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Cry About It · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: All right, it is time for second Date Update. We're
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  Speaker 1: going to New Britain this morning. We have got Karen
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  Speaker 1: on the line. Karen, are you there?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Hi, I'm here, Hey Karen.
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  Speaker 3: So obviously you know what second Date Update is all about.
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  Speaker 1: You clearly went on a great first date and you're
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  Speaker 1: getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I really don't get why, because like we
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  Speaker 2: did happy Hour and it was kind of a blast,
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  Speaker 2: Like okay, I don't really know, well, I don't know
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  Speaker 2: what happened.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I like is the producer says the
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  Speaker 1: date you went on, his name is Kenny, Karen and Kenny.
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  Speaker 3: That kind of flows.
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  Speaker 4: As a couple.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a good couple named Karen and Kenny.
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  Speaker 2: Right, it's so cute. We're like the new Branddelina.
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  Speaker 4: Well let's not get crazy here, all right.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, let's get to the reason.
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  Speaker 1: I need to find out why you're getting ghost ghosted
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  Speaker 1: before you can compare yourself to Brandjelena.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah that's true.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 2: I don't get it.
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  Speaker 3: Though, So how was the date? Tell me about the date.
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  Speaker 2: It was so good, Like we sat we talked for hours,
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  Speaker 2: like a long time, and it was happy hour, So
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  Speaker 2: we got got a couple of drinks, some appetizers. But
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  Speaker 2: I texted him to say thank you for the date
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  Speaker 2: because he paid, but I didn't get a response and
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  Speaker 2: like to anything, not that night, not the next day.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't really know, Like that's really it. That's
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  Speaker 2: all of our communication.
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  Speaker 1: What did you feel like there's any flirting on this date?
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  Speaker 1: Like touchy feely laughing?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, totally. Yeah, we were so flirty. It
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  Speaker 2: really felt flirty.
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  Speaker 4: All right, Karen, let me ask you a question.
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  Speaker 5: At any point during the date, did you ask to
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  Speaker 5: speak to a manager or did you send your food
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  Speaker 5: back or drinks or anything like that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good one.
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  Speaker 4: Well, her name's Karen. They always want to talk to
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  Speaker 4: the manager.
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  Speaker 3: That's ridiculous.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so that's ridiculous.
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  Speaker 3: That's that did not happen, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Just asking none of that.
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  Speaker 4: Just asking.
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  Speaker 3: Well, this is what we're gonna do.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna call up Kenny and we're gonna ask him
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  Speaker 1: to be honest and just tell us what he eats
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  Speaker 1: about the data. And I'm going to come right out
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  Speaker 1: and ask him, why are you ghosting Karen?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, thank you please? I just want an answer.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I mean pretty straightforward date.
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  Speaker 6: I know, she sounds like she's like a good time,
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  Speaker 6: she's got a great personality, like, yeah, I.
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  Speaker 3: Would Savannah just said she would dater, Jeff.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, I I'm married and I'm sure, but a
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  Speaker 6: date her loue.
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  Speaker 3: Hello is Kenny there?
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  Speaker 7: Hey? Yeah, yes, this is Kenny.
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  Speaker 3: Hey Kenny, it's Courtney Ken.
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  Speaker 4: What's up. It's Walmart Jeff.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, Kenny, it's Savannah.
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  Speaker 1: We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the
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  Speaker 1: radio this morning, Kenny.
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  Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, what Wow? What's up?
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Well, Kenny, you're on second date update.
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  Speaker 1: We have a feature here if somebody goes on a
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  Speaker 1: first date and it's fabulous, but they get ghosted after
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  Speaker 1: and they don't know why.
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  Speaker 3: They call us for the answers.
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  Speaker 7: Uh huh yes, okay, hey unfamiliar.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, well that's good. Yeah, here's the deal, Kenny. Karen
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  Speaker 1: call said, you guys went on a great first date.
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  Speaker 1: You actually went and you had happy hours. She said,
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  Speaker 1: there was a little bit of flirting, a lot of
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  Speaker 1: things in common. She reached out to you to thank
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  Speaker 1: you for the date, and you didn't even respond with
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  Speaker 1: the thumbs up or nothing.
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  Speaker 3: How was the date for you? We just want you
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  Speaker 3: to be honest. Was the date? Did you have a
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  Speaker 3: different experience than Karen?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, it sounds like it. The date was really weird
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  Speaker 7: and draining. WHOA, Okay, how so, I mean I think
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  Speaker 7: she's great, okay, but it's clear that I don't know
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  Speaker 7: if she's like ready to date because why most of
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  Speaker 7: the date she talked about her ex boyfriend. I mean,
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  Speaker 7: you know, I am, I feel for her, but just
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  Speaker 7: the first time meeting her and really going on a
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  Speaker 7: date was it was a little bit like, whoa, this
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  Speaker 7: is very strange. I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I'm not gonna lie to you.
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't on the date, so I don't know to
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  Speaker 3: what extent.
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  Speaker 6: But I once was talking to a guy and like
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  Speaker 6: I don't know, like a day and he started like
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  Speaker 6: dumping all like the stuff about his ex, and I.
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  Speaker 3: Was like, all right. She was a lot like this
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  Speaker 3: is way too much, way too soon.
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  Speaker 7: Right, Yeah, And it's like I get it. We've all
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  Speaker 7: been there. It's just if it's too soon, then it's
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  Speaker 7: too soon.
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  Speaker 3: So you think she's not over your thing, is she's
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  Speaker 3: not over her ex? Is that the problem?
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  Speaker 1: You think that she still has feelings for her ex
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  Speaker 1: if she was crying?
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  Speaker 2: I mean something, Can I just say something because like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry for crying, Okay, but I just I honestly
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  Speaker 2: thought that it was a good thing to show some
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  Speaker 2: emotion on a first date. I'm to show that I'm
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  Speaker 2: a real person.
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  Speaker 3: Kenny. That's Karen. She's been listening in. Go ahead, Karen.
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  Speaker 2: I mean it's it's exactly what I just said. Like,
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  Speaker 2: I am sorry that the crying may have been too much, perhaps,
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  Speaker 2: but like I just think it's a good thing to
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  Speaker 2: show that, like I have feelings, I'm a human being.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not just a robot like like people have emotions.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, hey Kenny, let me ask you a question.
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  Speaker 5: Did she when you say crying, did she like well
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  Speaker 5: up or were there like legit tears like there were cures.
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  Speaker 7: At one point I had to get a tissue.
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  Speaker 1: Actually, first day crying over an X is probably not
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  Speaker 1: a good thing. So I mean I get that, and
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  Speaker 1: and and maybe Karen, you maybe you just need a
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  Speaker 1: little more time where you can like tell if somebody
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  Speaker 1: asked you, how is you know your dating history or
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  Speaker 1: who did you date last.
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  Speaker 3: You won't cry.
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  Speaker 2: I just sometimes people cry, like that's not something that
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  Speaker 2: I can Okay, I know, sometimes to be avoided. But if,
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  Speaker 2: but if, if this is like the true reason and
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  Speaker 2: this is the reaction, I think he's right. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I wish you would have handled it better, Kenny, like
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  Speaker 2: I wish you would have just texted me and said like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: I don't think this is going to work. But either
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  Speaker 2: way I have I don't think this is going to work.
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  Speaker 2: So we we don't need a second date anymore. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I think that was the smart thing.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, well, listen, I appreciate both of you guys for
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  Speaker 1: being honest. There is no second date. We won't offer it.
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  Speaker 1: And Karen, I still want to I still want to
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  Speaker 1: talk to you off the air.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, Joff, No, I still want to talk to you too,