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Should You Be Toxic In Your 20s? · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: It's topic time called eight hundred five five one five
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  Speaker 1: one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 2: Morning Everybody.
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  Speaker 3: It's DJ n V Charlamagne the guy. We are the
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  Speaker 3: Breakfast Club. Our guest host, Jess Hilarious is back.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, what's that?
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  Speaker 5: She decided to come spend some time with us.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I mean. Finally after going on
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  Speaker 4: the road.
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  Speaker 2: She was she was in Toronto, North Carolina, was all over.
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  Speaker 6: The place, and this weekend I'm gonna be in Columbus, Ohio.
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  Speaker 6: You also get them tickets at the Funny Ball. We
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh so lou to the Funny Bomb. Yeah, I went
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  Speaker 1: up there a couple months ago. Who was out there?
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, I was different my daughter comedy.
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  Speaker 1: No, I was there for my daughter's cheerleading competition and
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  Speaker 1: he just was in town doing the show that weekend.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, oh yeah, I like the Funny Bomb.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, the shout out to the Funny Bone and go
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  Speaker 3: get your tickets to check out just this weekend. Now
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  Speaker 3: we're talking about Glooriala eight hundred five eight five one
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  Speaker 3: oh five one. Glorilla posted this yesterday on her social media.
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  Speaker 4: Hey ladies, now on you.
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  Speaker 8: What I'm gonna call my twin and I just want
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  Speaker 8: to let town know, be toxi for the rest of
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  Speaker 8: your twenties. You only get one life.
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  Speaker 4: Live your toxic twenties.
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  Speaker 8: You never get to be twenty years old, twenty three,
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  Speaker 8: twenty four, none of that ever again in your life.
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  Speaker 8: Be toxic, because don't get in your thirties thinking you
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  Speaker 8: could just go surlantentiee and doing all this crazy too
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  Speaker 8: over there. Now on you too, mach your be toxic
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  Speaker 8: for the rest of your twenties. And if you delusional
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  Speaker 8: overnuch and join the rest of your twenties, you don't
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  Speaker 8: get to do one time.
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  Speaker 3: So we're asking eight hundred and five eighty five one
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  Speaker 3: oh five on is this true? Is this something women
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  Speaker 3: should do? Let's start with you jest. You just jumped
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  Speaker 3: out of your twenties.
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  Speaker 5: I did.
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  Speaker 4: I ain't. I ain't jump.
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  Speaker 6: I really was out of my twenties before I actually
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  Speaker 6: got to thirty.
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  Speaker 5: But you spent ten years in your twenties.
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  Speaker 6: I spent ten years there, but I wasn't going no time.
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  Speaker 6: And then like, how do we define toxic these days?
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  Speaker 6: These toxic is is so broad like cause, because once
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  Speaker 6: she explained it, it was all right, slashing tires and
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  Speaker 6: and and you know, breaking windows. Yeah, that's that's part
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  Speaker 6: of toxicity in relationships. Though I've done that. I've done
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  Speaker 6: that early twenties. But like, but when she said the
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  Speaker 6: delusion part, all right, and if you're delusional, turn that
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  Speaker 6: up a notch.
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  Speaker 4: Nah, no, no.
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  Speaker 6: No, no, delusion can land you so many different places
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  Speaker 6: jail or saint asylums, like.
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  Speaker 2: So you dealt with on that that that energy.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and I don't We shouldn't promote that at all.
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  Speaker 6: We should be promoting mental healings so we can be
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  Speaker 6: great for our thirties because, to be honest with you,
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  Speaker 6: a lot of men don't want you add do you
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  Speaker 6: all used up and all of that at your whole
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  Speaker 6: twenties and then you want to settle down when you're thirty.
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  Speaker 6: You ain't got no walls and you burn up from
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  Speaker 6: all these because you yeah, you're living in toxicity for
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  Speaker 6: ten years.
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  Speaker 4: That could cost you a lot more than ten years.
