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DIY: D**k It Yourself - RHOC Recap with Alexis Bellino · Reality with The King

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Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
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Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
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Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
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Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and
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Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the
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Speaker 1: Real Housewives franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in
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Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
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Speaker 1: scripted as well. Hey, rain drops, So today's episode Reality
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Speaker 1: with the King, I got Alexis Jansen back to recap.
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Speaker 2: Oh c Hey, hey, it's the Jansen's Worth Jason.
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Speaker 3: Instead of Jesus Jobs. It's Jansen Jugs. Okay, the pop filling.
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Speaker 2: You you literally are you? You're definitely doing the Alexis
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Speaker 2: Jesus Jugs saying, Hey, by the way, it's JJ and JJ.
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Speaker 2: So it's fine Jesus Judge John Janssen. It works. Although
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Speaker 2: our our logos AJ, so yeah, that doesn't work, so
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Speaker 2: we'll keep it AJ.
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Speaker 3: Well, we let to see that Netli.
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Speaker 2: That was the logo through the whole wedding and everything
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Speaker 2: that he had the A with the J wrapped around it.
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Speaker 2: So yeah, it's that I love it.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, well before we give pardon, I just want to
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Speaker 1: you know, I'm so happy for you and John.
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Speaker 3: How it what was married?
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Speaker 1: Light?
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Speaker 3: Alexis bliss?
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Speaker 2: Yes it is. I mean it's crazy because it really
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Speaker 2: does feel different. Like I told John when we first
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Speaker 2: started realizing we were in love, we don't need to
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Speaker 2: get married. We can just stay you know, fiance and
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Speaker 2: it's fine. And then we decided, obviously, you know, we
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Speaker 2: want to do the whole thing. And when we went
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Speaker 2: before the friends and family and god, it is a
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Speaker 2: different feeling. You do feel different. The sex is better,
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Speaker 2: the the do you wake up in the morning You're like, okay, no,
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Speaker 2: this is mine forever. I know, how did it get better? Carlos,
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Speaker 2: we already had like the top over the top tip,
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Speaker 2: you know, off the charts. But yeah, everything is different,
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Speaker 2: Everything is different, So I build the main thing. He's
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Speaker 2: my person.
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Speaker 1: Listen, I could tell boy, the glow you have and
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Speaker 1: that makes me so happy because you would think you
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Speaker 1: had a little bit of a space cake but if not, weed,
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Speaker 1: it's love.
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Speaker 2: It's my light, Honey, Let's be real. It's my it's
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Speaker 2: my it's that's my glow. Okay, look look forgot my light.
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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not vain enough to take my big one,
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Speaker 2: So I ordered the Butt Amazon and I'm like, I'm like,
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Speaker 2: I'm going to Missouri and I'll have the podcast a
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Speaker 2: couple of times, so I'm bringing my lights, so my
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Speaker 2: wrinkles look lets and my bags look less because I'm
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Speaker 2: not a whole lot here. But we start up, but
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Speaker 2: we start off buying Carlos.
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Speaker 3: We still have fun.
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Speaker 1: And I can't talked about this episode because look, let's
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Speaker 1: get right into it. Our Frantamera Judge. I was shocked
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Speaker 1: at the scene between her and Eddie where I can
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Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, this would be a nice dinner between
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Speaker 1: the two of them.
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Speaker 3: Maybe she's like, you know, setting up that she's going
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Speaker 3: to go to.
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Speaker 4: Amsterdam, you know, which is hea this trip for this
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Speaker 4: particular season, and then all of a sudden they talk
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Speaker 4: about their lack of communication and how you know they
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Speaker 4: have like one good.
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Speaker 3: Fight every six months, and all of a sudden.
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Speaker 1: Ed it Reveale's like it when you're drunk ifn Tama's like,
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Speaker 1: do you think I have.
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Speaker 3: A drinking problem? And he's like, I think it's not
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Speaker 3: good for our relationship.
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Speaker 1: I was I was shocked by that revelation because I
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Speaker 1: did not see that on comedy What about You, Well.
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Speaker 2: I was. I was really shocked at it. But you
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Speaker 2: know what I loved about it, Carlos, I have a
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Speaker 2: different feel on it. I mean, I mean, obviously, when
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Speaker 2: you're they've been married like how many over a decade now,
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Speaker 2: so it's like, Okay, you're gonna have qualms. You're gonna
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Speaker 2: get on each other's nerves. And her the way he's
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Speaker 2: gonna bug hit her, and the way he eats is
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Speaker 2: gonna bug her. And the way she acts if she's
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Speaker 2: had two cocktails instead of one gonna bug him. You're
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Speaker 2: gonna have those things to get through in life. But
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Speaker 2: what I loved about it is it's showing real like
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Speaker 2: a reality, like the reality behind the relationship. I loved that.
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Speaker 2: It was like, look, we do have a good marriage.
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Speaker 2: And when you see them, you know how there's couples, Carlos,
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Speaker 2: where you see a couple in your circle and you're like,
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Speaker 2: they just are off. They just they're just not happy.
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Speaker 2: They don't have that glow. Eddie and her still have
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Speaker 2: that glow and are still madly in love. You can tell.
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Speaker 2: But it is showing the reality of it ain't perfect
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Speaker 2: all the time. You're gonna have some fights, you know.
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Speaker 2: So I just loved that they and they the way
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Speaker 2: it ended though, really made me happy because he's like,
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Speaker 2: h like that you did that little funny thing with
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Speaker 2: his hand, and then she laughed and he's like, there's
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Speaker 2: not laugh again, and she laughs about I just loved
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Speaker 2: I was like, that's true, that's the truth, Like that's
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Speaker 2: that is then. But they've worked through it, you know.
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Speaker 2: And I'm sure they went home and maybe she wasn't drinking.
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Speaker 2: She had soda, water and cranberry at that dinner. So
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Speaker 2: here's the other thing, Carlos. Though she this whole season
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Speaker 2: she was going through the ringer with Teddy and the
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Speaker 2: fact that the cast members were not wrapping around her
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Speaker 2: with everything she was going through. Nobody was on her side,
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Speaker 2: so she didn't have an ally or full support at
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Speaker 2: all filming, and she still met put her foot forward
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Speaker 2: and did her job, so that I have to appreciate.
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Speaker 2: So I feel like a lot of the strain you
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Speaker 2: see even on her and Eddie's relationship was probably from
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Speaker 2: the fact that she was a gut r low, like
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Speaker 2: she needed someone to help full up her tank, you know,
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Speaker 2: with the castmates. I truly feel that because I know
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Speaker 2: what it feels like to be on the island, and
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Speaker 2: she was on the island last year with me. We
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Speaker 2: were in freaking Timbuktu with the rest of the cast
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Speaker 2: over here, and in this season, nobody wrapped around her
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Speaker 2: at one of the hardest times of her life.
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Speaker 3: So yeah, no, I've done with you. And listen.
