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Flash Back to Yung Bleu, Jason Wilson, Classic Ask Yee and more · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: The fool kid Time time, time to wake up Jack
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  Speaker 1: Fancile Charlott, I mean the Doctor to practice club bitches,
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  Speaker 1: your ass, wake up, wake up, Wake y'all as your
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  Speaker 1: time to get it off your chat, your man or blass.
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  Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this? Good morning comedy buddy, and oh man, what's
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  Speaker 1: up snack Man our local comedian? How you doing all right?
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  Speaker 1: All right? I got let me let me try, let
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  Speaker 1: me run two, Let me run two by you, okay,
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  Speaker 1: let me know what you all right? Two jokes and
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  Speaker 1: begin Okay. At my job, I had to spend twenty
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  Speaker 1: five minutes getting to work with Eloy the indoor robot. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: but I think there should be a twenty five minute
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  Speaker 1: video on how to work to snack manut up, thank you?
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  Speaker 1: Why he had two jokes, Envy, I didn't hit either
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  Speaker 1: one here, how do you do that? Okay, come on
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  Speaker 1: stat man, and he's gonna love this one. I decided
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  Speaker 1: to steal my new card and that's not the best part.
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  Speaker 1: My new car has a backup camera. So on my
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  Speaker 1: last date, while we were in the park, I decided
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  Speaker 1: to put the car in reverse, get out, and do
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  Speaker 1: my stand up routine behind it. Thank you all right, Emmy,
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  Speaker 1: that one was for you. Thank you. SNA send snack
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  Speaker 1: healing energy, sending his comedy career healing energy. He's trashed
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  Speaker 1: for real like bad bads, send them healing energy NV. Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Who's this? Oh? My name a Bert of Hey, good morning,
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm gonna hi guys. I've been doing
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  Speaker 1: them like I trying to take them. You made it ja?
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  Speaker 1: How old are you? Thirty three? Oh? Okay, well, I
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  Speaker 1: know right, it sound like I'm like fourteen. I know.
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  Speaker 1: I just love y'all. I just feel like y'all st
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  Speaker 1: like I'm trying to fresh rate it. So they got
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  Speaker 1: my babies going back to school, their sticks and pay
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  Speaker 1: like they can't get back to me. Yeah, it's scary
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  Speaker 1: when my kids, my kids went back. I mean, the
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  Speaker 1: kids are all wearing masks now and they're comfortable with
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  Speaker 1: the mask, which is which is pretty good. And my
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  Speaker 1: kids when they leave a house they got their mask on.
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  Speaker 1: They're so nervous, but it's one of the things you
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  Speaker 1: just gotta pray, tell them to wear their mask and
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  Speaker 1: wash their hands every chance they get. You ain't. Oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, I'm not. I love y'all, love you back. Hello?
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  Speaker 1: Who's this every one? Jason good b oh Man? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I just got a house felt be in ten years.
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  Speaker 1: We closed from the house, um earlier this year, only
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  Speaker 1: for her cheat on me a month later. Oh I'm sorry. Yeah, Um.
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  Speaker 1: We got two kids, two dogs. Um. Now the question
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  Speaker 1: is what do I do next? Oh man? And the
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  Speaker 1: house is in both of your names, correct, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And there's no working it out. I mean there is,
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  Speaker 1: because I truly do you love her, But it just
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  Speaker 1: seems like there's that tension now and and everything's just
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  Speaker 1: meeting to an argument and it's not saying yeah, sorry
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  Speaker 1: for you, bro. Yeah, you gotta just take your time
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  Speaker 1: with that one until you see what's gonna happen. But
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  Speaker 1: it is harder now that two guys have a house
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  Speaker 1: that Jill have like a pre nupper or anything. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: you're not married? Yeah? And she apologetic? Is she trying
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  Speaker 1: to work it out? Or is she just like effic
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  Speaker 1: she is? Um? But I mean, I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: it's me and my insecurity where you know, it seems
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  Speaker 1: like those fread flags year and yet there and now
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  Speaker 1: it's just it's it's hard because I happened to hear
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  Speaker 1: one um and we got through, we got passed, and
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  Speaker 1: then along your ten and it happened to get Oh,
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  Speaker 1: it sounds like she's a habitual cheater. Is there a
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  Speaker 1: way that you can buy her out of her part
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  Speaker 1: that she put down for the house? I'm so all
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  Speaker 1: about it, But I mean it's it's the kids. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: we got two kids, and then I would essentially lose
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  Speaker 1: everything in the house for kids. I worked a lot.
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  Speaker 1: She did she take the kids? Yeah? All right, Well
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, bro. Yeah, just keep right. Yeah, that's all.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't got no choice, brother. The world keeps moving,
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  Speaker 1: and it's okay to feel however you feel. I know
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  Speaker 1: it's not an easy thing to deal with, all right,
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  Speaker 1: all right? Brother? Hello, who's this? Hey? This is a
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  Speaker 1: trailer from Columbus High. Good morning, man, what's up? Broke
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  Speaker 1: it off your chest? Well, I'm calling this plander, y'all
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  Speaker 1: because a lot of else Flanders is what Angela e.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta quit being cheap and just pay for your leader.
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  Speaker 1: Every time you don't get good and talk about some stuff,
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  Speaker 1: your phone go off because you don't pay for your meter.
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  Speaker 1: For your meter. Well, I am paying for my meter.
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  Speaker 1: That's why the that's why the phone goes off, because
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  Speaker 1: it has certain times that you gotta pay for it.
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  Speaker 1: So as soon as it starts as either eight o'clock
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  Speaker 1: or nine o'clock, my phone goes off to remind me.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't forget. There's parking lots all around this place.
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  Speaker 1: You could park in a parking lot. It's actually really
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  Speaker 1: far and it's too early in the morning. There used
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  Speaker 1: to be a parking lot right across the street and
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  Speaker 1: it closed, so now the other ones at fire. It's
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  Speaker 1: kind of dark in the morning to walk here, So
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to park like three blocks away and
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  Speaker 1: then walk here in the dark. I understand. I understand.
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  Speaker 1: And Charlemagne, man, you gotta question. You gotta question the
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  Speaker 1: N words so much, and you gotta come to work
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  Speaker 1: on time. You were doing good for a while, but
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  Speaker 1: you gotta come to work on time. I feel you, brother,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying. I'm just doing my best, but get it
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  Speaker 1: off your chests. Eight five eight five one on five one.
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  Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. It's
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  Speaker 1: your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're
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  Speaker 1: man or blast. So you better have the same and
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  Speaker 1: we want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Hellow who's this? Hey, it was going on. My name
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  Speaker 1: is James. James. What I'm getting off your chest? Just
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  Speaker 1: found out my daughter is in mind biologically, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: going through a lot of emotions right now. How old
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  Speaker 1: she had a homeboy that happened to back in the day? Man,
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  Speaker 1: how old is she? Yeah, she'll be turning a couple
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  Speaker 1: of weeks. Well, I'm gonna tell you something. There's no
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  Speaker 1: getting out of her life now. I know that sounds crazy,
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  Speaker 1: but it's true. Like I had a homeboy that happened too.
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  Speaker 1: But once you have that emotional spiritual connection with a child,
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  Speaker 1: like you know you're not you're not you can't turn
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  Speaker 1: that off. Yeah, most definitely not. That's always my baby girl.
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  Speaker 1: What made what made you get tested? Well? I didn't
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  Speaker 1: have the resources before because on child support going back
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  Speaker 1: and forth, but my daughter's mom. But I got a
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  Speaker 1: new job, so I was able to scramp up the
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  Speaker 1: money and actually do this time. Well, I'm sending you
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  Speaker 1: healing energy, King, and just remember that's not that child's fault. Man.
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  Speaker 1: And you know you gotta look at it from on
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  Speaker 1: a different angle. You know, you're the person that God
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  Speaker 1: putting her life to raise them and be her father figure.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I name. I didn't even think about
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  Speaker 1: it like that. But you don't gotta pay child support
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  Speaker 1: no more. You can just raise and pay what you
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  Speaker 1: want to pay. Correct. I don't know, Nah, I think
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  Speaker 1: according to New York State, I got to them. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think you still have to pay. Yeah, but I
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  Speaker 1: think honestly, man ten years old, you've been with that
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  Speaker 1: young lady ten years, you probably want to you know,
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  Speaker 1: you might not want to pay the mother though, you
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  Speaker 1: might just want to take care of his daughter exactly.
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  Speaker 1: It's a weird law though, that even though you find
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  Speaker 1: out a child's not yours, you've been raising her as
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  Speaker 1: if she is yours, and then you still have to
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  Speaker 1: continue to pay child support. Yeah, what was her biological
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  Speaker 1: father king, no clue. See, that's that's my point. That's
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  Speaker 1: why I say, you know, God put you in that
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  Speaker 1: young lady's for a reason. Man, So yeah, agree, should
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  Speaker 1: that position down? He shouldn't have to pay y'all support though, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I shouldn't, not, not at all. I'm looking into lawyers
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  Speaker 1: now so I can try and tempare in this situation.
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  Speaker 1: I'll always be there for her, but I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to supbout her mother. Absolutely agree with you too, brother,
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  Speaker 1: I get it all right, man, have a good one, man,
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  Speaker 1: God bless your brother. All right. Hello, who's this? Hello?
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  Speaker 1: I just want to say, he said, blood, Good morning everybody,
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  Speaker 1: john Stone? What was happening? Brother? What's up? Charlotte made
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  Speaker 1: a guard? What's up? Angela? You don't never speak? But
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  Speaker 1: what's up? Speak? Hey? I just want to shout out
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  Speaker 1: my four real quick. He just came out with a
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  Speaker 1: new project. His name is patient Steve on the score,
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  Speaker 1: he's patient obviously follow him on by h A, I
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  Speaker 1: C I A M Steve spe v E underscore and
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  Speaker 1: uh what I want to sell y'all? The story? So
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  Speaker 1: coming off the train and woof Ridge and I come
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  Speaker 1: off the train and I see a black dude on
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  Speaker 1: the platform, I say, what's up? I give him the
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  Speaker 1: head nod, like when black people see each other, we
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  Speaker 1: give each other at the head nods. Right, Harry, you
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  Speaker 1: gave me the head nod and start smiling at me, crazy,
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  Speaker 1: what's my dad? No? But it was a crazy smile.
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  Speaker 1: It was like like, hey, like I want hollyge smile. Listen,
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  Speaker 1: Shan Starting, don't get down that way? Man, are you
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  Speaker 1: Sean Stone? Why can't you just take it as a
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  Speaker 1: COMPI why are you furrntee yourself as Shan Stone? Or that?
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  Speaker 1: I listen. But the matter of fact is I went
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  Speaker 1: down to when I look behind me, this dude it's
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  Speaker 1: following me. So I said, hey, why are you following me? Man?
