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We’re Getting a Husband!: Wedding Edition Q&A · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing.
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  Speaker 1: In corub a dub dub in the tub atub dub.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, another wedding episode. Before we begin, though, you had
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  Speaker 2: a celebrity interaction regarding the wedding.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, but is this like too much wedding talk?
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  Speaker 2: I think this is what the people want? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Not enough?
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow. The thing that I realized, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I never realized until I was planning my wedding how
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  Speaker 1: many things you have to think about until I was
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  Speaker 1: like in it. So if you are planning a wedding
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  Speaker 1: or in the future we like to get married, it
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  Speaker 1: might be nice to here's some of these rands've.
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  Speaker 2: Been on this journey with you for a very long time,
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  Speaker 2: so I think this is very exciting. And they can't
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  Speaker 2: physically be at the wedding, so this is this is great.
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  Speaker 2: And then like, we're gonna do a wedding recap, so
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  Speaker 2: if you don't want to hear about wedding stuff, then
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  Speaker 2: come back in listen to old episodes, episodes, and we'll
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  Speaker 2: be back in late March.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so we To me, this was just so sweet
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  Speaker 1: because we invited Kevin Jonas and his wife Danielle Jonas
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  Speaker 1: to our wedding. I have felt obviously I have this
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  Speaker 1: connection to them. I also felt very sentimental because I
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  Speaker 1: was talking to him the night before I got engaged
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  Speaker 1: about getting engaged, and he was like, when's he gonna propose?
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  Speaker 2: And did da da?
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  Speaker 1: And then it happened literally the next day, so like
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  Speaker 1: he was involved, and like everybody that was at the
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  Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers concert with me like had told him, like
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  Speaker 1: she's getting engaged tomorrow, so like he just feels it's
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  Speaker 1: part like a part, a part of the journey. And
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  Speaker 1: they tried so hard to like make it work. Like
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  Speaker 1: he was constantly reaching out I like remind asking us
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  Speaker 1: to remind him of like where and when, and like
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  Speaker 1: he just kept saying like to both me and Robbie,
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  Speaker 1: like we're really trying to make it work. We're really
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  Speaker 1: trying to make it work, which I thought was like
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  Speaker 1: so sweet. Turns out they can't make it because, as
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  Speaker 1: you've heard, Jonas con is like literally like they just
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  Speaker 1: have so much going on and he just like couldn't
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  Speaker 1: make it work, which I was not even expecting them
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  Speaker 1: to at all, But the fact that he picked up
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  Speaker 1: the phone called Robbie to let him know that like
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  Speaker 1: they're so sorry they can't make it. They really wanted
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  Speaker 1: to make it work. Then picked up the phone and
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  Speaker 1: called me separately to say he's so sorry. They really
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  Speaker 1: wanted to make it work, like we love you guys.
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  Speaker 1: I thought that was so classy and just like so nice.
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm like I have people that I see literally
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  Speaker 1: every day that just didn't even call me, text me,
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  Speaker 1: just went on the website and like RVP, no, do.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Like literally I see every day like just like no.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh dang, like no text so sorry,
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  Speaker 1: like not even in the collects, you know, like Ben
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  Speaker 1: and Jess couldn't make it, and they wrote like we
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  Speaker 1: just you know, we try to make it work, but
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  Speaker 1: like we just had a baby and we love you guys. Congratulations.
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  Speaker 1: Like yeah, like I'm like nothing, And Kevin Jonas picks
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  Speaker 1: up the phone and calls both of us, not just
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  Speaker 1: like a text of the two of us, like picks
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  Speaker 1: up the phone and like speaks to us. Yeah, And
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that just shows you, like the character
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  Speaker 1: and the kind of guy that he is that he like.
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  Speaker 2: Did that so nice.
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  Speaker 1: It was so niceful and so thoughtful. It makes me
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  Speaker 1: I love them even more.
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  Speaker 2: A stand up human, stand up guy who will not
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  Speaker 2: be at the wedding. Correct, but they did their best.
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  Speaker 1: They did their best, which is all that matters.
