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- 0:02Welcome to the Realtor Who Wines podcast.
- 0:04I'm Rashelle Newmeyer.
- 0:06Your hostest with the mostest a student of life, a connector, a passionate wine enthusiast, and your local favorite guide.
- 0:13Join me as we explore the vibrant Pacific Northwest.
- 0:16Savor the finest wines and champion the spirit of entrepreneurship.
- 0:20Each episode, I'll sit down with inspiring guests, supporting business ownership and uncovering the stories that make this community unique.
- 0:28So grab a glass of wine, settle in, and let's embark on a journey of discovery and connection together. Cheers.
- 0:34to share with everybody what you have going on real estate wise and with the election.
- 0:39But before we get started, do you mind introducing yourself to everybody?
- 0:43Sure, yeah.
- 0:44Hi everyone.
- 0:44I'm Alex phan I where do I start?
- 0:47I tell my whole life story.
- 0:49Well I've been a realtor now 19 years, really sited and proud to be realtor.
- 0:54Born and raised here in Washington County.
- 0:57I grew up in Beaverton.
- 0:58And yeah, I've just enjoyed every moment of of being a dad.
- 1:03Now I have two kids, eight and 11 and just excited.
- 1:08Yeah, well, your resume is a lot longer than that, and your intro can be a lot longer than that, but we will dive into that.
- 1:15Cheers to cheers.
- 1:17Thank you for having this conversation with me today.
- 1:22I haven't had one of these podcasts yet where I've been able to drink.
- 1:26So this is actually.
- 1:27Yeah, yeah, we're having Fox Farm today, which is out in Dundee.
- 1:31This is his reserve Pinot gris.
- 1:33And David from Fox Farm has been on the podcast.
- 1:38He's a good friend of the podcast.
- 1:38So fantastic.
- 1:40I like to showcase him when I can.
- 1:42So you've been a realtor for 19 years?
- 1:44I didn't realize that.
- 1:45What got you into real estate to begin with?
- 1:47Yeah.
- 1:48Funny thing, I bought a house, I was shocking, I was 23 in college and was tired of living at home and went to Portland State University and didn't didn't live on campus.
- 2:00So I was just commuting back and forth, but really got to a point where, you know, like it was time for me to move out.
- 2:05I felt like I was missing a lot of that college experience, not, you know, being on campus.
- 2:09And so instead of renting, I decided to just get a buy a house.
- 2:14This is during the subprime crisis.
- 2:16So I honestly should not have qualified for that mortgage at the time.
- 2:20However, they gave me a loan and then my my best friends basically all moved in with me.
- 2:26And so I had like four roommates throughout that whole period.
- 2:29That's amazing.
- 2:29And then what about buying a house made you think, oh, this is an unjust tree for me, or I'm into this great question.
- 2:36Yeah, it was my realtor, actually.
- 2:38She kind of said, hey, Alex, if you ever thought about getting into real estate because she knew I was very entrepreneurial.
- 2:45Throughout my life, I had always been kind of like selling things on eBay and Craigslist and doing things like that.
- 2:50And she knew she was my employer's wife, and so I knew them kind of well.
- 2:55And she was like, you know, you should try real estate.
- 2:57And my family were was all entrepreneurs.
- 3:00So I kind of just thought about it was like, you know what?
- 3:02I think I could do this.
- 3:04And I just took a chance and apply, you know, sort of doing the work and got my license.
- 3:09What did you go to college for?
- 3:11Well, like every classical Asian family, I was supposed to be a doctor or a lawyer.
- 3:16And neither of those things happened, right?
- 3:18Yeah.
- 3:19So I quickly found that science and health was just not up my alley.
- 3:25It's really hard for me to really focus on those things.
- 3:28So after three years of really failing at college, I decided to switch to business, which totally changed everything, just made sense to me, and actually never finished college.
- 3:41I actually was thankfully able to find success really quickly in real estate my first year, even though like the economy was starting to slide and just never looked back.
- 3:50Yeah, I love that.
- 3:51I think some people don't realize that you really can make a true career out of real estate without going to college.
- 3:57I mean, we have our own education that you have to do and to be licensed and keep your license, but it's definitely an avenue outside of college for sure.
- 4:05What were some of the things that you remember back in your earlier days in real estate, like struggles that you didn't anticipate or like tough learning lessons?
- 4:13Oh so many.
- 4:14Gosh, I think the hardest things that were, especially in the beginning was like expectations, disappointment.
- 4:22You know, when you're brand new, you automatically believe that all your friends and family are going to want to work with you.
- 4:30And so I think those were the hardest left at the beginning when they chose to work with another agent.
- 4:37And again, you're really disappointed.
- 4:40So it took like probably 4 or 5 years for me to really grasp that and get over it. Second was how much more difficult it was then than it's portrayed to be like, absolutely.
- 4:52Yeah.
- 4:53All, all, you know, before knowing what a realtor really did, all we see as kind of normal, everyday laypeople is like, oh yeah, we get to look at houses, right?
- 5:02And you fill out some paperwork and then that's it.
- 5:05And you buy the house, right?
- 5:06Yeah, we know now that's not there's a lot of that. Yeah.