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  Speaker 1: He was like no and then ran back up stairs
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  Speaker 1: and how long the traine crazy? I mean, you shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: be winking that. Brothers on the train for the platform, y,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't win. I say, what's up? I head now,
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  Speaker 1: head nod. That's not a wink, Brokat's just just be fladdered. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: just be flattered. It ain't was cute, all right, Get
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  Speaker 1: into a few chances eight hundred five A five one
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  Speaker 1: on five one if you need to be here and
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  Speaker 1: something now with the Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast
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  Speaker 1: Club on. Everybody is DJ MG and Ngelu yee Charlomagne,
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  Speaker 1: Ni guy. We all to Breakfast Club. We got a
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  Speaker 1: special guest in the building. Yes, sir, Yo know Yolo.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why I thought you was heavy set, man,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't. I did hit. I saw pictures of you
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  Speaker 1: and video back in the I don't know why I
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  Speaker 1: thought you was heavy. Said you lean down to some
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  Speaker 1: of you just never that big. No. I We're good
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  Speaker 1: to meet you. Yeah, and congratulations, man, you've been doing
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  Speaker 1: so many great things. So the pandemic has been good
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  Speaker 1: for you though, right like man, yeah, yeah, like it's
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  Speaker 1: been great for me. I ain't. I can't playing really,
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling me about this the other day. Sometimes people
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  Speaker 1: be feeling bad that like things went well for them. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I can't realize. You know, I can't really celebrate something
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  Speaker 1: like that. But you know, you know, it's a blessing.
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  Speaker 1: It's a blessing for sure, to keep getting money through
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  Speaker 1: everything going on, what you're suffering from, like survivor's survivor's
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  Speaker 1: remorse kind of, I mean not really, it's just that,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I just know what ill went on, you know,
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  Speaker 1: throughout throughout that time. It's just like it was really
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  Speaker 1: about like my financial game for real, Like too many
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  Speaker 1: people hurting too meet. I get it. I get it
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  Speaker 1: for people who don't know. Let's let's let's break down
• 11:22
  Speaker 1: how Young Blue got into the industry. A lot of
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  Speaker 1: people heard you the first time when you when you're
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  Speaker 1: record with Drake, So how did you get in the industry?
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  Speaker 1: How did you hook up with Bootsey and and explain
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  Speaker 1: that whole story. I got into industry like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: just dropping mixtapes like I was underground for a long time,
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  Speaker 1: or I had this Investments Investments mixtape. I was just
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  Speaker 1: dropping doing shows like just throughout the software, like you know,
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  Speaker 1: everybody from the soft really start. I was like in
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  Speaker 1: the Mississippi North, in the Carolina Fiebe. Yeah, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like chilling circuit. And around the time
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  Speaker 1: I've dropped the Volume three, I had made Boots he
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  Speaker 1: had flew me out to his house, and uh, I
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  Speaker 1: really just took it from there for real. One of
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  Speaker 1: your mixtapes was like, yeah, this young man let me
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  Speaker 1: fly them out now? Really his uh, like I had
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  Speaker 1: hit up his brother. Uh I knew Booster gonna c
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  Speaker 1: d M. So I had hit up his brother smart. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I just sent him a song and he was like, man,
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  Speaker 1: got me on the phone with Booster and uh So
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  Speaker 1: it's basically like it brought to put it together. Really,
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  Speaker 1: you signed a boosty Yeah, yeah, I didn't know that.
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  Speaker 1: I found that out about a month ago. Yeah. We do.
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  Speaker 1: We we been as part of us. We do bets together.
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  Speaker 1: You gave him some money or something, right then you
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  Speaker 1: give him like a big stack. Yeah, I gave him
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  Speaker 1: some of them. I gave him playing that just the
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  Speaker 1: first time idea camera. Yeah, why did you do that?
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  Speaker 1: Like I mean, I mean just had of appreciation, but
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  Speaker 1: really because that was the first time I had a
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  Speaker 1: game him that much at one time. So I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if I just already eating off you anyway, You're
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  Speaker 1: already eating off you anyway. Yeah. Now, you've been doing
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  Speaker 1: music for a while, since you were young, So what
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  Speaker 1: were you doing financially, like to keep yourself afloat until
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  Speaker 1: things really popped off? Uh Man, To be honest, but
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  Speaker 1: like a lot of people don't know, I've really been
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  Speaker 1: rich since like twenty sixteen, Like you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: because I've just been doing shows so long, like I've
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  Speaker 1: been popping on the underground scene for so long that
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  Speaker 1: you know that I've been been had money like that,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like kind of way ahead, like you know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying, So I don't even remember, like what what was?
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  Speaker 1: Like what do you call rich when you say rich?
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  Speaker 1: I had already had made a million lots of shows
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  Speaker 1: like in twenty seventeen. Okay, you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: because I was just you know what I'm saying, just
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  Speaker 1: doing so many shows. I'm so glad you said shows
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  Speaker 1: because most artists be like I've been having money, I've
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  Speaker 1: been rich. I was big time such as Touch doing
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  Speaker 1: it knock it off. But you built your own house
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  Speaker 1: early on. And you know, most most artist and rappers
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  Speaker 1: you don't see that. You know, they go to jewelry route,
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  Speaker 1: the car route, the private jet route. And I went
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  Speaker 1: through that stage. I went through that stage. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like everybody gonna you're gonna once you blow up everything
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  Speaker 1: you saw when you was coming up, You're gonna try
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  Speaker 1: to go get that just because it's like I ain't
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  Speaker 1: never had I always wanted this. I'm gonna you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: go through that list stage where it's just like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go get all this stuff that I always
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  Speaker 1: wish I had. You know what I'm saying. But if
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  Speaker 1: you're smart, once you once you do it, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, you don't know when to stop. Some
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  Speaker 1: people don't know when to stop. They're just gonna keep
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  Speaker 1: doing to keep doing, keep doing it. And then you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Yeah, you opened the restaurant also, right,
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  Speaker 1: I did that like a couple of years ago. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and then I had opened it for like three months
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  Speaker 1: and then COVID hid and just missing mess it up
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  Speaker 1: for real and they really I really just did it
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  Speaker 1: to have something my city because he't really a lot
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  Speaker 1: of profit and it's like probably like list than ten
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  Speaker 1: percent profit and the rest of his life stealing man
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  Speaker 1: like it be. You're so right when you open the restaurant,
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  Speaker 1: you really got to keep your eyes on everything and
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  Speaker 1: you have to have an amazing manager because it is
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  Speaker 1: too easy for people to steal. Myself, is it back
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  Speaker 1: open or No? I had like hired like all my family,
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  Speaker 1: all my friends. It was you will make it. No,
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  Speaker 1: matter an't even you know, I tried to, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I had did the little Peppe thing
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  Speaker 1: and Burke I had got a hundred thousand back. I
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  Speaker 1: put it about the work man. Later I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I should have kept you pay back. You didn't have
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  Speaker 1: to because you gotta use it for your employees. I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to say, I don't want to see that
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  Speaker 1: much shot blue, like damn Blue, I ain't. I ain't
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  Speaker 1: paying it back yet. But I didn't have to though.
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  Speaker 1: It was like whatever. It was like, you didn't have
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  Speaker 1: too if it went to your business with your employee. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: my so mine actually went to my employees because it
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  Speaker 1: was your mother's best friend though who named the resta
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  Speaker 1: right after explain that relationship, Like, I'm really close with
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  Speaker 1: my friend Mom, like ever since we was like real little.
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  Speaker 1: I used to get put out of the house, like
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  Speaker 1: being bad in the streets and stuff. I used to
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  Speaker 1: go to the house, you know what I'm saying. They
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  Speaker 1: used to work for me open, so they just like
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  Speaker 1: they mom just like my people, like we just all
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  Speaker 1: like family. So you know, she always used to cook,
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: she us feed us when we were hunger, Like you
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I just felt he was
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: on the right. Like my mom donna cook. You know,
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: she don't really cook like that. So uh, it was
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: just why would she put you out the house? What
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: were you doing? I was just like when I was
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: like young, I was just like, you know what I'm saying,
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: just badges in the streets, real real badge. So I
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: just do crazy stuff, like you know, just some normal,
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: normal look crazy stuff. We have more with the autist
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: Young Blue. When we come back, don't move. It's to
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  Speaker 1: breakfast Club. Good morning, the breakfast club holding everybody is
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Scharlomagne, the guy we are the
• 16:32
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  Speaker 1: your girl want to go on a girl's tip of
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: her friends? Yeah, okay, are you the type of person
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: to be like, all right, I got you? Like you
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: and your girls go somewhere. I think that's what she
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: go on the girl's trip once every six months or something.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. My life is a ball chill.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: I got a week, I got a lady. You know
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: what I say. I got you know what I'm saying,
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: And everywhere everywhere I go, going to release parties. I'm
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: going to everywhere. I'm going just fine women around you
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, So you'll be fine. Black men
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: don't cheat. Yeah, And how long how long have you
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: been together? How you've been together? You've been together six years?
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: You got two kids? Two kids together? Huh yeah, we
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: got two kids. Does it feel good to have somebody
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  Speaker 1: that you know, been down with you since before all
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: that stuff? Yeah? Yeah, I definitely, I definitely feel good.
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  Speaker 1: Like I cherished that, like I really cherished, like you
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, the relationship because a lot of
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: a lot of the other stuff just fake. You know
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, It's really just just fake, Like these
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: people don't really care about you, like you you gonna
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: get locked up right now, like your girl gonna be
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: first one now with rich kids. You know what I'm saying.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: For the bill you are, you know what I'm saying.