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  Speaker 2: Well, a lot of our scrubbers wrote in asking questions
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  Speaker 2: for you, so I feel like we should get to them.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get to tak some of them.
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  Speaker 2: No no for three minutes, and let's not do that commercials.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 4: They're all screaming like no, no, more's fish.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, my brain is not really here.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Let me let me an easty hand and handle
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  Speaker 2: the breaks, and you just relax and answer the questions.
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  Speaker 1: All right, give it to me.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. First question is simple, what are you most looking
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  Speaker 2: forward to?
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  Speaker 1: I'm definitely looking forward to just like all the people
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  Speaker 1: that I love so much, being in one space. I
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  Speaker 1: Our wedding shower that we had other night was one
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  Speaker 1: of like the best nights of my life. I think
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  Speaker 1: it because it was my family, his family, and like
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  Speaker 1: our closest closest friends, and so the fact that that
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  Speaker 1: was like one of the best nights of my life,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like imagining that the wedding is going to be
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  Speaker 1: like that time's a hundred h So that's what I'm
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  Speaker 1: most looking forward to. I love that.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good crew, it's a good squad. It's
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  Speaker 1: a good squad, all right.
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  Speaker 2: So this next one, I feel like, oh, this is
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  Speaker 2: probably a sentiment that a lot of the scrubbers feel
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  Speaker 2: and radio listeners feel. But the question is does it
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  Speaker 2: feel surreal? I followed your journey from the beginning, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm super excited for you.
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  Speaker 1: Like it honestly feels out of body. And it's so
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  Speaker 1: funny because I was talking to my makeup artist, who
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  Speaker 1: Liz if for people that are listening that don't know,
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  Speaker 1: she does makeup and glam for E And so when
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  Speaker 1: Ryan when we were on the morning show at Wilshire,
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  Speaker 1: like are different in the E building. So I've known
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  Speaker 1: Liz since I was like twenty one twenty two whenever
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  Speaker 1: I started, and she'd always seen me in the hallway,
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  Speaker 1: so she's like been on this journey with me too,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like she's known me since then,
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  Speaker 1: and she was like, you're the epitome of like you
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  Speaker 1: know those little girls I always dream about their wedding.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, that is you, Like, that's that's what I
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  Speaker 1: think of when I think of those little girls, Like
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  Speaker 1: I envisioned you as like a little girl.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So, like it's so crazy that it's like happening. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's crazy, and not even just like the wedding, just
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  Speaker 1: like the fact that like I'm going to be married,
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  Speaker 1: I know, a missus, a missus and like we've been
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  Speaker 1: together for five years, you know what I mean, Like
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it's been so much there's been so
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  Speaker 1: much time in our relationship already that I'm like, I
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  Speaker 1: can't believe I waited five years to do this, Like
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  Speaker 1: I was ready after the first month.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you were, which I'm glad y'all didn't do that.
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  Speaker 1: You never know.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. The next one is what has been the hardest
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  Speaker 2: and best part of this whole wedding season.
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  Speaker 1: The hardest part for me as I think I've realized
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  Speaker 1: I'm just not a good I'm not a very decisive person.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've learned that about you too.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I'm a I'm a worker bee, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean, Like I am good if you I
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  Speaker 1: show up to my job, I know what I need
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  Speaker 1: to turn in every night. I know what I need
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  Speaker 1: to do every morning, Like give me a task and
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  Speaker 1: I can do it. When I'm forced to make decisions,
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  Speaker 1: I am like I I go back and forth and
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  Speaker 1: I think I agonize over like every decision. So I
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  Speaker 1: think the decision making process has been like very hard
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  Speaker 1: for me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I also think that'd be hard for me. And
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  Speaker 2: I think it's decisions that are things that, like in
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  Speaker 2: the big scheme of things, they don't matter, so you're
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  Speaker 2: kind of like it could go either way and I'm fine.
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  Speaker 1: And the thing is, there's pros and cons to like
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  Speaker 1: every decision, you know what I mean. There's pros to
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  Speaker 1: doing a destination wedding. There's cons to doing a destination wedding.