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  Speaker 1: You know, just said is not as real. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: hear glorial estate is. But it makes sense. No, you
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  Speaker 1: shouldn't turn up the delusion because as you're approaching your thirties,
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  Speaker 1: you got to start dealing with reality.
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  Speaker 5: Actually, you start being real twenty.
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  Speaker 4: Before, right, That's the thing.
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  Speaker 6: I was a toxic teenager, Ilse, I was a rebell
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  Speaker 6: I was a rebellious teenager. I got it together at
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  Speaker 6: like twenty so I started getting together at twenty six.
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  Speaker 6: And now that I'm thirty one, I think I'm I
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  Speaker 6: still got a lot of growing to do, but I'm
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  Speaker 6: I'm great.
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  Speaker 4: I'm way better, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 5: And I do think women should live a life, you
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  Speaker 5: know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: And if you do meet somebody in your twenties then
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  Speaker 1: want to settle down and not be toxic.
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  Speaker 3: You can do that too, but you doesn't have to
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  Speaker 3: be toxic, like we have to define the toxics, you know.
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  Speaker 7: What I mean.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care if you're sixteen, twenty one to thirty one.
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  Speaker 3: You don't want somebody breaking windows, can calls and fighting
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  Speaker 3: fighting each other, like you don't want that.
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  Speaker 5: What things happen?
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  Speaker 4: Things happened, Things happened.
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  Speaker 5: You have a broken window.
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  Speaker 2: Just absolutely how many times.
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  Speaker 6: My son's father we become brother and since the overnight shot,
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  Speaker 6: there was.
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  Speaker 4: A lot going on.
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  Speaker 6: Yes he did, he got me locked up twice. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: yeah you did. Jerome got me locked up twice.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, good for Jerome.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, take back your power because women do
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  Speaker 1: that the men all the time. If she out here
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  Speaker 1: breaking windows and being violent, Jerome, you did what you
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  Speaker 1: was supposed to do.
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  Speaker 5: Ain't put no hands on you. You called the police.
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  Speaker 6: Rome tried. Rome can handle man. So yeah, Rome called windows.
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  Speaker 6: You broke probably like.
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  Speaker 1: Four Jesus Christ, I'm saying, so you said you broke
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  Speaker 1: every She said every car you had?
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  Speaker 5: How many cars you had?
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  Speaker 4: Well, she was mine and then she was his.
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  Speaker 5: You got so bad you broke your own damn in
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  Speaker 5: my car.
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  Speaker 6: He was real life Jody No, so yeah, I was
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  Speaker 6: that real life sadamn bro.
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  Speaker 5: What's up, Jazz?
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  Speaker 2: Good morning?
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  Speaker 9: Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Now you agree with Glorilla?
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  Speaker 9: Yes, I agree? Definitely be toxic your thirty.
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  Speaker 10: Kind of mature?
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  Speaker 5: You define toxic for me? Man?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, I would take enough cards when she take following
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  Speaker 10: tasting shadow the toxic.
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  Speaker 2: Right now?
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  Speaker 5: How old are you, man?
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  Speaker 8: I'm thirty three?
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  Speaker 4: You just thirty three?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah?
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  Speaker 9: I don't do that right now?
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  Speaker 5: How many sdds are you allowed in your twenties?
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  Speaker 6: Jesus tell how many STDs. Are you allowed in your twenties?
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  Speaker 6: What about that part of it?
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  Speaker 4: None?
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  Speaker 9: None.
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  Speaker 4: You want to be a criminal, but you don't want
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  Speaker 4: to be burning, right, you don't.
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  Speaker 1: Want to be burning.
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  Speaker 7: That's your health.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, that's your health.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, okay, Lauren, good morning, Good.
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  Speaker 5: Morning of the club.
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  Speaker 10: Hi everyone, how do you feeling.
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  Speaker 2: We're talking about Gloriala. What's your thoughts? Mama?