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: A lot of the other girls ain't even they just
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: but like I said, it's just it's just be temptation.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: Like dudes, like I really don't feel like I really
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: go all the way back to the Bible, but like
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, do you tell about eight.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's human instinct, man instinct to just
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: be out of blue. Though we left this house already,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: we still Oh my god, I really ain't making it
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: worst because blue be white. No, I'm saying it's just
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: me and like me and instinct like its just mean,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: it's put into me and to be like if you
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: got I don't got the men things I'm gonna talk
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: about it. I used to have those instincts way way
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: way way way back when well he's a lot younger.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I feel like if you should had a lot to yourself,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: then I feel like you making it worse, like man
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: my girl and not already talked about all this man
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: my life to talk about y'all do three now? We don't.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: We don't, we don't. So you was mad atory for
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: doing your song a while ago? Yeah, why was you
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: madatory for that reason? Like you know, when we talked
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: about on that, he was like, they're green. I was like,
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: I don't get it because I come from the mixtape
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: game with rappers somebody's song on be singing to somebody's song,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: and that's what they did and it was on the
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: But you was mad about it. Why was you mad
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: about that At the time, I just felt like I
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: had I had saw him like a couple of times
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  Speaker 1: before that, and he never said nothing to me. So
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: I felt like in my head, I felt like he
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: didn't even know me. So when I heard the song,
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you just you just saw him. At least
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: you could have been like, you know what I'm saying.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: I met with the song, like I felt I took
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: it as disrespect, you know what I'm saying. It wasn't
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: that he remixed the song or that it was better
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: than well, you know what. He didn't even say. Yeah,
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: I just wanted. I just wanted. We were talking crazy
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: to each other through texts. We were in Miami. He
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: was like, man, I was like, man, pull up. You
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Yeah, like the fight, I'm like,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: pull up, you know what I'm saying, And he like
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: pull up. I'm like he was like, he was like
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: where you wait. I'm like, I'm sitting on my location.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, la la, So I'm waiting
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: for him. Pull up. He like, man, pull up, pull
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: up to my house. I know, bro. We both just
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: in a moment like don't want to bang down, you
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: know what? I'm saying, and so I pull up. We
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: dap it up, hit homeball with him, my homeball with me.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: We just go scrape to making music. You're like, man,
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: I feel he ain't even like he ain't really even
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: like trying to be like you were tripping for really like, man,
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: I feel man, he was like laughing about it for real,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: all that tough talk of a text. Maybe you read
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: it wrong, you know how it could be like pull
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: up or it could be like pull up. Yeah, we
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: were definite. We were definitely going back and forth. We
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: just started started off like that, and then I guess
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: I ain't really know what I'm gonna have a real
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: I just pulled up because I ain't want him, you
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, just like I was, you know
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, No a sucker. Yeah, Like it's the
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  Speaker 1: We are the breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us,
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: we're talking about Sawheedie. This conversation came from Saweetie. She
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: posted a video of her eating spaghetti and putting ranch
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: dressing a lot of ranch dressing on her spaghetti. Ranch
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: with spaghetti saw us taste very good, but you just
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: need to da have a ranch like her boyfriend said. Okay,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: she put way too much ranch dressing on that spaghetti directly.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: I've never putting it on directly. I have a little
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: side salad, have ranch dressing on the side salad. As
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: I'm eating, I'm mixing the spaghetti up with the salad
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: at the same time. And it does taste good. Sounds
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: she just put way too much on that. Now behind
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: the scenes, I don't know if you do this too, Yea.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: They talk about they take French fries, get a frosty
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  Speaker 1: from Windy. Nope, no, no, no, you just don't want
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: any French fries. You get the fries from Windy and
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: you get the biggest, the milkshake, the thick ass what's
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: it called it called the frosty, That's what I said.
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  Speaker 1: And you dipped the fries in the frosty. Oh my god,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: that that sounds really nasty to me. Like my fries,
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: so I cannot imagine them and something cold. Look at
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: my grandma, God blest it. My grandma used to love
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: to go to Windy, choose to like Windy's hot fries.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't even know how I even started doing that,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm telling you. You dipped them fries into that
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: that frosty. Oh my god. I don't even like cold
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: ketchup on my fries. My ketchup got to be room temperature.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: And I'm from I'm from Monks Corner, South Carolina, so
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: I like ketchup on my grips. You ever did that? Yeah,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you one thing, one thing I was
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: really into for a minute. I was making these sandwiches
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: every morning. Were not every morning, but every day. It
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: was spicy mustard, cheddar cheese and green apple sandwiches. That
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: sounds disgusting into this. I can't believe y'all don't put
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: catch up on your grid. So you ain't even put
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: catch up on your grids. Well, I'm gonna catch up
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: love like that. Hello, who's this? Good morning? And apple
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: from Columbus so high? How are you apples that popular?
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Apples are popular this morning? So what's the weird thing
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: you do with your food? First of all, I'm half
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: to tire and hot sos, cheese and branch for loans.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: Forget period. There's no questions ask about that. How much ranch? Though?
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Should we put a little too much on this? No,
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: that's how I'm gonna eat it, exactly how she did it.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: But I asked you the hot so wow thing I
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: do would be on salmon patties. I'll put ketch up
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: the syrup on salmon, put up and catch up definitely,
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: though Salman on salma patties, Talma patties, I put ketch No,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: I never served, I've done. I've definitely done catch up
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: on the salmon patties, not sirve, that's both sounds discussions.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: So you're mixing life. Try it. I said, I was right.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: You couldn't say though, to try try it, Yount say,
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: I don't like it. Hey, I'm gonna tell you something
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: to you take them sam patties with some grits and
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: put that ketchup on the Lord have mercy, right, all right,
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna try. Thank you. Mama, got my goddamn mouth water. Hello?
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: Who's this? What's up? Bro? We're talking about some some
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: weir those stuff you do with your food. Man. I
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich with showy jelly,
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: bail egg. Cut the egg up, the ball egg up
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: here on the sandwich. You're eating the peanut butter, jelly
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: and egg sandwich, your bold egg sandwich. Gotta be bored
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: and cut it up. That might sound if for some reason,
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I feel like that would take good scramble No it dog,
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Uh no it doesn't. Yeah, you can put eggs on
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: top of the burglar. You ain't got time. Yeah, sometimes
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: it might be better with scrambled I never thought about that. Yeah,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: the eggs and listen, by the way, egg sandwiches be hitting,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: But you got to toast the bread. Toast the bread
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: with some scrambled eggs lightly lightly didn't feel like the
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: white bag on it. That was the whole thing on
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: the poll. Yeah yeah, I'm with you now, I'm with
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: you all right, thank you brother. I know my cousin
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: used to eat catch I'm saying with just like he
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: liked catch up and bread like that was his one cousin.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: I hope your cousin got out of poverty. Man, that's
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: what That's what he liked that used to catch it.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, How y'all doing this? Kid? Jay? Dad? Hey?
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: Shot the man? My man? Hey this this They ain't hey,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: ain't man hey? If he don't be man man, you're
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: my guy. Man. But I just wanted to say spaghetti
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: and ranch man shot maybe on the same plage any time.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: Man's cultural, man, that is good. It is many And
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: if you don't they say some things it don't be cultural,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: like y'all don't do y'all eat anything that's like like
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: I like, I eat ships and I grew up down
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: shot used to cook it and I hated don't wait
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: but you ain't dad, I don't know. I don't know
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: how you black or they don't like well, if you
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: don't even like spaghetti, I don't like ranch. I don't
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: listen the only time I've ever tried any other is
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: when I'm on diet and they got that balsamic vinegarrette
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: tone the diet yet, But I don't do I like
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  Speaker 1: spaghetti if no, no, no, Norman, no nothing nothing with
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  Speaker 1: red sauce. I'm gonna be onng with you. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: And did not eat spaghetti? Spaghetti? Was you meal that
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: your mama would make when she didn't feel like cooking?
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: He doesn't like the red sauce, so I mean for
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: me it was kraft matter you don't like, you just boiled.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: My mom made that fast when when when when you
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: talk about a quick meal, my mom made that and
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: then we had lunch of me that was a quick
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: meal and not like shaghetti. Just just to clarify. And
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: but you do eat spaghetti, you just don't eat the
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: red suce. Yeah, I don't like the red sauce. So
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: were I ify? Not wrong though, because you're in good shape.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: But I learned how the people that eat the red
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: chapter they give him a heart bird too. I ain't
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: got no hard, but I just don't like red sauce.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: It's worth the hard. Let me let me share my
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: combination real quick, great damn and cheese, rape him and
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: cheese that it ain't bad, because that's like when you
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: go to the white people places, they had that on
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: the plate. It'd be like the grace of Ham is disgusting.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: The cheese Ham is good. Ham is good. It's the
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: other white man turkey. I don't know, thank you, it's
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: it's on a good top of y'all. Man. I appreciate that. Man,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: I appreciate you. All right, what's the moral of the
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: story and the moral of the stories? Just be happy
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: you eating? All right? Okay, everybody, just be happy you
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: eating because if you got you know, you can put
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: together all these weird combinations you're doing okay in life.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: And I just want to put this out there, intimates, y'all.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: Don't make Danish rink anymore. Like, oh, you know what
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: I used to do when I used to be like
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: like high all the time, really wild, And when I
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: was young, I would go to the Scotchman and I
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: would get a honey bun and I take like a
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Snickers and put it on top of a honey bun
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: and then put it in the microwave for like thirty
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: seconds and then eat it like a hot dog. Oh
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: my God, that was so good. That's why you ain't
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: got no head that probably that whatever that kind of
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: put together for all of y'all out that I ain't
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: afraid of a little sugar, and you try it, get
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: a honey, put his niggers on it, warm it up
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: for like thirty seconds, and eat it like a hot dog.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: When you high, and watch what happened? You turn fat automatically.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: All right. We got more coming up next with a
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: breakfast club, The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: We got a special guest joining us right now. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: Jason Wilson. He's the found in CEO of Union. Okay,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: Jason has over fourteen years of experience, you know, training
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: and developing young black men. You've probably seen his videos
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: on Instagram where he teaches, you know, young black men
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: how to deal with their trauma through martial arts. He's
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: got two great books, out Cry Like a Man in
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: Battle Cry. You've probably heard him on the Joe Rogan Podcast.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: You've seen him on CNN Doctor Oz. He's spoken My
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: Mental Wealth Expotus past Sunday, and now he's on the
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Mister Jason Wilson, Good morning brother, Good morning,
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: my brother. How are you all as well? Man? I
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: love New York. Love walking early in the morning here,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: especially late at night. Give me time to really reflect
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: and release things that I need to let go of.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: You wrote a couple of books, Cry Like a Man
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: and now Battle Cry. Why is crying such a theme?
