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Red Flags · Second Date Update

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Speaker 1: Are you guys ready for a little second date update action?
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Speaker 2: Absolutely?
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, maybe we can make a little love connection.
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Speaker 3: Nicole is on the line in Hartford, went on a
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Speaker 3: great first date. She's getting ghosted and wants to know why.
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Speaker 1: Good morning, Nicole, good morning.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just can't figure it out.
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Speaker 1: Okay, well that's.
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Speaker 3: What we do, and we do it really well. We're
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Speaker 3: going to get you some answers. So the producer says,
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Speaker 3: you went on a great first date with a guy
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Speaker 3: named Ben.
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Speaker 1: Tell me about this date.
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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it was. It was awesome. We went to dinner.
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Speaker 4: We had a really great time. I mean, she's really
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Speaker 4: everything that I have been looking for. Oh, super smart, successful,
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Speaker 4: good looking, I had an amazing personality. Like I just
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Speaker 4: really thought we had made a connection. But after reaching
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Speaker 4: out to him, so thank him for a great date.
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Speaker 4: Tell him I had such a good time. I just
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Speaker 4: haven't heard anything and I don't know why.
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Speaker 3: Hmmm, that is weird. So you felt a connection, do you?
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Speaker 3: Was it like when you were on your date. Did
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Speaker 3: you feel like there was flirting back and forth between
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Speaker 3: the two of you.
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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, there were vibes for sure.
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Speaker 3: Okay, so there was flirting vibes, great conversation.
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Speaker 1: Did Walmart Jeff, Jeff just fell asleep?
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Speaker 5: Ye?
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Speaker 2: Nothing, I was thinking about like football, because I mean
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Speaker 2: there's a lot of stuff going on right now that
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Speaker 2: occupies a guy's mind. And like, honestly, like if you
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Speaker 2: texted him, No, if you texted him on like a
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Speaker 2: Saturday afternoon or a Sunday afternoon, he probably saw it,
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Speaker 2: put the phone down and then just forgot about it.
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Speaker 1: Oh I do that all the time. Yeah, all right,
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Speaker 1: that makes sense.
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Speaker 3: So maybe maybe that's it Jeff, because Jeff is in
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Speaker 3: some sort of weird sports mode right now too. He's
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Speaker 3: not even paying attention to Oustenacole. Nope, that could be it.
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Speaker 3: Did you drink too much on the date, Because sometimes
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Speaker 3: we've come across that where the guy's like, well she
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Speaker 3: was wasted and I had to like drive her home.
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Speaker 1: It's true.
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Speaker 4: Oh no, I'm like a one glass of wine kind
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Speaker 4: of gal. So that can't be either.
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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's just call him up. What do
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Speaker 1: you guys say, we're gonna call up. We're gonna call
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Speaker 1: it Ben.
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Speaker 3: You're gonna be listening in at any point if you
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Speaker 3: want to talk to Ben, feel free. You're gonna be
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Speaker 3: on hold listening in the whole time.
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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay. She sounds like a sweetie.
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Speaker 6: I know she's It sounds like it was a good date.
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Speaker 6: She seems like a good girl.
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Speaker 3: Like, let's see what happened, all right, let's see what
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Speaker 3: Ben is all about.
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Speaker 1: If you could stay awake, Jeff, Yeah, yeah, sorry. Inconvenience you.
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Speaker 2: Sometimes the women in all the chatter, it's like, oh.
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Speaker 1: God, hell, hi is Ben there?
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Speaker 7: This is him?
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Speaker 1: Hey Ben, it's Courtney, Ben, It's Walmart chef. Hey Ben,
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Speaker 1: it's Savana.
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Speaker 3: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on
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Speaker 3: the radio this morning, Ben.
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Speaker 7: Oh hey, good morning.
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Speaker 2: Hey.
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Speaker 3: We're calling because you're on something called second date update.
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Speaker 3: That's when somebody goes on a fantastic first date, but
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Speaker 3: they get ghosted after that and they want answers.
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Speaker 1: And I'm just going to be.
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Speaker 3: Honest with you, and we want you to be honest
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Speaker 3: with us. Nicole called us and said, you guys went
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Speaker 3: on a great first date.
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Speaker 7: We did.
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Speaker 2: Yes.
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Speaker 1: She said, you're.
