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40| Why You Keep Attracting the Same Toxic Relationships (And How to Break the Pattern) · The Wild Woman Within: Recover from Burnout & Achieve True Work-Life Balance Through Feminine Energy

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SPEAKER_01: Hello.
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SPEAKER_01: Happy New Year.
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SPEAKER_01: Welcome to the FitsIn Project.
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SPEAKER_01: I am Rachel and I'm extremely happy that you decided to start your year with us in this journey on what we've got in store for 2026.
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SPEAKER_01: I'll tell you what, I don't know about you, but with me, this year has already started out so intentional.
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SPEAKER_01: And what I mean by that is usually I will start the year and I'm like, I'm already feeling behind, or I need to do XYZ, or there's so many things ahead, and blah, blah, blah.
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SPEAKER_01: And feeling rushed into the season.
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SPEAKER_01: And I will say, this year, I'm taking my time.
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SPEAKER_01: I told my yoga students last week in class, take your time, or someone else will.
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SPEAKER_01: Honestly, I'm following my own motto on that one because I'm taking my time in reflection of how 2025 was, whether it be heavy at times, light at times, beautiful at times, and absolutely heartbreaking in other times.
1:08
SPEAKER_01: And that's uh pretty much sums up my my last year.
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SPEAKER_01: So I'm honoring all of that because there's no time limit to start your year.
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SPEAKER_01: Yes, the January calendar has begun, and we have had a new year flip over in numbers, but I'm still kind of just like enjoying it and sitting with the moment, taking the presence as it's here, and fully embarking on just taking it day by day.
1:39
SPEAKER_01: And I'll tell you what, I even had some great ideas back in December.
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SPEAKER_01: I was like, yeah, I'm gonna do this beginner's yoga, I'm gonna do all of this stuff for January.
1:48
SPEAKER_01: And Christmas came, and my presence over presence workshops from November and December hit, and it resonated with me that none of that is necessary.
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SPEAKER_01: Plus, January 1st isn't the only day you can start beginner's yoga.
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SPEAKER_01: So FYI to myself, that is a thing.
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SPEAKER_01: You can do and begin yoga at any point in your life.
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SPEAKER_01: Anytime.
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SPEAKER_01: Literally anytime.
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SPEAKER_01: You do not have to begin something new just because the calendar said so.
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SPEAKER_01: You can start something new in the middle of the month, you can start something new on a Tuesday.
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SPEAKER_01: It doesn't even matter.
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SPEAKER_01: So, what I'm noticing is already this year is not about doing more, it's about creating a foundation that can actually hold you.
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SPEAKER_01: And that's what I'm excited to present this new series that I'm doing just now in January for my listeners, for you.
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SPEAKER_01: And I am really happy to present this series for your health, your finances, and everything in between.
2:52
SPEAKER_01: So um, today I have Deepak Chari.
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SPEAKER_01: He is a biofeedback engineer at the Chari Center in California, and his work it helps people relieve anxiety and regulate their nervous system.
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SPEAKER_01: And it's all through the power of voice.
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SPEAKER_01: So I can't explain to you how excited I am and very proud that he is the first person opening up our 2026 together because this series that I'm doing today in January, it's a regulating, stabilizing, and it's nourishing.
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SPEAKER_01: It's all it's all three of those pillars for your life.
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SPEAKER_01: So I hope you enjoy Deepak's regulating tactics.
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SPEAKER_01: I know I certainly learned a lot just talking with him, meeting with him, and without further ado, please welcome Deep.
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SPEAKER_01: Welcome Deepak.
3:52
SPEAKER_01: I'm so happy that you are here.
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SPEAKER_01: I have literally gone down rabbit hole after rabbit hole, three looking at your reviews, looking at your awesome things that you do, and I'm just like thrilled to have you on the Fitz and Project.
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SPEAKER_00: Pleasure to be here, Rachel.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: So with you and your Chari Institute, I am so like really interested in this transformation, this biofeedback that you have created.
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SPEAKER_01: And it is just such an amazing thing for what I saw through all of your reviews is you have a plethora of reviews and how this has turned out for people in their lifestyle.
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SPEAKER_01: What I want to really dive into is this program and how you started with it and what you've seen and how it resonated with you.
4:43
SPEAKER_01: And if you don't mind, just like give us give us your thing.
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SPEAKER_00: Absolutely.
4:48
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
4:48
SPEAKER_00: So I started on this journey.
4:50
SPEAKER_00: Originally I'm an engineer.
4:51
SPEAKER_00: I started as an engineering degree because my father was an engineer, but it all started with my journey as I was growing up as a kid.
4:58
SPEAKER_00: I perceived that I was bullied as a kid, so intimidated by other pe other kids.
5:03
SPEAKER_00: So I would kind of hide away in secrecy in the library, in this case in my town, and you know, till it was safe to come out.
5:11
SPEAKER_00: And since I was stuck there till it was safe to come out, I would grab books on the shelf.
5:15
SPEAKER_00: And little did I know, those are books on the law of attraction with Napoleon Hill, W.
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SPEAKER_00: Clement Stone, and Does a Man Think It, and all these other books that I I didn't know at the time who these people were, but I just was reading them like to occupy the time till it was safe to come out later on in the day.
5:32
SPEAKER_00: Um and this kept going on, and I kept thinking, wow, you know, if this is how life is, I can't wait till I'm an adult because then these bullying kids will stop.
5:39
SPEAKER_00: But then I noticed as I got older, from you know, eight or nine years old into junior high and then high school, the bullying continued in different forms, from being pushed around to later on, like you don't fit in our group.
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SPEAKER_00: Actually, you don't fit in any group, you don't fit with us, you don't, you know, you're not up to our level and that kind of thing, and being left alone and let excluded.
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SPEAKER_00: And then when I graduated from high school, I thought, okay, now this bullying thing will end in a you know a different way.
6:06
SPEAKER_00: But then it continued.
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SPEAKER_00: In my case, at least, I perceived with my professors, the dean of engineering, who was telling me that I didn't have what it takes to be an engineer.
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SPEAKER_00: I would be better suited being an actor.
6:17
SPEAKER_00: And being 18, 19 years old, I was like, I'm gonna show you.
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SPEAKER_00: You can't tell me how I'm gonna be, and that kind of thing.
6:23
SPEAKER_00: But it would have been nicer, actually, if he had supported me in the engineering, but that's what was my perception.
6:29
SPEAKER_00: So, and then I drew, I drew into my life people who are bullying as far as friends who are narcissistic, mean, and condescending and controlling, manipulative, relationships, bosses, supervisors, everybody in my life was like that.
6:41
SPEAKER_00: So I kind of thought, well, I guess that's how people are, you just have to accept it.
6:45
SPEAKER_00: But later on, fast forward, I realized that this was a program that I'd been fed.
6:49
SPEAKER_00: So so fast forward, my sister and I um decided to form the Chari Center of Health, like you mentioned, the Chari Center of Health, uh, which is the integrative functional medical center that goes to the root causes versus the symptoms.
7:02
SPEAKER_00: My sister's a medical doctor at the Chari Center of Health, and she wanted to practice natural medicine, not the conventional way.
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SPEAKER_00: So we formed a partnership to form the Chari Center of Health, but I was managing the business.
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SPEAKER_00: I wasn't actually seeing clients because I have an engineering degree.
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SPEAKER_00: I don't have a medical degree.
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SPEAKER_00: So I saw the tons of women she was healing.
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SPEAKER_00: She focuses on women's health, and I was like, wow, I would like to do this kind of healing work from my engineering work that I'm doing now.