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: It was imperative for me that I learned how because
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: my life well, I was self destructive, pretty much about
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: to lose my marriage and my family, and I didn't
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: know how to not only express them, but to even
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: process what I was feeling. So I was only taught
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: to express it through either fighting or really suppressing it.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: And as a result, Man, I lost it one day,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: Man and demons will be yelled at my wife in
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: the kitchen, hit a hole in my refrigerator, and I
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: just I had to make a change. And when I
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: saw my wife, I saw her go from trusting me
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: and loving me to her whole spirit was torn down
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: in front of me. And at that very moment, I
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: realized I had a problem, and that problem was I
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: wasn't a comprehensive man. I was just a masculine male
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: and I needed to learn how to express the gamut
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: of emotions that God has given me. You know, more
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: so than just being strong, a protector and provider, I
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: needed to express being a nurturer, express spring, compassionate, loving,
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: long suffering. You know, when Kobe Bryant died in that
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: helicopter accident with Gianna and nine others, we didn't see
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: a lot of pictures of him playing basketball. We saw
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: him operating as a nurturer. And then a hashtag girl
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: dad went viral through what men? But over a million,
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: one point two million men posted pictures of themselves loving
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: their daughters. And so we've always been nurturists, but we've
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: allowed society to define us as men just by one adjective,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: which is masculinity. But we're more than masculine. Can we
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: talk about your background a little because this is our
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: first time meeting. So I know that you have this
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: youth organization in Detroit, Union, but I want to talk
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: about you and how you started doing this work. Yes,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: well I started actually was a popular DJA and Detroit
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: and actually did a few concerts with Public Enemy. I
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: was in a rap group called Chaos a Maestro. So
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: the Union nonprofit started as a record label, and so
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: we were used as a Christian. I would use the
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: music to counter what at the current time, what we
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: would call like gangster hip hop, and I saw the
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: negative impact that was having on youth, and so we
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: created music to counter it. But we realized quickly that
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: once the music stopped, they still had to deal with
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: the trauma. And so we're like wall, we need to
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  Speaker 1: stay in their lives. We need to get into schools.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: More so, we went after our nonprofit status and in
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: two thousand and seven we received our first grant for
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: mentoring through the government and we haven't looked back since.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: And currently we've reached over fifteen thousand youth and young
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: adults in Detroit and we just purchased a fifteen thousand
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: square foot building due to the demand of the Cave
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: of Adullum, which is the Transformational Training Academy where I
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: used martial arts to help young boys navigate through their
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: emotions instead of succumbing to them. When did you get
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: into martial arts? It was that a way of channeling
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: like anger. Yeah, So it was interesting when my good
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: friend she was shot and killed when I was in
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: the eighth grade and we didn't have grief counsels or
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: anyone come to our school, and I didn't know how
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: to process what I was feeling. So I gravitated toward
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: ni jitsu. At the time I was twelve years old.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: But then I quickly realized if I only process my
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: anger by hitting things, whenever that anger rise, I start
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: hitting things and hitting people. And so from that day on,
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: because I have my father around, he was in the
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: same city but wasn't in my life, I saw the
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Sinsey as a father figure, and I longed to have
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: that affirmation and teach me how to be a man.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: And it helped me with some processing some of the
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: training combat communication, which I talk about in battlecry and fighting.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: If we're getting ready to fight, I'm downloading all of
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: your moves, your anger. If you move on my jab
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: or my kick, I'm seeing how your defense is. I
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: use that in communication with my wife, I try to
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: read the room. How is she feeling to day? Is
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: this a good time for me to share with her
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: how all of my emotions? Would it overload her? And
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: so instead of sometimes when you become emotionally free, when
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: you break free from emotional incarceration, we can come home
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: and unload too much on someone who already had a
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: heavy day. And so I've learned to use combat communication
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: to excuse me, Read my wife, Read my son. You
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: know he's quiet today, what's going on with you? Instead
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: of yelling at him. Now, I want to ask you
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: about for women who are dealing with a man who
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: may be experiencing trauma or doesn't identify ways that he
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: can improve his own communication. What advice do you have
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: for women that have to deal with that. My wife
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: a lot of people ask her that because it was
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: all new for us, you know. And so the first
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: thing I would say is that we as men, we
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: not only have to unlearn what we've been conditioned to
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: believe a man is, but also our women. And we
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: have to give our wives and our women the grace
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: and the space needed to do so, because you've been
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: also programmed to see a man in a certain way.
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: My wife had never seen a man crying to me,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: you know. And so that's Number one, is to unlearn
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: what you've been taught to believe. Number two, never impassively
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: dismiss your husband or your significant others when he comes
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: to you. He's trying to open up, he's trying to
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: become comprehensive and whold the worst thing a woman could
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: do is shut him down or I'm busy. Can I
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: come back to that when you see that door opening,
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: like okay, cool, He's allowing me access to that heart.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: And then lastly is to listen without expectation. That's what
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: she would saying. She says, listen to your husband's or
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: your significant other's heart like it's your girlfriend. Be slow
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: to speak, quick to listen. But I said, you also
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: need to know how to allow your wife to help
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: you through that process. Can you break down what is
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: emotional incarceration? It is a self imposed imprisonment, a mental
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: prison that a man confines his non masculine emotions and
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: his true heart from the world to keep him from
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: hurting others and even himself. And what's interesting about emotional
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: incarceration and we all as men, we can admit this.
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: There is no door keeping us locked in. We choose
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: to stay in there. And because we have to face
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: or acknow knowledge feelings or traumas or emotional pain that
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: we don't feel comfortable with, we choose to stay in there.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: And a lot of good men are tired of being
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: bad guys even myself. Man, I ever suppressed all of
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: my emotions, you know, And because that's what I was taught.
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: And because of that, I didn't even they not only
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: know how to love my wife or my children, bro,
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: I didn't know how to love myself. And that self
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: hate caused me not to really be available for my wife.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: And as I share at the Mental Wealth Expo, she
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: had five miscarriages and I was checked out. I didn't
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: know how to express the hurt or anything. To this day,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: it bothers me. We should say we had five miscarriages. No,
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: I say she had and I should have been there,
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: but I was emotionally checked out. But now it's truly
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: a blessing to be able to drop my guard with
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: the woman who really holds my heart with care. All right,
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: we got more with Jason Wilson. When we come back,
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: Dute move, it's to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy we are
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. We're still talking with Jason Wilson. Charlemagne.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: The things you say in regards of your wife was
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: so relatable and it's the same reason I got myself
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: together too, because you know, I didn't want to be
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: like my pops. And you know, I saw the pain
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: my pops called my mom, you know what I mean?
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: And I saw how you know, them getting divorce affected
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: the family. So why are so many men just comfortable
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: with saying, you know what, Yeah, I'm married, but I'm
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: gonna still cheating. I'm still have a whole other family
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: out here. Another girl like, why is that okay? You
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: think that something's it's affeckless attempt for affirmation. And so
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: you know, again we taught you know, masculinity as well
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: being a man that's having multiple women. My father told
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: me I was going to him proud, saying, hey, Dad,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: I'm about to engage to Nicole. He said, why in
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: the hell you want to do that? When I come
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: front of my dad about cheating my mom, my dad said, oh,
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: you only got one girlfriend? If it one day're gonna understand. Hey,
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: And I told my dad, I told him, I said,
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: I don't want to end up like you broke. You're
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: still having to cut hair, Dad in your sixties, because
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: you've had three marriages that failed because you didn't have
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: any sexual self control. But when I allowed my father
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: developed Parkinson's. I finally was able to get a relationship
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: with him because he couldn't go anywhere. So when we
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: finally sat and talked, he shared with me the pain
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: of growing up and feeling lacking in so many areas
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: he was called to preach. He told, guy, there's nowhere
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: on earth I'm gonna do that because he came up
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: in the sixties when the cops cracked down on the
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: pimps in Detroit, many him became pastors, So he said,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: the last thing I'm gonna do is be one of
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: these guys. But because of that, he never really knew
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: how to express what he was going through and what
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: he felt. And that's why sharing battle cry too. As
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: where we are now as men, we got to go
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: back and reach and help our fathers learn how to
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: process what they're dealing with. So you got to think
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: my grandfather, not my great grandfather, a great great grandfather.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: My grandfather was lynched, beating and lynched, and then after
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: his lynching, my mother's family was terrorized by the police
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: to ensure that none of them whatever feel like they're
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: equal to white people. In Fort Pierce, Florida, I saw
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: that trauma transferred throughout generation, throughout generation, and until I
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: allowed my dad that freedom to be human, I didn't
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: hear him say he loved me until thirty seven years
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: of age. I told my dad, and it didn't make
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: sense to me at the time. He's landing his bed,
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: and the Holy Spirit told me, he says, tell your father,
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: thank him for being a great dad. That doesn't make
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: sense to me, But what my father needed was affirmation.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: So I leanked over to him while he was landing
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: his bed and I said, I said, Dad, I said,
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: thank you for being a great dad. So I was
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: walking out and I heard him like getting heavy in
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: his breath, and I turned around and I saw the
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: strongest man in my life crying. He finally had a
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: release and this is this tough one. So I went
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: back over to him. I held his hands and I
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: kissed him on his forehead, and he wouldn't let me go,
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: and he says, son, he says, I love you. And
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: that there it removes so many shackles off of me.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: And it freed me to really live from my heart
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: instead of my fears, instead of trying to live up
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: to this limited definition of what a man is. Now
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: I can be a comprehensive man, which is a man
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: who is courageous but also compassionate, strong but sensitive, a
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: man who can boldly but freely live from his heart
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: instead of his fears. How important is it for men
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: to give other men positive affirmations? Because you know, I
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: thought about this after the Mental Wealth Export, because a
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: lot of stuff came up for me when we was
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: on the panel having a conversation. That's why that's why
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: the tids came. Because it's like, just listening to you
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: tell me, oh, I'm proud of you, YadA YadA, I'm like,
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: damn you i't. I didn't get that the way I
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: wanted to growing up from my father. So even just
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: hearing it from another black man at your respect is
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: like whoa, it gets you emotional or whether we realize
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: that or not, we do that all the time. That's
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: why we gonna get the cars flacause we want other
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: men to give us affirmation. Yeah, it's like it's effectless
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: attempt for affirmation. Even with women. You know, it's like
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: we call you trophy wives and all this other foolishness
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: you would create. You're not meant to be objects. You
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It. But it's when we objectify
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: women that a lot. When I saw that evil, that's
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: what allowed me to break free from pornography because again,
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: to have this right in front of you, where you
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: feel you can have control over the most beautiful woman
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: in the world. I didn't know how to really give
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: a woman my heart. But when I allowed myself to
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: be free, I started cherishing women for who they are,
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: even their superior qualities, not that equal qualities. Because my
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: wife runs our nonprofit. If it wasn't for her, I
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: look at the stuff we do now, that's because I
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: allowed my wife to operate in the fullness of who
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: she is. Right, I don't need you to be just
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: at home with my children. God has created you to
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: lead this organization, this ministry, and then eventually I hope
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: she gets her own health center. The goal for us
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: to even be healed, brother, and I was sharing this
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: at the expol for us to heal this black men.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: I want us to heal so we can finally decrease
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: what's going on the side of us, so that our
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: sisters can finally unload the weight and emotional pain that
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: they've been in doing for decades. Now as far as affirmation.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: It's so important, especially with our boys. You know. I
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: remember I had one kid. When I piloted the Cave
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: of Adullam. The principle introduced me to this young man
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: by all negative descriptions. I took that young man and
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: for twenty four weeks affirmed and poured into him, taught
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: him how to meditate, release the anger, the frustration, and
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: it actually the hurt of not having a father. There.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: He smoked about two blunts a week. This was an
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: eighth grader. His great point average was point eight. Within
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: twenty four weeks, his whole life change and he graduated
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: because I affirmed him in who he was. Even the
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: young man he didn't see. They saw the prankster. I
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: saw someone who could negotiate whose why, Who's clever? They
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: saw someone anger. I saw a young man who would
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: fight against injustice, who would defend kids who are bullied.
