Latest / The Stoic Handbook with Jon Brooks / I Am The Pilot, Not The Turbulence: 5-Minute Stoic Reset
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- 0:00SPEAKER_00: Find a place where you can sit or stand comfortably.
- 0:04SPEAKER_00: If possible, close your eyes or soften your gaze.
- 0:09SPEAKER_00: Take a deep breath in through your nose and exhale slowly through your mouth.
- 0:19SPEAKER_00: Begin by noticing your breath.
- 0:22SPEAKER_01: Inhale deeply for a count of four.
- 0:29SPEAKER_01: Hold for two and exhale for six.
- 0:40SPEAKER_01: Feel the air move through you.
- 0:43SPEAKER_00: Notice where your body feels tense.
- 0:47SPEAKER_00: Maybe your shoulders, jaw, or chest.
- 0:51SPEAKER_00: Don't try to force the tension away, just observe it, like clouds passing in the sky.
- 0:58SPEAKER_00: As you breathe, silently say to yourself, I am the pilot, not the turbulence.
- 1:07SPEAKER_00: Picture yourself in the cockpit of a plane.
- 1:11SPEAKER_00: Steady at the controls, even as the winds shake the aircraft.
- 1:20SPEAKER_00: The turbulence, stress, frustration, overwhelm is outside you.
- 1:26SPEAKER_00: You are the pilot, calm and in command.
- 1:32SPEAKER_00: Bring to mind the situation causing you stress.
- 1:38SPEAKER_00: Maybe it's a heated conversation, a crying child, or a looming deadline.
- 1:47SPEAKER_00: See it clearly, but remind yourself.
- 1:50SPEAKER_00: This is the turbulence, not you.
- 1:55SPEAKER_00: In stoic wisdom we cannot control external events, only our response.
- 2:00SPEAKER_00: As you inhale, acknowledge the challenge.
- 2:03SPEAKER_00: This is turbulence.
- 2:06SPEAKER_00: As you exhale, affirm, I am the pilot, not the turbulence.
- 2:12SPEAKER_00: Feel the separation between the chaos and your inner calm.
- 2:16SPEAKER_00: You are not the storm.
- 2:18SPEAKER_00: You are the one steering through it.
- 2:21SPEAKER_00: Focus on what you can control your breath, your thoughts, your actions.
- 2:32SPEAKER_00: Let go of trying to fix the external chaos in this moment.
- 2:35SPEAKER_00: Instead feel your feet on the ground, your hands resting, your breath steadying.
- 2:41SPEAKER_00: Each breath is a choice to stay centered.
- 2:44SPEAKER_00: Repeat the mantra aloud or in your mind.
- 2:48SPEAKER_00: I am the pilot, not the turbulence.
- 2:58SPEAKER_00: Imagine adjusting the controls of your plane with precision.
- 3:02SPEAKER_00: The turbulence may shake you, but it cannot take your ability to choose calm, to choose clarity.
- 3:15SPEAKER_00: Picture your plane rising above the storm clouds.
- 3:22SPEAKER_00: From this higher vantage point, the turbulence below looks smaller, less overwhelming.
- 3:31SPEAKER_00: In this moment, you are bigger than the stress.
- 3:35SPEAKER_00: You are the pilot capable of navigating any storm.
- 3:39SPEAKER_00: If thoughts of the stressful situation arise, maybe a partner's words, a child's tantrum, or a work pressure, gently bring your focus back to the mantra.
- 3:50SPEAKER_00: I am the pilot, not the turbulence.
- 3:58SPEAKER_00: Each repetition strengthens your resolve like a steady hand on the controls.
- 4:05SPEAKER_00: As we near the end, take three deep breaths.
- 4:08SPEAKER_00: Inhale strength.
- 4:10SPEAKER_00: Exhale doubt.
- 4:13SPEAKER_00: Inhale clarity.
- 4:15SPEAKER_00: Exhale chaos.
- 4:18SPEAKER_00: Inhale courage.
- 4:20SPEAKER_00: Exhale fear.
- 4:23SPEAKER_00: You are the pilot, and you are ready to face the turbulence with a steady heart.
- 4:28SPEAKER_00: Carry this mantra with you.
- 4:30SPEAKER_00: I am the pilot, not the turbulence.
- 4:34SPEAKER_00: Say it silently as you open your eyes.
- 4:40SPEAKER_00: As you step back into the moment, you don't need to solve everything now.
- 4:45SPEAKER_00: You just need to steer with calm and purpose.
- 4:49SPEAKER_00: Gently wiggle your fingers and toes.
- 4:52SPEAKER_00: Take one final deep breath, and when you're ready, open your eyes or lift your gaze.
- 4:57SPEAKER_00: You are the pilot.
- 4:59SPEAKER_00: You've got this.