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Speaker 1: One thing that I believe we all know is that, look,
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Speaker 1: relationships are hard.
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Speaker 3: Married just are harder because.
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Speaker 1: You do have this commitment you take them, vow to
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Speaker 1: be there through sickness and health and rich and for
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Speaker 1: all and all the other stuff. And when it comes
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Speaker 1: to communication, I thought it was interesting that Tamra Black
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Speaker 1: considered to be a talkative person that in her relationship
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Speaker 1: with her marriage to Eddie, how she admitted that we
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Speaker 1: don't communicate well and that we do have like one
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Speaker 1: big argument every six months, and we kind of argue
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Speaker 1: about all this stuff we kept inside.
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Speaker 3: What would you say, you know this, you know when
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Speaker 3: you're now married to the love of your life.
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Speaker 1: What would you say is the secret to communicate well
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Speaker 1: when you are in a marriage? Because I do think
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Speaker 1: that's one of the problems a lot of marriages, you know,
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Speaker 1: face it.
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Speaker 2: Really is that if I hadn't been through fourteen years
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Speaker 2: of marriage with my first marriage, or I'm sorry, fourteen
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Speaker 2: years of counseling in my first marriage, I wouldn't have
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Speaker 2: all these tools in my tool belt because counseling, real
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Speaker 2: and therapy is so positive. It's such a good thing
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Speaker 2: even in life and even with friends and any relationships
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Speaker 2: that you have. And the one thing that my therapist
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Speaker 2: always taught me is well, first of all, you have
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Speaker 2: to communicate. And I do believe Tamor when she said
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Speaker 2: and Eddie that he agreed when she said, I hold
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Speaker 2: things in, I don't get them out, you know. And
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Speaker 2: then that's when they have the six month blowup where
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Speaker 2: they talk about it all and get it all out.
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Speaker 2: That's not a healthy way to go, but if it
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Speaker 2: works for them, they can keep working on. Trying to
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Speaker 2: not shove things under the rug is number one. You've
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Speaker 2: got to communicate it through when it happens, I think
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Speaker 2: is the key. But here's the other key to that.
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Speaker 2: The other key to that is if you're not seeing
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Speaker 2: eye to eye, and John and I've had this happen
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Speaker 2: a couple times already in the two years we've been
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Speaker 2: together where I'm just ready to talk it out. I
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Speaker 2: want to talk it out. I want to get it out.
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Speaker 2: I'm like no, and he goes, Alexis, you're the one
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Speaker 2: that taught me put it on the shelf. We're going
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Speaker 2: to put it right there, and tomorrow or the next day,
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Speaker 2: when we're both calmed down, we've processed the argument and
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Speaker 2: we can pull it off the shelf and we're going
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Speaker 2: to address it after twenty four hours or what, you know,
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Speaker 2: when the time feels right. But right now we're missing
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Speaker 2: you know, we're missing each other, like the wires are
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Speaker 2: going up as straight when we're trying to connect and communicate.
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Speaker 2: And I think that is so cute. Put it on
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Speaker 2: a shelf. Does it mean you're neglecting It doesn't mean
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Speaker 2: you're going to bed mad. It's up there and we'll
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Speaker 2: revisit it. I think that is like one of the
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Speaker 2: biggest things. And I even got mad at Johnny when
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Speaker 2: he made me do that. I said, that's my advice,
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Speaker 2: but I don't want to answer right now.
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Speaker 3: What. No, that's good. I have to use that one day.
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Speaker 3: That's really good advice.
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Speaker 2: I think it would help tamroll. I'm mett tell her
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Speaker 2: next time we have coffee, we're not gonna have the
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Speaker 2: martini because that he doesn't like it. We're gonna have coffee.
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Speaker 3: No, baby, have coffee that Cobbe caffe and that my
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Speaker 3: bro needs.
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Speaker 1: So we've been see the girls together and listen, I
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Speaker 1: will say this, Emily is becoming the.
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Speaker 3: Pot star this season.
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Speaker 2: I'm It's been every season, Carlos. I'm not the only
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Speaker 2: one that sees this. Honey Bunny, come on. Her middle
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Speaker 2: name is Emily pott Stir hyphenated, not the pop that
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Speaker 2: called Emily's black. I love it.
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Speaker 3: I love it.
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Speaker 2: I love it, and nothing's wrong with it. Just own it.
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Speaker 2: I mean, it doesn't matter. You just you are. You
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Speaker 2: are the pot Star. It's okay own it and wear
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Speaker 2: it and proud, put your hat on it and go.
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Speaker 3: I actually agree with you. Listen.
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Speaker 1: I enjoy it, and I think she should own it
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Speaker 1: the way that they want Tamar to own her being
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Speaker 1: one as well.
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Speaker 3: But it's sort of like so Emily is activated.
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Speaker 1: And while the girls were together, she did ask Shannon
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Speaker 1: if she felt that Tama was being shady bringing up
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Speaker 1: the dead and all of a sudden, you know, Shannon's like, look,
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Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with it. And it's a
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Speaker 1: parent and it's evident we talked about this again that
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Speaker 1: Shannon has no Shanna does. I would want to resolve
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Speaker 1: the friendship she have with Tammar and and and it's
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Speaker 1: pretty obvious.
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Speaker 3: And then Tamar all of a.
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Speaker 1: Sudden, it's like, you know, asking Shannon and if she
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Speaker 1: is a sea word, because Shanna was like to be
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Speaker 1: screamed the sea word eighteen times across the table. It's
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Speaker 1: just stuffing she can't deal with ivan Tamara was like,
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Speaker 1: what are you want? Which I'm like, look, Tampa, that's
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Speaker 1: not going to help the case by you repeating the
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Speaker 1: sea word that you know annoys her.
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Speaker 3: But I think for me, Shannon and Tamar will never
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Speaker 3: be friends.
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Speaker 1: And to me, it's evident, although Tammer's trying, Shannon doesn't want.
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Speaker 2: Well, can't they just be work associates? So that's the thing,
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Speaker 2: and I think that's what Tammer has been trying to
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Speaker 2: do all season. I think that scene showed that Tamer's
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Speaker 2: just like, now I'm done, I'm fit, you know, like
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Speaker 2: I've tried, and and Shannon's not having it. Even for
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Speaker 2: a work of friendship. Because I remember I told you
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Speaker 2: a couple of podcasts ago when we were recapping one
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Speaker 2: of the episodes, I said, Tamara doesn't want to be
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Speaker 2: friends with Shannon. Here, she's gonna call herup and say, hey,
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Speaker 2: want to go get a cup of coffee. She doesn't want that.
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Speaker 2: She just wants to be able to do her job,
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Speaker 2: which is what your job is, is to entertain America and
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Speaker 2: be able to be civil in a working environment. And
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Speaker 2: for some reason, you know, but here's a deal about Shannon.