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  Speaker 1: So I think that like the pros and cons to
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  Speaker 1: both is like very hard for somebody that's indecisive like myself. Well,
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  Speaker 1: we got here, yes, yes.
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  Speaker 2: By all means and by all agonizing decisions.
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  Speaker 1: We already.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. Well, what was the best part of the wedding planning?
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  Speaker 1: The best part was seeing how involved Robbie was the
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  Speaker 1: whole process, Like he's been on every single email, every
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  Speaker 1: single text message, like even last night when they were
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  Speaker 1: doing the hair and makeup trial with me. Like he
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh yeah, like you're going to do that
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  Speaker 1: with this dress, and like Liz was like the fact
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  Speaker 1: that he even knows that is so cute. So it's
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  Speaker 1: like been really cool and fun. I didn't realize he
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  Speaker 1: was going to be as involved as he has been.
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  Speaker 2: He's just an involved human.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he wanted to be involved in this podcast before
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  Speaker 1: the wedding, but he's just been so slammed at work
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  Speaker 1: that he couldn't swing it.
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  Speaker 2: It's okay, maybe he'll come on the recap. Maybe we
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  Speaker 2: can squeeze him in on the recap.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think at the end of I think he
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  Speaker 1: has a gets in the weeds. But yeah, something closing
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  Speaker 1: at the end of March.
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  Speaker 2: We already answered this. Someone said, how did the Boudoir
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  Speaker 2: photo book turn out? It's great? And she she ordered
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  Speaker 2: a book that did you style how the pages looked?
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  Speaker 2: Or was that like pre mating You just say to
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  Speaker 2: the photos.
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  Speaker 1: It's pre made. There's like six different like you either
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  Speaker 1: make it like a rectangle or a square or like
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  Speaker 1: the page. Yeah, you can decide which. Oh you took
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  Speaker 1: a great job, thank you. Yeah, it's gorgeous. Do you
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  Speaker 1: have any last minute things you want to do or
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  Speaker 1: moments you want to have before you become a wife.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's a good question, Like is there.
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  Speaker 2: Anything like as before being a wife that you haven't
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  Speaker 2: done that you're like, I gotta squeeze this in before
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  Speaker 2: the wedding.
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  Speaker 1: Like what like one last fling before the ring?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: No, nothing sounds worse. No, literally, nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Like seeing one last wien.
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  Speaker 1: Who's what I see. I don't want to see any
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  Speaker 1: other one literally nothing. I'm so excited, Like I would
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  Speaker 1: marry him tomorrow.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think you would have married him two
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  Speaker 2: years four years ago?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, actually four.
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  Speaker 2: This is a good question. I think we've ever talked
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  Speaker 2: about this on the podcast. How do you feel about
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  Speaker 2: being Robbie's second bride slash wife?
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  Speaker 1: So it's interesting because it's something that I used to
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  Speaker 1: get really hung up on in the beginning of our relationship,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like not being the first with him and
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  Speaker 1: it being the first for me. But he has expressed
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  Speaker 1: to me he's like, because when Robby and I met,
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  Speaker 1: he didn't want to ever get married again. He was like,
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  Speaker 1: if I never get married again, I am aokay, Like
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  Speaker 1: he didn't need to get married again. He wanted to
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  Speaker 1: get married again, and so there's a huge mentality shift
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  Speaker 1: from when at that time, Like I think a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people will sometimes get married because they feel like
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  Speaker 1: that's what they need to do at the time, because
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  Speaker 1: that's what everybody's doing and it's like so ingrained in
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  Speaker 1: like your culture. And now he's doing it because it's
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  Speaker 1: like he wants this is like what he really wants,
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  Speaker 1: and it's like so different and so special because he's like,
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  Speaker 1: my kids are going to be there, you know, like
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  Speaker 1: there's nothing more special to him than the fact that
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  Speaker 1: like his kids are going to be there, and so yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's just like a totally it's just a totally different experience,
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  Speaker 1: and I think I think in the beginning of the relationship,
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't differentiate, but now it's like very easy to see.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like you both did such a great job
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  Speaker 2: at navigating this, because I do remember having conversations where
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  Speaker 2: it was something you were hung up on, and I
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  Speaker 2: feel like Robbie did a great job at making sure
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  Speaker 2: that you felt validated in how you were feeling, but
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  Speaker 2: also reassured that it was a totally separate experience for
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  Speaker 2: him and it wasn't like he was comparing the two
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  Speaker 2: or anything that like he wanted to have he wanted
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  Speaker 2: to marry you because he wants to be married to you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's doing things this time that like he
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  Speaker 1: wants in his way, and like we're doing things that
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  Speaker 1: like feel right and you know what I mean, Like
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  Speaker 1: it just it's very different. And I was feeling the
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  Speaker 1: same way about kids too, Like I was like so
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  Speaker 1: hung up on that for a while, and then I
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  Speaker 1: was like, actually, this is a blessing that he's done
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  Speaker 1: this before, because I'm such a worry war and I'm
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  Speaker 1: like so in my head about stuff that it's going
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  Speaker 1: to be such a blessing to have him because he
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  Speaker 1: just like keeps me and he's already done it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So like I know, I'm gonna lean on him a lot.
