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INTERVIEW: Porsha Williams Dishes On Divorce, Nene Leakes, Kenya Moore Exiting RHOA + More · The Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning.
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Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club Morning, everybody is DJ Envy just hilarious,
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Speaker 2: Charlamagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club law la
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Speaker 2: Rosa feeling and for Jess And we got a special
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Speaker 2: guest in the building, Capitol p horsh Is Williams.
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Speaker 1: Welcome.
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Speaker 3: What's good.
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Speaker 1: How are you feeling?
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Speaker 3: I'm feeling good. I was just saying, come in here
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Speaker 3: this time of the morning, this is it, this is
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Speaker 3: nine ten, this is good.
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Speaker 1: You can do that.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, when I was guest hosting with y'all. Yeah, but
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Speaker 3: I love.
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Speaker 1: You, I love you like your sister.
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Speaker 3: Yes, I love me a good Lauren Lauren.
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Speaker 4: Yes, Lauren's are special people.
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Speaker 3: They really are. I was just saying this morning, how
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Speaker 3: many I have? My assister is Lauren? Lauren? We have
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Speaker 3: another stylus Lauren. It's just Lauren's everywhere.
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Speaker 5: Lauren's everywhere.
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Speaker 3: Thank you, Rich Honey giving Rich back on Housewives.
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Speaker 5: Yes, who would have.
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Speaker 3: Thought three years away from the show and now I'm back.
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Speaker 3: It's really exciting to be honest with you. You know,
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Speaker 3: like each season when it comes, you never know what
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Speaker 3: to expect. Like, am I excited? I mean it's like,
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Speaker 3: you know, it feels like a job. But being away
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Speaker 3: three years and coming back is really good for me
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Speaker 3: because I get to see everybody who I had not
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Speaker 3: seen on the show. You know, the fans are back,
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Speaker 3: Housewife fans are back, and I don't know, it's just
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Speaker 3: a big turn of events, you know, Like when I
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Speaker 3: first decided to come back to the show, I was
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Speaker 3: like happily married, Like, oh, I'm about to really show
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Speaker 3: out storyline, gonna be extra popping Valentine's photo and was
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Speaker 3: downhill from okay, you're gobout to have a documented Instagram post,
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Speaker 3: But yeah, it was. It was. It was like that.
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Speaker 3: But as life is, you know, turn of events, it's
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Speaker 3: not always perfect. And so by the time we started filming,
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Speaker 3: that's when the real storyline started.
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Speaker 6: Souse. You get a lot of money for you. It's
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Speaker 6: not like you need to be.
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Speaker 3: God has you know what it's God has really been
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Speaker 3: good to me. Three years away.
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Speaker 1: From God really good.
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Speaker 3: Okay, inspired off, but no, you know, I have a
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Speaker 3: certain relationship with my fans. I've been doing a show
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Speaker 3: for ten years and they're really not fans. I call
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Speaker 3: them supporters because they've been with me through everything a divorce,
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Speaker 3: giving birth to polar on TV like ups and downs
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Speaker 3: of life, and so, you know, I really felt like
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Speaker 3: at the time, it was gonna be great to share
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Speaker 3: my life, my happily married life. You know. But I
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Speaker 3: one thing about me and my fans do respect, I'm transparent.
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Speaker 3: So even though it didn't turn out the story that
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Speaker 3: I wanted to share, I still was open with what
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Speaker 3: I had.
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Speaker 7: I would saying before you walked in and your team
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Speaker 7: wanted me to tell you to don't forget your coat,
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Speaker 7: pull it down.
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Speaker 4: It shifts up.
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Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, but before you walked in, I was saying
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Speaker 7: that I've never met you before, but from Instagram to
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Speaker 7: the show, you just seem like my homegirl, Like I
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Speaker 7: want to drink with you, I want to party with you.
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Speaker 7: I know so much about you because you are very transparent.
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Speaker 7: I remember when you did The Family, The Family.
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Speaker 3: Serious Family.
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Speaker 7: It was kind of similar where you were so excited
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Speaker 7: to show things and then it just went left and out.
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Speaker 4: We're here with the marriage stuff.
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Speaker 3: I tend to put different mixes in the suit. Maybe
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Speaker 3: I can't cook because why would I have put my
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Speaker 3: fiance and my baby daddy on the same show. Yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 3: but it makes for great TV. I mean, even the
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Speaker 3: time I had away from TV my system, I will
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Speaker 3: always say, damn, we wish it was cameras here, you
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Speaker 3: know what I mean, Because it's just some people are
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Speaker 3: just like that. And I've always been the type of
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Speaker 3: person to use my life as a testimony. So even
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Speaker 3: though it's difficult for people to show their lives and
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Speaker 3: talk about it, I get healing from it, you know,
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Speaker 3: from meeting people to say I can relate to that,
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Speaker 3: or I made some crazy mistakes in love too, or
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Speaker 3: I believe the Negro one time too, like girl. That
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Speaker 3: all helps you process things.
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Speaker 5: Let's let's I want to know, let's start with the divorce.
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Speaker 2: Rightmatically, people people assumed it was infidelity. But you know,
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Speaker 2: in the first episode you talk about you would go
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Speaker 2: to the airport and you would always get pulled to
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Speaker 2: this and you got to the point he was like,
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Speaker 2: why the hell do we keep getting pulled to the.
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Speaker 3: Side, right right, right side. No, No, it doesn't benefit
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Speaker 3: me at all for him to be locked up mentally
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Speaker 3: and financially, it doesn't benefit me. You know, just because
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Speaker 3: you're going through a divorce doesn't mean you hate someone.
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Speaker 3: I hate actions, I hate lies, I hate a lot
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Speaker 3: of characteristics. But I love the person, you know, and
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Speaker 3: I would never wish harm on anybody. And at the
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Speaker 3: end of the day, I know that he's the type
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Speaker 3: of person. He's a slithering snake. He's gonna find his
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Speaker 3: way out of it. I'm sure he'll be fine, you know.
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Speaker 3: And I pray for him his family, and I hope
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Speaker 3: they all figure it out.
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Speaker 1: But did you call it? But I called him? Got you?
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Speaker 4: Yeah?
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Speaker 3: They do. They get around you that whole reural tight,
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Speaker 3: that whole real real tight. But that's also me. I mean,
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Speaker 3: I love love, and when I meet someone I'm a cancer.
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Speaker 3: And when I meet someone who reciprocates that, nothing else
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Speaker 3: really matters. It's how you make me feel. I'm very intentional.
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Speaker 3: So if your intentions to towards me feel authentic and
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Speaker 3: it feels real, I'm gonna trust that. And that's just
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Speaker 3: how I live my life experience.
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Speaker 1: I do want to say, it'll Portia.
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Speaker 6: You are beautiful, mean, so I can see why a
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Speaker 6: man would want to be in this country illegally to
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Speaker 6: be with you.
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Speaker 1: So do you feel like do you feel like it's
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Speaker 1: kind of your fault?
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Speaker 3: I think it's the country's fault. I think he's having
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Speaker 3: a whole issue that started before I was even born
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Speaker 3: that unfortunately, it's just come to the ship then hit
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Speaker 3: the fan. It just is what it is.
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Speaker 4: So where is it at right now?
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Speaker 7: Because last the last reports were like he's detained, the
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Speaker 7: citizenship was denied, Like, so where is he physically, and
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Speaker 7: like what is like what's happening right now?
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Speaker 3: So I only know as much as you guys know
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Speaker 3: and as much as what's online. As far as I know,
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Speaker 3: they've been posting that he's still being detained. So in Georgia,
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Speaker 3: I'm not sure. I haven't looked into it that much.
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Speaker 3: I just know I'm trying to finish my divorce and
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Speaker 3: I can't do with that if I don't have a
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Speaker 3: person to divorce.
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Speaker 5: Really we need to to be in court.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, you know, he wanted to have our last
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Speaker 3: court day, which was just a couple of weeks a
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Speaker 3: week ago. He asked for it to be in person.
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Speaker 3: I didn't want it to be in person because I
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Speaker 3: knew this whole thing, you know, when I got enlightened
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Speaker 3: about the no I knew that he already had a
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Speaker 3: peculiar situation with the United States of America, and so
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Speaker 3: it wasn't gonna benefit me or him for it to
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Speaker 3: be in person. We had already done a year's worth
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Speaker 3: of the divorce over zoom, so why in person? Why
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Speaker 3: are you fighting for that?
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Speaker 4: But showed up looking just like that too.
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Speaker 3: You know you got to get in that last look.
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Speaker 1: Divorce.
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Speaker 5: Now you also fouled that he didn't want you to
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Speaker 5: record in the house.
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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, so I did. It was your house, yes,
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Speaker 3: our house. So I mean, I know He's explained it
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Speaker 3: a thousand different ways online. He has documented our entire
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Speaker 3: divorce on The Simon Show online and then I have
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Speaker 3: the housewives, I suppose. But yeah, there is paperwork in
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Speaker 3: place that would make it a marital property fifty to
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Speaker 3: fifty split. Outside of that being enforced, it is a
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Speaker 3: pre marital property or whatever. But you know, I am
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Speaker 3: on the other side of this, Like we've been divorcing now,
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Speaker 3: through this process for a whole year, and you know,
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Speaker 3: I've emotionally it's caught up with what I had to do.
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Speaker 3: So like, emotionally, I feel like I'm ready to be
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Speaker 3: done with it. I'm ready to heal ready to move on.
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Speaker 3: But you know, here comes a reality show. So here's
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Speaker 3: the part of my life where it gets interesting. I'm
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Speaker 3: done with the divorce, but I had to deal with
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Speaker 3: it all the darkness on camera.
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Speaker 5: It comes right back.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and so now it has to come back. So
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Speaker 3: now I have to be super preyed up. I have
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Speaker 3: to be super vigilant of who's around me, of energies.
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Speaker 3: I have to be very protective of my piece at
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Speaker 3: this point because I know what I'm getting into more
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Speaker 3: than any other season. This season could affect me more
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Speaker 3: than any of this.