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Speaker 2: It's evident. And I haven't watched all the episode or
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Speaker 2: seasons that she's been on, and you know, really just
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Speaker 2: caught up last season. I got to know a lot
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Speaker 2: about her, and in this season you're seeing it again.
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Speaker 2: And I'm assuming it was her persona before, just her personality,
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Speaker 2: but she holds grudges and she doesn't let go. Like
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Speaker 2: I know we're going to go to the gen thing
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Speaker 2: about how Jen can't go to my wedding and all that.
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Speaker 2: I know we're gonna get there, but it's another it's
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Speaker 2: exactly the same immaturity and holding resentment and bitterness. I mean,
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Speaker 2: if Shannon really is the happiest she's ever been, Like
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Speaker 2: she says she is all these things she says on
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Speaker 2: the show, I'm the happiest I've ever been, you know,
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Speaker 2: if she really is, Why does it matter who Jenna
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Speaker 2: is friends with? And why does it matter if you
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Speaker 2: cannot why can't you not just push everything aside and
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Speaker 2: just do your job with Tamara? That's what that scene
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Speaker 2: really needed to happen, is I think Tamara was just
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Speaker 2: She's like, I'm done now, I've tried five times several avenues.
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Speaker 2: Shannon's not having it, So now are you a sea word?
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Speaker 2: You know? I think that's Shamra is just but her
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Speaker 2: emotions get the best of her a lot this season,
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Speaker 2: and I can see it, Tamors, I can see it
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Speaker 2: when she's filming, because I think she's just emotionally just
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Speaker 2: done from crying about Teddy and worrying about Teddy and
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Speaker 2: trying to visit her every time she can in between
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Speaker 2: all the filming. I mean, that's the stuff behind the
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Speaker 2: scenes that people don't know, you know.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah no.
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Speaker 1: And that's something that she talks a lot about her
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Speaker 1: podcast too.
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Speaker 3: While she was filming.
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Speaker 1: And going through this that you know what Teddy was
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Speaker 1: going through obviously was you know.
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Speaker 3: Heart wrenching for her. And look when it.
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Speaker 1: Comes to Shannon, like I said, IOUs to think Shannon
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Speaker 1: doesn't want to be pressed with Tamor.
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Speaker 3: And guess what, that's okay. I think no one's forcing
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Speaker 3: you guys to be friends.
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Speaker 1: But what I will say is what you said, you
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Speaker 1: have to sometimes do what's best for the show because
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Speaker 1: it is a job, and you do your best to
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Speaker 1: understand the assignment of listed our camera. Are we going
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Speaker 1: to be talking like we did did teen times a day. No,
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Speaker 1: but are we able to at least say, look, we
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Speaker 1: are great as a payer when it comes to this show,
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Speaker 1: so let's do our job. Let's be cordial behind the scenes.
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Speaker 1: But the idea of us being best siege just isn't
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Speaker 1: there anymore. And I would rather Shanna say that.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that's what's going to be interesting
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Speaker 2: next year when they recast Carlos or or next season,
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Speaker 2: I mean for season twenty. I think it's going to
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Speaker 2: be interesting because it's like there are several people, including
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Speaker 2: you know, Gretchen and Shannon who seem like and even
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Speaker 2: Tamor regarding Gretchen, there's just I mean, like even Jen
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Speaker 2: can at least say I'll do my job in film.
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Speaker 2: I feel like between tamor Shannon and Gretchen, there's something
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Speaker 2: where certain ones are going I'm not going to film
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Speaker 2: with this person. What does that do that that alienates?
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Speaker 2: And then it's like, what is production going to do?
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Speaker 2: What is Bravo going to do to fix that? Because
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Speaker 2: it isn't fun for the viewer to know that there's
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Speaker 2: no way that these girls can move forward and work together.
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Speaker 2: We have to be able to see that they can
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Speaker 2: at least do their job and not. I mean, I
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Speaker 2: don't know. I'm interested to see where it's going to
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Speaker 2: go next season.
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Speaker 1: I am too, and I think based listen, I'm a producer.
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Speaker 3: If I was.
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Speaker 1: The decision maker of who comes back, I would not
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Speaker 1: have Shanna come back full time. I think for me,
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Speaker 1: the Shannon stick is up.
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Speaker 2: I use I use that all the time, that she's
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Speaker 2: got she's got a shtick. I say that all the
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Speaker 2: time because even like her falling out of the van
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Speaker 2: and wiping things off of her test and she's always
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Speaker 2: like just shovel, I got honey in my hair. It's like,
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Speaker 2: where are you girl? How are you going to get
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Speaker 2: a man? Acting like that, like nobody wants that tornado
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Speaker 2: around like and by the way, Carlos, she can't keep
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Speaker 2: Gone's name, my husband's name out of her mouth and
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Speaker 2: she's talking about him farting. Yes, I do have a
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Speaker 2: problem with this, and can we take a moment to
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Speaker 2: pray for her real quick? Lord to your heavely Father.
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Speaker 2: But I'm not kidding. I'm so over it because it's like, oh,
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Speaker 2: Dear Heavenly Father, please, I didn't really have one, but okay,
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Speaker 2: here let me go, Dear Heavenly Father. Can we please
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Speaker 2: just give she then some peace of mind that her
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Speaker 2: ex dumpter and she can't get over it and now
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Speaker 2: he's married to me and she needs to find a
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Speaker 2: new storyline. Please, and Jesus name help forget the strength
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Speaker 2: to do that. Amen. Okay, anyway, this is what I
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Speaker 2: will say. Thank you. Maybe it'll maybe God will work
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Speaker 2: a little bit on her. But okay, first of all,
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Speaker 2: do you fart? Yeah? I've been with a man two years.
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Speaker 2: He has never farted in bed or even in daytime. Like,
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Speaker 2: I'm like, maybe he was subliminally like trying to get
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Speaker 2: rid of you and that's why he did that. But
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Speaker 2: also I think she's projecting Carlos because here's why. She's
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Speaker 2: the one who's crapped the bed several times awake in
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Speaker 2: a sleep. She peed on a curtain okay instead of
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Speaker 2: a toilet a couple times drunk. So if you want
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Speaker 2: to say stupid things about my husband, the truth is
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Speaker 2: gonna come out. Now she had said he uh snores,
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Speaker 2: he snores. If she would have said that, I would say, yeah,
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Speaker 2: he does sometimes, and so does my Frenchiet And so
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Speaker 2: I get I get lolled a sleep by two snoring
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Speaker 2: snooze fests, and it's like we move on, But like,
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Speaker 2: just keep his name out of your mouth. You act
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Speaker 2: like you guys were married. You dated off and on
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Speaker 2: and had a tumultuous relationship for three years. You don't
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Speaker 2: compare him to David or your husband. Lose his name.
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Speaker 2: He's married. Now, Okay, that's done. I had to get
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Speaker 2: that off my chest because I am over it. Like
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Speaker 2: I don't know if she thinks that she is insulting
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Speaker 2: him and embarrassing him, but she's embarrassing herself because she
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Speaker 2: can't get his name off of her mouth. Like, stop
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Speaker 2: using his name. He Okay, that's it. We can move on.