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: That's what affirmation does. I thank you for who you are,
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: and I meant everything that I said. Man, I'm proud
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: of you, and that's why I affirmed you. And we
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: need to affirm each other that way. And then more so,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: as I told our brother Van Lathan when I was
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: on his podcast. We're so quick to just deflect it
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: or just here you're the man too. I love what
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: you're doing, like no, I want you to hold that, brother,
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: because you're doing some great things, and I want you
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: to really embrace who you are as a man. And
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: that's all I ever wanted, man, And that's why I'm
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: thankful I finally allowed my wife access to hear because
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: what causes men to really drift away? You want to
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: feel important, you want to feel loved, But it's if
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: you don't work as hard as you do in the community,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: in your home. How do you expect those in your
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: home to give you the accolades that you desire when
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: you're working twice as hard for those who don't even
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: live with you. You said something so powerful yesterday at
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: the Mental welfaxt BO when Maxwell asked you, what's the
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: definition of a man? How do you define them a man? Yeah?
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: And I said nothing. You can't define them. Once you
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: allow yourself to be defined, you can't be anything and
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: everything you have to be at any given moment. That's
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: the goal of a man. That's comprehensive. Man. I want
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: to be able to morph between transformers, everything that I
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: need to be for accomplish my mission here on earth,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: for my family, for you, for my sister, my brother,
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: my brother, And that's the goal. Once you allow yourself
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: to be defined, you've just cut off your potential. And
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: so I tell people to I was telling me, and
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: live from what we long for instead of what we lack.
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: We tend to blame my father's for not being there,
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: what we didn't have, and now we bring that stuff
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: to the present. We allow our trauma to time travel,
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: living the present so you can fully be there. And
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: that's the key. Man, If you only feel as a
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: man that you're only a protector and provider, you're gonna
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: be there for your fa I mean, how can you
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: have a relationship with your wife and you're only you
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: can only manifest two attributes. You're extremely limited. A friend
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: of mine compared it to that crayon boxes, the ones
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: of eight and the ones of sixty four. As men,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: we take out three crayons out the one of eight,
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: and we said we're gonna stay in that that area
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: because it feels comfortable, it's safe. But the most igh
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: created us to exude all sixty four and even more.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: Now movie got more with J. C. Wilson. When we
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: come back, it's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning. I'm seeing
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: her looking at Keisha like, do you love me? Do
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: you love me? Not morning? Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We're still
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: talking with Jason Wilson. Yea. You also have a documentary
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: that you've been working on, right, Yes, can you tell
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: us something about that? Yeah, that's really exciting. I signed
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: with Lawrence Fitzburn's film company sent them a gypsy to
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: do a documentary film on my work for Boys in
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: the Cave of Adullum. We submitted it to Sundance and
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: so waiting to hear back from them, but it's supposed
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: to release next year and we're really excited. You get
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: to see them follow four of my boys, and you
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: see the effects of intergenerational trauma, but then you see
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: it broken and it's so powerful. It's beautiful. How do
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: you black and brown people learn to stop wearing trauma
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: as if it's a bad honor acknowledge that it's nothing
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: good about it. There's nothing honorable about getting shot. There's
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: nothing honorable about hating each other, mean mug and not
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: being able to say how you doing, my brother, how
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: you doing my sister? There's nothing honorable about I guess,
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: just the pain that we've been through. I mean, we
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: look at it as like, you know, especially I love hippop.
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: I came up in the culture we brag about getting shot.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: We don't brag about living in a good neighborhood. We
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: brag about being in the roughest neighborhood. And so until
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: we recognize that this isn't how it's supposed to be. Yes,
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: trauma will happen to all of us, but it's not
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: the black experience as we always say. You know, just
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: as trauma can be passed down through our generation, so
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: can healing. But we first have to renew our minds.
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: We have to allow. For me, it took for me
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: to ask the most how to break me, break away
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: my stubborn will, the evil in my heart. I didn't
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: want to be his light to the world, to help
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: those who in darkness see, And so until I allowed
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: him to break me, I wasn't able to see that
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: all that I've been through, the stuff that, even for
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: my benefit today, wasn't meant for me to stay there.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: So when traumatizing things happen. We have to let go
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: and keep moving forward. But a lot of us we
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: stay there because we fear moving forward because of something else,
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: traumatizing may happen. And so as a black people, we
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: got to start living from what we desire and hear
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: the good that's in here. We love each other, man,
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: we do. We just have to learn how to express it.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: And there's nothing weak or docile telling you I love you,
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: telling you I love you and who you are. I'm
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: proud of you. I need help, I'm hurting. Just because
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: something is wrong with me doesn't mean something is wrong.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: So when we get to that place where we understand, okay,
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: we can break through what we've been through, that's when
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: you see us rise together. My final question, you know,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: as your profile raises, how did your wife feel about
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: all these women calling you zaddie? I didn't know they
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: called me. They called me that them on Instagram? Oh man,
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: I um um. My wife and I have a very
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: like transparent relationship. If she feels something isn't right, she said,
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: you know, but this is a funny story. One day
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: I met Halle Berry right, and I took a video
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: from my daughter because my daughter, you know, was into
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: modeling at the time, and so I called the court.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: I say I met Holly Berry. She's like, really, where
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: was she at? And I told her at this conference.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: So we get off the phone and her friend was like, oh,
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: so your husband is with Halle Berry and she was
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: like yeah, and she could looking at my wife and
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: my wife called back and she says, are you okay?
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: Because you know Holly Berry is was like attractive like
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: our generations leaning a horn. But my wife was like,
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: are you okay because I know she's beautiful and I
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: know you know you together, you're good. I'm like, yeah,
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: I'm good. And we both laughed about it. But the
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: beautiful thing. When I got home and I looked at
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: my wife, I said, dang it better than her. You
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. And so and so when she
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: knows my wife, she affirms me man and I fight it.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: I'm still growing, bro. I don't like that. How do
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: you what you She had touched my face or gent
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you doing inside? That's why I'm
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: cringing because I'm thinking when my father told me I
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: wasn't nothing, and they have a woman cress my face
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: and tell me I'm beautiful and she loves me. And
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: as a man, you look in your mirror, you see
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: your flaws. You ain't big enough, you ain't buffalo up,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: you ain't smart enough. What can any of these women
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: give me? Man? What's a night of sex? I'm gonna
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna giveaway everything that I got just to have
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: a moment with a woman. That's not peace to me,
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: that's chaos. I ain't got time to have three cell phones.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't have an energy for that. We're
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: chasing a sense of worthiness that we can't get from
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: another woman. Like that's that's feeding your ego, being with
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: your wife, that's feeding your soul. Yeah, it's it's it's
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: she's a part of me, man. And so you know, Yeah,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: they're a flirt. You can see them. They look at you.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: But I don't have an available Look. You know a
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: lot of brothers who struggle with infidelity. Y'all look available,
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: You look like they can holl at you. I consciously
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: make sure I don't look available. I told them that. Look.
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: You know, I practiced with my sister. You know we're talking.
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what I'm talking about. Okay, So
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: I do this. Okay, I take my ring off, but
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm talking you, but it's respectfully. How are
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: you doing? I shake your hands right, I'm not doing this,
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: so how are you doing you? I'm not doing all that.
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like, how are you doing? I'm press a pleasure
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: to meet you. I'm proud of you, thank you. What
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: are you doing later? No, I'm kidding, I said, I'm
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: calling my wife. I'm telling you right now. Taking that
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: ring off and then having the conversation not make you
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: less available, that's true. But no, but but but the
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: look is the spirit is the vibe. And that's why
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: I tell my brothers. One of my friends standing back
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: in the day amazed women beyondly man. I'm trying to
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: be faithful. I said, you look like you want them too,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: And he started laughing. And we was in the gym
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: and I said, look at you. He was like, I
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: get it, Doug. You're coming here every day with great sweatpas. Okay,
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: so you know, and and and that's my my thing.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: I just you know, I love our women. I do.
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: And they need a man. And who doesn't want to
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: get between their legs just to talk to them and
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: affirm them to hear from just a man who just
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: wants to affirm you for who you are, not because
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: I'm you beautiful. I'm trying to ho let you man,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: these women which is you know, I just you know,
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: That's why I say, Man, when we can get healed,
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: keep doing those expos man. I mean, just we gotta
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: continue to do what we do. But when we can
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: get healed, we gotta sit down and open the space
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: for our sisters to heal. And that's when you're gonna
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: start seeing transformation, when we both can truly find that
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: and get that heal and we desire and our families
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: become whole, then our communities to change, and then you
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: got the world. Yeah, I'm so extra grateful for like
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: the men in my life who do affirm me and
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: have positive things to say to me, and it's not
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: for any reason other than they really feel that way.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: And I don't feel anything crazy from them. I know
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: their families, I know their wise and significant others, and
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: it's completely comfortable. And I'm so appreciative all the time
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: of people that are like, yo, like you really doing
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: your thing. I'm so proud of you. I'm gonna come
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: support like it means a lot to me. Yes, and
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: that's that's awesome. And you know, because sometimes people feel
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: like men and women can't have these relationships where there's
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: nothing going on. And if you could take a picture
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: with somebody like oh, yeah, he's trying to holler, and
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: you're like, dude, come on, just because he's a man
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: doesn't mean that that's what it is, just because somebody
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: can affirm you. But people sometimes are scared to even
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, but the more men who who who
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: model it, the more men feel comfortable and say, Okay,
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: this is what a man is, you know, and that's
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: what our women need, you know, even at the union.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: Just affirm and love them. I got you, don't worry
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: about that. I ain't trying to holight you. They need brothers,
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: They need men in their lives that they feel that
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: they got their back, you know, and then ain't always
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: wanting something, you know. And so I went I did
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: what is it called virtual reality. It was at this conference,
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: and they they put put me in a headset where
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: I saw through the eyes of a woman at work
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: and showed how many like advances men were making to
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: this woman throughout the day and from the handshake to
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: just having conversation. I'm like, damn it, can you just
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: just respect me as a woman, affirmed me just as
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: a woman instead of just trying to get between my legs,
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: you know. And so I'm glad you have men like that.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: I try to make myself available for the women in
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: my life the same way, you know. And it's so
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: needed as men that again, as long as we're seeking
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: affirmation in the wrong places, and that's what I did
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: for the longest, will never truly respect our women for
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: the queens, the jewels, the gifts that they truly are
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: to use points. I mean, that's why I'd be so happy.