- 5:09HGTV doesn't help paint a different story for us at all for sure.
- 5:14I think that is when I talk to brand new agents or anybody thinking about getting into the business, I always say you have to have a tough skin for rejection because as business is full of rejection and you have to always validate yourself, like all the time, you're constantly like, I provide this and I do this and I do this.
- 5:30And then some people are still like, yeah, no.
- 5:32And then I go with a different way and you have to be able to be like, okay, right.
- 5:36But it is hard.
- 5:36It does take a few years to like get used to it for sure.
- 5:40Yeah, especially when you're younger.
- 5:41And if you haven't faced a lot of rejection thus far, it's definitely harder as you have grown over the years as a realtor and a leader in our industry.
- 5:51What are some things that has stuck out with you, like milestone moments?
- 5:54Milestone moments.
- 5:57You know, I've thankfully achieved so many cool like industry awards and whatever.
- 6:04But you know, the things that really stick the most of me.
- 6:07I have this last year client first time who passed away during our transaction.
- 6:12And I still think about him like nearly every day like, you know.
- 6:17Yeah, you know, I built this bond with him and we were I was helping him, you know, move and do all the things.
- 6:23And he's finally going to be able to move into his dream house, you know, and unfortunately lost his life before that.
- 6:30And I remember, like, him calling me from the hospital and basically telling me that that was it.
- 6:38Yeah. And, you know, so that sticks of me.
- 6:41Yeah.
- 6:42The relationships we build, the clients that I have become, like some of my best friends now.
- 6:48And we were just talking even before this, Steven on my team, he was a client before, you know, he before working with me.
- 6:57Yeah.
- 6:57And I had said, oh, I had no idea.
- 6:59I just thought you guys had been really good friends for a lot of years.
- 7:02Yeah, like I had. No, I didn't know at all.
- 7:04And now he's like a little brother to me, you know.
- 7:06And I love the guy.
- 7:07And so, you know, just like I love the real estate brings in so many relationships, especially I think, in today's culture and society is so hard to meet people in general and build relationships, that real estate can be a really great opportunity to do that.
- 7:22And again, other milestones is really helping people like first generation homebuyers and just seeing the impact that I know the impact is going to make on their life.
- 7:31Absolutely. Those are the things that are really stick with me.
- 7:33Yeah, I love that.
- 7:35The different leadership roles that you've had.
- 7:38What made you decide to get into leadership within the industry?
- 7:42Yeah, it was I never I never thought about it when, you know, when we were like, when you're a new agent and licensee, you're really like, how do I find business?
- 7:52How I find clients, right?
- 7:52Things like that.
- 7:54And his name was Dorian Barnhart.
- 7:57He was then Portland realtor president, and he was in this office in this world we're at today.
- 8:05Yeah.
- 8:05And he saw me kind of moving and shake.
- 8:08And he said, Alex, I think you should consider joining this committee.
- 8:11It was the U.N. committee.
- 8:12And I was like, well, I don't really know anything about committees.
- 8:16I've never volunteered in that way before.
- 8:19Yeah.
- 8:19And, but he's like, you know, just go to some meetings.
- 8:23And I went and for a new agent, it was actually really incredible because I was like meeting other brokers that were kind of in a way, like me younger at the time, you know, newer, trying to build our business.
- 8:35And it was building like camaraderie and friendship with other people and different brokerages.
- 8:39So I really enjoyed that.
- 8:41I enjoyed putting on the events, hosting events.
- 8:43I became like the tech guy for all the events, like I'd have to show up with the speakers and microphones and do all the sound and stuff like that, you know?
- 8:51So, but yeah.
- 8:53And then next thing you knew, I was chair of the committee the next year.
- 8:57That's how it always goes, right? Exactly.
- 8:59And then next thing you know, I'm on Mars board master's, you know, all the different boards that they've been.
- 9:06Yeah. So what led you to Aria?
- 9:10Was that part of, like, being on the board or like, talk about that a little bit story.
- 9:16So, you know, I'm obviously Vietnamese, I'm Asian, okay.
- 9:21I'm Vietnamese American, but growing like when your person of color, especially my experience coming into an industry that is predominantly, you know, white men and women, it was hard for me as a young new agent to really find acceptance and also like a culture or a group of people where I felt like I could identify with.
- 9:42I really didn't have very many mentors or anything like that when I was young in real estate.
- 9:47And so I was actually at a U.N.
- 9:50Young Professionals Network panel, and this guy came up to me at the bar and he says, hey, have you ever heard of Aria?
- 9:57And he was another Asian guy.
- 9:57I was like, no, I haven't.
- 10:00What is it?
- 10:00Aria is the Asian Real Estate Association of America.
- 10:03He said, well, hey, would you consider coming with me to a national conference?
- 10:08I think you would really enjoy it.
- 10:10And I was like, I don't know.
- 10:11But I, I did some research and I just had this guy research.
- 10:16But, you know, he was a likable guy. Yeah.
- 10:18And he's like, well, come with me to San Diego.
- 10:21So I like all right, take a chance. Go to San Diego.
- 10:23And this is I've never been to Asia before.
- 10:26Okay.
- 10:27So this is like the first time really for me, going to a place where I'm in a room of hundreds, if not really thousands of other Asian professionals.