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Speaker 2: To everything else, but.
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Speaker 3: Before we move on to everything else, and.
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Speaker 2: I need to drink of water.
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Speaker 1: After that, I have him pir clop in holy water
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Speaker 1: waiting for me. It's a communion time bath on your assessment,
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Speaker 1: and it just hit me and I never thought about
16:48
Speaker 1: this fully until you ran down.
16:53
Speaker 3: How she just can't keep his name out of her mouth?
16:56
Speaker 1: Do you think and we're going to get into the
17:00
Speaker 1: ultimatum she pretty much gave jan, which I was like, motherfucker, do.
17:04
Speaker 2: You think I just went off? Now wait till we
17:05
Speaker 2: get to that part. I was getting red bull for
17:10
Speaker 2: that though.
17:10
Speaker 3: I was. I was I was taking.
17:14
Speaker 1: This is reality with the King and I'm Carlos King.
17:17
Speaker 3: Let's get back into the show. Ask do you think
17:23
Speaker 3: Shannon is still in love with John?
17:25
Speaker 2: I think she's pissed off because he dumped her and
17:31
Speaker 2: then married the hotter, younger cast member. And I think
17:35
Speaker 2: that she's bitter and can't move past that. And that's
17:39
Speaker 2: it's just like she holds grudges with like why can't
17:41
Speaker 2: if you're if you're a mature, happy, sixty three year
17:45
Speaker 2: old woman, why can you not move past the fact
17:48
Speaker 2: that if Jenn talks to me yesterday and goes to
17:50
Speaker 2: coffee with me, and then she hangs out with you.
17:53
Speaker 2: Why is that a problem. It's a problem because you're
17:56
Speaker 2: your own problem. She's her own worst nightmare. She can't
17:59
Speaker 2: move past John. I'm sure she still can't move past David.
18:02
Speaker 2: But John just happens to be the unfortunate, innocent bystander
18:06
Speaker 2: that came in between you know, David and the divorce
18:09
Speaker 2: and the affair. And then she dates John who dumps her,
18:12
Speaker 2: and she knew along the way that he probably wasn't
18:16
Speaker 2: going to stay with her forever. They ever talked about marriage,
18:18
Speaker 2: they never talked about moving in, they ever talked about finances.
18:20
Speaker 2: There was the relationship he was trying to get out of.
18:23
Speaker 2: I think that she is so bitter from all of
18:26
Speaker 2: that that it's just like she can't she can't lose
18:29
Speaker 2: his name. I don't think she's still in love with him,
18:31
Speaker 2: because how can you be in love with someone who
18:34
Speaker 2: doesn't love you back? Or I don't know. I maybe
18:37
Speaker 2: she is, but I just think it's that she just
18:40
Speaker 2: hates herself, and so she takes that out on everyone
18:42
Speaker 2: else and puts these ultimatums on people. When you're a
18:44
Speaker 2: sixty two year old woman. It's just would you do that? Carlos,
18:49
Speaker 2: Like I have friends that don't that this friend doesn't
18:53
Speaker 2: like this friend. And I'm just say, when I'm having
18:55
Speaker 2: at Christmas party, guess what A is coming, and so
18:58
Speaker 2: is B. If you don't want to be there, it's
18:59
Speaker 2: your her decision not to come. And if Be doesn't
19:01
Speaker 2: want to be there, it's his decision or her decision
19:03
Speaker 2: not to come. But I'm not going to be the
19:05
Speaker 2: immature one trying to keep between you two. I love
19:07
Speaker 2: you both. Everybody's welcome. If you want to come, great,
19:10
Speaker 2: If not, it's on you. Guys. That's the mature way
19:13
Speaker 2: to handle it. That's why I could be friends with
19:15
Speaker 2: Jen and Tamra. You know it's it's it's not an ultimatum.
19:18
Speaker 2: It's just Tamra, don't talk about Jen to me. Jen,
19:21
Speaker 2: don't talk about me to Tampa, Tamara about me to me.
19:24
Speaker 2: That's it it. I don't I'm so confused by how
19:28
Speaker 2: older women can act like that. It's like something you
19:31
Speaker 2: would do when you were twelve and your mom has
19:33
Speaker 2: to sit you down and teach you. Maybe your mom
19:35
Speaker 2: didn't sit her down.
19:38
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I'm not going to argue with you
19:40
Speaker 1: when it comes to that. I was floored because listen,
19:43
Speaker 1: let's hop about conversation. The biggest thing for me that
19:46
Speaker 1: highlighted the ultimatum was the fact that I agreed with
19:50
Speaker 1: Tamara at one hundred percent. And I also think Emily
19:53
Speaker 1: even agreed with Tamar.
19:54
Speaker 3: If I'm not.
19:54
Speaker 1: Mistaken that Shannon's liking to Jen is just to piss
20:01
Speaker 1: off Tamra.
20:02
Speaker 3: That's that's all it is. And I never thought that
20:04
Speaker 3: that's it.
20:05
Speaker 2: Yeah, I never thought that till I heard that on
20:06
Speaker 2: this episode. I never it was never even never crossed
20:09
Speaker 2: my mind. And then when she Tamra said that, I
20:11
Speaker 2: was like, actually, yeah, it kind of is because I
20:15
Speaker 2: filmed last season and Shannon didn't give two craps about
20:18
Speaker 2: Gen last season and they weren't even very friends at all,
20:20
Speaker 2: So yeah, it is. It is kind of like, let
20:23
Speaker 2: me just find another, you know, nail to put in
20:26
Speaker 2: Tamra and turn turn the nail in Tamra's heart, because yeah,
20:29
Speaker 2: let me just find her worst enemy. And so I'll
20:32
Speaker 2: I'll choose Gretchen and all choose Gin. But at least, Carlos,
20:36
Speaker 2: do you feel like this? I wonder what the viewers think.
20:38
Speaker 2: I feel like with Gin and Tamarra, they get the
20:41
Speaker 2: assignment and they're doing their job even though they don't
20:43
Speaker 2: love each other. They there's there's there's a beef there,
20:46
Speaker 2: we all know it. But they're they're able to put
20:48
Speaker 2: on their big girl britches and do their job. Yes,
20:51
Speaker 2: it's not possible with Gretchen and Tamra, and it's not
20:53
Speaker 2: possible with Shannon and Tamra. Do you feel that.
21:01
Speaker 3: Saying let me tell you something. Let me tell you something.
21:03
Speaker 3: The reason why they.
21:04
Speaker 1: Show like Salt Lake City works is because.
21:09
Speaker 3: They fight a lot, but they find a way to
21:12
Speaker 3: sort of get back together. The same thing with Beverly Hills.