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  Speaker 2: You brought this up, but how will the boys be
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  Speaker 2: part of the wedding.
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  Speaker 1: They are best men and ring security, so they're going
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  Speaker 1: to be walking sunny down the aisle and then best
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  Speaker 1: men as well.
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  Speaker 2: That's really cute. Do did you have any trouble with
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  Speaker 2: the guest list? Since you know so many people in
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  Speaker 2: the entertainment industry.
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  Speaker 1: There are a couple people that we didn't invite that.
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  Speaker 1: I have a little bit of regrets about I'd say
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  Speaker 1: a handful. There's like a handful of people. But when
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  Speaker 1: we did the guest list, we like were really really like,
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  Speaker 1: these are people that have either like we didn't want
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  Speaker 1: anybody to meet one of us for the first time
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  Speaker 1: at our wedding. Like, have you ever been to a
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  Speaker 1: wedding where you're like meeting one of the brighter groom?
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever done that?
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  Speaker 2: I think I got invited as a guest one time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I felt weird about it. Yeah, like we didn't
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  Speaker 1: want any of that, this intimate celebration.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I just went to a wedding in December where
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  Speaker 4: I met the groom there, right, Yeah, And it was
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  Speaker 4: it was weird.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: And because it's destination, we were like and because it
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  Speaker 1: was like we already knew going in, we wanted it
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  Speaker 1: to be like on the smaller side. So we were like,
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  Speaker 1: these are just going to be like, are tried and
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  Speaker 1: true people that we do life with that know us
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  Speaker 1: really well. Like there's not a single person at our
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  Speaker 1: wedding that like doesn't know us really well. Yeah, So
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  Speaker 1: it was kind of hard, but like, and I really
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  Speaker 1: have just like a handful of like two or three
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  Speaker 1: people that I wish I would have invited that I didn't,
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  Speaker 1: but that's it.
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  Speaker 2: Someone elked about you doing a first look, which we've
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  Speaker 2: already talked about, But was that a because I know
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  Speaker 2: a lot of the decision when people do the first look,
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  Speaker 2: it's to have a moment together before it's just like chaos,
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  Speaker 2: and to kind of get the photos handled, like to
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  Speaker 2: get the bridle photos so that once the wedding part,
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  Speaker 2: the ceremony's over, you can just go to the reception.
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  Speaker 1: I told our or our wedding photographer, I said, I
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  Speaker 1: already know after the ceremony, I'm gonna be a total mess,
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  Speaker 1: like I'm gonna look so distraught and like it's just
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  Speaker 1: gonna be tears. So I said, I want to do
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  Speaker 1: every single photo that we possibly can before the ceremony.
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  Speaker 1: That's why we're doing the cocktail hour before because we
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  Speaker 1: don't need it after because we're not gonna do any
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  Speaker 1: photos after the ceremony. We're gonna do like two or
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  Speaker 1: three like a handful, like ye there, and then we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna go straight in.
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  Speaker 2: The thing though, is that you will have a makeup
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  Speaker 2: artist there so even if you cry and you get
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  Speaker 2: I'm telling you they can. They can turn it around quick.