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Speaker 7: And girl, this is your season, Like I mean, you've
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Speaker 7: always been like you, Kenya, Niini, Candy, y'all are the
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Speaker 7: O G girls. But right now I think we're all
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Speaker 7: excited because you have been away from the show. We
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Speaker 7: know that Kenya eventually exits, Ninni's not there, Candy's not there,
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Speaker 7: So it's like we are looking for you to bring
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Speaker 7: back how it used to feel. So there's so many
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Speaker 7: eyes and people are gonna critique it so much, So like,
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Speaker 7: what's the daily mantra with filming? Because these girls are
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Speaker 7: not They're not was gonna give you that protected piece
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Speaker 7: that you're talking about? Well no, because I just met
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Speaker 7: a couple of them, So I was like, what so
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Speaker 7: you know, for me, I came back into this kind
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Speaker 7: of feeling brand new, not gonna lie, like three years
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Speaker 7: is a really long time from having cameras in your
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Speaker 7: life on a daily basis. I was looking into the
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Speaker 7: damn camera land for most of the like I was forget.
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Speaker 3: I was getting stumbling over words. It was like brand
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Speaker 3: new Porsche all over again. And then I just said,
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Speaker 3: you know what, I talked to the producer. So this
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Speaker 3: was collaborative me coming back. A big part of me
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Speaker 3: coming back was collaborative. We had conversations my husband or
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Speaker 3: a strange husband and production about how I wanted to
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Speaker 3: be and how I asked them to be was completely honest.
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Speaker 3: I asked them, can I break the fourth wall? Fourth
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Speaker 3: wall on reality TV is saying I'm late because I
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Speaker 3: had to feel my momm in house because it's to
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Speaker 3: see some desists on my crib. You know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 3: So I told them, I said, listen, the only way
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Speaker 3: I can do this is to just speak my truth
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Speaker 3: and be one hundred percent honest. You can edit what
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Speaker 3: you gotta do later. But for me to get through
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Speaker 3: this at this dark time and losing like my person,
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Speaker 3: I have to be as honest as I possibly can,
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Speaker 3: and they agree to that, and I feel like they
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Speaker 3: stuck with that. You know, I gotta see the show,
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Speaker 3: but I feel like they stuck to letting me just
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Speaker 3: live authentically.
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Speaker 1: You see the first episode.
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Speaker 3: I did see the first episode.
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Speaker 5: I did, what did you think?
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Speaker 2: Because I feel like they got you walking into BSh
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Speaker 2: Like they showed this whole grand thing and you're working
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Speaker 2: on this, you go into the attorney, you're doing everything,
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Speaker 2: then you walk right into the bullshit.
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Speaker 4: Yeah girls, Yeah, It's like, why does she say that?
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Speaker 4: Ladies man.
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Speaker 7: Y Kelly is she's one of the new girls. She
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Speaker 7: owns a waffle business, and yeah.
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Speaker 3: So she I mean, listen her. Real Housewives of Atlanta
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Speaker 3: has never really let brand new people, possible fans of
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Speaker 3: the show be housewife first season. They normally play friends
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Speaker 3: for a little bit then become a housewife. So when
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Speaker 3: you have people who she can be Queen Bee of
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Speaker 3: wherever she's from, but you still feel like you have
10:36
Speaker 3: to act a certain way to be on Housewives. And
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Speaker 3: I think that's what that moment was because at the
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Speaker 3: end of the day, who doesn't know the story of
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Speaker 3: me and Simon, who doesn't know what actually really happened
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Speaker 3: with that enough to say who stole? Who stole what?
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Speaker 3: Like you know, so I just felt like she was
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Speaker 3: wanted to have a moment, and I was dismissive of it,
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Speaker 3: like delayed, little delayed.
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Speaker 1: Isn't that wack of producers to them?
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Speaker 3: No, that's what I'm trying to tell you. So this season,
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Speaker 3: the producers did not overproduce us. They really didn't.
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Speaker 5: And that's the end from the start.
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Speaker 3: No, no, it really, it really wasn't like she felt
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Speaker 3: that way. She felt like she wanted to ask me
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Speaker 3: that and she wanted to have a moment. But you
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Speaker 3: look whack doing that. And she eventually straightens up. But
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Speaker 3: you know she had to you as a new girl.
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Speaker 3: She come in and thinking I ain't gonna make it
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Speaker 3: a name. I'm gonna come for Porsha.
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Speaker 4: It doesn't seem like you too find her were still
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Speaker 4: after she straightened up.
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Speaker 3: By the way, we have a love and hate relationship
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Speaker 3: we have like the we have we are literally like
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Speaker 3: what is it oil and water? Maybe not on none
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Speaker 3: of the match, but baby me and her, we we
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Speaker 3: kind of up it. We kind of up and down
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Speaker 3: with it. It's not hateful.
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Speaker 2: So y'all make up because you because during that little party,
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Speaker 2: you were like, I don't wanted a little party.
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Speaker 5: But during that party, I think she.
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Speaker 3: And I argue a lot. But I don't know if
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Speaker 3: it's gonna look as hateful as my arguments have been
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Speaker 3: in the past. If you've known my history on the show,
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Speaker 3: when when why can want to cuss so much? This morning?
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Speaker 4: Isn't this outbit? I feel like.
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Speaker 3: Not when people with people. When women used to come
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Speaker 3: on the show, I used to be with them the
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Speaker 3: whole season and it got so dark. This season does
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Speaker 3: not go that dark. We have funny moments, we talk
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Speaker 3: about each other week Kei key, and yes we argue,
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Speaker 3: but it's not enough to break sisterhoods.
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Speaker 1: Gotcha?
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Speaker 6: I saw a doctor Simone would more call you a
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Speaker 6: mean girl? Why she said that about you?
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Speaker 5: Capital pe know, I don't know.
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Speaker 3: I couldn't really understand what she was saying. I think
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Speaker 3: Simone is reaching that straws. I mean, I don't know.
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Speaker 3: I think Simon is full of it, just like that
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Speaker 3: piece of dodoo she had on her head, like she
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Speaker 3: just she to me she on her show sometimes when
12:47
Speaker 3: you're on reality TV, right, she's an obgy n She
12:51
Speaker 3: started on the show, and you know she was a
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Speaker 3: regular person and now on the camera. Sometimes when you
12:56
Speaker 3: start lacking in story, you start lacking as a person
12:58
Speaker 3: individually you start it's reaching and coming at bitches who
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Speaker 3: are on point. So she's lacking. So when people lack,
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Speaker 3: they try to deflect and come to you. I never
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Speaker 3: even met this person.
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Speaker 5: I've never even met her.
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Speaker 3: But I have never met her.
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Speaker 7: I will say I think a lot even if you've
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Speaker 7: never met her, because of like, it's been a lot
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Speaker 7: of seasons of her houses of Atlanta, and we all
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Speaker 7: feel like we know you guys, So maybe that's what
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Speaker 7: she felt.
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Speaker 4: I don't think you give me you mean girl.
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Speaker 3: I think me.
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Speaker 4: I definitely get with a bit like you can you can.
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Speaker 3: You hold your own if you knuck them my buck?
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Speaker 4: Yeah, you definitely do.
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Speaker 3: But that's the old porch. I take that back. I
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Speaker 3: don't do that no more, right, La, We're not going
13:35
Speaker 3: to see that.
13:36
Speaker 4: I've been looking forward to somebody.
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Speaker 1: That's actually, of God, it's exactly yourself.
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Speaker 3: You have to defend yourself that that was a guy.
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Speaker 6: Now.
13:51
Speaker 3: I think mean girl is when you have a cast
13:53
Speaker 3: member who had a deaf in their family and you
13:56
Speaker 3: are still hard on them. Sometimes you gotta know when
13:58
Speaker 3: someone needs a hug and out of a lecture, and
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Speaker 3: Simon does not have that sense at all. I just
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Speaker 3: feel like she has been very mean and a little
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Speaker 3: bit evil to some of her castmates.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't get Me and Girl from the first episod.
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Speaker 1: I got late.
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Speaker 5: He was late, I was late.
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Speaker 3: I was late. Try not to be late. But again, logistics,
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Speaker 3: behind the scenes, things that you will see and things
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Speaker 3: you don't know. I had to film at my mom's
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Speaker 3: house because you know, I couldn't film in my house
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Speaker 3: at the time, and she lives out in Duluth, baby,
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Speaker 3: And that was on a Friday in the rain.
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Speaker 4: So wait, before we go to your question.
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Speaker 7: You're talking about filming at your mom's house in the house,
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Speaker 7: because I saw online that you So you weren't awarded
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Speaker 7: so possession of the house, so I was, But you
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Speaker 7: still can't film there.
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Speaker 3: So I was, so no, here's the thing I could film.
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Speaker 3: I could do what I want in my house. I
14:44
Speaker 3: can film like a whole porn on my house. I
14:45
Speaker 3: can do what I want, right, I know, I ain't
14:50
Speaker 3: had nothing in a while, so I just have to
14:52
Speaker 3: think about it. But Okay, so I could do what
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Speaker 3: I want in my house. However, he sent the cease
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Speaker 3: and assist to Bravo, so when he sent that to Bravo,
15:01
Speaker 3: they don't want to play with that. So I needed
15:03
Speaker 3: to get a separate document that said I can film
15:06
Speaker 3: in the house to give to them so they don't
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Speaker 3: have to worry about him harassing them with legal things.
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Speaker 6: Right, but can he send anything legally being that he's
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Speaker 6: here illegally.
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Speaker 3: I'm not an immigration attorney, but if he has.
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Speaker 5: An attorney, he can send with it.
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Speaker 1: I would think everything he sends his snlling void.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, but bro, I'm sure don't want to fight that
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Speaker 5: less help South.
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Speaker 6: I want to ask you about this some old thing
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Speaker 6: because she said I think she was if I'm not mistaken,
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Speaker 6: correct me, Lauren.
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Speaker 1: She was saying that Phaedri left her show to come
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Speaker 1: back with you.