21:21
Speaker 1: They they The thing with the Beverly Hills cast Alexis
21:25
Speaker 1: is they don't isolate one person. Even when Erica Jane
21:30
Speaker 1: was going through the most horrific times in her life
21:32
Speaker 1: with a divorce from Tom and the fraud and you know,
21:36
Speaker 1: all of the laws, dues and all of that ship,
21:39
Speaker 1: there weren't half of the casts who believed Erica Jane
21:41
Speaker 1: was guilty. Lisa Renna and I'll say Kyle Lisa rent
21:46
Speaker 1: a child was really like on Erica's side, but they
21:49
Speaker 1: also had questions. But it wasn't like something and garselves
21:53
Speaker 1: that we're not filming with Erica Jane because we don't
21:55
Speaker 1: want to be associated with somebody who's associated with fraudulent
21:58
Speaker 1: activities or charge as.
22:00
Speaker 3: The thing with OC that I do not want it to.
22:03
Speaker 1: Turn it to Jersey, for example, is the fact that
22:08
Speaker 1: you have to find a way to go along to
22:10
Speaker 1: get along. And that's the reason why when Tamara came back,
22:13
Speaker 1: I'll say this and I'll say it again, When Tamara
22:16
Speaker 1: was fine that season and Heather came back and they
22:20
Speaker 1: wanted Heather to be the queen be of the show
22:23
Speaker 1: and it flopped right, Emily and Gina shit talk Tamarra
22:29
Speaker 1: and interviews that entire season she was on, only for
22:32
Speaker 1: the girl to come back, and they're like, fuck, at
22:35
Speaker 1: least Emily and Gina found a way to be like,
22:39
Speaker 1: let's let's let's at least work with Tamara to do
22:42
Speaker 1: with the best for the show. And that's why Emily
22:44
Speaker 1: and Gina to me, are enjoyable to watch.
22:47
Speaker 3: The thing with Shannon is Shannon.
22:51
Speaker 1: Hey, listen, I'm not trying to pommel on Shannon, but
22:53
Speaker 1: I've just got to be honest here and listen, I'm
22:55
Speaker 1: only talking about her based on the show.
22:57
Speaker 2: Right now, you can pile on her because guess what,
22:58
Speaker 2: I have kept my mouth shut and the cookie monster
23:02
Speaker 2: better keep the John's name out of her mouth, okay,
23:04
Speaker 2: because she's doing there's gonna be some truth told because
23:08
Speaker 2: I do have facts and I do have proof of
23:09
Speaker 2: stuff which we won't name how we all know after
23:13
Speaker 2: the last season. But it's like I don't have to
23:16
Speaker 2: shut up, but she better shut up with my husband now,
23:19
Speaker 2: thank you.
23:20
Speaker 4: Okay, go ahead, no lifted, listen there by your man
23:24
Speaker 4: tell me why that I'll I'll right.
23:27
Speaker 3: So I'm not.
23:28
Speaker 2: I'm not.
23:29
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna argument that would either.
23:37
Speaker 2: Not right now. I kind of feel like I have
23:39
Speaker 2: a knife in my hand and I'm like you, think
23:45
Speaker 2: of the garage.
23:46
Speaker 3: The biggest this the thig is this.
23:49
Speaker 1: To see To see Shannon.
23:53
Speaker 3: Give the ultimatum to Jin was shocking.
23:58
Speaker 1: What was even more shocking was Jen saying, I'm not
24:02
Speaker 1: I did I didn't receive a safe the day from Alexis.
24:08
Speaker 3: I like Alexus. I do consider her friend.
24:11
Speaker 1: We have a good time, we have coffee, whatever and
24:14
Speaker 1: when and when, she said, but in order for us
24:18
Speaker 1: to not be in a bad place, I will not
24:20
Speaker 1: go to the wedding and Shannon says thank you.
24:23
Speaker 3: I was like, what the fuck is happening?
24:26
Speaker 2: First of all, that is you were running both lanes there.
24:31
Speaker 2: It's like, that's not really making a stance, because if
24:33
Speaker 2: you really do say you like me and enjoy me,
24:35
Speaker 2: then you don't go to Shannon and say but I
24:36
Speaker 2: won't go to her wedding. But here's the reality behind
24:39
Speaker 2: everything now, Carlos. Because that scene, I then knew what
24:42
Speaker 2: was happening, because Jen and I talked all the way
24:45
Speaker 2: up until like April something, because I went back on
24:48
Speaker 2: my text to look after I saw that scene. We
24:50
Speaker 2: talked all until about April or May, like May is
24:54
Speaker 2: when myfe Save the Date went out, like all the
24:56
Speaker 2: way up and I send us Save the Date out
24:58
Speaker 2: and then there's three weeks. I mean, I'm talking we
25:01
Speaker 2: talked twenty five minutes on the phone when I'm in
25:02
Speaker 2: Beverly Hills trying to get my gown and I had
25:05
Speaker 2: a debucle with the first designer and then I had
25:07
Speaker 2: to find another designer. Like she's helping me all along
25:09
Speaker 2: the way and talking to me, okay, and then she's
25:11
Speaker 2: texting back and forth all the time too. Yes. So
25:14
Speaker 2: then May comes and I send the save the dates. Okay.
25:17
Speaker 2: Then the three weeks come where there's like, you know,
25:20
Speaker 2: I've texted her a couple of times. Nothing. I'm like, oh,
25:22
Speaker 2: I know that. You know, things get busy. They're probably traveling,
25:24
Speaker 2: I don't know. And then and then I decide it's
25:28
Speaker 2: it's five months before my wedding and I was going
25:31
Speaker 2: in for my emergency boob surgery and if I had
25:35
Speaker 2: the ruptured implant, and her and I would when we
25:39
Speaker 2: would have cramps, we would call the other one and go,
25:41
Speaker 2: you have cramps right, and I'm so sorry, or you
25:43
Speaker 2: know I'm in car I mean, we talked it through everything.
25:45
Speaker 2: She did not respond after she knew I was in
25:47
Speaker 2: Beverly Hills that day going in for my surgery, not
25:50
Speaker 2: even the next day. I let a whole another four
25:52
Speaker 2: days go by, not a check up, not to call me, nothing.
25:55
Speaker 2: So this is where she was distancing herself because she
25:57
Speaker 2: knew she'd said that on camera. Okay, this is just
25:59
Speaker 2: where I'm is going. She knew she'd said that on cameras.
26:02
Speaker 2: And then she's like, I do have to kind of
26:03
Speaker 2: distance myself from Alexis now. So then I send her
26:05
Speaker 2: the text and I disinvite her, and she was shocked.
26:08
Speaker 2: She was like, why are you disinviting me? And I'm like,
26:10
Speaker 2: are you cuckoo? Like, yeah, haven't responded. I just had surgery.
26:13
Speaker 2: You didn't check up on me. You have a text
26:15
Speaker 2: to me back in three weeks when we were talking
26:16
Speaker 2: almost every day. Text prove it, my text chain proves it,
26:20
Speaker 2: and the phone calls if I would have kept the
26:21
Speaker 2: coal log. But like, we chopped almost every day, every
26:23
Speaker 2: couple of days, and you didn't check up on me.