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: I you know, I got so many women that call
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: me any brother uncle because I really wear that as
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: a badge of honor, Like you know, I want to
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: be there for them in that way. And I'm glad
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: they see me in that way. Yeah, they need it.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: And we need women like when my mother when when
• 53:53
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• 53:57
  Speaker 1: to allow older women and my wife access to my
• 54:01
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• 54:03
  Speaker 1: don't need women's sisters trying to holight me. I need
• 54:07
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• 54:10
  Speaker 1: trying to holler praying for me, and they say, we
• 54:12
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• 54:16
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  Speaker 1: sure you're telling them to watch out for Florida. The
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: craziest people in America come from the Bronx and all
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: of Florid. Yes, you are a donkey. The Florida man
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  Speaker 1: Other day when Charlom hanag, I don't know why y'all
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  Speaker 1: to a twenty three year old Florida woman named Alexis Tally. Now,
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: what did your uncle Sharla always say about the great
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: state of Florida? Say it with me. The craziest people
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: It is what it is. Okay, I love Florida. But
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: one of my favorite things to do when I'm in
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: Florida's turn on the local news. High levels of entertainment people. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe it's free. I was in Miami last
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: weekend just watching the local news and laughing and shaking
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: my head very hard to avoid the crazy that exist
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: in Florida. You know, every day of our lives, we
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: wake up and we attempt to avoid crazy. It's hard
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: to avoid crazy in Florida. It's like a full time
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: job to avoid crazy in Florida. Because in Florida, you
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: don't have to find crazy. Crazy will find you. And
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: that's exactly what happened in this situation involving the sister
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: Alexis Tally. Now, Alexis Tally was arrested for domestic battery
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: after putting hands on her girlfriend. Now, the other day
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: I told y'all on this radio, how I had a dream. No,
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: let me refree. I had a nightmare that I was
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: cheating on my wife, and in the nightmare, I felt
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: the guilt, so I stopped. And then when I woke
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: up the next morning, my wife said to me that
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: she had a dream that I cheated on her and
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: she woke up wanting to f me up. When you
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: got a soul tied with a person, y'all are really
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: connected SYNCD up like your smartphone with a bluetooth. That's
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: me and my wife. Well, my wife said she felt
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: like she wanted to ff me up because of her dream.
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: Alexis Tally actually fed her girlfriend up because of the dream. Okay,
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: because of the dream her girlfriend was having. Oh how
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: I wish there was a news report for this one.
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: But allowed me to read you the details off the
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: smoking gun. Police responded the calls from a neighbor who
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: said they could hear a fight taking place. When authorities
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: arrived at the scene, the twenty one year old victim
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: said she was awoken after Alexis Tally claimed to hear
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: her sleep talking about an X. I'm not making this up. Okay.
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: If you're thinking, what the f, please think what the Florida,
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: since Tally started beating on her girlfriend and her sleep
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: because she thought she heard her girlfriend sleep talking about
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: an X. According to the arrest report, Alexis started punching
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: the victim in the face after waking her, and cops
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: noted that she had visible swelling to the right side
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: of her face. Now, when they say Alexis woke her up,
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: was it what the punch are before? Now I'm gonna
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: shoot Alexis a little bell that slang. By the way,
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not giving her no money towards the bell. I'm
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: just talking about a hypothetical about the situation. I'm almost positive.
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: But if I mentioned another woman that I was involved
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: with while I was in a deep slumber, I too
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: would get punched in the face. What about you, Indy,
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: I concur not justifying what Alexa did, just saying that
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: as Florida as this sounds, this might garner the same
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: reaction in any state. I mean, my wife woke up
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: wanting to f me up because of a dream she
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: had that I was doing something. Imagine if she would
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: have woke up to me calling out the name of
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: some other woman I dealt with my god jee. This
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: is why hot grit used to get thrown on brothers
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: in the sixties and seventies. Okay, your granddaddy got a
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: scar right now, and it's back from that hot grid
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: because he too was saying somebody else's name in his sleep. Okay.
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: Muhammad Ali once said, if you even dream of beating me,
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: you'd better wake up and apologize. Same rules apply with
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: your significant other. Okay, just change beating the cheating. If
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: you even dream of cheating on your girl, you better
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: wake up and apologize now. Alexa was arrested for domestic
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: battery and has maintained that their argument was only verbal,
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: verbal rather than physical. She told the officers. She told
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: the officers that the mark on her girlfriend's face was
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: from a previous fight. That's not funny. It's not funny,
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: but it's Florida, Florida, Okay, she told the police. Not
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: the fight that was reported to the police. That was
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: last week. It was from another fight. It's basically been
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: the officer of That mark on her face wasn't from
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: when I beat her this time. That was from the
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: last time we fought. Boy, don't have anything else, Okay,
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: Please give Alexis Tally the sweet shounds of the Hamiltons.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: Oh no you are do gee? Oh the day, do Gee,
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: oh the day. Yeah. How would you react if you
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: heard your man saying the name of an X in
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: his sleep? Um, I don't know. That's a tough one.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do. We'd have a conversation,
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: it might not go well, we might not talk for
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. You don't think we will resort
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: to violence though, you're not. I'm not a violent person. Yeah,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: you know. I don't believe in putting my hands on people. Kay,
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: I think we should play a game? You think we
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: should play a game? I'm curious, really really? Yes, okay, yes?
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: What was the name? What was the name of the X?
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: I need to know? Didn't say didn't ame to X?
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: They just say X. All right, Well, okay, since VY
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: wants to play, I guess it's time for a game
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: of Guess what race? All right? What's the clues now?
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: Alexis Tally. Alexis from Florida, Florida. She was sleep they
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: both will sleep with her girlfriend, and her girlfriend was
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: sleep talking and said the name of her exo alexis
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: swung on her Guess what race? She is? Sty Go Latina,
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: damn it man. Okay, Okay, ANGELI said Latina? Why do
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: you say Latina? Angelie? I don't know. I just felt
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: like it. Okay, okay, dj Envy. Alexis Tally from Florida. Okay.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: She was with her girlfriend. Her girlfriend was talking in
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: her sleep and her girlfriend said ex's name alleged Lisa
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: Alexis got up and swung on her. Guess what race
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: she is? All right, the name Alexis makes me feel black.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: But I'm going Puerto Rican? How dare you? I'm gonna
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: be honest with you. I don't know what Alexis stallely is.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: I'm looking know what she looked like? And he asked
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: to play. I don't know. Let me see, let me
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: I'm just always down for the game. It's just a
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: good guessing game. She might be Portoici might be, but
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: then she might be black. She might be she makes
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: she might be happy. Its like you, Daniel, Well, it's
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: Alexis Stally. She looked Puerto Rican. What she looked like,
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: definitely Puerto Rican. Sometimes you can't look at a person Intel.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: You can't look at a person Intel, you definitely can't.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: All right, pointless game and wanted to play thought you
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: knew the answer. We'll find out on social media later.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: I'm sure, I'm sure somebody. All right, keep it locked.
• 1:02:50
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  Speaker 1: diaper that is disgusting? First of all, judge that I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna tell you, Oh, is this envy we're talking about here?
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  Speaker 1: All right? So first of all, do y'all have wet
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  Speaker 1: wipes in the bathrooms in the house? I think I
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: need to keep him there, But that is what help
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: you gotta help him out, man, because there's first of all,
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  Speaker 1: there's no way he don't smell the dude who coming
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: out his butt when he pulls his pants down. Number one.
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  Speaker 1: Number two, you might have to tell him you gotta
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  Speaker 1: get up in there when you wipe yourself and wipe
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  Speaker 1: yourself good. And you might have to buy him some
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  Speaker 1: wet wipes to carry with him when he goes places
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  Speaker 1: and tell him to use those when he uses the bathroom,
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  Speaker 1: because this is not something that you can dance around.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: You have to be direct about this hygiene. She's right,
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: but I'm not his mama, though embarrassing. One time you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna have you have to tell him because you know what,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: if you don't say something, you're gonna just end up
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  Speaker 1: having to smell dude every time you have sex. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I can't do that, So just just till and be like, babe,
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  Speaker 1: look at your underwear. See this, you're not wiping yourself? Well,
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: are you getting up in the hole? So you have
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: doodoo stains on your sheets too? Huh? No, No, I
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  Speaker 1: would never. You do have to if it's in his
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: underwears in the sheets, but you gotta, you gotta point
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: it out because if you don't say anything, then I
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: don't are you just having sex? And then during the smell,
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  Speaker 1: oh girl, I don't go down here, but I won't
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  Speaker 1: go down on him a lot because of that, Like
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  Speaker 1: I'm alwa even afraid, Like I don't want to. Why
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  Speaker 1: is it so hard to tell a man his ass? Think?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but you could get can't you get
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: you call out or something? I mean, I can't wait
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  Speaker 1: till you ask you. I don't want to. Hell, no,
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt well girl, I don't want
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: you to get some type of disease either, bacteria, infection.
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  Speaker 1: But this is this is for his own good. First
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: of all, if you're doing laundry, sometimes you don't want
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: to have to touch that and clean that, right, right,
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: And this is for his own benefit. This is to
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  Speaker 1: help him out in his life. You gotta show him. Look, baby,
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: these are wet wipes. Now, me and you were having
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: this conversation. Don't be embarrassed because we could talk about anything.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: And trust me, if you're having sex with this man
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  Speaker 1: and I'm protecting, you should be able to tell him
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: his ass stinks and he's not wiping himself. If you
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: can do that, and you could lay up with him
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: and do all of that, then you should be able
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: to communicate with him and telling him, babe, you need
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  Speaker 1: to clean your butt. It's gonna be so funny when
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: you tell him his butt stinks. And he was like, man,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: I was thinking the same thing about your poom poom
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: and guess what and guess what she would do? White
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: pep poom poom with a wet white You ain't crap,
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: ain't crap. You do want even crapt and and just listen,
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: this isn't time when when you got to be directed.
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  Speaker 1: Be like, look, you know, I don't know if you're
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  Speaker 1: just not wiping yourself right, but there's these stains in
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: your underwear and sometimes I can smell it, So I
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: just want to say, you gotta wipe yourself better. Here
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: some wet wipes every time you go to the bathroom,
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: and you shouldn't even have sex with him to after
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: he showers, but if he's not cleaning his button in
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: the shower either, and then getting now that I don't
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: know what I'm but it's cleaning his But I will
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: say I've been on my wife twenty one years and
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: I do remember a time about fourteen fifteen years ago
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  Speaker 1: where she went down and she was like, hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: you need to go take a shower or something, because
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: you know and you appreciate it. It. Yeah, I went,
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: maybe I didn't wipe properly. I don't know what it was,
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  Speaker 1: but she told me it hurt my feelings. I just
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: went and took a shower between then, like, I don't understand.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it was a commentation to me before
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: once or twice, three times, four times, five times happened
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  Speaker 1: to me before. Yeah so, but like so that's why
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: you got to point it out. One day y'all will
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: laugh about it, and hopefully that day that Chella laughing,
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: his butt will be clean. She got embarrassed and pick
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: up the underwear and be like, what's this and then
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: let him see the do those stains. He'll get embarrassed
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: and I'll never do it again like that, you know
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: what I mean? And check your sheets and I bet
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: you gotta doose stains in your sheets. Yeah, I bet you.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: He knows trust me, tapping to me once or twice,
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: but the skin marks in his face, you go too far?
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: Thank you, mama. How do you like it? That's actually
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: that's some young boys stuff though, because you know, like
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: that's that's one of the reasons after I do a
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: number two, I do go take a shower, except if
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: you're at work. Yeah, if I'm at work, but then
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: I'm not like I'm going home and like me and
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: my wife gonna get right to it. I don't want
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: to go home smelling like you should never pull and
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: then have sex right after. Hell, you can take a shower.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: We don't want your money, butter pee you better white,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: better bro all right? Ask ye eight hundred and five
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  Speaker 1: advice at Ye Now it's the breakfast club. Good Morning.