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  Speaker 9: I think she's absolutely wrong. The reason is because these
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  Speaker 9: kids already think being tally cool because of social media,
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  Speaker 9: and they act in the fool they acting, and then
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  Speaker 9: when they get older that they're going to regret everything
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  Speaker 9: the situation that they did.
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  Speaker 2: Lauren has a point.
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  Speaker 3: You know, when it wasn't social media when we were younger,
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  Speaker 3: So if we messed up, if we made a mistake,
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  Speaker 3: it wasn't documented. Now these kids make a mistake, it's documented.
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  Speaker 3: It's something they got to live with for the rest
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  Speaker 3: of their lives.
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  Speaker 5: And I don't think our toxicity was premeditated like that.
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  Speaker 5: It just happened, you know what.
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  Speaker 6: I just did dumb stuff, right, you know, And and
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  Speaker 6: that's what I think that that's what that level of
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  Speaker 6: toxic we're talking about.
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  Speaker 4: That all right?
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  Speaker 6: If she was promoting that. All right, cool because things
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  Speaker 6: do happen. Yeah, you you learn to grow. You're immature
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  Speaker 6: most of the time in your twenties or whatever. But
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  Speaker 6: they've made it cool on social media, so now people
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  Speaker 6: do that for attention. Now people go even further and
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  Speaker 6: they don't have no feelings. It's like no, and people
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  Speaker 6: try so hard to hurt other people.
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  Speaker 3: Well eight hundred five ein't five on five and we're
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  Speaker 3: talking about Glorilla.
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  Speaker 2: This is what she said yesterday on her social media.
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  Speaker 4: Hey ladies, now on you.
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  Speaker 8: I'm gonna call my twin and I just want to
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  Speaker 8: let time know, be toxi for the rest of your twenties.
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  Speaker 8: You only get one life. Live your toxic twenties. You
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  Speaker 8: never get to be twenty years old, twenty none of it.
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  Speaker 8: And look again, in your life, be toxi, because don't
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  Speaker 8: get in your thirties thinking you could just go slangis
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  Speaker 8: and doing all this crazy too over there now you
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  Speaker 8: too what your be toxic for the rest of your twenties.
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  Speaker 8: And if you delusional over much and juderies of your twinings,
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  Speaker 8: you don't get to do one time.
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  Speaker 4: Do you agree? Disagree?
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  Speaker 3: Let's discuss when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 3: Good morning, Jessseelarus is here.
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  Speaker 4: It's topic times.
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  Speaker 1: The phone call eight hundred and five eight five five
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  Speaker 1: one to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 5: Talk about it. Good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 4: It's j N. B.
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  Speaker 3: Charlomagne the gud We are the Breakfast Club. Now if
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  Speaker 3: you're just joining us, we're talking about Glorilla. Of course,
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  Speaker 3: Jesse Larus is here, she's back. Yes, And this is
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  Speaker 3: what Gloriala said yesterday on her social media.
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  Speaker 4: Hey ladies, hewn o you.
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  Speaker 8: I'm gonna call my twin and I just want to
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  Speaker 8: let time know, be tosi for the rest of your twenties.
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  Speaker 8: You only get one life. Live your tossy twenties. You
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  Speaker 8: never get to be twenty years old, twenty three four,
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  Speaker 8: none of that ever again.
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  Speaker 5: In your life.
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  Speaker 8: Be tossy, because don't get in your thirties thinking you
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  Speaker 8: could just go slashing times and doing all this crazy
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  Speaker 8: to over there now on you too, what your be
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  Speaker 8: toxic for the rest of your twenties and if you
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  Speaker 8: delusional other notch.
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  Speaker 4: Your twenties you don't need to do one time.
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  Speaker 2: So we're asking eight hundred and five eight five one
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  Speaker 2: oh five one. Do you agree now? Just you said
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  Speaker 2: you kind of agree, get it all out your system
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  Speaker 2: in in your twenties.
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  Speaker 4: I did not ever say that. I never said that.