26:26
Speaker 2: You don't get a seat at my wedding, which is
26:27
Speaker 2: a very limited guest list, and I have twenty five
26:29
Speaker 2: people still wanting to come that I want to invite.
26:32
Speaker 2: So now you're moving off and I'm inviting two more
26:34
Speaker 2: that are going to take your place. Okay, it's total
26:36
Speaker 2: logic to me. Now I understand why it was going
26:41
Speaker 2: on because Shannon was in her ear engines, Like, I
26:43
Speaker 2: have to film with Shannon. I don't want to tick
26:46
Speaker 2: her off because it's the nightmare to film with people.
26:48
Speaker 2: I've got to have allies. I don't like Tamera, you know,
26:50
Speaker 2: I've got so now I understand it all from behind
26:53
Speaker 2: the scenes. But It sucks because Jen and I are
26:56
Speaker 2: friends and I do care about her. I love her
26:58
Speaker 2: and Ryan. I think they're a great couple. I don't
27:00
Speaker 2: have anything negative to say about Jen except for that
27:03
Speaker 2: was weak and she should never have allowed Shannon to
27:08
Speaker 2: scare her from coming to my wedding because she missed
27:10
Speaker 2: a fabulous event and she should have been there, and
27:14
Speaker 2: that's on her. But she wasn't being honest when she said,
27:17
Speaker 2: I'm not the kind that's going to allow someone to
27:19
Speaker 2: dictate who I'm friends with. Because you're sure as hell
27:22
Speaker 2: did baby cakes? You sure did you let Shannon get
27:25
Speaker 2: you canceled from my wedding list? Which is sad. It's
27:29
Speaker 2: sad because that was an event of a lifetime and
27:31
Speaker 2: it's a once in a lifetime, So it's sad.
27:34
Speaker 1: Honey, No, let me ask you this because I actually
27:39
Speaker 1: feel sad right now.
27:42
Speaker 3: Was that hard to watch?
27:44
Speaker 2: Yeah, because then it all made sense because nothing made
27:46
Speaker 2: sense before. And then I'm doing the timing and I'm like,
27:50
Speaker 2: I wonder if they were on a trip back then.
27:51
Speaker 2: So then I text Hammer, when did you guys go
27:53
Speaker 2: to or talk to Tammer? I'm like, when did you
27:55
Speaker 2: guys go to Amsterdam. What month was that? Exact same timing,
27:58
Speaker 2: exact same timing, as she is distancing me. And when
28:01
Speaker 2: I go back to my text exchange that three weeks
28:04
Speaker 2: that she wouldn't answer and went kind of cold on me.
28:08
Speaker 2: Was that, I mean now we've talked now, we've talked
28:10
Speaker 2: to ten since then, and sorry, Shennon, we do talk
28:12
Speaker 2: and she has my friends, so I don't know what
28:13
Speaker 2: she's telling you, but I'll just one here.
28:15
Speaker 3: Wait, you and Jims are about past that. A're talking now.
28:19
Speaker 2: Yes, we are texting now, back and forth. She texted
28:22
Speaker 2: me on my wedding day. Listen to this. She texted
28:24
Speaker 2: me on my wedding day and said, I hope we
28:26
Speaker 2: you know, I know we don't listen to all the noise,
28:28
Speaker 2: and I know you're going to beautiful bride today, wishing
28:31
Speaker 2: you the best or whatever. And I text her back
28:33
Speaker 2: and I said, wow, that means the world to me,
28:35
Speaker 2: and something like, you know what you should be here.
28:38
Speaker 2: I wish that there was a time when we didn't
28:40
Speaker 2: have space come between us. Had not seen this scene,
28:42
Speaker 2: by the way, had not seen this episode CAU. Remember
28:44
Speaker 2: I got married two weeks ago, so I text her
28:46
Speaker 2: and I'm like, you know what, you and Ryan really
28:48
Speaker 2: should be here. I wish we'd never had the space,
28:50
Speaker 2: you know, the distance come between us, but I get
28:52
Speaker 2: the world we live in and this TV show's rotten sometimes,
28:55
Speaker 2: but you should be here. If you want to slap
28:58
Speaker 2: on a wedding outfit and you and Ryan want to come,
29:00
Speaker 2: let me know. I'll make sure there's space for you,
29:01
Speaker 2: because I would have just scootered a couple of people
29:03
Speaker 2: over and made the eight top of ten top, you know,
29:04
Speaker 2: cause we had a couple of eight tops and not
29:06
Speaker 2: all of them were ten, So I'm like, we'll just
29:08
Speaker 2: squeeze them in, you know. But then you know, she's like, no,
29:11
Speaker 2: I'm in San Diego, but thank you so much, and
29:13
Speaker 2: you know, I'm glad that you know, and I just
29:15
Speaker 2: you know, we are on good terms. It's like we
29:17
Speaker 2: can squash that. But I'm not going to tell you
29:19
Speaker 2: that that scene didn't hurt me, because that made it
29:21
Speaker 2: all come It all came to light then I understood why.
29:25
Speaker 2: And I wish Jen would have just texted me back
29:27
Speaker 2: then and said when I was can't when I and
29:30
Speaker 2: disinvited her, I wish she would have just said, I'm sorry,
29:33
Speaker 2: Shannon did get in my ear, I am feeling torn.
29:36
Speaker 2: That would have made me respect the situation a little
29:38
Speaker 2: bit more, you know, But I didn't get that. Instead,
29:42
Speaker 2: I got why are you disinviting me? This is odd?
29:44
Speaker 2: Why that's an odd thing to do? And I'm just like, no, No,
29:48
Speaker 2: it's five months from my wedding and I've talked to
29:50
Speaker 2: you in three weeks, not by having someone come to
29:52
Speaker 2: my wedding that doesn't reply after I have surgery, thank you. No.
29:58
Speaker 2: So anyway, well, and now.
30:00
Speaker 1: It's interesting because the whole time she's pissed that you
30:05
Speaker 1: just invited her, she already told Shannon she wasn't coming
30:09
Speaker 1: right crazy.
30:10
Speaker 2: But now it's all making sense because of this episode.
30:13
Speaker 2: Now it's all.
30:15
Speaker 1: You know.
30:16
Speaker 2: It just it sucks. It did suck. It hurts. It
30:18
Speaker 2: hurt my feelings a lot.
30:21
Speaker 3: Okay, I have to ask you this because you know me.
30:25
Speaker 1: I'm very honest with you, and I never want to
30:28
Speaker 1: put you in a colorful situation.
30:29
Speaker 3: But I gotta be real.