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  Speaker 1: There's some real advice with Angela Ye gets ask Ye Morning.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: are the breakfast club. We're in the middle of asking ye,
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: good morning, good morning, good morning. Hey. Can you take
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: us on bluetooth for speaker please? Yes, sir, absolutely, what's
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: your question for you? Bro? Good morning, breakfast club. So, yeah,
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: my question is, so, just recently, I'm in a relationship
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: with this with this, with this beautiful woman. She's currently
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  Speaker 1: going through a divorce right now, and she was raped
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: by her soon to be ex husbin. So I was
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: very angry. I tried to get her to go to
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: the cob um. She didn't want to do it. So
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out what should I do, how
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: I should I feel? Okay, So I understand. So you
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: said she was raped by her soon to be ex husband.
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  Speaker 1: You want her to go to the police to report this,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: and she's not willing to do that right now, and
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: you know that's a difficult decision. Again, it is her decision.
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  Speaker 1: But what you can do is be as supportive as possible.
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  Speaker 1: I think you should encourage her to talk to someone
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  Speaker 1: like a therapist or a sexual assault counselor. I know
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  Speaker 1: they have the National Sexual Assault Hotline that numbers eight
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  Speaker 1: hundred and six to five six. Hope, if she wants
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  Speaker 1: to speak to someone, and that way she can have
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: a record of it, because the worst thing you want
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: to do is not be able to bring this up
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: later if she should change her mind. But I do
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: think speaking to a counselor or a therapist will help
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: her understand that it is in no way her fault,
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: because she might be having some feeling a lot of
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: times when things happen, you think about what could I
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: have done differently? Is this my fault? How could this
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: have been prevented? Did I put myself in a bad situation?
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: Am I going to ruin his life? If they have
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: kids together? Women think about all of those things, and
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: a therapist might help her to see things from a
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: different point of view and under stand that it was
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: in no way at all her faults. And another thing
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: you should encourage her to do is write everything down.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: That way she can remember every single detail. In case
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: there's an instance where she does decide that she wants
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: to go to the police or report this, she'll have
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: all of that information. But speaking to a counselor speaking
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: to a therapist that can help her see things. Who's
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: an expert from a different point of view, I think
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: would be one of the most helpful things you can do,
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: because again, you want to be there to support and
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: comfort her. You want her to be able to trust you,
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: but you don't want to make her feel ashamed or
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: have any type of judgment on whatever her decision is. Gosh,
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: and I tried to suggest some of those things to her,
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  Speaker 1: but I think that the problem arose where she didn't
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: want to be big demands or be a big Jim
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: and it was kind of hard for her to em
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: and grasp the concept of what happened. And when we
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: had the conversation, it was kind of like she was
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: kind of in denial rights. That's a problem now we
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: were running into But and she's a survivor, and she's
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: a survivor we like to say survivor, so not a
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: but she survived this and we want her to continue
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: to thrive and to actually deal with whatever she might
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: be feeling with that. And that might be something that
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: she needs to talk to somebody about. Again, if right
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: now she's not ready to go to the police, I
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: would encourage her to speak to someone and even you
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: can call right because then they might be able to
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: give you the tools that you would need to be
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: able to talk to your girlfriend to better be able
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: to help her because that's a traumatic experience. You don't
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: even know how this might affect her later, but you
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: want her to be able to have whatever options available
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: to her in case she needs those. Oh, thank you
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  Speaker 1: so much. I love you, guys. I left me all
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: every pint at but thank you again so much. All right,
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: thank you, and we commend you and appreciate you for
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: being such a support to your girlfriend at a time
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: like this. Absolutely got to be Okay, you two ask
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: ye ooh, that's tough. All right, we got more coming
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: up next with a breakfast club. It's that time ask
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  Speaker 1: Charlemagne and Dji morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela yee,
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. It's time
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  Speaker 1: for asking if you need relationship advice and any type
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: of advice. You get this right now? Hello? Who's this?
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  Speaker 1: Hey Kendrick go morning? What's your question for seeing? I
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: actually have a question for you, Envy here in North
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: Carolina and I'm wanting to get into but I don't
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: know where to start. Okay, Well, first of all, how's
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: your credit? Your credit good? Yeah, that's the most important thing.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: And then now you have to find the property. There's
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: a couple of websites that I use across the country.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: One is auction dot com okay, and the other one
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: is hubzoo dot com. Now those two websites I have
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: no affiliation with, so I don't get no paid for
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: it and nothing. These is just the websites I actually use.
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  Speaker 1: Those are the websites I used to find properties that
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: are usually being auctioned off that you can get at
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: a great price, way undermarket value. And that's where you
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: should look first. And you should look at the comps
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: in the area and see what those properties worth. When
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: you look at those properties, you should take somebody with
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: you to see how much those properties will cost to
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: fix up. See what's wrong with the property, if it
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: needs a new roof, if it needs electric, if it
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: need's plumbing, if it needs flooring, if it needs sighting,
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: if it needs whatever it may be, and then make
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: your your analysis from there. So if that property is
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: five hundred and needs one hundred thousand dollars worth work,
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: that's six hundred thousand, but it's worth eight hundred thousand.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: That's a good flip. Okay, I want follow your partner
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: on Facebook and Instagram, and I want to send one
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: of your seminars, but I'm working. That would be a
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: good one because during the seminar, there's so many people
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: there that like do finance, and we a lot of
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: times we have the people from those sites actually come.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: So fuction dot com tells you how to navigate through
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: the site to buy the actual properties. We have hard
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: money lenders. We have financial people there to tell you
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: how you can get the loans and help you get
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: those loans. So it's a it's a really good seminar.
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: You should definitely check it out if you have a chance.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Thank you all right, and just continue
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: to follow me and Sezar because we're gonna some courses
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: online because we can't make it to all the cities.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: We just got so much going on where we can
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: help people online and we just want to see our
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  Speaker 1: own people just you know, continue to purchase land and property. Yeah,
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to feel a generational wealth, all right, Mama,
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: thank you. Hello, who's this? This is nails design question.
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: I have a question for you, mb Why are you
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: so insecure in your masculinity that you won't let ye
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: playing me when you're not there yet, so you are good.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: Great question, Great question, queen. Um. I'm not insecuing my masculinity.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: He was allowed to do mixes a long time ago.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: But I believe they said she was trash or they
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: didn't want her to That never happened. You are such
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: that was out at the time, not the pre program
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: stuff you got going on. Well, I don't play the
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: music during the show man, but if if you know,
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: if if Ye's mix wasn't trash, they would have invited
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: her to play again. It is something more to the
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: ex than I do your next. Oh, I don't know.
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Maybe you should start
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: a um an Instagram page and try. I don't know,
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: but that's what trash. And they said they said that
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: because the mix is so trashed, they didn't they didn't
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: want her back. I'm sorry you said you're gonna see
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: her already. You that was you. You were being shady.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not being shady, but you have a good morning, though.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: I love you whatever. Send her healing energy. Hello. Who's this? Hey?
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: This is umke Oh boy, fake name? What's your question
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: for seeing me? I just had a question, um, how
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: do you deal with like trusting someone after like them
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: she and you know you have a baby together. Oh
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: that's not on you, that's on him, you know what
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: I mean. The best apology to change behavior, like he
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: has to regain your trust, you know what I mean? Like,
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: that's not that's not something you got to force yourself
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: to do. Yeah, and it takes time. Don't don't. Don't
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: let him force you to be like, oh you gotta
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: you forgave me, so you gotta no, no, no, it
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: takes time. Whenever you're comfortable, whenever you feel okay, that's
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: when you feel okay. Like Charlemagne said, it ain't about
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: telling me, it's about showing me. And are you open
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: are you open to trusting him again? I am definitely
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: open to trusting him again. It's just like the fact,
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: like feeling like the prison, like feeling betrayed by someone.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: All good feelings are not good feelings but all natural
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: feelings to have. All you gotta do is remain open
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: to trusting him, and he has to regain your trust
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: by changing his behavior. And that's just gonna come over time.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: Just like you knew he was cheating. It's like your
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: six since that woman, since intuition knew he was cheating.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: You're gonna know when you're doing right, and thank you
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: and if you still comfortable. Every once in a while,
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: do a phone check, phone check, Nick, give me a
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: phone thank you, guys. Hello, who's this? Hey? Hey Nannie,
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: what's your question for CNE? So I just thought out
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: my husband was texting Reilly like, but this test with
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: a co worker. I'm a month pregnant and I've been
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: going through a lot of like, let's scary scars. So
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: this whole time, I'm like, why would you think it's
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: okayty for you to be doing these things when we
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: are going through like some hard at home, like we
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: could lose the baby. And every time I bring it
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: up to him, he kind of just like, just get
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: over it, you know, let's move on. M I didn't
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: do nothing with this message, But like, you work with
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: this girl, and I've asked you multiple times to like
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: contact her in front of me and tell her like
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: it's over, you know, like I don't want to have
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: nothing to do with you, but he won't do it. Yeah,
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'll be honest with you. I think it's
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: very disrespectful the fact that you're pregnant and continues to
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: text this girl. I know it has to be difficult
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: for you because every day he goes to work, you
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: have to think about your husband seeing this other woman
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: that he's been texting explicitly. And it's not a matter
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: of just get over it and it'll go away. No,
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: it's not that you put that You keep that pressure
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  Speaker 1: on that man's neck. The fact that he has been
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  Speaker 1: doing it is very disrespectful. Your husband is a boy.
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  Speaker 1: We've all had our boy opportunities and our boy aspects
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  Speaker 1: of our lives. But he has to grow up and
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  Speaker 1: understand he has responsibilities. He has a wife at home
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  Speaker 1: that's pregnant, and he should be taking care of home,
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  Speaker 1: making sure that you know that life that you're building,
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  Speaker 1: that you're completely stressed. Free Yo yo yo, queen, Get
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  Speaker 1: a fired queen, Queen, get a fired queen. You know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm sure you got a creative mind.
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  Speaker 1: to the boss. You know what I'm saying, get her fired.
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  Speaker 1: But you know that's our livelihood. I can't. Yes, Oh
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  Speaker 1: you care about her livelihood? Did she care about your
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  Speaker 1: liveli She ain't thinking about you. She ain't thinking about
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  Speaker 1: your life, your livelihood, the life and your belly. Nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Get a fired queen, all right, goodness, gracious, let her know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you fired. If you don't leave my
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  Speaker 1: man alone, you might have to embarrass up. You might
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  Speaker 1: have to embarrass him straight up. Maybe maybe an anonymous
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  Speaker 1: face book post. I know what's going on at the job.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all better leave my man alone before I start naming
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  Speaker 1: names all. You could do it right now if you want, no,
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  Speaker 1: don't do it now, think about it. I have a
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  Speaker 1: good one. What kind of advice is that forget a fight?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Do it now? Don't do it now, don't
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  Speaker 1: Yane Charlomagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We
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  Speaker 1: got a special guest in the building, that's right. Name
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  Speaker 1: is Love Russell, not La Russell. He's only been the
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: La five times, that's right. My man Horvain hit me,
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  Speaker 1: hit me back in July and he sent me a
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  Speaker 1: a video and he was and he was like, he
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  Speaker 1: just sent it to me. I think he might say
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  Speaker 1: check it out, but I didn't get a chance to
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  Speaker 1: check it out. In a couple days later he hit
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  Speaker 1: me and Hope and say, you ain't watched that video.