- 10:37Not only are they Asian, they are also all in real estate.
- 10:40So I was like, oh my God, my people, you know, like I just don't, you know, where have you been?
- 10:45And and everyone was so like inviting and supportive, like it didn't matter.
- 10:52Like as they were telling me how they were doing things, they were telling me their strategies and their systems.
- 10:58And I was like, wow, this is incredible. Yeah.
- 11:00And so for the 3 or 4 days that we were there, I was just like eating it up and loving every moment of it.
- 11:04So we came back to Portland.
- 11:07We didn't have a chapter here in Portland.
- 11:09And I said, let's, let's start one here.
- 11:12So that guy, his name is Joey Lie.
- 11:14He's the godfather for Aria Portland.
- 11:17And we set out and we identified all the other Asian brokers in the area, and we invited them to a meeting and said, hey, here's what Aria is all about.
- 11:26Here's our mission, or blah, blah, blah.
- 11:28And so that was about 16 years ago and really proud that that organization is still going really strong today.
- 11:35I'm still active as a member and involved in helping them grow way I can.
- 11:41Yeah, and I really changed my life though, because it became I always like to say like my chosen family, you know, like, these are people who I, I am excited to see.
- 11:54I will help support in any way I can.
- 11:57Never worried about competition or anything like that.
- 12:00Yeah. No, it's always collaboration of our competition.
- 12:02Yeah.
- 12:03Aria was actually the first affinity group I was introduced to, and I had only been a broker for about six months, and someone had brought an Aria flier to like our team meeting as at Remax at the time. And they're like, you should go to this.
- 12:17You like networking and stuff.
- 12:18And I was confused because I was like, am I allowed to go to this?
- 12:22Is it offensive if I go to this?
- 12:24Is this meant for me?
- 12:25Like, I don't like if I'm invited, I want to go, but I also don't want to show up and how people be like, who the hell is this chick?
- 12:30Like, why did she think she could come to this?
- 12:32And then they were like, no, you can go.
- 12:34And so I was like, nervous because nobody from my office was going to go.
- 12:37They were just like, oh, you would like to go?
- 12:39And I was like, so I went.
- 12:40And then I was pleasantly surprised when I showed up, I was like, so nervous, like, am I going to walk in?
- 12:44And everyone's like, who brought the white girl?
- 12:46But it wasn't that way at all, obviously.
- 12:48And then that's one thing I always like to share about the affinity groups is like, you don't have to be Asian to support Aria.
- 12:54You don't have to be a woman to support Women's Council.
- 12:56You don't have to be Latino, you know, to support the different groups and stuff.
- 13:00So I just think it's so important.
- 13:00But it's hard.
- 13:02You never know.
- 13:03Especially in a yeah, we live in Portland, which sometimes can be a very emotional dynamic area where some people are like, no, this isn't your place, or other people are like, no, please come.
- 13:14So I was just like, I don't want to be offensive, but I do want to be supportive.
- 13:17Like, can I come?
- 13:18And I love Aria and I am a member. Yeah.
- 13:20So that's why I, like you said WCR, I mean, I the longest, affinity group membership I've had is with WCR.
- 13:28Yeah. Woman either.
- 13:29Yeah, but I'm a member of WCR, member of Nara now rep the alliance.
- 13:33All of them. Yeah, yeah.
- 13:35Well they just all support really important causes and all of them have their own needs and opportunities to help support those communities, for sure.
- 13:45What?
- 13:46How did your path go from once you were on the board?
- 13:49I know that you have also pursued leadership and Oregon Realtors and some other things.
- 13:55You talk about that journey a little bit.
- 13:57Yeah, sure.
- 13:58I guess my first.
- 13:59So, you know, we have a local association and we have a state association for the for the realtors.
- 14:05And after serving on PMR, there was, you know, we you can also serve as what's called a state director.
- 14:11So that was like my first really, entry and learning about the sales mission.
- 14:17But then after going to that similarly, like you kind of find like the committees are interested in and then you join them.
- 14:25And so at the time, I was part of the Professional Development committee, all these other things.
- 14:30But then I recognized that, you know, through my work at with Aria and the other affinity groups, that that there was no, basically the AI committee at the state association.
- 14:42So they had, you know, their pillars of values.
- 14:46And one of those was about, you know, leading with inclusion.
- 14:49I was like, well, it was actually our current real estate commissioner, Strode.
- 14:54He was the Oregon Realtors president at the time.
- 14:58And he said that we need our membership to or exceed.
- 15:01Know someone moving to Oregon?
- 15:01Send them my way.
- 15:04I specialize in relocation and I'll treat them like family.
- 15:07Plus, you know, there's a glass of wine in it for him.
- 15:10Cheers. Excuse me.
- 15:12Our leadership to reflect our membership.
- 15:14And I was like, well, there are no people who look like me or my colleagues, you know, on your leadership.
- 15:20So what is the pathway for us to get there? Yeah.
- 15:22And so we help develop and bring forward the diversity committee to Oregon Realtors and down to what's called a key committee or standing committee.
- 15:32And it's got a budget and a staff person.
- 15:35So we're actually able to do some really great work now through that to help share and spread these resources to members across our state.