7:27
SPEAKER_00: So I put my intention to the universe because remember, I was stuck in the library as a kid, grabbing those books on the law of attraction.
7:34
SPEAKER_00: So I put my intention in that universe.
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SPEAKER_00: Can you somehow guide me that somehow my gifts in engineering could somehow be utilized to heal people in some way at our the center that we created?
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SPEAKER_00: I kind of forgot about it.
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SPEAKER_00: A couple weeks later, some friends of mine came up to me and said, Deepak, this guy's going to be speaking in Santa Monica, at the time we lived in San Diego, California, about how your voice reveals all these emotions that are limiting within you from your subconscious, limiting beliefs, limiting thoughts, and most importantly, how certain frequencies from your own voice could be sent back to you to release those limiting emotional patterns, regardless of how long you've had them.
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SPEAKER_00: And I thought, these light bulbs went off my head as I listened to the presentation, like, hey, wait a minute, this is pretty cool.
8:17
SPEAKER_00: I know I was bullied as a kid.
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SPEAKER_00: I wonder if this could help, but maybe I could also help other people at our center instead of just managing it.
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SPEAKER_00: So I went up to the person who presented and I said, I would like to learn this voice technique or how you analyze the voice to release these patterns.
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SPEAKER_00: And he says, Well, I said, could I apprentice with you?
8:34
SPEAKER_00: He agreed.
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SPEAKER_00: He only did a handful of people, and he never did any more after that because he had health issues after that and he stopped doing this.
8:41
SPEAKER_00: But I was in the right place at the right time, synchronicity, and I learned this.
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SPEAKER_00: He watched me as I worked on people, one after the other, with all kinds of different emotional issues and clearing them, made sure I did it correctly.
8:51
SPEAKER_00: And then I took what he taught me and I said, maybe if I polish things here, change the frequencies here, optimize this, I could get even faster results.
8:59
SPEAKER_00: And I did.
8:59
SPEAKER_00: And then I said, okay, this is working out great.
9:02
SPEAKER_00: Let me work on myself first to clear these limiting patterns I've had, being bullied my whole life, you know, drawing constantly people who are bullying me all the time.
9:09
SPEAKER_00: And I started working on that.
9:10
SPEAKER_00: And after I worked on myself, it literally was like the movie The Matrix, where you can clear these limiting programs and put in new programs.
9:17
SPEAKER_00: I started drawing a loving, nurturing, supportive people in my life, which I didn't even have a concept of, Rachel, even what that even was.
9:24
SPEAKER_00: That's the cool thing with this work.
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SPEAKER_00: Even if you have no concept or never experienced it before, you can have it.
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SPEAKER_00: So I drew wonderful loving, nurturing people in all areas of my life.
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SPEAKER_00: And then I said, okay, now this is very cool because I can help others too.
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SPEAKER_00: So one after the other at the Charlie Center of Health, I started working on one person after another and getting them like the results you saw on the website.
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SPEAKER_00: So that's that's what led me to where I am today doing this work and uh at this time.
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SPEAKER_01: I adore this story so much because I mean, thank you, first of all, for being so vulnerable and sharing how you were as a kid, how that emotionally right to you for lag of better words, and then you go and you try to find your safe place, like what?
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SPEAKER_01: That it alone speaks volumes to me because I mean we you went to a library that was your safe place, and then just so happened to be again at the right place at the right time, and you're reading these books, the law of attraction books, and then you know that there's like something better for you in this life.
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SPEAKER_01: Like you know what when you're older, you just have to wait till you're older, and then it can it can come and all of all of that.
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SPEAKER_01: And I love that, and I find that also very fascinating because I've also read some law of attraction books.
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SPEAKER_01: But what I find the best out of all of this with you is even more validating and confirming to my own belief is that you have to change it from the inside out and not just attract, because all of that law of attraction, yes, it's so true.
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SPEAKER_01: Because from the inside out, you're attracting the bullies like your whole life.
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SPEAKER_01: That's how it happened.
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SPEAKER_01: But when you worked in and you said yourself, like doing the work on me first, and you made that paradigm shift, that transformation with this technology, with your um engineering degree and working with I would call it like functional medicine, pretty much.
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SPEAKER_01: And it's like you just rebranded yourself, you know, from the inside out.
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SPEAKER_01: And I think that is really cool.
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SPEAKER_01: And now, like you said, your relationships are flourishing.
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SPEAKER_01: People are actually not bullies in the world.
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SPEAKER_01: They just they don't even come to you anymore, the bullies, you know?
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SPEAKER_00: The bullies, though, interesting thing, the ones that were in my field before that were I mean, I would never have people in my life like that now who are quote unquote friends or you know, relationships or whatever.
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SPEAKER_00: They just wanted once I started working myself, it's almost like I was a repellent.
11:56
SPEAKER_00: Like they were like, I want to get away from Deepak as fast as possible.
11:59
SPEAKER_00: And this is a good thing, because these were horrible people, mean people.
12:02
SPEAKER_00: And they just like they just faded off.
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SPEAKER_00: Like they just like disappeared off of my my spectrum.
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SPEAKER_00: Like they were around me all the time, like controlling and all that.
12:10
SPEAKER_00: So then they just said, Oh, I don't want to be around Deepak anymore.
12:13
SPEAKER_00: I'm like, and first I was like, oh, these people disappeared.
12:15
SPEAKER_00: I said, Oh, then suddenly, in the same time they disappeared, all these other people appeared.
12:20
SPEAKER_00: I go, Okay, that's all right.
12:22
SPEAKER_00: That's okay.
12:23
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
12:23
SPEAKER_00: Then I said, so that's what I'm the cool thing with this work, like I work with women, for example.
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SPEAKER_00: Like some women, they keep, and a lot of them come to me for they want to get a better relationship because they keep drawing, in their case, the same as they said, neurotic, sometimes psychotic, or mean or manipulative or controlling or narcissistic kind of people in their life, in these women's case.
12:45
SPEAKER_00: And they keep, and they they're very wonderful.
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SPEAKER_00: They say, But I'm a wonderful woman, I'm honest and caring, and why am I drawing these kind of horrible jerks in my life?
12:53
SPEAKER_00: I said, Well, I have to tell you, it's not you.
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SPEAKER_00: You are a wonderful lady.
12:58
SPEAKER_00: It's not you at all.
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SPEAKER_00: It's the patterns that you have within your subconscious that are drawing them from your childhood and from your growing growing up experience that created your perception of the world in your subconscious.
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SPEAKER_00: That's why you're drawing them.
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SPEAKER_00: So it has nothing to do with who you are as a person.
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SPEAKER_00: So I'll work on these women and then suddenly, and they never have even had a concept of what a loving, nurturing relationship is because they had a dysfunctional relationship growing up.
13:22
SPEAKER_00: But it didn't matter because as I cleared these limiting patterns and reformatted it, they started drawing wonderful people in their life.
13:28
SPEAKER_00: And they say, Deepak, for the first time I after doing a couple of sessions with you, I started drawing these little nice men.
13:35
SPEAKER_00: She said, I think I'll go for them.
13:36
SPEAKER_00: I said, Okay, hang on.
13:38
SPEAKER_00: Have fun, date, go have a great time.
13:41
SPEAKER_00: Don't commit fully though, because we just went to the first train station.
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SPEAKER_00: We have a couple of train stations up ahead as we're clearing these other patterns I see below those ones.
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SPEAKER_00: Enjoy yourself though.