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Speaker 7: Yeah, because they freaking back, so it's like now the
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Speaker 7: reunion of them as a friend. She was basically saying,
15:41
Speaker 7: freaking Frank and over there to check was whack. Like, Okay,
15:44
Speaker 7: that happened everyone, because I was going to ask you
15:46
Speaker 7: that because Faeder comes in later in the season, I'm like,
15:49
Speaker 7: was that switch?
15:50
Speaker 4: Because what did you need the friend or like, did
15:52
Speaker 4: this the money?
15:54
Speaker 3: We always need fed I don't give it. Damn we
15:55
Speaker 3: always need the legends of Real Housewives of Atlanta. There's
15:58
Speaker 3: just certain situations as to where we can't have some
16:01
Speaker 3: of them back. But if there was, where there's a will,
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Speaker 3: there's a way. I wanted to have Fader back. The
16:06
Speaker 3: cast wanted Faeder back, and Bravo wanted her back in
16:09
Speaker 3: her home on Housewives.
16:10
Speaker 7: So what's Faedria's Bravo, just check over your own Housewives
16:13
Speaker 7: looking like because she left.
16:14
Speaker 4: The whole other show was.
16:15
Speaker 3: She'd have made that check? You cash it already? You
16:17
Speaker 3: worry about to check? You than I already?
16:18
Speaker 4: Cast?
16:19
Speaker 3: She like cash that check? She coming to get this check?
16:21
Speaker 1: Heard you?
16:22
Speaker 7: That answered your question? Checks everywhere? You said the checks everywhere?
16:26
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, everywhell Now.
16:28
Speaker 1: How tight are you?
16:28
Speaker 5: And Drew Drew?
16:31
Speaker 3: You know what Drew is? Some people you just realize, Okay,
16:34
Speaker 3: you're just a little Is she still an ambassador of
16:36
Speaker 3: go naked hair? Absolutely? Lenan okay hair now hair and
16:41
Speaker 3: put my hair on people's head and then they think
16:43
Speaker 3: they're me, Like that's what I can't do, Like that's
16:46
Speaker 3: what we not gonna do. You don't become Porschit by
16:48
Speaker 3: wearing Porsio's hair. You need to just enjoy my hair,
16:50
Speaker 3: take it out when it's dirty, and put it in
16:52
Speaker 3: back in when it's clean. You know, like you can't
16:54
Speaker 3: just like all that she is. She's the okay person.
16:58
Speaker 3: I think for a lot of her friends, I think
17:00
Speaker 3: they love her. I think they trust her. I think
17:02
Speaker 3: if you're not her friend, you shouldn't trust her and
17:03
Speaker 3: you shouldn't be around her.
17:04
Speaker 4: Okay.
17:05
Speaker 7: So with you saying you shouldn't trust her, you shouldn't
17:07
Speaker 7: be around her, and she is not wearing goneked hair anymore.
17:10
Speaker 7: You were not at all, And I saw it kind
17:12
Speaker 7: of in the first episode. You're not happy about the
17:14
Speaker 7: allegations that she might be uh in a relationship or
17:17
Speaker 7: whatever with Dennist.
17:18
Speaker 3: Your ex see is why I like Breakfast Club. You
17:20
Speaker 3: ask the question that need to be answered. Okay. So
17:22
Speaker 3: here's the thing on the show. I don't know how
17:25
Speaker 3: it's gonna come off again, because it's just the show
17:27
Speaker 3: has to sensationalize things, right, So how good is it
17:31
Speaker 3: for me to be going through a divorce and I'm
17:33
Speaker 3: still jealous about my baby daddy? That's bs right, So
17:36
Speaker 3: in real life, she actually was trying to film with
17:40
Speaker 3: him behind my back, and when he's a.
17:43
Speaker 5: Music producer, right, That's what I said on the shows, that.
17:47
Speaker 3: She's whatever he says he is, Yes, he is, he
17:50
Speaker 3: is all he is a serial entrepreneur and apparently a
17:53
Speaker 3: music but she was trying to film with him behind
17:58
Speaker 3: my back and that's just not cool. Come on with
18:01
Speaker 3: him on Housewive. So it's just not cool, right. It
18:03
Speaker 3: felt like a setup for me in some way. And
18:06
Speaker 3: then also there was a go naked photoshoot she was
18:08
Speaker 3: trying to set up without me knowing anything about I
18:10
Speaker 3: have to prove everything. Some of them fits, it's not
18:13
Speaker 3: fitting for you so or some of them looks may
18:16
Speaker 3: not be given the look. So I would like to
18:18
Speaker 3: ask the owner of the company be a part of
18:20
Speaker 3: any of that. So when those two things were happening
18:23
Speaker 3: behind my back on My business, with my business on
18:26
Speaker 3: my show, Yeah, I have a problem with you.
18:29
Speaker 2: So you didn't know Drew was recording with you with Dennis.
18:33
Speaker 2: You didn't know anything. You didn't know that they were speaking.
18:35
Speaker 2: You didn't know that they were That's what they.
18:39
Speaker 4: Said on the episode.
18:40
Speaker 3: I didn't know any of that.
18:41
Speaker 5: So in that episode, what's so funny?
18:44
Speaker 3: I saw the episode and she was like, she asked him,
18:47
Speaker 3: and I said yes, and she talked to me and
18:49
Speaker 3: I say yes, and I'm like, that's just not true.
18:51
Speaker 3: Like I genuinely didn't know. Look at the end of
18:54
Speaker 3: the day, like I told Shemiya, if Drew and Dennis
18:57
Speaker 3: want to get together, I just hope she can do
18:59
Speaker 3: baby hare for like, I'm happy with you. I think
19:02
Speaker 3: she's a great parent. I think if him and her
19:04
Speaker 3: were to get together and you know, they could have
19:07
Speaker 3: a solid relationship, that's good too. Just don't screw me
19:10
Speaker 3: where you asked me to come back to be She
19:12
Speaker 3: had been asking me to come back the Housewives, and
19:15
Speaker 3: when I came back, this is what you had way
19:17
Speaker 3: on me, this wack storyline that y'all came up with.
19:20
Speaker 6: Oh you're saying, if it was real, you wouldn't have
19:23
Speaker 6: a problem with of course not.
19:25
Speaker 3: I've never got Listen, everybody knows Dennis and I have
19:28
Speaker 3: a great coparent relationship and it is strictly because his
19:31
Speaker 3: personal life is his personal life and mine is mine.
19:34
Speaker 2: So he didn't say nothing to you at all either.
19:36
Speaker 2: You found out on the show, So y'all didn't have
19:37
Speaker 2: no conversation.
19:37
Speaker 3: No, he ain't gonna tell me because he could benefit
19:39
Speaker 3: off me finding out on the show.
19:45
Speaker 7: That one he went on, I thought you and Dennis
19:47
Speaker 7: was homies though to the point where like he would
19:49
Speaker 7: have called you, like, yo, p this is what's happened,
19:50
Speaker 7: Like y'all seem like y'all have that really like a friendship.
19:53
Speaker 4: Still No, not about.
19:54
Speaker 3: His personal life. Oh wow, yeah, not about his personal life.
19:57
Speaker 3: Now I found he is the one who called it
20:00
Speaker 3: invited me to her birthday party. That's when I was like,
20:02
Speaker 3: that's a little pig care onlier. I like, why are
20:04
Speaker 3: you inviting me to her birthday party? You know? I
20:06
Speaker 3: called her and I was like, oh I can't come,
20:08
Speaker 3: you know. I was like, but Dennis inviting? Oh yeah,
20:11
Speaker 3: I forgot to tell you about Dennis. Yeah, we're working together.
20:14
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, like you still love Dennis? Cool?
20:17
Speaker 3: Yes? Yeah, not like you know, please don't take that
20:21
Speaker 3: SoundBite like that. I mean yes, And then that's my
20:23
Speaker 3: daughter's father and I want the absolute best for him.
20:27
Speaker 1: But do you love him like still let him sweat
20:28
Speaker 1: on you type?
20:29
Speaker 5: She just said, sling hot dogs on me.
20:34
Speaker 3: No, now I can't even I and you know, this
20:40
Speaker 3: has been a period of time. I've been divorcing a year,
20:43
Speaker 3: you know, and a lot of people move fast even
20:45
Speaker 3: in their divorce time. I just don't see him in
20:47
Speaker 3: that way. I just don't. And I think because it's
20:51
Speaker 3: because of polar You don't play with that.
20:54
Speaker 1: You know.
20:55
Speaker 3: I'm already going through a divorce and she's already you know,
20:58
Speaker 3: losing someone who she called the stepdad, pop Pye, etc.
21:02
Speaker 3: I don't want to play with her seeing me and
21:04
Speaker 3: her father be in a relationship and then break up.
21:06
Speaker 3: That's not responsible for me. So the love I have
21:10
Speaker 3: for her just causes me not even to be attracted
21:13
Speaker 3: to him in that way at all, because I just don't.
21:16
Speaker 3: We have so many ups and downs, our relationship can
21:19
Speaker 3: be toxic at times, and I just don't want to
21:21
Speaker 3: enter into that space for him.
21:22
Speaker 5: You have a great relationship parents and cole parents, and.
21:24
Speaker 3: We have a good co parents. From what I am
21:26
Speaker 3: single right now, So we go see how it works
21:28
Speaker 3: out when I get somebody.
21:29
Speaker 6: Is that hard to find somebody? Little porst you because
21:31
Speaker 6: you are so high profile?
21:33
Speaker 1: Yeah? For you? Because your high profile you on.
21:35
Speaker 6: TV, people may not want to be, they may not
21:37
Speaker 6: want their life involved in that.
21:39
Speaker 3: True, So certain caliber of people do I do tend
21:44
Speaker 3: to attract a lot of opportunists. So yes, the people
21:47
Speaker 3: who probably aren't opportunists, who are in their own lane,
21:50
Speaker 3: doing their own thing and don't want to party anything
21:52
Speaker 3: I have going on, probably tend to skew away from
21:55
Speaker 3: trying to date me, which is the downside of being
21:59
Speaker 3: a real reality star. But I just feel like at
22:03
Speaker 3: the end of the day, right now, I can't even
22:05
Speaker 3: think about that, Like I can't even imagine me like
22:08
Speaker 3: being with someone else right now because I still have
22:11
Speaker 3: the energy of my husband around me. So when that's done,
22:15
Speaker 3: I think maybe the atmosphere will be like her King
22:19
Speaker 3: is coming. Not an African huh? I love African man.