- 15:41Yeah, absolutely.
- 15:42Especially like the Fair Housing Summit in different education opportunities.
- 15:46What about all of your different roles that you've had made you want to go into more like city politics?
- 15:53So Alex is currently running right now for an upcoming election, and I do want to talk more about that.
- 15:58But what made you be like, you know, I actually want to pivot and go more towards this.
- 16:03I, I all honestly, other people have made me tend to do these things, you know, like there's a senior volunteered to do.
- 16:10It's like Dorian Von told me to get to join, you know, why?
- 16:14And then next thing you know, I, I keep doing these other things because.
- 16:18So all my life throughout these different groups, people said, Alex, you should run for office someday.
- 16:23You should do you should be mayor.
- 16:24Alex and I always just laughed like mayor. What?
- 16:27Well, yeah. They're like, no, you should be the mayor of Beaverton.
- 16:30Ali. Yeah, and my clients tell me this.
- 16:32All these people, and I'm.
- 16:33I just laugh because I think it's, like, natural to have that imposter syndrome, for sure.
- 16:39Yeah, well, it's always flattering, but then at the same time, you're like, what?
- 16:42What do you see that I'm not seeing?
- 16:44Like, why?
- 16:44Why are you saying I should be mayor?
- 16:46Yeah, totally.
- 16:47Yeah.
- 16:47And so, you know, I'm running for Metro Council.
- 16:50Metros are regional government for if you're not familiar, Metro helps work with.
- 16:57And I say we're help works with partners with our three counties Multnomah, Clackamas, Washington 24 cities.
- 17:03And it's in charge of our regional growth plan.
- 17:06And so they invest in transportation.
- 17:09They manage solid waste and recycling.
- 17:12They manage the Oregon Convention Center, the Oregon Zoo Expo Center, and a lot of our parks and trail systems.
- 17:21And currently they're administering the SHS or supportive housing tax measure and also the affordable housing bond.
- 17:29And so this opportunity came up because for four years ago, I had met the current councilor in the seat.
- 17:36We were volunteering for a nonprofit in Washington County that I was part of, and I didn't know him at the time, but after meeting him, I was like, wow, this guy is really cool.
- 17:46His name's Juan Carlos Gonzales, he's running for Metro president.
- 17:49And anyways, he he kind of said, Alex, you know, well, actually, we met there, that volunteer event, we connected, we stayed in touch.
- 17:57I was following him. He's kind of following me.
- 17:59He saw everything I was doing.
- 18:00And then one day a couple of years ago, he invited me out for lunch, and he said, hey, Alex, you know, would you ever consider this?
- 18:08And I'm like, consider what you know.
- 18:10Well, I'm going to be running for Metro president one day, and I'd like you to run for my seat.
- 18:15And I was like, well, wow.
- 18:17On very flattering that.
- 18:19Thank you. Why? Why?
- 18:21And probably no, you know. Yeah, sure. Really?
- 18:24And he's like, well, I see what you're doing both in your professional work as a realtor, but also your nonprofit work serving our community.
- 18:31And now at the time and now I'm, I'm working on my first affordable housing project.
- 18:37We're building 41 units down in Salem for the Micronesian community, he said.
- 18:41You know, the perspectives you have as a business owner, as a community leader, as a affordable housing developer, those are perspectives we need at Metro.
- 18:49That's a voice we're missing.
- 18:51And so I would really consider and again, I was flattered if I said thank you, but no thank you.
- 18:56You know, and for me, the reason why was, you know, my I have two kids.
- 19:01They're eight and 11. Like I said, being a public servant is going to take up a lot of my time.
- 19:08And then on top of my business. Right.
- 19:10So I didn't think it was fair for my kids growing up.
- 19:14My parents worked 2 or 3 jobs at a time, so I would hardly see them because, you know, they were providing for us and I didn't have the relationship with them that I thought I wanted.
- 19:25So I figured, well, now's not the right time for me because that means more time away from my kids, and that's not what I want.
- 19:33And so I said no.
- 19:35And then he he gracefully accepted that.
- 19:37And then 2 or 3 weeks later, we were at a park and a Washington County commissioner who I know saw me and came up to me and said, Alice, I've heard your running for Metro.
- 19:48And I was like, oh my gosh, I did not share that with anybody.
- 19:53And so like for and then it was like made me realize, wow, how strategic is this guy to they'll get a commissioner to come after me.
- 20:01And then my wife Kim was with me and and basically I said, no, I lost like, no, no, I'm not doing it.
- 20:06And and Kim said, I think he should.
- 20:09I'm like, what you you think I should like, are you serious?
- 20:13Yeah. And then she said, yeah.
- 20:16You know, you've always loved giving baths and volunteering in the community.
- 20:20If believes in you, if one Carlos believes in you, this is your opportunity.
- 20:26It's something you really want.
- 20:27I will support you. I love that, you know.
- 20:30And so we I was of course, like really surprised.
- 20:34And that night we had a much deeper conversation about what it looks like and what the time commitment would be and all of those things.
- 20:41Exactly.
- 20:42She made sure, like, if you are going to do this, Alex, you are going to step off of all these other boards, things that you're doing well, and that's only you can only yeah, you can only be divided in so many ways.