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  Speaker 6: I said I agree to an extent. Okay, yeah, because
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  Speaker 6: people have to mature. But I don't agree with the
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  Speaker 6: delusion part at all. You're gonna get somebody.
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  Speaker 5: Hurt in these streets, that's right. In your twenties. You
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  Speaker 5: should be dealing with reality, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 5: You shouldn't be being delusional on purpose. By the way,
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  Speaker 5: who's delusional on purpose? Like on purpose?
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  Speaker 4: That's not That's why I say.
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  Speaker 6: You say I make certain stuff you like, it's like
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  Speaker 6: I'm delusional, girl, Like yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Like no, let's go to the phone. Hello, who's this nameless? Nameless?
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  Speaker 2: What's up?
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  Speaker 8: Man? What? What?
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  Speaker 2: What's your what's your thoughts?
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  Speaker 1: Bro?
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  Speaker 3: I thought you're gonna get them all this used to
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  Speaker 3: be run.
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  Speaker 10: Through the Fellowship, get their passports and get.
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  Speaker 4: Away from these Western women and find wholesome females abroad.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, get out of America, America, these hoses.
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  Speaker 7: Dude.
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  Speaker 4: You gotta keep it the buck, man, you gotta keep
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  Speaker 4: it a buck. You got to keep it the buck.
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  Speaker 7: Man who's in.
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  Speaker 2: This Zakoba? Good morning? What's your thoughts?
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  Speaker 7: I mean, it's like I feel like toxic is a
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  Speaker 7: strong word. You know what I'm saying, man is my
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  Speaker 7: man is his conies? So like DJ Jessica, man like
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  Speaker 7: what's shot? Like what's your personal being? And thoughts like
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  Speaker 7: being in a toxic relationship or.
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  Speaker 5: Being to run you should not be.
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  Speaker 4: And like in toxic is not only beating up your
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  Speaker 4: finding that breaking windows. You can be mentally toxic too.
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  Speaker 6: You can get a narcissist manipulative, you can you know,
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  Speaker 6: and that goes on both sides. It's not just the
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  Speaker 6: physical part of it and being a criminal and try
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  Speaker 6: to do stuff to get you know, likes and stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Toxic people script it with yourself with steam doesn't balance
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  Speaker 1: of powers because they want all control, like they're jealous.
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  Speaker 6: Like and it's a lot of twenties people in their
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  Speaker 6: twenties that don't want to be toxic either because that
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  Speaker 6: when it starts taking over your mental it's not fun.
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  Speaker 4: It's not fun.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't think she used the right word. I
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  Speaker 5: think she was just trying to say you.
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  Speaker 4: Should live like your life and.
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  Speaker 9: Toxic.
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  Speaker 7: Toxic comes in many like you know, you could, like
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  Speaker 7: it comes to really many different definitions of it. And
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  Speaker 7: that's why I'm here, Like for me and my man,
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  Speaker 7: like you know, he's in his twenties, I'm in mind.
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  Speaker 7: It's just like when it comes to us, like you know,
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  Speaker 7: not to with me on caculation because you know, my
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  Speaker 7: plat bag on phone. And then when it comes to him,
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  Speaker 7: you know, he's like, Okay, don't feel with me like that.
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  Speaker 7: But other than that, like toxic, I wouldn't think so.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: So at the end of the day, but being your
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  Speaker 7: twenties does not mean that you can't mature, like have
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  Speaker 7: your fun, know what you want.
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  Speaker 4: That's true exactly, So you're gonna be good by thirty.
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  Speaker 1: I fail.
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  Speaker 5: There you go. Mama, Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 10: My name is Gina.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Gina, good morning. What's your thoughts? Gina?
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  Speaker 10: Okay, so my thoughts are that topic behavior could be
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  Speaker 10: at any age, like when in a relationship or just
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  Speaker 10: in general. She said, what say that again, Mama, toastic
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  Speaker 10: behavior could be at any age.
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  Speaker 4: That's true, That is correct, Yeah, you.