22:26
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, because you know, I was just
22:29
Speaker 4: back in January.
22:30
Speaker 3: Girl, you got that girl, you know how to follow somebody?
22:35
Speaker 7: Girl back there was a video of you and the
22:38
Speaker 7: Nigerian guy. I don't know how you say his name
22:40
Speaker 7: for rock, So that's not bab no no.
22:46
Speaker 3: So the culture in Nigeria, you know, Nigeria is a
22:49
Speaker 3: great place. First of all, everybody should visit Nigeria. But
22:52
Speaker 3: when you are from outside of Nigeria and you come
22:55
Speaker 3: to Nigeria, it's best to have a host who is there,
22:59
Speaker 3: who knows everywhere you need to go. Bucket cannot be saved.
23:03
Speaker 3: Sometimes places in Nigeria may not be as safe sometimes
23:07
Speaker 3: for women on their own. So when I took Phedra,
23:09
Speaker 3: I had a host. He was our host. So yes,
23:12
Speaker 3: I knew. At the end of the day, when I
23:14
Speaker 3: saw on the blogs, I was like, I can't help
23:16
Speaker 3: them thinking that because I am with him for breakfast,
23:18
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be with him at dinners, We're gonna go
23:20
Speaker 3: to loungers, We're at all the clubs because he is
23:22
Speaker 3: the person who is showing me around everywhere.
23:25
Speaker 4: And it was a kiss on the cheek too.
23:26
Speaker 3: He kissed all his friends on the cheek. He had
23:28
Speaker 3: a lot of friends he was kissing on cheek.
23:29
Speaker 4: I'm just saying that's why the people was like, oh,
23:31
Speaker 4: this is her mean.
23:32
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know, I'm not that young anymore. I
23:34
Speaker 3: can't really be the type of girl that see you
23:36
Speaker 3: with other women, like once I lock on you, we're
23:38
Speaker 3: locked in. So you know, he's still young and he's
23:42
Speaker 3: still doing his thing. He's one of the big guys
23:44
Speaker 3: out there, but I don't share.
23:47
Speaker 7: It's interesting to see that narrative because I think at
23:50
Speaker 7: one point, especially when we first met Dennis on the show,
23:52
Speaker 7: they tried to make it seem like you were just
23:53
Speaker 7: like this, careless, like dating whoever, whenever, whatever, type of person.
23:58
Speaker 7: And it sounds like now you as a mom and
24:00
Speaker 7: where you are now, it's like a lot more protective
24:02
Speaker 7: of your space, especially because of your kids.
24:03
Speaker 4: So I'm interested to see how that plays out on
24:04
Speaker 4: the show.
24:05
Speaker 3: You know, it's unfortunate. We want women to be soft,
24:07
Speaker 3: we want women to be open to love. We want
24:09
Speaker 3: women to love love and give men a chance. But
24:12
Speaker 3: the women who do that we get beat on drag. Yeah,
24:15
Speaker 3: you know, everybody's upset with like a j Lo or
24:17
Speaker 3: Kim Kardashian or Elizabeth Taylor. But we want men who
24:20
Speaker 3: treat us well, with women who are gonna love us
24:22
Speaker 3: and who we believe we can love back. But why
24:25
Speaker 3: isn't why are we empowered to be able to walk
24:27
Speaker 3: away if it's not right?
24:28
Speaker 4: Right?
24:28
Speaker 3: So wouldn't that mean I would be dating or be
24:30
Speaker 3: with multiple people over my life? So you know, it's
24:33
Speaker 3: it's rough as a woman out here. You just have
24:36
Speaker 3: to have thick skin and trust yourself and make good decisions.
24:39
Speaker 3: If I was dating somebody and that was my guy,
24:42
Speaker 3: trust me. Everybody knows I will claim him, post him,
24:45
Speaker 3: and all of that make you sick about it.
24:47
Speaker 1: Whatever relationship don't have to be public either.
24:48
Speaker 3: Though it doesn't. It doesn't, but you know, I don't know.
24:51
Speaker 3: I guess it's the cancer in me or the Nigerian
24:53
Speaker 3: and me like I'm loud with it, like if I
24:55
Speaker 3: love you, I want everybody to know, you know. So
24:59
Speaker 3: I'm really gonna have talk to me therapist because I
25:01
Speaker 3: think my next one should be quiet.
25:03
Speaker 6: You said something that was interesting. You said that you
25:05
Speaker 6: can't get the energy of Simon off you. What makes
25:08
Speaker 6: you get the energy of a person off you? Like
25:10
Speaker 6: Lauren got said. Your sister got to say she could.
25:14
Speaker 3: She could. But you know, this divorce, it's gonna take
25:17
Speaker 3: some time. It's gonna take time to the public. Our
25:21
Speaker 3: relationship was so sensationalized that I don't think they saw
25:24
Speaker 3: it as a real relationship. But I genuinely did love
25:28
Speaker 3: my husband and I had all kind of plans. If
25:32
Speaker 3: you have ever been married on a long term relationship,
25:35
Speaker 3: everything you do you're considering that person. They're a part
25:38
Speaker 3: of it. So everything I'm still doing, I'm having to
25:41
Speaker 3: piece him out of it, you know. And I'm still
25:43
Speaker 3: in our home. I would like to redecorate or do whatever,
25:46
Speaker 3: but I gotta still wait to see what's gonna happen
25:48
Speaker 3: with that. He and I stop talking about Simon. This
25:56
Speaker 3: is not true. You're wrong this.
26:00
Speaker 1: We don't even know what is I don't know that.
26:04
Speaker 4: What is it say?
26:05
Speaker 3: Can't be real.
26:07
Speaker 1: They just hand me that I havennoyed.
26:09
Speaker 3: Wow, okay, so Lauren, look at that.
26:15
Speaker 4: What is happening?
26:19
Speaker 3: We need to you need to call. You need to call. Yeah, sorry,
26:28
Speaker 3: I'm just playing.
26:28
Speaker 1: I made that up.
26:31
Speaker 3: What excuse me?
26:40
Speaker 1: What does it say? What does it say that.
26:44
Speaker 3: I was let it go?
26:45
Speaker 1: I'll let it go.
26:46
Speaker 3: There.
26:46
Speaker 1: You said you.
26:53
Speaker 5: Let me tell you what scared?
26:56
Speaker 3: I really didn't know what to say.
26:58
Speaker 2: Where Charlemagne put together? Let me tell you before the interview,
27:01
Speaker 2: he didn't.
27:02
Speaker 4: Tell none of us, right, I thought it was something
27:03
Speaker 4: with me.
27:03
Speaker 2: Just see him laughing at giggling, so we knew he
27:05
Speaker 2: was up to something. But he even planned it because
27:07
Speaker 2: he had somebody walking in the letter, says the Poorscha, Yo.
27:15
Speaker 7: Right now, it's not funny one that got him. I
27:19
Speaker 7: kept it just in case because I thought he was
27:20
Speaker 7: gonna do something to me. I knew he was playing something.
27:22
Speaker 1: What is this for?
27:23
Speaker 4: I was gonna throw it at him, at him way
27:25
Speaker 4: too much.
27:25
Speaker 3: Man than half and throw play too much? Played, too much?
27:30
Speaker 3: You play? I want to mess up your face. This
27:37
Speaker 3: is I don't know, this is this? You know people online,
27:40
Speaker 3: of course they're making Joe's like, oh you know she
27:42
Speaker 3: called or whatever. This is like a person who I
27:46
Speaker 3: have shared a life with. I don't want nothing to
27:49
Speaker 3: happen to him. I don't want I didn't want him
27:51
Speaker 3: to part it. Like at the end of the day,
27:53
Speaker 3: this ship scared me. Was like, mister mental health, just
27:56
Speaker 3: threw you off. Something happened to somebody, because you look
28:05
Speaker 3: like you were about to cry.
28:07
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right.
28:10
Speaker 6: There was a lot of men that were happy that
28:11
Speaker 6: he that that happened to him, though there were yes,
28:15
Speaker 6: because how do you feel about you?
28:17
Speaker 3: And that's the scary part about being online, like going
28:20
Speaker 3: in on a personality that people actually like. You don't
28:23
Speaker 3: know who could have done anything, you know what? You
28:26
Speaker 3: just don't know. But honestly, I don't think anybody did
28:29
Speaker 3: anything to him. I think that sometimes actions just kind of.
28:33
Speaker 6: End up where it is, were you up said that
28:34
Speaker 6: he didn't tell you that he was facing all of this,
28:38
Speaker 6: or that he'd been dealing with this for years?
28:40
Speaker 3: I mean, fould for a divorce, you know. I just
28:44
Speaker 3: feel like in any relationship, especially mine, I thought we
28:49
Speaker 3: had the best communication, Like, I was so proud of
28:53
Speaker 3: how we communicated, Like that's a part of what made
28:56
Speaker 3: me trust him. I have been harmed by men in
28:58
Speaker 3: my past and in many ways, and so it's hard
29:02
Speaker 3: for me to trust. It's hard for me to like
29:04
Speaker 3: truly love, and so people will look at him and
29:06
Speaker 3: look at me and be like, I don't understand the correlation.
29:08
Speaker 3: It must be the money. Wow, I already had a
29:12
Speaker 3: lot of the stuff that I have now.
29:13
Speaker 6: Then.
