29Speaker 2: potamic that's right, Potomac Sundays on Bravo. Of course, the
- 30:34Speaker 2: Reasonably Shady podcast on.
- 30:36Speaker 5: The Black Veck I Heeart radio podcast that we're dropped
- 30:38Speaker 5: every Monday, and.
- 30:39Speaker 2: Of course the new show Love Hotel. We appreciate you
- 30:42Speaker 2: for joining us.
- 30:42Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank y'all for having me. I always love
- 30:44Speaker 4: you guys. Y'all are upmates, sing Yes, y'all love Jess.
- 30:48Speaker 2: We love Jess.
- 30:49Speaker 3: I know hello.
- 30:54Speaker 1: She was on the show That Family.
- 30:56Speaker 6: I Love and she just asked the question, you're sitting
- 30:59Speaker 6: there like.
- 31:01Speaker 3: You said nothing.
- 31:03Speaker 4: I love yeah, and I will say, I re really
- 31:07Speaker 4: appreciate being on Black Effects.
- 31:09Speaker 1: Thank you. We appreciate having.
- 31:10Speaker 3: Yes, it's you know, we feel good about what we're doing.
- 31:12Speaker 5: Absolutely, we appreciate what you.
- 31:15Speaker 1: We feel a bit about what you're doing too.
- 31:17Speaker 3: Yes, I mean it's coming.
- 31:18Speaker 1: It's one of our biggest podcasts.
- 31:20Speaker 4: Oh really absolutely, okay, it's gonna be like five seasons.
- 31:23Speaker 3: We thought you would fight, it's like three seasons.
- 31:25Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, thank god.
- 31:26Speaker 3: Not that you're making right.
- 31:31Speaker 2: It's Brian at the Breakfast Club.
- 31:33Speaker 1: Good morning, wake that ass up in the morning. The
- 31:36Speaker 1: Breakfast Club