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  Speaker 1: You think, so oh yeah, oh wow, I'm like, god
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  Speaker 1: speed to Liz because it's gonna be It's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: a water works.
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  Speaker 2: But beyond the convenience of makeup and photos and stuff,
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  Speaker 2: was that a decision? Was that hard for you, like
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  Speaker 2: in terms of zero heart? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, like literally like the easiest decision on the planet.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. The next question is are you going Are you
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  Speaker 2: doing anything to surprise Robbie on the day of the wedding?
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  Speaker 2: But first, I think we should take a break before
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  Speaker 2: we get to that. Oo all right, So before the break,
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  Speaker 2: I asked someone else, are you doing anything to surprise
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  Speaker 2: Robbie on the day of the wedding?
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  Speaker 1: I am giving him his boudoir album. Yes, that's the
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  Speaker 1: only surprise he's getting.
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  Speaker 2: So here's my question. You're waking up, which I know
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  Speaker 2: we don't have a timeframe of like when you're starting
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  Speaker 2: to get ready or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: Do we I have a little bit. I think that
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  Speaker 1: David and Liz are gonna like be setting up by
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  Speaker 1: like ten thirty.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So you wake up with Robbie, y'all? Do the
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  Speaker 2: Bourdoir book and then.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I don't know if I'm gonna do like
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  Speaker 1: right when we wake up, or like I should when
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  Speaker 1: we wake up right just like have it in the bed,
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  Speaker 1: I have him wake up, yeah, or like I was
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  Speaker 1: thinking about they deliver coffee to your room, like you
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  Speaker 1: tell them, like we're gonna get up at seven thirty,
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  Speaker 1: and they had they bring like a little basket with
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  Speaker 1: coffee to the room. So I was thinking of putting
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  Speaker 1: it in the basket with the coffee. So he just
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  Speaker 1: like sees it in there and he's like, what's this.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, that's cute that reaction. I like that. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 2: then you all will separate until the wedding.
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: Once I start getting ready.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's out of there, out of there, banished from
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: the room.
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: Banished from the dungeon.
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: Are you having any Serbian traditions involved? And are y'all
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: doing any Jewish traditions.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: We will be doing one Jewish tradition during the ceremony,
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: and then we will be doing like the horror, which
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: is a traditional like the chairs in the in the
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: air dance, and then there's a traditional Persian song where
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: you throw like white basically our wedding planner. After we
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: get married, underneath like the hoop bush, She's gonna go
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: and like literally rip all the rose petals off of
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: all the roses so that we can have flowers to
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: like throw, kind of like at that luncheary, everybody was like,
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: throws and then we'll do one serbian song too as well. Love.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, sided, what color of the bridesmaids were? Let me
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: tell you it's a champagne ivory adjacent to color, which
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: I when when Tonya was sending me the dresses, I
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: was like, this is too white, Like you are the bride,
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: this is too white. How are we supposed to be
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: in like a color this close to white?
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: I envisioned you all like basically in white.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: Is anyone else shocked by this?
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: Okay, it's gorgeous. I just knowing how much white has
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: meant you. I think it's still and white. I know,
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: taking away from my gorgeous gown, I know we're not.
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: We could literally never believe me with some of the
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: dresses I've tried on. We could never take away from
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: what I'm just saying. It was every time you're seeing
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: me dressed, and I was like, no, it's too white.
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: And then when I saw everyone's color, I was like, oh,
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: they're like close to white.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I wanted that.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: No, well, the photo examples you showed me there, it's gorgeous.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: They're like yeah, and especially at the setting, the setting
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: we're going.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: To be in, and I think it's so pretty.
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: I yeah, And I can't wait till I find mine.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: The same she said yes to the dress.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: I can't wait to say yes to the dress. Are
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: you letting Robbie see you in your dress before the wedding? Yes,
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: but look I know, but nothing before then.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: No, I hasn't seen it.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: He knows nothing about any of your dresses, just.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: The wedding dress. He's seen all the rest of them.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: Oh, you saw your reception dress.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my god, I know. I was too excited.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: I'm like, well, I was trying it on. I had
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: Reggie at my house, like like I had things happening
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: and he was there, so I was like.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but when we were doing the drawers, we banished
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: him to his room.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Yes, that is true.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: You were just too excited.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: I was.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: We already talked about the playlist vibes just like girly
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: empower wedding vibes. Did you find something borrowed?