29:13
Speaker 3: Anyway, it was meeting someone who really saw you for you,
29:18
Speaker 3: who you can talk to, who was a man of
29:20
Speaker 3: their word. He always did things that I felt made
29:23
Speaker 3: him trustworthy. For me, if somebody said something and they
29:25
Speaker 3: do it, say it, do it, say it, do it,
29:28
Speaker 3: why would I think I would have never believed any
29:30
Speaker 3: of this stuff. Like I stood ten toes down to
29:33
Speaker 3: the very very end. But you know, I worked very
29:36
Speaker 3: hard in my life for what I have. I worked
29:38
Speaker 3: to protect my daughter's future, her financial future, her emotional future, everything,
29:44
Speaker 3: and at the time I needed to do that in
29:47
Speaker 3: order to protect that, not saying it couldn't have been
29:50
Speaker 3: turned around if we had better communication, but at that
29:53
Speaker 3: time I had to do it.
29:55
Speaker 1: If he would have told you what the situation was,
29:57
Speaker 1: you would do I begged.
29:59
Speaker 3: I begged to tell me. I literally begged that. My
30:05
Speaker 3: sister saim right here, she knows nothing could have made
30:08
Speaker 3: me leave Signon. He was my person and he probably is.
30:12
Speaker 3: He's just not honest enough to stand next to me. Yeah,
30:17
Speaker 3: I can love him from afar.
30:18
Speaker 5: So I have a conversation why why he didn't say.
30:20
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, if you're the type of person I mean,
30:24
Speaker 3: if you if you're not telling even yourself the truth,
30:26
Speaker 3: how are you gonna tell me?
30:29
Speaker 4: What was the timeline? You said?
30:31
Speaker 7: You begged, so, like, how many before you file for divorce?
30:34
Speaker 7: How long was it that you were like trying to
30:36
Speaker 7: have these conversations, trying to get out of him, trying
30:38
Speaker 7: to be like, yo, I want to know what's happening,
30:39
Speaker 7: Like I want to save this, I want to figure
30:40
Speaker 7: it out.
30:42
Speaker 3: Well, I didn't just it was the accumulation of things.
30:44
Speaker 3: It wasn't just oh I found out that you could
30:47
Speaker 3: be deported, because at the end of the day, I
30:48
Speaker 3: was telling my people, I could take the kids wherever
30:51
Speaker 3: he is, Like I'm a writer or die, I can
30:53
Speaker 3: take them wherever you are. I love to travel anyway.
30:55
Speaker 3: We love the travel. It's not necessary for him to
30:57
Speaker 3: be here. And honestly, I thought we had enough money
31:00
Speaker 3: where we could live in Dubai. We could live wherever.
31:03
Speaker 3: So being important wasn't a that the deal breaker. It
31:07
Speaker 3: was the other things about his past that I didn't
31:10
Speaker 3: know about. It was things I was beginning to be
31:12
Speaker 3: involved in that could have had me clink, Clint, you
31:16
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. So I just felt like this
31:18
Speaker 3: is something I need to do until maybe this will
31:21
Speaker 3: trigger you. Sometimes women or men will file for divorce
31:24
Speaker 3: to trigger the truth out of their spouse because for
31:27
Speaker 3: whatever reason, they don't think they can tell them. But
31:29
Speaker 3: you almost want to say, well, you lose me if
31:31
Speaker 3: you don't. You'll lose me if you don't tell me.
31:34
Speaker 3: And in this case, it still wasn't enough. Oh.
31:36
Speaker 1: So when you first initially filed, it was you just
31:38
Speaker 1: wanted him to tell you the truth.
31:39
Speaker 3: I just wanted the truth I wanted. I wanted to
31:42
Speaker 3: know what was happening. You can figure out from my
31:44
Speaker 3: first marriage, I learned that a partnership is something that
31:49
Speaker 3: you can take for life. You know that with your
31:51
Speaker 3: wife and with your wife, if you have a partner
31:53
Speaker 3: standing next to you can fight and deal with anything.
31:57
Speaker 3: Forget love, just the fact that both of you guys
31:59
Speaker 3: are in the midst of it together. But as soon
32:03
Speaker 3: as I realized in my first marriage that I was
32:05
Speaker 3: not a partner, I was underneath I was with someone
32:08
Speaker 3: who wasn't gonna be everything I needed them to be
32:11
Speaker 3: as a partner or see me as a partner. I
32:13
Speaker 3: knew that in this relationship I wasn't gonna do that.
32:15
Speaker 3: I would never have gotten married again if I thought
32:17
Speaker 3: him and I were not best friends, side by side partners.
32:22
Speaker 3: I honestly wish in a different realm I could be
32:25
Speaker 3: sitting here fighting for him as I was supposed to
32:28
Speaker 3: fighting him. You know, a divorce is like a death
32:31
Speaker 3: in the family, and for me, who wants to experience that?
32:34
Speaker 2: But now I would to go Kenny Moore, the fact
32:36
Speaker 2: that she was taking off the show What are your
32:38
Speaker 2: thoughts on that whole incident that happened.
32:41
Speaker 3: On the whole incident that happened, I think it is
32:45
Speaker 3: I think it just went too far. I feel like
32:48
Speaker 3: Kenya came back this season and she definitely well not
32:51
Speaker 3: even the season, because I don't know what she was
32:53
Speaker 3: doing the past three because I didn't see it. But
32:55
Speaker 3: the king Ya that I saw this season was not
32:58
Speaker 3: wanting beef and drama too much. She really wasn't on
33:01
Speaker 3: too much of that, Like you can even see that
33:02
Speaker 3: in the first episode. She really kind of chilled with it,
33:05
Speaker 3: not her normal self, and I just felt like mixed
33:09
Speaker 3: with the newbie and some things that were set that
33:11
Speaker 3: were dangerous from the newbie, I felt like Kenya then
33:16
Speaker 3: decided to be even more dangerous. But I do feel
33:21
Speaker 3: like there's a space where there could be a conversation
33:23
Speaker 3: with her and Bravo. I feel like there could be
33:26
Speaker 3: a conversation with her and brit and hopefully they can
33:30
Speaker 3: figure something out by next season.
33:32
Speaker 6: What happened on when y'all shot the Upshaws because we
33:35
Speaker 6: had Ninia up here, Yeah, and she said you blocked
33:37
Speaker 6: her from being on the Upshaws.
33:40
Speaker 3: No, she did it.
33:41
Speaker 1: She did the show, you wouldn't do it with her, So.
33:44
Speaker 3: No, it's not that I wouldn't do it with her.
33:45
Speaker 3: So I signed on to do the Upshaws and I
33:48
Speaker 3: had just filed I think could have even been a
33:51
Speaker 3: week and a half prior, so you know how you
33:54
Speaker 3: sign up. So mind y'all, when I filed for divorce,
33:57
Speaker 3: I did not know I was filing for divorce. I
33:59
Speaker 3: was happily in love with my husband, like we were
34:02
Speaker 3: good Valentine's Day. We had a horrible argument. Things got
34:05
Speaker 3: really nasty, and I knew something was about to hit
34:08
Speaker 3: the fan, but I did not know. So when it happened,
34:11
Speaker 3: I had already signed up to do the show, and
34:15
Speaker 3: I really couldn't cancel at that point. So when I
34:18
Speaker 3: got there, I just was sitting in the green room
34:22
Speaker 3: or the waiting area, and I just like start breaking down.
34:25
Speaker 3: Oh man, I just start breaking down. And then I
34:28
Speaker 3: started and then she was in the room next to me,
34:31
Speaker 3: and I heard just hearing her voice broke me down
34:34
Speaker 3: because I just felt you and when you're going through
34:37
Speaker 3: the worce. She just felt so alone. And here I
34:39
Speaker 3: am just a foul coming out of my room. I mean,
34:41
Speaker 3: I could barely put on makeup, and now here I
34:44
Speaker 3: am on a set with strangers, I don't have anybody.
34:47
Speaker 3: Just hearing her voice just it was just too familiar.
34:51
Speaker 3: And you know, I had not talked to her. I
34:53
Speaker 3: didn't know how I could face her. I didn't know
34:55
Speaker 3: how could face anybody. So it genuinely wasn't me saying no,
34:59
Speaker 3: I don't work this person or that person whomever. Because
35:01
Speaker 3: I agreed to it. I just wasn't capable of doing
35:04
Speaker 3: it that day mentally and emotionally, I could not gather
35:08
Speaker 3: myself at all. So when I spoke to them, they
35:12
Speaker 3: were like, you know, I understand you're not gonna be
35:14
Speaker 3: able to act as a housewife today. They ended up
35:17
Speaker 3: letting me go home, and then they said we'll fill
35:19
Speaker 3: you in. We'll fill in your spot with Cynthia. And
35:23
Speaker 3: then after that, in true Nini fashion, she just turned
35:27
Speaker 3: it into something about herself and and genuinely wasn't about her.
35:30
Speaker 3: It was about me, you know what I'm saying. Like
35:33
Speaker 3: her actions of like taking Simon's side and hanging out
35:37
Speaker 3: with him with women or whatever they were doing, it
35:40
Speaker 3: just really was null and void to me. I just
35:42
Speaker 3: would have wanted a friends. So it you know, for
35:45
Speaker 3: her to turn in and make it like I tried
35:47
Speaker 3: to block her money or whatever. Me block Nini's money,
35:50
Speaker 3: how like Nini's a star. I can't block your money,
35:53
Speaker 3: just like nobody can block mine. I don't give damn
35:55
Speaker 3: who you are, so it's to me, it's just unfortunate.
35:58
Speaker 3: I'm too grown. I'm sure y'all can see I'm a
36:00
Speaker 3: different Porstchra if I was another portion of reading her
36:03
Speaker 3: and her wig or whatever, but I don't feel that way.
36:06
Speaker 3: Like I feel like we've grown people. Girl. You know
36:08
Speaker 3: how it is to go through a divorce. You know
36:10
Speaker 3: exactly what emotions I could have been feeling. So all
36:13
Speaker 3: the extra ness is just not needed. I only won
36:15
Speaker 3: real well.
36:16
Speaker 6: She said, she said that Porsche wasn't here for her, right,
36:18
Speaker 6: Porsche wasn't there for her when she was going through
36:20
Speaker 6: what she was grieving.
36:22
Speaker 3: That's not true. I was out of town and flew
36:25
Speaker 3: in for her husband's funeral. No, I'm there for my friends.