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  Speaker 1: So I watched the video and I was like, Yo,
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  Speaker 1: who is this kid? This kid is incredible? And here
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  Speaker 1: he is now right you know. Now for people, where
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  Speaker 1: are you from? I'm from Valo, California, from California. He
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  Speaker 1: forties land. That's right, man, all right? So so l
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  Speaker 1: Russell just here to s pitch some bars. If y'all
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  Speaker 1: haven't seen hopevai and post him or me post him up.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody be posting him. You know. We want to give
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  Speaker 1: him the opportunity to do his one two things. Right here.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna rap, okay, you're gonna wrap, all right, So
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  Speaker 1: only millions of people listening right now. No pressure though,
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  Speaker 1: no pressure. Yeah, Breakfast Club, thank you for having me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: bay Area Valo, Come on, man, we came out to
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  Speaker 1: n Y twelve deep for this. Yeah. African and the
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  Speaker 1: European with like when't come hill, No European ship your
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  Speaker 1: opinion shod show. European lives, money and murder. That's that European.
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  Speaker 1: I know better. I just hold my tongue yelling out
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  Speaker 1: told the while I'm on my running happily waves back
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  Speaker 1: as I hold my gun. Huh. I've seen a lot
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  Speaker 1: of side of y'all look like me. You know your
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  Speaker 1: rights get denied when you look like me. Yeah, we're
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: both in different size, but you look like me. I
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  Speaker 1: come to man in the mirror. Never looked like me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm familiar. Quite peculiar, dude. You know yourself? Are you
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  Speaker 1: tending to your garden? Do you grow yourself? Are you
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  Speaker 1: living in the past? Do you hold yourself accountable for
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: all that's bad? Like you all yourself a new life,
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  Speaker 1: a new bitch and knew you, some new goals and
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  Speaker 1: new holes and new crew. You know them. You know
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  Speaker 1: us and them too. You know who everybody is, but
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  Speaker 1: who you I ain't trying to preach because I hate that.
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  Speaker 1: But I see dying, and I hate that smelling all
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  Speaker 1: the time. I gotta fake that. I hate twenty shots.
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  Speaker 1: Why make that sharing all this pain for the income
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  Speaker 1: market game? Greg Granny was a sleep. What would have
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  Speaker 1: ever covered chain gave us band dads like that? Could
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  Speaker 1: ever stop the pain? Shoot to hang for these songs
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  Speaker 1: that I sang. Jused to die for these pitches that
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  Speaker 1: I posted, because you used to die trying to get
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: a right to vote, liberty in life. They say we
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  Speaker 1: gotta right to both. But when have right? Since they
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: jugg us off that boat, took us from our land,
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: then took our lad from us, cross the arm in
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: the leg. They really took our hand from us through
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: a send them pages, taxed all our wages, tought us
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  Speaker 1: state religion rippled all the pages, been his way for
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  Speaker 1: ages through a cent him mazes made it off them
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: cotton fields. Now we're on the stages wrapping about ass cheeks.
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: We're rapping about chains, rapping about fenzes, We're rapping about pains,
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: rapping about oppression, We're rapping about pain. I'm wrapping about
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  Speaker 1: all that. I gotta share the blame they're rapping on
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  Speaker 1: the contract. They're wrapping for some fame. They're wrapping in
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  Speaker 1: a slate deal. We're clapping while they hang Dan. Hello,
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: Dan should be doing but let out it's different. Get
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  Speaker 1: get Russell some water? I want my own man. I
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: gotta hear something else. I need another one? Man, you
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  Speaker 1: got some more? You know? I come? You got some more?
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  Speaker 1: You want to switch to beat? He got his own
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: water Alkali? Okay, let's get another beat for him? Then
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: he got he got his own alkali? What else we got?
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  Speaker 1: Who produced that? By the way, Russell produced by skies man?
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  Speaker 1: Okay from no, No, he's actually from overseas. Okay, wow,
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: wow wow wow that beat online? Man, Make sure that's clear.
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  Speaker 1: Make sure it's clear. The money were clear and were
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  Speaker 1: splitting the pie up with him. Let's go there we go.
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  Speaker 1: We got no one? What's this? Who produced this one?
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  Speaker 1: This by bandit loose man Savage. Let's go my mail Russell.
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: Let's hear hey yeah go on Valo, California, Bay Area
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  Speaker 1: breakfast club. Yeah, hey, look at what it comes to?
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  Speaker 1: No escape? Who can I run to Na's Agate life
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  Speaker 1: like I'm sun too? Was having fun with it? I
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: ain't so separately. I come with it through my life
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  Speaker 1: away like I was done with it. I've been in
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  Speaker 1: a slump dog. Should have kept it real front of
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  Speaker 1: jump dog, Chris crossing me, gonna make you jump dog.
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  Speaker 1: I just need some preferably in a lump dog dreams
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  Speaker 1: of a beat. Well, no, it's deficiencies in my beat
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  Speaker 1: twelve my net game back feel like eats hell. How
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  Speaker 1: could I be well belly even sleeping? I don't eat well.
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  Speaker 1: I can't even go into the details. I'm just on
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  Speaker 1: the crime bro I got bigger than my mind hole.
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  Speaker 1: I rapped about it when it's time ten years from now.
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  Speaker 1: Don't want to ask where the time go. You can
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  Speaker 1: have a mindful that you could be mindful ever rap
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  Speaker 1: better go get a. Had to send the order back
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  Speaker 1: needed mo chetta. These verses kept me out of them
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  Speaker 1: hurst and stiff me away from churches. Frivolous when I
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  Speaker 1: purchased love letters than cursive elegant when I shoot addicted
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  Speaker 1: to them trees, I never got to the room. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna take a break and let these reboot. Wrapping for
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  Speaker 1: a Daycage spitting when he had neck braids, back when
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  Speaker 1: I was banking with the messages. God was lost, trying
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  Speaker 1: to find some where to fit. Still had pride when
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  Speaker 1: I ain't had the newest kick back when my mamma
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  Speaker 1: used to rub me down with vic gee unit fit
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  Speaker 1: for all the family picks people in them cages him
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  Speaker 1: post to sound free me the statue in the v
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  Speaker 1: it won't be another me. I'm out and bet could
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  Speaker 1: take you from A to Z. They gonna watch me
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  Speaker 1: peel off. I'm on it like A and D. They
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  Speaker 1: put it on the show because save us for A
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  Speaker 1: and D. I didn't put more dope outs and dealers
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  Speaker 1: in eighty three. Yeah, bring it where it caught me
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  Speaker 1: sliding with the stick. The let's be playing hockey or
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  Speaker 1: this horseplay gonna turn me into a jockey number cook.
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  Speaker 1: I'm always burning the broccoli lee. I'm wrong for plitting
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  Speaker 1: my favorite song. Shouldn't invest in half and the opportunity
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  Speaker 1: zone be on my back and I ain't even wearing
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  Speaker 1: blown three grams in the cone. I'm trying to get
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  Speaker 1: in my zone ready for the shake back, buzzing like
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 1: I drunk a whole eight pack. I've set things I
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  Speaker 1: can't take back, watching everything I built shot the trumble
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  Speaker 1: apart being broken. You the humblest start halfway through a breakdown.
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 1: I didn't lost everything, but faith now negative balances on
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  Speaker 1: my PayPal accounts closing. I'm the only one that's being open.
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  Speaker 1: I get the picture you posing. Its depended towards be
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  Speaker 1: looking at empty floor, low ticket sales. But I keep
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  Speaker 1: booking more meets with the board they missed, told us
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  Speaker 1: the cord really put in work. Can't make it off,
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  Speaker 1: my lord, no bill hop. I'm no one that opened doors.
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  Speaker 1: Norm's gonna make it. I can feel it in my
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  Speaker 1: core when it rains, it pois on the poor even more.
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  Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing, but don't ask me if
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure. Never before the door, if it, don't ask
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  Speaker 1: me what it's for. I've been on neds can show
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  Speaker 1: you the Heaven's dore, Mike, get my hand out with
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  Speaker 1: it like it's the sword. Pull up to the venue
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  Speaker 1: with my own boy while I listen more can't get
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  Speaker 1: caught up than them cours playing the new releases while
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 1: I wrote my own tour twenty twenty boards and trying
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  Speaker 1: to explore. When you're the mother and boss, ain't no
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  Speaker 1: susting it's bored. Don't make me reveal all this I
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  Speaker 1: do for real, It wasn't. I took them and gate
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  Speaker 1: from scales. They won't admit once they get up in
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  Speaker 1: the fields, don't try to lend their hand. Once I
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  Speaker 1: made it up to hell Stream to the mill without
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  Speaker 1: a distribution deal, you don't do it on your own money.
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 1: Let's be for real. My plots help me out, But
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 1: I started by myself. I put over fifty k before
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  Speaker 1: I ever got some help. I ain't got no label.
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  Speaker 1: They can't put me on the shelf. I don't pay
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  Speaker 1: no flaw. They write about me by themselves. I can't
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 1: build a home, but looked at me building wealth. I
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  Speaker 1: can cry by my hand, I could play. I was dealt.
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: I'm an animal. You can see my pill hit at
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 1: a moment. Most the melt made my career is spitting
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  Speaker 1: everything I felt undisputed. Champ GC on the belt made
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  Speaker 1: my career. Spitting everything I felt undisputed. Champ GC on
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 1: a belt. It's different. But leo, what's up? Alkaline ball us?
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 1: Those alkaline balls right there, that's holistic hip hop. Those
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 1: are healing verses right there. No industry plant, this is
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  Speaker 1: organic growing on the organic man. Wow, Wow, what are
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  Speaker 1: your Twitters and Instagram and Russell when they can find
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  Speaker 1: you follow me at L Russell LA r U S
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  Speaker 1: S E L L on everything. I appreciate y'all. Man
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  Speaker 1: young man is special. There is special. It's L Russell.
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  Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Remember it's Lot Russell,
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  Speaker 1: not La Russell. Not lying on man's right. He's only
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 1: been in La five times. He said, it's the Breakfast
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 1: Club morning. Everybody is tj Envy angela year, Charlemagne, the guy.
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. Charlemagne. You got a positive
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  Speaker 1: note for the people. Hey, The positive note of the
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  Speaker 1: day is simply this life is ironic. It takes depression
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  Speaker 1: to know happiness. It takes scress to understand calm. It
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