30:31
Speaker 1: When I saw that scene and I saw Jen tells
30:35
Speaker 1: Shannon pretty much, I'm not going I gotta know be
30:39
Speaker 1: loyal to you pretty much, it reminded me of Heather's
30:42
Speaker 1: excuse of not going to your wedding, and how she
30:45
Speaker 1: brought up Shannon's name and to hear Shannon tell Jan
30:50
Speaker 1: thank you.
30:51
Speaker 3: This is my theory and I can be alone.
30:53
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck.
30:55
Speaker 1: I believe Shannon had that same conversation with him, and
31:00
Speaker 1: I believe, based on the fact that I now know
31:03
Speaker 1: Shanna gave people ultimatums, I believe she gave head the line,
31:06
Speaker 1: and I've been Heather was like Jin and gave what
31:09
Speaker 1: was best to continue fimming with Shannon, and.
31:12
Speaker 3: I just agree.
31:13
Speaker 2: I disagree with that because Heather and I have texted
31:15
Speaker 2: back and forth since since that whole watch What Happened Live?
31:19
Speaker 2: We have texted back and forth and we're going to
31:21
Speaker 2: have a conversation about it. It's just I'm in Missouri now.
31:23
Speaker 2: We haven't had the time to actually have a phone call.
31:25
Speaker 2: But she did say she's sorry, and she did not
31:28
Speaker 2: mean it any of that that way. She did a long,
31:31
Speaker 2: lengthy like I sent her a text as long, she
31:33
Speaker 2: sent me one back this long. I love the girl,
31:35
Speaker 2: and I know that we all mess up in this industry,
31:37
Speaker 2: and the problem with being on national television is you
31:40
Speaker 2: do say things. I mean, look at me. My mouth
31:43
Speaker 2: goes faster than my brain a lot of the time,
31:45
Speaker 2: So I'm easy to forgive people on that when they've
31:48
Speaker 2: owned the mistake and said they're sorry. Heather did and
31:51
Speaker 2: it was from the bottom of her heart. It was Alexis,
31:54
Speaker 2: I should have just ended it at that I was
31:55
Speaker 2: a cat's thing, but I just started talking. And I
31:58
Speaker 2: don't mean that. I do love you, Terry, and I
32:00
Speaker 2: do love you guys like you know, like we I
32:03
Speaker 2: don't know what was on her mind that day to
32:06
Speaker 2: keep going, but Shannon did not have any control over Heather.
32:12
Speaker 2: But yes, she has control over Jin or did Okay
32:15
Speaker 2: now I think Now, I don't think Shannon does because
32:17
Speaker 2: Jen is reaching back out to me and talking to me,
32:19
Speaker 2: So I don't think Shannon ends up having the control
32:23
Speaker 2: that she thought she had on Jen. I just wish
32:24
Speaker 2: Jen would have had a backbone back in April because
32:26
Speaker 2: she would have been at my wedding two weeks ago
32:28
Speaker 2: had that happen.
32:30
Speaker 3: Yeah, and also.
32:31
Speaker 1: Listed also thinking of what you said to that, I
32:33
Speaker 1: have been thank for years that listen some of these
32:36
Speaker 1: shows are alliances and it's and listed And I'm also.
32:41
Speaker 3: Going to bend the girls too.
32:45
Speaker 1: It is very hard to film these shows.
32:50
Speaker 3: I mean, Alexis, you know that.
32:52
Speaker 1: And what I want the general audience to understand is this.
32:57
Speaker 3: Imagine going to.
32:58
Speaker 1: Work and no one talks to you, and you have
33:02
Speaker 1: to do that every day for eight hours a day.
33:06
Speaker 2: Is tough, and sometimes go on a trip and sometimes
33:09
Speaker 2: go on a trip where you're together three or four
33:11
Speaker 2: days straight and sometimes you fill in ten or twelve
33:13
Speaker 2: hours and you only get an hour break. I mean,
33:15
Speaker 2: I know, Carlos, That's why I have a capacity to
33:19
Speaker 2: forgive and move on and a compassion for these women
33:22
Speaker 2: because I've been in the same shoes. And the ones
33:25
Speaker 2: that have a good heart and the ones that I
33:27
Speaker 2: you know, that apologize and I can tell they really
33:29
Speaker 2: mean it and talk to me off camera and we
33:32
Speaker 2: still meet up and do things. Those are the ones
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Speaker 2: that you know really didn't mean it and it was
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Speaker 2: a TV moment. Like I've said before, it's the other
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Speaker 2: times that you're you know, you can't move past it.
33:42
Speaker 2: But but I do. I do feel compassion for these
33:45
Speaker 2: women because it's tough. It's a tough job, and you
33:48
Speaker 2: do say things sometimes. I mean, think about this, Carlos,
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Speaker 2: every America or every human not American. Every human says
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Speaker 2: something that they go, oh, why did I say it
33:57
Speaker 2: like that? That don't do even what I mean. It happens
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Speaker 2: in life daily with people, So on national television you're
34:03
Speaker 2: actually being videoed and you know it's going to air.
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Speaker 2: It stinks, you know, it's like it's hard. It's a
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Speaker 2: lot of pressure, and you don't always mean everything you say.
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Speaker 2: It comes out wrong. Everyone's human, and so that's why
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Speaker 2: I tend to be able to forgive and move on,
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Speaker 2: you know. But I do have a line, Carlos, and
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Speaker 2: when that line gets crossed for the final time, I
34:23
Speaker 2: am still cordial, but I don't go back, and so
34:26
Speaker 2: it takes me a long time to get there. But
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Speaker 2: when I am, it's that's the end. So right now
34:31
Speaker 2: I have the Gin and Heather are not at the
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Speaker 2: line yet. They're just you know, they both didn't make
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Speaker 2: the wisest choice. They both kind of apologize. I mean,
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Speaker 2: Jen hasn't really just even though I feel this way,
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Speaker 2: we haven't had the talk yet because I just watched
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Speaker 2: the show last night, so I barely protested it, and
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Speaker 2: that six hours I slept to even be like, oh
34:50
Speaker 2: my gosh, now it all makes sense. I go back
34:52
Speaker 2: to my text and it's like, you know, the detective
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Speaker 2: alexis coming back to work here.
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Speaker 1: Detective alexive and love, I'm happy you were able.
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Speaker 3: To clear things up.
35:06
Speaker 1: And look, the ladies are after them and what we
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Speaker 1: see next week's episode is going to be a course
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Speaker 1: of drama.
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Speaker 2: Oh look, what do you think about the cook? Okay,
35:18
Speaker 2: so I really want to go to Amsterdam? By the way,
35:19
Speaker 2: what do you think about the cupcake or the what
35:22
Speaker 2: was it a muffin? The space muffin space cake? What
35:25
Speaker 2: do you think? First of all, how much of it
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Speaker 2: would you eat? Because I'm scared. When I was watching
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Speaker 2: the girls they were taking another bite, like some one
35:30
Speaker 2: of them was taking a few bites. I'm like, I
35:31
Speaker 2: would probably take one and wait an hour because I
35:33
Speaker 2: would be scared, crapless about what it.