36:28
Speaker 3: I was. I don't think she said that, And if
36:30
Speaker 3: she said that, I think she will retract that because
36:32
Speaker 3: that's just not true. I'm always there for her, maybe
36:35
Speaker 3: even more than she was there for me. I didn't
36:36
Speaker 3: get a phone call from her when I got what
36:38
Speaker 3: she saw on the news about my divorce. You know,
36:40
Speaker 3: she was with him, which is fine because in a
36:43
Speaker 3: divorce you're gonna pick aside. You're gonna pick aside. And
36:46
Speaker 3: we had a lot of friends as a couple. I'm
36:48
Speaker 3: an introvert, but as a couple, we were extroverts. We
36:52
Speaker 3: were out there, we had you know, we would hang
36:54
Speaker 3: out with couples and travel with couples. But you know,
36:56
Speaker 3: and so then when it breaks up, you can't I
36:59
Speaker 3: can't judge if she wanted to go over there. Who knows.
37:01
Speaker 3: She may think he right and I'm wrong. It is
37:04
Speaker 3: what it is.
37:04
Speaker 5: How was your relationship? I know she is your best friend,
37:07
Speaker 5: but how was that dynamic?
37:08
Speaker 1: Right?
37:08
Speaker 2: Because you know I've seen on the show she was
37:10
Speaker 2: like your ex or your husband, your ex husband, I
37:13
Speaker 2: should say.
37:13
Speaker 5: Text her. How is it that it still stays in
37:16
Speaker 5: the system. That gotta be a problem.
37:18
Speaker 3: I don't know where that text came from to her
37:21
Speaker 3: or her calling him bro, I don't know. I don't know.
37:25
Speaker 3: But at that time of going through a divorce, how
37:29
Speaker 3: don't you have the mind space to think about it
37:31
Speaker 3: like you really think I'm gonna go home and think
37:33
Speaker 3: about huh. Why was he texting her and congratulating her
37:36
Speaker 3: and she called him bro like, no, you are literally
37:40
Speaker 3: just walking through life like you are getting up, going
37:42
Speaker 3: through your day. And honestly, a part of the show
37:45
Speaker 3: is work, y'all, Like it's worked. So I'm clocked in.
37:48
Speaker 3: I'm not sitting there, you know, thinking she's trying to
37:51
Speaker 3: do anything to me, thinking anything behind any of it.
37:54
Speaker 2: I don't think she was trying to do I just
37:55
Speaker 2: it just got to be a constant reminded like I'm
37:57
Speaker 2: trying to get my own space, like leave that on
37:58
Speaker 2: the other side, you know.
37:59
Speaker 3: But on a show that's about my life, so I
38:01
Speaker 3: am expecting them to talk about it. I am expecting
38:04
Speaker 3: them to ask me about my divorce and him and
38:07
Speaker 3: I am expecting that. So that was totally fine.
38:09
Speaker 7: Are y'all like at this point, what are are you
38:12
Speaker 7: and Smia as close as we've always known y'all to be,
38:14
Speaker 7: because the first episode kind of gives that, you know,
38:17
Speaker 7: Shemi is now coming into herself on the show, and
38:19
Speaker 7: there might be a.
38:20
Speaker 4: Little bit of tension because of that. There was a
38:22
Speaker 4: moment where.
38:22
Speaker 7: She's like, Okay, like, this is my new car. Girl,
38:24
Speaker 7: get to the left. It's not about you right now. Yeah,
38:27
Speaker 7: that was a little weird. I was like, woo, I
38:28
Speaker 7: never really seen that from Shemiah, and yeah.
38:31
Speaker 3: It was weird. But also, you know, it's the whole environment.
38:36
Speaker 3: I mean, in true housewife fashion, who doesn't love to
38:39
Speaker 3: talk crap about the person who's late and make them
38:41
Speaker 3: look bad or whatever. No one knew the reason while
38:44
Speaker 3: I was really late. I mean I didn't get to
38:46
Speaker 3: tell her till we were in the closet while I
38:47
Speaker 3: was late, and at the end of the day, I
38:49
Speaker 3: did walk up while she was enjoying her car. But
38:52
Speaker 3: in my brain as my best friend, I'm like, oh,
38:54
Speaker 3: we both about to work on the car. Like, but
38:56
Speaker 3: you finally did it, like you got that Rolls Royce Like,
38:59
Speaker 3: so I thought. You know how you go to a
39:02
Speaker 3: party and you're like, I don't want to miss them
39:03
Speaker 3: getting a birthday song. I don't want to miss them
39:05
Speaker 3: cutting the cake.
39:06
Speaker 4: Yeah.
39:06
Speaker 3: So the production was trying to tell me Portia, hold on,
39:09
Speaker 3: don't walk up to her while she's doing I said, no, no, no, no,
39:11
Speaker 3: I want to. I do want to miss her getting
39:12
Speaker 3: her car. But I can see how it came off, like,
39:17
Speaker 3: of course the other girl, she's walking in her moment,
39:19
Speaker 3: walking in her moment, that's my friend. Like I root
39:22
Speaker 3: for her regardless. I mean when I didn't have or
39:26
Speaker 3: when she didn't have whatever, Like I want the best
39:28
Speaker 3: for her. I'm happy for everything that she has.
39:31
Speaker 7: So so now that you so, now that you guys
39:33
Speaker 7: have gone through the season or whatever, is the relationship
39:36
Speaker 7: still the same though, because it's just a very like
39:38
Speaker 7: what conversations do y'all have after a moment like that?
39:40
Speaker 4: Because I've never seen that dynamic.
39:42
Speaker 3: Well, you have to understand, like I just said, I
39:45
Speaker 3: was oblivious to how the narrative was being painted.
39:48
Speaker 4: Oh so that's what conversation happening right now.
39:50
Speaker 3: I knew I was late, but I knew I was
39:52
Speaker 3: late because I filmed in Duluth and there was a
39:55
Speaker 3: camera crew with me one like I was just somewhere
39:57
Speaker 3: lilligagg and I was working, and and I knew that
40:01
Speaker 3: when I got there, I didn't want to miss her
40:02
Speaker 3: big moment because I got there just in time. So
40:06
Speaker 3: I didn't understand that I now see the narrative of oh,
40:09
Speaker 3: portion being late trying to steal her moment why on
40:12
Speaker 3: earth would I bring my friend to the show or
40:16
Speaker 3: encourage the show to bring her in this moment as
40:19
Speaker 3: the main character and not be happy.
40:21
Speaker 4: For Yeah, that's what it's given that.
40:25
Speaker 3: We're gonna see what, We're gonna see what, we're gonna
40:28
Speaker 3: see what it gives.
40:29
Speaker 2: But even with Kelly, that's name Kelly, Kelly in front,
40:34
Speaker 2: I feel like the.
40:37
Speaker 1: Punch bag.
40:38
Speaker 4: But she's the She's the girl this like that.
40:40
Speaker 3: It's her season, so she and not even just on
40:44
Speaker 3: that girl or Queen of show whatever. I like those accolades,
40:48
Speaker 3: but no, no, but it's like I feel like, at
40:56
Speaker 3: the end of the day, I'm a bet you're gonna
40:58
Speaker 3: have to come and come it the top dog. I mean,
41:01
Speaker 3: I'm sure they're gonna come make Kenya just like they did.
41:02
Speaker 3: They're gonna come at Pedra. You gotta come at the Ogs.
41:05
Speaker 3: It is what it is. It's just the name of
41:07
Speaker 3: the game. It's just I feel like in TV it's
41:12
Speaker 3: hard because you have your reality of what's happening in
41:16
Speaker 3: real time, then you film it and then you probably
41:19
Speaker 3: get over it, and then you watch it again and
41:22
Speaker 3: some things could be hurtful. The editing could be hurtful.
41:25
Speaker 3: Things could look dismissed. If things can look like what
41:27
Speaker 3: it's not really is, so have you had.
41:30
Speaker 7: To call her and do what you just did and
41:31
Speaker 7: be like yo, taking accountability. I didn't even know it
41:33
Speaker 7: could come off that way. I apologize if it did,
41:35
Speaker 7: Like are y'all doing that at this point because you're
41:37
Speaker 7: watching it back. Mainly, it wasn't that big of a
41:39
Speaker 7: deal to she or I gotcha, It really wasn't. Maybe
41:42
Speaker 7: it was by the time she got to her confessional
41:44
Speaker 7: and they started asking her to probe and questions, But
41:47
Speaker 7: at the time, there was no feeling, no bad vibe
41:50
Speaker 7: about me being like, this is my friend.
41:52
Speaker 3: She knows exactly where I'm filming at. You know, I
41:54
Speaker 3: can't feel with my crib. You know, she know what's
41:56
Speaker 3: being blocked over here. I'm just trying. I'm just happy
41:59
Speaker 3: that they still in my ass at the end of
42:01
Speaker 3: the day, because how you filming a housewife without house
42:04
Speaker 3: So I'm just thankful and grateful to Bravo and to
42:08
Speaker 3: all the other girls were stepping up. I'm glad that
42:10
Speaker 3: her moment was so huge. I love that the way
42:13
Speaker 3: they showed it, they really showcased her. I love that
42:16
Speaker 3: because on an ensemble cast. The worst thing is to
42:19
Speaker 3: be just the main character on your own. You want
42:21
Speaker 3: everybody to hold their own weight, and I feel like
42:24
Speaker 3: she carries her own weight. Kelly does, brit does, all
42:27
Speaker 3: the girls do? So please Shine?
42:29
Speaker 1: Do you watch every episode?
42:30
Speaker 5: Do you watch the episodes or.
42:31
Speaker 3: You just someone have to? I have to, But this
42:34
Speaker 3: season I probably won't watch all of them because a
42:36
Speaker 3: lot is some darker moments a little bit.
42:39
Speaker 5: You said you have to.
42:40
Speaker 3: We used to when we did blogs, right, but now
42:44
Speaker 3: unless I'm doing press and if it's if I know
42:46
Speaker 3: it's a light episode, I'll watch it. But I really
42:49
Speaker 3: don't want to see myself with the flashbacks and the
42:52
Speaker 3: tears and some of the things I've already healed from.