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SPEAKER_00: Then the following couple of weeks, Deepak, oh my God, these men are even way better than the first week, which I thought was really the really one.
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SPEAKER_00: I think this is the one, right?
13:59
SPEAKER_00: I said, well, let me check it out.
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SPEAKER_00: Um, very much better.
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SPEAKER_00: But have fun, date, do go have a good time, but you know, just keep going with it.
14:07
SPEAKER_00: So eventually we get to a place where this one lady I worked on, she said, okay, Deepak, now after working, you know, a couple months with you, one session a week, this guy, I think he's my soulmate.
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SPEAKER_00: So I checked out his energy, go, mm-hmm, yeah.
14:18
SPEAKER_00: And they're still together to this day.
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SPEAKER_00: And that was like, how many, six, six, seven years ago.
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SPEAKER_00: And so that's really cool.
14:25
SPEAKER_00: And um, another story, real quick one.
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SPEAKER_00: Another lady at this big convention I went to, I didn't know she was there, who I'd worked on before.
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SPEAKER_00: She suddenly announces to the whole crowd there.
14:34
SPEAKER_00: She says, she holds her hand up and says, Lady, all ladies, I just want to tell you, I'm engaged because of Deepak.
14:40
SPEAKER_00: I'm like, I didn't know she's here.
14:42
SPEAKER_00: Oh, oh, I so that was a real surprise to me, you know.
14:46
SPEAKER_00: So I'd forgotten about that.
14:48
SPEAKER_00: So she she got the, you know.
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SPEAKER_00: So what I'm saying is, regardless if you didn't have it your whole life or any other wonderful experiences in your whole life, like you're hitting a ceiling, you're not able to break through to the next management level or to the next skill level or to your own, you want to go in a new direction.
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SPEAKER_00: I can clear those out of the way.
15:04
SPEAKER_00: And then suddenly you'll just boom, go there.
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SPEAKER_00: No, so that's I just that's why I was sharing this with you.
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SPEAKER_00: You if you never had it before, it doesn't matter.
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SPEAKER_01: It's like a quantum leap, you know, it is how I would exactly like precisely describe this.
15:17
SPEAKER_01: Because when I'm I have had I have had my fair share of terrible men in my life and like, oh my gosh, for days.
15:26
SPEAKER_01: But I went to this counselor and she was like, You're attract you're just attracted to this type of behavior and what these men and and they all like align and put them in a line and they all carry some of the same exact traits.
15:44
SPEAKER_01: And it was like you're attracted to that, and then that makes that a tr you're like a boomerang effect, basically.
15:51
SPEAKER_01: So I thought about that, thought about that.
15:53
SPEAKER_01: I'm like, I am kind of attracted to these types of traits, and I had to break it down and break it down even further, and it didn't resonate with me until I started doing my own air work.
16:08
SPEAKER_01: Now I didn't have a program or a transformation program such as yours.
16:13
SPEAKER_01: I just had a counselor, but then even then I kind of grew out of and I kept growing and doing this more and more development work, and now I'm engaged.
16:23
SPEAKER_01: So like there's just different things.
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that like you have to do.
16:30
SPEAKER_01: And I would have loved to have known about your biofeedbacks, and I probably would have subscribed and I probably will on another level because I do think that we as humans we only know as whatever as much as we know, right?
16:43
SPEAKER_01: We only know what's been presented to us or what we've been able to seek, and that's it.
16:49
SPEAKER_01: And unless there's someone who can open the door for you, you don't know that people like you exist and transformations like this exist, especially in a time frame that you offer.
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SPEAKER_01: And I love how you were like, wait a minute, there's more, because I think that speaks to the fact that you can only go at the speed of your nervous system, right?
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SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: Would you apply that into your transformation practice?
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SPEAKER_01: Like you're kind of resetting nervous systems.
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SPEAKER_00: That's right, exactly.
17:18
SPEAKER_00: You know, it's in other words, let's say I listen to someone's voice and I notice that there's, let's say, 10 different frequencies that they're missing.
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SPEAKER_00: In other words, if someone has these limiting patterns, imagine like a keyboard in your in every cell of your body, like a piano keyboard.
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SPEAKER_00: I'm listening for all those notes.
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SPEAKER_00: If there's no limiting issues, which everyone has, but I will hear all the notes in your voice.
17:39
SPEAKER_00: But like, for example, if someone's angry from a previous breakup and they're trying to get a new relationship, well, that anger squashes certain notes in their voice from being heard by me with my technology, technology.
17:50
SPEAKER_00: And by the way, no one else hears the other, those other notes either.
17:53
SPEAKER_00: So that means they're not fully heard.
17:54
SPEAKER_00: And if you're not fully heard, you're not fully seen.
17:56
SPEAKER_00: So what I do is I resonate those stuck, those emotions are sitting on those keys.
18:01
SPEAKER_00: That's why you don't hear them.
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SPEAKER_00: I resonate, I reverse engineer it.
18:04
SPEAKER_00: I guess those keys to play.
18:05
SPEAKER_00: So whatever was sitting on those keys cannot coexist in a harmonized environment.
18:08
SPEAKER_00: And those emotional, those emotions that were sitting there will just literally like want to leave your body, those limiting ones.
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SPEAKER_00: And thus you get that release.
18:16
SPEAKER_00: So the thing is like the forest and the trees, like what you said, people don't, you don't know what you don't know.
18:21
SPEAKER_00: When I see the person, since I'm not invested in that emotional issue they had with that person, I can see the whole thing unemotionally, like for what it is.
18:29
SPEAKER_00: They may say, Well, I have this emotion, Deepak, and I'll say, That's true.
18:32
SPEAKER_00: But you also have these other ones.
18:34
SPEAKER_00: But we'll take care of the one that's bothering you first, and then I'll take care of the other things I see that are causing the block in your life.
18:40
SPEAKER_00: And then that'll create the floodgates to open in their direction.
18:43
SPEAKER_00: So yeah, so that's kind of how it goes with the voice.
18:46
SPEAKER_00: That's how I can tell by the voice.
18:47
SPEAKER_00: Like you said, someone might speak in a really soft voice.
18:50
SPEAKER_00: You'll think like she doesn't really have any issues at all.
18:53
SPEAKER_00: And then she'll say, da-da-da-da-da, I think everything's okay, but I'm kind of really fully happy with life and stuff like that.
18:59
SPEAKER_00: But then on my side, it'll show extreme rage, for example.
19:03
SPEAKER_00: And I'll say, Okay, I know you're upset about something.
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SPEAKER_00: You you're not saying it though, but what are you really upset about?
19:09
SPEAKER_00: She'll say, Well, how'd you know that?
19:11
SPEAKER_00: Well, I just know, you know.
19:12
SPEAKER_00: And she said, Okay, yeah, I'm upset because that my boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago and da-da-da-da.
19:17
SPEAKER_00: And suddenly, like, like, okay, there's a strong voice coming out.
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SPEAKER_00: So, you know, regardless of what's going on, I'll be able to pick it up because I'm only here to serve the person, to help them release the limiting patterns.
19:27
SPEAKER_00: I really care about them dearly.
19:29
SPEAKER_00: So I want to give them the best.
19:30
SPEAKER_00: Now, what I was leading into here is that even if they need all those eight or ten frequencies, like you were saying, I will only ask their subconscious faster than they blink their eye.
19:40
SPEAKER_00: I say, ma'am, subconscious of the person.
19:43
SPEAKER_00: I know you need those 10, and I and I know you want them all at once, but how much are you ready to receive from me?