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Speaker 3: Was going to do to me, Like, well, the big
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Speaker 3: big of me. I I'm not a cannabis person.
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Speaker 1: Oh I'm so afraid of how I would act taking
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Speaker 1: or dabbling into a space cake.
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Speaker 3: Listen, I'm such a fucking nerve. I pod won't do it.
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Speaker 2: You want to see it even more?
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Speaker 3: Carlos with you, I don't jink, I don't spoke.
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Speaker 1: So the idea of be like eating a space cache
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Speaker 1: is sort of like scary, but but you're like me,
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Speaker 1: your personality is on one hundred.
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Speaker 2: Anyway, I would love.
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Speaker 3: To see you in it.
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Speaker 2: Well, I've taken it, John, and I taken a gummy before.
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Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not a big cannabis person at all either.
36:24
Speaker 2: My mom liked to smoke the joint and I thankfully
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Speaker 2: I got to smoke one with her, right well, a
36:28
Speaker 2: couple puffs. I'm not going to say a joint, but
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Speaker 2: like I smoked a couple puffs before she ever passed away,
36:32
Speaker 2: because I used to. I used to ridicule her and
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Speaker 2: be like, stop doing that stuff long, it's so bad
36:37
Speaker 2: for you. And then, you know, as I matured and
36:39
Speaker 2: got older, you know, I remember going to her house
36:42
Speaker 2: and and we I just landed two and a half
36:45
Speaker 2: hour drive. It's like, you know, six hours to get
36:47
Speaker 2: to her, and and she was like, let's just have
36:50
Speaker 2: a pep. And I'm like, I'm thirty five, an or
36:52
Speaker 2: fur or whatever. So I'm like, okay, oh hannay, oh hannay,
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Speaker 2: you wouldn't die. I was laughing my butt off, okay,
36:58
Speaker 2: which I already laugh a lot, and I just I
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Speaker 2: thought that I was like the world the room sitting
37:03
Speaker 2: like I was. But then John and I have done
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Speaker 2: a gummy you know, I think maybe twice in our
37:08
Speaker 2: two years together, and I we're just fun. It's fun
37:12
Speaker 2: and funny. You know, we're definitely not around the kids
37:13
Speaker 2: when we do that. It's an adult night and we
37:15
Speaker 2: pretty much stay in the house because it's like, you
37:17
Speaker 2: don't want to you don't want to be out with that.
37:19
Speaker 2: But I'm not a cannabis person either, but I think
37:21
Speaker 2: it's kind of fun. And watching the girls, you know,
37:24
Speaker 2: watching Heather and and Shannon on it and they were
37:27
Speaker 2: stone soup. I was like, this is I want to
37:32
Speaker 2: se I want to see you high.
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Speaker 3: I'm so nervous. I'm full over it. So I don't
37:37
Speaker 3: got a few minutes left with you before I let
37:39
Speaker 3: you go. Yes, you know the OC girls tape their
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Speaker 3: reunion last week.
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Speaker 1: Did you hear anything that happened?
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Speaker 2: I'm a I'm a vault Carly, but we'll have fun recapping. Okay, well, okay, wait.
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Speaker 3: Are you the stuff you heard? Good stuff?
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Speaker 2: Well, I mean it's gonna be a good no ask
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Speaker 2: me what? No, no, goo.
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Speaker 1: Ahead, good stuff for the audience, but maybe not necessarily
38:17
Speaker 1: for the cast.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, but isn't that the way every reunion goes. I've
38:24
Speaker 2: never seen a reunion that's good for the cast, Carlos,
38:26
Speaker 2: that's like the stupidest thing you've ever said. Hell would
38:33
Speaker 2: freeze over good for the cast. Okay, you don't make
38:38
Speaker 2: that money to be on entertainment on TV and have
38:40
Speaker 2: a good reunion for yourself. Buddy, that's where we're in.
38:46
Speaker 2: You are wearing depends to the reunion because you crap
38:48
Speaker 2: your pants all the time. You are you are taking
38:50
Speaker 2: your red bull because you know what and I mean no,
38:54
Speaker 2: there's no good reunion for the cast, but it's gonna
38:56
Speaker 2: be a good reunion.
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Speaker 3: Okay, you know what's a buddy, Alexa, that's but probably
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Speaker 3: be put on his what.
39:03
Speaker 2: Producer hat because that was such a producer.
39:05
Speaker 3: Lie, you're so right, you like problem. It's good for
39:08
Speaker 3: your fucking producers. Not necessary, but.
39:12
Speaker 2: Well, you know about you were just waiting to see
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Speaker 2: what I would say. I love it, I love it,
39:16
Speaker 2: I love it, I love it.
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Speaker 3: I love you.
39:18
Speaker 2: Well, hold one, hold on because you have a lot
39:21
Speaker 2: of friends in high places. Have you heard anything I heard?
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Speaker 4: It's going to be a good show for us to readnap.
39:32
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is. I might need to bring two red
39:36
Speaker 2: bulls for that one, honey, And wait, might I to
39:38
Speaker 2: go on that one? We might cheers by the way here, cheers,
39:42
Speaker 2: cheers cheers. We might need to uh go an hour
39:46
Speaker 2: and a half on that one. I know we try
39:48
Speaker 2: to keep it at forty five. That one might take
39:50
Speaker 2: us to an hour, hour, ten minutes. I'm not sure.
39:52
Speaker 3: Well, I'll spare days, sister. I've just spent days with you,
39:56
Speaker 3: so trust me. Let's block off the fucking time that
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Speaker 3: Alexis Jansen Okay, I love what you say that.
40:03
Speaker 2: Say it again, Alexis Jansen. Wow, We're the Jansons. It's
40:09
Speaker 2: on Spotify. We had a guy guy blessed not to
40:12
Speaker 2: rhyme for uh and surprise the heck out of our
40:15
Speaker 2: whole audience. And my brother called me after the wedding
40:17
Speaker 2: and is like, Sis, that song I can't get out
40:20
Speaker 2: of my head. I'm like, I know, it's so like
40:23
Speaker 2: I can't even get the beat now because I haven't
40:25
Speaker 2: heard it for you know, two weeks. But it's like
40:26
Speaker 2: we're the Jansons, and it's like he was just so
40:29
Speaker 2: freaking epic because he's been John's private chef for like
40:32
Speaker 2: fourteen years, fourteen years or something, for sixteen dinners John's
40:36
Speaker 2: had with him, so I'm like, he knows him. So
40:38
Speaker 2: it's just funny.
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Speaker 3: So I love it. I love listen. I love it.
40:42
Speaker 3: I love you.
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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, have a great weekend, and I'll
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Speaker 1: see you next week, my darling.
40:47
Speaker 2: Bye guys.
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Speaker 1: Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King,
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Speaker 1: produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership.
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Speaker 3: With the Lack Effect Network.
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