- 20:53Yeah. So with your time.
- 20:55So what was the next step then once you and her decided like, okay, I am going to do this.
- 21:01Did you just call one backer?
- 21:03No, I called other people whom I respected, other people who I know that are elected to get their counsel and advice.
- 21:12And to those people are Senator Mark meek.
- 21:17He's a fellow realtor, and I've known him for 12 years and seen him rise, you know, as he he entered that political realm, too.
- 21:25And he basically tried to talk me out of it, really.
- 21:29You know, he was like, Alex, don't do it.
- 21:31You know, your kids are young.
- 21:33You know, there will always be a time in the future when you can jump into this stuff.
- 21:38Yeah, but this will take up a lot of your time away.
- 21:41So he basically tried to talk me out of it and I said, okay, got it.
- 21:45You know.
- 21:45And then I talked to a representative, Daniel Wynne, about it.
- 21:49Same thing basically, you know, and, you know, after hearing no, you know, why not to do it.
- 21:54And talking to my family further, I believe that I could do it.
- 22:00Yeah.
- 22:00You know, well, and sometimes it's really impactful for our kids to see us to certain things, you know, like it will also help shape their journey and like their perspective on the world, seeing you do certain things for the community.
- 22:12Absolutely.
- 22:13So I agree with you.
- 22:14Sometimes it does take away like the bedtime stories or sometimes the playing, but when they get to see you accomplish certain things, that really impacts them in a positive way.
- 22:22To what has been surprising to you.
- 22:26Going through the campaign process so far?
- 22:28Like, are there certain things that caught you off guard or that you were like, pleasantly surprised about or not so pleasantly surprised?
- 22:35Oh well, there's a lot of things.
- 22:37You know, it's been really fun.
- 22:39You know what I, what I love about doing this type of work is how much I get to learn every day.
- 22:44I'm meeting new people and getting new perspectives.
- 22:47I'm seeing things from, you know, places where I never even thought about before.
- 22:52So I really enjoy that.
- 22:53Things that I've experienced that I really don't like so far is kind of like the politics around politics, I suppose, like the the lack of better words, like caddying assumptions between certain politicians or even now I'm like, I'm nobody, right?
- 23:11Yes, I'm a candidate, but I'm still basically I feel like nobody and getting like, oh, well, I heard you went to somebody else's event and so therefore I can't support you.
- 23:21I'm like, why?
- 23:24You know, like I was not like I have publicly endorsed them or anything like that and I, I.
- 23:29Yeah.
- 23:30Isn't it good for me to always go and hear perspective?
- 23:33Yeah, absolutely.
- 23:34You know, just because I'm there at an event and maybe I am supportive, but, you know, I'm just there in spirit.
- 23:39Like, why do people hold those things against you?
- 23:42Yeah. It's a very strange. Yeah.
- 23:44So that part I don't like so much, you know, but for the most part, it's been really good.
- 23:50Yeah, yeah.
- 23:50Nothing I don't like.
- 23:50Nothing took you by surprise.
- 23:53Like how much?
- 23:54Like handshaking you have to do, or you know what I mean.
- 23:57Or, like, print and all that kind of stuff.
- 23:59Yeah. Campaign.
- 24:00Oh, I have such a different in such a high level of respect now for anybody who's willing to run for any office because this is a lift.
- 24:10Oh, it is, it is.
- 24:12It is hard for sure.
- 24:13I mean, the handshake, that's like the easy part. Sure.
- 24:15The hard part is remembering all these names. Oh, yeah.
- 24:17We're meeting so many more people.
- 24:20And for whatever reason, people remember me or know me, you know, but I go to like, oh my God, I know I've met you, but I'm so sorry.
- 24:27Can you remind me your name again?
- 24:27You know, like I'm sorry.
- 24:30It is hard.
- 24:30I mean, even in our business, we meet a lot of people out and about.
- 24:33Because you do volunteer a lot even before you're doing this.
- 24:36And that happens all the time.
- 24:38Or someone comes up to me and I'm, like, quickly going through the Rolodex in my brain, like, I know you like, are you a mom at Rylan School?
- 24:45Are you somebody to know through real estate?
- 24:47Are you somebody I know through Women's Council?
- 24:48Like all the things are going through my head and then normally I land on it partway through, like, oh, yeah, I took an aerobics class with you and, you know, like, something pops up, but otherwise, yeah, I'm always going to like, shoot, shoot, shoot. Who are you?
- 24:58Who are you? Who are you?
- 25:00And then I always feel terrible because then they're like, How is Rylan?
- 25:02And they, like, clearly remember stuff about me.
- 25:04And I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm the worst.
- 25:06Yeah, but we were at, Bullwinkle, this Lassie, for my daughter's friend's birthday, and we were on this.
- 25:14They called the XD ride whatever was like one of these 4D rides, right?
- 25:17And then people on the outside of the ride can see, you know, you on the screen.
- 25:22And I come out of the room with the kids and this woman came up, was like, hey, Alex from Alloa and clearly knew me.
- 25:30Yeah. And was like.
- 25:31And I was like, oh my gosh, I'm a little high school.
- 25:34I guess it a minute.