19:49
SPEAKER_00: This is faster than you blink your eye.
19:51
SPEAKER_00: And she's like, Well, send me four.
19:52
SPEAKER_00: The lady might say, send me 10.
19:54
SPEAKER_00: But I was like, No, no, no, your subconscious had four.
19:56
SPEAKER_00: I'm only gonna send four.
19:57
SPEAKER_00: So it's always a perfect match, is what I'm saying right now.
20:00
SPEAKER_00: Rachel, like you said, with the nervous system, with the whole body, related to what you said.
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SPEAKER_00: It's always a perfect match at the rate that they're ready to receive it.
20:07
SPEAKER_00: That's why I'm able to get these kind of results.
20:09
SPEAKER_01: I love that.
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SPEAKER_01: I feel that in my bones.
20:12
SPEAKER_01: And I love that you just said, you know, it is unique to everybody because I'm also a yoga teacher in school to become a yoga master.
20:20
SPEAKER_01: You can only teach to the rate of the person receiving what you say, right?
20:26
SPEAKER_01: So I can say uh a lot of mind-blowing things in five minutes, but the person who's receiving it, I cannot determine if they're going to receive all five mind-blowing things or not one at all because of the way they receive.
20:43
SPEAKER_01: But I am very fascinated with what you've got because it's like you're science proven, whereas I'm emotional-based proven, and I'm like, just wait, just see how you feel.
20:56
SPEAKER_01: I'm telling you, I know I can get these things through through the body, out the body.
21:02
SPEAKER_01: So you allow the space for the good stuff to come in, the good relationships, the good life, the good money, you know?
21:08
SPEAKER_01: So you have this like on a map, and it's like a before and after.
21:14
SPEAKER_01: So it's like that 10% edge.
21:16
SPEAKER_01: I want to learn about it.
21:16
SPEAKER_01: Like, that is some like teach me your ways.
21:19
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
21:26
SPEAKER_00: But 70%, believe it or not, is intuitive because there's so many frequencies I could send the person, which they all need, but I'll find because of my research of doing this for now, I didn't realize this is the 20th year I've been doing this work.
21:39
SPEAKER_00: What are the optimal ones intuitively for the person?
21:42
SPEAKER_00: And there could be many different sets I could have sent easily, but I'll say, this is, and I know this is probably these sets of frequencies are the best for this person and of the ones that they're ready to receive.
21:53
SPEAKER_00: So, so I'll only send those, and then I'm getting those kinds of results.
21:56
SPEAKER_00: Engineers don't talk about intuition at all, even though they use it.
22:00
SPEAKER_00: I know because I've worked with a lot of left brain engineers, and I'll say, Well, how did you get that conclusion?
22:05
SPEAKER_00: Because it's not based on data, obviously.
22:07
SPEAKER_00: You'll say, Well, you know, based on my experience, I was like, What's your intuition?
22:10
SPEAKER_00: So you don't want to talk about it, right?
22:11
SPEAKER_00: They're like, No, no, there's no intuition.
22:13
SPEAKER_00: I was like, Yeah, there is.
22:14
SPEAKER_00: So, see, the neat thing with me is I'm not like in a left brain camp.
22:18
SPEAKER_00: I'm very right brain, more right brain than even left brain.
22:21
SPEAKER_00: So I can do the engineering work, but with a, I guess you want to say with the heart also.
22:25
SPEAKER_00: So uh so I I can see the whole picture of the person, you know.
22:29
SPEAKER_01: Like anyone would want to work with you if you didn't have the heart going in.
22:33
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I know.
22:34
SPEAKER_01: Because like you've got to be able to first of all talk.
22:39
SPEAKER_01: You're also speaking with women too, mainly, but we work with men too.
22:43
SPEAKER_01: I I know it's a men in your reviews.
22:46
SPEAKER_01: So yeah, there's a men too.
22:47
SPEAKER_01: But I think with the body, it has to be an intuition because that's like that is a healer in and of itself, is working through intuition and working through energy codes that you specifically are listening to with your intuition when you're around others or with others.
23:03
SPEAKER_01: Like you and I, we're bouncing back and forth right now because we're we're vibing, we're flowing like right now, you know?
23:11
SPEAKER_01: And it's an intuition-based conversation.
23:14
SPEAKER_01: This is one of my favorite types of conversations to have on my podcast.
23:18
SPEAKER_01: I mean, go back and listen to more.
23:20
SPEAKER_01: But like there, it's just such a that's how you make moves.
23:24
SPEAKER_01: That's how you make growth, that's how people become trusting and you become a servant leader.
23:29
SPEAKER_00: Right on.
23:30
SPEAKER_00: I'm totally with you on that.
23:32
SPEAKER_00: Absolutely.
23:32
SPEAKER_00: On the same page with everything you just said.
23:34
SPEAKER_01: That is so cool.
23:36
SPEAKER_01: So I love that you also take this into phases of a person.
23:42
SPEAKER_01: So you said you can heal from past traumas, past generations.
23:47
SPEAKER_01: Could you speak into what that looks like and like your process, for example?
23:53
SPEAKER_00: Absolutely.
23:53
SPEAKER_00: Great question.
23:56
SPEAKER_01: Hi.
23:57
SPEAKER_01: I wanted to take a little break here for just a second because I want to invite you to join this FitsIn project in a deeper forum.
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24:11
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24:23
SPEAKER_01: As far as that beginners yoga course that I was telling you about, I've got some other courses that are lined up down the road.
24:29
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24:33
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24:45
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24:51
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25:01
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25:02
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25:04
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25:18
SPEAKER_00: So, what I found is and doing this work for 20 years is that, and I was trained also in this, that a person goes through four key phases.
25:27
SPEAKER_00: So, we you know, you think you're just born and you come into the world, but actually there's more to it than that.
25:32
SPEAKER_00: When your parents decide to procreate you, I'm being kind of direct and blunt here, whatever emotions they had in that moment that they're creating you, like creating you, Rachel, that goes into the equation.
25:43
SPEAKER_00: So if by some chance, like the mom or dad, they were frustrated in their life, where they are, they wanted to be somewhere else, they're not totally happy in the relationship.
25:51
SPEAKER_00: I'm just giving an example, not for you particularly, but anyone, and they had all these frustrations or regrets and guilt or shame, or maybe there's trauma in their lives, in each of their one of their lives, too.
26:01
SPEAKER_00: All that comes to that point of the time of procreation and the mood they were even in that moment into creating you.
26:06
SPEAKER_00: So you are like a new computer from the store, clean hard drive, nothing's in there.
26:11
SPEAKER_00: But you had this energy field around you as you're just forming into a human being of all their stuff.
26:16
SPEAKER_00: Okay.
26:17
SPEAKER_00: So that's phase one.
26:18
SPEAKER_00: There's four phases.
26:19
SPEAKER_00: The second phase is when the second phase is you're in your mom's womb for nine months, incubating, so to speak.
26:26
SPEAKER_00: But then you're also picking up every thought, feeling, emotion, regret, guilt, shame, whatever that your mom had, or even any fights or arguments she's having with your dad.
26:35
SPEAKER_00: You're kind of in the middle, you know?
26:36
SPEAKER_00: Like you're in the middle going, yeah, I can kind of hear what you're doing, mom, and dad.
26:40
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, like I'm I'm here.
26:41
SPEAKER_00: Hello.
26:42
SPEAKER_00: So you're picking all that up for nine months.
26:44
SPEAKER_00: Now that's already two phases that happen.
26:46
SPEAKER_00: Now, phase three is you're born into the world.