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  Speaker 10: Know, because it has a lot to do like toxic behaviors,
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  Speaker 10: not just like fighting and arguing. It contains like lack
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  Speaker 10: of self esteem, a lot of controls, you don't engage
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  Speaker 10: in your own self care. There's a lot of us.
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  Speaker 10: So I feel like at any age, those are major
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  Speaker 10: factors that people deal with. Teenagers, young kids, Yeah, older people.
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  Speaker 2: That's true. You can at any age. Yeah, any good morning,
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  Speaker 2: Good morning.
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  Speaker 10: I'm feeling good.
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  Speaker 9: I can't believe I got through finally.
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  Speaker 10: Sorry, No, it's kind of you don't have to apologize.
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  Speaker 4: I'm just excited.
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  Speaker 2: Talk to us. What you think about what GLOORIALI sapt.
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  Speaker 10: So to be honest, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: You got start that around.
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  Speaker 10: Need everybody to hear that. You gotta throat I'm asthma.
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  Speaker 9: Listen, I've asthma.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, don't die, don't die on this call now.
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  Speaker 10: No, no, no, I'm good.
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  Speaker 9: But my opinion is no, I agree words totally because
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  Speaker 9: what she's.
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  Speaker 7: Trying to say, you know, he's gonna be righted out
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  Speaker 7: here in your thirties.
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  Speaker 6: It's gonna need somebody's mama.
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  Speaker 2: He's trying to be professional.
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  Speaker 10: You know, you get that out the system.
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  Speaker 7: So you gotta sometimes you know that around and find out.
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  Speaker 9: Sometimes you really got to let them know.
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  Speaker 2: You don't want to live a.
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  Speaker 1: Regret but it's crazy how we live in this word
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  Speaker 1: economy world and people don't understand that words matter. So
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  Speaker 1: when you say words like toxic, you know, it dilutes
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  Speaker 1: that message of you just saying live your life and
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  Speaker 1: your tomb, right, that's all.
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  Speaker 10: Well, yeah, we gotta be kind of specific. I just
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  Speaker 10: feel like she should get out of her system.
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  Speaker 9: If you want to let somebody know whe's something wrong,
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  Speaker 9: you know, you get it out.
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  Speaker 10: We can't fight when we order.
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  Speaker 7: You got too much to lose.
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  Speaker 9: I think that's what she's trying to say.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thank you havingy. So what's the morrow of
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  Speaker 2: the story?
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  Speaker 5: Guys?
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  Speaker 1: The moral of the story for me, man is everything
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  Speaker 1: you do today directly impact your life tomorrow. So being
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  Speaker 1: intentionally toxic in your twenties is just gonna make it
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  Speaker 1: harder to heal in your thirties.
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  Speaker 5: You don't believe me.
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  Speaker 1: Britney Spears had a song called toxic in two thousand
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  Speaker 1: and three when she was in her twenties.
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  Speaker 5: We see how that turned out.
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  Speaker 4: Mm hmmm mm hmm. Yeah, all right, every day dancing
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  Speaker 4: like that with them underwear right there?
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  Speaker 5: She end up with applies though, you think so, I
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  Speaker 5: do believe that shooting this shot.
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  Speaker 4: But ain't all right? That's nice?
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  Speaker 5: All right?
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  Speaker 1: Cool doctor? Am I not gonna like the applies? Britney
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  Speaker 1: Spears relationship.
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  Speaker 3: Was she just broke up with her man, damn eight
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  Speaker 3: five eight five total five one. Now we got rooms
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  Speaker 3: on the way, but just with the mess on the way.
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  Speaker 2: Just what it is, just the mess.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: See, our son had got the teeth and his.
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  Speaker 6: Mother hope, man, you gotta so we're gonna talk about
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  Speaker 6: that more when we get back with Get this yea
• 13:55
  Speaker 6: some breakfast club.
• 13:56
  Speaker 4: Good morning, Jessica, y'all.