- 25:35I do not remember you. That's so funny.
- 25:37But, you know, I it's so weird how people can remember you.
- 25:41I know, but then it's also, it's so nice and and then you.
- 25:44That's why I always feel bad because I'm like, oh, you remembered me.
- 25:47And I took me 20 minutes to remember how I know you.
- 25:51Yeah. And then I felt terrible.
- 25:52I remind myself to you, though, I post a lot on social media and not everybody does.
- 25:56So I'm like, well, you might have seen like 30 things I posted which helped you remember me versus I haven't seen anything that you've posted, so it took me a second.
- 26:04I'm sorry.
- 26:05Usually by the second time where like the first time I might forget, but after the first time I really make an effort on cementing that person's name and trying to associate it with either another person I know or something like that.
- 26:18So that way when I see them again, I can recall it.
- 26:21Yeah. But yeah, it's knowing you think of her.
- 26:23You'll think high school bowling.
- 26:25Yeah. Exactly.
- 26:26That's how you're going to remember her.
- 26:28That's so funny.
- 26:29What is some advice you would give somebody if they came up to you?
- 26:32Well, we were just talking about this, that you just added someone to your team not too long ago.
- 26:36But when they come up to you and say, like, I'm thinking about getting into real estate, what should I know?
- 26:40Oh well, first I start with why I want to know why they are curious or interested in what they want to get out of it.
- 26:48And then really I tell them like the ugly truth that it's, it's a lot of work.
- 26:53It's, it's something where it literally becomes your life, where you are a basically a small business, small business owner, and the business is going to grow and die, basically based on your efforts, you know?
- 27:07And so I'm like, look, you, you, you got to be working every day at this.
- 27:11There will be nights where you can't sleep because all these business ideas and whatever you're working on is going to creep into your mind all the time.
- 27:18There's no shut off button. Really?
- 27:20Yeah. When you're a realtor, no, there really isn't.
- 27:23And you're always thinking about your clients way more than their thinking about you.
- 27:27Like, I'll even be like, oh, I haven't talked to so-and-so in a while.
- 27:30I need to call so-and-so.
- 27:31Like, I'll be laying in bed thinking about people I want to talk to in a while, and I know no one is in bed thinking like a shell hasn't called me.
- 27:37Yeah, like they're not thinking about it, but I always am.
- 27:41Yep, yep.
- 27:42I always tell them to.
- 27:43Like, everyone just thinks that, like, your phone's just going to ring, like the business is just going to show up.
- 27:48And really, it's a business that you have to go out and find your clients and provide value and gain momentum that way.
- 27:56But I know so many agents that when I'm training, they're like, oh, I don't I don't want to do Dornoch, okay.
- 28:02I don't want to do social media, okay?
- 28:04I don't want to do any farm letters, okay?
- 28:07I don't want to do floor time.
- 28:08How how are you finding clients? Yeah.
- 28:11Are you not working?
- 28:11No, I don't like not working.
- 28:14I don't know if this is a business for you.
- 28:16Like, how are you going to meet people like.
- 28:18Well, I don't know.
- 28:19Don't you guys just give leads?
- 28:20No, that's not really how it works.
- 28:22You know, so, yeah, it's a lot more work than people realize. Are.
- 28:26Sure.
- 28:27It's it's a, you know, there's a we're saying in our industry it's a roller coaster.
- 28:31There really is.
- 28:32I mean, you know, I, I tell like some of my newer agents when they join.
- 28:36Hey, look, when you get a client, you'll be excited.
- 28:38You'll be really working hard, you'll be keeping this deal.
- 28:41But don't forget you.
- 28:42When that deal closes, you're back to square one, unemployed again.
- 28:45Like we always joke.
- 28:46Like we're always unemployed in the state, right? Yeah.
- 28:48And so we're always having to look for new business.
- 28:51All the time, every single day.
- 28:52And it is a roller coaster.
- 28:54I was just explaining that to somebody the other day.
- 28:56I was like, one minute you'll have five clients and like, oh, we're going to these people are going to let us these people are buying.
- 29:03And two days they'll go by and be like, oh, we're going to wait until summer.
- 29:07Or someone says, job change.
- 29:08So we don't want to sell anymore.
- 29:10Oh, I don't think I'm ready to buy.
- 29:10I met with my.
- 29:13So like, you can go from having five clients on a Monday to zero clients on a Thursday that are ready to start shopping or selling, and then you're like, okay.
- 29:21And then the whole time you're just like, no big deal. Okay, totally.
- 29:24I understand because, I mean, you do like they all have their own valid reasons.
- 29:27But then to your point, it's like, okay, well, I still need business to provide for my family.
- 29:31So then you're just, like, constantly on the wheel. Yeah.
- 29:34I tell to my teams like into these, you know, people, our clients, the people we work with, they have their normal everyday lives.
- 29:40Like you said earlier, they're not waking up thinking about us and real estate every single day.
- 29:45They're dealing with their work, their life, other family matters, whatever's going on.
- 29:49So don't be offended or hurt because someone is not responding to you like they got other stuff going on.
- 29:55Yeah, and they don't care as much about some of the stuff because it's not their forefront or what they're thinking about.