26:48
SPEAKER_00: Hey, I'm born.
26:49
SPEAKER_00: And now you're already in phase three.
26:51
SPEAKER_00: So now you have the direct interface with those parents, and sometimes even grandparents, teachers, people older than us, who we are picking up energy from.
26:59
SPEAKER_00: And then I found also that from age zero to age seven is the key ages where all the imprinting, I called it emotional imprinting, begins, ancestral or environmental, meaning that parents, grandparents, and those two phases I just talked about, and then also your childhood events, you know, maybe child like I was bullied, right?
27:20
SPEAKER_00: Or other some people had abuse and unfortunate other stuff in those childlike years.
27:25
SPEAKER_00: You're just like a sponge absorbing everything.
27:27
SPEAKER_00: And what if the parent also, or grandparents or uncles or whatever, said, you know, you're no good.
27:33
SPEAKER_00: You're not worthy of being loved.
27:34
SPEAKER_00: They might have said it in different words, but same concept, or you'll never amount to anything.
27:38
SPEAKER_00: Or why can't you be like that other girl across the street?
27:41
SPEAKER_00: Look how pretty she is, look how talented she is, look how, you know, how straight she walks, you always slouch your shoulders.
27:47
SPEAKER_00: Why can't you be like her?
27:49
SPEAKER_00: So the kid thinks, well, I must not be good who I am, so I have to be like somebody else, right?
27:53
SPEAKER_00: To be accepted or loved by mom or dad.
27:56
SPEAKER_00: So then that goes into their equation too, right?
27:58
SPEAKER_00: You don't question it.
27:59
SPEAKER_00: You don't, even if it's horrible what they said, zero to seven, you don't question it.
28:03
SPEAKER_00: And then from eight to twelve, pretty much you go, I don't know, is that true?
28:07
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's probably true.
28:08
SPEAKER_00: Now from zero to twelve, you have a blueprint, like colored tinted glasses, of how you see the world from that point onwards.
28:14
SPEAKER_00: It doesn't matter how many degrees you have, PhDs, because I've worked with people who had got five, six, seven PhDs, but they never resolved that unworthy issue.
28:22
SPEAKER_00: That's why they did those PhDs.
28:23
SPEAKER_00: That keeps repeating and you keep drawing the same thing over and over again.
28:26
SPEAKER_00: So phase one, I told you, your parents procreate you.
28:29
SPEAKER_00: Phase two, you're in your mom's womb for nine months, phase three, you're born into the world.
28:33
SPEAKER_00: Now you have the direct interface with parents, grandparents, teachers, other people older than us, and other bullies and other kids.
28:39
SPEAKER_00: Now phase four comes along.
28:40
SPEAKER_00: What's that?
28:41
SPEAKER_00: Well, you take phase one, two, and three, and now you duplicate it in your own life, and then later into your kids' lives, and then it continues in their lives too.
28:49
SPEAKER_00: So this program I created, which I call my life transformation technology program, clears all those four phases, thus liberating you from that matrix that would have otherwise repeated over and over again.
28:59
SPEAKER_00: So you go in a whole new course compared to where maybe other siblings or members would just continue on.
29:05
SPEAKER_00: You'll just go totally different direction.
29:07
SPEAKER_00: You've broken the pattern.
29:08
SPEAKER_00: You're free, you're liberated.
29:09
SPEAKER_01: It's like you're creating awakenings in people, is what's going on.
29:13
SPEAKER_00: True.
29:14
SPEAKER_01: Like that's a good way to put it and on repeat this whole entire time.
29:18
SPEAKER_01: And they're cyclical, which I totally resonate with because I can tell you over and over and over and over again, if you met me in my twenties, even the better part of my 30s, I was too.
29:31
SPEAKER_01: Until it was just like one day, it was just like I started doing things different.
29:36
SPEAKER_01: I shook things up, I moved away from all of the things I was in, and I hermited for years.
29:42
SPEAKER_01: As a matter of fact, I'm just coming up and out of it.
29:45
SPEAKER_01: So it's just like I don't I could have gone and done 10 sessions with you and saved myself some years, but instead, you know, that's what I love about your work so much because it is kind of like you're doing this deep work, you're not bypassing anything.
30:03
SPEAKER_01: It's not like you're bypassing anything that I had to do, but it is on a level with expertise, it's on a level with you're with them the whole time.
30:12
SPEAKER_01: And you get to help guide them intuitively the whole time.
30:17
SPEAKER_01: That's great.
30:18
SPEAKER_00: Absolutely.
30:18
SPEAKER_00: I I take them by the hand and say, just walk with me.
30:21
SPEAKER_00: Like the lady I worked with who was 90, right?
30:23
SPEAKER_00: She said, Deepak, I've had a life of trauma and tribulations.
30:26
SPEAKER_00: I was going to a therapist for 65 years.
30:29
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, 65 years she went to the therapist, not how old she was.
30:32
SPEAKER_00: And and I she still had the depression.
30:35
SPEAKER_00: So just to give an example, and in her life, she was hated by all these women and and other people in the retirement home and her whole whole life, not only that that time, and no one liked her.
30:45
SPEAKER_00: She was always alone.
30:47
SPEAKER_00: She had a relationship which wasn't good.
30:49
SPEAKER_00: And she just, you know, she was unhappy in life, didn't want to live another day.
30:53
SPEAKER_00: So I said, Oh, you know, thank God you found me.
30:56
SPEAKER_00: And um, so I worked on her piece by piece, and I was able to track it back to when she was seven years old.
31:02
SPEAKER_00: That's where that imprinting happened, where a teacher from the 90s or so, who she said was old fashioned, told her that you are so ugly.
31:10
SPEAKER_00: I can't believe a teacher said this, but she they she did.
31:12
SPEAKER_00: You are so ugly, you'll never amount to anything.
31:14
SPEAKER_00: You're you're unlocked like anyone in the class.
31:16
SPEAKER_00: I don't know how you why I have to even have you here, and just really mean.
31:20
SPEAKER_00: And she said, You're not pretty.
31:22
SPEAKER_00: Horrible that she said that.
31:23
SPEAKER_00: But that stuck in her head.
31:24
SPEAKER_00: And then she thought, I'm not worthy, I don't deserve to be loved.
31:27
SPEAKER_00: People can treat me like crap.
31:28
SPEAKER_00: That was the programming basically that was in her subconscious, even though logically it doesn't make sense.
31:33
SPEAKER_00: And so she drew that her whole life.
31:35
SPEAKER_00: So when I worked on her, I said, I know you have no friends, everyone hates you, you don't have any, you're angry, you're upset.
31:41
SPEAKER_00: So I cleared that.
31:42
SPEAKER_00: And from the even the first and in the first couple of sessions, she said, I went to my apartment residence hall room.
31:49
SPEAKER_00: There's all these gifts in front of it, even some wine bottles and cheese and all this stuff.
31:52
SPEAKER_00: Who's putting that there?
31:54
SPEAKER_00: It was some of the other guests in that place.
31:56
SPEAKER_00: They somehow had heard that she's the main connector, even though she was that's opposite, of the whole retirement place.
32:02
SPEAKER_00: They thought she's the one to talk to to connect to all the other people there somehow, right after the session.
32:08
SPEAKER_00: And then suddenly all these people invited her to all these family reunions, and she's not even a family member of that.
32:13
SPEAKER_00: She was sitting at the head table of the family reunion, she's not even the family member, for all these different people.
32:18
SPEAKER_00: Then she came to me in a follow-up session.