42:55
Speaker 6: You know, you said you like seeing the ol g's
42:57
Speaker 6: on the show. Would you welcome Meanie Beck?
43:00
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I would walk on her back. I mean,
43:03
Speaker 3: it ain't gonna look like I'm welcoming her back. Let
43:06
Speaker 3: me get this straight. We gonna have a time in
43:09
Speaker 3: the beginning, but I'm for what's good for the show.
43:13
Speaker 3: But I just feel like, realistically, as much as we
43:17
Speaker 3: all love Nini and I mean miss Nani, realistically, you
43:22
Speaker 3: just can't sue a network. You cannot say things about
43:26
Speaker 3: Andy Cohen that are that damaging and expect that bridge
43:29
Speaker 3: to still be standing. So unfortunately, I just don't know
43:35
Speaker 3: if she can cross that and come back.
43:37
Speaker 5: I just have one question, when did Porsche's confidence change?
43:41
Speaker 5: What was that moment?
43:42
Speaker 3: Right?
43:42
Speaker 2: Because when we first seen you on the show, your
43:44
Speaker 2: confidence level wasn't as high as it is now. You
43:46
Speaker 2: weren't as comfortable as in your skin. You wasn't ready
43:49
Speaker 2: to clap back. And then there was a change where
43:51
Speaker 2: it was like porstion it and changing. It's like middle
43:53
Speaker 2: finger to everybody. Right, when did that happen?
43:56
Speaker 3: I think that happened when I gave birth to a human,
43:59
Speaker 3: you know, and I had to be someone that she
44:04
Speaker 3: can look up to. I could not be weak. When
44:06
Speaker 3: you become a mother, you have this natural instinct to
44:09
Speaker 3: be protective. Your heart is outside of your body. Most
44:11
Speaker 3: delicate thing that could kill you is right there that
44:14
Speaker 3: you have to protect. So if you protect your child,
44:17
Speaker 3: you now know I gotta protect me. So I'm super
44:21
Speaker 3: protective of me for polar So when I say it
44:25
Speaker 3: comes to my mental health, like you talk about all
44:26
Speaker 3: the time, I put me first. I love my daughter.
44:29
Speaker 3: I love my family, and when I was married, I
44:31
Speaker 3: loved my husband. But I put me first. I put
44:34
Speaker 3: my mentality first, and I protect my piece, my energy first.
44:39
Speaker 3: Because if I'm good and I'm making sure I have
44:41
Speaker 3: the right synergy around me, the right atmosphere, the right
44:45
Speaker 3: people around me, then I know my daughter is gonna
44:47
Speaker 3: be good. My whole life is for Polar. So what
44:51
Speaker 3: you see now is just me growing the fuck up.
44:54
Speaker 3: I'm forty four years old at this point, capital pee,
44:57
Speaker 3: capital p and I make my own money, and I finally,
45:01
Speaker 3: as a people person, decided to celebrate myself. Like even
45:04
Speaker 3: in my downtimes, I still try to think about what
45:07
Speaker 3: I have accomplished. A lot of times as a reality start,
45:10
Speaker 3: we get talked about, Oh, she just a reality starts,
45:12
Speaker 3: shein't got a tentent, she whatever. I'm a multitude of things.
45:15
Speaker 3: I have done a lot of things in my life
45:17
Speaker 3: to arrive where I am and have the status that
45:19
Speaker 3: I have, so I now can accept it from me.
45:21
Speaker 3: So that's pretty much where the confidence comes from.
45:24
Speaker 7: I got one more show question because I know you
45:26
Speaker 7: also are acting too. That lifetime situation we want to
45:28
Speaker 7: talk about. But Kenya, so I know she's not going
45:32
Speaker 7: to finish out the season because of what happened with
45:33
Speaker 7: her and Brittany, but they were saying that she could
45:35
Speaker 7: come back put potentially season seventeen.
45:38
Speaker 3: Who said that, I thought.
45:39
Speaker 7: That she was only suspend different the rest of the scene.
45:44
Speaker 7: I thought she was only suspended for season sixteen and
45:46
Speaker 7: could potentially come back for seventeen.
45:48
Speaker 3: Though I would hope that's true, I just can't see.
45:52
Speaker 3: I'm in one hundred percent agreement with her not being here.
45:56
Speaker 3: I would love for her to be at the reunion.
45:58
Speaker 3: I'm for what's best for the show, and I loved
46:00
Speaker 3: where Kenya was going. She's not that happy with me
46:03
Speaker 3: right now, you know, but that's okay. I've always been
46:06
Speaker 3: that tape. I don't give damn how you feel about
46:08
Speaker 3: me if I'm always going to speak the truth, So
46:10
Speaker 3: you know, I feel like at this moment, no matter what,
46:13
Speaker 3: I feel like, it would be good for Kenya to
46:15
Speaker 3: be the reunion. And I feel like she is very articulate,
46:20
Speaker 3: and she can speak to britt and she can speak
46:22
Speaker 3: to the cast, and she can speak to the fans,
46:24
Speaker 3: and she can find her way back next season. So
46:26
Speaker 3: I think that that could be a true statement.
46:29
Speaker 4: She not was you right now? I thought you were
46:30
Speaker 4: doing better this season.
46:31
Speaker 3: She didn't like when I said that when I compared
46:34
Speaker 3: her to Britt and I said they were similar, And
46:36
Speaker 3: I said they were similar, but I meant because they're
46:39
Speaker 3: both fabulous. They're both to me speak their mind, like
46:44
Speaker 3: you know, she when you don't like somebody, you don't
46:46
Speaker 3: want to be compared to them. So got you. But whatever, girl,
46:49
Speaker 3: I got hell. I got to talk about you. You a
46:51
Speaker 3: part of the show. Don't you want to be talked
46:53
Speaker 3: about it.
46:53
Speaker 7: It's kind of crazy though I didn't even think about
46:55
Speaker 7: the reunion, like the fact that she won't even be
46:57
Speaker 7: on the race.
46:57
Speaker 3: He said that it's possible. I'm still hopeful. I'm still
47:01
Speaker 3: hopeful she is. She's still a big part of the show.
47:04
Speaker 3: She's not the show. She didn't make or break the season.
47:07
Speaker 3: But Kenya is a person who I've been doing this
47:11
Speaker 3: with for a very long time, and for once we
47:13
Speaker 3: were possibly about to have a season of not being foes.
47:17
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Fader, I have to say
47:19
Speaker 3: when Faeder came in, she helped to elevate the show
47:23
Speaker 3: as well and keep us where we needed to be
47:25
Speaker 3: because everybody been wanting to see her. She's been gone
47:27
Speaker 3: the whole time Candy been gone, so you know, it's
47:30
Speaker 3: people wanted her back.
47:32
Speaker 7: And Candy has been really upset about how Kenya has
47:34
Speaker 7: been treated by the network. She's been very vocal about that.
47:37
Speaker 7: And then Fader coming back. I don't know if Candy's
47:40
Speaker 7: too excited about that as well too. But do you
47:42
Speaker 7: feel like the network protects you guys the way that
47:43
Speaker 7: they shuld Because that's what Candy saying, is like the
47:45
Speaker 7: network didn't protect one of their stars, which is I still.
47:47
Speaker 3: Work for the network, so I don't share certain sentiments. Okay,
47:52
Speaker 3: let's be clear, all right, I'm saying that I think
47:56
Speaker 3: Kenya deserves an opportunity, and an opportunity can be given
47:59
Speaker 3: to anyone. You can always say no. She can say
48:02
Speaker 3: whatever she wants to say to Britt, the cast, the crew,
48:05
Speaker 3: and whoever, and they can say no. But I believe
48:08
Speaker 3: she deserves that opportunity. I ain't say a damn thing
48:10
Speaker 3: about the network. Love the network.
48:12
Speaker 6: Talk about all this money you're getting pamped by port.
48:16
Speaker 1: Go Naked Hair, the Lifetime movie.
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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's Detective Ebony Williams and the upcoming Lifetime movie
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Speaker 7: Single Black Female three the final Chapter.
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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, that was That was big for me. I
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Speaker 3: always want to be in a Lifetime movie. I am
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Speaker 3: obsess with Lifetime and I am amongst the cast of
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Speaker 3: great women who've been They had two other movies. This
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Speaker 3: is the third installment, the last one, and I played detective.
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Speaker 3: I look totally different in this movie. I even stopped
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Speaker 3: doing botox for this movie. I did. I was like,
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Speaker 3: you know what, I'm not doing any boat talks. I
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Speaker 3: want my whole face to movie.
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Speaker 7: I gotta look at the trailer right now. No, no,
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Speaker 7: you look good, all right, but in.
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Speaker 3: The trailer because I know when you saw times in there,
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Speaker 3: every freaking line speed, I got all of it. Because
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Speaker 3: the my raw is so different from who I am,
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Speaker 3: Like I'm an alcoholic, I'm a bit of a stalker.
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Speaker 3: Like you know, I ain't gonna say who else what
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Speaker 3: else I've done in that movie, But I think it's
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Speaker 3: gonna be a good look for me in the acting
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Speaker 3: world because it's totally different from me playing myself and
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Speaker 3: a lot of other things that I've done before.
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Speaker 1: You turned out a lot of acting roles, Yes.
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Speaker 3: I have, because I also have well what am I
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Speaker 3: My mom told me how to claim that no more.
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Speaker 3: But I'm one of those people who start something and
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Speaker 3: I don't finish it a lot of time. So I'll
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Speaker 3: like hyper focus on something and then all of a sudden,
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Speaker 3: I'll hyper focus on something else. So at a certain
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Speaker 3: point in my life, I was really hyper focused on acting.
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Speaker 3: I was going on stage plays with Fox, going on tour,
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Speaker 3: I've done movies, I've done a lot of voiceovers. And
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Speaker 3: then I was like, oh, I just want to concentrate
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Speaker 3: on don Nigga hair and panmpered. I don't want to
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Speaker 3: do anything outside. I'm a businesswoman. And now I'm like,
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Speaker 3: you know what, it's time to pivot and back into
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Speaker 3: that because I can naturally do it. Like I'm the type.