- 30:03To your point earlier that like not all your sphere will use you if you're thinking about making a lifestyle upgrade, maybe wine country, acreage, grape views, or do you want to go downtown?
- 30:14Let's talk. Either way, I want to help you level up.
- 30:17Reach out now and we'll make your dreams come true.
- 30:20And real estate transactions and a lot of agents do get really upset about that.
- 30:24But they forget, like, there might be multiple reasons why that they're not using you.
- 30:29Like, maybe they're getting ready to have a divorce and they don't want their circle to know yet.
- 30:33Maybe they don't want you to know the inside of their financials, things like that.
- 30:37Maybe they don't want you to have an opinion on what they're buying.
- 30:40And because you're their brother, you're going to tell them like, no, you don't want this house, you want this house, you know, like so they sometimes they just want to separate business, you know, from personal.
- 30:49And people get so offended by it.
- 30:49I'm like, well, it's their choice.
- 30:52They're about to spend $700,000.
- 30:54They should choose who they want to work with.
- 30:55Totally.
- 30:56I actually remember now in saying that inexperienced mad was a new agent and it was a friend, you know, family kind of friend, pretty close.
- 31:05And they wanted to look at this house.
- 31:07And in my mind, for whatever reason, at the time, I was like, yeah, I just can't afford this house, you know, like, this is kind of like beyond really what I think you should be buying, you know, based on what you're pre-approved of, you know?
- 31:18And I essentially said to them, you know, I don't think you should look at this house.
- 31:21It's to to expensive whatever. Right.
- 31:23And that was a moment I'll never forget.
- 31:26I shot myself in the foot.
- 31:27Did they want to work with me anymore? No.
- 31:29Did they buy that house? Yes.
- 31:31They found a way to buy the house.
- 31:31And they bought it, right?
- 31:33Yeah. And I learned that lesson.
- 31:35Oh, don't ever assume you know what's best for your client, you know?
- 31:39So I never do that again.
- 31:41But, you know, you know, our job is, you know, serve our clients needs and best interests, and and they if there's something they want, they'll find a way to get it.
- 31:50Yeah, absolutely.
- 31:52Or like, I think sometimes people have a hard time removing them selves from the transaction as far as, like their own budget or what they would spend or on something.
- 32:01Like it's just funny you hear it.
- 32:04Even when people come through open houses like a mom with their two kids and the mom's like, I would never spend 800,000 on this house.
- 32:10And the two kids are, like, in love with it, right?
- 32:12When I say kids, they're like in their 30s, but like, they're in love with it.
- 32:15So it's just funny.
- 32:15I've seen realtors do that too.
- 32:18And I'm like, don't impose your budget or what you would want on somebody else.
- 32:22Like let your clients self discover that they want, and then you just help guide them to get what they want.
- 32:28Yep, yep.
- 32:29Why do you think it's important for people in our profession to run for political positions?
- 32:36Well, you know, interesting question.
- 32:39You know, I think realtors and by the way, we did not rehearse practice any of this stuff is totally.
- 32:45Yeah, off the cuff. Off the cuff.
- 32:45He has no idea.
- 32:47I think the realtors are really well positioned to serve in the community because the by nature of the work that we do, we are driving across.
- 32:56There are days when I'm showing properties in three different counties here, and we're driving even across state lines to now.
- 33:02And so that gives us a really good understanding of what's happening in communities, because as we're helping our clients make decisions on neighborhoods or areas they want to be in or commute times, that's a real just have a really good perspective on those.
- 33:16Plus, realtors are one of the industries where they give the most back to the communities in which they work in and serve.
- 33:23Because that's by nature how we grow our network and meet more people.
- 33:27And so I think it really helps a realtor if they want to pursue public service, that they don't.
- 33:35It only benefits them. Yeah.
- 33:37Well, it's nice to have a seat at the table to help make the decisions that are impacting the communities.
- 33:43Like there is a handful of bills sign this week that were all around housing, and we had quite a few realtors there present during the signing of that.
- 33:51And, you know, you've gone to the Capitol in D.C.
- 33:54many times, like I have to talk to legislation and to try and help get certain things moved across the to the the voting table.
- 34:03And it's just I think people don't think about that.
- 34:06I think a lot of people just visualize politicians as politicians and not like, oh, they actually have real jobs and they do other things outside of politics like real estate.
- 34:14And I just agree with you.
- 34:17Like we get to see what our clients need and find a way to voice it and help those like come to fruition.
- 34:23And I just think that's important.
- 34:24And I appreciate that you're running for office, and the few realtors that we do currently have in office and throughout Oregon, it's just really impactful.
- 34:32And it does help move the needle for home ownership across the board.
- 34:35Yeah for sure. Yep. Agree.
- 34:38Is there anything when you are elected that you're hoping to impact or move?
- 34:44Yeah. Couple things.
- 34:45You know, being a lifelong Oregonian, I feel like, you know, we've I've had the experience in my life where I feel like we've seen Oregon as a region thrive, not a region of the state, but like our region, metro region really thrive, right?
- 35:01It used to be where Portland was, the talk of the nation like a place where you could go to find great food, great culture.
- 35:08You know, obviously the environment to is amazing here.
- 35:12And that's really changed over the last five years.