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Speaker 3: Checking off all the boxes. She said, you guys have
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Speaker 3: a lot in common. She said you're really good looking,
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Speaker 3: and she felt a connection. She said she was reached
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Speaker 3: out to you, but you're ghosting her and she wants
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Speaker 3: some answers.
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Speaker 7: So do we Yeah, yeah we did. We had a
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Speaker 7: great date. She's really cool and I thought that, like,
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Speaker 7: we really hit it off. There's some things that were
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Speaker 7: said that I just make me a little questionable about.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 7: Sure, if she's ready, if.
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Speaker 3: She's ready for a relationship. Yeah, okay, what was said?
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Speaker 3: What do you mean what was said?
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Speaker 7: I just there she said some things that make me
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Speaker 7: think she's not over her ex.
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Speaker 3: Oh all right, well that's that's legit. Can you tell
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Speaker 3: us what was said?
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Speaker 7: She just I don't know. We were out and she
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Speaker 7: had mentioned her ex, Josh several times I think, And
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Speaker 7: she told me that he still spends time with her parents,
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Speaker 7: and I just, you know, seemed a little like a
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Speaker 7: red flag.
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Speaker 2: So yeah, definitely for you to remember the ex's name,
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Speaker 2: she mentioned him more than a few times, exactly right.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and hanging out with the family still all right,
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah.
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Speaker 3: That makes total sense, Ben, But I want to bring
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Speaker 3: Nicole on because she's been listening in.
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Speaker 1: Sorry I didn't tell you that, Nicole. Do you hear
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Speaker 1: what he's saying? Are you over? Are you still?
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Speaker 4: Like?
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Speaker 1: Are you over your ax or not.
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Speaker 4: Well, of course, I'm so over my ex. I'm so
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Speaker 4: sorry I did that. I'm really really over Josh. I'm
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Speaker 4: looking for deeper love. I oh man, I've really got
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Speaker 4: to stop mentioning him. I mean, he's just you know,
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Speaker 4: my parents and just like him, and so he's still
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Speaker 4: around some and I'm but I am. I promise it is.
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Speaker 4: He is just like a friend at this point, I guess,
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Speaker 4: and I'm looking for the real thing. And like I promise,
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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry that.
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Speaker 1: I did that. I don't know. I got to be
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Speaker 1: straight with you, Nicole. If I was like.
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Speaker 6: Dating a guy and his ex girlfriend was still around,
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Speaker 6: and it's if if it's if it's like an ex wife,
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Speaker 6: you guys have kids together like that, I can understand.
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Speaker 6: But if you have like an axxious kind of hanging
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Speaker 6: around like.
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Speaker 1: I would with the family, yeah I would. I would
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Speaker 1: feel really weird about that. That's just me.
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Speaker 4: I get that. You know, we have a dog. That
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Speaker 4: doesn't help, Okay, but like I promise that, I'm over it.
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Speaker 4: It's just this dog that's like addicting us still for
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Speaker 4: for now, Okay, I'd be really interested, really interested in
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Speaker 4: having another date then I really would. I had such
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Speaker 4: a good time with you.
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Speaker 7: I mean yeah, I really liked you too. It was
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Speaker 7: just a little alarming and I didn't really know what
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Speaker 7: the situation was there.
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Speaker 4: Well, I promise to uh not mention you know, he
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Speaker 4: who must not be named Voldemort ever again.
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Speaker 1: I'm screaming.
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Speaker 4: If we give it one more try, maybe.
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Speaker 7: Uh yeah, yeah, I'm gonna jump.
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Speaker 3: In because this is what I'm gonna do. I absolutely
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Speaker 3: think you need. You guys need to go on another date.
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Speaker 1: I get it.
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Speaker 3: You know that you were upset Ben that she was
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Speaker 3: mentioning the ax. Let's try another date. Let's not mention
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Speaker 3: the ax. Let's not mention the dog. Let's just you
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Speaker 3: guys together, you know, without that. I'm going to pick
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Speaker 3: up the tab though. We're gonna pay for the second.
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Speaker 5: Date, all right, Okay, yeah, well go do go, do
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Speaker 5: anything you want, have fun, don't mention the ax, and
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Speaker 5: definitely keep us posted in call.
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Speaker 4: Okay, I will thank you. I'm excited then, Yeah, me too.