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Speaker 3: I've a photographic memory. I can literally read the script
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Speaker 3: that night and it'll be in my mind the next day, imprinted.
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Speaker 6: I got one last question, will a Nigerian man get
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Speaker 6: another shot or do you feel like the stereotype is
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Speaker 6: true and all of them are scammers?
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Speaker 1: Now, so you've just done well.
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Speaker 3: I am Nigerian so and I don't know what you
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Speaker 3: mean by all of them a scammers. I mean we
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Speaker 3: live in the United States, which is the biggest scam.
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Speaker 3: I mean, our entire government is scam and a fraud
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Speaker 3: and taking advantage of people. So I feel like when
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Speaker 3: it comes to Nigerians, of course I would date another one,
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Speaker 3: you know, I would. I would marry another one. I
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Speaker 3: want to love and marry who is going to be
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Speaker 3: honest and love me. I'm not ready to get married.
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Speaker 3: I'm not rushing into none of that. I mean unless
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Speaker 3: I say you say that.
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Speaker 4: Now last see by the end of the season, being like,
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Speaker 4: oh of pusse you got a new ring.
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Speaker 1: You would get married again?
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Speaker 3: I would. I would get married again. Why of course,
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Speaker 3: So just because of him, I can't get married again.
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Speaker 3: I can't enjoy the comfort and the security of being
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Speaker 3: I love being married, being a called somebody's wife. I
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Speaker 3: love waking up every morning sitting at your feet, asking
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Speaker 3: you what you need me to do? Like. I just
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Speaker 3: love that that's in me. I'm a Southern girl, and
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Speaker 3: I think that's probably why Nigerian men and like men
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Speaker 3: of wealth like me because I am very submissive, and
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Speaker 3: I'm very loving, and I'm very even though I'm all that,
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Speaker 3: I am bost bitch. I can shift that a bit
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Speaker 3: for my man.
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Speaker 1: Do they have to have wealth?
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Speaker 4: You know?
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Speaker 3: I was thinking about that. I was thinking about that,
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Speaker 3: and I think if I didn't have a daughter, they
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Speaker 3: don't have to have wealth. They do have to have
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Speaker 3: self So you need to be self sufficient. You need
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Speaker 3: to have your own business about yourself. And you need
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Speaker 3: to be able to come in here if I get
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Speaker 3: pregnant and provide for our child. So no, I don't
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Speaker 3: want to know completely man who's building from scratch. But no,
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Speaker 3: he doesn't have to be wealthy. What is wealth? Are
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Speaker 3: any of these men really wealthy? Is any of the
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Speaker 3: money really real? Like? We don't really know? I know
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Speaker 3: one thing about it. I am a wealthy woman. I
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Speaker 3: am a probably a rich man.
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Speaker 5: I'm all my shit is probably a rich man.
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Speaker 3: I am like all my stuff is legit. You can
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Speaker 3: check my bank accounts. It is what it is. You
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Speaker 3: can see where it came from. A taxes not a man.
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Speaker 3: I gave bird hol On. I ain't got to look
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Speaker 3: for a rich man, a rich man, I'm what I'm
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Speaker 3: what I'm looking for. It's just in a male version,
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Speaker 3: so you know, But I do I like this new
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Speaker 3: conversation of like Dolly Parton, oh rp to her, but
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Speaker 3: I liked her relationship. Like they were separated a lot
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Speaker 3: of the time. It's in space physically, but they kept
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Speaker 3: their relationship strong. Like I don't feel like I have
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Speaker 3: to live with my husband.
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Speaker 4: Shirlie Roth does that too, Yeah.
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Speaker 3: Shela Brown, and I loved when she told us that,
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Speaker 3: I don't think it has to be traditional. I feel
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Speaker 3: like my next relationship will not be traditional, be a
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Speaker 3: little bit open.
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Speaker 4: Oh you would do an open relations really.
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Speaker 7: Not with another female, so you could go and have
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Speaker 7: another man, But he can't have another woman.
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Speaker 3: I haven't found one who's gonna allow. If you don't want,
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Speaker 3: let me know. But no, they don't allow that. They
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Speaker 3: don't allow that. I just mean as far as like
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Speaker 3: your tradition of him having to be in the house, gotcha.
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Speaker 3: I honestly could be in the house with just my
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Speaker 3: baby and be good and then we come and.
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Speaker 5: Visit my house to break some time.
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Speaker 6: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: And like I always used to kind of tease with
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Speaker 3: even my husband, I'd be like, we could have separate bedrooms,
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Speaker 3: Like why not? Why not have separate just think about it,
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Speaker 3: why not have separate living spaces? And then when you
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Speaker 3: want to meet in the middle, you mean the middle,
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Speaker 3: and if you don't, you can comfortably go in your room,
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Speaker 3: pass gas, sleep, you know, not watch your makeup like.
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Speaker 7: Houses though, I mean, you have enough rooms in your
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Speaker 7: house to be able to do that.
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Speaker 4: So why y'all didn't just do it?
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Speaker 3: Because I also like to be under people.
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Speaker 4: That's also confused because I watch yo, me and my man.
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Speaker 3: So I'm sitting here like, yol what I was talking about.
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Speaker 3: More so when we got well, he already was old.
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Speaker 3: I was when we got older. Y'all all ready we'll old.
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Speaker 1: But I don't know what you want.
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Speaker 3: I could be with a husband and him not living
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Speaker 3: in my house. I think that's possible. Maybe I'm just
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Speaker 3: talking about a businessman who travels a whole lot and
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Speaker 3: least race. No, I'm not gonna tell him he can
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Speaker 3: have a girlfriend. But do I I mean do I
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Speaker 3: got eyes on every single thing?
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Speaker 1: No, So cheating, don't get caught?
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Speaker 3: Basically what you say no, because then that's also saying
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Speaker 3: it's okay to cheat. So I'm not gonna say it's
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Speaker 3: okay for anybody to cheat. I would love sexually, let
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Speaker 3: me tell you this right now. And being a woman
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Speaker 3: who's about to be super single after this divorce. I
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Speaker 3: am not about having sex with a lot of people,
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Speaker 3: and no one should. I am a big advocate for women.
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Speaker 3: Pick your one person, okay, now, whether it's you have
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Speaker 3: a relationship with him or not, situationship, whatever, Pick your
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Speaker 3: one sexual partner. Get tested, make sure you know what
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Speaker 3: he's doing. Make sure his health is important to him,
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Speaker 3: not just that he going to get tests for you
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Speaker 3: to see that he wants to make sure that his
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Speaker 3: body is healthy, and that he also hasn't te with
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Speaker 3: who he spreads. It's penis with if you meet someone
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Speaker 3: like that, stick with them and then just date everybody else.
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Speaker 7: But the issue comes in because I be there too.
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Speaker 7: But then you stick with that on one person and
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Speaker 7: you be trying date the other people, and then it's like, now,
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Speaker 7: in this person, you develop the feelings and you compare them.
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Speaker 3: Y'all have to be scared together. Meet you somebody who's
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Speaker 3: scared together. I am actually scared of these streets. I
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Speaker 3: am not looking forward to being single out here and being.
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Speaker 4: Tested in special health wise.
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Speaker 3: Health Wise, I mean, Atlanta is number three in the
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Speaker 3: AIDS department, and who knows what other diseases is out
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Speaker 3: there that we all you know, the people got out there,
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Speaker 3: the other people got But no, I think sexually have
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Speaker 3: one partner and get tested with that partner. That's it.
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Speaker 6: I don't think there's anything wrong with you're saying, but
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Speaker 6: you have to tell the other people that you're dating
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Speaker 6: that they not get in those fects.
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Speaker 3: No you're not.
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Speaker 6: You think they dating y'all just because they want to date, y'all,
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Speaker 6: Or you think y'all.
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Speaker 3: Just people do that. That's just today that people do
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Speaker 3: take us out just to be in our presence.
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Speaker 7: People, But what know they be hating but what they
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Speaker 7: don't what y'all men don't like to understand. And I
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Speaker 7: think y'all get it, but y'all overlooked because you want
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Speaker 7: to feel good about your own selves and that's your
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Speaker 7: own thing. We do compartmentalize, y'all. Like we have people
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Speaker 7: we call, hey, I just want to eat, have a
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Speaker 7: good time. Hey, travel buddy. But you still I have
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Speaker 7: friends that travel with men that don't have sex with them.
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Speaker 7: And men.
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Speaker 3: We did not say that the intention of sex isn't
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Speaker 3: there for him exactly, not saying that he doesn't want
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Speaker 3: thee but all men who are are in a space
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Speaker 3: to take care of a woman and make sure she's
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Speaker 3: good and not not require sex. And when you were
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Speaker 3: brown share they just last. It may last for you know,
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Speaker 3: it's a good time, not a long time. So maybe
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Speaker 3: like a little one year relationships.
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Speaker 1: Looking for a company.
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Speaker 3: I really want to be attracted to him, like I
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Speaker 3: really want to be, like I want to be really
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Speaker 3: attracted to him. What I need and you want to
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Speaker 3: I want you This morning when I was saying like
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Speaker 3: I feel bad feeling like no from everything from your
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Speaker 3: look to how you dress it, I want to be like,
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Speaker 3: oh my god, about my next working you told me
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Speaker 3: to you just lay down, you just want to kiss him.
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Speaker 3: You could just want to like I'm gonna look at your.
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Speaker 7: Guys.
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Speaker 3: Yes, that's what we want.
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Speaker 7: He told me you got to basically pick and choo.
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Speaker 7: So like, if you can't dress his dress him up.
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Speaker 7: And I'm like, no, that's true. Dress him up.
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Speaker 3: Behold on, don't dress them up to you marry him.
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Speaker 1: You want your wife to be like that in it, baby.
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Speaker 3: Dress him up, put a filter on him, do all
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Speaker 3: of that, and then you let him take it all.
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