- 35:15You know, it's now now when I travel and I tell people I'm from Portland and they're like, oh my gosh, how terrible it is for you over there.
- 35:22Let's be a terrible city.
- 35:23All these things.
- 35:24And like, we know that's not true, but we are.
- 35:26We are in a major decline right now.
- 35:28So I'm running on a couple platforms.
- 35:31One, I believe that every person, every Oregonian, should have the opportunity to be able to build a better life for themselves, to be able to have a living wage job where we have affordable housing options and pathways for advancement.
- 35:46And like I just kind of mentioned, we're heading in the opposite direction right now. We're in a major decline.
- 35:53Businesses continue to leave our state taking their jobs with them.
- 35:57They're investing in other areas.
- 35:59And because of how our state finances work, we're heavily dependent on income taxes.
- 36:06Well, if we continue to lose employers and lose high paying jobs.
- 36:10Yeah, our state's facing a major continued deficit basically, you know, so I want to be so what can I do to help our region be more competitive and attractive to employers to bring opportunities back to Oregon?
- 36:23I when as I have been going around in meeting different labor unions, it astounds me of the number of people who are out of work right now.
- 36:31And after I meet with them and I learned that, then I also recognize in our work it's like, wow, that's true.
- 36:38I have clients who are facing foreclosure at this point to like we are seeing that happen again.
- 36:44So since, you know, one, if we can't regrow our economy, then we got to work with what we have.
- 36:51So I want to make sure that we have real accountability to the taxes that we already pay for, like in Oregon and in our region.
- 36:58We pay a lot of different taxes.
- 37:01And to be honest, most of the voters and people don't believe we're getting real value for those dollars at this point.
- 37:08One of the things I see in the news every day this morning, in fact, they were just still talking about how, you know, the number of people who continue to enter homelessness continues rising, even though we've been pouring hundreds of millions of dollars every year into funding programs and shelters, more people continue entering homelessness.
- 37:28Right.
- 37:28And so what is not working, right.
- 37:31Clearly something.
- 37:32Absolutely.
- 37:33And I you know, I've always believed that, you know, to help somebody I love the old saying like, you know, give a man a fish he'll eat for a day, but teach a man a fish, he can he can feed himself for a lifetime.
- 37:45And what I see right now is we're giving out lots of fish.
- 37:48Yeah.
- 37:48You know, but what are we really doing to help people learn to fish better for themselves?
- 37:54How do they be able to find a sustainable way to care for themselves, to get back to contributing not only for their own selves, but back to our community for those dollars that we're supporting them with?
- 38:04So, for example, we have rental assistance vouchers, things like that, where a nonprofit may give rental assistance vouchers to somebody who's currently homeless and get them into an apartment.
- 38:17Well, that person is not required to participate into any programs.
- 38:22We're not required to receive any additional services.
- 38:25They're happy to take the check to get a shelter, obviously, you know, but those those vouchers are good for four months.
- 38:32And so once that money kind of stops, well, is that person able to continue paying. No.
- 38:35So what happens?
- 38:37They're going to end up back on the street right.
- 38:39The landlords and property owners, the only way to help that resident get more assistance is to file an eviction for them.
- 38:46So it puts me in a bad position where I'm not seeing me.
- 38:49But like the property owner has to file eviction against that person, further making it harder for them to find housing in the future.
- 38:57And, you know, again, there's just no accountability.
- 39:02Yeah, it's a vicious cycle.
- 39:03Yeah, totally.
- 39:04And so how do we break that to make it different.
- 39:07So I was I was working I was appointed to serve on Metro President's workforce this last year on, on this particular tax measure.
- 39:15Really excited that the council is moving some of those ideas that we we worked on forward just most recently last month they we had two oversight committees with that tax measure.
- 39:27And now they've consolidated that into one to make sure that both teams are working more efficiently.
- 39:33And that way we're able to to really dial in and deliver, again, real outcomes that the voters want.
- 39:40And right now we're recording in April and the elections coming up in May.
- 39:45Anything else you want to say to the voters out there?
- 39:47And also maybe mention who can vote for you?
- 39:50Because not everybody can vote for you.
- 39:51I'm running for Metro Council district four and district four runs all the way from Forest Grove, all Forest Grove, all of Cornelius, and then the northern and western parts of Hillsboro and Beaverton.
- 40:03So if you think of Valley Highway from Alloa up to Bethany, north of TV highway, that's my district all the way up to the Cedar Mill area, where we are here in right next to Saint Vincent's Hospital.
- 40:18So although I represent district four and that's only the people who can vote for me, there's 180,000 voters in district for the work that I do on Metro Council, like I said earlier, will be for the tri county area.
- 40:31So, you know, and of course, as a realtor, you impact the state two and voting happens in May.
- 40:39May 19th is election date.
- 40:41Ballots will actually be getting a mail sent out on April 29th.
- 40:45So just in a week. Yeah.
- 40:47Awesome. Well, thank you so much for your time.
- 40:49I know you're super busy right now at the campaign and you're still selling real estate full time as well.
- 40:54So cheers and good luck in the election.
- 40:57And thank you.
- 40:58Thank you for listening and watching.
- 40:59And I'll see you next week. Cheers.