32:20
SPEAKER_00: She said, Deepak, I have a problem.
32:22
SPEAKER_00: I said, What problem, ma'am?
32:24
SPEAKER_00: Everyone hated you.
32:25
SPEAKER_00: Now you have so many people who love you.
32:27
SPEAKER_00: They're inviting you to all their functions.
32:28
SPEAKER_00: What is the problem?
32:29
SPEAKER_00: She says, Well, this is the problem.
32:31
SPEAKER_00: I cannot go to all of them.
32:32
SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna have to say no to half of them because I'm so committed on my schedule.
32:36
SPEAKER_00: I it's not even humanly possible to go to all of them.
32:39
SPEAKER_00: How do I say no to these women that I don't want to see them?
32:43
SPEAKER_00: I said, Oh, I got you covered.
32:45
SPEAKER_00: Saying no is not a problem.
32:47
SPEAKER_00: No one said yes to you before, and you never said yes to anything before.
32:50
SPEAKER_00: No, I got you covered.
32:52
SPEAKER_00: So that was the story that yeah, so it's a very amazing story there.
32:55
SPEAKER_00: I helped a lady who was on all these antidepressant medications get off all of them, and she had no will, love for life.
33:03
SPEAKER_00: She gave up all her hobbies, interests.
33:05
SPEAKER_00: And I'm not a medical doctor, but I said, talk to your doctor because you seem to be feeling better now.
33:10
SPEAKER_00: And she said, you know, I'm feeling good.
33:11
SPEAKER_00: I don't think I need the same dosage.
33:13
SPEAKER_00: She said, Okay, let's cut it down to 50% of that.
33:15
SPEAKER_00: She said, I'm still feeling great.
33:16
SPEAKER_00: Let's cut it down to 20%, and eventually completely off.
33:19
SPEAKER_00: Once she was off that, and she worked with me, she had a passion for life.
33:23
SPEAKER_00: She went into painting, dancing, music, singing.
33:26
SPEAKER_00: She went back to all the things she didn't do for the past 30 years since she's able to her life completely changed, you know.
33:33
SPEAKER_00: And so that was really cool.
33:34
SPEAKER_00: And and if I could just interject this story too, it even works on the people you don't think it might work on.
33:40
SPEAKER_00: For example, this lady who was a, she just became a kind of well-known author, this lady, she had kids in her 20s, but they didn't, everyone else loved her, but the kids kind of took her for granted.
33:50
SPEAKER_00: They didn't do anything around the house, they didn't help in any way.
33:53
SPEAKER_00: They lived with her, they're in their 20s, but they didn't help her and they were kind of mean to her also.
33:57
SPEAKER_00: So you said, Can you work on how can you help with that?
34:00
SPEAKER_00: I said, Well, I'm working on you.
34:02
SPEAKER_00: Let's see.
34:02
SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
34:03
SPEAKER_00: You know, because I know zero to 13 is the imprinting age, but they're kind of past that.
34:07
SPEAKER_00: But at least you you can deal with them.
34:09
SPEAKER_00: So I worked on her.
34:10
SPEAKER_00: Suddenly, a couple of days or two later, after I worked on her, the kid's son who was really acting, as she said, like a jerk.
34:16
SPEAKER_00: I didn't say that, she said that.
34:18
SPEAKER_00: Um, said, Mom, you know, I've been acting like a jerk.
34:20
SPEAKER_00: He actually said that.
34:21
SPEAKER_00: And I've been disrespectful.
34:23
SPEAKER_00: I'm not cleaning my room, I'm not helping the house in any way, shape, or form.
34:26
SPEAKER_00: You know what?
34:26
SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna go out myself.
34:27
SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna clean up your garage, I'm gonna organize your shelves, I'm gonna he took it on his own.
34:31
SPEAKER_00: He would never do that.
34:32
SPEAKER_00: She was like, Are you the same son I had?
34:34
SPEAKER_00: I think you're different.
34:35
SPEAKER_00: And the daughter, yeah, the daughter was also very like taking her mom for granted, totally, blowing her off, not helping at all.
34:42
SPEAKER_00: And she said, Mom, I just want to tell you, and she didn't even know the son was saying this.
34:46
SPEAKER_00: The daughter didn't know.
34:47
SPEAKER_00: I've I've been acting really mean and cruel to you.
34:49
SPEAKER_00: Some people don't even have a mom, or they have a mom they wish they didn't have.
34:53
SPEAKER_00: You're such a sweet mom, and you're now you're an author.
34:56
SPEAKER_00: I never acknowledge you for that.
34:57
SPEAKER_00: You're an inspiration to me.
34:59
SPEAKER_00: I'm so grateful to have you, and I'm so sorry I acted so mean to you in the past.
35:02
SPEAKER_00: She's like, Is this the same daughter I had?
35:04
SPEAKER_00: So, so that's the other thing I wanted to share with you.
35:07
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, your outer world seems to change too, even and those are, you know, older than like 13 years old.
35:12
SPEAKER_00: And I even noticed in the kids of parents who had kids in their 40s.
35:16
SPEAKER_00: So I thought, you know, maybe if they're the kids are zero to 13 and I worked on the parent, and I've seen that happen countless times, then the kids should reform change in a in a better way because the parent has shifted and the kids are picking everything up the off the parents.
35:29
SPEAKER_00: But even at that age, you know, much older where the kids are in their 40s and stuff, it still shifted them too.
35:34
SPEAKER_00: So I just wanted to share that with you to inspire you and your listeners, that it doesn't matter what age you're doing this work with, and even if you had great success before, I'll take you to the next quantum level because I can hear things in your voice that you're that are reflective in your subconscious that you didn't even know are limiting beliefs, and help them clear clear it from you.
35:53
SPEAKER_01: Help clear it from that is so cool.
35:55
SPEAKER_01: So you've touched on a few what I would call like problem statements with the normal person.
36:01
SPEAKER_01: And you would have like depression, relationships, parenting.
36:06
SPEAKER_01: And I saw in some of your reviews, even someone was a public speaker, and yeah, you helped them even have a bigger engagement with their audience.
36:17
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, like like for example, I worked on one woman, she she g she had gone through a lot of trials and tribulations in her life, and she wrote books on it, made a DVD course on it at that time, and she was presenting to these women like, you know, I went through all this, I got through it, you can too.
36:34
SPEAKER_00: You know, even though it was very horrible, tragic stuff she went through, but she kind of came to came out of it.
36:38
SPEAKER_00: You would think everyone was to give a standing ovation to her and clap and all that, but that didn't happen.
36:43
SPEAKER_00: Nobody stood up, no woman stood up for her or clapped or got her bought her courses or anything.
36:48
SPEAKER_00: So she came to me and she said, Deepak, I gave my I thought best presentation.
36:52
SPEAKER_00: Nobody cared, nobody stood up, no one came to my table to get my courses or anything, even though I went through all those challenges.
36:58
SPEAKER_00: What's going on?
36:59
SPEAKER_00: Can you look at my PowerPoint?
37:00
SPEAKER_00: I said, Well, okay, I'll look at your PowerPoint.
37:02
SPEAKER_00: I go, Your PowerPoint's perfect.
37:04
SPEAKER_00: She said, Well, then what's the issue?
37:05
SPEAKER_00: I said, um, it's not the PowerPoint.
37:07
SPEAKER_00: She goes, Then what is the issue?
37:08
SPEAKER_00: I said, Well, I can't I'm just gonna be open about it.
37:11
SPEAKER_00: It's you.
37:11
SPEAKER_00: It's your voice.