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: No?
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: Oh, are you going to find something?
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: No?
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: Are you borrowing earrings jeweler?
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, borrowing them from a jeweler.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're borrowing. That's borrowed. Okay, great, something borrowed. Someone
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: said they're confused by your comment about no seated dinner.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Oh so, so we're kind of doing stuff at our
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: wedding that we typically don't like to do at other weddings.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: And one of the things that I really don't enjoy
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: is sitting down for a very long, plated dinner while
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: my buzz is like wearing off listening to like a
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: lot of speeches. So we were like, we still want
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: to have the speeches, and we want to have those
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: moments with like the people that we love, and so
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: we're doing that all the night before. We're the only
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: speech you will hear at our reception is just from
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Robbie and myself.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: And.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: The the seated dinner I feel like takes away. We
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: just want people dancing. We really just want the dance
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: FLD to be like the spot And I feel like
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: when you have a plated dinner, like nobody's getting up
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: and dancing until they eat their dinner. But because we
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: have such like a we have a lot of food
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: at the cocktail hour, so we don't even think people
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: are going to be super hungry when they get to
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: the reception. So we just wanted to have the food open. Basically,
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: there's gonna be like stations and they're gonna be like barbecuing,
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: like live on the spot, you know, so like if
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: you go up there and you're like, I want a
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: piece of that, they'll cut it right off the thing.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: And like, oh, some sounds amazing.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be good. So but it'll be open
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: from like for two hours. So if you're not hungry
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: when the reception starts, it's fine. You can like dance
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: for an hour and then you can get food. So
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: we just wanted people to have flexibility to like eat
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: when they want, drink when they want, like you know,
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: dance when they want love instead of being tied to
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: the to their chair, we're free.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Everybody's free, free to roam about. Is there anything different
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: or non traditional that you're most excited about for the wedding?
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: Would that be it? Maybe?
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm excited to see that my one of my
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: best friends is performing are our first dance, and I
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: think that's going to be like I can't even listen
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: to invisible surprise for the guests.
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: Well no, yeah, I mean you just instead of just
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: saying her name, oh.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: Sophia, yeah yeah, yeah, No, I mean it's not like
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think it will be a surprise to
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: most of the guess.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: Like very excited, Like if I'm a fan of the
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: podcast knowing that Sophia is performing.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: And she's like doing a different arrangement, like she's like
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: really yeah, she's like really like treating it very like
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: in a special way, and she like won't tell me
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: like what she's doing. I know, you do what is
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: she doing?
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: You'll have to find tune into your wedding to find out.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: I can't even listen to that song without crying. So
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: like the fact that she's going to be singing it
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: and it's our first dancer, I'm going to be like
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: just a puddle. Yeah, I'm going to be like the
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: ugly cry.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: Like this is going to be the busiest she's ever been.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: I told her, like, you're gonna be You're gonna be
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: on your toes.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: So Sonny is coming, What will she be doing post ceremony,
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: where's she going to be.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: So we have a friend coming that is on sunny duty.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: So we have a sunny handler who will be helping
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: and assistant house the whole weekend. But our goal is
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: we want to have her at the welcome party for
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: like a litle little bit, just like at the beginning.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: We want to like take pictures with her and stuff,
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: but she'll probably mostly be in the room and then
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: she definitely has like her task. She's in charge of
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: the rings, which is like really important, sonny, Oh yeah,
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: yeah yeah. But then after the ceremony, like she's not
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: coming to the reception. It's a little too late for her.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: So I think, go to bed. She'll go to bed.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well she have her bed like her little crate here.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: No, it's okay, yeah, so rage she will rage.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: They're like there's a noise something, a barking dog.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: We might have to we might have to give her
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: a little gardening. Yeah, guard her a little bit, so
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: just chill her out. But but yeah, I could not
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: pack her crate. I was like, I just can't do this.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: They might have something that you could check that's like
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: fold like that folds down, you know what I'm saying.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: Her crate does bold. We just have like one of
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: those like creat crates like flat.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I would try to bring it, put it in
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: like a plastic bag and just check it. I mean,
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: because she'll probably just chill and sleep there. Loves her
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: care if it's if it goes flat, I would try
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: and pay your checks.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: Like what are those it's like the yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: just like one of those, Like.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: I would try look into up. I think it would.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: I think it would give you a.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: Peace of mind.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: Yes, that's my thought. All right, what are play What
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: are songs for the playlist for the dance floor? Like
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: must plays them? Do you have a do not playlist?