37:12
SPEAKER_00: When I'm listening to you as you're even telling me about this, you know, I had to be diplomatic, but when I'm listening to you as you're telling me about this, I'm not hearing most of your voice.
37:20
SPEAKER_00: I'm not hearing most of the notes in your voice, which is reflective that you had a lot of limiting patterns, probably from all the trials you went through, that squashed the notes in your voice.
37:28
SPEAKER_00: So therefore, you weren't being heard by the women.
37:30
SPEAKER_00: And if you're not being heard by the women, they're not seeing you either.
37:32
SPEAKER_00: So that's why they didn't acknowledge you.
37:34
SPEAKER_00: So let's work with me and let's see what we can do.
37:37
SPEAKER_00: So I worked with her a few weeks, cleared up all those patterns.
37:40
SPEAKER_00: I go, now your voice is sounding fantastic, resonant, harmonious, which is reflective that you've released those limiting patterns from the past.
37:47
SPEAKER_00: I want you, here's your assignment.
37:49
SPEAKER_00: I want you to speak to that basically that same group of women again and do the exact verbatim presentation did with PowerPoint.
37:55
SPEAKER_00: She said, Deepak, that was the most humiliating experience I ever had.
37:58
SPEAKER_00: Where I said, I know you've been working doing this for like 10, 15 years, no one's ever stood up, no one's ever acknowledged you, but I'm telling you, you're a different woman now.
38:06
SPEAKER_00: So she said, okay, whatever you say.
38:08
SPEAKER_00: She did the presentation.
38:10
SPEAKER_00: The day one, she started with after I told her standing ovation, people on their feet, clapping, crying, running up to her table, buying her corsets.
38:19
SPEAKER_00: Never happened in all those 10 years before.
38:22
SPEAKER_00: Nothing.
38:22
SPEAKER_00: Suddenly, boom, like that.
38:24
SPEAKER_00: That's how fast change can be.
38:26
SPEAKER_00: And then she came to me, Deepak, I'm so grateful you.
38:28
SPEAKER_00: Thank you.
38:29
SPEAKER_00: So that's what I'm saying.
38:30
SPEAKER_00: It doesn't matter.
38:31
SPEAKER_00: Even if you've achieved wonderful things, I can take you to the next quantum level.
38:36
SPEAKER_00: There's infinite levels.
38:37
SPEAKER_00: So yeah, because I I'm not invested in your emotional issues, so I can hear things and see the forest and the trees that you wouldn't be able to see, and then say, okay, you're right.
38:47
SPEAKER_00: Those things are good, but there's some other stuff that we can clear too.
38:50
SPEAKER_01: You're magnetizing people, like you're creating magnets within people to have their life expand.
38:59
SPEAKER_01: It's just cool.
39:02
SPEAKER_01: Like, I don't know what more we can even say.
39:04
SPEAKER_01: These stories just like they just keep coming up, and they're just so phenomenal.
39:09
SPEAKER_01: I mean, they're it's on a life shift, you know?
39:12
SPEAKER_00: It is.
39:12
SPEAKER_00: I have so many of these stories.
39:14
SPEAKER_00: They're so inspiring, too.
39:16
SPEAKER_00: They're all real and inspiring stories.
39:18
SPEAKER_00: Even a businessman.
39:19
SPEAKER_00: Like I worked on this guy who had this printing business, and things were, you know, getting a little slow for him.
39:24
SPEAKER_00: So I worked on him.
39:25
SPEAKER_00: I cleared his own limiting beliefs of his own business.
39:27
SPEAKER_00: And then what was amazing is someone called him who he had a real huge, horrible fallout with, like it ended really badly business deal-wise.
39:36
SPEAKER_00: That that guy from the past, who didn't know he was even working working with me, said, You know what?
39:40
SPEAKER_00: I know we had a bad follow up with our business deal, it fell through.
39:44
SPEAKER_00: But you know what?
39:45
SPEAKER_00: I'd like to renego renegotiate, excuse me, with you, and maybe we can work out something.
39:51
SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry for what happened in the past, but let's start anew, like it never happened.
39:54
SPEAKER_00: So that turned out into a massive contract, and he had others like that.
39:58
SPEAKER_00: So it's amazing what can happen.
40:00
SPEAKER_00: Happen, you know, when you clear these limiting patterns, you know, even if you don't even know what those are, once I clear them, you things just open up.
40:07
SPEAKER_00: You don't even have to say affirmations or any of those things once I clear these patterns because you're programmed, reprogrammed from the inside.
40:14
SPEAKER_00: We unwire the limiting ones, release the emotional charge, and rewire it in the optimal way, the way it never to be your to be your best so you can uh get all the things you ever wanted.
40:24
SPEAKER_01: I think this is also really cool because it just came through to me as you were speaking that is when we are in meditation, for example, and you do chanting meditations and things like that, your body, you heal your body through your own voice as well.
40:42
SPEAKER_01: And your body will resonate when you can clear your seven chakras.
40:47
SPEAKER_01: And that's what I specifically can work with, right?
40:50
SPEAKER_01: I love to hear what you've got to say too, because I could speak into one of my chakras right now, for example, and it might not be open, so it won't be open to receive.
41:04
SPEAKER_01: But if I sit with it and I'm in meditation, I know how to like open it and activate it and speak to it and then create the affirmations.
41:13
SPEAKER_01: That's what brought to me this thought that I need to be able to live in the realm of unlimited possibilities, infinite possibilities because I'm not stuck, you know, and I can unblock and I can unstuck myself, so to speak.
41:31
SPEAKER_01: So I I feel like this is just another lovely, amazing modality that you've been able to create.
41:38
SPEAKER_01: And I'm just still like so fascinated that it's with like voice and notes and how it resonates in your body because we're 70% water.
41:50
SPEAKER_01: Every single one of us are 70% water.
41:52
SPEAKER_01: If you can, if you deny your own frequency, you're denying your own shifts, you're denying your own abilities, your own possibilities, and all of it that comes along with it.
42:03
SPEAKER_01: I mean, we're here for that.
42:06
SPEAKER_01: I'm here for that.
42:07
SPEAKER_01: I know these if you're still listening, I know you're here for that.
42:10
SPEAKER_01: You know what I'm saying?
42:11
SPEAKER_01: Like so, how can we get it a hold of you?
42:15
SPEAKER_01: Like, what is this?
42:16
SPEAKER_01: What's the process look like if we want to work with you?
42:19
SPEAKER_00: Absolutely, absolutely.
42:20
SPEAKER_00: And just a one little follow-up note from what you said we're 70% water.
42:23
SPEAKER_00: At the end of every session, it will have you have some bottles of water that I will wirelessly imprint.
42:29
SPEAKER_00: I will wirelessly imprint with all the frequencies of that session.
42:32
SPEAKER_00: So as you, as we do one session a week, as you drink that water, it'll keep harmonizing everything that we covered in that session just by you drinking the water.
42:41
SPEAKER_00: And every week I create new harmonized water for you based on as you evolve forward to keep that process going.
42:47
SPEAKER_00: So when you mentioned about the water, I thought I would add that in as well.
42:50
SPEAKER_00: So yeah, that's pretty cool.
42:52
SPEAKER_01: So yeah, and I want to comment more onto that.
42:54
SPEAKER_01: Hang on a second, because like frequencies through water is a real thing.
42:59
SPEAKER_01: And I I want to I know that sounds I know how it sounds.
43:04
SPEAKER_01: You know, I'm not even gonna label it.
43:06
SPEAKER_01: I know how it sounds, but at the same time, if you can think about it, we have Wi-Fi and you can't see it, right?
43:13
SPEAKER_01: Like there is such a thing as Wi-Fi, you can't see it.
43:16
SPEAKER_01: You can put stuff in microwave and you know it's cooked.
43:20
SPEAKER_01: You can't see the radiation and the heat flow into it, right?
43:25
SPEAKER_01: But you know that it's working.
43:26
SPEAKER_01: I 100% am on board and subscribe to you send you are able to work this virtually just as powerfully as you can in person through exactly you sending frequencies through water and it coming in to our bodies that are made up of 70% water, just as much as it can rain in the ocean and start a tidal wave, you know, like it is movement at all times.
43:53
SPEAKER_01: So I just wanted to call that out to help further support this evidence.
43:59
SPEAKER_00: Absolutely, absolutely.
44:00
SPEAKER_00: So, in other words, you're supported all along the way, even between sessions, once a week, you'll have that water to carry you through.
44:07
SPEAKER_00: So, yeah, so people want to find out about my work or even I do a 15-minute complimentary meeting with them because I customize my work for each person uniquely for whatever the issues they want to address in their life, they can go to my website, which is www.fastanxiety help.com.
44:31
SPEAKER_00: So that's fastanxiety help.com.
44:36
SPEAKER_00: If they go to that website, they can sign up for a complimentary 15-minute Zoom session with me.
44:42
SPEAKER_00: If they want to do a phone call, that's fine.
44:44
SPEAKER_00: Either way, no problem.
44:46
SPEAKER_00: They can just do that too.
44:47
SPEAKER_00: But Zoom is how I talk to most people.
44:49
SPEAKER_00: I'd like to see them if I can, is how I do it.
44:52
SPEAKER_00: And then from there, I'll customize a program uniquely for each person, explain the program and so on and so forth of how we can go forward.
44:59
SPEAKER_00: But it's very straightforward.
45:01
SPEAKER_00: I'm totally doing it virtually.
45:02
SPEAKER_00: You can do it from the comfort of your home.
45:04
SPEAKER_00: You're gonna get profound benefits as if I was there right in front of you, no different at all.
45:09
SPEAKER_01: I mean, 20 years experience, intuitively led, heart-based and science-based.
45:16
SPEAKER_01: I mean, what more do you need?
45:18
SPEAKER_01: You know?
45:19
SPEAKER_01: Absolutely.
45:19
SPEAKER_01: So absolutely lovely.
45:21
SPEAKER_01: I love this, Deepak.
45:23
SPEAKER_01: You're you've got such a gift.
45:25
SPEAKER_01: So if someone wanted to apprentice with you, does that happen or how do how does that work?
45:31
SPEAKER_01: Just asking for a friend.
45:34
SPEAKER_00: Oh, sure.
45:34
SPEAKER_00: So the thing is because 70% of my work is intuitive, 30% is pure technical, I could always teach the technical part, which I learned.
45:42
SPEAKER_00: But then you're missing the 70% out.
45:44
SPEAKER_00: And it's I still have to figure out how to teach that intuitive aspect because that's kind of a skill, and I've been doing this for 20 years.
45:51
SPEAKER_00: Now I'm able to actually hear it in their voice even before the computer shows it on the screen, and I just can double confirm it because uh because I've been doing it for so long, I I kind of was like, oh yeah, I bet you that's this pattern.
46:04
SPEAKER_00: It's like, oh yeah, there it is, you know.
46:05
SPEAKER_00: So so that's kind of the only challenge there.
46:08
SPEAKER_00: But but again, as far as changing one's life, which everyone, even if you've achieved a great success, there's another level you haven't even seen, which I will see from your voice, like, oh wow, this person can go to another whole place.
46:21
SPEAKER_00: I've worked with singers, actors, authors, speakers, and everyone in every kind of profession.
46:27
SPEAKER_00: And we're all communicating with each other.
46:29
SPEAKER_00: Let's face it.
46:30
SPEAKER_00: That's our way of communicating.
46:31
SPEAKER_00: But if we're not heard, we're not seen.
46:33
SPEAKER_00: If we're not seen, we're not acknowledged.
46:35
SPEAKER_00: So then that's affecting our quality of life.
46:37
SPEAKER_00: So no matter what, our voice plays a huge role.
46:40
SPEAKER_00: Even if we're not a professional speaker or singer or author, we still are in the public eye with others, and they're not going to act acknowledge us if we're not seen by them.
46:48
SPEAKER_00: So no matter what, this work is essential for everyone.
46:51
SPEAKER_01: Absolutely.
46:52
SPEAKER_01: I think I just found your next quantum leap.
46:54
SPEAKER_01: You'll be teaching this stuff to the masses soon.
46:57
SPEAKER_01: So just be aware.
46:58
SPEAKER_01: There's your 2026 goal.
47:01
SPEAKER_01: But also what I feel like this is perfect for 2026 too, because the trends are here.
47:07
SPEAKER_01: The people aren't wanting what gym membership should uh check into.
47:12
SPEAKER_01: They're wanting to know like what more can they live for?
47:16
SPEAKER_01: And this helps answer that.
47:18
SPEAKER_01: When you're the one that's out there, there's gotta be more to life than this.
47:22
SPEAKER_01: When you're the seven-year-old who's hiding in the library, or you're the college kid who's receiving being told that you should be somewhere else you're not, when it when that's you, this is the answer, or one of the many.
47:39
SPEAKER_01: I love it.
47:40
SPEAKER_01: I think it's great.
47:41
SPEAKER_01: So yeah, well, thank you so much for sharing all of your stories and your personal story at most.
47:49
SPEAKER_01: So I appreciate it so much.
47:51
SPEAKER_00: Thank you, Rachel.
47:52
SPEAKER_00: It's such a pleasure to to express this to your to you and your listeners.
47:58
SPEAKER_01: So, wasn't he just the best?
48:01
SPEAKER_01: I love, love, love having that conversation with Deep.
48:04
SPEAKER_01: And as a matter of fact, I actually signed up to his services.
48:10
SPEAKER_01: So I start his services in February, and we're gonna have um return of Deep to speak about the changes and how it's impacted my life.
48:21
SPEAKER_01: So I cannot wait.
48:23
SPEAKER_01: And I hope that you also hear difference too as this all moves on.
48:28
SPEAKER_01: If you want to take on any of his services, you can just tell him that you heard about him through the Fitzin project and you've received$100 off with his services when he does your own biofeedback treatment.
48:43
SPEAKER_01: I hope you take him up for his offer.
48:46
SPEAKER_01: I hope that you absolutely loved this episode.
48:50
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48:55
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48:56
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48:58
SPEAKER_01: Thank you.
48:59
SPEAKER_01: Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for being part of the Fitz and Project and for opening this new year and this new journey together with me and with Deepog.
49:09
SPEAKER_01: I hope you stick around because the series that is coming up, we will be doing some stabilization, talking through finances with Mike Milligan.
49:18
SPEAKER_01: And I have Dr.
49:19
SPEAKER_01: Lori D'Matia with uh diet and nourishment mindsets as she comes in and speaks to her own experiences with obesity.
49:30
SPEAKER_01: So I would love for you to hang out and hear what more the Fitsin Project has to offer this month.
49:36
SPEAKER_01: So, all right, let's bring it in and seal this podcast with an um after an inhale.
49:43
SPEAKER_01: So let's take a breath.
49:56
SPEAKER_01: And remember you are your most important project.
50:00
SPEAKER_01: And I'm a stay friend.