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: We do have a do not playlist?
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: What is on there?
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: I always get robbed of one.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: Song y M C A No, oh that's on there. Uh,
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: I don't shuffle. It's on the do not play. Wow,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: I don't want any of those like oh no, none
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: of those. And then I think die with a Smile
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: is also on the do not play?
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: Do Not Want to Be Next to You popular? That's
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: the number one song in the list.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: Yes, oh, like all the vendors that like all like
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: we have uh strings that are playing for the ceremony,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: and they only have a certain amount of songs that
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: they like know how to play that's on the list.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: The band, there's only a certain amount of songs that
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: they like, know how to play that's on the list. Interesting, Yeah,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: I'm like, take it off.
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: I always get robbed of the Cupid shuffle, always on
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: the do not play Sadly, I love watching people if
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: I love watching people with no rhythm get up and
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: get to dance this song and feel confident in what
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: they're doing because they're just being told what to do.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: No, it's not gonna happen.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: Something wholesome about it.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: But I was making the DJ playlist and it's like
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: so random. It's like Timber Pitbull to like to like
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: Whitney Houston to Tina Turner to.
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: Tease take requests.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: Yes, as long as there's as long as it's on
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: the not on the do not playlist, he will take request.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: How is Desposito looking?
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: So the band is going to do that? Yeah, that's
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: on the van's list.
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: All right, you've made up keep a shuffle with Timber? Look?
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, comes on.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: Okay, are you gonna have a late night snack?
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: No?
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: Okay, there is Robbie wants to jump in the ocean.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: That's like a huge thing for him. So what's what's
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: the update on that.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: Okay, so we didn't do the late night snack actually
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: wasn't even offered. But I think because we're doing the stations,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: we have more variety and there's gonna be so much
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: food that I'm like, I don't think people are gonna
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: need anything late night, but maybe something to think about.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: And then Robbie has this like he really wants everybody
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: to jump in the ocean at the end of the night.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: I know it's like his only wish, and I'm like,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: don't put that on our guests, Like, I am your wife,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: I will do it with you, and then anybody that
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: would like to join in can join in. But I'm like,
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: I don't want him to put it on anybody, like
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I need you all to like jump in the ocean
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: because some people have expensive you know, like some people
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: don't want to do that.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: Like I'm not more scared of sharks.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: Oh not, No, it's not actually close. We're not gore
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: like a hoe.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: You don't You're not on shark TikTok.
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: It seems if he's like let's all jump in the ocean.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: It's just him.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Like, I don't even I don't even want to jump
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: in my dress. So I'm bringing like a little slip
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: that I got on Amazon because I'm like, ain, no way,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: I'm jumping in the ocean in this thing. No vivia
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: us no, no, no, no, no no. She is not
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: touching the ocean salt.
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: What combo of face? Wait, we're gonna take a break. Okay,
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: and then we have like three more questions. It's gonna
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: be it's gonna be rapid fire. We'll be right back.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: All right, we are back. These are our final questions
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: before we leave you again. People want to know if
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: I'll if I'm able to update throughout the weekend because
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: they there was a suggestion to put in a live
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: feed of the wedding where from the scrubbers put it?
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: Where in the Facebook group?
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Who's going to do that?
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: They were just like, shit, let's suggest it. And then
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: people are like, let let's let Tanya have her space.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: But people are like, please, like give us updates on
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: the wedding. But I'm like, I'm gonna I don't ever
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: do live updates of anything really anymore. So I feel like,
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: I wait, I don't want to. I want everything to
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: be on your timeline and i'd rather.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: I had a full conversation yesterday because I am bringing
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: Ashley out for social media purposes. So we were kind
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: of going through stuff and I was like, I don't
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: want to like I want her to just take all
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: the content and I want to have it, but I'm like,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be like looking and approving and
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And that's why because I
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: just want to be so in the moment. So I
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: don't know, but I think I'm gonna be so excited
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: that I like, there's no way I'm not gonna post
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: anything either, do you know what I mean?
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: Maybe on like Sunday, Yeah, oh.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: My god, son, I'm gonna be looking through everything. I've
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: got that plane like free living every.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: Moment Sunday, you'll probably have the capacity to go through stuff.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: But I also want to be able to just be
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: present and enjoy myself and I don't want to be like, oh, tonya,
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: can I post this? Like I don't want to have
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: to be like having that dialogue while we're just trying
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: to But.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: It's funny because I'm still like trying to figure out,
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: like now what I want to do, because she was like,
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: if you want to go dark and you just want
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: to like enjoy the moment, that's totally fine.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: But like you know, I was like, so the answer
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: to this question is I will go by Tanya's what
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: Tanya wants. I will take it so much content, but
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: in terms of what I'm posting, we'll just be Tanya's discretion.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Wow, the queen.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: Okay, we're wrapping up.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: We had one last question come in for you guys,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: So I'd like to read that one.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: It says what are Becca and east still looking forward
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: to about the wedding?
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: Oh my god?
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: What am I not looking forward to? It's a shorter list.
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: I just I just can't wait. I think about this
• 29:09
  Speaker 4: so frequently. I can't wait to just see you on
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: that day, Like after all this, seeing how you are
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: and watching your face, I'm really.
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: Excited about that.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: I just can't wait to see you. I know, I
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: made it through all these Easton. It's also your first
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: time in Mexico.
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: My first time in Mexico.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm so honored to pop your Charry. That's
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: the last thing I want to do. Before a couple
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: of wives.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that I'm just so excited to have
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: the moments of like getting you ready and like watching
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: you like put on your dress. And I literally cannot
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: wait until I'm facing the view of you coming down
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: the stairs and getting to watch Robbie's face is what
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: I'm really excited about. And I just feel like this
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: moment has been such a lead up in our friendship
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: and like I think about all the like I was
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: thinking about all the funny moment, like so many funny moments,
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: but also so much so many moments of like you
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: yearning for this moment and this day. And I think
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: it's like it's.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: Just it was so much sadness. Like I feel like
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: as much like laughy taffy and like fun as I
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: like would make it, there was so much sadness in
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: that season too, you know.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: So I think it's just it's hard to even grasp
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: that we're about to have like that is coming. Like
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: we're getting we're getting a husband.
• 30:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, no, we're getting a husband that's in our group
• 30:55
  Speaker 5: chat with the PREDIENTE was like, we're getting married next week.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: I was like, we all come yat of gars.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: It's true though it's like so crazy, and I feel
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: like Robbie's become such like a part and like fabric
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: of like the people in my lives lives, you know.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: I just feel like he is everything that I wanted
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: for you as a best friend, but also even more
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: that you wanted in a partner. Like I feel like
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: he's been able to be the type of guy and
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: the type of teammate for you that I literally was kind.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: Of like.
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: She's got to lower her expectations for a while, and
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: it's to me, it was like wow, I was It
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: made me realize, like to all the girls and guys
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: and anyone who's out there that's in the single season,
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: like keep your standards high, because like it, it is
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: worth it when you find that person, because I've gotten
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: to watch you like have someone who meets you so
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: so much in the middle of everything that y'all go through,
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: and I'm just like so excited that he like only
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: brightens your shine that you already have. Yeah, So I
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: can't wait and I'm ready.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: To party the same.
• 32:15
  Speaker 5: We do have one more episode this week, the final wedding.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: And then we really are gonna leave y'all. But this
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: is a wedding predictions will be our next episode, so
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: stay tuned. We love you, somebody,